1 00:00:00,320 --> 00:00:17,279 Speaker 1: Hi guys, welcome to another episode of Diamonds and Rough 2 00:00:17,320 --> 00:00:19,160 Speaker 1: with myself Teddy Mellencamp. 3 00:00:18,680 --> 00:00:20,360 Speaker 2: And Hey, I'm Erica Jane. 4 00:00:20,920 --> 00:00:24,080 Speaker 1: I'm Erica Jane who just performed at the Forum. Yeah, 5 00:00:24,160 --> 00:00:26,239 Speaker 1: excuse me, give me all the details. I didn't even 6 00:00:26,239 --> 00:00:27,640 Speaker 1: know about this in advance. 7 00:00:27,320 --> 00:00:30,480 Speaker 2: Well, no one did. It was a surprise little performance. 8 00:00:30,560 --> 00:00:35,040 Speaker 2: So top of June I did the Mighty Hoopla in 9 00:00:35,120 --> 00:00:41,400 Speaker 2: London and uh Jake'sh're from Sister Sisters was backstage and 10 00:00:41,400 --> 00:00:43,560 Speaker 2: he came up to me and he said, Hey, we 11 00:00:43,640 --> 00:00:47,159 Speaker 2: have a show in Los Angeles in July. Would you 12 00:00:47,320 --> 00:00:49,680 Speaker 2: like to come and do the monologue for Let's have 13 00:00:49,720 --> 00:00:53,520 Speaker 2: a ki Key? And I said absolutely, So that's what happened. Yeah, 14 00:00:53,640 --> 00:00:57,000 Speaker 2: I mean, you know what a great like opportunity. They 15 00:00:57,000 --> 00:01:00,760 Speaker 2: are lovely, the entire band, everybody so kind, and we 16 00:01:00,800 --> 00:01:02,279 Speaker 2: got to have a good time. I mean, that's really 17 00:01:02,320 --> 00:01:03,000 Speaker 2: what it's all about. 18 00:01:03,080 --> 00:01:06,640 Speaker 1: And did amazing Thank you this morning. I was like, 19 00:01:06,880 --> 00:01:07,880 Speaker 1: how did I not know? 20 00:01:08,480 --> 00:01:11,360 Speaker 2: Well, I was in these really high high Lubaton boots, 21 00:01:11,360 --> 00:01:13,840 Speaker 2: so I couldn't like run around like I would have 22 00:01:13,880 --> 00:01:16,039 Speaker 2: loved to, But it was for the look and you 23 00:01:16,080 --> 00:01:18,399 Speaker 2: look hot. Thanks and that was. The point was to 24 00:01:18,440 --> 00:01:21,319 Speaker 2: get out there, look hot, be bitching. It's their show, 25 00:01:21,360 --> 00:01:23,319 Speaker 2: and just like amp it up and have fun with that. 26 00:01:23,440 --> 00:01:25,360 Speaker 1: Exactly what they want. What you did, Thank you. 27 00:01:25,480 --> 00:01:29,600 Speaker 2: I appreciate that. Thank you very much. Thanks. I appreciate that. 28 00:01:29,680 --> 00:01:32,960 Speaker 2: So why don't you give me an update on the 29 00:01:33,000 --> 00:01:34,360 Speaker 2: mystery man in your life? 30 00:01:34,880 --> 00:01:38,160 Speaker 1: Oh gosh, you guys, pres needs to get on it 31 00:01:38,200 --> 00:01:41,119 Speaker 1: a little bit faster, because by the time they figured 32 00:01:41,120 --> 00:01:43,560 Speaker 1: out who my mystery man was, we're already done. 33 00:01:45,240 --> 00:01:49,720 Speaker 2: Oh gosh. I wasn't expecting that. 34 00:01:50,680 --> 00:01:53,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, I like had to call things off and then 35 00:01:53,200 --> 00:01:56,400 Speaker 1: all of a sudden, I open up the freaking world 36 00:01:56,480 --> 00:02:00,720 Speaker 1: Wide Web the mystery man. Oh now, you guys figured 37 00:02:00,720 --> 00:02:01,040 Speaker 1: it out. 38 00:02:01,480 --> 00:02:02,840 Speaker 2: So may I ask what happened? 39 00:02:03,320 --> 00:02:06,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's just, you know, right now it started getting 40 00:02:06,320 --> 00:02:07,720 Speaker 1: to the point where it's starting to get a little 41 00:02:07,760 --> 00:02:10,080 Speaker 1: bit more serious. I was like, I don't have the 42 00:02:10,080 --> 00:02:11,560 Speaker 1: capacity for this right now. 43 00:02:12,400 --> 00:02:14,600 Speaker 2: So I was serious on his hands. Yeah, And I 44 00:02:14,720 --> 00:02:17,480 Speaker 2: was like, and you know, he's he's a really nice 45 00:02:17,480 --> 00:02:19,079 Speaker 2: he's a really nice he's. 46 00:02:18,880 --> 00:02:21,679 Speaker 1: A really nice guy. It couldn't be a nicer guy. 47 00:02:22,400 --> 00:02:24,840 Speaker 2: But it was just the place where timing sucks. 48 00:02:24,919 --> 00:02:27,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, the timing ticks. I don't feel my best, So 49 00:02:27,400 --> 00:02:30,680 Speaker 1: when I have downtime, you need to rest. I want 50 00:02:30,720 --> 00:02:33,280 Speaker 1: to rest. Yeah, it's not even like about a need 51 00:02:33,400 --> 00:02:36,040 Speaker 1: right now. And I think that's the crazy thing about this, Like, 52 00:02:36,080 --> 00:02:39,160 Speaker 1: who knows three months from now, something else maybe sure happening. 53 00:02:39,280 --> 00:02:41,919 Speaker 1: I don't know. But in the way I'm feeling right 54 00:02:42,000 --> 00:02:45,040 Speaker 1: this moment, the second I'm done working with my kids 55 00:02:45,080 --> 00:02:46,680 Speaker 1: and doing all the stuff that I need to do, 56 00:02:47,440 --> 00:02:48,200 Speaker 1: I want to lay. 57 00:02:48,280 --> 00:02:49,760 Speaker 2: Well, you have to, and you have to take care 58 00:02:49,800 --> 00:02:51,720 Speaker 2: of yourself. I mean you've been through a lot, and 59 00:02:51,800 --> 00:02:55,960 Speaker 2: you're going through a lot still. Yeah, your rest and 60 00:02:56,040 --> 00:02:57,440 Speaker 2: your is prioritized. 61 00:02:57,600 --> 00:02:59,440 Speaker 1: Yeah. And so it was like, you know, there's nothing 62 00:02:59,440 --> 00:03:01,520 Speaker 1: that he did or anything like that, but I. 63 00:03:01,440 --> 00:03:03,880 Speaker 2: Was just like, well, maybe you could maybe take a 64 00:03:03,919 --> 00:03:07,440 Speaker 2: pause and just maybe come back in the future or something. Yeah, 65 00:03:07,520 --> 00:03:11,360 Speaker 2: if nothing dramatic happened. Nothing dramatic, man. 66 00:03:11,280 --> 00:03:13,400 Speaker 1: Other than the press being a little slow on it. 67 00:03:13,560 --> 00:03:15,280 Speaker 1: I mean, are you almost an next us? 68 00:03:15,440 --> 00:03:19,639 Speaker 2: Uh? Yeah? I actually I have a lot legally going on, 69 00:03:19,720 --> 00:03:22,840 Speaker 2: and it's all like storming at one. Yeah. I have 70 00:03:23,200 --> 00:03:26,040 Speaker 2: a lot, yes, and one of them is the divorce, 71 00:03:26,200 --> 00:03:30,520 Speaker 2: So that should be happening here. I mean it's in motion. 72 00:03:30,639 --> 00:03:32,880 Speaker 2: It's always been in motion. But now that Tom is, 73 00:03:33,160 --> 00:03:37,280 Speaker 2: you know, sentenced to prison, Yeah, it's time to get 74 00:03:37,280 --> 00:03:40,800 Speaker 2: a divorce and all that shit. It's time to share, 75 00:03:40,960 --> 00:03:42,720 Speaker 2: you know what it really is. It's just time to 76 00:03:42,800 --> 00:03:46,320 Speaker 2: shed all of that and move on when you know, 77 00:03:46,400 --> 00:03:48,640 Speaker 2: make the next chapter of my life as best as 78 00:03:48,680 --> 00:03:49,040 Speaker 2: it can be. 79 00:03:49,280 --> 00:03:51,560 Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, So that's why I just share it all 80 00:03:51,600 --> 00:03:54,160 Speaker 1: with you guys, because I have nowhere else to share it, 81 00:03:54,240 --> 00:03:54,880 Speaker 1: So here you go. 82 00:03:55,040 --> 00:03:59,240 Speaker 2: That's well, I'm kind of sad to say that. I 83 00:03:59,320 --> 00:04:01,960 Speaker 2: think that he was a really nice guy. But I 84 00:04:02,040 --> 00:04:04,520 Speaker 2: understand you needing to rest and just take care of 85 00:04:04,600 --> 00:04:08,000 Speaker 2: yourself first. And I think that that's the smartest, healthiest 86 00:04:08,000 --> 00:04:08,640 Speaker 2: thing you can do. 87 00:04:08,920 --> 00:04:13,200 Speaker 1: And I think even though right now I feel worse 88 00:04:13,240 --> 00:04:19,479 Speaker 1: than I did probably three months ago, I actually was 89 00:04:20,240 --> 00:04:23,159 Speaker 1: doing worse three months ago. So I think he was 90 00:04:23,320 --> 00:04:26,880 Speaker 1: I needed companionship and he was such a good companion. 91 00:04:26,920 --> 00:04:28,320 Speaker 1: It took such nice care of me. 92 00:04:28,480 --> 00:04:30,760 Speaker 2: Right, And that's why I don't think you totally like 93 00:04:31,040 --> 00:04:33,279 Speaker 2: discard him. I think you just need a rest. I 94 00:04:33,320 --> 00:04:37,000 Speaker 2: think he's a nice person. Yeah, and you know, maybe 95 00:04:37,040 --> 00:04:40,200 Speaker 2: you need a moment to get like, yeah, we do. 96 00:04:40,360 --> 00:04:40,719 Speaker 1: We do. 97 00:04:41,000 --> 00:04:43,080 Speaker 2: Yeah. I like nice people. It's the only thing I'll 98 00:04:43,080 --> 00:04:44,320 Speaker 2: have in my life. 99 00:04:44,480 --> 00:04:47,640 Speaker 1: Well, an older dude with a lot of money asked 100 00:04:47,680 --> 00:04:48,760 Speaker 1: me out, and I had to say. 101 00:04:48,560 --> 00:04:50,760 Speaker 2: No, that's fine. You didn't do that in your life. 102 00:04:50,839 --> 00:04:51,719 Speaker 1: Couldn't do it. 103 00:04:51,320 --> 00:04:56,640 Speaker 2: It couldn't do whatever, whether it's the teeth, the age, 104 00:04:56,760 --> 00:04:59,839 Speaker 2: the whatever. You have to do what's right for you, Teddy, 105 00:05:00,160 --> 00:05:02,000 Speaker 2: and everybody has to do what's right for them no 106 00:05:02,000 --> 00:05:02,720 Speaker 2: matter what it is. 107 00:05:03,160 --> 00:05:03,640 Speaker 1: That's true. 108 00:05:03,680 --> 00:05:05,560 Speaker 2: This is you know, you get one shot at this 109 00:05:05,600 --> 00:05:09,320 Speaker 2: thing called life. Well, dearly, beloved, dearly. 110 00:05:11,360 --> 00:05:13,080 Speaker 1: She came up with that line herself. 111 00:05:13,480 --> 00:05:29,320 Speaker 2: Your friend Sonny. All right, so we talk about Orange County? 112 00:05:29,600 --> 00:05:30,480 Speaker 1: Can you okay? 113 00:05:30,520 --> 00:05:33,839 Speaker 2: I have I watched, but I also have questions about 114 00:05:33,880 --> 00:05:36,320 Speaker 2: this Katie thing. I have a lot of calm. I 115 00:05:36,600 --> 00:05:38,200 Speaker 2: have a lot of thoughts you still, I have a lot. 116 00:05:38,279 --> 00:05:39,960 Speaker 1: And the first thing that I want to say is 117 00:05:41,200 --> 00:05:45,680 Speaker 1: in regards to bloggers be'ing a part of the show. 118 00:05:46,120 --> 00:05:48,520 Speaker 2: I you go because I have something to say. 119 00:05:48,600 --> 00:05:51,440 Speaker 1: It makes me very irritated because I think it just 120 00:05:51,480 --> 00:05:55,360 Speaker 1: gives them more fuel fuel to keep doing it. And 121 00:05:55,400 --> 00:05:58,800 Speaker 1: now we're watching a show about people that are wanting 122 00:05:58,839 --> 00:06:00,680 Speaker 1: to get famed from somebody else else. It's not on 123 00:06:00,720 --> 00:06:03,360 Speaker 1: the show, and I don't particularly love it. And I 124 00:06:03,360 --> 00:06:08,080 Speaker 1: also think at this point, the big the powers that 125 00:06:08,200 --> 00:06:09,839 Speaker 1: be you need to stand up and say we're not 126 00:06:09,880 --> 00:06:11,960 Speaker 1: going to talk about anything that bloggers saying we're not 127 00:06:11,960 --> 00:06:13,120 Speaker 1: going to show, we're not gonna tell. 128 00:06:13,040 --> 00:06:16,279 Speaker 2: Aaron should also not be taught. Okay, this is I yes, 129 00:06:16,760 --> 00:06:19,520 Speaker 2: one hundred percent. I'm also going to say this, Bloggers 130 00:06:19,520 --> 00:06:22,600 Speaker 2: should not be coming to Housewives parties. No, I'll tell 131 00:06:22,600 --> 00:06:25,600 Speaker 2: you something. And this is sounds petty, but I'm going 132 00:06:25,680 --> 00:06:27,360 Speaker 2: to say it, and then I'm and then I'm gonna 133 00:06:27,480 --> 00:06:31,200 Speaker 2: go back to your point. Sometimes when we get dressed 134 00:06:31,279 --> 00:06:33,800 Speaker 2: up for events, we want to post our pictures, right like, 135 00:06:33,839 --> 00:06:36,880 Speaker 2: all right, this is our costume or outfit. We get 136 00:06:36,920 --> 00:06:39,719 Speaker 2: we get told no, do you know that shady fucking 137 00:06:39,760 --> 00:06:44,880 Speaker 2: bloggers that come to the events post the party anyway, 138 00:06:44,920 --> 00:06:47,120 Speaker 2: And so there goes your outfit and all of your 139 00:06:47,480 --> 00:06:51,800 Speaker 2: Why are you encouraging these people? You know, like when 140 00:06:51,839 --> 00:06:55,480 Speaker 2: they encourage them and you're including them in episodes, you're 141 00:06:55,480 --> 00:06:59,080 Speaker 2: including them. I get it. It's it's a part of 142 00:07:00,320 --> 00:07:04,040 Speaker 2: content and social media that drives, you know, the audience 143 00:07:04,080 --> 00:07:06,880 Speaker 2: and drives the whole thing. But you can't have housewives 144 00:07:06,920 --> 00:07:11,200 Speaker 2: reaching out to bloggers, no, giving away information, giving away 145 00:07:11,280 --> 00:07:14,560 Speaker 2: the story. You ask us to keep it quiet. You 146 00:07:14,680 --> 00:07:16,960 Speaker 2: ask us to be quiet, but. 147 00:07:16,880 --> 00:07:20,800 Speaker 1: Then mean just to press that means pressed. 148 00:07:21,200 --> 00:07:25,200 Speaker 2: Well, they have their own reach, they have their own following. 149 00:07:25,680 --> 00:07:27,960 Speaker 2: So you cannot talk to these people. 150 00:07:28,360 --> 00:07:30,680 Speaker 1: No, And I think the other that's at. 151 00:07:30,600 --> 00:07:31,720 Speaker 2: Least how I was taught. 152 00:07:32,080 --> 00:07:33,160 Speaker 1: I was taught that too. 153 00:07:33,240 --> 00:07:35,120 Speaker 2: I mean, there, don't speak about this. 154 00:07:35,240 --> 00:07:37,840 Speaker 1: There's a couple of people that will the way that 155 00:07:37,920 --> 00:07:40,120 Speaker 1: Katie phrased it, you know, wrote back. 156 00:07:40,160 --> 00:07:42,760 Speaker 2: You know people, you should not be engaging with them, 157 00:07:42,800 --> 00:07:47,480 Speaker 2: say thank you, answering questions and giving up information. That's 158 00:07:47,560 --> 00:07:48,160 Speaker 2: not cool. 159 00:07:48,440 --> 00:07:49,400 Speaker 1: No, not cool. 160 00:07:49,440 --> 00:07:52,920 Speaker 2: And you want to talk about us ruining the fucking storyline? 161 00:07:53,000 --> 00:07:53,800 Speaker 2: What about them? 162 00:07:54,080 --> 00:07:56,200 Speaker 1: Yeah? I mean the fact that there's been so much 163 00:07:56,200 --> 00:07:57,760 Speaker 1: stuff about this Katie thing. 164 00:07:57,800 --> 00:08:00,720 Speaker 2: Why watch the fucking why watch the season? 165 00:08:01,000 --> 00:08:04,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, you're ruining the show by talking about this. I 166 00:08:04,880 --> 00:08:09,400 Speaker 1: mean the girl that's constantly that's currently talking about Katie. 167 00:08:09,480 --> 00:08:10,760 Speaker 2: Why does she know so much? 168 00:08:10,960 --> 00:08:14,560 Speaker 1: Because Katie gave it to her allegedly, it's not cool? 169 00:08:14,640 --> 00:08:16,960 Speaker 1: But now we're seeing it all. But the problem is 170 00:08:17,560 --> 00:08:20,560 Speaker 1: then we're getting mixed up in other storylines that don't 171 00:08:20,600 --> 00:08:23,040 Speaker 1: have anything to do with bloggers, Like I feel like 172 00:08:23,080 --> 00:08:26,760 Speaker 1: what happened with Emily this episode, how Emily didn't fully 173 00:08:27,080 --> 00:08:30,880 Speaker 1: take you know, I don't think she fully opened up 174 00:08:31,080 --> 00:08:33,920 Speaker 1: and was completely apologetic for the things that she did 175 00:08:34,040 --> 00:08:34,760 Speaker 1: last season. 176 00:08:34,600 --> 00:08:37,360 Speaker 2: When she doesn't have to be well. 177 00:08:37,440 --> 00:08:39,160 Speaker 1: I think when it comes to the kids stuff, she. 178 00:08:39,120 --> 00:08:42,480 Speaker 2: Does, but didn't Katie talk kids talk about her first? 179 00:08:43,120 --> 00:08:44,959 Speaker 1: But is it first first? 180 00:08:45,080 --> 00:08:47,079 Speaker 2: Yeah? It is, it is, Yeah, it is. It's who 181 00:08:47,080 --> 00:08:49,679 Speaker 2: picks the fight. I'm not picking a fight, but if 182 00:08:49,679 --> 00:08:53,120 Speaker 2: you pick a fight with me, it's fucking w'ere that's cool. 183 00:08:53,640 --> 00:08:55,000 Speaker 2: It is who strikes her. 184 00:08:55,080 --> 00:08:57,480 Speaker 1: I actually don't believe you in this moment, because you 185 00:08:57,520 --> 00:09:02,000 Speaker 1: wouldn't if I talked some shit about you and your sign. 186 00:09:02,160 --> 00:09:04,840 Speaker 1: I don't think you would come after my kids. I 187 00:09:04,880 --> 00:09:07,319 Speaker 1: don't think you would have you done that. 188 00:09:07,720 --> 00:09:11,160 Speaker 2: I don't think so I would measure my response. But 189 00:09:11,360 --> 00:09:14,280 Speaker 2: what I'm saying is you should not How about this. 190 00:09:14,840 --> 00:09:18,400 Speaker 2: You can't judge other people's responses by the way you 191 00:09:18,440 --> 00:09:20,560 Speaker 2: would do it. In other words, if you pick a 192 00:09:20,600 --> 00:09:23,760 Speaker 2: fight with somebody, if you say something about someone's kids, 193 00:09:24,320 --> 00:09:26,600 Speaker 2: in other words, you're opening yourself up for the same 194 00:09:26,640 --> 00:09:29,760 Speaker 2: type of pushback, depending on how the person takes it. 195 00:09:30,120 --> 00:09:31,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean I think you can call somebody an 196 00:09:31,840 --> 00:09:34,600 Speaker 1: asshole and then that can make people go back and forth. 197 00:09:34,760 --> 00:09:37,480 Speaker 1: But if you're going to bring kids into it, which yes, 198 00:09:37,720 --> 00:09:40,520 Speaker 1: Katie originally started the thing with the kids, but then 199 00:09:40,840 --> 00:09:44,360 Speaker 1: once they were at the reunion, Emily went full blown 200 00:09:44,760 --> 00:09:47,880 Speaker 1: into Katie's whole history of her children. 201 00:09:48,080 --> 00:09:50,160 Speaker 2: To be expected, that's what happens at a reunion, and 202 00:09:50,160 --> 00:09:52,400 Speaker 2: that's what happens when you pick a fight. These things happen. 203 00:09:53,960 --> 00:09:56,240 Speaker 2: I don't know, you get so what's wrong with you? 204 00:09:56,480 --> 00:09:57,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, this is what's happened. 205 00:09:57,600 --> 00:09:58,719 Speaker 2: Hell is going on with you? 206 00:09:59,000 --> 00:10:01,480 Speaker 1: I know I felt I But that being said, I 207 00:10:01,600 --> 00:10:05,480 Speaker 1: still okay, come back to us, wake up, wake up? 208 00:10:06,600 --> 00:10:07,360 Speaker 2: Who is this? 209 00:10:08,000 --> 00:10:11,640 Speaker 1: Well, it's that matter. Well either way. The episode starts 210 00:10:11,679 --> 00:10:13,160 Speaker 1: up with Shannon picks up Katie. 211 00:10:13,200 --> 00:10:13,960 Speaker 2: I want to say one thing. 212 00:10:14,000 --> 00:10:16,960 Speaker 1: The show looks great, looks so good, and they all it. 213 00:10:17,000 --> 00:10:20,120 Speaker 2: Looks great, everything looks good, the girls look good. I 214 00:10:20,160 --> 00:10:22,200 Speaker 2: thought that, like when I was watching it, I was like, Wow, 215 00:10:22,240 --> 00:10:23,560 Speaker 2: this show looks good. 216 00:10:23,679 --> 00:10:27,400 Speaker 1: So I want to looks it's starting to look more 217 00:10:27,559 --> 00:10:30,160 Speaker 1: elevate because I've noticed that. I think they elevated like 218 00:10:30,240 --> 00:10:33,600 Speaker 1: Miami and Dubai first, and then now you're starting to 219 00:10:33,600 --> 00:10:34,559 Speaker 1: see it, Well. 220 00:10:34,360 --> 00:10:38,040 Speaker 2: It needed it. Look, this is a fifth however, seventeen 221 00:10:38,120 --> 00:10:41,120 Speaker 2: whatever long year series going on, it has to change 222 00:10:41,160 --> 00:10:43,080 Speaker 2: with the times. You have to elevate, you have to 223 00:10:43,120 --> 00:10:45,720 Speaker 2: become current. So I thought everybody looked really good. I 224 00:10:45,800 --> 00:10:48,240 Speaker 2: like the photography. Now we can get into this. 225 00:10:48,320 --> 00:10:49,760 Speaker 1: But at first I have to know who do you 226 00:10:49,760 --> 00:10:52,319 Speaker 1: think would be we're not including Tamra who you think 227 00:10:52,360 --> 00:10:55,480 Speaker 1: you would be best friends with on the show. You now, 228 00:10:55,640 --> 00:10:57,960 Speaker 1: I'm not on the show. Well, actually I was on 229 00:10:58,040 --> 00:11:01,240 Speaker 1: the show, whether I knew it or not, I was 230 00:11:01,320 --> 00:11:02,040 Speaker 1: on Yeah. 231 00:11:02,120 --> 00:11:06,560 Speaker 2: No, First, I actually can see why all of these 232 00:11:06,600 --> 00:11:11,559 Speaker 2: women are on the show. And they have endearing pieces 233 00:11:11,600 --> 00:11:15,000 Speaker 2: to their personality, So I see why they're on the show. 234 00:11:15,160 --> 00:11:16,760 Speaker 1: Do you believe why detect your tests? 235 00:11:16,800 --> 00:11:19,120 Speaker 2: I don't want that anymore. I'm tired of that. I 236 00:11:19,160 --> 00:11:21,280 Speaker 2: thought we saw it with Lucy Lucy Apple. I don't 237 00:11:21,280 --> 00:11:24,000 Speaker 2: want to see that shit like it's a gag. It's 238 00:11:24,040 --> 00:11:27,920 Speaker 2: a gag. Okay, it's fucking stupid, and I don't want 239 00:11:27,920 --> 00:11:28,280 Speaker 2: to see it. 240 00:11:28,360 --> 00:11:31,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't want to see a great mode keeping 241 00:11:31,160 --> 00:11:32,079 Speaker 1: a positive bullshow. 242 00:11:32,240 --> 00:11:33,520 Speaker 2: It's just I don't want to see it. 243 00:11:33,640 --> 00:11:35,760 Speaker 1: I don't want to see it either. Also, I didn't 244 00:11:35,840 --> 00:11:38,000 Speaker 1: I thought that there was always like an out for 245 00:11:38,080 --> 00:11:39,400 Speaker 1: that shit, Like I didn't. 246 00:11:39,200 --> 00:11:41,480 Speaker 2: Think it was who cares? I mean, you're not either. 247 00:11:41,520 --> 00:11:43,520 Speaker 1: Getting a real one or is it the same time 248 00:11:43,720 --> 00:11:45,400 Speaker 1: that's out about the dogs? 249 00:11:45,600 --> 00:11:49,240 Speaker 2: Right? Like? Who cares? The point is it's overused, overblown. 250 00:11:49,320 --> 00:11:51,520 Speaker 2: It's a gag at this point, and I don't like it, 251 00:11:51,600 --> 00:11:52,520 Speaker 2: So do something else? 252 00:11:53,679 --> 00:11:55,720 Speaker 1: And why are the husbands on the show so much 253 00:11:55,800 --> 00:11:56,480 Speaker 1: this episode? 254 00:11:56,559 --> 00:12:01,800 Speaker 2: Well, I mean, look outside of Beverly Hills. I think, well, yeah, 255 00:12:01,880 --> 00:12:02,760 Speaker 2: did you see another one? 256 00:12:02,760 --> 00:12:07,520 Speaker 1: But yesterday, hold on, I started trying to do my budget, 257 00:12:07,520 --> 00:12:09,880 Speaker 1: trying to figure out exactly how much people make. But 258 00:12:10,040 --> 00:12:11,920 Speaker 1: also I went back in time. Did you see the 259 00:12:11,960 --> 00:12:15,400 Speaker 1: other one that bit the dust? She said, I guess 260 00:12:15,440 --> 00:12:19,960 Speaker 1: like six months ago that she would never believe in divorce. 261 00:12:20,080 --> 00:12:23,360 Speaker 1: There's no chance that divorce could ever happen. She's no divorce, 262 00:12:23,480 --> 00:12:26,360 Speaker 1: no divorce, never have one. And then I'm like, he's 263 00:12:26,400 --> 00:12:31,280 Speaker 1: fucking filed on July fourth. He's not our favorite person. 264 00:12:31,360 --> 00:12:34,520 Speaker 2: Well no, he's not yours and my favorite person. But 265 00:12:34,640 --> 00:12:40,559 Speaker 2: I just look he's asking her for spousal support, okay. 266 00:12:40,720 --> 00:12:42,200 Speaker 1: And he's asking for her for a lot. 267 00:12:42,640 --> 00:12:46,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, and she's a working mom. You know, she's got Elouise, 268 00:12:46,800 --> 00:12:49,160 Speaker 2: she's got the two other girls that are older obviously, 269 00:12:49,240 --> 00:12:50,880 Speaker 2: but come on, man, like, don't do this. 270 00:12:51,280 --> 00:12:53,600 Speaker 1: And also now that he's doing it, did the show 271 00:12:53,640 --> 00:12:55,120 Speaker 1: get picked up for a second season? 272 00:12:55,640 --> 00:12:55,960 Speaker 2: Maybe? 273 00:12:57,559 --> 00:12:58,960 Speaker 1: I mean you were on the first season. 274 00:12:59,240 --> 00:13:04,880 Speaker 2: I went out, Fuck, you know what. I saw that too. 275 00:13:05,120 --> 00:13:07,199 Speaker 1: I called on he checked that they didn't have anything. 276 00:13:07,960 --> 00:13:10,560 Speaker 2: It's interesting you should bring that up because I clocked 277 00:13:10,600 --> 00:13:13,280 Speaker 2: that too. I thought he had adopted Elouise. They told 278 00:13:13,360 --> 00:13:16,360 Speaker 2: us he did so. Then it says in the in 279 00:13:16,640 --> 00:13:19,280 Speaker 2: the reporting that he has they have no children together. 280 00:13:20,440 --> 00:13:22,880 Speaker 1: What a dickwad. It's because he doesn't want to have 281 00:13:22,880 --> 00:13:24,000 Speaker 1: to ever pay her anything. 282 00:13:24,800 --> 00:13:26,360 Speaker 2: I don't know what it is. I just know that 283 00:13:26,400 --> 00:13:29,120 Speaker 2: he should not be asking for spousal support. In my opinion, 284 00:13:29,520 --> 00:13:32,240 Speaker 2: she's a hard working girl. I don't care what she 285 00:13:32,320 --> 00:13:34,600 Speaker 2: makes on OnlyFans, and I hope she makes two hundred 286 00:13:34,600 --> 00:13:39,040 Speaker 2: fifty grand. Like he said, good for you. Leave her 287 00:13:39,080 --> 00:13:39,880 Speaker 2: the fuck alone. 288 00:13:40,040 --> 00:13:43,480 Speaker 1: Leave her alone. Leave her also, I have you been 289 00:13:43,520 --> 00:13:47,320 Speaker 1: to his offices? Says he has absolutely zero income. I 290 00:13:47,360 --> 00:13:49,520 Speaker 1: haven't been to them, but I've seen pictures of it. 291 00:13:49,520 --> 00:13:54,080 Speaker 1: It is a ginormous place. This is what I don't 292 00:13:54,200 --> 00:13:57,040 Speaker 1: like that I'm assuming that she pays for. 293 00:13:57,679 --> 00:14:00,240 Speaker 2: I don't know. Like, look, we can't assume anything. We're 294 00:14:00,240 --> 00:14:04,840 Speaker 2: not inside. But I'm saying this, leave her the fuck alone. 295 00:14:04,600 --> 00:14:07,400 Speaker 1: Leave her alone, leave here alone in your gross douche lord, 296 00:14:07,520 --> 00:14:11,480 Speaker 1: just go away. Sorry, very few men do I despise 297 00:14:11,559 --> 00:14:14,760 Speaker 1: as much as that guy. Yeah, well he's he's easy 298 00:14:14,800 --> 00:14:17,560 Speaker 1: to he's easy to despise. But back to this, Back 299 00:14:17,600 --> 00:14:21,560 Speaker 1: to this, Shannon says she's a completely different person than 300 00:14:21,600 --> 00:14:24,720 Speaker 1: she was a year ago. She settled her lawsuit with John, 301 00:14:25,200 --> 00:14:27,160 Speaker 1: and then she invited everybody to the Golden Door. 302 00:14:27,200 --> 00:14:29,520 Speaker 2: I'm glad she settled her lawsuit. I've always wanted to 303 00:14:29,520 --> 00:14:30,480 Speaker 2: go to the Golden Door. 304 00:14:30,560 --> 00:14:31,320 Speaker 1: Me too. Can we go? 305 00:14:31,440 --> 00:14:32,320 Speaker 2: Yep, Let's call him. 306 00:14:32,480 --> 00:14:34,240 Speaker 1: I want to go. Let's call him. But I mean, 307 00:14:34,280 --> 00:14:38,200 Speaker 1: it seems kind of how much thirteen thousand dollars. Come on, 308 00:14:38,560 --> 00:14:40,120 Speaker 1: we're not I mean, we're going for free and we're 309 00:14:40,120 --> 00:14:41,440 Speaker 1: going to post. 310 00:14:41,720 --> 00:14:43,840 Speaker 2: Well, don't tell him how we're doing it. I mean 311 00:14:43,920 --> 00:14:47,280 Speaker 2: my point is, of course, this is the other other thing. Too, 312 00:14:47,560 --> 00:14:51,920 Speaker 2: let's post how much it costs. Okay, great, you know, 313 00:14:52,200 --> 00:14:53,040 Speaker 2: but I do want to go. 314 00:14:53,920 --> 00:14:57,320 Speaker 1: I mean, well, it's the same way they tell on 315 00:14:57,360 --> 00:14:58,080 Speaker 1: the show. 316 00:14:57,920 --> 00:15:00,120 Speaker 2: How much everything costs. 317 00:15:00,120 --> 00:15:01,760 Speaker 1: If we would normally say. 318 00:15:01,840 --> 00:15:07,880 Speaker 2: Hey, come down to my thirteen thousand dollars ninety three, man, 319 00:15:08,040 --> 00:15:10,240 Speaker 2: just go to the golden door. Look it up. Everybody 320 00:15:10,240 --> 00:15:11,440 Speaker 2: knows how much it costs. 321 00:15:11,600 --> 00:15:13,560 Speaker 1: We all know how much it costs. But when we go, 322 00:15:13,680 --> 00:15:14,800 Speaker 1: Oprah's going to be there. 323 00:15:15,680 --> 00:15:18,560 Speaker 2: How about somebody who is a child that did not 324 00:15:18,640 --> 00:15:19,520 Speaker 2: know who Oprah was? 325 00:15:19,800 --> 00:15:24,320 Speaker 1: Oh, Jen's so great, so good. And then but then 326 00:15:24,360 --> 00:15:26,760 Speaker 1: when she goes who is she? Jen took a second 327 00:15:26,760 --> 00:15:28,120 Speaker 1: to how she was going to answer. 328 00:15:28,240 --> 00:15:30,480 Speaker 2: Well, I mean it's hard to describe Oprah because she's 329 00:15:30,600 --> 00:15:34,240 Speaker 2: like done to everything, an icon of icons, like she's 330 00:15:34,280 --> 00:15:38,400 Speaker 2: a legend of legends, like she is the best ever. 331 00:15:38,920 --> 00:15:41,359 Speaker 1: And I'm like, go watch the color purple. 332 00:15:41,440 --> 00:15:44,160 Speaker 2: The color purple, Like there's so many things. I mean, 333 00:15:44,200 --> 00:15:47,400 Speaker 2: Oprah's oh, I mean talk about doing it. 334 00:15:47,560 --> 00:15:49,479 Speaker 1: She hasn't asked to come on the pod. 335 00:15:49,680 --> 00:15:52,280 Speaker 2: I know, probably never will. God bless Oprah though she's 336 00:15:52,440 --> 00:15:53,560 Speaker 2: fucking one of my heroes. 337 00:15:53,640 --> 00:15:55,920 Speaker 1: This may be what we needed. But then Shannon and 338 00:15:56,000 --> 00:15:58,840 Speaker 1: Katie discussed what happened with Emily's kids, and Katie and 339 00:15:58,880 --> 00:16:02,120 Speaker 1: Emily's nanny said, the kids said they don't like Heather. 340 00:16:02,440 --> 00:16:03,400 Speaker 2: Yeah. 341 00:16:03,440 --> 00:16:05,320 Speaker 1: Do we care about this though? 342 00:16:05,520 --> 00:16:08,560 Speaker 2: I think it? Well, look, we care because it reaches 343 00:16:08,640 --> 00:16:12,040 Speaker 2: back to the backstory, you know, That's that's why we care. 344 00:16:15,840 --> 00:16:16,800 Speaker 2: I don't know. 345 00:16:17,880 --> 00:16:21,440 Speaker 1: I think you know. Now this is getting into more lawsuits, 346 00:16:21,760 --> 00:16:24,280 Speaker 1: and this is where when you get bloggers involved and 347 00:16:24,320 --> 00:16:27,000 Speaker 1: then people are talking about you before things air, then 348 00:16:27,000 --> 00:16:27,960 Speaker 1: that's when all these. 349 00:16:28,160 --> 00:16:31,960 Speaker 2: Why are you spoiling the show? Stop? Stop talking to people. 350 00:16:32,000 --> 00:16:35,080 Speaker 2: You should save this for the audience. There are certain things, yes, 351 00:16:35,200 --> 00:16:38,000 Speaker 2: like oh hey we went out, but like certain things 352 00:16:38,040 --> 00:16:41,320 Speaker 2: like come on, I didn't Katie get in trouble for this? 353 00:16:41,560 --> 00:16:43,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, she got in trouble for this last year. 354 00:16:44,080 --> 00:16:46,120 Speaker 2: Well did she get in trouble for it this year? 355 00:16:46,400 --> 00:16:49,880 Speaker 1: Yes, she's getting in trouble for it right now, right because. 356 00:16:49,640 --> 00:16:55,000 Speaker 2: Not now I'm on the executive side. Yeah, yeah, right. 357 00:16:54,760 --> 00:16:56,800 Speaker 1: Well, I mean I don't think she's at the fit. 358 00:16:56,920 --> 00:16:58,880 Speaker 1: I mean I don't think she's at the final trip. 359 00:16:59,760 --> 00:17:02,600 Speaker 2: Oh oh, I don't know. I don't know anything. 360 00:17:02,680 --> 00:17:06,959 Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't think so from what I saw from pictures. Okay, 361 00:17:07,080 --> 00:17:08,840 Speaker 1: I don't think she was in any of them, and 362 00:17:08,840 --> 00:17:11,440 Speaker 1: either the girls all cropped her out or she's. 363 00:17:11,200 --> 00:17:12,680 Speaker 2: Not there huh. 364 00:17:12,800 --> 00:17:15,560 Speaker 1: Interesting, which my guess is that she kept sharing. But 365 00:17:15,680 --> 00:17:18,360 Speaker 1: I mean, here's the thing. You could almost accept this 366 00:17:18,400 --> 00:17:21,680 Speaker 1: for a Season one housewife because not twice, but not 367 00:17:21,720 --> 00:17:24,399 Speaker 1: twice like season one, you're feeling a little alone. You 368 00:17:24,440 --> 00:17:27,000 Speaker 1: don't know anybody people reaching out to you. 369 00:17:27,520 --> 00:17:30,960 Speaker 2: I mean friendly people are acting friendly, or in this 370 00:17:31,040 --> 00:17:34,760 Speaker 2: new media space perhaps you're unfamiliar with you know, like. 371 00:17:34,720 --> 00:17:36,240 Speaker 1: Don't try, but then don't do it again. 372 00:17:36,320 --> 00:17:38,960 Speaker 2: Also, to let me give you some really good advice, Katie, 373 00:17:39,040 --> 00:17:41,920 Speaker 2: if you think that these bloggers aren't going to turn 374 00:17:41,960 --> 00:17:45,480 Speaker 2: on you, think again, wait till you wait, till you wait, 375 00:17:45,520 --> 00:17:47,520 Speaker 2: till you wait, till you cross one of them or 376 00:17:47,560 --> 00:17:50,440 Speaker 2: fall out with one of them. It's not gonna be good. 377 00:17:50,800 --> 00:17:53,840 Speaker 1: Granted this never worked for me. But also, have receipts 378 00:17:53,840 --> 00:17:56,359 Speaker 1: if you know this is coming, like she knew this 379 00:17:56,520 --> 00:17:59,760 Speaker 1: was coming and she didn't have service, you gotta bet that. 380 00:18:00,080 --> 00:18:01,960 Speaker 1: I mean, Gina was right. When Gina was like, I 381 00:18:02,080 --> 00:18:05,959 Speaker 1: would hold up and show those receipts so quickly, but 382 00:18:06,000 --> 00:18:07,720 Speaker 1: I'd have them saved on my phone. They'd be my 383 00:18:07,800 --> 00:18:08,840 Speaker 1: freaking screen saver. 384 00:18:09,640 --> 00:18:12,320 Speaker 2: If I needed to defend myself like that in this 385 00:18:12,400 --> 00:18:14,920 Speaker 2: group exactly on the SOS. 386 00:18:15,280 --> 00:18:19,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, and then I wanted to know what do you 387 00:18:19,119 --> 00:18:21,680 Speaker 1: have because now we need to know now that we're 388 00:18:21,720 --> 00:18:23,840 Speaker 1: going to the Golden Door, do we have Verizon? Like, 389 00:18:23,880 --> 00:18:25,040 Speaker 1: what are we working with? You? Well? 390 00:18:25,080 --> 00:18:28,119 Speaker 2: I think we need starlink, you know. I mean, I 391 00:18:28,119 --> 00:18:30,119 Speaker 2: think we need the starlink which is going to be 392 00:18:30,200 --> 00:18:33,920 Speaker 2: on the iOS, the new Apple iOS. So somebody get 393 00:18:34,000 --> 00:18:35,679 Speaker 2: us some satellite shit. 394 00:18:35,680 --> 00:18:37,439 Speaker 1: I mean, because we need to make sure that we 395 00:18:37,480 --> 00:18:40,879 Speaker 1: can pod from the Golden Door. Duh, duh. 396 00:18:41,400 --> 00:18:44,080 Speaker 2: Bring all of this lovely energy there. 397 00:18:44,320 --> 00:18:49,399 Speaker 1: Yeah, listen to these two bags uppers around here. Okay, 398 00:18:49,680 --> 00:18:51,640 Speaker 1: but so you don't have a problem that Emily brought 399 00:18:51,720 --> 00:18:53,119 Speaker 1: up the custody stuff at. 400 00:18:53,040 --> 00:18:55,960 Speaker 2: Last year's Listen, a fight is a fight. Okay. 401 00:18:56,400 --> 00:18:58,480 Speaker 1: Then we see tam Or going to the psychiatrist. 402 00:18:58,600 --> 00:19:01,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, what'd you think of that? You know, I psychologist? 403 00:19:01,520 --> 00:19:03,400 Speaker 2: I think is she a psychiatrist or psychologist? 404 00:19:03,440 --> 00:19:05,399 Speaker 1: I don't know which one gives pills which one doesn't. 405 00:19:05,400 --> 00:19:09,440 Speaker 2: A psychiatrist is an MD that prescribes meds. A psychologist 406 00:19:09,680 --> 00:19:10,000 Speaker 2: does not. 407 00:19:10,600 --> 00:19:13,600 Speaker 1: So I don't know which one she is, but she's 408 00:19:13,680 --> 00:19:15,840 Speaker 1: one that she does therapy. 409 00:19:16,080 --> 00:19:17,919 Speaker 2: How did you feel about your name being brought up 410 00:19:17,960 --> 00:19:20,480 Speaker 2: in this episode, Well. 411 00:19:20,359 --> 00:19:22,760 Speaker 1: One like Gina is the only one to ask me, 412 00:19:23,160 --> 00:19:28,080 Speaker 1: ask about me? What dickheads? I know all of you. Yeah, No, 413 00:19:28,200 --> 00:19:32,159 Speaker 1: I didn't actually care about that, but you know, I 414 00:19:32,160 --> 00:19:34,560 Speaker 1: don't remember that time in my life. 415 00:19:35,320 --> 00:19:35,639 Speaker 2: Wow. 416 00:19:36,119 --> 00:19:39,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, So it's very weird to see it. And it's 417 00:19:40,000 --> 00:19:42,320 Speaker 1: almost like I blocked out watching it, even though I 418 00:19:42,359 --> 00:19:45,040 Speaker 1: watched it last night, sure, because they like panned to 419 00:19:45,080 --> 00:19:46,720 Speaker 1: that picture of me, and it wasn't that I was 420 00:19:46,760 --> 00:19:48,320 Speaker 1: like offended that that picture exists. 421 00:19:48,359 --> 00:19:49,640 Speaker 2: It was like I didn't recognize it. 422 00:19:49,560 --> 00:19:53,080 Speaker 1: But I didn't recognize myself for that moment. And I also, 423 00:19:55,040 --> 00:19:57,000 Speaker 1: you know, there was parts that made me really sad 424 00:19:57,040 --> 00:20:01,320 Speaker 1: for Tamra because I you know, she said that, you know, 425 00:20:01,560 --> 00:20:03,920 Speaker 1: in this episode, she's talking a lot about how she's 426 00:20:04,000 --> 00:20:07,080 Speaker 1: never really like had a friend that's been there for 427 00:20:07,119 --> 00:20:10,600 Speaker 1: her that she can trust, and I think, you know, 428 00:20:10,720 --> 00:20:13,359 Speaker 1: the show provides a lot of that. But I felt also, 429 00:20:15,080 --> 00:20:19,040 Speaker 1: I can't remember having conversations with Tamar during this time. 430 00:20:19,240 --> 00:20:21,960 Speaker 2: That's okay, you don't need to because what you were 431 00:20:21,960 --> 00:20:25,560 Speaker 2: going through is come on, yeah, I mean that's perfectly 432 00:20:25,600 --> 00:20:29,199 Speaker 2: normal and okay, yeah, don't don't but beat yourself up 433 00:20:29,240 --> 00:20:30,240 Speaker 2: over that, I'll tell you, right. 434 00:20:30,560 --> 00:20:32,520 Speaker 1: But I mean it also is it's a little bit 435 00:20:32,560 --> 00:20:35,240 Speaker 1: bizarre when you're on a when you're shown that much 436 00:20:35,280 --> 00:20:36,359 Speaker 1: on a show that you're not on. 437 00:20:38,320 --> 00:20:43,040 Speaker 2: I mean, your life is bizarre. Our lives are bizarre. 438 00:20:43,760 --> 00:20:46,399 Speaker 1: Yeah, So I mean it's just it was a little 439 00:20:46,400 --> 00:20:52,120 Speaker 1: bit weird. But I but I think you know, Tamor's 440 00:20:52,160 --> 00:20:54,840 Speaker 1: handling it well. The women brush over it pretty quickly. 441 00:20:55,720 --> 00:21:00,760 Speaker 1: I don't know how it would be any different, Like 442 00:21:00,880 --> 00:21:03,080 Speaker 1: I I would assume there are some people that are like, 443 00:21:03,119 --> 00:21:04,880 Speaker 1: we don't want to talk about this. This isn't our 444 00:21:04,920 --> 00:21:05,600 Speaker 1: story to tell. 445 00:21:05,880 --> 00:21:09,119 Speaker 2: Yeah, one hundred percent. So in some ways, it's like 446 00:21:09,359 --> 00:21:11,919 Speaker 2: it's a very sensitive subject, you know, talking about you 447 00:21:12,000 --> 00:21:16,240 Speaker 2: because nobody wants to upset you, nobody wants to, you know, 448 00:21:16,320 --> 00:21:19,280 Speaker 2: be intrusive, and no one wants to do that. So 449 00:21:19,440 --> 00:21:21,399 Speaker 2: I get it. I get exactly what you're saying. 450 00:21:21,560 --> 00:21:24,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, so I think it's a it's a tricky situation. 451 00:21:23,920 --> 00:21:26,400 Speaker 2: Like how do you address something like this with being 452 00:21:26,440 --> 00:21:29,320 Speaker 2: respectful to you and saying, you know, this is my 453 00:21:29,359 --> 00:21:31,160 Speaker 2: friend and I'm sharing my life. 454 00:21:30,960 --> 00:21:32,800 Speaker 1: So it's a little hard time. It's hard. 455 00:21:32,880 --> 00:21:35,119 Speaker 2: It's a bit of a bit of a struggle there, 456 00:21:47,600 --> 00:21:49,520 Speaker 2: you know. Tamma said she was crying a lot since 457 00:21:49,520 --> 00:21:52,159 Speaker 2: her last appointment, and she also brought up all of 458 00:21:52,160 --> 00:21:55,160 Speaker 2: the backlash that she got on the pod for saying 459 00:21:55,200 --> 00:21:58,879 Speaker 2: that she could be on the spectrum. Yeah. 460 00:21:59,040 --> 00:22:01,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, and I thought that as she was sharing that. 461 00:22:02,600 --> 00:22:05,439 Speaker 1: And I think Tamra, you know, at first when I 462 00:22:05,520 --> 00:22:07,680 Speaker 1: read it all in the press, because it was everywhere. 463 00:22:07,960 --> 00:22:11,159 Speaker 2: Yeah, before I was a nice person. Guys, I know 464 00:22:11,240 --> 00:22:17,360 Speaker 2: that you see someone on TV. I but we all do. 465 00:22:17,400 --> 00:22:19,840 Speaker 1: That shit, like somebody will mention something to us and 466 00:22:19,880 --> 00:22:22,920 Speaker 1: then all of a sudden and the doctor may have said, 467 00:22:23,000 --> 00:22:24,120 Speaker 1: you are showing signs. 468 00:22:24,680 --> 00:22:28,520 Speaker 2: Who knows it was, you know, maybe not properly worded, 469 00:22:28,680 --> 00:22:30,919 Speaker 2: but she doesn't, you know, like, come. 470 00:22:30,800 --> 00:22:33,040 Speaker 1: On, I don't think she was trying to hurt anybody. No, 471 00:22:33,640 --> 00:22:36,639 Speaker 1: trying to open up for the like about her personal 472 00:22:37,359 --> 00:22:39,679 Speaker 1: journey and her trauma and her things like that. And 473 00:22:39,720 --> 00:22:41,480 Speaker 1: so I think that was a little bit of I. 474 00:22:41,440 --> 00:22:44,080 Speaker 2: Think she just stumbled over her words and maybe it 475 00:22:44,119 --> 00:22:46,600 Speaker 2: came out not the best, But I don't think the 476 00:22:46,680 --> 00:22:48,800 Speaker 2: intention was to be mean or her. 477 00:22:48,760 --> 00:22:51,960 Speaker 1: Because essentially Emily says a very similar thing. She just 478 00:22:52,000 --> 00:22:53,560 Speaker 1: says it better. 479 00:22:53,920 --> 00:22:54,520 Speaker 2: Yeah about that. 480 00:22:54,560 --> 00:22:56,879 Speaker 1: You know, when she's talking about her son, you know 481 00:22:56,960 --> 00:23:00,880 Speaker 1: he hadn't been fully diagnosed yet, she's talking about, oh. 482 00:23:00,880 --> 00:23:04,880 Speaker 2: Well he's not eating, he has tactile Like, poor baby. 483 00:23:05,760 --> 00:23:09,240 Speaker 1: I have a I have a friend who her son 484 00:23:09,320 --> 00:23:13,640 Speaker 1: has a similar laying. And it's so tough because it's 485 00:23:13,680 --> 00:23:17,679 Speaker 1: not like something that you have an answer to. 486 00:23:18,119 --> 00:23:23,280 Speaker 2: We have to eat. Yeah, is so wild because it's 487 00:23:23,359 --> 00:23:24,080 Speaker 2: kind of bizarre. 488 00:23:24,160 --> 00:23:27,080 Speaker 1: And I mean I've seen a I've seen the child 489 00:23:27,320 --> 00:23:31,280 Speaker 1: in real life, like literally will not like there's like 490 00:23:31,400 --> 00:23:32,720 Speaker 1: five items. 491 00:23:32,240 --> 00:23:33,480 Speaker 2: Of food and that's it. 492 00:23:33,600 --> 00:23:37,359 Speaker 1: That's it. Yeah, And so I think there's more kids 493 00:23:37,800 --> 00:23:40,480 Speaker 1: or more people out there struggling with that than we 494 00:23:40,560 --> 00:23:42,359 Speaker 1: actually know. I had never heard of it before. 495 00:23:42,560 --> 00:23:46,560 Speaker 2: I had not heard of this, But I feel very 496 00:23:46,600 --> 00:23:55,440 Speaker 2: badly for Emily because that's hard. You know, anytime your kids, anytime. 497 00:23:53,720 --> 00:23:55,920 Speaker 1: You can't fix a problem, your help fix a problem 498 00:23:55,960 --> 00:23:57,000 Speaker 1: your kids are going through. 499 00:23:57,080 --> 00:23:58,960 Speaker 2: It's a rough one, yeah, super rough. 500 00:23:59,480 --> 00:24:04,280 Speaker 1: And then to her and Gina, we're talking about how 501 00:24:04,320 --> 00:24:05,960 Speaker 1: you start to guilt yourself. 502 00:24:06,040 --> 00:24:07,600 Speaker 2: Of course one hundred percent that it's your fault. 503 00:24:07,760 --> 00:24:09,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, you're like, oh shit, how did I miss this? 504 00:24:09,760 --> 00:24:11,720 Speaker 2: How did I miss this? Why couldn't I have seen it? 505 00:24:11,800 --> 00:24:14,400 Speaker 2: What did I do wrong? Did I sit on this problem? 506 00:24:14,560 --> 00:24:15,440 Speaker 2: All that kind of shit? 507 00:24:16,080 --> 00:24:20,080 Speaker 1: Yeah? But then we would you get married in a bikini? 508 00:24:20,760 --> 00:24:23,879 Speaker 2: Knew, but I did. I did love it when Tommy 509 00:24:23,960 --> 00:24:26,080 Speaker 2: Lee married Pamela Anderson in a bikini. 510 00:24:26,160 --> 00:24:27,480 Speaker 1: That that's Pamela Anderson. 511 00:24:27,560 --> 00:24:33,360 Speaker 2: That's my point, you know, that's my point. Yeah, I mean, 512 00:24:33,400 --> 00:24:35,639 Speaker 2: I think Jens adorable. She's got a great body. I 513 00:24:35,760 --> 00:24:37,679 Speaker 2: just you know, pam did it, and. 514 00:24:37,600 --> 00:24:39,200 Speaker 1: You already got engaged in it. You don't need to 515 00:24:39,200 --> 00:24:39,960 Speaker 1: do it twice, right. 516 00:24:40,000 --> 00:24:41,840 Speaker 2: I think maybe let's let's switch it up and wear 517 00:24:41,840 --> 00:24:42,440 Speaker 2: something cute. 518 00:24:42,960 --> 00:24:45,280 Speaker 1: I you know, I could let her borrow my Nicole 519 00:24:45,320 --> 00:24:49,560 Speaker 1: Miller dress I wore sixteen years ago, oh my pink 520 00:24:49,560 --> 00:24:53,000 Speaker 1: blue batata and burn it. No, I still have it. It 521 00:24:52,960 --> 00:24:53,680 Speaker 1: fits my toe. 522 00:24:53,960 --> 00:24:54,320 Speaker 2: Okay. 523 00:24:56,080 --> 00:24:59,800 Speaker 1: Then Heather, Emily and Tama made up for dinner. Ta 524 00:25:00,240 --> 00:25:04,479 Speaker 1: updates them, updates everybody on how therapy is going, and 525 00:25:04,520 --> 00:25:08,280 Speaker 1: then Tama talks about blocking Katie on Instagram. This is 526 00:25:08,320 --> 00:25:10,080 Speaker 1: where we get more into the blogger. 527 00:25:09,760 --> 00:25:11,560 Speaker 2: Situation troll accounts. 528 00:25:13,000 --> 00:25:16,159 Speaker 1: But after she was on our podcast. She made a 529 00:25:16,160 --> 00:25:20,640 Speaker 1: post accusing Tama of secretly running the reality Blurb website. 530 00:25:20,680 --> 00:25:24,480 Speaker 2: That's a big website. That's a lot of fucking that's 531 00:25:24,560 --> 00:25:28,560 Speaker 2: a real fucking Reality Blurb does a lot of concept. 532 00:25:28,640 --> 00:25:30,840 Speaker 2: You got to be full time with that. So Tamra 533 00:25:30,960 --> 00:25:33,600 Speaker 2: is running all of these things and Reality Blurb like. 534 00:25:33,720 --> 00:25:35,240 Speaker 1: I'm doing one hundred podcasts. 535 00:25:35,600 --> 00:25:39,119 Speaker 2: That's a reach and a half, babe, because reality Blurb 536 00:25:39,240 --> 00:25:43,760 Speaker 2: is busy. Reality Blurb they are constantly cranking out to 537 00:25:43,920 --> 00:25:47,359 Speaker 2: stuff like, you know, kudos to reality Blurb. 538 00:25:47,400 --> 00:25:49,480 Speaker 1: You guys are good, Tarama, Do you get paid for 539 00:25:49,560 --> 00:25:53,399 Speaker 1: this fifteenth job? But Tamra threatened to get her lawyers 540 00:25:53,400 --> 00:25:56,119 Speaker 1: involved if they don't stop, and then, apparently while this 541 00:25:56,240 --> 00:25:59,040 Speaker 1: was all happening online, Katie reached out to the Bravo 542 00:25:59,080 --> 00:26:02,399 Speaker 1: Babe to talk badly about Tamra, calling her evil and 543 00:26:02,480 --> 00:26:06,480 Speaker 1: also accusing Tamar's assistant Katie who is He's on second 544 00:26:06,520 --> 00:26:07,639 Speaker 1: year of being talked about. 545 00:26:08,119 --> 00:26:11,480 Speaker 2: Wow, Katie Kayden golf Cloud. You know what's interesting about 546 00:26:11,520 --> 00:26:14,360 Speaker 2: this show just everybody gets their fucking ass dragged in here. 547 00:26:15,000 --> 00:26:17,720 Speaker 2: I mean even the gardener at some point gets dragged in. 548 00:26:17,880 --> 00:26:20,359 Speaker 1: He's gonna do something. He's gonna have forgotten something and 549 00:26:20,520 --> 00:26:22,439 Speaker 1: you're gonna, We're gonna nobody's gonna miss it. 550 00:26:22,600 --> 00:26:26,919 Speaker 2: No, I mean, let's god. Sometimes this show I just like, 551 00:26:27,119 --> 00:26:31,440 Speaker 2: really yeah really, But then they show the screenshots. 552 00:26:31,480 --> 00:26:32,320 Speaker 1: This is all happened. 553 00:26:32,320 --> 00:26:34,320 Speaker 2: No, wait, so let's go. Bravo Babe then went and 554 00:26:34,359 --> 00:26:37,080 Speaker 2: did a podcast talking about how Katie had called her 555 00:26:37,200 --> 00:26:41,240 Speaker 2: to talk about Tamra. Yesterday, Bravo Babe spoke to Okay, 556 00:26:41,760 --> 00:26:44,679 Speaker 2: saying she had conversations with Katie for over a year, 557 00:26:45,280 --> 00:26:48,679 Speaker 2: including a call with Katie and her husband Matt, and 558 00:26:48,880 --> 00:26:53,560 Speaker 2: also released this screenshot of her DM and call with Katie. 559 00:26:54,480 --> 00:26:56,800 Speaker 1: Hold on, how do we see oh audio call? Does 560 00:26:56,840 --> 00:26:59,040 Speaker 1: it show how many minutes it was? Two minutes? It 561 00:26:59,080 --> 00:27:00,000 Speaker 1: could have been a message. 562 00:27:00,280 --> 00:27:03,280 Speaker 2: Her assistant lives in Tennessee, but he doesn't. 563 00:27:03,680 --> 00:27:08,000 Speaker 1: Okay, he doesn't. I'm not gonna tell you guys where 564 00:27:08,000 --> 00:27:08,359 Speaker 1: he lives. 565 00:27:08,359 --> 00:27:11,680 Speaker 2: But I know Camra went to dinner and caught Katie 566 00:27:12,080 --> 00:27:15,879 Speaker 2: in a lie doing it. I mean, if you're gonna, hey, 567 00:27:15,920 --> 00:27:20,760 Speaker 2: here's the thing, Yeah, blogger, they're going to turn on 568 00:27:20,840 --> 00:27:22,920 Speaker 2: you like, this is gonna this is what happens. 569 00:27:23,440 --> 00:27:28,879 Speaker 1: Yeah, just stay just Katie, learn your lesson over a 570 00:27:29,000 --> 00:27:31,400 Speaker 1: year and then don't you don't need to. Here's the thing. 571 00:27:31,440 --> 00:27:34,000 Speaker 1: If you are gonna engage with the bloggers, that's that's 572 00:27:34,240 --> 00:27:34,479 Speaker 1: you know. 573 00:27:34,680 --> 00:27:37,920 Speaker 2: Keep it surface, keep it, keep it surface. Thanks so much. 574 00:27:38,000 --> 00:27:40,399 Speaker 2: Oh this is fun. Yeah, I don't know. Oh, thank you. 575 00:27:40,480 --> 00:27:41,600 Speaker 2: Appreciate the support. 576 00:27:41,840 --> 00:27:43,960 Speaker 1: But then don't dog them out on the show like 577 00:27:44,000 --> 00:27:45,400 Speaker 1: she's like, I don't even know her name. 578 00:27:45,560 --> 00:27:49,600 Speaker 2: Whoa did she think like that this Bravo babe was 579 00:27:49,640 --> 00:27:51,440 Speaker 2: going to take that on the chin and just take 580 00:27:51,520 --> 00:27:52,040 Speaker 2: it for her. 581 00:27:52,640 --> 00:27:55,240 Speaker 1: Babe, Bravo Babe's gonna make. 582 00:27:55,119 --> 00:27:59,000 Speaker 2: Bravo babes coming out swinging for you. I mean, I'm 583 00:27:59,040 --> 00:28:04,040 Speaker 2: just saying like, and and and rightfully. So, if you 584 00:28:04,119 --> 00:28:06,560 Speaker 2: fucking do this ship, what do you expect people to 585 00:28:06,600 --> 00:28:07,439 Speaker 2: be honorable? 586 00:28:08,119 --> 00:28:12,119 Speaker 1: No, if you're gonna be up Bravo babes ass to 587 00:28:12,160 --> 00:28:14,440 Speaker 1: make sure she's leaking stuff for you, she's gonna. 588 00:28:14,160 --> 00:28:17,760 Speaker 2: Be up your ass when you turn on her. And 589 00:28:18,000 --> 00:28:21,400 Speaker 2: I don't get that. Did you think there's loyalty in here? 590 00:28:21,840 --> 00:28:25,359 Speaker 1: I don't know the chicks thinking. Can you start calling 591 00:28:25,400 --> 00:28:26,320 Speaker 1: me my little teapot? 592 00:28:26,560 --> 00:28:30,200 Speaker 2: Yep? You want teapot? Hello, my little tea. 593 00:28:30,080 --> 00:28:34,480 Speaker 1: Pat, here's my little tea pot short and stout, pour 594 00:28:34,720 --> 00:28:37,880 Speaker 1: me over it, to me over and pour. 595 00:28:37,840 --> 00:28:41,280 Speaker 2: Me out, something like that. Well that was not good. 596 00:28:41,480 --> 00:28:44,760 Speaker 1: We hold on that. We nailed it. I thought, yeah, 597 00:28:44,920 --> 00:28:48,240 Speaker 1: high five five, okay, I almost cut my finger off. 598 00:28:49,080 --> 00:28:50,440 Speaker 2: What are you doing playing with knives? 599 00:28:50,840 --> 00:28:52,680 Speaker 1: You know me? I was just doing a knife show outside. 600 00:28:52,680 --> 00:28:54,400 Speaker 1: I was doing some can do. 601 00:28:54,440 --> 00:28:58,040 Speaker 2: That kind of ship, I said, you know, i'd like 602 00:28:58,280 --> 00:29:01,400 Speaker 2: I just I worry about you and then cutting fingers. 603 00:29:02,640 --> 00:29:06,560 Speaker 1: I was trying. No, I was trying ditches stitches did 604 00:29:06,880 --> 00:29:08,920 Speaker 1: stitches did? 605 00:29:09,920 --> 00:29:12,080 Speaker 2: God? I did some mushrooms yesterday and they're still with me. 606 00:29:12,240 --> 00:29:13,120 Speaker 1: You did fu? 607 00:29:13,320 --> 00:29:13,640 Speaker 2: Yeah? 608 00:29:13,680 --> 00:29:16,160 Speaker 1: How many a lot? Oh? 609 00:29:16,840 --> 00:29:17,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's awesome. 610 00:29:18,200 --> 00:29:19,520 Speaker 1: Does it make you feel relaxed? 611 00:29:19,840 --> 00:29:22,800 Speaker 2: That's why I'm so slow, That's why I don't give 612 00:29:22,800 --> 00:29:23,200 Speaker 2: a fuck. 613 00:29:23,480 --> 00:29:26,120 Speaker 1: I really appreciate it because now you're matching my level. 614 00:29:26,280 --> 00:29:28,920 Speaker 2: I'm really yea, my energy is right with you. 615 00:29:29,520 --> 00:29:31,880 Speaker 1: And I didn't even do mushrooms. You mushrooms. I've never 616 00:29:32,040 --> 00:29:32,480 Speaker 1: done it. 617 00:29:32,520 --> 00:29:35,160 Speaker 2: Oh it's nice. It's better than having a drink, I think. 618 00:29:35,400 --> 00:29:38,080 Speaker 1: Because see I can't really drink now. I try to drink, 619 00:29:38,520 --> 00:29:41,800 Speaker 1: but I won't do mushrooms. I wonder if they would too. 620 00:29:41,840 --> 00:29:43,040 Speaker 1: I wish I liked pot. 621 00:29:43,640 --> 00:29:46,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean I think it like you eat on 622 00:29:46,320 --> 00:29:48,960 Speaker 2: that and go to sleep. This makes you just feel 623 00:29:49,000 --> 00:29:51,160 Speaker 2: like giggly, Oh like giggly. 624 00:29:51,240 --> 00:29:56,080 Speaker 1: Do you take a capsule or do you put chocolates? Chocolates? Well, 625 00:29:56,240 --> 00:29:57,840 Speaker 1: when we're at the Golden Door, it might be a 626 00:29:57,840 --> 00:29:58,800 Speaker 1: good time for us to try. 627 00:29:58,920 --> 00:30:00,960 Speaker 2: I'll come over here and give it to No, don't, 628 00:30:01,360 --> 00:30:04,400 Speaker 2: I'm kidding. I'm not giving teddy. She said, We're not 629 00:30:04,400 --> 00:30:05,080 Speaker 2: giving your ship. 630 00:30:05,320 --> 00:30:09,960 Speaker 1: We're getting permission. We're gonna get that hoody relax, mushrooms. 631 00:30:10,560 --> 00:30:12,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, I got my fasterday. I felt amazing. 632 00:30:13,360 --> 00:30:16,480 Speaker 1: Oh your birthday was yesterday? Yeah, oh so, no wonder 633 00:30:16,520 --> 00:30:17,360 Speaker 1: you were shrewing it up? 634 00:30:17,800 --> 00:30:23,200 Speaker 2: Went up. I've got to do something. I'm telling you what. 635 00:30:23,360 --> 00:30:25,960 Speaker 2: These fifties who said that, you know what, My forties 636 00:30:25,960 --> 00:30:30,320 Speaker 2: were great. These fifties are a challenge. I mean, challenge accepted. 637 00:30:30,360 --> 00:30:31,520 Speaker 2: But this ship is not great. 638 00:30:32,000 --> 00:30:34,000 Speaker 1: Listen, the forties haven't been great for me. I know, 639 00:30:34,120 --> 00:30:34,880 Speaker 1: so I don't really know. 640 00:30:34,920 --> 00:30:37,200 Speaker 2: And you know what the thirties, hold on, hold on, 641 00:30:37,640 --> 00:30:41,320 Speaker 2: I think that starting in twenty twenties, when both of 642 00:30:41,320 --> 00:30:42,280 Speaker 2: our lives blew up. 643 00:30:42,400 --> 00:30:44,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, we were doing pretty great. 644 00:30:43,880 --> 00:30:46,760 Speaker 2: Then we're doing really good. And then twenty twenty like 645 00:30:47,440 --> 00:30:52,720 Speaker 2: Dove Slate's finger, the murder at your house, Da Da 646 00:30:52,800 --> 00:30:53,800 Speaker 2: da da, Like it. 647 00:30:53,880 --> 00:30:56,000 Speaker 1: Just kept it kept going, and the same for you. 648 00:30:56,120 --> 00:30:59,080 Speaker 1: I just kept rolling in and you know what, we 649 00:30:59,080 --> 00:31:00,440 Speaker 1: would like it to be a change. 650 00:31:00,480 --> 00:31:03,240 Speaker 2: It's going to be five years and like we need 651 00:31:03,280 --> 00:31:03,800 Speaker 2: a moment. 652 00:31:04,080 --> 00:31:06,400 Speaker 1: You need a moment. We need a moment when is 653 00:31:06,400 --> 00:31:09,480 Speaker 1: our high going to happen? It better happens soon, and 654 00:31:09,560 --> 00:31:12,160 Speaker 1: it better happened like now, that's. 655 00:31:12,000 --> 00:31:13,680 Speaker 2: Why I was shrooming it up. 656 00:31:14,080 --> 00:31:19,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, well that's why get doctor's permission, So Carpy DM. 657 00:31:19,520 --> 00:31:21,600 Speaker 1: I wonder if we shroomed it up on the pod 658 00:31:22,160 --> 00:31:24,400 Speaker 1: if we would sound different. If you guys could test. 659 00:31:24,240 --> 00:31:29,240 Speaker 2: It, I think I would be just as clear, probably funnier, 660 00:31:30,400 --> 00:31:35,520 Speaker 2: probably a bit f funnier. Okay, Gina and Emily meet 661 00:31:35,600 --> 00:31:38,800 Speaker 2: Katie for coffee. On the way, Emily tells Gina there's 662 00:31:38,840 --> 00:31:42,920 Speaker 2: a chance Luke has autism and that sucks. Yeah, I 663 00:31:42,960 --> 00:31:43,480 Speaker 2: feel bad. 664 00:31:43,840 --> 00:31:48,000 Speaker 1: It was really hard. You can see that Emily's really struggling. 665 00:31:48,000 --> 00:31:51,200 Speaker 1: You can see that even when Emily's talking to Shane, 666 00:31:51,360 --> 00:31:53,120 Speaker 1: you can tell they don't even fully know how to 667 00:31:53,120 --> 00:31:57,680 Speaker 1: communicate on it because she's trying to protect herself as well, 668 00:31:57,760 --> 00:32:01,080 Speaker 1: of course, and then he's just being a dude's saying whatever. 669 00:32:00,760 --> 00:32:03,720 Speaker 2: Well, dudes, look, dudes are not the best in these situations, 670 00:32:03,760 --> 00:32:07,080 Speaker 2: no offense. But you know, in moms and their children, 671 00:32:07,120 --> 00:32:10,160 Speaker 2: it's a different dynamic, I think, And you know, I 672 00:32:10,160 --> 00:32:12,160 Speaker 2: feel badly for Emily and it sucks. 673 00:32:12,480 --> 00:32:15,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, and there's a lot going on. But then I 674 00:32:15,480 --> 00:32:19,200 Speaker 1: heard that Emily's really getting the crabbeat out of her 675 00:32:19,240 --> 00:32:22,320 Speaker 1: this episode for all the Katie stuff versus Katie getting it. 676 00:32:22,720 --> 00:32:27,440 Speaker 1: Why because people are mad at Emily for what she 677 00:32:27,560 --> 00:32:30,760 Speaker 1: did and not and here we go again. She didn't 678 00:32:30,760 --> 00:32:33,800 Speaker 1: fully take accountability for what she did, so people are 679 00:32:34,200 --> 00:32:37,760 Speaker 1: what she did at the reunion, what she did last season, okay, 680 00:32:37,880 --> 00:32:40,800 Speaker 1: And then how she's behaving this season when she's getting 681 00:32:40,840 --> 00:32:41,560 Speaker 1: so worked out. 682 00:32:41,600 --> 00:32:43,320 Speaker 2: That's okay, she's got a lot on her plate. She's 683 00:32:43,360 --> 00:32:44,560 Speaker 2: allowed to act that way. 684 00:32:44,720 --> 00:32:47,080 Speaker 1: She's giving what season was your hard season? 685 00:32:47,200 --> 00:32:49,880 Speaker 2: Oh god? Welln't even like she's nowhere nearro how I 686 00:32:49,920 --> 00:32:50,360 Speaker 2: was acting. 687 00:32:50,720 --> 00:32:53,160 Speaker 1: I don't know her. When she gets married, she gots 688 00:32:53,320 --> 00:32:58,640 Speaker 1: really marred. What about when she put the little food 689 00:32:58,800 --> 00:32:59,800 Speaker 1: in her. 690 00:33:01,320 --> 00:33:01,920 Speaker 2: Amazing? 691 00:33:02,200 --> 00:33:04,200 Speaker 1: I was like, what kind of doughnut was that it 692 00:33:04,240 --> 00:33:06,000 Speaker 1: would have I would have forgotten about it. 693 00:33:06,000 --> 00:33:08,960 Speaker 2: I've done that sometimes and brought something home and been 694 00:33:09,040 --> 00:33:12,600 Speaker 2: like chocolate candy for me, chocolate in my pocket, and. 695 00:33:12,560 --> 00:33:14,719 Speaker 1: Then it'll have melted and then it's all over all. 696 00:33:15,000 --> 00:33:17,120 Speaker 2: It gets washed like that too. 697 00:33:17,480 --> 00:33:21,240 Speaker 1: Yep, Katie's gonna host a hot pot lunch and then 698 00:33:21,640 --> 00:33:24,200 Speaker 1: Gina tells Katie it feels like she's trying to hurt 699 00:33:24,200 --> 00:33:26,760 Speaker 1: everyone in the group. Then they go through this whole 700 00:33:26,760 --> 00:33:31,120 Speaker 1: thing that Jen said something about Katie but she doesn't remember, saying. 701 00:33:32,520 --> 00:33:34,400 Speaker 2: Well, I don't remember it either. Remind me. 702 00:33:36,160 --> 00:33:41,360 Speaker 1: What did Jen's Oh, Jen, I guess called Katie. 703 00:33:41,480 --> 00:33:43,320 Speaker 2: Oh, and that she and then she says I didn't 704 00:33:43,320 --> 00:33:44,640 Speaker 2: but she did because. 705 00:33:44,400 --> 00:33:46,520 Speaker 1: She didn't even say she didn't. She said, I don't 706 00:33:46,600 --> 00:33:49,040 Speaker 1: remember doing it, which I don't think is denying. 707 00:33:49,240 --> 00:33:51,640 Speaker 2: It's not denying. No, it's not denying. But you know, 708 00:33:51,680 --> 00:33:54,680 Speaker 2: Bravo's good for that flashback, Honey, come to get. 709 00:33:54,560 --> 00:33:58,000 Speaker 1: You somehow someway we'll probably see. 710 00:33:58,840 --> 00:34:02,440 Speaker 2: Okay. So Shannon preps for her Golden Door event, and 711 00:34:02,520 --> 00:34:05,080 Speaker 2: Tarma said that she isn't friends with Shannon anymore. She 712 00:34:05,120 --> 00:34:06,520 Speaker 2: says that Shannon betrayed her. 713 00:34:06,640 --> 00:34:11,120 Speaker 1: How she's saying that Shannon betrayed her because when she 714 00:34:11,200 --> 00:34:15,120 Speaker 1: got booted off the show, Shannon ditched heir. 715 00:34:15,360 --> 00:34:16,479 Speaker 2: Yeah, but that was years ago. 716 00:34:16,719 --> 00:34:19,919 Speaker 1: No, but it was only that. It was last year, 717 00:34:20,000 --> 00:34:22,840 Speaker 1: was their first year being back together, and they fought 718 00:34:22,840 --> 00:34:23,359 Speaker 1: the whole time. 719 00:34:23,440 --> 00:34:26,319 Speaker 2: Yeah, because Tama called her drunk and she had hit 720 00:34:26,360 --> 00:34:27,759 Speaker 2: the house and it was a thing. 721 00:34:28,400 --> 00:34:30,520 Speaker 1: Did you know she got pulled over again, but not 722 00:34:30,560 --> 00:34:31,560 Speaker 1: for drinking. 723 00:34:31,320 --> 00:34:33,160 Speaker 2: Oh for speeding or something for like. 724 00:34:33,160 --> 00:34:35,240 Speaker 1: Texting and driving. But it broke the probation. 725 00:34:35,880 --> 00:34:37,720 Speaker 2: Oh does it put her probation in jeopardy? 726 00:34:37,880 --> 00:34:42,719 Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, allegedly, damn it. I saw that. I saw 727 00:34:42,760 --> 00:34:44,359 Speaker 1: that when I was perusing. 728 00:34:44,080 --> 00:34:48,160 Speaker 2: The Oh, come on, Shannon Boo. I know, rats, But. 729 00:34:48,160 --> 00:34:50,640 Speaker 1: Now we have talk text you know, but can you 730 00:34:50,680 --> 00:34:51,040 Speaker 1: do that? 731 00:34:51,200 --> 00:34:53,480 Speaker 2: I pulled over in the Gelson's parking lot to do 732 00:34:53,520 --> 00:34:55,080 Speaker 2: some texting before I pulled up here. 733 00:34:55,440 --> 00:34:57,560 Speaker 1: You know, you can always come early and text from them. 734 00:34:57,680 --> 00:34:58,239 Speaker 2: No, it's fine. 735 00:34:58,239 --> 00:35:00,359 Speaker 1: I I almost said the lobby as I from the lob. 736 00:35:00,560 --> 00:35:02,200 Speaker 2: It is a lobby in here. No, but I just 737 00:35:02,239 --> 00:35:05,400 Speaker 2: whipped into the parking lot and just like did some 738 00:35:05,440 --> 00:35:08,799 Speaker 2: emails and did some texts because I I don't want 739 00:35:08,800 --> 00:35:09,520 Speaker 2: to do that on the road. 740 00:35:09,800 --> 00:35:15,080 Speaker 1: Do you think that Shannon and Tamar are gonna make up? 741 00:35:15,440 --> 00:35:17,920 Speaker 2: They should because they have a long history and they 742 00:35:17,920 --> 00:35:20,359 Speaker 2: really should put both all of it behind them they 743 00:35:20,400 --> 00:35:23,680 Speaker 2: move on. Otherwise, it's just it's, you know, that beef 744 00:35:23,760 --> 00:35:25,920 Speaker 2: that festers and then you don't even know what you're 745 00:35:25,920 --> 00:35:28,920 Speaker 2: fighting about any longer, and you just don't like let 746 00:35:28,920 --> 00:35:29,200 Speaker 2: it go. 747 00:35:29,840 --> 00:35:32,840 Speaker 1: Well. Also, I need more than just the best friendship 748 00:35:32,920 --> 00:35:35,839 Speaker 1: of Gina and Emily. I need I need another friend 749 00:35:35,880 --> 00:35:38,120 Speaker 1: group because I gotta be really honest and this is 750 00:35:38,320 --> 00:35:42,319 Speaker 1: I think that Jen is, you know, likable, but the 751 00:35:42,400 --> 00:35:44,399 Speaker 1: Jen and Katie friendship isn't doing it for me. 752 00:35:45,640 --> 00:35:50,240 Speaker 2: No, I think that, Yeah, you need Shannon and Tamara 753 00:35:50,400 --> 00:35:53,240 Speaker 2: to be friends, you need more friends. Yeah, it feels 754 00:35:53,320 --> 00:35:56,120 Speaker 2: like there's a couple of little friendships happening. Who's Heather 755 00:35:56,200 --> 00:36:00,239 Speaker 2: friends with? She keeps it neutral, she keeps she. 756 00:36:00,120 --> 00:36:03,879 Speaker 1: Sitting neutral, She dabs where she can. But I think 757 00:36:03,920 --> 00:36:09,200 Speaker 1: her work is done mmm elsewhere? Okay, all right, you know, 758 00:36:09,320 --> 00:36:11,319 Speaker 1: I think and I got in trouble, she got mad 759 00:36:11,320 --> 00:36:13,120 Speaker 1: at me for saying this before, But I think she 760 00:36:13,280 --> 00:36:18,439 Speaker 1: is a very intelligent woman. She is, and I think 761 00:36:18,520 --> 00:36:22,000 Speaker 1: that she thinks three steps ahead, which is great, which 762 00:36:22,040 --> 00:36:25,600 Speaker 1: is great, great, great for her, great for her. But 763 00:36:25,640 --> 00:36:28,520 Speaker 1: I think, yeah, I think it shows. 764 00:36:28,320 --> 00:36:33,319 Speaker 2: I got you. Listen, live how you want to live, 765 00:36:33,360 --> 00:36:34,480 Speaker 2: be yourself. 766 00:36:34,719 --> 00:36:36,359 Speaker 1: And if that's who you are, it works for her. 767 00:36:36,600 --> 00:36:38,919 Speaker 2: Who cares like not everybody's going to be the same. 768 00:36:38,960 --> 00:36:40,479 Speaker 1: I remember I miss being that way. 769 00:36:40,719 --> 00:36:44,360 Speaker 2: I remember had Toed telling me she's like Erica, don't 770 00:36:44,400 --> 00:36:47,920 Speaker 2: try to be anything other than yourself because people like 771 00:36:48,360 --> 00:36:50,920 Speaker 2: certain things about certain women. They may identify with this 772 00:36:50,960 --> 00:36:53,040 Speaker 2: one and their family and this one over here with 773 00:36:53,080 --> 00:36:55,480 Speaker 2: their career or this one with whatever they do. So 774 00:36:55,560 --> 00:36:58,760 Speaker 2: don't you know, and you don't have to make yourself 775 00:36:58,760 --> 00:36:59,480 Speaker 2: into something. 776 00:37:00,120 --> 00:37:00,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, I agree. 777 00:37:01,080 --> 00:37:03,479 Speaker 2: I agree to be yourself. And tamer says she doesn't 778 00:37:03,520 --> 00:37:05,719 Speaker 2: want to talk to Jen, and Jen and Ryan have 779 00:37:05,760 --> 00:37:08,880 Speaker 2: been attacking her on social media, and Jen talks about 780 00:37:08,920 --> 00:37:12,280 Speaker 2: a Tamra's cease and desist. Guys, stop sending the legal 781 00:37:12,320 --> 00:37:13,560 Speaker 2: ship to waste job. 782 00:37:15,280 --> 00:37:18,960 Speaker 1: It's such a waste of money and then nothing happened. 783 00:37:18,600 --> 00:37:20,440 Speaker 2: And nothing happens. It's bullshit. 784 00:37:20,640 --> 00:37:21,240 Speaker 1: It's time. 785 00:37:21,360 --> 00:37:24,160 Speaker 2: It's quick the show or leave if you don't want it. 786 00:37:26,600 --> 00:37:28,879 Speaker 1: Because now there's multiple lawsuits going on. 787 00:37:29,040 --> 00:37:31,600 Speaker 2: Dick. I don't know, you know, like yeah, like it's 788 00:37:31,640 --> 00:37:34,319 Speaker 2: just a really just to waste a fucking time and 789 00:37:34,680 --> 00:37:35,879 Speaker 2: I'm tired of all of that. 790 00:37:36,440 --> 00:37:38,880 Speaker 1: But why Okay, And I know we already discussed this, 791 00:37:39,000 --> 00:37:44,040 Speaker 1: but it's kind of how it ends. But Katie is 792 00:37:44,040 --> 00:37:46,840 Speaker 1: is she playing games here when she's when she doesn't 793 00:37:46,840 --> 00:37:49,200 Speaker 1: even bother to reach for her phone? 794 00:37:50,280 --> 00:37:53,399 Speaker 2: Well, it felt to me that way. It felt that way. 795 00:37:53,400 --> 00:37:55,400 Speaker 2: It felt very convenient that there was no signal. It 796 00:37:55,400 --> 00:37:57,600 Speaker 2: felt very convenient that it was there was no answer, 797 00:37:57,640 --> 00:38:00,200 Speaker 2: It felt very convenient. I didn't like it. I mean, 798 00:38:00,239 --> 00:38:01,680 Speaker 2: it's great for the show. It leaves it on a 799 00:38:01,680 --> 00:38:03,840 Speaker 2: hook and then you can, you know, kind of wonder. 800 00:38:03,880 --> 00:38:06,399 Speaker 2: I mean, I'm not mad at that from a from 801 00:38:06,400 --> 00:38:09,359 Speaker 2: a story perspective watching the show, but at the same time, 802 00:38:09,400 --> 00:38:11,520 Speaker 2: if I was on the show and I would, I 803 00:38:11,560 --> 00:38:14,040 Speaker 2: would be like, no, here is my phone? 804 00:38:14,120 --> 00:38:15,800 Speaker 1: Like did you like this episode? 805 00:38:16,800 --> 00:38:18,440 Speaker 2: I didn't hate it. I thought it was nice. 806 00:38:18,600 --> 00:38:20,600 Speaker 1: Okay, So, I mean that was the first episode. But 807 00:38:20,640 --> 00:38:22,719 Speaker 1: we have to talk about what happened with me and 808 00:38:22,880 --> 00:38:27,280 Speaker 1: Erica the other day. What this was so funny? So 809 00:38:27,400 --> 00:38:29,960 Speaker 1: Kyle and I went to do a thing for Oh 810 00:38:30,000 --> 00:38:33,440 Speaker 1: my God, a magazine, a magazine shoot. So I'm fully glad. 811 00:38:33,440 --> 00:38:35,439 Speaker 1: But then I put on my Jammy's when I was done, 812 00:38:35,520 --> 00:38:37,880 Speaker 1: and I rode in the car with Kyle, and then 813 00:38:37,920 --> 00:38:40,040 Speaker 1: she was getting out to film and I see Erica 814 00:38:40,040 --> 00:38:41,480 Speaker 1: and I like, give her this big wave and you 815 00:38:41,480 --> 00:38:43,279 Speaker 1: can tell she's kind of looking at me funny, and 816 00:38:43,320 --> 00:38:45,600 Speaker 1: I'm like, she thinks I'm about to film. 817 00:38:45,680 --> 00:38:47,960 Speaker 2: Oh. I thought Teddy was showing up for work. I 818 00:38:48,000 --> 00:38:50,880 Speaker 2: was like, Teddy, are you coming today? Get out of 819 00:38:50,920 --> 00:38:54,959 Speaker 2: the car, Look, Darwed, it's Teddy. Guys, everybody, Teddy's here. 820 00:38:55,200 --> 00:38:57,279 Speaker 1: And then everybody's kind of looking at me and they're 821 00:38:57,320 --> 00:39:01,160 Speaker 1: all dulled up, and I am seriously, in jam have. 822 00:39:01,120 --> 00:39:03,839 Speaker 2: Your hair makeup on? You had changed your clothes, you 823 00:39:03,840 --> 00:39:05,960 Speaker 2: didn't have on your wig. But the bottom line is 824 00:39:06,280 --> 00:39:08,799 Speaker 2: you looked beautiful. And I thought she's gonna come to 825 00:39:08,880 --> 00:39:11,480 Speaker 2: this event that we were, you know, filming, and I 826 00:39:11,560 --> 00:39:13,879 Speaker 2: was so excited and You're like, I'm not coming in there. 827 00:39:14,480 --> 00:39:17,120 Speaker 2: I was like, what do you mean. I tried so hard, 828 00:39:17,120 --> 00:39:19,239 Speaker 2: It's like, please just for five minutes, come on. 829 00:39:19,800 --> 00:39:22,680 Speaker 1: But it's like I see that you have closed in 830 00:39:22,719 --> 00:39:23,440 Speaker 1: the back right. 831 00:39:23,480 --> 00:39:26,880 Speaker 2: We were trying so hard to get her to come, shoot, 832 00:39:27,080 --> 00:39:29,200 Speaker 2: we have closed in the back, get in these clothes. 833 00:39:29,440 --> 00:39:32,960 Speaker 1: I'm like, no, I'm just here because it's en route 834 00:39:32,960 --> 00:39:35,759 Speaker 1: to my house. I can't drive. Jen's in the back, right, Jens, 835 00:39:35,760 --> 00:39:35,880 Speaker 1: and that. 836 00:39:35,920 --> 00:39:37,839 Speaker 2: I didn't even see Jen in the back, by the way. 837 00:39:37,840 --> 00:39:39,200 Speaker 2: By the way, I saw Jen at the forum the 838 00:39:39,239 --> 00:39:41,840 Speaker 2: other night, but oh yeah she was there. She I 839 00:39:41,880 --> 00:39:45,239 Speaker 2: guess you see cashing, But I didn't see Jen in 840 00:39:45,280 --> 00:39:47,200 Speaker 2: the back. All I saught was get ready, Oh my god, 841 00:39:47,239 --> 00:39:50,760 Speaker 2: you're here. You're here, and put these clothes on. Everything's 842 00:39:50,760 --> 00:39:51,959 Speaker 2: going we see all of them. 843 00:39:52,120 --> 00:39:55,080 Speaker 1: No, but yeah, so that was that's how you know, 844 00:39:55,080 --> 00:39:56,360 Speaker 1: that's how rumors get started. 845 00:39:56,520 --> 00:40:00,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, but at you there, I was so excited. 846 00:40:00,680 --> 00:40:02,040 Speaker 1: I'm not even getting out of this car. 847 00:40:02,200 --> 00:40:05,360 Speaker 2: I was like, come on, come on, make it fun. 848 00:40:06,760 --> 00:40:09,600 Speaker 1: But thank you guys for tuning in for another episode 849 00:40:09,880 --> 00:40:11,759 Speaker 1: of Diamonds in the Rough. For those of you who 850 00:40:11,760 --> 00:40:15,960 Speaker 1: didn't know, once Real Housewives Orange County came out, we 851 00:40:16,080 --> 00:40:20,000 Speaker 1: are taking a pivot onto talking about Orange County instead 852 00:40:20,000 --> 00:40:22,000 Speaker 1: of ourselves. Yes, but we still will find way to 853 00:40:22,040 --> 00:40:24,160 Speaker 1: talk about ourselves eighty five percent of the time. 854 00:40:24,800 --> 00:40:27,080 Speaker 2: Well you know, it'll be mostly us and then those 855 00:40:27,120 --> 00:40:29,840 Speaker 2: broads for most see like you know, we're gonna pepper 856 00:40:29,880 --> 00:40:33,800 Speaker 2: it mostly with us, and then a dash of Katie, Gina, Tamra, 857 00:40:34,040 --> 00:40:39,200 Speaker 2: Shannon and Heather and Emily, Emily, I'm so sorry, Emily, 858 00:40:39,360 --> 00:40:42,560 Speaker 2: Chen and Jen. No shade, no shade. 859 00:40:42,560 --> 00:40:43,720 Speaker 1: We're just thinking about ourselves. 860 00:40:43,760 --> 00:40:45,960 Speaker 2: No shade. We're just thinking about ourselves. That's how it 861 00:40:46,000 --> 00:40:46,520 Speaker 2: goes down. 862 00:40:46,640 --> 00:40:49,640 Speaker 1: That's our tackline. That's we're not we're not after you. 863 00:40:49,719 --> 00:40:50,800 Speaker 1: We're just about ourselves. 864 00:40:51,040 --> 00:40:54,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, we're just about ourselves over here. Thanks for hanging 865 00:40:54,400 --> 00:40:54,719 Speaker 2: out with. 866 00:40:54,719 --> 00:40:56,560 Speaker 1: Us today and we'll talk to you next week. 867 00:40:56,680 --> 00:41:02,080 Speaker 2: Bye,