1 00:00:12,119 --> 00:00:13,800 Speaker 1: Dating is a mom. It's so funny because I was 2 00:00:13,840 --> 00:00:15,680 Speaker 1: talking to someone who works with me and she was 3 00:00:15,760 --> 00:00:18,200 Speaker 1: saying that she was worried to date and nervous today 4 00:00:18,280 --> 00:00:20,160 Speaker 1: she has a new baby, and you know, et cetera. 5 00:00:20,480 --> 00:00:22,400 Speaker 1: She has a child, a son. She's not a new baby. 6 00:00:22,440 --> 00:00:26,400 Speaker 1: She has a very young son um and dating and 7 00:00:26,440 --> 00:00:29,440 Speaker 1: it's gonna be weird because you know, how do people 8 00:00:29,440 --> 00:00:31,280 Speaker 1: feel about that? I said, you have it so wrong. 9 00:00:31,840 --> 00:00:35,040 Speaker 1: Dating with kids is the best. The reason dating with 10 00:00:35,120 --> 00:00:37,080 Speaker 1: kids is the best is because you have an identity 11 00:00:37,479 --> 00:00:40,080 Speaker 1: a single woman. And this is why single women have 12 00:00:40,240 --> 00:00:42,640 Speaker 1: to have their own job, their own charity, their own purpose, 13 00:00:42,920 --> 00:00:45,600 Speaker 1: not fake purpose where you pretend to have purpose. So 14 00:00:45,960 --> 00:00:48,559 Speaker 1: you show the guy or girl you're dating that you 15 00:00:48,600 --> 00:00:52,240 Speaker 1: have purpose, like internal, actual purpose that really really is 16 00:00:52,280 --> 00:00:55,120 Speaker 1: strong and really compelling and matters. And why I say 17 00:00:55,200 --> 00:00:58,000 Speaker 1: this is I was going through a gnarly horrible divorce 18 00:00:58,040 --> 00:01:00,640 Speaker 1: and I cherished every single second with my her. There 19 00:01:00,720 --> 00:01:03,880 Speaker 1: was no negotiating that time, so when I was dating, 20 00:01:04,640 --> 00:01:06,800 Speaker 1: it was just black and white. These are the days 21 00:01:06,840 --> 00:01:08,880 Speaker 1: I have, These are the days I don't. Paul makes 22 00:01:08,880 --> 00:01:10,840 Speaker 1: a joke because the first day I met him, and 23 00:01:10,880 --> 00:01:16,000 Speaker 1: Paul's a successful, handsome, wealthy, smart, funny guys. I'm a 24 00:01:16,000 --> 00:01:18,399 Speaker 1: great family. And I told him I had I think 25 00:01:18,400 --> 00:01:20,800 Speaker 1: it was between like two and four on a Monday 26 00:01:20,800 --> 00:01:23,039 Speaker 1: afternoon or four and six. I didn't even think that 27 00:01:23,040 --> 00:01:24,759 Speaker 1: was weird. It was the time that I had bright 28 00:01:24,800 --> 00:01:27,319 Speaker 1: daughter was getting home or being transferred. I forget what. 29 00:01:27,400 --> 00:01:29,120 Speaker 1: And I had wanted to be with her, but it 30 00:01:29,200 --> 00:01:31,520 Speaker 1: gave me definition. And also like, who the funk is 31 00:01:31,560 --> 00:01:33,440 Speaker 1: this girl? She's given me a Monday four to six 32 00:01:33,480 --> 00:01:35,920 Speaker 1: slot or three or whatever it was. The point is 33 00:01:36,360 --> 00:01:38,399 Speaker 1: I told her, no, no, no, you don't get it. 34 00:01:38,520 --> 00:01:41,160 Speaker 1: Like when you date and you have a child or 35 00:01:41,200 --> 00:01:43,320 Speaker 1: a serious career too, which she has both because she's 36 00:01:43,680 --> 00:01:47,440 Speaker 1: the president of my company. You now have purpose, you 37 00:01:47,480 --> 00:01:49,800 Speaker 1: have other ship, you have to do, you have places 38 00:01:49,840 --> 00:01:52,280 Speaker 1: you have to be and they're non negotiable. And someone 39 00:01:52,280 --> 00:01:54,400 Speaker 1: wants to date you, they have to understand that. But 40 00:01:54,440 --> 00:01:59,200 Speaker 1: there's an energy within you that rises when this happens. 41 00:01:59,320 --> 00:02:02,480 Speaker 1: And if you take your if you take your responsibilities seriously, 42 00:02:02,760 --> 00:02:06,200 Speaker 1: you know, it's his biggest turn off. A woman who's like, oh, 43 00:02:06,240 --> 00:02:08,000 Speaker 1: I could just cancel that, I could just get out 44 00:02:08,040 --> 00:02:09,920 Speaker 1: of that, or I could just leave my kid with 45 00:02:09,919 --> 00:02:13,840 Speaker 1: a babysitter, or I could his nanny up. Whatever, No, 46 00:02:14,320 --> 00:02:16,640 Speaker 1: this is my this is I have a child and 47 00:02:16,760 --> 00:02:19,360 Speaker 1: my time is very important. Or I don't want them 48 00:02:19,400 --> 00:02:21,880 Speaker 1: to meet you yet until it's very serious, or it 49 00:02:21,960 --> 00:02:24,480 Speaker 1: just defines you. And in fact, I remember dating someone 50 00:02:24,840 --> 00:02:30,360 Speaker 1: really really player, handsome, never really had a serious girlfriend, 51 00:02:30,520 --> 00:02:33,680 Speaker 1: you know, a real player, And he said to me 52 00:02:35,480 --> 00:02:37,720 Speaker 1: that he didn't want a serious relationship. Now I didn't 53 00:02:37,720 --> 00:02:39,600 Speaker 1: know if I wanted a serious relationship either, but I'm 54 00:02:39,639 --> 00:02:41,400 Speaker 1: not in my twenties. I'm not you know, you're not 55 00:02:41,600 --> 00:02:44,040 Speaker 1: deem ng me and saying want to hook up like 56 00:02:44,080 --> 00:02:46,760 Speaker 1: I was an adult with a child. So I said, listen, 57 00:02:47,720 --> 00:02:49,360 Speaker 1: I don't know that I want something serious either, but 58 00:02:49,360 --> 00:02:51,680 Speaker 1: I will not participate in something that is not evolving. 59 00:02:51,720 --> 00:02:53,520 Speaker 1: If I'm spending any time with you at all, it 60 00:02:53,560 --> 00:02:57,520 Speaker 1: has to be evolving and moving forward. And so if 61 00:02:57,520 --> 00:02:59,360 Speaker 1: that's not what you want, and he was like, well 62 00:02:59,400 --> 00:03:01,080 Speaker 1: I don't want se se O great, so let's call it. 63 00:03:01,120 --> 00:03:03,160 Speaker 1: I kept saying, let's call the fight, let's call the fight, 64 00:03:03,639 --> 00:03:05,800 Speaker 1: and I called his bluff because he was like no, no no, no, okay, 65 00:03:05,840 --> 00:03:07,960 Speaker 1: And it got very serious and we were together for years, 66 00:03:08,320 --> 00:03:11,359 Speaker 1: meaning draw the line, figure out whether we we pad 67 00:03:11,440 --> 00:03:14,080 Speaker 1: is and where it's not. But these firm stances while 68 00:03:14,160 --> 00:03:16,840 Speaker 1: being loving and fun and amazing, you don't want to 69 00:03:16,840 --> 00:03:19,760 Speaker 1: be the nag with baby vomit on your shirt when 70 00:03:19,800 --> 00:03:21,120 Speaker 1: you go on a date, and you don't want to 71 00:03:21,160 --> 00:03:26,400 Speaker 1: be talking about baby talk at all. Be present, be interesting, 72 00:03:26,520 --> 00:03:30,000 Speaker 1: and be fun, and be yourself, but then go away 73 00:03:30,040 --> 00:03:31,920 Speaker 1: and be the parent that you are, or be the 74 00:03:32,600 --> 00:03:34,800 Speaker 1: you know employee that you are, or the career person 75 00:03:34,800 --> 00:03:37,840 Speaker 1: that you are. It makes you more attractive, it makes 76 00:03:37,840 --> 00:03:39,960 Speaker 1: you feel better about yourself, and it makes you understand 77 00:03:40,000 --> 00:03:41,960 Speaker 1: where you're supposed to be. I used to call it 78 00:03:42,000 --> 00:03:45,360 Speaker 1: the burner method, having multiple people on the burners, which 79 00:03:45,400 --> 00:03:50,040 Speaker 1: is adjacent to this, but basically, if you focus all 80 00:03:50,080 --> 00:03:53,560 Speaker 1: your energy on one person when you're first dating, even 81 00:03:53,600 --> 00:03:55,480 Speaker 1: if that's the person you like most. And of course 82 00:03:55,480 --> 00:03:57,400 Speaker 1: there are exceptions to every role. There are people that 83 00:03:57,440 --> 00:03:59,040 Speaker 1: sleep with someone on the first date and get married. 84 00:03:59,040 --> 00:04:01,320 Speaker 1: There are a million exceptions to rules, but the burner 85 00:04:01,360 --> 00:04:04,200 Speaker 1: method was, you don't want to let that thing boil over. 86 00:04:04,840 --> 00:04:07,480 Speaker 1: Meet someone it's amazing, you like them a lot. Take 87 00:04:07,520 --> 00:04:10,880 Speaker 1: it down to medium, medium high. Put something on another burner. 88 00:04:11,240 --> 00:04:13,400 Speaker 1: Put something on another burner. Maybe you like it, maybe 89 00:04:13,400 --> 00:04:16,080 Speaker 1: you don't. Maybe it's on medium, maybe it's fine. Then 90 00:04:16,279 --> 00:04:18,520 Speaker 1: maybe something else comes on. You meet somebody else you 91 00:04:18,839 --> 00:04:21,760 Speaker 1: Once you get serious, the whole stove shuts down, So 92 00:04:21,800 --> 00:04:23,719 Speaker 1: you might as well while you're dating, learn how to 93 00:04:23,800 --> 00:04:26,159 Speaker 1: date and treat it like a Viking six burner stove. 94 00:04:26,520 --> 00:04:29,360 Speaker 1: And something just you don't like, it's not working at all, 95 00:04:29,800 --> 00:04:32,120 Speaker 1: take it off the goddamn stove. Some things need to 96 00:04:32,120 --> 00:04:33,720 Speaker 1: simmer for a minute. Someone's not acting the way that 97 00:04:33,760 --> 00:04:36,000 Speaker 1: they're supposed to act. You put them on simmer. But 98 00:04:36,040 --> 00:04:39,000 Speaker 1: I have multiple burners, and the reason is because that 99 00:04:39,080 --> 00:04:41,640 Speaker 1: one burner that if you could, you put it on boil. 100 00:04:42,400 --> 00:04:45,239 Speaker 1: But because you have the other burners going, it means 101 00:04:45,600 --> 00:04:49,120 Speaker 1: you're watching that pot, but not too much, not too 102 00:04:49,240 --> 00:04:53,280 Speaker 1: not too hard. It means that that pot's cooking, that 103 00:04:53,360 --> 00:04:56,279 Speaker 1: you've got other ship going on, and when you feel 104 00:04:56,279 --> 00:04:59,440 Speaker 1: really safe and secure in that pot, that's your favorite pot, 105 00:04:59,760 --> 00:05:01,560 Speaker 1: then you could turn everything off and go over there 106 00:05:01,560 --> 00:05:04,120 Speaker 1: and get really serious. But it does work. It means 107 00:05:04,200 --> 00:05:06,520 Speaker 1: the least interested party always wins. You have other ship 108 00:05:06,640 --> 00:05:09,160 Speaker 1: going on. No one's better at getting a job than 109 00:05:09,200 --> 00:05:11,520 Speaker 1: someone who has a good job. No one's better at 110 00:05:11,560 --> 00:05:15,760 Speaker 1: meeting someone than someone who has someone. I mean, that's 111 00:05:15,760 --> 00:05:19,080 Speaker 1: how it goes like. So just know that the energy 112 00:05:19,120 --> 00:05:21,039 Speaker 1: you put out there is very important, and the energy 113 00:05:21,080 --> 00:05:24,360 Speaker 1: you put out there as a single mom is very 114 00:05:24,480 --> 00:05:29,559 Speaker 1: very important and if channels properly great energy when dating. 115 00:05:29,760 --> 00:05:31,839 Speaker 1: I have never met a man who doesn't want to 116 00:05:31,960 --> 00:05:35,600 Speaker 1: date me because I had a child. And also weed 117 00:05:35,600 --> 00:05:38,200 Speaker 1: it out. Nothing is better than a kid weeding it out. 118 00:05:38,640 --> 00:05:40,960 Speaker 1: You don't want to date a lepre con. You want 119 00:05:40,960 --> 00:05:43,480 Speaker 1: to date a person that wants to be in a 120 00:05:43,520 --> 00:05:45,320 Speaker 1: relationship with a person who's a good parent and who 121 00:05:45,320 --> 00:05:47,359 Speaker 1: has a child. You know, you don't want to go 122 00:05:47,440 --> 00:05:51,839 Speaker 1: date someone who's fucking in a garage band and you 123 00:05:51,880 --> 00:05:55,039 Speaker 1: know a stoner like what? So at least you're shopping 124 00:05:55,040 --> 00:05:58,000 Speaker 1: at the right store. So put out there exactly what 125 00:05:58,080 --> 00:06:01,160 Speaker 1: it is and show you're crazy or show your story, earlie, 126 00:06:01,600 --> 00:06:04,080 Speaker 1: and you'll attract what you're supposed to. So much bullshit 127 00:06:04,160 --> 00:06:07,080 Speaker 1: and dating and know and literally I am excellent at dating, 128 00:06:07,120 --> 00:06:11,000 Speaker 1: excellent to dating advice, but superb. I don't say that 129 00:06:11,040 --> 00:06:13,440 Speaker 1: about myself about a lot of things. Excellent at the 130 00:06:13,520 --> 00:06:22,719 Speaker 1: dating game. Oh my god, A girl farted on the view. God, 131 00:06:23,600 --> 00:06:27,600 Speaker 1: I was. It's almost like TikTok. Knew that my daughter 132 00:06:27,640 --> 00:06:30,200 Speaker 1: was sitting next to me because she unfortunately likes this 133 00:06:30,279 --> 00:06:33,200 Speaker 1: type of humor. And there was a sound and I 134 00:06:33,240 --> 00:06:34,880 Speaker 1: thought it was like a joke or something, but it 135 00:06:34,960 --> 00:06:38,080 Speaker 1: was like and it's on Google as woman farts on 136 00:06:38,120 --> 00:06:39,560 Speaker 1: the view And I don't know who it was. And 137 00:06:39,600 --> 00:06:41,320 Speaker 1: I don't want to start, you know, I don't want 138 00:06:41,320 --> 00:06:42,680 Speaker 1: to talk about the person. I don't know the person is. 139 00:06:42,680 --> 00:06:43,920 Speaker 1: I didn't even look for their name. I don't need 140 00:06:43,920 --> 00:06:45,599 Speaker 1: to know. I don't want to know. I just want 141 00:06:45,640 --> 00:06:49,000 Speaker 1: you to know. Put me in the box, close the top, 142 00:06:49,080 --> 00:06:52,279 Speaker 1: get the cheapest one you can get and fucking bury me. 143 00:06:52,480 --> 00:06:55,280 Speaker 1: Or burn me in my fire pit in the backyard 144 00:06:55,600 --> 00:06:58,760 Speaker 1: and throw me in the ocean, Okay, or no, just 145 00:06:58,800 --> 00:07:00,680 Speaker 1: put the just keep me in the fire, but just 146 00:07:00,680 --> 00:07:02,240 Speaker 1: just burn my ashes. I just want you to know. 147 00:07:03,120 --> 00:07:05,400 Speaker 1: I don't think it's something I could recover from. I 148 00:07:05,480 --> 00:07:07,680 Speaker 1: really don't. If you gave me the choice of a 149 00:07:07,720 --> 00:07:11,000 Speaker 1: tenure run Kelly Ripper, a good friend of mine, high 150 00:07:11,160 --> 00:07:16,360 Speaker 1: paid power bitch and a little body, amazing job, coveted 151 00:07:16,480 --> 00:07:19,120 Speaker 1: job in New York. I mean coveted job in this 152 00:07:19,160 --> 00:07:23,280 Speaker 1: morning show, really great fun hosted it. Love it, love her. 153 00:07:24,080 --> 00:07:27,480 Speaker 1: If you gave me Kelly Ripper's job for her whole tenure, 154 00:07:27,760 --> 00:07:29,600 Speaker 1: for the amount of money that she's made, but you 155 00:07:29,760 --> 00:07:32,520 Speaker 1: told me I had to fart on live television one time. 156 00:07:32,800 --> 00:07:34,840 Speaker 1: I don't think I take the deal. I don't think 157 00:07:34,880 --> 00:07:36,160 Speaker 1: I take the deal. And I don't think you could 158 00:07:36,160 --> 00:07:38,520 Speaker 1: sweeten up the deal. I don't what what okay, A 159 00:07:38,600 --> 00:07:40,560 Speaker 1: hundred million dollars to fart on the view? I just 160 00:07:40,640 --> 00:07:42,480 Speaker 1: I don't know what the number is. This is always 161 00:07:42,480 --> 00:07:43,960 Speaker 1: a number. I just can't think of what the what's 162 00:07:43,960 --> 00:07:45,880 Speaker 1: the number too fart in the view? Like? What's the number? 163 00:07:46,080 --> 00:07:48,360 Speaker 1: A hundred million dollars, Bethany? But you have to fart 164 00:07:48,400 --> 00:07:51,120 Speaker 1: on the view? Okay? Do I get to move my 165 00:07:51,160 --> 00:07:53,760 Speaker 1: whole family to another planet? Like? What is what are 166 00:07:53,760 --> 00:07:57,360 Speaker 1: the terms? Like? Do you have a fucking spaceship? What 167 00:07:57,440 --> 00:08:00,200 Speaker 1: are we gonna do? Now? I'm gonna fart some where 168 00:08:00,200 --> 00:08:01,720 Speaker 1: and everyone's gonna know and then they're gonna pull up 169 00:08:01,720 --> 00:08:04,760 Speaker 1: this video and Bethanie was talking about it. She tested 170 00:08:04,760 --> 00:08:08,080 Speaker 1: the gods, she tested faith, getting all oldert. I don't know, 171 00:08:08,200 --> 00:08:09,960 Speaker 1: maybe we we fart more when we get older. I 172 00:08:09,960 --> 00:08:11,960 Speaker 1: have no idea because they would say old people fart. 173 00:08:12,160 --> 00:08:14,480 Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know, not like a big 174 00:08:14,520 --> 00:08:16,080 Speaker 1: fart like some people are far I'm not like a 175 00:08:16,120 --> 00:08:18,360 Speaker 1: massive farner, you know what I mean? Like I don't 176 00:08:18,440 --> 00:08:22,160 Speaker 1: really just not, thank God, But I just don't know 177 00:08:22,160 --> 00:08:37,800 Speaker 1: how i'd recover. I don't know. There's this lottery scam 178 00:08:37,840 --> 00:08:40,680 Speaker 1: where Kim Kardashian and Scott is Sick and other people. 179 00:08:40,720 --> 00:08:42,520 Speaker 1: I've been asked to do this, by the way, and 180 00:08:42,559 --> 00:08:45,120 Speaker 1: decline because it feels so gross to stand in front 181 00:08:45,160 --> 00:08:48,800 Speaker 1: of luxury handbags and like talk about a luxury a 182 00:08:48,840 --> 00:08:51,640 Speaker 1: lottery giveaway. Chris Jenner I think has done them too. Um, 183 00:08:51,640 --> 00:08:53,040 Speaker 1: But it came out to be a scam, and I 184 00:08:53,080 --> 00:08:58,000 Speaker 1: commented on one of the posts that, um, the biggest 185 00:08:58,040 --> 00:09:00,640 Speaker 1: crime was posting this when the Ukraine war are broke out, 186 00:09:00,880 --> 00:09:04,560 Speaker 1: Like that was crazy, Like I just can't even imagine 187 00:09:04,600 --> 00:09:05,920 Speaker 1: just posting that on that day. But if you get 188 00:09:05,920 --> 00:09:08,160 Speaker 1: a million dollars in the deliverables or that day, you 189 00:09:08,240 --> 00:09:11,040 Speaker 1: have to do it. But because of that a lot 190 00:09:11,040 --> 00:09:13,240 Speaker 1: of people came out to me and said to me 191 00:09:13,679 --> 00:09:17,839 Speaker 1: that Kim Zulziac has had online scams like different. It's 192 00:09:17,880 --> 00:09:20,600 Speaker 1: not a lottery. You're supposed to buy these things and 193 00:09:20,760 --> 00:09:23,960 Speaker 1: enter this like world of hers where you get things, 194 00:09:24,000 --> 00:09:25,960 Speaker 1: but people aren't getting the things that they bought. Do 195 00:09:25,960 --> 00:09:27,920 Speaker 1: you know anything about this? Is it's true because a 196 00:09:28,000 --> 00:09:30,920 Speaker 1: lot of people have reached out to me about there's 197 00:09:30,920 --> 00:09:34,240 Speaker 1: always some new business that people pop up and say 198 00:09:34,280 --> 00:09:36,839 Speaker 1: this is a thing and enter this. I remember the 199 00:09:36,920 --> 00:09:41,520 Speaker 1: Cardassians had a credit card that like when awry because 200 00:09:41,559 --> 00:09:43,640 Speaker 1: people are joining the credit card and something went wrong. 201 00:09:43,679 --> 00:09:46,080 Speaker 1: It happened with Russell Simmons years ago with a credit card. 202 00:09:46,200 --> 00:09:49,680 Speaker 1: You join this credit card and it's like, really a scam. Um, 203 00:09:49,720 --> 00:09:52,040 Speaker 1: you gotta be careful of all these online scams. Now, 204 00:09:52,160 --> 00:09:55,560 Speaker 1: you gotta be careful of shop Now's because those a 205 00:09:55,600 --> 00:09:59,199 Speaker 1: lot of those the products are scams. Um, the process 206 00:09:59,280 --> 00:10:01,959 Speaker 1: is a scam, the payment is a scam, which you 207 00:10:02,280 --> 00:10:04,959 Speaker 1: know the product is a scam. But also they steal 208 00:10:05,040 --> 00:10:09,319 Speaker 1: people's content. There was a whole shop now for days 209 00:10:09,440 --> 00:10:12,840 Speaker 1: of me without boring you, I was wearing the sweater 210 00:10:12,880 --> 00:10:15,200 Speaker 1: in some content that I did on my own page. 211 00:10:15,520 --> 00:10:18,800 Speaker 1: And this overseas brand you cannot find out who they are, 212 00:10:18,920 --> 00:10:22,320 Speaker 1: where they do it from it's like this fucking Ponzi scheme. 213 00:10:22,679 --> 00:10:26,280 Speaker 1: They were posting for days me and this cardigan sweater 214 00:10:26,760 --> 00:10:29,760 Speaker 1: hawking this sweater. The sweater I was wearing wasn't the 215 00:10:29,800 --> 00:10:31,800 Speaker 1: sweater they were selling, and they were selling this other 216 00:10:31,920 --> 00:10:35,040 Speaker 1: cheap o sweater online all day every day. My fans 217 00:10:35,040 --> 00:10:37,160 Speaker 1: were going crazy about it when I called it out 218 00:10:37,200 --> 00:10:41,040 Speaker 1: to be a scam, with TikTok as the one profiting 219 00:10:41,080 --> 00:10:44,360 Speaker 1: from this scam because TikTok, let's say, is the network, 220 00:10:44,640 --> 00:10:48,320 Speaker 1: TikTok is the Bravo, and this company is the production company. 221 00:10:48,480 --> 00:10:52,920 Speaker 1: So whoever this company is that stole this footage, they're 222 00:10:52,960 --> 00:10:56,439 Speaker 1: pumping it through TikTok and selling to TikTok's customers that 223 00:10:56,480 --> 00:10:59,280 Speaker 1: people watching the network, and TikTok's making the money. It 224 00:10:59,360 --> 00:11:02,560 Speaker 1: went on for five days. I had to get vigilante 225 00:11:02,640 --> 00:11:05,240 Speaker 1: like on my own social media posting about it, and 226 00:11:05,240 --> 00:11:07,520 Speaker 1: then I posted about it on Instagram, and then I 227 00:11:07,559 --> 00:11:11,800 Speaker 1: did a TikTok in code uh where I did the 228 00:11:11,920 --> 00:11:15,720 Speaker 1: voice of mommy dear is saying don't funk with me, fellas. 229 00:11:16,040 --> 00:11:20,000 Speaker 1: But these shop now sites, they steal other people's comment content, 230 00:11:20,040 --> 00:11:23,480 Speaker 1: They steal people's content, present a whole new product that 231 00:11:23,520 --> 00:11:26,000 Speaker 1: they're making in China with a name that sounds similar 232 00:11:26,040 --> 00:11:28,840 Speaker 1: to the product that the original person was promoting, and 233 00:11:28,880 --> 00:11:32,440 Speaker 1: then they just pump it through to your followers. So 234 00:11:32,520 --> 00:11:35,040 Speaker 1: me like to my followers because it's me and the ad. 235 00:11:35,360 --> 00:11:38,520 Speaker 1: So all my followers were getting this ad. They were 236 00:11:38,520 --> 00:11:40,680 Speaker 1: being assaulted. It's terrible for me because it looks like 237 00:11:40,840 --> 00:11:44,120 Speaker 1: I'm bombarding people with these ads when I don't do 238 00:11:44,160 --> 00:11:45,880 Speaker 1: these ads. It looked terrible for me. It's terrible for 239 00:11:45,960 --> 00:11:49,440 Speaker 1: my brand, damages my reputation. And it's terrible because people 240 00:11:49,480 --> 00:11:51,880 Speaker 1: are buying this sweater thinking it's a sweater that I endorsed, 241 00:11:51,880 --> 00:11:53,839 Speaker 1: which I didn't. I've never seen this sweater and it's 242 00:11:53,840 --> 00:11:56,280 Speaker 1: a scam company. So when I started talking about this, 243 00:11:56,360 --> 00:11:59,440 Speaker 1: people were talking about the scam Kim Kardashian and Scott 244 00:11:59,520 --> 00:12:02,719 Speaker 1: Disick luxury giveaways where Chris Jenner and I think they're 245 00:12:02,760 --> 00:12:05,079 Speaker 1: standing in front of all these luxury bags and it's 246 00:12:05,080 --> 00:12:07,559 Speaker 1: the sweepstakes, but the people never get the money. I guess, 247 00:12:07,840 --> 00:12:09,520 Speaker 1: I don't know. I was asked to do it. I 248 00:12:09,559 --> 00:12:11,679 Speaker 1: did not do it. It was like dollars from me, 249 00:12:11,720 --> 00:12:15,320 Speaker 1: the like Hawk luxury goods. It's gross. I can't justify 250 00:12:15,360 --> 00:12:18,440 Speaker 1: it. It It sounds which just wrong. So now, but Kim 251 00:12:18,559 --> 00:12:20,800 Speaker 1: probably got paid, you know, million dollars to do it, 252 00:12:20,840 --> 00:12:24,560 Speaker 1: and she posted right around Ukraine war breaking out, so 253 00:12:24,679 --> 00:12:27,320 Speaker 1: utterly toned death. Then people are sending me messages about 254 00:12:27,360 --> 00:12:30,080 Speaker 1: Kim Zulziac that she sells people all these different things 255 00:12:30,080 --> 00:12:32,600 Speaker 1: in these different clubs, like enter the hair club or 256 00:12:32,800 --> 00:12:35,559 Speaker 1: this club or the be Powerful club, and people join 257 00:12:36,080 --> 00:12:37,920 Speaker 1: and then they got scam because they said they never 258 00:12:37,960 --> 00:12:41,640 Speaker 1: got whatever they paid for. So maybe it's a learning 259 00:12:41,679 --> 00:12:45,480 Speaker 1: thing or it's hair thing, whatever the thing is. People 260 00:12:45,520 --> 00:12:47,640 Speaker 1: are writing to me saying that it's a scam. So 261 00:12:47,679 --> 00:12:49,040 Speaker 1: I didn't know if any of you knew about that. 262 00:12:49,080 --> 00:12:51,440 Speaker 1: But that's crazy too. This is one of the several 263 00:12:51,520 --> 00:12:54,560 Speaker 1: d ms that I received about Kim. Kim starts businesses 264 00:12:54,600 --> 00:12:56,640 Speaker 1: and she takes the money from the customer and they 265 00:12:56,679 --> 00:13:00,280 Speaker 1: never received the product. That's not unlike the luxury good scam. 266 00:13:00,360 --> 00:13:03,040 Speaker 1: You enter but you don't, but that's not really the same. 267 00:13:03,280 --> 00:13:05,360 Speaker 1: But no one wins. This is they never received the product. 268 00:13:05,400 --> 00:13:07,440 Speaker 1: She started something called the b Box, which was supposed 269 00:13:07,440 --> 00:13:09,920 Speaker 1: to be a subscription box. She has people pay in advance. 270 00:13:10,120 --> 00:13:12,240 Speaker 1: They were supposed to receive the box. In May, no 271 00:13:12,280 --> 00:13:13,920 Speaker 1: one has received their box and they can't get in 272 00:13:13,960 --> 00:13:17,040 Speaker 1: contact with anyone for a refund. The website no longer exists. 273 00:13:17,040 --> 00:13:19,839 Speaker 1: She started swim line, showed product that said coming soon, 274 00:13:19,880 --> 00:13:21,719 Speaker 1: the product would never come out. That site is now 275 00:13:21,720 --> 00:13:25,839 Speaker 1: closed down to uh wow, there was an influencer. We 276 00:13:25,920 --> 00:13:27,800 Speaker 1: found out about it and ask people to contact her 277 00:13:27,840 --> 00:13:30,720 Speaker 1: with their personal stories. Now her daughter claim they're going 278 00:13:30,760 --> 00:13:32,800 Speaker 1: to do alive and the stuff we don't know and 279 00:13:32,800 --> 00:13:36,400 Speaker 1: they'll address. Okay, so let's not let's not know if 280 00:13:36,480 --> 00:13:40,480 Speaker 1: Kim Zolsiac is she's innocent and proved to proven guilty. 281 00:13:45,080 --> 00:13:49,040 Speaker 1: Another unrelated Housewives news, I think Lisa Rinna posted that 282 00:13:49,120 --> 00:13:53,040 Speaker 1: she's the lebron of Housewives. Okay, you can't like you 283 00:13:53,080 --> 00:13:56,080 Speaker 1: don't cover Barber strike Sam when you're singing and you 284 00:13:56,120 --> 00:13:59,160 Speaker 1: don't say things like that about yourself other people. You 285 00:13:59,200 --> 00:14:01,560 Speaker 1: wait for other well to say that stuff about you. 286 00:14:01,720 --> 00:14:05,959 Speaker 1: Years ago, the basketball player reference began because Michael Rapp 287 00:14:06,040 --> 00:14:08,600 Speaker 1: report referred to me as the Michael Jordan of Housewives. 288 00:14:09,080 --> 00:14:12,160 Speaker 1: I don't refer to myself as that. People watching the 289 00:14:12,200 --> 00:14:17,400 Speaker 1: initial seasons of Housewives called me their Carrie Bradshaw. What's 290 00:14:17,400 --> 00:14:20,000 Speaker 1: going to happen to her. I don't refer to myself 291 00:14:20,040 --> 00:14:22,880 Speaker 1: like that. You don't refer to yourself as Carrie brad 292 00:14:23,080 --> 00:14:27,640 Speaker 1: Bradshaw or Lebron or Michael Jordan's. It's just let other 293 00:14:27,680 --> 00:14:30,720 Speaker 1: people do that for you. It loses the luster, just 294 00:14:31,360 --> 00:14:36,320 Speaker 1: a little piece of Housewives adjacent advice cringe and Michael 295 00:14:36,400 --> 00:14:40,360 Speaker 1: Rappaport takes full credit for the initiation of the NBA 296 00:14:40,480 --> 00:14:44,320 Speaker 1: basketball reference to housewives being me