Speaker 1: So let's talk about the Academy Awards that I did
Speaker 1: not see. And I am not a hater. I don't
Speaker 1: know why. I'm not hungry, Like I don't know why
Speaker 1: I didn't care. I went out to dinner Sunday night.
Speaker 1: I did not even realize it was the Oscars and
Speaker 1: I didn't care. And it's not like I said, being
Speaker 1: a hater. I just didn't care and I didn't know,
Speaker 1: and I didn't see any of the movies. And the
Speaker 1: whole world changed since the pandemic with movie going, which
Speaker 1: was already suffering. But I mean, do you ever go
Speaker 1: to the movies? Like, do you ever go to the movies?
Speaker 1: Because if you go to the movies, by the time
Speaker 1: you leave the movie, it's already on your television. And
Speaker 1: I used to go to the I Pick with my
Speaker 1: daughter because of the experience. Like I just to be
Speaker 1: perfectly honest, I was going through a wretched divorce and
Speaker 1: didn't want to be in my house. So I would
Speaker 1: go there to like bring my own blanket and pillow
Speaker 1: because I was lucky enough to have a driver, and
Speaker 1: I'd have the blanket and pillow in the car and
Speaker 1: it'd take my daughter and we would just snuggle and
Speaker 1: lay and order mid food, and I just cherished being
Speaker 1: able to have her like locked in with me for
Speaker 1: that period of time. But that really is the last
Speaker 1: time I can remember going to the movies. I just
Speaker 1: that is a dying art. It's a dead art. When
Speaker 1: we were kids, that was like the weekend, and then
Speaker 1: people were complaining about how much money it would be
Speaker 1: to go with the family to the movies because you
Speaker 1: had to pay for all the concessions and the snacks
Speaker 1: because that was the only way they could afford to
Speaker 1: keep it going and ticket sales. I just, I mean,
Speaker 1: where are movie theaters anymore? Like so actors, and I
Speaker 1: don't know what the ratings were the oscars. I guess
Speaker 1: I would have to look it up because I don't
Speaker 1: know if people care. And then thank God for the fashion,
Speaker 1: because it seems like the only reason people care is
Speaker 1: for the fashion. And sometimes I think I saw something
Speaker 1: because I saw a clip on social media. So I'll
Speaker 1: see a clip on social media about a podcast and
Speaker 1: think that I listened to the podcast. And the reason
Speaker 1: I know that's not possible is that I have never
Speaker 1: listened to a podcast. So I've convinced myself that I've
Speaker 1: heard a whole interview on Call Her Daddy because I
Speaker 1: saw a two minute clip.
Speaker 2: So basically, the Oscars is the same thing.
Speaker 1: Like I was there because I saw the Vanity Fair
Speaker 1: party and Kim wearing a gold dress. So for the
Speaker 1: people in the industry, like they need to go to
Speaker 1: those parties because that's where you're really working at and
Speaker 1: networking and just marketing yourself as a person, you really
Speaker 1: need the red carpet because you need to have a
Speaker 1: look that bangs and slams, just like the met Gala.
Speaker 1: Like that's a business. Like you're watching I think it
Speaker 1: was Kate Hudson and Demi Moore do an add for
Speaker 1: Charlotte Tilbury via the Oscars. You see them both holding
Speaker 1: the heart shape beautiful Charlotte Tillbury compact, which I have,
Speaker 1: and like that's a commercial. So them going to the
Speaker 1: Oscars is business because they're doing a brand new which
Speaker 1: no one understands more than I do. And then Kelly
Speaker 1: Rippa is doing one for Lareel with Christopher Buckle doing
Speaker 1: her makeup. The doing the movie is no longer the thing.
Speaker 1: It's the doing the thing around the thing. So it's
Speaker 1: the holding the heart compact for Charlotte Tilbury, which is
Speaker 1: what I've been saying for such a long time. I
Speaker 1: started that on reality TV when I was making two
Speaker 1: hundred fifty dollars, even pre Kardashians, I was, you know,
Speaker 1: using that as a platform because what was the point
Speaker 1: of me being on TV to make and two hundred
Speaker 1: and fifty.
Speaker 2: Dollars and expose myself?
Speaker 1: And the exposure wasn't as bad then as it is
Speaker 1: now because of social media and because of blogs and
Speaker 1: everything you say, but the mediums have all changed, everything's changed.
Speaker 1: So I think that because I saw what someone wearing
Speaker 1: on the Vanity Fair red carpet that I saw the
Speaker 1: oscars and I didn't even see anything that happened at
Speaker 1: the Vanity Fair party, not that you could because it's
Speaker 1: just a party, but that is a show.
Speaker 2: The show is outside the show.
Speaker 1: So I saw Kim Kardashian wearing a gold dress and
Speaker 1: I was thinking, I'm thinking aloud, because I was thinking,
Speaker 1: why was Kim only wearing one dress and Kylie was
Speaker 1: wearing two looks? And that's because Kylie was with Timothy
Speaker 1: Shalome as his girlfriend at the Oscar events because he's nominated.
Speaker 1: He was nominated, So she's supporting her boyfriend or life partner.
Speaker 1: I can't help but love them. I can't help but
Speaker 1: love them. I know nothing about them. I just can't
Speaker 1: help but think they're truly in love. They're a nice couple.
Speaker 1: It doesn't mean I know that they're ending up together
Speaker 1: any more than I knew that Justin bieber or Selena
Speaker 1: Gomez or Britney Spears and Justin Timberlake are ending up together.
Speaker 2: But I like them together. They super cute.
Speaker 1: Nice to have, like a cute sort of high school
Speaker 1: boyfriend partner in the world of the opposite of high school,
Speaker 1: Like it's just you're in grown up Hollywood entertainment, big
Speaker 1: girl and boy panty land, but they get to have
Speaker 1: each other.
Speaker 2: It's just something cute about it. So I like it.
Speaker 2: She always looks incredible.
Speaker 1: It is so amazing that Kylie Jenner was the Swan.
Speaker 1: We had a similar agent, and my agent went to
Speaker 1: Chloe's wedding and I'll never forget. She wore like a
Speaker 1: strapless cream dress and she it was to lamar Odom
Speaker 1: and she had like a purple like ribbon around her belt.
Speaker 1: This is back when people wore like one outfit it
Speaker 1: wasn't like a circus, and she had like this eight carrot,
Speaker 1: really pretty diamond and Mary lamar odom And I remember
Speaker 1: my agent coming back from that wedding and saying, wow,
Speaker 1: like you know who looked amazing and who is the
Speaker 1: one to watch is Kylie?
Speaker 2: But like that was Kendall and Kylie.
Speaker 1: They were the little girls on the show, like arguing,
Speaker 1: getting into trouble. She was and her sister was the model,
Speaker 1: which probably really motivated her because she was like not
Speaker 1: the model. And she looks so stunning and I mean
Speaker 1: every look and the waste and the sense. I mean
Speaker 1: she really does like land it. She really lands it.
Speaker 1: So her looks were amazing. I think they're cute. So
Speaker 1: people have been criticizing Kim's look and I don't understand,
Speaker 1: like Kim knew her place at an event in my opinion.
Speaker 1: So here's the thing. If I'm invited to something, I
Speaker 1: like to think about what it means and like why
Speaker 1: I'm there and who I am to the experience. Okay,
Speaker 1: So while Kim Kardashian is the queen of the universe
Speaker 1: in many ways, she's not going to walk into the
Speaker 1: Oscars when she's not in a movie. She's not nominated
Speaker 1: for anything. She's not going to the Oscars, she's not
Speaker 1: going to go to the Vanity Fair party, and like
Speaker 1: take Over, she could and she could land it, but
Speaker 1: I just think the choice is wise. Like and frankly,
Speaker 1: Kylie wore a hot dress, but she didn't take over either.
Speaker 2: She's not up for the award. And there's something to
Speaker 2: be said for this.
Speaker 1: Like let's say you're invited to trybeca film festival, but
Speaker 1: you're just invited to go see a movie that's a
Speaker 1: different outfit than you produced, a movie, you acted in,
Speaker 1: a movie, you directed, a movie you have. It has
Speaker 1: something to do with you. And Kim's boyfriend is a
Speaker 1: race car driver, I think, right, So it was different
Speaker 1: when she was Reggie Bush. She wore like the football
Speaker 1: outfit when she went with Reggie Bush to the Super Bowl,
Speaker 1: just like Alex Earl used to go and dress the
Speaker 1: part when she was with a football player. Like it's
Speaker 1: just there's a nuance to what you wear to what.
Speaker 1: So Kim wore an elegant, beaded Gucci gown. Gucci's having
Speaker 1: its moment right now, and she had like a cool
Speaker 1: she care moment, and like that's it. But like, I
Speaker 1: like that she didn't come in moogler like hair dripping, wet, sinching,
Speaker 1: meril monrose dress, giant train, Like it really doesn't have
Speaker 1: anything to do with her. She's a guest of the
Speaker 1: Vanity Fair party, which is an elite party. She's gonna
Speaker 1: see a lot of her peers. If she were single,
Speaker 1: she might have seen a guy. Like that's just a
Speaker 1: fun night out for her. So you go on certain
Speaker 1: shows and you dress the part you go. I remember
Speaker 1: years ago Robert Verdy, the stylist, I think it was
Speaker 1: Watch what Happens Live I was going on. He was like,
Speaker 1: and I never thought about the fact that, like, you're
Speaker 1: sitting the whole show, so you're not gonna waste the
Speaker 1: outfit that's going to scrunch up at your waist or
Speaker 1: the skirt that you won't be able to see. You're
Speaker 1: supposed to think about it. You're sitting, are you standing?
Speaker 1: How much of your body are they showing? And then
Speaker 1: he'd be like, that's a shoe show. I never thought
Speaker 1: about that, Like it was a shoe show because you're
Speaker 1: sitting and what you're seeing is people's waist to their
Speaker 1: head and the shoes the legs, so yes, your shimmer
Speaker 1: better be shimmering on the legs. And I remember, I
Speaker 1: think it was him too, because I've never had a stylist.
Speaker 1: Remember I would back then, I would like ask someone
Speaker 1: a friend or something like what are you ware of this?
Speaker 1: And he'd be like, the view that's like you're with
Speaker 1: your girlfriends a little bit elevated. Like I've seen people
Speaker 1: go on those shows and like get decked out, or
Speaker 1: go on like Ellen or one of those shows and
Speaker 1: get decked out. But to me, you're sitting down with
Speaker 1: your girlfriends when you talk to Kelly Rippo, when you
Speaker 1: talk to them, like it's a what would you wear
Speaker 1: with your girlfriend's elevated show? It's morning, etc. Like I said,
Speaker 1: of course people get decked out and wear beads and
Speaker 1: sequins in the morning, but I don't believe in that.
Speaker 1: So I believe you dressed for where you're going. So
Speaker 1: I didn't see any problem with what Kim wore. I
Speaker 1: thought it was actually totally appropriate. And then you see
Speaker 1: people trying to do too much like someone was, And
Speaker 1: I'm not going to criticize anyone Like Kara Delivin is amazing,
Speaker 1: and I've had the pleasure of walking with her in
Speaker 1: the Lorial show, and she runs the show.
Speaker 2: There.
Speaker 1: She wore something where like the chest was on her body.
Speaker 1: I don't know if she had anything to do with
Speaker 1: the oscars, but people were talking about what she wore.
Speaker 1: Julia Fox is known for like shock value, so she
Speaker 1: wore something of shock value. I think people get into
Speaker 1: trouble when they try to do too much.
Speaker 2: But then you don't want to be boring. You don't
Speaker 2: want to be boring.
Speaker 1: You know, people are like, can we please not see
Speaker 1: another blond woman in a beat a dress? I think
Speaker 1: for me, I don't think the dress would be the
Speaker 1: hardest thing to land. I really don't. I think the
Speaker 1: common nation would be the hardest thing to land. Like
Speaker 1: make sure that the makeup is slamming, and that the
Speaker 1: chances that you take with like the hair, with the makeup,
Speaker 1: with the jewelry, with the dress land. I think Lauren
Speaker 1: Sanchez I texted her she did a great job, like
Speaker 1: someone did a video saying she picked a dress to
Speaker 1: go with her jewelry. She wore a Lorraine Schwartz pink
Speaker 1: and white diamond necklace, which matches her ring. I think
Speaker 1: it was elegant. I think also she and Jeff like
Speaker 1: they knew their place. They were like old Hollywood glamour.
Speaker 1: She wore a strapless waist cinched black like satin type
Speaker 1: dress and I don't know who made it, but like
Speaker 1: people comment on her, and she's always showing the body
Speaker 1: and the boobs, like you couldn't really see the boobs.
Speaker 1: Guess what she has boobs. She has a cinch waist
Speaker 1: and she wants you're allowed to have your own personal style.
Speaker 1: If Julia Fox could dress like over the top, like
Speaker 1: costume theatrical, like, that's not my style, but I get it,
Speaker 1: I accept it. Lauren Sanchez can always wear like a
Speaker 1: cinched corset like Doulce vibes thing, because that's what she is.
Speaker 1: She wants to be sexy. She didn't get her man
Speaker 1: by not being sexy, the man that many of you
Speaker 1: were jealous that she got and criticized her. So she
Speaker 1: was wearing I think it was like perfect. They looked
Speaker 1: like mister and missus Oscar. They looked very old world glamour.
Speaker 1: I think Kim looked very old Hollywood glamour too. Kylie
Speaker 1: always manages that like listen in the future, these will
Speaker 1: be the starlets of our generation. People will look back
Speaker 1: and think of them as like that old world Hollywood.
Speaker 1: So I had no problem with these looks. I didn't
Speaker 1: see everything else. I don't even know the names of
Speaker 1: a lot.
Speaker 2: Of the people. I saw a Michael B.
Speaker 1: Jordan hugging Leonardo DiCaprio moment after he won. I imagine, like,
Speaker 1: you know, he's looking to Leo, who I love, love Leo,
Speaker 1: had met Leo. I think he's cool. He minds his
Speaker 1: own fucking business. Everyone's up his ass. But I think
Speaker 1: he's a nice guy. Like he's a nice, chill guy.
Speaker 1: He likes to have fun, and he dates beautiful women
Speaker 1: and that's the end of it, Like fuck off. So anyway,
Speaker 1: I think that probably Michael B. Jordan was like overwhelmed
Speaker 1: he won. He knew he was up against Leo, who's
Speaker 1: like the Jack Nicholson of our generation. Like he's just
Speaker 1: like the legendary actor since he was a kid. I
Speaker 1: forgot the name of the show he did when he
Speaker 1: was a kid, because that's how old it wasn't my
Speaker 1: so called life was it? With what it doesn't matter?
Speaker 1: With what's her name from Homeland doesn't matter. I don't
Speaker 1: remember anything, but you all know what I'm talking about.
Speaker 1: He has been a legend and an extraordinary actor his
Speaker 1: whole life, like being handpicked by Robert de Niro, and
Speaker 1: so I guess it was like a very meaningful moment.
Speaker 1: But again, we can get all of this Garner, all
Speaker 1: of this through just like clips. That's what's crazy. That's
Speaker 1: why when people say why don't you have a show,
Speaker 1: It's like, what do you mean?
Speaker 2: I have a show?
Speaker 1: I have a phone. Why don't I have a show?
Speaker 1: What do you mean why don't I have a show.
Speaker 1: I have a phone. I do have a show.
Speaker 2: We're on it. This is it. My phone's my show.
Speaker 2: That's the way it goes.
Speaker 1: Okay, So I really want to talk about hard workers
Speaker 1: versus shiny bullshit resumes. I have learned over and over
Speaker 1: again since the beginning of my business, when I would
Speaker 1: hire people just based on their proximity to me. I've
Speaker 1: had assistance that were making more money than I was
Speaker 1: making because I was broke when I needed someone to
Speaker 1: help me. And if someone has a hard work ethic,
Speaker 1: I could teach them anything loyalty, honesty, hard work, desire, passion, drive.
Speaker 1: I don't care about their resume at all, and in fact,
Speaker 1: the better the resume, the worse the employee. I have
Speaker 1: had such fancy resume, job titles and people that people
Speaker 1: have worked for before, and situations that I get excited
Speaker 1: by every time, and then they come and they are
Speaker 1: just basic. They're lazy, everything's too much. They can play
Speaker 1: and they whine and put that up against hard workers.
Speaker 2: It's unbelievable.
Speaker 1: I have a situation where I have people working for
Speaker 1: me that I've had it so many times. I have
Speaker 1: a girl who works for the Core who used to
Speaker 1: be my assistant, and I said to the woman running
Speaker 1: the corps, I said, listen to me. She's a hard worker.
Speaker 1: I taught her everything you could teach her everything. She's
Speaker 1: a sponge, She's loyal, she's hardworking. These guys that are
Speaker 1: now working for me that worked for me on like
Speaker 1: sort of a part time basis, and I thought they
Speaker 1: never I thought they were like beaves and butterhead and
Speaker 1: they could never do it. They are working better than
Speaker 1: people who have come from the best recruiters in the country.
Speaker 1: Like they are just loyal, young, hardworking, not precious, not sensitive,
Speaker 1: not complaining young men.
Speaker 2: One is in college. I make a joke.
Speaker 1: I go, I've got a college student and a mechanic
Speaker 1: running my business. They are more thorough more communicative, more organized,
Speaker 1: more on top of it make me feel more safe
Speaker 1: than people that have decades of experience and have been
Speaker 1: making six figures.
Speaker 2: Like well, into six figures.
Speaker 1: I am upside down because I keep waiting for the
Speaker 1: other shooto fall and it's not like they're crushing. I
Speaker 1: just have to say to take this into your business
Speaker 1: or your life, or your household or whatever however this
Speaker 1: applies to you. I just want you to know that
Speaker 1: you could be spending so much more money than you
Speaker 1: need to because you have people in positions and you
Speaker 1: think they're sort of either supervising or managing, and then
Speaker 1: you realize, wait a second, if I'm micromanaging the person
Speaker 1: that's managing these other people, why don't I just manage
Speaker 1: these other people.
Speaker 2: It's the same amount of work. It's a path of
Speaker 2: least resistance.
Speaker 1: Get these expensive seasoned all delegating farming out people out.
Speaker 1: A lot of times you think that someone's working, but
Speaker 1: what they're really just doing is farming it out. And
Speaker 1: you could see it like they are based like a
Speaker 1: contractor in your own business. You're watching them, You're watching
Speaker 1: you ask them to do something and then then farm
Speaker 1: it out to someone else, them delegated someone else. You're like, well,
Speaker 1: I could have asked that person to do that. What
Speaker 1: are you doing? Like you have to really stop down
Speaker 1: in your business and say what exactly are these people
Speaker 1: doing and be able to follow the breadcrumbs track it
Speaker 1: because I started to think, I don't know, like it
Speaker 1: feels like this person is just like farming everything out,
Speaker 1: and then you find out that those people were doing
Speaker 1: all the actual work. This person was just saying to them,
Speaker 1: go get that done. But they had all the contacts,
Speaker 1: they had all the relationships, they were doing it. It's insane.
Speaker 1: It's insane, which is said, what's happened to me a
Speaker 1: couple of times now. So I always go for the
Speaker 1: shiny objects and I really learn my lesson. You know,
Speaker 1: they're like grown men, particularly of a certain era and age,
Speaker 1: because they're old school drive buzzed like I've seen it.
Speaker 1: I've saw it twice on dates where I had to
Speaker 1: stop the person I want to get out of the car,
Speaker 1: like I'm not managing someone else's alcohol intake. I'm not
Speaker 1: looking at exactly how many drinks they had. I know
Speaker 1: how many drinks I had. I was on a date
Speaker 1: and I had half a martini and then I had
Speaker 1: two glasses of wine. And for me, like that's a lot.
Speaker 1: That's too much, Like half a martini and one glass
Speaker 1: of wine would be okay, but like, you know, whatever
Speaker 1: I was feeling myself. The point is, I know that
Speaker 1: I felt that I was too much. I'm not babysitting
Speaker 1: and counting someone else's drinks. But then I've been in
Speaker 1: a car with someone where they either look down at
Speaker 1: their phone or they're acting a little sloppy, not quite swerving,
Speaker 1: but like one guy like went through he didn't go
Speaker 1: through a stops and we're at a stop sign and
Speaker 1: he went through like a very busy street, but like
Speaker 1: it was too close for comfort, and I was like,
Speaker 1: are you It was just driving a little like slightly
Speaker 1: recklessly and it freaked me out and I said something
Speaker 1: after I actually was he was someone who was in
Speaker 1: the core, very successful catch and a half, and I
Speaker 1: was like that made me feel really uncomfortable and really unsafe.
Speaker 1: Another time, someone like outside I was waiting to get
Speaker 1: an uber I think it was or my car to come.
Speaker 1: They got an uber and they left before me. I
Speaker 1: was thinking, like, I'm standing outside on a street. I
Speaker 1: don't care if it's old fashioned. Men need to make
Speaker 1: women feel safe in dating, but otherwise, like I did
Speaker 1: not feel safe getting into a car with someone who
Speaker 1: I think might have had too much to drink, and
Speaker 1: they're like driving, they're not taking an uber, Like, what
Speaker 1: the fuck is wrong with you? I went crazy on one.
Speaker 1: I was like, I am my entire life to my daughter.
Speaker 1: Also and it's not the primary concern at all, But
Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm also a public person. I also invented
Speaker 1: a cocktail, primarily first and foremost, Like I'm a human being.
Speaker 1: I'm a single mother. Like, also, not about me, that's
Speaker 1: being selfish? What about the other person? What about other
Speaker 1: people in other cars? Like you could hit someone. It's
Speaker 1: so like men in their fifties to think that they're
Speaker 1: invincible because they grew up when like there were no seatbelts,
Speaker 1: there was no break light. People just mothers drank and
Speaker 1: smoked while pregnant, like it was a different era. But
Speaker 1: these guys, especially, I mean not especially especially, what the
Speaker 1: fuck is wrong with me? I was gonna say, if
Speaker 1: they can afford to taken uber. Anybody that I would
Speaker 1: go out with could probably afford to take an uber.
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't I don't know. I just was
Speaker 1: so aggravated and irritated. It is such an incredible itch
Speaker 1: turn off. Disgusted what goes on with people like who's
Speaker 1: still even as buzzed and drives? Who has like two
Speaker 1: drinks like alcohol drinks and drives? And I even think
Speaker 1: like two wines is pushing it, because sometimes something could
Speaker 1: hit you sideways. You didn't eat your hormonal like you.
Speaker 1: Maybe a man worked out a lot, he's dehydrated. Like,
Speaker 1: alcohol can really affect people in different ways, and it
Speaker 1: can hit differently on different days. I would say anything
Speaker 1: more than like a drink or drink and a half
Speaker 1: for a grown man, you need to be fucking taken uber.
Speaker 2: Some might agree one drink. I don't know.
Speaker 1: I'd love to hear what you have to say about it.
Speaker 1: I'm not the one driving when I go out with
Speaker 1: these people, but I don't believe it. No, I wouldn't
Speaker 1: get in a car and drive more than one drink,
Speaker 1: Like one glass of wine really pissed me off off