1 00:00:12,360 --> 00:00:13,000 Speaker 1: I went to St. 2 00:00:13,000 --> 00:00:18,560 Speaker 2: Bart's over Christmas and it was really unpleasant at a 3 00:00:18,560 --> 00:00:24,440 Speaker 2: really bad time, and I was really struggling. And I 4 00:00:24,480 --> 00:00:26,200 Speaker 2: just want to really say to you, for those of 5 00:00:26,200 --> 00:00:28,240 Speaker 2: you who can't afford to go on vacation, and for 6 00:00:28,240 --> 00:00:30,640 Speaker 2: those of you who like do take pride in your home, 7 00:00:30,760 --> 00:00:32,519 Speaker 2: and like maybe it's a small home, or like you 8 00:00:32,600 --> 00:00:35,520 Speaker 2: like your garden, or it's organized, or you get excited 9 00:00:35,560 --> 00:00:38,800 Speaker 2: when you just get brand new, white, fresh towels or sheets, 10 00:00:38,840 --> 00:00:40,879 Speaker 2: and like you just like to be home in your 11 00:00:40,880 --> 00:00:43,160 Speaker 2: pajamas and all these things. 12 00:00:43,200 --> 00:00:45,400 Speaker 1: Like I just want to say. 13 00:00:45,440 --> 00:00:48,240 Speaker 2: And I've been traveling for years, and I this is again, Yes, 14 00:00:48,280 --> 00:00:50,080 Speaker 2: it happens as you get older, but it's not really 15 00:00:50,200 --> 00:00:53,320 Speaker 2: just as I've gotten older. I think travel is like 16 00:00:53,360 --> 00:00:56,000 Speaker 2: an ideal and it's great, and I guess it's great 17 00:00:56,000 --> 00:00:57,680 Speaker 2: for all these people that want to travel all over 18 00:00:57,720 --> 00:01:00,040 Speaker 2: the world and see things and see the elephants and 19 00:01:00,080 --> 00:01:02,760 Speaker 2: all that. Like I don't know how much of the 20 00:01:02,760 --> 00:01:05,680 Speaker 2: world I'm actually going to see. I've been to Egypt, 21 00:01:05,720 --> 00:01:07,480 Speaker 2: I've been to Turkey. I've been all over the world. 22 00:01:07,520 --> 00:01:10,120 Speaker 2: I've been to many places, been to Australia multiple times 23 00:01:10,360 --> 00:01:14,240 Speaker 2: for work. I've been to Mexico, Costa Rica, Latin America, 24 00:01:14,400 --> 00:01:16,920 Speaker 2: like for a bunch of different reasons. I've been many places, 25 00:01:16,959 --> 00:01:19,640 Speaker 2: way more than most. Right, I want to take my 26 00:01:19,720 --> 00:01:22,200 Speaker 2: daughter to Tokyo. Hopefully there'll be a work experience. It 27 00:01:22,240 --> 00:01:24,679 Speaker 2: takes me there. I like work to dictate it because 28 00:01:24,680 --> 00:01:26,320 Speaker 2: then I don't have to really deal with it, and 29 00:01:26,480 --> 00:01:29,360 Speaker 2: it becomes this great experience. And sometimes it takes you 30 00:01:29,400 --> 00:01:30,880 Speaker 2: back to the same place as Sometimes you're back in 31 00:01:30,959 --> 00:01:34,280 Speaker 2: can and Centrope and certainly no one's complaining and you're 32 00:01:34,319 --> 00:01:36,640 Speaker 2: having the best trip of your life because you yourself get 33 00:01:36,680 --> 00:01:38,440 Speaker 2: a boat and your daughter and you are like having 34 00:01:38,480 --> 00:01:42,200 Speaker 2: this beautiful freedom, et cetera. But I am just going 35 00:01:42,280 --> 00:01:44,000 Speaker 2: to say out loud, people are like, I love travel. 36 00:01:44,000 --> 00:01:45,120 Speaker 2: I just want to travel. I just want to go 37 00:01:45,120 --> 00:01:47,240 Speaker 2: in to a cruise around the world, Like I really don't. 38 00:01:47,640 --> 00:01:50,160 Speaker 2: I don't love leaving my dogs. I don't love leaving 39 00:01:50,200 --> 00:01:52,280 Speaker 2: my bed, I don't love leaving my space, I don't 40 00:01:52,280 --> 00:01:53,200 Speaker 2: love leaving the nest. 41 00:01:53,280 --> 00:01:54,920 Speaker 1: I don't really love it. I really don't. 42 00:01:54,960 --> 00:01:58,240 Speaker 2: And like I pretend that I do, and I get 43 00:01:58,240 --> 00:02:01,560 Speaker 2: excited and like the packing because I used to be 44 00:02:01,640 --> 00:02:04,480 Speaker 2: like a carry on packer and then I was like, 45 00:02:04,480 --> 00:02:06,040 Speaker 2: wait a second, if I'm gonna go somewhere, I want 46 00:02:06,040 --> 00:02:08,360 Speaker 2: to look good now the packing and the coming home 47 00:02:08,400 --> 00:02:11,440 Speaker 2: and the two hours of unpacking, and like, I don't 48 00:02:11,520 --> 00:02:13,560 Speaker 2: like to be somewhere that's not as nice as where 49 00:02:13,600 --> 00:02:15,760 Speaker 2: I live at home. And it would be impossible for 50 00:02:15,760 --> 00:02:17,959 Speaker 2: me to stay in places that were nicer than where 51 00:02:17,960 --> 00:02:20,320 Speaker 2: I live at home. It's not only that I'm not 52 00:02:20,440 --> 00:02:22,560 Speaker 2: jay Z and Beyonce gonna get a five hundred million 53 00:02:22,600 --> 00:02:23,520 Speaker 2: dollar yacht for a week. 54 00:02:23,600 --> 00:02:24,440 Speaker 1: I don't want that. 55 00:02:24,480 --> 00:02:28,200 Speaker 2: I don't like big and larger and like more elaborate 56 00:02:28,240 --> 00:02:32,000 Speaker 2: and more staff and more people. I like intimate and 57 00:02:32,200 --> 00:02:34,840 Speaker 2: mine and my dogs and my bed, and like, I 58 00:02:34,960 --> 00:02:39,080 Speaker 2: know a lot of you are like this. So I 59 00:02:39,120 --> 00:02:41,640 Speaker 2: have had some meaningful trips with my daughter, and the 60 00:02:41,680 --> 00:02:45,720 Speaker 2: best ones are we go somewhere interesting and like we're 61 00:02:45,760 --> 00:02:47,400 Speaker 2: near some kind of a town. There's a little bit 62 00:02:47,400 --> 00:02:50,000 Speaker 2: of action. We walk into town together, we get coffee, 63 00:02:50,040 --> 00:02:52,959 Speaker 2: we bond a little. She'll go ski, I'll go ski. 64 00:02:53,080 --> 00:02:55,600 Speaker 2: She'll maybe have a friend there. Then we come back together. 65 00:02:55,680 --> 00:02:57,520 Speaker 2: What often happens is she wants to be like sort 66 00:02:57,520 --> 00:02:59,679 Speaker 2: of a little social because first it's like she wants 67 00:02:59,680 --> 00:03:01,079 Speaker 2: to be with me, and then she wants to find 68 00:03:01,080 --> 00:03:03,200 Speaker 2: some friends and be a little social because she's a teenager. 69 00:03:04,000 --> 00:03:06,360 Speaker 2: But then she realizes she's been super disconnected for me, 70 00:03:06,400 --> 00:03:08,640 Speaker 2: and she gets overstimulated, and then she wants to like 71 00:03:08,880 --> 00:03:11,200 Speaker 2: come back and connect with me, or come home early 72 00:03:11,280 --> 00:03:13,600 Speaker 2: and like connect with me here in the house. Like 73 00:03:13,800 --> 00:03:15,960 Speaker 2: this rub happens a lot with teenagers. They don't want 74 00:03:15,960 --> 00:03:17,400 Speaker 2: to be near you, as you know, and they want 75 00:03:17,440 --> 00:03:19,120 Speaker 2: to be with their friends, but then like they really 76 00:03:19,160 --> 00:03:21,280 Speaker 2: need you and want you just to be nearby, and 77 00:03:21,360 --> 00:03:22,880 Speaker 2: like I get the whole dance. 78 00:03:22,960 --> 00:03:23,600 Speaker 1: It's not easy. 79 00:03:23,680 --> 00:03:27,800 Speaker 2: Sometimes it's like a relationship where they're like pulling away 80 00:03:27,840 --> 00:03:29,320 Speaker 2: from you and you kind of resent them and you 81 00:03:29,320 --> 00:03:31,280 Speaker 2: feel like fuck that, Okay, I'm doing my own thing. 82 00:03:31,320 --> 00:03:33,160 Speaker 2: And then they feel like you're not that present because 83 00:03:33,160 --> 00:03:34,480 Speaker 2: you're doing your own thing and they just want to 84 00:03:34,520 --> 00:03:36,360 Speaker 2: know you're there, and like it's like a mind game 85 00:03:36,440 --> 00:03:38,520 Speaker 2: sometimes with them. I know, you know this, It's like 86 00:03:38,600 --> 00:03:43,720 Speaker 2: it's like literally a fucking it's an obstacle course. So 87 00:03:44,760 --> 00:03:47,920 Speaker 2: I wanted to bond with her. She's been studying a ton, 88 00:03:48,000 --> 00:03:50,680 Speaker 2: it's been very intense. She's doing extraordinarily well in school. 89 00:03:51,080 --> 00:03:54,240 Speaker 2: It's been a transitioning year of moving. I've traveled a 90 00:03:54,240 --> 00:03:57,440 Speaker 2: lot more than I ever have with work, and it's 91 00:03:57,440 --> 00:03:59,680 Speaker 2: felt choppy. And even if it's me going to New 92 00:03:59,760 --> 00:04:02,760 Speaker 2: York three days and coming back and going somewhere else, 93 00:04:03,000 --> 00:04:04,960 Speaker 2: it's felt shoppy. It's felt like you get back and 94 00:04:04,960 --> 00:04:07,640 Speaker 2: you have dinner with her and then you feel guilty 95 00:04:07,720 --> 00:04:09,560 Speaker 2: even though she's not hanging out with you. I've kind 96 00:04:09,560 --> 00:04:11,560 Speaker 2: of let that go too, by the way I've let 97 00:04:11,560 --> 00:04:14,000 Speaker 2: that go too. Another resolution of mine is like, I'm 98 00:04:14,000 --> 00:04:16,839 Speaker 2: doing what makes me happy, because you sometimes stay and 99 00:04:16,880 --> 00:04:18,240 Speaker 2: you're staying here to be with your kid and you 100 00:04:18,400 --> 00:04:20,560 Speaker 2: literally don't see them at all, and it's confusing to 101 00:04:20,560 --> 00:04:21,760 Speaker 2: you because you don't know why you stay, and then 102 00:04:21,760 --> 00:04:24,720 Speaker 2: you're alone. But I had a choppy year and I 103 00:04:24,760 --> 00:04:26,920 Speaker 2: wanted to connect with her, and I was really excited 104 00:04:26,920 --> 00:04:29,039 Speaker 2: because we went to Saint Bart's once and we went 105 00:04:29,080 --> 00:04:31,680 Speaker 2: off season, but there's always something going on there, and 106 00:04:31,720 --> 00:04:34,760 Speaker 2: I've been on season before. I think one time at 107 00:04:34,839 --> 00:04:38,440 Speaker 2: Christmas right after the Martha Stewart Apprentice, and it was 108 00:04:38,520 --> 00:04:40,640 Speaker 2: intense then and there were like rich people with yachts 109 00:04:40,680 --> 00:04:42,520 Speaker 2: et cetera. I didn't know, or boats whatever, but I 110 00:04:42,600 --> 00:04:44,440 Speaker 2: didn't know them, so it didn't have anything to do 111 00:04:44,480 --> 00:04:46,760 Speaker 2: with me. I think, on paper, I'm going to care 112 00:04:46,760 --> 00:04:48,120 Speaker 2: about it, and then it's just like a boat with 113 00:04:48,160 --> 00:04:53,080 Speaker 2: people and I don't care. But I went with Brinn 114 00:04:53,160 --> 00:04:55,039 Speaker 2: and we stayed in a hotel next to the town, 115 00:04:55,200 --> 00:04:57,359 Speaker 2: and like we walked into town, we went shopping, and 116 00:04:57,400 --> 00:04:59,040 Speaker 2: we got coffee, and we went into dinners and we 117 00:04:59,040 --> 00:05:00,719 Speaker 2: were together, and we went to the shell beach and 118 00:05:00,760 --> 00:05:04,359 Speaker 2: she was younger, and I was like, I want to 119 00:05:04,360 --> 00:05:05,800 Speaker 2: go back there with her. It feels like going to 120 00:05:05,839 --> 00:05:10,480 Speaker 2: Centropez and she likes those dancing lunches in sanro Pe. 121 00:05:11,160 --> 00:05:12,719 Speaker 2: And what happens is like you go out with your 122 00:05:12,800 --> 00:05:16,120 Speaker 2: kid and in Europe and the people are dressed really nice, 123 00:05:16,160 --> 00:05:18,880 Speaker 2: and there are it's multi generations. It could literally be 124 00:05:18,920 --> 00:05:22,719 Speaker 2: a sixty five year old woman dressed impeccably tan, gold jewelry, 125 00:05:22,760 --> 00:05:25,520 Speaker 2: and then her daughter and husband, and then they'll be 126 00:05:25,600 --> 00:05:27,640 Speaker 2: like a seventeen year old or a twenty five year 127 00:05:27,680 --> 00:05:30,880 Speaker 2: old and kids, and there's like even little like babies, 128 00:05:30,920 --> 00:05:34,000 Speaker 2: like two year olds dancing and it's like it's civilized, 129 00:05:34,000 --> 00:05:36,919 Speaker 2: but it's like day dancing, and there's something chic about it, 130 00:05:36,960 --> 00:05:39,520 Speaker 2: and it's a Central Pei thing, and even though Central 131 00:05:39,560 --> 00:05:42,080 Speaker 2: Pe can be a shit show, there's something about it 132 00:05:42,200 --> 00:05:45,640 Speaker 2: that still preserves an elegance to it. 133 00:05:46,160 --> 00:05:48,159 Speaker 1: And Saint Bart's is a sexy island. 134 00:05:48,279 --> 00:05:52,800 Speaker 2: It's like the Caribbean meets France meets Europe, and it's 135 00:05:52,800 --> 00:05:56,440 Speaker 2: shopping and it's beautiful beaches, and so I wanted to 136 00:05:56,480 --> 00:05:58,880 Speaker 2: take Britain there. I've had a good year, to say 137 00:05:58,920 --> 00:06:01,080 Speaker 2: the very least. I found a place that was on 138 00:06:01,200 --> 00:06:03,160 Speaker 2: the water. I love to do beach walks. I love 139 00:06:03,200 --> 00:06:05,200 Speaker 2: to jump in the water every day. And I could 140 00:06:05,240 --> 00:06:07,600 Speaker 2: get a boat if I wanted to. It's like, let's go. 141 00:06:08,040 --> 00:06:09,720 Speaker 2: And I rented what I thought was going to be 142 00:06:09,720 --> 00:06:11,840 Speaker 2: a jeep or a mini a convertible, and I was like, 143 00:06:12,040 --> 00:06:14,200 Speaker 2: let's in the morning. Maybe we would ride bikes or 144 00:06:14,200 --> 00:06:16,560 Speaker 2: take a walk, or take the jeep, go get baguettes. 145 00:06:16,600 --> 00:06:19,160 Speaker 2: We'd feel like we're French, We're so cute. Like we'd 146 00:06:19,160 --> 00:06:21,839 Speaker 2: go to some of those dancing lunches. I might know 147 00:06:21,960 --> 00:06:24,279 Speaker 2: some people there. I did not know anyone that was going. 148 00:06:24,320 --> 00:06:26,200 Speaker 2: I did not you know, it's like going to ask 149 00:06:26,240 --> 00:06:28,520 Speaker 2: but I always know multiple people there. But I didn't 150 00:06:28,520 --> 00:06:30,880 Speaker 2: know anyone that was going, and I like to go 151 00:06:30,920 --> 00:06:32,839 Speaker 2: to places where there is a little action, or at 152 00:06:32,920 --> 00:06:35,240 Speaker 2: least I thought I did, where there's some action, you 153 00:06:35,240 --> 00:06:38,080 Speaker 2: could dip in, you could dip out, Okay, And she 154 00:06:38,160 --> 00:06:39,919 Speaker 2: said then she realized one of her friends was going 155 00:06:39,960 --> 00:06:42,159 Speaker 2: to be there for part of the time. And my 156 00:06:42,279 --> 00:06:43,960 Speaker 2: daughter's not the one that like, you're just going to 157 00:06:44,000 --> 00:06:45,359 Speaker 2: be like, oh, there are some people and they have 158 00:06:45,400 --> 00:06:47,880 Speaker 2: kids your age, like, let me introduce. You should be horrified. 159 00:06:47,920 --> 00:06:50,520 Speaker 2: And she's not going to naturally just like kids her age. 160 00:06:50,560 --> 00:06:54,440 Speaker 2: That's just not always going to automatically happen. And we 161 00:06:54,600 --> 00:06:57,320 Speaker 2: get to Saint Bart's and our place is nice, and 162 00:06:57,360 --> 00:07:00,000 Speaker 2: we're on the water and the water is so blue, 163 00:07:00,120 --> 00:07:01,760 Speaker 2: and we're gonna go to different beaches every day, and 164 00:07:01,800 --> 00:07:03,880 Speaker 2: I'm just excited to like connect with her and bond 165 00:07:03,960 --> 00:07:07,560 Speaker 2: with her. And we get there and I get a 166 00:07:07,640 --> 00:07:10,960 Speaker 2: call from some people that I know and they are 167 00:07:11,160 --> 00:07:13,760 Speaker 2: on a boat. And so many people that I ran 168 00:07:13,800 --> 00:07:17,119 Speaker 2: into that I knew or were fans or had met 169 00:07:17,160 --> 00:07:20,480 Speaker 2: in different places we're on boats, or had some like 170 00:07:20,520 --> 00:07:23,000 Speaker 2: elite program going on. Like it started to become very 171 00:07:23,000 --> 00:07:25,800 Speaker 2: clear that like the level of wealth and the intensity 172 00:07:25,880 --> 00:07:28,000 Speaker 2: of wealth and like the program that was going on 173 00:07:28,080 --> 00:07:32,440 Speaker 2: here was like next level, like next next level, right 174 00:07:32,520 --> 00:07:35,520 Speaker 2: to meet, way more intense than Santa Bay ever thought 175 00:07:35,520 --> 00:07:35,880 Speaker 2: of being. 176 00:07:35,880 --> 00:07:37,440 Speaker 1: And that's a big fucking statement. 177 00:07:37,480 --> 00:07:41,080 Speaker 2: Okay, it's a Monaco, Monte Carlo whatever, and it could 178 00:07:41,120 --> 00:07:42,920 Speaker 2: be the same level of intensity of wealth, but just 179 00:07:42,920 --> 00:07:45,840 Speaker 2: the different like portrayal of it, right, because you might 180 00:07:45,880 --> 00:07:48,040 Speaker 2: have like new money, New Yorker's wealth, which is different 181 00:07:48,080 --> 00:07:51,400 Speaker 2: than like old European I don't know. Okay, I'm not 182 00:07:51,520 --> 00:07:54,240 Speaker 2: an expert on wealth. Okay, I know it. I dabble 183 00:07:54,240 --> 00:07:57,560 Speaker 2: in it. I know all these people, and this was 184 00:07:58,520 --> 00:08:01,000 Speaker 2: something that took a turn. So I speak to these 185 00:08:01,040 --> 00:08:03,680 Speaker 2: people and they're gonna be there, and this is where 186 00:08:03,680 --> 00:08:06,320 Speaker 2: I was like, I'm gonna be open and I'm gonna socialize. 187 00:08:06,680 --> 00:08:08,800 Speaker 2: So the first day that we go, I don't care 188 00:08:08,840 --> 00:08:10,800 Speaker 2: what the thing is, Like I never really care what 189 00:08:10,840 --> 00:08:12,040 Speaker 2: the thing is. And I don't like to make a 190 00:08:12,080 --> 00:08:15,000 Speaker 2: thousand reservations ahead of time because I just want to 191 00:08:15,120 --> 00:08:17,320 Speaker 2: like call, it's gonna work out, we'll show up, I'll 192 00:08:17,360 --> 00:08:19,679 Speaker 2: tip somebody, we're gonna go to dinner. It's a nice place. 193 00:08:19,720 --> 00:08:21,480 Speaker 2: Everything's gonna be good. I don't need to be at 194 00:08:21,520 --> 00:08:37,319 Speaker 2: the thing. So the first day we go to lunch, 195 00:08:37,360 --> 00:08:38,839 Speaker 2: Brin's like, Mama, we're gonna go to one of those 196 00:08:38,920 --> 00:08:41,120 Speaker 2: dancing lunches because we're gonna dance together and that's gonna 197 00:08:41,120 --> 00:08:41,400 Speaker 2: be fun. 198 00:08:41,440 --> 00:08:43,400 Speaker 1: I'm like yeah. So the first day we. 199 00:08:43,440 --> 00:08:47,080 Speaker 2: Go to go to I think we just are staying 200 00:08:47,080 --> 00:08:48,400 Speaker 2: at our hotel because we get in late. And let 201 00:08:48,440 --> 00:08:49,920 Speaker 2: we go out to dinner and I run into some 202 00:08:49,960 --> 00:08:52,760 Speaker 2: people that I know that were like, hey, are you 203 00:08:52,840 --> 00:08:54,880 Speaker 2: here coming to the restaurant, And my gut was like 204 00:08:54,920 --> 00:08:56,760 Speaker 2: to not come into the restaurant because I'm not open. 205 00:08:56,960 --> 00:08:58,640 Speaker 2: And then I was like, you know what, I'm with Brinn, 206 00:08:58,679 --> 00:09:00,200 Speaker 2: and let me just be open and let me walk 207 00:09:00,240 --> 00:09:02,840 Speaker 2: into the restaurant. And so these people I know have 208 00:09:02,920 --> 00:09:04,360 Speaker 2: a group of friends and they're like, you could be 209 00:09:04,400 --> 00:09:06,040 Speaker 2: with us the whole entire week. And the people are 210 00:09:06,080 --> 00:09:08,439 Speaker 2: actually lovely and they're like, look, there's all these kids 211 00:09:08,440 --> 00:09:10,880 Speaker 2: here and Brin and the girls are so nice. They 212 00:09:10,920 --> 00:09:12,960 Speaker 2: get up and they start talking to Brinn and like 213 00:09:13,000 --> 00:09:15,560 Speaker 2: it's so nice, and she likes them. They're not like 214 00:09:15,640 --> 00:09:17,600 Speaker 2: her friend group, and I'm not sure if they're like 215 00:09:17,800 --> 00:09:21,040 Speaker 2: exactly her type of friends, but she starts connecting with people, 216 00:09:21,640 --> 00:09:24,360 Speaker 2: and they're gonna be like at certain places because they're 217 00:09:24,360 --> 00:09:27,720 Speaker 2: bringing up certain DJs, and so now there's an element 218 00:09:27,840 --> 00:09:30,880 Speaker 2: of like, what Brynn wants to do on this trip, great, 219 00:09:31,000 --> 00:09:33,280 Speaker 2: she's gonna have plans. I'm always happy to be alone. 220 00:09:33,280 --> 00:09:35,600 Speaker 2: I'm always happy to be back in my room. What 221 00:09:35,800 --> 00:09:38,280 Speaker 2: have you Okay, my daughter happens to be a social creature. 222 00:09:38,920 --> 00:09:41,840 Speaker 2: So the first night, we have a really nice dinner together, 223 00:09:41,880 --> 00:09:43,480 Speaker 2: and I'm running into people and we're talking to people. 224 00:09:43,480 --> 00:09:44,880 Speaker 2: I'm like, this is fun, this is great, this is 225 00:09:44,880 --> 00:09:47,600 Speaker 2: what we want it to be. And then the next 226 00:09:47,720 --> 00:09:50,960 Speaker 2: day we are going to lunch with like a big 227 00:09:51,000 --> 00:09:54,160 Speaker 2: group of people that have this major table and they're 228 00:09:54,200 --> 00:09:57,320 Speaker 2: the nicest people and everyone's dancing. I don't love the 229 00:09:57,400 --> 00:10:00,440 Speaker 2: DJs there because I don't love like non lyric music. 230 00:10:00,600 --> 00:10:02,760 Speaker 2: I do like the music I heard at Ultra on 231 00:10:03,200 --> 00:10:06,120 Speaker 2: social media where there's like lyric music mixed in with 232 00:10:06,200 --> 00:10:08,280 Speaker 2: non but like this is like all like douche douche, 233 00:10:08,360 --> 00:10:10,880 Speaker 2: douche dish and just like beats that go on and 234 00:10:10,880 --> 00:10:12,839 Speaker 2: on forever, and I don't understand the difference of them, 235 00:10:12,840 --> 00:10:15,640 Speaker 2: and I don't it just like feels repetitive to nothing. 236 00:10:16,080 --> 00:10:18,240 Speaker 2: So a friend of mine that was also going to 237 00:10:18,280 --> 00:10:20,040 Speaker 2: be there, who's so nice, and he was with his kids, 238 00:10:20,040 --> 00:10:21,760 Speaker 2: he was like, every lunch is the cost of a 239 00:10:21,800 --> 00:10:24,320 Speaker 2: bar mitzvah. So I thought that was like a funny joke. 240 00:10:24,559 --> 00:10:27,040 Speaker 2: And you know bar mitzvahs could be one hundred thousand 241 00:10:27,040 --> 00:10:29,360 Speaker 2: dollars to millions of dollars, and I was like, that's funny. 242 00:10:30,040 --> 00:10:31,960 Speaker 2: I didn't realize how true it was. So I'm at 243 00:10:31,960 --> 00:10:33,920 Speaker 2: this first lunch. These people are very wealthy, they're all 244 00:10:33,960 --> 00:10:36,720 Speaker 2: on boats, and like everybody's at every single lunch I'm 245 00:10:36,720 --> 00:10:40,000 Speaker 2: watching at all the tables is ordering like so much 246 00:10:40,040 --> 00:10:42,520 Speaker 2: food because I think there's like a minimum, like you're 247 00:10:42,559 --> 00:10:44,960 Speaker 2: spending forty fifty thousand dollars. I guess to have a 248 00:10:45,000 --> 00:10:47,800 Speaker 2: table on one of these prime days because it's Christmas 249 00:10:47,880 --> 00:10:50,800 Speaker 2: to New Year's and there's no like two people just 250 00:10:50,800 --> 00:10:52,560 Speaker 2: coming to sit down and have like a normal lunch. 251 00:10:52,640 --> 00:10:56,640 Speaker 2: There's just like big tables of people and it's all 252 00:10:56,760 --> 00:10:59,120 Speaker 2: this like lobsters and sushi and all this stuff, and 253 00:10:59,160 --> 00:11:02,600 Speaker 2: no one's eating the food. So I don't love food waste. 254 00:11:02,679 --> 00:11:05,679 Speaker 2: Now I'm not gonna like make this my entire personality, 255 00:11:05,720 --> 00:11:08,240 Speaker 2: but like you're drinking and it's like four o'clock in 256 00:11:08,280 --> 00:11:11,760 Speaker 2: the afternoon. I'm calling this like at Prey Sea, Like 257 00:11:11,800 --> 00:11:14,160 Speaker 2: it's almost like at Pray Ski, like at Praise Sea 258 00:11:14,160 --> 00:11:15,880 Speaker 2: because people wake up late. I guess they go to 259 00:11:15,920 --> 00:11:19,200 Speaker 2: their own beaches, which is a whole fucking other fashion show. 260 00:11:19,600 --> 00:11:21,280 Speaker 2: Any beach you go to, any beach in front of 261 00:11:21,280 --> 00:11:24,080 Speaker 2: a hotel. I just wore like normal clothes one day, 262 00:11:24,080 --> 00:11:26,240 Speaker 2: like just a bathing suit, like what I wear. But 263 00:11:26,360 --> 00:11:29,600 Speaker 2: like people are decked out with like lashes and arimez 264 00:11:29,640 --> 00:11:33,160 Speaker 2: bags and jewelry, and you know, you feel self conscious 265 00:11:33,160 --> 00:11:35,520 Speaker 2: and insecure because you're like, why didn't I get fully 266 00:11:35,559 --> 00:11:36,839 Speaker 2: decked out? But you're like, I don't want to be 267 00:11:36,880 --> 00:11:38,720 Speaker 2: wearing makeup because I want to go swim in the ocean. 268 00:11:38,880 --> 00:11:41,440 Speaker 2: Because there's the nicest beaches here, So what is everybody doing? 269 00:11:41,480 --> 00:11:43,640 Speaker 2: Like why are people just here to like look good? 270 00:11:43,679 --> 00:11:45,640 Speaker 2: But then why did we come to Saint Barts, which 271 00:11:45,679 --> 00:11:48,200 Speaker 2: is the most gorgeous aqua water if you're not going 272 00:11:48,280 --> 00:11:50,439 Speaker 2: to like swim in it. And it's not about judging people, 273 00:11:50,600 --> 00:11:52,360 Speaker 2: just like I don't understand. We're just here to like 274 00:11:52,440 --> 00:11:55,840 Speaker 2: eat lunch, buy a beach. That's so it's expensive lunch 275 00:11:55,840 --> 00:11:58,199 Speaker 2: to eat lunch, buy a beach, but we're not utilizing 276 00:11:58,200 --> 00:12:00,960 Speaker 2: the beach, and that I have to do what everyone 277 00:12:00,960 --> 00:12:02,640 Speaker 2: else is doing. But then you feel like this drown 278 00:12:02,840 --> 00:12:06,839 Speaker 2: rat swamp thing because everybody's like looking at everybody and 279 00:12:07,280 --> 00:12:09,079 Speaker 2: it's just like a feeling that you have and you're 280 00:12:09,080 --> 00:12:10,480 Speaker 2: just like, wait, I kind of want to be in 281 00:12:10,559 --> 00:12:13,240 Speaker 2: like ang wheel or some I don't know. It just 282 00:12:13,320 --> 00:12:15,200 Speaker 2: is like a feeling. So it was a feeling, it 283 00:12:15,240 --> 00:12:16,960 Speaker 2: was a truth that was a fact. So this is 284 00:12:16,960 --> 00:12:18,920 Speaker 2: why I called app praise. See where people are having 285 00:12:18,960 --> 00:12:21,440 Speaker 2: these lunches, but they're kind of starting these dejs like 286 00:12:21,480 --> 00:12:25,120 Speaker 2: four o'clock, so people are buying This isn't dinner tens 287 00:12:25,160 --> 00:12:28,920 Speaker 2: of thousands of dollars of food at a bizarre time. 288 00:12:29,120 --> 00:12:31,800 Speaker 2: It's not like you're buying appetizers and so I don't 289 00:12:31,880 --> 00:12:33,520 Speaker 2: the food waste is just like it makes you think 290 00:12:33,559 --> 00:12:36,400 Speaker 2: like oh my god, we're so vulgar and like wow, 291 00:12:36,480 --> 00:12:38,440 Speaker 2: and my daughter doesn't know how much any this costs. 292 00:12:38,480 --> 00:12:40,880 Speaker 2: But like everyone's dancing on the tables and it's not 293 00:12:40,920 --> 00:12:42,640 Speaker 2: like it is in Central Pez. It's not like an 294 00:12:42,640 --> 00:12:46,400 Speaker 2: elegant just lunch with like expensive wines and like it 295 00:12:46,400 --> 00:12:49,640 Speaker 2: has some meaning, but it's elevated. And yes, in Central 296 00:12:49,640 --> 00:12:53,120 Speaker 2: Pey they have the douchey like parades of champagne bottles 297 00:12:53,120 --> 00:12:56,320 Speaker 2: and signs and like flags of different nations and all 298 00:12:56,360 --> 00:12:58,800 Speaker 2: this stuff, and it is vulgar there. People come in 299 00:12:58,880 --> 00:13:02,480 Speaker 2: on motorcycles and fucking sleds and horses and do this 300 00:13:02,480 --> 00:13:04,719 Speaker 2: whole thing, and it is a vulgar display. And it's 301 00:13:04,720 --> 00:13:07,280 Speaker 2: like this crazy marketing thing that you can't believe that, 302 00:13:07,400 --> 00:13:09,960 Speaker 2: Like there's some warehouse that holds this shit that this 303 00:13:10,000 --> 00:13:13,240 Speaker 2: restaurant has bought once, but they rent out every single 304 00:13:13,360 --> 00:13:16,840 Speaker 2: day to the tune of hundreds of thousands of dollars 305 00:13:16,880 --> 00:13:21,920 Speaker 2: of champagne. Something like this happens on Highland's Mountain in Aspen, 306 00:13:21,960 --> 00:13:26,240 Speaker 2: where people every day at Cloud nine just spray champagne 307 00:13:26,280 --> 00:13:27,760 Speaker 2: on each other and just order it. 308 00:13:27,640 --> 00:13:28,439 Speaker 1: As like a show. 309 00:13:28,520 --> 00:13:30,640 Speaker 2: And it always shocks me because a, I don't want 310 00:13:30,679 --> 00:13:33,600 Speaker 2: to be sprayed by champagne. But like there's such waste. 311 00:13:33,640 --> 00:13:35,720 Speaker 2: It's like spending money on you might as well be 312 00:13:35,760 --> 00:13:38,840 Speaker 2: spraying fucking phantom. What's the different, Like no one's drinking 313 00:13:38,840 --> 00:13:42,560 Speaker 2: and it doesn't matter spraying gasoline. It's just it's wild 314 00:13:42,720 --> 00:13:46,360 Speaker 2: and it's it makes me uncomfortable, right, but like, I 315 00:13:46,360 --> 00:13:48,360 Speaker 2: don't know. The dancing is there, and there are people 316 00:13:48,360 --> 00:13:50,199 Speaker 2: that I know, and like people are allowed to live 317 00:13:50,200 --> 00:13:51,400 Speaker 2: and people are allowed to spend money. 318 00:13:51,440 --> 00:13:52,160 Speaker 1: What is money? 319 00:13:52,200 --> 00:13:55,959 Speaker 2: Like money is something that could help people feed people charity, 320 00:13:56,320 --> 00:13:59,200 Speaker 2: Like I don't need to always be so sanctimonious. But 321 00:13:59,240 --> 00:14:01,679 Speaker 2: it's just like I don't know, I'm too complex. I 322 00:14:01,720 --> 00:14:06,520 Speaker 2: get in my head about it. And then there are 323 00:14:06,520 --> 00:14:11,160 Speaker 2: these competing DJs. So one day after my daughter meets 324 00:14:11,160 --> 00:14:12,720 Speaker 2: all these kids and is dancing with them, and they're 325 00:14:12,800 --> 00:14:15,800 Speaker 2: very nice and they're inclusive of her, but like, I'm 326 00:14:15,840 --> 00:14:18,319 Speaker 2: not wanting her to see the way that everybody's dressing 327 00:14:18,360 --> 00:14:21,760 Speaker 2: and acting and like spending and like this isn't real. 328 00:14:21,880 --> 00:14:23,800 Speaker 2: And I have that to begin with, that problem to 329 00:14:23,840 --> 00:14:26,800 Speaker 2: begin with, where yes, I went to good schools because 330 00:14:26,800 --> 00:14:28,560 Speaker 2: I had a stepfather that was a horse trainer that 331 00:14:28,600 --> 00:14:31,600 Speaker 2: went from being broke to like having six cars in 332 00:14:31,640 --> 00:14:35,280 Speaker 2: the driveways, from like doing drugs with like actors to 333 00:14:35,920 --> 00:14:38,920 Speaker 2: being like, you know, telling us the mafia was chasing us, 334 00:14:38,960 --> 00:14:41,840 Speaker 2: like the racetrack degenerate lifestyle. It's hard to explain if 335 00:14:41,880 --> 00:14:43,560 Speaker 2: you know, you know, if you don't know, I'm sorry, 336 00:14:43,560 --> 00:14:46,240 Speaker 2: but it's like living in Vegas. Like you could see 337 00:14:46,240 --> 00:14:48,600 Speaker 2: someone and they've got a big diamond pinky ring and 338 00:14:48,640 --> 00:14:51,640 Speaker 2: they're driving a Cadillac, but they're fucking broken. They owe 339 00:14:51,640 --> 00:14:54,240 Speaker 2: everybody money, Like I grew up that way, with that 340 00:14:54,320 --> 00:14:57,400 Speaker 2: relationship to money, like highs, lows, ups, downs, no security, 341 00:14:57,520 --> 00:15:00,680 Speaker 2: not knowing. Everyone says everything's gonna be fine, but it's 342 00:15:00,720 --> 00:15:04,120 Speaker 2: probably not going to be fine. And your stepfather, you know, 343 00:15:04,560 --> 00:15:08,080 Speaker 2: horse trainer, wins a race and then buys dinners in 344 00:15:08,280 --> 00:15:11,800 Speaker 2: Cardia but can't afford a house or something, or furniture 345 00:15:11,840 --> 00:15:14,760 Speaker 2: in the house, like your room is decorated to the nines, 346 00:15:14,800 --> 00:15:17,600 Speaker 2: but everyone's eating on a card table, like no decent, 347 00:15:17,640 --> 00:15:22,280 Speaker 2: normal relationship to money. So like I just don't want 348 00:15:22,280 --> 00:15:24,680 Speaker 2: my daughter to get every single thing she asks for. 349 00:15:25,360 --> 00:15:27,640 Speaker 2: She now has a Christmas list, which is very reasonable, 350 00:15:27,840 --> 00:15:30,800 Speaker 2: but many of her Christmas gifts are literally pr gifts 351 00:15:30,800 --> 00:15:33,200 Speaker 2: that get sent here that I keep for her, like 352 00:15:33,640 --> 00:15:35,800 Speaker 2: made well jeans that are here, or a fragrance or 353 00:15:35,920 --> 00:15:38,000 Speaker 2: Charlotte Tilbury something because I'm not just gonna hand it 354 00:15:38,000 --> 00:15:39,920 Speaker 2: to her, because I don't want her to live that life. 355 00:15:40,240 --> 00:15:43,760 Speaker 2: Because I get everything. But that didn't start till I 356 00:15:43,760 --> 00:15:45,720 Speaker 2: was in my fifties. I've worked really hard, and I 357 00:15:46,000 --> 00:15:48,440 Speaker 2: beyond know the value of a dollar. So now we're 358 00:15:48,440 --> 00:15:51,600 Speaker 2: in this place and everybody's like so body conscious, so 359 00:15:52,200 --> 00:15:56,720 Speaker 2: food wasting, so age inappropriate. Yes, I grew up going 360 00:15:56,760 --> 00:15:58,920 Speaker 2: to nightclubs, doing things I shouldn't do. I don't want 361 00:15:59,000 --> 00:16:02,120 Speaker 2: that for her. 362 00:16:12,560 --> 00:16:12,680 Speaker 1: Now. 363 00:16:12,760 --> 00:16:15,880 Speaker 2: I take her to this place and the people that 364 00:16:15,920 --> 00:16:17,720 Speaker 2: she's meeting, the kids that are meeting, are living a 365 00:16:17,760 --> 00:16:20,800 Speaker 2: life that like she doesn't live. Not judging, It's just 366 00:16:21,120 --> 00:16:23,600 Speaker 2: people are vaping, people are talking, you know, drinking with 367 00:16:23,640 --> 00:16:25,520 Speaker 2: their parents. People are talking to their parents about who 368 00:16:25,520 --> 00:16:28,640 Speaker 2: they're you know, hanging out with boys and making out 369 00:16:28,640 --> 00:16:30,360 Speaker 2: with them in front of their parents. Like this is 370 00:16:30,440 --> 00:16:32,640 Speaker 2: not a judgment. This is just not how it goes 371 00:16:32,680 --> 00:16:34,560 Speaker 2: around here. And so it was all like happening so 372 00:16:34,680 --> 00:16:36,840 Speaker 2: fast in front of me on a trip that I 373 00:16:36,880 --> 00:16:38,560 Speaker 2: just wanted to like bond with my daughter and like 374 00:16:38,640 --> 00:16:41,800 Speaker 2: ride bicycles. I thought there'd be a little action. So now, 375 00:16:41,840 --> 00:16:43,920 Speaker 2: like every day there's another thing that she knows that 376 00:16:43,960 --> 00:16:46,320 Speaker 2: people that she knows or met are going to and 377 00:16:46,480 --> 00:16:48,720 Speaker 2: I don't even know if she really wants to go. 378 00:16:48,760 --> 00:16:51,400 Speaker 2: But it's like, what's going on there? Like there was 379 00:16:51,440 --> 00:16:53,680 Speaker 2: no capability of us to just be present because there 380 00:16:53,720 --> 00:16:55,400 Speaker 2: was so much going on. It was like the game 381 00:16:55,480 --> 00:16:57,720 Speaker 2: was moving too fast, and I started to hate it 382 00:16:57,800 --> 00:17:01,320 Speaker 2: really quickly. So, like one example is there's this like 383 00:17:01,800 --> 00:17:06,120 Speaker 2: DJ at this place that we're just going to show 384 00:17:06,200 --> 00:17:07,760 Speaker 2: up because it's like a DJ I think we had 385 00:17:07,760 --> 00:17:10,200 Speaker 2: heard of I don't remember, and they're like, Hi, yeah, 386 00:17:10,200 --> 00:17:12,119 Speaker 2: if you want to come in here, it's seven hundred 387 00:17:12,160 --> 00:17:14,000 Speaker 2: dollars a person just to come in for lunch. And 388 00:17:14,880 --> 00:17:16,959 Speaker 2: I didn't realize that was fucking like going to CVS 389 00:17:16,960 --> 00:17:19,280 Speaker 2: and buying mascara. So I was like, no, we'll we'll 390 00:17:19,280 --> 00:17:22,320 Speaker 2: go over to Nikky Beach where I know someone. And 391 00:17:22,800 --> 00:17:24,960 Speaker 2: it was just on like the non day, the big 392 00:17:25,080 --> 00:17:27,639 Speaker 2: day that everyone goes, and we just had lunch. I 393 00:17:27,680 --> 00:17:29,239 Speaker 2: don't remember how much it costs. It was probably three 394 00:17:29,240 --> 00:17:31,000 Speaker 2: four hundred dollars. I gave them such a crazy tip 395 00:17:31,000 --> 00:17:33,440 Speaker 2: because I felt guilty because we're the losers that weren't, like, 396 00:17:34,119 --> 00:17:39,159 Speaker 2: you know, part of something so extravagant. So then it 397 00:17:39,240 --> 00:17:41,240 Speaker 2: began where my daughter wanted to go to the place 398 00:17:41,280 --> 00:17:43,280 Speaker 2: that the friends were going to. She wouldn't even have 399 00:17:43,400 --> 00:17:46,359 Speaker 2: known of if we hadn't met these kids and we 400 00:17:46,400 --> 00:17:48,760 Speaker 2: didn't have tickets to go in there. And I ran 401 00:17:48,800 --> 00:17:52,359 Speaker 2: into some friends of mine that I like a lot, 402 00:17:53,160 --> 00:17:55,320 Speaker 2: that are great people that were there that I wanted 403 00:17:55,359 --> 00:17:58,879 Speaker 2: to spend time with, and I ended up wanting to 404 00:17:58,920 --> 00:18:01,280 Speaker 2: go to lunch with them and was with me, but 405 00:18:01,359 --> 00:18:03,760 Speaker 2: then she was having fomo at the people that she 406 00:18:03,960 --> 00:18:06,560 Speaker 2: wanted to see, and I didn't want my child to 407 00:18:06,560 --> 00:18:10,919 Speaker 2: be alone in some like day nightclub, even though I 408 00:18:10,960 --> 00:18:13,240 Speaker 2: think I don't know how safe it is. I don't 409 00:18:13,240 --> 00:18:15,600 Speaker 2: feel that it's safe in a place where like there's 410 00:18:15,600 --> 00:18:19,240 Speaker 2: so much wealth and young women everywhere, Like, so I 411 00:18:19,240 --> 00:18:20,760 Speaker 2: don't want my fifteen year old, even though it's a 412 00:18:20,800 --> 00:18:22,720 Speaker 2: beach bar whatever, to be like at a lunch with 413 00:18:22,720 --> 00:18:24,240 Speaker 2: a bunch of people I don't know. So I ended 414 00:18:24,320 --> 00:18:27,400 Speaker 2: up like being an octopus, like not making her stay 415 00:18:27,440 --> 00:18:29,000 Speaker 2: with me at the place where I was with the 416 00:18:29,040 --> 00:18:31,600 Speaker 2: people that did have kids, but they weren't kids that 417 00:18:31,640 --> 00:18:33,880 Speaker 2: she knew. So now I was like getting up and 418 00:18:33,960 --> 00:18:36,400 Speaker 2: running back and forth, bouncing like a ping pong ball, 419 00:18:36,440 --> 00:18:38,800 Speaker 2: back between these two places where I couldn't be present, 420 00:18:39,200 --> 00:18:41,199 Speaker 2: and like I wasn't enjoying myself I was just like 421 00:18:41,240 --> 00:18:44,159 Speaker 2: felt like this like babysitter of this program that I 422 00:18:44,160 --> 00:18:46,760 Speaker 2: didn't want her to even be part of. So like 423 00:18:46,880 --> 00:18:48,800 Speaker 2: I started to have massive anxiety, and I was like 424 00:18:48,920 --> 00:18:51,040 Speaker 2: not having fun, but like trying to pretend I was 425 00:18:51,080 --> 00:18:54,120 Speaker 2: having fun. So then we'd get back to our room 426 00:18:54,160 --> 00:18:56,479 Speaker 2: and my daughter because people were around and out and 427 00:18:57,000 --> 00:18:58,520 Speaker 2: all the kids are going out till two o'clock in 428 00:18:58,600 --> 00:19:00,800 Speaker 2: the morning and going to DJs and going to a restaurants. 429 00:19:00,800 --> 00:19:02,080 Speaker 2: She was like, wait, you don't want to go out 430 00:19:02,119 --> 00:19:03,720 Speaker 2: to dinner. And I had a hard time, just like 431 00:19:04,000 --> 00:19:05,959 Speaker 2: feeling like I was disappointing her, being like, what do 432 00:19:05,960 --> 00:19:07,719 Speaker 2: you mean? No, we just like were at a nightclub 433 00:19:07,720 --> 00:19:10,919 Speaker 2: this morning. Our cottage was fine. It wasn't like I 434 00:19:10,960 --> 00:19:12,240 Speaker 2: wanted to be there. I wanted to be in my 435 00:19:12,240 --> 00:19:14,560 Speaker 2: fucking house with my dogs. And I was like, I 436 00:19:14,600 --> 00:19:16,840 Speaker 2: really don't. I have a splitting headache, I'm dehydrated, Like 437 00:19:16,920 --> 00:19:19,399 Speaker 2: I don't. So I would like then drag myself to 438 00:19:19,440 --> 00:19:20,879 Speaker 2: take her out to dinner and then she's like, all right, 439 00:19:20,880 --> 00:19:22,879 Speaker 2: I'm going to go meet people. But then like I 440 00:19:22,920 --> 00:19:25,080 Speaker 2: didn't have a driver there, so now she was going 441 00:19:25,160 --> 00:19:26,320 Speaker 2: to be in town and she was gonna be with 442 00:19:26,359 --> 00:19:27,800 Speaker 2: all these people? How is she going to get home? 443 00:19:27,840 --> 00:19:29,800 Speaker 2: My fifteen year old doesn't get get usself home. I 444 00:19:29,840 --> 00:19:32,040 Speaker 2: know it's sat parts, but I don't trust anyone anywhere. 445 00:19:32,359 --> 00:19:34,720 Speaker 2: So I was like needing to like stay awake to 446 00:19:34,720 --> 00:19:36,679 Speaker 2: worry about how she was going to get home. And 447 00:19:36,720 --> 00:19:38,840 Speaker 2: I was like, I'm having the worst fucking time of 448 00:19:38,840 --> 00:19:40,600 Speaker 2: my life. I don't want to be here. I don't 449 00:19:40,640 --> 00:19:42,679 Speaker 2: want to do this. I don't know why I chose this. 450 00:19:42,760 --> 00:19:44,919 Speaker 2: And I was fighting with her the whole time because 451 00:19:45,160 --> 00:19:47,160 Speaker 2: I was like Brinn, like, what are you doing? Why 452 00:19:47,240 --> 00:19:49,080 Speaker 2: you wanted to do? She goes, Mom, you took me here, 453 00:19:49,600 --> 00:19:51,640 Speaker 2: and I'm like I and I knew and she was right. 454 00:19:52,359 --> 00:19:54,719 Speaker 2: So like we kept going and then it started to 455 00:19:54,800 --> 00:19:57,040 Speaker 2: like occur to her and affect her too, where like 456 00:19:57,080 --> 00:19:58,399 Speaker 2: she was just doing it to do it like a 457 00:19:58,480 --> 00:20:00,320 Speaker 2: kid does, and she also didn't really want to be 458 00:20:00,359 --> 00:20:03,679 Speaker 2: doing it, but the game was moving too fast. And 459 00:20:03,720 --> 00:20:05,639 Speaker 2: then we went and this is the longest story in history. 460 00:20:05,840 --> 00:20:06,320 Speaker 1: I don't know why. 461 00:20:06,359 --> 00:20:08,080 Speaker 2: I just need to get this off my chest because 462 00:20:08,119 --> 00:20:09,960 Speaker 2: it's like I did social media on it and had 463 00:20:10,000 --> 00:20:11,919 Speaker 2: like haters about it and like why did you go 464 00:20:11,920 --> 00:20:14,119 Speaker 2: to Saint Bart's over Christmas, Like I went because I 465 00:20:14,119 --> 00:20:16,880 Speaker 2: thought it was gonna be one thing, and it certainly wasn't. 466 00:20:16,920 --> 00:20:18,760 Speaker 2: And I like, literally never want to go away again. 467 00:20:19,240 --> 00:20:21,000 Speaker 2: And you go away when your kids have vacation. I 468 00:20:21,040 --> 00:20:23,199 Speaker 2: don't want to go away christs New Year's or presence 469 00:20:23,200 --> 00:20:25,480 Speaker 2: weekend or spring break. It's a nightmare, as you all know. 470 00:20:25,840 --> 00:20:27,399 Speaker 2: But the kids want to go to where the skiing 471 00:20:27,440 --> 00:20:28,920 Speaker 2: is and the friends are. And it's like the parents 472 00:20:28,960 --> 00:20:30,560 Speaker 2: that don't want to do the club volleyball teams or 473 00:20:30,600 --> 00:20:32,159 Speaker 2: the baseball it's by the eight thousand dollars, like your 474 00:20:32,200 --> 00:20:32,760 Speaker 2: kids want to do it. 475 00:20:32,760 --> 00:20:34,040 Speaker 1: The other kids are doing what you're doing it. 476 00:20:34,600 --> 00:20:38,199 Speaker 2: So then New Year's Eve, I'm invited by friends to 477 00:20:38,280 --> 00:20:42,280 Speaker 2: go on a boat, like an extraordinary, outrageous, stunning boat, 478 00:20:42,520 --> 00:20:46,119 Speaker 2: and we go. And ironically, because the people add on 479 00:20:46,160 --> 00:20:50,480 Speaker 2: those boats, the big, giant, major boats that aren't docked 480 00:20:50,880 --> 00:20:54,119 Speaker 2: with the normal billionaires on land, that are another level 481 00:20:54,119 --> 00:20:58,560 Speaker 2: because they're so big that they're you know, magnificent crazy vessels. 482 00:20:59,000 --> 00:21:00,720 Speaker 2: Those are out in the water and you have to 483 00:21:00,760 --> 00:21:02,720 Speaker 2: take a tender and it probably takes like twenty minutes. 484 00:21:03,000 --> 00:21:04,879 Speaker 2: Those people aren't really the people that are at the 485 00:21:04,880 --> 00:21:07,280 Speaker 2: douchey lunches. They'll do a douchey lunch, but they're on 486 00:21:07,359 --> 00:21:10,040 Speaker 2: their boats with their chefs and their friends, and it's 487 00:21:10,080 --> 00:21:14,359 Speaker 2: another level. It's another planet, ironically, because everyone on social 488 00:21:14,400 --> 00:21:17,800 Speaker 2: media is criticizing them because of the wealth those people. 489 00:21:18,080 --> 00:21:22,600 Speaker 2: From my perspective, those people are like nice people. They're 490 00:21:22,640 --> 00:21:26,840 Speaker 2: like nice, interesting people that do charity. I don't have 491 00:21:26,880 --> 00:21:29,280 Speaker 2: to know them all intimately, but they're wealthy. They're allowed 492 00:21:29,320 --> 00:21:31,040 Speaker 2: to be wealthy. You would be wealthy if you could too, 493 00:21:31,080 --> 00:21:32,399 Speaker 2: You would make the kind of money they have. If 494 00:21:32,440 --> 00:21:34,480 Speaker 2: you could too, you might not check all the boxes 495 00:21:34,520 --> 00:21:37,600 Speaker 2: that way. But like going out there was the most 496 00:21:37,640 --> 00:21:42,159 Speaker 2: peaceful experience of the entire process. Okay, doing that was 497 00:21:42,240 --> 00:21:49,080 Speaker 2: the most intimate experience, the most elaborate, unrelatable boat experience 498 00:21:49,400 --> 00:21:52,960 Speaker 2: that you could ever even fathom that in seventy million 499 00:21:53,000 --> 00:21:56,240 Speaker 2: lifetimes you could never afford and I likely could never afford, 500 00:21:56,560 --> 00:21:58,880 Speaker 2: was the most intimate experience. It was people with their families, 501 00:21:58,880 --> 00:22:01,280 Speaker 2: with their kids, that were out there doing things the 502 00:22:01,320 --> 00:22:04,520 Speaker 2: way that they want to with their friends and in 503 00:22:04,560 --> 00:22:06,840 Speaker 2: this case on New Year's Eve, and intimate group of people. 504 00:22:07,240 --> 00:22:09,199 Speaker 2: And that's where I had the most meaningful time, and 505 00:22:09,240 --> 00:22:12,200 Speaker 2: I was like, this is the upside down, Like, this 506 00:22:12,280 --> 00:22:14,080 Speaker 2: is the upside down. This is where it's the most 507 00:22:14,080 --> 00:22:17,159 Speaker 2: common and meaningful. It's the people on land that I 508 00:22:17,200 --> 00:22:20,520 Speaker 2: guess maybe are some version of wealthy or want to 509 00:22:20,560 --> 00:22:22,720 Speaker 2: prove it they're wealthy, or want to compete about being wealthy, 510 00:22:22,760 --> 00:22:23,440 Speaker 2: or want to show. 511 00:22:23,240 --> 00:22:24,000 Speaker 1: Off that they're wealthy. 512 00:22:24,400 --> 00:22:28,400 Speaker 2: Like it was the Hunger Games of something that I've 513 00:22:28,440 --> 00:22:30,119 Speaker 2: never seen in my entire life. And I've been there 514 00:22:30,119 --> 00:22:33,440 Speaker 2: before on Christmas, and people who own major fashion brands, 515 00:22:33,440 --> 00:22:36,680 Speaker 2: who are wealthy, who have planes. They were like, I've 516 00:22:36,720 --> 00:22:39,600 Speaker 2: never seen it like this. No one needs this is unrelatable. 517 00:22:39,640 --> 00:22:41,679 Speaker 2: I know that I'm telling you a story that you 518 00:22:41,720 --> 00:22:43,760 Speaker 2: could like read in like a novel. It's not supposed 519 00:22:43,760 --> 00:22:46,040 Speaker 2: to be something you're ever supposed to experience or relate to. 520 00:22:46,119 --> 00:22:47,600 Speaker 2: I'm just explaining to you what happened to me. 521 00:23:01,359 --> 00:23:08,000 Speaker 1: To answer want back to the answer,