1 00:00:01,040 --> 00:00:04,160 Speaker 1: It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter, and if 2 00:00:04,160 --> 00:00:08,080 Speaker 1: you need advice on relationships, work, sex, parenting, and more, 3 00:00:08,480 --> 00:00:11,880 Speaker 1: please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve HARVFM dot com. 4 00:00:12,440 --> 00:00:12,960 Speaker 2: We could be. 5 00:00:12,920 --> 00:00:16,080 Speaker 1: Reading your letter on the air. You never know this 6 00:00:16,120 --> 00:00:18,120 Speaker 1: one could be yours. So write us. 7 00:00:19,840 --> 00:00:21,960 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, write us. Muggle up and hold on tight. 8 00:00:22,000 --> 00:00:24,560 Speaker 3: We got it for you. Here it is Strawberry Letter. 9 00:00:25,760 --> 00:00:28,480 Speaker 1: Thank you of you. Subject. I can't stand how he 10 00:00:28,600 --> 00:00:32,760 Speaker 1: dresses here Stephen Shirley. In relationships, I know you have 11 00:00:32,840 --> 00:00:35,800 Speaker 1: to take the good with the bad, but my boyfriend 12 00:00:35,960 --> 00:00:39,720 Speaker 1: is a terrible dresser. He's fifty two years young and 13 00:00:39,800 --> 00:00:42,760 Speaker 1: a well known DJ in the city. He's still got 14 00:00:42,760 --> 00:00:46,800 Speaker 1: all of his hair, but he keeps it braided, braided up, 15 00:00:46,920 --> 00:00:50,680 Speaker 1: or in twists he gets to. He goes to get 16 00:00:50,680 --> 00:00:52,559 Speaker 1: his hair done just as much as I do. But 17 00:00:52,600 --> 00:00:55,160 Speaker 1: that's not a problem because I like to be neat 18 00:00:55,200 --> 00:00:58,760 Speaker 1: and clean. My problem is the way he dresses. I 19 00:00:58,800 --> 00:01:01,240 Speaker 1: don't know if he's trying to look younger or not, 20 00:01:01,480 --> 00:01:05,440 Speaker 1: but his jeans are way too tight. They're tight and short. 21 00:01:05,640 --> 00:01:08,600 Speaker 1: He calls them ankle pants, and I wear ankle pants, 22 00:01:08,840 --> 00:01:11,920 Speaker 1: so I begged him to stop calling them bad. Most 23 00:01:11,920 --> 00:01:14,240 Speaker 1: of the young white guys in our area dressed like 24 00:01:14,280 --> 00:01:17,160 Speaker 1: my boyfriend, but they are about twenty five pounds slimmer 25 00:01:17,280 --> 00:01:20,960 Speaker 1: in the waistline. His shirts are tight, his overcoat is tight. 26 00:01:21,200 --> 00:01:23,640 Speaker 1: He complains about his feet all the time because his 27 00:01:23,720 --> 00:01:26,640 Speaker 1: shoes are too tight too. I have been with him 28 00:01:26,680 --> 00:01:29,280 Speaker 1: for three years and he did gain a little weight, 29 00:01:29,640 --> 00:01:32,119 Speaker 1: but not enough to make his clothes look too little. 30 00:01:32,280 --> 00:01:34,880 Speaker 1: I made a huge mistake by laughing with my brother 31 00:01:34,920 --> 00:01:37,840 Speaker 1: about how my boyfriend dresses. I should have known better, 32 00:01:37,880 --> 00:01:40,880 Speaker 1: because the minute they started making jokes about each other, 33 00:01:41,000 --> 00:01:43,880 Speaker 1: my brother told him what I said about him. I 34 00:01:43,880 --> 00:01:46,600 Speaker 1: cannot even look at my boyfriend. He said that hurt 35 00:01:46,640 --> 00:01:49,640 Speaker 1: his feelings, and he asked if I really felt that way. 36 00:01:50,040 --> 00:01:52,640 Speaker 1: I feel like that was my chance to be honest. 37 00:01:52,840 --> 00:01:56,000 Speaker 1: I could not do it. I love him, so how 38 00:01:56,040 --> 00:02:00,400 Speaker 1: do I tell him without hurting his pride? You are 39 00:02:00,480 --> 00:02:03,040 Speaker 1: right when when your man asked you if that was 40 00:02:03,080 --> 00:02:05,160 Speaker 1: how you really felt, that was your chance to tell 41 00:02:05,200 --> 00:02:08,440 Speaker 1: him the truth. I get you not wanting to hurt 42 00:02:08,480 --> 00:02:12,040 Speaker 1: his pride or hurt his feelings, but you could have 43 00:02:12,120 --> 00:02:14,560 Speaker 1: told him nicely as not to hurt him, and maybe 44 00:02:14,560 --> 00:02:16,880 Speaker 1: you wouldn't have to write Steve and I about all 45 00:02:16,919 --> 00:02:19,120 Speaker 1: of this. I was going to tell you to take 46 00:02:19,120 --> 00:02:21,160 Speaker 1: a picture of him and his too tight clothes and 47 00:02:21,200 --> 00:02:22,680 Speaker 1: show it to him so he could see how he 48 00:02:22,760 --> 00:02:25,280 Speaker 1: really looks. But I'm sure he has mirrors in his 49 00:02:25,360 --> 00:02:28,320 Speaker 1: house so he knows how he looks. Too tight clothes 50 00:02:28,600 --> 00:02:32,000 Speaker 1: always make you look bigger. Two tight shoes are going 51 00:02:32,080 --> 00:02:34,320 Speaker 1: to always hurt your feet. There is a way to 52 00:02:34,360 --> 00:02:38,600 Speaker 1: look youthful without looking like you're trying too hard. I 53 00:02:38,639 --> 00:02:41,120 Speaker 1: think you should go shopping with him maybe, or and 54 00:02:41,639 --> 00:02:43,560 Speaker 1: you know, help him pick out some clothes. Maybe go 55 00:02:43,639 --> 00:02:45,680 Speaker 1: to the gym. You guys can work out together so 56 00:02:45,760 --> 00:02:48,000 Speaker 1: he can lose, you know, the little weight that you 57 00:02:48,080 --> 00:02:52,480 Speaker 1: say he's gained his you know, clothes that fit his 58 00:02:52,639 --> 00:02:56,079 Speaker 1: size and grown man's style. Okay, not trying to compete 59 00:02:56,240 --> 00:02:58,680 Speaker 1: with these twenty five year olds. Your brother was wrong 60 00:02:58,720 --> 00:03:00,840 Speaker 1: for telling him what you said. And I think your 61 00:03:00,840 --> 00:03:03,440 Speaker 1: man could still be fly at fifty two without looking 62 00:03:03,680 --> 00:03:06,480 Speaker 1: like a twenty five year old. Steve, you do it 63 00:03:06,560 --> 00:03:07,560 Speaker 1: all the time, you're fly. 64 00:03:08,320 --> 00:03:14,480 Speaker 4: Well, I don't really have I'm gonna have Tommy and Jr. 65 00:03:15,560 --> 00:03:18,240 Speaker 4: Join in on this at the second half of this 66 00:03:18,400 --> 00:03:23,120 Speaker 4: letter to help him understand something, because I think the 67 00:03:23,200 --> 00:03:25,640 Speaker 4: whole part of this letter is because he's a well 68 00:03:25,680 --> 00:03:29,160 Speaker 4: known DJ, and he's fifty two years old, but he 69 00:03:29,280 --> 00:03:33,160 Speaker 4: started trying to stay young, I think, and you want 70 00:03:33,160 --> 00:03:35,560 Speaker 4: to talk to him, and you thought it was time 71 00:03:35,600 --> 00:03:38,160 Speaker 4: when him, you're and your brother they start cracking on 72 00:03:38,200 --> 00:03:40,240 Speaker 4: each other, you thought it was a time for you 73 00:03:40,280 --> 00:03:43,720 Speaker 4: to be honest. But you just couldn't. I don't know 74 00:03:43,760 --> 00:03:47,000 Speaker 4: how else to be, and we're gonna have to hurt him. 75 00:03:47,400 --> 00:03:47,760 Speaker 3: We have. 76 00:03:49,560 --> 00:03:51,480 Speaker 4: I just don't think there's no way around this. I 77 00:03:51,480 --> 00:03:54,200 Speaker 4: think they're gonna have to hurt him. I have come 78 00:03:54,280 --> 00:03:56,240 Speaker 4: up with some things that you can address him and 79 00:03:56,320 --> 00:04:02,000 Speaker 4: say to him that're gonna stay. But it's gonna now no, no, see, ladies, Yeah, 80 00:04:02,040 --> 00:04:04,320 Speaker 4: I know you are women. Always try to be considerate, 81 00:04:04,960 --> 00:04:08,000 Speaker 4: but you know the best advice is the truth. 82 00:04:08,080 --> 00:04:09,640 Speaker 3: Y'are always with ladies. 83 00:04:10,160 --> 00:04:15,920 Speaker 4: You are always say the truth is the best policy. Yes, okay, 84 00:04:16,040 --> 00:04:18,680 Speaker 4: So now let's use your truth. 85 00:04:20,320 --> 00:04:23,520 Speaker 3: In helping him to understand. Now, Tommy and Jr. 86 00:04:23,520 --> 00:04:24,360 Speaker 2: When we come. 87 00:04:24,200 --> 00:04:28,120 Speaker 4: Back, I want you to tell her ways that she 88 00:04:28,279 --> 00:04:32,440 Speaker 4: can tell him how he looks. That might sting a 89 00:04:32,440 --> 00:04:35,560 Speaker 4: little but could bring it home in for him. And 90 00:04:35,680 --> 00:04:38,000 Speaker 4: there's no need of doing this here. Your jeans is 91 00:04:38,040 --> 00:04:41,400 Speaker 4: too tight, he called him, and they short. He called 92 00:04:41,480 --> 00:04:44,960 Speaker 4: him ankle pants. I wear ankle pants. Iwa begs him 93 00:04:45,000 --> 00:04:47,400 Speaker 4: to stop calling him that. Well, see all is begging. 94 00:04:47,480 --> 00:04:50,360 Speaker 4: It ain't nothing happening. We got to go at him. Now. 95 00:04:50,400 --> 00:04:54,760 Speaker 4: Here's a couple examples that I've come up with. Let's 96 00:04:54,839 --> 00:04:55,640 Speaker 4: give him a name. 97 00:04:55,720 --> 00:04:58,200 Speaker 3: What is this man's name gonna be in this letter? 98 00:04:58,960 --> 00:05:01,600 Speaker 1: H you're great with names. 99 00:05:01,920 --> 00:05:05,960 Speaker 2: He earnedest he fifty two? You mean DJ name? 100 00:05:06,120 --> 00:05:12,479 Speaker 5: You're talking DJJ fly, DJ fly, DJ DJ Fly ain't fly? 101 00:05:12,680 --> 00:05:16,039 Speaker 4: And why is he not fly? Because you want him? 102 00:05:16,400 --> 00:05:19,320 Speaker 4: And you gotta say this, baby, if you could just 103 00:05:19,960 --> 00:05:25,240 Speaker 4: stop dressing like you starring in a children's book, I 104 00:05:25,279 --> 00:05:26,680 Speaker 4: would appreciate it. 105 00:05:26,760 --> 00:05:28,000 Speaker 3: You were just quit. 106 00:05:27,839 --> 00:05:30,919 Speaker 4: Looking like that. Oh, here's a note, baby, where are 107 00:05:30,960 --> 00:05:32,719 Speaker 4: you going? Why look like you work. 108 00:05:32,520 --> 00:05:33,960 Speaker 3: At Chucky Cheese? Get? 109 00:05:34,040 --> 00:05:37,120 Speaker 4: These are things you could say to him down to 110 00:05:37,200 --> 00:05:41,600 Speaker 4: get it a little bit of yeah, yeah, DJ DJ fly? 111 00:05:41,960 --> 00:05:45,040 Speaker 4: Why look like you taking tickets at the Renaissance tour? 112 00:05:46,880 --> 00:05:47,880 Speaker 2: Yeah? 113 00:05:49,520 --> 00:05:51,880 Speaker 3: Untie, that little lass shirt? And why is your shirt 114 00:05:51,960 --> 00:05:52,440 Speaker 3: so small? 115 00:05:52,920 --> 00:05:55,200 Speaker 4: Why are you standing up in here looking like winded 116 00:05:55,279 --> 00:05:55,919 Speaker 4: and pooh? 117 00:05:56,160 --> 00:05:58,840 Speaker 1: Here, or the crops up that the bad pull your 118 00:05:58,960 --> 00:05:59,719 Speaker 1: shirt down. 119 00:06:02,400 --> 00:06:06,400 Speaker 3: Stop shopping that baby gap. We don't need this hit 120 00:06:06,480 --> 00:06:08,520 Speaker 3: right here. Listen to me. 121 00:06:09,040 --> 00:06:12,520 Speaker 4: If you're gonna shop in the boys department, at least 122 00:06:12,560 --> 00:06:23,840 Speaker 4: by Husky Wow quick buying them baby shoes booties don't 123 00:06:23,880 --> 00:06:29,720 Speaker 4: look cute on you. I'm just telling some stuff that 124 00:06:29,760 --> 00:06:32,039 Speaker 4: you're gonna have to start doing. We come back to 125 00:06:32,120 --> 00:06:34,920 Speaker 4: hurt him, that's all we have. We're gonna have to 126 00:06:34,960 --> 00:06:37,640 Speaker 4: hurt him a little bit some more. Now we're gonna 127 00:06:37,640 --> 00:06:39,640 Speaker 4: elevate coup. We're gonna have to We're gonna have to 128 00:06:39,720 --> 00:06:41,000 Speaker 4: hurt him on the next. 129 00:06:40,800 --> 00:06:45,440 Speaker 1: Round, coming after the hour, Steve says, we're gonna have 130 00:06:45,480 --> 00:06:48,839 Speaker 1: to hurt him the Today's Strawberry letter subject, I can't 131 00:06:48,839 --> 00:06:51,560 Speaker 1: stand how we dresses. We'll get back into it right 132 00:06:51,600 --> 00:06:56,960 Speaker 1: after this. You're listening morning show, all right, Steve, here 133 00:06:56,960 --> 00:07:00,520 Speaker 1: we go. We're gonna recap today's Strawberry letter. I can't 134 00:07:00,560 --> 00:07:03,160 Speaker 1: stand how he dresses, and you're gonna hurt him. 135 00:07:03,720 --> 00:07:06,200 Speaker 4: Here's a woman who got a fifty two year old boyfriend, 136 00:07:06,240 --> 00:07:09,000 Speaker 4: and that's a dj to wears hair braided and twist 137 00:07:09,040 --> 00:07:10,920 Speaker 4: all the time, and he spends more time at the 138 00:07:10,920 --> 00:07:14,000 Speaker 4: beauty shop than she do. But that's not the problem. 139 00:07:14,080 --> 00:07:18,160 Speaker 4: She hates the way he dresses. H he's always trying 140 00:07:18,160 --> 00:07:21,800 Speaker 4: to look younger. But his jeans are way too tight. 141 00:07:21,920 --> 00:07:25,360 Speaker 4: They're tight and short. He calls them ankle pants. I 142 00:07:25,440 --> 00:07:28,640 Speaker 4: wear ankle pants, so I bigged him to stop calling 143 00:07:28,680 --> 00:07:33,080 Speaker 4: him that one. Most of the young white guys in 144 00:07:33,120 --> 00:07:37,240 Speaker 4: our area dressed like my boyfriend. Now, this is really 145 00:07:37,320 --> 00:07:40,800 Speaker 4: an alarming piece of news in the letter. See mostly 146 00:07:40,960 --> 00:07:46,920 Speaker 4: white kids emulate and do what black kids do. It's 147 00:07:47,120 --> 00:07:50,040 Speaker 4: boy friend is dressing like white kids. 148 00:07:50,080 --> 00:07:54,240 Speaker 3: Like his ass got a skateboards escapeboard. That's what it's say. Huh, 149 00:07:54,320 --> 00:07:54,920 Speaker 3: that's what it is. 150 00:07:55,120 --> 00:07:57,800 Speaker 4: See, and you know he probably got chained on his 151 00:07:57,920 --> 00:08:01,440 Speaker 4: wallet and everything like that, trying. If you're fitted, your 152 00:08:01,440 --> 00:08:03,400 Speaker 4: old black dude tried just like a white boy, is 153 00:08:03,440 --> 00:08:05,640 Speaker 4: something wrong with you? Anyway? It's time to cut his 154 00:08:05,800 --> 00:08:09,120 Speaker 4: ass deep, and I've asked the fellas to join in 155 00:08:09,160 --> 00:08:11,320 Speaker 4: with me. I gave some example. Let me just go 156 00:08:11,360 --> 00:08:14,840 Speaker 4: over the examples I gave last time. Stop dressing like 157 00:08:14,880 --> 00:08:18,320 Speaker 4: you work at Chucky Cheese. Stop dressing like you taking 158 00:08:18,360 --> 00:08:24,000 Speaker 4: tickets at the Renaissance Tour. Quit buying baby shoes. I said, 159 00:08:24,400 --> 00:08:26,720 Speaker 4: why you wearing that short T shirt? Looked like Winnie 160 00:08:26,720 --> 00:08:30,560 Speaker 4: the Pool. I said, stop shopping that baby gap and 161 00:08:30,680 --> 00:08:33,400 Speaker 4: at least if you're gonna buy children's clothes, at least 162 00:08:33,440 --> 00:08:36,440 Speaker 4: shop in the husky section. Those are just things that 163 00:08:36,559 --> 00:08:37,400 Speaker 4: I said. 164 00:08:39,240 --> 00:08:39,520 Speaker 3: You have. 165 00:08:42,400 --> 00:08:46,680 Speaker 5: Got. Why are you looking like funds it from happened days? 166 00:08:46,679 --> 00:08:47,800 Speaker 5: Why are you looking like this? 167 00:08:50,280 --> 00:08:54,000 Speaker 6: Staying here DJ fly DJ fly, Bab, you're gonna have 168 00:08:54,160 --> 00:08:55,640 Speaker 6: to stay out of Ambercombie and Fitch. 169 00:08:55,760 --> 00:08:57,040 Speaker 2: You're gonna have to stay here behind out. 170 00:08:57,040 --> 00:08:58,640 Speaker 3: That's numb, damn it. 171 00:08:58,720 --> 00:09:01,760 Speaker 4: Did you see your main every Sunday? 172 00:09:02,679 --> 00:09:08,560 Speaker 5: Yeah, either pull your socks up or pull your pants down, 173 00:09:08,600 --> 00:09:09,160 Speaker 5: one of the two. 174 00:09:09,240 --> 00:09:10,720 Speaker 3: Now we need you to drink the choys. 175 00:09:12,760 --> 00:09:15,400 Speaker 6: Listen, babe, I'm telling you if you want this relationship, 176 00:09:15,400 --> 00:09:16,960 Speaker 6: we would have to stop dressing alike. 177 00:09:17,360 --> 00:09:19,280 Speaker 2: Okay, they can't tell us a poet. 178 00:09:23,320 --> 00:09:26,640 Speaker 4: Yeah, them pants ain't gonna pats them? Is coolocks? 179 00:09:29,000 --> 00:09:33,319 Speaker 5: Back to Jermaine Dupris, that's same. 180 00:09:33,360 --> 00:09:33,560 Speaker 2: Look. 181 00:09:34,120 --> 00:09:36,679 Speaker 3: Why is your pants so tight that you can't fall? 182 00:09:36,800 --> 00:09:38,200 Speaker 3: What is what is that? What is wrong? 183 00:09:42,160 --> 00:09:44,760 Speaker 2: You can't fall? Okay? 184 00:09:44,960 --> 00:09:47,760 Speaker 4: Skinny Jesus for skinny people. Why are you standing over 185 00:09:47,760 --> 00:09:54,160 Speaker 4: there looking like a waffle cone. Okay, yeah, you gotta 186 00:09:54,200 --> 00:09:54,520 Speaker 4: cut it. 187 00:09:55,160 --> 00:09:57,400 Speaker 3: Ain't no way. You ain't finna get a yeth infection. 188 00:09:57,480 --> 00:09:58,839 Speaker 3: I'm just trying to say, I just try to. 189 00:10:04,640 --> 00:10:07,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, that's not tight. 190 00:10:07,200 --> 00:10:10,760 Speaker 6: There are another thing, DJ Fly, let me tell you 191 00:10:10,800 --> 00:10:13,360 Speaker 6: this right now. You're not that famous because don't nobody 192 00:10:13,440 --> 00:10:15,640 Speaker 6: bring records into the club no more? Where all these 193 00:10:15,640 --> 00:10:16,280 Speaker 6: crates going? 194 00:10:16,600 --> 00:10:18,600 Speaker 3: You will old? 195 00:10:18,720 --> 00:10:23,520 Speaker 2: DJ Yeah you got vinyl? You got vinyl? Where's your 196 00:10:23,760 --> 00:10:24,640 Speaker 2: where's your laptop? 197 00:10:28,320 --> 00:10:30,640 Speaker 3: Baby? Why you dressed like your sister. 198 00:10:34,679 --> 00:10:35,600 Speaker 1: Shun up right? 199 00:10:36,720 --> 00:10:37,960 Speaker 2: Well, we're trying to get in the stomach. 200 00:10:38,640 --> 00:10:39,720 Speaker 3: You got to get them to stop. 201 00:10:40,320 --> 00:10:43,160 Speaker 5: Why did you don't nobody wear no half shirts? 202 00:10:43,160 --> 00:10:44,600 Speaker 3: No more that a half a shirt? 203 00:10:45,120 --> 00:10:45,400 Speaker 4: Crop? 204 00:10:45,920 --> 00:10:47,360 Speaker 3: Where is your stomach? Got dom? 205 00:10:47,679 --> 00:10:48,120 Speaker 5: What is that? 206 00:10:49,600 --> 00:10:50,720 Speaker 2: Let me let me tell you something. 207 00:10:51,000 --> 00:10:53,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, hold hold on, hold let me piggyback on that 208 00:10:53,720 --> 00:10:54,240 Speaker 3: one right there. 209 00:10:54,360 --> 00:10:58,199 Speaker 4: Yeah, you can't wear a crop top when your stomach 210 00:10:58,280 --> 00:10:59,280 Speaker 4: look like crops. 211 00:11:01,280 --> 00:11:05,120 Speaker 2: Yeah for him? 212 00:11:05,440 --> 00:11:09,960 Speaker 6: Yeah, let me tell you something, DJ Fly, Stop buttoning 213 00:11:10,000 --> 00:11:12,680 Speaker 6: your shirt down to your neighbor because your chest hair white? 214 00:11:15,920 --> 00:11:18,960 Speaker 2: Okay, your chest hair? You're not young? 215 00:11:22,520 --> 00:11:26,840 Speaker 5: Okay, where did you get prince closes from? 216 00:11:27,400 --> 00:11:28,880 Speaker 3: Do you know you got his clothes. 217 00:11:29,160 --> 00:11:35,640 Speaker 6: Yeah, definitely, Yeah, got hurt him. 218 00:11:35,679 --> 00:11:39,360 Speaker 3: They hurt him. He ain't got hurt him. You know what, 219 00:11:39,679 --> 00:11:41,440 Speaker 3: we're getting ready to go to dinner. Why it looks 220 00:11:41,480 --> 00:11:42,320 Speaker 3: like you in the play. 221 00:11:46,360 --> 00:11:48,760 Speaker 6: Okay, let me tell you someth DJ fly. You're gonna 222 00:11:48,760 --> 00:11:49,959 Speaker 6: have to stop coming out here looking like one of 223 00:11:50,000 --> 00:11:53,679 Speaker 6: the Disney characters. Okay, you're really doing too much now, Yes. 224 00:11:54,000 --> 00:11:54,520 Speaker 2: Too much? 225 00:11:55,120 --> 00:11:57,560 Speaker 3: I think that's just hard about how to do though, 226 00:11:57,600 --> 00:11:58,560 Speaker 3: to tell him. 227 00:11:58,400 --> 00:11:59,880 Speaker 4: Like, I know, but we've tried to help them. We 228 00:12:00,080 --> 00:12:03,320 Speaker 4: giving us so many suggestions. I really think that's enough. 229 00:12:03,400 --> 00:12:05,160 Speaker 4: I mean, if he don't get it at that point, 230 00:12:05,760 --> 00:12:11,680 Speaker 4: my only other suggestion is to break up. 231 00:12:11,920 --> 00:12:12,280 Speaker 3: That's it. 232 00:12:13,280 --> 00:12:16,360 Speaker 5: Yeah, wear your birthday suit. I'm more comfortable with that. 233 00:12:16,400 --> 00:12:18,319 Speaker 5: Why don't you just wear that? Just just come down. 234 00:12:18,840 --> 00:12:23,480 Speaker 2: Wow, Okay, you don't need to do no more. He 235 00:12:23,679 --> 00:12:24,920 Speaker 2: just he's too old. 236 00:12:25,360 --> 00:12:28,000 Speaker 1: I think you heard him more than helps him though. 237 00:12:28,080 --> 00:12:28,920 Speaker 1: That's the issue. 238 00:12:29,200 --> 00:12:34,440 Speaker 3: Well, that's what that's what helps rings about change. Yeah, 239 00:12:34,720 --> 00:12:43,480 Speaker 3: Hurting people helps people, is that what? Yeah? Hurting them 240 00:12:43,920 --> 00:12:44,680 Speaker 3: helps people? 241 00:12:47,600 --> 00:12:48,680 Speaker 2: Yeah? 242 00:12:48,720 --> 00:12:53,360 Speaker 3: Wow, No, they both got with the same letter. 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