1 00:00:00,840 --> 00:00:03,559 Speaker 1: What if I told you there was more to the 2 00:00:03,600 --> 00:00:08,720 Speaker 1: story behind game changing events. Get ready for my new podcast, 3 00:00:08,720 --> 00:00:12,719 Speaker 1: That Moment with Damon John will jump into the personal 4 00:00:12,800 --> 00:00:16,599 Speaker 1: stories of some of the most influential people on the planet, 5 00:00:16,840 --> 00:00:20,960 Speaker 1: from business mobiles and celebrities to athletes and artists. 6 00:00:21,000 --> 00:00:24,439 Speaker 2: So in one eighteen, that was a special trip to 7 00:00:24,440 --> 00:00:26,560 Speaker 2: be able to go to the Empire State Building. You 8 00:00:26,560 --> 00:00:28,880 Speaker 2: you you excited for about a month, you paying your 9 00:00:28,920 --> 00:00:33,320 Speaker 2: little little statue of liberty, all those liberty in the 10 00:00:34,600 --> 00:00:37,960 Speaker 2: Museum of Natural History. Those are the big trips right now. 11 00:00:39,080 --> 00:00:43,520 Speaker 2: I remember through uh that Vibe magazine thing, I found 12 00:00:43,600 --> 00:00:48,519 Speaker 2: out that that you within an embody state. I'm like, 13 00:00:48,520 --> 00:00:51,800 Speaker 2: oh shit, ye that was like a special trip, Like 14 00:00:51,840 --> 00:00:55,960 Speaker 2: oh shit. So I remember in there they had the 15 00:00:56,000 --> 00:01:01,400 Speaker 2: Empire Estate Buildings address and I put, uh, the three 16 00:01:01,520 --> 00:01:05,880 Speaker 2: fifty fifth Avenue, and I put a fool wool and 17 00:01:05,920 --> 00:01:09,840 Speaker 2: I put your name on the right and it got 18 00:01:09,920 --> 00:01:12,240 Speaker 2: to you and then you wrote me back and you 19 00:01:12,280 --> 00:01:14,880 Speaker 2: sent me your number. But when I got it, I 20 00:01:15,000 --> 00:01:19,679 Speaker 2: was like, oh shit, you had let ahead like it 21 00:01:19,760 --> 00:01:22,880 Speaker 2: was a fool envelope. And when I seen that shit, 22 00:01:22,959 --> 00:01:25,400 Speaker 2: that shit was like I mean, because you know, back 23 00:01:25,440 --> 00:01:28,479 Speaker 2: when we were growing up, like we didn't have nothing. 24 00:01:28,520 --> 00:01:30,679 Speaker 2: We just had dreams and all that stuff like that. 25 00:01:32,880 --> 00:01:34,679 Speaker 2: You know, spent a big part of life buying the 26 00:01:34,720 --> 00:01:36,720 Speaker 2: bylines and re circling stuff we're gonna get in the 27 00:01:36,760 --> 00:01:39,600 Speaker 2: bylines that we never bought, you know, three fifty four, 28 00:01:40,040 --> 00:01:42,840 Speaker 2: I'm getting that right there. Well, we never get it. 29 00:01:42,880 --> 00:01:45,320 Speaker 2: But now something had happened. I'm looking at the envelope. 30 00:01:45,959 --> 00:01:47,800 Speaker 1: Now you got I said I had a real letterhead. 31 00:01:47,880 --> 00:01:49,560 Speaker 1: I had to let ahead on pool be first started. 32 00:01:49,600 --> 00:01:51,200 Speaker 1: It was just a big old ink stamp. 33 00:01:53,160 --> 00:01:53,680 Speaker 2: Envelope. 34 00:01:53,760 --> 00:01:55,919 Speaker 1: Who was Oh no, I couldn't get the envelope. 35 00:01:55,920 --> 00:01:58,120 Speaker 2: No, i'malking about. The envelope was a fuoble. 36 00:01:57,800 --> 00:02:02,200 Speaker 1: Envelope, lady old kind of stuff like. It was just 37 00:02:03,400 --> 00:02:03,960 Speaker 1: that's crazy. 38 00:02:04,000 --> 00:02:07,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, So you know, then we talked, but then boom, 39 00:02:07,760 --> 00:02:11,040 Speaker 2: let's let's speed up to me getting up. So now 40 00:02:11,080 --> 00:02:16,720 Speaker 2: it's like, okay, I'm going up there. And uh, I 41 00:02:16,720 --> 00:02:20,160 Speaker 2: remember I came up there on on Uh it was Monday. 42 00:02:20,200 --> 00:02:22,600 Speaker 2: I got on Friday. I came up there Monday, and 43 00:02:22,680 --> 00:02:26,600 Speaker 2: I'm just looking, Oh, ship, this is just a lobby. 44 00:02:26,600 --> 00:02:30,400 Speaker 2: I don't get it. Yeah, I'm like, oh, lobby city 45 00:02:30,760 --> 00:02:33,880 Speaker 2: in the em I say Ben, because I haven't seen 46 00:02:33,919 --> 00:02:36,040 Speaker 2: inside of the building since I was a little kid, right, 47 00:02:36,080 --> 00:02:40,239 Speaker 2: So I'm like, oh ship. So I come up standing. 48 00:02:40,400 --> 00:02:42,480 Speaker 2: When I come up the thing that you got, the 49 00:02:42,600 --> 00:02:46,480 Speaker 2: name outside and the whole way, I'm like, like the 50 00:02:46,480 --> 00:02:48,880 Speaker 2: ship was unreal because she was only your thought before. 51 00:02:48,919 --> 00:02:51,920 Speaker 2: And I'm like, oh ship. And then I walked into 52 00:02:51,960 --> 00:02:56,119 Speaker 2: the office and it's like Indian and Chinese people everywhere. 53 00:02:56,160 --> 00:03:00,240 Speaker 2: I'm like Korea three, like, oh ship. Like you know, 54 00:03:00,320 --> 00:03:03,000 Speaker 2: I thought that was gonna be all you know, homeboys 55 00:03:03,040 --> 00:03:06,080 Speaker 2: and all. It was a business office. I was like, 56 00:03:06,280 --> 00:03:11,760 Speaker 2: oh shit, right. And then I sat there, uh he said, 57 00:03:12,320 --> 00:03:13,880 Speaker 2: I was waiting for you to walk out, waiting no 58 00:03:14,160 --> 00:03:17,240 Speaker 2: dame and say come downstairs. This is another place. And 59 00:03:17,240 --> 00:03:19,639 Speaker 2: I said, they tell me had on sixty five, give 60 00:03:19,680 --> 00:03:23,000 Speaker 2: me directions, get there, and came around there, came in 61 00:03:23,240 --> 00:03:25,760 Speaker 2: and then I remember people I know now had your 62 00:03:25,800 --> 00:03:27,400 Speaker 2: office at the time. I ain't know the office. I'm 63 00:03:27,400 --> 00:03:29,720 Speaker 2: walking and I can hear people talking, but I'm just walking, 64 00:03:29,760 --> 00:03:32,840 Speaker 2: slow walking, slow walterslow, taking everything in, take everything in. 65 00:03:32,919 --> 00:03:37,080 Speaker 2: I turn and came in and I was like, holy shit. 66 00:03:38,360 --> 00:03:42,680 Speaker 2: You was sitting at the glass desk, had chained on 67 00:03:43,080 --> 00:03:48,440 Speaker 2: and and uh some timberlains and some some jeans hanging, 68 00:03:48,560 --> 00:03:52,320 Speaker 2: and now it see the Homeboys in the office, and uh, 69 00:03:52,720 --> 00:03:55,480 Speaker 2: this thing I had read about but never seen. You 70 00:03:55,480 --> 00:03:58,200 Speaker 2: had the flat screen TV. Oh them chips goes like 71 00:03:58,280 --> 00:04:01,880 Speaker 2: eighteen fifteen thousand some I was like, oh shit, shit 72 00:04:01,960 --> 00:04:05,360 Speaker 2: had changed. Had the thick carpet on a on a 73 00:04:05,160 --> 00:04:07,880 Speaker 2: a black carpet on the floor. And I'm looking at 74 00:04:08,000 --> 00:04:11,000 Speaker 2: pictures but you can't see that I could see is 75 00:04:11,080 --> 00:04:16,200 Speaker 2: that you got the backdrop of New York behind you. 76 00:04:16,240 --> 00:04:21,240 Speaker 2: And I'm looking like, holy shit, like ship was just different, 77 00:04:22,520 --> 00:04:23,640 Speaker 2: like different, you know. 78 00:04:23,720 --> 00:04:26,440 Speaker 1: I you know, I've been in this position in my 79 00:04:26,480 --> 00:04:29,720 Speaker 1: life for so long that I can think about that 80 00:04:29,800 --> 00:04:33,240 Speaker 1: now as the way the kids, and it seems so 81 00:04:34,880 --> 00:04:36,960 Speaker 1: I think we're in a different world now. Maybe maybe not, 82 00:04:37,160 --> 00:04:41,240 Speaker 1: but yeah, thick carpet chairs like we're sitting on now 83 00:04:41,240 --> 00:04:44,240 Speaker 1: that don't have plastic all over from your grandmother's right, 84 00:04:44,920 --> 00:04:48,720 Speaker 1: a big screen TV. I had real wood on the 85 00:04:48,760 --> 00:04:52,720 Speaker 1: walls or a real wallpaper. I mean the wallpaper we had, 86 00:04:52,760 --> 00:04:55,040 Speaker 1: I mean that stuff was peeling off walls and. 87 00:04:55,000 --> 00:04:57,720 Speaker 2: Something else also too. When we were growing up, we 88 00:04:57,920 --> 00:05:02,839 Speaker 2: always knew people would money didn't have the cloudy water 89 00:05:03,040 --> 00:05:08,200 Speaker 2: gold fish that all us and and I've seen a 90 00:05:08,360 --> 00:05:12,400 Speaker 2: fresh water fishing open salt water fish with oh these 91 00:05:12,920 --> 00:05:17,040 Speaker 2: colorful fish flying around. Holy shit. You know, I'm just 92 00:05:17,040 --> 00:05:21,080 Speaker 2: trying to take it in. And uh, but I didn't 93 00:05:21,080 --> 00:05:23,480 Speaker 2: see the in between. I seen one extreme, I see 94 00:05:23,520 --> 00:05:27,200 Speaker 2: another extreme. But then uh, as the day went on, 95 00:05:27,560 --> 00:05:30,279 Speaker 2: you know, we we did some talking and or stuff 96 00:05:30,279 --> 00:05:32,880 Speaker 2: like that. But then he was like, yo, I mean 97 00:05:32,920 --> 00:05:35,320 Speaker 2: you got on the mic. Yo, Yo, my man cats 98 00:05:35,360 --> 00:05:37,520 Speaker 2: home and we going such and such for dinner of 99 00:05:37,520 --> 00:05:39,920 Speaker 2: the night, I meet you down in the parking line 100 00:05:40,040 --> 00:05:41,599 Speaker 2: like a half an hour or something like that, right, 101 00:05:41,720 --> 00:05:45,200 Speaker 2: and you told me, oh, yeah, you just good upstairs 102 00:05:45,200 --> 00:05:52,800 Speaker 2: with Tod to On. Oh that's damn driver. Then got 103 00:05:52,839 --> 00:05:57,800 Speaker 2: a driver like when we grew up, your identity was 104 00:05:57,880 --> 00:06:00,240 Speaker 2: the bad car that you get. And I'll say, this 105 00:06:00,240 --> 00:06:03,480 Speaker 2: guy got a driver where people even gonna see him 106 00:06:03,480 --> 00:06:08,200 Speaker 2: in the cardie like things had changed because uh, you know, 107 00:06:08,240 --> 00:06:10,040 Speaker 2: you get a I'll call back in the days after 108 00:06:10,080 --> 00:06:12,200 Speaker 2: your idea, all the girls knew you coming through, And 109 00:06:12,320 --> 00:06:12,800 Speaker 2: I say, this. 110 00:06:12,760 --> 00:06:16,440 Speaker 1: Guy got a call and and yeah, so you wanted 111 00:06:16,440 --> 00:06:18,960 Speaker 1: the people to see you in the car back in 112 00:06:18,960 --> 00:06:21,760 Speaker 1: the days. But yeah, you guess you get a driver 113 00:06:21,839 --> 00:06:22,880 Speaker 1: because you don't want people to see you. 114 00:06:23,080 --> 00:06:26,239 Speaker 2: And and so I come down and then they told 115 00:06:26,320 --> 00:06:30,640 Speaker 2: stuff feeling me and I'm thinking, oh yeah, namely got 116 00:06:30,680 --> 00:06:34,800 Speaker 2: the Rose Royce also too, and and this he said, 117 00:06:34,839 --> 00:06:36,840 Speaker 2: telling me up, I'm like, what the fuck? And then 118 00:06:37,520 --> 00:06:40,120 Speaker 2: when you family came and we pooped up to the garage, 119 00:06:40,160 --> 00:06:43,359 Speaker 2: meet over with Jay Keith and called when we grew up, 120 00:06:43,400 --> 00:06:45,680 Speaker 2: it was only gonna be one large guy at. 121 00:06:45,560 --> 00:06:48,680 Speaker 1: A time, one guy, one guy would have called. 122 00:06:48,760 --> 00:06:51,719 Speaker 2: It was either bimmy or it with one other versus 123 00:06:51,880 --> 00:06:55,320 Speaker 2: one guy at a time. And I come back and, uh, 124 00:06:56,400 --> 00:06:59,960 Speaker 2: that night you had your suburban there with the thing 125 00:07:00,480 --> 00:07:03,240 Speaker 2: equalizers jumping with the music and the big brims and 126 00:07:03,279 --> 00:07:05,840 Speaker 2: the black oh, your TVs and all something like that. 127 00:07:05,920 --> 00:07:08,920 Speaker 2: But then we pull up the block to the garage. Shit, 128 00:07:08,960 --> 00:07:13,200 Speaker 2: he come out in a posh. Chief had the Lincoln Navigator, 129 00:07:13,400 --> 00:07:17,600 Speaker 2: Carl had the Gray or six hundred or five hundred, 130 00:07:17,680 --> 00:07:19,920 Speaker 2: whatever it was. And my mind, it only could be 131 00:07:19,960 --> 00:07:21,640 Speaker 2: one large guy at a time. That was always the 132 00:07:21,680 --> 00:07:24,480 Speaker 2: rules around the way. And now I'm saying, like everybody 133 00:07:24,680 --> 00:07:29,280 Speaker 2: fucking let it, Like, oh shit, it was just a 134 00:07:29,400 --> 00:07:33,240 Speaker 2: different perception. And I wan gonna tell this story real 135 00:07:33,320 --> 00:07:36,640 Speaker 2: quick through that and never was repeated, never was repeated. 136 00:07:36,720 --> 00:07:38,400 Speaker 2: Let me tell you something, what happened. Let me tell 137 00:07:38,400 --> 00:07:41,640 Speaker 2: you what happened When it started getting the nineteen ninety 138 00:07:41,640 --> 00:07:44,160 Speaker 2: seven and people started blowing up and all stuff like that, 139 00:07:44,240 --> 00:07:47,280 Speaker 2: Puffy Head got a Bentley like Louke Bentley, and they 140 00:07:47,360 --> 00:07:50,040 Speaker 2: was talking about how he was coasting through Harlem and 141 00:07:50,080 --> 00:07:51,680 Speaker 2: he was just showing it up before you get a 142 00:07:51,680 --> 00:07:54,200 Speaker 2: ship down to a land, like, oh shit, taking money 143 00:07:54,240 --> 00:07:56,800 Speaker 2: like that and now that's crazy. And then a Shaq 144 00:07:56,920 --> 00:08:00,400 Speaker 2: and Kobe, the big guys were saying getting this big money. 145 00:08:00,440 --> 00:08:03,960 Speaker 2: Now they had Bentley's like, oh, it's like that Iams 146 00:08:04,000 --> 00:08:07,200 Speaker 2: had one. I came home and found out, uh that 147 00:08:07,520 --> 00:08:10,480 Speaker 2: you had to. And then one day you came to me. 148 00:08:10,680 --> 00:08:16,120 Speaker 2: You told me, yo, you wanna you wanna, you wanna, Uh, 149 00:08:16,680 --> 00:08:18,760 Speaker 2: you're gonna drive home today. I said, yeah, you gonna 150 00:08:18,800 --> 00:08:20,960 Speaker 2: let me hold the nigga. Ain't leaving the car around 151 00:08:21,040 --> 00:08:22,840 Speaker 2: your way. I said, you're gonna drive home to day. 152 00:08:22,960 --> 00:08:26,640 Speaker 2: I said, okay, okay. So went down to the garage 153 00:08:27,120 --> 00:08:30,520 Speaker 2: and started the call and then I lean over the 154 00:08:30,600 --> 00:08:33,680 Speaker 2: music playing out, just thinking to myself, you know, cause 155 00:08:34,320 --> 00:08:37,000 Speaker 2: we lived for the Vibe magazine, the Source magazine. But 156 00:08:37,040 --> 00:08:39,840 Speaker 2: that was that was life. And I'm saying, this must 157 00:08:39,840 --> 00:08:44,880 Speaker 2: have been what Puffy felt like. And I started driving 158 00:08:44,960 --> 00:08:48,320 Speaker 2: the music playing and see soft I'm just looking around 159 00:08:48,360 --> 00:08:51,160 Speaker 2: and taking an experience, like if some niggas up steaky, 160 00:08:51,360 --> 00:08:56,839 Speaker 2: just see me now. And I'm driving. And then we 161 00:08:56,920 --> 00:09:01,520 Speaker 2: got to the uh Midtown to know, right, and they 162 00:09:01,559 --> 00:09:04,640 Speaker 2: were doing construction and tun so everybody was running through 163 00:09:04,800 --> 00:09:08,400 Speaker 2: one tunnel and I wrote and the police said, come on, 164 00:09:08,559 --> 00:09:11,360 Speaker 2: and I'm riding in the tunnel. Got the little gangsoline 165 00:09:11,480 --> 00:09:13,960 Speaker 2: or something like that. And when I got into tunnel, 166 00:09:14,400 --> 00:09:18,320 Speaker 2: the tunnel shrunk all of a sudden, and my mind 167 00:09:18,520 --> 00:09:22,440 Speaker 2: paddicked and I got on the long side of thing, 168 00:09:22,480 --> 00:09:24,720 Speaker 2: and Dame even reached over and grabbing. We fighting over 169 00:09:24,840 --> 00:09:27,319 Speaker 2: the wheel back and fall and try trying to get 170 00:09:27,360 --> 00:09:28,360 Speaker 2: back on the ConTroll and. 171 00:09:28,320 --> 00:09:31,800 Speaker 1: I just like was just because of jail, Like. 172 00:09:31,840 --> 00:09:35,600 Speaker 2: The whole thing just shrunk on me. When I got 173 00:09:35,600 --> 00:09:37,599 Speaker 2: outside of the tunnel and I couldn't take it, and 174 00:09:38,000 --> 00:09:40,360 Speaker 2: we fighting back and forth. I see your car coming, 175 00:09:40,440 --> 00:09:42,600 Speaker 2: you pull a cr back over a weekeet over here 176 00:09:42,679 --> 00:09:47,280 Speaker 2: and then get it under control and we come to 177 00:09:47,320 --> 00:09:49,360 Speaker 2: the end of the tunnel, you like your poolicehit over 178 00:09:49,400 --> 00:09:52,920 Speaker 2: right here, right, but you start laughing at me and 179 00:09:53,000 --> 00:09:54,880 Speaker 2: you point your finger over, you know, in the side 180 00:09:54,880 --> 00:09:58,280 Speaker 2: of the rails and laughing, laughing, and I'm saying, like, yo, 181 00:09:59,720 --> 00:10:02,959 Speaker 2: I'm I was trashed this guy six I mean two 182 00:10:03,080 --> 00:10:05,720 Speaker 2: hundred and sixty thousand dollars call and it's a joke 183 00:10:05,840 --> 00:10:09,760 Speaker 2: to him, like that's where life had went to. I've 184 00:10:09,800 --> 00:10:12,000 Speaker 2: been working for sixteen since an hour all these. 185 00:10:12,000 --> 00:10:14,600 Speaker 1: Years, sixteen cents an hour. 186 00:10:14,559 --> 00:10:19,320 Speaker 2: Sin since an hour, and uh now almost messed up 187 00:10:19,400 --> 00:10:22,920 Speaker 2: something crazy and it really didn't even mean anything to you. 188 00:10:23,400 --> 00:10:26,520 Speaker 2: Like so, like I said, the new reality just had 189 00:10:26,600 --> 00:10:30,559 Speaker 2: to sink You had had to sink into me, like, oh, 190 00:10:30,640 --> 00:10:31,400 Speaker 2: that's just crazy. 191 00:10:31,600 --> 00:10:35,800 Speaker 1: But do you remember that You don't now, but I 192 00:10:35,800 --> 00:10:37,920 Speaker 1: think that that you know, this is one of those 193 00:10:37,960 --> 00:10:43,280 Speaker 1: that moments that you realize why you know, I was 194 00:10:43,360 --> 00:10:47,200 Speaker 1: such a differend too many and people like you a 195 00:10:47,200 --> 00:10:49,240 Speaker 1: difference to me to keep me grounded, to think about 196 00:10:49,240 --> 00:10:51,440 Speaker 1: where we've come from and how hard we work and 197 00:10:51,520 --> 00:10:54,200 Speaker 1: how we were both on the right track. And you 198 00:10:54,200 --> 00:11:18,320 Speaker 1: would have been one of the football guys. Yeah, as you. 199 00:11:19,840 --> 00:11:20,440 Speaker 2: First may. 200 00:11:21,840 --> 00:11:26,080 Speaker 1: Well anyway, listen, I want to make sure that people 201 00:11:26,120 --> 00:11:29,520 Speaker 1: understand that you you. We will have more of these stories, 202 00:11:29,600 --> 00:11:31,480 Speaker 1: but we could take up twelve with these stories. I 203 00:11:31,520 --> 00:11:33,959 Speaker 1: want people to understand that you. First of all, we 204 00:11:34,080 --> 00:11:36,640 Speaker 1: have several other friends that have had similar situations. One 205 00:11:36,679 --> 00:11:38,960 Speaker 1: of them turned did twenty six years or something he 206 00:11:38,960 --> 00:11:41,240 Speaker 1: didn't do with This is not something that is uncommon 207 00:11:41,280 --> 00:11:44,160 Speaker 1: in the African American community and many other communities, Latino 208 00:11:44,240 --> 00:11:46,280 Speaker 1: and various other things, as well as I know people 209 00:11:46,360 --> 00:11:49,640 Speaker 1: in West Virginia. They're the same color as the ones 210 00:11:49,640 --> 00:11:53,600 Speaker 1: who are incarcerating them. It's a it's a big social issue. 211 00:11:54,920 --> 00:11:57,560 Speaker 1: It took you seven years, I think, to get rewarded 212 00:11:57,600 --> 00:12:03,040 Speaker 1: from the police. Eight years. I remember they were trying 213 00:12:03,040 --> 00:12:05,280 Speaker 1: to lock you back up in the neighborhood because they 214 00:12:05,320 --> 00:12:09,000 Speaker 1: said that the precinct had had an objective to lock 215 00:12:09,080 --> 00:12:11,640 Speaker 1: you back up, because I guess if you follow the money, 216 00:12:11,800 --> 00:12:14,040 Speaker 1: if you're back in carcarrated, you don't get that reward. 217 00:12:14,040 --> 00:12:17,040 Speaker 1: And it's against your it's against your you know, it's 218 00:12:17,080 --> 00:12:21,080 Speaker 1: against you as a strike. You move, you move to Atlanta. 219 00:12:22,200 --> 00:12:24,120 Speaker 1: You know you received a small amount of money the 220 00:12:24,200 --> 00:12:27,160 Speaker 1: large amounts of others, A small amount of some I've 221 00:12:27,200 --> 00:12:30,800 Speaker 1: never seen that type of money be utilized to for 222 00:12:30,960 --> 00:12:34,679 Speaker 1: somebody who was so fascinated of how the world had 223 00:12:34,679 --> 00:12:36,720 Speaker 1: turned and didn't have a slow growth. And you even 224 00:12:36,760 --> 00:12:38,800 Speaker 1: after that, for seven years you lived off of nothing. 225 00:12:39,679 --> 00:12:43,320 Speaker 1: Then you your rewards of money, you learned to you 226 00:12:43,400 --> 00:12:47,240 Speaker 1: learned to trade online, you put the way, you put 227 00:12:47,280 --> 00:12:50,280 Speaker 1: away the money, and you haven't worked since then for 228 00:12:50,320 --> 00:12:52,960 Speaker 1: anybody else after coming home, and you've never had to 229 00:12:53,000 --> 00:12:58,559 Speaker 1: do anything else besides you candlesticking and trading day trading 230 00:12:58,679 --> 00:13:00,880 Speaker 1: long holes and stuff like that, because you just sat 231 00:13:00,880 --> 00:13:03,400 Speaker 1: there by yourself and you said, I'm never going back 232 00:13:03,440 --> 00:13:05,080 Speaker 1: to that again. But I also don't want to have 233 00:13:05,080 --> 00:13:08,960 Speaker 1: to depend on anybody else. What was that moment when 234 00:13:09,000 --> 00:13:11,080 Speaker 1: you would say that somebody would give you a couple 235 00:13:11,120 --> 00:13:14,280 Speaker 1: of million dollars and you would say, oh man, I 236 00:13:14,320 --> 00:13:16,760 Speaker 1: would think, man, that's going to set me up easy, 237 00:13:16,880 --> 00:13:19,200 Speaker 1: and I don't have to do anything. Because you didn't 238 00:13:19,240 --> 00:13:23,080 Speaker 1: have any financial intelligence. Why were you smart enough to 239 00:13:23,120 --> 00:13:28,320 Speaker 1: put that money away? On one end, educate yourself. Since 240 00:13:28,360 --> 00:13:31,480 Speaker 1: you've been home, let's say, since you have now got 241 00:13:31,520 --> 00:13:33,560 Speaker 1: the money, been ten years. I saw you have one call. 242 00:13:34,200 --> 00:13:36,120 Speaker 1: Then even that call you gave it up. And this 243 00:13:36,240 --> 00:13:38,160 Speaker 1: other one that looks like a little I don't know, 244 00:13:38,200 --> 00:13:41,160 Speaker 1: a lunchbox or a popsicle. You're like six foot seventeen 245 00:13:41,240 --> 00:13:43,800 Speaker 1: to see a feet dragon all out of it. You 246 00:13:43,840 --> 00:13:47,840 Speaker 1: live a modest, modest life. What gave you that discipline? 247 00:13:47,840 --> 00:13:49,600 Speaker 1: Because I would have thought that after all those days 248 00:13:49,640 --> 00:13:51,880 Speaker 1: you said I worked for this shit, I suffered for it. 249 00:13:52,040 --> 00:13:57,200 Speaker 2: Not really, it is not disciplined because it never was me. 250 00:13:57,880 --> 00:14:02,000 Speaker 2: Oh like, be that loud guy out there, to be 251 00:14:02,440 --> 00:14:04,480 Speaker 2: the one trying to show off everybody, and I was 252 00:14:04,679 --> 00:14:05,760 Speaker 2: that never was me, so. 253 00:14:05,840 --> 00:14:07,440 Speaker 1: Oh, believe it or not, I learned a lot from 254 00:14:07,480 --> 00:14:09,400 Speaker 1: those cars and everything else that was never me. That's 255 00:14:09,400 --> 00:14:11,319 Speaker 1: why you don't see, you know, if I happened to 256 00:14:11,440 --> 00:14:15,000 Speaker 1: ride private, you don't see that flashing this. You don't 257 00:14:15,040 --> 00:14:17,120 Speaker 1: see me showing my home. You don't see those things 258 00:14:17,120 --> 00:14:18,800 Speaker 1: that never was us. And I think that maybe is 259 00:14:18,800 --> 00:14:21,080 Speaker 1: at the core of why when those guys are out 260 00:14:21,080 --> 00:14:23,920 Speaker 1: on that corner going out at night, trying to move 261 00:14:24,080 --> 00:14:26,120 Speaker 1: whatever they were doing, you and I were thinking about, man, 262 00:14:26,120 --> 00:14:28,960 Speaker 1: how we're gonna make a difference because we after I 263 00:14:28,960 --> 00:14:30,360 Speaker 1: got a couple of nice things. After while I was like, 264 00:14:30,360 --> 00:14:30,840 Speaker 1: I don't need it. 265 00:14:31,120 --> 00:14:35,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, and so uh you know then then 266 00:14:35,720 --> 00:14:39,680 Speaker 2: after that, you know, coming from Wayfret, from mc hammer 267 00:14:40,400 --> 00:14:43,680 Speaker 2: all the way up through Mike Taxon, Bobby Brown, we 268 00:14:43,840 --> 00:14:45,280 Speaker 2: always heard those stories and be. 269 00:14:45,280 --> 00:14:50,240 Speaker 1: Like oor bankrupt, mc Hammer, Mike Tyson and. 270 00:14:52,600 --> 00:14:54,400 Speaker 2: Uh, you know, you hear different things. 271 00:14:54,480 --> 00:14:54,600 Speaker 1: Then. 272 00:14:54,760 --> 00:14:59,440 Speaker 2: I remember getting to the early nineties, the early two thousand, 273 00:14:59,480 --> 00:15:02,920 Speaker 2: probably around two o four, and you started uh uh 274 00:15:03,000 --> 00:15:03,520 Speaker 2: bringing in that. 275 00:15:04,360 --> 00:15:08,800 Speaker 1: Uh the was the rat race, I think the Robbert 276 00:15:08,800 --> 00:15:12,200 Speaker 1: Tilzaki's rat Race and Monopoly. Bringing the cat gave the 277 00:15:12,320 --> 00:15:15,000 Speaker 1: cash flow cash flow, and I started bringing that into 278 00:15:15,000 --> 00:15:16,520 Speaker 1: the office and people started playing, We. 279 00:15:16,480 --> 00:15:19,000 Speaker 2: Started playing converses, doing a Monopoly doing. You start doing that, 280 00:15:19,040 --> 00:15:20,240 Speaker 2: and then it was like, Yo, if I had knew 281 00:15:20,240 --> 00:15:22,720 Speaker 2: about this shit a long time ago, I'm not saying 282 00:15:22,760 --> 00:15:24,680 Speaker 2: this is what y'all say. I knew about this a 283 00:15:24,760 --> 00:15:27,240 Speaker 2: long time ago, I would have that. And then grim 284 00:15:27,360 --> 00:15:29,880 Speaker 2: was something on, yo, I'm gonna start bringing bag lunches 285 00:15:29,880 --> 00:15:30,960 Speaker 2: because I'm gonna taking my money. 286 00:15:31,200 --> 00:15:34,160 Speaker 1: So that game was like you started coming around other people. 287 00:15:34,200 --> 00:15:36,520 Speaker 1: That was you know, when I started changing the channel 288 00:15:36,560 --> 00:15:38,680 Speaker 1: from b t M t V to Jim Kramer and 289 00:15:38,760 --> 00:15:42,120 Speaker 1: c NBC. The dynamic of the office changed as well. 290 00:15:42,480 --> 00:15:44,200 Speaker 1: The conversation started to change. 291 00:15:44,360 --> 00:15:48,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, and that's what I was seeing the change up. 292 00:15:48,560 --> 00:15:51,280 Speaker 2: But let me say something. Uh, you had started saying 293 00:15:51,360 --> 00:15:54,520 Speaker 2: one thing and then and then uh, we jumped into 294 00:15:54,920 --> 00:15:56,840 Speaker 2: that party. I was gonna say this part going back 295 00:15:56,840 --> 00:16:01,040 Speaker 2: to the beginning about the police thing. What happened is, uh, 296 00:16:02,640 --> 00:16:06,040 Speaker 2: the police just really wanted like when I got out, 297 00:16:06,200 --> 00:16:08,960 Speaker 2: it was a part of DA's office that just wasn't happy, right, 298 00:16:09,520 --> 00:16:11,240 Speaker 2: But they don't want to admit that they was wrong. 299 00:16:11,600 --> 00:16:14,920 Speaker 2: So now the police was just like on a hunt 300 00:16:15,000 --> 00:16:18,480 Speaker 2: for me. And I remember one night that came after me, 301 00:16:18,920 --> 00:16:21,120 Speaker 2: chased me down, threw sticks at me, and then I 302 00:16:21,160 --> 00:16:24,040 Speaker 2: remember I ran and got and jumped over the fence 303 00:16:24,240 --> 00:16:26,720 Speaker 2: and I had ripped my leg open on the top 304 00:16:26,760 --> 00:16:30,120 Speaker 2: of the fence and getting away from him, and that 305 00:16:30,400 --> 00:16:34,560 Speaker 2: was like like like like yeah, But but then I 306 00:16:34,600 --> 00:16:38,080 Speaker 2: remember I was telling you about that, right, and I 307 00:16:38,120 --> 00:16:42,480 Speaker 2: remember you had told me, yo, just stay up there 308 00:16:42,680 --> 00:16:46,280 Speaker 2: latest later ladies you want to. And then what made 309 00:16:46,320 --> 00:16:50,960 Speaker 2: a big difference. You started taking me home every day 310 00:16:51,920 --> 00:16:55,200 Speaker 2: to make sure I get in the door. And that 311 00:16:55,600 --> 00:17:03,120 Speaker 2: was like, like, uh, all these times you be in jail, 312 00:17:03,240 --> 00:17:09,000 Speaker 2: people don't be writing you and this motherfucker you just 313 00:17:09,080 --> 00:17:14,720 Speaker 2: think people don't even care no more, right, I'm talking 314 00:17:14,760 --> 00:17:17,359 Speaker 2: about that's just what people think about. 315 00:17:17,960 --> 00:17:19,679 Speaker 1: But then you. 316 00:17:22,680 --> 00:17:26,720 Speaker 2: Like showed the point of care that was like through 317 00:17:26,800 --> 00:17:29,120 Speaker 2: the roof. I ain't gonna say why, but you explained 318 00:17:29,240 --> 00:17:33,680 Speaker 2: to me about you haven't been around there in a while, right, 319 00:17:35,160 --> 00:17:40,920 Speaker 2: And you went from not being around there to making 320 00:17:41,040 --> 00:17:43,000 Speaker 2: sure that I got home safe. 321 00:17:42,760 --> 00:17:44,200 Speaker 1: And you could say, well, I opened up one of 322 00:17:44,240 --> 00:17:46,040 Speaker 1: my books with it, because the first time I got 323 00:17:46,080 --> 00:17:49,119 Speaker 1: a car, somebody saw me on Long Island that was 324 00:17:49,200 --> 00:17:52,640 Speaker 1: from that area, and I when I went and parked 325 00:17:52,680 --> 00:17:54,000 Speaker 1: the car I was in Long Island, it was a 326 00:17:54,119 --> 00:17:56,879 Speaker 1: It was a lexus for you don't why. He turns 327 00:17:56,920 --> 00:17:58,679 Speaker 1: around and I he pulls me out of the car 328 00:17:58,760 --> 00:18:02,120 Speaker 1: and has me in my backyard. I had a dog 329 00:18:02,280 --> 00:18:05,280 Speaker 1: and my my daughter was just born. I had a daughter, 330 00:18:05,480 --> 00:18:07,359 Speaker 1: and he had a gun in the back of my 331 00:18:07,480 --> 00:18:09,680 Speaker 1: head and he and he took the car. And what 332 00:18:09,840 --> 00:18:13,199 Speaker 1: had happened was there was guys from my neighborhood who 333 00:18:13,320 --> 00:18:15,440 Speaker 1: saw me pull up at a gas station. They said, 334 00:18:17,000 --> 00:18:18,520 Speaker 1: I can't rob because you know who I am. But 335 00:18:18,840 --> 00:18:20,400 Speaker 1: they was with a friend. He said you go, Robin, 336 00:18:20,440 --> 00:18:22,760 Speaker 1: because the Dame's gonna be Okay. I don't know anything 337 00:18:22,760 --> 00:18:24,400 Speaker 1: of this that, but all I know is my daughter 338 00:18:24,520 --> 00:18:26,200 Speaker 1: is up in the house. She's about two years maybe 339 00:18:26,200 --> 00:18:29,000 Speaker 1: about five years old. I'm being pulled to the backyard. 340 00:18:29,000 --> 00:18:31,120 Speaker 1: There's a cold gun in the back of my head, 341 00:18:31,840 --> 00:18:34,959 Speaker 1: and I'm laying down on the ground. My wife at 342 00:18:35,000 --> 00:18:37,400 Speaker 1: the time was there, and she was she went upstairs. 343 00:18:37,520 --> 00:18:39,600 Speaker 1: I knew she was coming downstairs, so I was thinking 344 00:18:40,160 --> 00:18:42,200 Speaker 1: he gonna shoot me or he gonna shoot her because 345 00:18:42,200 --> 00:18:43,760 Speaker 1: if she said, you don't know what she's gonna do. 346 00:18:44,320 --> 00:18:46,240 Speaker 1: And he took the car. So I said, I'm not 347 00:18:46,280 --> 00:18:48,800 Speaker 1: coming back around that neighborhood because they're trying to pull 348 00:18:48,920 --> 00:18:51,400 Speaker 1: me back even though I never did anything, and I'm 349 00:18:51,480 --> 00:18:54,239 Speaker 1: taking and you were taken out of that neighborhood too. 350 00:18:55,200 --> 00:18:56,879 Speaker 1: You know, we've seen things that happen to people like 351 00:18:57,000 --> 00:19:00,320 Speaker 1: Nipsey Hustle and various other things where you know, some 352 00:19:00,440 --> 00:19:05,280 Speaker 1: of the street elements they have a ninety percent of 353 00:19:05,280 --> 00:19:09,280 Speaker 1: the people are rooting for you ninety five percent. I 354 00:19:09,400 --> 00:19:12,440 Speaker 1: hope of the cops are good cops. I don't want 355 00:19:12,680 --> 00:19:16,760 Speaker 1: us to have this conversation like there are public servants 356 00:19:16,800 --> 00:19:19,320 Speaker 1: that are out there, you know, directing traffic or and 357 00:19:19,440 --> 00:19:21,639 Speaker 1: it's not glamorous or coming to your rescue and our 358 00:19:21,720 --> 00:19:24,520 Speaker 1: rescue when things happen, and there are bad apples in 359 00:19:24,600 --> 00:19:27,560 Speaker 1: the hood and every indiate aspect. But yeah, I had 360 00:19:27,640 --> 00:19:29,520 Speaker 1: no reason to go back there because I felt that 361 00:19:29,640 --> 00:19:32,840 Speaker 1: why wouldn't somebody just in the darkness bust a shot 362 00:19:32,920 --> 00:19:35,240 Speaker 1: in the window or in the door. That's the easy 363 00:19:35,280 --> 00:19:38,920 Speaker 1: thing to do. And it's in their face too, because 364 00:19:38,960 --> 00:19:42,600 Speaker 1: I was coming driving you off with quarter million, half 365 00:19:42,640 --> 00:19:45,760 Speaker 1: a million dollar cars, maybacks and all kind of stuff. 366 00:19:45,840 --> 00:19:51,560 Speaker 2: And that's what I'm saying with with that happening to you, 367 00:19:52,000 --> 00:19:55,560 Speaker 2: against all of that, you still would drive me home 368 00:19:55,800 --> 00:19:58,200 Speaker 2: every night to make sure I got to the front. 369 00:19:58,280 --> 00:19:59,920 Speaker 1: But then it was that moment you knew that I 370 00:20:00,000 --> 00:20:01,720 Speaker 1: I have the love for you that you have for me. 371 00:20:02,320 --> 00:20:04,440 Speaker 1: We're going to continue this because it's not really that 372 00:20:04,480 --> 00:20:06,560 Speaker 1: I kid who's watching this. I just want to remember 373 00:20:06,600 --> 00:20:09,320 Speaker 1: what happened in my life because I forgot all that. 374 00:20:10,320 --> 00:20:11,800 Speaker 2: Let me just let me just say something else to 375 00:20:12,080 --> 00:20:13,080 Speaker 2: connect some stuff together. 376 00:20:13,200 --> 00:20:15,280 Speaker 1: You're taking me down a really amazing path, and I 377 00:20:15,320 --> 00:20:19,440 Speaker 1: hope you've given other people the insight where we've come from. 378 00:20:20,000 --> 00:20:22,480 Speaker 1: I was once I was on social media to day 379 00:20:22,480 --> 00:20:25,840 Speaker 1: and I was around Nori and Joe wasn't drinking. I 380 00:20:25,880 --> 00:20:28,439 Speaker 1: was like, Yo, you know, no, I'm talking. It's regular 381 00:20:28,560 --> 00:20:31,760 Speaker 1: New York talk, you know, right, And I said, you know, 382 00:20:31,800 --> 00:20:33,560 Speaker 1: I'm want to put this out And people would normally say, 383 00:20:33,560 --> 00:20:36,720 Speaker 1: you're the sky on ABC with these beautiful suits and 384 00:20:37,040 --> 00:20:39,720 Speaker 1: you know, as articulate as I can be for somebody 385 00:20:39,760 --> 00:20:45,920 Speaker 1: who who repeated the seventh grade twice, and most people 386 00:20:45,960 --> 00:20:48,960 Speaker 1: would say, don't put that out there because I don't 387 00:20:48,960 --> 00:20:50,680 Speaker 1: want to see that. I'm not trying to be hood. 388 00:20:50,720 --> 00:20:53,160 Speaker 1: It's just where we came from, almost came for some place, 389 00:20:54,040 --> 00:20:57,399 Speaker 1: and you know, I've given you this, this, this this 390 00:20:57,640 --> 00:20:59,800 Speaker 1: place to kind of reflect on what we've been through. 391 00:21:00,320 --> 00:21:03,040 Speaker 1: We got any final thoughts. I know we're gonna probably 392 00:21:03,080 --> 00:21:04,000 Speaker 1: do two and three series of. 393 00:21:04,160 --> 00:21:07,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, but let me just say this right here. I'm I'm, I'm. 394 00:21:08,119 --> 00:21:10,399 Speaker 2: I'm working on a book. 395 00:21:11,560 --> 00:21:14,760 Speaker 1: But the books called it's not a tell all, is it? 396 00:21:15,280 --> 00:21:15,520 Speaker 2: Listen? 397 00:21:15,720 --> 00:21:17,760 Speaker 1: Listen, listen with my chapter of mystery. 398 00:21:18,920 --> 00:21:19,160 Speaker 2: Listen. 399 00:21:20,119 --> 00:21:21,080 Speaker 1: I don't like your memory. 400 00:21:21,160 --> 00:21:23,239 Speaker 2: Oh boy, well I'm gonna take you this right here, 401 00:21:23,280 --> 00:21:28,680 Speaker 2: take it out. Uh, it's called the Queen's Butterfly fact. 402 00:21:28,880 --> 00:21:34,320 Speaker 2: Right boom, I'm twenty twenty. I'm sitting in uh uh 403 00:21:35,840 --> 00:21:40,000 Speaker 2: the studio at Shock Tank, right, and I'm back there, 404 00:21:40,320 --> 00:21:43,280 Speaker 2: all the computers out and all that stuff like that. 405 00:21:43,440 --> 00:21:45,960 Speaker 2: And I'm looking at you'll on the distance on the stage, 406 00:21:46,080 --> 00:21:50,000 Speaker 2: right and uh then y'all, you know, call break? You 407 00:21:50,119 --> 00:21:53,760 Speaker 2: coming here talking this with somebody? If the makeup on you? 408 00:21:53,920 --> 00:21:56,800 Speaker 2: He's looking this ship right here, somebody else is trying 409 00:21:56,800 --> 00:21:58,679 Speaker 2: to talk to you, talk stuff. 410 00:21:58,480 --> 00:22:01,199 Speaker 3: Like this, right, And I'm boy touch. I'm not even 411 00:22:01,200 --> 00:22:03,879 Speaker 3: gonna interview him yet, a boy touch and diet of it. 412 00:22:05,800 --> 00:22:08,560 Speaker 3: So what does this mean to make up on you? 413 00:22:08,640 --> 00:22:11,440 Speaker 2: Right? But and I'm seeing how you interacting with the people. 414 00:22:11,520 --> 00:22:15,240 Speaker 2: But then you noticed me, Oh shut you know you 415 00:22:15,359 --> 00:22:15,800 Speaker 2: made it here? 416 00:22:15,920 --> 00:22:16,040 Speaker 1: Right? 417 00:22:16,240 --> 00:22:19,920 Speaker 2: And I said to myself, yes, crazy, all these people 418 00:22:20,040 --> 00:22:24,919 Speaker 2: in this room right here, and do anybody have an 419 00:22:25,119 --> 00:22:27,600 Speaker 2: idea how we even got here? 420 00:22:27,960 --> 00:22:28,120 Speaker 1: Right? 421 00:22:31,160 --> 00:22:34,960 Speaker 2: An accident nineteen eighty Right, my father dies in a 422 00:22:35,040 --> 00:22:39,800 Speaker 2: car accident. Right, And he died in a car accident. 423 00:22:40,160 --> 00:22:44,800 Speaker 2: He left insurance for the family, right, and each kid 424 00:22:44,920 --> 00:22:49,000 Speaker 2: get it by the time they turned eighteen years old. Right, 425 00:22:49,640 --> 00:22:53,040 Speaker 2: that was eighty nineteen eighty one at Alfreds barbecue. I 426 00:22:53,200 --> 00:22:59,240 Speaker 2: met you do magic tricks in Alfred's basement, right and. 427 00:23:00,400 --> 00:23:02,200 Speaker 1: An out for So nineteen eighty one you met me. 428 00:23:02,680 --> 00:23:05,760 Speaker 1: I was twelve years old. I was over a buddy's house. 429 00:23:06,840 --> 00:23:08,919 Speaker 1: Who is the guy they played belly about? We went 430 00:23:08,960 --> 00:23:11,920 Speaker 1: to Catholic school. My parents had got divorced, but I 431 00:23:12,000 --> 00:23:13,920 Speaker 1: believe they had the first time they had like a party. 432 00:23:14,000 --> 00:23:15,680 Speaker 1: And you lived about eight blocks away, and I was 433 00:23:15,720 --> 00:23:16,640 Speaker 1: allowed to go over your. 434 00:23:16,520 --> 00:23:19,080 Speaker 2: House house oh from you yeah yeah, yeah yeah. 435 00:23:19,760 --> 00:23:22,240 Speaker 1: Allowed to go to the house and meet the kids 436 00:23:22,280 --> 00:23:25,320 Speaker 1: in the other side of the neighborhood. No difference. I mean, 437 00:23:25,359 --> 00:23:26,600 Speaker 1: you know, you just live in pockets. 438 00:23:26,800 --> 00:23:30,199 Speaker 2: Yeah. And so what ends up happening is this right here, 439 00:23:31,320 --> 00:23:35,480 Speaker 2: I met you. You we we we we from the beginning, 440 00:23:35,600 --> 00:23:38,320 Speaker 2: we still again cool because anybody else went out of 441 00:23:38,320 --> 00:23:40,080 Speaker 2: the house. I kept asking you about how you do 442 00:23:40,200 --> 00:23:42,240 Speaker 2: the trick? How did you You didn't really drink no bleach? 443 00:23:42,280 --> 00:23:43,840 Speaker 2: You didn't drink no bleach? How did you do the trick? 444 00:23:43,920 --> 00:23:46,639 Speaker 2: And you told me tell them the trick? Well, what 445 00:23:46,800 --> 00:23:50,240 Speaker 2: happened is you was down, You were in the basement, 446 00:23:51,600 --> 00:23:54,200 Speaker 2: and you betting people a quarter that you would drink. 447 00:23:54,119 --> 00:23:55,920 Speaker 1: The bleach, which is there was a couple of bleeks. 448 00:23:56,040 --> 00:23:58,320 Speaker 2: That's a bleach that you said that you that you 449 00:23:58,359 --> 00:23:59,639 Speaker 2: said you remember. 450 00:23:59,440 --> 00:24:02,080 Speaker 1: Nobody's seeing. The cameras are on, we're in a podcast. 451 00:24:02,720 --> 00:24:05,480 Speaker 1: So I would drink a blood a glass of bleaching 452 00:24:05,760 --> 00:24:09,080 Speaker 1: for a quarter. I remember, had a second quarter, so everybody. 453 00:24:09,920 --> 00:24:13,359 Speaker 2: So what ends up happening is you give them a 454 00:24:13,400 --> 00:24:15,520 Speaker 2: little smell test, put it, you know, put up under 455 00:24:15,560 --> 00:24:19,160 Speaker 2: the sure. Oh shit, yo, he's stupid. You know y'all, 456 00:24:19,160 --> 00:24:22,080 Speaker 2: he's stupid. And then you drank it. They get the monch. 457 00:24:22,119 --> 00:24:24,200 Speaker 1: So is everybody giving me the money so they can 458 00:24:24,400 --> 00:24:26,280 Speaker 1: see me die it? 459 00:24:26,520 --> 00:24:28,280 Speaker 2: No, they didn't give you money yet they was. You 460 00:24:28,359 --> 00:24:30,680 Speaker 2: were betting them a quarter that you would drink. 461 00:24:30,480 --> 00:24:32,680 Speaker 1: And once I drank it, they were making sure that 462 00:24:32,760 --> 00:24:33,160 Speaker 1: I died. 463 00:24:33,400 --> 00:24:36,080 Speaker 2: Oh you know. But then when the excitement was over, 464 00:24:36,160 --> 00:24:38,360 Speaker 2: you know, collected a couple of quarters, they went back 465 00:24:38,400 --> 00:24:40,640 Speaker 2: outside because it was a pool. Puddy. I stayed down 466 00:24:40,640 --> 00:24:42,840 Speaker 2: there and kept handing you about how you do the trick, 467 00:24:43,440 --> 00:24:46,359 Speaker 2: and you went and tell me, but I keep getting there, 468 00:24:46,480 --> 00:24:48,240 Speaker 2: keeping me at you. Then you eventually told me that 469 00:24:48,320 --> 00:24:50,840 Speaker 2: before we came down here, that you had stuck your 470 00:24:50,880 --> 00:24:53,400 Speaker 2: pointing finger down in the bleach bottle and you held 471 00:24:53,480 --> 00:24:55,760 Speaker 2: it around a couple of the rims, so you put 472 00:24:55,800 --> 00:24:57,560 Speaker 2: that under the nose and make them smell that, and 473 00:24:57,600 --> 00:25:01,800 Speaker 2: didn't drink the water. And means you just start talking. 474 00:25:02,000 --> 00:25:04,399 Speaker 2: I mean, you start talking denn and all that stuff 475 00:25:04,480 --> 00:25:08,479 Speaker 2: like that. Right now, I'm connecting the dots. We become friends. 476 00:25:08,560 --> 00:25:15,440 Speaker 2: But Alfred kind of treated you like he was your brother. 477 00:25:15,680 --> 00:25:18,720 Speaker 2: So he used to talk about what y'all doing when 478 00:25:18,760 --> 00:25:20,800 Speaker 2: he's not married. So I knew a lot about you 479 00:25:20,920 --> 00:25:26,240 Speaker 2: from when you were around getting the mirrors and go 480 00:25:26,400 --> 00:25:29,320 Speaker 2: from the mirrors to Alpha. Well, shit, I'm going inside. 481 00:25:32,840 --> 00:25:34,600 Speaker 1: Alpha wanted to go in, but Alfred it was a 482 00:25:34,680 --> 00:25:41,040 Speaker 1: mirror factor ducause Alfred say, I don't want the mirrors 483 00:25:41,080 --> 00:25:44,280 Speaker 1: in the garbage. I want the mirrors in the mirror factory. 484 00:25:44,920 --> 00:25:47,000 Speaker 1: You don't have any money, I don't need any money. 485 00:25:47,040 --> 00:25:47,760 Speaker 1: I got a crowball. 486 00:26:07,640 --> 00:26:11,639 Speaker 2: Yeah. So I used to hear all the different stuff 487 00:26:11,800 --> 00:26:14,119 Speaker 2: about you know, about y'all and all that stuff like that. 488 00:26:14,480 --> 00:26:16,959 Speaker 2: So by the time you come back around, I already 489 00:26:17,080 --> 00:26:18,920 Speaker 2: know what to talk about because I know what y'all 490 00:26:18,960 --> 00:26:21,399 Speaker 2: been doing. Right, So it grew like that. But then 491 00:26:21,440 --> 00:26:24,960 Speaker 2: what ends up happening? Is this right here? Uh, Alfred 492 00:26:25,240 --> 00:26:28,680 Speaker 2: had got some work from somebody that was with the 493 00:26:28,880 --> 00:26:29,880 Speaker 2: Supreme Team. 494 00:26:29,840 --> 00:26:32,680 Speaker 1: Work crack or cocaine or whatever. I don't know what 495 00:26:32,760 --> 00:26:36,919 Speaker 1: they're selling. And Supreme Team that documentary about about how 496 00:26:37,000 --> 00:26:38,880 Speaker 1: they our community. 497 00:26:39,040 --> 00:26:41,160 Speaker 2: It might it might have been up right, but uh 498 00:26:41,760 --> 00:26:44,399 Speaker 2: so what ends up happening is so what ends up 499 00:26:44,440 --> 00:26:49,320 Speaker 2: happening is, uh Leon ran off with the work. 500 00:26:49,920 --> 00:26:50,880 Speaker 1: Leon is Alpher's brother. 501 00:26:51,000 --> 00:26:53,159 Speaker 2: His brother ran up, ran off with the work, and 502 00:26:53,240 --> 00:26:54,720 Speaker 2: he's going out for the whole ship. 503 00:26:54,880 --> 00:26:55,680 Speaker 1: You know what the fuck? 504 00:26:56,160 --> 00:26:57,960 Speaker 2: Alpha was hiding out from him for a while. 505 00:26:58,359 --> 00:27:00,720 Speaker 1: Then, whether it was by the way, I want to 506 00:27:00,760 --> 00:27:03,360 Speaker 1: I want to explain with people. So so Leon ran 507 00:27:03,480 --> 00:27:06,720 Speaker 1: off with the crack or whatever it is, I don't 508 00:27:06,720 --> 00:27:09,119 Speaker 1: know the Supreme Team gave Alford. Now, Supreme Team is 509 00:27:09,240 --> 00:27:14,439 Speaker 1: known for assassinating the the police officer Edward Burns, who 510 00:27:14,520 --> 00:27:19,240 Speaker 1: was guarding a witness for a crack cocaine case. So 511 00:27:20,119 --> 00:27:24,800 Speaker 1: they pulled up. The cop was outside watching and protecting 512 00:27:25,480 --> 00:27:28,320 Speaker 1: a witness, and they pulled up and they killed They 513 00:27:28,359 --> 00:27:33,119 Speaker 1: assassinated a cop. So these people or there were people 514 00:27:33,200 --> 00:27:37,840 Speaker 1: that obviously were very serious about what they were doing. Yeah, 515 00:27:38,800 --> 00:27:41,920 Speaker 1: So and that became a case that went all the 516 00:27:41,960 --> 00:27:44,560 Speaker 1: way up to the presidency where he talked about it. 517 00:27:44,920 --> 00:27:51,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, so you know he was he he wanted to 518 00:27:52,080 --> 00:27:54,879 Speaker 2: uh not have that pressure on him, but the pressure 519 00:27:54,960 --> 00:27:57,879 Speaker 2: was great. And he's behind from the guy Alfred aufhad 520 00:27:57,960 --> 00:27:59,960 Speaker 2: hiding from the guy. Oh and whoever the guy was. 521 00:28:00,080 --> 00:28:03,159 Speaker 2: I still remember he had a he had a brown 522 00:28:03,720 --> 00:28:06,920 Speaker 2: kind of maroon is three hundred Essex, the same car 523 00:28:07,119 --> 00:28:09,159 Speaker 2: because I used to see him coming and he'd be 524 00:28:09,280 --> 00:28:11,600 Speaker 2: parking on different blocks till it got to the point 525 00:28:11,640 --> 00:28:14,640 Speaker 2: where Alfred talking with they like, Yo, I'm gonna sell 526 00:28:14,720 --> 00:28:18,000 Speaker 2: my call selling I call it damn it because he 527 00:28:18,200 --> 00:28:20,240 Speaker 2: got to pay then back that money. It was that 528 00:28:20,359 --> 00:28:22,359 Speaker 2: he owed him something like fifteen hundred dollars and fifteen 529 00:28:22,440 --> 00:28:25,399 Speaker 2: hundred dollars a lot at fifteen fifteen hundred dollars a 530 00:28:25,440 --> 00:28:27,280 Speaker 2: lot at the time. So he said, I'm gonna sell 531 00:28:27,320 --> 00:28:31,399 Speaker 2: my car home. You have to what your world's I'm 532 00:28:31,400 --> 00:28:35,119 Speaker 2: gonna do, right, So in the back of my mind 533 00:28:35,359 --> 00:28:38,560 Speaker 2: I knew now that you had a car you driving. 534 00:28:38,800 --> 00:28:42,960 Speaker 2: So what happened is now and get to eighty six, 535 00:28:44,840 --> 00:28:49,600 Speaker 2: my money from the insurance comes in. I'm eighteen now boom, 536 00:28:49,760 --> 00:28:53,400 Speaker 2: I'll go buy the Cadillacsville Loo. She said, I'm gonna 537 00:28:53,400 --> 00:28:56,080 Speaker 2: go crazy. Oh shit, they like my car. I'm starting 538 00:28:56,120 --> 00:28:58,680 Speaker 2: to drive them around or stuff like that. And they 539 00:28:58,760 --> 00:29:04,200 Speaker 2: eventually talked me into driving them down to L's show 540 00:29:04,320 --> 00:29:05,120 Speaker 2: in Philly. 541 00:29:05,040 --> 00:29:07,520 Speaker 1: Driving them down to when ll co J was on tour. Yeah, 542 00:29:07,800 --> 00:29:09,400 Speaker 1: you could drive whole down there. 543 00:29:09,760 --> 00:29:13,080 Speaker 2: When L first got on, he choose the hard rocks 544 00:29:13,120 --> 00:29:16,280 Speaker 2: and gangsters around our way, the guys from the corner 545 00:29:16,320 --> 00:29:18,320 Speaker 2: of the bed, Yeah, to be a security. 546 00:29:18,680 --> 00:29:19,960 Speaker 1: Took he wanted them to. 547 00:29:20,120 --> 00:29:23,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, he wanted them to be a security. So they 548 00:29:23,400 --> 00:29:26,400 Speaker 2: he took mookie and losing them as a security. But 549 00:29:27,080 --> 00:29:29,680 Speaker 2: now when they start getting close, they wanted more of 550 00:29:29,720 --> 00:29:31,840 Speaker 2: their boys to come down there. So you should you 551 00:29:31,960 --> 00:29:34,239 Speaker 2: got a car, now, why don't you drive down there? 552 00:29:34,520 --> 00:29:38,560 Speaker 2: And I drove them to Philly, right, and now we 553 00:29:38,880 --> 00:29:44,280 Speaker 2: we Philly and everything is what we heard. It was 554 00:29:44,360 --> 00:29:45,040 Speaker 2: the girls are. 555 00:29:45,040 --> 00:29:47,320 Speaker 1: All of us and pulling them all this that that 556 00:29:47,440 --> 00:29:51,560 Speaker 1: that and the was ll col J, Big Daddy Kane 557 00:29:51,640 --> 00:29:55,480 Speaker 1: EKMD Public Enemy. That one. Let me say it, you 558 00:29:55,600 --> 00:29:56,640 Speaker 1: know you can remember better than. 559 00:29:57,280 --> 00:30:01,400 Speaker 2: First one was run DMC l O c J TIMEX 560 00:30:01,480 --> 00:30:03,840 Speaker 2: Social Club and the Beastie Boys. 561 00:30:03,720 --> 00:30:06,240 Speaker 1: Time Ax Social Club and the Beastie Boys. That was 562 00:30:06,280 --> 00:30:06,920 Speaker 1: the first talk. 563 00:30:07,560 --> 00:30:08,640 Speaker 2: So yeah, the first one. 564 00:30:08,880 --> 00:30:12,120 Speaker 1: So remember when I saw the Beasts, I said, man, 565 00:30:12,160 --> 00:30:13,440 Speaker 1: these dudes are crazy. 566 00:30:13,640 --> 00:30:19,200 Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, yeah yeah. So now we're backstage, we have 567 00:30:19,280 --> 00:30:23,680 Speaker 2: the but come I wasn't on before. It was weak. 568 00:30:24,080 --> 00:30:28,000 Speaker 2: It's and they talking about they want more of their 569 00:30:28,200 --> 00:30:32,160 Speaker 2: crew to be down there doing that. And so I remember, 570 00:30:32,560 --> 00:30:35,080 Speaker 2: like he said, well, I know somebody else they got 571 00:30:35,120 --> 00:30:38,840 Speaker 2: a car boys, I knew Alfred Sula's car to to 572 00:30:38,960 --> 00:30:41,400 Speaker 2: me to you, n we got a car. 573 00:30:42,160 --> 00:30:42,360 Speaker 1: Next. 574 00:30:42,480 --> 00:30:47,080 Speaker 2: You know, Dame is on these trips. Dame is on 575 00:30:47,200 --> 00:30:50,240 Speaker 2: the trips. And and now we get to the point 576 00:30:50,600 --> 00:30:55,520 Speaker 2: where El's last song. He always like Farmer's crew come 577 00:30:55,600 --> 00:30:58,920 Speaker 2: on stage, and we on stage, fourteen thousand people at 578 00:30:58,960 --> 00:31:02,280 Speaker 2: the spectrums there at us and we up there and 579 00:31:02,400 --> 00:31:05,280 Speaker 2: you know, l come through giving everybody a pound, and 580 00:31:05,360 --> 00:31:07,680 Speaker 2: you know the second he giving pound for that second 581 00:31:07,760 --> 00:31:10,920 Speaker 2: right there, all fourteen thousand eyes on you, and that 582 00:31:11,040 --> 00:31:16,200 Speaker 2: shit was crazy right there. I'm experiencing it, you experiencing it. 583 00:31:16,880 --> 00:31:19,440 Speaker 2: And we start going back and forth, back and forth, 584 00:31:19,520 --> 00:31:24,600 Speaker 2: back and forth, spots like spotting, spoting spot and when 585 00:31:24,640 --> 00:31:26,960 Speaker 2: we could get in New York until we get it. 586 00:31:27,360 --> 00:31:33,080 Speaker 2: But then by the time it got to nineteen eighty nine, 587 00:31:33,600 --> 00:31:37,560 Speaker 2: I got the job on the tour, you by haitting 588 00:31:37,760 --> 00:31:40,800 Speaker 2: had the sixteen pastring of Van. So if anybody's gonna 589 00:31:40,840 --> 00:31:42,960 Speaker 2: make it to the show, they gotta come through you. 590 00:31:43,200 --> 00:31:45,600 Speaker 2: So the first call put into you and then putting 591 00:31:45,640 --> 00:31:47,400 Speaker 2: a call into Harrold, this is where we're gonna be 592 00:31:47,520 --> 00:31:51,280 Speaker 2: at until it got to a point where a lot 593 00:31:51,280 --> 00:31:55,960 Speaker 2: of niggas wanna give up no gas money. You come 594 00:31:56,000 --> 00:32:00,320 Speaker 2: up there sixteen pastries of Van by yourself, right, and 595 00:32:00,440 --> 00:32:04,200 Speaker 2: then that's when you start saying like, yoh, well, shoot, 596 00:32:04,280 --> 00:32:06,480 Speaker 2: you're gonna be here, why can't I be here? And 597 00:32:06,880 --> 00:32:10,240 Speaker 2: I had went to the promoter, and you had said 598 00:32:10,440 --> 00:32:13,000 Speaker 2: that those bands that they be wrinting, that you could 599 00:32:13,040 --> 00:32:15,640 Speaker 2: do it right, you know, I don't know, you know, 600 00:32:15,800 --> 00:32:18,520 Speaker 2: And you said, well, I'll do it for free, just 601 00:32:18,600 --> 00:32:21,000 Speaker 2: to show them I could do it. And then in 602 00:32:21,280 --> 00:32:24,200 Speaker 2: order for you to do it for free, you would 603 00:32:24,240 --> 00:32:26,040 Speaker 2: have to go back home work and then and then 604 00:32:26,120 --> 00:32:28,040 Speaker 2: come back here. But to stop you from doing that, 605 00:32:28,960 --> 00:32:32,600 Speaker 2: every city that we go to, I could get three tickets, 606 00:32:34,480 --> 00:32:36,640 Speaker 2: and I will go get the tickets A couple of 607 00:32:36,720 --> 00:32:39,600 Speaker 2: backshafe passes as for the other dances to go get 608 00:32:39,640 --> 00:32:43,280 Speaker 2: there three tickets and we went outside in the in 609 00:32:43,400 --> 00:32:45,480 Speaker 2: front of the couse and we just said the most 610 00:32:45,600 --> 00:32:48,880 Speaker 2: expensive ticket was seventeen fifty. And we go out there 611 00:32:48,880 --> 00:32:50,640 Speaker 2: and sell a couple of tickets, get to ten dollars, 612 00:32:50,720 --> 00:32:54,440 Speaker 2: ten dollars, ten dollars, and make about seventy dollars for 613 00:32:54,520 --> 00:32:57,320 Speaker 2: you to get gased. I think, just so you don't 614 00:32:57,400 --> 00:32:58,800 Speaker 2: have to go back home work, you go to the 615 00:32:58,880 --> 00:33:03,960 Speaker 2: next place. But while we're doing this, it's guys out 616 00:33:04,040 --> 00:33:06,640 Speaker 2: there with the with the bootlegs two shirts, just kicking off, 617 00:33:06,800 --> 00:33:08,720 Speaker 2: kicking off, were getting our a little bit of money, 618 00:33:08,760 --> 00:33:13,440 Speaker 2: but they getting a hundredsome. We just watching it. Old ship, 619 00:33:14,040 --> 00:33:14,800 Speaker 2: old shit. 620 00:33:15,160 --> 00:33:15,240 Speaker 1: And. 621 00:33:17,680 --> 00:33:22,080 Speaker 2: We've seen this so many times. And then by the 622 00:33:22,240 --> 00:33:26,920 Speaker 2: time the tour is over. By the time the tour 623 00:33:27,040 --> 00:33:31,240 Speaker 2: is over, it's like, you know, it's cool running around 624 00:33:31,240 --> 00:33:33,320 Speaker 2: with talking on so so, but we we gotta get 625 00:33:33,400 --> 00:33:39,680 Speaker 2: something for ourself. And that's when I pulled myself on 626 00:33:40,600 --> 00:33:43,080 Speaker 2: the box and I'm doing this right here, right And 627 00:33:43,240 --> 00:33:46,560 Speaker 2: then you had a bunch of ideas you did you 628 00:33:46,680 --> 00:33:49,320 Speaker 2: did the other boat thing, and and we did the 629 00:33:49,360 --> 00:33:54,880 Speaker 2: super soaker thing on on the thing. But I believe 630 00:33:55,600 --> 00:33:59,320 Speaker 2: it was from you seeing uh how much money was 631 00:33:59,400 --> 00:34:04,600 Speaker 2: in that hill pop merchandise that helped you have that 632 00:34:04,960 --> 00:34:07,400 Speaker 2: vision when you come back home, like the do. 633 00:34:07,520 --> 00:34:09,600 Speaker 1: The clothes, and I saw, but I also saw people 634 00:34:09,840 --> 00:34:11,600 Speaker 1: doing what they love, like l and all. I saw 635 00:34:11,600 --> 00:34:14,400 Speaker 1: all the people out there cheering. But I think the 636 00:34:14,440 --> 00:34:16,640 Speaker 1: critical thing was I was ready to do that tour 637 00:34:16,760 --> 00:34:19,040 Speaker 1: for free when people were haggling. I was ready to 638 00:34:19,200 --> 00:34:21,520 Speaker 1: drive I don't know Philadelphia all the way home, but 639 00:34:21,840 --> 00:34:25,400 Speaker 1: I remember one time Elle said because he did, we 640 00:34:25,400 --> 00:34:26,880 Speaker 1: didn't know that well. He said, Yo, who want to 641 00:34:26,920 --> 00:34:30,080 Speaker 1: take all my dirty ass underwear to my grandmother? And 642 00:34:30,200 --> 00:34:34,040 Speaker 1: I was like I do, And four years or five 643 00:34:34,120 --> 00:34:35,640 Speaker 1: years later I would knock on his door and ask 644 00:34:35,719 --> 00:34:37,359 Speaker 1: him to take a picture, but I would take home 645 00:34:37,440 --> 00:34:41,279 Speaker 1: his dirty ass underwear to his grandmother. And where most 646 00:34:41,320 --> 00:34:43,480 Speaker 1: men would say, why am I taking another man's underwear 647 00:34:43,520 --> 00:34:46,799 Speaker 1: home and paying for it? Because it was the gas 648 00:34:46,880 --> 00:34:50,719 Speaker 1: that costs me money and and uh. 649 00:34:50,840 --> 00:34:55,720 Speaker 2: So what I'm showing is to get to that point 650 00:34:55,880 --> 00:35:00,200 Speaker 2: in Hollywood. If Alfred never had his problems, and if 651 00:35:00,280 --> 00:35:03,560 Speaker 2: my father never died, we would have never been in 652 00:35:03,680 --> 00:35:05,960 Speaker 2: oppositions and my. 653 00:35:06,040 --> 00:35:08,040 Speaker 1: Father would have never left. I never became the man 654 00:35:08,080 --> 00:35:09,160 Speaker 1: of the house at ten years old. 655 00:35:09,400 --> 00:35:09,600 Speaker 2: Yeah. 656 00:35:09,800 --> 00:35:13,040 Speaker 1: So I think it's powerful about how the things that 657 00:35:13,160 --> 00:35:15,480 Speaker 1: have created us that a lot of people will suffer 658 00:35:15,560 --> 00:35:17,400 Speaker 1: from and they have to get over and deal with it. 659 00:35:17,840 --> 00:35:19,239 Speaker 1: It is what it is. So, man, thank you so 660 00:35:19,520 --> 00:35:21,520 Speaker 1: so much for spending that moment. When we Man, we're 661 00:35:21,520 --> 00:35:24,960 Speaker 1: gonna be talking about this some more. I have a 662 00:35:25,080 --> 00:35:28,160 Speaker 1: really good time walking down memory lane. And I love 663 00:35:28,239 --> 00:35:30,839 Speaker 1: you brother, and your your very close friend. 664 00:35:30,920 --> 00:35:31,040 Speaker 2: Man. 665 00:35:31,120 --> 00:35:34,560 Speaker 1: It always has been and man, it's amazing. Thank you brother. 666 00:35:35,160 --> 00:35:35,359 Speaker 2: Yeah. 667 00:35:36,080 --> 00:35:40,240 Speaker 1: Ship show That Moment with Damon John is a production 668 00:35:40,480 --> 00:35:44,279 Speaker 1: of the Black Effect Podcast Network. For more podcasts from 669 00:35:44,360 --> 00:35:49,600 Speaker 1: the Black Effect Podcast Network, visit the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, 670 00:35:49,760 --> 00:35:53,040 Speaker 1: or wherever you listen to your favorite show and don't 671 00:35:53,160 --> 00:35:57,640 Speaker 1: forget to subscribe to and rate the show. And of 672 00:35:57,680 --> 00:35:59,200 Speaker 1: course you can all connect with me on any of 673 00:35:59,239 --> 00:36:04,480 Speaker 1: my social media platforms at the Shark. Damon spelt like Raymond, 674 00:36:04,560 --> 00:36:05,080 Speaker 1: but what a d