1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:07,400 Speaker 1: Everybody, ye'll be waiting for Oh you're tapped in way 2 00:00:07,520 --> 00:00:08,119 Speaker 1: up with Angela? 3 00:00:08,160 --> 00:00:11,040 Speaker 2: Ye oh yeah, it's way up. But Angela, ye, happy Tuesday. 4 00:00:11,080 --> 00:00:12,520 Speaker 2: It's not Monday. I just want to put that out 5 00:00:12,520 --> 00:00:15,080 Speaker 2: there for anybody who thought it was happy Marnin Luther 6 00:00:15,200 --> 00:00:15,800 Speaker 2: King Jr. 7 00:00:15,880 --> 00:00:16,759 Speaker 3: Day, hijaz me. 8 00:00:16,800 --> 00:00:20,239 Speaker 4: Brand, I'm my own brand. Good morning, Angela. 9 00:00:20,360 --> 00:00:22,680 Speaker 3: I do believe Capricorn season has come to an end. 10 00:00:23,000 --> 00:00:25,919 Speaker 4: They got just joking. I had an amazing time during 11 00:00:25,960 --> 00:00:26,760 Speaker 4: your your season. 12 00:00:27,080 --> 00:00:29,680 Speaker 3: I was gonna say, yeah, the nerve of you. 13 00:00:29,800 --> 00:00:31,360 Speaker 4: But do we know what's what's next? 14 00:00:31,600 --> 00:00:32,640 Speaker 3: What Aquarius? 15 00:00:32,680 --> 00:00:33,800 Speaker 4: Okay? Aquarius okay? 16 00:00:34,200 --> 00:00:36,159 Speaker 3: And today you're gonna love this. 17 00:00:36,400 --> 00:00:39,400 Speaker 2: Do you know Melanie Sanders she's. 18 00:00:38,760 --> 00:00:40,600 Speaker 3: Gonna be joining us. She started that we Do Not 19 00:00:40,760 --> 00:00:41,440 Speaker 3: Care movement. 20 00:00:42,040 --> 00:00:43,080 Speaker 4: I love that all right. 21 00:00:43,320 --> 00:00:45,720 Speaker 3: And it's a we do not Care club. 22 00:00:45,800 --> 00:00:49,960 Speaker 2: It's for women in perimenopause, menopause and postmenopause, putting the 23 00:00:49,960 --> 00:00:51,640 Speaker 2: world on notice that we simply. 24 00:00:51,320 --> 00:00:52,880 Speaker 3: Do not care much anymore. 25 00:00:53,000 --> 00:00:53,440 Speaker 4: Okay. 26 00:00:53,560 --> 00:00:55,840 Speaker 2: And she really started this movement out of her own. 27 00:00:56,440 --> 00:00:58,360 Speaker 2: Why am I bothering to put on makeup? Why do 28 00:00:58,480 --> 00:01:01,560 Speaker 2: I just don't care? I love it all right. So 29 00:01:01,600 --> 00:01:04,240 Speaker 2: she's gone viral with this movement. She already was a 30 00:01:04,280 --> 00:01:08,440 Speaker 2: content creator, but you know she's been everywhere. Okay, so 31 00:01:08,440 --> 00:01:10,319 Speaker 2: she's going today women, Yeah, she's on today. 32 00:01:10,400 --> 00:01:10,640 Speaker 4: Okay. 33 00:01:11,240 --> 00:01:12,160 Speaker 3: Also, when we come. 34 00:01:12,000 --> 00:01:13,920 Speaker 2: Back, let's shine a light eight hundred and two nine 35 00:01:14,000 --> 00:01:16,280 Speaker 2: two fifty one fifty. We want to shine a light 36 00:01:16,319 --> 00:01:18,560 Speaker 2: on a woman who is doing big things at a 37 00:01:18,560 --> 00:01:22,320 Speaker 2: place that you love. All right, she is now CEO. 38 00:01:22,480 --> 00:01:23,480 Speaker 2: I'm gonna tell you who she is. 39 00:01:23,520 --> 00:01:24,039 Speaker 3: It's way up. 40 00:01:24,040 --> 00:01:28,880 Speaker 5: We're gonna let them up. Turn your lights on, y'all, 41 00:01:29,440 --> 00:01:32,080 Speaker 5: light spreading love to those who are doing greatness. 42 00:01:32,200 --> 00:01:35,640 Speaker 3: Shine the light on them, Shine the light on them. 43 00:01:36,760 --> 00:01:38,880 Speaker 5: It's time to shine a light on them. 44 00:01:38,920 --> 00:01:42,480 Speaker 3: All right. It's way up with Angela Yee and Jasmin Brand. 45 00:01:42,840 --> 00:01:45,200 Speaker 4: I'm not just a brand on my own brand. 46 00:01:45,240 --> 00:01:47,600 Speaker 2: I shout out to all the Akas too. You guys 47 00:01:47,640 --> 00:01:48,840 Speaker 2: just had your Founder's. 48 00:01:48,520 --> 00:01:50,760 Speaker 4: Day we did January fifteenth. 49 00:01:50,440 --> 00:01:52,080 Speaker 3: January fifteenth recently. 50 00:01:52,120 --> 00:01:54,400 Speaker 2: But today I want to shine a light on somebody 51 00:01:54,560 --> 00:01:57,600 Speaker 2: who is part of the Delta Sigma Theta sorority, and 52 00:01:57,680 --> 00:02:01,240 Speaker 2: that would be Lateres Watkins. She has just been named 53 00:02:01,240 --> 00:02:04,720 Speaker 2: the CEO of Sam's Club. She's a black woman. 54 00:02:05,320 --> 00:02:06,080 Speaker 3: That's a big deal. 55 00:02:06,560 --> 00:02:08,800 Speaker 2: She's going to start her position February first, but she 56 00:02:08,919 --> 00:02:13,320 Speaker 2: is currently executive vice president and chief Merchandising Officer for Walmart. 57 00:02:13,400 --> 00:02:16,600 Speaker 2: She started as an intern back in nineteen ninety seven 58 00:02:17,080 --> 00:02:19,639 Speaker 2: and has had all kinds of leadership roles across Sam's 59 00:02:19,639 --> 00:02:23,280 Speaker 2: Club and Walmart's merchandising and US store operations. 60 00:02:23,840 --> 00:02:24,600 Speaker 3: One thing that she. 61 00:02:24,680 --> 00:02:29,399 Speaker 2: Did that was really innovative is that she was actually 62 00:02:29,520 --> 00:02:32,400 Speaker 2: making sure that people looked at this as more high end, 63 00:02:32,960 --> 00:02:36,000 Speaker 2: looked at Walmart as more of a high end opportunity. 64 00:02:36,280 --> 00:02:38,880 Speaker 2: She did a pop up which had items between eight 65 00:02:38,919 --> 00:02:41,240 Speaker 2: dollars and seventy five dollars, but she did that as 66 00:02:41,240 --> 00:02:44,880 Speaker 2: a boutique in Soho next to Louis Vatan and Botega Venetta. 67 00:02:45,040 --> 00:02:46,400 Speaker 4: That is a that's great marketing. 68 00:02:46,480 --> 00:02:48,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, so imagine you have this pop up where you 69 00:02:48,680 --> 00:02:52,080 Speaker 2: can buy things for like fifteen dollars yep, in between 70 00:02:52,120 --> 00:02:54,280 Speaker 2: all these high end expensive stores. It's kind of like 71 00:02:54,320 --> 00:02:56,600 Speaker 2: the perception of it. And so that's just one of 72 00:02:56,639 --> 00:02:58,440 Speaker 2: the things that she did to appeal to our broader 73 00:02:58,480 --> 00:03:01,160 Speaker 2: spectrum of shoppers. She said, our goal is to refresh 74 00:03:01,240 --> 00:03:03,919 Speaker 2: and elevate all of our fashion brands. We're only ten 75 00:03:03,960 --> 00:03:06,600 Speaker 2: percent of the way there, so shout out to her. 76 00:03:06,600 --> 00:03:09,160 Speaker 3: She's been an instrumental figure with them. 77 00:03:09,240 --> 00:03:11,800 Speaker 2: And again she started as an intern than in the 78 00:03:11,800 --> 00:03:14,640 Speaker 2: real estate division. And now this sounds like a marketing genius. 79 00:03:14,680 --> 00:03:16,400 Speaker 2: All right now, Dania, who do you want to shine 80 00:03:16,400 --> 00:03:16,800 Speaker 2: a light on? 81 00:03:18,120 --> 00:03:20,360 Speaker 6: I want to shine a light on my sister chef. 82 00:03:20,840 --> 00:03:23,000 Speaker 7: She took her my kids for two years while. 83 00:03:22,800 --> 00:03:23,800 Speaker 4: I was incarcerated. 84 00:03:23,880 --> 00:03:29,080 Speaker 2: Oh wow, and she a cried Daisy, Well, welcome home, 85 00:03:29,280 --> 00:03:29,920 Speaker 2: welcome back. 86 00:03:30,000 --> 00:03:31,080 Speaker 3: You said she's a crime. Baby. 87 00:03:31,120 --> 00:03:36,000 Speaker 2: Wait, she's just grateful to have you backo. 88 00:03:35,280 --> 00:03:36,240 Speaker 3: She be cram. 89 00:03:37,520 --> 00:03:38,600 Speaker 8: Shout out on her birthday. 90 00:03:38,640 --> 00:03:42,840 Speaker 3: Fight, how old are your kids? 91 00:03:43,520 --> 00:03:45,720 Speaker 8: I got an eight year old, I got a six 92 00:03:45,800 --> 00:03:47,080 Speaker 8: year old, and I got a one year old. 93 00:03:47,280 --> 00:03:49,760 Speaker 2: Well you know what, shout out to their auntie family 94 00:03:49,880 --> 00:03:55,320 Speaker 2: is everything when they're good. Yay, absolutely all right, Well, 95 00:03:55,360 --> 00:03:56,200 Speaker 2: thank you for calling. 96 00:03:56,280 --> 00:03:57,800 Speaker 4: Welcome back, Thank you? 97 00:03:58,160 --> 00:04:01,240 Speaker 3: Well that was shining light. Eight hundred two fifty one fifty. 98 00:04:01,240 --> 00:04:03,360 Speaker 2: If you couldn't get through, call us up and shine 99 00:04:03,400 --> 00:04:05,880 Speaker 2: a light for last word. And when we come back, 100 00:04:06,080 --> 00:04:09,480 Speaker 2: guess what we have? We got your yet? And who 101 00:04:09,600 --> 00:04:12,360 Speaker 2: was mean to marry j Blige? Well we're gonna tell 102 00:04:12,400 --> 00:04:14,680 Speaker 2: you a story that she had about somebody who was 103 00:04:14,720 --> 00:04:15,480 Speaker 2: not so nice to her. 104 00:04:15,520 --> 00:04:16,240 Speaker 3: Can you imagine? 105 00:04:16,360 --> 00:04:17,800 Speaker 4: Yes, all right, let's way up. 106 00:04:18,160 --> 00:04:22,240 Speaker 5: They say, soothing the rooms from industry shade to all 107 00:04:22,279 --> 00:04:27,040 Speaker 5: of gosp out, sending Angela's speeling that yeet, all right, it's. 108 00:04:26,960 --> 00:04:29,159 Speaker 3: Way up with Angela. Y It's me and jazzmy brand. 109 00:04:29,360 --> 00:04:31,800 Speaker 4: I'm not just brand, I'm my own brand. 110 00:04:31,800 --> 00:04:35,040 Speaker 3: And let's get into that yeat all right. So Mary J. 111 00:04:35,160 --> 00:04:39,040 Speaker 2: Blige was on Watch What Happens Live, and she talked 112 00:04:39,040 --> 00:04:42,159 Speaker 2: about an experience where she met a legend and it 113 00:04:42,240 --> 00:04:43,760 Speaker 2: was not that pleasant at first. 114 00:04:43,800 --> 00:04:44,599 Speaker 3: Here's what she said. 115 00:04:44,839 --> 00:04:46,599 Speaker 9: This is the first time I worked with her, and 116 00:04:46,760 --> 00:04:50,480 Speaker 9: Aretha came in a hoodie, one pant leg, rolled. 117 00:04:50,320 --> 00:04:52,000 Speaker 3: Up like she was coming to fight us someone. 118 00:04:52,080 --> 00:04:52,560 Speaker 4: I was like, no. 119 00:04:53,520 --> 00:04:55,919 Speaker 9: She was like, yeah, how you doing here? 120 00:04:56,000 --> 00:04:58,240 Speaker 4: Let's let choppy And I said, what does chopping mean? 121 00:04:58,760 --> 00:05:00,000 Speaker 4: I thought it was like an insult. 122 00:05:00,240 --> 00:05:02,400 Speaker 9: Someone said that she's demiring me, saying I could sing, 123 00:05:02,800 --> 00:05:03,960 Speaker 9: but everything just felt. 124 00:05:03,800 --> 00:05:04,520 Speaker 3: So like yo. 125 00:05:06,400 --> 00:05:08,600 Speaker 4: I was like, well, all right, coop water with your 126 00:05:08,680 --> 00:05:11,600 Speaker 4: baby face was even scared. I can see that. 127 00:05:11,760 --> 00:05:12,120 Speaker 3: Listen. 128 00:05:12,520 --> 00:05:14,920 Speaker 2: I took my mom to go see Aretha Franklin once. 129 00:05:15,120 --> 00:05:16,919 Speaker 2: She said, I mean it was fine. It was like 130 00:05:16,920 --> 00:05:20,080 Speaker 2: in her later years, but it was a Louis the 131 00:05:20,160 --> 00:05:22,520 Speaker 2: time I went Hannessee like special performance and one of 132 00:05:22,560 --> 00:05:24,680 Speaker 2: my friends worked there and I she my mom was 133 00:05:24,800 --> 00:05:25,400 Speaker 2: so hyped. 134 00:05:25,800 --> 00:05:26,520 Speaker 3: It was amazing. 135 00:05:26,600 --> 00:05:28,360 Speaker 4: I love how Retha used to bring her a pocketbook 136 00:05:28,400 --> 00:05:28,880 Speaker 4: upon page. 137 00:05:29,000 --> 00:05:29,640 Speaker 3: Yeah she did. 138 00:05:30,080 --> 00:05:32,480 Speaker 2: Now. Another thing that Mary talked about speaking to moms 139 00:05:32,839 --> 00:05:36,200 Speaker 2: is her mom actually meeting Aretha and things changed. 140 00:05:36,800 --> 00:05:39,920 Speaker 3: And then my mother showed up and cooled off real quick. 141 00:05:39,920 --> 00:05:42,120 Speaker 9: And my mom was like, okay, so how you doing 142 00:05:42,200 --> 00:05:42,760 Speaker 9: the stranklin? 143 00:05:42,880 --> 00:05:44,840 Speaker 4: She was like I'm okay. It was like y'all want 144 00:05:44,839 --> 00:05:45,040 Speaker 4: to bid? 145 00:05:45,120 --> 00:05:46,880 Speaker 3: You want to bear? My mama said that's my. 146 00:05:46,760 --> 00:05:49,360 Speaker 5: Baby, you know, Oh my god. 147 00:05:49,680 --> 00:05:52,520 Speaker 9: And so the rest is history. Areta and my mother 148 00:05:52,600 --> 00:05:55,320 Speaker 9: became cool. But she's she dinna stop being me. 149 00:05:56,640 --> 00:05:56,839 Speaker 10: You know. 150 00:05:57,000 --> 00:05:59,240 Speaker 2: I think Aretha was kind of known for being mean 151 00:05:59,400 --> 00:06:02,000 Speaker 2: little stand up people. But I will also say, if 152 00:06:02,000 --> 00:06:05,040 Speaker 2: you watch did you ever watch the the biopic about 153 00:06:05,040 --> 00:06:08,640 Speaker 2: her Ye with Jennifer Hudson Hutton, Yeah, she had a 154 00:06:08,720 --> 00:06:09,560 Speaker 2: crazy childhood. 155 00:06:09,600 --> 00:06:10,640 Speaker 4: She's been through a lot. 156 00:06:10,800 --> 00:06:13,120 Speaker 2: She's been through a lot of things. Yeah, And so 157 00:06:13,160 --> 00:06:15,600 Speaker 2: when you can understand all of that. 158 00:06:15,960 --> 00:06:18,000 Speaker 4: Then you understand a little bit why she was little, 159 00:06:18,360 --> 00:06:19,719 Speaker 4: but she was rude. 160 00:06:19,920 --> 00:06:22,839 Speaker 3: So damn talented all right. Now she also Mary J. 161 00:06:22,920 --> 00:06:25,679 Speaker 2: Blige is also on seven PM in Brooklyn, and here's 162 00:06:25,680 --> 00:06:27,320 Speaker 2: what she has to say about And. 163 00:06:27,279 --> 00:06:29,240 Speaker 3: We were arguing about this behind the scenes. I saw 164 00:06:29,360 --> 00:06:30,159 Speaker 3: that she passed on. 165 00:06:30,960 --> 00:06:33,919 Speaker 9: So it was during the breakthrough album and the whole 166 00:06:33,960 --> 00:06:36,320 Speaker 9: album was on fire and I was nominated for eight 167 00:06:36,400 --> 00:06:39,600 Speaker 9: Grammys and dream and Tricky came to me with unbrother 168 00:06:39,800 --> 00:06:42,040 Speaker 9: all of her was it, And I was like, yeah, 169 00:06:42,040 --> 00:06:43,320 Speaker 9: my fans, this is a little bug out on me 170 00:06:43,360 --> 00:06:45,800 Speaker 9: to hear me take my eight eight. So I was like, 171 00:06:45,960 --> 00:06:47,800 Speaker 9: I got a lot going on, I'm gonna pass Then 172 00:06:47,800 --> 00:06:49,520 Speaker 9: when I heard Rihanna do it, I was like, see 173 00:06:49,520 --> 00:06:53,320 Speaker 9: it was it wasn't for me. I'm not afraid to 174 00:06:53,480 --> 00:06:54,960 Speaker 9: pass on something that's not for me. 175 00:06:55,920 --> 00:06:58,600 Speaker 2: Imagine Mary singing that though I can't, I can't kind 176 00:06:58,640 --> 00:06:59,000 Speaker 2: of hear it. 177 00:06:59,120 --> 00:07:02,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, I think it was been. I understand she felt like. 178 00:07:01,960 --> 00:07:04,560 Speaker 2: That wasn't her, but I could see why they would 179 00:07:04,640 --> 00:07:05,760 Speaker 2: want to give that to her, and I think that 180 00:07:05,760 --> 00:07:08,760 Speaker 2: would have been. Yeah, she should do a remakeup it, 181 00:07:08,839 --> 00:07:10,880 Speaker 2: just so we could hear what it sounds like. Yeah, well, 182 00:07:11,560 --> 00:07:14,440 Speaker 2: I mean, just to you know, just because she told 183 00:07:14,480 --> 00:07:15,800 Speaker 2: the story, I'd have been like, can I hear you 184 00:07:15,840 --> 00:07:16,400 Speaker 2: do it? 185 00:07:16,680 --> 00:07:18,440 Speaker 4: You definitely would have followed up with that question. 186 00:07:18,800 --> 00:07:20,760 Speaker 3: But she's a capricornsu so shout out to Mary J. 187 00:07:20,880 --> 00:07:21,240 Speaker 4: Blige. 188 00:07:22,040 --> 00:07:24,280 Speaker 3: All Right, now, Aceeth Rockies, don't be dumb. 189 00:07:24,520 --> 00:07:26,200 Speaker 2: It looks like it's going to do really well in 190 00:07:26,240 --> 00:07:29,480 Speaker 2: the first week according to projections. Okay, it's gonna move 191 00:07:29,720 --> 00:07:33,760 Speaker 2: at least two hundred thousand units. That's how great. Listen, 192 00:07:33,800 --> 00:07:36,400 Speaker 2: when we've been hearing people's numbers who are huge, they 193 00:07:36,440 --> 00:07:39,520 Speaker 2: don't come nowhere near that anymore. But now it looks 194 00:07:39,520 --> 00:07:41,120 Speaker 2: like this is going to be a big one for him. 195 00:07:42,000 --> 00:07:44,960 Speaker 2: And there's been a lot of delays and sometimes that 196 00:07:45,520 --> 00:07:48,080 Speaker 2: decreases demand, but it looks like that really helped him 197 00:07:48,080 --> 00:07:49,520 Speaker 2: out too. Okay, I got to listen to what I 198 00:07:49,560 --> 00:07:51,760 Speaker 2: haven't listened to you yet, all right, and that is 199 00:07:51,800 --> 00:07:54,200 Speaker 2: your yeetie. When we come back, we have about last night. 200 00:07:54,240 --> 00:07:56,680 Speaker 2: We'll discuss what we did last night. I had a 201 00:07:56,720 --> 00:07:59,320 Speaker 2: really good weekend. I know our producer Dan had a 202 00:07:59,360 --> 00:08:04,200 Speaker 2: great weekend. His birthday on Saturday. We're gonna celebrate a 203 00:08:04,240 --> 00:08:04,800 Speaker 2: little bit today. 204 00:08:04,880 --> 00:08:06,120 Speaker 3: Yeah, all right, And we. 205 00:08:05,960 --> 00:08:08,720 Speaker 2: Were actually about to celebrate during about last night, let's 206 00:08:08,720 --> 00:08:10,760 Speaker 2: get this party's done it it's way up. 207 00:08:13,120 --> 00:08:19,920 Speaker 5: So about last night he said, I went down. 208 00:08:19,160 --> 00:08:21,160 Speaker 2: All right, his way up at Angela. Yeah, I'm here, 209 00:08:21,240 --> 00:08:25,119 Speaker 2: Jasmine brand is here. I'm not I'm my own brand, 210 00:08:25,560 --> 00:08:27,160 Speaker 2: and it's time for about last night. 211 00:08:27,600 --> 00:08:27,760 Speaker 3: Now. 212 00:08:27,800 --> 00:08:29,720 Speaker 2: When I first throw it to Dan, it was his 213 00:08:29,800 --> 00:08:30,880 Speaker 2: birthday over the weekend. 214 00:08:30,960 --> 00:08:39,920 Speaker 4: Yes day, get it go there go therey. Oh my god, man, 215 00:08:39,920 --> 00:08:40,679 Speaker 4: it's working. 216 00:08:40,920 --> 00:08:46,800 Speaker 3: Oh my god, it's inappropriate. He couldn't get off me, Dan, crazy. 217 00:08:47,400 --> 00:08:49,200 Speaker 3: I did text you over the weekend and you said 218 00:08:49,240 --> 00:08:49,880 Speaker 3: I'm drunk. 219 00:08:50,200 --> 00:08:51,720 Speaker 11: Yeah, you were texting me all this work so off 220 00:08:51,720 --> 00:08:52,640 Speaker 11: I was like, please. 221 00:08:52,360 --> 00:08:53,679 Speaker 5: Not now, sory. 222 00:08:54,040 --> 00:08:54,960 Speaker 3: So you had a good weekend. 223 00:08:55,000 --> 00:08:56,320 Speaker 11: I did, had a great weekend. 224 00:08:56,320 --> 00:08:57,640 Speaker 3: Can you tell your surprise or now? 225 00:08:57,720 --> 00:08:57,920 Speaker 6: Yeah? 226 00:08:57,960 --> 00:08:58,240 Speaker 4: Sure. 227 00:08:58,320 --> 00:09:00,440 Speaker 11: So my wife surprised. So this is in the works 228 00:09:00,440 --> 00:09:03,600 Speaker 11: for like a long time. She's booked a surprise trip 229 00:09:04,080 --> 00:09:06,640 Speaker 11: for my birthday. It's actually next week just because the way, 230 00:09:06,760 --> 00:09:10,960 Speaker 11: flights and everything worked out and it is. 231 00:09:11,520 --> 00:09:15,360 Speaker 3: So we need no, it's fine with a surprise. 232 00:09:15,480 --> 00:09:17,520 Speaker 11: So I've known about the trip for the last two months, 233 00:09:17,679 --> 00:09:19,559 Speaker 11: but I did not know where, And she's been holding 234 00:09:19,559 --> 00:09:21,080 Speaker 11: on to the secret for where and I was trying 235 00:09:21,080 --> 00:09:23,480 Speaker 11: to guess and guess and guests, but I learned him 236 00:09:23,480 --> 00:09:24,319 Speaker 11: going to London. 237 00:09:24,360 --> 00:09:25,360 Speaker 4: Which is really exciting. 238 00:09:25,440 --> 00:09:27,560 Speaker 11: Yeah, I've never been. I've never been. I'm also a 239 00:09:27,760 --> 00:09:30,920 Speaker 11: diehard Manchester City fan soccer fanky. So we're going to 240 00:09:31,000 --> 00:09:32,640 Speaker 11: take a train out there go see a home game. 241 00:09:32,679 --> 00:09:34,079 Speaker 11: That's like top of the bucket list for me. 242 00:09:34,320 --> 00:09:37,719 Speaker 4: So is it a milestone or this is just all 243 00:09:37,760 --> 00:09:40,840 Speaker 4: birthdays are important? 244 00:09:40,640 --> 00:09:40,800 Speaker 6: Right? 245 00:09:40,840 --> 00:09:44,160 Speaker 4: Okay, how's she going to I'll do herself every year. 246 00:09:44,040 --> 00:09:48,880 Speaker 2: I know, yeah, you know the standards, Yeah, exactly, Yes, 247 00:09:49,040 --> 00:09:52,280 Speaker 2: we got a diala back all right. Well, over the weekend, 248 00:09:52,440 --> 00:09:54,280 Speaker 2: my best friend is in town. She lives in LA 249 00:09:54,360 --> 00:09:57,800 Speaker 2: and she's not really here much, Santi Gold. So she's 250 00:09:57,840 --> 00:10:01,320 Speaker 2: been here helping me, yes, because she was in Australia 251 00:10:01,440 --> 00:10:03,719 Speaker 2: from my brother's funeral, so she wanted to make sure 252 00:10:03,800 --> 00:10:06,480 Speaker 2: she came saw my family. So we're spending some time 253 00:10:06,520 --> 00:10:09,319 Speaker 2: together and she's been it's actually been really nice. She's 254 00:10:09,320 --> 00:10:12,280 Speaker 2: been so helpful. Yeah, you know, just helping me do things. 255 00:10:12,920 --> 00:10:15,959 Speaker 2: In addition to that, I filmed yesterday at my coffee 256 00:10:15,960 --> 00:10:21,880 Speaker 2: shopping Cupka where Marcus Samuelson for Eat Up NYC episode 257 00:10:22,280 --> 00:10:24,640 Speaker 2: He came by the shop in Brooklyn and had a 258 00:10:24,760 --> 00:10:26,360 Speaker 2: chance to taste some of the food that we have there, 259 00:10:26,360 --> 00:10:30,600 Speaker 2: the avocado toast, the vete bete, mozzarella and turkey melt 260 00:10:30,760 --> 00:10:33,080 Speaker 2: that we have sounds so good right now, yes, And 261 00:10:33,120 --> 00:10:34,920 Speaker 2: to try some of our coffee because we do have 262 00:10:35,000 --> 00:10:35,920 Speaker 2: Ethiopian coffee. 263 00:10:35,960 --> 00:10:37,319 Speaker 3: You know, Marcus is Ethiopian. 264 00:10:38,120 --> 00:10:40,319 Speaker 2: So that was really exciting for me over the weekend, 265 00:10:40,360 --> 00:10:42,520 Speaker 2: and then I watched a lot of TV. Okay, you know, 266 00:10:42,559 --> 00:10:44,360 Speaker 2: my parents have been at my house NonStop. 267 00:10:44,400 --> 00:10:44,880 Speaker 3: I love the. 268 00:10:44,880 --> 00:10:47,000 Speaker 4: Being at your house, by the way, I love it. 269 00:10:47,120 --> 00:10:50,440 Speaker 3: So I did. I did finish His and hers. 270 00:10:50,520 --> 00:10:52,439 Speaker 4: Okay, I gotta start. I'm gonna start tonight, go ahead. 271 00:10:52,520 --> 00:10:53,800 Speaker 3: I did watch the Rip. 272 00:10:53,760 --> 00:10:55,280 Speaker 4: Okay, we talked about that too. I gotta start. I 273 00:10:55,280 --> 00:10:55,880 Speaker 4: gotta finish that. 274 00:10:56,040 --> 00:10:59,439 Speaker 2: I did catch up on Married to Medicine, Okay, and 275 00:10:59,559 --> 00:11:01,000 Speaker 2: so those that's kind of what I did. 276 00:11:01,040 --> 00:11:02,160 Speaker 3: What about you, Jasmine Brow. 277 00:11:02,400 --> 00:11:04,240 Speaker 4: My friend Chantel was in town. She bought her kids 278 00:11:04,240 --> 00:11:06,000 Speaker 4: and her family. I had a lot of people over. 279 00:11:06,080 --> 00:11:08,760 Speaker 4: I'm not a really social I'm not a host, but 280 00:11:08,800 --> 00:11:10,559 Speaker 4: I had lots of people over. And then I came back. 281 00:11:10,600 --> 00:11:12,200 Speaker 4: I had a two hour delay, but I made it 282 00:11:12,240 --> 00:11:14,480 Speaker 4: and I had dinner last night and a story of 283 00:11:14,520 --> 00:11:18,120 Speaker 4: Queen's at Espresstaurant calls zenk I had the best lobster 284 00:11:18,200 --> 00:11:19,360 Speaker 4: riights of my life. 285 00:11:19,720 --> 00:11:22,440 Speaker 3: I have a painting in my house called zen. Now. 286 00:11:22,559 --> 00:11:24,000 Speaker 2: One thing I'm going to talk about because it was 287 00:11:24,040 --> 00:11:26,120 Speaker 2: part of the prep that I was sending Dan Yes 288 00:11:26,880 --> 00:11:30,280 Speaker 2: while he was celebrating his on his birthday because work 289 00:11:30,320 --> 00:11:33,400 Speaker 2: don't stop, you know what I mean. It was about 290 00:11:33,440 --> 00:11:38,079 Speaker 2: this whole Victoria and David Beckham's story with their son 291 00:11:38,160 --> 00:11:42,280 Speaker 2: Brooklyn Beckham. There's been all these public issues and he's 292 00:11:42,400 --> 00:11:46,840 Speaker 2: blocked his parents and you know, family members, and it 293 00:11:46,880 --> 00:11:52,640 Speaker 2: looks like he's choosing his relationship his wife over his parents. 294 00:11:53,559 --> 00:11:56,959 Speaker 2: That's kind of a broken down way, like kind of 295 00:11:56,960 --> 00:11:58,120 Speaker 2: a simplified way to say that. 296 00:11:58,480 --> 00:12:00,240 Speaker 3: But there's a lot going on behind the scene that 297 00:12:00,240 --> 00:12:00,600 Speaker 3: we don't know. 298 00:12:00,640 --> 00:12:02,080 Speaker 2: And he put out a post kind of trying to 299 00:12:02,080 --> 00:12:05,640 Speaker 2: explain to everybody that his parents are manipulating stories behind 300 00:12:05,679 --> 00:12:08,000 Speaker 2: the scenes, things that he felt like they did to 301 00:12:08,040 --> 00:12:11,240 Speaker 2: his wife. Right before the wedding, his mom was supposed 302 00:12:11,280 --> 00:12:13,000 Speaker 2: to design a dress. In the eleventh hour she did 303 00:12:13,000 --> 00:12:14,760 Speaker 2: in she had to scramble to find a new dress. 304 00:12:15,040 --> 00:12:17,000 Speaker 2: He said he was supposed to have a first dance 305 00:12:17,400 --> 00:12:21,040 Speaker 2: with his wife and then instead his mother interrupted, had 306 00:12:21,040 --> 00:12:23,079 Speaker 2: Mark Anthony performed, and he had to dance on stage 307 00:12:23,080 --> 00:12:24,520 Speaker 2: with his mom, and she was inappropriate. 308 00:12:24,559 --> 00:12:25,840 Speaker 4: I got to see that happening too. 309 00:12:26,040 --> 00:12:28,520 Speaker 3: All of these things. He was embarrassed. But we want 310 00:12:28,559 --> 00:12:29,440 Speaker 3: to ask you, guys. 311 00:12:29,600 --> 00:12:33,439 Speaker 2: People always talk about what's more important, right, your parents 312 00:12:33,559 --> 00:12:36,440 Speaker 2: or your significant other and the grand scheme of things. 313 00:12:36,480 --> 00:12:39,000 Speaker 2: Have you ever had to choose your partner over your parents? 314 00:12:39,200 --> 00:12:42,040 Speaker 2: Call us up eight hundred nine two fifty one fifty 315 00:12:42,040 --> 00:12:43,959 Speaker 2: and let us know. Have you ever had to choose 316 00:12:43,960 --> 00:12:47,640 Speaker 2: your partner over your parents? That's eight hundred nine to 317 00:12:47,640 --> 00:12:48,959 Speaker 2: two fifty one fifty. 318 00:12:49,000 --> 00:12:51,080 Speaker 3: How do you choose? It's way up, all. 319 00:12:51,040 --> 00:12:53,560 Speaker 2: Right, it's way up at Angela yee, I'm here, Jasmine 320 00:12:53,559 --> 00:12:54,199 Speaker 2: bringing is here. 321 00:12:54,360 --> 00:12:56,680 Speaker 4: I'm not just any brand. I'm my home band. 322 00:12:56,720 --> 00:12:59,760 Speaker 2: And we're talking about choosing your partner or over your parents. 323 00:12:59,800 --> 00:13:02,040 Speaker 3: That's like a reality show. Your partner or your parents. 324 00:13:02,120 --> 00:13:04,679 Speaker 2: Yep, and this is all over Brooklyn Beckham. He went 325 00:13:04,720 --> 00:13:07,960 Speaker 2: off on his parents, that's David and Victoria Beckham. He's 326 00:13:08,000 --> 00:13:10,440 Speaker 2: accused him of trying to ruin his marriage. He said, 327 00:13:10,440 --> 00:13:13,160 Speaker 2: I've been silent for years and made every effort to 328 00:13:13,240 --> 00:13:16,040 Speaker 2: keep these matters private. Unfortunately, my parents and their team 329 00:13:16,440 --> 00:13:18,560 Speaker 2: have continued to go to the press, and he tells 330 00:13:18,640 --> 00:13:23,280 Speaker 2: all the things that they've done. I do believe, though, 331 00:13:23,280 --> 00:13:25,320 Speaker 2: if my parents didn't like somebody I was with, there's 332 00:13:25,320 --> 00:13:25,839 Speaker 2: a good reason. 333 00:13:25,920 --> 00:13:28,280 Speaker 4: Yeah, it's probably probably valid. But you trust your parents, 334 00:13:28,320 --> 00:13:30,240 Speaker 4: and you know your parents. Everyone doesn't have that type 335 00:13:30,240 --> 00:13:30,520 Speaker 4: of parent. 336 00:13:30,559 --> 00:13:32,360 Speaker 2: When I was younger, though, it was not that way 337 00:13:32,400 --> 00:13:33,840 Speaker 2: because you kind of rebel against it. 338 00:13:33,880 --> 00:13:34,760 Speaker 4: You do the opposite. 339 00:13:34,800 --> 00:13:37,040 Speaker 2: All right, Well, Naya, you're going through it right now. 340 00:13:37,040 --> 00:13:37,920 Speaker 2: What's your situation. 341 00:13:38,960 --> 00:13:43,439 Speaker 7: Yeah, so I'm currently with the mom's lord, So I'm currently. 342 00:13:43,120 --> 00:13:43,840 Speaker 6: Going through that. 343 00:13:44,640 --> 00:13:47,200 Speaker 12: And it's just all about boundaries. If you or your 344 00:13:47,280 --> 00:13:50,319 Speaker 12: partner don't have that boundary, that's gonna happen. 345 00:13:50,440 --> 00:13:52,800 Speaker 3: Period. Is it that his mom doesn't like you? 346 00:13:53,000 --> 00:13:55,480 Speaker 4: Or what's the worst thing she's done in terms of like, 347 00:13:55,600 --> 00:13:58,360 Speaker 4: you know, you know him understand, because I don't understand 348 00:13:58,360 --> 00:13:59,360 Speaker 4: the levels of life. 349 00:14:00,040 --> 00:14:05,400 Speaker 12: Birthday was supposed to be all about me, and her 350 00:14:05,440 --> 00:14:09,080 Speaker 12: birthday is way far two months ahead of mine, and 351 00:14:09,920 --> 00:14:12,960 Speaker 12: the day before that we were supposed to take our flight, 352 00:14:13,600 --> 00:14:18,160 Speaker 12: she canceled our tickets. What the miles were a gift, 353 00:14:18,160 --> 00:14:21,640 Speaker 12: So it was all under her card and we had 354 00:14:21,640 --> 00:14:23,880 Speaker 12: gotten into it the week before and then the day 355 00:14:23,920 --> 00:14:26,480 Speaker 12: before she canceled them out a fight and was like, 356 00:14:26,600 --> 00:14:29,280 Speaker 12: I could use these miles for the trip that we're 357 00:14:29,280 --> 00:14:29,760 Speaker 12: going to go. 358 00:14:29,760 --> 00:14:31,320 Speaker 6: On next month. 359 00:14:33,760 --> 00:14:35,160 Speaker 4: That was we do. 360 00:14:36,120 --> 00:14:37,800 Speaker 12: We moved out the next. 361 00:14:37,560 --> 00:14:41,080 Speaker 4: Month, so y'all were living y'all were living with his mom. 362 00:14:41,200 --> 00:14:46,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, well thanks for sharing. Yeah, and I'm glad 363 00:14:46,520 --> 00:14:47,120 Speaker 2: it's working out. 364 00:14:48,320 --> 00:14:48,800 Speaker 7: Thank you. 365 00:14:49,600 --> 00:14:54,440 Speaker 2: I have a brief guinea and we want to know 366 00:14:54,480 --> 00:14:56,800 Speaker 2: about choosing your partner over your parents. 367 00:14:57,120 --> 00:14:59,040 Speaker 6: Well, let me start out about that happy New Year, 368 00:14:59,120 --> 00:15:01,520 Speaker 6: his first time. I made it through to you New Year. 369 00:15:01,720 --> 00:15:04,640 Speaker 2: You can only say that for ten more days, right, 370 00:15:04,800 --> 00:15:05,120 Speaker 2: I know it. 371 00:15:05,440 --> 00:15:08,040 Speaker 6: So you know, years ago, I was in an eight 372 00:15:08,160 --> 00:15:10,840 Speaker 6: year relationship and I've been in that situation where she 373 00:15:10,920 --> 00:15:12,040 Speaker 6: made me basically. 374 00:15:11,720 --> 00:15:14,800 Speaker 10: Choose my family and friends over her. And that's one 375 00:15:14,840 --> 00:15:17,600 Speaker 10: thing I'll never let another woman ever do. That's a 376 00:15:17,640 --> 00:15:19,840 Speaker 10: mistake because at the end of the day, your family 377 00:15:19,960 --> 00:15:21,720 Speaker 10: is always going to be your family, but you can't 378 00:15:21,720 --> 00:15:23,680 Speaker 10: guarantee that woman is always going to be your woman. 379 00:15:24,120 --> 00:15:26,160 Speaker 3: But what so, what was the issue they had with her? 380 00:15:26,640 --> 00:15:28,320 Speaker 6: So it's not that they had an issue with her. 381 00:15:28,520 --> 00:15:30,720 Speaker 6: She had an issue with my family. It was always 382 00:15:30,760 --> 00:15:33,360 Speaker 6: something like we go over there for a family gathering, 383 00:15:33,440 --> 00:15:34,720 Speaker 6: she would complain about. 384 00:15:34,440 --> 00:15:37,520 Speaker 10: The food or the way somebody was dressed, or the 385 00:15:37,520 --> 00:15:41,400 Speaker 10: way somebody was looking at her. 386 00:15:41,840 --> 00:15:44,880 Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, exactly. And it was just like always like 387 00:15:44,920 --> 00:15:47,360 Speaker 6: to see, I'm ready to go, Like we just got here, 388 00:15:47,400 --> 00:15:50,600 Speaker 6: what do you mean like we just anybody? So one 389 00:15:50,640 --> 00:15:52,400 Speaker 6: day I was just like, look, I'll over your home there. 390 00:15:52,880 --> 00:15:55,240 Speaker 6: I sent her uber and uber ass home and she 391 00:15:55,320 --> 00:15:56,479 Speaker 6: got mad. 392 00:15:58,480 --> 00:16:01,000 Speaker 3: But I'll be mad if you ruining my time. 393 00:16:01,560 --> 00:16:04,400 Speaker 6: Yeah exactly. You know what I mean, Like we are 394 00:16:04,440 --> 00:16:06,280 Speaker 6: having a good time and you want to be Debbie. 395 00:16:06,040 --> 00:16:10,240 Speaker 2: Down that if you don't want to be here, I'll 396 00:16:10,280 --> 00:16:12,080 Speaker 2: get you. I'll send you in an Uber. You don't 397 00:16:12,080 --> 00:16:13,560 Speaker 2: even got to call your own I'll get you a 398 00:16:13,600 --> 00:16:17,880 Speaker 2: black car home exactly, Okay. 399 00:16:17,960 --> 00:16:20,240 Speaker 3: And I know your family was probably like get her 400 00:16:20,240 --> 00:16:20,720 Speaker 3: out of here. 401 00:16:21,480 --> 00:16:21,720 Speaker 8: Yeah. 402 00:16:21,760 --> 00:16:24,040 Speaker 6: And you know, after I finally ended my family, my 403 00:16:24,040 --> 00:16:26,320 Speaker 6: mom and I was like, damn enough. 404 00:16:27,720 --> 00:16:31,720 Speaker 3: They knew learn all right. Well, thank you for that, y'all. 405 00:16:31,760 --> 00:16:33,360 Speaker 3: Have a good one you too, well, thank. 406 00:16:33,240 --> 00:16:35,440 Speaker 2: You guys for calling. We're talking about choosing your partner 407 00:16:35,480 --> 00:16:37,400 Speaker 2: over your parents. And you can still call and leave 408 00:16:37,440 --> 00:16:40,760 Speaker 2: a message for last Word with your own experience and 409 00:16:40,800 --> 00:16:44,800 Speaker 2: when we come back, Oh, Jasmine, Yes, just imagine the 410 00:16:44,840 --> 00:16:49,200 Speaker 2: fallout that happened where Ari Fletcher and Jada Wada. Now, 411 00:16:49,320 --> 00:16:52,600 Speaker 2: this all started because Jada was on live answering some 412 00:16:52,720 --> 00:16:56,640 Speaker 2: questions and she says that Arian little Baby had a thing. 413 00:16:57,120 --> 00:16:59,680 Speaker 2: And Ari Fletcher has since responded, and we'll tell you 414 00:16:59,720 --> 00:17:00,960 Speaker 2: about the back and forth. 415 00:17:01,040 --> 00:17:03,080 Speaker 3: It's way up, all right, his way up at Angela. 416 00:17:03,160 --> 00:17:07,119 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm here with my messy friend, Jasmine brand of 417 00:17:07,280 --> 00:17:09,920 Speaker 2: my own brand man, and you were like, yes, let's 418 00:17:09,960 --> 00:17:13,840 Speaker 2: talk about this Ari Fletcher versus Jada Wada drama that's 419 00:17:13,840 --> 00:17:14,480 Speaker 2: been going on. 420 00:17:15,040 --> 00:17:15,240 Speaker 6: Now. 421 00:17:15,320 --> 00:17:19,520 Speaker 2: This all started where Jada made some allegations on the 422 00:17:19,560 --> 00:17:25,880 Speaker 2: stream that I guess confirming in her eyes, the rumors 423 00:17:25,880 --> 00:17:28,920 Speaker 2: that Ari was having relations with little Baby. Here's what 424 00:17:28,960 --> 00:17:35,120 Speaker 2: was said, that's been a thing, but I don't want 425 00:17:35,119 --> 00:17:35,720 Speaker 2: to talk about that. 426 00:17:36,440 --> 00:17:37,000 Speaker 4: Yikes. 427 00:17:37,240 --> 00:17:39,920 Speaker 2: She confirmed those rumors and then said, but I don't 428 00:17:39,920 --> 00:17:40,920 Speaker 2: want to talk about that. 429 00:17:42,720 --> 00:17:43,040 Speaker 3: Now. 430 00:17:44,040 --> 00:17:47,040 Speaker 2: This was the perfect time for Ari to launch her twitch. Yes, 431 00:17:47,280 --> 00:17:49,960 Speaker 2: by the way, because everybody was tuned into that first 432 00:17:50,040 --> 00:17:52,920 Speaker 2: episode to see if she was going to respond to that. 433 00:17:53,280 --> 00:17:55,560 Speaker 2: She had seventy thousand people on there. 434 00:17:55,600 --> 00:17:57,280 Speaker 4: Wow, a lot of people. 435 00:17:57,440 --> 00:18:01,199 Speaker 2: That's some good money, and everybody was tuning in to 436 00:18:01,240 --> 00:18:04,760 Speaker 2: see what was she about to say? Well, here is 437 00:18:05,480 --> 00:18:07,040 Speaker 2: Ari talking about Jada. 438 00:18:07,640 --> 00:18:13,600 Speaker 3: You believe that was it? 439 00:18:12,880 --> 00:18:13,639 Speaker 12: That's it? 440 00:18:13,760 --> 00:18:18,199 Speaker 2: So pissed if I was tuned in, Yes, But I 441 00:18:18,200 --> 00:18:21,320 Speaker 2: also I'm not surprised you know what I'm saying, because 442 00:18:21,480 --> 00:18:22,880 Speaker 2: Ari's like, you believe that? 443 00:18:23,119 --> 00:18:24,680 Speaker 3: Like I question your judgment. 444 00:18:24,880 --> 00:18:25,040 Speaker 6: Now. 445 00:18:25,040 --> 00:18:30,440 Speaker 2: I also saw Jada was on and she was questioned 446 00:18:30,640 --> 00:18:32,359 Speaker 2: directly about whether or not. 447 00:18:34,119 --> 00:18:34,560 Speaker 3: We don't have it. 448 00:18:34,560 --> 00:18:37,919 Speaker 2: Okay, Well here's what Jada said about whether or not 449 00:18:37,960 --> 00:18:40,480 Speaker 2: that was true. She said, I got too much money 450 00:18:40,480 --> 00:18:42,840 Speaker 2: to lie on three or fours to get sue for defamation. 451 00:18:43,080 --> 00:18:43,600 Speaker 3: Good night. 452 00:18:43,760 --> 00:18:45,080 Speaker 4: So she's not gonna say anything, but she don't want 453 00:18:45,080 --> 00:18:45,960 Speaker 4: to get hit with the lawsuit. 454 00:18:46,000 --> 00:18:47,920 Speaker 2: Now, what this did do was make everybody go back 455 00:18:47,960 --> 00:18:50,280 Speaker 2: to the Impact Atlanta and look at when the two 456 00:18:50,280 --> 00:18:53,000 Speaker 2: of them fell out, they had tension. They sat down 457 00:18:53,040 --> 00:18:56,280 Speaker 2: and had a conversation about the tension. I guess at 458 00:18:56,280 --> 00:18:58,760 Speaker 2: one point Dada felt like Ari was taking shots on 459 00:18:58,800 --> 00:19:02,760 Speaker 2: her close friends, on instance Grim saying things like watch 460 00:19:02,760 --> 00:19:04,760 Speaker 2: her baby daddy and stuff like that, and she was, 461 00:19:04,920 --> 00:19:06,880 Speaker 2: I guess I better call Dominique like and see what's 462 00:19:06,880 --> 00:19:10,199 Speaker 2: going on. So people are speculating that maybe this was 463 00:19:10,200 --> 00:19:12,800 Speaker 2: something that Jada been knew about, but we don't know 464 00:19:12,840 --> 00:19:13,520 Speaker 2: the full story. 465 00:19:13,640 --> 00:19:15,880 Speaker 4: Yeah, but I'm gonna I'm gonna speculate, and I think 466 00:19:16,080 --> 00:19:20,280 Speaker 4: I think she may have been with her baby. 467 00:19:20,080 --> 00:19:22,200 Speaker 2: Daddy because I can't imagine saying that if you didn't 468 00:19:22,240 --> 00:19:24,919 Speaker 2: have like the real facts, and you know, you know, 469 00:19:25,160 --> 00:19:27,359 Speaker 2: but you know, boss balls and Ari's court now. 470 00:19:27,280 --> 00:19:29,439 Speaker 4: So Ari, let us know. Please, the people want to know. 471 00:19:29,520 --> 00:19:30,240 Speaker 4: I am the people. 472 00:19:30,440 --> 00:19:32,199 Speaker 2: Yeah, And you know, you can't be friends with some 473 00:19:32,320 --> 00:19:35,000 Speaker 2: I don't like to mar friends. They're not both confirmed 474 00:19:35,000 --> 00:19:35,960 Speaker 2: that they're not friends. 475 00:19:35,960 --> 00:19:37,720 Speaker 4: And maybe that's always thinking she's not my friend. 476 00:19:37,720 --> 00:19:39,200 Speaker 3: We're not cool all right now. 477 00:19:39,240 --> 00:19:42,440 Speaker 2: Pam Greer Let's switch gears completely was on the view 478 00:19:42,720 --> 00:19:46,760 Speaker 2: and it was during the Martin Luther King Junior Day episode, 479 00:19:47,320 --> 00:19:49,760 Speaker 2: and she talked about things that she witnessed. You know, 480 00:19:49,840 --> 00:19:52,880 Speaker 2: she's part of that a huge part of the black 481 00:19:52,880 --> 00:19:58,919 Speaker 2: exploitation film movement. And she's also got her own platform 482 00:19:59,000 --> 00:20:02,359 Speaker 2: now it's called so Fixed, where she highlights impactful black 483 00:20:02,400 --> 00:20:06,160 Speaker 2: cinema and television projects that have shaped the industry, And 484 00:20:06,480 --> 00:20:09,200 Speaker 2: she talked about experiences that she had as a kid 485 00:20:09,760 --> 00:20:10,400 Speaker 2: growing up that. 486 00:20:10,400 --> 00:20:12,080 Speaker 3: Still haunt her to this day. 487 00:20:12,960 --> 00:20:15,680 Speaker 2: The military wouldn't allow black families to live on the base, 488 00:20:15,800 --> 00:20:17,480 Speaker 2: so you have to live in an apartment. 489 00:20:17,080 --> 00:20:19,520 Speaker 3: And you couldn't take a bus, you couldn't afford a car. 490 00:20:19,600 --> 00:20:22,639 Speaker 3: You walk and my mom wouldn't look. Don't look. She 491 00:20:22,800 --> 00:20:25,200 Speaker 3: pulls away because there is someone hanging. 492 00:20:24,920 --> 00:20:28,239 Speaker 9: From a tree and they have a memorial for it 493 00:20:28,280 --> 00:20:31,479 Speaker 9: now where you can see where people were and left. 494 00:20:32,600 --> 00:20:32,840 Speaker 3: Wow. 495 00:20:33,080 --> 00:20:35,280 Speaker 2: Can you imagine as a time and when people act 496 00:20:35,320 --> 00:20:38,080 Speaker 2: like racism is whatever and it's in the past. And 497 00:20:38,480 --> 00:20:41,280 Speaker 2: the fact that people who are still alive today witnessed 498 00:20:41,359 --> 00:20:43,439 Speaker 2: so much of that, The fact that redlining has had 499 00:20:43,480 --> 00:20:45,520 Speaker 2: such an impact on real estate today. You can even 500 00:20:45,600 --> 00:20:49,159 Speaker 2: see the numbers in certain markets where redlining existed in 501 00:20:49,200 --> 00:20:51,560 Speaker 2: how the values of those homes to this day. 502 00:20:52,000 --> 00:20:53,200 Speaker 3: It really does matter a lot. 503 00:20:53,280 --> 00:20:55,640 Speaker 4: And she's only seventy six. It's not that far removed. 504 00:20:55,640 --> 00:20:58,000 Speaker 2: Like you just said, all right, well that is your 505 00:20:58,119 --> 00:21:00,000 Speaker 2: Yet when we come back, we have under the radar 506 00:21:00,119 --> 00:21:01,280 Speaker 2: stories that are not in the headlines. 507 00:21:01,320 --> 00:21:03,480 Speaker 3: They're flying under the radar, but you need to know 508 00:21:03,520 --> 00:21:03,879 Speaker 3: about it. 509 00:21:03,880 --> 00:21:06,320 Speaker 2: In the meantime, let's listen to some Jay Cole while 510 00:21:06,320 --> 00:21:08,120 Speaker 2: we wait for some new music from him, some more 511 00:21:08,160 --> 00:21:10,679 Speaker 2: new music, and shout out to everybody in Detroit. You 512 00:21:10,760 --> 00:21:12,840 Speaker 2: are in under the radar. When we come back, it's 513 00:21:12,880 --> 00:21:14,879 Speaker 2: way up. Oh, it's way up. But Angela, yeah, I'm 514 00:21:14,920 --> 00:21:15,960 Speaker 2: here with Jasmine brand. 515 00:21:16,240 --> 00:21:19,120 Speaker 4: I'm not just I'm my own brand. 516 00:21:19,119 --> 00:21:22,600 Speaker 2: All right, And now let's talk about under the radar stories. 517 00:21:22,640 --> 00:21:25,840 Speaker 2: So you know it's cold here, it's a freezing but 518 00:21:25,920 --> 00:21:28,240 Speaker 2: you know it's really cold right now in Detroit, I 519 00:21:28,359 --> 00:21:31,679 Speaker 2: was watching and in Michigan in general, I was watching, 520 00:21:31,760 --> 00:21:35,720 Speaker 2: like the highway all backed up, the streets being frozen. Well, 521 00:21:35,760 --> 00:21:38,600 Speaker 2: what they're saying is a January freeze is taking cold 522 00:21:39,080 --> 00:21:42,320 Speaker 2: taking hold across the United States, but Metro Detroit is 523 00:21:42,320 --> 00:21:47,719 Speaker 2: getting the coldest air so far this winter. According to reports, 524 00:21:47,800 --> 00:21:49,960 Speaker 2: it's gonna be sub zero wind chills. 525 00:21:50,320 --> 00:21:52,000 Speaker 3: What does that? And that's gonna be. 526 00:21:52,160 --> 00:21:55,679 Speaker 2: Through Tuesday and Friday and Saturday are shaping up to 527 00:21:55,760 --> 00:21:57,120 Speaker 2: approach record lows. 528 00:21:57,280 --> 00:21:59,760 Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, and Detroit a beyond. 529 00:22:00,040 --> 00:22:03,840 Speaker 2: So I'm just saying, everybody make sure you are super 530 00:22:03,880 --> 00:22:07,600 Speaker 2: bundled up Yeah, anything that you can do, like to to. 531 00:22:07,480 --> 00:22:09,960 Speaker 4: Help checking your people. Yeah, check on your people too. 532 00:22:10,000 --> 00:22:11,960 Speaker 3: You know during this time, make sure you go ahead 533 00:22:12,000 --> 00:22:12,439 Speaker 3: and do that. 534 00:22:12,520 --> 00:22:15,560 Speaker 2: But everywhere it's been record cold temperatures, even here. 535 00:22:15,600 --> 00:22:17,040 Speaker 3: I'm going to Chicago this weekend. 536 00:22:17,080 --> 00:22:18,560 Speaker 4: Oh it's gonna be cold, and it's. 537 00:22:18,359 --> 00:22:21,520 Speaker 3: Gonna be cold in Chicago, all right. 538 00:22:21,640 --> 00:22:24,840 Speaker 2: So another thing I just want to make sure also 539 00:22:24,920 --> 00:22:27,200 Speaker 2: as you're traveling, because I know you're traveling a lot, 540 00:22:27,520 --> 00:22:30,239 Speaker 2: just make sure you're paying attention to flights, yes, and 541 00:22:30,280 --> 00:22:32,159 Speaker 2: everything that's going on, because there's been a lot of 542 00:22:32,200 --> 00:22:33,120 Speaker 2: canceled flights. 543 00:22:33,920 --> 00:22:35,400 Speaker 3: You know, they're talking about here in New York City. 544 00:22:35,400 --> 00:22:38,199 Speaker 2: There's going to be more snow coming and this up 545 00:22:38,240 --> 00:22:41,120 Speaker 2: to five inches expected, so make sure you check on that. 546 00:22:41,160 --> 00:22:43,960 Speaker 2: But there's more than forty three million people under cold 547 00:22:44,000 --> 00:22:46,520 Speaker 2: weather alerts. That's from the upper Midwest to the central 548 00:22:46,560 --> 00:22:49,440 Speaker 2: Appalachians into the northeast, even at central Florida. 549 00:22:49,640 --> 00:22:51,159 Speaker 4: Wow, I can't imagine people. 550 00:22:50,880 --> 00:22:53,520 Speaker 2: Are under cold weather alerts. I was just in Memphis 551 00:22:53,600 --> 00:22:57,679 Speaker 2: last week. I wasn't freezing really and to me, thirty 552 00:22:57,720 --> 00:23:00,119 Speaker 2: degrees is like okay, yeah, but they were like, oh 553 00:23:00,200 --> 00:23:03,680 Speaker 2: my god, you know it is to everybody in Memphis. 554 00:23:03,720 --> 00:23:05,800 Speaker 3: They were like, the week before this, it was seventy degrees. 555 00:23:05,840 --> 00:23:06,880 Speaker 3: I don't know what's happening. 556 00:23:07,240 --> 00:23:10,120 Speaker 2: And my friend Santi, who's from Philly, she's staying here. 557 00:23:10,240 --> 00:23:12,000 Speaker 2: She lives in La now, she's been living in LA 558 00:23:12,080 --> 00:23:13,080 Speaker 2: for like eight years. 559 00:23:14,320 --> 00:23:18,000 Speaker 3: She is suffering. Girl, you used to live out here. 560 00:23:18,119 --> 00:23:18,840 Speaker 3: What's the problem? 561 00:23:18,920 --> 00:23:19,800 Speaker 4: Her body forgot? 562 00:23:20,000 --> 00:23:22,880 Speaker 2: Every time we step outside, She's like, this is ridiculous. 563 00:23:24,000 --> 00:23:26,119 Speaker 2: All right, Well, what I am excited about today is 564 00:23:26,119 --> 00:23:29,360 Speaker 2: that we do have Melanie Sanders joining us, the founder 565 00:23:29,440 --> 00:23:31,400 Speaker 2: of that We Do Not Care Club, and she also 566 00:23:31,440 --> 00:23:33,960 Speaker 2: has that We Do Not Care hand book that I 567 00:23:34,000 --> 00:23:37,200 Speaker 2: had a chance to read, and it's about women in perimenopause, menopause, 568 00:23:37,200 --> 00:23:39,199 Speaker 2: and postmenopause, putting the world down. 569 00:23:39,280 --> 00:23:42,760 Speaker 3: Noticed that we simply do not care much anymore. 570 00:23:43,160 --> 00:23:45,600 Speaker 2: She is one of People's twenty twenty five Creators of 571 00:23:45,640 --> 00:23:49,760 Speaker 2: the Year, and I just think that people are really excited. 572 00:23:50,040 --> 00:23:52,119 Speaker 2: I am to be able to enjoying this movement, and 573 00:23:52,240 --> 00:23:54,000 Speaker 2: I just wanted to clear right now that we really 574 00:23:54,040 --> 00:23:54,480 Speaker 2: don't care. 575 00:23:54,560 --> 00:23:54,960 Speaker 4: We don't. 576 00:23:55,240 --> 00:23:58,680 Speaker 2: You see how I dress. We still look cute, though, Yeah, 577 00:23:58,720 --> 00:24:00,960 Speaker 2: we don't care. Though the way it mix is coming 578 00:24:01,000 --> 00:24:03,160 Speaker 2: at the top of the hour, plus Melanie Sanders is going. 579 00:24:03,080 --> 00:24:05,080 Speaker 3: To be joining us. It's way up. What's up? 580 00:24:05,080 --> 00:24:07,720 Speaker 2: His way up at Angela Yee, Jasmine Brand is here. Yes, 581 00:24:07,960 --> 00:24:10,159 Speaker 2: this story is for you, Jasmine Brand, you and for 582 00:24:10,240 --> 00:24:12,920 Speaker 2: everybody else who watches movies while on the phone. 583 00:24:12,920 --> 00:24:14,160 Speaker 3: I'm scrolling all right. 584 00:24:14,359 --> 00:24:17,160 Speaker 2: Matt Damon says that Netflix wants movies to restate their 585 00:24:17,200 --> 00:24:18,320 Speaker 2: plot many times. 586 00:24:18,400 --> 00:24:19,200 Speaker 3: Here's what he said. 587 00:24:19,400 --> 00:24:21,520 Speaker 13: You know, you're watching in a room, the lights are on, 588 00:24:21,680 --> 00:24:25,160 Speaker 13: others going on. It's just a very different level of attention, 589 00:24:25,680 --> 00:24:27,480 Speaker 13: and that has a big effect, and it also ends 590 00:24:27,560 --> 00:24:29,159 Speaker 13: up having an effect, or is starting to have an 591 00:24:29,160 --> 00:24:32,040 Speaker 13: effect on how you make movies. You know, it wouldn't 592 00:24:32,040 --> 00:24:35,320 Speaker 13: be terrible if you reiterated the plot three or four 593 00:24:35,320 --> 00:24:38,080 Speaker 13: times in the dialogue, because people are on their phones 594 00:24:38,119 --> 00:24:39,360 Speaker 13: while they're watching. 595 00:24:39,160 --> 00:24:39,840 Speaker 10: You know what I mean. 596 00:24:40,119 --> 00:24:42,119 Speaker 2: So he was on the Joe Rogan experience and he 597 00:24:42,240 --> 00:24:45,000 Speaker 2: was given all kinds of gems about that, about Ai, 598 00:24:45,119 --> 00:24:48,119 Speaker 2: about everything. I did actually watch the rip, and I 599 00:24:48,119 --> 00:24:50,040 Speaker 2: have to tell my man and my dad to get off. 600 00:24:49,960 --> 00:24:52,240 Speaker 4: The phone, said, when you and I watch things together, 601 00:24:52,280 --> 00:24:53,120 Speaker 4: you tell me gailf the phone. 602 00:24:53,240 --> 00:24:55,479 Speaker 2: That's so annoying to me, Like the only reason I'm 603 00:24:55,560 --> 00:24:56,480 Speaker 2: up on so I'm trying to work. 604 00:24:56,520 --> 00:24:58,520 Speaker 4: But I understand, Yeah, I get it. 605 00:24:58,560 --> 00:24:59,919 Speaker 2: If you're in the movie theater, are you on your 606 00:25:00,480 --> 00:25:02,160 Speaker 2: You're like a Broadway play. Are you on your phone? 607 00:25:02,200 --> 00:25:02,320 Speaker 6: Now? 608 00:25:02,400 --> 00:25:04,160 Speaker 4: But when I'm at home, I am on my phone, so. 609 00:25:04,119 --> 00:25:05,639 Speaker 3: If you're watching a movie. 610 00:25:06,160 --> 00:25:09,480 Speaker 2: Also, speaking of Netflix, they've also officially agreed to pay 611 00:25:09,520 --> 00:25:13,040 Speaker 2: all casts for that Warner Brothers, Discovery Studios, and HBO 612 00:25:13,160 --> 00:25:16,480 Speaker 2: Max deal, and that is to kind of make sure 613 00:25:16,480 --> 00:25:19,280 Speaker 2: that Paramount is not going to take over because remember 614 00:25:19,320 --> 00:25:20,679 Speaker 2: there was that rival bid. 615 00:25:21,240 --> 00:25:22,880 Speaker 3: Now, the original agreement. 616 00:25:22,600 --> 00:25:25,840 Speaker 2: Was eighty four percent cash, but Paramount was offering one 617 00:25:25,880 --> 00:25:28,720 Speaker 2: hundred percent. So now they're offering one hundred percent cash. 618 00:25:28,720 --> 00:25:31,440 Speaker 2: And they're also trying to close this deal by April, 619 00:25:31,480 --> 00:25:33,800 Speaker 2: so they're really fast tracking this. 620 00:25:33,960 --> 00:25:36,320 Speaker 3: That's just crazy to make it happen all right. 621 00:25:36,359 --> 00:25:39,120 Speaker 2: Now, speaking of movies, acep Rocky talks about the first 622 00:25:39,160 --> 00:25:41,520 Speaker 2: time he met Rihanna and what that was like. It 623 00:25:41,560 --> 00:25:44,400 Speaker 2: was actually outside of a club in New York City 624 00:25:44,400 --> 00:25:46,000 Speaker 2: and he could not get into the club. 625 00:25:46,320 --> 00:25:48,080 Speaker 3: You know how embarrassing that is. Here's what he said 626 00:25:48,119 --> 00:25:48,840 Speaker 3: on Jimmy Gallen. 627 00:25:49,080 --> 00:25:52,000 Speaker 14: We met outside of a night club ironically in New York. 628 00:25:52,160 --> 00:25:55,560 Speaker 14: I wasn't famous at the time. She was obviously Rihanna. 629 00:25:55,280 --> 00:25:56,240 Speaker 3: And I couldn't get in. 630 00:25:56,400 --> 00:25:58,800 Speaker 14: We kind of was getting into it with the bounces 631 00:25:58,840 --> 00:26:01,399 Speaker 14: and she kind of came out. We locked eyes right away, 632 00:26:01,600 --> 00:26:03,760 Speaker 14: and I was just like in the days, and you know, 633 00:26:04,320 --> 00:26:06,399 Speaker 14: I was a little embarrassed that she caught me, like, 634 00:26:06,600 --> 00:26:08,120 Speaker 14: you know, bickering with the guard and. 635 00:26:08,080 --> 00:26:08,639 Speaker 12: Stuff like that. 636 00:26:09,800 --> 00:26:10,320 Speaker 3: It's not me. 637 00:26:10,720 --> 00:26:11,840 Speaker 2: I'm cool, I'm on the list. 638 00:26:12,359 --> 00:26:13,320 Speaker 4: She helped you get in it. 639 00:26:13,600 --> 00:26:16,879 Speaker 2: No, that is so cute, though, That is cute. You 640 00:26:16,920 --> 00:26:19,119 Speaker 2: know you had a powerful woman. Yeah, she could have 641 00:26:19,200 --> 00:26:21,600 Speaker 2: got you in the club. Awkward, all right. He also 642 00:26:21,680 --> 00:26:23,800 Speaker 2: has announced his Don't Be Dumb to Our dayton. Like 643 00:26:23,840 --> 00:26:25,840 Speaker 2: I said earlier, he's on track to sell two hundred 644 00:26:25,920 --> 00:26:28,800 Speaker 2: thousand in the first week and that tour kicks off 645 00:26:28,840 --> 00:26:31,480 Speaker 2: May twenty seventh in Chicago and so far it ends 646 00:26:31,560 --> 00:26:34,280 Speaker 2: July eleventh and Newark, New Jersey. So shout out to 647 00:26:34,320 --> 00:26:37,080 Speaker 2: Asap Rocky for having some strong first week sales. 648 00:26:37,680 --> 00:26:41,200 Speaker 3: And I'll be sure and Lou now are they dating now? 649 00:26:41,680 --> 00:26:45,280 Speaker 2: But they have sparked relationship rumors with very public displays 650 00:26:45,320 --> 00:26:45,800 Speaker 2: of affection. 651 00:26:46,320 --> 00:26:47,720 Speaker 3: Here's what that sounded like. 652 00:26:47,920 --> 00:26:50,000 Speaker 5: Not that we need to bee like clear anything up 653 00:26:50,240 --> 00:26:51,800 Speaker 5: that people feel I'm. 654 00:26:51,680 --> 00:26:55,760 Speaker 9: Unworthy of your love, darling, because I love you so much. 655 00:26:55,800 --> 00:26:59,560 Speaker 5: Journey unworthy if you only knew the journey I was in. 656 00:26:59,680 --> 00:27:03,520 Speaker 6: Come Hyeah, you're calling me fucking in my ear. 657 00:27:03,400 --> 00:27:06,800 Speaker 10: When I was on the other side and this nothing. 658 00:27:06,600 --> 00:27:09,480 Speaker 2: New, messing you. Some people thought this was just pressed, 659 00:27:09,480 --> 00:27:11,080 Speaker 2: but they really are on each other. 660 00:27:11,240 --> 00:27:13,359 Speaker 4: I'm some people, Angela. I thought they were just joking. 661 00:27:13,680 --> 00:27:15,680 Speaker 2: But you know what he said that she was there 662 00:27:15,680 --> 00:27:17,160 Speaker 2: for him when he was in a home. I'm sure 663 00:27:17,200 --> 00:27:19,640 Speaker 2: that meant a lot to him too, And so they 664 00:27:19,640 --> 00:27:22,360 Speaker 2: could be trolling or this could be real. But if 665 00:27:22,359 --> 00:27:23,679 Speaker 2: it's real, I love it. 666 00:27:23,800 --> 00:27:24,040 Speaker 4: Yep. 667 00:27:24,320 --> 00:27:26,560 Speaker 2: All right, Well that is your yet and when we 668 00:27:26,600 --> 00:27:28,880 Speaker 2: come back, we have asked yee eight hundred and two 669 00:27:28,960 --> 00:27:30,320 Speaker 2: nine two fifty one fifty. 670 00:27:30,680 --> 00:27:32,560 Speaker 3: Jasmine Brand and I are here to help you out. 671 00:27:32,560 --> 00:27:34,719 Speaker 3: It's way up. What's up? Its way up with Angela. 672 00:27:34,800 --> 00:27:37,359 Speaker 2: Ye, I'm Angela Yee and Jasmine Brand is here with me, 673 00:27:37,840 --> 00:27:40,640 Speaker 2: and it's time for ask yee. Eight hundred two nine 674 00:27:40,640 --> 00:27:43,000 Speaker 2: two fifty one fifty is a number. We have Mariah 675 00:27:43,000 --> 00:27:44,440 Speaker 2: on the line. What's that Mariah? 676 00:27:44,680 --> 00:27:48,639 Speaker 3: Hey, girl, How you doing? Okay? How are you girl? Power? 677 00:27:48,880 --> 00:27:49,400 Speaker 3: What's good? 678 00:27:50,280 --> 00:27:51,040 Speaker 6: Oh no, that's ray. 679 00:27:51,119 --> 00:27:53,240 Speaker 8: I'm like, let me tell my homegirl because she gets 680 00:27:53,280 --> 00:27:55,000 Speaker 8: the best advice and I need it. 681 00:27:55,240 --> 00:27:56,160 Speaker 3: Okay, we're listening. 682 00:27:57,040 --> 00:27:59,800 Speaker 8: I was having a three year affair. Everything was good, 683 00:28:00,280 --> 00:28:05,960 Speaker 8: esthetic and then I got pregnant. They become wife finds 684 00:28:06,000 --> 00:28:08,520 Speaker 8: out because I had to tell her because you're not 685 00:28:08,600 --> 00:28:10,320 Speaker 8: gonna not take care of my kids. 686 00:28:10,320 --> 00:28:13,160 Speaker 3: Wow, you tell he didn't tell his wife? You did? 687 00:28:13,640 --> 00:28:13,840 Speaker 7: Yeah? 688 00:28:13,880 --> 00:28:16,960 Speaker 8: I had to because after I got pregnant, he started 689 00:28:17,000 --> 00:28:18,920 Speaker 8: acting kind of iffy. 690 00:28:19,000 --> 00:28:20,359 Speaker 6: So I have the. 691 00:28:20,440 --> 00:28:24,040 Speaker 8: Baby or whatever, and everything's good for like the first 692 00:28:24,080 --> 00:28:27,080 Speaker 8: three months, and then he wanted me to sit on 693 00:28:27,119 --> 00:28:29,119 Speaker 8: the side when I was the side, Like, how is 694 00:28:29,160 --> 00:28:32,960 Speaker 8: that possible? So he went back to the white and 695 00:28:33,520 --> 00:28:36,040 Speaker 8: haven't heard from him since I go put him on 696 00:28:36,119 --> 00:28:39,400 Speaker 8: child support. So now he's mad that he's on child support, 697 00:28:39,960 --> 00:28:41,200 Speaker 8: but he hasn't paid it. 698 00:28:42,080 --> 00:28:44,400 Speaker 2: Oh well, if he doesn't pay his child support, that's 699 00:28:44,440 --> 00:28:46,680 Speaker 2: gonna be his own legal issues that he's gonna have 700 00:28:46,680 --> 00:28:47,080 Speaker 2: to deal with. 701 00:28:47,160 --> 00:28:50,280 Speaker 3: That's on him. And just so you know, we can't 702 00:28:50,320 --> 00:28:52,320 Speaker 3: condone like you know, you know what it was. You 703 00:28:52,320 --> 00:28:53,240 Speaker 3: were the side piece. 704 00:28:53,800 --> 00:28:56,360 Speaker 2: You got pregnant, told his wife he was mad, but 705 00:28:56,400 --> 00:28:58,280 Speaker 2: then his wife kicked him out. He ended up coming 706 00:28:58,280 --> 00:29:00,280 Speaker 2: with you, and then he did the same thing to 707 00:29:00,320 --> 00:29:01,840 Speaker 2: you that he did to her. He got a lot 708 00:29:01,880 --> 00:29:05,320 Speaker 2: of issues. Yes, you have a beautiful child now, but 709 00:29:05,440 --> 00:29:08,200 Speaker 2: you have a father who was never really going to 710 00:29:08,280 --> 00:29:10,440 Speaker 2: be the man that he needed to be for any 711 00:29:10,520 --> 00:29:12,840 Speaker 2: woman or you know that alone. 712 00:29:12,560 --> 00:29:16,800 Speaker 3: A child. So I just feel like all you can 713 00:29:16,880 --> 00:29:18,520 Speaker 3: do is make him pay what he. 714 00:29:18,480 --> 00:29:20,440 Speaker 2: Needs to pay if he wants to see his child. 715 00:29:20,880 --> 00:29:23,080 Speaker 2: You know, hopefully he'll come around to be a better 716 00:29:23,120 --> 00:29:26,280 Speaker 2: co parent. As far as dating, is it somebody you 717 00:29:26,320 --> 00:29:27,000 Speaker 2: still want to be with? 718 00:29:27,840 --> 00:29:28,960 Speaker 8: No, not at all. 719 00:29:29,000 --> 00:29:29,240 Speaker 14: You know. 720 00:29:29,440 --> 00:29:34,000 Speaker 8: Honestly, with me not having my first daughter's dad around, 721 00:29:34,120 --> 00:29:37,440 Speaker 8: I really was just trying to make it so that 722 00:29:37,560 --> 00:29:40,440 Speaker 8: my other daughter can have a dad, I guess, but 723 00:29:40,560 --> 00:29:42,000 Speaker 8: I never really wanted him. 724 00:29:42,200 --> 00:29:44,920 Speaker 3: The thing about it is, you know I already moved on. 725 00:29:45,080 --> 00:29:47,680 Speaker 8: I'm pregnant already with a whole nother situation. 726 00:29:47,920 --> 00:29:49,880 Speaker 4: Wow, I'm a fertile girl. 727 00:29:49,960 --> 00:29:54,240 Speaker 3: Okay, okay, so who is this guy now? 728 00:29:54,840 --> 00:29:55,760 Speaker 8: Game situation? 729 00:29:56,160 --> 00:29:56,560 Speaker 6: What not? 730 00:29:56,720 --> 00:29:58,440 Speaker 4: Come on, Mariah, they. 731 00:29:58,320 --> 00:30:00,880 Speaker 3: Don't come married, you just out later. 732 00:30:01,000 --> 00:30:03,320 Speaker 4: You see little things, Yeah, you see little red flags 733 00:30:03,320 --> 00:30:04,120 Speaker 4: that you probably ignore. 734 00:30:04,520 --> 00:30:06,240 Speaker 8: Yeah, I speed past them every time. 735 00:30:06,400 --> 00:30:11,240 Speaker 2: Don't ignore those red flags you know already. All right, Well, Mariah, 736 00:30:11,240 --> 00:30:13,239 Speaker 2: all I can tell you is, you know, be the 737 00:30:13,280 --> 00:30:16,080 Speaker 2: best mom that you can be from this point moving forward. 738 00:30:16,280 --> 00:30:18,880 Speaker 2: But I do want you to take some accountability and 739 00:30:18,960 --> 00:30:25,840 Speaker 2: make some better, smarter decisions for yourself. Sure, yeah, accountability 740 00:30:25,920 --> 00:30:26,280 Speaker 2: is key. 741 00:30:26,840 --> 00:30:27,920 Speaker 3: Okay, we could try. 742 00:30:28,200 --> 00:30:30,480 Speaker 2: All right, Well, good stub luck to you, and please 743 00:30:30,520 --> 00:30:33,400 Speaker 2: have a safe pregnancy and don't stress yourself out o 744 00:30:33,480 --> 00:30:34,680 Speaker 2: the things you can't control. 745 00:30:35,160 --> 00:30:39,400 Speaker 3: I'm not as right, okay, girl, that was ask. 746 00:30:39,400 --> 00:30:41,760 Speaker 2: Ye eight hundred two ninety two fifty one fifty. In 747 00:30:41,840 --> 00:30:43,640 Speaker 2: case you couldn't get through, leave a message and we'll 748 00:30:43,640 --> 00:30:44,480 Speaker 2: answer your question. 749 00:30:45,000 --> 00:30:45,960 Speaker 3: And when we come back. 750 00:30:46,000 --> 00:30:48,960 Speaker 2: I'm so excited because Melanie Sanders is here. She is 751 00:30:49,000 --> 00:30:52,360 Speaker 2: a content creator but also a social media influencer, but 752 00:30:52,720 --> 00:30:56,160 Speaker 2: importantly the founder of that We Do Not Care Club. 753 00:30:56,440 --> 00:30:59,840 Speaker 2: It's the club for women in perimenopause, menopause and postmenopause, 754 00:31:00,160 --> 00:31:03,160 Speaker 2: letting the world know we something do not care much anymore. 755 00:31:03,200 --> 00:31:05,560 Speaker 2: And she's joining us when we come back. It's way up. 756 00:31:05,680 --> 00:31:06,800 Speaker 3: What's up? It's way up with. 757 00:31:06,760 --> 00:31:09,600 Speaker 2: Angela Yee and my girl coach Jesse is here with 758 00:31:09,640 --> 00:31:11,520 Speaker 2: me today. So you know it is a new year, 759 00:31:11,600 --> 00:31:14,640 Speaker 2: twenty twenty six. Today we're talking about something different though, 760 00:31:15,080 --> 00:31:19,200 Speaker 2: We're talking about on resolutions. That's right, yeah, because instant 761 00:31:19,200 --> 00:31:22,360 Speaker 2: as trying to fix yourself just be like here I am, 762 00:31:22,960 --> 00:31:26,120 Speaker 2: and there's so much comfort in being able to do that. 763 00:31:26,240 --> 00:31:27,840 Speaker 3: So we have Melanie Sanders. 764 00:31:27,840 --> 00:31:31,240 Speaker 2: She is a viral content creator, People Magazine's twenty twenty 765 00:31:31,320 --> 00:31:34,240 Speaker 2: five Creator of the Year and also the founder. 766 00:31:33,880 --> 00:31:36,080 Speaker 3: Of that We Do Not Care Club. Thank you for 767 00:31:36,120 --> 00:31:36,560 Speaker 3: being here. 768 00:31:36,720 --> 00:31:38,479 Speaker 1: Thank you so much for having me. Angela. 769 00:31:38,720 --> 00:31:41,400 Speaker 2: Your story is amazing to me, just even how you 770 00:31:41,600 --> 00:31:44,320 Speaker 2: organically came up with this We Do Not Care Club, 771 00:31:44,480 --> 00:31:46,720 Speaker 2: So just for our audience, if you could just share 772 00:31:46,760 --> 00:31:47,720 Speaker 2: how that even happened. 773 00:31:48,200 --> 00:31:52,640 Speaker 1: Yes, this was on a day and I just realized 774 00:31:52,760 --> 00:31:55,960 Speaker 1: I was putting so much pressure on myself about so 775 00:31:56,080 --> 00:31:58,720 Speaker 1: many different things, and you know, it's like a top 776 00:31:58,760 --> 00:32:01,600 Speaker 1: that's about to explode. And I said, Melanie, you just 777 00:32:01,640 --> 00:32:06,600 Speaker 1: simply do not care much anymore. And I decided to, 778 00:32:06,720 --> 00:32:09,480 Speaker 1: because I am a content creator, let me hit record 779 00:32:09,520 --> 00:32:12,160 Speaker 1: and see does anyone want to join this club with me? 780 00:32:12,360 --> 00:32:16,480 Speaker 1: Called that We Do Not Care Club? And overwhelmingly I 781 00:32:16,520 --> 00:32:19,720 Speaker 1: would say within twenty minutes of me getting home, it 782 00:32:19,800 --> 00:32:21,760 Speaker 1: was viral across all platforms. 783 00:32:21,840 --> 00:32:24,560 Speaker 2: That's an amazing club to join, by the way, Yes, 784 00:32:25,000 --> 00:32:26,720 Speaker 2: cause I feel like a lot of times we're trying 785 00:32:26,840 --> 00:32:29,640 Speaker 2: so hard to be perfect, right, We're trying to act 786 00:32:29,680 --> 00:32:32,440 Speaker 2: like we can balance it all, do it all. I 787 00:32:32,480 --> 00:32:36,680 Speaker 2: know for myself, sometimes I'm just like I'm gonna be honest, 788 00:32:37,160 --> 00:32:39,240 Speaker 2: I just don't care. And people may have things to 789 00:32:39,280 --> 00:32:41,760 Speaker 2: say about that. So you're just not gonna do X, 790 00:32:41,840 --> 00:32:42,160 Speaker 2: Y and Z. 791 00:32:42,280 --> 00:32:44,360 Speaker 3: Why do you have that? And at some point it 792 00:32:44,480 --> 00:32:46,040 Speaker 3: is great to be able to say. 793 00:32:46,280 --> 00:32:47,080 Speaker 11: We do not care. 794 00:32:47,200 --> 00:32:49,560 Speaker 1: The message within the We Do Not Care Club is 795 00:32:49,600 --> 00:32:53,920 Speaker 1: that number one, you are not alone and you are enough. 796 00:32:54,360 --> 00:32:56,360 Speaker 1: And when you really just stop and think about it, like, 797 00:32:56,640 --> 00:32:59,800 Speaker 1: why am I putting pressure on myself to look at 798 00:32:59,800 --> 00:33:01,600 Speaker 1: certain way, to walk a certain way, to talk a 799 00:33:01,600 --> 00:33:03,760 Speaker 1: certain way, to be a certain way for this person 800 00:33:03,800 --> 00:33:04,480 Speaker 1: for that person. 801 00:33:04,640 --> 00:33:04,840 Speaker 7: No? 802 00:33:05,480 --> 00:33:06,200 Speaker 1: Absolutely not. 803 00:33:06,400 --> 00:33:08,720 Speaker 2: Right now, I'm with coach Jesse from the Detox Now 804 00:33:08,720 --> 00:33:11,320 Speaker 2: and we're talking to Melanie Sanders, the founder of the 805 00:33:11,400 --> 00:33:12,520 Speaker 2: We Do Not Care Club. 806 00:33:12,680 --> 00:33:12,840 Speaker 7: Now. 807 00:33:12,880 --> 00:33:15,880 Speaker 2: This is also a guide for women in perimenopause, menopause 808 00:33:15,920 --> 00:33:18,840 Speaker 2: and beyond who are over it. That's on the title 809 00:33:18,960 --> 00:33:22,240 Speaker 2: a hot Mess guide, hot mess, hot mess hand but 810 00:33:23,200 --> 00:33:26,400 Speaker 2: hot emphasis on the hot coach, Jesse, we have these 811 00:33:26,440 --> 00:33:31,719 Speaker 2: conversations about paramenopause and menopause and everything beyond that. So 812 00:33:31,800 --> 00:33:35,720 Speaker 2: can you just also break down these hormonal shifts that happen. 813 00:33:35,800 --> 00:33:39,719 Speaker 15: It's really three different seasons. It's perimenopause is the period 814 00:33:39,720 --> 00:33:42,520 Speaker 15: of time leading up to menopause and menopause is not 815 00:33:42,640 --> 00:33:45,320 Speaker 15: having your cycle for a year, right, and then the 816 00:33:45,560 --> 00:33:48,640 Speaker 15: year the day after that is considered postmenimpose. But the 817 00:33:48,680 --> 00:33:52,000 Speaker 15: point is the symptoms can continue the entire time, and 818 00:33:52,040 --> 00:33:54,320 Speaker 15: your body now goes through all these hormone shifts. 819 00:33:54,360 --> 00:33:54,560 Speaker 10: Right. 820 00:33:54,920 --> 00:33:57,440 Speaker 15: But what I love about what you're doing is saying, 821 00:33:57,480 --> 00:33:59,760 Speaker 15: you know, women are like you know what I am 822 00:34:00,160 --> 00:34:03,600 Speaker 15: hired of acting like I need to be ashamed of 823 00:34:03,640 --> 00:34:06,280 Speaker 15: who I am, like that this is something that these 824 00:34:06,280 --> 00:34:09,040 Speaker 15: are character flaws, like this is something wrong with me, 825 00:34:09,200 --> 00:34:12,960 Speaker 15: Like I'm crazy because you feel literally feel crazy. 826 00:34:13,080 --> 00:34:15,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, where do you see this going? Like when when 827 00:34:15,600 --> 00:34:16,200 Speaker 3: you envision it? 828 00:34:16,239 --> 00:34:18,759 Speaker 2: Because the book is out where Manifesting the New York 829 00:34:18,800 --> 00:34:20,279 Speaker 2: Times bestsellers, right, because I. 830 00:34:20,320 --> 00:34:20,719 Speaker 3: Seen you on. 831 00:34:22,680 --> 00:34:26,399 Speaker 1: Shepherd, you know, So where do you envision this I'm 832 00:34:26,440 --> 00:34:29,600 Speaker 1: just taking my time, y'all. I really is funny because 833 00:34:29,600 --> 00:34:33,319 Speaker 1: something I manifested once I accepted growing this way was 834 00:34:34,360 --> 00:34:35,040 Speaker 1: I wanted. 835 00:34:34,800 --> 00:34:37,600 Speaker 3: To talk about that. Hold on, hold on, let's you 836 00:34:37,680 --> 00:34:39,799 Speaker 3: accept it growing? Yeah, like you. 837 00:34:40,040 --> 00:34:42,760 Speaker 1: I had to accept it last night at my event 838 00:34:42,880 --> 00:34:47,560 Speaker 1: the first day, like sold out walking in chairing Shepherd, 839 00:34:47,640 --> 00:34:50,920 Speaker 1: my moderator, you know, Halle Berry promoting my book, Like 840 00:34:50,960 --> 00:34:52,800 Speaker 1: what in the world is here with Angela? 841 00:34:52,880 --> 00:34:52,960 Speaker 6: Ye? 842 00:34:53,200 --> 00:34:57,040 Speaker 1: Like what is going on here? But I am slowly 843 00:34:57,160 --> 00:35:00,720 Speaker 1: understanding my worth and my value within this. I'm taking 844 00:35:00,760 --> 00:35:03,480 Speaker 1: my time. But the one thing that I was thinking 845 00:35:03,480 --> 00:35:06,040 Speaker 1: about was I would love to have something I want 846 00:35:06,440 --> 00:35:07,040 Speaker 1: where they're. 847 00:35:06,840 --> 00:35:07,720 Speaker 3: In different rooms. 848 00:35:07,719 --> 00:35:12,960 Speaker 1: Okay, so let's look I want when you when you 849 00:35:13,040 --> 00:35:14,719 Speaker 1: come in. When you come in, you got you got 850 00:35:15,600 --> 00:35:16,359 Speaker 1: a grocery bag. 851 00:35:16,400 --> 00:35:18,200 Speaker 3: That's it. Okay, crawler bad on my bag. 852 00:35:18,480 --> 00:35:20,440 Speaker 1: The only thing you got got in that bag is 853 00:35:20,719 --> 00:35:24,120 Speaker 1: some clean underwear, pandeliners, whatever you need, keep yourself together, 854 00:35:24,200 --> 00:35:28,160 Speaker 1: no no makeup, no nothing, no nothing, and some move moves. Okay, 855 00:35:28,160 --> 00:35:32,239 Speaker 1: it's just comfortable clothing. And when you're walking through and 856 00:35:32,280 --> 00:35:36,520 Speaker 1: we'll have security, and security is postmenopause. They don't play, Okay, postmenopause. 857 00:35:36,680 --> 00:35:39,640 Speaker 1: We know no, no, you will get no souse. 858 00:35:39,640 --> 00:35:40,319 Speaker 7: It's just the bag. 859 00:35:40,440 --> 00:35:41,560 Speaker 3: It's just the bag. Yeah you could. 860 00:35:41,600 --> 00:35:41,799 Speaker 2: Yeah. 861 00:35:42,440 --> 00:35:45,600 Speaker 1: And in these three rooms, one room is gonna be 862 00:35:45,680 --> 00:35:46,399 Speaker 1: the rage room. 863 00:35:46,520 --> 00:35:49,520 Speaker 3: That's where you go and you let it all out. 864 00:35:49,760 --> 00:35:51,960 Speaker 1: But then we have the room where it's the choiet 865 00:35:52,000 --> 00:35:56,439 Speaker 1: room and it's don't nobody say nothing. And then we're 866 00:35:56,440 --> 00:35:59,520 Speaker 1: gonna have let that go room, And that's what we're 867 00:35:59,520 --> 00:36:01,640 Speaker 1: write every thing on it, Wader. We're gonna let go 868 00:36:01,760 --> 00:36:04,279 Speaker 1: of and take the freaking pressure off. 869 00:36:04,480 --> 00:36:05,080 Speaker 3: I love it. 870 00:36:05,239 --> 00:36:07,680 Speaker 2: That's gonna be my response when somebody says something rude 871 00:36:07,680 --> 00:36:08,560 Speaker 2: on social media. 872 00:36:09,120 --> 00:36:09,879 Speaker 4: We do not care. 873 00:36:10,080 --> 00:36:11,840 Speaker 3: Yes, all right, and we'll make sure you pick it up. 874 00:36:11,880 --> 00:36:12,640 Speaker 3: We do not care. 875 00:36:13,080 --> 00:36:15,759 Speaker 2: It is a hot mess guy for women in perimenopause, 876 00:36:15,800 --> 00:36:17,280 Speaker 2: menopause and beyond. 877 00:36:17,160 --> 00:36:18,160 Speaker 3: Who are over it. 878 00:36:18,560 --> 00:36:21,799 Speaker 15: Yes, And on audible, I started the audio book and 879 00:36:21,840 --> 00:36:24,560 Speaker 15: it is in Melanie's boy, she's doing her style. 880 00:36:26,040 --> 00:36:30,400 Speaker 3: Just seeing your videos is amazing. That's a lot of layer. 881 00:36:30,600 --> 00:36:32,000 Speaker 3: It is a whole the lady. 882 00:36:32,040 --> 00:36:35,000 Speaker 2: Yes, for sure, and we do not care. Thank you 883 00:36:35,000 --> 00:36:37,040 Speaker 2: so much to Melanie Sanders. You can watch that full 884 00:36:37,080 --> 00:36:39,880 Speaker 2: interview on my YouTube channel. You can also join that 885 00:36:40,000 --> 00:36:43,160 Speaker 2: We Do Not Care a club by following Melanie Sanders. 886 00:36:43,200 --> 00:36:44,920 Speaker 2: But a lot of people are part of that club, 887 00:36:45,000 --> 00:36:47,680 Speaker 2: myself included. And when we come back, you guys, this 888 00:36:47,719 --> 00:36:50,040 Speaker 2: is your show, so you have the last word. 889 00:36:50,200 --> 00:36:52,120 Speaker 3: What's up? His way up? But Angela, yee, I'm here 890 00:36:52,120 --> 00:36:55,240 Speaker 3: with my girl the Jazzmine Brands. I'm here, man, listen. 891 00:36:55,640 --> 00:36:58,239 Speaker 2: I just ordered Dance some cupcakes for his birthday and 892 00:36:58,280 --> 00:37:01,359 Speaker 2: they came so destroyed. But they taste goods to yeah, 893 00:37:01,480 --> 00:37:04,239 Speaker 2: I guess they Yeah, they do taste. It's very disrespectful 894 00:37:04,280 --> 00:37:07,040 Speaker 2: the package, but you know, hey, what are you gonna do? 895 00:37:07,680 --> 00:37:07,759 Speaker 14: End? 896 00:37:07,800 --> 00:37:10,160 Speaker 2: I couldn't even put a candle in them. I was like, 897 00:37:10,200 --> 00:37:12,560 Speaker 2: let tande over on the side. Looks like they fuck 898 00:37:12,600 --> 00:37:13,760 Speaker 2: each other all the way here. 899 00:37:15,560 --> 00:37:16,440 Speaker 3: And they try us. 900 00:37:16,640 --> 00:37:17,680 Speaker 4: Everybody lost, you tried. 901 00:37:17,800 --> 00:37:21,160 Speaker 2: Anyway, we don't care because Melanie Sanders was here. She 902 00:37:21,280 --> 00:37:23,360 Speaker 2: is the founder of that We Do Not Care club, 903 00:37:23,680 --> 00:37:25,440 Speaker 2: So we're gonna eat these cupcakes anyway. 904 00:37:25,480 --> 00:37:27,600 Speaker 3: You can watch that full interview on my YouTube channel. 905 00:37:27,640 --> 00:37:30,440 Speaker 2: Way up with you and this is your show, so 906 00:37:30,560 --> 00:37:32,360 Speaker 2: of course you have the last word. 907 00:37:33,120 --> 00:37:36,640 Speaker 7: My name is Piana. I'm from Chicago, Illinois. I want 908 00:37:36,680 --> 00:37:40,080 Speaker 7: to stand a light on my daughter luk Jah to 909 00:37:40,239 --> 00:37:44,600 Speaker 7: Goet the most money and scholarsister year class. She was 910 00:37:44,719 --> 00:37:49,359 Speaker 7: honored to be the leadership of after school Matters by 911 00:37:49,440 --> 00:37:53,480 Speaker 7: Brandon Johnson, the Mayor of Chicago, and she's the top 912 00:37:53,760 --> 00:37:58,640 Speaker 7: team player on her high school basketball play and Jesus 913 00:37:58,680 --> 00:37:59,440 Speaker 7: Name Amen. 914 00:38:01,040 --> 00:38:01,360 Speaker 11: This my 915 00:38:03,640 --> 00:38:06,640 Speaker 5: Going way up turnout with Angela Ye