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Speaker 1: Hey, guys, welcome to this episode.

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Speaker 2: To keep it positive, sweetie, Today I have the beautiful,

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Speaker 2: the talented, the funny, Pretty V. We are talking about

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Speaker 2: all things pretty confident with Pretty V.

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Speaker 1: What's up saying what they do?

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Speaker 2: Said, Oh my.

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Speaker 3: Goodness, thank you so much for having me. I'm so

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Speaker 3: happy for me to be here. Your energy is always

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Speaker 3: like ten, but just in a way of just grace,

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Speaker 3: you're poise, just the love for just us as influencers

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Speaker 3: and just just supporting me. It was it's always warm

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Speaker 3: when I met you at Shilows.

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Speaker 2: Yes, just thank you for having me, you know, thank

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Speaker 2: you for coming. Seriously. I like to start the show

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Speaker 2: with a quote or song, and I had this quote

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Speaker 2: that I want to read because this morning you called

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Speaker 2: me said, hey, Sis, I'm not wording, I'll makeup period.

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Speaker 2: And I was like, all right, we should like either

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Speaker 2: let's do it, you know, in solidarity together. And I

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Speaker 2: found this quote and it made me think of what

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Speaker 2: we're doing today and just being ourselves, raw and unfiltered.

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Speaker 2: And it says everything has beauty, but not everyone sees it.

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Speaker 2: Never lose an opportunity of seeing anything beautiful, for beauty

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Speaker 2: is God's handwriting. The beauty of a woman is not

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Speaker 2: in a facial mode, but the true beauty of a

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Speaker 2: woman is reflected in her soul.

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Speaker 1: Wow.

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Speaker 2: And I saw that and I was like, that reminds

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Speaker 2: me of what we're bodying today.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, no makeup on when I say nothing

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Speaker 3: like we can right, look when it can be just

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Speaker 3: like yes.

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Speaker 2: I love it. So thank you for helping me to

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Speaker 2: just embrace that today.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: And I wanted to do that because I felt like,

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Speaker 3: like I said, my makeup art is here with me,

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Speaker 3: but we usually do these little little touchups with concealers

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Speaker 3: and stuff like that. But I was like, you know what,

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Speaker 3: I just want to at this point, I'm running late,

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Speaker 3: you know, you.

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Speaker 1: Know, I don't want to like drive the time.

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Speaker 3: So I'm like, my skin is doing better because I

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Speaker 3: always break out, like it depends on what I eat,

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Speaker 3: and so I'm like, you know what, my skin is

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Speaker 3: doing good. Let's just work out.

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Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure Crystal understand.

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Speaker 2: So, honey, you actually made my morning. I was like, look,

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Speaker 2: that's one last thing I gotta do.

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Speaker 1: That's right. Look, So to that, I say, thank you. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's period.

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Speaker 2: Oh my goodness. So we mentioned that you met me.

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Speaker 2: We met each other at Shiloh High School. We did

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Speaker 2: a panel together speaking to young women in high school

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Speaker 2: kids just about life and things that they need to

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Speaker 2: look out for and how to help them navigate because

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Speaker 2: things are a lot different than when we were growing up. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: it's just changed so much with social media at a

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Speaker 2: very young age.

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Speaker 1: And when I met you, I was like, oh my gosh,

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Speaker 1: she's so cool, Like.

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Speaker 2: She's a girl's girl, super supportive, grounded in your faith.

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Speaker 2: And immediately like, okay, let's connect, like stay in contact

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Speaker 2: and you send me devotionals very regularly, and I appreciate that.

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Speaker 2: So I just want to say thank you for that.

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Speaker 2: So let's take it back to the beginning when you

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Speaker 2: were born in the church, a preacher's kid.

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Speaker 1: What was that like my whole life. M let's be

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Speaker 1: very clear.

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Speaker 3: My mama has been praying down in the closet in

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Speaker 3: the car right, don't care where she at, she gonna

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Speaker 3: speak out loud. I love it. I watched my mom

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Speaker 3: faith heightened over the years, you know, especially with my brother.

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Speaker 3: When my brother got into a big motorcycle accident and

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Speaker 3: a doctor said, honey, your son has.

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Speaker 1: Seventy two hours to live.

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Speaker 3: So Mama said, why I got seventy two hours fast?

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Speaker 3: I know, you know, so just for her to believe

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Speaker 3: we have to keep that faith. Yeah. So my mom

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Speaker 3: been ordained for like uh ten years, right, But my

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Speaker 3: whole life she's been in the Word and been a

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Speaker 3: So yeah, it was very strict both parents. Yes, you know,

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Speaker 3: depend on this person. No, man, it was a whole

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Speaker 3: they're happy with your decisions. So it was, it was,

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Speaker 3: it was hard, but it was I love what how

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Speaker 3: to spie out when people not don't like me.

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Speaker 1: I'm a kid, a spot up.

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Speaker 3: My discernment is always on one hundred, you know. So

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Speaker 3: but that's been taught, you know, So I didn't have

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Speaker 3: no issue. It's just like it's just always let me

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Speaker 3: do this. Mom was like, well no, because you can't

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Speaker 1: You know, and.

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Speaker 3: Right, so right, So I grew up and says trying

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Speaker 3: a mother that sees and gets it.

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Speaker 1: And I used to always feel like.

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Speaker 3: If I if my mother said don't do this, and

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Speaker 3: it's like, well, this is what makes me happy, you know,

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Speaker 3: and I want to do this, but she sees something

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Speaker 1: But sometimes we try it and.

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Speaker 3: She like, well you you, I broke up what I

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Speaker 1: It wasn't for you, Like.

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Speaker 3: We want to move on that, but not knowing like

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Speaker 3: they have discernment too, you know, and sometimes we're not

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Speaker 3: using our gift.

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Speaker 1: We just want to make fleshy decisions.

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Speaker 3: So it's a little hard to this day, especially when

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Speaker 3: it's industry Like, it's tough because you want to make

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Speaker 3: those moves and make those moments happen, and your mother

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Speaker 3: voices in your head like IM, get up off that

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Speaker 3: man couch, don't need to be there. So it's those moments.

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Speaker 3: But I've gotten better with moving with my own discernment

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Speaker 3: gonna love me regardless. She's gonna say I told you

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Speaker 3: so when you go out there, just call me back

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Speaker 3: when it you know.

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Speaker 1: So that's how she is, you know.

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Speaker 2: So speaking of that mother's voice, I know for me

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Speaker 2: being in this industry as well and being a child

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Speaker 2: that was raising the church. My mother's a pastor as well,

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Speaker 2: and that's right, yes, And it was one of those

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Speaker 1: Mm ooh yeah, you know skit right.

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Speaker 2: So I want to ask you what is that like

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Speaker 2: had to have a conversation with my parents and with

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Speaker 2: to like strengthen my own walk with God. Yeah, certain

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Speaker 2: things were like, Okay, this is not who you are,

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Speaker 2: but this is what you're portraying. Yeah, and I'm like,

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Speaker 2: what am I wrong for portraying this? So do you

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Speaker 2: ever have like instances where you hear your mom's voice

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Speaker 2: or where you're conflicted with like should I do this kid?

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Speaker 3: I mean my mua could tell you cause that's like

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Speaker 3: we all as creators, we're always thinking about something over

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Speaker 3: the top. Yes, that's someone in doing So if we're

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Speaker 3: cauld We want to get them hits. You know, we

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Speaker 3: You just wanna you just want to be bold and

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Speaker 3: daring like we are. But we gotta understand, like, let's

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Speaker 3: pull back, cause you do represent something, Yes, you do

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Speaker 3: represent grace, you do represent Oh, a woman in this

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Speaker 3: industry is trying to break through. I don't wanna be

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Speaker 3: just a skit girl. That's why I've vered off and

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Speaker 3: red carpet hosting in movies. But I still have a

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Speaker 3: love for what I do, and that's skits because I

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Speaker 3: characters doing this. So I I used to send my

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Speaker 3: and he doesn't you know I done ran him over? Yes,

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Speaker 2: Balance that it's good.

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Speaker 3: You gotta know what's gonna be bothering you at night.

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Speaker 3: If that's bothering you, take it down or how do

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Speaker 3: you need to just change it up to make it

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Speaker 3: make sense for you? So you don't have to have

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Speaker 3: am I supposed to do? Am I doing something right?

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Speaker 3: So I just try to just like move with my

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Speaker 3: like I could take it down like that's not good.

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Speaker 3: But if it's something that I know like okay, this

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Speaker 3: they gonna get it, you know, because it's something to

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Speaker 3: elevate like I can't me and dess ain't gonna be

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Speaker 3: twenty four. We did that twenty seventeen, twenty eighteen, twenty nineteen,

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Speaker 1: You know, that's what goes on in the hood.

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Speaker 3: You know, girls fighting, they baby daddy and yelling and

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Speaker 3: doing all that. So I've taught what we portray is

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Speaker 3: what we speak into existence. Because when I had COVID,

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Speaker 3: I just told this to yesterday. When I had COVID,

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Speaker 3: well before I had COVID, we need to skit at McDonald's.

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Speaker 3: And I was he was like, man, I said, well,

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Speaker 3: y'all to ask at He was like, he was like

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Speaker 3: and he said something like I'm home, and I said why,

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Speaker 3: I'm positive. Two weeks later I got COVID.

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Speaker 1: Wow, that was down.

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Speaker 3: Back the power of the time. So I'm like, I

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Speaker 3: have to really speak life into what I do, but

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Speaker 3: still be creative, still do your thing, but know that

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Speaker 3: you gotta move a little different. They still gonna catch it.

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Speaker 1: You funny. That's not gonna change, absolutely right.

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Speaker 3: It's gonna catch it, but kind of move a little

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Speaker 3: different because what you didn't back then you can't do

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Speaker 3: now because you elevating.

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Speaker 3: in the street do something funny. And then I got

440
00:18:49,480 --> 00:18:52,000
Speaker 3: viral and still was broke. I was working at fil

441
00:18:52,040 --> 00:18:54,399
Speaker 3: for Marriott, I was working all these jobs doing that.

442
00:18:54,800 --> 00:18:56,600
Speaker 3: But Faith kicked in and said, you know what, I

443
00:18:56,920 --> 00:18:58,440
Speaker 3: gotta I gotta leave this.

444
00:18:58,400 --> 00:19:00,520
Speaker 1: Alone if I want this door to open. So I

445
00:19:00,520 --> 00:19:02,440
Speaker 1: don't have a plan B. You know, my plan A

446
00:19:02,560 --> 00:19:03,000
Speaker 1: gonna work.

447
00:19:03,359 --> 00:19:05,520
Speaker 2: So yeah, I love that. Yeah, And I love for

448
00:19:05,560 --> 00:19:07,960
Speaker 2: people to hear the journey because they think they just

449
00:19:07,960 --> 00:19:09,919
Speaker 2: see where you are now, yeah, and they don't know

450
00:19:09,960 --> 00:19:11,399
Speaker 2: all that you went through and all the steps that

451
00:19:11,440 --> 00:19:14,600
Speaker 2: it took, what led to you even getting to this point.

452
00:19:14,720 --> 00:19:17,320
Speaker 2: You know, Job after job, yeah, same.

453
00:19:17,320 --> 00:19:20,800
Speaker 3: Look, nose after nose, you know, but that one, yes,

454
00:19:21,240 --> 00:19:23,280
Speaker 3: you know, made me be like, Okay, here we are

455
00:19:23,720 --> 00:19:27,199
Speaker 3: and sometimes too we we we can't depend on and

456
00:19:27,240 --> 00:19:29,359
Speaker 3: you know, like I said, our mothers and our parents

457
00:19:29,359 --> 00:19:31,639
Speaker 3: are pks my father's but my mom is.

458
00:19:32,160 --> 00:19:34,879
Speaker 1: And what tend to call them for everything?

459
00:19:35,040 --> 00:19:37,359
Speaker 3: You know, tell me or you read this thing or

460
00:19:38,000 --> 00:19:41,080
Speaker 3: not knowing that our attention span gotta be on God,

461
00:19:41,400 --> 00:19:43,640
Speaker 3: you know, so I just be like, you know, let

462
00:19:43,680 --> 00:19:46,480
Speaker 3: me focus on Him, call my mom when it's done

463
00:19:46,600 --> 00:19:48,879
Speaker 3: or when I'm when I'm in a little space of confusion.

464
00:19:49,280 --> 00:19:49,840
Speaker 1: So we don't.

465
00:19:50,000 --> 00:19:52,399
Speaker 3: People don't understand like it's a process. It is a

466
00:19:52,400 --> 00:19:54,720
Speaker 3: process because you got to build your own laying and

467
00:19:54,720 --> 00:19:55,560
Speaker 3: build your own faith.

468
00:19:56,160 --> 00:19:58,080
Speaker 1: You do, you do all right?

469
00:19:58,160 --> 00:20:01,160
Speaker 2: So raised in the church and your mom just opened

470
00:20:01,240 --> 00:20:02,399
Speaker 2: up a church here in Georgia.

471
00:20:02,520 --> 00:20:04,119
Speaker 1: Mm hm, tell us about that.

472
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Speaker 3: Guys were deemon tempoo, I know, pastor ge uh. Like

473
00:20:08,800 --> 00:20:12,800
Speaker 3: I said, my mom's h have been in in in

474
00:20:12,920 --> 00:20:15,119
Speaker 3: church since I was a kid, you know, since I

475
00:20:15,119 --> 00:20:18,280
Speaker 3: done popped out. So I've heard the yelling and scream.

476
00:20:18,320 --> 00:20:20,359
Speaker 3: We didn't know what's going on, speaking in tongues. Are

477
00:20:20,359 --> 00:20:22,840
Speaker 3: we doing hispanic? Are we spinings while we're doing right?

478
00:20:23,040 --> 00:20:25,640
Speaker 3: I didn't know where she was talking until she broke

479
00:20:25,640 --> 00:20:29,000
Speaker 3: it down and said, I was speaking in tongues, you know. So,

480
00:20:29,280 --> 00:20:32,280
Speaker 3: like I said, she's been so grounded in her faith.

481
00:20:32,000 --> 00:20:36,159
Speaker 1: For a long time. And my mom before everything, she

482
00:20:36,280 --> 00:20:37,680
Speaker 1: was she's a counselor too.

483
00:20:37,760 --> 00:20:38,160
Speaker 2: Oh wow.

484
00:20:38,200 --> 00:20:39,960
Speaker 3: So when she was a third grade teacher BEFO, when

485
00:20:39,960 --> 00:20:43,560
Speaker 3: I came into this industry, she was teaching uh high school,

486
00:20:43,560 --> 00:20:45,359
Speaker 3: and then when she went out to elementary school, so

487
00:20:45,400 --> 00:20:48,200
Speaker 3: she was always in that space of serving. And then

488
00:20:48,280 --> 00:20:51,640
Speaker 3: before her church, she was working in her counseling building,

489
00:20:52,040 --> 00:20:54,959
Speaker 3: her counseling building, something happened to the building. The guy

490
00:20:55,000 --> 00:20:57,800
Speaker 3: didn't pay the bill, the the the ten tendant whatever

491
00:20:57,800 --> 00:21:01,399
Speaker 3: it w it was, and they would say, you're you

492
00:21:01,440 --> 00:21:04,119
Speaker 3: gotta go. So my mom was now precing out of

493
00:21:04,160 --> 00:21:08,399
Speaker 3: her home recently. So the February seconds, February third, and

494
00:21:08,400 --> 00:21:11,640
Speaker 3: February fourth was when her launch defication happened. And she

495
00:21:11,880 --> 00:21:15,920
Speaker 3: is just like so happy and so delighted, and she's

496
00:21:15,960 --> 00:21:19,040
Speaker 3: so ready to save these souls because again, like I said,

497
00:21:19,040 --> 00:21:21,600
Speaker 3: she's been doing this for a long time. But now

498
00:21:21,600 --> 00:21:23,919
Speaker 3: you have a home where people could come in. So

499
00:21:24,119 --> 00:21:26,919
Speaker 3: atl Honey, you are in the Georgia area, come out

500
00:21:26,960 --> 00:21:28,359
Speaker 3: to the gods are doing tenpoint, it's not too far.

501
00:21:28,600 --> 00:21:31,560
Speaker 3: Juman Yeah, where was bard? Six eight two five? U? Yes,

502
00:21:31,680 --> 00:21:34,240
Speaker 3: six two five? Jummi called boulevard. So my mom is

503
00:21:34,280 --> 00:21:36,600
Speaker 3: so excited now she has a place that she calls

504
00:21:36,600 --> 00:21:39,000
Speaker 3: her own. And God's gonna just continue to do the

505
00:21:39,040 --> 00:21:40,040
Speaker 3: rest will Yeah.

506
00:21:40,400 --> 00:21:42,480
Speaker 1: So and that's the thing too.

507
00:21:42,520 --> 00:21:46,200
Speaker 3: It's like being the comedian and having my mom as

508
00:21:46,240 --> 00:21:48,760
Speaker 3: a pastor. You know, is some things you'll be like,

509
00:21:48,800 --> 00:21:51,680
Speaker 3: I wanna tell everybody. I'm telling everybody, and you know,

510
00:21:51,720 --> 00:21:53,520
Speaker 3: when we get to post and I gotta watch how

511
00:21:53,560 --> 00:21:54,680
Speaker 3: I I can't just.

512
00:21:54,920 --> 00:21:55,639
Speaker 2: Follow up with that.

513
00:21:57,080 --> 00:22:01,040
Speaker 3: I'm like, I'm read, look, I said, see real what

514
00:22:01,280 --> 00:22:03,000
Speaker 3: And then it's like, well, come on down and God,

515
00:22:03,280 --> 00:22:05,680
Speaker 3: you know, so I gotta balance that thing y, y'all.

516
00:22:05,720 --> 00:22:08,120
Speaker 3: We gotta separate the thing and thing and we could

517
00:22:08,119 --> 00:22:09,120
Speaker 3: put the thing on that thing.

518
00:22:09,160 --> 00:22:12,080
Speaker 2: But if he was working on Saturday, right, still coming

519
00:22:12,119 --> 00:22:14,600
Speaker 2: to Sunday, what we're doing now?

520
00:22:14,920 --> 00:22:16,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, So I'm happy.

521
00:22:16,080 --> 00:22:20,359
Speaker 3: For she is a beautiful soul and she's deserving of

522
00:22:20,480 --> 00:22:23,520
Speaker 3: it all. Yeah, I'm just I'm so happy for what

523
00:22:23,560 --> 00:22:25,600
Speaker 3: she's about to do. Because she did not want to

524
00:22:25,640 --> 00:22:26,399
Speaker 3: come to Georgia. She was like.

525
00:22:28,119 --> 00:22:29,600
Speaker 1: Because then you know, she was in Miami.

526
00:22:30,080 --> 00:22:32,679
Speaker 3: She was like, I ain't coming out to Georgia.

527
00:22:32,720 --> 00:22:34,320
Speaker 1: It's just too nuts. People are just weird.

528
00:22:34,400 --> 00:22:36,879
Speaker 2: The thug what made her like be like I do

529
00:22:36,960 --> 00:22:38,359
Speaker 2: want to do Georgia? Did she come down here and

530
00:22:38,400 --> 00:22:39,480
Speaker 2: visit me? It was you?

531
00:22:39,680 --> 00:22:42,199
Speaker 3: It was me the covering that I needed. I was

532
00:22:42,240 --> 00:22:44,960
Speaker 3: doing this thing for a long time by myself. And

533
00:22:45,000 --> 00:22:47,360
Speaker 3: she was like no, and she actually liked her principal

534
00:22:47,600 --> 00:22:48,240
Speaker 3: and said I'm coming.

535
00:22:48,520 --> 00:22:48,720
Speaker 1: He was.

536
00:22:48,960 --> 00:22:50,720
Speaker 3: She was like, I gotta leave, and Principle was like,

537
00:22:50,720 --> 00:22:51,200
Speaker 3: why are you leaving?

538
00:22:51,240 --> 00:22:51,400
Speaker 1: Mom?

539
00:22:51,400 --> 00:22:53,280
Speaker 3: And said I made up something. And what she made

540
00:22:53,320 --> 00:22:55,600
Speaker 3: up was I gotta go help me up mm and

541
00:22:55,760 --> 00:22:59,119
Speaker 3: helping me led to her being here, being over my

542
00:22:59,240 --> 00:23:01,480
Speaker 3: finances but also starting her church.

543
00:23:02,400 --> 00:23:03,480
Speaker 1: So it was a call here.

544
00:23:03,800 --> 00:23:06,080
Speaker 3: You know, she just didn't see it yet, Like when

545
00:23:06,119 --> 00:23:07,800
Speaker 3: God gave her the name God would have been temple.

546
00:23:08,200 --> 00:23:09,520
Speaker 1: What am I using this name for?

547
00:23:10,040 --> 00:23:12,520
Speaker 3: But again, she had to go through a process before

548
00:23:12,560 --> 00:23:15,200
Speaker 3: her promise, so, oh it has a word?

549
00:23:15,240 --> 00:23:17,159
Speaker 2: Can we get that process she had to.

550
00:23:17,160 --> 00:23:22,000
Speaker 1: Get there's a process before the promise. Okay, so she

551
00:23:22,040 --> 00:23:22,920
Speaker 1: had to go through all that.

552
00:23:23,080 --> 00:23:23,800
Speaker 3: You know, she didn't know.

553
00:23:23,840 --> 00:23:26,200
Speaker 1: No one knows. We do things and be like, oh

554
00:23:26,240 --> 00:23:30,280
Speaker 1: my god, now it adds up time. It always works

555
00:23:30,320 --> 00:23:31,360
Speaker 1: like it's like we.

556
00:23:31,359 --> 00:23:34,119
Speaker 3: Don't know what we be doing, you know, and again

557
00:23:34,200 --> 00:23:37,920
Speaker 3: I met you at shallow high and now we're here,

558
00:23:38,160 --> 00:23:42,000
Speaker 3: you know. But someone has to say, hey, let's connect.

559
00:23:42,480 --> 00:23:44,480
Speaker 3: We don't know where it's gonna go, you know, because

560
00:23:44,480 --> 00:23:45,600
Speaker 3: we can't do this thing alone.

561
00:23:45,680 --> 00:23:47,480
Speaker 1: We can we cannot do this thing alone.

562
00:23:47,640 --> 00:23:49,840
Speaker 3: I think I'll be like, I'm myus, I'm chilling, I'm good,

563
00:23:50,320 --> 00:23:52,960
Speaker 3: and next minute you need somebody to talk to we

564
00:23:53,040 --> 00:23:55,960
Speaker 3: get it and understand without judgment, you know, because people

565
00:23:56,119 --> 00:23:58,159
Speaker 3: like to judge and they want you to tell them

566
00:23:58,160 --> 00:24:00,640
Speaker 3: the issues because they're like, oh, this girl's media, she's

567
00:24:00,680 --> 00:24:04,200
Speaker 3: so pretty, she's all together, but let me hear her business.

568
00:24:04,680 --> 00:24:07,560
Speaker 3: Once they know that, then it's like, yeah, yeah, that's

569
00:24:07,680 --> 00:24:08,600
Speaker 3: My circle is very small.

570
00:24:08,640 --> 00:24:11,760
Speaker 1: I don't play the same I don't either. I don't

571
00:24:11,800 --> 00:24:12,400
Speaker 1: play those games.

572
00:24:12,480 --> 00:24:15,160
Speaker 3: I'd be like, nope, my lips to see it until

573
00:24:15,200 --> 00:24:16,639
Speaker 3: I want you to know what's going.

574
00:24:16,520 --> 00:24:18,760
Speaker 1: On exactly, intel it on your own terms.

575
00:24:19,640 --> 00:24:23,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, it's good, you know, excited, Yeah all, I

576
00:24:24,000 --> 00:24:24,440
Speaker 3: love it.

577
00:24:25,920 --> 00:24:27,600
Speaker 2: At what point did you say I want to be

578
00:24:27,640 --> 00:24:30,760
Speaker 2: a comedian, Like, how did we get there was it

579
00:24:30,840 --> 00:24:32,359
Speaker 2: was it the skid that made you think, oh, I'm

580
00:24:32,359 --> 00:24:34,879
Speaker 2: actually funny, let me do this. The was it the

581
00:24:34,960 --> 00:24:37,520
Speaker 2: response that you got that made you say, I got

582
00:24:37,560 --> 00:24:39,440
Speaker 2: something here, let me do this. Girl.

583
00:24:39,520 --> 00:24:45,840
Speaker 1: No elementary school, Bence's right, elementary school like elementary school,

584
00:24:45,880 --> 00:24:47,200
Speaker 1: middle school, class clown.

585
00:24:47,400 --> 00:24:50,000
Speaker 3: I got most dramatic, you know, most funny.

586
00:24:50,000 --> 00:24:51,359
Speaker 1: It's like, you know, best stress.

587
00:24:51,440 --> 00:24:55,200
Speaker 3: Like I literally was in everything in college and Raleigh,

588
00:24:55,280 --> 00:25:00,439
Speaker 3: Like I was in every curricula, whatever activity, activity board,

589
00:25:00,760 --> 00:25:05,119
Speaker 3: hosting everything on campus thinking I'm pledging, like I'm everything

590
00:25:05,280 --> 00:25:08,080
Speaker 3: on campus. Like it was a shame dig with me.

591
00:25:08,280 --> 00:25:10,000
Speaker 3: So I knew it was something special for elementar. Just

592
00:25:10,040 --> 00:25:11,880
Speaker 3: going to school, high school, in college, I.

593
00:25:11,840 --> 00:25:12,920
Speaker 1: Didn't have to find my lane.

594
00:25:12,960 --> 00:25:13,200
Speaker 2: Yeah.

595
00:25:13,200 --> 00:25:16,199
Speaker 3: So when I left college the process began. Mm. You know,

596
00:25:16,680 --> 00:25:18,280
Speaker 3: the the faith had to build.

597
00:25:18,480 --> 00:25:18,919
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know.

598
00:25:19,240 --> 00:25:21,320
Speaker 3: So that's when I was in that kitchen, reving up,

599
00:25:21,400 --> 00:25:24,960
Speaker 3: not knowing the spirit was doing that. Oo come on, mm,

600
00:25:25,000 --> 00:25:27,159
Speaker 3: the spirit was doing that. I ain't know what was

601
00:25:27,200 --> 00:25:30,080
Speaker 3: going on at that time. See people think anxiety, depression

602
00:25:30,080 --> 00:25:32,320
Speaker 3: and going through things like oh, you're losing your mind.

603
00:25:32,600 --> 00:25:34,480
Speaker 3: But God's like, well I'm gonna give you this, honey,

604
00:25:34,480 --> 00:25:35,879
Speaker 3: to get your faith together.

605
00:25:36,119 --> 00:25:38,520
Speaker 1: Yes that is people be.

606
00:25:38,560 --> 00:25:41,440
Speaker 3: Thinking, Oh, it's so bad and something's going on. It's like, no,

607
00:25:41,800 --> 00:25:43,280
Speaker 3: God is trying to get you, right, He trying to

608
00:25:43,280 --> 00:25:45,399
Speaker 3: get your attention, trying to get your attention. So whatever

609
00:25:45,400 --> 00:25:47,320
Speaker 3: he needs to do for you to call my name

610
00:25:47,480 --> 00:25:49,280
Speaker 3: through this, you better call it.

611
00:25:49,640 --> 00:25:50,919
Speaker 1: Listen. And I did that.

612
00:25:51,280 --> 00:25:53,919
Speaker 3: I did so gosh. And after that I went to

613
00:25:53,920 --> 00:25:58,359
Speaker 3: Miami and then uh mm, came back and with my

614
00:25:58,400 --> 00:26:00,520
Speaker 3: best friend Anika, and she was like, do this skit,

615
00:26:00,600 --> 00:26:01,920
Speaker 3: fight yourself in the street.

616
00:26:03,359 --> 00:26:03,959
Speaker 1: And here we go.

617
00:26:04,080 --> 00:26:06,840
Speaker 3: It led there. My cousin Tolke told me when she

618
00:26:06,920 --> 00:26:08,600
Speaker 3: was in Virginia. We was at her booking and she

619
00:26:08,680 --> 00:26:11,199
Speaker 3: was like, go on Instagram do your things. Everyone's in

620
00:26:11,240 --> 00:26:13,880
Speaker 3: the famous off of it. And I was like, okay, yeah,

621
00:26:14,480 --> 00:26:15,399
Speaker 3: I know. I'm funny.

622
00:26:15,560 --> 00:26:17,400
Speaker 1: I just needed a platform to put it on there.

623
00:26:17,400 --> 00:26:19,800
Speaker 1: You go, wow, yeah that is amazing.

624
00:26:20,240 --> 00:26:22,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, I love it. So now you and Daisy are

625
00:26:22,160 --> 00:26:25,600
Speaker 2: doing Oh my god, y'all have amazing funny.

626
00:26:25,720 --> 00:26:27,959
Speaker 1: I love he is amazing.

627
00:26:27,960 --> 00:26:30,240
Speaker 3: You gotta bring him here because he had his whole

628
00:26:30,280 --> 00:26:35,359
Speaker 3: house turned up. Okay period, you know, and you should

629
00:26:35,400 --> 00:26:39,360
Speaker 3: have everybody here. I think the Simons I think, yeah, yeah,

630
00:26:39,400 --> 00:26:42,600
Speaker 3: funny Marco, because it's all of the minds.

631
00:26:42,760 --> 00:26:44,520
Speaker 1: We all have different minds.

632
00:26:44,160 --> 00:26:47,440
Speaker 3: And we carry things so special. But I love funny Marco.

633
00:26:47,480 --> 00:26:49,320
Speaker 3: I love these young fly I love I hit him.

634
00:26:49,480 --> 00:26:50,960
Speaker 2: I actually talked to him at the game.

635
00:26:51,000 --> 00:26:54,480
Speaker 3: I was like, I need you, Yesmanes Celeris.

636
00:26:54,520 --> 00:26:55,880
Speaker 1: We're all doing our thing, and.

637
00:26:56,119 --> 00:27:00,280
Speaker 3: We're doing it so gracefully, you know, and we're still

638
00:27:00,280 --> 00:27:02,320
Speaker 3: the talk of the town. You know. It's like there's

639
00:27:02,359 --> 00:27:04,639
Speaker 3: no other Simon, there's no other prettiest, there's no all

640
00:27:04,680 --> 00:27:06,720
Speaker 3: the just hilarious. There's no DC or Deasy and the

641
00:27:06,760 --> 00:27:09,159
Speaker 3: list goes on and on. But we just we just

642
00:27:09,200 --> 00:27:11,600
Speaker 3: I just love my peers. I just love them so much,

643
00:27:11,720 --> 00:27:14,159
Speaker 3: and they they just became my brothers and sisters do

644
00:27:14,240 --> 00:27:14,880
Speaker 3: it along the way.

645
00:27:15,040 --> 00:27:18,000
Speaker 2: I love that you mentioned be Smoe, which is my

646
00:27:18,080 --> 00:27:19,000
Speaker 2: sis love.

647
00:27:19,720 --> 00:27:20,640
Speaker 1: I was with her last night.

648
00:27:21,119 --> 00:27:21,479
Speaker 2: I love her.

649
00:27:21,480 --> 00:27:25,480
Speaker 1: I saw y'all live the other day. Yes, I'm silly.

650
00:27:27,880 --> 00:27:30,440
Speaker 3: When I say, I'm like, b why would you why

651
00:27:30,480 --> 00:27:31,800
Speaker 3: would you call the boy?

652
00:27:31,840 --> 00:27:32,200
Speaker 1: And act?

653
00:27:32,440 --> 00:27:33,760
Speaker 3: I mean I get her to ask. I'm like, how

654
00:27:33,880 --> 00:27:37,480
Speaker 3: y'all number zo? But when he said that, I ain't

655
00:27:37,520 --> 00:27:39,800
Speaker 3: know how did got my number? Like the eye cloud

656
00:27:39,880 --> 00:27:42,720
Speaker 3: was just clouded and I had to actually till this

657
00:27:42,800 --> 00:27:44,639
Speaker 3: day this morning, it's actually turned off. I said, I

658
00:27:44,640 --> 00:27:47,199
Speaker 3: gotta go to antc whatever. When I leave her, I

659
00:27:47,200 --> 00:27:48,479
Speaker 3: have to. I gotta get the fifteen.

660
00:27:48,600 --> 00:27:49,359
Speaker 1: Something got to happen.

661
00:27:49,760 --> 00:27:54,879
Speaker 3: Bandon, Folks, don't call me not look seriously, I love it.

662
00:27:55,480 --> 00:27:58,280
Speaker 2: But mentioning those women that are in the same realm

663
00:27:58,280 --> 00:28:00,760
Speaker 2: as you, and see how you guys forward each other. Yeah,

664
00:28:00,800 --> 00:28:02,920
Speaker 2: because I know be personally, she's such a girl's girl.

665
00:28:03,000 --> 00:28:05,679
Speaker 2: You're a girl's girl. I don't know Jess personally, but

666
00:28:06,080 --> 00:28:09,920
Speaker 2: same thing. Yes, how is that with other ones? You're

667
00:28:09,920 --> 00:28:12,680
Speaker 2: on wild'n out? You're I know, you're in other circles

668
00:28:12,680 --> 00:28:15,680
Speaker 2: where it may not be as hey girl? Yeah, so

669
00:28:15,720 --> 00:28:18,640
Speaker 2: how do you manage that? And then how is it

670
00:28:19,760 --> 00:28:23,359
Speaker 2: in the comedian world? Like are the women as embracing

671
00:28:23,400 --> 00:28:25,680
Speaker 2: as they are in the acting world? I wasn't sure,

672
00:28:25,720 --> 00:28:26,640
Speaker 2: Like how that goes for you?

673
00:28:27,720 --> 00:28:32,359
Speaker 3: To me, it just depends on how you control.

674
00:28:32,000 --> 00:28:33,560
Speaker 1: The room, right.

675
00:28:33,920 --> 00:28:36,240
Speaker 3: I've been in rooms where it's like not so pleasing,

676
00:28:36,920 --> 00:28:37,920
Speaker 3: and I've been in rooms.

677
00:28:37,680 --> 00:28:38,800
Speaker 1: Where's like, what's up, grandma?

678
00:28:38,920 --> 00:28:43,560
Speaker 3: F you know, So I think for me, I take

679
00:28:43,600 --> 00:28:45,800
Speaker 3: whatever it is, honey, because when you know you that

680
00:28:45,960 --> 00:28:49,440
Speaker 3: girl and you walking in, I'm gonna say, what's not y'all?

681
00:28:50,280 --> 00:28:51,480
Speaker 1: Look, dressing room's.

682
00:28:51,200 --> 00:28:53,040
Speaker 3: Gonna be loud with my name on it, because I

683
00:28:53,160 --> 00:28:55,560
Speaker 3: want people to know, like whatever they're going on with

684
00:28:55,720 --> 00:28:58,680
Speaker 3: or whatever's happening internally, I could shift that, you know,

685
00:28:59,200 --> 00:29:01,800
Speaker 3: just by energy, just by grace, just by the smile,

686
00:29:01,960 --> 00:29:04,040
Speaker 3: just like how you move in your sauciness.

687
00:29:04,120 --> 00:29:06,360
Speaker 1: So I think comedically, I.

688
00:29:06,240 --> 00:29:08,280
Speaker 3: Love all of them, Like I haven't met a lot

689
00:29:08,320 --> 00:29:13,080
Speaker 3: of other legends yet, but I know, like there there

690
00:29:13,080 --> 00:29:14,920
Speaker 3: have been supporters of mine, So I can't wait to

691
00:29:15,040 --> 00:29:19,760
Speaker 3: like meet s like some more and Monique and you.

692
00:29:19,680 --> 00:29:22,040
Speaker 1: Know, and even like Jim Carrey, you know, forget who

693
00:29:22,040 --> 00:29:22,280
Speaker 1: all that.

694
00:29:22,400 --> 00:29:24,120
Speaker 3: I loved Jim carry He's like one of my favorites,

695
00:29:24,200 --> 00:29:27,000
Speaker 3: you know, so out right. So like the Kevin like

696
00:29:27,040 --> 00:29:29,960
Speaker 3: me and Kevin mad and like Tommy Davison, but you know,

697
00:29:30,040 --> 00:29:32,280
Speaker 3: just different people like that. But like for the women,

698
00:29:32,680 --> 00:29:34,920
Speaker 3: like it's just for me. It just depends on how

699
00:29:34,960 --> 00:29:37,560
Speaker 3: you just control you and everything else is gonna be

700
00:29:37,560 --> 00:29:40,440
Speaker 3: a magnet when you stinking nasty and they'll be like,

701
00:29:40,480 --> 00:29:42,680
Speaker 3: oh what a girl think she she is? But when

702
00:29:42,720 --> 00:29:44,360
Speaker 3: you like not sweating what they got going on, and

703
00:29:44,360 --> 00:29:47,400
Speaker 3: you be you, that's when you attract just the good vibes.

704
00:29:47,640 --> 00:29:52,520
Speaker 3: So I haven't really had any issues. I love Ray, Yes,

705
00:29:52,680 --> 00:29:56,320
Speaker 3: I love Isa, you know, and I just love the

706
00:29:56,320 --> 00:29:58,920
Speaker 3: women that just have helped me through along the way,

707
00:29:58,960 --> 00:30:01,840
Speaker 3: you know, to she, you know, Arnold, like, oh my god,

708
00:30:01,960 --> 00:30:06,120
Speaker 3: like it's just amazing, amazing woman, amazing people.

709
00:30:06,320 --> 00:30:10,560
Speaker 2: That's amazing. Speaking of Issa, all the amazing things she's

710
00:30:10,600 --> 00:30:13,920
Speaker 2: doing and how she is working tirelessly to make sure

711
00:30:13,920 --> 00:30:14,960
Speaker 2: that our stories are told that.

712
00:30:15,120 --> 00:30:18,600
Speaker 3: Shirley Ralph was the first person when I went to college.

713
00:30:18,600 --> 00:30:22,120
Speaker 3: I was telling me someone the story someone stole my laptop, right,

714
00:30:22,200 --> 00:30:24,440
Speaker 3: and we said, have you know when you go to HBCU,

715
00:30:24,680 --> 00:30:27,880
Speaker 3: people come on in, they gotta speak at your commencement

716
00:30:28,040 --> 00:30:30,280
Speaker 3: and all that good stuff. So Shirley Roth came on

717
00:30:30,320 --> 00:30:32,880
Speaker 3: campus and I was like a freshman, I think, and

718
00:30:33,000 --> 00:30:35,680
Speaker 3: I was so mad. I was like, somebody stole my

719
00:30:35,800 --> 00:30:38,080
Speaker 3: laptop and my head was like down like this, and

720
00:30:38,080 --> 00:30:39,720
Speaker 3: I was so sad. You know, if y'all don't know

721
00:30:39,720 --> 00:30:43,000
Speaker 3: who Shereley Roff is, she's the mother of Moesha. And

722
00:30:43,280 --> 00:30:46,440
Speaker 3: I literally my head was like down, and she was like.

723
00:30:46,640 --> 00:30:49,280
Speaker 1: You pick your head up. And I looked and I'm.

724
00:30:49,120 --> 00:30:50,480
Speaker 3: Like, who the heck is talking to me? So I

725
00:30:50,520 --> 00:30:53,640
Speaker 3: was like, oh my god. I was like she was like,

726
00:30:53,680 --> 00:30:54,960
Speaker 3: I said, well, she's like what's wrong with you? And

727
00:30:55,000 --> 00:30:59,080
Speaker 3: I was like, somebody stole my laptop? And she was like, okay,

728
00:30:59,280 --> 00:31:01,040
Speaker 3: something whatever what she talked about. And then I went

729
00:31:01,080 --> 00:31:04,320
Speaker 3: to church and she was there, you know, on campus

730
00:31:04,560 --> 00:31:06,280
Speaker 3: because it was a freshman thing you had to do

731
00:31:06,400 --> 00:31:08,520
Speaker 3: and go through. And then she said, somebody stole this

732
00:31:08,600 --> 00:31:09,560
Speaker 3: young lady's laptop.

733
00:31:09,600 --> 00:31:11,320
Speaker 1: You better give it back to her. That that girl

734
00:31:11,400 --> 00:31:12,360
Speaker 1: walked upstairs.

735
00:31:12,040 --> 00:31:15,120
Speaker 3: So the Weston Hall dorm, and my laptop was sitting.

736
00:31:14,960 --> 00:31:17,200
Speaker 1: Right there on that table. But even women like.

737
00:31:17,200 --> 00:31:19,840
Speaker 3: That that I hold still deer, you know. And I

738
00:31:19,840 --> 00:31:24,280
Speaker 3: haven't seen her since then, but even those women like

739
00:31:24,440 --> 00:31:29,040
Speaker 3: just really don't know what the impact will be. Yeah,

740
00:31:30,280 --> 00:31:33,280
Speaker 3: jamaking as well to you know, a lot of women

741
00:31:33,400 --> 00:31:37,920
Speaker 3: just have embraced me, and I'm just excited for who

742
00:31:37,960 --> 00:31:40,800
Speaker 3: else to meet, like my teeth like working with them,

743
00:31:41,040 --> 00:31:43,760
Speaker 3: you know, Like I love Missy me and her is

744
00:31:43,800 --> 00:31:46,440
Speaker 3: really cool. And she's pointed out to me before it

745
00:31:46,480 --> 00:31:48,480
Speaker 3: all like you're gonna be a star. You are where

746
00:31:48,520 --> 00:31:50,960
Speaker 3: you supposed to be. You know, so just people in

747
00:31:51,040 --> 00:31:54,720
Speaker 3: different eras of this business is just everything to me.

748
00:31:54,840 --> 00:31:55,520
Speaker 2: That is beautiful.

749
00:31:55,560 --> 00:31:55,720
Speaker 3: Yeah.

750
00:31:55,800 --> 00:31:57,840
Speaker 2: I love that you've had that experience because a lot

751
00:31:57,840 --> 00:31:58,800
Speaker 2: of people can't say they have.

752
00:31:59,000 --> 00:32:00,720
Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, so beautiful.

753
00:32:00,880 --> 00:32:01,600
Speaker 2: Ain't encouraging?

754
00:32:02,040 --> 00:32:05,960
Speaker 3: So encouraging, oh lord, and just so inspiring to to

755
00:32:06,080 --> 00:32:08,520
Speaker 3: know to hear their story and to know like we

756
00:32:08,560 --> 00:32:13,440
Speaker 3: are actually like the millennials trying to do they walk,

757
00:32:13,680 --> 00:32:15,920
Speaker 3: but walk, they walk, But we just got two different

758
00:32:15,920 --> 00:32:16,440
Speaker 3: pair of shoes.

759
00:32:16,560 --> 00:32:18,720
Speaker 1: Yes, you know, I can't wear your size.

760
00:32:18,520 --> 00:32:20,560
Speaker 3: Queen, but I know that I'm on my way to

761
00:32:20,560 --> 00:32:25,000
Speaker 3: get there. You know. Like Taraji, she's embraced me so much.

762
00:32:25,160 --> 00:32:26,600
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I love.

763
00:32:28,040 --> 00:32:29,720
Speaker 2: She's a Girl's a girl.

764
00:32:30,920 --> 00:32:35,239
Speaker 1: She would connect dot Halee and Chloe like. They all

765
00:32:35,280 --> 00:32:36,960
Speaker 1: been so nice. I've been I've been meeting a few

766
00:32:37,000 --> 00:32:38,240
Speaker 1: of these ladies.

767
00:32:38,240 --> 00:32:41,600
Speaker 3: They even dope. Yes, I'm so excited.

768
00:32:42,880 --> 00:32:45,880
Speaker 2: You did You're interacting now you had a movie? Was

769
00:32:45,920 --> 00:32:49,360
Speaker 2: it something hot? What movie was it that you just did?

770
00:32:49,520 --> 00:32:51,000
Speaker 1: The movie I just did? Was is a Christmas movie

771
00:32:51,040 --> 00:32:51,960
Speaker 1: that we did in December?

772
00:32:52,080 --> 00:32:57,560
Speaker 3: Before that was Pretty Stone, and then I did Around

773
00:32:57,600 --> 00:33:01,400
Speaker 3: the Hood Story. Then I didn't Hip Hop Christmas. Yeah,

774
00:33:01,400 --> 00:33:03,800
Speaker 3: so you know, just trying to build that resume. Yeah,

775
00:33:03,880 --> 00:33:06,240
Speaker 3: it was amazing. I played lead in Pretty Stone, so

776
00:33:06,280 --> 00:33:07,000
Speaker 3: that was amazing.

777
00:33:07,080 --> 00:33:07,280
Speaker 2: Yeah.

778
00:33:07,320 --> 00:33:09,840
Speaker 3: I was like, honey, God will put you in places

779
00:33:09,840 --> 00:33:11,480
Speaker 3: and you'd be like you not even feel like you

780
00:33:11,560 --> 00:33:12,320
Speaker 3: confident for it.

781
00:33:13,360 --> 00:33:17,680
Speaker 2: Look, and everybody else is like, how as as Kellen says,

782
00:33:17,720 --> 00:33:18,800
Speaker 2: God did, he.

783
00:33:18,760 --> 00:33:22,320
Speaker 3: Would do what to confound the wise baby, He would

784
00:33:22,320 --> 00:33:24,600
Speaker 3: put some somebody in a place so people could understand

785
00:33:24,640 --> 00:33:27,760
Speaker 3: this is you have no resume, you don't even have

786
00:33:27,760 --> 00:33:29,720
Speaker 3: the criteria, you don't have none of that, but God

787
00:33:29,720 --> 00:33:32,440
Speaker 3: will put you there. Yes, so the mouth that spoke

788
00:33:32,480 --> 00:33:36,240
Speaker 3: to around you would say, oh Lord, how she did that? Yeah?

789
00:33:36,480 --> 00:33:40,080
Speaker 3: So I I I I was so excited cause I

790
00:33:40,200 --> 00:33:43,600
Speaker 3: was God a god trust me, you know with that,

791
00:33:43,880 --> 00:33:46,640
Speaker 3: you know, right when he could trust.

792
00:33:46,360 --> 00:33:51,680
Speaker 1: You and you haven't sold him out. Listen, yeah, listen it.

793
00:33:51,520 --> 00:33:53,880
Speaker 3: It was it. That was a beautiful moment for me.

794
00:33:54,040 --> 00:33:56,240
Speaker 3: And that was a great moment for my career because

795
00:33:56,840 --> 00:34:00,800
Speaker 3: now that could go to directors and say, like, she

796
00:34:00,840 --> 00:34:03,320
Speaker 3: could lead a movie, you know, and people don't understand,

797
00:34:03,360 --> 00:34:07,320
Speaker 3: like directors and like producers, we're so talented. On social media,

798
00:34:08,000 --> 00:34:09,840
Speaker 3: all people gotta do is just say here's a script

799
00:34:09,840 --> 00:34:12,400
Speaker 3: and read, you know, because sometimes when people do these

800
00:34:12,400 --> 00:34:14,640
Speaker 3: self tapes, it's cool, but you don't really see the passion.

801
00:34:15,280 --> 00:34:17,120
Speaker 3: You know. I think COVID stopped a lot of stuff,

802
00:34:17,160 --> 00:34:19,640
Speaker 3: but it's just like people just got to see how

803
00:34:19,760 --> 00:34:23,200
Speaker 3: passion we are when it comes to what we love

804
00:34:23,239 --> 00:34:26,000
Speaker 3: to do, and our minds are.

805
00:34:25,880 --> 00:34:26,960
Speaker 1: So creative, you know.

806
00:34:27,320 --> 00:34:30,160
Speaker 3: And yeah, I can't wait till those moments happen when

807
00:34:30,200 --> 00:34:31,799
Speaker 3: all my friends and peers just say, you know, I

808
00:34:31,880 --> 00:34:34,279
Speaker 3: just I did it, you know, and I got it,

809
00:34:34,360 --> 00:34:37,480
Speaker 3: you know from just a comp God will make you

810
00:34:37,480 --> 00:34:39,680
Speaker 3: have a conversation with Lee Daniels and Tyler Perry and

811
00:34:39,680 --> 00:34:41,839
Speaker 3: they just love your energy their phone or you Hi,

812
00:34:42,360 --> 00:34:44,120
Speaker 3: that's what we wanted lyracles like that.

813
00:34:44,239 --> 00:34:46,720
Speaker 1: Yes, you know, but it ain't. It don't happen.

814
00:34:46,760 --> 00:34:48,120
Speaker 3: But we just say we want those type of Americans

815
00:34:48,160 --> 00:34:50,520
Speaker 3: because you know, when you're passionate of something, all people

816
00:34:50,560 --> 00:34:52,600
Speaker 3: got to hear it is in your tongue, you know.

817
00:34:53,040 --> 00:34:56,440
Speaker 3: So yeah, I'm building that resume with acting because that's

818
00:34:56,480 --> 00:34:59,279
Speaker 3: the that's the goal, you know, to be one of

819
00:34:59,280 --> 00:35:03,920
Speaker 3: those ones that names are in Hollywood on Star you know,

820
00:35:04,440 --> 00:35:06,359
Speaker 3: got pretty mean, you got Crystal in the star, Are.

821
00:35:06,280 --> 00:35:10,560
Speaker 1: You walking back? You taking pictures? Come on? Say you know.

822
00:35:10,640 --> 00:35:12,920
Speaker 3: But the other thing is like having my own production,

823
00:35:13,160 --> 00:35:16,640
Speaker 3: putting on my live performances with my characters. So just

824
00:35:16,680 --> 00:35:19,160
Speaker 3: a lot goes through my mind, a lot gets written down,

825
00:35:19,200 --> 00:35:22,200
Speaker 3: but a lot get executed, you know, we see. Yeah,

826
00:35:22,239 --> 00:35:23,400
Speaker 3: so I'm excited about it.

827
00:35:23,400 --> 00:35:26,480
Speaker 2: Awesome. Yeah, a lot of people know, and I can

828
00:35:26,560 --> 00:35:29,759
Speaker 2: attest in our industry, there's highs and lows, and there's

829
00:35:29,880 --> 00:35:32,440
Speaker 2: up moments and there's down moments. Recently, you were on

830
00:35:32,520 --> 00:35:34,920
Speaker 2: Rap Shit and then the show got canceled. Yeah, what

831
00:35:35,000 --> 00:35:37,000
Speaker 2: did that feel like when you got the call? Like,

832
00:35:37,200 --> 00:35:38,799
Speaker 2: can you just give us that play by play and

833
00:35:38,880 --> 00:35:41,160
Speaker 2: like how you took it? Yeah, because a lot of

834
00:35:41,160 --> 00:35:42,960
Speaker 2: times we see like the highlights, but we don't see

835
00:35:43,000 --> 00:35:43,760
Speaker 2: like dang.

836
00:35:43,880 --> 00:35:48,480
Speaker 3: Like Well, for me, I got an email saying staying up,

837
00:35:48,480 --> 00:35:50,520
Speaker 3: and I text Lisa and I told her thank you,

838
00:35:50,560 --> 00:35:52,920
Speaker 3: and s Rita as well, and I text them and

839
00:35:52,920 --> 00:35:56,680
Speaker 3: I said, thank you, you know, because you didn't have to.

840
00:35:57,120 --> 00:35:59,560
Speaker 3: You know, some people, like I said, these directors and

841
00:35:59,640 --> 00:36:04,960
Speaker 3: producers just take people who have you know, who are

842
00:36:05,040 --> 00:36:07,760
Speaker 3: seasoned in in in the acting business.

843
00:36:07,840 --> 00:36:09,360
Speaker 1: So easy took a chance on me.

844
00:36:09,800 --> 00:36:12,280
Speaker 3: So I feel like she deserved a call, she deserved

845
00:36:12,280 --> 00:36:15,239
Speaker 3: a text, and she deserved it publicly, and that's what

846
00:36:15,280 --> 00:36:16,719
Speaker 3: I did on my page, on my story, and I

847
00:36:16,719 --> 00:36:19,520
Speaker 3: said thank you so so much. But it didn't really

848
00:36:19,520 --> 00:36:21,879
Speaker 3: bother me because I know what's next cause wherever, cause

849
00:36:21,920 --> 00:36:23,640
Speaker 3: wherever its to go, I go, you know. And I

850
00:36:23,680 --> 00:36:25,520
Speaker 3: saw it at I was like, wherever you go, I go,

851
00:36:25,840 --> 00:36:29,240
Speaker 3: And you know, she's she's always so pleasant and so graceful,

852
00:36:29,320 --> 00:36:31,480
Speaker 3: She's like for sure, So I didn't really feel away.

853
00:36:31,520 --> 00:36:33,480
Speaker 3: I just know there's another home for that, you know,

854
00:36:33,560 --> 00:36:35,399
Speaker 3: and maybe it wasn't supposed to be there too long,

855
00:36:35,920 --> 00:36:37,440
Speaker 3: and God gonna make some shifts and changes.

856
00:36:37,560 --> 00:36:39,439
Speaker 1: I feel like people love that show.

857
00:36:39,680 --> 00:36:44,600
Speaker 3: They love they love it for that's the end.

858
00:36:44,719 --> 00:36:45,279
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's not.

859
00:36:46,000 --> 00:36:47,560
Speaker 3: I think they're gonna be like, oh my God, like

860
00:36:47,800 --> 00:36:51,640
Speaker 3: because people have to there. They wasn't so they didn't

861
00:36:51,680 --> 00:36:53,959
Speaker 3: know it at first, you know. And season one came, Okay,

862
00:36:53,960 --> 00:36:56,200
Speaker 3: it's cute show, y'all on it, But I think the

863
00:36:56,280 --> 00:36:57,879
Speaker 3: hype came when season two came.

864
00:36:58,360 --> 00:37:00,040
Speaker 1: So I feel like once they get.

865
00:36:59,880 --> 00:37:02,080
Speaker 3: There that moment and get people who really believe it,

866
00:37:02,080 --> 00:37:04,799
Speaker 3: because all you need is a believer besides you, you know,

867
00:37:04,920 --> 00:37:07,040
Speaker 3: you don't got to be like, oh, I'm this person, No,

868
00:37:07,440 --> 00:37:09,680
Speaker 3: I believe in you, and then they'll take your thing

869
00:37:09,760 --> 00:37:13,080
Speaker 3: and run with it. Sosa's gonna be fine. Oh okay,

870
00:37:13,080 --> 00:37:16,319
Speaker 3: come on, god, you know like she gonna be good. Yes,

871
00:37:16,680 --> 00:37:20,680
Speaker 3: she's always making something happen, you know, and a black

872
00:37:20,719 --> 00:37:23,759
Speaker 3: woman in the business doing her thing, you know, and

873
00:37:24,080 --> 00:37:27,360
Speaker 3: there's always rooting for us, everybody black.

874
00:37:27,840 --> 00:37:30,120
Speaker 1: So you know, I didn't feel away.

875
00:37:30,280 --> 00:37:32,399
Speaker 3: I just said, you know, we wait for the next call,

876
00:37:32,440 --> 00:37:34,200
Speaker 3: but we keep creating in the midst of it.

877
00:37:34,320 --> 00:37:35,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's what you gotta do.

878
00:37:35,200 --> 00:37:37,960
Speaker 3: People just people think that when stuff get canceled, our

879
00:37:38,000 --> 00:37:40,239
Speaker 3: shows get this, and that it's like we gotta just

880
00:37:40,280 --> 00:37:44,520
Speaker 3: wait for that call. It's like, no, create what you're doing. Yes,

881
00:37:44,640 --> 00:37:46,880
Speaker 3: you're creating, Like there's.

882
00:37:46,680 --> 00:37:50,279
Speaker 2: A vision with this what I'm saying something else? Yes, yeah,

883
00:37:50,400 --> 00:37:52,160
Speaker 2: and we are seeing it now when you start getting

884
00:37:52,160 --> 00:37:54,640
Speaker 2: the calls, have you ever thought about, Oh, like that's

885
00:37:55,040 --> 00:37:56,399
Speaker 2: what's heart.

886
00:37:56,840 --> 00:38:02,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm riding that's in my mom. Yeah, you're just confirming. Yeah,

887
00:38:02,080 --> 00:38:06,800
Speaker 3: this is you're creating a world. Yeah for us, your friends,

888
00:38:06,880 --> 00:38:09,319
Speaker 3: people who love look up to you to sit with

889
00:38:09,360 --> 00:38:12,920
Speaker 3: you and have these conversations like This is amazing.

890
00:38:13,160 --> 00:38:13,680
Speaker 1: It really is.

891
00:38:13,719 --> 00:38:15,799
Speaker 3: And I want to tell you too. You don't even

892
00:38:15,880 --> 00:38:18,000
Speaker 3: have to like because I know that we come from

893
00:38:18,040 --> 00:38:20,439
Speaker 3: p k's right and parents are that and like I said,

894
00:38:20,440 --> 00:38:23,719
Speaker 3: it could be very much like like what like these

895
00:38:23,800 --> 00:38:25,760
Speaker 3: roles come in and be like how can I figure

896
00:38:25,760 --> 00:38:27,799
Speaker 3: it out? And man, I want to disappoint y'all, but

897
00:38:27,840 --> 00:38:30,680
Speaker 3: I have to tap into fateam of times ten. Yeah

898
00:38:30,800 --> 00:38:32,759
Speaker 3: you know, so I want you to know that you

899
00:38:32,800 --> 00:38:33,600
Speaker 3: can balance that.

900
00:38:34,400 --> 00:38:34,600
Speaker 1: Yeah.

901
00:38:35,080 --> 00:38:37,839
Speaker 3: Yeah, you figured it out. So it's like, and how

902
00:38:37,880 --> 00:38:38,640
Speaker 3: did you figure that out?

903
00:38:38,680 --> 00:38:40,399
Speaker 2: I'm gonna tell you one. I talked to my dad

904
00:38:40,960 --> 00:38:43,759
Speaker 2: and your dad as a minister. No, no, it's your mom.

905
00:38:43,880 --> 00:38:45,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, okay.

906
00:38:45,560 --> 00:38:47,560
Speaker 2: I was like Dad, I was like, I got these

907
00:38:47,600 --> 00:38:49,879
Speaker 2: scenes and he was like, honey, that's a character. Because

908
00:38:49,880 --> 00:38:51,640
Speaker 2: I was telling like certain stuff you just can't watch,

909
00:38:51,680 --> 00:38:54,560
Speaker 2: like like hey, turn turn your head, it's coming up

910
00:38:54,560 --> 00:38:58,440
Speaker 2: because some things just pop up like oh. He was

911
00:38:58,480 --> 00:39:01,080
Speaker 2: like no, he's like you're playing a character. I get it.

912
00:39:01,440 --> 00:39:06,360
Speaker 2: And then I talked about pastor Pastor Shamika Daniels and

913
00:39:06,360 --> 00:39:08,880
Speaker 2: Pastor Darius Daniels.

914
00:39:07,680 --> 00:39:09,279
Speaker 1: Have changed yes, okay at.

915
00:39:09,320 --> 00:39:12,480
Speaker 2: Church and they were like, it's a character you know,

916
00:39:12,719 --> 00:39:15,680
Speaker 2: and what you're doing outside of that is bringing people

917
00:39:15,719 --> 00:39:19,880
Speaker 2: to God Jesus. Yes, it's really just a platform.

918
00:39:19,920 --> 00:39:20,719
Speaker 1: And I notice.

919
00:39:21,960 --> 00:39:24,560
Speaker 2: More have you noticed the trend of more and more

920
00:39:24,560 --> 00:39:27,000
Speaker 2: people turn their life over to Christ that have a

921
00:39:27,080 --> 00:39:30,040
Speaker 2: huge platform girls almost like God was like, I trust

922
00:39:30,040 --> 00:39:31,800
Speaker 2: you because I know I'm taking you because all this

923
00:39:31,880 --> 00:39:32,759
Speaker 2: is gonna come back to me.

924
00:39:33,960 --> 00:39:36,120
Speaker 1: Like I'm like these people have like.

925
00:39:36,200 --> 00:39:39,440
Speaker 3: I want to put my pink and to can do

926
00:39:39,480 --> 00:39:45,120
Speaker 3: it right now? I see what's just like no, seriously,

927
00:39:45,160 --> 00:39:48,520
Speaker 3: because it's happening. But I struggle with that sometimes because

928
00:39:48,520 --> 00:39:50,480
Speaker 3: sometimes I'd be like, all right, my pastors would tell

929
00:39:50,480 --> 00:39:52,480
Speaker 3: me because my mom got her pastors, which is my

930
00:39:52,480 --> 00:39:55,399
Speaker 3: pastors too, pastor roads, my mom and gods were even temple,

931
00:39:55,440 --> 00:39:57,759
Speaker 3: what's up mom? And also just like my friends that

932
00:39:57,880 --> 00:40:02,040
Speaker 3: have grown spiritually, yeah, they'll tell me like oh no,

933
00:40:02,080 --> 00:40:04,919
Speaker 3: it's a character right. And then it's a moment where

934
00:40:04,960 --> 00:40:06,919
Speaker 3: you be like, well, you know, you got to change

935
00:40:06,920 --> 00:40:07,520
Speaker 3: some things up.

936
00:40:08,160 --> 00:40:09,360
Speaker 1: So it sounds like it bothers me.

937
00:40:09,440 --> 00:40:12,200
Speaker 3: It's like is it like do it or are changing

938
00:40:12,200 --> 00:40:12,400
Speaker 3: it up?

939
00:40:12,400 --> 00:40:14,320
Speaker 2: But then it's not you can't be free as an artist.

940
00:40:14,640 --> 00:40:16,919
Speaker 2: Oh I know no, cause it's like it's a part

941
00:40:16,960 --> 00:40:19,320
Speaker 2: of the artist, and there's I do have boundaries, of course,

942
00:40:19,360 --> 00:40:21,399
Speaker 2: you know, there are certain things I won't do, but

943
00:40:21,880 --> 00:40:24,600
Speaker 2: I wanna be free in the art and not feel like,

944
00:40:24,800 --> 00:40:27,680
Speaker 2: oh gods, like I'm gonna be this.

945
00:40:27,840 --> 00:40:28,439
Speaker 1: That's the thing.

946
00:40:29,040 --> 00:40:32,279
Speaker 3: We just don't want to feel that way, because one,

947
00:40:32,320 --> 00:40:35,759
Speaker 3: you just don't want to tap into spaces where you know, like,

948
00:40:36,200 --> 00:40:38,520
Speaker 3: we know it's okay, we feel that, But then you

949
00:40:38,560 --> 00:40:42,160
Speaker 3: have someone that's spirit more spiritually inclined and saying, well,

950
00:40:42,920 --> 00:40:45,359
Speaker 3: that ain't what it was. And then sometimes people don't

951
00:40:45,400 --> 00:40:48,919
Speaker 3: understand the opportunities that we take hinders the next thing

952
00:40:49,880 --> 00:40:51,440
Speaker 3: you be waiting for that blessing to come be like,

953
00:40:51,440 --> 00:40:53,160
Speaker 3: but will let me sit back and and we'll see

954
00:40:53,239 --> 00:40:56,720
Speaker 3: what I did what caused this booking and this opportunity

955
00:40:56,960 --> 00:40:59,399
Speaker 3: in these shows and these deals not to really come through.

956
00:40:59,400 --> 00:41:02,319
Speaker 3: But what I go bias A delay is never denial. Ever,

957
00:41:02,520 --> 00:41:05,080
Speaker 3: what's for me gonna be for me, and it's just delayed,

958
00:41:05,080 --> 00:41:08,440
Speaker 3: it ain't denied. But sometimes I do struggle with that

959
00:41:08,480 --> 00:41:11,640
Speaker 3: to know, like, okay, like it's a character, it's a character.

960
00:41:11,719 --> 00:41:12,520
Speaker 1: It is a character.

961
00:41:12,680 --> 00:41:14,640
Speaker 3: Being as a character, It's like, but I don't want

962
00:41:14,680 --> 00:41:17,439
Speaker 3: to be on different shows and you know, talk about

963
00:41:17,440 --> 00:41:18,160
Speaker 3: well let's do this.

964
00:41:18,280 --> 00:41:19,839
Speaker 1: I don't I don't know, it's just be weird.

965
00:41:19,880 --> 00:41:21,400
Speaker 3: So I'll be like, all right, let me just just

966
00:41:21,440 --> 00:41:23,040
Speaker 3: go to God and then he'll show you what you

967
00:41:23,080 --> 00:41:23,400
Speaker 3: need to do.

968
00:41:23,400 --> 00:41:25,239
Speaker 1: So I just want to know, like, how did you? Yeah?

969
00:41:25,440 --> 00:41:28,399
Speaker 2: I know I had conversations with people I really cared about. Yeah,

970
00:41:28,480 --> 00:41:30,520
Speaker 2: who's who I knew could kind of guide me through

971
00:41:30,560 --> 00:41:32,799
Speaker 2: that because I was struggling with it just as of

972
00:41:32,880 --> 00:41:35,719
Speaker 2: last year. M Yeah, and I had been Fatima for

973
00:41:35,760 --> 00:41:38,320
Speaker 2: three years. Wow, still trying to figure out.

974
00:41:38,120 --> 00:41:40,080
Speaker 3: Ooh is this well that was your spirit of your

975
00:41:40,080 --> 00:41:43,360
Speaker 3: discermine to ask questions? Yes, yeah, before it keep you

976
00:41:43,480 --> 00:41:44,920
Speaker 3: up and you'll be like what do I need to do?

977
00:41:45,200 --> 00:41:45,400
Speaker 1: You know?

978
00:41:45,520 --> 00:41:45,759
Speaker 3: Yeah?

979
00:41:45,800 --> 00:41:46,800
Speaker 1: Wow?

980
00:41:46,080 --> 00:41:46,799
Speaker 3: Wow?

981
00:41:46,920 --> 00:41:47,480
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah.

982
00:41:47,560 --> 00:41:50,160
Speaker 3: Yeah. So because mothers could be very hard because they

983
00:41:50,200 --> 00:41:53,279
Speaker 3: see different things in the other world they had us. Yeah,

984
00:41:53,280 --> 00:41:54,960
Speaker 3: so they're like, well, what you want to do because

985
00:41:54,960 --> 00:41:56,759
Speaker 3: I want to make sure this is alignment?

986
00:41:56,920 --> 00:41:58,239
Speaker 1: What we what we got going on?

987
00:41:58,360 --> 00:41:58,600
Speaker 2: Right?

988
00:41:58,880 --> 00:42:00,600
Speaker 3: But not knowing my mom always tell me. She told me,

989
00:42:00,600 --> 00:42:02,640
Speaker 3: she said, you can balance it all. You know, it's

990
00:42:02,680 --> 00:42:05,799
Speaker 3: a character, but you don't want to be dropping it

991
00:42:05,880 --> 00:42:08,080
Speaker 3: like it's hot now it's just too much pounding, Like

992
00:42:08,120 --> 00:42:12,000
Speaker 3: you're gonna have to just come on, come on out

993
00:42:12,000 --> 00:42:14,640
Speaker 3: of that. That ain't what it is now, get up,

994
00:42:14,760 --> 00:42:17,160
Speaker 3: get up off that. So I get it, you know,

995
00:42:17,360 --> 00:42:19,640
Speaker 3: So we gotta just watch what we do, you know,

996
00:42:19,880 --> 00:42:23,960
Speaker 3: but still have fun because you want to create and

997
00:42:24,000 --> 00:42:26,359
Speaker 3: you want to be free while you create. You don't

998
00:42:26,400 --> 00:42:28,440
Speaker 3: want to be in your role and you're like, well,

999
00:42:28,640 --> 00:42:29,719
Speaker 3: I don't want to do this cause you know.

1000
00:42:31,400 --> 00:42:33,840
Speaker 1: No. I needed to have that lifted off me.

1001
00:42:33,880 --> 00:42:36,040
Speaker 2: I needed to know that my parents are cool, and

1002
00:42:36,080 --> 00:42:38,719
Speaker 2: if y'all cool, I don't care about nothing else. But

1003
00:42:38,760 --> 00:42:43,120
Speaker 2: then my own discernment and my own struggle started to

1004
00:42:43,160 --> 00:42:45,319
Speaker 2: kick in. I was like, oh gosh, let me talk

1005
00:42:45,320 --> 00:42:46,200
Speaker 2: to somebody else about this.

1006
00:42:46,320 --> 00:42:48,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, cause they can say yes. And

1007
00:42:48,440 --> 00:42:50,719
Speaker 3: then you're like you still like oh yeah right, You're

1008
00:42:50,719 --> 00:42:52,200
Speaker 3: still like, okay, well let me talk to some one

1009
00:42:52,239 --> 00:42:52,720
Speaker 3: more person.

1010
00:42:53,160 --> 00:42:53,600
Speaker 1: I love that.

1011
00:42:53,600 --> 00:42:56,200
Speaker 3: I'm happy that because we all people, even that's not

1012
00:42:56,239 --> 00:42:58,600
Speaker 3: even in the spiritual rim, they struggle with.

1013
00:42:58,520 --> 00:42:59,880
Speaker 1: That too, they do, they really do.

1014
00:43:00,080 --> 00:43:00,279
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1015
00:43:00,440 --> 00:43:05,479
Speaker 2: Yeah, So we know that you want to produce, you

1016
00:43:05,719 --> 00:43:07,560
Speaker 2: want to take your acting cred to the next level,

1017
00:43:08,400 --> 00:43:10,880
Speaker 2: your platform to the next level. Yeah, you're a host,

1018
00:43:11,280 --> 00:43:13,680
Speaker 2: you do all these things. What else is there that

1019
00:43:13,719 --> 00:43:15,160
Speaker 2: we want that you have the world to know that

1020
00:43:15,680 --> 00:43:17,280
Speaker 2: is up for you that you want to do next?

1021
00:43:17,640 --> 00:43:20,080
Speaker 2: M Is there anything you haven't touched on that.

1022
00:43:23,880 --> 00:43:30,120
Speaker 3: I can share One thing I'm sharing everything, which is

1023
00:43:30,160 --> 00:43:33,080
Speaker 3: one thing. I want to create a direct more like

1024
00:43:33,160 --> 00:43:35,799
Speaker 3: I really you know, I'm such a visionary, Like I

1025
00:43:35,800 --> 00:43:39,360
Speaker 3: could create music videos in my head plays you know,

1026
00:43:39,800 --> 00:43:42,200
Speaker 3: just see people outfits and by baby you could change that,

1027
00:43:42,280 --> 00:43:44,879
Speaker 3: you know, Like that's me just just with even working

1028
00:43:44,880 --> 00:43:48,160
Speaker 3: with big brands, like really creative directing these brands to

1029
00:43:48,360 --> 00:43:50,560
Speaker 3: go big with their brand. So I think I'm gonna

1030
00:43:50,560 --> 00:43:52,480
Speaker 3: tap into that. Yeah, that's what I want to do.

1031
00:43:52,760 --> 00:43:54,440
Speaker 3: That's one thing I would want to tap into. I

1032
00:43:54,520 --> 00:43:57,000
Speaker 3: do it with my friends now, but you know, I

1033
00:43:57,320 --> 00:43:58,759
Speaker 3: want to do it with my friends now. I want

1034
00:43:58,760 --> 00:44:00,960
Speaker 3: to do different companies because they take me serious, you know,

1035
00:44:01,040 --> 00:44:04,759
Speaker 3: like I'm really passionate about like really reforming and rewiring

1036
00:44:04,800 --> 00:44:06,040
Speaker 3: what you already have going on.

1037
00:44:06,440 --> 00:44:07,279
Speaker 1: So it's something like that.

1038
00:44:07,400 --> 00:44:07,799
Speaker 2: I love it.

1039
00:44:07,920 --> 00:44:09,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, that's what I would love to do.

1040
00:44:09,520 --> 00:44:11,840
Speaker 3: Because everything else like giving back philanthropy and all that

1041
00:44:11,840 --> 00:44:15,120
Speaker 3: great stuff like I do, but like really taking the

1042
00:44:15,200 --> 00:44:17,040
Speaker 3: time and taking the time out of my time to

1043
00:44:17,080 --> 00:44:20,080
Speaker 3: serve somebody else could be a bit much. But I

1044
00:44:20,160 --> 00:44:22,000
Speaker 3: love it though, because I like to see like me

1045
00:44:22,560 --> 00:44:25,359
Speaker 3: in control of that moment, because I know like it's

1046
00:44:25,400 --> 00:44:30,040
Speaker 3: gonna beautiful because I'm not gonna fail nobody. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah,

1047
00:44:30,080 --> 00:44:33,520
Speaker 3: thank you so much, thank you, thank you.

1048
00:44:36,560 --> 00:44:40,799
Speaker 2: So we are to the end of the show, and

1049
00:44:40,920 --> 00:44:43,040
Speaker 2: this is my favorite part is where their listeners write

1050
00:44:43,080 --> 00:44:45,960
Speaker 2: into us. It's called positive outcomes, okay, and they write

1051
00:44:46,000 --> 00:44:47,799
Speaker 2: into us and we give them advice. Okay, all right,

1052
00:44:47,960 --> 00:44:49,080
Speaker 2: So this young.

1053
00:44:49,000 --> 00:44:50,040
Speaker 1: Lady said, Hey, Crystal.

1054
00:44:50,360 --> 00:44:53,959
Speaker 2: First things first, thank you for being authenticity never looks

1055
00:44:54,000 --> 00:44:56,880
Speaker 2: so good. I love your work and appreciate your decision

1056
00:44:56,920 --> 00:44:59,920
Speaker 2: to share us the world who God is simply by

1057
00:45:00,080 --> 00:45:03,799
Speaker 2: being yourself priceless. I'm a forty five year old love

1058
00:45:03,920 --> 00:45:08,440
Speaker 2: Jesus mom, fine tech professional, single and bored with my

1059
00:45:08,560 --> 00:45:11,719
Speaker 2: nine to five inside hustle. Truth be told, I never

1060
00:45:11,719 --> 00:45:14,240
Speaker 2: get comfortable in any air of my life. I always

1061
00:45:14,239 --> 00:45:16,480
Speaker 2: look for my next and while decisions made in my

1062
00:45:16,520 --> 00:45:19,600
Speaker 2: thirties got me to where I am since I am bored,

1063
00:45:20,239 --> 00:45:23,040
Speaker 2: God has always directed my life. So while pivoting is

1064
00:45:23,080 --> 00:45:26,480
Speaker 2: my jam, as he has always taken me higher and

1065
00:45:26,520 --> 00:45:29,239
Speaker 2: made me better. But lately the thought of making a

1066
00:45:29,320 --> 00:45:32,960
Speaker 2: change is sky diving exciting and bullet trained offor reil scary.

1067
00:45:33,000 --> 00:45:37,040
Speaker 2: Ooh girl. All right, yes, that's where I am. The

1068
00:45:37,120 --> 00:45:40,920
Speaker 2: thing is in this particular headspace. I usually thrive but

1069
00:45:41,200 --> 00:45:44,640
Speaker 2: like a parachute or emergency airlift on standby. But this

1070
00:45:44,800 --> 00:45:47,799
Speaker 2: time it's different. To be honest, my forties are real

1071
00:45:47,880 --> 00:45:50,560
Speaker 2: cute right now, and I'm enjoying the journey. But the

1072
00:45:50,640 --> 00:45:54,000
Speaker 2: moment I felt the shaking it to pivot. Instead of

1073
00:45:54,000 --> 00:45:56,880
Speaker 2: my usual I chose reckless abandon I moved, chop my

1074
00:45:56,960 --> 00:45:59,880
Speaker 2: hair off, put up the neon leopard print do not

1075
00:46:00,080 --> 00:46:02,960
Speaker 2: disturb sign, and I'm out here on this tight.

1076
00:46:02,840 --> 00:46:05,240
Speaker 1: Rope like, okay, Jesus, what are we doing?

1077
00:46:06,080 --> 00:46:10,080
Speaker 2: Any exponential advice on how to navigate this reckless abandoned

1078
00:46:10,160 --> 00:46:11,840
Speaker 2: new level pivot transition?

1079
00:46:13,360 --> 00:46:15,160
Speaker 1: All right, I said, a whole thing.

1080
00:46:15,480 --> 00:46:17,759
Speaker 2: She said, a whole thing, A whole thing. Well, one

1081
00:46:17,800 --> 00:46:20,360
Speaker 2: thing is the forties is real cute. I gotta agree

1082
00:46:20,360 --> 00:46:23,280
Speaker 2: with that. And you're enjoying the journey, that's the most

1083
00:46:23,280 --> 00:46:26,680
Speaker 2: important part, even though you're feeling a little shaky and

1084
00:46:26,719 --> 00:46:29,080
Speaker 2: a little inch to pivot and feeling like I don't

1085
00:46:29,080 --> 00:46:32,440
Speaker 2: know if I should do this or not. You're enjoying

1086
00:46:32,480 --> 00:46:34,600
Speaker 2: it and that's the most important part.

1087
00:46:34,719 --> 00:46:36,160
Speaker 1: And you said you.

1088
00:46:36,360 --> 00:46:38,640
Speaker 2: Chose reckless abandon you moved, you chopped your hair off.

1089
00:46:38,960 --> 00:46:40,960
Speaker 2: I do feel like it's a little impulsive because I

1090
00:46:41,040 --> 00:46:42,719
Speaker 2: used to do that all the time. Every time I

1091
00:46:42,719 --> 00:46:44,480
Speaker 2: had a breakup, I would cut my hair off. It

1092
00:46:44,560 --> 00:46:46,839
Speaker 2: was like I was cutting off like Dad Wade, Wow,

1093
00:46:47,120 --> 00:46:47,600
Speaker 2: so good.

1094
00:46:48,320 --> 00:46:49,400
Speaker 1: So I can see.

1095
00:46:49,480 --> 00:46:51,640
Speaker 2: I know what you're doing right here, like you're trying

1096
00:46:51,680 --> 00:46:53,760
Speaker 2: to get into something. You're trying to run from something.

1097
00:46:54,960 --> 00:46:57,480
Speaker 2: So what I would tell you is to be still

1098
00:46:57,520 --> 00:46:59,520
Speaker 2: for a minute. I feel like you've been impulsive. You've

1099
00:46:59,520 --> 00:47:03,040
Speaker 2: moved really fast. You made a lot of rash decisions

1100
00:47:03,200 --> 00:47:06,120
Speaker 2: in a short amount of time. So I would say,

1101
00:47:06,160 --> 00:47:07,520
Speaker 2: just be still and try to hear the voice of

1102
00:47:07,520 --> 00:47:10,360
Speaker 2: God because he'll help you decide which way to go.

1103
00:47:10,400 --> 00:47:13,319
Speaker 2: Because if you're feeling a little hesitant, that means you

1104
00:47:13,360 --> 00:47:14,920
Speaker 2: need to take a second to listen to God.

1105
00:47:14,960 --> 00:47:17,560
Speaker 1: That's what I would say. I'm the same too.

1106
00:47:17,719 --> 00:47:22,399
Speaker 3: I hate I hate the word still. Be still. Well,

1107
00:47:22,680 --> 00:47:25,000
Speaker 3: I mean be thinking that if I'm still, you know,

1108
00:47:25,840 --> 00:47:28,600
Speaker 3: But like Chrystal said, definitely be still and just hear

1109
00:47:28,600 --> 00:47:33,359
Speaker 3: from God. We hear from him in all of our places, cars, room,

1110
00:47:33,640 --> 00:47:35,080
Speaker 3: cleaning up, all that good stuff.

1111
00:47:35,120 --> 00:47:36,160
Speaker 1: So just.

1112
00:47:38,080 --> 00:47:40,719
Speaker 3: I know sometimes the intake of breathing and outwardly is

1113
00:47:40,760 --> 00:47:43,600
Speaker 3: stressful because of reading. It ain't working. But just take

1114
00:47:43,640 --> 00:47:46,280
Speaker 3: a second, you know, and like Christ, be still.

1115
00:47:46,440 --> 00:47:48,279
Speaker 2: Yeah, thank you.

1116
00:47:48,600 --> 00:47:48,799
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1117
00:47:48,880 --> 00:47:50,960
Speaker 2: So we didn't get your name, but I hope this helps.

1118
00:47:54,640 --> 00:47:56,600
Speaker 2: And the next thing we're gonna do is what I'm

1119
00:47:56,640 --> 00:48:00,400
Speaker 2: going through and what I'm growing through. Yeah, to do

1120
00:48:00,480 --> 00:48:03,560
Speaker 2: this just because in different seasons of your life it

1121
00:48:03,600 --> 00:48:05,440
Speaker 2: maybe this you may be going through the same thing

1122
00:48:05,480 --> 00:48:07,880
Speaker 2: and still learning it. But for me, I feel like

1123
00:48:08,000 --> 00:48:15,240
Speaker 2: right now I am growing through. I'm going through seeing

1124
00:48:15,280 --> 00:48:17,080
Speaker 2: the signs of.

1125
00:48:18,920 --> 00:48:19,720
Speaker 1: Patterns.

1126
00:48:20,520 --> 00:48:23,280
Speaker 2: So like you know how like you'll go through something

1127
00:48:23,360 --> 00:48:25,160
Speaker 2: like that, Okay, I know what that is, and then

1128
00:48:25,600 --> 00:48:28,680
Speaker 2: it comes up again and instead of like making it

1129
00:48:28,880 --> 00:48:30,919
Speaker 2: just like maybe it's gonna be different this time, yeah,

1130
00:48:31,200 --> 00:48:34,560
Speaker 2: I'm learning now to like, no, I've seen this before. Stop,

1131
00:48:34,680 --> 00:48:37,279
Speaker 2: this isn't gonna be any different. Let's not go again,

1132
00:48:37,280 --> 00:48:39,000
Speaker 2: because girl, I would go through the same thing over

1133
00:48:39,040 --> 00:48:41,640
Speaker 2: and over and over again over again.

1134
00:48:42,320 --> 00:48:43,560
Speaker 1: Is that in relationships?

1135
00:48:43,600 --> 00:48:48,120
Speaker 2: Is that with just life, just people anything, just always

1136
00:48:48,320 --> 00:48:50,800
Speaker 2: being an impath and trying to give people the benefit

1137
00:48:50,880 --> 00:48:54,240
Speaker 2: of the doubt and even like business choices, just making

1138
00:48:54,280 --> 00:48:55,400
Speaker 2: sure that like okay.

1139
00:48:55,200 --> 00:48:58,880
Speaker 1: Too nice, Yeah, like you know, too nice, you know,

1140
00:48:59,000 --> 00:49:00,600
Speaker 1: and staying on business business.

1141
00:49:00,680 --> 00:49:00,839
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1142
00:49:01,520 --> 00:49:03,080
Speaker 1: So I think that's what I'm going through. I'm going through.

1143
00:49:03,080 --> 00:49:05,480
Speaker 2: I'm getting better at it where I'm listening to that

1144
00:49:05,760 --> 00:49:08,400
Speaker 2: boundaries yes and saying, oh, yep, been here before. We're

1145
00:49:08,440 --> 00:49:10,840
Speaker 2: not going to keep learning this lesson and sometimes like

1146
00:49:10,880 --> 00:49:13,040
Speaker 2: God tests us to see if we've learned the lesson

1147
00:49:13,320 --> 00:49:14,959
Speaker 2: before he can take us to the next level.

1148
00:49:15,040 --> 00:49:16,799
Speaker 1: Yep, that's something good for you.

1149
00:49:16,840 --> 00:49:18,600
Speaker 2: But I'm just saying, if you're gonna keep following for

1150
00:49:18,680 --> 00:49:19,520
Speaker 2: this right.

1151
00:49:19,760 --> 00:49:22,719
Speaker 3: And keep saying to the same company, yes, yes I

1152
00:49:22,800 --> 00:49:24,239
Speaker 3: do it, I don't know, I don't need it, And

1153
00:49:24,360 --> 00:49:26,279
Speaker 3: the next minute we complain with we get there, we

1154
00:49:26,640 --> 00:49:29,120
Speaker 3: need it, you know, then we became that divash and

1155
00:49:29,160 --> 00:49:32,400
Speaker 3: this definitely it'd be a whole cycle, a big cycle.

1156
00:49:32,840 --> 00:49:34,960
Speaker 3: I love this little game. Did you just say what

1157
00:49:35,040 --> 00:49:36,839
Speaker 3: you was what you're growing through? Did you say what

1158
00:49:36,920 --> 00:49:38,160
Speaker 3: you you said patterns?

1159
00:49:38,239 --> 00:49:40,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, what I'm going through and growing through. Okay, Yeah,

1160
00:49:40,640 --> 00:49:42,640
Speaker 2: so that's pretty much what I'm all in one. I'm

1161
00:49:42,680 --> 00:49:44,279
Speaker 2: going through that and growing through it.

1162
00:49:44,400 --> 00:49:44,840
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1163
00:49:44,960 --> 00:49:47,759
Speaker 1: I think for me what I'm going through is.

1164
00:49:49,840 --> 00:49:56,960
Speaker 3: Uh just the the balance of it all, you know,

1165
00:49:58,120 --> 00:50:01,239
Speaker 3: I think because like I said, and I'm such a

1166
00:50:01,239 --> 00:50:06,279
Speaker 3: creative person and my mind is my superpowers because that's

1167
00:50:06,320 --> 00:50:11,360
Speaker 3: how I create. And knowing that there's the world, there's me,

1168
00:50:11,920 --> 00:50:17,000
Speaker 3: there's the business, there's this, it's life. Take a second,

1169
00:50:17,000 --> 00:50:21,320
Speaker 3: because I too can go through the cycle every minute.

1170
00:50:21,360 --> 00:50:24,040
Speaker 3: Your hair hurt, now, your chest hurt. You're like this then,

1171
00:50:24,080 --> 00:50:25,520
Speaker 3: and there are you trying to figure out why you're not.

1172
00:50:25,680 --> 00:50:27,439
Speaker 3: But just like you went through the same thing three

1173
00:50:27,480 --> 00:50:30,160
Speaker 3: weeks ago, you went through the same thing a year ago.

1174
00:50:30,440 --> 00:50:33,560
Speaker 3: You didn't find the formula yet. So when you're in

1175
00:50:33,560 --> 00:50:35,759
Speaker 3: your quiet place now you want to add up. You

1176
00:50:35,760 --> 00:50:37,279
Speaker 3: want to be you want us to be still and

1177
00:50:37,280 --> 00:50:38,840
Speaker 3: you want to add Now your hair hurt, and you

1178
00:50:38,920 --> 00:50:41,759
Speaker 3: gonna take all these taitenols. Because so for me, how

1179
00:50:41,800 --> 00:50:44,320
Speaker 3: I'm growing through it's knowing who I am in God.

1180
00:50:45,719 --> 00:50:47,640
Speaker 3: You know, when you know who you are in God,

1181
00:50:48,400 --> 00:50:51,640
Speaker 3: those cycles become so like oh my God, my new

1182
00:50:51,880 --> 00:50:54,600
Speaker 3: Like that's a brush off the shoulder, like, oh my God,

1183
00:50:54,800 --> 00:50:57,000
Speaker 3: I'm good now I was able to like make a

1184
00:50:57,040 --> 00:50:59,759
Speaker 3: decision and not like like or make a decision or

1185
00:51:00,160 --> 00:51:02,120
Speaker 3: be somewhere and not feel like, Okay, I'm doing the

1186
00:51:02,120 --> 00:51:06,080
Speaker 3: most or just taking that moment, because the cycles are

1187
00:51:06,320 --> 00:51:08,000
Speaker 3: very hard to get out of if you just don't

1188
00:51:08,040 --> 00:51:10,000
Speaker 3: know who you are and social When you know who

1189
00:51:10,080 --> 00:51:12,560
Speaker 3: you are, you're like, oh, I can get out of

1190
00:51:12,600 --> 00:51:14,320
Speaker 3: that because I've been here before. This is a familiar

1191
00:51:14,360 --> 00:51:17,120
Speaker 3: place for me, So let's get unfamiliar. And that's what

1192
00:51:17,160 --> 00:51:20,879
Speaker 3: I'm doing. So I'm balancing, balancing knowing that I'm good,

1193
00:51:20,920 --> 00:51:22,799
Speaker 3: but knowing like I'm growing through God. So I have

1194
00:51:22,840 --> 00:51:26,000
Speaker 3: to go back through those cycles and just depending just

1195
00:51:26,160 --> 00:51:28,719
Speaker 3: in your mind so much and just like going through

1196
00:51:28,719 --> 00:51:31,600
Speaker 3: those overthinking space. This space, that space is something going on,

1197
00:51:31,800 --> 00:51:33,799
Speaker 3: something wrong or what you think is it you got?

1198
00:51:33,880 --> 00:51:36,240
Speaker 3: Then you google your best friend and you're the word

1199
00:51:36,760 --> 00:51:39,319
Speaker 3: it's your best friend, is you know? Because what we

1200
00:51:39,400 --> 00:51:42,480
Speaker 3: go through is in the word it's just ya, you know.

1201
00:51:42,719 --> 00:51:45,080
Speaker 3: So I'm I'm in that space knowing like I gotta

1202
00:51:45,120 --> 00:51:47,640
Speaker 3: live godly, yeah, cause my understanding it ain't work in child,

1203
00:51:47,760 --> 00:51:52,280
Speaker 3: I understanding over watching Moesha and Cheetos all day hair,

1204
00:51:52,560 --> 00:51:54,839
Speaker 3: you know, So now it's sounding like, all right, girl,

1205
00:51:55,120 --> 00:51:57,759
Speaker 3: she's what you gotta do. What you're doing, it's working, yep,

1206
00:51:58,040 --> 00:51:59,440
Speaker 3: and that's all that matters.

1207
00:52:00,040 --> 00:52:01,960
Speaker 1: So yeah, I love Yeah, I love that.

1208
00:52:02,560 --> 00:52:04,240
Speaker 2: Thank you so much for coming by.

1209
00:52:04,520 --> 00:52:08,200
Speaker 1: I'm serious, Thank you so much for having me.

1210
00:52:08,440 --> 00:52:11,000
Speaker 3: And I just cannot wait to God just do his

1211
00:52:11,040 --> 00:52:13,560
Speaker 3: big one on you, continually to do his big one

1212
00:52:13,560 --> 00:52:15,440
Speaker 3: because you're so deserving of it.

1213
00:52:15,840 --> 00:52:18,920
Speaker 1: How many kids do you want? Oh? I understand how

1214
00:52:18,960 --> 00:52:20,320
Speaker 1: many kids you want? I under stand because I I

1215
00:52:20,400 --> 00:52:23,080
Speaker 1: want to Kisse you want too? I used to say, too. Yeah,

1216
00:52:23,360 --> 00:52:24,080
Speaker 1: I'm getting older.

1217
00:52:24,160 --> 00:52:25,480
Speaker 2: I'm just trying to figure out.

1218
00:52:25,680 --> 00:52:25,879
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1219
00:52:26,280 --> 00:52:26,840
Speaker 3: I literally was.

1220
00:52:26,840 --> 00:52:27,239
Speaker 1: Looking at you.

1221
00:52:27,280 --> 00:52:28,759
Speaker 3: I was like, she's gonna let me tell you something.

1222
00:52:28,800 --> 00:52:30,920
Speaker 3: I was like, she's gonna have two kids, right, and

1223
00:52:31,000 --> 00:52:34,240
Speaker 3: I was like, she's gonna have a husband that's gonna

1224
00:52:34,280 --> 00:52:36,080
Speaker 3: be so like I want to say, like a foot

1225
00:52:36,080 --> 00:52:38,040
Speaker 3: ill player or athlete. But he has to have that

1226
00:52:38,200 --> 00:52:41,319
Speaker 3: demeanor because you're like a you're like a sports mom.

1227
00:52:41,440 --> 00:52:43,440
Speaker 1: I am, oh my gosh, and I love sports.

1228
00:52:43,600 --> 00:52:46,359
Speaker 3: Yeah, you're like a sports mom. Like you're like ooh,

1229
00:52:46,840 --> 00:52:49,960
Speaker 3: like a Leila Lee, you know, like her demeanor. It's

1230
00:52:50,120 --> 00:52:52,640
Speaker 3: like you have to have somebody in your lane to

1231
00:52:52,840 --> 00:52:57,840
Speaker 3: just like lead and like take charge and be that

1232
00:52:57,920 --> 00:53:00,200
Speaker 3: person because you're gonna be the one that's picked up

1233
00:53:00,200 --> 00:53:02,759
Speaker 3: soccer balls and footballs and every things. I can see

1234
00:53:02,800 --> 00:53:04,800
Speaker 3: with too. I can see with a dominant man, you

1235
00:53:04,840 --> 00:53:05,960
Speaker 3: gotta dominant.

1236
00:53:06,000 --> 00:53:07,200
Speaker 1: He cannot be less.

1237
00:53:07,120 --> 00:53:09,880
Speaker 2: Because I would run all over anything else. Girl, what

1238
00:53:10,280 --> 00:53:12,360
Speaker 2: because I feel like, because I run so much in

1239
00:53:12,440 --> 00:53:15,239
Speaker 2: my life, I need someone that can like tell me

1240
00:53:15,320 --> 00:53:15,640
Speaker 2: what to do.

1241
00:53:16,520 --> 00:53:18,919
Speaker 1: But yeah, he's coming. He's literally coming.

1242
00:53:19,440 --> 00:53:20,120
Speaker 2: He's on the way.

1243
00:53:20,120 --> 00:53:21,839
Speaker 1: Because I could see that. I was looking at you talking.

1244
00:53:21,880 --> 00:53:25,359
Speaker 3: I was like, hmmm, she've got two kids. Yeah, man,

1245
00:53:25,560 --> 00:53:28,520
Speaker 3: and it's gonna be taller and as all chocolatettle mixed

1246
00:53:28,520 --> 00:53:29,440
Speaker 3: with a little caramel chocolate.

1247
00:53:30,640 --> 00:53:32,920
Speaker 1: But yeah, I appreciate this conversation. I really do.

1248
00:53:33,239 --> 00:53:35,439
Speaker 3: And like I said, I'm so excited for what's to come.

1249
00:53:35,560 --> 00:53:38,160
Speaker 3: And thank you again for just opening up your doors

1250
00:53:38,200 --> 00:53:40,200
Speaker 3: and having me come and just you know, have this

1251
00:53:40,360 --> 00:53:42,600
Speaker 3: great conversation, you know, in your home because this is

1252
00:53:42,719 --> 00:53:44,440
Speaker 3: this is your secret place, you know, so it is

1253
00:53:44,640 --> 00:53:48,120
Speaker 3: very it's very you know serious when he comes to

1254
00:53:48,200 --> 00:53:53,399
Speaker 3: somebody doors. And my sister today teach was like I said,

1255
00:53:53,440 --> 00:53:54,800
Speaker 3: she said, I use the reshman. I said, we'll go

1256
00:53:54,840 --> 00:53:57,160
Speaker 3: on there as she was like, nel, get somebody home.

1257
00:53:57,680 --> 00:53:59,799
Speaker 1: But I get it, you know. So it is very

1258
00:54:00,000 --> 00:54:02,279
Speaker 1: important that you keep yourself.

1259
00:54:01,960 --> 00:54:05,640
Speaker 3: Covered through every storm, every up, down, side to side,

1260
00:54:05,719 --> 00:54:07,719
Speaker 3: whatever it is, because we have those days, yes, and

1261
00:54:07,840 --> 00:54:10,400
Speaker 3: especially when're coming home, because you don't know what dropping energy.

1262
00:54:10,640 --> 00:54:12,759
Speaker 1: Yes, honey, that's why I'm very particular about who I like.

1263
00:54:12,760 --> 00:54:15,160
Speaker 2: Oh my god, everybody's been on this sofa is someone

1264
00:54:15,200 --> 00:54:17,560
Speaker 2: that I trust, I love and that I know is

1265
00:54:17,560 --> 00:54:20,640
Speaker 2: going to bring good energy and not leave any residue.

1266
00:54:20,280 --> 00:54:20,960
Speaker 1: And come on.

1267
00:54:21,360 --> 00:54:23,120
Speaker 3: Because today when I was getting hand I said, God,

1268
00:54:23,120 --> 00:54:25,320
Speaker 3: whatever this hairstyle is coming in with I asked that

1269
00:54:25,360 --> 00:54:31,080
Speaker 3: you throw it at this got what I've gotten asleep.

1270
00:54:32,800 --> 00:54:34,399
Speaker 1: I'm very asked my team.

1271
00:54:34,480 --> 00:54:37,400
Speaker 3: I'll be like, uh uh, let's get that right.

1272
00:54:37,520 --> 00:54:40,719
Speaker 2: So thank you again, you guys, thank you so much

1273
00:54:40,760 --> 00:54:43,200
Speaker 2: for tuning into this episode of Keep It Positive. Sweetie.

1274
00:54:43,440 --> 00:54:46,000
Speaker 2: If you want to write into our Positive Outcomes listening letter,

1275
00:54:46,080 --> 00:54:48,759
Speaker 2: write into Keep It Positive Sweetie at gmail dot com

1276
00:54:48,880 --> 00:54:51,480
Speaker 2: and that's Sweetie with an Ie. You can follow me

1277
00:54:51,640 --> 00:54:55,160
Speaker 2: on all platforms at love Chris Orine that's LUV and

1278
00:54:55,280 --> 00:54:58,239
Speaker 2: you can follow Keep It Positive Sweety on Instagram at

1279
00:54:58,360 --> 00:55:01,799
Speaker 2: keep it positive, sweetie, all right, and tell them where

1280
00:55:01,800 --> 00:55:02,560
Speaker 2: the people can find you.

1281
00:55:02,760 --> 00:55:03,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, I know it's combinations.

1282
00:55:03,800 --> 00:55:04,480
Speaker 1: You go pretty V.

1283
00:55:04,880 --> 00:55:08,239
Speaker 3: You can buy me on Instagram at yes I'm pretty V.

1284
00:55:08,560 --> 00:55:11,920
Speaker 3: Facebook at Yes I'm pretty V. TikTok, yes I'm pretty V.

1285
00:55:12,120 --> 00:55:13,800
Speaker 3: All over the world, yes I'm pretty V.

1286
00:55:14,000 --> 00:55:16,520
Speaker 2: Let's get it, let's go yes worldwise. Since I wish

1287
00:55:16,560 --> 00:55:18,320
Speaker 2: you the best, thank you, thank you so much for

1288
00:55:18,400 --> 00:55:21,759
Speaker 2: stopping by for you. You are going places, thank you,

1289
00:55:21,800 --> 00:55:24,399
Speaker 2: and I cannot to see where you go so so much.

1290
00:55:24,840 --> 00:55:26,080
Speaker 1: Thank you, Oh my gosh.