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Speaker 1: Today we have stories about threesome's paternity tests and a

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Speaker 1: long lost brothers. Let's get into it. I'm scared, but

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Speaker 1: let's do it. I ruined my life for threesome.

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Speaker 2: Now.

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Speaker 1: The third person is pregnant. Am I the father?

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Speaker 2: Wow? You know there's you know, there's like Mama me

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Speaker 2: and type situations, but this one is just like you know,

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Speaker 2: you're both there, you know what I mean.

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Speaker 1: That's like a family friendly movie Mama Mia.

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Speaker 2: I never I've never seen Mama Mia as I don't

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Speaker 2: see movies, and I never knew that was a premise.

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Speaker 1: It's yeah, that is insane the like and I love

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Speaker 1: that premise. They make it work, they make it work,

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Speaker 1: make it work. But it's crazy that all of them

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Speaker 1: are her dad. That wait, I mean that's kind of

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Speaker 1: effectively how she grew up as all of them are

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Speaker 1: her dad. Oh oh, doesn't know which one is their

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Speaker 1: actually dad, actual dad, and so all of them are

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Speaker 1: just like stepped up and like, I'm going to be

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Speaker 1: the dad for this person.

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Speaker 2: Wow, I thought you were about to say both people

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Speaker 2: could the father in this situation and a little swarly action.

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Speaker 1: I don't think that's how it works well, but we'll

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Speaker 1: find out. Also, I love Mamma Yeah, great soundtrack, great

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Speaker 1: sounded check. Yes, I mean abba, come on, come on,

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Speaker 1: it's the best music to make pancakes too, And I.

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Speaker 2: Love the specificity and love thanks Riley.

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Speaker 3: Okay, stories are.

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Speaker 2: I know this fun?

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Speaker 4: No?

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Speaker 2: All right?

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Speaker 1: My wife Letty and I used to have an amazing relationship.

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Speaker 1: We met each other eight years ago, married four years ago,

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Speaker 1: and we used to have a great marriage. And also

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Speaker 1: this comes from username Frickin' ruined, which I it's.

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Speaker 2: Very oh no foreshadow.

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Speaker 1: We had our ups and downs, but we always solved

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Speaker 1: any issue and never let a day pass before we

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Speaker 2: We were happy.

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Speaker 1: Last year we started to get more adventurous in the bedroom,

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Speaker 1: trying to save it. Then, how do you introduce adventure

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Speaker 1: into your bedroom?

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Speaker 5: Uh?

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Speaker 2: Where are you sticking that car?

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Speaker 1: After an event on our family, Letty decided to let

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Speaker 1: go over shyness and delive every single thing she could think,

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Speaker 1: and that ended up with her becoming creative in our bedroom.

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Speaker 1: We tried everything that caught our attention. We if we

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Speaker 1: saw it on TV or read about it, we tried it.

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Speaker 2: Wow.

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Speaker 1: We had so much fun together.

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Speaker 2: I mean, you know, what. It sounds like it's actually

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Speaker 2: helping the relationship a lot. This is so far good.

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Speaker 2: I know.

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Speaker 1: But like if I tried everything that came across my

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Speaker 1: desk in terms of weird sexual.

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Speaker 2: Acts, it would not be good.

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Speaker 1: It would not be good. Hamsterring for one.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, turb don't look it up.

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Speaker 1: Okay, story time. After trying something she was very curious

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Speaker 1: to try, she let me choose something to do. I

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Speaker 1: want to know all these things. She told me to

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Speaker 1: choose something you ever wanted to try but never had

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Speaker 1: the chance. I stupidly told her I always wondered how

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Speaker 1: it would be to be with two girls. Oh, she

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Speaker 1: agreed and started to plan a threesome.

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Speaker 2: All right, that's gonna go different.

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Speaker 1: She is, she is completely on board.

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Speaker 2: Okay, wow on board.

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Speaker 1: It sounds like they're just being an adventurous couple. Right, yeah,

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Speaker 1: she agreed, started playing threesome. I still regret that moment

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Speaker 1: some more for shattering. We know it's going to go back.

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Speaker 1: We ended up choosing all right, wait before we go,

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Speaker 1: conspiracy theory, you have.

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Speaker 2: One, I mean based off my masterful deduction skills. That

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Speaker 2: was the title that you read. The two of them

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Speaker 2: are we are going to get a bit of a

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Speaker 2: swirly durly going on, and she's going to be with child,

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Speaker 2: and they're going to say, do we know who it was?

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Speaker 1: I mean, I imagine we know who it was, because I

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Speaker 1: think there's just one guy in this situation.

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Speaker 2: I have a new prediction. I am an idiot. The

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Speaker 2: prophecy became true. Who's who is the mother?

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Speaker 6: Wait?

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Speaker 2: Wait wait wait wait okay, wow.

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Speaker 1: John's prediction?

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Speaker 2: What it took me a long time? Uh with what

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Speaker 2: was it with? With uh? People who didn't know the

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Speaker 2: opporternity tests that it's only a question of who's the father.

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Speaker 2: It took me a long time for that to sink in.

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Speaker 1: So well, I'm glad it's there. I'm glad it's sinking.

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Speaker 2: We're finally we're finally in. I'm glad it's sinking. Something

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Speaker 2: else sunk in.

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Speaker 1: Oh geez, Well we end up choosing girl we know Abby,

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Speaker 1: a friend of her from her job. Dude, red flag,

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Speaker 1: massive red flag to have your threesome partner be a

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Speaker 2: What if that's what they saw on the TV? Yeah,

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Speaker 2: they're like, we have to try everything exactly as we

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Speaker 2: saw it exactly.

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Speaker 1: They probably just like watched one video on the hub

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Speaker 1: secretary or go work or after hours? Yeah, yeah, no,

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Speaker 1: I not literally the worst idea ever. Yeah, this is bad,

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Speaker 1: but let's keep on. She's the type of girl that

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Speaker 1: believes in energies, crystals, vibes around, the free spirit girl

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Speaker 1: and she is nice to hang around. We told her

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Speaker 1: and she ended up accepting, which is like, I feel

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Speaker 1: like that. I feel like they chose a type.

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Speaker 2: Right, because because imagine you asked the wrong person at work.

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Speaker 2: Oh good, a little damaging little. I mean, hey, John,

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Speaker 2: what you got a question for me? Riley? Ask it France.

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Speaker 3: I know one of you would say yes, that's.

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Speaker 1: Why I wouldn't say that's what you're talking about.

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Speaker 3: But he has in the past.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but not with you. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I would not do that with another guy. I would

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Speaker 3: never do it. Did Riley plant the story?

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Speaker 1: No conspiratorial to have a threesome with one of his bosses?

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Speaker 2: All right?

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Speaker 1: We chose her because we knew it was very probable

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Speaker 1: she will accept. But we also chose her because physically

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Speaker 1: she's very different from my wife. While she is small

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Speaker 1: with pale skin, short hair, and little button breasts, I'm

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Speaker 1: not saying she is ugly. She's very cute. My wife

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Speaker 1: has tan skin, long beautiful hair, and a great body.

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Speaker 2: Well, this girl is a skinny way. My wife has

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Speaker 2: bodacious curves.

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Speaker 1: The idea was that this way there would be not

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Speaker 1: any insecurities about me comparing them, Oh, that I would

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Speaker 1: prefer her because obviously I wouldn't.

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Speaker 2: Damn damn. So they're basically like, yo, let's find someone ugly.

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Speaker 2: So that way you.

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Speaker 3: Angela from the office. This is what she sounds like.

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Speaker 2: Angela's Angela from the office. Yeah, I don't know, Like, yeah,

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Speaker 2: you don't think Angela's cute.

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Speaker 3: It was kind of cute.

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Speaker 2: He's not about it time, all right.

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Speaker 1: I don't know if she was. It's just because the

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Speaker 1: personality played, you know. She tried out for Pam.

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Speaker 2: Really yeah, yeah, I can see why she wasn't. Damn.

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Speaker 3: It's like Pam and Angela like, come on, I have it,

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Speaker 1: The idea was that this way, right, no insecurity. So

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Speaker 1: we said it. She came to our place and we

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Speaker 1: spent the night together, and I regret it even if

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Speaker 1: those hours.

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Speaker 2: We're great At the moment, Damn mad Man's putting in work.

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Speaker 1: I would do anything to get back to that night

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Speaker 1: and repeated over now and stop everything the following day

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Speaker 1: is everything was great. Letty was happy that I liked it,

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Speaker 1: and Abby kept it private, so it was like another

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Speaker 1: perfect adventure for us. Then then then then, after a

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Speaker 1: or hug her, not even cuddling. At first, she said

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Speaker 1: it was because she was tired, but after insisting, she

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Speaker 1: told me it was due to the threesome.

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Speaker 2: Ah, here we go, here we go. Let's see what happened,

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Speaker 2: she told me.

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Speaker 1: Even if she had fun that night, now she was

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Speaker 1: feeling awful, cheated, used that the image of me making

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Speaker 1: wasn't comfortable with me being near her. Any would experience that, like,

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Speaker 1: no has anyone had a threesome and been like, I

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Speaker 2: And we've had multiple stories where whether it's like three

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Speaker 2: so actually I think it's mostly through threesomes, but other

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Speaker 2: other sexual proclivities like this or being being in an

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Speaker 2: open relationship where they're like at the time, I was

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Speaker 2: like all for it, but it was only until after

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Speaker 2: I didn't want it, which is fair.

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Speaker 1: And I feel like it's it's it you you have

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Speaker 1: mean you lean kind of like someone or because like,

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Speaker 1: it's more easier to not have it if, especially if

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Speaker 1: you're having a three simme in a relationship, it's more

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Speaker 1: all the time. If that like person like deems it awkward,

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Speaker 1: but now not only does she feel uncomfortable with this

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Speaker 1: to work every single day and seeing this woman. I

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Speaker 1: thought it was from his work because if from his work,

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Speaker 1: do we know her job? Oh my, she has to

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Speaker 2: Wow, She's coming to her desk like, hey, I just

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Speaker 2: got the new memo reports for you, and she's like,

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Speaker 2: I'd like to do something that would get me reported.

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Speaker 3: It's like if me, you and Christian I had everyone

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Speaker 3: that I work with, our guys, and there is one woman,

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Speaker 3: but I'm not going to bring this.

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Speaker 2: So this is why I'm keeping it like this. Okay, respectfully, respectfully,

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Speaker 2: Riley is trying to make a three some of the Okay,

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Speaker 2: op off has happened, it's not gonna happen. Happening.

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Speaker 1: Everyone saw that hug the other day, and now Riley

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Speaker 1: has has got in his head. Haven't seen the cute

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Speaker 1: hug we gave Riley? Yeah that was great.

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Speaker 2: It's great.

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Speaker 1: Man looking like a glad all right, talking about it.

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Speaker 1: Even got into counseling. I tried everything to make her sure,

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Speaker 1: I only love her, but it was just a fantasy

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Speaker 1: and that would never happen again. And then and then nothing.

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Speaker 1: Oh no, her period was delayed and she believed she

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Speaker 1: could be pregnant.

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Speaker 2: How did I miss that in the in the conspiracy? Conspiracy?

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Speaker 1: Okay, so all right, we're gonna pause right here really quick. Yes,

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Speaker 1: when a man and a woman love, yeah, let me

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Speaker 1: tell you the biology. Now, I want to know if

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Speaker 1: you think this moment right here of the threesome partner

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Speaker 1: getting pregnant will affect the marriage in any way?

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Speaker 2: Absolutely with that you know what? Last time I wasn't in.

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Speaker 2: Now I'm back, I'm back. Yeah, come on, let's put

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Speaker 2: on let's let's make it official. All right.

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Speaker 1: All right, so here here's here's the real question. Yes,

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Speaker 1: will Opie's wife be upset?

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Speaker 2: Yes, I stand on that I plant plant your fly

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Speaker 1: Oh god, yo, And now I'm bound to her forever.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, either, better build that tolerance up, man, Get.

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Speaker 1: But like, the thing that sucks is like he didn't

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Speaker 2: He didn't. Yeah, he didn't do anything to intentionally portray

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Speaker 2: Is this just like badly a little bit of an

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Speaker 1: I don't know if she's asking for a divorce.

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Speaker 2: She's asking for a divorce, but I feel like just

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Speaker 2: I mean definitely child support, Absolutely child support, and he.

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Speaker 2: Absolutely no, right, but I think absolutely child support and

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Speaker 1: And you will pass down this information for generation to generation.

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Speaker 1: Rights it on a fucking stone tablet.

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Speaker 2: We are the people who do not have We have

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Speaker 1: Fast start to do religion. I mean, yeah, I I

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Speaker 1: feel bad for op butt question question, question, new hypothety,

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Speaker 2: Like how we switched tattoo? Yeah, all right.

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Speaker 1: The wife says, I want to be back with you.

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Speaker 1: One condition, you can't be in the kid's life. Whoa whoa,

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Speaker 2: My firstborn child. If you're saying, if I got in

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Speaker 1: No, no, but not in this situation. Naima doesn't the condition on.

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Speaker 2: Because if I then fight for custody, it's not like

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Speaker 2: Bothers a kid's secret, which is what I'm gonna do.

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Speaker 2: I'll create a I'll create a bunker where me and

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Speaker 1: No, there's no loopholes. Don no loopholes. The sorry, John's

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Speaker 2: Named my kid for me?

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Speaker 2: Of course. Oh that's great, John Junior. Would you name

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Speaker 7: I didn't do it. He'll for anything, he'll be like,

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Speaker 2: What is this crazy? He's like, oh my god, to

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Speaker 2: You seeing Bolt over here, But he couldn't run fast enough.

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Speaker 1: Oh no, bro, he's just doing what they're telling them,

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Speaker 2: Ooh wait, yeah later, all right, are you ready? Let's

441
00:25:42,119 --> 00:25:42,960
Speaker 2: do it.

442
00:25:42,960 --> 00:25:48,920
Speaker 1: It starts with hello, Hi. Some had sent me messages

443
00:25:48,960 --> 00:25:51,440
Speaker 1: asking for an update, and I think I can give one.

444
00:25:52,880 --> 00:25:55,720
Speaker 1: Abby and I took the DNA test.

445
00:25:55,960 --> 00:26:05,760
Speaker 2: Oh snap, Oh I am the father. Oh is the father.

446
00:26:06,080 --> 00:26:08,280
Speaker 1: She is open to do another test after the baby

447
00:26:08,320 --> 00:26:09,919
Speaker 1: is born if I want to be sure. But as

448
00:26:10,000 --> 00:26:13,720
Speaker 1: things seem to be, this is my baby. At first,

449
00:26:13,960 --> 00:26:16,760
Speaker 1: I took it the worst way possible. I kept torturing

450
00:26:16,800 --> 00:26:19,119
Speaker 1: myself for being such an idiot, and reading some of

451
00:26:19,119 --> 00:26:22,120
Speaker 1: the comments made me realize that I'm the biggest stupid

452
00:26:22,359 --> 00:26:25,120
Speaker 1: for asking my wife to add another girl to our bedroom.

453
00:26:25,880 --> 00:26:28,080
Speaker 1: I also like how he wrote that the biggest student.

454
00:26:28,240 --> 00:26:29,639
Speaker 2: I love it. I love it, I mean.

455
00:26:29,640 --> 00:26:32,040
Speaker 1: And I talked after the test. She is keeping the baby,

456
00:26:32,119 --> 00:26:33,960
Speaker 1: She wants to be a mom and wants me to

457
00:26:34,000 --> 00:26:36,159
Speaker 1: be the father for the baby. She told me that

458
00:26:36,200 --> 00:26:38,359
Speaker 1: she didn't expect me to start living with her and

459
00:26:38,400 --> 00:26:41,119
Speaker 1: get married, just to take charge of the responsibilities that

460
00:26:41,160 --> 00:26:43,320
Speaker 1: will come with the baby and to get along and

461
00:26:43,359 --> 00:26:45,400
Speaker 1: be good friends for the baby. So it's like it's

462
00:26:45,440 --> 00:26:50,679
Speaker 1: good parenting, good parenting. It also apologized for how things

463
00:26:50,680 --> 00:26:53,320
Speaker 1: had developed. Also, something I was thinking about the other

464
00:26:53,400 --> 00:26:55,080
Speaker 1: day is like, what if I, like raise a kid

465
00:26:55,119 --> 00:26:57,520
Speaker 1: with Christian who were just like platonic best friends that

466
00:26:57,680 --> 00:27:01,960
Speaker 1: just like you as a child, wife partners and like

467
00:27:02,760 --> 00:27:04,080
Speaker 1: fun does We.

468
00:27:04,080 --> 00:27:06,120
Speaker 3: Had Chip here for one week and this is what

469
00:27:06,160 --> 00:27:06,840
Speaker 3: he got from.

470
00:27:06,920 --> 00:27:09,000
Speaker 1: I know, Chip's gone the golden rechiever.

471
00:27:09,160 --> 00:27:11,520
Speaker 2: We are super shared custody, though I am gonna sue

472
00:27:11,560 --> 00:27:14,960
Speaker 2: Christian's dad for shared So cute. But back to the story.

473
00:27:15,040 --> 00:27:18,480
Speaker 1: So she had to also apologize for how things had developed,

474
00:27:18,560 --> 00:27:21,159
Speaker 1: saying that she never wanted to hurt me or letty.

475
00:27:21,320 --> 00:27:24,240
Speaker 1: Her intention was just to have fun, but that she's

476
00:27:24,280 --> 00:27:27,199
Speaker 1: grateful and excited for the baby and she and I

477
00:27:27,240 --> 00:27:30,440
Speaker 1: are on good terms now. I'm still not totally comfortable

478
00:27:30,440 --> 00:27:32,840
Speaker 1: with her, and she's saying that if I can't save

479
00:27:32,880 --> 00:27:35,920
Speaker 1: my marriage and end up divorcing my wife, she wouldn't

480
00:27:35,960 --> 00:27:37,480
Speaker 1: mind having fun with me again.

481
00:27:38,000 --> 00:27:41,720
Speaker 2: No, that's not good. Don't do that. Don't do that.

482
00:27:42,560 --> 00:27:46,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, if this don't do it at once

483
00:27:46,800 --> 00:27:50,480
Speaker 1: and you have one baby, I as well have to

484
00:27:50,760 --> 00:27:57,320
Speaker 1: imagine again, Oh my gosh. It makes me doubt her

485
00:27:57,359 --> 00:27:59,080
Speaker 1: real intentions.

486
00:27:59,600 --> 00:28:00,320
Speaker 2: I mean, like.

487
00:28:01,840 --> 00:28:03,920
Speaker 1: I don't know, I don't know if I don't know

488
00:28:03,920 --> 00:28:04,520
Speaker 1: if I would take it.

489
00:28:04,520 --> 00:28:07,280
Speaker 3: That way and figured it out.

490
00:28:07,160 --> 00:28:10,720
Speaker 2: Like basically saying, oh, she actually wanted me the whole

491
00:28:10,720 --> 00:28:12,040
Speaker 2: time type of a thing.

492
00:28:12,119 --> 00:28:15,440
Speaker 1: Or yeah, I think that maybe what it means. I

493
00:28:15,520 --> 00:28:18,760
Speaker 1: think it'll also mean like I don't know.

494
00:28:19,000 --> 00:28:20,680
Speaker 2: Like slow, like not that she went it in the

495
00:28:20,680 --> 00:28:22,560
Speaker 2: whole time before or anything, but now that there.

496
00:28:22,520 --> 00:28:25,239
Speaker 1: Is the baby, well maybe you know, maybe she was like,

497
00:28:25,320 --> 00:28:27,359
Speaker 1: oh I I you know, was going to give up

498
00:28:27,359 --> 00:28:28,919
Speaker 1: the baby for adoption. But now that I have this

499
00:28:29,040 --> 00:28:30,920
Speaker 1: chance with this guy that I'm kind of into, maybe

500
00:28:30,960 --> 00:28:33,560
Speaker 1: I'll keep the baby and like that will create some

501
00:28:33,640 --> 00:28:34,600
Speaker 1: kind of family unit.

502
00:28:34,720 --> 00:28:38,480
Speaker 2: But I don't know if I believe that. Yeah, I mean,

503
00:28:38,520 --> 00:28:41,640
Speaker 2: it's it seems like she's like very adventurous and it's

504
00:28:41,680 --> 00:28:42,000
Speaker 2: just like.

505
00:28:43,240 --> 00:28:47,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, she's rolling with a bunch of Yeah. On the

506
00:28:47,360 --> 00:28:50,520
Speaker 1: other side, my wife hasn't started the divorce yet.

507
00:28:50,680 --> 00:28:56,480
Speaker 2: She moved back we have talked. What I say, keep talking.

508
00:28:56,520 --> 00:28:59,360
Speaker 1: That's a green flag flag. Whoa, that's a green flag

509
00:28:59,440 --> 00:29:03,720
Speaker 1: right there? Okay, At first she was so angry at me,

510
00:29:04,120 --> 00:29:06,880
Speaker 1: and I let her do and say all she needed,

511
00:29:07,040 --> 00:29:12,800
Speaker 1: every insult and name I earned it. I really don't

512
00:29:12,800 --> 00:29:14,280
Speaker 1: think he earned it though, well, he didn't do. I

513
00:29:14,320 --> 00:29:16,600
Speaker 1: don't think he really did anything wrong outside of the

514
00:29:16,600 --> 00:29:17,920
Speaker 1: confides of the meriage.

515
00:29:17,640 --> 00:29:22,240
Speaker 2: You know. Yeah, I mean maybe he's in relationship preservation mode.

516
00:29:22,480 --> 00:29:28,000
Speaker 1: And yeah, I mean I like, I know he just

517
00:29:28,040 --> 00:29:31,560
Speaker 1: wants to fix things. Yeah, totally understand. But in terms

518
00:29:31,640 --> 00:29:34,120
Speaker 1: of I really I still stand by what we had

519
00:29:34,280 --> 00:29:36,440
Speaker 1: said yet earlier, Like, I feel like he didn't do

520
00:29:36,440 --> 00:29:36,880
Speaker 1: anything wrong.

521
00:29:37,120 --> 00:29:38,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, but I would love to know what you guys think.

522
00:29:38,640 --> 00:29:39,360
Speaker 2: Let us know. In the comment.

523
00:29:39,360 --> 00:29:41,440
Speaker 1: I think he made his relationship complicated. I don't think

524
00:29:41,440 --> 00:29:42,600
Speaker 1: he did anything morally wrong.

525
00:29:43,000 --> 00:29:46,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, and there wasn't all. There also wasn't malicious intent,

526
00:29:46,880 --> 00:29:50,600
Speaker 2: which in this case I think very much does actually

527
00:29:50,640 --> 00:29:54,760
Speaker 2: impact the situation. Yeah.

528
00:29:55,080 --> 00:29:58,320
Speaker 1: Then she got very sad. We cried together, and she

529
00:29:58,440 --> 00:30:02,080
Speaker 1: told me she still loves me. She said she can't

530
00:30:02,320 --> 00:30:03,480
Speaker 1: live without me.

531
00:30:05,040 --> 00:30:05,760
Speaker 2: That's so cute.

532
00:30:06,480 --> 00:30:13,040
Speaker 1: M hmm, but can't live with me either, after what happened. Wow,

533
00:30:15,200 --> 00:30:19,200
Speaker 1: all right, rollercoaster the three zimme is not the problem anymore.

534
00:30:19,680 --> 00:30:22,120
Speaker 1: Now it's about me having a baby with Abby.

535
00:30:23,160 --> 00:30:23,560
Speaker 2: It's hard.

536
00:30:23,640 --> 00:30:25,880
Speaker 1: We're both confused and scared and still don't know if

537
00:30:25,920 --> 00:30:28,480
Speaker 1: we'll get over this. But the thing that has me

538
00:30:28,640 --> 00:30:34,080
Speaker 1: even more confused is that recently my wife's libido has grown.

539
00:30:35,480 --> 00:30:38,320
Speaker 1: For moments she asks for intimacy, and right after she

540
00:30:38,440 --> 00:30:41,240
Speaker 1: wants space, she wants to be kinky and do things

541
00:30:41,320 --> 00:30:43,440
Speaker 1: we used to try to play, and right after to

542
00:30:43,520 --> 00:30:46,080
Speaker 1: go to another room. I've asked her and she said

543
00:30:46,320 --> 00:30:48,560
Speaker 1: she doesn't know why she does it, she just feels

544
00:30:48,680 --> 00:30:51,720
Speaker 1: like she needs it. She's still insecure about us, about

545
00:30:51,760 --> 00:30:54,760
Speaker 1: what we are, where we are. Divorce is still on

546
00:30:54,880 --> 00:30:57,320
Speaker 1: the table, so we're stuck. I would like to do,

547
00:30:59,040 --> 00:31:01,120
Speaker 1: I would like to do to do. I would like

548
00:31:01,200 --> 00:31:03,440
Speaker 1: to know what to do, but I don't know what

549
00:31:03,680 --> 00:31:06,800
Speaker 1: the right thing or how to solve this is. I

550
00:31:06,920 --> 00:31:09,040
Speaker 1: know I'll have to be responsible for the baby, but

551
00:31:09,160 --> 00:31:11,960
Speaker 1: I want to save my marriage too. And there is

552
00:31:12,040 --> 00:31:16,000
Speaker 1: some additional context and some relevant comments, But now getting

553
00:31:16,080 --> 00:31:18,440
Speaker 1: some more information, where are you feeling? Are you feeling

554
00:31:18,520 --> 00:31:22,840
Speaker 1: like like I don't know? Do you feel like the

555
00:31:22,920 --> 00:31:23,880
Speaker 1: marriage is salfligible.

556
00:31:24,000 --> 00:31:26,320
Speaker 2: I think, well, I think it's still the rocket. I

557
00:31:26,400 --> 00:31:30,680
Speaker 2: think so. I think it's still very pretty soon after

558
00:31:30,840 --> 00:31:34,920
Speaker 2: everything has transpired. Also low key, you know, you know

559
00:31:35,000 --> 00:31:41,040
Speaker 2: one thing they could do that would help Opie's wife

560
00:31:41,320 --> 00:31:44,000
Speaker 2: be distracted from the other baby?

561
00:31:44,160 --> 00:31:48,040
Speaker 1: No stop a threesome baby up their own?

562
00:31:50,240 --> 00:31:55,040
Speaker 2: Why did we all know where Sam's mind is that

563
00:31:56,120 --> 00:31:58,560
Speaker 2: he's like, let's run it back. That is true, I mean,

564
00:31:58,600 --> 00:32:01,720
Speaker 2: but maybe should they're not. It's it's exactly, it's a

565
00:32:02,000 --> 00:32:06,880
Speaker 2: horrible reason to have a baby. But one why didn't

566
00:32:06,880 --> 00:32:11,000
Speaker 2: you decide to have me well son? When you have

567
00:32:11,120 --> 00:32:13,920
Speaker 2: a very ugly coworker, now you want to have a threesome.

568
00:32:13,520 --> 00:32:16,760
Speaker 1: Win things get complicated fast.

569
00:32:17,120 --> 00:32:18,600
Speaker 3: A lot of people do that though, they're like, a

570
00:32:18,680 --> 00:32:20,080
Speaker 3: kid will save this relationship.

571
00:32:20,360 --> 00:32:21,000
Speaker 2: It's so bad.

572
00:32:22,640 --> 00:32:28,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, that really is though, Yeah, you don't do that,

573
00:32:28,560 --> 00:32:32,560
Speaker 1: but that it would, it would distract, it would potentially work.

574
00:32:33,200 --> 00:32:36,520
Speaker 2: And it would potentially work, and maybe being pregnant, she'll

575
00:32:36,560 --> 00:32:41,320
Speaker 2: have more empathy for uh may as well for the

576
00:32:41,360 --> 00:32:45,880
Speaker 2: coworker and become friends. Again, it's a terrible idea. And

577
00:32:45,960 --> 00:32:49,920
Speaker 2: they all live in one house, oh man, in.

578
00:32:50,000 --> 00:32:52,120
Speaker 3: Like Minnesota or Utah.

579
00:32:52,920 --> 00:32:55,240
Speaker 2: I love it. Yeah, we just went to Oh now

580
00:32:55,280 --> 00:32:57,280
Speaker 2: I see now, I see where we're going.

581
00:32:59,120 --> 00:33:02,760
Speaker 1: But here's some of his additional info from Opkay. We

582
00:33:02,880 --> 00:33:04,800
Speaker 1: use condoms every time. One of the doctors told me

583
00:33:04,880 --> 00:33:07,680
Speaker 1: that it is very rare, but condoms can fail. It

584
00:33:07,800 --> 00:33:12,080
Speaker 1: needs a little even microstopic hole that goes and noticed

585
00:33:12,080 --> 00:33:13,840
Speaker 1: a lot of bad luck. But it is possible. I

586
00:33:13,960 --> 00:33:16,240
Speaker 1: threw the used condoms on the rooms trash bend. It

587
00:33:16,280 --> 00:33:18,680
Speaker 1: would be impossible for her to take them without us noticing.

588
00:33:18,920 --> 00:33:21,320
Speaker 1: It happened in our room and we stayed on the

589
00:33:21,360 --> 00:33:23,800
Speaker 1: bed after we were done. After that, we dressed and

590
00:33:23,880 --> 00:33:25,840
Speaker 1: went to the kitchen for coffee, and after that she left.

591
00:33:26,160 --> 00:33:28,400
Speaker 1: I don't know what her real intentions are, but I'm

592
00:33:28,440 --> 00:33:30,360
Speaker 1: definitely not going to be with her. I'll take charge

593
00:33:30,360 --> 00:33:33,680
Speaker 1: of my responsibilities as a father. But just that, there

594
00:33:33,760 --> 00:33:36,800
Speaker 1: wasn't much interaction between them. It was both focused on me.

595
00:33:37,080 --> 00:33:39,200
Speaker 1: The only things they did was when I asked them

596
00:33:39,280 --> 00:33:42,480
Speaker 1: to kiss, and then when I was doing it with

597
00:33:42,560 --> 00:33:44,960
Speaker 1: my wife, Abby was touching her body. Besides that, they

598
00:33:45,040 --> 00:33:47,280
Speaker 1: barely interacted between them. Working on some fifty shades of

599
00:33:47,320 --> 00:33:51,160
Speaker 1: gray right or just me and I'm not sure, And

600
00:33:51,240 --> 00:33:55,440
Speaker 1: relevant comments. Jttt wic says, I don't know you trusted

601
00:33:55,480 --> 00:33:58,440
Speaker 1: her enough with the threesome in the first place, Opie says,

602
00:33:58,560 --> 00:34:00,560
Speaker 1: and I regret it. Sure, But if you and your

603
00:34:00,600 --> 00:34:02,800
Speaker 1: wife divorce, who might you end up with? OPI says

604
00:34:02,840 --> 00:34:05,000
Speaker 1: if we divorce, I'm not going to be with Appy.

605
00:34:05,040 --> 00:34:07,680
Speaker 1: I will be a father for the baby, but nothing more.

606
00:34:08,280 --> 00:34:11,719
Speaker 1: And that is where it ends. We have some loose ends.

607
00:34:11,840 --> 00:34:17,040
Speaker 1: We definitely have some loose ends here. But uh, I mean,

608
00:34:17,880 --> 00:34:22,320
Speaker 1: damn threesome. I think there's goes to show if you

609
00:34:22,400 --> 00:34:26,239
Speaker 1: have a threesome, be prepared for whatever that could happen.

610
00:34:27,239 --> 00:34:27,840
Speaker 2: Yeah what?

611
00:34:28,120 --> 00:34:28,239
Speaker 4: Uh?

612
00:34:28,920 --> 00:34:28,960
Speaker 5: What?

613
00:34:29,200 --> 00:34:30,840
Speaker 2: Riley? Why are you looking at me like that?

614
00:34:32,680 --> 00:34:35,919
Speaker 3: So, as a person in here that has joined the Illuminati,

615
00:34:37,760 --> 00:34:42,080
Speaker 3: what preparations have you made in case something where to happen?

616
00:34:42,800 --> 00:34:45,959
Speaker 3: What have you learned from your experience I'm having?

617
00:34:46,320 --> 00:34:49,040
Speaker 1: Are you what are you asking me? What have I

618
00:34:49,160 --> 00:34:51,440
Speaker 1: learned from my experience from having a threesome?

619
00:34:51,640 --> 00:34:51,799
Speaker 4: Yeah?

620
00:34:53,520 --> 00:34:55,880
Speaker 2: Okay, do you relate to any of this?

621
00:34:57,320 --> 00:35:04,880
Speaker 1: I mean luckily no one got pregnant? No, No, I

622
00:35:05,160 --> 00:35:08,360
Speaker 1: mean I think what what was great about that threesome?

623
00:35:08,400 --> 00:35:10,960
Speaker 1: I mean we're all still friends? One there we go and.

624
00:35:12,480 --> 00:35:12,840
Speaker 5: It was.

625
00:35:14,560 --> 00:35:17,279
Speaker 1: It was like we were all friends and it kind

626
00:35:17,320 --> 00:35:22,440
Speaker 1: of just was fine afterwards and we're still friends.

627
00:35:23,520 --> 00:35:27,279
Speaker 3: Wow. So totally opposite of exactly what.

628
00:35:27,320 --> 00:35:29,200
Speaker 1: I think the difference was. I think the difference was,

629
00:35:29,320 --> 00:35:31,600
Speaker 1: like I wasn't I didn't do it in a relationship.

630
00:35:31,840 --> 00:35:34,200
Speaker 1: I think that, like, and you can do it in

631
00:35:34,239 --> 00:35:38,000
Speaker 1: a relationship, and I know people who have done so successfully.

632
00:35:38,080 --> 00:35:40,839
Speaker 2: But like, you're playing with fire.

633
00:35:41,040 --> 00:35:43,080
Speaker 1: You're playing with fire because if you don't know, how

634
00:35:43,120 --> 00:35:45,200
Speaker 1: are you going to feel like it could be bad?

635
00:35:45,239 --> 00:35:49,120
Speaker 1: And also be sure you're like really like I don't

636
00:35:49,160 --> 00:35:52,600
Speaker 1: know the condoms work and you're on like the person's

637
00:35:52,640 --> 00:35:55,640
Speaker 1: on the pill or something. You'd be super careful because

638
00:35:55,680 --> 00:35:59,279
Speaker 1: something like this could really mess up your relationship. But

639
00:35:59,360 --> 00:36:02,520
Speaker 1: I don't think anything wrong with the threesome between two

640
00:36:02,640 --> 00:36:04,520
Speaker 1: friends that don't work together.

641
00:36:04,680 --> 00:36:08,480
Speaker 3: Riley, I'm just I'm just relating to the story. I

642
00:36:08,560 --> 00:36:09,480
Speaker 3: never said I wanted that.

643
00:36:10,280 --> 00:36:16,440
Speaker 1: I don't know, it's drop it story really wants to

644
00:36:16,600 --> 00:36:18,280
Speaker 1: join some Paris.

645
00:36:19,600 --> 00:36:21,719
Speaker 2: And you know what too. So we've read a we

646
00:36:21,800 --> 00:36:24,000
Speaker 2: haven't read a ton of stories like these, but we

647
00:36:24,120 --> 00:36:26,920
Speaker 2: have read a lot of open relationship stories.

648
00:36:27,040 --> 00:36:28,719
Speaker 1: Oh dude, I don't even know if I can say

649
00:36:28,760 --> 00:36:31,480
Speaker 1: this because now my mom like listens to the podcast

650
00:36:31,560 --> 00:36:36,000
Speaker 1: every night. He already knows I've already told her. So

651
00:36:36,239 --> 00:36:38,600
Speaker 1: it's like I shall just be mad that I'm telling

652
00:36:38,640 --> 00:36:42,520
Speaker 1: everyone I started listening to it ever since Sophia. Yeah,

653
00:36:42,520 --> 00:36:44,200
Speaker 1: if you want to know who's a favorite, can I

654
00:36:44,239 --> 00:36:46,480
Speaker 1: told probably this that Sophia?

655
00:36:46,560 --> 00:36:50,759
Speaker 2: Anyway? Anyways, the ope, So this is so much. I

656
00:36:50,800 --> 00:36:53,680
Speaker 2: didn't really connect the dots on this particular component. But

657
00:36:53,800 --> 00:36:57,680
Speaker 2: with open relationships often they're seeing other partners, not in

658
00:36:57,719 --> 00:37:01,040
Speaker 2: front of each other exactly right. This is as in

659
00:37:01,280 --> 00:37:05,480
Speaker 2: front of each other as possible. It's yeah, so, I mean,

660
00:37:05,520 --> 00:37:08,000
Speaker 2: I guess one could argue it eliminates the like, oh

661
00:37:08,040 --> 00:37:09,919
Speaker 2: what do they did? And kind of like not knowing,

662
00:37:10,400 --> 00:37:12,160
Speaker 2: but just well that's.

663
00:37:12,040 --> 00:37:14,040
Speaker 1: What that's what the life said, Like it's burned in

664
00:37:14,120 --> 00:37:15,640
Speaker 1: my mind, it's burned in her mind.

665
00:37:15,800 --> 00:37:15,920
Speaker 4: Right.

666
00:37:16,000 --> 00:37:18,359
Speaker 1: I think when you have like a relationship where there

667
00:37:18,520 --> 00:37:20,840
Speaker 1: there feels some kind of like ownership or like this

668
00:37:20,960 --> 00:37:24,200
Speaker 1: special connection that you don't share with anyone else, you're

669
00:37:24,200 --> 00:37:25,759
Speaker 1: playing with fire, introducing other people in.

670
00:37:26,280 --> 00:37:26,759
Speaker 2: That's right.

671
00:37:27,960 --> 00:37:31,960
Speaker 1: But I think you know, threesomes between friends fine, awesome, awesome,

672
00:37:32,040 --> 00:37:36,840
Speaker 1: grat that don't work together, Riley, I get it.

673
00:37:37,160 --> 00:37:37,560
Speaker 2: I get it.

674
00:37:37,719 --> 00:37:40,920
Speaker 1: Oh boys, I want to play with fire because I

675
00:37:40,960 --> 00:37:43,520
Speaker 1: got I don't think you're cute, Riley. You're a great guy,

676
00:37:43,920 --> 00:37:48,560
Speaker 1: just so handsome, getting dms like crazy.

677
00:37:48,800 --> 00:37:50,720
Speaker 2: What everyone knows.

678
00:37:50,800 --> 00:37:54,920
Speaker 1: Everyone knows, yes, him, the amount of girls Riley has

679
00:37:54,960 --> 00:37:59,520
Speaker 1: brought back to our place is godly, godly, godly, the

680
00:37:59,560 --> 00:38:01,640
Speaker 1: amount of He's a gentleman. Just to be clear, he's

681
00:38:01,680 --> 00:38:04,960
Speaker 1: a gentleman, the most gentleman. He is the most gentleman

682
00:38:05,040 --> 00:38:08,000
Speaker 1: of gentlemen. But he it's just like a different girl

683
00:38:08,080 --> 00:38:10,759
Speaker 1: giggling in his room every day. Yeah, and truly they

684
00:38:10,800 --> 00:38:15,520
Speaker 1: are just talking. It truly is happening. They're playing guitar hero,

685
00:38:15,960 --> 00:38:16,560
Speaker 1: they walk them.

686
00:38:16,600 --> 00:38:19,279
Speaker 3: That happened, yeah yeah, but I don't can't pick up

687
00:38:19,320 --> 00:38:22,279
Speaker 3: hints and nothing does happen. That's happened a few times.

688
00:38:22,320 --> 00:38:25,400
Speaker 1: What do you mean like like like I'll be like

689
00:38:26,440 --> 00:38:28,719
Speaker 1: yesterday literally bought you tacos.

690
00:38:29,920 --> 00:38:35,239
Speaker 2: That is true. I just it's there.

691
00:38:35,560 --> 00:38:38,560
Speaker 1: That's a hint. Dude, she was so into you. We're sure,

692
00:38:38,840 --> 00:38:39,160
Speaker 1: I hope.

693
00:38:39,239 --> 00:38:42,839
Speaker 3: So I will get out of this red flag era

694
00:38:43,120 --> 00:38:43,440
Speaker 3: just for her.

695
00:38:43,719 --> 00:38:46,840
Speaker 2: But you will throw you will throw this away. I will.

696
00:38:48,160 --> 00:38:49,799
Speaker 1: All the way yeah, but you know what, I want

697
00:38:49,840 --> 00:38:51,000
Speaker 1: to never throw away.

698
00:38:52,160 --> 00:38:56,720
Speaker 2: This is the next story. Whoa jinxy baby? Now let's

699
00:38:56,920 --> 00:38:59,560
Speaker 2: get into it. I thirty seven mail got a paternity

700
00:38:59,640 --> 00:39:03,520
Speaker 2: test on and now my wife might divorce me over it. Help.

701
00:39:04,600 --> 00:39:08,640
Speaker 2: That's not a good sign. No, not at all. Oh well,

702
00:39:09,080 --> 00:39:12,200
Speaker 2: my boy, we might give you some help. You user

703
00:39:12,560 --> 00:39:13,640
Speaker 2: don't want a divorce.

704
00:39:14,960 --> 00:39:17,080
Speaker 1: I love these user names that are just straight to

705
00:39:17,160 --> 00:39:17,479
Speaker 1: the point.

706
00:39:17,560 --> 00:39:20,160
Speaker 2: They really, they really just dropped the greatest and most

707
00:39:20,239 --> 00:39:22,800
Speaker 2: obvious of Easter eggs for us, and we so appreciate it.

708
00:39:23,440 --> 00:39:26,800
Speaker 2: They say, my wife thirty five female and I thirty

709
00:39:26,880 --> 00:39:31,200
Speaker 2: seven female have been married for twelve years. Wow, that's

710
00:39:31,239 --> 00:39:32,600
Speaker 2: a while. That's not way.

711
00:39:32,760 --> 00:39:33,640
Speaker 3: How many is that, Sam?

712
00:39:35,000 --> 00:39:37,040
Speaker 2: Oh that's three?

713
00:39:37,920 --> 00:39:41,799
Speaker 3: No, no, no, no, recalculate. Oh wait, keep rety, keep pretty.

714
00:39:42,280 --> 00:39:42,720
Speaker 2: It's twelve.

715
00:39:43,120 --> 00:39:45,759
Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, keep pretty, keep your I read ahead.

716
00:39:46,520 --> 00:39:49,160
Speaker 2: We have three kids, and I always had this nagging

717
00:39:49,280 --> 00:39:52,320
Speaker 2: feeling that our middle child wasn't mine.

718
00:39:52,440 --> 00:39:57,719
Speaker 3: So now how many does But there's there's a maybe seven.

719
00:39:59,520 --> 00:40:02,880
Speaker 2: Because you're reading, I can't calculate if I don't have.

720
00:40:04,880 --> 00:40:07,479
Speaker 3: But no, no, it said nagging Philly that the middle

721
00:40:07,560 --> 00:40:09,280
Speaker 3: child is in his maybe seven.

722
00:40:09,880 --> 00:40:12,800
Speaker 2: That's true, maybe seven. So breaking it down quickly, Sam's

723
00:40:12,800 --> 00:40:16,640
Speaker 2: Golden rules one year of cheating or one one passive

724
00:40:16,719 --> 00:40:20,759
Speaker 2: cheating for every four years in a relationship, and every

725
00:40:20,800 --> 00:40:23,200
Speaker 2: time they cheat on you, you can oh, and for

726
00:40:23,320 --> 00:40:25,960
Speaker 2: every kid, for every kid. I see, so seven because

727
00:40:26,320 --> 00:40:28,880
Speaker 2: of And to be clear, it's not.

728
00:40:30,440 --> 00:40:33,680
Speaker 1: What I'm saying is it's more of a theory than Yeah,

729
00:40:33,880 --> 00:40:36,560
Speaker 1: it's more of a theory. It's a theory that people

730
00:40:36,719 --> 00:40:40,840
Speaker 1: stay together past heating for every four years that they're together.

731
00:40:40,920 --> 00:40:43,320
Speaker 2: Sam's not saying that this should happen, more so that

732
00:40:43,760 --> 00:40:45,480
Speaker 2: it does people stay together.

733
00:40:45,520 --> 00:40:48,399
Speaker 1: If they have wanted to place bets on how many

734
00:40:48,520 --> 00:40:52,759
Speaker 1: times someone could cheat and stay in the relationship, you

735
00:40:52,840 --> 00:40:58,040
Speaker 1: could calculate it with my Sam's rules of marriage theory.

736
00:40:58,239 --> 00:40:58,680
Speaker 2: That's right.

737
00:40:58,840 --> 00:41:00,680
Speaker 3: We need what we're still figuring buring out, like how

738
00:41:00,760 --> 00:41:01,320
Speaker 3: what to call this?

739
00:41:01,520 --> 00:41:04,160
Speaker 2: I don't know if like golden rules.

740
00:41:04,320 --> 00:41:04,760
Speaker 6: I think.

741
00:41:07,200 --> 00:41:08,279
Speaker 2: We're gonna we're gonna play with the.

742
00:41:08,280 --> 00:41:11,440
Speaker 1: Word can we can we call them like uh Sam's Uh,

743
00:41:12,640 --> 00:41:19,240
Speaker 1: Sam's Sam's marriage theory of cheating That doesn't ring Sam's

744
00:41:19,760 --> 00:41:21,239
Speaker 1: Sam's Golden Would.

745
00:41:20,960 --> 00:41:26,200
Speaker 2: You click on that video, We'll.

746
00:41:25,520 --> 00:41:28,880
Speaker 1: Change the title rules of Cheating on You?

747
00:41:30,440 --> 00:41:34,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's way better, right, Oh my goodness, well, uh so,

748
00:41:35,080 --> 00:41:39,200
Speaker 2: potential six or seven cheating passes aside. My wife has

749
00:41:39,280 --> 00:41:42,439
Speaker 2: shown me a picture of her grandfather and he does

750
00:41:42,680 --> 00:41:44,680
Speaker 2: look a lot like him, the middle child, that is.

751
00:41:45,040 --> 00:41:48,000
Speaker 2: But he just doesn't have any of my family's features.

752
00:41:48,320 --> 00:41:50,960
Speaker 2: He looks so different than anyone else in the family,

753
00:41:51,080 --> 00:41:53,040
Speaker 2: which is low key kind of hilarious because he's like,

754
00:41:53,400 --> 00:41:55,160
Speaker 2: he does look like someone in her family.

755
00:41:55,640 --> 00:42:02,439
Speaker 1: It's like someone John recently learned, very recent it's hard

756
00:42:02,520 --> 00:42:05,120
Speaker 1: to tell where the button the father is, but it's

757
00:42:05,200 --> 00:42:05,600
Speaker 1: easy to.

758
00:42:05,640 --> 00:42:10,759
Speaker 2: Tell twenty six hundred stories. Guys, you boys here, I

759
00:42:10,960 --> 00:42:14,640
Speaker 2: decided I wanted a Oh man, okay, this is actually big.

760
00:42:15,160 --> 00:42:18,040
Speaker 2: I decided I wanted a paternity test to put my

761
00:42:18,200 --> 00:42:22,919
Speaker 2: mind at ease after twelve years of marriage. It's a while.

762
00:42:23,360 --> 00:42:25,800
Speaker 1: That's a wild I mean, And we've seen this ruined

763
00:42:25,800 --> 00:42:29,520
Speaker 1: marriages before. Oh yeah, I think this is written from

764
00:42:29,920 --> 00:42:33,239
Speaker 1: it feels like the possibility is higher in this case,

765
00:42:33,320 --> 00:42:37,520
Speaker 1: but we've heard it read from the wife's perspective where

766
00:42:37,520 --> 00:42:40,359
Speaker 1: it's like, my husband doesn't trust me, and it got

767
00:42:40,400 --> 00:42:45,000
Speaker 1: this DNA test and it it kind of erodes trust.

768
00:42:45,280 --> 00:42:48,440
Speaker 2: It insinuates so much so much, you really can't come back.

769
00:42:48,480 --> 00:42:50,120
Speaker 2: And this isn't like the last story where it's like, oh,

770
00:42:50,160 --> 00:42:52,239
Speaker 2: it's like a one time thing. You've been married to

771
00:42:52,360 --> 00:42:54,480
Speaker 2: this woman. Like, it's very different to ask for a

772
00:42:54,560 --> 00:42:56,640
Speaker 2: paternity test from like, yeah, we had a one night stand.

773
00:42:56,719 --> 00:43:00,600
Speaker 1: And also, as we've learned, DNA is weird, and sometimes

774
00:43:00,680 --> 00:43:05,160
Speaker 1: your kids don't look exactly like, oh yes, please please

775
00:43:05,280 --> 00:43:08,239
Speaker 1: understand that eye. Oh my god, your kids should not

776
00:43:08,320 --> 00:43:09,640
Speaker 1: look like a carbon copy of you.

777
00:43:09,840 --> 00:43:12,880
Speaker 2: If you've learned anything from this show, ladies and gentlemen,

778
00:43:12,960 --> 00:43:17,200
Speaker 2: please take that. So my wife got pretty upset when

779
00:43:17,239 --> 00:43:21,040
Speaker 2: I brought it up, because cheating has always been a

780
00:43:21,239 --> 00:43:23,440
Speaker 2: deal break of her and so many other things, Opie,

781
00:43:23,440 --> 00:43:26,920
Speaker 2: It insinuates a lot. But I just saw that as

782
00:43:27,120 --> 00:43:33,680
Speaker 2: all the more reason to get one. Buddy, you're not

783
00:43:33,960 --> 00:43:37,920
Speaker 2: getting it. You're not getting it, my guy. I told you.

784
00:43:38,400 --> 00:43:42,080
Speaker 1: I think what it really becomes is is this important

785
00:43:42,120 --> 00:43:43,720
Speaker 1: enough to you to end your mer October?

786
00:43:43,880 --> 00:43:44,080
Speaker 3: Yeah?

787
00:43:44,280 --> 00:43:50,200
Speaker 1: Because if you're wrong, I mean you're you're screwed. Actually,

788
00:43:50,520 --> 00:43:52,720
Speaker 1: if you're right, you're screwed. If you're wrong, you're screwed.

789
00:43:52,960 --> 00:43:56,640
Speaker 2: You're damned. If you do, you damned. If you don't, Sorry,

790
00:43:57,120 --> 00:43:59,200
Speaker 2: like how you said that to me? I felt nice.

791
00:44:00,160 --> 00:44:04,560
Speaker 2: You're in my head? Yeah, like a little bell. I

792
00:44:04,680 --> 00:44:07,839
Speaker 2: told her that if she had nothing to hide, sang

793
00:44:07,880 --> 00:44:11,560
Speaker 2: in op, she should have no problem with getting one done. Bro,

794
00:44:12,320 --> 00:44:14,640
Speaker 2: if you don't have anything in the car, why don't

795
00:44:14,640 --> 00:44:18,240
Speaker 2: you just show us? I don't want to show you. Officers,

796
00:44:18,280 --> 00:44:19,880
Speaker 2: this is not good. Stop.

797
00:44:19,920 --> 00:44:26,360
Speaker 1: It's called uh what without a warrant, searching without a.

798
00:44:26,320 --> 00:44:27,200
Speaker 2: Searching without a warrant?

799
00:44:28,640 --> 00:44:31,560
Speaker 1: Like whatever it is is a maternity test without any

800
00:44:31,600 --> 00:44:32,400
Speaker 1: evidence of cheating.

801
00:44:32,640 --> 00:44:38,120
Speaker 2: Now we have to put on til conspiracies, boys, put

802
00:44:38,160 --> 00:44:43,000
Speaker 2: them on, put them on, all right, what do we

803
00:44:43,040 --> 00:44:43,880
Speaker 2: think is going to happen here?

804
00:44:44,320 --> 00:44:47,879
Speaker 1: If a paternity test happens? I think it is going

805
00:44:48,080 --> 00:44:50,440
Speaker 1: to really hurt the marriage.

806
00:44:50,600 --> 00:44:51,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know what?

807
00:44:51,960 --> 00:44:55,440
Speaker 1: And how many times can you DNA test your partner?

808
00:44:56,840 --> 00:45:01,160
Speaker 1: That's a golden rule of marriage? Yeah, ro Yeah, for

809
00:45:01,320 --> 00:45:04,759
Speaker 1: some reason, I for some reason, like almost if it

810
00:45:04,840 --> 00:45:08,000
Speaker 1: feels like sometimes asking for a paternity test is more

811
00:45:08,120 --> 00:45:13,040
Speaker 1: damaging than cheating yo, in some ways, because it's like

812
00:45:13,480 --> 00:45:15,879
Speaker 1: because it's it's not just saying that you cheated, it's

813
00:45:16,000 --> 00:45:21,040
Speaker 1: almost like uh, discarding the child in some ways in

814
00:45:21,120 --> 00:45:25,399
Speaker 1: your mind, it's Yeah, you're not not quite not quite true.

815
00:45:25,960 --> 00:45:28,120
Speaker 1: People in the comments might fight me on this, come

816
00:45:28,360 --> 00:45:31,600
Speaker 1: come at me, but but put a little smiley face

817
00:45:31,680 --> 00:45:32,040
Speaker 1: right there.

818
00:45:32,360 --> 00:45:35,680
Speaker 2: We know we're still friends. But yeah, break break it

819
00:45:35,719 --> 00:45:36,640
Speaker 2: down for me a little bit more.

820
00:45:37,120 --> 00:45:40,000
Speaker 1: Well, like I think when you so this is not

821
00:45:40,120 --> 00:45:43,400
Speaker 1: in this story, but in other stories, it's like, I

822
00:45:43,440 --> 00:45:45,920
Speaker 1: don't think this kid is my my child. He doesn't

823
00:45:45,960 --> 00:45:48,760
Speaker 1: look like me, and so I've started treating him different,

824
00:45:49,480 --> 00:45:52,279
Speaker 1: and I don't want him and like like I don't

825
00:45:52,320 --> 00:45:55,080
Speaker 1: even want him in the family, and like in severe

826
00:45:55,200 --> 00:46:00,480
Speaker 1: cases they disowned the kid because he's not like actually

827
00:46:00,560 --> 00:46:03,440
Speaker 1: biologically related. And in a way, it's like it's like

828
00:46:03,520 --> 00:46:06,440
Speaker 1: a two for one. Now you're questioning the integrity of

829
00:46:06,760 --> 00:46:11,240
Speaker 1: relationship and you're diminishing your relationship with your child potentially.

830
00:46:11,600 --> 00:46:14,600
Speaker 2: And it's it's not just like, oh, you cheated, it's

831
00:46:14,640 --> 00:46:18,160
Speaker 2: you cheated. You're insinuating you cheated, had a child and

832
00:46:18,440 --> 00:46:21,160
Speaker 2: lied to me telling me it was mine then then

833
00:46:21,239 --> 00:46:23,560
Speaker 2: that I would raise it. Yeah, yeah, I mean just

834
00:46:23,640 --> 00:46:27,000
Speaker 2: so many things. There's so many things evolvable. Boys, we

835
00:46:27,080 --> 00:46:30,160
Speaker 2: could take off hats. Let's get back reality. Because I

836
00:46:30,239 --> 00:46:34,960
Speaker 2: got a bomb to drop on you. I tested my son,

837
00:46:37,440 --> 00:46:45,000
Speaker 2: and I'm gonna say he is the kid. Turns out

838
00:46:45,080 --> 00:46:49,480
Speaker 2: he is mine. Then got it? I got it, I

839
00:46:49,560 --> 00:46:56,600
Speaker 2: got it. The reality he is screwed, screws screwed. Well,

840
00:46:57,280 --> 00:46:59,839
Speaker 2: get a load of this. I thought everything was fine.

841
00:47:00,400 --> 00:47:04,560
Speaker 1: Fucking idiot, heude, This guy is a dummy. This guy

842
00:47:04,680 --> 00:47:05,560
Speaker 1: is a big old dummy.

843
00:47:05,680 --> 00:47:08,800
Speaker 2: Peaches, rainbows and sunshine, right, how clueless can you be?

844
00:47:09,560 --> 00:47:10,240
Speaker 2: This clueless?

845
00:47:10,560 --> 00:47:16,520
Speaker 1: And I I had my peace of mind was good,

846
00:47:16,640 --> 00:47:19,400
Speaker 1: But at what cost? I'm your peace of mind alone.

847
00:47:19,680 --> 00:47:22,160
Speaker 2: I was peaceful, and that meant that every everyone else

848
00:47:22,239 --> 00:47:24,719
Speaker 2: was going to be peaceful with me because I was peaceful. Yeah,

849
00:47:24,760 --> 00:47:28,520
Speaker 2: it be fine, except except she told me that she

850
00:47:28,800 --> 00:47:31,040
Speaker 2: was going to take the kids and go to her

851
00:47:31,160 --> 00:47:35,440
Speaker 2: parents for a while. When I asked why, she exploded

852
00:47:35,560 --> 00:47:38,960
Speaker 2: and told me that she was seriously considering divorcing me

853
00:47:39,280 --> 00:47:44,480
Speaker 2: over this stunt wow, that she was so furious for me,

854
00:47:44,800 --> 00:47:49,000
Speaker 2: doubting her loyalty, knowing how she felt about cheating, and

855
00:47:49,239 --> 00:47:51,640
Speaker 2: that she would never forgive me for what I put

856
00:47:51,680 --> 00:47:55,160
Speaker 2: our son through, making him question his place in the family,

857
00:47:55,239 --> 00:47:56,560
Speaker 2: saying that's why it's worse.

858
00:47:56,719 --> 00:47:57,760
Speaker 1: That's why it's worse.

859
00:47:57,880 --> 00:48:01,200
Speaker 2: Dude. Yeah, you're also putting all this on the kid

860
00:48:01,239 --> 00:48:01,560
Speaker 2: as well.

861
00:48:01,800 --> 00:48:05,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, imagine how terrible that kid must feel that his

862
00:48:06,160 --> 00:48:10,560
Speaker 1: dad doesn't think that that's my son hundred percent. That's

863
00:48:10,760 --> 00:48:13,080
Speaker 1: that's the shitty thing. That's what's divorce worthy.

864
00:48:14,160 --> 00:48:18,600
Speaker 2: I mean, a lot of it. Kind of hellogi, y'all. Again,

865
00:48:19,000 --> 00:48:23,880
Speaker 2: assuming assuming that the wife did nothing wrong, which in

866
00:48:24,000 --> 00:48:25,360
Speaker 2: this in this case, she didn't.

867
00:48:25,440 --> 00:48:27,680
Speaker 3: You know, I can't believe she like still went through

868
00:48:27,719 --> 00:48:28,799
Speaker 3: all divorce worthy.

869
00:48:29,080 --> 00:48:31,600
Speaker 2: Because I would love to hear her, like I think

870
00:48:31,680 --> 00:48:35,120
Speaker 2: I think maybe she knows, like he'll he'll always have

871
00:48:35,320 --> 00:48:37,680
Speaker 2: this like chipon initial even even though it's stupid, and

872
00:48:37,800 --> 00:48:40,440
Speaker 2: she's like, I know it's not true. He'll he can

873
00:48:40,480 --> 00:48:42,879
Speaker 2: always use that as like, well, why did you take

874
00:48:42,880 --> 00:48:44,440
Speaker 2: the test? Why did you take the test? You know

875
00:48:44,480 --> 00:48:46,880
Speaker 2: what I mean. So you're kind of forcing to a corner,

876
00:48:48,000 --> 00:48:50,439
Speaker 2: like like why did she agree to take the test?

877
00:48:50,680 --> 00:48:54,840
Speaker 2: Because he could leverage it like that exactly, And and

878
00:48:55,040 --> 00:48:57,279
Speaker 2: it sucks because she's backed into a corner because this

879
00:48:57,400 --> 00:48:58,839
Speaker 2: is a damn if you do damned if you don't.

880
00:48:58,880 --> 00:49:01,400
Speaker 2: Because she's like, well, I don't want to have to

881
00:49:01,480 --> 00:49:04,319
Speaker 2: take the stupid test, but like you kind of low

882
00:49:04,400 --> 00:49:06,440
Speaker 2: key making me do it. Yeah, it sucks.

883
00:49:06,680 --> 00:49:07,640
Speaker 5: No, it is.

884
00:49:08,000 --> 00:49:10,759
Speaker 2: It is awful. I hope the kids okay. Yeah.

885
00:49:10,920 --> 00:49:13,080
Speaker 3: Also I'm curious in the comments, are you guys like

886
00:49:13,200 --> 00:49:17,040
Speaker 3: okay with paternity tests now? Because I asked a couple

887
00:49:17,200 --> 00:49:19,360
Speaker 3: almost asked a couple if they took it to paternity

888
00:49:19,400 --> 00:49:21,960
Speaker 3: tests whenever they found out they were pregnant. And I

889
00:49:22,040 --> 00:49:25,000
Speaker 3: think I'm just brainwashed because I think by mistake because

890
00:49:25,000 --> 00:49:25,200
Speaker 3: of you.

891
00:49:26,600 --> 00:49:28,920
Speaker 1: That's what I think happens to like guys like these

892
00:49:29,000 --> 00:49:30,480
Speaker 1: is they spend a little bit too much on the

893
00:49:30,560 --> 00:49:33,200
Speaker 1: time on the wrong subreddits and read all these stories

894
00:49:33,280 --> 00:49:35,640
Speaker 1: about paternity tests that go wrong, and then they're like,

895
00:49:36,160 --> 00:49:38,120
Speaker 1: holy shit, it's gonna happen to me.

896
00:49:38,600 --> 00:49:41,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, because Riley for you is like a knee jerk

897
00:49:41,239 --> 00:49:43,239
Speaker 2: thing where you like almost like oh no, no, wait, yes,

898
00:49:43,440 --> 00:49:46,279
Speaker 2: just because it was a like you've read so many

899
00:49:46,320 --> 00:49:48,040
Speaker 2: stories like oh is there a paternity test? Like oh

900
00:49:48,080 --> 00:49:49,880
Speaker 2: wait no, the implications everything, and.

901
00:49:49,840 --> 00:49:51,680
Speaker 3: Then you read stories like this where paternity tests are

902
00:49:51,719 --> 00:49:52,800
Speaker 3: like relationship enders.

903
00:49:52,880 --> 00:49:54,480
Speaker 1: Although a lot of people in the comments, I mean

904
00:49:54,560 --> 00:49:56,680
Speaker 1: like I read your guys It's comments all the time.

905
00:49:56,760 --> 00:49:58,920
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, and a lot of people had said like oh,

906
00:49:59,040 --> 00:50:01,800
Speaker 1: like I don't mind if someone asked me for a

907
00:50:01,840 --> 00:50:04,600
Speaker 1: paternity test. But I think that's if it's like maybe

908
00:50:04,640 --> 00:50:06,400
Speaker 1: in the beginnings of a relationship.

909
00:50:06,480 --> 00:50:08,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, not in a situation like this where it's like

910
00:50:08,560 --> 00:50:11,280
Speaker 2: we've been married for twelve years, have have a foundation

911
00:50:11,400 --> 00:50:13,080
Speaker 2: of trust in three children, and then.

912
00:50:13,239 --> 00:50:16,000
Speaker 1: Let's put let's put it into the comments again. Yeah,

913
00:50:16,360 --> 00:50:18,520
Speaker 1: how would you feel about asking for a paternity test?

914
00:50:18,800 --> 00:50:21,479
Speaker 1: But I think if you're anything asked at birth, don't

915
00:50:21,480 --> 00:50:22,440
Speaker 1: ask twelve years later.

916
00:50:22,640 --> 00:50:25,759
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, you lost you lost her. Sam's golden rule.

917
00:50:26,000 --> 00:50:28,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, you can ask for a praternity test, but before

918
00:50:28,960 --> 00:50:32,440
Speaker 1: the child makes memories, so like from like one to four.

919
00:50:32,560 --> 00:50:35,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, one to four. All right, there we go. That's

920
00:50:35,080 --> 00:50:37,319
Speaker 2: the rule, ladies and rule, and it's golden and it's

921
00:50:37,320 --> 00:50:41,919
Speaker 2: Sam's don't put it on them. Okay, I don't mind

922
00:50:41,960 --> 00:50:45,680
Speaker 2: that one. Okay. I tried. I tried to get her

923
00:50:45,760 --> 00:50:48,360
Speaker 2: to see my side, that I just wanted to be

924
00:50:48,520 --> 00:50:51,840
Speaker 2: sure and that surely she could see wide question it

925
00:50:51,920 --> 00:50:56,040
Speaker 2: when he looks nothing like me. Read a biology textbook.

926
00:50:56,120 --> 00:50:56,239
Speaker 3: Bro.

927
00:50:59,760 --> 00:51:02,440
Speaker 2: She told me that she would never forgive me for this,

928
00:51:03,040 --> 00:51:05,759
Speaker 2: and that I hoped my foolish pride was worth the

929
00:51:05,880 --> 00:51:07,520
Speaker 2: cost of my family.

930
00:51:09,040 --> 00:51:12,320
Speaker 1: Sounds like she's pretty down to not have them in

931
00:51:12,680 --> 00:51:13,440
Speaker 1: her life anymore.

932
00:51:14,160 --> 00:51:17,400
Speaker 2: Oh man, she hasn't spoken to me since. I need

933
00:51:17,480 --> 00:51:19,360
Speaker 2: advice on how to get her to talk to me

934
00:51:19,760 --> 00:51:23,400
Speaker 2: and get her to see yeah, right, and get her

935
00:51:23,480 --> 00:51:25,719
Speaker 2: to see my side of the story and that it

936
00:51:25,880 --> 00:51:28,920
Speaker 2: wasn't some attack on her character like she seems to

937
00:51:29,040 --> 00:51:34,480
Speaker 2: think it was. I don't want a divorce. Well, buddy,

938
00:51:34,520 --> 00:51:37,960
Speaker 2: step one is you gotta understand that it like doesn't

939
00:51:38,000 --> 00:51:41,520
Speaker 2: matter what you want to it is an attack on her,

940
00:51:41,800 --> 00:51:41,960
Speaker 2: you know.

941
00:51:43,320 --> 00:51:47,319
Speaker 1: And yeah, why do you can tell the kid? Did

942
00:51:47,360 --> 00:51:50,120
Speaker 1: they because it sounds like but based on the context

943
00:51:50,120 --> 00:51:52,440
Speaker 1: of the story, it sounds like I can't believe you

944
00:51:52,480 --> 00:51:53,560
Speaker 1: could put her child through this.

945
00:51:54,200 --> 00:51:58,120
Speaker 2: Possibly, I mean it's I think it's for me. I'm

946
00:51:58,160 --> 00:52:00,400
Speaker 2: interpreting it as is still a little unclear whether they

947
00:52:00,440 --> 00:52:01,279
Speaker 2: actually told the kid.

948
00:52:01,400 --> 00:52:03,120
Speaker 1: But then why would she say why I I will

949
00:52:03,200 --> 00:52:04,840
Speaker 1: never forgive you for what you put our child.

950
00:52:04,719 --> 00:52:10,120
Speaker 2: Through because still that is like the doubt.

951
00:52:10,360 --> 00:52:12,400
Speaker 1: But if he doesn't, he didn't put him put him

952
00:52:12,400 --> 00:52:12,759
Speaker 1: through anything?

953
00:52:12,800 --> 00:52:13,040
Speaker 4: All right?

954
00:52:13,120 --> 00:52:16,839
Speaker 2: Fair enough, fair enough? But uh, what do you think

955
00:52:16,920 --> 00:52:20,120
Speaker 2: you think that they didn't see anything to the kid?

956
00:52:20,239 --> 00:52:22,640
Speaker 2: It could be I think they did. It could be

957
00:52:23,640 --> 00:52:25,480
Speaker 2: we also, we don't know how old the children are, right.

958
00:52:25,600 --> 00:52:28,400
Speaker 2: I think that kid's twelve, right, they've been married for

959
00:52:28,440 --> 00:52:31,520
Speaker 2: twelve years. But we have three kids. That's all we

960
00:52:31,600 --> 00:52:33,560
Speaker 2: gote on that one. But I no, I mean the

961
00:52:33,960 --> 00:52:37,279
Speaker 2: one thousand percent could have could have told the kid,

962
00:52:38,000 --> 00:52:40,520
Speaker 2: which would be bad move. Yeah, I mean that was

963
00:52:40,520 --> 00:52:43,160
Speaker 2: a little terrible, low key, a little bit crazy on

964
00:52:43,280 --> 00:52:47,800
Speaker 2: both sides. Did the guy tell him? That's Did the

965
00:52:47,920 --> 00:52:51,719
Speaker 2: guy me tell tell the kid?

966
00:52:51,840 --> 00:52:53,719
Speaker 1: The kid, you don't look anything like me, So I'm

967
00:52:53,719 --> 00:52:55,279
Speaker 1: going to get a fraternity to tell me if you're

968
00:52:55,280 --> 00:52:55,799
Speaker 1: really my kid?

969
00:52:57,160 --> 00:52:59,600
Speaker 2: Rock or dude. He would just be like, God, I.

970
00:52:59,600 --> 00:53:03,120
Speaker 6: Don't know why my kid is upset with me. He

971
00:53:03,280 --> 00:53:06,520
Speaker 6: wanted to be sure Little Timmy, babe, why babe, I

972
00:53:06,600 --> 00:53:09,160
Speaker 6: have a peace of mind? Now, doesn't that mean anything

973
00:53:09,200 --> 00:53:09,760
Speaker 6: to you anymore?

974
00:53:09,880 --> 00:53:12,800
Speaker 1: He's like, Little Timmy is like Daddy, like, can I

975
00:53:13,080 --> 00:53:16,200
Speaker 1: get tucked in? He's like, Son, let's hold off on

976
00:53:16,320 --> 00:53:17,280
Speaker 1: that daddy talk.

977
00:53:17,200 --> 00:53:21,959
Speaker 2: Until we get the test. Son, your eyes are green.

978
00:53:22,040 --> 00:53:25,959
Speaker 2: You know what that means? Your mom doesn't love me? Yeah?

979
00:53:26,280 --> 00:53:32,920
Speaker 2: I mean, bro, just really, I mean, so let's talk

980
00:53:32,920 --> 00:53:35,880
Speaker 2: about the first story versus this one. Right, So to

981
00:53:36,239 --> 00:53:40,520
Speaker 2: two cases, of paternity tests, but like vastly different. And

982
00:53:41,200 --> 00:53:43,759
Speaker 2: I think in the first story, the guy was like, Hey,

983
00:53:43,840 --> 00:53:45,520
Speaker 2: I need to do as much as possible to make

984
00:53:45,600 --> 00:53:49,320
Speaker 2: up for it, whereas OP is just not seeing like

985
00:53:50,239 --> 00:53:52,960
Speaker 2: a he should have seen, like oh, the implications of like, oh,

986
00:53:53,080 --> 00:53:56,600
Speaker 2: what what my wife will feel after I, you know,

987
00:53:57,000 --> 00:54:00,160
Speaker 2: charge her with this, and then the aftermath of like

988
00:54:01,040 --> 00:54:03,480
Speaker 2: you know what she's told him.

989
00:54:03,520 --> 00:54:08,200
Speaker 1: And I'm also like, how did because there's multiple things

990
00:54:08,239 --> 00:54:11,560
Speaker 1: that have to happen. It's like, hey, babe, I'm just

991
00:54:11,640 --> 00:54:14,479
Speaker 1: feeling this kind of way. Can we get a paternity test?

992
00:54:15,239 --> 00:54:18,799
Speaker 1: He has to keep asking until she actually does it. Yeah,

993
00:54:18,880 --> 00:54:21,400
Speaker 1: like there was I can't believe there wasn't any conversation

994
00:54:21,520 --> 00:54:25,320
Speaker 1: about like if you do do this, are we okay?

995
00:54:26,680 --> 00:54:27,439
Speaker 2: From the wife side.

996
00:54:27,480 --> 00:54:29,200
Speaker 1: From the wife's side, like, I can't believe he didn't

997
00:54:29,239 --> 00:54:33,040
Speaker 1: ask her about like hey, like what's going to happen?

998
00:54:33,360 --> 00:54:33,560
Speaker 7: Yeah?

999
00:54:34,040 --> 00:54:36,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, because it seems like he didn't. He he was

1000
00:54:36,040 --> 00:54:37,200
Speaker 1: like gonna be okay.

1001
00:54:37,360 --> 00:54:39,879
Speaker 2: He literally went in and and he's like, I want

1002
00:54:39,920 --> 00:54:42,960
Speaker 2: the paternity test so I can have these of mine. Yeah.

1003
00:54:43,320 --> 00:54:45,360
Speaker 1: This guy's absolutely clueless. I mean, but all right, so

1004
00:54:45,800 --> 00:54:49,160
Speaker 1: he has already fucked up massively? Yeah, so what is

1005
00:54:49,560 --> 00:54:52,880
Speaker 1: but like he's what this dude is asking us is

1006
00:54:53,600 --> 00:54:54,400
Speaker 1: what can I do?

1007
00:54:55,080 --> 00:54:57,560
Speaker 2: So what can he do?

1008
00:54:58,440 --> 00:54:58,760
Speaker 3: Nothing?

1009
00:55:00,080 --> 00:55:03,160
Speaker 1: You gotta give himself that he can't dude? Or is

1010
00:55:03,160 --> 00:55:06,319
Speaker 1: there more to the story. We've done that's that's okay,

1011
00:55:06,360 --> 00:55:10,800
Speaker 1: So what can we do? They're sorry? There is always

1012
00:55:10,920 --> 00:55:14,200
Speaker 1: things that can be dead. We gotta believe that people

1013
00:55:14,239 --> 00:55:15,160
Speaker 1: can be redeemed.

1014
00:55:15,400 --> 00:55:18,440
Speaker 2: I will say, Bro's down bad. We'll start it was

1015
00:55:18,480 --> 00:55:23,160
Speaker 2: down bad? But I think is this maybe a golden rule?

1016
00:55:23,239 --> 00:55:26,759
Speaker 2: Do you almost needs as much time because you can

1017
00:55:26,920 --> 00:55:29,640
Speaker 2: build trust so over a long period of time and

1018
00:55:29,719 --> 00:55:31,960
Speaker 2: losing in an instant, does it take that amount of

1019
00:55:32,000 --> 00:55:36,120
Speaker 2: time to get the trust back, you know, in twelve years? Well,

1020
00:55:38,520 --> 00:55:42,120
Speaker 2: but yeah, in all honesty, he does. If he wants

1021
00:55:42,120 --> 00:55:44,840
Speaker 2: to try and salvage this relationship, he has to stop

1022
00:55:45,080 --> 00:55:47,319
Speaker 2: what he's doing right now and being like, wait, why

1023
00:55:47,360 --> 00:55:49,600
Speaker 2: are you so bad? Blah blah blah, sit down and

1024
00:55:49,920 --> 00:55:51,759
Speaker 2: listen and understand?

1025
00:55:51,920 --> 00:55:55,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, Like, can I hear what? Like I think

1026
00:55:55,080 --> 00:55:57,359
Speaker 1: I I've reflected. I think I know why you're bad,

1027
00:55:57,680 --> 00:56:02,080
Speaker 1: But can I hear from you like why you're upset?

1028
00:56:02,880 --> 00:56:05,120
Speaker 1: Or you know, maybe that is not it's like, hey, like,

1029
00:56:05,440 --> 00:56:07,480
Speaker 1: I think he should just do some reflection and say, like,

1030
00:56:08,120 --> 00:56:11,120
Speaker 1: now I've like thought about it. I was an idiot,

1031
00:56:11,640 --> 00:56:14,320
Speaker 1: I understand why you're upset, and like, these are the

1032
00:56:14,600 --> 00:56:17,400
Speaker 1: reasons that I, like, I think that you'd be upset.

1033
00:56:17,520 --> 00:56:22,680
Speaker 1: Like I questioned your integrity. I made our son feel

1034
00:56:23,239 --> 00:56:26,200
Speaker 1: like he was an outsider in our own family. I

1035
00:56:26,600 --> 00:56:32,520
Speaker 1: didn't study a biology and I'm a fucking idiot. Please,

1036
00:56:32,600 --> 00:56:35,480
Speaker 1: I'm on my hands and knees and I watch you back.

1037
00:56:35,560 --> 00:56:37,560
Speaker 1: I think he needs to have some sort of apology.

1038
00:56:37,640 --> 00:56:39,640
Speaker 1: It may not work, but in terms of things you

1039
00:56:39,760 --> 00:56:42,879
Speaker 1: can do, this is what you can do, and maybe

1040
00:56:42,960 --> 00:56:45,000
Speaker 1: take that kid out to like SeaWorld or something.

1041
00:56:45,560 --> 00:56:48,120
Speaker 2: Bro shower this kid with all the level.

1042
00:56:48,760 --> 00:56:53,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, and like I don't know, just yeah, Riley.

1043
00:56:54,000 --> 00:56:54,960
Speaker 1: Riley raised his head.

1044
00:56:55,239 --> 00:56:55,439
Speaker 2: Don't.

1045
00:56:55,600 --> 00:56:58,160
Speaker 3: I don't have anything. I don't have anything for this,

1046
00:56:58,400 --> 00:57:00,800
Speaker 3: but I have a fun thing I would like to

1047
00:57:00,880 --> 00:57:03,480
Speaker 3: do with you. Guys, if you're down, does it.

1048
00:57:03,520 --> 00:57:06,160
Speaker 2: Relate to the thing that you've been trying to No? No, no,

1049
00:57:06,280 --> 00:57:08,800
Speaker 2: no no no no no no.

1050
00:57:10,920 --> 00:57:13,440
Speaker 3: I want to wait. Do you have any more comments?

1051
00:57:13,480 --> 00:57:14,719
Speaker 3: Before I go into my rabbit hole.

1052
00:57:15,200 --> 00:57:15,719
Speaker 2: I think that's it.

1053
00:57:15,800 --> 00:57:22,400
Speaker 1: I think that's stop calling my asshole your rabbits. No, no, no, no, anyways,

1054
00:57:22,640 --> 00:57:25,880
Speaker 1: your rabbit hole rabbit, give it to us, Give it

1055
00:57:25,920 --> 00:57:26,200
Speaker 1: to us.

1056
00:57:27,480 --> 00:57:30,800
Speaker 3: I would love to call our moms and ask them

1057
00:57:30,960 --> 00:57:34,440
Speaker 3: if our dads ask them for paternity tests, how they

1058
00:57:34,440 --> 00:57:37,880
Speaker 3: would react, if you, guys, if the story, if.

1059
00:57:37,800 --> 00:57:39,920
Speaker 2: We call this person and work. Obviously, I'm going to

1060
00:57:39,960 --> 00:57:40,800
Speaker 2: call my mom right now.

1061
00:57:41,080 --> 00:57:43,200
Speaker 3: Wait, let us call her on this and record.

1062
00:57:42,960 --> 00:57:45,800
Speaker 2: Her all she's not going to answer up from that,

1063
00:57:46,040 --> 00:57:46,360
Speaker 2: all right?

1064
00:57:46,400 --> 00:57:48,560
Speaker 3: Well, yeah, once the recording thing, I'll call my mom

1065
00:57:48,600 --> 00:57:49,840
Speaker 3: and then John, we got to call your mom.

1066
00:57:53,040 --> 00:57:58,680
Speaker 2: I'm going to pass. I'm passing jobs.

1067
00:57:59,640 --> 00:58:05,360
Speaker 1: Pass mom. Yeah, can I ask you a question?

1068
00:58:06,280 --> 00:58:06,400
Speaker 2: Oh?

1069
00:58:06,480 --> 00:58:06,680
Speaker 5: Am? I?

1070
00:58:07,080 --> 00:58:14,800
Speaker 2: Okay again? Yes, gosh, okay, you're ready. Well, I decline.

1071
00:58:14,880 --> 00:58:16,880
Speaker 3: I reserve the right to the client hands.

1072
00:58:17,200 --> 00:58:17,480
Speaker 2: Okay.

1073
00:58:18,720 --> 00:58:21,320
Speaker 1: So we're reading a story about a guy who basically

1074
00:58:21,440 --> 00:58:24,360
Speaker 1: asked his wife for a paternity test after like twelve

1075
00:58:24,560 --> 00:58:28,760
Speaker 1: years of marriage and having three kids because his middle

1076
00:58:28,880 --> 00:58:33,080
Speaker 1: child did not look like him. If dad asked you

1077
00:58:33,200 --> 00:58:38,160
Speaker 1: for a paternity test on us, would you be upset?

1078
00:58:41,320 --> 00:58:45,640
Speaker 2: Well, that's ridiculous because she looks so much like it. True,

1079
00:58:45,760 --> 00:58:46,720
Speaker 2: it's true, it's true.

1080
00:58:46,800 --> 00:58:48,240
Speaker 5: But guys, are closed.

1081
00:58:48,680 --> 00:58:52,880
Speaker 2: But what do you think would you be upset? It

1082
00:58:52,960 --> 00:58:56,240
Speaker 2: would be ludicrous. What would you be upset? If he asked?

1083
00:59:00,120 --> 00:59:10,120
Speaker 2: I mean, yeah, like ridiculous, it's ridiculous. It's not you guys.

1084
00:59:10,440 --> 00:59:11,439
Speaker 2: You guys look too much.

1085
00:59:12,040 --> 00:59:14,480
Speaker 3: I mean maybe if you had red hair and.

1086
00:59:15,080 --> 00:59:18,560
Speaker 1: You know, Okay, let's say I had read Let's see

1087
00:59:18,560 --> 00:59:21,960
Speaker 1: if I let's say I had red hair and like

1088
00:59:22,120 --> 00:59:24,880
Speaker 1: look totally different than I do, like and totally different

1089
00:59:24,920 --> 00:59:28,200
Speaker 1: from Sophia, and he's like, I needed to get a

1090
00:59:28,240 --> 00:59:29,880
Speaker 1: praternity test on that kid.

1091
00:59:30,520 --> 00:59:34,800
Speaker 2: Would you be upset? I would yeah? Why?

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00:59:35,280 --> 00:59:42,720
Speaker 3: Yeah, well because that would be like he's questioning my devotion.

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00:59:43,240 --> 00:59:44,439
Speaker 1: Yes, I wouldn't be upset.

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00:59:44,760 --> 00:59:46,760
Speaker 3: It's not my fault. I don't know what the genetic is,

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00:59:46,800 --> 00:59:49,640
Speaker 3: sort of like, yeah, all.

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00:59:49,600 --> 00:59:51,720
Speaker 1: Right, I love you, mom, thank you for being my mom.

1097
00:59:52,000 --> 00:59:54,760
Speaker 1: And tell dad I am thankful he's my dad.

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00:59:56,000 --> 00:59:58,280
Speaker 2: He looks just like you. Yeah, I know, I love you.

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00:59:58,400 --> 00:59:58,440
Speaker 5: MO.

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01:00:00,120 --> 01:00:06,400
Speaker 3: All right, call him my mom. I might have to

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01:00:06,440 --> 01:00:12,160
Speaker 3: call a home phone. Hello, Hey, pretty good you you

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01:00:12,280 --> 01:00:15,120
Speaker 3: were on the Okop show and on speakerphone.

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01:00:15,960 --> 01:00:19,040
Speaker 2: Hey, thanks for letting me know.

1104
01:00:20,360 --> 01:00:24,400
Speaker 3: So we just read a story about this couple and

1105
01:00:24,640 --> 01:00:27,800
Speaker 3: the dad of the couple asked for a paternity test

1106
01:00:27,880 --> 01:00:32,160
Speaker 3: from his wife was wondering if dad was unsure about

1107
01:00:32,280 --> 01:00:37,240
Speaker 3: Tate because Tate doesn't look like us, And if he

1108
01:00:37,440 --> 01:00:39,000
Speaker 3: was like, I need you to get a paternity test

1109
01:00:39,120 --> 01:00:40,960
Speaker 3: on him, how would you feel about that?

1110
01:00:42,640 --> 01:00:44,120
Speaker 2: Hello, I would feel.

1111
01:00:45,480 --> 01:00:50,439
Speaker 3: Amused because Tate looks so much like your dad.

1112
01:00:51,440 --> 01:00:52,280
Speaker 4: But if he.

1113
01:00:54,000 --> 01:00:58,280
Speaker 5: Asked me for a paternity test, I would probably wonder

1114
01:00:58,760 --> 01:01:03,840
Speaker 5: why he other than your self described like he doesn't

1115
01:01:03,840 --> 01:01:05,080
Speaker 5: look like the rest of the kids.

1116
01:01:05,480 --> 01:01:08,160
Speaker 2: I would wonder why he felt that necessary.

1117
01:01:08,560 --> 01:01:11,720
Speaker 3: Okay, But so would it be a relationship ender, Like

1118
01:01:11,760 --> 01:01:14,240
Speaker 3: would you want to divorce him if he asks for

1119
01:01:14,240 --> 01:01:15,800
Speaker 3: a paternity test? Or would you still beat with him?

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01:01:16,600 --> 01:01:18,560
Speaker 5: No, you're not asking for it, But I feel like

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01:01:18,640 --> 01:01:21,840
Speaker 5: somebody who does ask for it, like is having some

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01:01:22,000 --> 01:01:24,600
Speaker 5: kind of insecurities that they not want to ask.

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01:01:25,840 --> 01:01:28,800
Speaker 3: True, So would you still take the paternity test if.

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01:01:29,280 --> 01:01:34,120
Speaker 4: He felt that necessary, like to be affirmed and definitely

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01:01:34,240 --> 01:01:36,960
Speaker 4: so that I could be like, look goodie, I mean,

1126
01:01:37,800 --> 01:01:41,200
Speaker 4: and I would all right, but and maybe just more

1127
01:01:41,280 --> 01:01:43,520
Speaker 4: for the point that I could be like, you're stupid.

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Speaker 2: I love that, Okay, cool?

1129
01:01:48,760 --> 01:01:51,800
Speaker 3: I mean, yeah, all right, yeah, you see it.

1130
01:01:52,520 --> 01:01:56,360
Speaker 2: You're welcome, I love you. Let me see all right.

1131
01:01:56,480 --> 01:01:58,760
Speaker 1: Wow, So it sounds like also I saw this my

1132
01:01:58,840 --> 01:02:01,440
Speaker 1: mom this morning too, so she's getting we're getting two

1133
01:02:01,480 --> 01:02:02,320
Speaker 1: doses a mom of that.

1134
01:02:06,040 --> 01:02:07,960
Speaker 2: But I was great.

1135
01:02:09,560 --> 01:02:12,520
Speaker 1: We were just boys that love our moms. That's true, dude.

1136
01:02:12,600 --> 01:02:13,200
Speaker 2: Check this out.

1137
01:02:14,400 --> 01:02:16,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, this picture of me and my mom.

1138
01:02:16,520 --> 01:02:18,600
Speaker 2: It's the most adorable thing ever. That's adorable.

1139
01:02:19,040 --> 01:02:21,560
Speaker 1: So it sounds like it's it is not as of

1140
01:02:21,680 --> 01:02:25,160
Speaker 1: a deal breaker. Yeah, these or four hour moms.

1141
01:02:25,280 --> 01:02:27,600
Speaker 3: So are these people just dramatic over dramatic.

1142
01:02:32,160 --> 01:02:35,960
Speaker 2: Riley loves starting fires over here. No, it's still I mean,

1143
01:02:36,000 --> 01:02:42,280
Speaker 2: it's still still insinuates, but I like it isn't. The

1144
01:02:42,400 --> 01:02:46,000
Speaker 2: thing that's bad is making the child feel any certain way.

1145
01:02:46,560 --> 01:02:49,760
Speaker 2: That's what's bad. And that's it seems like what happened well,

1146
01:02:49,760 --> 01:02:52,160
Speaker 2: and it's still like you're still saying that your wife

1147
01:02:52,400 --> 01:02:55,000
Speaker 2: she did and like lied and had you raise. So

1148
01:02:55,120 --> 01:02:59,520
Speaker 2: it's like it's still still bad. I don't know. I mean,

1149
01:02:59,560 --> 01:03:01,160
Speaker 2: those are all awful. I'm gonna say.

1150
01:03:01,240 --> 01:03:07,360
Speaker 1: I'm going to say not if not necessarily a relationship ender,

1151
01:03:07,520 --> 01:03:11,400
Speaker 1: if you ask for a praternity test before for always,

1152
01:03:11,480 --> 01:03:13,640
Speaker 1: but it is kind of a dick move.

1153
01:03:14,000 --> 01:03:17,800
Speaker 2: M hmm, yeah, it's I mean it's and it's the

1154
01:03:17,920 --> 01:03:20,600
Speaker 2: majority of the time. Yeah, a move. But there's there's

1155
01:03:20,600 --> 01:03:24,840
Speaker 2: definitely cases like in the last story, Yeah you know

1156
01:03:25,120 --> 01:03:27,440
Speaker 2: that that that was occasionally Oh yeah, like definitely, and

1157
01:03:27,560 --> 01:03:30,240
Speaker 2: like but he wasn't in a relationship with her exactly

1158
01:03:30,280 --> 01:03:32,840
Speaker 2: one percent. There's definitely cases. They just need to be mandatory.

1159
01:03:33,200 --> 01:03:37,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, that we just wouldn't run into these situations. But

1160
01:03:38,080 --> 01:03:41,480
Speaker 1: I saw this podcast wouldn't exist, I think is really exactly.

1161
01:03:45,640 --> 01:03:48,200
Speaker 1: But I think, like what is a relationship ender is

1162
01:03:48,240 --> 01:03:50,560
Speaker 1: making your child feel like an outside in your family.

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01:03:51,000 --> 01:03:56,320
Speaker 2: I still very firmly stand on the uh the cheating accusations,

1164
01:03:56,360 --> 01:03:59,520
Speaker 2: and honestly, the the the biggest one to me is

1165
01:03:59,760 --> 01:04:03,880
Speaker 2: lieing and having someone raise your child like yo. That one.

1166
01:04:04,000 --> 01:04:06,120
Speaker 2: That one to me is like if I put myself

1167
01:04:06,240 --> 01:04:08,360
Speaker 2: in those shoes and I'm like you think I would

1168
01:04:09,600 --> 01:04:13,479
Speaker 2: you and live every day with this child that isn't

1169
01:04:13,520 --> 01:04:17,680
Speaker 2: yours and I lie, I'm like you if you had

1170
01:04:17,720 --> 01:04:22,560
Speaker 2: to get if someone asked me, because I know how

1171
01:04:22,640 --> 01:04:26,640
Speaker 2: they were because I'm a big brain boy. Yeah, so

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01:04:26,800 --> 01:04:30,080
Speaker 2: it comes to be give me a paternity test. But

1173
01:04:30,280 --> 01:04:32,560
Speaker 2: like if you if you were with child, if you

1174
01:04:32,640 --> 01:04:36,040
Speaker 2: could carry a child. There's a possibility that you could.

1175
01:04:36,120 --> 01:04:45,400
Speaker 2: I would hate that. Yeah, I would so lash. We

1176
01:04:45,480 --> 01:04:49,480
Speaker 2: should just do a DNA test, but I misunderstand all

1177
01:04:49,680 --> 01:04:52,160
Speaker 2: the things about the DNA test. That should be an episode.

1178
01:04:53,600 --> 01:04:55,360
Speaker 3: We should call and asked her what she.

1179
01:04:57,240 --> 01:04:58,280
Speaker 2: Oh, Nima, what she.

1180
01:04:58,280 --> 01:05:00,000
Speaker 3: Would do if you asked for a praturnity?

1181
01:05:00,040 --> 01:05:03,000
Speaker 2: If I yeah, collor right now?

1182
01:05:03,080 --> 01:05:05,120
Speaker 3: So what you would do? I can't get your mom

1183
01:05:06,040 --> 01:05:08,600
Speaker 3: This is perfect because neither. Yeah, if we have partners,

1184
01:05:08,640 --> 01:05:09,280
Speaker 3: we'd ask them.

1185
01:05:09,560 --> 01:05:13,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, one day, you know who I bumped in this morning?

1186
01:05:14,360 --> 01:05:14,600
Speaker 2: Who are you?

1187
01:05:14,680 --> 01:05:14,720
Speaker 4: What?

1188
01:05:15,480 --> 01:05:16,040
Speaker 3: Yes? You're eight?

1189
01:05:17,320 --> 01:05:18,600
Speaker 2: I know I was.

1190
01:05:19,080 --> 01:05:20,880
Speaker 3: We were in such a wavelengths recently.

1191
01:05:21,440 --> 01:05:23,440
Speaker 2: My god, gus, we're playing guitar here together.

1192
01:05:26,680 --> 01:05:30,120
Speaker 3: Let me call her and see if she picked Actually,

1193
01:05:30,280 --> 01:05:30,920
Speaker 3: you should.

1194
01:05:34,720 --> 01:05:36,520
Speaker 2: Might be meet mommy.

1195
01:05:37,080 --> 01:05:37,280
Speaker 5: Wow.

1196
01:05:40,160 --> 01:05:44,160
Speaker 3: Also, there was a comment that someone texted our phone

1197
01:05:44,240 --> 01:05:46,960
Speaker 3: line and asked me, let me saw that, let me

1198
01:05:47,040 --> 01:05:51,600
Speaker 3: be Riley's mama, Mommy, let be Riley's mommy. To that commenter,

1199
01:05:51,720 --> 01:05:53,080
Speaker 3: are you how you doing?

1200
01:05:53,720 --> 01:05:58,120
Speaker 2: You're doing all right? What I thought you were gonna say? No,

1201
01:05:58,440 --> 01:06:00,880
Speaker 2: like send me their location doing.

1202
01:06:01,080 --> 01:06:03,000
Speaker 3: I don't have any mom issues. I don't need another

1203
01:06:03,080 --> 01:06:03,919
Speaker 3: mommy in my life.

1204
01:06:04,000 --> 01:06:04,760
Speaker 2: I love my mom.

1205
01:06:07,200 --> 01:06:08,080
Speaker 3: I'm just curious.

1206
01:06:08,720 --> 01:06:09,640
Speaker 2: People just want to be your mom.

1207
01:06:10,240 --> 01:06:12,440
Speaker 1: They want to chuck you in. That's it, suck you out.

1208
01:06:12,480 --> 01:06:16,480
Speaker 1: I mean, give you some more milky.

1209
01:06:16,720 --> 01:06:19,120
Speaker 2: That's it. That's it, that's all. That's all it is.

1210
01:06:20,040 --> 01:06:23,760
Speaker 2: Squeeze some fresh milk out of goat teeth. That is true.

1211
01:06:24,160 --> 01:06:28,880
Speaker 3: Oh pretty great, she should answer, all.

1212
01:06:28,880 --> 01:06:31,560
Speaker 1: Right, well, but we do have a call.

1213
01:06:31,840 --> 01:06:35,160
Speaker 2: We do have someone we're going to call.

1214
01:06:35,600 --> 01:06:39,040
Speaker 1: What of you right now? So let's get into this

1215
01:06:39,480 --> 01:06:40,480
Speaker 1: call episode?

1216
01:06:40,920 --> 01:06:44,440
Speaker 2: Oh now she's calling me back. Yes, hit, all right,

1217
01:06:44,640 --> 01:06:49,720
Speaker 2: we're about to get into this call. Sorry, it's okay,

1218
01:06:50,640 --> 01:06:53,760
Speaker 2: all good. We are we are live or not live,

1219
01:06:53,920 --> 01:06:57,480
Speaker 2: but we are on the ok O p Show recording

1220
01:06:57,600 --> 01:07:01,200
Speaker 2: right now. And uh, what was what was the what

1221
01:07:01,360 --> 01:07:01,760
Speaker 2: was the thing?

1222
01:07:02,360 --> 01:07:02,440
Speaker 5: Now?

1223
01:07:02,520 --> 01:07:07,040
Speaker 1: If John asked you for a pregnancy or opportunity opportunity test,

1224
01:07:07,560 --> 01:07:08,200
Speaker 1: how would you feel?

1225
01:07:08,600 --> 01:07:11,920
Speaker 4: I would be confused, but I would I would do

1226
01:07:12,040 --> 01:07:15,320
Speaker 4: it to help mitigate any issues, but I would definitely

1227
01:07:15,400 --> 01:07:15,880
Speaker 4: be upset.

1228
01:07:17,120 --> 01:07:17,240
Speaker 5: Is it?

1229
01:07:17,640 --> 01:07:19,560
Speaker 2: Yeah? Is it a relationship ender?

1230
01:07:20,720 --> 01:07:21,280
Speaker 4: If it was?

1231
01:07:21,600 --> 01:07:23,880
Speaker 1: Is it a relationship ender? Like would you would you

1232
01:07:24,000 --> 01:07:24,800
Speaker 1: kick him to the curb?

1233
01:07:25,320 --> 01:07:27,400
Speaker 4: I don't think I would kick him to the curb,

1234
01:07:27,480 --> 01:07:31,840
Speaker 4: but I would just ask why, Yeah, made you ask me?

1235
01:07:32,480 --> 01:07:35,320
Speaker 2: All, we're both in a committed relationship.

1236
01:07:35,360 --> 01:07:38,560
Speaker 4: I think at least understanding where it came from would

1237
01:07:38,560 --> 01:07:40,400
Speaker 4: be really helpful if you don't want to have a

1238
01:07:40,440 --> 01:07:41,480
Speaker 4: conversation for sure.

1239
01:07:41,680 --> 01:07:43,360
Speaker 3: What if the reason why was because he read too

1240
01:07:43,360 --> 01:07:44,160
Speaker 3: many Reddit stories.

1241
01:07:44,480 --> 01:07:46,640
Speaker 1: I just wanted to put his mind at ease. I

1242
01:07:46,720 --> 01:07:49,880
Speaker 1: feel like, you know, that's fair, especially since all the

1243
01:07:49,960 --> 01:07:52,160
Speaker 1: stories you're reading are a little bit great sometimes.

1244
01:07:52,240 --> 01:07:54,400
Speaker 2: So I would do it, but I wouldn't be.

1245
01:07:54,920 --> 01:07:57,440
Speaker 1: You wouldn't be you wouldn't be skipping and jumping to the.

1246
01:08:00,080 --> 01:08:00,400
Speaker 2: Office.

1247
01:08:01,640 --> 01:08:01,840
Speaker 5: Yeah.

1248
01:08:01,960 --> 01:08:05,760
Speaker 4: No, I feel a little kid like I don't have

1249
01:08:05,840 --> 01:08:07,760
Speaker 4: the option to ask too.

1250
01:08:08,560 --> 01:08:11,880
Speaker 2: Yeah. Well, well, according to me in my not understanding

1251
01:08:11,920 --> 01:08:16,160
Speaker 2: how DNA that is working? To you good? Because I

1252
01:08:16,520 --> 01:08:19,320
Speaker 2: kept getting confused and being like trying to ask it

1253
01:08:19,400 --> 01:08:23,559
Speaker 2: the other way around, and everyone in the comments was like, John, buddy,

1254
01:08:24,360 --> 01:08:25,320
Speaker 2: that's not how it works.

1255
01:08:27,200 --> 01:08:31,200
Speaker 1: But yeah, it's bad, right, Yeah, it's bad, but it's

1256
01:08:31,240 --> 01:08:32,320
Speaker 1: not relationship ending.

1257
01:08:33,920 --> 01:08:36,160
Speaker 2: Like who the kid do you think it is? And

1258
01:08:36,280 --> 01:08:36,880
Speaker 2: it's not yours?

1259
01:08:37,360 --> 01:08:37,559
Speaker 5: Yeah?

1260
01:08:39,040 --> 01:08:43,120
Speaker 2: Exactly? Hey, John, who's there?

1261
01:08:43,280 --> 01:08:43,320
Speaker 5: Is?

1262
01:08:46,479 --> 01:08:48,760
Speaker 2: My God? Sorry? What were you saying? Baby? Before these

1263
01:08:48,880 --> 01:08:49,880
Speaker 2: numblehead started talking?

1264
01:08:51,880 --> 01:08:54,360
Speaker 1: Oh, good said, how would you feel about asking?

1265
01:08:55,120 --> 01:08:57,719
Speaker 2: I see. That's my thing is, like I kept saying

1266
01:08:57,800 --> 01:09:01,000
Speaker 2: that it's so bad because there's just so many levels

1267
01:09:01,040 --> 01:09:05,040
Speaker 2: to it. Uh, you're you're implying that they cheated for me.

1268
01:09:05,160 --> 01:09:07,280
Speaker 2: The big thing is you're you're implying that they're the

1269
01:09:07,320 --> 01:09:11,760
Speaker 2: type of person who would have the kid and lie

1270
01:09:11,840 --> 01:09:14,360
Speaker 2: about it and then have you raise the kind of

1271
01:09:14,400 --> 01:09:18,200
Speaker 2: like coercing you low key into raising it, like and

1272
01:09:18,360 --> 01:09:20,240
Speaker 2: the kid, you know, the kid feeling bad if they

1273
01:09:20,280 --> 01:09:23,360
Speaker 2: ever found out that, you know, dad asked for it.

1274
01:09:23,439 --> 01:09:25,880
Speaker 2: There's just like so many layers that makes it so

1275
01:09:26,680 --> 01:09:33,240
Speaker 2: so bad. Definitely breaks the clock. Yeah, big time, big time.

1276
01:09:34,640 --> 01:09:38,519
Speaker 2: I trust me. I won't trust me. I won't. Oh

1277
01:09:38,600 --> 01:09:41,320
Speaker 2: my god. Anyways, I love you, Thank you for answering

1278
01:09:41,360 --> 01:09:50,520
Speaker 2: our silly questions. Baby Done was nervous, sweating,