Speaker 1: It's time to Catch a Cheater.
Speaker 2: Only on the Jubile Show.
Speaker 3: Stephen is on the phone today for to Catch a
Speaker 3: Cheeter and he thinks that his girlfriend, Ashley of two years,
Speaker 3: might be messing around. So we'll see if we can
Speaker 3: help him out. Steven, thanks for coming on the show.
Speaker 3: Sorry it has to be like this, but what's going on?
Speaker 3: Why do you think Ashley's cheating?
Speaker 2: I've been seeing Ashley for like two years, to be honest.
Speaker 2: It's been a little rough recently, and I just I'm
Speaker 2: just wondering if this is like the last straw, you
Speaker 2: know what I.
Speaker 4: Mean, what has been causing all of the bumps If
Speaker 4: you don't mind me like getting kind of personal.
Speaker 2: Yeah, no, of course, she's just been kind of sketchy lately.
Speaker 2: She so like, lie, it's about dumbed, but like you know,
Speaker 2: so like forget to check in or you know, she
Speaker 2: like promises me like oh yeah, I'll call you later,
Speaker 2: and then all of a sudden she like just goes
Speaker 2: like ghost protocol and vanishes, and I'm just like, you know,
Speaker 2: it's like and then there's even dumb little like around
Speaker 2: the house, like we'll be you know, sitting on the
Speaker 2: other ends of the couch and I'll see that she's
Speaker 2: texting someone, and then when I ask her about it,
Speaker 2: she pretends like she's not actually texting. She was on
Speaker 2: like Instagram or something, and I'm just like, I don't
Speaker 2: care if you're texting someone, just don't lie about it. Yeah,
Speaker 2: and like want I'll ask her about it. It's like
Speaker 2: she'll like snap too real quick, like it's it's not like,
Speaker 2: oh yeah, it's nothing. It's like, oh no, no, you know,
Speaker 2: it's one of those things where it's it just feels
Speaker 2: really sketchy and I'm not like I'm not over controlling.
Speaker 2: I'm like super chill, and I've never had a problem
Speaker 2: with a relationship before where I cheated or my partner cheated.
Speaker 2: But this is like I've been talking to some of
Speaker 2: my buddies about this, and it's like it just feels
Speaker 2: weird and it feels like she's like she's lying. You know.
Speaker 4: I was just gonna say, she's never been like this before.
Speaker 4: This is the first time that she's kind of like
Speaker 4: she's always been honest and open with you.
Speaker 2: I think the thing that's that's hard is that she's
Speaker 2: we're very different and that she's friends with her exes
Speaker 2: and like, like when I say friends, I mean like friends,
Speaker 2: and I'm I can be friendly around people have dated
Speaker 2: and I'll like see you know every once in a
Speaker 2: while in public, but like she's it's like there's one
Speaker 2: of her exes tie she she still talks to them
Speaker 2: all the time. And I'm trying to be cool about it.
Speaker 2: I'm trying to like, you know, not be jerk, but
Speaker 2: but it really since lately he's like she'll be they'll
Speaker 2: be on Snapchat together, and it's like, what the hell
Speaker 2: is going on? You know what I mean?
Speaker 4: Yeah, so okay, well that is that is weird.
Speaker 2: I mean it's not just like that they're like snapping
Speaker 2: each other or whatever. I don't do that, but you know,
Speaker 2: it's like it's not just that, it's that she's like
Speaker 2: he'll post videos of like him and Ashley hanging out.
Speaker 2: I reached out to him direct and I thought, you know,
Speaker 2: I'll just shut it down. You know, I was worried
Speaker 2: she get all pissy and then she deny it and
Speaker 2: then like attack me about it. So I was like,
Speaker 2: you know what, I'm just dude, the dude, I can
Speaker 2: just you know, just message him and this. Sorry, but
Speaker 2: this guy. He flipped out and basically like told me
Speaker 2: off that they were just friends. I'm jealous as see,
Speaker 2: he got pissed off at me. And then of course
Speaker 2: she comes back. He tells her about it, and then
Speaker 2: she's screaming and yelling at me, and you know, for
Speaker 2: like an hour I had to leave. I was just like,
Speaker 2: this is too much.
Speaker 3: We'll try to figure out you told us at grocery store.
Speaker 3: She's a rewards card Membrett. So we'll play a song comeback,
Speaker 3: and then call and pretend to be from there and
Speaker 3: say that she's the lucky winners this month of free
Speaker 3: flowers delivered from our florial department. We'll see if she
Speaker 3: sends those to you or somebody else. Okay, I'm good,
Speaker 3: all right, Well place, don't come back and get you're
Speaker 3: to catch a teeter next right in the middle of
Speaker 3: to catch a cheeter and if you're just joining us.
Speaker 3: Steven is on the phone and he thinks that his
Speaker 3: girlfriend of two years, Ashley, might be cheating on him.
Speaker 3: So we're about to call from the grocery store that
Speaker 3: she's a rewards card member at and tell her that
Speaker 3: she's this month's lucky winner of free flowers delivered to
Speaker 3: anybody that she wants from our flooral apartment, and we'll
Speaker 3: see if she sends them to her boyfriend Steven or
Speaker 3: to somebody else. But before we do that, Steven, why
Speaker 3: don't you catch us up on your situation.
Speaker 2: Yeah. So, like you said, we've been together for a
Speaker 2: while now, and the last few months, I've just felt
Speaker 2: her kind of pulling away. And there's a lot of
Speaker 2: little stuff that she does, like texting and posting videos
Speaker 2: and laughing about things and then not when they share
Speaker 2: them with me. But mostly I'm on here because her
Speaker 2: ex Tie has been posting the snapchats and they've been
Speaker 2: hanging out a lot, and when I confronted him about it,
Speaker 2: she tried to rip me a new ass and then
Speaker 2: she written me an even bigger ass. It's gotten bad,
Speaker 2: and uh, she denies everything, but the way she denies
Speaker 2: it and the way he's denying it, it's just there's
Speaker 2: something fishing fishy going on here.
Speaker 3: So all right, well, are you ready for us to
Speaker 3: call her?
Speaker 2: I mean, I'm afraid about what the answer might be,
Speaker 2: but yeah, no, go fourth, please here we go. Put
Speaker 2: me out of my nursery.
Speaker 3: Now, Hi, this is Corbyn calling from I was looking
Speaker 3: for our rewards card member name Ashley.
Speaker 2: Yes, interesting, Hi Ashley.
Speaker 3: Please don't hang up. This is not a marketing phone call.
Speaker 3: I'm actually calling to say congratulations, you're this big winner.
Speaker 3: Thank you for shopping with us when I win oh
Speaker 3: the flowers. Every single month, we choose one Rewards card member,
Speaker 3: completely at random, who gets free flowers delivered from our
Speaker 3: Florida department. You've won thirty six long simm red roses,
Speaker 3: a box of candy or chocolates, and a card to
Speaker 3: be delivered to anybody that you want within the United
Speaker 3: States of America.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, that's so cool.
Speaker 3: Like I said, it's our way of saying thank you.
Speaker 3: There is no charge. You'll get confirmation on everything that
Speaker 3: you're just our like customer of the month.
Speaker 1: Basically, oh my god, that's so fun.
Speaker 2: Thank you.
Speaker 3: First thing I would need, if you know, you know
Speaker 3: you wants them to now, is just the first and
Speaker 3: last name of the person you'd like to send them to.
Speaker 1: Okay, Yeah, it's to tie tie.
Speaker 3: And then we got the last name, okay, and did
Speaker 3: you want to include a card or anything to tie?
Speaker 1: Yeah? Getting you flowers for one?
Speaker 2: I love you. What that is going on? Ashley?
Speaker 3: Ashley, this is actually the Jewbil Show. It's a radio show. Yeah,
Speaker 3: and we do a segment where it called to catch
Speaker 3: a teeter and your boyfriend Stephen is actually on the phone.
Speaker 2: What's going on? As kidding me? No, he's not kidding you.
Speaker 5: You're like trying to like catch me in some wrongdoing.
Speaker 5: You're calling a radio station. But I like frank me
Speaker 5: and trick me.
Speaker 2: I'm not trying to trick you or you Just why
Speaker 2: are you sending flowers to Tie?
Speaker 1: Because Tie is my friend?
Speaker 2: You see send flowers to all your friends and say
Speaker 2: love you.
Speaker 5: Well, nobody's ever offered me three flowers to send you
Speaker 5: a friend before.
Speaker 2: So no, this is you could also send them to
Speaker 2: your boyfriend. Could you could have sent them to me
Speaker 2: to your boyfriend?
Speaker 1: Yeah, but honestly, would you like something like that? You
Speaker 1: probably just think it was a girly and stupid Oh my.
Speaker 2: God, are you serious? No, I'd much rather have you
Speaker 2: send them to Tie, your ex. You spend way too
Speaker 2: much time with.
Speaker 6: You put out videos of you guys like laughing and
Speaker 6: giggling together, so it's like illegal to laugh when you
Speaker 6: have a boyfriend to like laugh at somebody else's jokes
Speaker 6: or like have friends on you.
Speaker 2: You're not.
Speaker 1: I'm not allowed to have friends outside of this relationship.
Speaker 2: That's crazy. Really, So you're just friends?
Speaker 1: Yes, we're just friends. I've said that like a million times.
Speaker 5: Like it's embarrassing how insecure you are about me having
Speaker 5: a friend who is somebody that I used to date.
Speaker 4: Well, don't you think it's weird actually that you're not
Speaker 4: understanding where he's coming from, Like that's your ex though,
Speaker 4: Like and he's telling you he's uncomfortable though, and you're
Speaker 4: dismissing at all.
Speaker 1: Because he's just making it out to be something that
Speaker 1: it's not.
Speaker 5: Like we have time. I haven't been together forever, like
Speaker 5: it's been so long. We're just friends Is that true?
Speaker 2: Though?
Speaker 5: And it's like all I hear, all I hear is
Speaker 5: like why this and why that?
Speaker 1: It's just like, oh my god, you're like obsessed with him?
Speaker 1: Is I?
Speaker 5: Honestly, I think this is like Stephen's issue, Like I
Speaker 5: never bring I never bring tie up, and he always
Speaker 5: has something to say about it and like always some
Speaker 5: like foul things to accuse me of.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you never bring him up because you're always too
Speaker 2: busy texting him. Okay, So then if if I was
Speaker 2: cool with one of my exes and actually hung out
Speaker 2: with them, you'd be totally fine with me sending her
Speaker 2: flowers and saying I love you.
Speaker 5: If you told me that you were just friends and
Speaker 5: there was nothing romantic going on, I would trust that
Speaker 5: I would trust my boyfriend and not lie to me.
Speaker 5: And I don't know why you can't just trust me
Speaker 5: and have to make everything some sort of like deception.
Speaker 2: So so I can I can go ahead and call
Speaker 2: up Rebecca and send her some flowers today, and you're
Speaker 2: totally fine with that just thinking of you. I love you?
Speaker 5: Yeah, sure, just thinking of you. No, it's different because
Speaker 5: it's not like you guys have said friends. It's not
Speaker 5: like you guys like remain friends and friends and have
Speaker 5: like a good friendship the way to tie and I did.
Speaker 2: But that's so you're sending him flowers.
Speaker 5: I don't understand why you That would be coming from
Speaker 5: such a different place. That would be like you trying
Speaker 5: to rekindle something with her versus like we never stopped
Speaker 5: being friends after we broke up.
Speaker 4: But Ashley, what about like bringing your man into the
Speaker 4: situation too, So like you can all be friends because
Speaker 4: having it so separate makes everybody uncomfortable. So instead of
Speaker 4: like drawing such a hard line like this is my
Speaker 4: friend and you can't be friends with him too, like
Speaker 4: I mean, you know what I mean, just because if
Speaker 4: somebody is uncomfortable that you love, then you should care
Speaker 4: to try to help them feel better.
Speaker 5: I just think it's Tie and even are such different people,
Speaker 5: Like I just don't think that they would honestly hit
Speaker 5: it off have friends.
Speaker 2: You know what, if you really want to just if
Speaker 2: you want to hang out with him so much, why don't.
Speaker 5: You just go back to because why I just don't
Speaker 5: know why or nothing's wrong with him.
Speaker 1: He's a great person.
Speaker 2: We just just want to have it both ways, you
Speaker 2: know what, You can just go on and do that
Speaker 2: with Tie. I'm I can't just sit here on the
Speaker 2: radio and talk to you about this. This is there's
Speaker 2: just too much. I'm done.
Speaker 5: Oh my god, you can't sit I'm talking to me
Speaker 5: on the radio that you sabotage.
Speaker 2: And because you're in mind, you're like, all right, I'm
Speaker 2: gonna I'm gonna go. Thank you, thank you, guys. I
Speaker 2: gotta go.
Speaker 4: Sorry, good luck.
Speaker 5: The Double shows to catch a cheater,