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Speaker 1: So everyone who is a single mom should be applauded.

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Speaker 1: And there are women who are single moms of four

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Speaker 1: Being a mother is the hardest job. I don't know

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Speaker 1: why that sounds when people say it like it's bullshit

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Speaker 1: and like we need more movies like we had when

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Speaker 1: I was growing up, like mister Mom, when Michael Keaton

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Speaker 1: They just don't say that. So the dad who does

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Speaker 1: people have to label everything they do. Well. I am

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