1 00:00:00,200 --> 00:00:02,800 Speaker 1: I got pregnant even though my husband had a vasectomy. 2 00:00:03,040 --> 00:00:06,320 Speaker 1: Now everyone thinks I cheated a. 3 00:00:06,440 --> 00:00:10,840 Speaker 2: Least cheat on someone who can have a child boom. 4 00:00:10,960 --> 00:00:14,400 Speaker 1: The situation is very strange. Everyone keeps insisting that I 5 00:00:14,400 --> 00:00:17,040 Speaker 1: should go back to my husband and stop the divorce process. 6 00:00:17,520 --> 00:00:19,759 Speaker 1: But I feel very hurt and betrayed. 7 00:00:20,079 --> 00:00:23,239 Speaker 3: She she feels hurt, But she cheated? 8 00:00:23,480 --> 00:00:23,799 Speaker 1: Did she? 9 00:00:25,440 --> 00:00:25,840 Speaker 3: Is that? 10 00:00:25,680 --> 00:00:25,880 Speaker 1: What that? 11 00:00:26,000 --> 00:00:28,040 Speaker 3: What the title said? Are you guys lying in the title? 12 00:00:28,120 --> 00:00:30,080 Speaker 1: The title did not say that. The title said I 13 00:00:30,120 --> 00:00:32,919 Speaker 1: got pregnant even though my husband had of aseectomy. Now 14 00:00:32,960 --> 00:00:34,240 Speaker 1: everyone thinks I cheated. 15 00:00:34,560 --> 00:00:36,240 Speaker 3: I just have this thing where I don't look you 16 00:00:36,360 --> 00:00:36,879 Speaker 3: just even. 17 00:00:36,720 --> 00:00:40,240 Speaker 1: Freakin re sa. I like to assume, by the way, 18 00:00:40,280 --> 00:00:43,080 Speaker 1: this comes from acceptably cheat twenty six on the r 19 00:00:43,200 --> 00:00:45,680 Speaker 1: slash Okay, storytime suburn. I love that you were like, 20 00:00:45,800 --> 00:00:46,879 Speaker 1: is this clickbait? 21 00:00:47,760 --> 00:00:49,479 Speaker 3: I don't know. Sometimes it's not accurate. 22 00:00:50,080 --> 00:00:50,520 Speaker 1: I try. 23 00:00:50,680 --> 00:00:52,080 Speaker 3: Okay, you're doing. 24 00:00:51,880 --> 00:00:56,600 Speaker 1: Great, you get context. I twenty six female, married Charles 25 00:00:56,640 --> 00:00:59,680 Speaker 1: twenty seven male. One year ago and our honeymoon, I 26 00:00:59,720 --> 00:01:02,880 Speaker 1: found I was pregnant. I was shocked because about a 27 00:01:02,880 --> 00:01:06,480 Speaker 1: month before we got married, Charles had a vasectomy and 28 00:01:06,600 --> 00:01:09,760 Speaker 1: I hadn't been unfaithful to him, and when I told 29 00:01:09,840 --> 00:01:14,919 Speaker 1: him everything was a disaster, he immediately told his family 30 00:01:15,000 --> 00:01:19,080 Speaker 1: and also my family, and everyone took Charles' aside no 31 00:01:19,160 --> 00:01:23,080 Speaker 1: matter how much I cried and begged. I humiliated myself 32 00:01:23,120 --> 00:01:26,000 Speaker 1: so much so that he wouldn't let me. I even 33 00:01:26,200 --> 00:01:31,080 Speaker 1: knelt down so he would believe me, but Charles wouldn't listen. 34 00:01:31,760 --> 00:01:34,800 Speaker 1: Only my brother in law, John thirty Mail, Charles's brother, 35 00:01:35,200 --> 00:01:38,360 Speaker 1: supported me. We were cordial, but I never considered us 36 00:01:38,400 --> 00:01:41,039 Speaker 1: to be klaws. I'm alone a god, You're a goddamn 37 00:01:41,080 --> 00:01:48,840 Speaker 1: warm Uh, Heidie Vincent, thank you for tipping twenty five bucks. Sorry, 38 00:01:48,960 --> 00:01:50,280 Speaker 1: I'm late? S'm here? 39 00:01:50,280 --> 00:01:53,559 Speaker 3: And now is that what warm? Sounding? Yeah? 40 00:01:53,600 --> 00:01:56,000 Speaker 1: All wor'ms? Are you sound like this? 41 00:01:56,240 --> 00:01:59,440 Speaker 3: Now? It's crazy. I've never met a worm that sound 42 00:01:59,520 --> 00:01:59,760 Speaker 3: like me? 43 00:02:01,480 --> 00:02:02,440 Speaker 1: All right, continuing? 44 00:02:03,640 --> 00:02:04,200 Speaker 3: Uh. 45 00:02:04,560 --> 00:02:07,280 Speaker 1: John was my only support when I was pregnant because 46 00:02:07,320 --> 00:02:10,880 Speaker 1: my family completely excluded me. We shared friends, so I 47 00:02:11,000 --> 00:02:14,760 Speaker 1: was also rejected. Charles kicked me out of our house. 48 00:02:14,800 --> 00:02:17,200 Speaker 1: Oh my god. My family wanted nothing to do with 49 00:02:17,240 --> 00:02:20,200 Speaker 1: me for bringing shame to the family, and none of 50 00:02:20,240 --> 00:02:25,040 Speaker 1: our friends took my side. I lived with John until 51 00:02:25,080 --> 00:02:28,080 Speaker 1: my baby was born, and he suggested a DNA test 52 00:02:28,120 --> 00:02:31,160 Speaker 1: with him, and when the results came back, the genetic 53 00:02:31,280 --> 00:02:36,240 Speaker 1: match indicated that he was a close relative, possibly an uncle. 54 00:02:36,560 --> 00:02:37,040 Speaker 3: Crazy. 55 00:02:37,200 --> 00:02:39,799 Speaker 1: When Charles heard this, he immediately came to see me 56 00:02:39,919 --> 00:02:43,160 Speaker 1: and had a DNA test done, and sure enough, my 57 00:02:43,280 --> 00:02:48,000 Speaker 1: baby was his crazy. How you didn't think to do that, dude, 58 00:02:48,400 --> 00:02:49,880 Speaker 1: Well he was just he just left. 59 00:02:50,240 --> 00:02:53,520 Speaker 3: She was pregnant. Can you can you do a DNA test? 60 00:02:53,560 --> 00:02:53,640 Speaker 1: No? 61 00:02:53,560 --> 00:02:55,200 Speaker 4: No, no, yeah, you can. 62 00:02:55,360 --> 00:02:58,840 Speaker 5: You can do a DNA test when you're pregnant, I assume. So, yeah, 63 00:02:58,919 --> 00:03:02,120 Speaker 5: we've been over this, not with you, Alex, but. 64 00:03:02,280 --> 00:03:03,560 Speaker 1: Living over this, Alex. 65 00:03:03,639 --> 00:03:05,400 Speaker 3: Oh no, yeah, I know. 66 00:03:05,400 --> 00:03:06,800 Speaker 1: I said, I'm pretty sure you can. 67 00:03:07,160 --> 00:03:08,480 Speaker 3: Okay, that makes sense, which. 68 00:03:08,280 --> 00:03:10,480 Speaker 1: Is it's kind of ridiculous that I don't know. I 69 00:03:10,480 --> 00:03:14,160 Speaker 1: feel like if my partner was like, I swear I've 70 00:03:14,200 --> 00:03:16,280 Speaker 1: never cheated on you, I don't know how I got. 71 00:03:16,120 --> 00:03:18,960 Speaker 3: Pregnant, I'd be like, what was the vasectomy situation? 72 00:03:19,280 --> 00:03:22,000 Speaker 1: Well, he had of a sectomy, but the section said 73 00:03:22,040 --> 00:03:26,280 Speaker 1: they don't always take like there are it's very low chances, 74 00:03:26,320 --> 00:03:29,160 Speaker 1: but sometimes people can get, you know, pregnant, even with 75 00:03:29,160 --> 00:03:29,639 Speaker 1: a sect me. 76 00:03:29,840 --> 00:03:32,360 Speaker 4: Yeah, you have ever seen cheap above a dozen? 77 00:03:33,160 --> 00:03:33,400 Speaker 1: No? 78 00:03:33,400 --> 00:03:37,080 Speaker 5: No, well he got a VV on his third one, 79 00:03:37,720 --> 00:03:39,720 Speaker 5: on his on on the eleventh kid, he got one 80 00:03:39,760 --> 00:03:43,200 Speaker 5: after it, and then he then had a twelfth one. 81 00:03:43,480 --> 00:03:45,000 Speaker 4: Damn no, that's a movie. 82 00:03:45,120 --> 00:03:48,880 Speaker 1: That's crazy. He didn't think about that until the eleventh kid. 83 00:03:49,120 --> 00:03:51,400 Speaker 4: Yeah, he's like, oh, we first should probably stop now. 84 00:03:53,520 --> 00:03:55,800 Speaker 1: When Charles heard this, he immediately came to see me 85 00:03:56,120 --> 00:03:59,120 Speaker 1: and had a DNA test done, and sure enough, my 86 00:03:59,280 --> 00:04:03,360 Speaker 1: baby was his. Now everyone is apologizing to me and 87 00:04:03,440 --> 00:04:05,960 Speaker 1: asking me not to go through with the divorce. That 88 00:04:06,040 --> 00:04:08,480 Speaker 1: it was understandable that my husband thought I cheated on 89 00:04:08,560 --> 00:04:12,440 Speaker 1: him because the chance of the best vaseectomy failing is 90 00:04:12,600 --> 00:04:16,159 Speaker 1: very small, that I shouldn't destroy our long standing relationship 91 00:04:16,200 --> 00:04:19,400 Speaker 1: with her mistake. But I can't get over the fact 92 00:04:19,600 --> 00:04:22,360 Speaker 1: that he left me alone at such a vulnerable time. 93 00:04:22,200 --> 00:04:25,080 Speaker 3: And you were abandoned by your whole supports. 94 00:04:24,680 --> 00:04:27,719 Speaker 1: This whole support. She got abandoned by her, her family, 95 00:04:28,120 --> 00:04:32,800 Speaker 1: his family, their friends during her whole pregnancy, and none 96 00:04:32,880 --> 00:04:34,679 Speaker 1: of them thought to double check. 97 00:04:34,920 --> 00:04:36,840 Speaker 2: None of them thought to double check or just like 98 00:04:37,560 --> 00:04:40,719 Speaker 2: have some compassion and to trust this person that's in 99 00:04:40,760 --> 00:04:41,359 Speaker 2: their lives. 100 00:04:41,640 --> 00:04:41,960 Speaker 1: Yeah. 101 00:04:42,120 --> 00:04:45,000 Speaker 2: No, I mean like to like slow down and be 102 00:04:45,160 --> 00:04:48,000 Speaker 2: like okay, like what are the chances of this or 103 00:04:48,040 --> 00:04:50,000 Speaker 2: even just to be like, okay, Like, if it's a 104 00:04:50,040 --> 00:04:52,240 Speaker 2: possibility and this is what you're saying, we could at 105 00:04:52,320 --> 00:04:54,320 Speaker 2: least start with trust and then. 106 00:04:54,360 --> 00:04:58,440 Speaker 1: Especially her family. Yeah, her own family, a bit of 107 00:04:58,720 --> 00:05:00,919 Speaker 1: her really awful. 108 00:05:01,360 --> 00:05:04,520 Speaker 2: Also, like the most traumatic thing that a human can 109 00:05:04,600 --> 00:05:08,040 Speaker 2: go through is like abandonment of social network because like 110 00:05:08,560 --> 00:05:11,400 Speaker 2: in our DNA, in our genetics, if we're abandoned by 111 00:05:11,440 --> 00:05:13,840 Speaker 2: our tribe, it would be life threatening. 112 00:05:14,120 --> 00:05:16,560 Speaker 3: I agree, very traumatic. Oh, now she's a warm I'm 113 00:05:16,560 --> 00:05:21,680 Speaker 3: a worm. I don't who who do an abandoned warm? 114 00:05:21,720 --> 00:05:23,160 Speaker 1: An abandon. 115 00:05:26,360 --> 00:05:27,680 Speaker 3: I'm back, Okay. 116 00:05:28,120 --> 00:05:31,839 Speaker 1: I think divorce. I think divorce is fair. 117 00:05:32,400 --> 00:05:35,919 Speaker 2: Usually I'm like anti, usually you're anti, I know, But 118 00:05:36,000 --> 00:05:37,839 Speaker 2: in this I'm like, I just don't. 119 00:05:38,680 --> 00:05:39,680 Speaker 3: I don't understand. 120 00:05:39,720 --> 00:05:42,039 Speaker 2: I don't see a path where like repair could happen 121 00:05:42,279 --> 00:05:45,280 Speaker 2: that you could. I think it's such a trust with 122 00:05:45,360 --> 00:05:46,239 Speaker 2: your partner. 123 00:05:46,360 --> 00:05:49,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, I think it's a massive loss of trust. Oh, 124 00:05:49,640 --> 00:05:53,440 Speaker 1: he was alone for the entire pregnancy. And it really 125 00:05:53,520 --> 00:05:55,720 Speaker 1: sucks that she has to deal with. You know, if 126 00:05:55,720 --> 00:05:57,640 Speaker 1: she does go through with this kind of divorce and 127 00:05:58,320 --> 00:06:01,600 Speaker 1: maybe limiting contact or something thing with her families and friends, 128 00:06:02,560 --> 00:06:06,360 Speaker 1: it sucks to not have the support that supports support system. 129 00:06:06,400 --> 00:06:08,839 Speaker 1: But they kind of already left her. She already lost 130 00:06:08,880 --> 00:06:09,440 Speaker 1: that voice. 131 00:06:09,640 --> 00:06:12,000 Speaker 3: They abandoned her quite literally, and it's it's. 132 00:06:11,839 --> 00:06:14,599 Speaker 1: Really ridiculous for them to be like, oh, sorry, but 133 00:06:14,720 --> 00:06:17,799 Speaker 1: you shouldn't divorce him. Yeah, like they should be broveling 134 00:06:18,600 --> 00:06:23,120 Speaker 1: at her feet. Yes, I don't trust Charles, and I 135 00:06:23,160 --> 00:06:26,359 Speaker 1: don't think I'll ever forgive him, especially since in the 136 00:06:26,440 --> 00:06:29,960 Speaker 1: time we were apart, he got a girlfriend and they 137 00:06:30,000 --> 00:06:32,720 Speaker 1: were together until the results of the paternity test came out, 138 00:06:32,760 --> 00:06:37,600 Speaker 1: which implies that they got together within like less than 139 00:06:37,640 --> 00:06:41,640 Speaker 1: a couple months. Yeah, because or you know, within the 140 00:06:41,720 --> 00:06:45,640 Speaker 1: nine month period of the baby, which is wow. 141 00:06:46,600 --> 00:06:47,840 Speaker 3: I'm just so confused. 142 00:06:47,920 --> 00:06:52,120 Speaker 2: Why like, even if you didn't trust your partner at all, 143 00:06:52,200 --> 00:06:53,960 Speaker 2: why not get it tested before? 144 00:06:53,960 --> 00:06:55,680 Speaker 1: Why not why not double check? 145 00:06:56,200 --> 00:06:58,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's ridiculous. 146 00:06:59,839 --> 00:07:02,600 Speaker 1: I also am not willing to go to marriage counseling 147 00:07:02,640 --> 00:07:04,599 Speaker 1: because I have to focus on my job after my 148 00:07:04,680 --> 00:07:06,920 Speaker 1: maternity leave and I just don't and I just want 149 00:07:06,960 --> 00:07:09,600 Speaker 1: to take care of my baby. And honestly, I don't 150 00:07:09,600 --> 00:07:13,400 Speaker 1: think there's a marriage to save. He left. Maybe he 151 00:07:13,480 --> 00:07:16,240 Speaker 1: already he's already dating someone else, which is also like 152 00:07:17,040 --> 00:07:20,560 Speaker 1: crazy that he's like, Oh, I'm just gonna like break 153 00:07:20,640 --> 00:07:23,760 Speaker 1: up with my girlfriend and get back with you. It's crazy. 154 00:07:23,840 --> 00:07:25,679 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, did they did? 155 00:07:25,880 --> 00:07:29,080 Speaker 2: I wonder if they broke up and then he was 156 00:07:29,120 --> 00:07:31,920 Speaker 2: single and was like, yeah, let's get back together, or 157 00:07:32,120 --> 00:07:34,480 Speaker 2: the test came out then he's like, yeah, oh my bad, 158 00:07:34,560 --> 00:07:36,160 Speaker 2: let me break up with my girlfriend and then get 159 00:07:36,160 --> 00:07:37,520 Speaker 2: back together with my wife. 160 00:07:37,680 --> 00:07:39,480 Speaker 1: He got a girlfriend and they were together until the 161 00:07:39,520 --> 00:07:41,600 Speaker 1: results of the paternity test came out, which sounds like 162 00:07:42,160 --> 00:07:43,480 Speaker 1: he got the paternity test. 163 00:07:43,840 --> 00:07:47,960 Speaker 2: I was like, oh, never mind, I'm ail this marriage. 164 00:07:48,880 --> 00:07:50,920 Speaker 1: So am I the a hole for not wanting to 165 00:07:50,920 --> 00:07:54,040 Speaker 1: get back with my husband? And yes, before anyone says it, 166 00:07:54,520 --> 00:07:56,840 Speaker 1: I was an idiot for not taking a DNA test 167 00:07:56,880 --> 00:07:59,400 Speaker 1: while pregnant, but I was very depressed and those months 168 00:07:59,400 --> 00:08:03,080 Speaker 1: were confused. Also, no one believed you and no one 169 00:08:03,120 --> 00:08:05,480 Speaker 1: suggested it either, So I don't think that's your fault. 170 00:08:05,640 --> 00:08:05,840 Speaker 3: Yeah. 171 00:08:06,960 --> 00:08:08,640 Speaker 1: I think the fact that I am alive and with 172 00:08:08,680 --> 00:08:11,160 Speaker 1: my healthy baby is thanks to John, which is the 173 00:08:11,200 --> 00:08:16,280 Speaker 1: brother John, because he never stopped supporting me. I also 174 00:08:16,280 --> 00:08:18,320 Speaker 1: want to clarify that the biggest problem here was not 175 00:08:18,360 --> 00:08:21,080 Speaker 1: that he doubted my fidelity, but that he treated me 176 00:08:21,160 --> 00:08:23,560 Speaker 1: like garbage and was not willing to listen to me. 177 00:08:23,920 --> 00:08:27,240 Speaker 1: And there is an edit to this story. But yeah, 178 00:08:27,240 --> 00:08:29,080 Speaker 1: I think divorce is them. 179 00:08:29,200 --> 00:08:30,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm shocked. 180 00:08:31,200 --> 00:08:34,480 Speaker 1: I'm shocked to hear it. But if that it says divorce, 181 00:08:34,520 --> 00:08:35,160 Speaker 1: it means. 182 00:08:34,960 --> 00:08:40,240 Speaker 2: That there's no way there's some some small path back 183 00:08:40,320 --> 00:08:44,640 Speaker 2: to repairing the relationship, and I in this there, in 184 00:08:44,679 --> 00:08:47,440 Speaker 2: my opinion, there doesn't seem to be any any possibility 185 00:08:47,480 --> 00:08:48,240 Speaker 2: of that at all. 186 00:08:48,720 --> 00:08:51,680 Speaker 3: Yeah, you were abandoned by your whole support system. 187 00:08:52,040 --> 00:08:55,120 Speaker 1: But there is another story part to this story, the 188 00:08:55,160 --> 00:09:00,640 Speaker 1: same story. More of this one. Wow. Now there are 189 00:09:00,720 --> 00:09:03,520 Speaker 1: a lot of messages and I'm a bit overwhelmed. I 190 00:09:03,559 --> 00:09:05,960 Speaker 1: want to leave more information, although I will continue to 191 00:09:06,000 --> 00:09:09,280 Speaker 1: respond to comments. I live in an underdeveloped and very 192 00:09:09,320 --> 00:09:12,800 Speaker 1: religious country. That is not an excuse, and really the 193 00:09:12,920 --> 00:09:15,840 Speaker 1: education is not bad, but there are still certain sectors 194 00:09:15,880 --> 00:09:19,080 Speaker 1: like where I live, where this, where there is still 195 00:09:19,080 --> 00:09:22,600 Speaker 1: a lot of ignorance and these topics are taboo. Charles 196 00:09:22,640 --> 00:09:25,360 Speaker 1: spoke to me on our wedding night about vasseectames, and 197 00:09:25,440 --> 00:09:27,400 Speaker 1: I admit that I believed him because I had no 198 00:09:27,679 --> 00:09:31,000 Speaker 1: spicy sleep experience. We had not had spicy sleep for 199 00:09:31,040 --> 00:09:34,360 Speaker 1: religious reasons. His family is a bit more conservative than mine, 200 00:09:34,360 --> 00:09:37,360 Speaker 1: but we still belong to the same community, and for 201 00:09:37,480 --> 00:09:40,560 Speaker 1: religious reasons, he did not want to use any other 202 00:09:40,679 --> 00:09:46,079 Speaker 1: contraceptive method besides vasectomy and abstinence, which you know, I mean, 203 00:09:46,640 --> 00:09:49,719 Speaker 1: vasectomes are a great means of contraception. 204 00:09:49,960 --> 00:09:52,360 Speaker 3: So that's good. Yeah, as long. 205 00:09:52,240 --> 00:09:54,520 Speaker 1: As he was like, yeah, well, you know, let's have 206 00:09:54,640 --> 00:09:55,600 Speaker 1: some contraception here. 207 00:09:55,800 --> 00:09:56,319 Speaker 3: Yeah. 208 00:09:56,360 --> 00:09:59,120 Speaker 1: I admit that I was very ignorant and stupid to 209 00:09:59,240 --> 00:10:01,760 Speaker 1: simply believe him and not take the trouble to inform 210 00:10:01,800 --> 00:10:04,840 Speaker 1: myself about it. And it is no excuse. I just 211 00:10:04,880 --> 00:10:07,560 Speaker 1: want to give you context. But these topics are very taboo. 212 00:10:08,240 --> 00:10:11,760 Speaker 1: This is kind of repetitive. The first time I went 213 00:10:11,800 --> 00:10:14,240 Speaker 1: to the gynecologist was when I was eighteen years old, 214 00:10:14,640 --> 00:10:16,600 Speaker 1: and when I had my first period, I thought I 215 00:10:16,679 --> 00:10:20,280 Speaker 1: was going to die. Ah, and I'm gonna die because 216 00:10:20,280 --> 00:10:23,440 Speaker 1: I'm a warm again who donates. 217 00:10:22,920 --> 00:10:26,199 Speaker 2: Directed who did this claim it? 218 00:10:26,559 --> 00:10:30,280 Speaker 1: Thank you for ten bucks? Like the stream, please want 219 00:10:30,360 --> 00:10:34,800 Speaker 1: to see the wheelspein We never seen a wheel, just 220 00:10:34,880 --> 00:10:37,320 Speaker 1: a work. They don't have wheeled. 221 00:10:37,559 --> 00:10:39,040 Speaker 3: Oh oh now she's so. 222 00:10:39,640 --> 00:10:42,320 Speaker 1: My life has changed because of this, but I'm still 223 00:10:42,360 --> 00:10:45,520 Speaker 1: fighting to break the stigmas. I had. That is why 224 00:10:45,600 --> 00:10:48,160 Speaker 1: I did not dare to upload it to my personal account. 225 00:10:48,360 --> 00:10:51,800 Speaker 1: John is gay and although I was not excluded aggressive 226 00:10:52,160 --> 00:10:52,840 Speaker 1: John is gay. 227 00:10:52,960 --> 00:10:53,160 Speaker 3: Gay. 228 00:10:53,960 --> 00:10:56,439 Speaker 1: John believes that he was not excluded because he does 229 00:10:56,440 --> 00:10:59,600 Speaker 1: not have attitudes that his family considers shameful and all 230 00:10:59,640 --> 00:11:02,800 Speaker 1: his boy friends the family simply called them friends of John. 231 00:11:03,240 --> 00:11:10,240 Speaker 1: You don't fully excluded from what Hmmm, I don't know. 232 00:11:10,280 --> 00:11:13,480 Speaker 1: I think that, uh, he's they maybe they bonded over, 233 00:11:14,480 --> 00:11:18,120 Speaker 1: you know, him being gay and her having a baby 234 00:11:18,800 --> 00:11:20,160 Speaker 1: and being pushed out by the family. 235 00:11:20,200 --> 00:11:22,440 Speaker 3: Well I think she was saying that he wasn't pushed out. 236 00:11:22,559 --> 00:11:24,400 Speaker 1: That's what it sounds like. But also it's kind of 237 00:11:24,440 --> 00:11:25,559 Speaker 1: confusingly worded there. 238 00:11:25,720 --> 00:11:25,920 Speaker 3: Yeah. 239 00:11:26,760 --> 00:11:31,880 Speaker 2: Also above she talked about the lack of sexual education. Yes, 240 00:11:32,120 --> 00:11:36,000 Speaker 2: which in our community and I think also country along 241 00:11:36,040 --> 00:11:36,720 Speaker 2: with there's. 242 00:11:36,640 --> 00:11:39,079 Speaker 1: Like religious contexts. 243 00:11:38,600 --> 00:11:44,360 Speaker 2: Around it, which again doesn't it doesn't excuse the family 244 00:11:44,480 --> 00:11:46,680 Speaker 2: for abandoning, but that still is relevant. 245 00:11:46,920 --> 00:11:49,760 Speaker 1: It is relevant information. It does explain why they were 246 00:11:49,800 --> 00:11:50,400 Speaker 1: so quick to. 247 00:11:50,520 --> 00:11:52,840 Speaker 2: Judge, yes, and why no one thought to get a 248 00:11:52,880 --> 00:11:54,680 Speaker 2: test because people aren't educated. 249 00:11:54,920 --> 00:11:57,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, they're like, oh theseectonmy that means you can't have 250 00:11:57,040 --> 00:12:02,000 Speaker 1: a baby, yeah, which yeah, not the case. But yeah, 251 00:12:02,000 --> 00:12:05,040 Speaker 1: it doesn't mean that OP has to forgive them. I 252 00:12:05,080 --> 00:12:09,040 Speaker 1: can see the hypocrisy and all this, but it really is, uh. 253 00:12:09,120 --> 00:12:12,080 Speaker 1: I guess for years, but it is what is. I 254 00:12:12,080 --> 00:12:14,120 Speaker 1: guess for years, I was very blinded and I just 255 00:12:14,160 --> 00:12:17,360 Speaker 1: denied the hypocrisy of all of it. All living with 256 00:12:17,440 --> 00:12:20,800 Speaker 1: John was cathartic. I only give them the information I know. 257 00:12:21,000 --> 00:12:23,760 Speaker 1: I also don't understand the actions of the others involved, 258 00:12:23,840 --> 00:12:27,800 Speaker 1: especially Charles. And there are a couple relevant comments to 259 00:12:28,040 --> 00:12:33,000 Speaker 1: end this story since since it's weird from what I've 260 00:12:33,040 --> 00:12:36,440 Speaker 1: heard from friends, associates, family, and the internet, any sort 261 00:12:36,440 --> 00:12:40,080 Speaker 1: of anti contraceptives or surgical procedures aren't allowed in a 262 00:12:40,080 --> 00:12:45,040 Speaker 1: lot of religious groups. I am I am trigued. Why 263 00:12:45,280 --> 00:12:47,559 Speaker 1: you know they're okay with vasectomies and. 264 00:12:47,520 --> 00:12:50,720 Speaker 3: Not other ones. I imagine it would depend on them. 265 00:12:51,240 --> 00:12:54,520 Speaker 1: I think it probably depends on the religion. But usually 266 00:12:54,559 --> 00:12:58,439 Speaker 1: it's like if it's a like a change in terms 267 00:12:58,480 --> 00:13:00,800 Speaker 1: of you know, to something to your body, like of aseectomy, 268 00:13:00,840 --> 00:13:02,839 Speaker 1: I would I would imagine they. 269 00:13:02,760 --> 00:13:04,360 Speaker 3: Would be more against it than really. 270 00:13:04,520 --> 00:13:07,040 Speaker 1: I don't know. I'm I am well, I'm interested why 271 00:13:07,080 --> 00:13:08,320 Speaker 1: that is different. 272 00:13:08,840 --> 00:13:12,360 Speaker 5: My thought process is as a as a as like 273 00:13:12,400 --> 00:13:14,480 Speaker 5: a guy. I mean, they never told me to do 274 00:13:14,520 --> 00:13:17,520 Speaker 5: this in church. But you know, whenever you do something, 275 00:13:18,200 --> 00:13:20,040 Speaker 5: you're like, oh, no, my kid's a million of my 276 00:13:20,120 --> 00:13:24,840 Speaker 5: kids are in a whatever item you choose to dispense 277 00:13:24,880 --> 00:13:27,880 Speaker 5: them in, and maybe they think that they're like, oh, 278 00:13:27,920 --> 00:13:31,840 Speaker 5: they're children, So if we have a vicectomy, the children 279 00:13:32,120 --> 00:13:37,599 Speaker 5: no longer can get out and they're safe inside of it. 280 00:13:37,760 --> 00:13:42,319 Speaker 5: But then I realized that my uh, wiggles don't matter, 281 00:13:42,800 --> 00:13:47,120 Speaker 5: but the woman actually has the eggs because eggs that's 282 00:13:47,120 --> 00:13:48,920 Speaker 5: where kids come from, not the wiggles. 283 00:13:50,600 --> 00:13:51,120 Speaker 1: Exactly. 284 00:13:51,320 --> 00:13:56,000 Speaker 5: It's both Okay, well I'm now still confused like they are. 285 00:13:57,200 --> 00:13:58,559 Speaker 4: That was just my thought. 286 00:13:58,320 --> 00:14:00,719 Speaker 5: Process, and maybe like, oh, maybe they think like, I'm 287 00:14:00,760 --> 00:14:02,680 Speaker 5: killing kids if I do this, so I have to 288 00:14:02,679 --> 00:14:03,559 Speaker 5: get a vice ectomy. 289 00:14:03,880 --> 00:14:04,240 Speaker 3: You know what. 290 00:14:04,280 --> 00:14:05,920 Speaker 1: I I love your thought process. 291 00:14:06,360 --> 00:14:08,000 Speaker 3: I love your thoughts Rightley. 292 00:14:08,520 --> 00:14:12,400 Speaker 1: But there's some dammits to their thoughts fears. Driftwood says, 293 00:14:12,400 --> 00:14:14,560 Speaker 1: not the a hole. Of course you aren't the a hole. 294 00:14:14,640 --> 00:14:17,680 Speaker 1: You've been through an incredibly traumatic emotional experience on top 295 00:14:17,720 --> 00:14:20,800 Speaker 1: of the trauma of caring and delivering a baby. I 296 00:14:20,840 --> 00:14:23,200 Speaker 1: don't know what to think about him casting you aside 297 00:14:23,240 --> 00:14:27,120 Speaker 1: other than that. If you hadn't considered genetic paternity testing 298 00:14:27,160 --> 00:14:30,240 Speaker 1: in utero, then he certainly should have allowed. But then 299 00:14:30,280 --> 00:14:33,240 Speaker 1: he certainly should have before allowing his newly pregnant wife 300 00:14:33,560 --> 00:14:36,160 Speaker 1: to be homeless and friendless and feeling free to date 301 00:14:36,240 --> 00:14:39,960 Speaker 1: other women. Of course, you no longer feel safe in 302 00:14:39,960 --> 00:14:42,720 Speaker 1: this relationship. What would happen the next time he feels 303 00:14:42,760 --> 00:14:45,400 Speaker 1: validated in his mistrust? He didn't speak to a doctor 304 00:14:45,440 --> 00:14:50,800 Speaker 1: about his concerns or anything. Thank goodness for John and Avebury. 305 00:14:51,160 --> 00:14:55,080 Speaker 1: Barry says, not the a hole. Your husband wasted no 306 00:14:55,200 --> 00:14:57,520 Speaker 1: time calling you a cheater, kicking you out of your home, 307 00:14:57,640 --> 00:15:00,360 Speaker 1: turning everyone except brother in law against you, and cheating 308 00:15:00,400 --> 00:15:03,720 Speaker 1: on you. There is no coming back from that. You 309 00:15:03,880 --> 00:15:07,240 Speaker 1: absolutely cannot trust your soon to be x. He cheated 310 00:15:07,280 --> 00:15:11,200 Speaker 1: on you. Once a cheater, always a cheater, but you 311 00:15:11,280 --> 00:15:15,240 Speaker 1: once an okay storytime fan, always an okay storytime fans. 312 00:15:15,600 --> 00:15:19,920 Speaker 1: Every week I have not been watching them because I've 313 00:15:19,920 --> 00:15:22,960 Speaker 1: been reading they're talking about or did I'm going to 314 00:15:23,000 --> 00:15:25,240 Speaker 1: read this and then I want to read them? Did 315 00:15:25,280 --> 00:15:27,520 Speaker 1: he even go back and get tested for a sperm 316 00:15:27,560 --> 00:15:30,200 Speaker 1: count once you became pregnant? Or did he assume everything 317 00:15:30,240 --> 00:15:32,920 Speaker 1: took with the surgery. He should be kicked to the 318 00:15:32,960 --> 00:15:35,440 Speaker 1: curb and forced to pay your child support, although since 319 00:15:35,440 --> 00:15:38,200 Speaker 1: he had the paseectomy, you might argue for soul custody 320 00:15:38,200 --> 00:15:41,480 Speaker 1: of the baby with the argument that he never wanted 321 00:15:42,000 --> 00:15:44,920 Speaker 1: a child and this is the end of that story. 322 00:15:46,360 --> 00:15:48,160 Speaker 3: Marry the brother, says Pamela. 323 00:15:48,520 --> 00:15:52,000 Speaker 1: Well, he's gay, he's gay, he is gay. Wingles says, 324 00:15:52,040 --> 00:15:55,360 Speaker 1: Catholicism is against a posseectomy. Lol. My village also banned 325 00:15:55,360 --> 00:15:58,880 Speaker 1: condoms for a bit. You had go present You had 326 00:15:58,920 --> 00:16:01,000 Speaker 1: to go present your marriage certificate to bikes. 327 00:16:01,080 --> 00:16:03,960 Speaker 3: Oh wow, let's go whoa can can you go? Up 328 00:16:04,080 --> 00:16:07,920 Speaker 3: to the earlier comments? No? Boy? 329 00:16:08,560 --> 00:16:11,440 Speaker 4: See okay, uh some people did follow me. 330 00:16:13,280 --> 00:16:13,360 Speaker 1: No. 331 00:16:13,920 --> 00:16:15,760 Speaker 3: I think blind d is explaining. 332 00:16:15,760 --> 00:16:19,600 Speaker 4: How I want rather to teach us all sex. I 333 00:16:19,600 --> 00:16:20,120 Speaker 4: could do that. 334 00:16:20,520 --> 00:16:22,200 Speaker 1: I could do that, and then I come in after 335 00:16:22,280 --> 00:16:24,320 Speaker 1: and I teach you more sex proper. 336 00:16:24,720 --> 00:16:30,520 Speaker 5: Keeps a swim swimmer safe? Bad take Riley debatable, debatable. 337 00:16:31,440 --> 00:16:35,520 Speaker 5: I'm trying to relate here. I'm calling the wiggles. Ever 338 00:16:35,600 --> 00:16:37,880 Speaker 5: since we've had to like censor ourselves, I think it's 339 00:16:37,880 --> 00:16:40,680 Speaker 5: funny not even saying like what it is anymore. I 340 00:16:40,720 --> 00:16:42,080 Speaker 5: just find new words for the things. 341 00:16:42,560 --> 00:16:46,480 Speaker 3: I struggle. I'm I'm anti sensor. I really want to 342 00:16:46,560 --> 00:16:47,080 Speaker 3: use my words. 343 00:16:47,080 --> 00:16:50,720 Speaker 1: Alas if we used all of the words, we will 344 00:16:50,760 --> 00:16:52,600 Speaker 1: be taken off. 345 00:16:52,600 --> 00:16:55,680 Speaker 3: Of the air. I've seen people saying wild words. 346 00:16:55,680 --> 00:17:00,440 Speaker 1: Well it's because it's because we, you know, posted on 347 00:17:00,440 --> 00:17:00,920 Speaker 1: Facebook and. 348 00:17:00,880 --> 00:17:03,280 Speaker 3: Stuff and oh always Facebook different than YouTube. 349 00:17:03,320 --> 00:17:05,600 Speaker 4: Yeah, Facebook's really strict. 350 00:17:06,240 --> 00:17:12,200 Speaker 1: Really don't even say one bad word. Oh, or you're off. Okay, 351 00:17:12,480 --> 00:17:13,919 Speaker 1: but let's get into this next story. 352 00:17:15,680 --> 00:17:17,640 Speaker 4: I guess so people get off. 353 00:17:20,480 --> 00:17:23,840 Speaker 1: Ah. I had of aseectomy years ago. But my wife's 354 00:17:23,880 --> 00:17:27,120 Speaker 1: taking birth control again. I think she's cheating. 355 00:17:27,440 --> 00:17:28,840 Speaker 4: Dude, she's being extra careful. 356 00:17:29,440 --> 00:17:32,800 Speaker 1: There are different reasons for taking birth control, but let's 357 00:17:32,800 --> 00:17:35,000 Speaker 1: find out why she's taking it real quick, quick. 358 00:17:35,440 --> 00:17:36,600 Speaker 4: One, we got one. 359 00:17:36,560 --> 00:17:39,000 Speaker 1: Okay, Haley, Kay, thank you for the five bucks. 360 00:17:39,040 --> 00:17:39,359 Speaker 3: Thank you. 361 00:17:42,000 --> 00:17:45,040 Speaker 1: As the title says, I've had a vasectomy done when 362 00:17:45,040 --> 00:17:47,520 Speaker 1: I was twenty five, we are both child free, so 363 00:17:47,560 --> 00:17:50,440 Speaker 1: it only made sense to have a permanent solution rather 364 00:17:50,560 --> 00:17:54,600 Speaker 1: than using condoms or other forms of contraception. My wife 365 00:17:54,680 --> 00:17:56,680 Speaker 1: used to be on the pill but always complained about 366 00:17:56,720 --> 00:17:59,360 Speaker 1: how annoying it was taking it on. Take how annoying 367 00:17:59,359 --> 00:18:02,119 Speaker 1: it was, take it, and so on. We did not 368 00:18:02,240 --> 00:18:05,040 Speaker 1: have any issues for all these years, and neither ever 369 00:18:05,160 --> 00:18:08,800 Speaker 1: mentioned birth control since. By the way, this comes from 370 00:18:08,840 --> 00:18:13,520 Speaker 1: mash Taters on the r slash okay storytime subreddit. Fast 371 00:18:13,680 --> 00:18:16,359 Speaker 1: forward to now. We recently moved into a new home 372 00:18:16,680 --> 00:18:19,919 Speaker 1: and I am tasked with redoing a bathroom. After I 373 00:18:20,000 --> 00:18:22,959 Speaker 1: install the vanity, I began putting our stuff in it. 374 00:18:23,200 --> 00:18:25,359 Speaker 1: My wife has a small pouch where she keeps her 375 00:18:25,400 --> 00:18:28,840 Speaker 1: travel kit for her work trips. It's a toothbrush, paste, 376 00:18:28,960 --> 00:18:33,399 Speaker 1: small bottle of mouthwash, makeup, ibuprofen. I was having terrible 377 00:18:33,440 --> 00:18:35,840 Speaker 1: headache and our house has been upside down for a 378 00:18:35,840 --> 00:18:39,159 Speaker 1: while now, so when I remembered that she keeps painkillers 379 00:18:39,200 --> 00:18:43,080 Speaker 1: in that pouch, I opened it to get one. Inside 380 00:18:43,200 --> 00:18:47,280 Speaker 1: I found birth control pills. It would make no sense 381 00:18:47,320 --> 00:18:49,399 Speaker 1: for her to keep the pills from seven years ago, 382 00:18:49,960 --> 00:18:53,520 Speaker 1: especially since she has used this pouch multiple times for 383 00:18:53,680 --> 00:18:56,560 Speaker 1: her work trips. It's not like I found them in 384 00:18:56,600 --> 00:19:02,360 Speaker 1: a long forgotten corner. I okay, again, there are multiple 385 00:19:02,400 --> 00:19:04,960 Speaker 1: reasons for taking birth control. I don't think I would 386 00:19:05,040 --> 00:19:06,800 Speaker 1: rush to cheating. 387 00:19:06,480 --> 00:19:10,200 Speaker 3: And also to get to the bottom of this instantly as. 388 00:19:10,800 --> 00:19:13,880 Speaker 1: Partner, just think about talking to her. 389 00:19:14,400 --> 00:19:16,680 Speaker 3: No, I'd rather make a bunch of assumptions and treat 390 00:19:16,720 --> 00:19:17,080 Speaker 3: them as. 391 00:19:17,400 --> 00:19:20,879 Speaker 1: To Reddit and where everyone will agree with me about 392 00:19:20,920 --> 00:19:23,200 Speaker 1: her cheating. No. I mean like a lot of people 393 00:19:23,240 --> 00:19:26,400 Speaker 1: take it to uh if their periods are heavy. There 394 00:19:26,440 --> 00:19:29,280 Speaker 1: are different you know, someone's a PMS. There are a 395 00:19:29,320 --> 00:19:30,960 Speaker 1: lot of different medical things. 396 00:19:33,440 --> 00:19:34,960 Speaker 3: To talk to your partner. Yeah. 397 00:19:34,960 --> 00:19:37,080 Speaker 1: I feel like I could just go up and says, hey, 398 00:19:37,280 --> 00:19:40,120 Speaker 1: I you know, went I went looking for some headache 399 00:19:40,119 --> 00:19:44,240 Speaker 1: pills that you had the birth just wondering if everything's 400 00:19:44,240 --> 00:19:46,560 Speaker 1: okay medically. You don't even have to accuse her. You'd 401 00:19:46,560 --> 00:19:47,960 Speaker 1: just be like, yes, are you cheating on me? 402 00:19:49,920 --> 00:19:50,000 Speaker 2: No? 403 00:19:50,119 --> 00:19:52,840 Speaker 3: Yeah, with curiosity, what's up? 404 00:19:53,320 --> 00:19:59,000 Speaker 5: You know, think about what you want to, think about 405 00:19:59,000 --> 00:19:59,919 Speaker 5: what you want to do, and do the. 406 00:20:00,560 --> 00:20:02,640 Speaker 3: Yes honestly advice. 407 00:20:02,359 --> 00:20:06,480 Speaker 1: For the story for theories. Then, for the first time 408 00:20:06,560 --> 00:20:10,359 Speaker 1: in our ten year relationship, I doubted her. I sat 409 00:20:10,480 --> 00:20:12,399 Speaker 1: on the couch and started to think of all the 410 00:20:12,440 --> 00:20:15,680 Speaker 1: possible reasons she might be taking those behind my back. 411 00:20:15,920 --> 00:20:18,440 Speaker 1: For one, she is on my health insurance, so I 412 00:20:18,440 --> 00:20:20,399 Speaker 1: would see if she had a doctor's appointment for an 413 00:20:20,440 --> 00:20:24,280 Speaker 1: issue unrelated to contraception. I know that birth control pills 414 00:20:24,280 --> 00:20:27,440 Speaker 1: are used for other purposes. She is healthy and would 415 00:20:27,520 --> 00:20:30,919 Speaker 1: certainly share with me if something was wrong medically, Why 416 00:20:31,040 --> 00:20:34,000 Speaker 1: would she hide it? Especially in the light of her 417 00:20:34,000 --> 00:20:38,159 Speaker 1: complaints complaints regarding the pill. I decided to put the 418 00:20:38,160 --> 00:20:40,240 Speaker 1: pills back in there and act like I didn't see 419 00:20:40,240 --> 00:20:41,600 Speaker 1: them that night. 420 00:20:42,080 --> 00:20:48,919 Speaker 2: Sorry, Panda Ammonium says, could you imagine if everyone actually 421 00:20:48,920 --> 00:20:51,679 Speaker 2: communicated it with their partners out of business. 422 00:20:51,400 --> 00:20:52,680 Speaker 1: You wouldn't have any stories. 423 00:20:54,520 --> 00:20:57,000 Speaker 4: And that's a gamble, if ever we're willing to take. 424 00:20:57,280 --> 00:20:59,760 Speaker 2: That is My goal is to put these guys out 425 00:20:59,760 --> 00:21:03,400 Speaker 2: of bit and beg people to communicate the communicates. 426 00:21:03,960 --> 00:21:04,360 Speaker 3: Please. 427 00:21:06,080 --> 00:21:09,520 Speaker 1: I checked back the next morning, and sure enough, another 428 00:21:09,640 --> 00:21:14,119 Speaker 1: pill was missing, So she is actively taking them. I'm lost. 429 00:21:14,400 --> 00:21:16,120 Speaker 1: Part of me doesn't want to know, and I wish 430 00:21:16,200 --> 00:21:19,240 Speaker 1: I could just erase that from my memory. We're happy together, 431 00:21:19,400 --> 00:21:21,840 Speaker 1: we have a wonderful life, and I cannot prepare for 432 00:21:21,880 --> 00:21:24,840 Speaker 1: it all to come crumbling down. I'm not ready to 433 00:21:24,920 --> 00:21:27,240 Speaker 1: learn that she's cheating, but I can't go on without 434 00:21:27,320 --> 00:21:30,480 Speaker 1: knowing what's going on. How do I approach this without 435 00:21:30,560 --> 00:21:34,439 Speaker 1: sounding accusatory? If she genuinely has a medical problem, and 436 00:21:34,480 --> 00:21:36,760 Speaker 1: I cannot imagine she had and would hide it from me, 437 00:21:37,240 --> 00:21:39,479 Speaker 1: I don't want to make her feel attact. Tell me 438 00:21:39,520 --> 00:21:44,480 Speaker 1: there's a good reason why she would take the pills. Edit. Wow, guys, 439 00:21:44,840 --> 00:21:46,840 Speaker 1: I was at work and came back to a lot 440 00:21:46,920 --> 00:21:49,600 Speaker 1: of replies. I'm reading through them now, and the general 441 00:21:49,640 --> 00:21:52,119 Speaker 1: consensus seems to me that she likely has a valid 442 00:21:52,200 --> 00:21:56,800 Speaker 1: medical reason for taking them. Okay, Yes, she'll be home 443 00:21:56,840 --> 00:22:00,400 Speaker 1: soon and I will have the conversation. Edit two, she's 444 00:22:00,520 --> 00:22:04,600 Speaker 1: likely cheating. Oh no, I'm still shocked, mad, upset and 445 00:22:04,680 --> 00:22:07,520 Speaker 1: can't write everything right now. But we discussed and she 446 00:22:07,600 --> 00:22:11,040 Speaker 1: had a very weird reaction to me bringing it up. First, 447 00:22:11,520 --> 00:22:13,879 Speaker 1: she accused me of going through her things. Then she 448 00:22:13,880 --> 00:22:16,280 Speaker 1: said it doesn't matter anyway because she has nothing to hide. 449 00:22:16,960 --> 00:22:20,360 Speaker 1: She could not explain the reason behind her taking the pills. 450 00:22:21,200 --> 00:22:23,760 Speaker 1: Why is this happening? And there are no updates? I 451 00:22:23,840 --> 00:22:27,760 Speaker 1: already looked rightly, Oh this is five years old. No, 452 00:22:28,320 --> 00:22:30,320 Speaker 1: so there's really no updates. Guys. 453 00:22:30,520 --> 00:22:32,240 Speaker 3: That feels suspicious. 454 00:22:32,520 --> 00:22:33,960 Speaker 1: That feels really suspicious that. 455 00:22:33,920 --> 00:22:36,680 Speaker 2: She she can't provide one reason of like I'm taking 456 00:22:36,680 --> 00:22:41,439 Speaker 2: this because also curious how he brought it up, of 457 00:22:41,520 --> 00:22:44,400 Speaker 2: if he came at her like throwing cheating accusations where 458 00:22:44,440 --> 00:22:46,520 Speaker 2: she is so defensive and didn't even want to tell 459 00:22:46,640 --> 00:22:49,320 Speaker 2: the maybe the very valid reason possible. 460 00:22:49,359 --> 00:22:49,960 Speaker 3: I don't know how. 461 00:22:50,280 --> 00:22:52,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, it does seem like from the first edit. Oh, 462 00:22:52,920 --> 00:22:55,000 Speaker 1: he maybe did approach it with like, hey, is there's 463 00:22:55,000 --> 00:22:56,560 Speaker 1: something going on metical because I noticed the. 464 00:22:56,560 --> 00:22:58,440 Speaker 2: Birth control bills because he said he didn't want to 465 00:22:58,440 --> 00:23:01,160 Speaker 2: be accused of to me, yeah. 466 00:23:00,520 --> 00:23:03,760 Speaker 1: Which I mean in which case specifically if he said 467 00:23:05,720 --> 00:23:09,800 Speaker 1: if he said that, I don't know what I was 468 00:23:09,840 --> 00:23:10,320 Speaker 1: gonna say. 469 00:23:11,080 --> 00:23:11,920 Speaker 3: It was wonderful. 470 00:23:12,600 --> 00:23:14,359 Speaker 4: I love that. 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Yeah, 492 00:24:12,400 --> 00:24:14,040 Speaker 3: watch videos I've done. 493 00:24:14,280 --> 00:24:16,000 Speaker 5: Yeah, we do more than that, low key, because we 494 00:24:16,040 --> 00:24:18,280 Speaker 5: stream for about like five hours every day too, yeah, 495 00:24:18,560 --> 00:24:19,240 Speaker 5: every weekday. 496 00:24:19,480 --> 00:24:21,520 Speaker 3: So she's watching all the lives as well. 497 00:24:21,680 --> 00:24:24,280 Speaker 1: Who knows, well, she said, this is first time catching 498 00:24:24,280 --> 00:24:30,120 Speaker 1: a live stream. Oh, I mean like retroactively interesting. Oh 499 00:24:30,160 --> 00:24:33,119 Speaker 1: my god, that's the end of the stream. Oh I 500 00:24:33,119 --> 00:24:37,200 Speaker 1: didn't even notice. I was having such a blast. It's 501 00:24:37,240 --> 00:24:40,600 Speaker 1: four forty nine. But that is the end of that 502 00:24:41,200 --> 00:24:45,199 Speaker 1: story and the end of the stream. 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