Speaker 1: Hey, welcome to your Saturday Second Date episode, where we
Speaker 1: put two classics back to back, extra long dose of
Speaker 1: your second Date update. It's in the morning, and just
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Speaker 5: When it comes to love, sometimes the question is how
Speaker 5: far are you willing to go? How much are you
Speaker 5: willing to publicly embarrass yourself in order to get that
Speaker 5: special someone to go out with you?
Speaker 2: Oh wow, I mean hope.
Speaker 5: Far that's the hope for it. We definitely push the
Speaker 5: limits of that during this call, because the guy on
Speaker 5: the phone was told, if you want any chance of
Speaker 5: going out with me, then you'll have to do something
Speaker 5: pretty cringe. And she wouldn't wait, she made him do
Speaker 5: it live on the air.
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, he kind of piled on.
Speaker 5: Well, yeah, sure, question is it was that enough? You're
Speaker 5: gonna hear what he had to do in your second
Speaker 5: date update.
Speaker 6: It's coming up next.
Speaker 7: Second date update.
Speaker 5: As guys, we all have to deal with the same issue.
Speaker 5: Too many hot women wanting to date us and not
Speaker 5: enough time to date them all. Yeah, that must be hard.
Speaker 8: It is.
Speaker 5: We want to take you out, but it's not our fault.
Speaker 5: Time is the enemy here, broke, You should feel lucky
Speaker 5: that you're not a man and you don't have to
Speaker 5: deal with stress like this.
Speaker 2: My simple little mind can only maybe comprehend.
Speaker 5: Well, it's good that at least knowledgeable enough to recognize that,
Speaker 5: and like what you just said. The thing is, that's
Speaker 5: what happened to one of our listeners, Connor recently, Connor,
Speaker 5: you feel me bro. Too many eager ladies only want
Speaker 5: of you to go around?
Speaker 6: Am I right?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 2: Start, I want to have people like you, Connor.
Speaker 5: I like you already. Let's hear about your situation. But
Speaker 5: you had more than one woman wanting to go out
Speaker 5: with you?
Speaker 3: Yeah, I did. I did so. Initially I met this
Speaker 3: girl Hannah. We connected online and was one of those
Speaker 3: instant like click and connects, you know. Yeah, we started talking.
Speaker 3: We had a great time, and so I asked her out.
Speaker 3: But then she went like radio silence was gone.
Speaker 9: Oh wait, wait wait wait did she say yes to
Speaker 9: a date and then silent or after you.
Speaker 3: Asked, like right after I asked, was gone?
Speaker 2: She had bought then she was hoping for a credit card.
Speaker 3: But she doesn't come back, So don't count her out yet.
Speaker 1: Oh okay, okay, we're gonna circle back to Hannah in
Speaker 1: a minute.
Speaker 6: Okay.
Speaker 3: So you know, I gave her a couple of days,
Speaker 3: didn't hear anything frommers, and then I was like, all right,
Speaker 3: it's time to be gone. Asked out the second girl anybody,
Speaker 3: and you know, I was like less excited about her,
Speaker 3: but she was fun, and I was like, I'm not
Speaker 3: going to hear anything from a Hannah.
Speaker 2: Hannah, you can't even remember her name.
Speaker 5: So distant memory.
Speaker 4: Now she's sling on you. She doesn't deserve the age.
Speaker 1: Yeah, now okay, So then you asked Amy.
Speaker 3: Out and so she said yes, And then of course
Speaker 3: the second she said yes, oh no, it comes back.
Speaker 9: Oh it's always like that, that's right.
Speaker 3: She's like, I'm so sorry. I didn't have any signal.
Speaker 3: I'd love to go out with you. What do you
Speaker 3: do on Friday night? And I was like, well, in
Speaker 3: my head I didn't tell her this, but I'm like, well,
Speaker 3: I'm going out with Amy for yeah. Yeah. So I
Speaker 3: ended up making like a pros and cons list to
Speaker 3: see which one of my chagros Friday night.
Speaker 2: Oh, you're gonna dump one. That's good.
Speaker 1: I thought we were going to maybe try to balance
Speaker 1: the two and yeah night. So I think already you're
Speaker 1: making good choices.
Speaker 5: We have had other guys try and do this, going
Speaker 5: back to back between tables.
Speaker 4: This is what Jeff was trying to say. Us guys,
Speaker 4: we're good dudes.
Speaker 5: So you made a pros and consoless for each one,
Speaker 5: pros and.
Speaker 3: Consless for each one. Yeah, you can't make a pros
Speaker 3: and consolics for one, you gotta do the whole. Sure.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, So who got the most pros?
Speaker 3: So Hannah did?
Speaker 5: Okay, okay, Hannah one original?
Speaker 1: What is du like just even the way you've been
Speaker 1: talking about it?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 5: Okay, So did you end up actually meeting up with Hannah?
Speaker 4: Finally?
Speaker 3: So we we ended up going bowling and we had
Speaker 3: a good time. We would cheer each other on and
Speaker 3: we made up like little chokey tears for each other
Speaker 3: as we went.
Speaker 2: So super flirty.
Speaker 3: Yeah, when we one of us make a good shot,
Speaker 3: we'd like dap bowling balls.
Speaker 8: Wow.
Speaker 4: Yeah, Okay, that's funny though, because it's corny to us.
Speaker 4: But if as long as you two were having.
Speaker 1: Fun, yeah yeah, the same wavelength.
Speaker 3: Don't get me wrong, it was corey to us too,
Speaker 3: Like we're not amaled to the fact that it was very,
Speaker 3: very corny.
Speaker 2: Yeah right, okay, having a great time exactly.
Speaker 3: But somewhere in the night, her mood changed all of
Speaker 3: a sudden. You know, I was like, what's wrong, and
Speaker 3: then she's like nothing, I just I think they cleaned
Speaker 3: these shoes wrong or something, because my feet are all itchy.
Speaker 2: All of a sudden, you didn't clean him?
Speaker 3: That was I hope not. I feel like mine we're clean,
Speaker 3: So I'm hoping they cleaned him. But I don't know
Speaker 3: she was really weird about.
Speaker 5: It or that couldn't have been like a line, because
Speaker 5: sometimes women are like, oh, I need to get out
Speaker 5: of this itchy sweater, Like yeah, is that not.
Speaker 7: In the middle case?
Speaker 10: Yeah?
Speaker 3: Maybe not.
Speaker 2: You can't think of it, Like what else could have
Speaker 2: changed her mood? Like did you do something? Say something?
Speaker 3: I don't think so okay, thrown like what's get you shoes?
Speaker 3: Maybe they did clean him wrong? And she's like I
Speaker 3: just gotta go. Oh. She you know, started packing up
Speaker 3: to leave, but I stuck around because we'd only been
Speaker 3: going about forty minutes at that point, and I paid
Speaker 3: for a full hour the hour.
Speaker 5: You didn't walk her out and leave with her?
Speaker 3: No, like a one time. I was like with you.
Speaker 3: She's like no, but like if you want to, that's cool,
Speaker 3: but like no, that means yes.
Speaker 4: That means yes, yes, yes, yes, The girl says, if
Speaker 4: you want to maybe.
Speaker 2: Walk her outside at least wait for the uber.
Speaker 3: Safe. Yeah, I think she was safe.
Speaker 2: You think it's not even about the safety thing. It's
Speaker 2: just about like that's how.
Speaker 6: A gentleman.
Speaker 5: Trust me, dude, I'm a Jew. I understand trying to
Speaker 5: get the full value for the hour that you paid for.
Speaker 5: But even I know you gotta walk out with her.
Speaker 2: Did you text her anything?
Speaker 3: I did? You know? I texted her a little later
Speaker 3: to see if she got home safe, and I haven't
Speaker 3: heard anything back from her, and like, maybe I really
Speaker 3: messed up on not going outside.
Speaker 5: Okay, well, that definitely went onto your CON's list that
Speaker 5: she made for you. We should ask what else is
Speaker 5: on and when we come back, we'll call Hannah and
Speaker 5: try and get you a second date.
Speaker 6: Update right after this. Okay, I got thanks, all right,
Speaker 6: hold on.
Speaker 7: Second date update.
Speaker 5: Quick recap of the events of Connor's date night with Hannah. Okay,
Speaker 5: there was bowling, laughter, inside jokes, It's fun. Hannah's itchy
Speaker 5: feet shoe problem question mark. Yeah, she leaves Connor stays
Speaker 5: to get his money's worth.
Speaker 6: No communication since.
Speaker 5: Connor. Did I miss anything from that lightning fast recap?
Speaker 3: No? I think you got it all all right?
Speaker 2: Really good?
Speaker 1: Now have you heard from Amy the other girl that
Speaker 1: I'm just wondering if you have a backup if this
Speaker 1: doesn't work out.
Speaker 5: Okay, we probably shouldn't mention to Hannah that we do
Speaker 5: have a backup girl in case she says.
Speaker 2: No, no, no, I wasn't gonna say anything.
Speaker 1: I just didn't know how much pressure we had on ourselves.
Speaker 1: You're making this successful with Hannah.
Speaker 5: Yeah, and I'm sure there's like seven or eight backups
Speaker 5: in reality that Connor isn't telling us about. He's a
Speaker 5: man in demand. I see, But none of that will
Speaker 5: come up when we call Hannah right now?
Speaker 1: You ready to do this man talk about her possible
Speaker 1: foot fungus issue.
Speaker 6: We should ask to make sure.
Speaker 5: Okay, Connor, you ready, I'm ready?
Speaker 3: Thank you?
Speaker 11: All right, us two, Here we go. Good luck to everyone.
Speaker 10: Hello.
Speaker 5: Hey is this Hannah?
Speaker 7: Uh?
Speaker 3: This is she? Who is this?
Speaker 5: And my name is jeff I'm a radio host on
Speaker 5: a show called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.
Speaker 2: Hey Hannah, we're all here.
Speaker 12: Hey show, I know you guys.
Speaker 8: Yeah, what's going on?
Speaker 12: Is this?
Speaker 8: Are you guys pranking me or something?
Speaker 2: Is it weird?
Speaker 1: So many people ask that, yeah, yeah, we continue to
Speaker 1: pray make the joke.
Speaker 4: So here's the scenario.
Speaker 6: No, we're doing Wait.
Speaker 8: Am I really on the radio.
Speaker 1: It was so fun.
Speaker 2: It's already fun.
Speaker 5: I'm glad you have this positive energy because we do
Speaker 5: want to ask you about I guess a little bit
Speaker 5: of an unfortunate date that we heard you went on
Speaker 5: recently with a guy named Connor. Oh god, yeah, really,
Speaker 5: it's too bad that your mood changed as soon as
Speaker 5: we brought up Connor in the date. You were really
Speaker 5: into it when you thought this was a prank.
Speaker 1: But like when people would rather get pranks called than
Speaker 1: he I know, a good sign.
Speaker 5: We did hear a little bit about what happened that
Speaker 5: night though from Connor.
Speaker 3: What did he tell?
Speaker 6: We told us all.
Speaker 5: I just wanted to say, first of all, we're really sorry.
Speaker 5: That's disgusting that your feet were really itchy from the
Speaker 5: shoes and you had to leave. I hope you told
Speaker 5: management about it, because everyone here agrees that's a gross.
Speaker 6: Thing to have to deal with on a date night.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it was that an excuse or is that real?
Speaker 7: Yeah?
Speaker 8: I didn't say anything to manage him because there was
Speaker 8: nothing wrong with my feet.
Speaker 2: You lie, Oh, men are so shocked.
Speaker 4: Women don't lie.
Speaker 5: That is a strange lie to come up with. Honestly, Hannah,
Speaker 5: I saw it.
Speaker 8: It was creative for the moment because I didn't have
Speaker 8: anything planned, Like I didn't tell any of my girlfriends
Speaker 8: to call me in the middle of it, say there's
Speaker 8: an emergency or anything like that. So I really had
Speaker 8: to kind of thing quick on my feet.
Speaker 2: Oh look at that feet again.
Speaker 5: Yeah, okay, Well there was something else that happened.
Speaker 8: Then, Oh my gosh, this is really weird. I mean, basically,
Speaker 8: we're bowling, We're having a really fun time, and then
Speaker 8: he got up to the bowl and a piece of
Speaker 8: paper falls out of his pocket. He doesn't notice. I
Speaker 8: pick it up and it's some list. It's like a
Speaker 8: pros and conflict.
Speaker 4: Oh he brought it on the table.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, he actually wrote it down like I
Speaker 1: would feel like you do it.
Speaker 2: In chap or something.
Speaker 8: Wait a second, how do you guys know about the list?
Speaker 5: I mean, we don't honestly know a whole lot about it.
Speaker 5: We heard of it, we heard that there is a
Speaker 5: pros and consolest that was made.
Speaker 1: But about me, well, you know, it is hard, and
Speaker 1: he had decision to make on who we wanted to
Speaker 1: spend his time with.
Speaker 4: And you have a lot of pros you.
Speaker 1: Know he's like a methodical person, and like methodical people
Speaker 1: do that type of thing.
Speaker 6: You know.
Speaker 5: Can we ask why you were offended by it?
Speaker 2: Con No, one.
Speaker 4: Wants to read your own call, even if you know
Speaker 4: what it is.
Speaker 1: And it's like you can have ten compliments and one
Speaker 1: negative and you're going to remember the negative.
Speaker 4: Please tell me the con was like way too pretty,
Speaker 4: way too.
Speaker 3: Right.
Speaker 8: The cons were like forced smile and not attractive as
Speaker 8: the other girl I'm talking to.
Speaker 9: He spelled it out.
Speaker 3: And I'm so sorry.
Speaker 8: No no, no, no, oh.
Speaker 5: God, okay, ye Hannah, you know that that's Connor.
Speaker 11: On the other line.
Speaker 6: He's been listening to this.
Speaker 2: It's just haunted him really badly.
Speaker 5: Right now, Conor Connor, did you not notice that a
Speaker 5: list was sing from your pocket when it fell out?
Speaker 7: I didn't.
Speaker 3: I didn't even know it was in my pocket. I honestly, Uh,
Speaker 3: I'm grew embarrassed because I didn't mean for you to
Speaker 3: see that.
Speaker 8: Ye should have it in the first place, Like, what
Speaker 8: that out?
Speaker 6: Weird?
Speaker 3: Hang on it. But here's the thing that that was
Speaker 3: about you?
Speaker 2: What what?
Speaker 3: No? No, no, So I had started talking. I started
Speaker 3: talking to this other girl because it took so long
Speaker 3: for you to get back to me. You remember how
Speaker 3: there was like that long like gap between when I
Speaker 3: asked you out and you finally said ye, traveling. I
Speaker 3: think I told you that. I knew that now, but
Speaker 3: I thought you were just ghosted me at the end.
Speaker 3: So like I made this list to decide which one
Speaker 3: of the two viele go out with, and you actually
Speaker 3: you won. That was that's the that's the compless for her.
Speaker 5: Oh, this was about the other girls, about Hannah.
Speaker 4: Okay, you're the cue one, not.
Speaker 2: Her, Hannah. He did tell us about the other girl.
Speaker 2: Her name was Amy. He told us all about her.
Speaker 2: He's not.
Speaker 7: Honest, It's true.
Speaker 5: He mentioned that there was there was another woman and
Speaker 5: he was bummed out that he had to move on
Speaker 5: from you.
Speaker 3: Yeah, like you have a super your way for track
Speaker 3: is super normal.
Speaker 4: Smile.
Speaker 2: I hope Amy is listening.
Speaker 8: Okay, then I'll tell you what. If you want me
Speaker 8: to go on a date with you, you have to
Speaker 8: read me the pros and conflict you made about me.
Speaker 5: God, Jonnnor, if you're really into her, you might have
Speaker 5: to do this, Bud, and be honest, don't make up
Speaker 5: a bunch of nice things on the spot.
Speaker 2: You have a bunch of nice things.
Speaker 3: Let me find somewhere.
Speaker 1: Why are people always asking questions that they don't really
Speaker 1: want the answer to.
Speaker 5: It's well, she won in the competition between the two
Speaker 5: of them. Theoretically, these are nice.
Speaker 8: I want to know for sure that that list that
Speaker 8: I read wasn't the list about me.
Speaker 1: Okay, this is the proof that that one was about
Speaker 1: amy and this one's about.
Speaker 3: Okay. So the first one that you could possibly have
Speaker 3: emotional baggage, you know, she told me you had been
Speaker 3: like engaged.
Speaker 5: Before, and that was in the cons I'm guessing.
Speaker 3: Like stepping away from engagement can wait on people. That's
Speaker 3: all I'm saying.
Speaker 1: That's not like a like a okay on the next connor,
Speaker 1: let's go into a different one, okay, Okay.
Speaker 3: The next one was that you might you were maybe
Speaker 3: too into reading, because you know, because he's the thing.
Speaker 2: Like reading, you're actually too literate. He only likes semi literate.
Speaker 3: Like, like I said, I was just worried that you
Speaker 3: were gonna be like too introverted, you know, like sometimes
Speaker 3: when people read a lot, they don't.
Speaker 13: Oh, okay, social it's not that you don't want her
Speaker 13: to read it all it's.
Speaker 3: Just yeah, I love I love people who are literated.
Speaker 5: Okay, Okay, Connor will only have time for one more
Speaker 5: from your list, so pick a good one.
Speaker 8: I can't believe there's so many off.
Speaker 3: Okay. My last Connor was was that didn't come from
Speaker 3: a wealthy family.
Speaker 2: Hey, I didn't come from a wealthy family either. And
Speaker 2: it's also a con on my list.
Speaker 3: I'd always dreamed about, like marrying the family and spending
Speaker 3: like summers like lake house.
Speaker 5: Yeah, that sounds kind of nice.
Speaker 3: It's not like a deal breakers, just the thing that
Speaker 3: was on my list.
Speaker 5: And despite all of those cons against you, Hannah, he
Speaker 5: still chose to go out with.
Speaker 6: You over the other girl.
Speaker 1: I liked that he actually doesn't know her family, but
Speaker 1: he's just assuming that she's.
Speaker 3: We had talked about, how we talked about how we
Speaker 3: grew up.
Speaker 8: I can I get say something please, Connor. On first off,
Speaker 8: it doesn't seem like you come from a wealthy family
Speaker 8: that you have a.
Speaker 3: Lake house or does your family.
Speaker 2: Grade?
Speaker 8: And then the other thing, we don't have a lake house.
Speaker 8: We have a beach house in May.
Speaker 4: Wow.
Speaker 2: Actually that sounds like old money.
Speaker 5: Us to go swimming in Maine, though, okay, well with.
Speaker 8: My grandfather's and then this is like freaking apple.
Speaker 5: And look we're running out of time. Yeah, sure, we're
Speaker 5: running out of time here. We got to ask you, Hannah,
Speaker 5: and before we even ask, like clearly, that list shouldn't
Speaker 5: make that big of a deal because he chose you
Speaker 5: despite all of these things, and he.
Speaker 4: Never thought you were gonna see that.
Speaker 2: Last Yeah, he would love sounds pretty earnest.
Speaker 5: I would love to go out with you one more time,
Speaker 5: improve himself and we'll pay for that date.
Speaker 3: I really would.
Speaker 8: I mean, Connor super He's very nice and very sweet,
Speaker 8: but I have two words, and that's heale.
Speaker 5: Now, okay, do you have any like friends from a
Speaker 5: wealthy family that maybe maybe cousins, they'll.
Speaker 8: Take anybody freaking Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 5: Oh that might be my biggest regret of the entire
Speaker 5: year right there.
Speaker 2: Not getting him a date.
Speaker 5: Yeah, not getting her to say yes.
Speaker 2: Oh damn, she was.
Speaker 1: Going to say no even before she asked for the
Speaker 1: cons list. I think she just wanted to hear she
Speaker 1: was having fun.
Speaker 5: It's just I'm thinking, how cool would it have been
Speaker 5: to do a second eate update update with an adjusted
Speaker 5: pros and cons.
Speaker 13: List, and we couldn't heard hers that she makes about him.
Speaker 5: Actually, this is a great idea for a date night, Brooke,
Speaker 5: you and your husband should try this.
Speaker 1: This is the stuff that comes up later in arguments,
Speaker 1: like two years down the road. Yeah, you remember when
Speaker 1: you said that my family wasn't rich?
Speaker 9: Do you remember when you said that, Like Michael, how
Speaker 9: did neither of us have any program?
Speaker 12: I think.
Speaker 5: Right, And I'll do it on separate pieces of paper,
Speaker 5: scatter them all across the table, and then you take
Speaker 5: turns picking up one pro or one con and reading
Speaker 5: the family.
Speaker 2: We're going to a hot note.
Speaker 4: Con isn't willing to work with her family.
Speaker 5: Well, I think it could be romantic. You should give
Speaker 5: it a shot. You should also give us a shot.
Speaker 5: If you need some help getting a hold of that
Speaker 5: person who wasn't calling you back, we'll call him for you, Brooke.
Speaker 7: And Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 5: In the dating world, we tend to put a lot
Speaker 5: of importance on the first kiss.
Speaker 2: Yeah too, actually tells you a lot.
Speaker 5: It's kind of a big deal. It could tell you
Speaker 5: everything you need to know about your chemistry together, where
Speaker 5: things might be headed between you two confirms This is
Speaker 5: pretty good hint. Things are going well. It could be
Speaker 5: a great thing. But one of our listeners was a
Speaker 5: little surprised, to say the least, by what his date
Speaker 5: said to him right after they locked lips at the
Speaker 5: end of the night.
Speaker 6: Oh and spoiler.
Speaker 5: It wasn't wow. That was so amazing. I can't wait
Speaker 5: to see you again so that we could do that more.
Speaker 4: Wouldn't be on our show.
Speaker 2: Yeah, people say afterwards, her reaction was.
Speaker 5: A little different, and even though it's kind of embarrassing,
Speaker 5: he's gonna share exactly what she told him in your
Speaker 5: second date update.
Speaker 7: That's next second date update.
Speaker 5: We report on these all the time on our show,
Speaker 5: but I don't think anyone in this room has ever
Speaker 5: actually been to one, or at least not allowed inside
Speaker 5: due to the restraining orders. But I'm talking about pop
Speaker 5: up restaurants and bars.
Speaker 6: They have like a cool, unique theme and I.
Speaker 2: Were just talking about one this morning.
Speaker 4: Cool.
Speaker 2: Yeah, neither of us have been, like you said, but
Speaker 2: it looks awesome.
Speaker 5: Yeah, you didn't invite me for some reason to this
Speaker 5: thing you want to do.
Speaker 2: We want to have fun, Jeff.
Speaker 13: Okay, we do something else then without sh But one
Speaker 13: of our listeners says, he went to a pop up
Speaker 13: thing for a date, so let's talk to him about it.
Speaker 6: Nick.
Speaker 5: First of all, welcome to the show, and kudos on
Speaker 5: having no active restraining orders.
Speaker 12: Good for you, Hi, thanks for having me.
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Was it a pop up restaurant or bar?
Speaker 8: Classified more as a restaurant because.
Speaker 12: We were set down, we had some food, but if
Speaker 12: we had like really cool drinks?
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, because they're all like so instagram friendly,
Speaker 1: like you know, they want you to take cool pictures
Speaker 1: and share them.
Speaker 5: Yeah, maybe we should just like skip the date altogether
Speaker 5: and just talk about the bar only for the next
Speaker 5: six minutes.
Speaker 2: I mean, I mean I'm interested what the drinks look like?
Speaker 10: Yeah?
Speaker 5: There, but can we ask, like, what's this woman that
Speaker 5: you took there? What's her name?
Speaker 12: Yeah? Sure, so her name's Elizabeth.
Speaker 6: Okay, d up about Elizabeth. Now let's get back to
Speaker 6: the good stuff.
Speaker 1: So I want to know it was Elizabeth as excited
Speaker 1: as we were about this pop up thing?
Speaker 12: Yeah? No, we had a blast. Actually, I would I
Speaker 12: highly recommend anyone going to the one we went to.
Speaker 6: Okay, what did you go to?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 4: Which one was it?
Speaker 3: So?
Speaker 12: Uh? This one was like toy themes and like different
Speaker 12: toys from different generations and.
Speaker 2: Whoa, it's like your childhood. But you're kind of buzzed,
Speaker 2: you know. Do you play with the toys or they
Speaker 2: just like decoration?
Speaker 12: Well, I mean they had some some elements of plane.
Speaker 12: A lot of it was decorations. The menu was all
Speaker 12: like toys seemed as well. So they had like one
Speaker 12: of the fun things we got were martinis that are
Speaker 12: called etches, sketch martinis, which are shaken, not stirred.
Speaker 6: I love it, okay.
Speaker 12: The challenge at their tables to certain toys. So like
Speaker 12: there was a Rubik's Cube on our table and on
Speaker 12: the next, and so we challenged the table to see
Speaker 12: who could finish first. I could do it.
Speaker 2: Can you do it? Jeff? Can you do the rubis Cube?
Speaker 6: I try to look cool?
Speaker 4: So no, okay, I cute it all colored on purpose.
Speaker 5: How did the Rubik's Cube gaming go for you and Elizabeth?
Speaker 3: Oh?
Speaker 12: We got destroyed.
Speaker 4: Together?
Speaker 11: Yeah?
Speaker 4: There you go.
Speaker 12: Yeah, the bonding experience.
Speaker 5: I mean, I know we're talking a lot specifically about
Speaker 5: toys and stuff. Can you give us like the mood
Speaker 5: of the whole date, Like, how was the connection between
Speaker 5: you two?
Speaker 12: Honestly?
Speaker 3: I thought it was great.
Speaker 12: We were having lots of fun and we actually got
Speaker 12: to know each other really well, and I learned more
Speaker 12: about like her family because of like the toys that
Speaker 12: she played with, like her her sister and things like that,
Speaker 12: and uh so, you know, we got to actually get
Speaker 12: to a deeper level than usually think of on my
Speaker 12: first state.
Speaker 1: Was there anything like uncomfy or I mean maybe you
Speaker 1: got too deep?
Speaker 12: I mean I don't think so, nothing too much though
Speaker 12: apparently she like cut her sister's Barbara Dolf's hair off
Speaker 12: once without donor classic like okay.
Speaker 5: And then glued the hair to herself and was like
Speaker 5: I'm your Barbie now.
Speaker 2: I mean, that's every little sister ever though, you know
Speaker 2: that really?
Speaker 5: Did that not happen with Elizabeth and her sister?
Speaker 4: Oh no, no, I know, okay.
Speaker 5: Here, Yeah, maybe she is a cool, normal girl. Then
Speaker 5: that sounds fun.
Speaker 4: Sounds different than you and your sister.
Speaker 6: Yeah, this is.
Speaker 5: Why I did not want to tell you about my
Speaker 5: childhood anyway.
Speaker 6: So how did it end between you two?
Speaker 7: Yeah?
Speaker 12: I mean I think that also ended fairly well at
Speaker 12: first at least. But we were like walking back to
Speaker 12: your car, We've been there for a few hours and
Speaker 12: it's like, you know, it feels natural. I'm gonna go
Speaker 12: in for the kiss.
Speaker 1: Okay, oh yeah, yeah, I mean you guys are vibing.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and what happened?
Speaker 12: Yeah, and she kiss me back. Okay, it wasn't the
Speaker 12: most romantic first kiss, like when you used.
Speaker 4: To like kiss dolls back in the day and practice.
Speaker 6: You see, the.
Speaker 2: Iron did some weird stuff with dolls. I apologize, No
Speaker 2: weird the dolls kiss each other.
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, yeah, that's not weird.
Speaker 1: My dolls did all sorts of fun stuff, but I didn't.
Speaker 5: Nick is regretting calling into the show at this point.
Speaker 12: But I never never kissed any dolls growing up myself.
Speaker 6: Okay, was that you and I are the weird ones.
Speaker 5: So but you said the kiss wasn't quite what you
Speaker 5: were hoping for.
Speaker 12: Yeah, it wasn't like fireworks, I I guess. And then
Speaker 12: she was like, actually, I want to talk about something,
Speaker 12: and uh, She's like, I want to be transparent. I'm
Speaker 12: finally in this place where I feel really good about
Speaker 12: myself and I want to start like kind of dating
Speaker 12: multiple people right now. I want to like explore the
Speaker 12: dating world.
Speaker 6: She said that after you kissed her.
Speaker 3: Yeah, this is after we kiss.
Speaker 6: Oh b it's not good.
Speaker 4: People.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but you got you gotta think, like maybe she
Speaker 1: could just finally tell how into her he was and.
Speaker 2: She just wanted to be honest. Were you okay with that?
Speaker 2: Or are you not okay with that?
Speaker 3: Well?
Speaker 12: I mean I told her I was. I was like, yeah,
Speaker 12: I know me too.
Speaker 2: What I was going to say, Oh my.
Speaker 6: God, I have a date after this right now?
Speaker 12: Actually, and when we did text, we've been text or
Speaker 12: we're texting for a while afterwards and talking about hanging
Speaker 12: out again. But then I guess haven't heard from her
Speaker 12: for a while now, and I'm wondering if maybe she
Speaker 12: just she did find someone else she will to date
Speaker 12: all the time.
Speaker 2: Okay, so this is.
Speaker 1: More of like you want to find answers if she's
Speaker 1: even single still?
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, and definitely offer to redo the kiss over
Speaker 5: again better this next time?
Speaker 2: Can you rewind to kiss? Can you do that?
Speaker 5: I feel like that's what he should have done right there, Like,
Speaker 5: I promise you I could do better than Yeah, that
Speaker 5: may have been the move that you miss.
Speaker 2: You're saying if there was more fireworks, she wouldn't have
Speaker 2: said that.
Speaker 5: Maybe, But let's call her and see what she has
Speaker 5: to say, we're gonna come back. We'll ring Elizabeth for you.
Speaker 5: I can't believe I said ring Elizabeth.
Speaker 2: God, who's old anyway, the old British grandma.
Speaker 5: We're gonna do it with your second date update, next
Speaker 5: second date update, playing with Tonka trucks while drinking Etches
Speaker 5: Sketch Martinis and challenging the people next to you to
Speaker 5: a drunk Rubik's Cube off. Yes, it's not a playdate
Speaker 5: with Brooks children. That was a real date that one
Speaker 5: of our listeners, Nick went on, because he took a
Speaker 5: woman named Elizabeth to a pop up restaurant bar that
Speaker 5: had an old school toy theme to it. Yeah, and
Speaker 5: it actually went pretty well from what we heard till
Speaker 5: the very end when they had a short kiss and
Speaker 5: then immediately afterwards she told him, oh, by the way,
Speaker 5: I am going to be dating other people and you
Speaker 5: should know that upfront, which sounds bad, but that is
Speaker 5: what broke whispered to her husband after they said I
Speaker 5: do want.
Speaker 4: The there's hope for you.
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, we got you, Nick, don't worry.
Speaker 1: I mean is it is pretty brutal when you recap it,
Speaker 1: like she could have maybe waited for like the next
Speaker 1: date to say that, Yeah, a text message or something, or.
Speaker 5: Just ghost him like a normal person does.
Speaker 2: Yeah, the timing was brutal. You're right though, Maybe she
Speaker 2: was telling you because she still wanted to see you.
Speaker 2: She just her calendar is busy with other dates.
Speaker 12: Yeah, I mean maybe when you put it like that down,
Speaker 12: isn't it.
Speaker 2: There's as much hope as I could muster.
Speaker 6: Yeah, with Brooke, I're not going to get much.
Speaker 5: So that's why I'm going to lead the conversation at
Speaker 5: least at the star when we call her, and the
Speaker 5: rest of the rest of them can chime in.
Speaker 4: If it stays good, jeff will stay on. If it's bad,
Speaker 4: we'll just toss it.
Speaker 6: Yeah, there we go.
Speaker 12: All right, you're ready to do this, Nick, I guess,
Speaker 12: so let's do it.
Speaker 4: I was kidding, By the way, Nick, you're in good hands. Okay,
Speaker 4: I don't know.
Speaker 5: It's the worst all state commercial level.
Speaker 4: I know you're in good hands. I don't know, you kid.
Speaker 6: We call her right now.
Speaker 5: Hello, Hey, we're looking for Elizabeth.
Speaker 6: This is her speaking perfect Okay.
Speaker 5: This is Jeffrey speaking from a radio show called Brook
Speaker 5: and Jeffrey in the Morning.
Speaker 10: Oh, okay's like and Hi.
Speaker 5: So, yeah, it's okay if you're underwhelmed, but we're doing
Speaker 5: a segment on our show that we like to bring
Speaker 5: you in on. It's called a second Date update.
Speaker 2: Have you heard those before?
Speaker 8: No?
Speaker 10: I don't think I have. Sorry, this is really weird
Speaker 10: to me. Sorry.
Speaker 6: Yeah, right, that's all right.
Speaker 5: Yeah, we're trying to help out one of our listeners
Speaker 5: that you went out on a date with recently named Nick.
Speaker 5: You guys went to like a toy themed pop up
Speaker 5: restaurant bar thing.
Speaker 10: Yes, yeah, oh god.
Speaker 3: He reached out to you about that.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Yeah, he wanted to see you again, and it sounds
Speaker 1: like maybe you're not giving him a firm yes or no.
Speaker 5: On that, and we're just trying to help him figure
Speaker 5: stuff out, like wanting to know exactly what was your
Speaker 5: takeaway from the date?
Speaker 3: Yeah, so Nike.
Speaker 10: Okay, So Nick is a super nice guy and he's
Speaker 10: really sweet. I had a nice date with him, but
Speaker 10: I did tell him at the end of the date,
Speaker 10: I'm just not in a place emotionally right now where
Speaker 10: I want to date just one person. I want to
Speaker 10: date multiple people.
Speaker 2: Yeah, he tells us that.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't think he's like, I don't think he's
Speaker 1: trying to argue like you should only date him.
Speaker 2: I think he just wants to see you again.
Speaker 4: He wants to be one of those people.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 10: Yeah, so.
Speaker 5: It's a good thing. He supports the lifestyle that you
Speaker 5: want to live.
Speaker 4: It sounds like you're trying to say something, but you
Speaker 4: don't want to like say it.
Speaker 10: Yeah, this is a little awkward. I think it's so.
Speaker 10: I think I might have found somebody that's a better
Speaker 10: fit with me than Nick.
Speaker 2: But I thought you were dating multiple people.
Speaker 5: Yeah, you've only gone on one date with Nick. Why
Speaker 5: not just go on another one just to see how
Speaker 5: your connection is.
Speaker 10: I don't know. There's this one person that I've been
Speaker 10: on accompidation with and I feel like we're moving towards something,
Speaker 10: and I just I don't see there really being a
Speaker 10: possibility with Nick anymore, at least until I investigate this
Speaker 10: other things first.
Speaker 2: So there's nothing he can do to change your mind
Speaker 2: on that.
Speaker 10: I mean, here's the situation. I've been out on like
Speaker 10: seven or eight dates. I would I would say Nick,
Speaker 10: he's not in the top two. I mean, he's like
Speaker 10: maybe number three, But I want to stick with the
Speaker 10: top two right now, And he's a really great thing.
Speaker 12: I'm going to number's gonna find.
Speaker 2: Top three.
Speaker 5: Ye yeah, Elizabeth. I'm not sure if you heard, but
Speaker 5: Nick kind of jumped in there. Yeah, he's been on
Speaker 5: the other line listening to this conversation.
Speaker 2: Yeah, he's a little competitive.
Speaker 12: Well, I just think I think is a little low
Speaker 12: at all. I just I think, you know, it's ranking
Speaker 12: would at least be the top two. I would assume
Speaker 12: based on a day. It was pretty good day.
Speaker 10: The other guys, what is going on? Did you set
Speaker 10: this holding up on the radio?
Speaker 2: I mean, maybe that moves him up.
Speaker 5: Yeah, but the other two guys wouldn't have reached out
Speaker 5: to a radio show just to get a hold of you.
Speaker 12: He's got drive exactly.
Speaker 3: No, No, they're right, it is I just I don't
Speaker 3: I don't know what to say.
Speaker 10: I'm kind of weirded out by this whole thing.
Speaker 1: Honestly, look what.
Speaker 7: You did.
Speaker 10: This.
Speaker 1: You could think of it as a romantic right do
Speaker 1: you want somebody romantic?
Speaker 2: You want somebody who will go the extra mile for
Speaker 2: you, you know, and next your guy.
Speaker 1: And the thing is is, like, man, can you imagine
Speaker 1: being told right after you kiss somebody that, like, hey,
Speaker 1: by the way I'm going to see other people like
Speaker 1: that would be a big blow. And you know what,
Speaker 1: Nick has enough confidence to be like, you know what,
Speaker 1: that's okay.
Speaker 2: I'm cool with that.
Speaker 10: I would have told him earlier, but I just didn't
Speaker 10: know how to tell him or what to tell him.
Speaker 2: Maybe you should just like include it on your dating app.
Speaker 5: I mean, what do you want to do here, Bud?
Speaker 12: Do you want to Well, first, I just want to
Speaker 12: say that, like, I'm someone who pays attention. One of
Speaker 12: the things we talked about on our date was love languages, right,
Speaker 12: And I remember her saying that her love languages were
Speaker 12: words of affirmation and physical touch, right. And so I
Speaker 12: just want you to know I'm gone. You're so smart
Speaker 12: and so pretty and just an all around wonderful human being.
Speaker 12: And you know what I want you to do. I
Speaker 12: want you to imagine I'm hugging you yourself.
Speaker 5: Do you know the other two guys pretend to hug
Speaker 5: you through the phone, Elizabeth will giving you compliments?
Speaker 6: I don't think so.
Speaker 10: Ah, Well, I don't know if those guys are as
Speaker 10: weird as she is, but.
Speaker 5: You're right that I think the word you were going
Speaker 5: for was sweet.
Speaker 2: Yeah, weird can be good.
Speaker 9: Yeah, wouldn't make you feel better if maybe Jeff and
Speaker 9: I hugged for you.
Speaker 6: That's just Jose really desperate for like.
Speaker 4: A long time.
Speaker 2: Ye language, we just want to help.
Speaker 4: Come on, you guys should go out.
Speaker 2: Again one more time. See if he can move up
Speaker 2: to number two.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I bet, I bet Nick would be a really
Speaker 5: good boyfriend.
Speaker 2: She doesn't want that a really good guy to date?
Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, I don't think so.
Speaker 12: Sorry, if it's about like not knowing if I'm good enough,
Speaker 12: you talk about, you know, dating other people. I've dated
Speaker 12: other people. God, give you references with my ex.
Speaker 5: No, don't do references, bro, Actually I would like that.
Speaker 6: No, let's do that. Let's let's call them.
Speaker 5: Let's call some of Nick's x's on the line right
Speaker 5: now and have them sing nixed praises.
Speaker 12: I'm down.
Speaker 2: I don't think you want to know what your exes
Speaker 2: are really going to say about you?
Speaker 10: By Nick, you don't need to do that. You don't
Speaker 10: need to do anymore.
Speaker 12: I don't want to. I don't want to give up.
Speaker 12: I don't I don't like what is your like?
Speaker 3: Was it?
Speaker 12: How would I send you something? What's your address? Can
Speaker 12: an edible arrangement dress.
Speaker 2: Nobody wants edible fruit as a flower arranged.
Speaker 3: Right.
Speaker 12: Wait, look, I just need to know are you allergic
Speaker 12: to any fruit? You know? And it'll be a perfect arrangement.
Speaker 1: Oh boy, I think you're falling down the list sounding
Speaker 1: kind of desperate.
Speaker 5: Look at the effort that he's willing to go just
Speaker 5: to get one more date with you.
Speaker 7: Yes, all the.
Speaker 10: Fruits, Nick, I wish you the best. You're a really
Speaker 10: great guy. But like I said, I just need to
Speaker 10: focus on the other two right now. But good luck
Speaker 10: out there. You're going to make someone really happy.
Speaker 5: And often you hear that one.
Speaker 7: Broke and Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 5: Okay, so that second date didn't quite work out, but yeah,
Speaker 5: it should be proof to all the ladies listening out
Speaker 5: there that good guys do still exist. They're playing with
Speaker 5: hot wheels and nurse blasters and giving you hugs through
Speaker 5: the phone and sending big baskets of fruit to where
Speaker 5: you live.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it feels like he just couldn't get the hint.
Speaker 2: And she was pretty direct.
Speaker 10: You know, the nice guy's still finished last year, you know, dude.
Speaker 9: Even there's like she's like, I'm willing to have bult
Speaker 9: of boyfriends and you're still at the most.
Speaker 2: It proves what you think it proves.
Speaker 5: Jeffrey, I think the girls that's a good try. I
Speaker 5: think she's going to come back twelve, thirteen, fifteen years
Speaker 5: from now and be like I should have said yes
Speaker 5: to guy number three.
Speaker 2: I don't think she'll probably ever remember.
Speaker 4: Yeah, she'll be on her like fourth.
Speaker 12: Yeah.
Speaker 5: Okay, Well, if you want to have a phone call
Speaker 5: that you want to in, didn't we forget the show? Yeah,
Speaker 5: we'll call the person who wasn't calling you back