1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:02,880 Speaker 1: PMS is a hormone imbalance. If I tell you, Roddy 2 00:00:02,920 --> 00:00:05,800 Speaker 1: that I have had no PMS for twenty years, I 3 00:00:05,960 --> 00:00:08,119 Speaker 1: just like to share that with people because I want 4 00:00:08,119 --> 00:00:09,480 Speaker 1: you to know that that's possible. 5 00:00:09,880 --> 00:00:13,560 Speaker 2: Right. Today's guest is the creator of the cycle sinking method. 6 00:00:13,760 --> 00:00:17,760 Speaker 2: Alisa Vissi is a pioneer in female biohacking, a functional nutritionist, 7 00:00:17,880 --> 00:00:20,560 Speaker 2: and the founder of flow Living, a platform that helps 8 00:00:20,560 --> 00:00:22,040 Speaker 2: women balance hormones naturally. 9 00:00:22,320 --> 00:00:25,119 Speaker 1: You know, we go to the doctor saying I don't 10 00:00:25,120 --> 00:00:27,960 Speaker 1: feel right with my cycle. Usually we're prescribe birth control 11 00:00:27,960 --> 00:00:31,600 Speaker 1: pills which don't fix what is wrong, and we are 12 00:00:31,800 --> 00:00:35,839 Speaker 1: aging our ovaries so much faster than we realize because 13 00:00:35,880 --> 00:00:38,160 Speaker 1: we are not taking care of our cycle phases. We're 14 00:00:38,280 --> 00:00:41,000 Speaker 1: putting in too many toxins. We're creating a lot of inflammation, 15 00:00:41,360 --> 00:00:44,839 Speaker 1: and it's absolutely messing with ovarian function. Starting to align 16 00:00:44,920 --> 00:00:47,800 Speaker 1: your self care with your cycle phases really does work. 17 00:00:47,960 --> 00:00:50,920 Speaker 1: Just here living the experiment of what happens when you 18 00:00:51,000 --> 00:00:54,920 Speaker 1: support the female hormonal ecosystem for a long time. 19 00:00:54,920 --> 00:00:57,280 Speaker 3: Rather than going against it, you get a lot. 20 00:00:57,120 --> 00:00:59,080 Speaker 1: Of return on your investment, is what I can say. 21 00:00:59,120 --> 00:00:59,960 Speaker 1: From the front line. 22 00:01:00,080 --> 00:01:03,200 Speaker 2: I'm RADI Wukiah and on my podcast A Really Good Cry, 23 00:01:03,360 --> 00:01:07,120 Speaker 2: we embrace the messy and the beautiful, providing a space 24 00:01:07,200 --> 00:01:11,280 Speaker 2: for raw, unfiltered conversations that celebrate vulnerability and allow you 25 00:01:11,319 --> 00:01:14,720 Speaker 2: to tune in to learn, connect and find comfort together. 26 00:01:14,959 --> 00:01:17,360 Speaker 3: Alisa, it is so great to have you here. 27 00:01:17,200 --> 00:01:18,760 Speaker 2: On A Really Good Cry. Thank you so much for 28 00:01:18,800 --> 00:01:21,360 Speaker 2: being here. I'm so happy to be here. Honestly, it's 29 00:01:21,400 --> 00:01:24,039 Speaker 2: been years in the making. It really has been. I 30 00:01:24,080 --> 00:01:27,640 Speaker 2: was just telling Alisa that we're reminiscing about the time 31 00:01:27,720 --> 00:01:30,520 Speaker 2: that I actually reached out to her because I read 32 00:01:30,760 --> 00:01:34,080 Speaker 2: in the Flow what about a good few years ago, 33 00:01:34,360 --> 00:01:37,240 Speaker 2: maybe twenty twenty three or twenty twenty two, and I 34 00:01:37,360 --> 00:01:39,080 Speaker 2: reached out to her on DMS and I was like, 35 00:01:39,120 --> 00:01:40,120 Speaker 2: I love you so much. 36 00:01:40,240 --> 00:01:42,760 Speaker 3: This book has changed my life, and it really had. 37 00:01:42,959 --> 00:01:45,160 Speaker 2: So I know at the time you weren't able to 38 00:01:45,160 --> 00:01:47,080 Speaker 2: come here because you had a baby, any baby born, 39 00:01:47,480 --> 00:01:47,919 Speaker 2: and you're. 40 00:01:47,800 --> 00:01:48,760 Speaker 3: Really prioritizing that. 41 00:01:48,880 --> 00:01:51,360 Speaker 2: But I'm so glad that we get to have this 42 00:01:51,400 --> 00:01:54,680 Speaker 2: conversation for other people to experience, because I think more 43 00:01:54,680 --> 00:01:56,559 Speaker 2: than ever, this is the time that it's so needed 44 00:01:56,560 --> 00:01:56,960 Speaker 2: for women. 45 00:01:57,880 --> 00:02:00,360 Speaker 1: I mean, I think it's always needed, but I you know, 46 00:02:00,600 --> 00:02:05,120 Speaker 1: I'm thrilled to be here, and it's so fun whenever 47 00:02:05,160 --> 00:02:07,360 Speaker 1: we get together to talk about these things. I think 48 00:02:07,440 --> 00:02:10,760 Speaker 1: everybody is up leveled when women are given permission to 49 00:02:10,800 --> 00:02:11,680 Speaker 1: learn about their bodies. 50 00:02:11,760 --> 00:02:12,240 Speaker 3: So true. 51 00:02:12,360 --> 00:02:14,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, and honestly, that's really what this podcast is about. 52 00:02:15,600 --> 00:02:18,280 Speaker 2: I want to stop by talking about In the Flood, 53 00:02:18,240 --> 00:02:22,120 Speaker 2: which is a book that made the term cycle sinking 54 00:02:22,160 --> 00:02:25,520 Speaker 2: go absolutely viral because you came up with it. I 55 00:02:25,560 --> 00:02:28,280 Speaker 2: want to talk about what cycle sinking is and why 56 00:02:28,360 --> 00:02:30,280 Speaker 2: is it so important for women to know about it. 57 00:02:30,720 --> 00:02:33,960 Speaker 1: Yeah. So I created the method because I was researching, 58 00:02:34,080 --> 00:02:37,240 Speaker 1: like what are we missing? Why are so many women 59 00:02:37,280 --> 00:02:40,120 Speaker 1: suffering with all of these different things versus men? Like 60 00:02:40,160 --> 00:02:43,400 Speaker 1: why why are women having more hormonal problems compared to men? 61 00:02:43,800 --> 00:02:46,520 Speaker 1: And I uncovered a second biological clock in the female 62 00:02:46,520 --> 00:02:49,880 Speaker 1: body called the Infreedian rhythm. And you know, we know 63 00:02:49,919 --> 00:02:52,600 Speaker 1: about our circadian clock. It governs our sleep wake cycles, 64 00:02:52,639 --> 00:02:55,000 Speaker 1: but it also governs a lot more nuanced things in 65 00:02:55,040 --> 00:02:58,680 Speaker 1: the body and the in freedom rhythm. Yes, it gives 66 00:02:58,760 --> 00:03:01,280 Speaker 1: us sort of the timing on our ovulation and menstruation, 67 00:03:01,320 --> 00:03:05,840 Speaker 1: but it also impacts our metabolic system, our stress response system, 68 00:03:05,880 --> 00:03:09,160 Speaker 1: our immune system, and our brain so it just was 69 00:03:09,200 --> 00:03:12,400 Speaker 1: a very logical thing, just like we have a method 70 00:03:12,520 --> 00:03:14,799 Speaker 1: of caring for our circadian rhythm. We don't think of 71 00:03:14,840 --> 00:03:17,320 Speaker 1: it that way, but our sleep routine is our method 72 00:03:17,360 --> 00:03:21,720 Speaker 1: for circadian rhythm support, right. We needed a method to 73 00:03:21,760 --> 00:03:24,680 Speaker 1: support this in Fredian rhythm because the fact that we 74 00:03:24,720 --> 00:03:29,000 Speaker 1: didn't know we had one and we were not catering 75 00:03:29,040 --> 00:03:31,760 Speaker 1: to it was creating a lot of dysregulation in these 76 00:03:31,800 --> 00:03:34,040 Speaker 1: other systems of the body, which is the answer to 77 00:03:34,120 --> 00:03:37,040 Speaker 1: why are so many women compared to men suffering with 78 00:03:37,080 --> 00:03:41,560 Speaker 1: hormonal imbalances because we're dysregulating this Infredian rhythm. So I 79 00:03:41,640 --> 00:03:44,280 Speaker 1: looked at the four phases of the menstrual cycle, which 80 00:03:44,320 --> 00:03:48,480 Speaker 1: each have their own unique hormone ratio, and I wanted 81 00:03:48,520 --> 00:03:51,840 Speaker 1: to map out a diet, fitness, and lifestyle program that 82 00:03:51,880 --> 00:03:54,600 Speaker 1: would really optimize each of those hormone ratios so that 83 00:03:54,640 --> 00:03:58,680 Speaker 1: we could sort of experience a symptom free journey throughout 84 00:03:58,720 --> 00:04:01,840 Speaker 1: the month, because that is really how we're designed to feel. 85 00:04:02,560 --> 00:04:04,840 Speaker 2: I feel like when you were saying we forgot that, 86 00:04:04,840 --> 00:04:07,720 Speaker 2: we don't even didn't realize that this system existed. I 87 00:04:07,760 --> 00:04:10,720 Speaker 2: was thinking about like women back in the days, who 88 00:04:10,760 --> 00:04:13,520 Speaker 2: you know, lived without phones and lived without busy environments 89 00:04:13,520 --> 00:04:15,840 Speaker 2: where they were traveling. In all of this, I imagine 90 00:04:15,840 --> 00:04:19,680 Speaker 2: it was very easy for a woman way back when 91 00:04:19,800 --> 00:04:22,240 Speaker 2: to actually live according to their rhythm, because that's all 92 00:04:22,240 --> 00:04:25,240 Speaker 2: they were really taught to tune into. Like there wasn't 93 00:04:25,279 --> 00:04:28,599 Speaker 2: tuning into other things around them. It was tuning into 94 00:04:28,600 --> 00:04:31,159 Speaker 2: the body. And we're going to wake up when the sunrises, 95 00:04:31,160 --> 00:04:33,200 Speaker 2: we're going to go to sleep when the moon comes out. 96 00:04:33,240 --> 00:04:35,520 Speaker 2: And it must have been such an easy way because 97 00:04:35,560 --> 00:04:37,760 Speaker 2: it was so in tune with nature to also be 98 00:04:37,800 --> 00:04:39,920 Speaker 2: in tune with their own body. But somehow that kind 99 00:04:39,960 --> 00:04:42,760 Speaker 2: of message has been lost the more and more things 100 00:04:42,800 --> 00:04:44,359 Speaker 2: that were introduced into our lives. 101 00:04:45,000 --> 00:04:47,840 Speaker 1: Well, it's interesting because if we look at the origin 102 00:04:48,120 --> 00:04:52,000 Speaker 1: of the word menstruation, it comes from either the Latin 103 00:04:52,040 --> 00:04:55,400 Speaker 1: or the Greek for measure, the unit of measure, and 104 00:04:55,480 --> 00:05:00,359 Speaker 1: so this idea of measuring time is so tied with 105 00:05:00,560 --> 00:05:05,120 Speaker 1: lunar phases and the female cycle from you know, ancient cultures. 106 00:05:05,720 --> 00:05:08,080 Speaker 1: So yes, I do think that there was a period 107 00:05:08,120 --> 00:05:10,800 Speaker 1: of history in which women were much more in tune 108 00:05:11,440 --> 00:05:15,160 Speaker 1: with the rhythm of their bodies. But absolutely industrialization has 109 00:05:15,200 --> 00:05:18,800 Speaker 1: sort of interrupted that the experience, and so many of 110 00:05:18,839 --> 00:05:23,760 Speaker 1: us don't have a good visceral sense of which phase 111 00:05:23,760 --> 00:05:25,679 Speaker 1: of the cycle we're in. We know when we're bleeding, 112 00:05:26,400 --> 00:05:29,760 Speaker 1: but most women feel like surprised by well, you know, 113 00:05:29,800 --> 00:05:32,159 Speaker 1: where am I, and like, oh, my period's coming. It 114 00:05:32,160 --> 00:05:35,039 Speaker 1: feels always like an unknown always. 115 00:05:35,200 --> 00:05:35,800 Speaker 3: Yeah, even if you. 116 00:05:35,839 --> 00:05:37,600 Speaker 2: Know it's coming, Like even if I know the date's 117 00:05:37,640 --> 00:05:39,960 Speaker 2: coming up, I don't know what's happened. Something's happening to 118 00:05:40,000 --> 00:05:41,839 Speaker 2: me and I'm like, oh, yeah, it comes. And so 119 00:05:41,880 --> 00:05:43,640 Speaker 2: the only part you're really aware of is when you 120 00:05:43,760 --> 00:05:46,600 Speaker 2: actually mentioned when you actually on your period, like when 121 00:05:46,640 --> 00:05:47,839 Speaker 2: you actually get the symptoms. 122 00:05:48,080 --> 00:05:51,760 Speaker 1: But when you really start to practice the cycle sinking method, 123 00:05:51,960 --> 00:05:54,680 Speaker 1: you really get to a place where you feel distinctly 124 00:05:55,360 --> 00:05:59,200 Speaker 1: each of the phases and their subtle nuances of the energy. 125 00:05:59,360 --> 00:06:00,800 Speaker 1: And it's very cool, you. 126 00:06:00,720 --> 00:06:03,640 Speaker 2: Know, it's beautiful. Yeah, it is so beautiful to experience it. 127 00:06:03,920 --> 00:06:06,279 Speaker 2: What are some of the signs and symptoms of people 128 00:06:06,880 --> 00:06:10,719 Speaker 2: when they all hormonally imbalance for women? And how would 129 00:06:10,720 --> 00:06:14,599 Speaker 2: someone start to recognize it and realize that there's something 130 00:06:14,839 --> 00:06:15,880 Speaker 2: a bit off with them. 131 00:06:15,960 --> 00:06:20,520 Speaker 1: And maybe to take action. Yes, I mean PMS. We 132 00:06:20,600 --> 00:06:24,560 Speaker 1: normalize that as something that you know to expect during 133 00:06:24,600 --> 00:06:28,160 Speaker 1: the month. But really, PMS is a hormone imbalance. It 134 00:06:28,240 --> 00:06:33,160 Speaker 1: is the It's an inverted ratio of estrogen and progesterone 135 00:06:33,160 --> 00:06:35,760 Speaker 1: in the luteal phase, and that is why PMS exists. 136 00:06:35,960 --> 00:06:38,719 Speaker 1: If you have the proper balance of those two hormones, 137 00:06:38,760 --> 00:06:40,840 Speaker 1: you have no symptoms. If I tell you, Roddy that 138 00:06:40,880 --> 00:06:44,920 Speaker 1: I have had no PMS for twenty years, I mean, 139 00:06:45,080 --> 00:06:47,200 Speaker 1: I just like to share that with people because I 140 00:06:47,240 --> 00:06:48,839 Speaker 1: want you to know that that's possible. 141 00:06:49,200 --> 00:06:49,360 Speaker 2: Right. 142 00:06:49,440 --> 00:06:51,599 Speaker 1: And it's not like I'm doing anything special outside of 143 00:06:51,640 --> 00:06:54,800 Speaker 1: this method, right. I don't take any special herbs or 144 00:06:55,320 --> 00:06:57,080 Speaker 1: you know, I'm a lessers more kind of girl when 145 00:06:57,080 --> 00:07:01,520 Speaker 1: it comes to health. So it's really really interesting. And 146 00:07:01,560 --> 00:07:05,000 Speaker 1: we actually just concluded a three month i ORB approved 147 00:07:05,200 --> 00:07:08,920 Speaker 1: clinical trial on the cycle sinking method, which is a 148 00:07:08,960 --> 00:07:13,200 Speaker 1: big deal. And the preliminary resulting that we're analyzing the 149 00:07:13,240 --> 00:07:16,240 Speaker 1: data formally right now, we're incredible. I mean, women in 150 00:07:16,280 --> 00:07:18,840 Speaker 1: the first thirty days had an eighty percent reduction in 151 00:07:18,880 --> 00:07:22,400 Speaker 1: their PMS symptom burden and severity, and that only improved 152 00:07:22,440 --> 00:07:24,320 Speaker 1: over the three months that we were doing the intervention. 153 00:07:25,240 --> 00:07:28,240 Speaker 1: It's really exciting because you know, we go to the 154 00:07:28,320 --> 00:07:31,640 Speaker 1: doctor saying I don't feel right with my cycle, and 155 00:07:32,120 --> 00:07:35,320 Speaker 1: usually we're prescribe birth control pills, which don't fix what 156 00:07:35,440 --> 00:07:38,480 Speaker 1: is wrong. In fact, they also shut off your Infredian 157 00:07:38,640 --> 00:07:43,800 Speaker 1: rhythm and stop ovulation, which is a huge theft from 158 00:07:43,880 --> 00:07:47,440 Speaker 1: your future self, your postmenopausal self, because every ovulation you 159 00:07:47,520 --> 00:07:52,840 Speaker 1: have today puts let's say bucks in your health bank 160 00:07:52,880 --> 00:07:57,200 Speaker 1: account postmenopausely for your brain, your bone, and your heart. Right, 161 00:07:57,320 --> 00:08:01,320 Speaker 1: so every ovulation is cardio osteo and or protective today 162 00:08:01,760 --> 00:08:04,160 Speaker 1: but also for those decades that you will be no 163 00:08:04,200 --> 00:08:07,680 Speaker 1: longer ovulating postmenopausala. Yeah, so you want to be you 164 00:08:07,720 --> 00:08:10,080 Speaker 1: want to have a healthy cycle. It's it's your health 165 00:08:10,080 --> 00:08:12,800 Speaker 1: insurance for the future, but it's also your current health insurance. 166 00:08:13,400 --> 00:08:16,400 Speaker 1: And in twenty seventeen, the American College of Obstetrics and 167 00:08:16,440 --> 00:08:20,040 Speaker 1: Gynecologists decreed that your cycle should be considered a fifth 168 00:08:20,120 --> 00:08:22,080 Speaker 1: vital sign, like the other things we take in the 169 00:08:22,080 --> 00:08:24,840 Speaker 1: emergency room, like your temperature and your blood pressure. So 170 00:08:24,880 --> 00:08:27,360 Speaker 1: we do have to look at things like PMS as 171 00:08:27,400 --> 00:08:31,280 Speaker 1: a big red flag, like you have something the equivalent 172 00:08:31,320 --> 00:08:34,360 Speaker 1: of having a fever. You want to take action around that. 173 00:08:34,360 --> 00:08:35,839 Speaker 1: You don't want to joke about it. You don't want 174 00:08:35,840 --> 00:08:38,960 Speaker 1: to like downplay it. I am here to validate that 175 00:08:39,080 --> 00:08:42,840 Speaker 1: if you're feeling like something is off, it's off, and 176 00:08:43,400 --> 00:08:46,600 Speaker 1: to encourage you and give you hope that actually starting 177 00:08:46,600 --> 00:08:49,480 Speaker 1: to align your self care with your cycle phases really 178 00:08:49,520 --> 00:08:50,160 Speaker 1: does work. 179 00:08:50,400 --> 00:08:51,200 Speaker 3: It so does. 180 00:08:51,360 --> 00:08:53,679 Speaker 2: I used to when I was younger, have ready a 181 00:08:53,679 --> 00:08:55,400 Speaker 2: back paired crops the top where you just want to 182 00:08:55,480 --> 00:08:57,400 Speaker 2: the first day or e n two you're just like 183 00:08:57,480 --> 00:09:00,679 Speaker 2: wrapped up in a ball, you know, water bottle in 184 00:09:00,720 --> 00:09:02,800 Speaker 2: your stomach and kind of not being able to do anything. 185 00:09:03,520 --> 00:09:05,640 Speaker 2: And then when I started studying Ibada, and then after 186 00:09:05,679 --> 00:09:09,040 Speaker 2: I read your book, the subtle changes that I made 187 00:09:09,120 --> 00:09:11,960 Speaker 2: and the difference that I felt I could do everything 188 00:09:11,960 --> 00:09:14,280 Speaker 2: that I normally would do to a lesser degree and 189 00:09:14,360 --> 00:09:17,520 Speaker 2: some time, but at the time just to protect myself. 190 00:09:17,600 --> 00:09:19,720 Speaker 2: But if I want to go through my day, do 191 00:09:19,840 --> 00:09:22,760 Speaker 2: my work, get cook do all the things that I 192 00:09:22,800 --> 00:09:25,080 Speaker 2: normally do, I can easily do it and I don't 193 00:09:25,080 --> 00:09:27,960 Speaker 2: have crumps and I don't feel like the whole world 194 00:09:28,000 --> 00:09:31,200 Speaker 2: is ending around me. And it stabilized my mood so 195 00:09:31,400 --> 00:09:34,000 Speaker 2: much more. And it's You're right, It's such simple shifts, 196 00:09:34,000 --> 00:09:35,760 Speaker 2: and I would love to get into. 197 00:09:35,640 --> 00:09:38,240 Speaker 3: The cycle and how different phase is. 198 00:09:38,280 --> 00:09:40,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, I would love to go through each phase in detail, 199 00:09:40,400 --> 00:09:42,720 Speaker 2: if that's okay. Yeah, I would love to discuss what 200 00:09:42,760 --> 00:09:43,320 Speaker 2: that looks like. 201 00:09:43,760 --> 00:09:46,800 Speaker 1: I just want to share that. A number of women 202 00:09:46,840 --> 00:09:50,320 Speaker 1: when we were wrapping up the last study session, they said, 203 00:09:50,360 --> 00:09:52,600 Speaker 1: you know, now, what am I going to do? I 204 00:09:52,640 --> 00:09:57,480 Speaker 1: don't have like all these symptoms letting me know when 205 00:09:57,480 --> 00:09:59,760 Speaker 1: my period's going to start. I don't have the breast 206 00:09:59,800 --> 00:10:02,880 Speaker 1: ten anymore. I don't have the acne or the mood swing, 207 00:10:03,000 --> 00:10:06,040 Speaker 1: so like I have to actually track so that I 208 00:10:06,080 --> 00:10:07,720 Speaker 1: know which day of my period's going to start because 209 00:10:07,760 --> 00:10:10,480 Speaker 1: I'm not getting any physical suffering as the sign like 210 00:10:10,480 --> 00:10:12,800 Speaker 1: it's about to carry. And I was like, well, that's 211 00:10:12,840 --> 00:10:16,120 Speaker 1: a good we call that a good problem to have. Yeah. Actually, 212 00:10:16,360 --> 00:10:18,320 Speaker 1: so that's what I want for every woman is to 213 00:10:18,440 --> 00:10:21,520 Speaker 1: just where you feel like your experience, where you feel 214 00:10:22,160 --> 00:10:25,360 Speaker 1: good every day of the cycle. There is no better 215 00:10:25,880 --> 00:10:28,120 Speaker 1: cycle phase than I love them all, like it's like 216 00:10:28,160 --> 00:10:30,640 Speaker 1: having four different children, Like you wouldn't love one more 217 00:10:30,679 --> 00:10:33,240 Speaker 1: than the other. They're all beautiful and they have different 218 00:10:33,800 --> 00:10:36,560 Speaker 1: you know, energies and properties, and they're different and beautiful 219 00:10:36,559 --> 00:10:37,040 Speaker 1: in each way. 220 00:10:37,240 --> 00:10:39,240 Speaker 3: When did you stop practicing cycle sinking. 221 00:10:39,280 --> 00:10:41,360 Speaker 1: Gosh, I think, well, I'm definitely the person on the 222 00:10:41,360 --> 00:10:45,160 Speaker 1: planet who's been doing it the longest I started probably now, 223 00:10:45,640 --> 00:10:48,719 Speaker 1: I would say fifteen years ago I started evolving the practice, 224 00:10:48,800 --> 00:10:53,560 Speaker 1: so it's been a while, and I absolutely credit this 225 00:10:54,720 --> 00:10:57,800 Speaker 1: consistent practice over the past fifteen years to be one 226 00:10:57,840 --> 00:11:00,360 Speaker 1: of the main reasons why now at forty eight half, 227 00:11:01,040 --> 00:11:05,520 Speaker 1: I'm still ovulating, I'm still menstruating regularly. I'm not on 228 00:11:05,600 --> 00:11:09,000 Speaker 1: any HRT, I'm not on any peptides, I'm not on 229 00:11:09,040 --> 00:11:11,240 Speaker 1: anything yet. I may do those things in the future 230 00:11:11,280 --> 00:11:14,480 Speaker 1: as needed, but I'm interested in playing the long game 231 00:11:14,520 --> 00:11:19,760 Speaker 1: of how can I use basic biological systems support which 232 00:11:19,800 --> 00:11:24,520 Speaker 1: cycle sinking really is a great example of that. How 233 00:11:24,559 --> 00:11:29,080 Speaker 1: can I use that to extend the functionality of my ovaries. Remember, 234 00:11:29,440 --> 00:11:32,520 Speaker 1: the ovaries are the first organ in the body to age, 235 00:11:32,559 --> 00:11:36,480 Speaker 1: and we are aging our ovaries so much faster than 236 00:11:36,520 --> 00:11:38,920 Speaker 1: we realize because we are not taking care of our 237 00:11:38,920 --> 00:11:42,360 Speaker 1: cycle phases. We're putting in too many toxins, We're creating 238 00:11:42,360 --> 00:11:45,840 Speaker 1: a lot of inflammation, and it's absolutely messing with ovarian function. 239 00:11:45,960 --> 00:11:48,360 Speaker 1: And so that's why you have girls at six and 240 00:11:48,400 --> 00:11:50,800 Speaker 1: a half who are going through puberty at six and 241 00:11:50,840 --> 00:11:53,760 Speaker 1: a half. You have girls in their twenties who are 242 00:11:53,800 --> 00:11:56,880 Speaker 1: doubled over in cramps, with major menstrual problems. You have 243 00:11:56,920 --> 00:11:59,480 Speaker 1: women in their thirties who cannot get pregnant. And you 244 00:11:59,520 --> 00:12:03,559 Speaker 1: have women in their late thirties early forties who are 245 00:12:03,600 --> 00:12:09,120 Speaker 1: showing stage two perimenopause symptoms meaning irregular cycles, hot flashes, 246 00:12:09,200 --> 00:12:14,040 Speaker 1: night sweats, major mood disruption, and really just advancing through 247 00:12:14,480 --> 00:12:19,000 Speaker 1: this process of ovarian aging so much faster. And I'm 248 00:12:19,200 --> 00:12:22,200 Speaker 1: just here living the experiment of what happens when you 249 00:12:22,240 --> 00:12:26,480 Speaker 1: support the female hormonal ecosystem for a long time. 250 00:12:26,600 --> 00:12:27,760 Speaker 3: Rather than going against it. 251 00:12:27,880 --> 00:12:30,160 Speaker 1: You get a lot of return on your investment, is 252 00:12:30,160 --> 00:12:32,800 Speaker 1: what I can say from the front lines, because I'm 253 00:12:32,840 --> 00:12:37,160 Speaker 1: feeling really good and I think that's available to more 254 00:12:37,200 --> 00:12:39,480 Speaker 1: of us. Should we start the process as soon as 255 00:12:39,520 --> 00:12:40,240 Speaker 1: you know about it. 256 00:12:40,360 --> 00:12:44,400 Speaker 2: Yes, we absolutely should tell us what it entails, please, so. 257 00:12:44,520 --> 00:12:45,200 Speaker 3: In phase one? 258 00:12:45,840 --> 00:12:49,480 Speaker 1: Yes, So I actually like to consider phase one, you know, 259 00:12:49,520 --> 00:12:51,959 Speaker 1: the first phase of the cycle, the follicular phase, because 260 00:12:52,000 --> 00:12:54,680 Speaker 1: doesn't menstruation feel like the completion of the journey. 261 00:12:54,679 --> 00:12:55,360 Speaker 3: It really does. 262 00:12:55,880 --> 00:12:58,160 Speaker 1: So even and people get tripped up on this, You're like, well, 263 00:12:58,200 --> 00:12:59,800 Speaker 1: but day one is day one of the bleed when 264 00:12:59,840 --> 00:13:01,959 Speaker 1: you're counting for fertility, and that's fine. You can still 265 00:13:02,080 --> 00:13:06,480 Speaker 1: count day one as the bleed day one for let's say, 266 00:13:06,880 --> 00:13:10,720 Speaker 1: approximating ovulation, if you're using that counting method. Although now 267 00:13:10,800 --> 00:13:15,080 Speaker 1: in the world of you know, biometric devices, why guess, 268 00:13:15,880 --> 00:13:18,360 Speaker 1: like use a device so that you know exactly when 269 00:13:18,360 --> 00:13:21,800 Speaker 1: you're ovulating, whether that be basal body temperature tracking or 270 00:13:21,840 --> 00:13:24,320 Speaker 1: your analysis that you can do at home, or a 271 00:13:24,440 --> 00:13:26,320 Speaker 1: ring or a watch. I mean, there's just so many 272 00:13:26,320 --> 00:13:28,760 Speaker 1: cool ways now, Like, there's no excuse not to know 273 00:13:28,800 --> 00:13:32,120 Speaker 1: when you're ovulating in which phase you're in. But I 274 00:13:32,160 --> 00:13:35,440 Speaker 1: think from an energetic perspective, the way you relate to 275 00:13:35,480 --> 00:13:38,360 Speaker 1: your cycle, I'd love for us to reevaluate what we 276 00:13:38,480 --> 00:13:41,240 Speaker 1: consider the first phase, which is the follicular phase, the 277 00:13:41,280 --> 00:13:44,520 Speaker 1: beginning when all the eggs are developing on the ovary 278 00:13:44,559 --> 00:13:47,840 Speaker 1: and you're feeling like your estrogen's kind of coming back 279 00:13:47,880 --> 00:13:52,320 Speaker 1: online and you're interested again in starting again. Just like 280 00:13:52,360 --> 00:13:55,120 Speaker 1: your overy is starting again, you also are interested in 281 00:13:55,280 --> 00:13:59,240 Speaker 1: re engaging with life again in a fresh way. So 282 00:14:01,040 --> 00:14:04,880 Speaker 1: then from a let's say metabolic perspective, we actually have 283 00:14:04,920 --> 00:14:07,560 Speaker 1: a slowing down of our metabolism in this first half 284 00:14:07,559 --> 00:14:11,679 Speaker 1: of the cycle, so we can we are more efficient 285 00:14:11,920 --> 00:14:15,760 Speaker 1: calorically speaking, you can eat a little bit less, but 286 00:14:15,960 --> 00:14:17,760 Speaker 1: you still going to feel really good from a blood 287 00:14:17,760 --> 00:14:21,560 Speaker 1: sugar perspective, and our cortisol levels at rest are lower, 288 00:14:21,800 --> 00:14:24,880 Speaker 1: so that's what's happening. And ovulation, of course, we have 289 00:14:24,960 --> 00:14:28,680 Speaker 1: sort of this wonderful ovulatory surge of estrogen and FSH 290 00:14:28,720 --> 00:14:32,200 Speaker 1: and LH which stimulates the verbal and social centers of 291 00:14:32,240 --> 00:14:35,360 Speaker 1: the brain, making us very social and all of that. 292 00:14:36,640 --> 00:14:39,080 Speaker 1: And then we move into the second half of the cycle, 293 00:14:39,120 --> 00:14:42,240 Speaker 1: the luteal phase and the menstrual phase. This is when 294 00:14:42,360 --> 00:14:46,560 Speaker 1: metabolism speeds up and we need two hundred and seventy 295 00:14:46,600 --> 00:14:50,480 Speaker 1: nine more calories per day, and this is when progestrone 296 00:14:50,560 --> 00:14:52,760 Speaker 1: shows up to the party. The luteal phase is my 297 00:14:52,840 --> 00:14:55,400 Speaker 1: favorite phase. Oh okay, it's my favorite phase. It's the 298 00:14:55,400 --> 00:14:57,440 Speaker 1: longest phase of the cycle, and when we think about 299 00:14:57,480 --> 00:15:00,680 Speaker 1: just the concept of manifesting, it's also really beautifully baked 300 00:15:00,720 --> 00:15:02,880 Speaker 1: into the menstrual cycle. This is the phase of the 301 00:15:02,880 --> 00:15:06,320 Speaker 1: cycle where you do things right. You don't just idate 302 00:15:06,480 --> 00:15:09,680 Speaker 1: and speak about it and talk about it with people. 303 00:15:10,040 --> 00:15:13,640 Speaker 1: You get to work right. And I love that it's 304 00:15:13,680 --> 00:15:15,800 Speaker 1: the longest phase of the cycle because when you think 305 00:15:15,800 --> 00:15:19,440 Speaker 1: about the arc of manifesting anything, right, you ideate it 306 00:15:19,760 --> 00:15:23,000 Speaker 1: in the follicular phase, you speak it into existence in 307 00:15:23,040 --> 00:15:27,200 Speaker 1: the ovulatory phase. Then you do things in alignment with 308 00:15:27,240 --> 00:15:29,800 Speaker 1: that vision in the luteal phase, and then you evaluate 309 00:15:29,880 --> 00:15:33,120 Speaker 1: and like you know, celebrate in the menstrual phase. Right. 310 00:15:33,640 --> 00:15:37,360 Speaker 1: So it's the longest phase, and it should be a 311 00:15:37,360 --> 00:15:40,240 Speaker 1: phase where you feel calm and focused if you have 312 00:15:40,280 --> 00:15:44,040 Speaker 1: adequate levels of progestrum resting CORESOL levels are a little 313 00:15:44,120 --> 00:15:46,120 Speaker 1: higher at this time, so that's going to affect how 314 00:15:46,120 --> 00:15:48,400 Speaker 1: we eat and how we exercise, which I'll go through 315 00:15:48,440 --> 00:15:52,000 Speaker 1: in a second. Then menstruation is a beautiful phase as well, 316 00:15:52,080 --> 00:15:54,760 Speaker 1: not to be discarded because we're bleeding. No. In fact, 317 00:15:55,000 --> 00:15:57,239 Speaker 1: the right and left hemispheres of the brain are communicating 318 00:15:57,320 --> 00:15:59,720 Speaker 1: the most across the corpus colosum. So this is when 319 00:15:59,760 --> 00:16:04,000 Speaker 1: you can really evaluate the facts and your feelings about 320 00:16:04,040 --> 00:16:07,680 Speaker 1: any situation and just decide what you want to do 321 00:16:08,000 --> 00:16:10,920 Speaker 1: right the next cycle. Right, because follicular phase is coming 322 00:16:10,960 --> 00:16:12,600 Speaker 1: back up, you want to start planning, like what are 323 00:16:12,600 --> 00:16:15,840 Speaker 1: you doing with your major life buckets? Right, So that's 324 00:16:15,840 --> 00:16:18,720 Speaker 1: what's happening, let's say ten thousand foot view. How do 325 00:16:18,760 --> 00:16:21,400 Speaker 1: you care for each of these phases? In the first 326 00:16:21,440 --> 00:16:23,920 Speaker 1: half of the cycle, we eat, you know, there's obviously 327 00:16:23,920 --> 00:16:27,280 Speaker 1: the food chart from chapter four of the book is famous. 328 00:16:27,280 --> 00:16:31,280 Speaker 1: Everybody's meming it, and there's so many Instagram posts. Everybody's 329 00:16:31,280 --> 00:16:33,560 Speaker 1: done such a great job like putting their spin on it. 330 00:16:33,600 --> 00:16:36,840 Speaker 1: I love it. But to get the correct one, please 331 00:16:36,880 --> 00:16:38,960 Speaker 1: reference the book or the app, because there's now it's 332 00:16:39,000 --> 00:16:40,640 Speaker 1: like a game of telephone. I think a lot of 333 00:16:40,680 --> 00:16:44,240 Speaker 1: people are excited about cycle sinking, and they're maybe misrepresenting 334 00:16:44,240 --> 00:16:45,840 Speaker 1: it a little bit. So just make sure you get 335 00:16:45,840 --> 00:16:48,360 Speaker 1: the right information. In the first half, you're going to 336 00:16:48,360 --> 00:16:50,600 Speaker 1: be eating lighter foods, You're going to be focusing on 337 00:16:50,720 --> 00:16:53,960 Speaker 1: gut health. You're going to be you know, you can 338 00:16:54,040 --> 00:16:56,480 Speaker 1: do a little bit of extended fasting in the morning, 339 00:16:57,320 --> 00:17:00,920 Speaker 1: not much past fourteen or fifteen hours, meaning from dinner 340 00:17:00,960 --> 00:17:05,040 Speaker 1: to breakfast. And then from an exercise perspective, you can 341 00:17:05,040 --> 00:17:08,119 Speaker 1: go really aggressively with your cardio and your hit workouts 342 00:17:08,160 --> 00:17:11,320 Speaker 1: in this phase second half of the cycle. As I said, 343 00:17:11,359 --> 00:17:14,919 Speaker 1: since metabolism speeds up, why does it speed up because 344 00:17:15,040 --> 00:17:18,560 Speaker 1: you're three D printing a little organ, the endometrium. Right, 345 00:17:18,640 --> 00:17:22,680 Speaker 1: you're manufacturing this tissue out of the food that you're eating, 346 00:17:22,720 --> 00:17:26,359 Speaker 1: and it takes more effort on your body's part to 347 00:17:26,480 --> 00:17:29,160 Speaker 1: do that, so you need more calories. This is why 348 00:17:29,240 --> 00:17:33,160 Speaker 1: stabilizing your blood sugar is critical for progesterone production. We're 349 00:17:33,359 --> 00:17:39,160 Speaker 1: very very tightly titrated to glucose and cortisol and progesterone, 350 00:17:39,280 --> 00:17:41,080 Speaker 1: so you really do want to watch that in the 351 00:17:41,119 --> 00:17:43,640 Speaker 1: luteal phase, which is why you'll see the food recommendations 352 00:17:43,680 --> 00:17:46,960 Speaker 1: here are much more substantive. So if you're the smoothie 353 00:17:46,960 --> 00:17:48,960 Speaker 1: salad girl, you're going to feel really comfortable in the 354 00:17:49,000 --> 00:17:51,159 Speaker 1: first half of the cycle. But in the second half, 355 00:17:51,600 --> 00:17:54,520 Speaker 1: I want you to get more comfortable with your macro self, right, 356 00:17:54,560 --> 00:17:57,080 Speaker 1: because you want to build like a nice bowl of grains, 357 00:17:57,240 --> 00:18:02,440 Speaker 1: root vegetables, legomes, cook leafy greens and proteins and fats. 358 00:18:02,480 --> 00:18:05,119 Speaker 1: A really well balanced macroplate is really going to be 359 00:18:05,160 --> 00:18:08,359 Speaker 1: the thing that keeps you energized and keeping you away 360 00:18:08,359 --> 00:18:11,960 Speaker 1: from any of that like PMS, you know, craving attack, 361 00:18:12,440 --> 00:18:15,920 Speaker 1: hang the yeah, all that stuff that's your body trying 362 00:18:15,960 --> 00:18:19,119 Speaker 1: to save you from yourself. When you wake up at 363 00:18:19,160 --> 00:18:21,520 Speaker 1: the bottom of a bag of crisps and you're like, oh, 364 00:18:21,640 --> 00:18:25,040 Speaker 1: I'm back right after you've gone into a Grellin trance. 365 00:18:25,119 --> 00:18:29,040 Speaker 1: That's all you are. You're in a neurotransmitter trance based 366 00:18:29,040 --> 00:18:31,680 Speaker 1: on Grellin. Grellen has taken over. Your blood sugar has 367 00:18:31,720 --> 00:18:34,520 Speaker 1: become so dysregulated that your brain is like, we got 368 00:18:34,560 --> 00:18:36,280 Speaker 1: to help this person out. She doesn't know how to 369 00:18:36,280 --> 00:18:39,080 Speaker 1: feed herself today, so we're going to give her an 370 00:18:39,160 --> 00:18:43,840 Speaker 1: overwhelming craving to get blood glucose levels up. And that's 371 00:18:43,880 --> 00:18:46,440 Speaker 1: why we have this type of sort of irrational craving 372 00:18:46,520 --> 00:18:49,480 Speaker 1: during a uteal phase. It's just because we're mismanaging blood sugger. 373 00:18:49,480 --> 00:18:51,720 Speaker 1: How might you be mismanaging your blood sugar in this phase? 374 00:18:52,119 --> 00:18:54,760 Speaker 1: Continuing to fast in the morning, right, you need to 375 00:18:54,840 --> 00:19:00,119 Speaker 1: eat within thirty minutes upon waking, and substantial substantially in 376 00:19:00,119 --> 00:19:03,520 Speaker 1: the luteal phase, so thirty grams of protein, about thirty 377 00:19:03,560 --> 00:19:07,480 Speaker 1: to forty grams of carbohydrates, twelve to fifteen grams of fat. 378 00:19:07,560 --> 00:19:11,560 Speaker 1: You really want to actually measure your macros to keep 379 00:19:11,560 --> 00:19:13,600 Speaker 1: your blood sugar balance. And if you don't have a 380 00:19:13,600 --> 00:19:16,760 Speaker 1: good handle on that, I would use a CGM a 381 00:19:16,800 --> 00:19:20,240 Speaker 1: continuous glucose monitor for the first one cycle, just so 382 00:19:20,280 --> 00:19:22,360 Speaker 1: you can see how your body is responding to all 383 00:19:22,359 --> 00:19:24,840 Speaker 1: these different food changes. That was one of our fun 384 00:19:24,920 --> 00:19:26,880 Speaker 1: findings in the study as well. We had everybody wear 385 00:19:26,920 --> 00:19:30,640 Speaker 1: a CGM and they were most women were really shocked 386 00:19:30,640 --> 00:19:33,840 Speaker 1: at how, you know, there's resistance to eating. We as 387 00:19:33,880 --> 00:19:37,240 Speaker 1: women have a lot of resistance to nourishing ourselves, and 388 00:19:37,280 --> 00:19:41,040 Speaker 1: so there's fear about feeding our bodies. And I said, great, 389 00:19:41,160 --> 00:19:43,040 Speaker 1: we're just going to put the dogma aside. You're going 390 00:19:43,080 --> 00:19:44,880 Speaker 1: to eat these things and you're you're going to see 391 00:19:44,880 --> 00:19:47,280 Speaker 1: the data in the CGM if your blood sugar is 392 00:19:47,320 --> 00:19:49,760 Speaker 1: happy with this or not. And everybody was like, oh 393 00:19:49,800 --> 00:19:53,000 Speaker 1: my god, I can't believe that this is what my 394 00:19:53,080 --> 00:19:57,720 Speaker 1: body needs and how good I feel. So that's really 395 00:19:57,760 --> 00:20:00,320 Speaker 1: important too, to just help us break free of the 396 00:20:00,400 --> 00:20:05,600 Speaker 1: sort of conditioning we've received. Let's not under appreciate the 397 00:20:05,640 --> 00:20:08,040 Speaker 1: fact that because we've been left out of all of 398 00:20:08,080 --> 00:20:11,639 Speaker 1: this medical fitness and nutrition research, we've been fed a 399 00:20:11,720 --> 00:20:15,399 Speaker 1: narrative for many, many decades that has been based on 400 00:20:15,560 --> 00:20:18,120 Speaker 1: the assumption that we are just smaller versions of men 401 00:20:18,720 --> 00:20:23,320 Speaker 1: that require maybe fewer calories and more cardio to compensate 402 00:20:23,359 --> 00:20:28,320 Speaker 1: for our mysterious you know, female metabolism, which is just 403 00:20:28,480 --> 00:20:33,879 Speaker 1: utter unscientific nonsense and so, but that has left a 404 00:20:34,000 --> 00:20:39,000 Speaker 1: lasting behavioral impression on our relationship with food and nourishing ourselves. 405 00:20:40,080 --> 00:20:42,119 Speaker 1: The best thing I can tell you from all of 406 00:20:42,160 --> 00:20:45,880 Speaker 1: this research that I've done is that actually, compared to men, 407 00:20:46,240 --> 00:20:50,520 Speaker 1: women thrive when we eat more and more frequently from 408 00:20:50,560 --> 00:20:54,879 Speaker 1: a hormonal perspective. So like you know, don't do too 409 00:20:54,960 --> 00:21:00,199 Speaker 1: much fasting until you're closer to menopause. And really, I 410 00:21:00,200 --> 00:21:02,600 Speaker 1: mean I eat every three hours. I'm closer to menopause. 411 00:21:02,640 --> 00:21:05,439 Speaker 1: I eat every three hours to keep my blood sugar 412 00:21:05,560 --> 00:21:12,040 Speaker 1: stable and to keep my metabolism really as at its 413 00:21:12,080 --> 00:21:12,960 Speaker 1: optimum place. 414 00:21:13,160 --> 00:21:13,400 Speaker 3: Right. 415 00:21:13,640 --> 00:21:17,000 Speaker 1: The more you restrict, the slower your metabolism performs, and 416 00:21:17,000 --> 00:21:21,440 Speaker 1: that throws off progesterone production. And we want to preserve 417 00:21:22,080 --> 00:21:25,119 Speaker 1: progesterone production as much as we can, and there's a 418 00:21:25,160 --> 00:21:28,800 Speaker 1: really direct line between that and blood sugar management. So 419 00:21:28,800 --> 00:21:30,960 Speaker 1: that's why you're eating differently throughout the cycle. Then, of 420 00:21:30,960 --> 00:21:34,639 Speaker 1: course during menstruation you have all of this blood loss, 421 00:21:35,080 --> 00:21:38,280 Speaker 1: and studies show that we lose specific minerals or more 422 00:21:38,320 --> 00:21:42,280 Speaker 1: mineral envitamin deficient in specific measurable ways in the menstrual phase. 423 00:21:42,320 --> 00:21:45,160 Speaker 1: So the foods that I selected for that phase really 424 00:21:45,160 --> 00:21:49,800 Speaker 1: help re nourish those missing nutrients. So you're going to 425 00:21:49,800 --> 00:21:53,280 Speaker 1: be having things that are a little bit more warming, stews, 426 00:21:53,600 --> 00:21:56,840 Speaker 1: meat basting, seaweeds, things that are really rich in these 427 00:21:56,880 --> 00:21:59,920 Speaker 1: types of nutrients. And then when you're doing this consistent 428 00:22:00,280 --> 00:22:05,120 Speaker 1: you know, phase over a phase, you just feel really good. Yeah, 429 00:22:05,160 --> 00:22:07,040 Speaker 1: you know, And then you couple in the workout, so 430 00:22:07,080 --> 00:22:08,800 Speaker 1: you do the cardio in the first half and then 431 00:22:08,840 --> 00:22:12,040 Speaker 1: you do more zone to kind of cardio in the 432 00:22:12,040 --> 00:22:15,040 Speaker 1: second half. Let me set the record straight because I 433 00:22:15,080 --> 00:22:18,080 Speaker 1: know there's a lot of again people having conversations on 434 00:22:18,080 --> 00:22:21,879 Speaker 1: social media. You can strength train in every phase of 435 00:22:21,920 --> 00:22:26,560 Speaker 1: the cycle, right I do? You should? You can. You 436 00:22:26,640 --> 00:22:29,640 Speaker 1: may be recovering from a lot of hormonal imbalance where 437 00:22:29,720 --> 00:22:32,800 Speaker 1: you feel a lot of fatigue in the second half 438 00:22:32,840 --> 00:22:34,760 Speaker 1: of the cycle, where you don't feel like you have 439 00:22:34,840 --> 00:22:37,600 Speaker 1: the energy to strength train until you get yourself back 440 00:22:37,640 --> 00:22:40,719 Speaker 1: to a state of homeostasis from a hormonal perspective, and 441 00:22:40,760 --> 00:22:43,520 Speaker 1: that's okay, So don't push yourself. But when you are 442 00:22:43,960 --> 00:22:47,280 Speaker 1: in the flow with your cycle, you can strength train 443 00:22:47,480 --> 00:22:50,320 Speaker 1: every day of the cycle. And there's so much advantageous, 444 00:22:50,520 --> 00:22:53,160 Speaker 1: you know, benefits to doing that from a blood sugar 445 00:22:53,200 --> 00:22:57,160 Speaker 1: perspective and a mitochondrial ovarian perspective. So I would definitely 446 00:22:57,280 --> 00:22:58,560 Speaker 1: encourage people to do that too. 447 00:22:58,760 --> 00:23:03,879 Speaker 2: I remember when I'm I was really struggling with the 448 00:23:03,920 --> 00:23:06,960 Speaker 2: certain parts of my certain parts of my cycle where 449 00:23:07,000 --> 00:23:11,320 Speaker 2: I was working up really intensely, like so intensely, actually 450 00:23:11,320 --> 00:23:12,960 Speaker 2: not more intensely than I normally would, But when I 451 00:23:13,080 --> 00:23:16,919 Speaker 2: was doing it during the phase before my menstruation, I 452 00:23:17,000 --> 00:23:20,639 Speaker 2: noticed there was a significant difference in how much I 453 00:23:20,680 --> 00:23:24,080 Speaker 2: was able to bounce back. So I was really going hard, 454 00:23:24,160 --> 00:23:26,840 Speaker 2: and no matter what I ate after my workout, no 455 00:23:26,880 --> 00:23:30,199 Speaker 2: matter how much I tried to replenish, my body was 456 00:23:30,280 --> 00:23:33,560 Speaker 2: just feeling flat out. And then it would affect the 457 00:23:33,600 --> 00:23:36,440 Speaker 2: rest of the phases and I almost like it felt 458 00:23:36,440 --> 00:23:38,240 Speaker 2: like I'd got into a deficit that I couldn't get 459 00:23:38,280 --> 00:23:40,840 Speaker 2: back from. And so I would do my lower back 460 00:23:40,840 --> 00:23:42,600 Speaker 2: would end up hurting more. I do the same ways 461 00:23:42,600 --> 00:23:44,280 Speaker 2: that I would normally do, you know a couple of 462 00:23:44,359 --> 00:23:48,280 Speaker 2: weeks before, but my lower back would go out, my 463 00:23:48,320 --> 00:23:50,679 Speaker 2: body would feel weaker. I'd come back, I'd have my 464 00:23:50,720 --> 00:23:52,600 Speaker 2: potein shake, I'd do all this stuff, and I'd be like, oh, 465 00:23:52,640 --> 00:23:55,680 Speaker 2: I feel so like my head feels heavy. Don't feel 466 00:23:55,720 --> 00:23:59,199 Speaker 2: like I'm just not replenishing. And when I started realizing 467 00:23:59,240 --> 00:24:00,960 Speaker 2: that I had to it wasn't that I stopped working 468 00:24:01,000 --> 00:24:02,679 Speaker 2: out during that phase, but I had to go at 469 00:24:02,680 --> 00:24:07,040 Speaker 2: a lower intensity during that time. And what a difference 470 00:24:07,040 --> 00:24:09,679 Speaker 2: it made to actually then catching up with energy for 471 00:24:09,720 --> 00:24:12,040 Speaker 2: the rest of the phases when the phase that I thought, 472 00:24:12,359 --> 00:24:13,800 Speaker 2: you know, just off to my menstruation is what I 473 00:24:13,880 --> 00:24:15,480 Speaker 2: usually would feel like the best, and I'd have so 474 00:24:15,560 --> 00:24:18,119 Speaker 2: much energy and it will be incredible. But it was 475 00:24:18,160 --> 00:24:20,960 Speaker 2: like I was catching up because I put myself so 476 00:24:21,080 --> 00:24:22,680 Speaker 2: flat out during the phase where I was supposed to 477 00:24:22,680 --> 00:24:25,560 Speaker 2: be having a little bit more rest, and instead of 478 00:24:25,600 --> 00:24:27,840 Speaker 2: doing that, I was pushing through. So I was kind 479 00:24:27,880 --> 00:24:30,720 Speaker 2: of borrowing energy from the other phases. 480 00:24:31,400 --> 00:24:34,639 Speaker 1: I mean, that's a great example of I think what 481 00:24:34,680 --> 00:24:37,760 Speaker 1: we're doing in general as women, which is where, you know, 482 00:24:37,880 --> 00:24:41,679 Speaker 1: because we are more comfortable with the practices of self 483 00:24:41,720 --> 00:24:44,440 Speaker 1: care from the first half of the cycle, we try 484 00:24:44,480 --> 00:24:46,760 Speaker 1: to maintain those in the second half, which are a 485 00:24:46,800 --> 00:24:49,560 Speaker 1: mismatch for what our cycle phases need. In the ludial, 486 00:24:49,600 --> 00:24:52,080 Speaker 1: in the menstrual phase, and we're putting a drain on 487 00:24:52,119 --> 00:24:54,200 Speaker 1: our system. So we kind of are creating a big 488 00:24:54,280 --> 00:25:00,119 Speaker 1: leaky bucket from a micronutrient perspective and energy perspective, and 489 00:25:00,160 --> 00:25:03,520 Speaker 1: that puts us in deficit, not just with our blood sugar, 490 00:25:03,880 --> 00:25:07,800 Speaker 1: our cortisol, our progesterone, our mood. And it's a vicious cycle. 491 00:25:07,840 --> 00:25:09,520 Speaker 1: So I want you to get into like a delicious 492 00:25:09,520 --> 00:25:13,160 Speaker 1: cycle where you are nourishing yourself properly and then you're 493 00:25:13,440 --> 00:25:16,560 Speaker 1: exercising in a way that is sustainable for you. I 494 00:25:16,600 --> 00:25:19,720 Speaker 1: will say oftentimes in the luteal phase, just specifically to 495 00:25:19,840 --> 00:25:23,240 Speaker 1: that your little practice, just to maybe tweak your practice. 496 00:25:22,920 --> 00:25:26,879 Speaker 1: It oftentimes women work out in a fasted state I do, 497 00:25:27,160 --> 00:25:31,280 Speaker 1: which is a big no noe. So if you work 498 00:25:31,280 --> 00:25:34,119 Speaker 1: out in a fasted state, especially in the luteal phase, 499 00:25:34,520 --> 00:25:37,160 Speaker 1: when your metabolism is faster and resting cortisol is higher, 500 00:25:37,240 --> 00:25:40,120 Speaker 1: now you are putting your body in a very vulnerable 501 00:25:40,119 --> 00:25:44,640 Speaker 1: position because you're putting yourself into hypoglycemic reaction. 502 00:25:44,840 --> 00:25:47,200 Speaker 3: That's exactly what I used to face, and then that can. 503 00:25:47,119 --> 00:25:49,919 Speaker 1: Take hours, if not days to recover from, depending on 504 00:25:49,920 --> 00:25:52,280 Speaker 1: how sensitive you are. So you were just having a 505 00:25:52,400 --> 00:25:55,800 Speaker 1: very bad hypoglycemic reaction in the luteal phase because you're 506 00:25:55,800 --> 00:25:58,800 Speaker 1: mismanaging your blood sugar, which is the whole purpose of 507 00:25:58,840 --> 00:26:02,280 Speaker 1: the dietary part of the intervention of cycle sinking is 508 00:26:02,320 --> 00:26:07,119 Speaker 1: to protect against blood sugar mismanagement, which we when you 509 00:26:07,200 --> 00:26:09,680 Speaker 1: do that, it's very hard to maintain hormonal balance. 510 00:26:09,760 --> 00:26:11,560 Speaker 2: What do you think these days are the biggest red 511 00:26:11,560 --> 00:26:14,240 Speaker 2: flags you're seeing women day? Like the top three things 512 00:26:14,240 --> 00:26:17,879 Speaker 2: that are literally ruining a woman's hormontal health. 513 00:26:17,920 --> 00:26:22,520 Speaker 1: I mean, fast at anything, fasted workouts, fast like extended 514 00:26:22,520 --> 00:26:26,840 Speaker 1: fasting definitely not a good thing from a hormonal perspective. 515 00:26:28,440 --> 00:26:33,280 Speaker 1: Caffeine on an empty stomach really problematic from a cortisol 516 00:26:33,320 --> 00:26:36,640 Speaker 1: perspective and a blood sugar perspective. And then I would 517 00:26:36,720 --> 00:26:40,679 Speaker 1: say too much blue light exposure at night that really 518 00:26:40,720 --> 00:26:46,600 Speaker 1: disrupts melatonin production. And melatonin is so connected to our 519 00:26:46,640 --> 00:26:50,440 Speaker 1: ovulation potential, and when we don't make enough of that, 520 00:26:50,480 --> 00:26:54,000 Speaker 1: we age the ovary really quickly, so we can really 521 00:26:54,080 --> 00:26:56,719 Speaker 1: put an end to ovulation much sooner than we should. 522 00:26:57,280 --> 00:27:00,320 Speaker 1: So those three things alone, so I mean, I would say, 523 00:27:00,840 --> 00:27:04,760 Speaker 1: eat your breakfast within an hour of waking. Wait until 524 00:27:04,840 --> 00:27:08,119 Speaker 1: in fact, study just came out about that if you 525 00:27:08,240 --> 00:27:12,320 Speaker 1: believe the idea that having that cup of coffee or 526 00:27:12,480 --> 00:27:14,800 Speaker 1: green tea or something on an empty stomach first thing 527 00:27:14,800 --> 00:27:17,360 Speaker 1: in the morning is what's giving you that jolt, it's 528 00:27:17,400 --> 00:27:20,639 Speaker 1: actually not that. It's that within that first thirty minutes, 529 00:27:20,960 --> 00:27:25,720 Speaker 1: your body is offloading melatonin and so what you're you're 530 00:27:25,840 --> 00:27:28,160 Speaker 1: like coming out of the sleep mode, right, So you're 531 00:27:28,280 --> 00:27:31,359 Speaker 1: naturally and your cortisol's onboarding, so you're naturally kind of 532 00:27:31,400 --> 00:27:34,320 Speaker 1: waking up. It has nothing to do with the caffeine. 533 00:27:34,359 --> 00:27:38,080 Speaker 1: The caffeine. Putting it in too early can actually prevent 534 00:27:38,160 --> 00:27:42,119 Speaker 1: that process from happening properly, keeping you more groggy and 535 00:27:42,160 --> 00:27:44,800 Speaker 1: then messing with your blood sugar and cortisol. Right, So 536 00:27:45,040 --> 00:27:46,640 Speaker 1: it's best if you're going to do it, to wait 537 00:27:46,720 --> 00:27:49,000 Speaker 1: one hour. So I always say eat your breakfast within 538 00:27:49,040 --> 00:27:51,480 Speaker 1: that first hour to boost your energy from a blood 539 00:27:51,480 --> 00:27:55,080 Speaker 1: sugar perspective, and then have your caffeine after the meal, 540 00:27:55,080 --> 00:27:58,640 Speaker 1: which is how every other culture has caffeine. Yeah, after 541 00:27:58,680 --> 00:28:01,360 Speaker 1: a meal, So we should just adopt that logic. It's 542 00:28:01,400 --> 00:28:05,760 Speaker 1: good for us. And then from the perspective of the 543 00:28:05,840 --> 00:28:09,520 Speaker 1: evening routine, you know, make sure you put your phones 544 00:28:09,600 --> 00:28:12,200 Speaker 1: your screens on, like red light, you know, whatever, the 545 00:28:12,240 --> 00:28:14,320 Speaker 1: anti blue light, there's always like an app you can 546 00:28:14,359 --> 00:28:18,640 Speaker 1: download or wear blue light blocking glasses after a certain hour, 547 00:28:19,680 --> 00:28:21,160 Speaker 1: you know, at least by eight o'clock. 548 00:28:21,720 --> 00:28:24,280 Speaker 3: So then you know with the intimate and fasting because 549 00:28:24,280 --> 00:28:25,000 Speaker 3: obviously they wreck. 550 00:28:25,200 --> 00:28:28,359 Speaker 2: There's been so many people that have shared that having 551 00:28:28,440 --> 00:28:31,560 Speaker 2: a minimum of like a fourteen fifteen hour to allow 552 00:28:31,600 --> 00:28:34,159 Speaker 2: your body to detox and to get the benefits of 553 00:28:35,840 --> 00:28:38,920 Speaker 2: intimate and fasting, that having that block of fourteen or 554 00:28:38,920 --> 00:28:40,840 Speaker 2: fifteen hours is what's really important. 555 00:28:41,120 --> 00:28:41,760 Speaker 3: So would you. 556 00:28:41,720 --> 00:28:45,560 Speaker 2: Say that that's not necessarily accurate for a woman or 557 00:28:45,640 --> 00:28:48,520 Speaker 2: is it very dependent on what type of woman you are. 558 00:28:48,960 --> 00:28:53,160 Speaker 1: So you can do that. Ex So, the Golden fast 559 00:28:53,240 --> 00:28:56,320 Speaker 1: is a twelve to thirteen hour fast between dinner and breakfast, 560 00:28:56,400 --> 00:28:58,760 Speaker 1: So that means like seven pm, you're having your last 561 00:28:58,800 --> 00:29:00,880 Speaker 1: bite of food and you would have your next spite 562 00:29:00,880 --> 00:29:04,040 Speaker 1: of food until sometime between seven or eight am. Okay, 563 00:29:04,280 --> 00:29:07,080 Speaker 1: that's great. In the first half of the cycle, you 564 00:29:07,200 --> 00:29:10,360 Speaker 1: might be able to push that another hour, so that 565 00:29:10,400 --> 00:29:14,640 Speaker 1: could be that fourteen hour window right in the luteal phase. 566 00:29:15,160 --> 00:29:18,959 Speaker 1: Definitely not keep it to twelve and you will see 567 00:29:19,000 --> 00:29:23,240 Speaker 1: the impact and the benefits of doing that there's more 568 00:29:23,360 --> 00:29:29,160 Speaker 1: harm in delaying replenishing your glucose levels in the luteal 569 00:29:29,160 --> 00:29:31,800 Speaker 1: phase than there is any benefit from fasting. And then 570 00:29:31,840 --> 00:29:35,080 Speaker 1: obviously the research that's been done on intermittent fasting has 571 00:29:35,080 --> 00:29:40,040 Speaker 1: been done on men and postmenopausal women, which shows huge benefits. 572 00:29:40,120 --> 00:29:43,560 Speaker 1: When I am postmenopausal, I will be intermittent fasting. I 573 00:29:43,600 --> 00:29:45,840 Speaker 1: will be extending my fasting. I think we'll see. I 574 00:29:45,880 --> 00:29:49,240 Speaker 1: have actually taken up a very serious strength training practice 575 00:29:49,240 --> 00:29:53,280 Speaker 1: over the past fourteen months, so I am bodybuilding five 576 00:29:53,360 --> 00:29:56,680 Speaker 1: days a week, and I actually don't think that there's 577 00:29:56,720 --> 00:30:00,960 Speaker 1: a place for the fasting in my current routine because 578 00:30:01,000 --> 00:30:04,640 Speaker 1: I have to prefuel my muscles with adequate levels of 579 00:30:04,680 --> 00:30:08,160 Speaker 1: glucose before I train, and I'm training very heavy. I mean, 580 00:30:08,200 --> 00:30:11,200 Speaker 1: my hip thrust is two hundred pounds. Yeah, squat is 581 00:30:11,280 --> 00:30:14,960 Speaker 1: a grid pound squad, you know, like my bench press 582 00:30:15,000 --> 00:30:19,000 Speaker 1: is seventy pounds. I'm lifting really heavy and so you 583 00:30:19,080 --> 00:30:22,840 Speaker 1: need to fuel for that. So again, you know, we 584 00:30:22,880 --> 00:30:26,600 Speaker 1: shouldn't be so afraid of nourishment. Now, fasting has a place, 585 00:30:26,720 --> 00:30:30,040 Speaker 1: especially when you're recovering from let's say some sort of 586 00:30:30,040 --> 00:30:34,040 Speaker 1: intense infection like limes disease or there's a lot of 587 00:30:34,080 --> 00:30:37,120 Speaker 1: reasons where fasting can be a very big help to 588 00:30:37,160 --> 00:30:39,960 Speaker 1: the body because the constant introduction of food can be 589 00:30:40,000 --> 00:30:44,640 Speaker 1: a drain when immune system is overburdened. But for the 590 00:30:44,760 --> 00:30:47,960 Speaker 1: everyday woman who is just dealing with PMS, if we 591 00:30:48,040 --> 00:30:50,360 Speaker 1: really are talking about getting a handled on that, we 592 00:30:50,560 --> 00:30:55,000 Speaker 1: have to approach and support our master regulating hormones. In 593 00:30:55,120 --> 00:30:59,800 Speaker 1: order for you to change your sex hormone output estrogen progesterone, 594 00:31:00,200 --> 00:31:03,720 Speaker 1: you have to work on the master regulating hormone support 595 00:31:03,800 --> 00:31:09,040 Speaker 1: of glucose, insulin, and cortisol. Right. So that's why we 596 00:31:09,200 --> 00:31:13,320 Speaker 1: change diet and exercise, because then we change those inputs, 597 00:31:13,360 --> 00:31:16,800 Speaker 1: we get better sex hormone outputs. That's the key. 598 00:31:17,120 --> 00:31:21,480 Speaker 2: Would the intimated fasting also be applied to if someone 599 00:31:21,560 --> 00:31:23,560 Speaker 2: was trying to lose weight with women who are trying 600 00:31:23,560 --> 00:31:27,240 Speaker 2: to lose weight or achieve weight loss in their workout program, 601 00:31:27,640 --> 00:31:30,720 Speaker 2: would what you're saying apply to them also? 602 00:31:31,040 --> 00:31:34,280 Speaker 1: It would apply because the studies around intermittent fasting that 603 00:31:34,360 --> 00:31:37,360 Speaker 1: I do think have some merit, or for women with 604 00:31:37,440 --> 00:31:41,520 Speaker 1: PCOS which I used to have and I used to 605 00:31:41,520 --> 00:31:43,920 Speaker 1: be two hundred and ten pounds covered in face, chest 606 00:31:43,960 --> 00:31:46,200 Speaker 1: and back and sistic acne, and I did not menstraight 607 00:31:46,240 --> 00:31:48,760 Speaker 1: from the age of twelve to twenty two, so you know, 608 00:31:48,800 --> 00:31:53,120 Speaker 1: I understand weight issues. That being said, I've never used 609 00:31:53,120 --> 00:31:56,600 Speaker 1: intermittent fasting as a tool for my weight management, and 610 00:31:56,640 --> 00:31:58,960 Speaker 1: I've kept off a significant amount of weight for a 611 00:31:59,000 --> 00:32:03,320 Speaker 1: long time. But there is some emerging research that shows 612 00:32:03,320 --> 00:32:06,040 Speaker 1: that for women with pcos, there's some value in doing 613 00:32:06,080 --> 00:32:09,360 Speaker 1: some extended fasting to help at least get them started 614 00:32:09,360 --> 00:32:11,000 Speaker 1: where they could get to a place where they have 615 00:32:11,040 --> 00:32:14,239 Speaker 1: better metabolic flexibility. Because women with pcos have a lot 616 00:32:14,280 --> 00:32:18,200 Speaker 1: of insulin resistance on the level of the cell, overburdening 617 00:32:18,240 --> 00:32:21,760 Speaker 1: the body with glucose is the problem. So intermittent fasting 618 00:32:21,920 --> 00:32:27,960 Speaker 1: isn't the thing there. It's just a mechanism that reduces 619 00:32:28,160 --> 00:32:33,080 Speaker 1: overall daily glucose load and that benefits the cell from 620 00:32:33,120 --> 00:32:35,959 Speaker 1: a woman who has this insulin resistance. For women who 621 00:32:36,040 --> 00:32:40,760 Speaker 1: are trying to lose weight, in fact, delaying nutrition and 622 00:32:40,800 --> 00:32:44,080 Speaker 1: going long periods of time without eating, let's say we 623 00:32:44,120 --> 00:32:47,080 Speaker 1: do that the most between lunch and dinner. It slows 624 00:32:47,080 --> 00:32:51,400 Speaker 1: down your metabolism. So, for example, in the past fourteen months, 625 00:32:51,440 --> 00:32:52,960 Speaker 1: and I didn't think I had any weight to lose, 626 00:32:53,000 --> 00:32:58,560 Speaker 1: I've lost twenty five pounds strength training and eating more, 627 00:32:59,560 --> 00:33:03,000 Speaker 1: more free and more. You know, I was already nourishing 628 00:33:03,000 --> 00:33:05,640 Speaker 1: myself a lot, but I started, you know, at midlife. 629 00:33:05,640 --> 00:33:08,000 Speaker 1: I thought, let me just see what other new experiments 630 00:33:08,000 --> 00:33:11,000 Speaker 1: I can do. And that's really been the thing. So 631 00:33:11,720 --> 00:33:16,880 Speaker 1: I think again, we have this whole like narrative that 632 00:33:17,120 --> 00:33:20,920 Speaker 1: is not based on actual data that we feel really 633 00:33:20,960 --> 00:33:25,479 Speaker 1: comfortable with, Like, yes, we feel, we feel now. Listen, 634 00:33:25,600 --> 00:33:28,000 Speaker 1: a calorie deficit if you're going to lose weight is important. 635 00:33:28,000 --> 00:33:30,760 Speaker 1: It's an important part of weight loss. But that does 636 00:33:30,800 --> 00:33:34,200 Speaker 1: not eat. That does not have to involve going many, 637 00:33:34,240 --> 00:33:36,200 Speaker 1: many hours of the day without eating. You can be 638 00:33:36,240 --> 00:33:39,800 Speaker 1: in a calorie deficit and eat every three hours because 639 00:33:39,800 --> 00:33:42,520 Speaker 1: the goal is even in a calorie deficit, you still 640 00:33:42,520 --> 00:33:45,600 Speaker 1: have to stabilize your blood sugar Otherwise you're going to 641 00:33:45,640 --> 00:33:48,440 Speaker 1: be hypoglycemic. You're going to be craving things, You're going 642 00:33:48,480 --> 00:33:50,200 Speaker 1: to be throwing off your lept in response. It's going 643 00:33:50,280 --> 00:33:52,440 Speaker 1: to just it's a vicious cycle. 644 00:33:52,640 --> 00:33:53,320 Speaker 3: Yeah. 645 00:33:53,360 --> 00:33:55,959 Speaker 2: And then you know when people get their hormones tested, 646 00:33:57,000 --> 00:34:01,360 Speaker 2: are the you know the targets or you know the 647 00:34:01,440 --> 00:34:05,200 Speaker 2: ranges that they give when you're testing your hormones, are 648 00:34:05,240 --> 00:34:08,879 Speaker 2: they based on the right demographic in terms of when 649 00:34:08,880 --> 00:34:11,320 Speaker 2: they are getting tested. If your hormones are showing normal, 650 00:34:11,400 --> 00:34:15,000 Speaker 2: but you're still showing up with symptoms that there's irregular, 651 00:34:15,239 --> 00:34:16,480 Speaker 2: like there's hormone irregulation. 652 00:34:17,040 --> 00:34:17,120 Speaker 1: What. 653 00:34:18,520 --> 00:34:20,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, I would just love to touch on that because 654 00:34:20,040 --> 00:34:21,319 Speaker 2: sometimes they can be it's so. 655 00:34:21,320 --> 00:34:25,640 Speaker 1: Frustrating, right, yeah. Yeah. So the problem fundamentally with blood 656 00:34:25,800 --> 00:34:29,759 Speaker 1: analysis is that it's just this one crystallized moment in 657 00:34:29,840 --> 00:34:32,560 Speaker 1: time whenever you take the blood draw. That moment, that 658 00:34:32,760 --> 00:34:35,439 Speaker 1: minute of your cycle is what the data is going 659 00:34:35,440 --> 00:34:38,560 Speaker 1: to show. Yes, yeah, it's I think in the light 660 00:34:38,680 --> 00:34:42,160 Speaker 1: of all the new options that women have. You know, 661 00:34:43,120 --> 00:34:47,080 Speaker 1: for example, Mirror Health has a wonderful at home your 662 00:34:47,080 --> 00:34:51,120 Speaker 1: analysis device where you can be tracking your estrogen and 663 00:34:51,200 --> 00:34:55,720 Speaker 1: progesterone metabolites every single day. Oh wow, so you can 664 00:34:56,120 --> 00:34:59,279 Speaker 1: every single day of your cycle know how many how 665 00:34:59,360 --> 00:35:01,759 Speaker 1: much estrogen progester on your body has made that day, 666 00:35:02,160 --> 00:35:04,399 Speaker 1: and then you can get that picture for a whole month. 667 00:35:05,360 --> 00:35:09,880 Speaker 1: That is much more valuable information to have. You understand, 668 00:35:10,040 --> 00:35:14,719 Speaker 1: are you in general having the right flow of these 669 00:35:14,719 --> 00:35:18,760 Speaker 1: hormonal ratios in each phase of the cycle as opposed 670 00:35:18,800 --> 00:35:21,520 Speaker 1: to just a blood draw Now, the other thing that 671 00:35:21,560 --> 00:35:24,560 Speaker 1: I think is valuable too about having more consistent testing 672 00:35:24,640 --> 00:35:27,799 Speaker 1: if you're concerned, is that you're absolutely right. You can 673 00:35:27,840 --> 00:35:31,440 Speaker 1: go and get a blood test and you can be 674 00:35:31,480 --> 00:35:34,719 Speaker 1: in normal range for that minute of that day of 675 00:35:34,719 --> 00:35:38,400 Speaker 1: your cycle, and then you have this frustrating conversation with 676 00:35:38,440 --> 00:35:41,080 Speaker 1: your provider where you're like, there's nothing wrong with your labs. 677 00:35:41,120 --> 00:35:43,359 Speaker 1: Everything is normal, and you're like, but I feel bad, 678 00:35:43,400 --> 00:35:45,600 Speaker 1: and then there's this sort of opportunity for gas lighting 679 00:35:45,600 --> 00:35:48,880 Speaker 1: to happen, and this sort of again, this cultural narrative 680 00:35:48,920 --> 00:35:50,600 Speaker 1: of like it's in your head because it's not on 681 00:35:50,640 --> 00:35:54,200 Speaker 1: the labs is perpetuated. And I think it's because the 682 00:35:54,239 --> 00:35:58,800 Speaker 1: tool of this blood test does not match the thirty 683 00:35:59,000 --> 00:36:02,680 Speaker 1: twenty eight to thirty two to day experience of a 684 00:36:02,760 --> 00:36:05,480 Speaker 1: dynamic hormone pattern that is changing in real time day 685 00:36:05,520 --> 00:36:08,840 Speaker 1: over day. How can a blood test be sufficient to 686 00:36:08,960 --> 00:36:12,480 Speaker 1: really get a full picture of what could be going on? Right? So, 687 00:36:12,600 --> 00:36:15,560 Speaker 1: I think if you have concerns, do something that's a 688 00:36:15,600 --> 00:36:18,200 Speaker 1: little bit more comprehensive, so that you can see more 689 00:36:18,280 --> 00:36:20,640 Speaker 1: data and you can see that it's not in your 690 00:36:20,680 --> 00:36:21,319 Speaker 1: head because it's not. 691 00:36:21,560 --> 00:36:25,160 Speaker 2: So. Urine analysis is a better way of someone going. 692 00:36:25,160 --> 00:36:28,120 Speaker 1: There's many, there's many, there's that there's you know, you 693 00:36:28,120 --> 00:36:32,560 Speaker 1: can wear even HRV levels in things like rings and watches. 694 00:36:32,920 --> 00:36:35,800 Speaker 1: They're able to sort of be mapped now onto menstrual 695 00:36:35,840 --> 00:36:39,520 Speaker 1: cycle pattern. So there's many, many biometric devices that are 696 00:36:39,560 --> 00:36:43,080 Speaker 1: available to us. It is a really exciting, i would say, 697 00:36:43,200 --> 00:36:46,680 Speaker 1: historic feminist time because of femtech and some of these 698 00:36:47,040 --> 00:36:50,400 Speaker 1: biohacking devices that have been evolved. Even simple things like 699 00:36:50,480 --> 00:36:54,200 Speaker 1: having an access to a continuous glucose monitor, what a 700 00:36:54,239 --> 00:36:58,520 Speaker 1: powerful tool in managing your hormonal reality because if you're 701 00:36:58,560 --> 00:37:00,040 Speaker 1: not you know, and I wrote about this in my 702 00:37:00,080 --> 00:37:02,279 Speaker 1: first book, Woman Code, it's the first step of the 703 00:37:02,320 --> 00:37:05,280 Speaker 1: flow protocol that I used in my practice for years 704 00:37:05,280 --> 00:37:07,880 Speaker 1: before I opened, before I started the first femtech company 705 00:37:07,880 --> 00:37:10,680 Speaker 1: in the US in twenty twelve, which is flow living. 706 00:37:11,320 --> 00:37:14,520 Speaker 1: That you know, if you are not managing your blood sugar, 707 00:37:14,600 --> 00:37:18,520 Speaker 1: you have no shot in helping yourself from a hormonal perspective. 708 00:37:18,800 --> 00:37:21,840 Speaker 1: It's so germane to your endocrine function. It's table stakes. 709 00:37:22,200 --> 00:37:26,440 Speaker 1: You can't. You can't out supplement or out biohack. Having 710 00:37:26,640 --> 00:37:30,680 Speaker 1: a poor diet, yeah, you just cannot. And eighty percent 711 00:37:30,760 --> 00:37:35,120 Speaker 1: of what gets you well is dietary. 712 00:37:34,440 --> 00:37:37,240 Speaker 2: So true, are there any like your top three foods 713 00:37:37,719 --> 00:37:41,200 Speaker 2: that are supportive for women's hormones and health? 714 00:37:41,960 --> 00:37:46,760 Speaker 1: I mean protein because we synthesize hormones from amino acids, 715 00:37:47,080 --> 00:37:50,120 Speaker 1: So let's not I know protein's a hot topic right 716 00:37:50,120 --> 00:37:52,920 Speaker 1: now because everybody wants to have your protein, and I'm 717 00:37:53,000 --> 00:37:55,560 Speaker 1: here for that. I do eat a lot of protein myself, 718 00:37:55,800 --> 00:37:59,600 Speaker 1: but especially as I'm aging, more protein helps me make 719 00:37:59,600 --> 00:38:02,239 Speaker 1: more hormone and I'm interested in playing the game of 720 00:38:02,239 --> 00:38:04,440 Speaker 1: how can my bod how can I help my body 721 00:38:04,600 --> 00:38:08,319 Speaker 1: make more endogenous which means internally produced hormones for longer? Yes, 722 00:38:08,560 --> 00:38:10,799 Speaker 1: you know why not? We can play any experiment we want. 723 00:38:10,840 --> 00:38:11,560 Speaker 3: Why not do that? 724 00:38:12,000 --> 00:38:14,239 Speaker 1: So more protein is helping me do that. But even 725 00:38:14,239 --> 00:38:17,520 Speaker 1: when you're younger, if you're having hormone imbalances, you can't 726 00:38:17,520 --> 00:38:20,160 Speaker 1: get pregnant. You know, protein is a really important thing 727 00:38:20,239 --> 00:38:22,919 Speaker 1: to look at. How much protein are you eating? And 728 00:38:23,000 --> 00:38:26,520 Speaker 1: you should actually do that, not just from an opinion perspective, 729 00:38:26,760 --> 00:38:30,800 Speaker 1: but you should calculate via actual macronutrient amount of protein 730 00:38:30,800 --> 00:38:33,200 Speaker 1: that you should be having. We don't have to guess anymore. 731 00:38:33,200 --> 00:38:35,239 Speaker 1: Which is I think the thing that I love to 732 00:38:35,320 --> 00:38:38,160 Speaker 1: share with women. This is not about what do we 733 00:38:38,320 --> 00:38:41,440 Speaker 1: think it should be. We can know we can track 734 00:38:41,560 --> 00:38:44,040 Speaker 1: our hormones, we can measure our macros, we can measure 735 00:38:44,040 --> 00:38:46,239 Speaker 1: our blood sugar. We can measure these things and we 736 00:38:46,280 --> 00:38:49,759 Speaker 1: can actually see things change. It's so excited. I mean, 737 00:38:49,800 --> 00:38:52,480 Speaker 1: this has not ever been possible before. It's very exciting. 738 00:38:52,920 --> 00:38:56,480 Speaker 1: Every woman should feel so empowered to take her cycle 739 00:38:57,120 --> 00:39:00,919 Speaker 1: management into her own hands and feel like she can 740 00:39:00,960 --> 00:39:04,800 Speaker 1: be successful because that is absolutely possible. So protein is 741 00:39:04,840 --> 00:39:05,279 Speaker 1: the first one. 742 00:39:05,280 --> 00:39:09,120 Speaker 2: How much protein do you recommend pergram body wave? 743 00:39:09,239 --> 00:39:11,480 Speaker 1: I mean there's a standard calculation, so I stick with this. 744 00:39:11,920 --> 00:39:14,640 Speaker 1: That okay with that one, and then you know, I 745 00:39:14,680 --> 00:39:18,080 Speaker 1: would say after protein, the second thing that I think 746 00:39:18,160 --> 00:39:21,319 Speaker 1: is really important from a food perspective for women would 747 00:39:21,360 --> 00:39:25,200 Speaker 1: be healthy fats. You just also need those because hormones 748 00:39:25,200 --> 00:39:27,160 Speaker 1: are stabilized in a lipid ring, so you need to 749 00:39:27,160 --> 00:39:29,200 Speaker 1: make sure you're having healthy fats. It also helps with 750 00:39:29,360 --> 00:39:33,000 Speaker 1: just hormone production prevention. I mean, you got to have 751 00:39:33,040 --> 00:39:35,000 Speaker 1: the right fats and the BISO, stay away from like 752 00:39:35,120 --> 00:39:39,440 Speaker 1: processed seed oils and eat more good, healthy fats. But 753 00:39:39,640 --> 00:39:42,759 Speaker 1: the third one is definitely one I don't think you've 754 00:39:42,760 --> 00:39:46,759 Speaker 1: heard before, and one that I just think is utterly fascinating. 755 00:39:47,200 --> 00:39:53,080 Speaker 1: So orange foods are really valuable for the ovaries because 756 00:39:54,040 --> 00:39:57,560 Speaker 1: it turns out that the ovaries have fourteen different beta 757 00:39:57,600 --> 00:40:03,360 Speaker 1: carotene receptor sites. Oh wow, So root vegetables, organ meats 758 00:40:04,400 --> 00:40:08,919 Speaker 1: all contain high levels of beta carotene vitamin A that 759 00:40:08,960 --> 00:40:14,240 Speaker 1: the ovaries need to store in there in their tissue 760 00:40:14,840 --> 00:40:18,000 Speaker 1: to function, just like we we know right, Oh yes, 761 00:40:18,200 --> 00:40:21,799 Speaker 1: my thyroid needs to store iodine and selenium, so we 762 00:40:22,120 --> 00:40:25,480 Speaker 1: know to consume those things to give our thyroid the 763 00:40:25,480 --> 00:40:28,120 Speaker 1: things it needs to do to have to make hormones. 764 00:40:28,480 --> 00:40:33,280 Speaker 1: But your ovaries need beta carotene. So that's why, especially 765 00:40:33,280 --> 00:40:35,080 Speaker 1: in the luteal phase, you want to be eating your 766 00:40:35,120 --> 00:40:38,120 Speaker 1: root vegetables because your ovaries love that. So that's another 767 00:40:38,160 --> 00:40:42,319 Speaker 1: food that I think. I eat sweet potatoes every day, 768 00:40:42,320 --> 00:40:44,239 Speaker 1: depending on what carrots in the first half of my cycle, 769 00:40:44,280 --> 00:40:46,360 Speaker 1: sweet potatoes at the second half, for sure. 770 00:40:46,920 --> 00:40:49,880 Speaker 2: What about three foods or how many foods that you 771 00:40:49,960 --> 00:40:52,960 Speaker 2: think are unknown to women that are actually affecting the 772 00:40:53,000 --> 00:40:56,200 Speaker 2: home and health in a negative way, disrupting the homeleone. 773 00:40:55,920 --> 00:40:59,279 Speaker 1: Unknown to it. That's an interesting question. I mean, well, 774 00:40:59,360 --> 00:41:04,759 Speaker 1: I think stevia is one that is is under discussed. 775 00:41:04,920 --> 00:41:09,359 Speaker 1: So historically the stevia plant was used as a light 776 00:41:09,480 --> 00:41:13,920 Speaker 1: form of contraception. There is some in certain traditional cultures 777 00:41:14,280 --> 00:41:20,120 Speaker 1: there's some endocrine effect and impact from that plant that's interesting. 778 00:41:20,239 --> 00:41:22,640 Speaker 1: So it's in a lot of different things. So monk 779 00:41:22,680 --> 00:41:25,279 Speaker 1: fruit is a really good alternative that does not have that. 780 00:41:25,640 --> 00:41:28,560 Speaker 1: And also I noticed too that stevia's sweetness is so 781 00:41:28,640 --> 00:41:32,600 Speaker 1: intense that it can generate more of a salt craving 782 00:41:32,600 --> 00:41:36,520 Speaker 1: that then kicks off another sugar craving. So in Chinese medicine, 783 00:41:36,520 --> 00:41:40,440 Speaker 1: when we look at the yin and young principles of food, 784 00:41:42,000 --> 00:41:44,680 Speaker 1: yin foods are very sweet things, and young foods are 785 00:41:44,719 --> 00:41:48,000 Speaker 1: more salty things, right, heavier, oily, fatty or saltier things. 786 00:41:48,480 --> 00:41:52,359 Speaker 1: So if you're having something that's very very yin, even 787 00:41:52,360 --> 00:41:54,880 Speaker 1: if it's just the taste of like something extremely sweet, 788 00:41:54,920 --> 00:41:58,319 Speaker 1: you're going to naturally crave something more salty to get 789 00:41:58,360 --> 00:42:01,080 Speaker 1: back to a sense of balance. And so you can 790 00:42:01,120 --> 00:42:03,040 Speaker 1: really be like sea sawing all day, like you have 791 00:42:03,080 --> 00:42:05,640 Speaker 1: your super stevia sweetened tea, and then you're like, I 792 00:42:05,680 --> 00:42:08,320 Speaker 1: need salty crackers, and then you just don't feel like 793 00:42:08,360 --> 00:42:10,520 Speaker 1: you're in control. Whereas monk fruit. I don't feel like 794 00:42:10,560 --> 00:42:11,600 Speaker 1: we have that same reaction. 795 00:42:11,680 --> 00:42:13,560 Speaker 3: That's so interesting. I didn't know that about. 796 00:42:14,080 --> 00:42:16,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, and then if you're trying to conceive, you know, 797 00:42:16,400 --> 00:42:20,080 Speaker 1: I would definitely go light on the stevia. So that's 798 00:42:20,080 --> 00:42:24,480 Speaker 1: definitely one. I would say from a cramp perspective, the 799 00:42:25,560 --> 00:42:29,880 Speaker 1: Omega six oils that fats, they really jack up the 800 00:42:29,920 --> 00:42:34,880 Speaker 1: production of prostaglandin that controls uterine contraction, so makes you 801 00:42:34,960 --> 00:42:38,040 Speaker 1: have more painful cramps. Oh no, So you want to 802 00:42:38,120 --> 00:42:40,440 Speaker 1: just really avoid those types of things, and you want 803 00:42:40,480 --> 00:42:43,359 Speaker 1: to you know, choose your healthier fats, avocado, allive oil, 804 00:42:43,440 --> 00:42:46,480 Speaker 1: those things that actually increases the production of PG one 805 00:42:46,520 --> 00:42:49,520 Speaker 1: and three, which causes more uterine relaxation, so you can 806 00:42:49,560 --> 00:42:53,800 Speaker 1: expel the endometrium with less effort, which is how it's designed. 807 00:42:53,840 --> 00:42:56,479 Speaker 1: You're not designed to be in any pain during the month. 808 00:42:57,280 --> 00:43:00,080 Speaker 1: So that's the second one. That's an unusual one of 809 00:43:00,160 --> 00:43:02,080 Speaker 1: a third one because you qualify it. 810 00:43:02,400 --> 00:43:04,759 Speaker 2: Does something you just I feel like sometimes, I mean 811 00:43:04,800 --> 00:43:07,200 Speaker 2: from even my experience of my friends, they don't really 812 00:43:07,239 --> 00:43:08,719 Speaker 2: even think about the food that eating and how it 813 00:43:08,719 --> 00:43:09,480 Speaker 2: affects the homones. 814 00:43:09,480 --> 00:43:10,160 Speaker 3: So it doesn't even have to be. 815 00:43:10,200 --> 00:43:14,200 Speaker 2: Something that people find extremely unexpected. But you know, even 816 00:43:14,239 --> 00:43:17,400 Speaker 2: things like dairy, like does dairy affect your homones in 817 00:43:17,400 --> 00:43:18,759 Speaker 2: a positive or negative way? 818 00:43:18,920 --> 00:43:21,160 Speaker 1: I would say, I'm not so hung up on dairy. 819 00:43:21,200 --> 00:43:23,520 Speaker 1: The only thing I love to suggest is if you 820 00:43:23,640 --> 00:43:26,799 Speaker 1: have any sort of digestive or immune issues, like, try 821 00:43:26,840 --> 00:43:30,200 Speaker 1: to choose a two based dairy because it's going to 822 00:43:30,239 --> 00:43:33,719 Speaker 1: be more compatible with our intestinal system. But the one 823 00:43:33,760 --> 00:43:36,360 Speaker 1: thing that I would say that you could reconsider for 824 00:43:36,480 --> 00:43:39,560 Speaker 1: sure that we know has an impact on hormones is 825 00:43:39,719 --> 00:43:40,920 Speaker 1: way based protein. 826 00:43:41,080 --> 00:43:41,239 Speaker 2: Yeah. 827 00:43:41,239 --> 00:43:42,440 Speaker 3: I've been hearing way. 828 00:43:42,360 --> 00:43:48,080 Speaker 1: Protein absolutely impacts insulin levels and pancreatic function and is 829 00:43:48,239 --> 00:43:51,960 Speaker 1: really problematic if you have any issues with acne or 830 00:43:52,080 --> 00:43:55,520 Speaker 1: pcos or anything sort of with cycle irregularities. I would 831 00:43:55,520 --> 00:43:58,640 Speaker 1: definitely not choose way based proteins. I don't use any 832 00:43:58,719 --> 00:44:03,440 Speaker 1: protein powders myself outside of collagen, but I tried a 833 00:44:03,440 --> 00:44:05,880 Speaker 1: bunch of them and I found them to be so 834 00:44:06,320 --> 00:44:10,920 Speaker 1: challenging from a digestive perspective that it just really started 835 00:44:10,960 --> 00:44:13,080 Speaker 1: to make sense to use more whole foods. So that's 836 00:44:13,120 --> 00:44:13,480 Speaker 1: what I do. 837 00:44:13,760 --> 00:44:16,200 Speaker 2: One thing I find people always on the fence about 838 00:44:16,480 --> 00:44:19,760 Speaker 2: soya products. I don't know whether you've had much research 839 00:44:19,800 --> 00:44:21,719 Speaker 2: in that, but I feel it went from one way 840 00:44:21,760 --> 00:44:24,759 Speaker 2: of saying it can give men boobs to you know 841 00:44:24,880 --> 00:44:28,239 Speaker 2: now saying actually, you have to consume an extreme large 842 00:44:28,239 --> 00:44:30,160 Speaker 2: amount for it to even have any kind of effect 843 00:44:30,160 --> 00:44:30,800 Speaker 2: on your hormone. 844 00:44:30,920 --> 00:44:33,240 Speaker 1: So well, I did do an experiment on my boyfriend 845 00:44:33,239 --> 00:44:36,040 Speaker 1: in my twenties with with tofu and soy based products, 846 00:44:36,040 --> 00:44:38,479 Speaker 1: and I said, okay, for just a month, right, You're 847 00:44:38,520 --> 00:44:42,319 Speaker 1: just gonna eat you know, soy for the protein. And 848 00:44:42,600 --> 00:44:45,719 Speaker 1: I can, from an anecdotal perspective, can absolutely attest to 849 00:44:45,760 --> 00:44:48,919 Speaker 1: the fact that that impacted his sex drive for sure. 850 00:44:49,560 --> 00:44:50,879 Speaker 3: Interesting, but he. 851 00:44:50,920 --> 00:44:53,800 Speaker 1: Was eating a large amount of it. Now, for women, 852 00:44:54,280 --> 00:44:57,000 Speaker 1: it is really about the quantity and the quality. So 853 00:44:57,200 --> 00:44:59,239 Speaker 1: back in twenty thirteen, I went on the Doctor Oz 854 00:44:59,280 --> 00:45:01,400 Speaker 1: Show and it was actually the first person to go 855 00:45:01,440 --> 00:45:04,320 Speaker 1: on national television to simulate the colors of menstrual blood 856 00:45:04,360 --> 00:45:06,200 Speaker 1: to talk about what the different colors of your bleed 857 00:45:06,280 --> 00:45:09,400 Speaker 1: needs or hormones. But we also took a he had 858 00:45:09,440 --> 00:45:13,520 Speaker 1: this super cool prop made for me. We dissected a 859 00:45:13,600 --> 00:45:16,520 Speaker 1: soybean and we looked at the good parts of the 860 00:45:16,560 --> 00:45:18,920 Speaker 1: soy and then the parts that were problematic, and it 861 00:45:18,960 --> 00:45:21,160 Speaker 1: was very fun. So I've been talking about this for 862 00:45:21,200 --> 00:45:23,720 Speaker 1: a long time. For women, it's quantity and quality. There 863 00:45:23,920 --> 00:45:30,560 Speaker 1: is protective aspects to soy. Phytoestrogens act as a selective 864 00:45:30,680 --> 00:45:34,239 Speaker 1: estrogen receptor modulator. So that's great because instead of you 865 00:45:34,360 --> 00:45:38,280 Speaker 1: having the dirty estrogen that your body produces impacting your cells, 866 00:45:38,640 --> 00:45:42,640 Speaker 1: the phytoestrogens from the soy. This is also true of 867 00:45:42,640 --> 00:45:46,960 Speaker 1: flax can adhere to those serm receptor sites on the 868 00:45:47,000 --> 00:45:50,759 Speaker 1: cell and prevent that interaction between the cell and those 869 00:45:50,800 --> 00:45:55,920 Speaker 1: dirty estrogens. Now you have to eat whole soy products, 870 00:45:55,960 --> 00:46:02,440 Speaker 1: so like nato etemamee right hempe fermented soy really really good. 871 00:46:02,840 --> 00:46:05,359 Speaker 1: But then when we get into like the more processed 872 00:46:05,440 --> 00:46:08,960 Speaker 1: soy products, TOFU is kind of neutral. Then we get 873 00:46:08,960 --> 00:46:12,920 Speaker 1: into like the soy milks and the soy protein powders 874 00:46:12,960 --> 00:46:18,640 Speaker 1: and all the sort of like hydrolyzed soy proteins, that's 875 00:46:18,640 --> 00:46:23,920 Speaker 1: when it becomes too much and problematic. So you definitely 876 00:46:23,960 --> 00:46:27,719 Speaker 1: want to use there's absolutely a place for soy products 877 00:46:28,480 --> 00:46:31,520 Speaker 1: if you're sensitive to them. Listen to that. You may 878 00:46:31,560 --> 00:46:34,000 Speaker 1: find that it's also stage of life. I find that 879 00:46:34,080 --> 00:46:37,640 Speaker 1: women in their forties and fifties really love incorporating soy 880 00:46:37,680 --> 00:46:41,200 Speaker 1: products as it has an estrogenic support to it, and 881 00:46:41,239 --> 00:46:43,080 Speaker 1: women who are suffering with a lot of symptoms in 882 00:46:43,120 --> 00:46:45,920 Speaker 1: their twenties and thirties might not find it as useful 883 00:46:45,960 --> 00:46:49,280 Speaker 1: for them. But you have to feel out your reaction 884 00:46:49,360 --> 00:46:53,320 Speaker 1: to food. Everyone's bioindividual, so there is no blanket statement 885 00:46:53,719 --> 00:46:57,160 Speaker 1: about which foods are the right foods, like there's no 886 00:46:57,280 --> 00:46:59,640 Speaker 1: perfect daily diet, which is why the cycle sinking method 887 00:46:59,680 --> 00:47:03,160 Speaker 1: is a and not a diet, right. It's about you 888 00:47:03,280 --> 00:47:06,879 Speaker 1: have to take the what is universally true about our 889 00:47:07,000 --> 00:47:10,280 Speaker 1: cycle health and our hormone ratios and our endocrine system functions, 890 00:47:10,400 --> 00:47:12,600 Speaker 1: and then you have to apply the method to your 891 00:47:12,920 --> 00:47:16,759 Speaker 1: unique female ecosystem and you have to feel intuitively, how 892 00:47:16,760 --> 00:47:19,839 Speaker 1: does this feel to me? Because we're all a little 893 00:47:19,880 --> 00:47:22,360 Speaker 1: bit different, and that's exactly what I want every woman 894 00:47:22,400 --> 00:47:26,839 Speaker 1: to be doing. Don't get stuck into a dogmatic relationship 895 00:47:26,840 --> 00:47:29,439 Speaker 1: with cycle thinking. This is not the point of that either, 896 00:47:29,800 --> 00:47:30,680 Speaker 1: make it your own. 897 00:47:31,600 --> 00:47:32,040 Speaker 3: What about? 898 00:47:32,480 --> 00:47:34,560 Speaker 2: I want to ask you about supplements or hubs that 899 00:47:34,560 --> 00:47:38,360 Speaker 2: you recommend women specifically take and if they should change 900 00:47:38,400 --> 00:47:39,240 Speaker 2: throughout the cycle. 901 00:47:39,880 --> 00:47:43,160 Speaker 1: So I formulated supplements back in twenty seventeen because I 902 00:47:43,280 --> 00:47:45,600 Speaker 1: was really frustrated about, you know, the fact that we 903 00:47:45,719 --> 00:47:49,360 Speaker 1: just didn't have formulations that were really supportive to our hormones. 904 00:47:49,400 --> 00:47:51,880 Speaker 1: So yes, there are some table stakes things that the 905 00:47:51,960 --> 00:47:54,520 Speaker 1: endocrine system loves, so that I put in my balance 906 00:47:54,880 --> 00:47:58,880 Speaker 1: formulations which you can find on Flow Living. But those 907 00:47:58,920 --> 00:48:01,320 Speaker 1: are things like you need B vitamins. You need vitamin 908 00:48:01,400 --> 00:48:05,319 Speaker 1: B six to help with progesterone production, you need magnesium. 909 00:48:05,960 --> 00:48:08,879 Speaker 1: Magnesium is so critical for every aspect of our health, 910 00:48:08,920 --> 00:48:12,800 Speaker 1: so I prefer magnesium glyconate. We need omega three fatty acids. 911 00:48:12,840 --> 00:48:18,080 Speaker 1: Why because it reduces inflammation on the level of the ovary, 912 00:48:18,160 --> 00:48:23,320 Speaker 1: promoting ovulation. It helps with mitochondrial health, which protects ovary health. 913 00:48:23,400 --> 00:48:27,520 Speaker 1: So I think omega threes are really really critical. Vitamin 914 00:48:27,600 --> 00:48:29,800 Speaker 1: D three, I mean D three is we call it 915 00:48:29,840 --> 00:48:32,120 Speaker 1: a vitamin, but it functions like a hormone in the body. 916 00:48:32,480 --> 00:48:36,000 Speaker 1: So that's just so essential for us to be having. 917 00:48:36,880 --> 00:48:38,880 Speaker 1: K one and K two are really good as well, 918 00:48:38,920 --> 00:48:41,320 Speaker 1: because it helps your body absorb more calcium from the 919 00:48:41,360 --> 00:48:46,200 Speaker 1: foods that you're eating. Studies show that taking supplemental calcium 920 00:48:46,239 --> 00:48:49,680 Speaker 1: is kind of not very helpful, but taking on the 921 00:48:49,719 --> 00:48:54,480 Speaker 1: cofactors that help your body make calcium from your dietary sources, 922 00:48:54,480 --> 00:48:56,920 Speaker 1: more bioavailable D three, K one, and K two really 923 00:48:56,960 --> 00:48:59,120 Speaker 1: really a good thing. Plus K one and K two 924 00:48:59,160 --> 00:49:04,640 Speaker 1: are helpful with reduce using cramps and probiotics because if 925 00:49:04,680 --> 00:49:07,600 Speaker 1: your gut is not functioning, your estrobolom is not able 926 00:49:07,680 --> 00:49:11,400 Speaker 1: to metabolize estrogen inside the intestinal tract, which is then 927 00:49:11,440 --> 00:49:14,319 Speaker 1: a problem because then you'll recirculate that estrogen. So those 928 00:49:14,360 --> 00:49:16,600 Speaker 1: are like the basics. Then if you get into some 929 00:49:16,600 --> 00:49:19,480 Speaker 1: more specific things like if you have PCOS, or if 930 00:49:19,520 --> 00:49:22,960 Speaker 1: you have heavy bleeding or fibroids, or if your perimenopausal 931 00:49:23,040 --> 00:49:26,320 Speaker 1: you're trying to conceive, then there are specific supplements that 932 00:49:26,360 --> 00:49:28,680 Speaker 1: I recommend, which I formulated as well, that you can 933 00:49:28,719 --> 00:49:30,480 Speaker 1: go and look on the site and you can even 934 00:49:30,480 --> 00:49:32,920 Speaker 1: take a little evaluation and see which supplements are right 935 00:49:32,960 --> 00:49:37,040 Speaker 1: for you as far as in each phase of the cycle. 936 00:49:38,600 --> 00:49:42,400 Speaker 1: That is also something that you can use supplementally strategically, 937 00:49:42,440 --> 00:49:45,560 Speaker 1: different supplements through each phase. So things that I like 938 00:49:45,800 --> 00:49:49,160 Speaker 1: are Let's the way that I formulated the cycle sinking 939 00:49:49,200 --> 00:49:52,000 Speaker 1: supplements was looking at what are the kind of core 940 00:49:52,080 --> 00:49:54,839 Speaker 1: vulnerabilities of each phase. So in the filicular phase, our 941 00:49:54,960 --> 00:49:57,640 Speaker 1: core vulnerability if we aren't you know, managing it from 942 00:49:57,680 --> 00:50:01,400 Speaker 1: a cycle sinking perspective exactly perfectly. You could be a 943 00:50:01,440 --> 00:50:03,480 Speaker 1: little more fatigued, right, you just come off your bleed. 944 00:50:03,520 --> 00:50:05,440 Speaker 1: You could be a little low energy. So I like 945 00:50:05,480 --> 00:50:08,440 Speaker 1: to use coenzyme Q ten in this phase to naturally 946 00:50:08,480 --> 00:50:12,000 Speaker 1: boost cellular vitality, right, which are going to boost mitochondrial 947 00:50:12,160 --> 00:50:16,760 Speaker 1: energy in this phase. In the ovulatory phase, the vulnerability 948 00:50:16,840 --> 00:50:20,200 Speaker 1: is xtrogen overload. So if you have any breakouts during 949 00:50:20,200 --> 00:50:23,520 Speaker 1: ovulation breast tenderness during ovulation, this is a sign that 950 00:50:23,560 --> 00:50:29,359 Speaker 1: you're not metabolizing estrogen efficiently during ovulation, So you want 951 00:50:29,360 --> 00:50:34,480 Speaker 1: to use a couple of things like sulforaphane dim These 952 00:50:34,480 --> 00:50:37,719 Speaker 1: types of things really help the body metabolize estrogen better. 953 00:50:38,200 --> 00:50:41,280 Speaker 1: In the luteal phase, the core vulnerability is blood sugar 954 00:50:41,360 --> 00:50:44,640 Speaker 1: lows hypoglycemia, So I like using some simple things like 955 00:50:44,680 --> 00:50:48,760 Speaker 1: cinnamon chromium procolinate that really help keep our blood sugar 956 00:50:48,840 --> 00:50:51,319 Speaker 1: more stable. And then the menstrual phase, I would say 957 00:50:51,400 --> 00:50:53,759 Speaker 1: is the sort of histamine and cramping, and I really 958 00:50:53,800 --> 00:50:57,959 Speaker 1: love nettle extract for that nice so that you'll find 959 00:50:58,000 --> 00:51:01,080 Speaker 1: in the cycle sinking supplements. Also on flow living dot Com. 960 00:51:01,000 --> 00:51:01,600 Speaker 3: Is a chocolate. 961 00:51:01,600 --> 00:51:05,560 Speaker 2: Any of the supplements that we could use throught what 962 00:51:05,719 --> 00:51:07,040 Speaker 2: phase can we use chocolate? 963 00:51:07,280 --> 00:51:10,520 Speaker 1: Chocolate? I eat chocolate every I eat cocow every day. 964 00:51:11,080 --> 00:51:14,880 Speaker 1: Every day is a day for cocow gets a super food. 965 00:51:15,040 --> 00:51:17,480 Speaker 1: It's and it's especially important as you go through life, 966 00:51:17,680 --> 00:51:22,640 Speaker 1: especially in midlife, because cardiovascular health is more of a 967 00:51:22,680 --> 00:51:25,800 Speaker 1: thing to pay attention to in midlife. As estrogen levels 968 00:51:25,880 --> 00:51:29,680 Speaker 1: naturally decline, we have more risk of cardiovascular impact. Yes, 969 00:51:29,920 --> 00:51:33,839 Speaker 1: cocou is very cardiovascular protective. It's a longevity food that's 970 00:51:33,840 --> 00:51:36,800 Speaker 1: not a supplement. That's a super food. Get it girl 971 00:51:36,960 --> 00:51:37,600 Speaker 1: every day. 972 00:51:37,760 --> 00:51:40,160 Speaker 3: Yes, okay, adult chocolate every single day. 973 00:51:40,840 --> 00:51:42,919 Speaker 2: A woman in her thirties comes to you and says, 974 00:51:42,960 --> 00:51:45,200 Speaker 2: I want my fertility to be the best it's ever been. 975 00:51:45,480 --> 00:51:47,040 Speaker 3: What do I do I'm in my thirties. 976 00:51:47,160 --> 00:51:50,480 Speaker 1: I mean start cycle thinking immediately, you know, if you're 977 00:51:50,520 --> 00:51:53,360 Speaker 1: on birth control, get off of synthetic birth control. 978 00:51:53,440 --> 00:51:54,520 Speaker 3: Let give book about that. 979 00:51:54,600 --> 00:51:59,080 Speaker 1: Okay, good, I was wondering. Yeah, okay, so start cycle 980 00:51:59,120 --> 00:52:03,279 Speaker 1: seeking reconc or the mill. Get off of alcohol. I 981 00:52:03,320 --> 00:52:06,759 Speaker 1: stop drinking two years before I first conceived, So I 982 00:52:06,760 --> 00:52:10,000 Speaker 1: stopped drinking at thirty five. I haven't reintroduced it into 983 00:52:10,040 --> 00:52:13,080 Speaker 1: my life since so it's been almost fifteen years with 984 00:52:13,200 --> 00:52:15,760 Speaker 1: no alcohol. One of the best decisions I've ever made 985 00:52:16,680 --> 00:52:20,560 Speaker 1: really reduces inflammaging. Right, So what we want to do 986 00:52:20,600 --> 00:52:23,520 Speaker 1: when we think about getting in the best fertile thing, 987 00:52:23,600 --> 00:52:32,239 Speaker 1: it's reduce inflammaging and like oversaturate yourself. From a nutrient perspective, 988 00:52:32,360 --> 00:52:34,960 Speaker 1: you want to when your when your body gets this, 989 00:52:35,160 --> 00:52:39,520 Speaker 1: when your brain and your ovaries kind of communicate like okay, uterus, 990 00:52:39,600 --> 00:52:42,919 Speaker 1: you're free to go. You're free to proceed with an implantation, right, 991 00:52:43,000 --> 00:52:45,920 Speaker 1: all systems are go. The way that that happens is 992 00:52:45,960 --> 00:52:51,680 Speaker 1: that you are energetically macronutrient micronutrient. From a micronutrient perspective, 993 00:52:52,080 --> 00:52:55,600 Speaker 1: ripe like a juicy peach. That's the visual I always 994 00:52:55,600 --> 00:52:58,440 Speaker 1: give my clients. Yes, I still see private clients of 995 00:52:58,960 --> 00:53:02,719 Speaker 1: ripe like a juice peach, right, ripe with nutrients. So 996 00:53:02,840 --> 00:53:06,319 Speaker 1: you have to be eating robustly. In fact, I would 997 00:53:06,360 --> 00:53:09,719 Speaker 1: say motherhood, the journey of motherhood really begins with the 998 00:53:09,760 --> 00:53:13,040 Speaker 1: moment you desire to become a mother, because you must 999 00:53:13,200 --> 00:53:19,000 Speaker 1: make a lot of changes to optimize your fertile ecosystem. 1000 00:53:19,320 --> 00:53:21,480 Speaker 1: The same way you would make those changes when you're pregnant, 1001 00:53:21,480 --> 00:53:24,840 Speaker 1: you would prioritize eating your best to have the healthiest baby, 1002 00:53:24,840 --> 00:53:26,440 Speaker 1: and the same if you were breastfeeding, you would be 1003 00:53:26,560 --> 00:53:29,640 Speaker 1: making those choices. So it's the same thing. You're starting 1004 00:53:29,640 --> 00:53:31,799 Speaker 1: your motherhood journey the moment you decide to be a mother, 1005 00:53:32,160 --> 00:53:36,120 Speaker 1: and so yes, you want to be eating really robustly 1006 00:53:36,600 --> 00:53:40,200 Speaker 1: whole foods, lots of plants, lots of protein, fats, all 1007 00:53:40,200 --> 00:53:42,680 Speaker 1: the things we talked about cycle sinking for your cycle phases. 1008 00:53:43,080 --> 00:53:47,560 Speaker 1: Taking good quality supplements is important. Yes, you know, you 1009 00:53:47,640 --> 00:53:50,080 Speaker 1: really want to reduce that inflammation. So I really love 1010 00:53:50,160 --> 00:53:53,920 Speaker 1: ncetyl cysteine for that. I love our alphaalapoic acid. These 1011 00:53:53,920 --> 00:53:56,880 Speaker 1: things are supplements that are known to help with ovarian 1012 00:53:56,960 --> 00:54:01,880 Speaker 1: function and lowering that inflammation. And you know, just again 1013 00:54:01,960 --> 00:54:04,279 Speaker 1: taking away some of the toxins that create that sort 1014 00:54:04,320 --> 00:54:07,680 Speaker 1: of stress response in the body that might make it 1015 00:54:07,719 --> 00:54:09,560 Speaker 1: a problem from a conception point of view. 1016 00:54:09,640 --> 00:54:12,799 Speaker 3: Yes, and we've talked about the pill. We mentioned it. 1017 00:54:13,239 --> 00:54:16,160 Speaker 3: I really want to go into it. 1018 00:54:16,200 --> 00:54:20,319 Speaker 2: Does taking the pill for years in your early life 1019 00:54:20,320 --> 00:54:22,520 Speaker 2: affect your fertility a later time? 1020 00:54:22,680 --> 00:54:25,879 Speaker 1: I mean, unfortunately, there's not a lot of research where 1021 00:54:25,920 --> 00:54:27,880 Speaker 1: I can come out and give you a definitive answer. 1022 00:54:28,200 --> 00:54:31,080 Speaker 1: What I can say is that I think it is. 1023 00:54:31,640 --> 00:54:34,960 Speaker 1: What we do know is that the pill depletes you 1024 00:54:35,040 --> 00:54:37,680 Speaker 1: of some of the key micronutrients that your body needs 1025 00:54:37,680 --> 00:54:42,000 Speaker 1: from an endocrine system perspective to be maximally fertile. So 1026 00:54:42,400 --> 00:54:45,239 Speaker 1: there we do need to at least appreciate that there's 1027 00:54:45,280 --> 00:54:48,319 Speaker 1: got to be some sort of recovery period where you 1028 00:54:48,440 --> 00:54:52,439 Speaker 1: have to take some supplementation, improve your diet to kind 1029 00:54:52,440 --> 00:54:54,840 Speaker 1: of recover from being exposed to that medication for a 1030 00:54:54,880 --> 00:54:57,279 Speaker 1: period of time so that you can give yourself the 1031 00:54:57,320 --> 00:55:00,719 Speaker 1: best chance. And that conversation is not really being had like, well, no, 1032 00:55:00,760 --> 00:55:03,120 Speaker 1: it's just wait till get your period back and everything 1033 00:55:03,160 --> 00:55:05,480 Speaker 1: should work. But then we have all of this idiopathic, 1034 00:55:05,600 --> 00:55:08,479 Speaker 1: no known cause infertility, which is not necessarily being caused 1035 00:55:08,480 --> 00:55:12,480 Speaker 1: by birth control. But I do think that the overloading 1036 00:55:12,600 --> 00:55:18,480 Speaker 1: of the female body with endocrine system disruptive toxins, the 1037 00:55:18,520 --> 00:55:21,040 Speaker 1: mismanagement of our blood shirt, it's like a conflagration of 1038 00:55:21,120 --> 00:55:24,479 Speaker 1: many things that are going wrong for women's hormones puts 1039 00:55:24,560 --> 00:55:27,160 Speaker 1: us at this position where it's harder for us to 1040 00:55:27,160 --> 00:55:30,000 Speaker 1: get pregnant, and it shouldn't be so hard, No, So 1041 00:55:30,320 --> 00:55:32,560 Speaker 1: I think that the pill is just one piece of 1042 00:55:32,560 --> 00:55:36,399 Speaker 1: that puzzle that can be you know, just something that's 1043 00:55:36,440 --> 00:55:40,319 Speaker 1: adding to that internal dysregulation when it does come time 1044 00:55:40,840 --> 00:55:42,520 Speaker 1: for you to be thinking about conception. 1045 00:55:42,680 --> 00:55:45,360 Speaker 2: Is there anything about the pill that you think women 1046 00:55:45,640 --> 00:55:48,399 Speaker 2: from a young age should know that they're not told. 1047 00:55:48,480 --> 00:55:51,040 Speaker 1: Oh, yeah, it's not a cure for your period problems. 1048 00:55:51,320 --> 00:55:55,080 Speaker 1: But like that, it's the thing we like. It's not 1049 00:55:55,200 --> 00:55:58,440 Speaker 1: fixing your pcos. It's not fixing your fibris, it's not 1050 00:55:58,520 --> 00:56:02,520 Speaker 1: curing your endometriy. It's not getting rid of any of 1051 00:56:02,520 --> 00:56:05,839 Speaker 1: these problems because it's not it's not addressing the root 1052 00:56:05,920 --> 00:56:08,320 Speaker 1: causes of why those problems have arisen in your body. 1053 00:56:08,440 --> 00:56:11,200 Speaker 1: It's just a really like band aid situation. 1054 00:56:11,400 --> 00:56:13,960 Speaker 2: And have you seen from obviously the years of clients 1055 00:56:13,960 --> 00:56:16,280 Speaker 2: that you've seen and the studies that have taken place, 1056 00:56:17,160 --> 00:56:19,400 Speaker 2: anything that a woman is put on the pill for, 1057 00:56:19,600 --> 00:56:22,840 Speaker 2: like the standard things like acne and pcos. Have you 1058 00:56:22,960 --> 00:56:25,720 Speaker 2: seen other means of being able to heal your body 1059 00:56:25,760 --> 00:56:30,759 Speaker 2: through it be successful as I wanted to get I 1060 00:56:30,800 --> 00:56:31,399 Speaker 2: just wanted to. 1061 00:56:31,400 --> 00:56:31,719 Speaker 1: Put it out. 1062 00:56:32,680 --> 00:56:35,279 Speaker 2: I fully agree, but I just think sometimes people will 1063 00:56:35,360 --> 00:56:38,960 Speaker 2: need to hear it because the amount of pressure and 1064 00:56:39,719 --> 00:56:42,840 Speaker 2: only choice given to women at such a young age, 1065 00:56:42,880 --> 00:56:45,040 Speaker 2: who like, oh god, I've got can I can't even 1066 00:56:45,080 --> 00:56:47,319 Speaker 2: leave the house. I don't even want to leave the 1067 00:56:47,360 --> 00:56:49,319 Speaker 2: house because of how I feel or how I look. 1068 00:56:49,440 --> 00:56:50,920 Speaker 1: Been there, I've been there. I mean it used to 1069 00:56:50,960 --> 00:56:53,080 Speaker 1: take me half and I remember the only thing that 1070 00:56:53,120 --> 00:56:56,200 Speaker 1: I that would cover the redness and the weltz well, 1071 00:56:56,239 --> 00:57:01,799 Speaker 1: I used to use Clinique under eye concealer as a foundation. Yeah, 1072 00:57:02,200 --> 00:57:05,040 Speaker 1: you know, because no prescriptives under ie concealer as a foundation, 1073 00:57:05,360 --> 00:57:08,319 Speaker 1: because the regular foundation was not thick enough to cover 1074 00:57:08,400 --> 00:57:09,960 Speaker 1: and it would take me thirty minutes of what I 1075 00:57:10,000 --> 00:57:13,000 Speaker 1: would call spackling my acne. It was so painful and 1076 00:57:13,120 --> 00:57:16,400 Speaker 1: so humiliating to walk out of that. So I totally 1077 00:57:16,760 --> 00:57:22,640 Speaker 1: totally empathize with the situation that being said, how I 1078 00:57:22,720 --> 00:57:27,800 Speaker 1: cleared my skin was not with pharmaceuticals. Even topicals did 1079 00:57:27,800 --> 00:57:29,920 Speaker 1: not work. It really was only until I started healing 1080 00:57:29,920 --> 00:57:34,280 Speaker 1: my hormones that that things got better. But yes, absolutely, 1081 00:57:35,520 --> 00:57:38,360 Speaker 1: I think the reason why that is sort of the 1082 00:57:38,400 --> 00:57:41,720 Speaker 1: prevailing recommendation, like oh, just go on the pill, is 1083 00:57:41,760 --> 00:57:46,840 Speaker 1: because there's an assumption that we won't do the things 1084 00:57:46,880 --> 00:57:51,160 Speaker 1: that are needed. Yeah, right, you know, especially young teenage 1085 00:57:51,200 --> 00:57:53,960 Speaker 1: girls like, oh, well, they're just not going to do that. 1086 00:57:54,080 --> 00:57:57,560 Speaker 2: So let's an investment of energy time studying, like really 1087 00:57:57,680 --> 00:57:59,040 Speaker 2: understanding your body well. 1088 00:57:59,080 --> 00:58:02,320 Speaker 1: And I think, I actually think that the reason why 1089 00:58:02,400 --> 00:58:04,840 Speaker 1: we're set up for that, that's to me, by the 1090 00:58:04,920 --> 00:58:08,120 Speaker 1: time someone says to a woman, just go on the pill, 1091 00:58:08,600 --> 00:58:14,560 Speaker 1: that's the the baseball swing, the pitch of that was 1092 00:58:15,080 --> 00:58:18,240 Speaker 1: what you were educating, how you were taught about your 1093 00:58:18,280 --> 00:58:21,640 Speaker 1: cycle at puberty. So it's like a setup, right, It's 1094 00:58:21,640 --> 00:58:24,640 Speaker 1: like like this is going to be you know what 1095 00:58:24,720 --> 00:58:26,800 Speaker 1: it's going to be. Yeah, and I'm not gonna and 1096 00:58:27,120 --> 00:58:31,160 Speaker 1: you're not going to understand your cycle. It's gonna kind 1097 00:58:31,160 --> 00:58:33,800 Speaker 1: of be this mysterious thing. 1098 00:58:33,600 --> 00:58:35,640 Speaker 3: And that you dread, yeah, and you don't want to 1099 00:58:36,120 --> 00:58:36,600 Speaker 3: so and. 1100 00:58:36,600 --> 00:58:38,600 Speaker 1: So then when you start to have problems where you 1101 00:58:38,640 --> 00:58:40,200 Speaker 1: just feel like I just can't manage this and I 1102 00:58:40,200 --> 00:58:42,200 Speaker 1: don't even know what's going on and I don't understand 1103 00:58:42,200 --> 00:58:44,480 Speaker 1: my body and nobody understands women's bodies, and like this 1104 00:58:44,520 --> 00:58:46,480 Speaker 1: is a mess. Please somebody help me. And it's like 1105 00:58:47,400 --> 00:58:51,440 Speaker 1: take the pill. Right, It's like a perfect little psychological setup. 1106 00:58:51,480 --> 00:58:52,680 Speaker 3: I get rid of all the things that you don't 1107 00:58:52,680 --> 00:58:53,480 Speaker 3: even want in your life. 1108 00:58:53,560 --> 00:58:55,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, and who wouldn't say yes to that? 1109 00:58:55,920 --> 00:59:00,320 Speaker 1: So I think the the solution is multi fast. That did. 1110 00:59:00,320 --> 00:59:02,680 Speaker 1: But you know, I haven't almost eleven year old daughter 1111 00:59:02,720 --> 00:59:04,720 Speaker 1: at the time of this recording. Shoe will be eleven 1112 00:59:04,760 --> 00:59:09,000 Speaker 1: in two weeks. I dedicated this book to her, actually, 1113 00:59:09,440 --> 00:59:11,640 Speaker 1: and so one of the things that I started doing 1114 00:59:11,640 --> 00:59:15,680 Speaker 1: when she was you know eight, you know, I started 1115 00:59:15,720 --> 00:59:20,560 Speaker 1: talking to her about her cycle in different age appropriate ways. 1116 00:59:20,560 --> 00:59:23,000 Speaker 1: It wasn't like the blood and the pads and that's 1117 00:59:23,040 --> 00:59:25,160 Speaker 1: like I didn't ever that talk when she was but 1118 00:59:25,240 --> 00:59:27,600 Speaker 1: I said things like, you know, cause she would come 1119 00:59:27,600 --> 00:59:30,440 Speaker 1: in the bathroom and she'd be like, mom, what's going on? Yeah, 1120 00:59:30,440 --> 00:59:32,520 Speaker 1: Like you have no privacy as a mom. Just FYI 1121 00:59:32,720 --> 00:59:35,520 Speaker 1: Like people just walk in. It's like starts when you're 1122 00:59:35,520 --> 00:59:38,520 Speaker 1: in labor, Like forget it. At some point I thought 1123 00:59:38,560 --> 00:59:40,760 Speaker 1: to myself, Okay, how am I going to do this? 1124 00:59:41,120 --> 00:59:43,480 Speaker 1: You know, because there's no modeling for any of us 1125 00:59:43,480 --> 00:59:46,120 Speaker 1: as moms, Like how do we empower our daughters to 1126 00:59:46,160 --> 00:59:48,560 Speaker 1: have a different trajectory than we had where like we 1127 00:59:48,560 --> 00:59:52,440 Speaker 1: weren't really given the right information. Said Okay, if she 1128 00:59:52,560 --> 00:59:55,800 Speaker 1: happens to stumble upon me changing a pad, should I 1129 00:59:55,840 --> 00:59:58,280 Speaker 1: try to hide that or should I just let her 1130 00:59:58,320 --> 01:00:00,000 Speaker 1: sort of see it and not make a big deal 1131 01:00:00,080 --> 01:00:01,880 Speaker 1: lot of it, and like, baby, we can have a discussion. 1132 01:00:01,920 --> 01:00:03,760 Speaker 1: So I obviously I went with plan B being the 1133 01:00:03,760 --> 01:00:06,160 Speaker 1: period queen. I thought maybe I should do that, and 1134 01:00:06,880 --> 01:00:09,040 Speaker 1: so we started having this conversation at eight, she's like, 1135 01:00:09,080 --> 01:00:11,919 Speaker 1: what is that. It's like, that's the nest, the nest 1136 01:00:11,960 --> 01:00:13,760 Speaker 1: that the baby could grow and cut, you know, an 1137 01:00:13,760 --> 01:00:17,200 Speaker 1: analogy that would be age appropriate. And then that turned 1138 01:00:17,240 --> 01:00:18,920 Speaker 1: into a well how does that happen? I was like, oh, 1139 01:00:19,000 --> 01:00:22,160 Speaker 1: you get you have this special biological clock that started 1140 01:00:22,160 --> 01:00:24,000 Speaker 1: at like nine. I started talking to her about her 1141 01:00:24,000 --> 01:00:26,720 Speaker 1: in Fredian rhythms, so I got her excited. Yeah, at 1142 01:00:26,840 --> 01:00:28,440 Speaker 1: nine years old, I said, you're going to go from 1143 01:00:28,480 --> 01:00:31,320 Speaker 1: feeling the same way every day to feeling a little 1144 01:00:31,400 --> 01:00:35,200 Speaker 1: different each week of a month. And that's a superpower. 1145 01:00:35,360 --> 01:00:38,560 Speaker 1: So still we're not talking about, you know, the bleeding 1146 01:00:38,720 --> 01:00:41,280 Speaker 1: and the pads and the tampons, And we still haven't 1147 01:00:41,280 --> 01:00:45,320 Speaker 1: had that conversation. And she's eleven. She's just starting her 1148 01:00:45,360 --> 01:00:49,080 Speaker 1: first signs of puberty, so right on time, and according 1149 01:00:49,120 --> 01:00:50,840 Speaker 1: to this, she should be getting her she should be 1150 01:00:50,840 --> 01:00:53,640 Speaker 1: getting her first bleed around the time I turned fifty, 1151 01:00:53,720 --> 01:00:58,160 Speaker 1: so it'll be like kind of a monumental celebration. And 1152 01:00:57,840 --> 01:01:00,480 Speaker 1: she knows that we're talking about going to be like 1153 01:01:00,560 --> 01:01:04,000 Speaker 1: this surprise, and I'm just really empowering her to be 1154 01:01:04,080 --> 01:01:07,920 Speaker 1: excited about it, about this big change that's going to 1155 01:01:07,920 --> 01:01:10,320 Speaker 1: happen as a source of empowerment and power for her. 1156 01:01:10,360 --> 01:01:12,520 Speaker 1: So there's nothing she could come in here and teach 1157 01:01:12,560 --> 01:01:15,880 Speaker 1: you about the Infredian rhythm, the four cycle phases, and 1158 01:01:15,960 --> 01:01:17,840 Speaker 1: what you need to do in each race. She is 1159 01:01:17,920 --> 01:01:22,000 Speaker 1: fully versed. She's not practicing it yet, but she knows 1160 01:01:22,040 --> 01:01:24,919 Speaker 1: that that's coming. Just prepared. And then the other thing 1161 01:01:24,920 --> 01:01:27,680 Speaker 1: that I do is I prepare her in the circadian 1162 01:01:27,720 --> 01:01:31,480 Speaker 1: ways to practice. You can't start at it like cold. 1163 01:01:31,960 --> 01:01:34,920 Speaker 1: So we do things like she looks at her bowel movements, 1164 01:01:35,200 --> 01:01:37,120 Speaker 1: not just what they look like, but what time is 1165 01:01:37,160 --> 01:01:40,280 Speaker 1: she having them? Should she be eating more vegetables, Should 1166 01:01:40,320 --> 01:01:42,760 Speaker 1: she be taking some more magnesium? Does she need more water? 1167 01:01:42,880 --> 01:01:46,000 Speaker 1: What's going on? She eats every three hours at school. 1168 01:01:46,040 --> 01:01:47,680 Speaker 1: I don't make her wait. I mean they have lunch 1169 01:01:47,720 --> 01:01:49,400 Speaker 1: at eleven thirty in the morning, and then she has 1170 01:01:49,440 --> 01:01:52,400 Speaker 1: field hockey practice after school. So I pack her a snack, 1171 01:01:52,480 --> 01:01:55,080 Speaker 1: that's two thirty she's eating. Yeah, and then she comes 1172 01:01:55,080 --> 01:01:57,080 Speaker 1: home and she eats, and you know, so I'm like, 1173 01:01:57,160 --> 01:01:59,760 Speaker 1: she's already learning about stabilizing her blood shirt and I 1174 01:01:59,840 --> 01:02:02,640 Speaker 1: use that language, you eat to keep your blood sugar stable. 1175 01:02:02,680 --> 01:02:06,120 Speaker 1: So I don't dumb down the science. And I would say, 1176 01:02:06,200 --> 01:02:10,240 Speaker 1: as a mom of a young girl, we could definitely 1177 01:02:10,320 --> 01:02:14,680 Speaker 1: lean way into giving them a lot more education and 1178 01:02:14,800 --> 01:02:18,280 Speaker 1: more scientific realities about how their bodies work. They can 1179 01:02:18,320 --> 01:02:21,960 Speaker 1: handle it beautifully. And what would it be like if 1180 01:02:21,960 --> 01:02:25,480 Speaker 1: an entire generation of young girls knew how to balance 1181 01:02:25,520 --> 01:02:27,960 Speaker 1: their blood sugar, knew how to eat for their cycle phases, 1182 01:02:28,040 --> 01:02:30,800 Speaker 1: had no period problems in their twenties. What would be 1183 01:02:30,880 --> 01:02:34,000 Speaker 1: unleashed onto this planet a lot of feminine power. I 1184 01:02:34,080 --> 01:02:36,320 Speaker 1: am here for that, So, you know, I do think 1185 01:02:37,480 --> 01:02:39,680 Speaker 1: we have to start earlier so that when we do 1186 01:02:39,720 --> 01:02:41,480 Speaker 1: get to the place where people are having these sort 1187 01:02:41,480 --> 01:02:44,760 Speaker 1: of hormonal crises and they go to the gynecologist and 1188 01:02:44,800 --> 01:02:47,680 Speaker 1: the and they will, you know, offer the pill. That's 1189 01:02:47,680 --> 01:02:50,320 Speaker 1: what you should expect. Is not nothing wrong with offering it. 1190 01:02:51,160 --> 01:02:53,600 Speaker 1: That a young girl who's been educated in this different 1191 01:02:53,600 --> 01:02:56,400 Speaker 1: way might say, I'm going to take some time and 1192 01:02:56,440 --> 01:02:56,760 Speaker 1: do something. 1193 01:02:56,840 --> 01:02:57,520 Speaker 3: Get back to you on that. 1194 01:02:57,560 --> 01:02:59,560 Speaker 1: I'll get back to you on that. That's all. That's 1195 01:02:59,640 --> 01:03:01,480 Speaker 1: I just wann't that breathing space. 1196 01:03:01,240 --> 01:03:04,000 Speaker 2: For people, the feeling of empowerment and feeling like your 1197 01:03:04,000 --> 01:03:05,000 Speaker 2: body is in your hands. 1198 01:03:05,400 --> 01:03:07,240 Speaker 1: You can take the pill if you need to, but 1199 01:03:07,320 --> 01:03:09,600 Speaker 1: you don't have to. You can, you don't have to. 1200 01:03:09,800 --> 01:03:13,360 Speaker 2: I remember when I change my mindset around dreading my period, 1201 01:03:13,440 --> 01:03:15,720 Speaker 2: and there was like this switch that I felt of like, wow, 1202 01:03:15,840 --> 01:03:17,320 Speaker 2: how grateful I am. 1203 01:03:17,440 --> 01:03:20,120 Speaker 3: That I get a period? Like how grateful? 1204 01:03:20,120 --> 01:03:21,959 Speaker 1: And I started I still celebrate every money. 1205 01:03:22,080 --> 01:03:23,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, I appreciate my body for it. 1206 01:03:23,640 --> 01:03:25,320 Speaker 2: I thank my body for it every time I even 1207 01:03:25,320 --> 01:03:26,560 Speaker 2: get like a hint of it in my tummy. I 1208 01:03:26,600 --> 01:03:29,080 Speaker 2: literally I give myself a huargain. I'm like, gosh, I 1209 01:03:29,120 --> 01:03:31,280 Speaker 2: am so grateful that my body does this. I'm so 1210 01:03:31,360 --> 01:03:34,160 Speaker 2: grateful that it's so regular. I'm so grateful that our 1211 01:03:34,160 --> 01:03:37,360 Speaker 2: body gets to experience this every single month. And I 1212 01:03:37,360 --> 01:03:41,240 Speaker 2: think even psychologically, if you are dreading something, if you're 1213 01:03:41,280 --> 01:03:43,120 Speaker 2: constantly telling your body, I don't want this, I don't 1214 01:03:43,120 --> 01:03:45,360 Speaker 2: want this, I don't want this, of course the experience 1215 01:03:45,440 --> 01:03:47,360 Speaker 2: isn't going to be great. Of course, your mind is 1216 01:03:47,360 --> 01:03:49,280 Speaker 2: telling your body how it wants to feel. You're saying 1217 01:03:49,280 --> 01:03:51,280 Speaker 2: you're gonna dread it, So, yeah, you'll dread it. And 1218 01:03:51,360 --> 01:03:54,240 Speaker 2: so I think having that shift of mindset as well, 1219 01:03:54,280 --> 01:03:56,760 Speaker 2: where you are just as we say to talk lovingly 1220 01:03:56,800 --> 01:03:59,600 Speaker 2: to our body, it's like, feel lovingly towards every process 1221 01:03:59,600 --> 01:04:01,920 Speaker 2: that happens in your body, and I think that will 1222 01:04:01,960 --> 01:04:06,520 Speaker 2: completely shift the way that it's your own interaction with yourself. 1223 01:04:06,560 --> 01:04:07,960 Speaker 2: It's like, how are you going to keep telling your 1224 01:04:08,000 --> 01:04:10,120 Speaker 2: body you don't want a process that is so natural 1225 01:04:10,160 --> 01:04:13,360 Speaker 2: to you? And then it just feels so different. 1226 01:04:13,520 --> 01:04:14,440 Speaker 3: You welcome it. 1227 01:04:14,520 --> 01:04:16,920 Speaker 2: You start to nourish your body differently, You start to 1228 01:04:16,960 --> 01:04:19,120 Speaker 2: realize what a gift it is, and as soon as 1229 01:04:19,160 --> 01:04:21,120 Speaker 2: you think of it in that way, you kind of 1230 01:04:21,160 --> 01:04:24,240 Speaker 2: start shifting and changing the way that you live to 1231 01:04:24,320 --> 01:04:25,720 Speaker 2: help it thrive. 1232 01:04:26,040 --> 01:04:29,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a beautiful relationship. I would say. The other 1233 01:04:30,000 --> 01:04:33,560 Speaker 1: gift of the cycle sinking method as a consistent practice, 1234 01:04:33,600 --> 01:04:36,200 Speaker 1: like a yoga practice, right you show up every day, 1235 01:04:36,240 --> 01:04:39,720 Speaker 1: you do your best, is that it's a direct way 1236 01:04:39,920 --> 01:04:46,040 Speaker 1: for you to start actively engaging your feminine energy. And 1237 01:04:46,320 --> 01:04:48,200 Speaker 1: this is something that I think we need to be 1238 01:04:48,240 --> 01:04:51,440 Speaker 1: talking more about as women, because our feminine energy is 1239 01:04:51,520 --> 01:04:55,640 Speaker 1: very restorative and healing. I'm actually someone who's been studying 1240 01:04:55,640 --> 01:04:59,680 Speaker 1: this for the past twenty five years, and you know, 1241 01:04:59,760 --> 01:05:05,000 Speaker 1: really looking at the molecular and biochemical basis of feminine 1242 01:05:05,080 --> 01:05:07,040 Speaker 1: energy in the body. It's not this like woo woo 1243 01:05:07,040 --> 01:05:09,360 Speaker 1: thing you have to dress in robes and like follow 1244 01:05:09,360 --> 01:05:12,120 Speaker 1: the lunar cycles. That's really fun. You can do that too, 1245 01:05:12,720 --> 01:05:16,680 Speaker 1: I'm totally down with that. But for most of us 1246 01:05:16,720 --> 01:05:19,920 Speaker 1: who are more type A women, right, we want things 1247 01:05:19,960 --> 01:05:24,800 Speaker 1: to be feeling like they're have some grounding, and feminine 1248 01:05:24,880 --> 01:05:27,480 Speaker 1: energy is a real thing inside of your body. We 1249 01:05:27,520 --> 01:05:31,160 Speaker 1: can look at it through the lens of our cycle phases, right, 1250 01:05:31,280 --> 01:05:35,160 Speaker 1: the ebbing and flowing of when we are nurturing others 1251 01:05:35,240 --> 01:05:38,520 Speaker 1: versus nurturing ourselves. That the fact that your cycle actually 1252 01:05:38,560 --> 01:05:42,240 Speaker 1: codifies a space and time for each of those activities 1253 01:05:42,480 --> 01:05:45,360 Speaker 1: should give us some role modeling of what it looks 1254 01:05:45,480 --> 01:05:48,720 Speaker 1: like to engage in feminine energy. Right, That there's a 1255 01:05:48,800 --> 01:05:54,720 Speaker 1: restoration period baked into our cycle as essential to fully 1256 01:05:54,760 --> 01:05:59,000 Speaker 1: expressing our feminine right is important that there is creative 1257 01:05:59,040 --> 01:06:03,080 Speaker 1: output but also restorative input. And this is important because 1258 01:06:03,200 --> 01:06:07,360 Speaker 1: you will not be cycling forever. Cycling is a finite, 1259 01:06:07,440 --> 01:06:09,920 Speaker 1: beautiful phase of your life, which is why every cycle 1260 01:06:09,960 --> 01:06:12,520 Speaker 1: should be celebrated. I every time I get my bleed, 1261 01:06:12,560 --> 01:06:15,400 Speaker 1: I put on a pretty robe, like a long like 1262 01:06:15,960 --> 01:06:18,360 Speaker 1: either a beautiful robe or like a long maxi dress. 1263 01:06:18,600 --> 01:06:21,479 Speaker 1: I have like a special period tea cup that I use. 1264 01:06:22,040 --> 01:06:24,920 Speaker 1: It does have the lunar phases on it, and I 1265 01:06:24,960 --> 01:06:27,560 Speaker 1: make certain herbal tea and I like really celebrate. I 1266 01:06:27,640 --> 01:06:33,120 Speaker 1: welcome it that day. But when we practice engaging from 1267 01:06:33,120 --> 01:06:35,240 Speaker 1: our feminine more, it really helps set us up for 1268 01:06:35,320 --> 01:06:41,560 Speaker 1: a much easier, eased perimenopausal transition because instead of going 1269 01:06:41,600 --> 01:06:46,320 Speaker 1: through your reproductive years burning yourself out, yeah, draining like 1270 01:06:46,360 --> 01:06:50,240 Speaker 1: we talked about earlier, that leaky bucket, constantly draining your micronutrients, 1271 01:06:50,280 --> 01:06:52,960 Speaker 1: your energy, your blood sugar, your progesterone. You by the 1272 01:06:53,000 --> 01:06:55,440 Speaker 1: time you hit forty five, you are crispy from an 1273 01:06:55,480 --> 01:06:56,600 Speaker 1: ovarian perspective. 1274 01:06:56,960 --> 01:06:57,160 Speaker 3: Right. 1275 01:06:57,520 --> 01:06:59,720 Speaker 1: If you start practicing, not only will you get all 1276 01:06:59,760 --> 01:07:01,760 Speaker 1: the best and fits, let's say, from a health perspective, 1277 01:07:01,800 --> 01:07:04,560 Speaker 1: but when you start engaging and living more in alignment, 1278 01:07:04,600 --> 01:07:08,520 Speaker 1: in attunement with your feminine energy, you also prevent this 1279 01:07:08,640 --> 01:07:14,040 Speaker 1: burnout and you get to live into your midlife transition 1280 01:07:14,160 --> 01:07:17,200 Speaker 1: in a much better way, with more of your feminine energy, 1281 01:07:17,720 --> 01:07:21,600 Speaker 1: with less body resentment, with more excitement and optimism for 1282 01:07:21,720 --> 01:07:25,000 Speaker 1: this next chapter of your life. So I just want 1283 01:07:25,080 --> 01:07:27,560 Speaker 1: to encourage younger women to be looking at it not 1284 01:07:27,640 --> 01:07:30,800 Speaker 1: just as a biohacking practice for you as a female, 1285 01:07:30,840 --> 01:07:34,800 Speaker 1: which of course it is, but also because it's a 1286 01:07:34,920 --> 01:07:40,520 Speaker 1: very psychological healing process of reclaiming feminine energy in your life. 1287 01:07:40,600 --> 01:07:43,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, you've touched on perimenopause, and I'd love to ask 1288 01:07:43,680 --> 01:07:45,520 Speaker 2: you that before we come to an end, because we've 1289 01:07:45,560 --> 01:07:46,960 Speaker 2: been going for a while and it's been such a 1290 01:07:47,000 --> 01:07:51,480 Speaker 2: wonderful conversation. Butmenopause and menopause for women who I find 1291 01:07:51,640 --> 01:07:54,640 Speaker 2: most women I know are dreading that phase of their life, 1292 01:07:54,680 --> 01:07:57,360 Speaker 2: and again that's probably something that we've been told rather 1293 01:07:57,400 --> 01:08:00,680 Speaker 2: than something that they actually should be dreading. What are 1294 01:08:00,760 --> 01:08:03,600 Speaker 2: some of the tips or recommendations that you give to 1295 01:08:03,640 --> 01:08:06,960 Speaker 2: someone going to perimenopoolse and then in menopoolse as well, 1296 01:08:07,000 --> 01:08:08,240 Speaker 2: what's something you want them to know? 1297 01:08:08,600 --> 01:08:12,800 Speaker 1: Well, perimenopause, you're still cycling, so keep cycle sinking. I 1298 01:08:12,840 --> 01:08:15,840 Speaker 1: would say this is the time to up your game 1299 01:08:16,200 --> 01:08:20,479 Speaker 1: on your circadian rhythm practices, so you know, make sure 1300 01:08:20,600 --> 01:08:22,760 Speaker 1: if you haven't ever used a CG like get that 1301 01:08:23,120 --> 01:08:25,920 Speaker 1: you may be more sensitive to glucose at this age 1302 01:08:25,960 --> 01:08:29,080 Speaker 1: because estrogen's declining, So you may not be able to 1303 01:08:29,120 --> 01:08:32,960 Speaker 1: eat as many carbohydrates in one meal as you used 1304 01:08:32,960 --> 01:08:35,559 Speaker 1: to when you were younger. And that's okay, that's normal. 1305 01:08:35,600 --> 01:08:37,960 Speaker 1: So you just need to kind of adjust for that 1306 01:08:38,439 --> 01:08:39,800 Speaker 1: instead of saying, well, I used to be able to 1307 01:08:39,840 --> 01:08:42,439 Speaker 1: do this, I wish I could go back to that. Yeah, yeah, sure, great, 1308 01:08:42,520 --> 01:08:45,040 Speaker 1: But reality is, here's where you're at, So make the 1309 01:08:45,080 --> 01:08:49,880 Speaker 1: adjustment in dosing of your carbohydrate macros. Sleep is a 1310 01:08:49,920 --> 01:08:53,559 Speaker 1: priority that melot protect your melatonin at all costs. I 1311 01:08:53,560 --> 01:08:56,400 Speaker 1: also recommend women starting to take melatonin after the age 1312 01:08:56,400 --> 01:09:00,120 Speaker 1: of thirty five. And there are numerous studies that talk 1313 01:09:00,160 --> 01:09:03,240 Speaker 1: about the importance of melatonin for women in terms of 1314 01:09:03,280 --> 01:09:08,599 Speaker 1: bone density protection, ovulation regulation, breast cancer protection. It's an 1315 01:09:08,680 --> 01:09:11,439 Speaker 1: essential In fact, it's the first hormone in the brain 1316 01:09:11,560 --> 01:09:15,599 Speaker 1: to downregulate. That's really what kicks off perimenopause is the 1317 01:09:15,800 --> 01:09:17,479 Speaker 1: lowering of melatonin production. 1318 01:09:17,800 --> 01:09:20,479 Speaker 2: And taking melatonin does that not then disrupt your sleep 1319 01:09:20,479 --> 01:09:22,200 Speaker 2: because a lot of people feel like they get such 1320 01:09:22,280 --> 01:09:24,160 Speaker 2: light sleep from taking melatonin. 1321 01:09:24,320 --> 01:09:25,000 Speaker 3: Is that not no. 1322 01:09:25,800 --> 01:09:28,360 Speaker 1: It's really about quality and dosing. And I know that 1323 01:09:28,400 --> 01:09:30,600 Speaker 1: there's been a lot of chatter in the male biohacking 1324 01:09:30,880 --> 01:09:33,599 Speaker 1: world about melatonin being like a no no, but that's 1325 01:09:33,640 --> 01:09:36,000 Speaker 1: really because of one small study that talked about the 1326 01:09:36,040 --> 01:09:39,720 Speaker 1: impact of melatonin on sperm production and sperm motility, which 1327 01:09:39,760 --> 01:09:42,439 Speaker 1: obviously has nothing to do with women. So there are 1328 01:09:42,760 --> 01:09:46,479 Speaker 1: many many I also publish a weekly newsletter on women's 1329 01:09:46,520 --> 01:09:49,280 Speaker 1: biohacking that you can subscribe to on my Instagram channel, 1330 01:09:49,680 --> 01:09:52,639 Speaker 1: and I did a whole expose on this whole topic 1331 01:09:52,680 --> 01:09:54,840 Speaker 1: because I was just so frustrated women are terrified of 1332 01:09:54,840 --> 01:09:59,320 Speaker 1: taking melatonin because of these conversations that are just again 1333 01:09:59,680 --> 01:10:02,080 Speaker 1: when women are left out of research, We get these 1334 01:10:02,240 --> 01:10:04,639 Speaker 1: top these little things like oh this is bad, Well, 1335 01:10:05,439 --> 01:10:07,479 Speaker 1: if you have testicles, it's bad. If you have overaries, 1336 01:10:07,479 --> 01:10:10,559 Speaker 1: it's a different conversation. And there are studies actually looking 1337 01:10:10,600 --> 01:10:13,280 Speaker 1: at the impact of melatonin supplementation on ovariant function. 1338 01:10:13,360 --> 01:10:15,760 Speaker 2: So it's definitely so through menopause, and then so they 1339 01:10:15,800 --> 01:10:18,400 Speaker 2: continue to take it off to they've moved through. 1340 01:10:18,280 --> 01:10:22,000 Speaker 1: Menipolos Absolutely such an important hormone, such an important supplement 1341 01:10:22,040 --> 01:10:24,799 Speaker 1: for women's health. I think an unsung hero of women's 1342 01:10:24,800 --> 01:10:30,160 Speaker 1: biohacking is melatonin strength training. You will have muscle wasting 1343 01:10:30,200 --> 01:10:32,720 Speaker 1: after thirty five, so get on those weights and not 1344 01:10:33,520 --> 01:10:38,000 Speaker 1: low weight, high rep, high weight, low rep heavy goals, 1345 01:10:38,080 --> 01:10:41,360 Speaker 1: heavy girls. Yes, And then, like I said, the sleep thing, 1346 01:10:41,400 --> 01:10:44,599 Speaker 1: blue light blocking. That's then one last thing for both 1347 01:10:44,640 --> 01:10:48,120 Speaker 1: perimenopause and postmenopause. And this is a topic that we 1348 01:10:48,160 --> 01:10:50,600 Speaker 1: don't get to talk a lot about, but really is 1349 01:10:50,640 --> 01:10:55,200 Speaker 1: so important because again, as our cycle hormones go away, 1350 01:10:55,439 --> 01:10:57,280 Speaker 1: we go back to a life of just our master 1351 01:10:57,360 --> 01:11:00,960 Speaker 1: regulating hormones. So insulin, cortisol, all those things you want 1352 01:11:01,000 --> 01:11:05,760 Speaker 1: to be managing melatonin, but oxytocin and nitric oxide are 1353 01:11:05,800 --> 01:11:08,840 Speaker 1: really important. These are the hormones that we make when 1354 01:11:08,840 --> 01:11:11,719 Speaker 1: we are in community, but also when we are in pleasure. 1355 01:11:12,520 --> 01:11:16,120 Speaker 1: So upping your self pleasuring practice is a really important 1356 01:11:16,120 --> 01:11:19,800 Speaker 1: thing to be doing in perimenopause. It actually promotes more 1357 01:11:19,840 --> 01:11:25,439 Speaker 1: regular ovulation, can extend your ovulation, slows down the rate 1358 01:11:25,439 --> 01:11:28,760 Speaker 1: of ovarian aging. I think getting very committed to a 1359 01:11:28,760 --> 01:11:33,560 Speaker 1: self pleasuring practice that you're using specifically to generate more oxytocin. 1360 01:11:33,640 --> 01:11:35,640 Speaker 1: It's like the inverse. You know, all the male biohackers 1361 01:11:35,640 --> 01:11:40,120 Speaker 1: are talking about retention, and that is valuable for them 1362 01:11:40,240 --> 01:11:43,000 Speaker 1: from a testosterone perspective, but for women it's the opposite. 1363 01:11:43,400 --> 01:11:46,439 Speaker 1: The longer you can stay in orgasmic plateau, not climax 1364 01:11:46,479 --> 01:11:49,840 Speaker 1: climax as the finish, but that phase before, the longer 1365 01:11:49,880 --> 01:11:53,360 Speaker 1: you can stay in that phase, the more oxytocin and 1366 01:11:53,439 --> 01:11:55,439 Speaker 1: nitric oxides you make. I've written about this in both 1367 01:11:55,439 --> 01:11:56,880 Speaker 1: of my books. I talk about it as often as 1368 01:11:56,880 --> 01:11:58,760 Speaker 1: I can, because, again, if people ask me what is 1369 01:11:58,760 --> 01:12:00,719 Speaker 1: the one biohack, I would take it into deserted island. 1370 01:12:00,720 --> 01:12:03,880 Speaker 1: I would say you just some loop, because that alone 1371 01:12:04,479 --> 01:12:09,120 Speaker 1: would help protect many of your body systems and really 1372 01:12:09,240 --> 01:12:12,120 Speaker 1: is a very important part of sailing through perimenopause and 1373 01:12:12,160 --> 01:12:14,479 Speaker 1: menopause that I don't think is getting enough discussion. 1374 01:12:14,600 --> 01:12:16,880 Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, thank you so much for this brilliant conversation. 1375 01:12:16,960 --> 01:12:18,880 Speaker 2: I feel like we covered so many different things that 1376 01:12:18,880 --> 01:12:20,920 Speaker 2: are really important for so many of the women in 1377 01:12:20,960 --> 01:12:24,360 Speaker 2: this community to hear, and I feel like it's never 1378 01:12:24,360 --> 01:12:27,719 Speaker 2: too late to make changes in your life ever. Listening 1379 01:12:27,760 --> 01:12:31,439 Speaker 2: to this immediately, thank you exactly, Thank you so much 1380 01:12:31,520 --> 01:12:33,600 Speaker 2: for being here. I'm so grateful for your book, so 1381 01:12:33,680 --> 01:12:36,360 Speaker 2: grateful for all your research and the amount that you've 1382 01:12:36,400 --> 01:12:37,800 Speaker 2: given back to this female community. 1383 01:12:37,840 --> 01:12:40,719 Speaker 3: It's so so needed, So thank you. You're welcome. 1384 01:12:41,040 --> 01:12:43,560 Speaker 1: I can I extend a little offer to your community 1385 01:12:43,720 --> 01:12:46,400 Speaker 1: for the app for the cycle sanking Oh yeah please? Okay, 1386 01:12:46,800 --> 01:12:49,719 Speaker 1: So if you're interested in cycle sinking and getting started, 1387 01:12:49,760 --> 01:12:51,760 Speaker 1: you're welcome to download the Myflow app. It has the 1388 01:12:51,760 --> 01:12:54,400 Speaker 1: same icon as the cover of the book, and you 1389 01:12:54,479 --> 01:12:56,840 Speaker 1: can get access to a free month of the cycle 1390 01:12:56,880 --> 01:12:59,280 Speaker 1: sinking feature by using the code rati. 1391 01:12:59,160 --> 01:13:00,839 Speaker 3: Amazing, I'm going done today. 1392 01:13:01,080 --> 01:13:04,320 Speaker 1: You know, make sure it has the circle icon and 1393 01:13:04,320 --> 01:13:06,519 Speaker 1: and it's just it's a great tool because it's the 1394 01:13:06,520 --> 01:13:09,880 Speaker 1: only official cycle sinking app created by me, and it 1395 01:13:09,920 --> 01:13:13,439 Speaker 1: has you know, you can type in what what ingredients 1396 01:13:13,479 --> 01:13:15,959 Speaker 1: you have in your pantry. It will give you customized recipes. 1397 01:13:16,000 --> 01:13:18,920 Speaker 1: There's workout videos to take you through. It'll help you 1398 01:13:19,000 --> 01:13:22,080 Speaker 1: sort of start planning your projects around your cycle phases. 1399 01:13:22,560 --> 01:13:23,439 Speaker 1: It's a really. 1400 01:13:23,320 --> 01:13:26,880 Speaker 2: Great help having a tool rather than having to figure 1401 01:13:26,880 --> 01:13:27,559 Speaker 2: all out yourself. 1402 01:13:28,000 --> 01:13:30,040 Speaker 3: Indeed, thank you so much.