1 00:00:00,040 --> 00:00:02,520 Speaker 1: Buckle up and hold on tight. We got it for you, 2 00:00:02,920 --> 00:00:10,120 Speaker 1: the strawberry. You're a little too excited, all right, subject 3 00:00:10,160 --> 00:00:13,280 Speaker 1: manaja na All right, Dear Stephen Shirley, my husband and 4 00:00:13,320 --> 00:00:16,040 Speaker 1: I need your help. We this is in the letter. 5 00:00:16,280 --> 00:00:21,919 Speaker 1: We want nephew Tommy's opinion too. Come on. We met 6 00:00:21,960 --> 00:00:24,720 Speaker 1: in college and we've been married for twelve years, so 7 00:00:24,920 --> 00:00:28,160 Speaker 1: sex can get rather boring over the years, even though 8 00:00:28,160 --> 00:00:31,640 Speaker 1: we work hard to keep it interesting. My husband, Hubby, 9 00:00:31,760 --> 00:00:35,720 Speaker 1: completely fulfills my needs and he says that I'm all 10 00:00:35,800 --> 00:00:39,160 Speaker 1: he needs. But lately we have been joking about having 11 00:00:39,159 --> 00:00:43,560 Speaker 1: a manajeta with another woman. I know, I know, married 12 00:00:43,600 --> 00:00:46,920 Speaker 1: couples should never invite someone else into their bedroom, but 13 00:00:47,000 --> 00:00:49,519 Speaker 1: we think it would help us more than hurt us. 14 00:00:49,760 --> 00:00:52,120 Speaker 1: My husband and I met when we were very young, 15 00:00:52,440 --> 00:00:55,000 Speaker 1: and neither one of us had the opportunity to be 16 00:00:55,080 --> 00:00:59,080 Speaker 1: sexually adventurous before we got together. We even waited till 17 00:00:59,120 --> 00:01:02,080 Speaker 1: we were married to be intimate, and he's the only 18 00:01:02,120 --> 00:01:06,360 Speaker 1: man I've ever been with. Now the curiosity is killing us. 19 00:01:06,520 --> 00:01:09,800 Speaker 1: We've talked about the manage TI, and my husband explained 20 00:01:09,800 --> 00:01:12,720 Speaker 1: to me exactly what he would like for the woman 21 00:01:12,760 --> 00:01:15,080 Speaker 1: to do to him. And I told him exactly what 22 00:01:15,120 --> 00:01:18,039 Speaker 1: I want the woman to do to me. Now we will. 23 00:01:18,200 --> 00:01:20,360 Speaker 1: Now we want to make it a reality so we 24 00:01:20,400 --> 00:01:24,440 Speaker 1: can stop fantasizing about it. I know you go. I 25 00:01:24,520 --> 00:01:26,679 Speaker 1: know you get letters like this all the time, and 26 00:01:26,800 --> 00:01:29,960 Speaker 1: manage can either be a good thing or a bad thing. 27 00:01:30,319 --> 00:01:33,680 Speaker 1: Worst case scenario, my husband may really like how this 28 00:01:33,720 --> 00:01:36,319 Speaker 1: other woman pleases him, and he may want more of 29 00:01:36,319 --> 00:01:39,520 Speaker 1: her and less of me. I'm sure any woman is 30 00:01:39,560 --> 00:01:42,360 Speaker 1: way more advanced in sex than I am. Or maybe 31 00:01:42,400 --> 00:01:45,920 Speaker 1: I'll really like the woman and get caught up. How 32 00:01:45,959 --> 00:01:49,760 Speaker 1: can we safely explore our sexuality without ruining the good 33 00:01:49,800 --> 00:01:53,480 Speaker 1: thing we have going? Do you think it's possible? Please help? Oh, 34 00:01:53,520 --> 00:01:56,360 Speaker 1: I think you guys are treading in dangerous territory, That's 35 00:01:56,400 --> 00:01:59,400 Speaker 1: what I think. I don't think you guys should do this. 36 00:01:59,560 --> 00:02:01,840 Speaker 1: I know you've been married twelve years. I know you 37 00:02:01,880 --> 00:02:04,840 Speaker 1: know you've gotten a little bored with it and you 38 00:02:05,080 --> 00:02:07,640 Speaker 1: but you are working hard, you say, to keep it interesting. 39 00:02:08,760 --> 00:02:11,360 Speaker 1: What's wrong with the fantasy just being a fantasy? Do 40 00:02:11,440 --> 00:02:14,240 Speaker 1: we all have to act out our fantasies? Do we 41 00:02:14,360 --> 00:02:17,480 Speaker 1: have to do that? You know you kind of answered 42 00:02:17,480 --> 00:02:21,080 Speaker 1: your own question in the letter. Worst case scenario, my 43 00:02:21,160 --> 00:02:23,800 Speaker 1: husband may really like how this other woman pleases you 44 00:02:24,000 --> 00:02:26,440 Speaker 1: pleases him, and he may not. He may want more 45 00:02:26,440 --> 00:02:29,480 Speaker 1: of her and less of me. Absolutely, that can happen. 46 00:02:29,600 --> 00:02:33,280 Speaker 1: One hundred percent, that can happen. Are you willing to 47 00:02:33,680 --> 00:02:37,200 Speaker 1: Are you willing to risk your marriage on that? Because 48 00:02:37,240 --> 00:02:39,600 Speaker 1: that is exactly what can happen, and you got you 49 00:02:39,639 --> 00:02:42,240 Speaker 1: can bring a whole bunch of problems into your marriage 50 00:02:42,280 --> 00:02:45,160 Speaker 1: that don't need to be there. Or like you said, 51 00:02:45,240 --> 00:02:48,079 Speaker 1: maybe you'll like the woman and get caught up. Okay, 52 00:02:48,160 --> 00:02:51,200 Speaker 1: I mean all of these things can happen, all right. 53 00:02:51,280 --> 00:02:53,919 Speaker 1: I just you know, I think marriage is too sacred 54 00:02:54,400 --> 00:02:57,920 Speaker 1: and I don't think you should risk a manage ATOI 55 00:02:58,200 --> 00:03:01,280 Speaker 1: on your marriage. I don't think you should risk your marriage. 56 00:03:01,280 --> 00:03:04,200 Speaker 1: I should say on a MANAJETI. Now, if you if 57 00:03:04,200 --> 00:03:06,280 Speaker 1: you think you're mature enough and you can handle it, 58 00:03:06,320 --> 00:03:08,600 Speaker 1: I'm sure a lot of couples have done this and 59 00:03:08,960 --> 00:03:11,840 Speaker 1: they're fine. But yeah, when you start inviting other people 60 00:03:11,880 --> 00:03:15,200 Speaker 1: into your marriage, you know, then then that's where the 61 00:03:15,280 --> 00:03:19,400 Speaker 1: problems start and can real be really devastating. I mean, 62 00:03:19,440 --> 00:03:22,840 Speaker 1: this could lead to all kinds of things and ultimately divorced. 63 00:03:22,840 --> 00:03:26,120 Speaker 1: If you're willing to take that chance. Um, go ahead, 64 00:03:26,280 --> 00:03:28,640 Speaker 1: go ahead, I say no, I don't think you should, 65 00:03:29,120 --> 00:03:34,880 Speaker 1: but I'm but I'm sure the guys are gonna, you know, 66 00:03:35,080 --> 00:03:37,760 Speaker 1: have their own opinion on this and it they won't 67 00:03:37,800 --> 00:03:40,040 Speaker 1: agree with me. But I don't think you should do it. 68 00:03:40,360 --> 00:03:44,600 Speaker 1: I think you're too. Uh. You've answered your own question, 69 00:03:45,120 --> 00:03:49,560 Speaker 1: worst case scenario and you know what it is, all right, Junior, 70 00:03:49,640 --> 00:03:52,080 Speaker 1: I don't think they should do it. No they should, Charley, 71 00:03:52,360 --> 00:03:55,480 Speaker 1: Oh no, I'm wit you Shart, they should really? Nah? 72 00:03:55,520 --> 00:03:57,280 Speaker 1: What should they not? Because he can't please the one 73 00:03:57,320 --> 00:04:00,480 Speaker 1: he got Now he's gonna get somebody else. You what, lady, 74 00:04:00,520 --> 00:04:02,960 Speaker 1: you better be both women. That what you need to do. 75 00:04:02,960 --> 00:04:04,600 Speaker 1: You better be both them. You better be Brenda and 76 00:04:04,720 --> 00:04:07,400 Speaker 1: you better be Brenda and Beverley. You better be sharing 77 00:04:07,480 --> 00:04:11,040 Speaker 1: and caring. Better coming in at least blindfold him and 78 00:04:11,040 --> 00:04:13,200 Speaker 1: make him thanks too in them. But don't go get 79 00:04:13,240 --> 00:04:17,000 Speaker 1: two women. Nah, nah, nah, don't do this to yourself. No, 80 00:04:17,240 --> 00:04:20,360 Speaker 1: that's it. I can't believe you're all right. Come, I'm 81 00:04:20,360 --> 00:04:24,600 Speaker 1: not gonna do that. Come on, Jay, here's what's gonna happen. 82 00:04:24,720 --> 00:04:26,560 Speaker 1: If you you're gonna get somebody. What you need to 83 00:04:26,560 --> 00:04:28,719 Speaker 1: do to make sure that you never either one of 84 00:04:28,760 --> 00:04:31,280 Speaker 1: you ever want to do this again. You're gonna get 85 00:04:31,279 --> 00:04:35,120 Speaker 1: somebody in there that's so damned controlling that's gonna take 86 00:04:35,200 --> 00:04:39,320 Speaker 1: both of y'all out the mood. Okay, so just a 87 00:04:39,400 --> 00:04:42,599 Speaker 1: thrill killer, just all about. All right, let's get this 88 00:04:42,640 --> 00:04:45,800 Speaker 1: going on. Let's start right. You're ready, You're ready, she ready. 89 00:04:45,960 --> 00:04:47,760 Speaker 1: First of all, we got to fill out these farms 90 00:04:47,760 --> 00:04:50,440 Speaker 1: out right, I'm doing nothing to these farms. Just feel out. 91 00:04:50,640 --> 00:04:53,200 Speaker 1: You signed him, You signed him, all right, flip it 92 00:04:53,279 --> 00:04:55,200 Speaker 1: up on the back. Sign that out. Feel that out. 93 00:04:55,200 --> 00:04:57,640 Speaker 1: All right, Let's get this payment done. We need just payment, 94 00:04:57,680 --> 00:04:59,680 Speaker 1: because there's nothing going down to we do payment. Let's 95 00:04:59,680 --> 00:05:02,440 Speaker 1: just sa ain't payment, all right? Sign here, sign here, 96 00:05:02,600 --> 00:05:05,640 Speaker 1: Sign here, sign here, sign here, And this is your all. 97 00:05:05,880 --> 00:05:08,840 Speaker 1: This is his arm. Do not get these arms mixed up. Okay, 98 00:05:09,000 --> 00:05:12,960 Speaker 1: pay close attention. Oils oil, This is his oil. Do 99 00:05:13,040 --> 00:05:15,240 Speaker 1: not get these oils mixed up. All right. I will 100 00:05:15,240 --> 00:05:17,360 Speaker 1: be rubbing you for ten minutes, and I'll be rubbing 101 00:05:17,400 --> 00:05:20,279 Speaker 1: him for ten minutes. Okay, After that we would exchange 102 00:05:20,320 --> 00:05:22,480 Speaker 1: oils and I'll rub you for ten minutes, and then 103 00:05:22,520 --> 00:05:24,800 Speaker 1: I rub him for another damn ten minutes while I 104 00:05:24,800 --> 00:05:27,520 Speaker 1: am rubbing, I won't no damn talking to each other. 105 00:05:27,800 --> 00:05:32,400 Speaker 1: I'm in control, okay. Am I making myself? Clearing myself? 106 00:05:32,440 --> 00:05:37,040 Speaker 1: Clip not your damn head if I'm making myself, okay. 107 00:05:37,120 --> 00:05:39,640 Speaker 1: And then after that, we're gonna smoke a cigarette. You're 108 00:05:39,680 --> 00:05:41,960 Speaker 1: gonna smoke a cigarette, he gonna. I don't damn if 109 00:05:41,960 --> 00:05:44,520 Speaker 1: you don't smoke. We're smoking cigarettes. Okay. I don't want 110 00:05:44,520 --> 00:05:47,120 Speaker 1: to hear that we don't smoke. We're smoking cigarettes, all right. 111 00:05:47,279 --> 00:05:49,279 Speaker 1: And then we're gonna tax one another by how you 112 00:05:49,320 --> 00:05:52,760 Speaker 1: had and enjoy the eating. Am I making myself? You're 113 00:05:52,760 --> 00:05:56,080 Speaker 1: gonna just robe, and then you just robe? Okay, just roll, okay, 114 00:05:56,120 --> 00:05:59,719 Speaker 1: all the way, top solve, top salve, top salve, all right, pants, 115 00:05:59,720 --> 00:06:02,599 Speaker 1: all dress up? All right? Another good? All right? Turn around, 116 00:06:02,600 --> 00:06:04,359 Speaker 1: look at each other. Let me see some love in 117 00:06:04,400 --> 00:06:06,600 Speaker 1: your eyes. Love love. Look at each other like you 118 00:06:06,720 --> 00:06:14,359 Speaker 1: love each other. Damn it, look at it. Yeah this 119 00:06:14,440 --> 00:06:20,039 Speaker 1: sounds sexy, Jay, Really well, it's really right. This is 120 00:06:20,080 --> 00:06:24,320 Speaker 1: turning everybody on. Jay. I better see some love. I'm 121 00:06:24,320 --> 00:06:28,000 Speaker 1: a better see some love. Love now, some love love 122 00:06:28,120 --> 00:06:32,280 Speaker 1: now love now, let me get in that love. Hold on, 123 00:06:32,360 --> 00:06:34,280 Speaker 1: hold on you come on out of there. You I'm 124 00:06:34,320 --> 00:06:36,720 Speaker 1: gonna tag you, and I'm gonna come and do some loving. Okay, 125 00:06:36,920 --> 00:06:40,680 Speaker 1: tag come on out. I love it. They look at me, 126 00:06:40,680 --> 00:06:42,080 Speaker 1: I'm love it. Don't look at me when I'm loving. 127 00:06:42,320 --> 00:06:44,440 Speaker 1: I'm loving, alight, not tag me so you can do 128 00:06:44,480 --> 00:06:50,440 Speaker 1: some loving. Yeah? This kind of all is this? Jay? 129 00:06:54,839 --> 00:07:00,880 Speaker 1: Sounds like hate oil? All right? And then you know 130 00:07:01,120 --> 00:07:03,720 Speaker 1: when I leave here, I want full stars? All right? 131 00:07:03,760 --> 00:07:09,960 Speaker 1: Am I making myself? I certainly hope you're listening to 132 00:07:10,160 --> 00:07:12,400 Speaker 1: reading between the lines of what we're really saying. Don't 133 00:07:12,400 --> 00:07:14,600 Speaker 1: mess up a good night, don't mess up your marriage, 134 00:07:14,760 --> 00:07:18,720 Speaker 1: all right? Um. She asked for Nephew Tommy's opinion. We're 135 00:07:18,720 --> 00:07:22,600 Speaker 1: gonna get Nephew Tommy's opinion in part two, subject manage 136 00:07:22,680 --> 00:07:26,160 Speaker 1: or naw It was written by a woman who has 137 00:07:26,200 --> 00:07:29,440 Speaker 1: been married to her husband for twelve years. She says, 138 00:07:29,880 --> 00:07:32,880 Speaker 1: in that amount of time sometimes sex can get rather boring, 139 00:07:33,400 --> 00:07:35,840 Speaker 1: and even though they work hard to keep it interesting. 140 00:07:36,120 --> 00:07:39,040 Speaker 1: So she says her husband completely fulfills her needs, and 141 00:07:39,080 --> 00:07:43,280 Speaker 1: he says she's all that he needs, but lately they've 142 00:07:43,320 --> 00:07:47,520 Speaker 1: been fantasizing about having him a najeti with another woman, 143 00:07:47,880 --> 00:07:50,600 Speaker 1: and she says She knows that married couples should never 144 00:07:50,680 --> 00:07:53,680 Speaker 1: invite someone else into the bedroom, but they think that 145 00:07:53,720 --> 00:07:57,080 Speaker 1: it would help them more than hurt them. She and 146 00:07:57,120 --> 00:07:59,760 Speaker 1: her husband have talked about what they want this other woman, 147 00:08:00,160 --> 00:08:02,880 Speaker 1: exactly what they want the woman to do to him, 148 00:08:03,160 --> 00:08:06,320 Speaker 1: the husband, and exactly what the woman wants the woman 149 00:08:06,360 --> 00:08:09,000 Speaker 1: to do to her. And they want to make this 150 00:08:09,040 --> 00:08:12,720 Speaker 1: fantasy a reality, just so they can stop fantasizing about this. 151 00:08:12,960 --> 00:08:14,840 Speaker 1: She says. She knows we got a lot of letters 152 00:08:14,880 --> 00:08:18,160 Speaker 1: about this about Manaja. Twas not as many as you think, 153 00:08:18,440 --> 00:08:20,960 Speaker 1: but I will say this. The ones we get, they 154 00:08:21,000 --> 00:08:23,440 Speaker 1: always want to hear from Tommy. I will say that. 155 00:08:24,040 --> 00:08:27,400 Speaker 1: I won't say that. So Tommy. She wants to know 156 00:08:28,120 --> 00:08:30,920 Speaker 1: should she do this? Is it going to ruin a 157 00:08:30,960 --> 00:08:33,360 Speaker 1: good thing that they have going? And do you think 158 00:08:33,360 --> 00:08:35,440 Speaker 1: this is possible? She wants him help, and this is 159 00:08:35,600 --> 00:08:39,520 Speaker 1: I think we should. We shouldn't manag try, you know 160 00:08:39,559 --> 00:08:45,520 Speaker 1: what I'm saying, at least try. Let's give it a try. Okay. Now, 161 00:08:45,520 --> 00:08:48,600 Speaker 1: you're not supposed to bring anybody into your bedroom. That's 162 00:08:48,640 --> 00:08:52,280 Speaker 1: always spoken good, Bring into the kitchen, bring into the 163 00:08:52,360 --> 00:08:55,200 Speaker 1: living room. You understand it. You ain't got to go 164 00:08:55,320 --> 00:08:58,320 Speaker 1: to the bath, the bedroom with this, bring into the kitchen, 165 00:08:58,480 --> 00:09:01,720 Speaker 1: the garage, you can get just think j yeah, anywhere, 166 00:09:01,880 --> 00:09:04,839 Speaker 1: but anywhere but the bedroom. That's sacred. We're not gonna 167 00:09:04,840 --> 00:09:07,440 Speaker 1: miss that up. That's just between the two of y'all. Okay. 168 00:09:07,679 --> 00:09:10,400 Speaker 1: But but when you want to manae, try, when you 169 00:09:10,520 --> 00:09:13,559 Speaker 1: want to, just try, you hit that living room, You 170 00:09:13,600 --> 00:09:19,480 Speaker 1: hit that garage, back that patio, Yeah, hit that, hit 171 00:09:19,840 --> 00:09:24,440 Speaker 1: hit that and get hit but that okay, Now you 172 00:09:24,480 --> 00:09:27,400 Speaker 1: don't really know, you don't when it, Jake, say that 173 00:09:27,520 --> 00:09:30,120 Speaker 1: little hallway. Hit right up in out right there by 174 00:09:30,160 --> 00:09:33,280 Speaker 1: the therm and stat Jason, and when it when it 175 00:09:33,360 --> 00:09:35,480 Speaker 1: get good, bring that out of, bring that out of 176 00:09:35,960 --> 00:09:38,360 Speaker 1: when it get good. You know what I'm saying. You 177 00:09:38,520 --> 00:09:40,400 Speaker 1: hit that hallway. You really want to hit something you 178 00:09:40,440 --> 00:09:42,960 Speaker 1: ain't nuther web never been in. Go up in your 179 00:09:43,040 --> 00:09:46,959 Speaker 1: in your in your pantry. Yeah, get it up, yeah 180 00:09:47,080 --> 00:09:51,680 Speaker 1: all of them can goods. Hit it right down in 181 00:09:51,679 --> 00:09:55,840 Speaker 1: the ceiling. It's wide open. You ain't never you ain't 182 00:09:55,840 --> 00:10:00,880 Speaker 1: never seen your attic niked, you know I'm feeling your attic. Manage. 183 00:10:01,120 --> 00:10:05,800 Speaker 1: Try you try different in your backyard while the law 184 00:10:05,920 --> 00:10:11,360 Speaker 1: won't run it, get it yeah, get it okay, now 185 00:10:11,360 --> 00:10:14,080 Speaker 1: you don't have a lot of experience, and I understand 186 00:10:14,120 --> 00:10:16,719 Speaker 1: that because this was your first man and your only man. 187 00:10:17,040 --> 00:10:18,960 Speaker 1: Got that you don't really know what you're doing. So 188 00:10:19,120 --> 00:10:21,800 Speaker 1: let this woman do everything to this man. Sit back 189 00:10:21,840 --> 00:10:24,080 Speaker 1: and watch. All right, you need a food up, you 190 00:10:24,120 --> 00:10:26,280 Speaker 1: need a coach, you need to learn something. This is 191 00:10:26,320 --> 00:10:28,280 Speaker 1: what you do. You sit on the self, laying your 192 00:10:28,280 --> 00:10:31,080 Speaker 1: step something. Sit on the bench and watch. Get your camera, 193 00:10:31,280 --> 00:10:35,160 Speaker 1: recall it. Take Yes, I have a question. Questions, Go ahead, 194 00:10:35,200 --> 00:10:37,920 Speaker 1: I have a question. Go ahead. So the husband wants 195 00:10:38,400 --> 00:10:41,120 Speaker 1: another woman in the bedroom. Yes, okay, what if they 196 00:10:41,160 --> 00:10:44,120 Speaker 1: do that? Like you said, hut it out? Okay? What 197 00:10:44,200 --> 00:10:48,000 Speaker 1: if next time they want to manage? Try with a man? 198 00:10:48,160 --> 00:10:53,160 Speaker 1: I wish the hell we we ain't trying. No, what 199 00:10:53,240 --> 00:10:56,880 Speaker 1: do you need? All that fills in here? I pay 200 00:10:56,960 --> 00:11:00,600 Speaker 1: the bills, okay, I decide who else come in? Nothing 201 00:11:00,640 --> 00:11:05,480 Speaker 1: like that. You brought up something? You want to still 202 00:11:05,520 --> 00:11:08,240 Speaker 1: a relationship? Go to hell? You ask me something like that. 203 00:11:08,280 --> 00:11:14,240 Speaker 1: It's still a manage. Try. No, it ain't try us 204 00:11:14,360 --> 00:11:18,439 Speaker 1: trying to work. You want to see what happened in 205 00:11:19,679 --> 00:11:23,760 Speaker 1: I know you ain't inviting kareem? See what happened? Whose 206 00:11:23,880 --> 00:11:28,360 Speaker 1: hand is this? On my show. Wait a minute, what what? 207 00:11:28,360 --> 00:11:35,360 Speaker 1: Wait a minute? Dog? Is this? Kareem? Is this your what? 208 00:11:34,600 --> 00:11:42,440 Speaker 1: The doctor? John? I just I just wanted to point out. 209 00:11:42,440 --> 00:11:44,600 Speaker 1: But we gotta get this. We gotta get this manage 210 00:11:44,600 --> 00:11:47,920 Speaker 1: a try out and working okay, because it can. It's possibly. 211 00:11:48,080 --> 00:11:50,320 Speaker 1: This is something that could work. It could fulfill what 212 00:11:50,400 --> 00:11:53,040 Speaker 1: we're looking for in our relationship. It could be wonderful. 213 00:11:53,200 --> 00:11:56,480 Speaker 1: We have to miss. This could be the missing we're 214 00:11:56,520 --> 00:12:01,079 Speaker 1: bored right now. But we're bored, she says. They try 215 00:12:01,200 --> 00:12:04,520 Speaker 1: really hard to keep it interesting, but you're not try. 216 00:12:04,679 --> 00:12:07,800 Speaker 1: You need to try with other people. This is a fantasy. 217 00:12:07,880 --> 00:12:11,040 Speaker 1: It can stay in your head. What No, Sometimes sometimes 218 00:12:11,160 --> 00:12:14,280 Speaker 1: any dreams are meant to come true. Why why don't 219 00:12:14,280 --> 00:12:16,840 Speaker 1: we dreaming? Why are we dreaming? If we don't want it? 220 00:12:17,040 --> 00:12:21,680 Speaker 1: This can mess up your marriage. A good thing. Not 221 00:12:21,800 --> 00:12:24,120 Speaker 1: a tray, Not a tray. This is the time we 222 00:12:24,160 --> 00:12:25,520 Speaker 1: got a good point not to try. You know, it's 223 00:12:25,559 --> 00:12:27,800 Speaker 1: it's like a thirty day tray, you know, thirty for 224 00:12:27,920 --> 00:12:30,040 Speaker 1: you doing this for thirty days. I would like to 225 00:12:30,200 --> 00:12:32,320 Speaker 1: if you're gonna do it, if we're gonna try, if 226 00:12:32,320 --> 00:12:34,040 Speaker 1: we're gonna try something, we gotta see it. We really 227 00:12:34,080 --> 00:12:37,800 Speaker 1: like it. Ok that third day try you yeah, you 228 00:12:37,880 --> 00:12:39,400 Speaker 1: know you boy, you know you buy that medicine you 229 00:12:39,440 --> 00:12:41,679 Speaker 1: supposed to weight and if it don't working, third day, 230 00:12:41,679 --> 00:12:43,560 Speaker 1: you send it back to get your money back. That's 231 00:12:43,600 --> 00:12:46,880 Speaker 1: all it is. It is, It's a third day of 232 00:12:46,920 --> 00:12:50,840 Speaker 1: manage mentioned someone there to help out around the house. 233 00:12:51,679 --> 00:12:54,240 Speaker 1: You gonna do well, You ain't gotta cook, you ain't 234 00:12:54,240 --> 00:12:57,040 Speaker 1: gonna watch. This is all the time we use it. 235 00:12:57,120 --> 00:13:00,920 Speaker 1: Let's please don't do this. Let's try the letter. Please 236 00:13:00,960 --> 00:13:03,560 Speaker 1: do not listen to these idiots. And this is a 237 00:13:03,679 --> 00:13:10,400 Speaker 1: great man. This is a great night to try time night. Huh, 238 00:13:10,480 --> 00:13:15,040 Speaker 1: who the fuck it? Try tonight? Love could be different 239 00:13:15,600 --> 00:13:18,720 Speaker 1: from here's fourth and that's a great story to tell. 240 00:13:18,840 --> 00:13:22,640 Speaker 1: And the world of somebody before. What have you got 241 00:13:22,679 --> 00:13:26,560 Speaker 1: to lose? What have you got? You already boy? You 242 00:13:26,600 --> 00:13:30,200 Speaker 1: have everything to lose, Jay, That is the issue. You 243 00:13:30,280 --> 00:13:34,160 Speaker 1: have everything to lose. Notat what the man said. What 244 00:13:34,320 --> 00:13:38,079 Speaker 1: have you got nothing? You know? You say timing, If 245 00:13:38,120 --> 00:13:41,199 Speaker 1: you ain't cheating, you ain't trying. Come on here, boy, 246 00:13:42,480 --> 00:13:47,840 Speaker 1: saying something, saying something and the world ain't cheap, you 247 00:13:47,880 --> 00:13:50,000 Speaker 1: ain't trying. In the world of my granddadd I don't 248 00:13:50,080 --> 00:13:54,360 Speaker 1: know how to quite well put it. You saying something, now, 249 00:13:55,800 --> 00:14:02,720 Speaker 1: you saying something, ain't trying to win. Listen. Do not 250 00:14:02,880 --> 00:14:06,400 Speaker 1: do this, okay, do not listen to them. Your marriage 251 00:14:06,440 --> 00:14:11,880 Speaker 1: like it is. It's working hard to keep it interesting, 252 00:14:12,000 --> 00:14:15,200 Speaker 1: all right, But but but that hallway by the thermostat 253 00:14:15,679 --> 00:14:19,720 Speaker 1: give it a shot, all right, listen. If you want 254 00:14:19,760 --> 00:14:22,680 Speaker 1: to comment on this letter, please go to Steve Harvey 255 00:14:22,760 --> 00:14:26,200 Speaker 1: f M. You're listening to The Steven Show.