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Speaker 1: Second date update next to seven, eight, five, nine to two.

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Speaker 1: And this is for the guys out there, what is

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Speaker 1: the craziest thing you ever did for a girl spontaneously

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Speaker 1: on a first date. It's Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning,

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Speaker 1: and I'll ask Jose, hose craziest spontaneous thing that you've

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Speaker 1: ever done for a girl on the first date. There

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Speaker 1: was one time, you know, when you're leaving like a

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Speaker 1: restaurant in a theater and they have somebody selling single

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Speaker 1: roses outside. I remember one time I bought all the roses.

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Speaker 1: He's like four left.

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Speaker 2: I'll take the rest of them, and I gave him

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Speaker 2: You're dangerous, Jose.

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Speaker 1: Lookout eat flower vendors. You're about to run out of

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Speaker 1: inventoryj nearby roses. I bring it up though, because one

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Speaker 1: of our listeners says he went full spontaneous on a

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Speaker 3: So allergic to flowers.

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Speaker 1: Maybe it's like the one thing. Let's welcome Patrick to

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Speaker 1: the show. Patrick. How you doing?

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Speaker 4: Man? Hey, guys, thanks for having me on. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Is it normal for you to get spontaneous on a

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Speaker 4: Not even remotely.

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Speaker 1: Dude, I've got to like you.

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Speaker 5: I feel like I overplanned though I don't like that

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Speaker 5: this didn't turn out the way you wanted to because

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Speaker 5: boost to do it more often.

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Speaker 1: So what was it that like caused this feeling inside

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Speaker 1: of you that night that said I need to do

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Speaker 4: So I basically I met this girl, Nay Maggie, and

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Speaker 4: we're on our date and the topic of being spontaneous

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Speaker 4: spontaneous is a really good thing. Not gonna lie, I

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Speaker 4: like she caught me right away because she was like, wait,

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Speaker 4: I thought when we were first talking, you had said

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Speaker 3: She called you out on you agree.

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Speaker 4: Oh I had to double down. I was like, what

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Speaker 4: are you talking about? Some spontaneous And I took one

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Speaker 4: of like the flowers out of the vase on the

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Speaker 1: And you were going to give it to her, Jose,

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Speaker 1: did you not eat any of the roses that you bought.

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Speaker 1: I didn't. Okay, is she laughing or just drooling? Because

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Speaker 3: She's also hungry, and there was only one.

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Speaker 1: I was gonna eat that flower.

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Speaker 4: She did laugh and she thought it was funny, but

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Speaker 4: she was like, are you sure you're not just weird?

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Speaker 1: Okay?

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Speaker 3: I can't tell if it's a joke at this point

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Speaker 1: It could be, it should be.

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Speaker 3: It is kind of borderline between spontaneous. It's just really strange.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and now, even though clear I'm not spontaneous, now

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Speaker 4: I feel like I have to prove my point. So

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Speaker 4: the waiters walking by and I called him over. I

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Speaker 4: I tipped him mid meal.

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Speaker 3: What WHOA? What did you say to him?

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Speaker 1: The way to be spontaneous?

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Speaker 4: I said, you're doing such a great job, but I

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Speaker 4: just want to give this to you now, letting you

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Speaker 1: So you tipped early because you're spontaneous.

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Speaker 4: And a lot.

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Speaker 1: Was she impressed with it?

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Speaker 4: I don't know if she was impressed or.

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Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, probably because it was happening inside of a

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Speaker 1: Jack in the box. So she was like, that's a

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Speaker 3: Flowers on the table jack Jack in the bye.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So was that the spontaneous proving stop there?

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Speaker 4: No one?

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Speaker 4: So we leave after dinner and we're walking and talking

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Speaker 1: But have you thought at any point of this is yourself?

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Speaker 1: But that's just not it's not how men think. Men

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Speaker 1: don't accept like, hey, you're not that cute, you're not

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's a reverse psychology, is what we're working with you.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, guys have to prove themselves.

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Speaker 5: We do.

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Speaker 1: So what did you do?

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Speaker 4: Well? We were walking by a tattoo shop and I said,

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Speaker 4: I'll be right back and she's like, no, don't do that.

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Speaker 1: You robbed the tattoo store. Oh wow, that.

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Speaker 4: My got him. Robbing a tattoo store probably would have

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Speaker 2: Uh.

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Speaker 4: Half an hour later and I've gotten a small what

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Speaker 1: Why did you go with that?

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Speaker 5: Did you say you just left your date for a

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Speaker 5: half an hour? You didn't even bring her in the

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I should let her pick it out.

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Speaker 4: I wanted to surprise her because she has the same

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Speaker 1: You hold on. What's her reaction?

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Speaker 4: At first? I thought it would be great. So she

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Speaker 4: I can't believe you did that. Then she kind of

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Speaker 1: Okay, Okay, yeah, mission accomplished. You proved it there.

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Speaker 3: So she waited for a half an hour, was still

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Speaker 5: She should.

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Speaker 1: I mean, if I'm in that situation and I'm the girl,

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Speaker 1: I would want to know how it ends.

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Speaker 3: You're saying, do it for the plot?

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Speaker 4: Yea?

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Speaker 3: For the plot?

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Speaker 1: I'm curious, what's he coming back with?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: I hope that's the end of your spontaneity, or is

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Speaker 1: He's like, then I cut off my hands.

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Speaker 4: Okay, no, I walked her home and and that was it.

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Speaker 4: But like, literally that was it. I haven't heard from

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Speaker 5: I mean, obviously you really really wanted to impress her.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, I don't know if you did, but

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Speaker 4: I mean, yes, I do like her, but I don't know.

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Speaker 4: I feel like she was calling me out and I

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Speaker 3: She wasn't trying to bully you.

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Speaker 5: She was trying to tell you to just like jose said,

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Speaker 5: pick a random bar you should go to as minute.

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Speaker 1: I think what we're saying is we're all impressed. We're

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Speaker 3: For a girl you kind of like.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, And so now we're gonna do even more spontaneity

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Speaker 1: when we spontaneously call her and ask her why she's

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Speaker 1: not giving you another chance. It's very planned to do

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Speaker 1: it every well, she's not gonna expect it. She's gonna

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Speaker 1: be like, wow, spontaneous phone call, second date update. I

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Speaker 5: If we all have to get matching Infinity tattoos by

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Speaker 5: the end of this, and.

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Speaker 1: We will do it, we will get the tattoo gun

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Speaker 1: out for your second date update right after this hold

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Speaker 1: on second date update. Some people get spontaneous on a

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Speaker 1: date by skinny dipping, or hopping a train together, or

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Speaker 1: hopping a train after skinny dipping. Is this the nude car?

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Speaker 1: There's no plastic on the seats here?

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Speaker 5: I like it, But why does it take so long

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Speaker 1: Like what they see you? But not for our listener, Patrick,

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Speaker 1: He proved that he was spontaneous tried by eating a

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Speaker 1: flour off their dinner table, tipping one hundred dollars before

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Speaker 3: How small is it? Can we ask?

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Speaker 1: Is asking how small are you? How small is it?

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Speaker 4: Maybe like an inch and a half.

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Speaker 1: But the whole reason that he did it is because

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Speaker 1: Maggie kept doubting his spontaneous nature, so he had to

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Speaker 1: step up and prove himself to her. Patrick, You're not

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Speaker 5: Her, right, just a tattoo gun in the background.

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Speaker 4: I'm getting her name, trust me, I'm so over trying

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Speaker 4: it is. I'm boring and that's okay.

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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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Speaker 3: If you want to boring, you're not.

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Speaker 1: Just don't say that because I was going to prove

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Speaker 1: how boring he don't say that. Just accept you are

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Speaker 3: I prefer a guy who doesn't eat flowers anyways.

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Speaker 1: I don't think. Let's see what Maggie has to say.

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Speaker 1: It may have had nothing to do with the spontaneous stuff.

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Speaker 1: It could be something else.

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Speaker 3: Wait to hear her side of the state and her

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Speaker 1: It has to do with the spontane There's no way

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Speaker 1: it's not. Well, let's find out. I'm gonna call her

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Speaker 1: right now. We'll see what she has to say. If

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Speaker 2: Hello.

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Speaker 1: Hey, is this Maggie.

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Speaker 6: Guess who is speeching?

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Speaker 1: My name is jeff from a radio show called Brook

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Speaker 1: and Jeffrey in the Morning him.

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Speaker 3: Maggie, the whole show's here.

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Speaker 6: Good morninge Hi guys, what is this about?

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Speaker 4: Okay?

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Speaker 1: This is this is about your love life?

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Speaker 2: Actually okay, okay, you're not you're dating life, because rumor

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Speaker 2: has it you recently went out with a guy named

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Speaker 2: Patrick and had a really fun time.

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Speaker 6: Oh okay, if you say that, does you say so?

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Speaker 1: I do say so.

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Speaker 3: I can't wait to hear how you described this date.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, because we're doing a segment called second Date Update.

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Speaker 1: We're trying to help Patrick out and figure out if

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Speaker 1: there was something weird about the date, if there was

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Speaker 1: something that you didn't like. Because he's a little bit

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Speaker 1: confused why you haven't met up again?

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Speaker 6: He's confused why we haven't met up again?

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Speaker 1: Well, yeah, he did tell us a little bit. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: there was some highlights that were brought up that.

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Speaker 5: Confused yea, some spontaneous moments that happened.

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Speaker 6: It sounds like, yeah, I mean I don't even know

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Speaker 3: But can we start with a flower at the table?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 6: It was like a fun flirting manter and then he

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Speaker 1: Is it? Because? Is it because he didn't put ketchup

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Speaker 3: It's like my seven year old I.

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Speaker 6: It was strange because it's like, that's not how you

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Speaker 1: All right, okay, fair, we can say that, but you're

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Speaker 3: I mean, you guys are still going on the date.

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Speaker 5: I mean, there had to be something good happening, right well,

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Speaker 6: Do you even like, how would you leave that situation?

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Speaker 3: You can't walk out the door, would you?

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Speaker 5: No?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, call my friend to come get me walking

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Speaker 1: We're all note, we want to know, on a scale

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Speaker 4: Right when he literally infinity.

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Speaker 6: That was just like, actually insane.

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Speaker 1: You didn't like it. It's funny you said that because

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Speaker 1: that's like matching soulmates.

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Speaker 6: Really yeah, no, give it.

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Speaker 5: You're waiting outside of tattoo parlor for thirty minutes, like,

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Speaker 6: I honestly I had no idea what was happening.

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Speaker 1: You were dead.

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Speaker 1: Because there was a.

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Speaker 3: Matching tattoo that you had with your ex. Is that

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Speaker 5: Yes, dude, Oh oh my god.

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Speaker 1: Well now you don't have to get it removed because

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Speaker 4: No sooner?

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Speaker 5: Isn't it crazy to say that two men in your

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Speaker 1: Tattoo?

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Speaker 6: They're not both in my life?

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Speaker 3: Okay?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean that's like your exit mark every time

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Speaker 1: you're done with Well, they're not. They're not totally out

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Speaker 6: Oh my gosh.

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Speaker 1: Really yeah, I think he's still there. Patrick.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: God, as if.

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Speaker 5: That tattoo story could I thought it couldn't get worse.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Patrick, how do you feel about your tattoo?

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Speaker 4: Now? Not not so great? Uh, I'm not sure what

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Speaker 4: to say. That is who? But you know what? Heye,

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Speaker 4: you're that your ex was not as spontaneous as I am.

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Speaker 6: Still keep going, what's that whole thing? It's like, it's

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Speaker 1: Okay, try and be boring.

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Speaker 5: Now, that's what you said you were gonna do, right, Like,

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Speaker 5: that's what your goal was, to be yourself and show

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Speaker 4: No, absolutely, I was. I was. That was a really

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Speaker 1: Okay, he's a jokester, know that he doesn't jokes.

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Speaker 3: I think he's uncomfortable.

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Speaker 1: I feel best.

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Speaker 4: So, Maggie, I gotta ask, like, was your exploring? What

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Speaker 6: I don't even have to tell you. You like didn't even

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Speaker 1: Do you know what? Really went on a date and

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Speaker 5: When we talked to him before we were on the

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he should have just admitted. Maybe he's not misrespontaneity.

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Speaker 4: I'm not, I swear.

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Speaker 6: I mean, I think he's a really nice guy. I

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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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Speaker 6: I think there are a lot of assumptions that were

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Speaker 1: So you're selfish? Oh my god, Jeffrey.

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Speaker 3: No, she has boundaries. Boundaries. There's what those are called, Brook.

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Speaker 1: The point is we're trying to help our listener Patrick

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Speaker 1: made a lot of effort to try and impress. He

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Speaker 1: did do that, Maggie. We're all in agreement, and even

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Speaker 1: Patrick is that he went too far with that. We

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Speaker 1: you think about getting your tattoos removed together? And we

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Speaker 1: will pay for that.

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Speaker 3: Make it something else.

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Speaker 1: Let's erase all of the past and start a happy,

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Speaker 4: With Patrick to pay for both of those too.

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Speaker 3: Patrick, don't come off his cheap right now.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Well, Brooke Herrety spent his one hundred dollars bill

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Speaker 1: what do you think?

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Speaker 2: No?

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Speaker 6: Okay, wow, all the effort, but it's going to.

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Speaker 4: Be a no for me.

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Speaker 1: I kind of know why her ex boyfriend left her

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Speaker 1: he tried, Patrick, Do you and me want to You

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Speaker 1: want to get a beer with me sometime? Dude?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I can't.

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Speaker 3: I can't wait to.

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Speaker 1: When it comes to work up work next week, we're

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Speaker 4: Ok Patrick, that might be a little weird, a little

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Speaker 1: Weird one now, I've not rooking Jeffrey in the morning, man.

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Speaker 1: I am so disappointed.

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Speaker 5: Honestly, Really, you really thought that was going to turn

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Speaker 1: I just feel like men are constantly trying to put

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Speaker 1: They want to stand out, and they get roasted for

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Speaker 3: All she wanted him to do was be himself.

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Speaker 1: She didn't say that, did not. She said that, not

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Speaker 3: She said it during the date. She said, you're trying

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Speaker 1: Really, I blame myself for this.

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Speaker 3: It's all about you.

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Speaker 1: I am not being wild and spontaneous enough in these

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Speaker 1: that's my job. Although I did ask the guy to

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Speaker 3: You got turned down though.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a rough day for everybody, so I don't know.

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Speaker 1: We're still willing to help you out, but let's give

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Speaker 5: Yeah, ladies, Sure, yeah, look after room.

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Speaker 1: We will call the person. We'll put in the effort

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Speaker 1: by calling that person who's not calling you back. So

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Speaker 1: email the show if you feel like you need a

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Speaker 1: little bit of help and go check out all of

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Speaker 1: our second dates wherever you get your podcasts at Brooke

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Speaker 1: and Jeffrey