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Speaker 1: Am I the wrong for correcting my baby brother on

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Speaker 1: Speaking of which, let's get to this amazing community member

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Speaker 1: story right here. So, I seventeen female, was I was

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Speaker 1: petrified parentified? I was petrified petrified?

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Speaker 2: Do you say it?

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Speaker 1: Well?

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Speaker 2: This?

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Speaker 1: I think she's saying petrified by my parents She's I

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Speaker 1: think she's I think she's making a new word, parentified.

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Speaker 1: That's interesting. I like it. So, starting at the age

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Speaker 1: of nine, I had to become more mature due to

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Speaker 1: my parents' first separation. I had to protect my little

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Speaker 1: brother two years younger than me. That's tough. I've dealt

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Speaker 1: after that year, up until my baby brother currently seven,

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Speaker 1: the autism spectrum and was already pretty fussy as an infant.

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Speaker 1: I really shouldn't have had to care for him when

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Speaker 1: care for any child at nine years old is too

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Speaker 1: much of an ask by a million miles. My mom

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Speaker 1: and since my dad worked all day every day after

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Speaker 1: mom was an abusive substance user and ruled our house

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Speaker 1: At eleven years old, ladies and gent Wow. This went

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Speaker 1: on for a few years before ultimately CPS got involved

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Speaker 1: and removed us from our household due to my mom's

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Speaker 1: moving on to the present day, It's been around five

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Speaker 1: not working. For the past two years. He's been calling

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Speaker 1: me some variation of mom, mommy, mama, et cetera, et cetera.

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Speaker 1: This has been pretty hard for me. First, I know

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Speaker 1: I resent the fact that I was uh parentified from

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Speaker 1: such an early age. I think parentified meaning like turning

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Speaker 1: How you can be like mummified, of like I become

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Speaker 1: the mummy? I parentified? Is I became hostified? Hostified? Oh

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Speaker 1: you became a host? That's me producer host and hostified,

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Speaker 1: big proteinified, rappified, rapparified. You can be affied and although

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Speaker 1: If you don't want to pay it, why I agree

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Speaker 1: and told me that he shouldn't be so stern with that,

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Speaker 1: should feel that he trusts me. Don't get me wrong.

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Speaker 1: want to be his older sister, not his mom. There's

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Speaker 1: also a problem out in public when I shop with

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Speaker 1: Imagine how it looks seeing a lateeen girl carrying a

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Speaker 2: Ooh, that is tough.

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Speaker 1: Yikes. I just don't want people to get the wrong

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Speaker 1: But really, I don't think I'm doing anything wrong carefully

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Speaker 1: again when he's older and I don't and I someday

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Speaker 1: I'm going to leave briefly, But Riley, can you put

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Speaker 1: call us some comments right there if you want to.

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Speaker 2: That's what I'm meant to do, my bad Yeah, okay,

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Speaker 2: putting the poll up?

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Speaker 2: What was the poll? Is in the wrong? Putting the

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Speaker 2: pull up? Oh, you guys can see the pull up. Op,

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Speaker 2: We're not and then we pull can we put save?

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Speaker 2: Pull and then boom, pull us up? All right? It's

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Speaker 2: ope being the wrong or not. I mean, this is

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Speaker 2: Camp for the Wind says nothing wrong. Georgette Cooper says,

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Speaker 2: how awful. Yeah, it is really tough, Like you know,

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Speaker 2: don't know, and I don't think you're saying it in

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Speaker 2: gonna be tough to it's gonna be tough to communicate that.

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Speaker 2: And the second thing I think is crazy is the

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Speaker 2: a big deal about this. This is crazy. Everyone's in

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Speaker 2: your favorite no, not in the wrong. One person I

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Speaker 2: you did say one, I'm looking for you. Am a bear,

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Speaker 2: Emma bear, Please I did callow you out. Please explain

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Speaker 2: I'm curious about what you guys think about that. Yeah, easy,

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Speaker 2: it's not that hoole, Dana says, Thello Davidson not the

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Speaker 2: it's it's it's happening. Yeah, we got John Beck.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah. Ultimately, like Opi is the opposite of him,

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Speaker 1: That's putting even more load on Opie's back that she's

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Speaker 1: grandma isn't. This is just a classic case of crazy

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Speaker 1: the day. What was what was the question at the

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Speaker 1: beginning of the story the same when we asked here

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Speaker 1: in the poll, was is op in the wrong? For

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Speaker 1: when do you call out your family members? I think

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Speaker 1: Subs said everything, And at that point, it's like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: Great, beautiful, We're we're we're looking. We're looking right as rain.

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Speaker 1: pretty effing rude and annoying. It is, yep, but May

435
00:23:20,600 --> 00:23:24,480
Speaker 1: didn't mind. She's way too good for this guy. Eventually

436
00:23:24,520 --> 00:23:27,720
Speaker 1: they started dating. We met his parents. They're nice people.

437
00:23:27,920 --> 00:23:33,800
Speaker 1: Our family isn't in the picture because we chose to

438
00:23:33,840 --> 00:23:37,560
Speaker 1: go no contact after some wild stuff. Nate is kind

439
00:23:37,560 --> 00:23:40,919
Speaker 1: of odd. He works in it, meaning he makes loads

440
00:23:40,920 --> 00:23:43,280
Speaker 1: of money. He bought the house he and his parents

441
00:23:43,320 --> 00:23:45,919
Speaker 1: live in. They basically do everything for him, while he

442
00:23:46,040 --> 00:23:49,320
Speaker 1: just works and comes home to play video games all night.

443
00:23:49,680 --> 00:23:52,439
Speaker 1: Dude has never touched a washing machine or a stove

444
00:23:52,520 --> 00:23:55,960
Speaker 1: in his life. But to each the throne may is

445
00:23:56,000 --> 00:23:58,320
Speaker 1: more of a mom in the relationship in my opinion.

446
00:23:58,680 --> 00:24:03,040
Speaker 1: But if that's what they're into, shore all right, now

447
00:24:03,080 --> 00:24:05,960
Speaker 1: onto the issue, which honestly I could see there could

448
00:24:06,000 --> 00:24:09,280
Speaker 1: be an arrangement like where he's like, hey, let me

449
00:24:09,359 --> 00:24:11,760
Speaker 1: like pay you guys. Is I'll pay for your guys

450
00:24:11,760 --> 00:24:13,959
Speaker 1: house and everything if you guys are down to like

451
00:24:14,240 --> 00:24:16,040
Speaker 1: chip in and like help make the meals and stuff,

452
00:24:16,040 --> 00:24:18,800
Speaker 1: which is like kind of already low key part of

453
00:24:18,840 --> 00:24:22,800
Speaker 1: the like parent dynamic. I think that could work out

454
00:24:22,800 --> 00:24:29,080
Speaker 1: well with the right mature person, Yeah, like the right

455
00:24:29,160 --> 00:24:33,840
Speaker 1: mature adult child in this case, I do think it is.

456
00:24:33,880 --> 00:24:36,560
Speaker 1: I've known thirty year old men who have never touched

457
00:24:36,560 --> 00:24:40,480
Speaker 1: a laundry machine in their life. Yes, yes, and it

458
00:24:40,560 --> 00:24:44,440
Speaker 1: is very let me tell you bad, very bad.

459
00:24:44,960 --> 00:24:46,560
Speaker 2: What very bad?

460
00:24:46,080 --> 00:24:46,200
Speaker 1: You know?

461
00:24:46,560 --> 00:24:47,640
Speaker 2: To do my laundry at ten?

462
00:24:48,440 --> 00:24:52,000
Speaker 1: Same here what my mom is toddlers. She would we

463
00:24:52,080 --> 00:24:55,080
Speaker 1: had a dryer machine that like folds out like this,

464
00:24:55,560 --> 00:24:58,119
Speaker 1: she would PLoP the clothes on and have us push

465
00:24:58,160 --> 00:25:01,560
Speaker 1: it in and like make it game, which is smart.

466
00:25:02,040 --> 00:25:04,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, because toddlers don't know which chores and what's

467
00:25:04,920 --> 00:25:05,320
Speaker 2: a game.

468
00:25:05,800 --> 00:25:12,719
Speaker 1: It's so brilliant stupid. She did the same thing to

469
00:25:12,720 --> 00:25:15,600
Speaker 1: me with Chuck E Cheese more or less and potty training.

470
00:25:15,960 --> 00:25:19,280
Speaker 1: She's like big Chuck E Cheese said, the only big

471
00:25:19,320 --> 00:25:21,760
Speaker 1: boys use the potty can go in and guess what.

472
00:25:22,359 --> 00:25:25,679
Speaker 1: I've been crapping in a toilet ever since. With the

473
00:25:25,760 --> 00:25:29,240
Speaker 1: right incentives, listen, With the right incentives, I will do

474
00:25:30,160 --> 00:25:33,040
Speaker 1: anything anything.

475
00:25:33,440 --> 00:25:34,720
Speaker 2: Greatest story ever told.

476
00:25:34,840 --> 00:25:38,080
Speaker 1: But I digress. We are talking about this story today,

477
00:25:38,200 --> 00:25:41,920
Speaker 1: ladies and gentlemen. When they started dating, Nate gifted May

478
00:25:42,320 --> 00:25:46,520
Speaker 1: cats as an anniversary present. FYI never gift animals to anyone.

479
00:25:46,560 --> 00:25:49,639
Speaker 1: That's a horrible, horrible idea, since they're more of a

480
00:25:50,200 --> 00:25:55,240
Speaker 1: financial responsibility than anything true. Great point, May.

481
00:25:55,119 --> 00:25:57,400
Speaker 2: Couldn't keep pets in her so sorry, sorry. How much

482
00:25:57,440 --> 00:25:58,600
Speaker 2: does your cat cost a month?

483
00:25:59,320 --> 00:26:03,840
Speaker 1: So we have uh my girlfriend is my girlfriend's cat

484
00:26:03,960 --> 00:26:10,320
Speaker 1: hatter for years before we even met. Let's just say,

485
00:26:11,240 --> 00:26:16,600
Speaker 1: uh student loans uh could be in the same range

486
00:26:16,760 --> 00:26:22,560
Speaker 1: as what this cat has cost due to unfortunate health circumstance.

487
00:26:22,600 --> 00:26:26,879
Speaker 2: Okay, outside of the uh oh, outside of that, outside

488
00:26:26,880 --> 00:26:29,240
Speaker 2: of that, probably.

489
00:26:28,920 --> 00:26:35,399
Speaker 1: Like, uh a little over a hundred just considering the

490
00:26:36,800 --> 00:26:39,320
Speaker 1: uh just like like the specific type of we have

491
00:26:39,359 --> 00:26:41,640
Speaker 1: to get, like a very specifical like kidney friendly die

492
00:26:41,720 --> 00:26:47,359
Speaker 1: of food, and then the uh yeah, the medicine that

493
00:26:47,400 --> 00:26:50,239
Speaker 1: she has to take, and then also, uh, we have

494
00:26:50,320 --> 00:26:54,920
Speaker 1: to take her in for these like big quarterly minimum

495
00:26:55,000 --> 00:26:58,600
Speaker 1: checkups and stuff. Okay, so what one hundred maybe like

496
00:26:58,720 --> 00:27:04,760
Speaker 1: maybe like a uh four to six hundred dollars a quarter.

497
00:27:06,320 --> 00:27:10,040
Speaker 2: Okay, maybe one twenty five a month? Yeah no, no, something

498
00:27:10,080 --> 00:27:11,600
Speaker 2: like okay, okay, okay, cool cool cool cool.

499
00:27:11,680 --> 00:27:16,680
Speaker 1: Yeah. Now, uh May couldn't keep pets in her apartment,

500
00:27:16,760 --> 00:27:19,920
Speaker 1: so my roommate and me took them in. Wow. Sadly

501
00:27:20,000 --> 00:27:23,439
Speaker 1: they're both chronically ill and require special food, medication, and

502
00:27:23,440 --> 00:27:28,239
Speaker 1: frequent vet visits. But I just described Bill's piled up

503
00:27:28,280 --> 00:27:33,480
Speaker 1: around fifty five hundred dollars At this point. He has

504
00:27:33,480 --> 00:27:36,119
Speaker 1: offered to pay for it, which I accepted, since it

505
00:27:36,160 --> 00:27:38,280
Speaker 1: was his idea to give to animals to begin with.

506
00:27:38,560 --> 00:27:41,160
Speaker 1: When I interacted with him, I kept it civil, even

507
00:27:41,200 --> 00:27:43,400
Speaker 1: if I am not his biggest fan. I do call

508
00:27:43,480 --> 00:27:46,199
Speaker 1: him out on BS behavior towards my sister, though, because

509
00:27:46,400 --> 00:27:49,680
Speaker 1: he can't just read between the lines. My mom likes

510
00:27:49,720 --> 00:27:52,320
Speaker 1: me for that and commented once that he needs someone

511
00:27:52,359 --> 00:27:56,080
Speaker 1: to tell him the unfiltered truth sometimes, something that May

512
00:27:56,359 --> 00:27:59,800
Speaker 1: doesn't do because she's uncomfortable with things like that, saying

513
00:27:59,880 --> 00:28:02,760
Speaker 1: that I would be a better fit for him. First

514
00:28:02,800 --> 00:28:06,760
Speaker 1: of all, yike, Second of all, what that have? Why wait?

515
00:28:06,880 --> 00:28:11,320
Speaker 1: May said that? Or the I think the mom said that? Yeah, yeah, mom?

516
00:28:11,520 --> 00:28:13,080
Speaker 1: What what what are you doing?

517
00:28:14,000 --> 00:28:16,359
Speaker 2: You're not a a daughter's mom.

518
00:28:16,960 --> 00:28:19,440
Speaker 1: Yeah you're not. You're not a Yeah there's girl girls

519
00:28:19,440 --> 00:28:25,240
Speaker 1: girl And then uh, there's a girl's mom. Are you

520
00:28:25,280 --> 00:28:30,440
Speaker 1: a girl mom? Girls? Mom? Come on em on one

521
00:28:30,440 --> 00:28:33,520
Speaker 1: of those? Do do do do it? Just do it?

522
00:28:35,800 --> 00:28:36,200
Speaker 2: Do do?

523
00:28:36,200 --> 00:28:40,120
Speaker 1: Do do? Occasionally, when he got a bonus from work,

524
00:28:40,160 --> 00:28:42,560
Speaker 1: he invites May and me out for shopping and dinner,

525
00:28:42,600 --> 00:28:44,880
Speaker 1: which is nice. May is the type of person to

526
00:28:44,920 --> 00:28:48,040
Speaker 1: not take advantage of that. She's very frugal, frugal herself

527
00:28:48,200 --> 00:28:51,080
Speaker 1: and doesn't like accepting gifts. I, on the other hand,

528
00:28:51,360 --> 00:28:54,120
Speaker 1: don't mind at all, if at all, I see it

529
00:28:54,120 --> 00:28:56,440
Speaker 1: as a payment for having to put up with him.

530
00:28:56,760 --> 00:29:00,800
Speaker 1: Facts and also Matt Hattergal says, I think with ten bucks,

531
00:29:01,600 --> 00:29:04,479
Speaker 1: think of it this way. Riley taking care of a

532
00:29:04,520 --> 00:29:08,800
Speaker 1: pet is equal to raising a baby. If expenses spent

533
00:29:08,880 --> 00:29:13,120
Speaker 1: one thousand on er visit when my dog at a

534
00:29:13,280 --> 00:29:16,640
Speaker 1: seizure eleven hundred. Yeah, yeah, honestly. So the crazy thing

535
00:29:16,680 --> 00:29:18,880
Speaker 1: about then super quick and we'll get back into it.

536
00:29:19,160 --> 00:29:21,440
Speaker 1: The crazy thing about pet care is there's just like

537
00:29:22,400 --> 00:29:27,680
Speaker 1: way less infrastructure and insurance and like things built around it.

538
00:29:28,240 --> 00:29:32,560
Speaker 1: So it's kind of the terrible nature of healthcare where

539
00:29:32,600 --> 00:29:35,920
Speaker 1: it's like you're in a literal do or die scenario,

540
00:29:36,480 --> 00:29:40,880
Speaker 1: but there's less there's even less infrastructure around the healthcare

541
00:29:40,920 --> 00:29:44,560
Speaker 1: system for animals and like insurances and security for people

542
00:29:44,600 --> 00:29:47,720
Speaker 1: than there is for humans. And you'll literally go in

543
00:29:47,800 --> 00:29:51,440
Speaker 1: like like, for example, you can go to a hospital

544
00:29:51,480 --> 00:29:53,960
Speaker 1: and they have to treat you regardless. Now granted they'll

545
00:29:54,000 --> 00:29:58,320
Speaker 1: give you a giant bill after the fact, vets and

546
00:29:58,840 --> 00:30:01,960
Speaker 1: like animal ers will be like give me five grand now,

547
00:30:02,120 --> 00:30:04,000
Speaker 1: or I'll give it them to you, and they're probably

548
00:30:04,000 --> 00:30:04,480
Speaker 1: gonna die.

549
00:30:04,480 --> 00:30:07,400
Speaker 2: Wow. See I've heard of a story with this one.

550
00:30:07,440 --> 00:30:08,760
Speaker 2: I was like, well, I'm just gonna have to hit

551
00:30:08,840 --> 00:30:11,000
Speaker 2: The dog had like a broken leg and he's like

552
00:30:11,000 --> 00:30:13,880
Speaker 2: it's gonna take like one hundred like a grand to

553
00:30:13,960 --> 00:30:16,080
Speaker 2: fix it. And the owner was like, well, I'm just

554
00:30:16,120 --> 00:30:18,240
Speaker 2: gonna kill it then, and then the guy was like no, no, no,

555
00:30:18,240 --> 00:30:20,480
Speaker 2: I'll fix it. I'll fix it. But I grew up

556
00:30:20,480 --> 00:30:22,959
Speaker 2: in a world where if the vet us more than

557
00:30:22,960 --> 00:30:27,400
Speaker 2: what you you bought the dog for, then that's.

558
00:30:27,240 --> 00:30:29,640
Speaker 1: That's how it goes. Yeah, that's how it goes. That's

559
00:30:29,720 --> 00:30:32,680
Speaker 1: also a subular world that I you grew up, grew

560
00:30:32,760 --> 00:30:36,360
Speaker 1: up in. So yeah, it's it's it's it's crazy.

561
00:30:36,800 --> 00:30:37,080
Speaker 2: It is.

562
00:30:37,160 --> 00:30:39,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, more of a story. Pat animal care is insane

563
00:30:40,080 --> 00:30:44,400
Speaker 1: wow or animal healthcare? I should say he's pensive, bainsive,

564
00:30:44,760 --> 00:30:46,160
Speaker 1: So if at all, I see it as a pain

565
00:30:46,200 --> 00:30:47,800
Speaker 1: of having to put up with them. I also think

566
00:30:47,800 --> 00:30:50,200
Speaker 1: that he gives stuff to people because he doesn't know

567
00:30:50,240 --> 00:30:54,040
Speaker 1: how to be nice. Otherwise he's just he's just buying them. Honestly,

568
00:30:54,360 --> 00:30:57,040
Speaker 1: he's never had any friends in school or from work,

569
00:30:57,200 --> 00:30:59,800
Speaker 1: my god, since all he does is play games. Actually

570
00:30:59,800 --> 00:31:02,440
Speaker 1: in acting with other people in person is something that

571
00:31:02,480 --> 00:31:05,800
Speaker 1: he doesn't get to do often. In my eyes, that's

572
00:31:05,880 --> 00:31:08,000
Speaker 1: just his way of trying to get others to like

573
00:31:08,120 --> 00:31:09,800
Speaker 1: him by gifting them stuff.

574
00:31:10,240 --> 00:31:13,000
Speaker 2: How did he get with the Opie's twin?

575
00:31:13,120 --> 00:31:17,320
Speaker 1: Then I think she's just kind of accepts it. I

576
00:31:17,320 --> 00:31:19,600
Speaker 1: think her bar is very low, her standards are low.

577
00:31:20,040 --> 00:31:22,840
Speaker 1: That's kind of what I'm reading where she was like, oh,

578
00:31:22,880 --> 00:31:25,720
Speaker 1: my sister doesn't mind all of these crazy like oh

579
00:31:25,800 --> 00:31:26,480
Speaker 1: ride in my face.

580
00:31:26,520 --> 00:31:29,320
Speaker 2: She's like, oh, you're so silly.

581
00:31:29,320 --> 00:31:35,920
Speaker 1: But like Opie's like, ha, yeah, come on. Last year

582
00:31:35,960 --> 00:31:40,320
Speaker 1: I started getting closer to someone. Nate was being unreasonable,

583
00:31:40,400 --> 00:31:42,440
Speaker 1: refusing to talk to me and giving me one word

584
00:31:42,480 --> 00:31:46,080
Speaker 1: answers at best. Why would you God, I see you

585
00:31:46,080 --> 00:31:48,560
Speaker 1: in the comments if you see this is ridiculous. Not

586
00:31:48,680 --> 00:31:51,320
Speaker 1: my problem, or so I thought. After my sister got

587
00:31:51,360 --> 00:31:53,800
Speaker 1: wind of this, she urged me to mend whatever was

588
00:31:53,840 --> 00:31:56,360
Speaker 1: going on. Bless her heart. I had a feeling of

589
00:31:56,360 --> 00:31:58,680
Speaker 1: what it was, but I didn't actually want to hear

590
00:31:58,720 --> 00:32:01,000
Speaker 1: it because if I was, that's right, it was gonna

591
00:32:01,000 --> 00:32:03,520
Speaker 1: be a problem for all of us, something about blissful

592
00:32:03,520 --> 00:32:08,200
Speaker 1: ignorance or in my case, peace and quiet. By ignoring it, well,

593
00:32:08,560 --> 00:32:10,760
Speaker 1: I should have just let it be. After a lot

594
00:32:10,800 --> 00:32:13,600
Speaker 1: of pressure from my side, he finally caved and told

595
00:32:13,600 --> 00:32:16,440
Speaker 1: me that he loves me.

596
00:32:19,880 --> 00:32:21,640
Speaker 2: He did hit on her first.

597
00:32:21,720 --> 00:32:29,000
Speaker 1: Dude, Ah, you know what, I'll really quickly say that

598
00:32:30,480 --> 00:32:35,480
Speaker 1: why did she not speak up more? When he and

599
00:32:35,520 --> 00:32:38,760
Speaker 1: her sister were getting into a relationship, because wouldn't you

600
00:32:38,840 --> 00:32:42,600
Speaker 1: be like, hey, sis, he's a walking six flags of

601
00:32:42,640 --> 00:32:47,720
Speaker 1: red flags. Don't do it, sis, Yeah, bound off, queen.

602
00:32:51,480 --> 00:32:52,480
Speaker 1: Now I can tolge you with that.

603
00:32:52,600 --> 00:32:56,240
Speaker 2: But it's hard to like talk about your friends and

604
00:32:56,280 --> 00:32:59,120
Speaker 2: your and your family's significant others while they're still in

605
00:32:59,120 --> 00:33:02,280
Speaker 2: that relationship, because you don't want to be like, you know, stirring.

606
00:33:01,960 --> 00:33:04,880
Speaker 1: The you can backfire. It can so easily, you like,

607
00:33:04,920 --> 00:33:07,720
Speaker 1: don't tell me what to do, you know, it's such

608
00:33:07,760 --> 00:33:12,240
Speaker 1: a it's such a delicate, hard to manage situation. Man

609
00:33:12,800 --> 00:33:21,120
Speaker 1: lose well, Oh no, have I lost.

610
00:33:21,000 --> 00:33:27,720
Speaker 2: My caseans, Let's just start from well, told me that

611
00:33:27,760 --> 00:33:29,840
Speaker 2: he loves me. Here we go, Here we go. Just

612
00:33:29,880 --> 00:33:31,360
Speaker 2: to be clear, thank.

613
00:33:31,200 --> 00:33:34,760
Speaker 1: You, Just to be clear, he also loves my sister.

614
00:33:35,520 --> 00:33:38,120
Speaker 1: It's okay, guys, I got I got plenty of love

615
00:33:38,200 --> 00:33:38,640
Speaker 1: for everyone.

616
00:33:38,720 --> 00:33:40,320
Speaker 2: I look at you, guys like the same person.

617
00:33:42,000 --> 00:33:44,840
Speaker 1: Yikes, But he loves us both. I asked him what

618
00:33:44,880 --> 00:33:48,040
Speaker 1: the f about my attitude towards him made him fall

619
00:33:48,040 --> 00:33:50,280
Speaker 1: for me in the first place. He said that it

620
00:33:50,320 --> 00:33:52,680
Speaker 1: was incredibly awful of him to say that to me

621
00:33:52,840 --> 00:33:56,280
Speaker 1: when he's dating my gosh, dang sister. He said he

622
00:33:56,320 --> 00:33:59,920
Speaker 1: didn't know how it just happened. He didn't expect to really,

623
00:34:00,640 --> 00:34:03,479
Speaker 1: thank God, but he wanted me to know, and that

624
00:34:03,560 --> 00:34:06,479
Speaker 1: he was jealous of the guy I was getting closer

625
00:34:06,520 --> 00:34:10,640
Speaker 1: to who I told him what I told him what

626
00:34:10,719 --> 00:34:12,919
Speaker 1: I do was none of his business and reminded him

627
00:34:12,960 --> 00:34:15,319
Speaker 1: that he had made that. They had been dating for

628
00:34:15,480 --> 00:34:19,360
Speaker 1: four years at this point, four years. He said that

629
00:34:19,480 --> 00:34:22,600
Speaker 1: he was well aware, but that he couldn't change his feelings.

630
00:34:22,680 --> 00:34:29,399
Speaker 1: I said, yikes, and then told my sister, that's right.

631
00:34:29,520 --> 00:34:32,759
Speaker 1: Claps are right. She asked if I ever encouraged any

632
00:34:32,800 --> 00:34:41,960
Speaker 1: of the advances, and I replied with the truth, absolutely not,

633
00:34:43,120 --> 00:34:48,359
Speaker 1: absolutely not. Gotcha. I showed her our chat. They had

634
00:34:48,360 --> 00:34:52,280
Speaker 1: a talk and decided to stay together. They're staying together.

635
00:34:52,800 --> 00:34:55,440
Speaker 1: May said that as long as he didn't act on

636
00:34:55,520 --> 00:34:59,440
Speaker 1: his feelings, it didn't bother her. Girl. There were so

637
00:34:59,520 --> 00:35:02,879
Speaker 1: many other better people out there for you up your standards.

638
00:35:02,960 --> 00:35:04,200
Speaker 2: Come on, we got.

639
00:35:04,000 --> 00:35:06,239
Speaker 1: A whole community. Granted we have mostly women, but we

640
00:35:06,280 --> 00:35:08,440
Speaker 1: have a whole community, and we have we have tens

641
00:35:08,440 --> 00:35:10,359
Speaker 1: of thousands of people that are watching each of these

642
00:35:10,360 --> 00:35:14,919
Speaker 1: episodes like and this is wait, this is our Sashral Campe.

643
00:35:15,040 --> 00:35:18,560
Speaker 1: All right, yes it is op. Tell your sister to

644
00:35:18,640 --> 00:35:22,400
Speaker 1: find a listen A man who listens to Okay, storytime,

645
00:35:23,280 --> 00:35:27,040
Speaker 1: that's a good man. He has seen the worst possible

646
00:35:27,080 --> 00:35:30,600
Speaker 1: scenarios and he's learned how to navigate because he got

647
00:35:30,600 --> 00:35:35,600
Speaker 1: good advice. Goofily, Okay, what more could you wanted? A

648
00:35:35,640 --> 00:35:37,840
Speaker 1: man I could not possibly imagine.

649
00:35:38,160 --> 00:35:41,279
Speaker 2: I couldn't imagine. Who are you talking about?

650
00:35:43,440 --> 00:35:46,480
Speaker 1: My roommate thinks I encouraged his feelings by accepting his

651
00:35:46,520 --> 00:35:49,000
Speaker 1: gifts and the financial help with the cats, and that

652
00:35:49,040 --> 00:35:52,239
Speaker 1: says that I'm the a whole since I was suspecting

653
00:35:52,520 --> 00:35:56,800
Speaker 1: he had feelings for me a while before it finally escalated.

654
00:35:56,400 --> 00:36:00,400
Speaker 2: Because that is how he gets friends by gifting people things.

655
00:36:00,920 --> 00:36:05,880
Speaker 1: Interesting interesting observation, quick deal. The are my twin sister's

656
00:36:05,920 --> 00:36:08,040
Speaker 1: boyfriend of now five years told me he loves me,

657
00:36:08,360 --> 00:36:10,359
Speaker 1: and my roommate thinks it's because I let him pay

658
00:36:10,360 --> 00:36:12,200
Speaker 1: for the cats, and I'm taking that I'm taken care

659
00:36:12,239 --> 00:36:15,319
Speaker 1: of and accepted the occasional dinner and chopping trips where

660
00:36:15,360 --> 00:36:18,439
Speaker 1: my sister was present. So am I the ahole? Edit

661
00:36:18,480 --> 00:36:22,680
Speaker 1: for context. May and me are identical. She is also

662
00:36:22,960 --> 00:36:27,480
Speaker 1: a sexual, while I am not, and that ladies and

663
00:36:27,520 --> 00:36:32,600
Speaker 1: gentlemen adds so much context and kind of confusion into

664
00:36:33,840 --> 00:36:37,799
Speaker 1: where we're gonna land. We gotta break this one down. Yeah,

665
00:36:37,880 --> 00:36:43,279
Speaker 1: we have got to break this one down. A asexual asexual.

666
00:36:43,320 --> 00:36:48,600
Speaker 1: So basically, maybe one point that we talked about was

667
00:36:49,400 --> 00:36:52,920
Speaker 1: why didn't she Why wasn't she just so disgusted and

668
00:36:53,000 --> 00:36:54,400
Speaker 1: thrown off at his advances?

669
00:36:54,680 --> 00:36:55,879
Speaker 2: Yeah, and she's like.

670
00:36:56,000 --> 00:37:00,719
Speaker 1: Maybe kind of neutral, She's like, I, you know, I'm

671
00:37:00,760 --> 00:37:05,000
Speaker 1: not a I'm a sexual, so I don't really but

672
00:37:05,000 --> 00:37:07,600
Speaker 1: but honestly, I would almost think wouldn't it be the

673
00:37:07,640 --> 00:37:10,080
Speaker 1: opposite where you're like, hey, I don't want to engage

674
00:37:10,080 --> 00:37:14,600
Speaker 1: in anything in that way, So I don't want you to,

675
00:37:15,880 --> 00:37:20,960
Speaker 1: you know, even suggest possibly even normal intimacy, let alone

676
00:37:20,960 --> 00:37:26,560
Speaker 1: something as like harassing and abrasive and straightforward et cetera.

677
00:37:26,640 --> 00:37:30,719
Speaker 1: As that I don't I don't know's that's thrown for

678
00:37:31,560 --> 00:37:34,400
Speaker 1: quite a loop, if I can be honest.

679
00:37:34,440 --> 00:37:38,960
Speaker 2: But I and like she's basically being a mom to him.

680
00:37:39,400 --> 00:37:44,440
Speaker 2: What is she getting out of this relationship? Like, Okay, okay,

681
00:37:44,480 --> 00:37:48,120
Speaker 2: he is he does have a lot of money, yes,

682
00:37:48,200 --> 00:37:48,799
Speaker 2: and he is.

683
00:37:49,000 --> 00:37:52,760
Speaker 1: It does seem financially taking care of her he's financially

684
00:37:52,760 --> 00:37:56,759
Speaker 1: taking care of his parents. To be fair, well, you

685
00:37:56,800 --> 00:37:59,480
Speaker 1: know what, I you know what it is. You can

686
00:38:01,000 --> 00:38:06,080
Speaker 1: uh have a lot of money and happen to take

687
00:38:06,120 --> 00:38:09,759
Speaker 1: care of people but not have the intention of providing

688
00:38:09,800 --> 00:38:14,400
Speaker 1: and caring for them. So for a polar opposite example,

689
00:38:14,520 --> 00:38:19,120
Speaker 1: someone like you, Riley Wilson, You're like I find joy

690
00:38:19,239 --> 00:38:24,080
Speaker 1: and satisfaction and purpose in providing both in every sense

691
00:38:24,080 --> 00:38:29,200
Speaker 1: of a word, both like time wise, quality, time, financially, love.

692
00:38:29,320 --> 00:38:31,520
Speaker 1: Everything I would say as a like future husband and

693
00:38:31,520 --> 00:38:35,480
Speaker 1: father is like, that's that's something that that fills you

694
00:38:35,520 --> 00:38:37,960
Speaker 1: with joy, gives you purpose, all of the good things. Right,

695
00:38:39,239 --> 00:38:43,640
Speaker 1: he's kind of it's almost like an accidental byproduct, Like

696
00:38:43,760 --> 00:38:46,680
Speaker 1: he happens to be rich, so he's just kind It's

697
00:38:46,719 --> 00:38:51,000
Speaker 1: like it's like the easiest solution to his problems, versus

698
00:38:51,040 --> 00:38:54,040
Speaker 1: him doing it out of the purpose and intentionality that

699
00:38:54,120 --> 00:38:56,400
Speaker 1: someone like you would do it out of.

700
00:38:56,600 --> 00:38:58,759
Speaker 2: God Sha, that makes sense. That makes sense.

701
00:38:58,840 --> 00:39:06,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, So that all being said, this this actually, this

702
00:39:06,280 --> 00:39:08,719
Speaker 1: story most relevantly ties back to the question of this

703
00:39:08,760 --> 00:39:12,040
Speaker 1: whole episode. When do you call out a family member

704
00:39:12,760 --> 00:39:14,640
Speaker 1: when their life might be ruined?

705
00:39:15,920 --> 00:39:16,120
Speaker 2: Oh?

706
00:39:16,239 --> 00:39:19,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think that's it. I think that is the

707
00:39:19,120 --> 00:39:23,600
Speaker 1: easiest qualifier. Because I missed I missed the commenter, Sorry

708
00:39:23,600 --> 00:39:27,520
Speaker 1: I missed the the username, but someone said, what you

709
00:39:27,560 --> 00:39:32,400
Speaker 1: don't want the rich to be eaten? Hushtaking out the

710
00:39:32,480 --> 00:39:35,640
Speaker 1: rich city without kidn of course, dude, what a frickin

711
00:39:35,719 --> 00:39:39,720
Speaker 1: what a champion city with that jam. But to to

712
00:39:39,719 --> 00:39:43,480
Speaker 1: to the greater point, Yeah, I think in this case,

713
00:39:44,680 --> 00:39:52,560
Speaker 1: this may the sister might marry this guy, and I

714
00:39:52,600 --> 00:39:55,120
Speaker 1: think we have to sit her down and all we

715
00:39:55,160 --> 00:39:58,200
Speaker 1: can do is be like, hey, I think that your

716
00:39:58,280 --> 00:40:02,279
Speaker 1: life will end up you know, terrible. Yeah, and just

717
00:40:02,360 --> 00:40:04,520
Speaker 1: kind of go for it. I think that's all you

718
00:40:04,560 --> 00:40:08,400
Speaker 1: can do. You can't you can't force them to receive

719
00:40:08,480 --> 00:40:11,400
Speaker 1: that well or not, but I think you need to.

720
00:40:12,520 --> 00:40:16,120
Speaker 1: And it's probably maybe, you know what, maybe it hasn't

721
00:40:16,160 --> 00:40:18,520
Speaker 1: reached D day, but I think as soon as there's

722
00:40:18,560 --> 00:40:22,080
Speaker 1: even a whiff of marriage or kids, you have to

723
00:40:22,080 --> 00:40:26,200
Speaker 1: strike immediately. You have to hopefully Oh I think you

724
00:40:26,239 --> 00:40:28,960
Speaker 1: could like maybe let them rock and hopefully they dissolve

725
00:40:29,000 --> 00:40:31,480
Speaker 1: on their own, which is way better than you have

726
00:40:31,560 --> 00:40:36,839
Speaker 1: to intervene. But if it reaches that point, do.

727
00:40:36,800 --> 00:40:41,040
Speaker 2: You agree, Yeah, you have to does That's it's just

728
00:40:41,080 --> 00:40:44,360
Speaker 2: so unshakey. It's not a good foundation of a religion.

729
00:40:44,400 --> 00:40:46,279
Speaker 1: It's not a good foundation. And like I think her

730
00:40:46,360 --> 00:40:51,640
Speaker 1: life long term will be torturous. But also most says,

731
00:40:51,680 --> 00:40:56,440
Speaker 1: get that money, sis Lowell. Hey listen, if if, if

732
00:40:56,480 --> 00:41:00,359
Speaker 1: she's able to, I still think it's bad. I trying

733
00:41:00,400 --> 00:41:02,960
Speaker 1: to rock with you moo. But like, like that's a

734
00:41:03,760 --> 00:41:07,840
Speaker 1: only unfulfilled relationship and she is a sexual. But it

735
00:41:07,920 --> 00:41:11,040
Speaker 1: sounds like she's looking for a life partner. Yeah, and

736
00:41:11,160 --> 00:41:13,680
Speaker 1: it seems like she wants one because she's willing to

737
00:41:13,760 --> 00:41:16,360
Speaker 1: deal with all this crap just to have a partner

738
00:41:16,400 --> 00:41:19,080
Speaker 1: in a relationship and have all the other things in

739
00:41:19,120 --> 00:41:23,360
Speaker 1: this I and and wait, maybe maybe they are not

740
00:41:23,680 --> 00:41:26,000
Speaker 1: doing a lot of spicy sleep stuff. Maybe they're not

741
00:41:26,120 --> 00:41:29,839
Speaker 1: very intimate, and that's why he's he's he's lusting after op.

742
00:41:30,239 --> 00:41:34,960
Speaker 1: There's just ah, there's so many things that are wrong,

743
00:41:35,040 --> 00:41:35,920
Speaker 1: can go wrong.

744
00:41:35,719 --> 00:41:39,440
Speaker 2: Et cetera. My God, speak up, speak up, and please

745
00:41:39,560 --> 00:41:42,719
Speaker 2: would love to see an update soon, get that figured out.

746
00:41:42,840 --> 00:41:44,600
Speaker 1: Put an update. This is this is one of our

747
00:41:44,680 --> 00:41:46,320
Speaker 1: very own to put an update in our slash okay

748
00:41:46,320 --> 00:41:48,799
Speaker 1: story time. But speaking of our very own, let's quickly

749
00:41:48,840 --> 00:41:52,520
Speaker 1: read some donations. Matt hatter Gal, thanks for the ten bucks.

750
00:41:52,560 --> 00:41:55,760
Speaker 1: So the reason why I use third person point of view, Riley,

751
00:41:55,840 --> 00:41:58,279
Speaker 1: is because I am the mad Habit hat To and

752
00:41:58,480 --> 00:42:02,000
Speaker 1: like to keep people on the toe. Think it is

753
00:42:02,080 --> 00:42:05,120
Speaker 1: a persona, think it is, think more of it. Think

754
00:42:05,160 --> 00:42:08,960
Speaker 1: it more of a persona than anything. I agree with

755
00:42:09,000 --> 00:42:11,440
Speaker 1: the third present persona of the Hata. The hat To

756
00:42:11,520 --> 00:42:12,640
Speaker 1: does is the hat to does?

757
00:42:12,880 --> 00:42:14,360
Speaker 2: John agrees, Riley agrees to.

758
00:42:14,680 --> 00:42:17,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, John, John agrees big time, and dumpster Fire takes

759
00:42:17,160 --> 00:42:19,200
Speaker 1: for the five bucks or mind the folks to like

760
00:42:19,280 --> 00:42:21,920
Speaker 1: the stream? I want a wheel spin. Oh guys, we're

761
00:42:21,960 --> 00:42:25,239
Speaker 1: pretty close. We can still hit it. We could still

762
00:42:25,280 --> 00:42:31,040
Speaker 1: have some pretty good dude. Riley is always cooking up greats.

763
00:42:31,200 --> 00:42:34,520
Speaker 2: I actually please do because I got a really good

764
00:42:34,560 --> 00:42:36,560
Speaker 2: one I want to do and it hits the right one.

765
00:42:36,600 --> 00:42:37,319
Speaker 1: Oh god, I.

766
00:42:37,320 --> 00:42:39,160
Speaker 2: Can wait for tomorrow. So we have a package right there,

767
00:42:39,360 --> 00:42:41,160
Speaker 2: Oh right there, look in my hand.

768
00:42:42,200 --> 00:42:44,960
Speaker 1: Boo nice. Yeah, we could we could hit that before

769
00:42:44,960 --> 00:42:47,240
Speaker 1: the end of the stream. Oh yeah, and then Tina

770
00:42:47,400 --> 00:42:49,360
Speaker 1: m do I gave the wrong number. Thanks for the

771
00:42:49,400 --> 00:42:52,040
Speaker 1: ten bucks. Uh what is the wrong Oh did Tina

772
00:42:52,080 --> 00:42:56,120
Speaker 1: did Tina do a in an earlier donation? Or Tina

773
00:42:56,200 --> 00:42:59,040
Speaker 1: let us know what number? What?

774
00:42:59,040 --> 00:42:59,560
Speaker 2: What?

775
00:42:59,560 --> 00:43:01,799
Speaker 1: What numbers? Do you speak at?

776
00:43:01,920 --> 00:43:02,520
Speaker 2: Sweet honey?

777
00:43:02,800 --> 00:43:07,839
Speaker 1: Who is that? Ah? That's what we're talking to all love.

778
00:43:07,880 --> 00:43:10,719
Speaker 1: I'm excited for Clinton. I'm I'm excited for him in

779
00:43:10,760 --> 00:43:13,880
Speaker 1: his next great adventure. I literally had one conversation with

780
00:43:15,920 --> 00:43:18,520
Speaker 1: It was, you know what, it was so fast but

781
00:43:18,600 --> 00:43:21,719
Speaker 1: still hurt so much. It hurt as fast as it was.

782
00:43:22,520 --> 00:43:23,040
Speaker 2: It was like.

783
00:43:24,640 --> 00:43:27,960
Speaker 1: They come and they go, you know, talent flies in

784
00:43:27,960 --> 00:43:29,920
Speaker 1: the wind. Oh we got another uh oh oh, we

785
00:43:30,000 --> 00:43:32,120
Speaker 1: got another ten bucks on the dental link. From Tina

786
00:43:32,239 --> 00:43:37,400
Speaker 1: m Dot. A sexual doesn't mean a romantic which is

787
00:43:37,440 --> 00:43:42,239
Speaker 1: another great point from from Tina m Dot. So May

788
00:43:42,680 --> 00:43:45,200
Speaker 1: might be looking for Hey, I want the romantic parts

789
00:43:45,320 --> 00:43:48,719
Speaker 1: of the relationship, you know, I want. I also want

790
00:43:48,719 --> 00:43:51,320
Speaker 1: a life partner. I want There's there's so many aspects

791
00:43:51,320 --> 00:43:55,400
Speaker 1: of a relationship that May. It seems. It seems that

792
00:43:55,480 --> 00:44:00,160
Speaker 1: May wants to be in a relationship like a good

793
00:44:00,239 --> 00:44:00,719
Speaker 1: him out here.

794
00:44:01,000 --> 00:44:04,439
Speaker 2: Yeah, so here we go. Hey, the amount of bes

795
00:44:04,520 --> 00:44:07,080
Speaker 2: she has put up with, dude, it is better.

796
00:44:08,640 --> 00:44:12,040
Speaker 1: Such fat and honestly, she's she's not a gold digger

797
00:44:12,080 --> 00:44:15,080
Speaker 1: at all. He's giving her money, She's being frugal with it.

798
00:44:15,160 --> 00:44:16,960
Speaker 1: She's like, I don't want to take too much. Like

799
00:44:17,280 --> 00:44:21,520
Speaker 1: this is a great example of a She's may is

800
00:44:21,520 --> 00:44:25,120
Speaker 1: a great example of a great person in a partnership.

801
00:44:25,480 --> 00:44:28,200
Speaker 1: And honestly, the word partnership is so great because it

802
00:44:28,239 --> 00:44:31,200
Speaker 1: is two people coming to the table and giving to

803
00:44:31,280 --> 00:44:34,200
Speaker 1: each other and and it's this, it's this exchange, you

804
00:44:34,239 --> 00:44:36,400
Speaker 1: know what I mean, Like it's you're my partner in crime,

805
00:44:36,440 --> 00:44:39,440
Speaker 1: like we we help each other throughout life and all

806
00:44:39,480 --> 00:44:43,280
Speaker 1: this stuff. That's just Cassanda twenty five likes to go, guys,

807
00:44:44,040 --> 00:44:46,600
Speaker 1: do it like we said we we we we totally

808
00:44:46,600 --> 00:44:47,040
Speaker 1: can do it.

809
00:44:47,239 --> 00:44:48,440
Speaker 2: Or she's gonna hit you with the wrench.

810
00:44:49,400 --> 00:44:54,200
Speaker 1: Oh oh wow, she's got gout. She's got the wrenches

811
00:44:54,280 --> 00:44:57,680
Speaker 1: in her in her username. Wow this you know this

812
00:44:57,880 --> 00:45:02,640
Speaker 1: say this is a little Are we the mob? Did we?

813
00:45:03,480 --> 00:45:05,640
Speaker 2: I am not the mob? The people that have the

814
00:45:05,680 --> 00:45:06,440
Speaker 2: wrench are?

815
00:45:06,480 --> 00:45:10,879
Speaker 3: You're just like there's a suitan duchess that maya may

816
00:45:10,960 --> 00:45:14,759
Speaker 3: not rhyme with was sand uh that uh mayum may

817
00:45:14,880 --> 00:45:17,160
Speaker 3: not do some things.

818
00:45:17,920 --> 00:45:21,040
Speaker 1: I'm not saying one way and the other. I'm just

819
00:45:21,280 --> 00:45:24,360
Speaker 1: I'm just saying, you know, if you don't like the

820
00:45:24,560 --> 00:45:28,400
Speaker 1: stream of bad things could happen we're not gonna question it.

821
00:45:28,560 --> 00:45:32,719
Speaker 1: We're not gonna question it. Oh my god. And then

822
00:45:32,800 --> 00:45:35,680
Speaker 1: dumpster Fire, thanks for another five bucks. Also, so glad

823
00:45:35,680 --> 00:45:40,080
Speaker 1: you're feeling better. The boys are back, dumpster Fire, thank you.

824
00:45:40,200 --> 00:45:41,399
Speaker 2: Yeah, we're still missing one.

825
00:45:41,480 --> 00:45:45,600
Speaker 1: But we're still missing, you know. We We're just down.

826
00:45:45,800 --> 00:45:46,399
Speaker 2: We are down.

827
00:45:46,440 --> 00:45:49,640
Speaker 1: We are we are rapidly losing our our men are

828
00:45:49,719 --> 00:45:51,200
Speaker 1: forces are.

829
00:45:51,320 --> 00:45:54,920
Speaker 2: The last time we had everyone together been a minute.

830
00:45:54,960 --> 00:45:58,680
Speaker 1: That's actually a great point. We'll definitely have to hit

831
00:45:58,719 --> 00:46:04,360
Speaker 1: it once saying is back, especially given some some things

832
00:46:04,360 --> 00:46:07,040
Speaker 1: that may or may we'll see. Who knows, Oh that

833
00:46:07,160 --> 00:46:08,759
Speaker 1: is true. Who knows. We have to see, We have

834
00:46:08,800 --> 00:46:12,799
Speaker 1: to see. But ladies and gentlemen, uh, we have one

835
00:46:12,800 --> 00:46:15,560
Speaker 1: more story in. This is the seventh one. This is

836
00:46:15,680 --> 00:46:18,040
Speaker 1: it's it's all. Everything's lining up. Don't worry. If the

837
00:46:18,040 --> 00:46:19,680
Speaker 1: timer runs out, we will go. We will go a

838
00:46:19,719 --> 00:46:21,800
Speaker 1: little bit over. If we do hit a wheelspin, we

839
00:46:21,840 --> 00:46:23,640
Speaker 1: will spend it. And you know what, well, we'll give

840
00:46:23,680 --> 00:46:25,479
Speaker 1: you guys a mail open. You got you guys have been.

841
00:46:25,400 --> 00:46:29,600
Speaker 2: You wouldn't do the mail open now? Right before we.

842
00:46:31,640 --> 00:46:37,040
Speaker 1: Who here we go. This comes from can I say

843
00:46:37,040 --> 00:46:38,360
Speaker 1: it without doxing the name?

844
00:46:40,040 --> 00:46:42,160
Speaker 2: Someone someone.

845
00:46:44,520 --> 00:46:48,799
Speaker 1: Golden State or I'm not going to say that that

846
00:46:48,920 --> 00:46:52,200
Speaker 1: was called. Go ahead and say nope, it was. That

847
00:46:52,360 --> 00:47:00,560
Speaker 1: was super doxing. It is a crown for her Royal.

848
00:47:00,560 --> 00:47:03,319
Speaker 2: Queen, the worm Queen, and there is.

849
00:47:04,719 --> 00:47:10,880
Speaker 1: Some a bit of a note here, uh, a toned

850
00:47:11,000 --> 00:47:15,280
Speaker 1: birthday crown and birthday queen sash, purple tiara birthday girl

851
00:47:15,600 --> 00:47:18,000
Speaker 1: crystal crown for princess women. Okay, that is just the

852
00:47:18,000 --> 00:47:21,960
Speaker 1: title of the Amazon description. I thought that was a note. Okay,

853
00:47:22,000 --> 00:47:27,560
Speaker 1: here we go. Uh Felice Worm Queen from M Jay

854
00:47:27,680 --> 00:47:30,800
Speaker 1: grow M J grol Jay Grove.

855
00:47:31,239 --> 00:47:32,880
Speaker 2: Wow, that's awesome.

856
00:47:33,440 --> 00:47:37,120
Speaker 1: We will leave this for a surprise for her Majesty

857
00:47:37,360 --> 00:47:39,200
Speaker 1: the worm Queen where she went?

858
00:47:39,400 --> 00:47:40,400
Speaker 2: Should we I.

859
00:47:40,440 --> 00:47:42,680
Speaker 1: Kind of want to surprise it for Uh, We'll just

860
00:47:42,680 --> 00:47:45,439
Speaker 1: just peck it back in and then whenever she comes back,

861
00:47:45,480 --> 00:47:46,720
Speaker 1: we'll be like, oh, we have some warrior.

862
00:47:47,480 --> 00:47:49,000
Speaker 2: Or I could say hey, I got you a present

863
00:47:49,040 --> 00:47:51,440
Speaker 2: and say it's for me. I will do that. I

864
00:47:51,520 --> 00:47:53,239
Speaker 2: will do that. I won't do I actually got her

865
00:47:53,320 --> 00:47:56,800
Speaker 2: present and cooked her hot dogs yesterday.

866
00:47:57,000 --> 00:47:59,960
Speaker 1: That's true of the meat and non meat variety.

867
00:48:00,200 --> 00:48:03,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, dude, I'm sorry tofu. Hot dogs should not be

868
00:48:03,960 --> 00:48:07,719
Speaker 2: a thing. We we cooked those things up yesterday. Veggie

869
00:48:08,440 --> 00:48:13,120
Speaker 2: got the veg anyways, anyways, let's get in. Oh we

870
00:48:13,200 --> 00:48:18,240
Speaker 2: got a wheel spin spin, All right, let's do it, dude.

871
00:48:18,719 --> 00:48:19,440
Speaker 2: I cannot wait.

872
00:48:19,880 --> 00:48:22,200
Speaker 1: Dude, you haven't hit a wheel spin in so long.

873
00:48:22,719 --> 00:48:25,040
Speaker 2: I did, but it hit like ten minutes extra. All right,

874
00:48:25,040 --> 00:48:30,400
Speaker 2: here we go? No, no, no, what is this? What

875
00:48:30,480 --> 00:48:30,640
Speaker 2: is this?

876
00:48:31,239 --> 00:48:31,399
Speaker 1: Oh?

877
00:48:31,480 --> 00:48:36,080
Speaker 2: Tim minutes extra? Or do we do? We do? Do

878
00:48:36,160 --> 00:48:38,879
Speaker 2: we do? Since we did? We got we gave you guys,

879
00:48:38,960 --> 00:48:40,319
Speaker 2: like three hours. We do something out.

880
00:48:40,480 --> 00:48:42,680
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, here's what I want to say. We're gonna

881
00:48:42,680 --> 00:48:46,000
Speaker 1: put up a pole. Uh ten minutes extra or respin

882
00:48:47,040 --> 00:48:49,799
Speaker 1: ten minutes extra. We will let the community side. We

883
00:48:49,840 --> 00:48:50,759
Speaker 1: will let the community say.

884
00:48:50,840 --> 00:48:52,439
Speaker 2: Yeah, we'll do this.

885
00:48:52,840 --> 00:48:58,560
Speaker 1: Yes, here we yeah, So Riler put up the pole.

886
00:48:58,640 --> 00:49:05,920
Speaker 1: I'm gonna pull up this next story and m two.

887
00:49:06,360 --> 00:49:18,480
Speaker 1: Uh sorry, I'm texting the one and only whem queen.

888
00:49:18,680 --> 00:49:20,480
Speaker 1: I keep shifting you can you can tell me when

889
00:49:20,480 --> 00:49:23,120
Speaker 1: I keep shifting out of your view. I'm sorry. I'm

890
00:49:23,120 --> 00:49:30,560
Speaker 1: being a bad host, bad host, bad okay, sweet toss.

891
00:49:31,239 --> 00:49:32,160
Speaker 1: Sorry where we're at again.

892
00:49:32,239 --> 00:49:35,879
Speaker 2: Everyone's saying ten men, we gave it to you last time,

893
00:49:35,920 --> 00:49:36,960
Speaker 2: but really hard.

894
00:49:37,360 --> 00:49:40,280
Speaker 1: They just they just they must have us. They must

895
00:49:40,280 --> 00:49:42,920
Speaker 1: have us by any means necessary, at all costs.

896
00:49:44,040 --> 00:49:51,600
Speaker 2: Sorry, where we're at again, I'm seventy.

897
00:49:49,560 --> 00:49:53,640
Speaker 1: That's same episode. Hooray hourrah, who are who? Ay? Hoorray? Oh?

898
00:49:54,480 --> 00:49:56,400
Speaker 2: Okay story tom.

899
00:49:56,080 --> 00:49:59,279
Speaker 1: Oh, this is this is too good. This is way

900
00:49:59,320 --> 00:50:05,120
Speaker 1: too freaking good. Here we go, all right. Ex boyfriend

901
00:50:05,280 --> 00:50:13,879
Speaker 1: was basically his mother's husband. He married his mom. He

902
00:50:15,680 --> 00:50:18,839
Speaker 1: what what are we talking about? Well? This this comes

903
00:50:18,880 --> 00:50:25,360
Speaker 1: from Artemis Q twenty six. Wow, who says went to

904
00:50:25,400 --> 00:50:28,120
Speaker 1: high school with my ex boyfriend. We met when we

905
00:50:28,120 --> 00:50:30,560
Speaker 1: were like fifteen years old. We are now in our thirties.

906
00:50:30,600 --> 00:50:35,560
Speaker 1: When we reconnected and started dating. I knew back in

907
00:50:35,640 --> 00:50:37,920
Speaker 1: high school he had lost his father. We weren't close,

908
00:50:38,160 --> 00:50:40,520
Speaker 1: but I knew it had been hard for him in

909
00:50:40,560 --> 00:50:44,880
Speaker 1: his whole family. I'm just going to quickly quickly see

910
00:50:45,120 --> 00:50:51,879
Speaker 1: if this is something we've possibly Oh you mead, Jock.

911
00:50:52,600 --> 00:50:55,200
Speaker 1: I think I had a suspicion, but now I'm My

912
00:50:55,239 --> 00:51:01,480
Speaker 1: suspicion is that we're in the clear. Okay, I think

913
00:51:01,480 --> 00:51:03,400
Speaker 1: we're in the clear. Yeah, we're going to go check

914
00:51:03,480 --> 00:51:08,200
Speaker 1: it clear. Thank you, sir. So I knew that way

915
00:51:08,200 --> 00:51:09,759
Speaker 1: back in high school that he had lost his father.

916
00:51:09,880 --> 00:51:11,680
Speaker 1: We weren't close, but I knew it had been hard

917
00:51:11,680 --> 00:51:15,480
Speaker 1: for him and his whole family. Now skipped to about

918
00:51:15,520 --> 00:51:18,440
Speaker 1: seventeen years later, we started to dates. We literally had

919
00:51:18,440 --> 00:51:20,960
Speaker 1: not seen each other since graduation, and I slowly realized,

920
00:51:20,960 --> 00:51:22,680
Speaker 1: with the help of my therapist that my mother in

921
00:51:22,800 --> 00:51:27,280
Speaker 1: law had indeed replaced her husband with her son. Apparently

922
00:51:27,600 --> 00:51:31,080
Speaker 1: it is quite common for this to happen, obviously without

923
00:51:31,120 --> 00:51:35,799
Speaker 1: the intimate part of it. Okay, so essentially she has

924
00:51:35,880 --> 00:51:38,520
Speaker 1: her son and it's like, hey, you are my You

925
00:51:38,520 --> 00:51:40,040
Speaker 1: know you're going to be the provider, You're going to

926
00:51:40,080 --> 00:51:42,840
Speaker 1: be my caregiver. You're going to do all of the

927
00:51:42,960 --> 00:51:47,200
Speaker 1: duties that I want in a husband that is not

928
00:51:47,360 --> 00:51:52,080
Speaker 1: romantic or intimate whatsoever. Basically, which makes sense. Needless to say,

929
00:51:52,080 --> 00:51:54,239
Speaker 1: it was very very strange. I get that it's a

930
00:51:54,320 --> 00:51:56,640
Speaker 1: huge loss for the family, but that just didn't seem

931
00:51:56,680 --> 00:51:59,799
Speaker 1: healthy at all. Yeah, they lived together and at one

932
00:51:59,840 --> 00:52:03,360
Speaker 1: point point they had to move into his older brother's house.

933
00:52:03,800 --> 00:52:06,760
Speaker 1: The house had three living rooms and only two bedrooms.

934
00:52:06,800 --> 00:52:09,400
Speaker 1: Why so many living rooms? The master bedroom was for

935
00:52:09,440 --> 00:52:13,280
Speaker 1: his brother and wife, and the other well that would

936
00:52:13,280 --> 00:52:16,520
Speaker 1: be for their mom. Right, I think the norm here

937
00:52:16,560 --> 00:52:19,280
Speaker 1: would be well, he would end up on the couch

938
00:52:19,520 --> 00:52:22,400
Speaker 1: in one of the three living rooms. Right, No, he

939
00:52:22,560 --> 00:52:29,360
Speaker 1: slept with his mother in the same bed. Just yeah,

940
00:52:29,480 --> 00:52:34,280
Speaker 1: not that that makes it the oh fully not weird.

941
00:52:34,400 --> 00:52:36,919
Speaker 2: But yeah, well what's that Baits hotel?

942
00:52:38,320 --> 00:52:41,960
Speaker 1: Is that what they do? Oh well, yeah, that's a necessity.

943
00:52:42,440 --> 00:52:44,840
Speaker 2: It's a TV show. It was like a mom and

944
00:52:44,920 --> 00:52:47,520
Speaker 2: like a son, and it was kind of I'd never

945
00:52:47,560 --> 00:52:51,280
Speaker 2: seen it, but it always looked weird in the commercials.

946
00:52:52,160 --> 00:52:54,120
Speaker 1: I know exactly what you're talking about. And yes, I

947
00:52:54,120 --> 00:52:56,080
Speaker 1: think I think it is maybe this bas hotel or

948
00:52:56,080 --> 00:52:59,160
Speaker 1: something hotel. He saw up with his mother for almost

949
00:52:59,160 --> 00:53:02,359
Speaker 1: half a year in this same bed. This man would

950
00:53:02,400 --> 00:53:06,279
Speaker 1: wake up with a hard on dong every single day.

951
00:53:07,200 --> 00:53:11,839
Speaker 1: I swear they had zero boundaries. Bates Motel, that's what

952
00:53:11,880 --> 00:53:17,400
Speaker 1: it is. Thank you, Oh my god, this, oh my god. Okay.

953
00:53:17,760 --> 00:53:21,839
Speaker 1: They they eventually moved out to an apartment where they

954
00:53:21,880 --> 00:53:24,680
Speaker 1: each got a bedroom. Thank god, thankfully, op he says

955
00:53:25,040 --> 00:53:28,560
Speaker 1: his mother. His mom needed her hair dyed. He would

956
00:53:28,600 --> 00:53:32,000
Speaker 1: literally cancel dates because he would have because he would

957
00:53:32,000 --> 00:53:36,000
Speaker 1: have to paint his mom's hair that same evening. His

958
00:53:36,080 --> 00:53:38,600
Speaker 1: mom needed company to go to the grocery store. You don't.

959
00:53:38,640 --> 00:53:40,600
Speaker 1: You don't need company to go to the grocery store.

960
00:53:40,840 --> 00:53:43,880
Speaker 1: He dropped everything and go with her anything the mom needed.

961
00:53:43,920 --> 00:53:47,359
Speaker 1: He'd cancel whatever he had going on and go with her.

962
00:53:48,080 --> 00:53:51,080
Speaker 1: They lived together, and he would tell me he couldn't

963
00:53:51,120 --> 00:53:53,960
Speaker 1: spend the weekend with me because he wanted to spend

964
00:53:53,960 --> 00:53:58,319
Speaker 1: time with his mother. After all, she was alone, she

965
00:53:58,400 --> 00:54:02,560
Speaker 1: had three older siblings, one of which lived across the street. Yeah,

966
00:54:02,560 --> 00:54:05,680
Speaker 1: there's there's no one who can spend time with her.

967
00:54:06,080 --> 00:54:10,480
Speaker 1: And it's not like she's asking for an unreasonable amount

968
00:54:10,800 --> 00:54:17,640
Speaker 1: of stuff. Yeah, love Bubble, says, John's brain is saying no, stop.

969
00:54:19,080 --> 00:54:23,440
Speaker 1: That's right. When we started, When we started dating, we

970
00:54:23,520 --> 00:54:25,520
Speaker 1: set up a date to the movies. This was maybe

971
00:54:25,640 --> 00:54:29,040
Speaker 1: one month into the relationship. Girl run hopefully that's where

972
00:54:29,040 --> 00:54:31,800
Speaker 1: this story is leading. I show up at the movies

973
00:54:31,880 --> 00:54:34,799
Speaker 1: and spot him walking up to me. Put an IC

974
00:54:34,880 --> 00:54:36,640
Speaker 1: you in the comments real quick, I see you, I

975
00:54:36,640 --> 00:54:38,880
Speaker 1: see you, I see you. Do we have any ICUs?

976
00:54:39,000 --> 00:54:43,080
Speaker 1: Right before we get to it. I show up at

977
00:54:43,080 --> 00:54:47,280
Speaker 1: the movies and spot him walking up to me, hand

978
00:54:47,480 --> 00:54:54,239
Speaker 1: in hand with his mother to a date. This is

979
00:54:54,280 --> 00:55:02,000
Speaker 1: a grown, a grown ass man do So we go

980
00:55:02,120 --> 00:55:05,600
Speaker 1: into the movies. In the booths, he is in the middle,

981
00:55:06,080 --> 00:55:10,520
Speaker 1: holding my hand with his left and holding his mom's

982
00:55:10,800 --> 00:55:12,960
Speaker 1: hand with his right.

983
00:55:13,760 --> 00:55:16,839
Speaker 2: Are you in? Are you in?

984
00:55:17,440 --> 00:55:21,480
Speaker 1: Are you in? What? Riley? No? Run oh oh, I

985
00:55:21,480 --> 00:55:25,719
Speaker 1: thought you said are you in? I mean, honestly, I

986
00:55:25,760 --> 00:55:28,440
Speaker 1: thought that's what you were saying. Wow, what a what

987
00:55:28,520 --> 00:55:32,279
Speaker 1: an insane double entendre to catch there? My god, I

988
00:55:32,400 --> 00:55:35,880
Speaker 1: swear watching him together, I felt like a third wheel.

989
00:55:36,560 --> 00:55:41,680
Speaker 1: Ooh youw it is right. Anyway, we broke up after

990
00:55:41,719 --> 00:55:45,480
Speaker 1: almost two years. No after he cheated on me with

991
00:55:45,520 --> 00:55:49,240
Speaker 1: a nurse. He was an intern, a waste of time.

992
00:55:49,320 --> 00:55:52,000
Speaker 1: Whoever marries him, be ready to have your mother in

993
00:55:52,120 --> 00:55:55,480
Speaker 1: law live with you, because that is what will happen.

994
00:55:55,760 --> 00:56:00,319
Speaker 1: She'll probably be on your honeymoon. Two ladies that are

995
00:56:00,320 --> 00:56:02,719
Speaker 1: reading this, If he is a mama's boy, you won't

996
00:56:02,800 --> 00:56:05,080
Speaker 1: change him. You will always be second to his mother

997
00:56:05,160 --> 00:56:12,319
Speaker 1: and you will never be a priority. Ever. Also, we're

998
00:56:12,400 --> 00:56:14,120
Speaker 1: literally fifty to fifty split.

999
00:56:14,440 --> 00:56:15,280
Speaker 2: That is insane.

1000
00:56:15,320 --> 00:56:19,759
Speaker 1: That is crazy. People speak up, lurkers. You you have

1001
00:56:20,000 --> 00:56:22,520
Speaker 1: you literally have the power. We have to get a

1002
00:56:23,200 --> 00:56:26,680
Speaker 1: tiebreaker by the end of the story to decide what

1003
00:56:26,719 --> 00:56:30,000
Speaker 1: we're going to do. Ree more paragraphs, the remore paragraphs. Guys,

1004
00:56:30,760 --> 00:56:32,279
Speaker 1: change can we can? We see?

1005
00:56:32,600 --> 00:56:35,840
Speaker 2: Promise you the respin if it lands on one of

1006
00:56:35,880 --> 00:56:37,359
Speaker 2: the other ones will be worth it.

1007
00:56:37,360 --> 00:56:40,160
Speaker 1: It'll be so fun, That's what Riley promises. So do

1008
00:56:40,239 --> 00:56:42,960
Speaker 1: you want to change your vote to two to do respind?

1009
00:56:43,760 --> 00:56:46,720
Speaker 1: Let us know. Let's let's get some swing states in there. Okay,

1010
00:56:46,800 --> 00:56:50,520
Speaker 1: let's let's swing the election. And yes, I should have

1011
00:56:50,640 --> 00:56:52,840
Speaker 1: run for the hills. Everyone in the chat is saying it.

1012
00:56:52,880 --> 00:56:56,160
Speaker 1: I see you, I see you, I see you after

1013
00:56:56,200 --> 00:56:58,319
Speaker 1: that movie date. But love bombing is a real thing.

1014
00:56:58,360 --> 00:57:01,000
Speaker 1: And I remember those rose tending glasses I had on

1015
00:57:01,080 --> 00:57:06,239
Speaker 1: were sick at the time. I was totally convinced he

1016
00:57:06,360 --> 00:57:10,160
Speaker 1: was the one comments Surprise Impossible twenty one says that

1017
00:57:10,320 --> 00:57:13,160
Speaker 1: was wild. This is the bottom of the bearable of

1018
00:57:13,200 --> 00:57:18,760
Speaker 1: available dudes. I guess, loll did you did you? No? Loll?

1019
00:57:18,760 --> 00:57:21,040
Speaker 1: He did you a favor by cheating, so you woke up?

1020
00:57:21,080 --> 00:57:24,440
Speaker 1: Maybe sorry, Op, it should have been it should have

1021
00:57:24,760 --> 00:57:27,160
Speaker 1: been very hard for you. It should have been very

1022
00:57:27,160 --> 00:57:30,160
Speaker 1: hard for you. I don't know what that means. Chemical

1023
00:57:30,360 --> 00:57:34,200
Speaker 1: chemist seventy seventy six says, honestly, glad he cheated. Imagine

1024
00:57:34,200 --> 00:57:36,000
Speaker 1: the world where you got married and had kids. That's

1025
00:57:36,040 --> 00:57:39,520
Speaker 1: been years and years of emotional abuse. Good point, great point.

1026
00:57:39,960 --> 00:57:41,640
Speaker 1: It was sort of like he did you a favor.

1027
00:57:41,680 --> 00:57:44,240
Speaker 1: The best quote I like to use is when he

1028
00:57:44,360 --> 00:57:47,880
Speaker 1: shows you who he is the first time. Listen, the

1029
00:57:47,920 --> 00:57:51,959
Speaker 1: red flags always wave, Dude, The red flags always wave

1030
00:57:52,080 --> 00:57:56,640
Speaker 1: is a bigger and guys, let's let's end the poll.

1031
00:57:57,080 --> 00:57:59,919
Speaker 1: We've just finished the story. Vote changed to a role spend.

1032
00:58:00,920 --> 00:58:01,680
Speaker 2: That's crazy.

1033
00:58:02,360 --> 00:58:04,440
Speaker 1: Just changed to a respind.

1034
00:58:04,080 --> 00:58:05,640
Speaker 2: Lady did the thing?

1035
00:58:06,000 --> 00:58:08,760
Speaker 1: Lurkers say they did the thing, and we are we

1036
00:58:08,840 --> 00:58:12,880
Speaker 1: are absolutely locking in. Uh shin Valley. Mama was one

1037
00:58:12,920 --> 00:58:16,000
Speaker 1: of the respinners, so uh let's do it. Let's close

1038
00:58:16,040 --> 00:58:18,200
Speaker 1: it out and lock it in with the give her

1039
00:58:18,240 --> 00:58:18,680
Speaker 1: a whirl.

1040
00:58:18,880 --> 00:58:20,720
Speaker 2: But yeah, I'm glad you ran.

1041
00:58:20,960 --> 00:58:21,240
Speaker 1: Op.

1042
00:58:21,720 --> 00:58:25,320
Speaker 2: That's that's crazy. Also, if you have update, what is

1043
00:58:25,360 --> 00:58:26,480
Speaker 2: that guy up to now? Oh?

1044
00:58:26,560 --> 00:58:29,680
Speaker 1: Please please update this guys, keep keep the stories coming.

1045
00:58:29,720 --> 00:58:33,680
Speaker 1: We want to get we we again our slash okay okay, okay,

1046
00:58:33,680 --> 00:58:36,040
Speaker 1: op show we got shut down. We were we were

1047
00:58:36,080 --> 00:58:38,040
Speaker 1: out of the count for a bit. We want to

1048
00:58:38,080 --> 00:58:40,880
Speaker 1: come back to reading all of your stories. That's our

1049
00:58:41,240 --> 00:58:44,720
Speaker 1: dream scenario is we only read your story. So members

1050
00:58:45,000 --> 00:58:47,000
Speaker 1: send them in so we can get get that that

1051
00:58:47,160 --> 00:58:49,440
Speaker 1: nice flow back. We had a nice little flow going on.

1052
00:58:49,560 --> 00:58:53,000
Speaker 1: So please please real quick, right before you do it,

1053
00:58:54,080 --> 00:58:56,360
Speaker 1: I want to read Matt Hadagal's comment and discuss a

1054
00:58:56,400 --> 00:58:59,000
Speaker 1: little bit more. Matt had a goll things but at

1055
00:58:59,000 --> 00:59:01,560
Speaker 1: twenty bucks. It's funny how you guys are reading this story.

1056
00:59:01,600 --> 00:59:04,320
Speaker 1: I was telling you, mister hatter, that I am happy

1057
00:59:04,320 --> 00:59:06,400
Speaker 1: to have a mother in law that is not that

1058
00:59:06,480 --> 00:59:09,240
Speaker 1: does not stick or nose uh into our business and

1059
00:59:09,280 --> 00:59:13,280
Speaker 1: believes in boundaries. Never date a mama's boy. I never

1060
00:59:13,360 --> 00:59:15,520
Speaker 1: kind of like thought of the perils of dating, like

1061
00:59:15,600 --> 00:59:19,680
Speaker 1: the the the dangerous toxic mama boy archetype where he

1062
00:59:19,840 --> 00:59:22,480
Speaker 1: like like he treats only his mom great and all

1063
00:59:22,520 --> 00:59:27,919
Speaker 1: other women terribly even date dude, you know, just why

1064
00:59:27,960 --> 00:59:31,439
Speaker 1: with women? You know, just like, hey, listen, you hate

1065
00:59:31,440 --> 00:59:33,000
Speaker 1: women so much? Why don't why do you? Why don't

1066
00:59:33,040 --> 00:59:37,400
Speaker 1: you there's an alternative? Yeah, guys, we have options, we

1067
00:59:37,440 --> 00:59:40,200
Speaker 1: have options, we have options. But yeah, so just to

1068
00:59:40,360 --> 00:59:43,240
Speaker 1: just to close out, guys, I said, okop show because

1069
00:59:43,240 --> 00:59:45,640
Speaker 1: it was our slash O Kop show was closed out

1070
00:59:45,680 --> 00:59:50,200
Speaker 1: to be fair, uh, Denise uh Bradenberg Bras says, celebrating

1071
00:59:50,240 --> 00:59:53,400
Speaker 1: three months of membership. I love okay, storytime, Denise. Can

1072
00:59:53,440 --> 00:59:58,960
Speaker 1: I be honest, same same freaking same same bro. But yeah,

1073
00:59:59,000 --> 01:00:03,080
Speaker 1: let's just to quickly close this out. Yeah, Opie, it's

1074
01:00:03,160 --> 01:00:07,520
Speaker 1: just an unfortunate circumstance of you get love bomb to end.

1075
01:00:07,520 --> 01:00:12,680
Speaker 1: You're in a relationship and you know you you high

1076
01:00:12,800 --> 01:00:15,480
Speaker 1: Only hindsight is only twenty twenty, so Opie now knows.

1077
01:00:15,520 --> 01:00:18,240
Speaker 1: Opie's now out of the relationship. All all's well, that

1078
01:00:18,400 --> 01:00:21,240
Speaker 1: ends well, she got out and doesn't have any kids

1079
01:00:21,440 --> 01:00:26,160
Speaker 1: or uh didn't didn't have to get a divorce act.

1080
01:00:26,520 --> 01:00:28,880
Speaker 1: So there we go. All right, Riley, here we go. Yes,

1081
01:00:28,920 --> 01:00:31,600
Speaker 1: we're giving it to you. He's like a dog that

1082
01:00:31,680 --> 01:00:35,680
Speaker 1: couldn't wait. He's like, right, all right, Respin, It's okay, Respin.

1083
01:00:38,160 --> 01:00:40,320
Speaker 1: I think that people want something else other than.

1084
01:00:40,320 --> 01:00:46,360
Speaker 2: Oh not Shepherd, No, oh would you rather?

1085
01:00:48,200 --> 01:00:51,880
Speaker 1: Okay, that was the most rigged I've ever seen. What

1086
01:00:51,880 --> 01:00:52,360
Speaker 1: what do you mean?

1087
01:00:52,520 --> 01:00:52,680
Speaker 2: All?

1088
01:00:52,720 --> 01:00:54,600
Speaker 1: Allow it? All? Allow? What do you got?

1089
01:00:55,240 --> 01:00:58,439
Speaker 2: Thank goodness? Okay, okay, okay, I really want to.

1090
01:00:58,120 --> 01:01:01,800
Speaker 1: Do the bill. Conk says at Riley. You heard the people,

1091
01:01:02,280 --> 01:01:03,480
Speaker 1: and we answered.

1092
01:01:03,960 --> 01:01:06,320
Speaker 2: We answered one second. Keep reading the comments. I gotta

1093
01:01:06,360 --> 01:01:07,080
Speaker 2: get all right.

1094
01:01:07,680 --> 01:01:09,400
Speaker 1: The tom that says it sounds like the X was

1095
01:01:09,440 --> 01:01:13,320
Speaker 1: a victim of emotional incest. It's extremely damaging, dude. I've

1096
01:01:13,360 --> 01:01:16,760
Speaker 1: never I've actually never heard that term before. That's I've

1097
01:01:16,800 --> 01:01:19,840
Speaker 1: only heard of this the full package, you know, the

1098
01:01:20,080 --> 01:01:26,480
Speaker 1: the all that and the bag of chips. But but yeah.

1099
01:01:26,160 --> 01:01:31,880
Speaker 2: But yeah, almost there. Sorry, guys, I rigged it. I

1100
01:01:31,960 --> 01:01:33,240
Speaker 2: just I've really spent a lot.

1101
01:01:33,320 --> 01:01:38,400
Speaker 1: Everyone's like, twenty minutes now, twenty minutes. OMG, viola, omg.

1102
01:01:38,560 --> 01:01:41,080
Speaker 1: Riley so rigged, so rigged.

1103
01:01:41,120 --> 01:01:43,919
Speaker 2: It's gonna be worth it, I promise Stella bog Felt.

1104
01:01:43,920 --> 01:01:47,680
Speaker 1: Twenty minutes. Okay, okay, leel we wont the twitter minutes. Okay,

1105
01:01:47,680 --> 01:01:50,200
Speaker 1: we're gonna We're gonna go. Riley rigged it, but I'll

1106
01:01:50,200 --> 01:01:52,680
Speaker 1: give it to him. Guys, Okay, it's gonna be worth it. Okay,

1107
01:01:52,760 --> 01:01:55,800
Speaker 1: let's talk a right. This is called the would you rather? Okay,

1108
01:01:55,840 --> 01:01:58,880
Speaker 1: where I asked John and everyone else, would you rather?

1109
01:02:00,000 --> 01:02:00,560
Speaker 2: How are we doing?

1110
01:02:00,640 --> 01:02:03,720
Speaker 1: Poll? And host answer yeah, oh that's fire. Let me

1111
01:02:03,720 --> 01:02:05,720
Speaker 1: get the poll set up. So go ahead, go ahead,

1112
01:02:06,520 --> 01:02:07,320
Speaker 1: I'll talk to the people.

1113
01:02:07,320 --> 01:02:09,919
Speaker 2: One will be red and you guys can go through

1114
01:02:10,000 --> 01:02:13,080
Speaker 2: each time and and like change it.

1115
01:02:13,000 --> 01:02:16,520
Speaker 1: So you guys have to like, right, yeah, well you

1116
01:02:16,600 --> 01:02:19,080
Speaker 1: will refresh it. Yeah, it'll refresh it. So one is

1117
01:02:19,080 --> 01:02:20,680
Speaker 1: read and two is blue. Yeah. Blue.

1118
01:02:20,720 --> 01:02:23,200
Speaker 2: So I want to play this with you guys, stay

1119
01:02:23,280 --> 01:02:31,160
Speaker 2: full stave and then start. Okay, all right, here we go.

1120
01:02:31,920 --> 01:02:37,040
Speaker 2: Here we freaking go. Question, would you rather fight one

1121
01:02:37,120 --> 01:02:40,720
Speaker 2: hundred tenth graders or two hundred and sixth graders the

1122
01:02:40,760 --> 01:02:43,080
Speaker 2: only weapons you have or anything you would find during

1123
01:02:43,120 --> 01:02:44,400
Speaker 2: the medieval times?

1124
01:02:44,640 --> 01:02:46,280
Speaker 1: Okay? So I have a weapon for the medieval time

1125
01:02:46,360 --> 01:02:46,640
Speaker 1: and it has.

1126
01:02:46,640 --> 01:02:49,320
Speaker 2: To be like melee. It can't be like bon and arrows.

1127
01:02:49,360 --> 01:02:51,320
Speaker 2: Well yeah, actually you can't be bone arrows and stuff.

1128
01:02:51,320 --> 01:02:52,560
Speaker 2: But which one would you rather fight?

1129
01:02:52,920 --> 01:02:58,720
Speaker 1: One hundred tenth graders or two hundreds sixth graders? Okay?

1130
01:02:58,720 --> 01:03:01,040
Speaker 1: So here's the thing. So Ryley recently told me that

1131
01:03:01,520 --> 01:03:07,480
Speaker 1: Lebron's uh not Bronni but h Bryce Bryce already six

1132
01:03:08,200 --> 01:03:10,000
Speaker 1: seven or something?

1133
01:03:10,280 --> 01:03:12,400
Speaker 2: Yeah yet Yeah.

1134
01:03:11,840 --> 01:03:15,040
Speaker 1: So a tenth grader, that's a that's a fifteen, sixteen

1135
01:03:15,080 --> 01:03:19,040
Speaker 1: year old person. A tenth grader can be six foot seven, guys,

1136
01:03:19,520 --> 01:03:23,760
Speaker 1: News flash, I am not six foot seven. I am

1137
01:03:23,840 --> 01:03:27,480
Speaker 1: far from it. I'm like five eleven at best, like

1138
01:03:27,600 --> 01:03:32,080
Speaker 1: really five ten and and some change, so without choosing

1139
01:03:32,120 --> 01:03:35,200
Speaker 1: all that. So I'm gonna go and I can get

1140
01:03:35,240 --> 01:03:39,600
Speaker 1: a I think if I get like a good uh

1141
01:03:39,760 --> 01:03:43,600
Speaker 1: you know, mace. I've been watching a Game of Thrones.

1142
01:03:44,200 --> 01:03:47,400
Speaker 1: Ooh yeah, as you know, me and me and Ima

1143
01:03:47,480 --> 01:03:49,240
Speaker 1: we were away so we like watched the shows that

1144
01:03:49,280 --> 01:03:51,760
Speaker 1: the each the other person isn't interested in. That's our

1145
01:03:51,880 --> 01:03:55,320
Speaker 1: like time to uh to dig intto those. So that's

1146
01:03:55,320 --> 01:03:58,560
Speaker 1: been fun. But I think I could get like a mace.

1147
01:03:58,400 --> 01:04:01,960
Speaker 2: Or yeah because extrators or is my little brother sawyer

1148
01:04:02,720 --> 01:04:04,840
Speaker 2: like I feel like it kind of Domino style, just

1149
01:04:04,840 --> 01:04:07,200
Speaker 2: like you know, so lock it in.

1150
01:04:07,320 --> 01:04:09,680
Speaker 1: I'm gonna go blue. Let's say blue, and everyone else

1151
01:04:09,720 --> 01:04:10,840
Speaker 1: is everyone else's blue?

1152
01:04:10,880 --> 01:04:12,880
Speaker 2: So heck yuh let's go everyone all right, all right,

1153
01:04:12,920 --> 01:04:16,560
Speaker 2: here we go. Next one, Uh wash your hands all

1154
01:04:16,640 --> 01:04:20,120
Speaker 2: day and stay at home or literally think die.

1155
01:04:21,000 --> 01:04:25,520
Speaker 1: I would literally rather do anything than that. I mean, Riley,

1156
01:04:25,560 --> 01:04:27,600
Speaker 1: you just described my entire week last week.

1157
01:04:29,240 --> 01:04:31,120
Speaker 2: Would you rather die than to do all that?

1158
01:04:31,480 --> 01:04:31,960
Speaker 1: Uh? You?

1159
01:04:32,280 --> 01:04:34,240
Speaker 2: That's all you can do is stay at home, wash

1160
01:04:34,240 --> 01:04:38,160
Speaker 2: your hands all day? Oh die? Okay, only two options?

1161
01:04:38,360 --> 01:04:40,920
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, god, this is a little bit uh, this

1162
01:04:41,000 --> 01:04:43,800
Speaker 1: is a little bit of trigger warning. Air uh. So,

1163
01:04:44,280 --> 01:04:48,000
Speaker 1: literally all you can do is wash your hands and

1164
01:04:48,120 --> 01:04:55,040
Speaker 1: be at home. Yeah, but like even being at home outside,

1165
01:04:55,200 --> 01:05:02,400
Speaker 1: I'm like, hmm, that's I'll admit. You are throwing me

1166
01:05:02,440 --> 01:05:05,560
Speaker 1: for a loop here, and I think Chat is feeling

1167
01:05:05,640 --> 01:05:09,240
Speaker 1: the uh everyone's saying red the indecision. Yeah, we do

1168
01:05:10,120 --> 01:05:10,800
Speaker 1: wash your hands.

1169
01:05:10,600 --> 01:05:12,959
Speaker 2: And stay home. Well, the fairness is like, you guys

1170
01:05:13,000 --> 01:05:14,960
Speaker 2: get to watch us too. I guess if you're at

1171
01:05:15,000 --> 01:05:16,240
Speaker 2: home washing your hands.

1172
01:05:17,400 --> 01:05:20,600
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, I think you know, and people do all

1173
01:05:20,600 --> 01:05:25,160
Speaker 1: these stupid like whatever, like hypotheticals or like workarounds. I

1174
01:05:25,400 --> 01:05:28,919
Speaker 1: I I stay true to the sport, and I'm like, Okay,

1175
01:05:28,920 --> 01:05:36,200
Speaker 1: I'm only washing my hands and stuff. But you know, honestly,

1176
01:05:38,560 --> 01:05:40,640
Speaker 1: if we're really thinking about it, it is kind of similar

1177
01:05:40,680 --> 01:05:42,440
Speaker 1: to just like would you rather be locked in a

1178
01:05:42,520 --> 01:05:45,280
Speaker 1: in a big white box, you know, and literally be

1179
01:05:45,320 --> 01:05:48,680
Speaker 1: able to do nothing but sit for the rest of

1180
01:05:48,720 --> 01:05:51,600
Speaker 1: your life, or would you rather like maybe move on

1181
01:05:51,680 --> 01:05:56,560
Speaker 1: to another life. Yeah, I as morbid as it is.

1182
01:05:56,880 --> 01:05:59,640
Speaker 1: I think I'm actually gonna take I'm gonna roll the dice.

1183
01:06:00,120 --> 01:06:02,360
Speaker 2: Are you rolling the dice on blue? You're bluing?

1184
01:06:02,920 --> 01:06:06,720
Speaker 1: I think, like, yeah, I hate washing my hands, Like

1185
01:06:07,240 --> 01:06:11,240
Speaker 1: it's not like washing the hands. It's just like it's

1186
01:06:11,240 --> 01:06:12,760
Speaker 1: better than sitting in a white box.

1187
01:06:13,640 --> 01:06:15,600
Speaker 2: But I wash my hands want I need to, but

1188
01:06:15,720 --> 01:06:17,640
Speaker 2: like all the time.

1189
01:06:17,840 --> 01:06:21,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's too much anyways, okay, cool and and so

1190
01:06:21,440 --> 01:06:24,440
Speaker 1: me and chat disagree. Chat Chat says, stay at home,

1191
01:06:24,520 --> 01:06:25,080
Speaker 1: wash hands.

1192
01:06:25,040 --> 01:06:28,640
Speaker 2: Right, all right? Next one one for two okay, get

1193
01:06:28,640 --> 01:06:31,680
Speaker 2: two million dollars right now? Or get ten k a month?

1194
01:06:32,760 --> 01:06:33,520
Speaker 1: Blue? Easy?

1195
01:06:33,760 --> 01:06:34,200
Speaker 2: Blue?

1196
01:06:34,400 --> 01:06:34,760
Speaker 1: Easy?

1197
01:06:34,880 --> 01:06:37,320
Speaker 2: Okay. But if you think about it, you know how

1198
01:06:37,320 --> 01:06:39,480
Speaker 2: many how many months would have to pass in order

1199
01:06:39,480 --> 01:06:41,120
Speaker 2: for you to get two million dollars?

1200
01:06:41,880 --> 01:06:44,080
Speaker 1: See I just didn't. I just blindly didn't do the math.

1201
01:06:44,280 --> 01:06:46,560
Speaker 2: But I understand your cash flow answer.

1202
01:06:46,320 --> 01:06:49,200
Speaker 1: Cause yeah, yeah, like the money like or it's like, uh,

1203
01:06:49,440 --> 01:06:52,600
Speaker 1: I would rather take the long term you know, it's

1204
01:06:52,640 --> 01:06:56,840
Speaker 1: like the long term investment versus Yeah. So yeah, two

1205
01:06:56,880 --> 01:07:01,600
Speaker 1: million divided by ten thousand than is two hundred months,

1206
01:07:01,640 --> 01:07:09,680
Speaker 1: which is sixteen years. So my I might change my

1207
01:07:09,720 --> 01:07:12,280
Speaker 1: answer only because honestly, sixteen years could work.

1208
01:07:12,880 --> 01:07:14,240
Speaker 2: But are you gonna last that long?

1209
01:07:15,720 --> 01:07:18,960
Speaker 1: Listen, buddy, I want to talk about uh now, I'm

1210
01:07:18,960 --> 01:07:23,800
Speaker 1: just kidding, but two million times point even, let's go,

1211
01:07:24,600 --> 01:07:29,960
Speaker 1: let's go for four percent. So if if we just

1212
01:07:30,000 --> 01:07:32,080
Speaker 1: got four percent interest. If we just put all of

1213
01:07:32,080 --> 01:07:36,320
Speaker 1: this into just like index funds, Yeah, straight straight, boring

1214
01:07:36,400 --> 01:07:40,360
Speaker 1: blase A stocks and bonds, four percent a year would

1215
01:07:40,360 --> 01:07:44,000
Speaker 1: be eighty grand a year, which is almost ten k

1216
01:07:44,160 --> 01:07:47,920
Speaker 1: a month. Yeah, I think I think for me, I

1217
01:07:47,960 --> 01:07:52,760
Speaker 1: would do red and do two million because I'm able

1218
01:07:52,800 --> 01:07:56,120
Speaker 1: to actually be money ahead. But I think generally speaking

1219
01:07:56,720 --> 01:08:00,400
Speaker 1: for the human population, it is more dangerous to get

1220
01:08:00,400 --> 01:08:03,200
Speaker 1: the two million because you're more at risk of blowing it,

1221
01:08:03,280 --> 01:08:05,960
Speaker 1: and like maybe even like a lot of rich people

1222
01:08:06,000 --> 01:08:08,920
Speaker 1: go into debt because they're so used to throwing money around,

1223
01:08:09,480 --> 01:08:12,240
Speaker 1: they get into a ton of debt. So I think

1224
01:08:12,280 --> 01:08:14,800
Speaker 1: I would take red red, yeah, because then I can

1225
01:08:14,840 --> 01:08:19,160
Speaker 1: get you're telling me minimum eighty grand a year, yeah interest,

1226
01:08:19,840 --> 01:08:22,800
Speaker 1: Whereas like I, you can't get anywhere. It would take

1227
01:08:22,920 --> 01:08:24,799
Speaker 1: so long with ten k a month to get anywhere

1228
01:08:24,800 --> 01:08:27,040
Speaker 1: close to that on interest not worth it, So you're

1229
01:08:27,080 --> 01:08:29,839
Speaker 1: going red red, locked in out. Honestly, I do Blue.

1230
01:08:29,960 --> 01:08:31,640
Speaker 2: I mean two million would be nice right now, but

1231
01:08:31,680 --> 01:08:34,360
Speaker 2: I don't have anything really invest at this age. I

1232
01:08:34,400 --> 01:08:36,000
Speaker 2: don't think i'd make a smart decision.

1233
01:08:36,160 --> 01:08:38,599
Speaker 1: Yeah, you're like, let me save myself from myself. Yeah,

1234
01:08:38,600 --> 01:08:39,920
Speaker 1: the ten k you're like.

1235
01:08:39,920 --> 01:08:42,640
Speaker 2: Insured insured a month and then I'm good and then

1236
01:08:42,680 --> 01:08:45,920
Speaker 2: I can still work and you know, yeah out there, Yeah, okay, cool,

1237
01:08:46,640 --> 01:08:49,360
Speaker 2: next one, have your flat canceled or get.

1238
01:08:49,160 --> 01:08:55,240
Speaker 1: COVID easiest easiest question of all time. Red, don't even have.

1239
01:08:55,160 --> 01:08:59,679
Speaker 2: To hear about it, dude, I don't know, Like, okay, okay, okay,

1240
01:09:00,080 --> 01:09:01,680
Speaker 2: Let's say you had COVID, but you were with your

1241
01:09:01,720 --> 01:09:04,840
Speaker 2: girlfriend and the cat, and what you were with your

1242
01:09:04,840 --> 01:09:06,840
Speaker 2: girlfriend and the cat and the cat.

1243
01:09:08,720 --> 01:09:10,840
Speaker 1: I would I would I would rather have the flight cancel.

1244
01:09:11,040 --> 01:09:13,920
Speaker 2: Really, I would if I if I had my girlfriend

1245
01:09:13,960 --> 01:09:16,160
Speaker 2: and got COVID and I was like stuck with her

1246
01:09:16,360 --> 01:09:18,320
Speaker 2: and I'd just watch movies all. I would rather have

1247
01:09:18,400 --> 01:09:21,360
Speaker 2: get COVID then get my flight canceled. I hated getting

1248
01:09:21,360 --> 01:09:27,200
Speaker 2: my fuck Okay, imagine driving an hour to Charlotte and

1249
01:09:27,240 --> 01:09:30,080
Speaker 2: then you get there and then flight's canceled after waiting,

1250
01:09:30,360 --> 01:09:32,200
Speaker 2: and then you have to ask your poor mother to

1251
01:09:32,280 --> 01:09:34,519
Speaker 2: drive you back forty five minutes and get you back

1252
01:09:34,520 --> 01:09:36,880
Speaker 2: to the airport. And the next day and drive an

1253
01:09:36,880 --> 01:09:38,479
Speaker 2: hour and a half to the airport or left at

1254
01:09:38,560 --> 01:09:40,680
Speaker 2: like two am and left it, yeah, and left that

1255
01:09:41,640 --> 01:09:42,880
Speaker 2: and I have to get back on the road at

1256
01:09:42,960 --> 01:09:44,840
Speaker 2: nine am and ask your mom please get you do

1257
01:09:44,880 --> 01:09:46,920
Speaker 2: this and then get there, get on a flight. Twenty

1258
01:09:46,960 --> 01:09:48,479
Speaker 2: minutes into the flight in the air, they say, hey,

1259
01:09:48,520 --> 01:09:51,320
Speaker 2: we got to turn this bad boy around land. And

1260
01:09:51,360 --> 01:09:55,640
Speaker 2: then you have to wait another like five hours to

1261
01:09:55,680 --> 01:09:58,160
Speaker 2: get on the next flight out of there, and then

1262
01:09:58,360 --> 01:10:00,680
Speaker 2: you're just you get back at eleven whenever you told

1263
01:10:00,680 --> 01:10:02,480
Speaker 2: your girlfriend to get there at six pm.

1264
01:10:02,760 --> 01:10:05,040
Speaker 1: Here's the problem, Riley, you and I have both gone

1265
01:10:05,120 --> 01:10:09,240
Speaker 1: through extremely recent experiences on opposite ends of the Oh yeah, back,

1266
01:10:09,720 --> 01:10:11,559
Speaker 1: so we we are just going to vote for our

1267
01:10:11,600 --> 01:10:13,080
Speaker 1: most recent terrible experience.

1268
01:10:13,439 --> 01:10:15,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'd rather, I'd rather get COVID.

1269
01:10:15,400 --> 01:10:18,400
Speaker 1: And chat chat is literally completely split here. Wow, you

1270
01:10:18,439 --> 01:10:22,120
Speaker 1: guys don't even almost exactly. Holy can that's so funny. Yeah,

1271
01:10:22,160 --> 01:10:25,639
Speaker 1: because I just hated asking my mom to It's that's

1272
01:10:25,880 --> 01:10:29,559
Speaker 1: I mean, sucks, sucks. But yeah, I'm going right, you're

1273
01:10:29,600 --> 01:10:30,479
Speaker 1: going You're going blue?

1274
01:10:30,840 --> 01:10:34,559
Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, yep, yep, all right. Here's the next one. Uh,

1275
01:10:34,600 --> 01:10:37,920
Speaker 2: freeze time for thirty seconds once per day, or rewind

1276
01:10:38,080 --> 01:10:41,639
Speaker 2: time thirty seconds once per day. You get to freeze

1277
01:10:41,640 --> 01:10:48,520
Speaker 2: it or you can go you do hmmm, thirty seconds

1278
01:10:48,760 --> 01:10:50,160
Speaker 2: only thirty seconds.

1279
01:10:50,640 --> 01:10:56,120
Speaker 1: And it's both one time per day. I think rewind

1280
01:10:56,400 --> 01:10:59,960
Speaker 1: because then you're able to, like if, for instance, if

1281
01:11:00,040 --> 01:11:02,360
Speaker 1: you're ever like wow, I said something that I like

1282
01:11:02,479 --> 01:11:05,519
Speaker 1: so regret and like, oh man, that was so mean,

1283
01:11:05,680 --> 01:11:09,400
Speaker 1: Like oh, I'm talking to my girlfriend frustrated and I'm like,

1284
01:11:09,439 --> 01:11:12,080
Speaker 1: oh that, I'm like that was disgusting. Why did I

1285
01:11:12,120 --> 01:11:12,599
Speaker 1: just say that?

1286
01:11:12,720 --> 01:11:13,120
Speaker 2: Yeah?

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01:11:13,320 --> 01:11:17,519
Speaker 1: Rewind, erase it and say and say something loving instead. Uh,

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Speaker 1: you you send an email. I don't know. I'm just

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Speaker 1: trying to I'm trying to think about it.

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Speaker 2: You can go back on so I feel like you

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01:11:25,200 --> 01:11:28,559
Speaker 2: can gamble more if you rewind thirty seconds per day.

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01:11:28,640 --> 01:11:30,400
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I was trying to think. I was like,

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Speaker 1: what's the financial because if you could, if you could

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01:11:32,760 --> 01:11:34,400
Speaker 1: go back in time, the easy thing is like, oh,

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01:11:34,560 --> 01:11:37,559
Speaker 1: just like pick stocks that win. You could you could

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01:11:37,600 --> 01:11:40,760
Speaker 1: create some sort of alert that's like maybe you have

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01:11:40,880 --> 01:11:45,200
Speaker 1: like a ten second stock alert and then it's like boom,

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01:11:45,240 --> 01:11:47,280
Speaker 1: it went up, and then you go thirty seconds in time,

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Speaker 1: buy a bunch of the stock, and then just like

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Speaker 1: release it thirty seconds later. I feel it annoying, but

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Speaker 1: I feel like you could probably figure out something with that. Honestly,

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01:11:58,760 --> 01:12:01,360
Speaker 1: just gambling gambling, you could kill just go to the

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01:12:01,360 --> 01:12:04,120
Speaker 1: casino and you just like the problem is once.

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01:12:04,920 --> 01:12:06,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's tricky, once per day, once per day.

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Speaker 1: But it's a lock on rewind for me, it's blue blue,

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01:12:09,600 --> 01:12:10,960
Speaker 1: but like you can.

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01:12:10,840 --> 01:12:13,280
Speaker 2: Steal stuff that you can get it just right.

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01:12:13,360 --> 01:12:16,759
Speaker 1: Still, I see, I don't care about stealing stuff. Yeah,

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01:12:16,800 --> 01:12:19,640
Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm like, I like as much as I

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01:12:19,720 --> 01:12:23,640
Speaker 1: love stealing stuff, which we've talked about on the show,

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Speaker 1: I'm I'm still gonna go rewind.

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01:12:26,120 --> 01:12:28,919
Speaker 2: All right, rewind it is got two more left, guys.

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01:12:29,200 --> 01:12:31,720
Speaker 2: All right, have a ghost cook for you every day?

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01:12:31,840 --> 01:12:35,559
Speaker 2: Or have a ghost clean your house every day? Oh dude, hook,

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01:12:35,840 --> 01:12:36,639
Speaker 2: hook same.

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Speaker 1: I feel like I feel like cooking is way more

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01:12:38,760 --> 01:12:41,719
Speaker 1: of a mental chore than cleaning is. I actually started

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01:12:41,920 --> 01:12:43,600
Speaker 1: while Naymo was gone. I had nothing to do. I

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01:12:43,680 --> 01:12:47,559
Speaker 1: just started vacuuming almost every day really, and mopping almost

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Speaker 1: every day. Oh yeah, hold on, hold on, let's see

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01:12:51,200 --> 01:12:53,720
Speaker 1: what you guys saw. We're both red. But let's see

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Speaker 1: what you guys say.

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Speaker 2: Okay, cool, Yeah, I would say, honest, register, I would

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01:13:03,800 --> 01:13:06,439
Speaker 2: say if now, if I had kids, I would want

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Speaker 2: a ghost to clean my house.

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Speaker 1: Ooh that's dude, what a great caveat.

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01:13:10,840 --> 01:13:12,920
Speaker 2: So honestly, I would pick the ghost to clean my

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01:13:12,960 --> 01:13:15,280
Speaker 2: house every day now so that later on I don't

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Speaker 2: have to clean because I do right now, me two

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01:13:18,400 --> 01:13:20,840
Speaker 2: year old me, I'd be like, yo, ghost, I need

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01:13:21,000 --> 01:13:24,040
Speaker 2: one hundred and fifty grams of protein every day. Get

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01:13:24,120 --> 01:13:28,160
Speaker 2: after it. Yeah, but I mean longevity wise, I clean

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Speaker 2: the house every day.

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Speaker 1: Interesting, I think I'm still going with cooking cooking.

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Speaker 2: Okay, cool, cool, cool?

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01:13:33,280 --> 01:13:33,640
Speaker 1: All right?

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Speaker 2: The last one, no internet or no electricity?

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Speaker 1: Oh dude, m the only tricky part is how do

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01:13:41,600 --> 01:13:45,200
Speaker 1: you have uh internet without electricity?

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01:13:45,880 --> 01:13:49,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, but like it's sort of like I have electricity,

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01:13:49,280 --> 01:13:53,800
Speaker 2: but I have no internet so it's pointless or well yeah, yeah,

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01:13:53,800 --> 01:13:55,800
Speaker 2: this was actually a dumb question. I don't know why.

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01:13:55,960 --> 01:13:57,519
Speaker 2: I saw this somewhere and I was.

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01:13:57,479 --> 01:13:59,920
Speaker 1: Like, yeah, I think, yeah, I guess I'll go no

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01:14:00,600 --> 01:14:03,559
Speaker 1: internet so I can have all electricity electricity yeah, versus

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01:14:03,560 --> 01:14:05,880
Speaker 1: like no electricity you have nothing or.

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01:14:05,840 --> 01:14:08,479
Speaker 2: Like internet or oh here to this here decision. Okay,

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01:14:08,520 --> 01:14:11,240
Speaker 2: you have the generator that is solar powered, but that

1349
01:14:11,360 --> 01:14:12,840
Speaker 2: is the only electricity you get.

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01:14:14,000 --> 01:14:18,320
Speaker 1: So right, I could I could either only electrically power

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01:14:18,400 --> 01:14:22,679
Speaker 1: my internet, or I could have electricity for everything but Internet.

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01:14:22,840 --> 01:14:25,640
Speaker 2: Yep, but you have that generator and you would have

1353
01:14:25,680 --> 01:14:27,080
Speaker 2: to do it through solar power and you only get

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01:14:27,120 --> 01:14:28,040
Speaker 2: a limited amount of time.

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01:14:29,880 --> 01:14:32,280
Speaker 1: Well, it's not like I feel I feel like a

1356
01:14:32,320 --> 01:14:35,280
Speaker 1: good scenario is like you either get unlimited electricity for

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01:14:35,320 --> 01:14:39,000
Speaker 1: everything else or unlimited electricity only for Internet and you

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01:14:39,000 --> 01:14:40,960
Speaker 1: don't get electricity for literally any.

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01:14:40,800 --> 01:14:44,000
Speaker 2: Other Oh right, bank drive anywhere? Okay, Okay, I like

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01:14:44,040 --> 01:14:44,360
Speaker 2: that better?

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01:14:44,479 --> 01:14:46,960
Speaker 1: Or maybe not. I mean driving is gas. Actually driving

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01:14:47,000 --> 01:14:51,640
Speaker 1: is gas for you and I at least so honestly.

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01:14:52,120 --> 01:14:56,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think electricity.

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01:14:56,680 --> 01:14:58,280
Speaker 1: I think I might know. I think I might go

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01:14:58,479 --> 01:15:00,720
Speaker 1: or sorry, yeah, I might go. No electric city. So

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01:15:00,800 --> 01:15:03,040
Speaker 1: I can still have internet, I can still drive. I

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01:15:03,080 --> 01:15:06,479
Speaker 1: can still you know, I can still drive to a

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01:15:06,960 --> 01:15:09,920
Speaker 1: to a restaurant and whatever else or like I don't know,

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01:15:10,040 --> 01:15:11,960
Speaker 1: cook with the sun. I don't know. I could. I

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01:15:12,000 --> 01:15:14,200
Speaker 1: could figure it out. I could figure it out. I

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Speaker 1: want the Internet, So the Internet.

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Speaker 2: I'm going blue, blue saying blue. It looks like everyone

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01:15:19,360 --> 01:15:22,720
Speaker 2: else did, right, Yeah, that was that's what I made.

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01:15:22,760 --> 01:15:24,240
Speaker 2: I said a lot of time doing that.

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Speaker 1: That's fun.

1376
01:15:24,840 --> 01:15:25,559
Speaker 2: I'm glad that was fun.

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01:15:25,680 --> 01:15:28,439
Speaker 1: Love it, Love it, dude, guys. W's in the chat

1378
01:15:28,479 --> 01:15:32,880
Speaker 1: for Riley and his incredible wheel Spins Producer of the

1379
01:15:32,920 --> 01:15:37,200
Speaker 1: Decade a year but award. But guys, I have some

1380
01:15:37,280 --> 01:15:37,840
Speaker 1: sad news.

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01:15:38,000 --> 01:15:39,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, really sad news.

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01:15:39,320 --> 01:15:39,720
Speaker 1: That's it.

1383
01:15:40,280 --> 01:15:40,840
Speaker 2: That's all we got.

1384
01:15:40,920 --> 01:15:43,880
Speaker 1: That's that's all we got, folks. So if you love us,

1385
01:15:44,040 --> 01:15:47,320
Speaker 1: make sure to subscribe. We love you and see it tomorrow.

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