1 00:00:01,280 --> 00:00:04,320 Speaker 1: All right, guys, it's time now for today's Strawberry Letter 2 00:00:04,360 --> 00:00:08,880 Speaker 1: and listen. If you need advice on relationships, on dating, work, sex, parenting, 3 00:00:08,920 --> 00:00:13,039 Speaker 1: and more. Please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve Harvey 4 00:00:13,119 --> 00:00:17,680 Speaker 1: FM and click submit Strawberry a Letter. We could be 5 00:00:17,720 --> 00:00:19,560 Speaker 1: reading your letter live on the air, just like we're 6 00:00:19,560 --> 00:00:23,439 Speaker 1: gonna read this one today. So before I actually read 7 00:00:23,480 --> 00:00:25,680 Speaker 1: the letter, I have to do a disclaimer here and 8 00:00:26,079 --> 00:00:29,280 Speaker 1: ask you please listen to the entire letter. It is 9 00:00:29,360 --> 00:00:31,680 Speaker 1: not what you think. Okay, it's gonna get a little 10 00:00:31,680 --> 00:00:34,960 Speaker 1: crazy in the middle, but stick with me, all right. Please, 11 00:00:35,360 --> 00:00:38,199 Speaker 1: thank you, Buggle up, hold on tight. We got it 12 00:00:38,240 --> 00:00:41,640 Speaker 1: for you. Here. It is the Strawberry Letter. Subject you 13 00:00:41,800 --> 00:00:47,320 Speaker 1: can't have your cake and eat it too. All right, 14 00:00:47,400 --> 00:00:50,600 Speaker 1: one more time. You can't have your cake and eat 15 00:00:50,680 --> 00:00:55,880 Speaker 1: it too. Dear Stephen Shirley, I've been dating a guy 16 00:00:56,040 --> 00:00:59,520 Speaker 1: for six months and he's one of the sweetest men 17 00:01:00,320 --> 00:01:04,720 Speaker 1: that I've ever met. This weekend, he disclosed some information 18 00:01:04,800 --> 00:01:08,320 Speaker 1: to me and I need your opinion. He and I 19 00:01:08,360 --> 00:01:11,120 Speaker 1: met when I moved out of my condo. He was 20 00:01:11,160 --> 00:01:14,000 Speaker 1: a supervisor of the moving company that I used, and 21 00:01:14,080 --> 00:01:17,520 Speaker 1: he was very professional and handsome and when he asked 22 00:01:17,640 --> 00:01:21,319 Speaker 1: me out, I accepted. We started out as friends and 23 00:01:21,440 --> 00:01:25,160 Speaker 1: now we're in a relationship. On our first date, he 24 00:01:25,240 --> 00:01:28,360 Speaker 1: said his favorite thing about me was my skin tone 25 00:01:28,640 --> 00:01:32,000 Speaker 1: and how soft and supple it looks. I have not 26 00:01:32,120 --> 00:01:35,720 Speaker 1: had that much attention in a while, so I was overjoyed. 27 00:01:36,280 --> 00:01:39,319 Speaker 1: Whenever we go out, he caresses my skin with his 28 00:01:39,480 --> 00:01:43,800 Speaker 1: great big hands and kisses my shoulders and neck. We 29 00:01:43,959 --> 00:01:47,840 Speaker 1: finally got intimate over the weekend, and it was everything 30 00:01:48,040 --> 00:01:51,160 Speaker 1: I hoped for I had hoped for, but then it 31 00:01:51,280 --> 00:01:56,360 Speaker 1: got tricky. After sex, we were lying in bed and 32 00:01:56,480 --> 00:02:00,320 Speaker 1: as usual, he was rubbing on me and kept saying 33 00:02:00,320 --> 00:02:03,680 Speaker 1: how he loves my skin. He then whispered to me, 34 00:02:03,800 --> 00:02:06,920 Speaker 1: I just want to eat you. I giggled and turned 35 00:02:06,920 --> 00:02:09,600 Speaker 1: to look at him, thinking he wanted to go for 36 00:02:09,760 --> 00:02:14,280 Speaker 1: round two. But then he said to me, no, I 37 00:02:14,400 --> 00:02:19,320 Speaker 1: literally want to eat you. I looked at this man 38 00:02:19,400 --> 00:02:23,800 Speaker 1: and asked him to repeat himself. He said he fantasizes 39 00:02:24,400 --> 00:02:27,280 Speaker 1: about eating a part of a woman's body, and it's 40 00:02:27,280 --> 00:02:29,960 Speaker 1: a big fetish that he has not been able to 41 00:02:30,000 --> 00:02:34,120 Speaker 1: live that out. He elaborated that overseas it's a big 42 00:02:34,200 --> 00:02:36,800 Speaker 1: thing where a man will take part of a woman's 43 00:02:36,840 --> 00:02:42,919 Speaker 1: buttocks and eat it. He said, he's been fascinated by 44 00:02:43,000 --> 00:02:46,400 Speaker 1: cannibalism since he was young, but this is just a 45 00:02:46,480 --> 00:02:56,520 Speaker 1: fetish and nothing serious. But you heard me, Okay, that's 46 00:03:01,960 --> 00:03:04,919 Speaker 1: he said, he's been fascinated. Let me get through the letter, 47 00:03:05,000 --> 00:03:10,680 Speaker 1: please deep He said, he's been fascinated by cannibalism, yes, 48 00:03:10,800 --> 00:03:13,800 Speaker 1: since he was young, but that but this is just 49 00:03:13,919 --> 00:03:17,560 Speaker 1: a fetish and nothing serious. So I need to know 50 00:03:17,680 --> 00:03:20,600 Speaker 1: if this is really just a fetish or should I 51 00:03:20,720 --> 00:03:24,120 Speaker 1: run before it's too late? Have you ever heard of such? 52 00:03:24,520 --> 00:03:26,519 Speaker 1: I'm falling for this guy, but I don't want to 53 00:03:26,639 --> 00:03:29,360 Speaker 1: end up with my butt in a frying pan. Please 54 00:03:29,440 --> 00:03:34,280 Speaker 1: help me? Okay, I mean all I could say initially 55 00:03:34,520 --> 00:03:41,680 Speaker 1: is what wth? I mean? Really? Did I read this correctly? 56 00:03:41,760 --> 00:03:43,880 Speaker 1: Like you know you said in the letter? Did you 57 00:03:44,000 --> 00:03:49,120 Speaker 1: hear this correctly? People don't eat people, That's not what 58 00:03:49,160 --> 00:03:51,480 Speaker 1: we do. What is he talking about? I mean, this 59 00:03:51,560 --> 00:03:55,480 Speaker 1: is a fantasy he hasn't been able to live out yet. Listen. 60 00:03:55,760 --> 00:03:58,200 Speaker 1: Sure he could be just kidding and this could just 61 00:03:58,280 --> 00:04:01,440 Speaker 1: be a fantasy and he doesn't really mean this. Sure 62 00:04:02,400 --> 00:04:05,840 Speaker 1: a booty burger, I mean he could just be kidding. 63 00:04:05,920 --> 00:04:09,400 Speaker 1: But but why take this chance. I mean, seriously, he 64 00:04:09,840 --> 00:04:13,760 Speaker 1: knows too much about it, He's researched it. Uh. No, 65 00:04:14,000 --> 00:04:17,880 Speaker 1: to answer your question, we've never heard of such cannibalism 66 00:04:17,880 --> 00:04:19,719 Speaker 1: and things like this. I mean we know what it is, 67 00:04:19,760 --> 00:04:23,120 Speaker 1: of course, but we haven't literally heard of anyone doing this. 68 00:04:23,240 --> 00:04:27,719 Speaker 1: And yes, I would run. He sounds too freaky. I mean, yeah, 69 00:04:27,760 --> 00:04:30,479 Speaker 1: he sounds too freaky and crazy to me. That's not 70 00:04:30,600 --> 00:04:38,560 Speaker 1: freaky to you. No, that's beyond. That's beyond. Yeah, it's beyond. Uh. 71 00:04:38,600 --> 00:04:42,479 Speaker 1: He wants to literally eat you. The term is called 72 00:04:42,680 --> 00:04:46,320 Speaker 1: verare philia, if you guys want to know vare philia. 73 00:04:46,640 --> 00:04:50,640 Speaker 1: All right, yeah, you know that. All right, Steve, I'm done. 74 00:04:50,720 --> 00:04:53,760 Speaker 1: I think she should. Right, this is too crazy. Well, 75 00:04:53,839 --> 00:04:56,560 Speaker 1: let's go over the letter and just go along on 76 00:04:56,600 --> 00:05:01,240 Speaker 1: the journey that this letter was taken. Song Day six 77 00:05:01,360 --> 00:05:06,719 Speaker 1: Moms dating this man wanted the sweetest men she ever mad. 78 00:05:07,360 --> 00:05:09,920 Speaker 1: You know. He was a supervisor of a moving company 79 00:05:09,960 --> 00:05:15,119 Speaker 1: that moved her, professional, handsome, and so he asked her out. 80 00:05:16,600 --> 00:05:20,200 Speaker 1: She said, all right, Well, they started out as friends 81 00:05:20,200 --> 00:05:23,719 Speaker 1: within the relationship. Now, because on the first date he 82 00:05:23,880 --> 00:05:27,080 Speaker 1: told her the first thing he laughed about it was 83 00:05:29,680 --> 00:05:36,200 Speaker 1: how skin tone, how soft and subtle. It looked girl. 84 00:05:36,279 --> 00:05:38,840 Speaker 1: The attention about to dry this girl crazy. She was 85 00:05:38,880 --> 00:05:41,479 Speaker 1: over joy When we go out, he'd be caressing your 86 00:05:41,520 --> 00:05:44,480 Speaker 1: skin with his great big hand. Because then then furniture 87 00:05:44,480 --> 00:05:46,840 Speaker 1: moving hands. You know, he got them big ass hand 88 00:05:46,880 --> 00:05:50,400 Speaker 1: he picking up frigerators. Gosh, you're this big man ass 89 00:05:50,440 --> 00:05:55,320 Speaker 1: hand kissing all over your shoulder. You got enter it 90 00:05:55,360 --> 00:06:00,360 Speaker 1: over the weekend and large Jesus who it was every thing. 91 00:06:01,560 --> 00:06:07,479 Speaker 1: Then it got tricky after sex y'all was laying in bed, 92 00:06:08,600 --> 00:06:10,880 Speaker 1: you know, just like, oh, you're just rubbing on you 93 00:06:10,960 --> 00:06:15,200 Speaker 1: kept saying, love y'all skin. Then he whispered, I just 94 00:06:15,279 --> 00:06:23,240 Speaker 1: want to eat you. Now we've all heard this before. Careful, 95 00:06:23,640 --> 00:06:29,280 Speaker 1: all right, let's grown ask men, Steve. Hang on. We'll 96 00:06:29,279 --> 00:06:34,200 Speaker 1: have Burt two of your response coming up at twenty 97 00:06:34,240 --> 00:06:37,880 Speaker 1: three after the hour. Subject of today's letter. You can't 98 00:06:37,880 --> 00:06:40,320 Speaker 1: have your cake and eat it too. We'll get back 99 00:06:40,360 --> 00:06:46,520 Speaker 1: into it right after this. You're listening, all right, Steve, 100 00:06:46,760 --> 00:06:49,640 Speaker 1: Let's get back into the letter. You can't have your 101 00:06:49,640 --> 00:06:53,520 Speaker 1: cake and eat it too. Let's recap. Ain't no damn recap. 102 00:06:53,640 --> 00:06:56,600 Speaker 1: She didn't got to movie company boy, she'd have fell 103 00:06:56,640 --> 00:06:59,159 Speaker 1: in love with her and he out on the date 104 00:06:59,200 --> 00:07:01,760 Speaker 1: with her, tell about the favorite thing about her was 105 00:07:01,800 --> 00:07:07,480 Speaker 1: her skin tone and house off and supper. Oh, she 106 00:07:07,560 --> 00:07:09,880 Speaker 1: hadn't had this kind of tension in the wild. She 107 00:07:10,000 --> 00:07:14,360 Speaker 1: was overjoyed go out caressing the skin, had the great 108 00:07:14,360 --> 00:07:16,880 Speaker 1: big hands kissing all on her shoulder. He had the 109 00:07:17,040 --> 00:07:23,680 Speaker 1: moving man hands. Yeah, picking flipping, taking whole rugs down 110 00:07:23,840 --> 00:07:29,400 Speaker 1: by self, down the steps, picking up on walls and 111 00:07:31,040 --> 00:07:37,400 Speaker 1: moving entertainment centers. All this boy powerful. So you finally 112 00:07:37,440 --> 00:07:39,960 Speaker 1: got intimate over the weekend and Lord of e mercy. 113 00:07:40,080 --> 00:07:44,440 Speaker 1: It was everything she hoped for. And right after she 114 00:07:44,600 --> 00:07:50,440 Speaker 1: said everything I hope folk period. But then it got tricky. Oh, 115 00:07:50,480 --> 00:07:54,920 Speaker 1: they laying up in in the after glow. They laying 116 00:07:55,000 --> 00:08:00,440 Speaker 1: in bed just like you, just slubbing on bed, and 117 00:08:00,480 --> 00:08:02,760 Speaker 1: they kept telling me how much he loved my skin. 118 00:08:02,960 --> 00:08:09,360 Speaker 1: Then he whispered to me, I just want now. She 119 00:08:09,640 --> 00:08:13,480 Speaker 1: giggle turned because she want to say yes to this. 120 00:08:15,120 --> 00:08:20,239 Speaker 1: That's what the giggle was about, and turned and looked 121 00:08:20,240 --> 00:08:24,440 Speaker 1: at him, thinking he wanted to go for a round two. Na, No, 122 00:08:25,040 --> 00:08:26,880 Speaker 1: now he was hoping that he was talking about what 123 00:08:26,920 --> 00:08:29,680 Speaker 1: you thought he was talking about? That what that what 124 00:08:29,800 --> 00:08:33,120 Speaker 1: the giggle was for. But then he said to me, Now, 125 00:08:34,720 --> 00:08:41,440 Speaker 1: I literally won't he. I looked at this man and 126 00:08:41,559 --> 00:08:44,199 Speaker 1: I asked him to repeat himself, because you know what, 127 00:08:44,440 --> 00:08:46,280 Speaker 1: if that's what you really want to do, just can 128 00:08:46,480 --> 00:08:49,160 Speaker 1: say it to him. But I don't know what you 129 00:08:49,200 --> 00:08:53,160 Speaker 1: mean by literally, so I asked him to repeat himself. 130 00:08:55,679 --> 00:09:00,520 Speaker 1: He said that he fantasizes about eating up heart of 131 00:09:00,559 --> 00:09:04,720 Speaker 1: a woman's body, and it's a big fetish that he's 132 00:09:04,760 --> 00:09:09,400 Speaker 1: not being able to live out yet. Now at this point, 133 00:09:09,400 --> 00:09:12,600 Speaker 1: you need to be sitting up in the bed. You 134 00:09:12,679 --> 00:09:15,040 Speaker 1: need to sit up. You need to start eyeing his 135 00:09:15,200 --> 00:09:20,440 Speaker 1: ass because this this is going somewhere else. And then 136 00:09:20,640 --> 00:09:25,040 Speaker 1: he elaborated that overseas it's a big thing where a 137 00:09:25,200 --> 00:09:32,440 Speaker 1: man would take part of a woman's buttox and eat it. Now, 138 00:09:32,480 --> 00:09:36,840 Speaker 1: I don't know wearing this letter. You kept typing, but 139 00:09:37,160 --> 00:09:40,640 Speaker 1: this would have been a hard letter to type. You're 140 00:09:40,640 --> 00:09:44,240 Speaker 1: want what. I don't know who this sister is, but 141 00:09:44,679 --> 00:09:49,760 Speaker 1: this conversation with you want to eat, You're gonna take you, 142 00:09:50,679 --> 00:09:57,240 Speaker 1: You're gonna cut who assd on hold on it words, 143 00:09:57,240 --> 00:10:03,800 Speaker 1: you're crazy. He said. It was fascinated by candid cannibalism 144 00:10:03,840 --> 00:10:06,560 Speaker 1: since he was young. But this is just to fetish, 145 00:10:06,559 --> 00:10:09,560 Speaker 1: and nothing says. So I need to know if this 146 00:10:09,679 --> 00:10:12,640 Speaker 1: is really just to fetish or should I run before 147 00:10:12,640 --> 00:10:15,800 Speaker 1: it's too late? What the hell did you just ask us? 148 00:10:17,040 --> 00:10:19,560 Speaker 1: You're trying to figure out this a fetish? A man 149 00:10:19,720 --> 00:10:25,839 Speaker 1: just told you that he wanted to a slicing your ass, 150 00:10:25,880 --> 00:10:31,960 Speaker 1: just you know, like his cheese, like like you just 151 00:10:32,080 --> 00:10:35,000 Speaker 1: a ham a honey break, sitting up on the table. 152 00:10:35,360 --> 00:10:38,760 Speaker 1: It was just wanting a slice of your ass. Cause 153 00:10:38,840 --> 00:10:42,560 Speaker 1: now he'd talking about this overseas. He's been rubbing on 154 00:10:42,600 --> 00:10:49,920 Speaker 1: your skin. Now love the texture. Now he said he'd 155 00:10:49,960 --> 00:10:53,320 Speaker 1: been fascinated by Canada cannibalism since he was young. But 156 00:10:53,400 --> 00:10:56,760 Speaker 1: this just to fetish, and nothing said. Now he's on 157 00:10:56,880 --> 00:10:58,600 Speaker 1: the cold part right here. So I need to know 158 00:10:58,640 --> 00:11:00,680 Speaker 1: if this is really a fetish or I run for 159 00:11:00,760 --> 00:11:04,040 Speaker 1: us too late? Have you ever heard of such? I'm 160 00:11:04,160 --> 00:11:06,559 Speaker 1: falling for this guy, but I don't want to end 161 00:11:06,640 --> 00:11:10,040 Speaker 1: up with my butt in a frying pan. Okay, so 162 00:11:10,120 --> 00:11:14,720 Speaker 1: what is you're typing? Fault? Now? You might be falling 163 00:11:14,800 --> 00:11:17,559 Speaker 1: for this guy, but you ain't gonna be able to 164 00:11:17,640 --> 00:11:22,040 Speaker 1: fall on your ass because he gonna be to NATed. 165 00:11:22,600 --> 00:11:26,760 Speaker 1: What you're gonna wake up one night numb You ain't 166 00:11:26,760 --> 00:11:30,559 Speaker 1: gonna know what's going on. And he gonna be sitting 167 00:11:30,559 --> 00:11:33,800 Speaker 1: over there with a plate with some hot sauce. Ain't 168 00:11:33,800 --> 00:11:39,000 Speaker 1: gonna have a napkin rounding that babe? What you eating? Now, 169 00:11:39,040 --> 00:11:43,400 Speaker 1: he hadn't numbed you while you sleep, You ain't up 170 00:11:43,480 --> 00:11:46,520 Speaker 1: your little booty just tingling. You don't know half of it. 171 00:11:46,520 --> 00:11:50,920 Speaker 1: It's over there on that damn plate. Oh God, sitting 172 00:11:50,920 --> 00:11:52,720 Speaker 1: over there and got some hot sauce, and he just 173 00:11:53,120 --> 00:11:56,640 Speaker 1: showing your ass and you don't even know it. Show 174 00:11:56,920 --> 00:12:00,840 Speaker 1: stupid behind Tom, Have you ever heard such a thing. 175 00:12:01,120 --> 00:12:06,560 Speaker 1: Hell no, we're black people. Yeah, hell no, we black 176 00:12:06,679 --> 00:12:13,240 Speaker 1: people now. First and letter was kind of sexy, he 177 00:12:13,240 --> 00:12:18,640 Speaker 1: he hell, he talking about taking a slice of your ass. 178 00:12:18,880 --> 00:12:21,760 Speaker 1: And you don't run into us and you send up 179 00:12:21,760 --> 00:12:23,200 Speaker 1: in here. I don't want to end up with my 180 00:12:23,320 --> 00:12:29,080 Speaker 1: butt in a frying pan. But you go ahead, your 181 00:12:29,120 --> 00:12:33,920 Speaker 1: little biceps and that everything else like a little five meat. 182 00:12:34,040 --> 00:12:36,920 Speaker 1: Now all right, look, we gotta get rid of this food. 183 00:12:37,200 --> 00:12:39,120 Speaker 1: We gotta let the people know that they can email 184 00:12:39,200 --> 00:12:41,840 Speaker 1: or instagram us their thoughts. Email us. Nothing like this 185 00:12:41,920 --> 00:12:46,360 Speaker 1: again on the Strawberry Letter at Steve Harvey FM, or 186 00:12:46,640 --> 00:12:50,559 Speaker 1: check out The Strawberry Letter podcast on demand. 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