WEBVTT - Second Date Update Classics: 10 Pin Mixup + Pop Goes the Relationship

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, welcome to your Saturday Second Date episode, where we

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<v Speaker 1>put two classics back to back, extra long dose of

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<v Speaker 1>your second Date update. It's in the morning, and just

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<v Speaker 1>a heads up, Monday starts our spooky week.

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<v Speaker 2>We are so into.

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<v Speaker 1>Halloween on this Yeah, and next week we definitely have

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<v Speaker 1>some Halloween themed second dates. We've got a Halloween issue

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<v Speaker 1>on our awkward Tuesday phone call.

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<v Speaker 2>So it's bad dating stories.

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<v Speaker 1>Definitely, definitely don't go anywhere. It's gonna get you in

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<v Speaker 1>the mood and the spirit and I love it. What

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<v Speaker 1>do you see on the textboard before we start these classics?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Amanda said, I gave up on commentsing in hopes

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<v Speaker 1>of Alexis reading my comment, but either way, I still

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<v Speaker 1>love you guys and.

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<v Speaker 2>Jose You're always put the smile on my face.

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<v Speaker 1>My only fans your laugh.

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<v Speaker 3>Laugh.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh okay, I was gonna say, hit me up.

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<v Speaker 2>You have an only fans.

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<v Speaker 4>You gotta join the stream find out.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Now, I don't know if I want to read

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<v Speaker 1>your comment.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, there it is.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Hey, let's get these classics started for you right now.

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<v Speaker 5>When it comes to love, sometimes the question is how

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<v Speaker 5>far are you willing to go? How much are you

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<v Speaker 5>willing to publicly embarrass yourself in order to get that

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<v Speaker 5>special someone to go out with you?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh wow, I mean hope.

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<v Speaker 5>Far that's the hope for it. We definitely push the

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<v Speaker 5>limits of that during this call, because the guy on

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<v Speaker 5>the phone was told, if you want any chance of

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<v Speaker 5>going out with me, then you'll have to do something

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<v Speaker 5>pretty cringe. And she wouldn't wait, she made him do

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<v Speaker 5>it live on the air.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my gosh, he kind of piled on.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, yeah, sure, question is it was that enough? You're

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<v Speaker 5>gonna hear what he had to do in your second

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<v Speaker 5>date update.

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<v Speaker 6>It's coming up next.

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<v Speaker 7>Second date update.

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<v Speaker 5>As guys, we all have to deal with the same issue.

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<v Speaker 5>Too many hot women wanting to date us and not

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<v Speaker 5>enough time to date them all. Yeah, that must be hard.

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<v Speaker 8>It is.

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<v Speaker 5>We want to take you out, but it's not our fault.

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<v Speaker 5>Time is the enemy here, broke, You should feel lucky

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<v Speaker 5>that you're not a man and you don't have to

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<v Speaker 5>deal with stress like this.

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<v Speaker 2>My simple little mind can only maybe comprehend.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, it's good that at least knowledgeable enough to recognize that,

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<v Speaker 5>and like what you just said. The thing is, that's

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<v Speaker 5>what happened to one of our listeners, Connor recently, Connor,

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<v Speaker 5>you feel me bro. Too many eager ladies only want

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<v Speaker 5>of you to go around?

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<v Speaker 6>Am I right?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>Start, I want to have people like you, Connor.

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<v Speaker 5>I like you already. Let's hear about your situation. But

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<v Speaker 5>you had more than one woman wanting to go out

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<v Speaker 5>with you?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I did. I did so. Initially I met this

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<v Speaker 3>girl Hannah. We connected online and was one of those

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<v Speaker 3>instant like click and connects, you know. Yeah, we started talking.

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<v Speaker 3>We had a great time, and so I asked her out.

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<v Speaker 3>But then she went like radio silence was gone.

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<v Speaker 9>Oh wait, wait wait wait did she say yes to

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<v Speaker 9>a date and then silent or after you.

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<v Speaker 3>Asked, like right after I asked, was gone?

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<v Speaker 2>She had bought then she was hoping for a credit card.

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<v Speaker 3>But she doesn't come back, So don't count her out yet.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh okay, okay, we're gonna circle back to Hannah in

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<v Speaker 1>a minute.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay.

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<v Speaker 3>So you know, I gave her a couple of days,

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<v Speaker 3>didn't hear anything frommers, and then I was like, all right,

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<v Speaker 3>it's time to be gone. Asked out the second girl anybody,

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<v Speaker 3>and you know, I was like less excited about her,

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<v Speaker 3>but she was fun, and I was like, I'm not

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<v Speaker 3>going to hear anything from a Hannah.

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<v Speaker 2>Hannah, you can't even remember her name.

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<v Speaker 5>So distant memory.

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<v Speaker 4>Now she's sling on you. She doesn't deserve the age.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, now okay, So then you asked Amy.

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<v Speaker 3>Out and so she said yes, And then of course

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<v Speaker 3>the second she said yes, oh no, it comes back.

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<v Speaker 9>Oh it's always like that, that's right.

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<v Speaker 3>She's like, I'm so sorry. I didn't have any signal.

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<v Speaker 3>I'd love to go out with you. What do you

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<v Speaker 3>do on Friday night? And I was like, well, in

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<v Speaker 3>my head I didn't tell her this, but I'm like, well,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm going out with Amy for yeah. Yeah. So I

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<v Speaker 3>ended up making like a pros and cons list to

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<v Speaker 3>see which one of my chagros Friday night.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, you're gonna dump one. That's good.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought we were going to maybe try to balance

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<v Speaker 1>the two and yeah night. So I think already you're

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<v Speaker 1>making good choices.

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<v Speaker 5>We have had other guys try and do this, going

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<v Speaker 5>back to back between tables.

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<v Speaker 4>This is what Jeff was trying to say. Us guys,

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<v Speaker 4>we're good dudes.

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<v Speaker 5>So you made a pros and consoless for each one,

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<v Speaker 5>pros and.

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<v Speaker 3>Consless for each one. Yeah, you can't make a pros

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<v Speaker 3>and consolics for one, you gotta do the whole. Sure.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, So who got the most pros?

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<v Speaker 3>So Hannah did?

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, okay, Hannah one original?

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<v Speaker 1>What is du like just even the way you've been

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<v Speaker 1>talking about it?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, So did you end up actually meeting up with Hannah?

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<v Speaker 4>Finally?

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<v Speaker 3>So we we ended up going bowling and we had

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<v Speaker 3>a good time. We would cheer each other on and

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<v Speaker 3>we made up like little chokey tears for each other

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<v Speaker 3>as we went.

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<v Speaker 2>So super flirty.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, when we one of us make a good shot,

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<v Speaker 3>we'd like dap bowling balls.

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<v Speaker 8>Wow.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, Okay, that's funny though, because it's corny to us.

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<v Speaker 4>But if as long as you two were having.

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<v Speaker 1>Fun, yeah yeah, the same wavelength.

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<v Speaker 3>Don't get me wrong, it was corey to us too,

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<v Speaker 3>Like we're not amaled to the fact that it was very,

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<v Speaker 3>very corny.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah right, okay, having a great time exactly.

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<v Speaker 3>But somewhere in the night, her mood changed all of

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<v Speaker 3>a sudden. You know, I was like, what's wrong, and

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<v Speaker 3>then she's like nothing, I just I think they cleaned

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<v Speaker 3>these shoes wrong or something, because my feet are all itchy.

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<v Speaker 2>All of a sudden, you didn't clean him?

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<v Speaker 3>That was I hope not. I feel like mine we're clean,

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<v Speaker 3>So I'm hoping they cleaned him. But I don't know

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<v Speaker 3>she was really weird about.

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<v Speaker 5>It or that couldn't have been like a line, because

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<v Speaker 5>sometimes women are like, oh, I need to get out

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<v Speaker 5>of this itchy sweater, Like yeah, is that not.

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<v Speaker 7>In the middle case?

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<v Speaker 10>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>Maybe not.

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<v Speaker 2>You can't think of it, Like what else could have

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<v Speaker 2>changed her mood? Like did you do something? Say something?

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<v Speaker 3>I don't think so okay, thrown like what's get you shoes?

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<v Speaker 3>Maybe they did clean him wrong? And she's like I

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<v Speaker 3>just gotta go. Oh. She you know, started packing up

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<v Speaker 3>to leave, but I stuck around because we'd only been

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<v Speaker 3>going about forty minutes at that point, and I paid

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<v Speaker 3>for a full hour the hour.

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<v Speaker 5>You didn't walk her out and leave with her?

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<v Speaker 3>No, like a one time. I was like with you.

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<v Speaker 3>She's like no, but like if you want to, that's cool,

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<v Speaker 3>but like no, that means yes.

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<v Speaker 4>That means yes, yes, yes, yes, The girl says, if

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<v Speaker 4>you want to maybe.

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<v Speaker 2>Walk her outside at least wait for the uber.

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<v Speaker 3>Safe. Yeah, I think she was safe.

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<v Speaker 2>You think it's not even about the safety thing. It's

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<v Speaker 2>just about like that's how.

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<v Speaker 6>A gentleman.

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<v Speaker 5>Trust me, dude, I'm a Jew. I understand trying to

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<v Speaker 5>get the full value for the hour that you paid for.

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<v Speaker 5>But even I know you gotta walk out with her.

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<v Speaker 2>Did you text her anything?

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<v Speaker 3>I did? You know? I texted her a little later

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<v Speaker 3>to see if she got home safe, and I haven't

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<v Speaker 3>heard anything back from her, and like, maybe I really

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<v Speaker 3>messed up on not going outside.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, well, that definitely went onto your CON's list that

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<v Speaker 5>she made for you. We should ask what else is

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<v Speaker 5>on and when we come back, we'll call Hannah and

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<v Speaker 5>try and get you a second date.

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<v Speaker 6>Update right after this. Okay, I got thanks, all right,

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<v Speaker 6>hold on.

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<v Speaker 7>Second date update.

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<v Speaker 5>Quick recap of the events of Connor's date night with Hannah. Okay,

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<v Speaker 5>there was bowling, laughter, inside jokes, It's fun. Hannah's itchy

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<v Speaker 5>feet shoe problem question mark. Yeah, she leaves Connor stays

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<v Speaker 5>to get his money's worth.

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<v Speaker 6>No communication since.

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<v Speaker 5>Connor. Did I miss anything from that lightning fast recap?

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<v Speaker 3>No? I think you got it all all right?

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<v Speaker 2>Really good?

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<v Speaker 1>Now have you heard from Amy the other girl that

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just wondering if you have a backup if this

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't work out.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, we probably shouldn't mention to Hannah that we do

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<v Speaker 5>have a backup girl in case she says.

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<v Speaker 2>No, no, no, I wasn't gonna say anything.

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<v Speaker 1>I just didn't know how much pressure we had on ourselves.

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<v Speaker 1>You're making this successful with Hannah.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, and I'm sure there's like seven or eight backups

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<v Speaker 5>in reality that Connor isn't telling us about. He's a

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<v Speaker 5>man in demand. I see, But none of that will

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<v Speaker 5>come up when we call Hannah right now?

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<v Speaker 1>You ready to do this man talk about her possible

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<v Speaker 1>foot fungus issue.

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<v Speaker 6>We should ask to make sure.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, Connor, you ready, I'm ready?

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<v Speaker 3>Thank you?

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<v Speaker 11>All right, us two, Here we go. Good luck to everyone.

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<v Speaker 10>Hello.

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<v Speaker 5>Hey is this Hannah?

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<v Speaker 7>Uh?

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<v Speaker 3>This is she? Who is this?

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<v Speaker 5>And my name is jeff I'm a radio host on

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<v Speaker 5>a show called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 2>Hey Hannah, we're all here.

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<v Speaker 12>Hey show, I know you guys.

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah, what's going on?

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<v Speaker 12>Is this?

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<v Speaker 8>Are you guys pranking me or something?

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<v Speaker 2>Is it weird?

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<v Speaker 1>So many people ask that, yeah, yeah, we continue to

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<v Speaker 1>pray make the joke.

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<v Speaker 4>So here's the scenario.

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<v Speaker 6>No, we're doing Wait.

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<v Speaker 8>Am I really on the radio.

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<v Speaker 1>It was so fun.

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<v Speaker 2>It's already fun.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm glad you have this positive energy because we do

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<v Speaker 5>want to ask you about I guess a little bit

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<v Speaker 5>of an unfortunate date that we heard you went on

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<v Speaker 5>recently with a guy named Connor. Oh god, yeah, really,

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<v Speaker 5>it's too bad that your mood changed as soon as

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<v Speaker 5>we brought up Connor in the date. You were really

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<v Speaker 5>into it when you thought this was a prank.

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<v Speaker 1>But like when people would rather get pranks called than

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<v Speaker 1>he I know, a good sign.

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<v Speaker 5>We did hear a little bit about what happened that

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<v Speaker 5>night though from Connor.

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<v Speaker 3>What did he tell?

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<v Speaker 6>We told us all.

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<v Speaker 5>I just wanted to say, first of all, we're really sorry.

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<v Speaker 5>That's disgusting that your feet were really itchy from the

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<v Speaker 5>shoes and you had to leave. I hope you told

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<v Speaker 5>management about it, because everyone here agrees that's a gross.

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<v Speaker 6>Thing to have to deal with on a date night.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it was that an excuse or is that real?

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 8>I didn't say anything to manage him because there was

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<v Speaker 8>nothing wrong with my feet.

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<v Speaker 2>You lie, Oh, men are so shocked.

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<v Speaker 4>Women don't lie.

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<v Speaker 5>That is a strange lie to come up with. Honestly, Hannah,

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<v Speaker 5>I saw it.

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<v Speaker 8>It was creative for the moment because I didn't have

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<v Speaker 8>anything planned, Like I didn't tell any of my girlfriends

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<v Speaker 8>to call me in the middle of it, say there's

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<v Speaker 8>an emergency or anything like that. So I really had

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<v Speaker 8>to kind of thing quick on my feet.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh look at that feet again.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, okay, Well there was something else that happened.

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<v Speaker 8>Then, Oh my gosh, this is really weird. I mean, basically,

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<v Speaker 8>we're bowling, We're having a really fun time, and then

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<v Speaker 8>he got up to the bowl and a piece of

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<v Speaker 8>paper falls out of his pocket. He doesn't notice. I

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<v Speaker 8>pick it up and it's some list. It's like a

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<v Speaker 8>pros and conflict.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh he brought it on the table.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, he actually wrote it down like I

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<v Speaker 1>would feel like you do it.

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<v Speaker 2>In chap or something.

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<v Speaker 8>Wait a second, how do you guys know about the list?

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, we don't honestly know a whole lot about it.

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<v Speaker 5>We heard of it, we heard that there is a

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<v Speaker 5>pros and consolest that was made.

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<v Speaker 1>But about me, well, you know, it is hard, and

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<v Speaker 1>he had decision to make on who we wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>spend his time with.

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<v Speaker 4>And you have a lot of pros you.

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<v Speaker 1>Know he's like a methodical person, and like methodical people

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<v Speaker 1>do that type of thing.

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<v Speaker 6>You know.

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<v Speaker 5>Can we ask why you were offended by it?

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<v Speaker 2>Con No, one.

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<v Speaker 4>Wants to read your own call, even if you know

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<v Speaker 4>what it is.

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<v Speaker 1>And it's like you can have ten compliments and one

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<v Speaker 1>negative and you're going to remember the negative.

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<v Speaker 4>Please tell me the con was like way too pretty,

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<v Speaker 4>way too.

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<v Speaker 3>Right.

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<v Speaker 8>The cons were like forced smile and not attractive as

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<v Speaker 8>the other girl I'm talking to.

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<v Speaker 9>He spelled it out.

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<v Speaker 3>And I'm so sorry.

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<v Speaker 8>No no, no, no, oh.

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<v Speaker 5>God, okay, ye Hannah, you know that that's Connor.

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<v Speaker 11>On the other line.

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<v Speaker 6>He's been listening to this.

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<v Speaker 2>It's just haunted him really badly.

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<v Speaker 5>Right now, Conor Connor, did you not notice that a

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<v Speaker 5>list was sing from your pocket when it fell out?

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<v Speaker 7>I didn't.

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<v Speaker 3>I didn't even know it was in my pocket. I honestly, Uh,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm grew embarrassed because I didn't mean for you to

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<v Speaker 3>see that.

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<v Speaker 8>Ye should have it in the first place, Like, what

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<v Speaker 8>that out?

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<v Speaker 6>Weird?

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<v Speaker 3>Hang on it. But here's the thing that that was

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<v Speaker 3>about you?

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<v Speaker 2>What what?

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<v Speaker 3>No? No, no, So I had started talking. I started

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<v Speaker 3>talking to this other girl because it took so long

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<v Speaker 3>for you to get back to me. You remember how

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<v Speaker 3>there was like that long like gap between when I

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<v Speaker 3>asked you out and you finally said ye, traveling. I

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<v Speaker 3>think I told you that. I knew that now, but

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<v Speaker 3>I thought you were just ghosted me at the end.

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<v Speaker 3>So like I made this list to decide which one

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<v Speaker 3>of the two viele go out with, and you actually

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<v Speaker 3>you won. That was that's the that's the compless for her.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh, this was about the other girls, about Hannah.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, you're the cue one, not.

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<v Speaker 2>Her, Hannah. He did tell us about the other girl.

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<v Speaker 2>Her name was Amy. He told us all about her.

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<v Speaker 2>He's not.

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<v Speaker 7>Honest, It's true.

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<v Speaker 5>He mentioned that there was there was another woman and

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<v Speaker 5>he was bummed out that he had to move on

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<v Speaker 5>from you.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, like you have a super your way for track

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<v Speaker 3>is super normal.

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<v Speaker 4>Smile.

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<v Speaker 2>I hope Amy is listening.

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<v Speaker 8>Okay, then I'll tell you what. If you want me

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<v Speaker 8>to go on a date with you, you have to

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<v Speaker 8>read me the pros and conflict you made about me.

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<v Speaker 5>God, Jonnnor, if you're really into her, you might have

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<v Speaker 5>to do this, Bud, and be honest, don't make up

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<v Speaker 5>a bunch of nice things on the spot.

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<v Speaker 2>You have a bunch of nice things.

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<v Speaker 3>Let me find somewhere.

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<v Speaker 1>Why are people always asking questions that they don't really

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<v Speaker 1>want the answer to.

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<v Speaker 5>It's well, she won in the competition between the two

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<v Speaker 5>of them. Theoretically, these are nice.

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<v Speaker 8>I want to know for sure that that list that

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<v Speaker 8>I read wasn't the list about me.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, this is the proof that that one was about

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<v Speaker 1>amy and this one's about.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay. So the first one that you could possibly have

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<v Speaker 3>emotional baggage, you know, she told me you had been

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<v Speaker 3>like engaged.

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<v Speaker 5>Before, and that was in the cons I'm guessing.

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<v Speaker 3>Like stepping away from engagement can wait on people. That's

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<v Speaker 3>all I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 1>That's not like a like a okay on the next connor,

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<v Speaker 1>let's go into a different one, okay, Okay.

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<v Speaker 3>The next one was that you might you were maybe

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<v Speaker 3>too into reading, because you know, because he's the thing.

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<v Speaker 2>Like reading, you're actually too literate. He only likes semi literate.

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<v Speaker 3>Like, like I said, I was just worried that you

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<v Speaker 3>were gonna be like too introverted, you know, like sometimes

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<v Speaker 3>when people read a lot, they don't.

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<v Speaker 13>Oh, okay, social it's not that you don't want her

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<v Speaker 13>to read it all it's.

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<v Speaker 3>Just yeah, I love I love people who are literated.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, Okay, Connor will only have time for one more

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<v Speaker 5>from your list, so pick a good one.

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<v Speaker 8>I can't believe there's so many off.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay. My last Connor was was that didn't come from

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<v Speaker 3>a wealthy family.

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<v Speaker 2>Hey, I didn't come from a wealthy family either. And

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<v Speaker 2>it's also a con on my list.

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<v Speaker 3>I'd always dreamed about, like marrying the family and spending

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<v Speaker 3>like summers like lake house.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, that sounds kind of nice.

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<v Speaker 3>It's not like a deal breakers, just the thing that

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<v Speaker 3>was on my list.

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<v Speaker 5>And despite all of those cons against you, Hannah, he

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<v Speaker 5>still chose to go out with.

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<v Speaker 6>You over the other girl.

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<v Speaker 1>I liked that he actually doesn't know her family, but

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<v Speaker 1>he's just assuming that she's.

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<v Speaker 3>We had talked about, how we talked about how we

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<v Speaker 3>grew up.

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<v Speaker 8>I can I get say something please, Connor. On first off,

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<v Speaker 8>it doesn't seem like you come from a wealthy family

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<v Speaker 8>that you have a.

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<v Speaker 3>Lake house or does your family.

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<v Speaker 2>Grade?

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<v Speaker 8>And then the other thing, we don't have a lake house.

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<v Speaker 8>We have a beach house in May.

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<v Speaker 4>Wow.

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<v Speaker 2>Actually that sounds like old money.

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<v Speaker 5>Us to go swimming in Maine, though, okay, well with.

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<v Speaker 8>My grandfather's and then this is like freaking apple.

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<v Speaker 5>And look we're running out of time. Yeah, sure, we're

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<v Speaker 5>running out of time here. We got to ask you, Hannah,

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<v Speaker 5>and before we even ask, like clearly, that list shouldn't

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<v Speaker 5>make that big of a deal because he chose you

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<v Speaker 5>despite all of these things, and he.

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<v Speaker 4>Never thought you were gonna see that.

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<v Speaker 2>Last Yeah, he would love sounds pretty earnest.

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<v Speaker 5>I would love to go out with you one more time,

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<v Speaker 5>improve himself and we'll pay for that date.

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<v Speaker 3>I really would.

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<v Speaker 8>I mean, Connor super He's very nice and very sweet,

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<v Speaker 8>but I have two words, and that's heale.

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<v Speaker 5>Now, okay, do you have any like friends from a

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<v Speaker 5>wealthy family that maybe maybe cousins, they'll.

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<v Speaker 8>Take anybody freaking Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh that might be my biggest regret of the entire

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<v Speaker 5>year right there.

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<v Speaker 2>Not getting him a date.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, not getting her to say yes.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh damn, she was.

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<v Speaker 1>Going to say no even before she asked for the

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<v Speaker 1>cons list. I think she just wanted to hear she

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<v Speaker 1>was having fun.

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<v Speaker 5>It's just I'm thinking, how cool would it have been

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<v Speaker 5>to do a second eate update update with an adjusted

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<v Speaker 5>pros and cons.

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<v Speaker 13>List, and we couldn't heard hers that she makes about him.

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<v Speaker 5>Actually, this is a great idea for a date night, Brooke,

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<v Speaker 5>you and your husband should try this.

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<v Speaker 1>This is the stuff that comes up later in arguments,

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<v Speaker 1>like two years down the road. Yeah, you remember when

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<v Speaker 1>you said that my family wasn't rich?

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<v Speaker 9>Do you remember when you said that, Like Michael, how

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<v Speaker 9>did neither of us have any program?

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<v Speaker 12>I think.

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<v Speaker 5>Right, And I'll do it on separate pieces of paper,

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<v Speaker 5>scatter them all across the table, and then you take

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<v Speaker 5>turns picking up one pro or one con and reading

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<v Speaker 5>the family.

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<v Speaker 2>We're going to a hot note.

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<v Speaker 4>Con isn't willing to work with her family.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, I think it could be romantic. You should give

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<v Speaker 5>it a shot. You should also give us a shot.

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<v Speaker 5>If you need some help getting a hold of that

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<v Speaker 5>person who wasn't calling you back, we'll call him for you, Brooke.

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<v Speaker 7>And Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 5>In the dating world, we tend to put a lot

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<v Speaker 5>of importance on the first kiss.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah too, actually tells you a lot.

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<v Speaker 5>It's kind of a big deal. It could tell you

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<v Speaker 5>everything you need to know about your chemistry together, where

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<v Speaker 5>things might be headed between you two confirms This is

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<v Speaker 5>pretty good hint. Things are going well. It could be

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<v Speaker 5>a great thing. But one of our listeners was a

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<v Speaker 5>little surprised, to say the least, by what his date

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<v Speaker 5>said to him right after they locked lips at the

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<v Speaker 5>end of the night.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh and spoiler.

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<v Speaker 5>It wasn't wow. That was so amazing. I can't wait

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<v Speaker 5>to see you again so that we could do that more.

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<v Speaker 4>Wouldn't be on our show.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, people say afterwards, her reaction was.

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<v Speaker 5>A little different, and even though it's kind of embarrassing,

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<v Speaker 5>he's gonna share exactly what she told him in your

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<v Speaker 5>second date update.

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<v Speaker 7>That's next second date update.

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<v Speaker 5>We report on these all the time on our show,

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<v Speaker 5>but I don't think anyone in this room has ever

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<v Speaker 5>actually been to one, or at least not allowed inside

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<v Speaker 5>due to the restraining orders. But I'm talking about pop

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<v Speaker 5>up restaurants and bars.

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<v Speaker 6>They have like a cool, unique theme and I.

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<v Speaker 2>Were just talking about one this morning.

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<v Speaker 4>Cool.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, neither of us have been, like you said, but

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<v Speaker 2>it looks awesome.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, you didn't invite me for some reason to this

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<v Speaker 5>thing you want to do.

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<v Speaker 2>We want to have fun, Jeff.

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<v Speaker 13>Okay, we do something else then without sh But one

0:20:45.080 --> 0:20:47.520
<v Speaker 13>of our listeners says, he went to a pop up

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<v Speaker 13>thing for a date, so let's talk to him about it.

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<v Speaker 6>Nick.

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<v Speaker 5>First of all, welcome to the show, and kudos on

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<v Speaker 5>having no active restraining orders.

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<v Speaker 12>Good for you, Hi, thanks for having me.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Was it a pop up restaurant or bar?

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<v Speaker 8>Classified more as a restaurant because.

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<v Speaker 12>We were set down, we had some food, but if

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<v Speaker 12>we had like really cool drinks?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I mean, because they're all like so instagram friendly,

0:21:08.560 --> 0:21:10.800
<v Speaker 1>like you know, they want you to take cool pictures

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<v Speaker 1>and share them.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, maybe we should just like skip the date altogether

0:21:14.640 --> 0:21:16.840
<v Speaker 5>and just talk about the bar only for the next

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<v Speaker 5>six minutes.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, I mean I'm interested what the drinks look like?

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<v Speaker 10>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 5>There, but can we ask, like, what's this woman that

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<v Speaker 5>you took there? What's her name?

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<v Speaker 12>Yeah? Sure, so her name's Elizabeth.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, d up about Elizabeth. Now let's get back to

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<v Speaker 6>the good stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>So I want to know it was Elizabeth as excited

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<v Speaker 1>as we were about this pop up thing?

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<v Speaker 12>Yeah? No, we had a blast. Actually, I would I

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<v Speaker 12>highly recommend anyone going to the one we went to.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, what did you go to?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 4>Which one was it?

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<v Speaker 3>So?

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<v Speaker 12>Uh? This one was like toy themes and like different

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<v Speaker 12>toys from different generations and.

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<v Speaker 2>Whoa, it's like your childhood. But you're kind of buzzed,

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<v Speaker 2>you know. Do you play with the toys or they

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<v Speaker 2>just like decoration?

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<v Speaker 12>Well, I mean they had some some elements of plane.

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<v Speaker 12>A lot of it was decorations. The menu was all

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<v Speaker 12>like toys seemed as well. So they had like one

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<v Speaker 12>of the fun things we got were martinis that are

0:22:07.760 --> 0:22:10.679
<v Speaker 12>called etches, sketch martinis, which are shaken, not stirred.

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<v Speaker 6>I love it, okay.

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<v Speaker 12>The challenge at their tables to certain toys. So like

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<v Speaker 12>there was a Rubik's Cube on our table and on

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<v Speaker 12>the next, and so we challenged the table to see

0:22:24.320 --> 0:22:29.119
<v Speaker 12>who could finish first. I could do it.

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<v Speaker 2>Can you do it? Jeff? Can you do the rubis Cube?

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<v Speaker 6>I try to look cool?

0:22:33.359 --> 0:22:36.840
<v Speaker 4>So no, okay, I cute it all colored on purpose.

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<v Speaker 5>How did the Rubik's Cube gaming go for you and Elizabeth?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh?

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<v Speaker 12>We got destroyed.

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<v Speaker 4>Together?

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<v Speaker 11>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 4>There you go.

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<v Speaker 12>Yeah, the bonding experience.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, I know we're talking a lot specifically about

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<v Speaker 5>toys and stuff. Can you give us like the mood

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<v Speaker 5>of the whole date, Like, how was the connection between

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<v Speaker 5>you two?

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<v Speaker 12>Honestly?

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<v Speaker 3>I thought it was great.

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<v Speaker 12>We were having lots of fun and we actually got

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<v Speaker 12>to know each other really well, and I learned more

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<v Speaker 12>about like her family because of like the toys that

0:23:08.359 --> 0:23:11.600
<v Speaker 12>she played with, like her her sister and things like that,

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<v Speaker 12>and uh so, you know, we got to actually get

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<v Speaker 12>to a deeper level than usually think of on my

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<v Speaker 12>first state.

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<v Speaker 1>Was there anything like uncomfy or I mean maybe you

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<v Speaker 1>got too deep?

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<v Speaker 12>I mean I don't think so, nothing too much though

0:23:25.440 --> 0:23:28.880
<v Speaker 12>apparently she like cut her sister's Barbara Dolf's hair off

0:23:29.040 --> 0:23:33.639
<v Speaker 12>once without donor classic like okay.

0:23:33.280 --> 0:23:35.520
<v Speaker 5>And then glued the hair to herself and was like

0:23:35.600 --> 0:23:37.719
<v Speaker 5>I'm your Barbie now.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, that's every little sister ever though, you know

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<v Speaker 2>that really?

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<v Speaker 5>Did that not happen with Elizabeth and her sister?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh no, no, I know, okay.

0:23:48.160 --> 0:23:50.719
<v Speaker 5>Here, Yeah, maybe she is a cool, normal girl. Then

0:23:50.760 --> 0:23:52.040
<v Speaker 5>that sounds fun.

0:23:52.040 --> 0:23:53.440
<v Speaker 4>Sounds different than you and your sister.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, this is.

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<v Speaker 5>Why I did not want to tell you about my

0:23:56.000 --> 0:23:57.400
<v Speaker 5>childhood anyway.

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<v Speaker 6>So how did it end between you two?

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 12>I mean I think that also ended fairly well at

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<v Speaker 12>first at least. But we were like walking back to

0:24:06.280 --> 0:24:08.560
<v Speaker 12>your car, We've been there for a few hours and

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<v Speaker 12>it's like, you know, it feels natural. I'm gonna go

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<v Speaker 12>in for the kiss.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, oh yeah, yeah, I mean you guys are vibing.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and what happened?

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<v Speaker 12>Yeah, and she kiss me back. Okay, it wasn't the

0:24:21.600 --> 0:24:24.320
<v Speaker 12>most romantic first kiss, like when you used.

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<v Speaker 4>To like kiss dolls back in the day and practice.

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<v Speaker 6>You see, the.

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<v Speaker 2>Iron did some weird stuff with dolls. I apologize, No

0:24:33.480 --> 0:24:35.679
<v Speaker 2>weird the dolls kiss each other.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, yeah, yeah, that's not weird.

0:24:38.040 --> 0:24:40.880
<v Speaker 1>My dolls did all sorts of fun stuff, but I didn't.

0:24:44.440 --> 0:24:48.280
<v Speaker 5>Nick is regretting calling into the show at this point.

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<v Speaker 12>But I never never kissed any dolls growing up myself.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, was that you and I are the weird ones.

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<v Speaker 5>So but you said the kiss wasn't quite what you

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<v Speaker 5>were hoping for.

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<v Speaker 12>Yeah, it wasn't like fireworks, I I guess. And then

0:25:02.040 --> 0:25:04.840
<v Speaker 12>she was like, actually, I want to talk about something,

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<v Speaker 12>and uh, She's like, I want to be transparent. I'm

0:25:08.760 --> 0:25:12.040
<v Speaker 12>finally in this place where I feel really good about

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<v Speaker 12>myself and I want to start like kind of dating

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<v Speaker 12>multiple people right now. I want to like explore the

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<v Speaker 12>dating world.

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<v Speaker 6>She said that after you kissed her.

0:25:20.680 --> 0:25:21.880
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, this is after we kiss.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh b it's not good.

0:25:25.840 --> 0:25:26.159
<v Speaker 4>People.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but you got you gotta think, like maybe she

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<v Speaker 1>could just finally tell how into her he was and.

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<v Speaker 2>She just wanted to be honest. Were you okay with that?

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<v Speaker 2>Or are you not okay with that?

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<v Speaker 3>Well?

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<v Speaker 12>I mean I told her I was. I was like, yeah,

0:25:39.440 --> 0:25:42.200
<v Speaker 12>I know me too.

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<v Speaker 2>What I was going to say, Oh my.

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<v Speaker 6>God, I have a date after this right now?

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<v Speaker 12>Actually, and when we did text, we've been text or

0:25:50.440 --> 0:25:53.640
<v Speaker 12>we're texting for a while afterwards and talking about hanging

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<v Speaker 12>out again. But then I guess haven't heard from her

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<v Speaker 12>for a while now, and I'm wondering if maybe she

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<v Speaker 12>just she did find someone else she will to date

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<v Speaker 12>all the time.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, so this is.

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<v Speaker 1>More of like you want to find answers if she's

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<v Speaker 1>even single still?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, yeah, and definitely offer to redo the kiss over

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<v Speaker 5>again better this next time?

0:26:13.920 --> 0:26:15.639
<v Speaker 2>Can you rewind to kiss? Can you do that?

0:26:15.800 --> 0:26:17.560
<v Speaker 5>I feel like that's what he should have done right there, Like,

0:26:17.600 --> 0:26:20.240
<v Speaker 5>I promise you I could do better than Yeah, that

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<v Speaker 5>may have been the move that you miss.

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<v Speaker 2>You're saying if there was more fireworks, she wouldn't have

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<v Speaker 2>said that.

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<v Speaker 5>Maybe, But let's call her and see what she has

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<v Speaker 5>to say, we're gonna come back. We'll ring Elizabeth for you.

0:26:30.200 --> 0:26:32.040
<v Speaker 5>I can't believe I said ring Elizabeth.

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<v Speaker 2>God, who's old anyway, the old British grandma.

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<v Speaker 5>We're gonna do it with your second date update, next

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<v Speaker 5>second date update, playing with Tonka trucks while drinking Etches

0:26:44.960 --> 0:26:48.600
<v Speaker 5>Sketch Martinis and challenging the people next to you to

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<v Speaker 5>a drunk Rubik's Cube off. Yes, it's not a playdate

0:26:53.520 --> 0:26:56.520
<v Speaker 5>with Brooks children. That was a real date that one

0:26:56.520 --> 0:26:58.760
<v Speaker 5>of our listeners, Nick went on, because he took a

0:26:58.760 --> 0:27:01.800
<v Speaker 5>woman named Elizabeth to a pop up restaurant bar that

0:27:01.880 --> 0:27:04.840
<v Speaker 5>had an old school toy theme to it. Yeah, and

0:27:04.880 --> 0:27:07.000
<v Speaker 5>it actually went pretty well from what we heard till

0:27:07.000 --> 0:27:10.159
<v Speaker 5>the very end when they had a short kiss and

0:27:10.200 --> 0:27:13.480
<v Speaker 5>then immediately afterwards she told him, oh, by the way,

0:27:13.560 --> 0:27:15.480
<v Speaker 5>I am going to be dating other people and you

0:27:15.520 --> 0:27:19.040
<v Speaker 5>should know that upfront, which sounds bad, but that is

0:27:19.080 --> 0:27:21.520
<v Speaker 5>what broke whispered to her husband after they said I

0:27:21.600 --> 0:27:22.080
<v Speaker 5>do want.

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<v Speaker 4>The there's hope for you.

0:27:25.320 --> 0:27:28.840
<v Speaker 5>Yeah, yeah, we got you, Nick, don't worry.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean is it is pretty brutal when you recap it,

0:27:32.040 --> 0:27:34.520
<v Speaker 1>like she could have maybe waited for like the next

0:27:34.640 --> 0:27:38.680
<v Speaker 1>date to say that, Yeah, a text message or something, or.

0:27:38.720 --> 0:27:40.760
<v Speaker 5>Just ghost him like a normal person does.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, the timing was brutal. You're right though, Maybe she

0:27:44.040 --> 0:27:45.879
<v Speaker 2>was telling you because she still wanted to see you.

0:27:46.200 --> 0:27:48.639
<v Speaker 2>She just her calendar is busy with other dates.

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<v Speaker 12>Yeah, I mean maybe when you put it like that down,

0:27:51.760 --> 0:27:52.080
<v Speaker 12>isn't it.

0:27:54.040 --> 0:27:55.760
<v Speaker 2>There's as much hope as I could muster.

0:27:56.000 --> 0:27:57.600
<v Speaker 6>Yeah, with Brooke, I're not going to get much.

0:27:57.640 --> 0:27:59.320
<v Speaker 5>So that's why I'm going to lead the conversation at

0:27:59.400 --> 0:28:02.240
<v Speaker 5>least at the star when we call her, and the

0:28:02.280 --> 0:28:04.159
<v Speaker 5>rest of the rest of them can chime in.

0:28:04.280 --> 0:28:06.600
<v Speaker 4>If it stays good, jeff will stay on. If it's bad,

0:28:06.640 --> 0:28:07.240
<v Speaker 4>we'll just toss it.

0:28:07.640 --> 0:28:08.240
<v Speaker 6>Yeah, there we go.

0:28:08.280 --> 0:28:10.600
<v Speaker 12>All right, you're ready to do this, Nick, I guess,

0:28:10.600 --> 0:28:11.280
<v Speaker 12>so let's do it.

0:28:11.600 --> 0:28:13.879
<v Speaker 4>I was kidding, By the way, Nick, you're in good hands. Okay,

0:28:14.320 --> 0:28:14.800
<v Speaker 4>I don't know.

0:28:18.160 --> 0:28:19.920
<v Speaker 5>It's the worst all state commercial level.

0:28:20.000 --> 0:28:22.400
<v Speaker 4>I know you're in good hands. I don't know, you kid.

0:28:23.040 --> 0:28:26.000
<v Speaker 6>We call her right now.

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<v Speaker 5>Hello, Hey, we're looking for Elizabeth.

0:28:38.000 --> 0:28:40.800
<v Speaker 6>This is her speaking perfect Okay.

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<v Speaker 5>This is Jeffrey speaking from a radio show called Brook

0:28:44.600 --> 0:28:45.560
<v Speaker 5>and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 10>Oh, okay's like and Hi.

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<v Speaker 5>So, yeah, it's okay if you're underwhelmed, but we're doing

0:28:58.560 --> 0:29:00.520
<v Speaker 5>a segment on our show that we like to bring

0:29:00.560 --> 0:29:02.360
<v Speaker 5>you in on. It's called a second Date update.

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<v Speaker 2>Have you heard those before?

0:29:05.240 --> 0:29:05.480
<v Speaker 8>No?

0:29:05.520 --> 0:29:08.720
<v Speaker 10>I don't think I have. Sorry, this is really weird

0:29:08.800 --> 0:29:11.960
<v Speaker 10>to me. Sorry.

0:29:12.040 --> 0:29:13.239
<v Speaker 6>Yeah, right, that's all right.

0:29:13.320 --> 0:29:15.520
<v Speaker 5>Yeah, we're trying to help out one of our listeners

0:29:15.760 --> 0:29:18.720
<v Speaker 5>that you went out on a date with recently named Nick.

0:29:19.440 --> 0:29:21.680
<v Speaker 5>You guys went to like a toy themed pop up

0:29:21.720 --> 0:29:22.840
<v Speaker 5>restaurant bar thing.

0:29:24.040 --> 0:29:26.520
<v Speaker 10>Yes, yeah, oh god.

0:29:26.600 --> 0:29:27.920
<v Speaker 3>He reached out to you about that.

0:29:28.560 --> 0:29:29.080
<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

0:29:29.160 --> 0:29:31.240
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, he wanted to see you again, and it sounds

0:29:31.240 --> 0:29:34.680
<v Speaker 1>like maybe you're not giving him a firm yes or no.

0:29:34.720 --> 0:29:36.680
<v Speaker 5>On that, and we're just trying to help him figure

0:29:36.720 --> 0:29:39.400
<v Speaker 5>stuff out, like wanting to know exactly what was your

0:29:39.480 --> 0:29:40.920
<v Speaker 5>takeaway from the date?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, so Nike.

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<v Speaker 10>Okay, So Nick is a super nice guy and he's

0:29:47.720 --> 0:29:50.000
<v Speaker 10>really sweet. I had a nice date with him, but

0:29:50.960 --> 0:29:53.400
<v Speaker 10>I did tell him at the end of the date,

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<v Speaker 10>I'm just not in a place emotionally right now where

0:29:56.760 --> 0:30:00.000
<v Speaker 10>I want to date just one person. I want to

0:30:00.120 --> 0:30:01.200
<v Speaker 10>date multiple people.

0:30:01.400 --> 0:30:02.560
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, he tells us that.

0:30:02.720 --> 0:30:04.880
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I don't think he's like, I don't think he's

0:30:04.880 --> 0:30:06.760
<v Speaker 1>trying to argue like you should only date him.

0:30:06.800 --> 0:30:08.120
<v Speaker 2>I think he just wants to see you again.

0:30:08.480 --> 0:30:09.800
<v Speaker 4>He wants to be one of those people.

0:30:09.920 --> 0:30:10.160
<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

0:30:10.960 --> 0:30:12.480
<v Speaker 10>Yeah, so.

0:30:15.280 --> 0:30:17.440
<v Speaker 5>It's a good thing. He supports the lifestyle that you

0:30:17.520 --> 0:30:17.960
<v Speaker 5>want to live.

0:30:18.040 --> 0:30:19.920
<v Speaker 4>It sounds like you're trying to say something, but you

0:30:19.960 --> 0:30:21.800
<v Speaker 4>don't want to like say it.

0:30:22.080 --> 0:30:25.360
<v Speaker 10>Yeah, this is a little awkward. I think it's so.

0:30:25.480 --> 0:30:28.560
<v Speaker 10>I think I might have found somebody that's a better

0:30:28.760 --> 0:30:30.160
<v Speaker 10>fit with me than Nick.

0:30:30.840 --> 0:30:32.600
<v Speaker 2>But I thought you were dating multiple people.

0:30:33.400 --> 0:30:35.400
<v Speaker 5>Yeah, you've only gone on one date with Nick. Why

0:30:35.480 --> 0:30:37.600
<v Speaker 5>not just go on another one just to see how

0:30:37.600 --> 0:30:38.320
<v Speaker 5>your connection is.

0:30:39.560 --> 0:30:41.640
<v Speaker 10>I don't know. There's this one person that I've been

0:30:41.640 --> 0:30:44.360
<v Speaker 10>on accompidation with and I feel like we're moving towards something,

0:30:44.400 --> 0:30:47.480
<v Speaker 10>and I just I don't see there really being a

0:30:47.560 --> 0:30:51.520
<v Speaker 10>possibility with Nick anymore, at least until I investigate this

0:30:51.600 --> 0:30:52.440
<v Speaker 10>other things first.

0:30:52.920 --> 0:30:54.720
<v Speaker 2>So there's nothing he can do to change your mind

0:30:54.760 --> 0:30:54.960
<v Speaker 2>on that.

0:30:56.040 --> 0:30:58.440
<v Speaker 10>I mean, here's the situation. I've been out on like

0:30:58.520 --> 0:31:01.840
<v Speaker 10>seven or eight dates. I would I would say Nick,

0:31:02.000 --> 0:31:04.920
<v Speaker 10>he's not in the top two. I mean, he's like

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<v Speaker 10>maybe number three, But I want to stick with the

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<v Speaker 10>top two right now, And he's a really great thing.

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<v Speaker 12>I'm going to number's gonna find.

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<v Speaker 2>Top three.

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<v Speaker 5>Ye yeah, Elizabeth. I'm not sure if you heard, but

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<v Speaker 5>Nick kind of jumped in there. Yeah, he's been on

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<v Speaker 5>the other line listening to this conversation.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, he's a little competitive.

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<v Speaker 12>Well, I just think I think is a little low

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<v Speaker 12>at all. I just I think, you know, it's ranking

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<v Speaker 12>would at least be the top two. I would assume

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<v Speaker 12>based on a day. It was pretty good day.

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<v Speaker 10>The other guys, what is going on? Did you set

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<v Speaker 10>this holding up on the radio?

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, maybe that moves him up.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, but the other two guys wouldn't have reached out

0:31:49.800 --> 0:31:51.640
<v Speaker 5>to a radio show just to get a hold of you.

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<v Speaker 12>He's got drive exactly.

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<v Speaker 3>No, No, they're right, it is I just I don't

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know what to say.

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<v Speaker 10>I'm kind of weirded out by this whole thing.

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<v Speaker 1>Honestly, look what.

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<v Speaker 7>You did.

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<v Speaker 10>This.

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<v Speaker 1>You could think of it as a romantic right do

0:32:10.280 --> 0:32:11.800
<v Speaker 1>you want somebody romantic?

0:32:12.080 --> 0:32:15.880
<v Speaker 2>You want somebody who will go the extra mile for

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<v Speaker 2>you, you know, and next your guy.

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<v Speaker 1>And the thing is is, like, man, can you imagine

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<v Speaker 1>being told right after you kiss somebody that, like, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>by the way I'm going to see other people like

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<v Speaker 1>that would be a big blow. And you know what,

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<v Speaker 1>Nick has enough confidence to be like, you know what,

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<v Speaker 1>that's okay.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm cool with that.

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<v Speaker 10>I would have told him earlier, but I just didn't

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<v Speaker 10>know how to tell him or what to tell him.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe you should just like include it on your dating app.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, what do you want to do here, Bud?

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<v Speaker 12>Do you want to Well, first, I just want to

0:32:46.320 --> 0:32:48.760
<v Speaker 12>say that, like, I'm someone who pays attention. One of

0:32:48.800 --> 0:32:51.400
<v Speaker 12>the things we talked about on our date was love languages, right,

0:32:52.040 --> 0:32:55.760
<v Speaker 12>And I remember her saying that her love languages were

0:32:56.280 --> 0:32:59.280
<v Speaker 12>words of affirmation and physical touch, right. And so I

0:32:59.360 --> 0:33:02.360
<v Speaker 12>just want you to know I'm gone. You're so smart

0:33:02.480 --> 0:33:05.280
<v Speaker 12>and so pretty and just an all around wonderful human being.

0:33:05.600 --> 0:33:06.600
<v Speaker 12>And you know what I want you to do. I

0:33:06.640 --> 0:33:10.960
<v Speaker 12>want you to imagine I'm hugging you yourself.

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<v Speaker 5>Do you know the other two guys pretend to hug

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<v Speaker 5>you through the phone, Elizabeth will giving you compliments?

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<v Speaker 6>I don't think so.

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<v Speaker 10>Ah, Well, I don't know if those guys are as

0:33:20.680 --> 0:33:21.760
<v Speaker 10>weird as she is, but.

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<v Speaker 5>You're right that I think the word you were going

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<v Speaker 5>for was sweet.

0:33:25.360 --> 0:33:27.120
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, weird can be good.

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<v Speaker 9>Yeah, wouldn't make you feel better if maybe Jeff and

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<v Speaker 9>I hugged for you.

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<v Speaker 6>That's just Jose really desperate for like.

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<v Speaker 4>A long time.

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<v Speaker 2>Ye language, we just want to help.

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<v Speaker 4>Come on, you guys should go out.

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<v Speaker 2>Again one more time. See if he can move up

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<v Speaker 2>to number two.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I bet, I bet Nick would be a really

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<v Speaker 5>good boyfriend.

0:33:46.240 --> 0:33:48.000
<v Speaker 2>She doesn't want that a really good guy to date?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, yeah, I don't think so.

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<v Speaker 12>Sorry, if it's about like not knowing if I'm good enough,

0:33:57.320 --> 0:34:00.000
<v Speaker 12>you talk about, you know, dating other people. I've dated

0:34:00.040 --> 0:34:02.960
<v Speaker 12>other people. God, give you references with my ex.

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<v Speaker 5>No, don't do references, bro, Actually I would like that.

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<v Speaker 6>No, let's do that. Let's let's call them.

0:34:08.640 --> 0:34:11.160
<v Speaker 5>Let's call some of Nick's x's on the line right

0:34:11.200 --> 0:34:13.040
<v Speaker 5>now and have them sing nixed praises.

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<v Speaker 12>I'm down.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think you want to know what your exes

0:34:18.480 --> 0:34:19.480
<v Speaker 2>are really going to say about you?

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<v Speaker 10>By Nick, you don't need to do that. You don't

0:34:21.760 --> 0:34:22.680
<v Speaker 10>need to do anymore.

0:34:23.600 --> 0:34:24.759
<v Speaker 12>I don't want to. I don't want to give up.

0:34:24.760 --> 0:34:26.080
<v Speaker 12>I don't I don't like what is your like?

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<v Speaker 3>Was it?

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<v Speaker 12>How would I send you something? What's your address? Can

0:34:28.880 --> 0:34:30.200
<v Speaker 12>an edible arrangement dress.

0:34:31.640 --> 0:34:34.360
<v Speaker 2>Nobody wants edible fruit as a flower arranged.

0:34:34.440 --> 0:34:34.560
<v Speaker 3>Right.

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<v Speaker 12>Wait, look, I just need to know are you allergic

0:34:37.800 --> 0:34:40.880
<v Speaker 12>to any fruit? You know? And it'll be a perfect arrangement.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh boy, I think you're falling down the list sounding

0:34:44.280 --> 0:34:45.040
<v Speaker 1>kind of desperate.

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<v Speaker 5>Look at the effort that he's willing to go just

0:34:46.760 --> 0:34:48.319
<v Speaker 5>to get one more date with you.

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<v Speaker 7>Yes, all the.

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<v Speaker 10>Fruits, Nick, I wish you the best. You're a really

0:34:53.640 --> 0:34:55.120
<v Speaker 10>great guy. But like I said, I just need to

0:34:55.120 --> 0:34:58.000
<v Speaker 10>focus on the other two right now. But good luck

0:34:58.000 --> 0:35:03.800
<v Speaker 10>out there. You're going to make someone really happy.

0:35:02.920 --> 0:35:06.480
<v Speaker 5>And often you hear that one.

0:35:06.200 --> 0:35:08.400
<v Speaker 7>Broke and Jeffrey in the morning.

0:35:08.560 --> 0:35:12.680
<v Speaker 5>Okay, so that second date didn't quite work out, but yeah,

0:35:12.719 --> 0:35:14.960
<v Speaker 5>it should be proof to all the ladies listening out

0:35:14.960 --> 0:35:19.360
<v Speaker 5>there that good guys do still exist. They're playing with

0:35:19.480 --> 0:35:22.239
<v Speaker 5>hot wheels and nurse blasters and giving you hugs through

0:35:22.280 --> 0:35:24.439
<v Speaker 5>the phone and sending big baskets of fruit to where

0:35:24.440 --> 0:35:24.759
<v Speaker 5>you live.

0:35:25.080 --> 0:35:27.399
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it feels like he just couldn't get the hint.

0:35:27.920 --> 0:35:29.080
<v Speaker 2>And she was pretty direct.

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<v Speaker 10>You know, the nice guy's still finished last year, you know, dude.

0:35:33.040 --> 0:35:36.279
<v Speaker 9>Even there's like she's like, I'm willing to have bult

0:35:36.320 --> 0:35:38.280
<v Speaker 9>of boyfriends and you're still at the most.

0:35:40.239 --> 0:35:41.520
<v Speaker 2>It proves what you think it proves.

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<v Speaker 5>Jeffrey, I think the girls that's a good try. I

0:35:44.560 --> 0:35:47.920
<v Speaker 5>think she's going to come back twelve, thirteen, fifteen years

0:35:47.960 --> 0:35:50.359
<v Speaker 5>from now and be like I should have said yes

0:35:50.719 --> 0:35:51.759
<v Speaker 5>to guy number three.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think she'll probably ever remember.

0:35:54.120 --> 0:35:55.879
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, she'll be on her like fourth.

0:35:56.560 --> 0:35:56.799
<v Speaker 12>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, Well, if you want to have a phone call

0:35:59.200 --> 0:36:02.240
<v Speaker 5>that you want to in, didn't we forget the show? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>we'll call the person who wasn't calling you back