WEBVTT - Cliff Notes: Conflict Resolution With Rashad & 19 Keys

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<v Speaker 3>I rock with you, yo, like you said, I rock

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<v Speaker 3>with you, Da da da. I'm gonna support you. I'm

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<v Speaker 3>gonna do this. I'm gonna do that. We should do

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<v Speaker 3>something together. Well, you haven't done anything.

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<v Speaker 1>Most people ain't did nothing, you know what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 3>So I look at it from you like I mean,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, you came to us with the idea and

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<v Speaker 3>it was a no brainer. I feel like, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>the voice that you have is needed for the generation

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<v Speaker 3>and it fills a gap because in this.

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<v Speaker 1>World of.

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<v Speaker 3>Everybody's just showing what they have as far as lifestyle

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<v Speaker 3>marketing or as toxic or you know, relationship banter or

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<v Speaker 3>you know, everybody's just copying. It was like the once

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<v Speaker 3>the financial literacy thing got popular, everybody wanted to kind

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<v Speaker 3>of follow that mode. So everybody's a copycat, right, And

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<v Speaker 3>it's like you you standing and doing something that is

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<v Speaker 3>not really replica, Like you can't replicate what you're doing.

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<v Speaker 3>And that's why nobody's really copying it at scale because

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<v Speaker 3>you can't have three hour conversations about physics and you know,

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<v Speaker 3>race relations and aliens like you can't. That's difficult to do.

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<v Speaker 3>It's easy to get in front of a mic and

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<v Speaker 3>talk about, you know, should your girl pay fifty to

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<v Speaker 3>fifty shit like that.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 3>Anybody, anybody can have that conversation, you know what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 3>But you know, you you you fill the void that

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<v Speaker 3>was needed. So you know, when looking at you know,

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<v Speaker 3>growing what we have as far as content, Okay, we

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<v Speaker 3>have finance shows, earn Aleisia market Mondays pretty much got

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<v Speaker 3>that covered right. We don't need necessarily need to keep adding.

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<v Speaker 3>Now it kind of becomes competitive. This is a breath

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<v Speaker 3>of fresh air and obviously, like you know, it's it's

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<v Speaker 3>taking off the way it has. But then even outside that,

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<v Speaker 3>it's just a brotherhood and a relationship that we have

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<v Speaker 3>with each other that you know, regardless of a show,

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<v Speaker 3>we still have a really.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, yeah, I was cool with y'all before the show.

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<v Speaker 4>It just made sense in the sense of a bridge.

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<v Speaker 4>Let's bridge these worlds together. Let's start keeping them so separate,

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<v Speaker 4>like because they all merge, you know what I'm saying,

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<v Speaker 4>and they all in alignment, the same people that's interested

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<v Speaker 4>in intellect and consciousness and metaphysics and all these other

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<v Speaker 4>different conversations. They need money, right, We can't go to

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<v Speaker 4>war with our money. We got to get our finances straight, right,

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<v Speaker 4>Like we gotta Like it's up to our generation to

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<v Speaker 4>be the bridge to where like nah, we communicating with

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<v Speaker 4>each other. It's not like you third good Marshall over here,

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<v Speaker 4>I'm wb the boys is Martin, Luther King and his Malcolm.

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<v Speaker 4>It's like, na, we're in the same room having the

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<v Speaker 4>same discussion, maybe from different perspectives, but we got the

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<v Speaker 4>same war that we're fighting, right, And so it gets

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<v Speaker 4>me to my last point, and the last point is

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<v Speaker 4>just about conflict resolution. Right, how do you manage conflict resolution?

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<v Speaker 4>Because I want somebody that talks to everybody, and I

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<v Speaker 4>feel like I'm always, you know, figuring out conflict resolution, right,

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<v Speaker 4>because I believe that we have bigger enemies than each other, right,

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<v Speaker 4>And I believe that the one thing that we haven't

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<v Speaker 4>done yet is unify and it's the hardest thing on

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<v Speaker 4>the planet. So whoever accomplish it deserves a Nobil Peace Prize.

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<v Speaker 4>But there's always going to be conflict. We're young, it's new,

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<v Speaker 4>we're maturing. There's not a foundation or system that we're

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<v Speaker 4>coming through to be like, all right, when this happens,

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<v Speaker 4>we're going to settle this dispute this way, right, So

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<v Speaker 4>we have to figure it out as men to just

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<v Speaker 4>come together to be like, all right, let's stop this

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<v Speaker 4>before it goes here, and let's continue to build. We

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<v Speaker 4>have to check ourselves, right, We have to deal with

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<v Speaker 4>other people, our own egos, their egos. There's so much

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<v Speaker 4>that goes into that. So for you, being in a

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<v Speaker 4>position of leadership, how do you go about your process

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<v Speaker 4>of conflict resolution?

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<v Speaker 3>You try to work out difference is that there's issues

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<v Speaker 3>and at a certain point you realize sometimes that you

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<v Speaker 3>can't work out issues. So every person is not your brother.

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<v Speaker 3>Every black person is not an ally to you. Right, Jealousy, envy,

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<v Speaker 3>these are traits that are colorless. Right, We're just gonna

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<v Speaker 3>be honest, and this is this is either human traits.

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<v Speaker 3>So what you realize is that if you if you can't,

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<v Speaker 3>if you can't resolve a problem, it's best to remove

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<v Speaker 3>yourself from a situation. And that's okay. We all don't

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<v Speaker 3>have to be an alliance. We don't need every single

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<v Speaker 3>person to work together. We need people to work together.

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<v Speaker 3>So you might work together in this silo. I might

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<v Speaker 3>work together in this silo. We might work together to

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<v Speaker 3>this silo. We might have some level of communication from

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<v Speaker 3>other people that are maybe are in communication with all silos.

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<v Speaker 3>But there's never gonna be a time when every single

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<v Speaker 3>person on earth is working together, every single black person

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<v Speaker 3>is working together. It's just not gonna happen, right. But

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<v Speaker 3>I think it comes from a maturity standpoint of understanding

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<v Speaker 3>that a lot of people have trauma that are beyond you.

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<v Speaker 3>There's nothing to do with you, right, So what I

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<v Speaker 3>realize is that mental health is real. That's why I

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<v Speaker 3>don't argue with people anymore. Once it gets to the

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<v Speaker 3>point of art, I'm blocking your number, right because when

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<v Speaker 3>I realize that there's no getting through to you, or

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<v Speaker 3>that this is this has become a pattern of dyfunction

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<v Speaker 3>because it's happened multiple times. You might say something, you apologize,

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<v Speaker 3>and you say something you apologize. This is like being

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<v Speaker 3>in a relationships, like being a toxic relationship. Right, I'm

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<v Speaker 3>removing myself from that situation because I'm not the person

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<v Speaker 3>that can help you, right, I'm not your spouse, Like

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<v Speaker 3>I'm not with you twenty hours a day. I'm not

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<v Speaker 3>sitting with you. I'm not taking you. You probably do

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<v Speaker 3>need therapy, you probably do need to have a more

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<v Speaker 3>advanced conversation. But me trying to play that mediator is

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<v Speaker 3>only going to weigh on my on my psyche, It's

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<v Speaker 3>going to bring down my vibe. So I'm removing myself

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<v Speaker 3>from that situation, right. So, because it's like, what's the alternative.

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<v Speaker 3>We can just keep going back and forth and not

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<v Speaker 3>agreeing on things, and eventually it can turn violent, and

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<v Speaker 3>that's always an option as well, but that's not productive.

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<v Speaker 3>Nobody wins in that situation, whether it's physical violence, whether

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<v Speaker 3>it's internet violence, whether it's verbal violence.

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<v Speaker 1>Like, you know, we live in a.

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<v Speaker 3>Time where men are more emotional than women, right, And

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<v Speaker 3>people they treat social media or they'll treat you know,

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<v Speaker 3>things like their diary. Right, And they go on and

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<v Speaker 3>they'll say what they'll say a variety of different things,

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<v Speaker 3>and it's like, well, okay, did that solve anything. It

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<v Speaker 3>might have made you feel better in that moment, but

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<v Speaker 3>once again, that more speaks to your insecurity as a person. Right.

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<v Speaker 3>So it's like, you know, as far as conflict resolution,

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<v Speaker 3>the best thing to do is have a conversation and

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<v Speaker 3>try to figure out what the differences are. Hopefully that

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<v Speaker 3>leads to an issue being solved. Sometimes that does not

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<v Speaker 3>lead to an issue being solved because there's still issues

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<v Speaker 3>and it still pops up. The next best thing that

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<v Speaker 3>you can do is remove yourself from the situation. Right,

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<v Speaker 3>there's no harm, no foul. I don't necessarily have to

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<v Speaker 3>be the best friends with you. We don't agree on things, right,

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<v Speaker 3>I see the world one way. You see the world

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<v Speaker 3>another way. How I view you is one way. How

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<v Speaker 3>you view me as another way. You think that you

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<v Speaker 3>don't agree with something that I'm doing. I don't agree

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<v Speaker 3>with something that you're doing. Instead of us battling each other,

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<v Speaker 3>because that's going to lead to Now, that's going to

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<v Speaker 3>lead to a real problem eventually. Right, the best thing

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<v Speaker 3>that we that we can do is walk away from

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<v Speaker 3>each other. This is like a relationship, men and women,

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<v Speaker 3>the same thing.

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<v Speaker 1>Right.

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<v Speaker 3>You try to work it out with your spouse, your fiance,

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<v Speaker 3>your girlfriend. You try to work it out before you

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<v Speaker 3>go different ways. Sometimes it does not work out.

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<v Speaker 1>That's okay.

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<v Speaker 3>It's better to just go your separate ways.

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<v Speaker 1>You'll have a great life.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm gonna have a great life as opposed to staying

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<v Speaker 3>in a household and then you verbally fight with each

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<v Speaker 3>other and then somebody's gonna end up getting hurt. This

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<v Speaker 3>is a that's a perfect example of what even with men,

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<v Speaker 3>right like you, if you've ever been in a toxic relationship,

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<v Speaker 3>you've been in the household, it's gonna something bad is

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<v Speaker 3>gonna happen. The best thing that you can do is

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<v Speaker 3>remove yourself from the household. The best thing that I

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<v Speaker 3>can do if I'm in a relationship with somebody and

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<v Speaker 3>we can't see eye to eye, just remove myself from

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<v Speaker 3>that relationship.

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<v Speaker 1>That's it.

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<v Speaker 3>So you know, that's that's my thoughts on conflict resolution

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<v Speaker 3>is that it should never lead to a point where

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<v Speaker 3>there's verbal attacks, physical violence, tearing somebody's name like you

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<v Speaker 3>know that to me is that that's more of an immature,

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<v Speaker 3>insecure way to way to go about it, especially if

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<v Speaker 3>it's not a real, real problem. We got a real problem,

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<v Speaker 3>then nine times out of ten, we're not even gonna

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<v Speaker 3>speak it anyway. When we see each other, it's going

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<v Speaker 3>to be a problem, but it ain't no real problem.

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<v Speaker 3>Like most of the time on any level, on the internet,

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<v Speaker 3>on the streets, it is never really a real problem.

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<v Speaker 3>Most of the time the problems is not real. It's

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<v Speaker 3>because you know, I don't like the way you looked

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<v Speaker 3>at me, type shit, or you you said something that

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<v Speaker 3>I didn't agree with behind my back and somebody told me,

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<v Speaker 3>or I came back to me, or you know, try

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<v Speaker 3>to talk to my girl at a party I wasn't.

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<v Speaker 3>It ain't Is that worth losing your life over? Probably not,

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<v Speaker 3>But in the heat of the moment, that's what that's

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<v Speaker 3>what it comes down to. Like it ain't very few

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<v Speaker 3>times is it real issues, Like somebody stole a million

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<v Speaker 3>dollars from you, somebody kidnapped your kid, somebody ran in

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<v Speaker 3>your mom's house. These are real issues that happened, but

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<v Speaker 3>that's not the majority. Most of the time, when you

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<v Speaker 3>really look at this shit as petty you you yo,

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<v Speaker 3>you you wearing these sneakers. I had the sneakers first.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't like the way you're trying to ruin my vibe.

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<v Speaker 3>You're trying to bite my style type shit.

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<v Speaker 1>I under sand. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>I was looking at the founders of the Constitution. It

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<v Speaker 4>was all like their late twenties, early thirties, and I'm like,

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<v Speaker 4>how did these men be able to sit down and

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<v Speaker 4>decide that this is how we're about to govern and

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<v Speaker 4>rule our future. They just sat down, locked in for

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<v Speaker 4>like thirty sixty days, and so let's come up with

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<v Speaker 4>the rules.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's go set the foundation for the future, you know

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<v Speaker 1>what I mean.

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<v Speaker 4>And they argue with each other throughout the process, probably

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<v Speaker 4>damn their fault right, bigger back and forth, but they

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<v Speaker 4>didn't leave until they had this constitution done. And I'm

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<v Speaker 4>believe it's something that we can learn from because what

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<v Speaker 4>would have kept you in that room and in that

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<v Speaker 4>process is thinking about something that's bigger than yourself. I

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<v Speaker 4>don't like this, Nick, but let's get this done, because

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<v Speaker 4>if I just stick through it and we get this done,

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<v Speaker 4>this gonna benefit my family, all families for the rest

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<v Speaker 4>of the time in America is still being governed by

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<v Speaker 4>that same constitution more or less. Right, So I think

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<v Speaker 4>about our positions and how if we really want to

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<v Speaker 4>take these positions serious, Right, there has to be hot

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<v Speaker 4>something higher than ourselves that gods us to be like,

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<v Speaker 4>I'm not going to do this because this is more important.

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<v Speaker 4>And I believe that's why it's so easy to have conflict,

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<v Speaker 4>because we don't have common vision, right, we don't have

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<v Speaker 4>common values. The most important thing to us is ourselves. Right,

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<v Speaker 4>this is my motive, this is your movement. Nothing is

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<v Speaker 4>bigger than that. It's like, damn, there's actually stuff bigger

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<v Speaker 4>than that. And if we had that as a common goal,

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<v Speaker 4>it's a reason that Malcolm and a Martin would sit down.

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<v Speaker 4>Because the common is our people. The coming is freedom,

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<v Speaker 4>the common is like liberation. But it's really thinking about

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<v Speaker 4>all the time, what's that commonality? And yes, doing war,

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<v Speaker 4>there's many different strategies that you can go about taking.

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<v Speaker 4>I just want us, as melanated men to think about

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<v Speaker 4>the future that we could have if we learn to

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<v Speaker 4>move an alliance and have a cooperation and come to agreement.

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<v Speaker 4>Agreement does not mean that, you know, y'all like each other.

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<v Speaker 4>People wars their treaties, and there's agreements, and there's packs

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<v Speaker 4>that had had nothing to do with y'all like in

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<v Speaker 4>each other. It's understanding that something is bigger, right, and

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<v Speaker 4>that's usually the future. You know what I'm saying, Like, Yo,

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<v Speaker 4>this is gonna be better for our people. I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 4>lose so many men on this side, so many soldiers

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<v Speaker 4>on this side. We go fight, we go do this.

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<v Speaker 4>This is gonna be bad for the culture, It's gonna

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<v Speaker 4>be bad for everything. So how about we come down

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<v Speaker 4>and sit with a treaty. How about we have a pact.

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<v Speaker 4>How about we take some sort of oath of something

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<v Speaker 4>that's bigger than ourselves. And I think what we have

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<v Speaker 4>to challenge ourselves as first to think, think about that

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<v Speaker 4>one thing that's bigger than ourselves, and then that is

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<v Speaker 4>the thing that we have a commonality and build a

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<v Speaker 4>bridge about, because everything else under that we go war about.

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<v Speaker 4>But up here, it's a reason that the blood and

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<v Speaker 4>Crypts are come together. It's a reason that the Muslims

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<v Speaker 4>and Christians are come together. There's a reason that any

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<v Speaker 4>group of people who have a common cause and vision

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<v Speaker 4>that's bigger than themselves, it will be bigger than they faith,

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<v Speaker 4>they nationality, they business, whatever it is, and be like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>all right, for the sake of this, I'll find harmony,

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<v Speaker 4>an alliance, and we'll move forward based on this agreement.

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<v Speaker 4>And therefore we can run and rule and control the

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<v Speaker 4>future because we are in such beautiful position. Is that

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<v Speaker 4>it's too much at stake right to allow the ripple

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<v Speaker 4>effect of what comes from that disharmonious relationship that we

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<v Speaker 4>have with each other, because we're not thinking about something bigger,

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<v Speaker 4>which is the people. The people are the ones who

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<v Speaker 4>suffered the most when the leaders wore right. And there's

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<v Speaker 4>so many families, young men that's looking up to us,

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<v Speaker 4>young women that's looking up to us, and the ripple

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<v Speaker 4>effects of all the families that we're going to be

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<v Speaker 4>able to affect. Sometimes I wish I didn't have a

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<v Speaker 4>heart to want to saw things. Sometimes I wish I

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<v Speaker 4>was just all war, all bull all the time. But

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<v Speaker 4>I've seen so many different wars growing up, seen so

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<v Speaker 4>many people die. I think I lost ten twelve homies

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<v Speaker 4>before I was nineteen years old. So I got people

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<v Speaker 4>that didn't die that I haven't even had grief over.

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<v Speaker 4>I have people that die while they still living because

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<v Speaker 4>they're not who they used to be and they could

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<v Speaker 4>have been a great leader and they could have been

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<v Speaker 4>a great contribution to the world. And I know people

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<v Speaker 4>that took out other people and daughters and all of

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<v Speaker 4>it was pointless.

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<v Speaker 1>All of it. So it's like, what is a higher degree?

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<v Speaker 4>And when you think about the people, right, that's always

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<v Speaker 4>something bigger than self.

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<v Speaker 1>How is this going to affect the people? Right?

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<v Speaker 4>And I think that if we come together because of

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<v Speaker 4>that constitution, it starts off with we the people. We

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<v Speaker 4>have to have a common OAP. We have to have

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<v Speaker 4>a preamble, we have to have a constitution right, and

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<v Speaker 4>then therefore we have a way to solve all.

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<v Speaker 1>Conflicts for something bigger than ourselves.

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<v Speaker 4>But I want to thank you for being here, appreciate

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<v Speaker 4>Its a dope, beautiful, powerful conversation. And I just want

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<v Speaker 4>people that's sitting out there that's listening to think about

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<v Speaker 4>how you want to add you know. I know, like Rashid,

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<v Speaker 4>like myself and other people, we're not looking for more followers,

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<v Speaker 4>looking for leaders you look at this thing and be like, man,

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<v Speaker 4>I can run this part for yall can run this.

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<v Speaker 1>I can run this. I had to Epiphan the other.

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<v Speaker 4>Death say, you know, we talk about college out some

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<v Speaker 4>things of that nature, but really those are all a

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<v Speaker 4>whole lot of leaders there. They got a lot of

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<v Speaker 4>skill sets that I can utilize, that we can utilize.

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<v Speaker 4>You can run a whole organization for me and create

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<v Speaker 4>your own job, and I got the platform for you.

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<v Speaker 4>I want people to look at what we're doing and

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<v Speaker 4>see what you can add. You know what I'm saying,

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<v Speaker 4>Like love it, don't hate it, right, contribute to it

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<v Speaker 4>so that we can build together, be in an addition,

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<v Speaker 4>not subtraction. You don't have to understand it, but reach out. Now,

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<v Speaker 4>we're not going to be able to get to everybody.

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<v Speaker 4>That's where patients come in. That's what understanding the process.

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<v Speaker 4>But I have so many people over the last month

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<v Speaker 4>been reaching out and say, bro, I can lead this,

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<v Speaker 4>I can lead that. I can lead that cause I

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<v Speaker 4>don't want you to be driven by money, because you're

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<v Speaker 4>only going to do as much.

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<v Speaker 1>As I pay you for.

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<v Speaker 4>I need you to be driven by the passion and

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<v Speaker 4>the love for it, right, because then you'll do that forever,

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<v Speaker 4>and you're gonna do way more than I can afford,

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<v Speaker 4>and we're going to create something way bigger than money

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<v Speaker 4>can provide. So I want those people that's gonna be

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<v Speaker 4>showing enough to invest Fest, right, collaborate with each other.

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<v Speaker 4>This person got a platform, you got a skill. Figure

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<v Speaker 4>out how you can collaborate and contribute to each other

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<v Speaker 4>right leading up to invest Fest. And I love it

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<v Speaker 4>because it's so beautiful that it's, you know, the only

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<v Speaker 4>place I ever went to that had that many beautiful

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<v Speaker 4>black people shining in such a peaceful, harmonious place for

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<v Speaker 4>Savors Day, right, And so I'm like, yo, y'all understand

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<v Speaker 4>how beautiful that is.

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<v Speaker 1>Just going to an environment.

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<v Speaker 4>There's twenty five thousand people that's there for the same reason.

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<v Speaker 3>Right.

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<v Speaker 4>They want to grow, they want to build wealth, they

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<v Speaker 4>want better health, they want better connections, they want a

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<v Speaker 4>better America.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like a politician now.

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<v Speaker 4>So there's nineteen keys, and thank you to my good

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<v Speaker 4>brother Rashad Balau, and I see y'all next time.

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<v Speaker 1>Peace family, Peace.

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<v Speaker 4>Peace Family, nineteen kids Report Live. I wanted to let

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<v Speaker 4>you all know about a giveaway that we're doing.

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<v Speaker 1>For invest Fest. I have five general official.

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<v Speaker 4>Tickets that I have peace and I have one kick

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<v Speaker 4>wait for one on one coaching session. All you gotta

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<v Speaker 4>do with your high level club comment high level of

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<v Speaker 4>pride today.

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<v Speaker 1>Do not want to ens b ib. You do not

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<v Speaker 1>want to miss investments.

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<v Speaker 4>You definitely don't want to miss the one on one

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<v Speaker 4>with me. Could tap in with the gods.

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<v Speaker 3>Level.

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<v Speaker 5>An illegal alien from Guatemala charged with raping a child

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<v Speaker 5>in Massachusetts. An MS thirteen gang member from Al Salvador

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<v Speaker 5>accused of murdering a Texas. Man of Venezuelan charged with

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<v Speaker 5>filming and selling child pornography in Michigan. These are just

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<v Speaker 5>some of the heinous migrant criminals caught because of President

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<v Speaker 5>Donald J. Trump's leadership. I'm Christy Noman, the United States

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<v Speaker 5>Secretary of Homeland Security. Under President Trump, attempted illegal border

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<v Speaker 5>crossings are at the lowest levels ever recorded, and over

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<v Speaker 5>one hundred thousand illegal aliens have been arrested. If you

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<v Speaker 5>are here illegally, your next you will be fine nearly

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<v Speaker 5>one thousand dollars a day, imprisoned and deported, you will

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<v Speaker 5>never return. But if you register using our CBP home

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<v Speaker 5>app and leave now, you could be allowed to return legally.

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<v Speaker 5>Do what's right. Leave now. Under President Trump, America's laws,

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<v Speaker 5>border and families will be protected.

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<v Speaker 1>Sponsored by the United States Department of Homeland Security,