WEBVTT - Militant Daddy Feat. Derrick Grace II 0:00:00.240 --> 0:00:03.520 Once upon a time there was a good old traditional housewife. 0:00:03.720 --> 0:00:06.640 She cooked, she cleaned, cared for her children and the 0:00:06.640 --> 0:00:09.680 man of the house, and of course she didn't talk back. 0:00:09.840 --> 0:00:12.639 She was both obedient and soft by nature. She was 0:00:12.720 --> 0:00:15.640 a good woman who always made good choices. 0:00:16.680 --> 0:00:18.759 That we're good mom's bad choices. 0:00:18.840 --> 0:00:21.400 Who's single mom? Who said, but the patriarchy you shared 0:00:21.440 --> 0:00:22.680 all their bad choices. 0:00:22.360 --> 0:00:24.040 And found out they weren't so bad after all. 0:00:24.079 --> 0:00:26.600 We're experts. Overshairs and your new bestie. 0:00:26.760 --> 0:00:29.360 Sit back and near the ride. I can do a 0:00:29.480 --> 0:00:30.960 pat on my mom. 0:00:32.920 --> 0:00:35.720 Welcome back to good Mom's bad Choices. I'm Eric and 0:00:35.760 --> 0:00:36.280 I'm Nila. 0:00:36.520 --> 0:00:37.320 My nipples are hard. 0:00:38.280 --> 0:00:40.120 You asked for the air to be on, bitch, Now 0:00:40.159 --> 0:00:42.680 your nipples are hard. Now you're gonn announce it. 0:00:43.520 --> 0:00:45.760 I mean, for those that are listening, if you go 0:00:45.760 --> 0:00:47.960 to YouTube, you can see my hard nipples. I don't 0:00:47.960 --> 0:00:50.879 know you're nervous, no, but I'm actually really proud of 0:00:50.880 --> 0:00:52.720 the left one because this one doesn't get hard. So 0:00:52.800 --> 0:00:55.120 the fact that it's hard is this is important. 0:00:55.520 --> 0:00:57.400 If you just tune in a little bit longer, when 0:00:57.400 --> 0:00:59.400 it gets ten degrees less, mine will get me. 0:00:59.360 --> 0:01:03.360 Mary, I'm getting sensation back in this one three six 0:01:03.440 --> 0:01:04.000 years later. 0:01:04.240 --> 0:01:05.600 I know it only took. 0:01:05.480 --> 0:01:08.680 Seven years, but the doctor said it could take years. 0:01:08.720 --> 0:01:09.600 You've been working on it. 0:01:10.880 --> 0:01:16.160 A few men have been working on this tit. Your 0:01:16.240 --> 0:01:19.399 former have been trying to bring this titty back to 0:01:19.480 --> 0:01:22.520 life resuscitate. No, truly, like there's been guys that have 0:01:22.560 --> 0:01:25.240 been like determined to get the sensation back to this titch. 0:01:25.280 --> 0:01:27.160 Well you think you know everything about it, bitch. Yeah, 0:01:27.160 --> 0:01:28.800 I forgot to tell you that I had no idea. 0:01:29.200 --> 0:01:32.480 I feel I'm happy that the hard work paid off 0:01:32.600 --> 0:01:34.959 me too, gives me hope. 0:01:35.400 --> 0:01:35.920 How are you. 0:01:36.040 --> 0:01:37.000 I'm good. How are you? 0:01:37.280 --> 0:01:38.520 I'm good. I feel like I've been seeing you. I 0:01:38.560 --> 0:01:39.000 missed you. 0:01:40.120 --> 0:01:44.120 Hi, Hi, I know I feel like we have you know, 0:01:44.120 --> 0:01:45.759 we've been out of the office for some time. 0:01:45.959 --> 0:01:49.520 I know, I know. I'm excited to be back. And 0:01:50.000 --> 0:01:52.400 we have a special guest, you guys. And I'm really 0:01:52.400 --> 0:01:54.760 excited about this guest because we tried to get this guest. Like, 0:01:55.080 --> 0:01:58.160 was it two years ago? It was almost It was 0:01:58.200 --> 0:02:00.480 not last August, it was it was the last to May. 0:02:00.880 --> 0:02:02.680 Oh my god, it was a lot of shit happened 0:02:02.720 --> 0:02:07.240 that last year. Oh god, my brain blocked most flashed 0:02:07.280 --> 0:02:07.600 your out. 0:02:07.680 --> 0:02:11.400 I know, I know you did. Yeah, I've been steady 0:02:11.760 --> 0:02:15.160 stalking this guest over some years. I don't even know 0:02:15.200 --> 0:02:17.919 where I discovered him. But today we are very very 0:02:17.960 --> 0:02:21.840 happy after a year plus long of stalking, like good moms, 0:02:21.880 --> 0:02:29.120 do we finally have our friend, our Floridian entrepreneur, serial entrepreneur, 0:02:29.480 --> 0:02:35.560 father of many, father of many, biological and not biological, 0:02:37.320 --> 0:02:38.320 Derek Grace. 0:02:38.800 --> 0:02:43.800 I appreciate having Yes. I think May was when we met, 0:02:43.880 --> 0:02:46.440 but I think you did reach out a year prior 0:02:46.720 --> 0:02:49.840 in a DM. I just didn't see it until like 0:02:49.919 --> 0:02:52.400 almost a year later. Dan, it was in Miami. R. 0:02:52.720 --> 0:02:56.600 Yeah, I'm a fucking we're professional stalkers. You think we're playing. 0:02:56.639 --> 0:02:59.360 We'd be stalking people for years until we meet them, 0:02:59.360 --> 0:03:00.960 Like we see them in the club and I'm like, hey, 0:03:01.760 --> 0:03:02.520 check your DMS. 0:03:02.520 --> 0:03:02.840 It's me. 0:03:04.240 --> 0:03:06.320 Hey, you want to call on my show? I'm like, yeah, 0:03:06.400 --> 0:03:08.160 We've done that over like years and years. But you 0:03:08.200 --> 0:03:10.160 know what, being a little psycho on the DMS, it 0:03:10.160 --> 0:03:11.760 obviously works because here you are. 0:03:12.320 --> 0:03:13.960 Who's been the hardest to catch up to. 0:03:16.160 --> 0:03:21.720 I mean the people who still haven't come on the show, specifica, 0:03:21.880 --> 0:03:24.640 we're still waiting for you. Now we know Duran, so 0:03:24.639 --> 0:03:27.360 we're just gonna like get yeah, Duran, He's gonna be 0:03:27.360 --> 0:03:27.680 the link. 0:03:27.919 --> 0:03:29.360 Come on, Duran, please. 0:03:29.760 --> 0:03:32.400 He doesn't even know it yet. I know we're plotting on. 0:03:32.480 --> 0:03:39.040 We're grooming him, hypnotizing you will introduce us to Auntie 0:03:40.120 --> 0:03:40.640 Queen mother. 0:03:41.400 --> 0:03:41.600 Yeah. 0:03:41.720 --> 0:03:45.680 Last time in fucking Florida. We I feel so bad still. 0:03:45.720 --> 0:03:49.560 We had you drive down from Tampa like hours and 0:03:49.600 --> 0:03:53.400 then the fucking studio was like, sorry, we're booked double 0:03:54.160 --> 0:03:54.680 the hurricane. 0:03:54.800 --> 0:03:56.120 No, no, no. 0:03:55.760 --> 0:03:57.640 No, it was the studio fucked up and it was. 0:03:57.720 --> 0:04:00.440 It was Labor Day or Memorial weekend or something. 0:04:00.640 --> 0:04:02.160 Yeah, it was crazy, and I. 0:04:02.120 --> 0:04:03.080 Was like, well, do you want to at least go 0:04:03.080 --> 0:04:03.280 to bro? 0:04:04.640 --> 0:04:06.960 It was some crazy, but you were so gracious and 0:04:07.040 --> 0:04:10.000 so kind, and you were like, it's cool, let's go eat. 0:04:10.080 --> 0:04:11.640 I was like, wow, No, it was me. 0:04:11.720 --> 0:04:13.520 I was like, let's go eat. I was like, I've 0:04:13.560 --> 0:04:15.480 been waiting five years to meet this nigga. We're going 0:04:15.480 --> 0:04:17.680 to eat. Get dress bit wait. 0:04:17.720 --> 0:04:20.600 And then Jamila was just fangirling over here, and I 0:04:20.640 --> 0:04:22.560 was like, if you don't sit your little thirsty ass down. 0:04:22.680 --> 0:04:24.600 Orlando was sitting there like what the fuck is wrong 0:04:24.640 --> 0:04:26.040 with her, and I'm like, listen, I. 0:04:26.040 --> 0:04:27.920 Get your bitch. 0:04:26.800 --> 0:04:31.240 I preannounced to everyone. I don't give a fuck. I'll 0:04:31.320 --> 0:04:34.960 take my responsibility. I said, I have a crush on 0:04:34.960 --> 0:04:37.480 this nigga. I've been stalking him for five years. We're 0:04:37.520 --> 0:04:39.400 going to breakfast. I can't believe he drove down here 0:04:39.440 --> 0:04:41.480 and they fucked us like this at a studio. We're 0:04:41.480 --> 0:04:43.839 going to meet him right now. Put on your good ship. 0:04:44.040 --> 0:04:45.240 And I did, and we did. 0:04:45.279 --> 0:04:47.880 We look cute, we did. And tell me more, Derek, 0:04:48.160 --> 0:04:53.200 you like waffles. They did talk about me for about 0:04:53.200 --> 0:04:54.640 two weeks after that that, I was. 0:04:54.600 --> 0:04:56.599 We did me and Orlando. We're talking about Mila for 0:04:56.640 --> 0:05:01.040 a good two weeks. Yeah, and her thirstiness. But I 0:05:01.400 --> 0:05:03.240 just I believe in divine timing, and I believe you 0:05:03.279 --> 0:05:04.680 were just supposed to be here with us in our 0:05:04.720 --> 0:05:07.080 studio in La. We weren't supposed to pay those random 0:05:07.120 --> 0:05:09.640 people money to record you. We were supposed to, you know. 0:05:09.760 --> 0:05:11.400 Do it here or we can drink and smell and 0:05:11.440 --> 0:05:11.800 hang out. 0:05:12.120 --> 0:05:12.440 Amen. 0:05:14.160 --> 0:05:14.800 Do you like La? 0:05:16.120 --> 0:05:20.279 Uh No, not like that. The cost of living is 0:05:20.279 --> 0:05:22.719 crazy compared to what stuff costs us from Florida and 0:05:25.279 --> 0:05:27.360 uh oh yeah, And I can't bring my guns here, 0:05:27.360 --> 0:05:29.160 and I hate that anywhere I can't bring my guns. 0:05:29.240 --> 0:05:30.600 I can't you bring your guns here. 0:05:30.800 --> 0:05:33.640 They don't have reciprocity with Florida. So like if I 0:05:33.720 --> 0:05:37.279 travel as my security company, then that's different because you 0:05:37.360 --> 0:05:40.560 can loophole that by saying this is business. But if 0:05:40.600 --> 0:05:42.120 I'm just out here on Lesion and now I can't 0:05:42.120 --> 0:05:42.840 bring my guns. 0:05:43.400 --> 0:05:47.279 Yeah, LA has pretty strict carry carry laws, carry and 0:05:47.320 --> 0:05:49.560 conceal laws. It's like almost like why the fuck would 0:05:49.560 --> 0:05:51.640 I have a gun. I can't even have it on 0:05:51.760 --> 0:05:55.680 access if something happens randomly, like the like the the 0:05:55.720 --> 0:05:58.160 bullets and the guns have to be separated. I see 0:05:58.160 --> 0:06:00.200 the lock box like in the trunk or in the 0:06:00.200 --> 0:06:02.240 glove compartment, Like if I'm getting attacked, who the fuck 0:06:02.279 --> 0:06:10.599 has time? Okay, yeah you even think I have like 0:06:10.640 --> 0:06:12.159 a gun with all this knowledge. 0:06:11.839 --> 0:06:13.800 I'm going to the shooting range this weekend. I want 0:06:13.800 --> 0:06:15.680 to go, yeah everyone on Sunday. 0:06:16.040 --> 0:06:17.919 I have it in May and like I just I 0:06:18.000 --> 0:06:20.200 just really believe in my soul that I'm just going 0:06:20.279 --> 0:06:23.560 to pick up the gun and just be crazy with it. No, 0:06:23.640 --> 0:06:25.640 but I'm going to be a fucking ninjast. And they 0:06:25.680 --> 0:06:26.240 were like, oh, my. 0:06:26.200 --> 0:06:28.880 God looking at her. Just a natural, Yeah, a natural 0:06:28.920 --> 0:06:29.800 shoot seven. 0:06:29.839 --> 0:06:31.479 That's my dream. I think it's going to happen. 0:06:31.839 --> 0:06:36.640 I will, I have, I have, not even not knowing 0:06:36.640 --> 0:06:38.840 even how to say the word. I put the bullets 0:06:38.839 --> 0:06:42.720 in the gun loaded. I loaded the clip before because 0:06:42.720 --> 0:06:45.400 my baby daddy, he would go out of town and 0:06:45.400 --> 0:06:47.760 this nigga always thought people were after him, and so 0:06:47.839 --> 0:06:49.400 he would be like, Okay, I'm leaving, but like I 0:06:49.440 --> 0:06:51.200 want you to have a gun. I'm like, so you're 0:06:51.279 --> 0:06:53.320 leaving me with a gun, you're going out of town. 0:06:53.839 --> 0:06:55.839 How would you leave me with security? Because I don't 0:06:55.880 --> 0:06:57.480 know how to use the ship. So he would give 0:06:57.480 --> 0:06:59.760 me like a five minute tutorial of how to use 0:06:59.800 --> 0:07:01.760 the gun. I'm like, this is how people die, like 0:07:01.760 --> 0:07:06.400 they shoot themselves. And so I did load a few clips. 0:07:06.839 --> 0:07:09.160 I couldn't tell you how to do it now. I 0:07:09.240 --> 0:07:11.640 just prayed every time he left that like whoever he 0:07:11.680 --> 0:07:13.720 thought was after him wasn't going to come after me. 0:07:14.040 --> 0:07:16.240 After you loaded the clip, did one into the. 0:07:17.440 --> 0:07:19.160 Yes, he put the one there so that like he 0:07:19.160 --> 0:07:21.560 would be like, oh, you have to do is take 0:07:21.600 --> 0:07:23.880 the safety off and shoot. That's it. You don't have 0:07:23.880 --> 0:07:26.040 to know anything else. But just know, like you gotta 0:07:26.080 --> 0:07:29.280 hold it strong because it might go back. And then 0:07:29.280 --> 0:07:31.640 he so then he left me with because remember that time. 0:07:31.840 --> 0:07:33.680 So one time I did mushrooms by myself. It was 0:07:33.720 --> 0:07:35.240 the first time I ever did mushrooms on myself. At 0:07:35.240 --> 0:07:36.720 my house, I was about to have like a beautiful 0:07:36.800 --> 0:07:38.560 night drink wine, color and ship. 0:07:38.960 --> 0:07:39.760 Sheela came by. 0:07:39.880 --> 0:07:41.760 She was like, all right, bitch, have fun. I left. 0:07:42.600 --> 0:07:45.520 Some drunk guy tried to break into my house and 0:07:45.640 --> 0:07:48.720 at the high of my peak, the peak of my high, 0:07:48.800 --> 0:07:51.280 I mean, and I was like, oh my god, like 0:07:51.360 --> 0:07:54.040 I'm fucking high. I don't have any weapons, Like I 0:07:54.040 --> 0:07:55.760 don't know how to I can't use this gun. 0:07:56.240 --> 0:07:58.840 Like what did you think he was hallucinating that first? 0:07:59.240 --> 0:08:01.880 I really thought I it was hallucinating. I did because 0:08:01.880 --> 0:08:03.920 I had music really loud. And then I heard someone 0:08:04.040 --> 0:08:06.720 screaming outside and I was like, I'm tripping, and I 0:08:06.760 --> 0:08:08.720 lowered it and I was like, am I tripping? And 0:08:08.760 --> 0:08:11.320 then he just started getting closer and closer to the door, 0:08:11.360 --> 0:08:13.200 and then he started banging on my door. It was 0:08:13.240 --> 0:08:13.920 like twelve o'clock. 0:08:13.960 --> 0:08:15.280 And then she called me and I was like, bitch, 0:08:15.280 --> 0:08:16.880 I'm already about forty five minutes. 0:08:17.720 --> 0:08:20.080 I was like, bitch, gun to do? 0:08:20.880 --> 0:08:22.680 She just sat on the backyard. I was like, no, bitch, 0:08:22.680 --> 0:08:23.640 She's just stay in the house. 0:08:25.320 --> 0:08:28.080 Yes, And in that moment I realized I'm not prepared 0:08:28.120 --> 0:08:30.160 for shit and so actually I didn't have a gun 0:08:30.200 --> 0:08:31.920 at the time. Then he left me because we had 0:08:31.920 --> 0:08:34.120 already broken up. Then he left me with the gun, 0:08:34.200 --> 0:08:35.520 and then he got mad at me one day and 0:08:35.640 --> 0:08:36.720 was like I'm kind of back and they got mac 0:08:36.760 --> 0:08:38.559 a gun. I'm like, your daughter still lives here, and 0:08:38.559 --> 0:08:40.600 to be like, what the fuck? So basically I have 0:08:40.640 --> 0:08:43.560 no weapons in the house for now. Don't get you 0:08:43.559 --> 0:08:45.079 know what, by the time this episode comes out, I 0:08:45.120 --> 0:08:46.440 will have weapons. So don't you even think. 0:08:46.679 --> 0:08:49.439 Are you like handy with the hands, door knives or anything? 0:08:50.320 --> 0:08:52.600 I mean, are you handy with it? I can make 0:08:52.640 --> 0:08:55.040 it do if it has to do, you know, I think. 0:08:55.120 --> 0:08:57.160 But when I was on mushrooms, I felt helpless. I 0:08:57.240 --> 0:09:01.120 felt like I didn't called me. I was scared. I 0:09:01.160 --> 0:09:04.000 was like, could I can I stab someone? Didn't? I 0:09:04.040 --> 0:09:08.079 got it in me like it was, oh thank you. 0:09:09.240 --> 0:09:12.120 That was years ago, and I told myself that I 0:09:12.200 --> 0:09:15.080 was going to take control of my safety. And I 0:09:15.120 --> 0:09:17.679 still haven't, so this weekend. 0:09:17.360 --> 0:09:19.880 Is I'm just fucking your phone not off. I'm sorry, 0:09:20.160 --> 0:09:20.760 your own show. 0:09:20.960 --> 0:09:22.440 Sorry, sorry, I'm so popular. 0:09:22.480 --> 0:09:23.240 You know what type of guns? 0:09:24.040 --> 0:09:26.920 I have no idea, but this is what made me 0:09:26.960 --> 0:09:29.160 when I first saw you attracted to you. I'm like, 0:09:29.640 --> 0:09:31.240 I don't know if anybody knows this. This is very 0:09:31.240 --> 0:09:34.280 important information. Come closer, Come closer. Let me tell you. 0:09:34.480 --> 0:09:39.400 Come closer, Come closer. I am a militant black. I 0:09:39.440 --> 0:09:44.160 am like, my name is Asada. I like, I feel 0:09:44.200 --> 0:09:46.280 heavily about knowing how to protect myself, but I don't 0:09:46.320 --> 0:09:51.040 know how to yet. I feel very interested in guns, 0:09:51.040 --> 0:09:53.240 but I don't have one yet. But I feel like 0:09:53.280 --> 0:09:54.280 it's important because. 0:09:54.080 --> 0:09:56.120 But she thinks she's a professional, She's for sure going 0:09:56.200 --> 0:09:58.160 to be a pro even she doesn't have one yet. 0:09:58.200 --> 0:10:00.800 Theoretically, in my head, I was just like, fuck the man. 0:10:01.679 --> 0:10:03.640 You know, I must have to know how to bear 0:10:03.760 --> 0:10:06.360 arms and like protect my people, especially as a single mom. 0:10:06.400 --> 0:10:08.440 So what I pulled when I first started following you 0:10:08.480 --> 0:10:11.080 like years ago, and I saw your little girl like 0:10:11.360 --> 0:10:15.440 blindfolded loading the clip, I was like, yeah, this is 0:10:15.480 --> 0:10:18.120 my kind of family. And I immediately was like, I 0:10:18.120 --> 0:10:20.120 gotta teach loadter, but first I got to learn, but 0:10:20.160 --> 0:10:22.000 I haven't. It's been five years since then and I 0:10:22.000 --> 0:10:24.120 haven't quite tapped in. So this is why I was like, 0:10:24.160 --> 0:10:26.120 I'm gonna be friends so that I could get there. 0:10:26.120 --> 0:10:28.560 I can level up because I feel like I realized 0:10:28.600 --> 0:10:31.319 as a single mom once, like when you're in the 0:10:31.320 --> 0:10:33.320 world living by yourself, you're like, ah, but then you 0:10:33.320 --> 0:10:36.160 get a kid and you're like, oh shit, if something happens, 0:10:36.200 --> 0:10:38.199 do I have the fucking tools? And a lot of 0:10:38.320 --> 0:10:40.240 us don't have the tools because we're relying on police, 0:10:40.280 --> 0:10:42.400 and we see what police do. They shoot you if 0:10:42.400 --> 0:10:44.240 you call them. You know what I'm saying, And it's like, 0:10:44.280 --> 0:10:46.520 I don't want to put my safety or my child's 0:10:46.640 --> 0:10:49.000 life in the hands of some niggas I don't know, 0:10:49.360 --> 0:10:51.200 and even in my own I don't fucking know what 0:10:51.240 --> 0:10:53.800 to do. And I'm like, this is something that moms 0:10:53.800 --> 0:10:56.640 and women, especially like single moms, this is something that 0:10:56.679 --> 0:10:59.800 we should be more in tune with because ab you know, 0:10:59.840 --> 0:11:03.120 I'm America is fucking shisty and who knows what the 0:11:03.160 --> 0:11:05.559 fun's gonna happen next, and we're not safe. And secondly, 0:11:05.640 --> 0:11:07.400 you could just be at home chilling and you never 0:11:07.480 --> 0:11:09.520 know and like or in the car, but I want 0:11:09.520 --> 0:11:11.440 to know. I wanted to you to know. If I 0:11:11.440 --> 0:11:13.720 come at this little ninety eight pound bitch, it's a 0:11:13.760 --> 0:11:16.880 wrap for me. I want everybody in the streets to know. 0:11:17.480 --> 0:11:20.439 But I'm like, is there because you trained your kids 0:11:20.440 --> 0:11:22.720 that way? Even she was pretty young in that video. 0:11:24.360 --> 0:11:27.440 I started him at three and six, So Derek was six, 0:11:27.520 --> 0:11:28.439 Derek was three. 0:11:28.559 --> 0:11:30.800 And now they probably have no fear because they know 0:11:30.920 --> 0:11:33.680 like the importance and like how deadly it can be 0:11:33.800 --> 0:11:35.840 and how violent it can be, and they take it 0:11:35.880 --> 0:11:39.280 probably super seriously. Luna and I are behind it. 0:11:39.440 --> 0:11:44.120 And so, okay, you're stressing me out. How what what 0:11:44.200 --> 0:11:45.960 was your path to that? Like, did you grow up 0:11:46.000 --> 0:11:49.800 with your did your dad or your whoever teach you 0:11:49.920 --> 0:11:51.600 or arm you with this kind of. 0:11:51.960 --> 0:11:54.280 So my dad is retired circret service, but he was 0:11:54.280 --> 0:11:56.400 in the hands on with his guns, but he left 0:11:56.440 --> 0:12:00.960 him around and gave us like the basics. But it 0:12:01.040 --> 0:12:03.080 started with him because I was raised around guns. So 0:12:03.120 --> 0:12:06.520 that's a part of my tradition, I would say for 0:12:06.600 --> 0:12:09.640 my family. And then also I shot somebody in front 0:12:09.679 --> 0:12:12.080 of Dereka when she was three, so I just felt 0:12:12.280 --> 0:12:15.400 compelled to like overly teach her about guns and the 0:12:15.480 --> 0:12:17.120 dangers and x y Z and that led to the 0:12:17.200 --> 0:12:18.160 videos that people saw. 0:12:18.480 --> 0:12:19.360 Did they survive? 0:12:19.920 --> 0:12:20.160 Yeah? 0:12:20.520 --> 0:12:24.120 Okay, how old was she in not having three? Okay, 0:12:24.280 --> 0:12:25.480 she obviously remembers that. 0:12:25.600 --> 0:12:28.160 Yeah, she was pretty don't remember fully, but she remembers. 0:12:28.760 --> 0:12:31.320 So because your dad was in the secret Secret Service, 0:12:31.360 --> 0:12:34.400 did that somehow also influence you now as to why 0:12:34.480 --> 0:12:39.240 you are just really an advocate and just so outspoken 0:12:39.600 --> 0:12:43.640 about just America and just all of the shit, all 0:12:43.679 --> 0:12:46.520 the blind, blindfolds they put on us when it comes 0:12:46.559 --> 0:12:48.800 to just news and information and everything. 0:12:49.000 --> 0:12:50.559 He did help with that. But one of the main 0:12:50.600 --> 0:12:53.760 things was I was a nomin one dispatcher, so oh yeah, 0:12:53.800 --> 0:12:57.880 I got the hands on fuckery within those systems. So 0:12:57.920 --> 0:12:59.520 I got to see a lot of stuff for myself 0:13:00.040 --> 0:13:01.720 that I didn't know was real or really. 0:13:02.040 --> 0:13:03.680 What was the wildest shit that you, as a nine 0:13:03.679 --> 0:13:05.760 one dispatcher experienced. 0:13:06.200 --> 0:13:08.320 On the job. It was a lady that was looking 0:13:08.320 --> 0:13:11.400 for her son one day and she couldn't find him, 0:13:11.400 --> 0:13:13.520 and she was just like she calling on one panicking 0:13:13.559 --> 0:13:15.760 and going through the house and he was hanging in 0:13:15.800 --> 0:13:19.760 the closet. So I had to like those type of calls. 0:13:19.800 --> 0:13:21.360 You got to chill on the phone with those people 0:13:21.440 --> 0:13:25.920 to police make contacts. So that one was a little weird. 0:13:26.080 --> 0:13:28.280 Her boyfriend killed him when she was at work. 0:13:28.760 --> 0:13:29.520 By hanging him. 0:13:29.720 --> 0:13:33.520 Yeah, oh how old was this her son? 0:13:34.800 --> 0:13:38.640 And that's the shit I'm talking about. MdeR no hesitation. 0:13:38.840 --> 0:13:41.360 I'll be waiting for you when you get here, Popo, Like. 0:13:41.400 --> 0:13:44.360 I yeah, that was the craziest one, Like that's wild. 0:13:45.120 --> 0:13:47.640 Other crazy ones would be like suicide calls because with 0:13:47.720 --> 0:13:50.600 those people you have to talk to them again until 0:13:50.600 --> 0:13:54.960 the Definity made contacts. So I've had people that wouldn't 0:13:55.040 --> 0:13:57.040 lock the door so the Definity can't make contact. So 0:13:57.080 --> 0:13:58.800 I just got to make small talk with somebody for 0:13:58.840 --> 0:14:00.520 like two hours hours. 0:14:00.600 --> 0:14:03.120 So this is someone who wants wants to commit suicide, 0:14:03.120 --> 0:14:04.400 but I. 0:14:04.360 --> 0:14:06.280 Want to kill myself. And then I got to be. 0:14:06.280 --> 0:14:08.960 Like that, brokay what should be today? 0:14:09.360 --> 0:14:11.560 It was like that, like they literally say like they're 0:14:11.679 --> 0:14:13.280 just say whatever you got to say, don't let them 0:14:13.320 --> 0:14:16.720 hang up this small talk. I'm just like, yeah, so 0:14:17.280 --> 0:14:21.400 what you like to watch? And they like about killing myself? 0:14:21.400 --> 0:14:22.680 You want to talk to me about what I want 0:14:22.720 --> 0:14:23.600 to watch on YouTube? 0:14:23.640 --> 0:14:27.440 But why did being a nine one one dispatcher, I 0:14:27.440 --> 0:14:30.560 guess give you this idea that I guess, no one's 0:14:30.560 --> 0:14:31.360 really coming to save you. 0:14:31.440 --> 0:14:33.520 Probably they're taking two hours to fucking get there. 0:14:33.760 --> 0:14:38.120 Well, no me me watching uh from the inside, how 0:14:38.440 --> 0:14:40.680 like how much they really care or like how much 0:14:40.720 --> 0:14:42.160 of it is a job, which I respect, it is 0:14:42.200 --> 0:14:43.840 a job. They want to get home to their families too. 0:14:44.400 --> 0:14:48.360 But that really opened my eyes to uh, yeah, me knowing, like, 0:14:48.400 --> 0:14:50.120 ain't nobody really coming to save you? Like this is 0:14:50.120 --> 0:14:51.320 a job at the end of the day. They want 0:14:51.360 --> 0:14:53.960 to get home just like everybody else. And a lot 0:14:54.000 --> 0:14:56.920 of this job is just based off monetary gain. It's 0:14:56.960 --> 0:14:59.840 not really we all genuinely care about the safety of 0:14:59.840 --> 0:15:02.240 the people in one child to live peaceful, happy lives. 0:15:02.600 --> 0:15:05.040 It's all about the money. So when I peeped that 0:15:05.120 --> 0:15:07.720 part too, it definitely made me want to go educate 0:15:07.720 --> 0:15:09.120 people on what they really dealing with. 0:15:10.040 --> 0:15:12.640 Was that your last like clocking job that you had, Yeah. 0:15:12.600 --> 0:15:14.200 Twenty two, I'm thirty five now, but that was my 0:15:14.280 --> 0:15:15.520 last job thirteen years ago. 0:15:15.560 --> 0:15:17.800 And after that you started making curriculum or what was 0:15:17.800 --> 0:15:18.200 your path? 0:15:18.520 --> 0:15:20.920 No, I had a retail business. I used to sell shoes, 0:15:20.960 --> 0:15:24.440 and clothes. So I started a brand back then and 0:15:25.520 --> 0:15:29.520 I did that for four years and then my second 0:15:29.560 --> 0:15:32.840 book ended up going number one on Amazon, and I 0:15:32.880 --> 0:15:35.040 was just like, all right, I'm not I'm done well. 0:15:35.040 --> 0:15:39.520 I transitioned from retail, but last job was Black Friday 0:15:39.520 --> 0:15:41.840 of twenty twenty one, dispatching. 0:15:42.760 --> 0:15:44.720 And that that was the day you put you were done. 0:15:44.760 --> 0:15:46.880 After the no, I actually got suspended. I didn't quit, 0:15:47.400 --> 0:15:49.760 which I'm grateful for them because I might still be working. 0:15:49.760 --> 0:15:52.760 But they suspended me in definitely for like two and 0:15:52.800 --> 0:15:54.800 a half months, and then they fired me. And after that, 0:15:54.800 --> 0:15:56.800 I was like, I'm never working for nobody. 0:15:57.000 --> 0:15:58.280 That too much. You said, fuck that. 0:15:59.000 --> 0:16:01.400 Yeah, the suspend somebody and definitely, like you don't fire them. 0:16:01.480 --> 0:16:03.320 So they just chilled till you called him one day. 0:16:03.760 --> 0:16:06.520 I was calling every week like what's up. Oh, we're 0:16:06.560 --> 0:16:08.480 still investigating me, and they just called me one day 0:16:08.520 --> 0:16:10.040 like it was all good, and they fired me. 0:16:10.880 --> 0:16:12.200 I've heard a lot of stories like that. 0:16:12.520 --> 0:16:15.640 Wow, I have a question about You're originally from Florida, right, 0:16:16.080 --> 0:16:18.520 so tell me about your childhood because I'm so interested 0:16:18.560 --> 0:16:23.520 in like how baby Derek Grace came to be this this, 0:16:24.040 --> 0:16:30.120 you know, I would say the master entrepreneur man who 0:16:30.520 --> 0:16:35.040 is just really about taking control over his destiny, showing 0:16:35.080 --> 0:16:38.760 your children that you know, you homeschool your children, you birth, 0:16:38.840 --> 0:16:41.920 you catch your babies. I mean, we're gonna get into 0:16:41.960 --> 0:16:44.440 all of that, but I'm just so curious about your upbringing. 0:16:44.920 --> 0:16:48.040 Okay, my upbringing was I had a blast. I had 0:16:48.080 --> 0:16:51.400 really good but I have really good parents. It wasn't together. 0:16:51.440 --> 0:16:53.880 They got divorced that I was one when they got divorced. 0:16:53.880 --> 0:16:55.880 Do you have siblings, Yeah, I got nothing but brothers, 0:16:55.920 --> 0:16:59.640 three brothers. Okay, so yeah, they got divorced when I 0:16:59.720 --> 0:17:03.440 was one. I live with my mom up until twelve 0:17:03.520 --> 0:17:05.200 or thirteen. Then I went to live with my dad 0:17:05.240 --> 0:17:11.120 because I almost getting on my nurse. Yeah, my mom 0:17:11.200 --> 0:17:13.600 is a school teacher. Well she's I retire her back 0:17:13.640 --> 0:17:15.679 when I was twenty seven. She still she teaches my 0:17:15.720 --> 0:17:18.480 children now primarily that's it, but other than that, she 0:17:18.600 --> 0:17:21.600 was a school teacher. My pastors retired Creckert Service, and 0:17:22.920 --> 0:17:26.560 she basically taught me. She gave me my confidence the 0:17:26.600 --> 0:17:29.359 way I articulate. She gave me like all the education. 0:17:29.520 --> 0:17:32.160 She was big on education. And then my dad gave 0:17:32.200 --> 0:17:35.000 me like the business side of things and ownership and 0:17:35.080 --> 0:17:41.399 control and stuff and just having power. And yeah, I 0:17:41.520 --> 0:17:44.679 say for the most part that was like the dichotomy 0:17:44.680 --> 0:17:46.879 how it split up between mom and dad. I had 0:17:46.880 --> 0:17:48.840 an older brother that was super close with it, but 0:17:49.000 --> 0:17:51.879 he he got sentenced to fifteen years as she get 0:17:51.920 --> 0:17:55.280 out April seventh coming up, so he'll be home in 0:17:55.400 --> 0:17:57.320 less than a year. And then I got two younger brothers. 0:17:57.400 --> 0:18:01.479 Oh wow, yeah, that's wild. So when you were growing up, 0:18:01.600 --> 0:18:05.200 were your parents or like, did you see your dad? 0:18:05.240 --> 0:18:08.240 Because I know that you know you practice your polyamorous 0:18:09.160 --> 0:18:11.280 is that what you would consider what you do just 0:18:11.400 --> 0:18:16.680 be I was wondering if that was something that made 0:18:16.760 --> 0:18:18.439 that was was do you think that was inspired by 0:18:18.440 --> 0:18:20.040 anything in your in your childhood? 0:18:20.200 --> 0:18:26.240 Yep, absolutely So one key thing I tell people like 0:18:26.359 --> 0:18:28.720 I was and am I saying this for a bad reason, 0:18:28.800 --> 0:18:31.720 but I was like raised and steered by a man 0:18:32.760 --> 0:18:36.800 who partner had infidelity issues and they went through a divorce. 0:18:37.280 --> 0:18:40.520 The woman was in my mom, Oh your mom was 0:18:41.280 --> 0:18:41.760 be cheating. 0:18:42.160 --> 0:18:45.159 Yeah, some have some happened between them that was on 0:18:45.240 --> 0:18:49.959 the infidelity side their divorce. So hell yeah. A lot 0:18:50.040 --> 0:18:51.920 of how I deal with people and a lot of 0:18:52.040 --> 0:18:55.720 how I'm able to discard the situations with a smile 0:18:55.800 --> 0:18:58.159 and not trips, because especially because of my daddy, he 0:18:58.240 --> 0:18:59.920 like really taught us out of sight, out of mind, 0:19:00.640 --> 0:19:04.399 and then I've seen him with you know, countless beautiful women, 0:19:05.000 --> 0:19:07.200 and my mom that had you know, her fair share 0:19:07.200 --> 0:19:10.159 of people that she dated as well. So it definitely 0:19:10.480 --> 0:19:13.600 dictates how I function now, especially with having a variety. 0:19:13.680 --> 0:19:15.320 That's what I saw, That's what I was raised around. 0:19:15.840 --> 0:19:19.600 And you just gotta think, like my dad is what 0:19:19.840 --> 0:19:24.720 twenty five twenty four when it's take place, and he 0:19:24.920 --> 0:19:28.320 raising boys, So those conversations wasn't like was just like 0:19:28.680 --> 0:19:29.479 fuck these bitches? 0:19:29.680 --> 0:19:30.200 Yeah, exactly? 0:19:30.880 --> 0:19:31.639 Do you think serious? 0:19:31.840 --> 0:19:35.320 How you practice your relationship style as a maybe like 0:19:35.680 --> 0:19:38.560 because of it's fear based, because of that, like him 0:19:38.600 --> 0:19:39.080 telling you that. 0:19:39.119 --> 0:19:42.080 As like a child, fears like having more than one woman. 0:19:41.960 --> 0:19:45.760 Like just in order to avoid any infidelity, just be open. 0:19:46.359 --> 0:19:48.400 Oh no, I don't care about the infidelity stuff. Nah 0:19:48.840 --> 0:19:51.560 oh nine chrippering on that. Okay, everybody gonna do what 0:19:51.600 --> 0:19:53.720 they want to do. I'm not even wasting my time 0:19:53.840 --> 0:19:55.560 having those type of conversations like you're gonna do what 0:19:55.640 --> 0:19:56.600 you want to do as and why. 0:19:57.080 --> 0:19:58.760 So my other question is is I know you have 0:19:59.080 --> 0:20:00.640 how many you of ten kids? 0:20:01.240 --> 0:20:04.520 Your congratulations because you just you have a son? Right? 0:20:05.000 --> 0:20:07.800 It was the last girl, the one I called two 0:20:07.840 --> 0:20:09.720 three ago, and now your dynasty is complete. 0:20:10.280 --> 0:20:11.159 Her name is dynasty. 0:20:11.240 --> 0:20:13.040 Ye oh wow? But you didn't remember you told you 0:20:13.119 --> 0:20:15.960 wanted to have one white baby. What breakfast? 0:20:16.960 --> 0:20:17.760 I don't recall that. 0:20:18.240 --> 0:20:20.959 I do want to integrate into a biracial family at 0:20:21.040 --> 0:20:23.440 some point and learn. I want the game. 0:20:24.040 --> 0:20:24.800 Look, I know what. 0:20:25.480 --> 0:20:26.920 I know what being in the right room could do 0:20:27.000 --> 0:20:29.240 for you. I've seen it with myself, my daddy, my 0:20:29.320 --> 0:20:32.159 great granddaddy, he was law enforcement as well. So I 0:20:32.240 --> 0:20:34.840 want to integrate like that. So if it's any what what? 0:20:35.080 --> 0:20:37.680 What are you trying to integrate it? But I don't 0:20:37.760 --> 0:20:38.000 get it. 0:20:38.119 --> 0:20:39.240 I needed cheat codes? 0:20:39.760 --> 0:20:42.760 So you anyway, you want a white passing child so 0:20:42.920 --> 0:20:45.400 that they keep going, they can go with. They are 0:20:45.400 --> 0:20:45.679 gonna be. 0:20:45.640 --> 0:20:47.960 Able to access places that we normally can't. We all 0:20:48.000 --> 0:20:51.240 got locks and domit down to my children, some of 0:20:51.280 --> 0:20:52.320 them got locks and domity. 0:20:52.440 --> 0:20:53.840 You don't think we have a white baby. That baby 0:20:53.880 --> 0:20:55.520 gonna have locks and diming teeth, right, but we. 0:20:55.560 --> 0:20:58.439 Could baby gonna look like me. You think I got them, 0:20:58.480 --> 0:21:00.080 You think you think I can pass, and that's to 0:21:00.119 --> 0:21:04.119 get the chee coats. Probably what Damn, I'm fucked up. 0:21:04.280 --> 0:21:09.760 You did, I'm not. I'm failing my people ship. How 0:21:09.760 --> 0:21:11.359 do you feel about white women? Have you ever slept 0:21:11.400 --> 0:21:12.120 with white women? 0:21:12.160 --> 0:21:15.879 I've only experienced physically one white woman. I would like 0:21:15.960 --> 0:21:17.000 to experience. 0:21:16.640 --> 0:21:18.760 More, but so emotionally you've experienced white women? 0:21:19.119 --> 0:21:21.199 No, we just had s okay, Oh no. 0:21:21.600 --> 0:21:23.840 Well you said only physically, so I thought maybe there 0:21:23.920 --> 0:21:25.000 was some other aspect to this. 0:21:26.080 --> 0:21:29.399 No, I've I've I do not even want to say dated. 0:21:29.840 --> 0:21:32.960 What is your what is your white woman type? Derek Grace, 0:21:33.040 --> 0:21:35.919 that's a good What is your white woman type? Your 0:21:35.960 --> 0:21:42.480 white woman? Not your regular people want to know, Derek. 0:21:42.960 --> 0:21:45.040 They've been waiting for this, my white woman type. 0:21:49.960 --> 0:21:52.800 Blond? I love blonde hair. She was blonde, that would 0:21:52.800 --> 0:21:56.680 be nice. And she got like a nice tan because 0:21:56.720 --> 0:21:59.840 I do like it's like death that like some color, you. 0:21:59.840 --> 0:22:00.800 Know, and be too pasty. 0:22:00.960 --> 0:22:03.200 Yeah, Na, she's gonna need to be as white as hell. 0:22:03.200 --> 0:22:06.000 If she's gonna be white, she's gonna infiltrate the system. 0:22:06.119 --> 0:22:07.480 You might need to go as pasty as. 0:22:07.400 --> 0:22:09.679 You might not even be her, like she might got 0:22:09.720 --> 0:22:12.720 an uncle or pops who can do certain things. It's 0:22:12.760 --> 0:22:15.160 just like, I just I really have seen the benefits 0:22:15.200 --> 0:22:17.120 of being able to make that white phone call when 0:22:17.640 --> 0:22:19.040 you know, when things get too real. 0:22:19.480 --> 0:22:23.760 But you're having a baby for the white phone call. Listen, George, 0:22:23.840 --> 0:22:24.560 call your dad. 0:22:25.880 --> 0:22:26.240 For real. 0:22:28.040 --> 0:22:31.399 Curvy am matter if she like the teter thick curvy 0:22:31.480 --> 0:22:33.320 I know the one. I kicked it it one time. 0:22:33.400 --> 0:22:35.159 She was super thick, she had got work done. Her 0:22:35.200 --> 0:22:39.480 body was crazy. But yeah, as long as she curry. 0:22:39.600 --> 0:22:42.439 I like skin, hair and teeth. So if those intact were. 0:22:42.320 --> 0:22:46.240 Good, like you like bodies, bodies done, and you prefer 0:22:46.359 --> 0:22:47.600 naturally you have a preference. 0:22:47.760 --> 0:22:49.639 I like them both. But if I had to choose, 0:22:50.320 --> 0:22:53.400 it'd be natural. But I like, I've enjoyed both. 0:22:54.520 --> 0:22:57.879 You guys heard it here. First the pro black Derek 0:22:57.920 --> 0:22:59.840 too Grace wants a white woman. 0:23:01.240 --> 0:23:05.920 Blonde little I have one that pulled up on me 0:23:06.000 --> 0:23:07.440 not too long ago from Slovakia. 0:23:07.560 --> 0:23:10.320 She in New York. She's from Slovakia, and I'm like, really, 0:23:10.800 --> 0:23:12.040 I do want to learn her culture. 0:23:12.200 --> 0:23:15.119 I see with the Slovakian like hardcore pitch with the 0:23:15.240 --> 0:23:15.720 machine gun. 0:23:15.880 --> 0:23:17.600 Yeah, she had. She sent me like pictures of what 0:23:17.680 --> 0:23:20.400 they cooked one day, and like people from other cultures 0:23:20.440 --> 0:23:21.520 that do interesting, they're. 0:23:21.320 --> 0:23:26.240 Food be nasty. I'm sorry for the ones that the 0:23:26.240 --> 0:23:29.960 Slovakians listening, Honey, I went to Slovakia, I did, yes, 0:23:30.119 --> 0:23:31.760 and what did you say? The food was nasty? Like 0:23:32.200 --> 0:23:38.480 perogis what are those things called unseasoned potatoes? And ship 0:23:38.640 --> 0:23:41.840 It's very unseasoned over there, lots of French fries. 0:23:42.000 --> 0:23:44.080 I've had this theory that I feel like would be 0:23:44.160 --> 0:23:46.920 really effective. I just haven't found a time. But I 0:23:47.000 --> 0:23:48.760 think if I took a year to date a woman 0:23:48.880 --> 0:23:52.400 from each state, like had a representative, I think that'll 0:23:52.480 --> 0:23:54.520 make me like way more dangerous and diverse because I 0:23:54.560 --> 0:23:57.080 do find a lot of benefit and intertwining with people 0:23:57.119 --> 0:23:57.920 from other cultures. 0:23:58.680 --> 0:24:00.960 So you're saying from each state or just from across 0:24:01.320 --> 0:24:02.080 the globe. 0:24:02.119 --> 0:24:04.600 No, each state, Like if I had like a California 0:24:04.640 --> 0:24:07.479 representative of New York. But of course women who are 0:24:07.480 --> 0:24:09.359 grounded in their culture so they could actually teach me 0:24:09.440 --> 0:24:11.359 some I mean I can get some ass anywhere, but 0:24:11.480 --> 0:24:13.840 like actually teach me like, oh, this is how we 0:24:14.000 --> 0:24:16.560 eat or this what we do. In terms of education, 0:24:16.720 --> 0:24:17.320 blah blah blah. 0:24:17.920 --> 0:24:19.600 Is that like a part of your goal right now, 0:24:19.680 --> 0:24:23.200 even with like constructing your family dynamic with like multiple 0:24:23.280 --> 0:24:26.200 women and children, is it that they each provide something 0:24:26.280 --> 0:24:29.919 different and so like all together it's everything you need, right. 0:24:29.920 --> 0:24:32.360 Cause I feel like like the world is run by families. 0:24:32.560 --> 0:24:36.640 So I feel like people be they be selling themselves 0:24:36.680 --> 0:24:38.440 short thinking like they just gonna take on the world 0:24:38.680 --> 0:24:41.280 solo and just rule and figure it all out. So 0:24:41.400 --> 0:24:43.400 I do believe in like role playing and everybody playing 0:24:43.440 --> 0:24:47.520 the intricate role so the overall mission and look is completed. 0:24:47.640 --> 0:24:51.440 But yeah, like even my theory different, but people be 0:24:51.560 --> 0:24:55.400 like hung up on the same parent household. I feel 0:24:55.440 --> 0:24:57.399 like you need multiple Like if you look at the 0:24:57.480 --> 0:24:59.639 statistics and the patterns, we diyeing not the same way 0:24:59.680 --> 0:25:04.000 generation the generation. So clearly having a mom and just 0:25:04.080 --> 0:25:06.000 a dad, I'm not gonna say that's not enough, but 0:25:06.080 --> 0:25:06.960 more can be done. 0:25:08.440 --> 0:25:08.640 More. 0:25:08.880 --> 0:25:11.159 Yeah, it's way more effective, It's way more helpful. Like 0:25:11.800 --> 0:25:13.639 if you got somebody with a million dollar idea and 0:25:13.720 --> 0:25:16.560 seven people in the same roof that can move collectively, 0:25:16.640 --> 0:25:18.560 like that's gonna get you further and faster than one 0:25:18.600 --> 0:25:20.560 person trying to figure it out the next fifteen years. 0:25:21.080 --> 0:25:23.000 Are most of your children in the household with you? 0:25:23.160 --> 0:25:24.399 Or how many live in the house with you? 0:25:24.800 --> 0:25:27.199 Yeah, most of them. Seven out of the ten are 0:25:27.240 --> 0:25:29.440 with me. No, eight out of ten are with me, 0:25:29.600 --> 0:25:30.359 twenty four to seven. 0:25:30.520 --> 0:25:35.960 The women too, the women like, am. 0:25:35.920 --> 0:25:36.640 I around their moms? 0:25:37.359 --> 0:25:39.240 How many moms are there of the tential five moms 0:25:39.280 --> 0:25:41.320 to ten children, and how many the five live with you? 0:25:42.840 --> 0:25:45.399 Eight around me? Twenty four seven? Other two are out 0:25:45.440 --> 0:25:45.760 of state. 0:25:46.080 --> 0:25:48.520 Okay, but the moms they live in the neighborhood. 0:25:48.520 --> 0:25:48.880 Are they living? 0:25:48.960 --> 0:25:52.560 Oh yeah, no, my my, the one I just had 0:25:52.600 --> 0:25:54.560 a baby with, she like ten minutes from me. We're 0:25:54.560 --> 0:25:57.000 in the same proxis everybody within like ten fifteen minutes 0:25:57.000 --> 0:25:57.399 at each other. 0:25:57.720 --> 0:25:59.800 So you are basically in the household. 0:26:00.040 --> 0:26:02.280 And she's mom to five of them. So she got 0:26:02.359 --> 0:26:04.800 half the whole square, half the tribe. Yeah, and she 0:26:04.960 --> 0:26:06.800 take and the other ones like she's been taken care 0:26:06.840 --> 0:26:08.280 of us and say it was little kids too, or 0:26:08.320 --> 0:26:09.160 she step in whenever. 0:26:09.280 --> 0:26:12.760 So yeah, what would you say? Well, I have two questions. 0:26:12.960 --> 0:26:14.920 Maybe I'll start with this one just because and you know, 0:26:15.240 --> 0:26:18.399 we've been seeing this interview go around with Cam Newton 0:26:18.760 --> 0:26:21.240 and of course they can in and Doctor Brian interviewing 0:26:21.800 --> 0:26:24.520 and you know, reading these men to filth about just 0:26:24.600 --> 0:26:27.600 their choices and how it's impossible for a father to 0:26:27.640 --> 0:26:30.240 really show up for his multiple children, especially if they're 0:26:30.240 --> 0:26:32.400 not living in the same house. Whereas for you, that's 0:26:32.400 --> 0:26:34.720 a little bit different. Do you agree with that? Do 0:26:34.720 --> 0:26:37.000 you agree with that that notion? And is that the 0:26:37.040 --> 0:26:39.359 reason why? Well, I mean, it can be done. It's 0:26:39.400 --> 0:26:42.200 done every day, like it's done every day, Like niggas 0:26:42.240 --> 0:26:44.000 are having babies all over the globe and you know, 0:26:44.640 --> 0:26:46.399 you know, seeing them here and there when they can. 0:26:47.040 --> 0:26:51.240 But I'm just curious for you in your personal experience, 0:26:51.840 --> 0:26:54.520 even with I'm sure you have friends that have, you know, 0:26:55.040 --> 0:26:58.320 children and they don't practice polyamory or and they don't 0:26:58.320 --> 0:27:00.200 have all their children living in the house. Do you 0:27:00.359 --> 0:27:05.680 think that it's possible for your children to have the 0:27:05.800 --> 0:27:08.840 most enriching experience with their parents if they're not living 0:27:08.960 --> 0:27:09.840 in the household with you. 0:27:11.920 --> 0:27:13.840 Yeah, I think it is possible. I think you just 0:27:13.880 --> 0:27:16.720 got to be intentional about the time spent. So like 0:27:17.560 --> 0:27:19.680 it's somebody that's gonna watch this interview that's a full 0:27:19.760 --> 0:27:22.800 time mom, But if she really unpacked or dad. But 0:27:22.840 --> 0:27:25.200 if they really unpacked, their hour spent it's maybe like 0:27:25.240 --> 0:27:27.639 an hour, hour and a half. The other six was 0:27:27.680 --> 0:27:31.200 the iPad, seven was sleep. The other seven was sending 0:27:31.240 --> 0:27:33.680 them to somebody to get educated, blah blah blah. So 0:27:33.760 --> 0:27:37.840 I feel like if it's consistent and with intent, then yeah, 0:27:38.000 --> 0:27:42.040 Cause like Derek and Dereka are like for me, that's 0:27:42.160 --> 0:27:46.760 my greatest example. I wasn't with them every day when 0:27:46.800 --> 0:27:49.240 I was teaching them the things that like shocked the 0:27:49.280 --> 0:27:51.119 world and wow the world. It's just when I did 0:27:51.200 --> 0:27:54.200 spend time, it was intentional, like we're doing thirty minute 0:27:54.240 --> 0:27:56.119 drids on these guns. Then I'm finna teach you out 0:27:56.119 --> 0:28:02.240 how to be voisterous and be confident, articulate. This Saturday, 0:28:02.240 --> 0:28:04.159 we're taking his lemonade standoff and to teach out how 0:28:04.200 --> 0:28:05.840 to get money, how to market, how to get on 0:28:05.920 --> 0:28:08.880 the camera, do x y Z. So I think it's possible, 0:28:08.960 --> 0:28:13.000 but I think it's a It is a real lifelong commitment. 0:28:13.240 --> 0:28:16.280 It's a real no days off type of life to 0:28:16.359 --> 0:28:17.000 be yeah to not. 0:28:17.440 --> 0:28:20.080 I was watching I was listening to Van's podcast the 0:28:20.160 --> 0:28:21.600 other day and he was talking about when he saw 0:28:21.640 --> 0:28:23.240 this clip where he was talking about how there's a 0:28:23.240 --> 0:28:27.439 difference between being there and just showing up, and let 0:28:27.480 --> 0:28:29.560 a lot of you know, a lot of parents. I'm 0:28:29.600 --> 0:28:31.560 not going to generalize his fathers, but I would say 0:28:31.600 --> 0:28:36.440 mostly it's fathers think that they're doing they're doing being 0:28:36.520 --> 0:28:38.360 intentional because they show up, they show up to the 0:28:38.360 --> 0:28:41.120 soccer games, they show up to the birthday parties. But like, 0:28:41.240 --> 0:28:43.880 being there is different because you know when you're when, 0:28:44.000 --> 0:28:46.840 you know when your child's energy has shifted, because you're 0:28:46.880 --> 0:28:48.720 in that house all the time, so you notice the 0:28:48.760 --> 0:28:52.600 little nuances about them, whereas a parent that just showing 0:28:52.680 --> 0:28:53.840 up may not really see that. 0:28:54.120 --> 0:28:56.200 No, I agree. I had this conversation. I like to 0:28:56.400 --> 0:28:58.680 see one of the mons of my children, but like 0:28:58.840 --> 0:29:01.880 little boys need to see a man's manners, like how 0:29:01.920 --> 0:29:04.000 he walked through the house, how he tuk his pistol, 0:29:04.640 --> 0:29:06.800 how he engages with other men, when he shake hands, 0:29:06.840 --> 0:29:09.920 chin up, chest style, firm handshake, eye contact. So no, 0:29:09.960 --> 0:29:13.200 I agree, just kicking it with him is very important 0:29:13.200 --> 0:29:15.440 because it's just daily day stuff they got to learn 0:29:15.480 --> 0:29:16.760 when they navigate in the jungle. 0:29:19.240 --> 0:29:23.800 And then my other question was, wait, was I training 0:29:23.880 --> 0:29:26.640 of thought even smoked yet? Damn and I was like, waiting, 0:29:28.800 --> 0:29:29.560 have I smart enough? 0:29:29.680 --> 0:29:30.760 M setting up smart things? 0:29:31.200 --> 0:29:33.880 I think y'all don't y'all don't spark it during it. 0:29:34.040 --> 0:29:35.440 No, we're going to, but I just have to make 0:29:35.480 --> 0:29:37.640 sure my my my train of thought is clear. And 0:29:37.760 --> 0:29:42.160 then I'm like, Okay, I'm smart. I think that's true, 0:29:42.200 --> 0:29:45.480 though I think a lot of I think this even 0:29:45.720 --> 0:29:47.920 obviously we're all winging it in some space. 0:29:48.680 --> 0:29:49.320 Us know what we're doing. 0:29:49.400 --> 0:29:50.520 Do know what the fuck we're doing? You know you 0:29:50.600 --> 0:29:52.440 never had ten kids before? That does happened two weeks? 0:29:53.680 --> 0:29:55.160 You know what I'm saying. And it's like even for us, 0:29:55.240 --> 0:29:57.120 like we're trying our best, we see what didn't work. 0:29:57.160 --> 0:29:59.640 We're trying to integrate these new like this new like 0:29:59.760 --> 0:30:03.120 pairs ing styles. But shit, sometimes I snap out, just 0:30:03.200 --> 0:30:04.680 like my mom did, because that's the only reason the 0:30:04.720 --> 0:30:06.720 way I know how to communicate. But I feel like 0:30:07.000 --> 0:30:09.440 I was watching something and she was like a teacher 0:30:09.520 --> 0:30:11.800 and she was like, you know a lot of parents 0:30:12.040 --> 0:30:14.200 assume that your kid knows shit. She's like, I was like, 0:30:14.440 --> 0:30:16.880 we were talking about irony and like the nigga didn't 0:30:16.880 --> 0:30:20.239 even know to like plug it in first turn it on. Kid. 0:30:20.400 --> 0:30:22.480 Sorry, I'm like grown. 0:30:24.400 --> 0:30:26.480 But that's the problem. A kid that doesn't know how 0:30:26.520 --> 0:30:28.760 to do it, is not taught, becomes a man that 0:30:28.840 --> 0:30:30.440 doesn't know how to do it because you assumed your 0:30:30.480 --> 0:30:33.120 kid knows the basic of plugging the shit in. It's 0:30:33.200 --> 0:30:35.560 just like wiping an ass, wiping a ball, Like you 0:30:35.680 --> 0:30:39.280 have to be extremely like intentional and teaching. You can't 0:30:39.360 --> 0:30:41.880 assume that they know because it's literally like a daily 0:30:42.000 --> 0:30:44.360 task of like watch how I move, watch what I do, 0:30:44.480 --> 0:30:46.800 and like even now, you see kids walk into rooms 0:30:46.840 --> 0:30:49.080 on their iPads. They can't fucking interact. They can't look 0:30:49.080 --> 0:30:50.840 at you in the face. They're afraid to ask questions 0:30:50.880 --> 0:30:52.959 and shit, like little nigga, you're about to be a man, 0:30:53.000 --> 0:30:55.000 and you can't even fucking make a phone call. Like 0:30:55.120 --> 0:30:55.760 that's crazy. 0:30:55.880 --> 0:30:58.520 But that's one of the main reasons not go hard. 0:30:58.600 --> 0:31:00.960 But like I go hard the way I do on 0:31:01.040 --> 0:31:05.440 my children, because technology in life is ever evolving and 0:31:05.520 --> 0:31:07.520 it's moving way faster than it used to, and like 0:31:07.800 --> 0:31:09.880 you could miss a year and just have to play 0:31:10.040 --> 0:31:11.920 catch up for the next ten years. So I'm big 0:31:12.000 --> 0:31:14.280 on that because people don't know, like it's a lot 0:31:14.360 --> 0:31:17.240 of it's little kids out here, Like I was just 0:31:17.280 --> 0:31:19.320 having this conversation with my daughter's like, y'all got to 0:31:19.360 --> 0:31:21.680 do ten push ups today and they're like why, And 0:31:21.760 --> 0:31:24.800 I'm like, cause it's grown men at it snatch children 0:31:25.000 --> 0:31:27.880 and them little he we blows y'all throw and gonna 0:31:27.880 --> 0:31:30.080 make somebody laugh at y'all. Y'all gotta really know, like 0:31:31.200 --> 0:31:33.200 my daddy taught me ain't for the balls, and this 0:31:33.320 --> 0:31:35.680 man gonna remember I ain't for them balls. But we 0:31:35.760 --> 0:31:38.840 really dealing with children, like strength training is just not important, 0:31:39.080 --> 0:31:40.600 Like they know how to lift the iPad, but tell 0:31:40.600 --> 0:31:42.920 them lift they body weight and they're like, oh no, 0:31:43.280 --> 0:31:44.760 I just got on my daughter's asked about it a 0:31:44.800 --> 0:31:47.040 couple days ago, Like nah, everybody get up. I want 0:31:47.080 --> 0:31:48.000 my push ups right now. 0:31:48.880 --> 0:31:49.360 It's true. 0:31:49.360 --> 0:31:51.320 Ivery thinking if shit hits the fan, Like how far 0:31:51.440 --> 0:31:53.120 can I run with my daughter on my back? 0:31:53.280 --> 0:31:55.440 What is the day Now I'm thinking about it, I 0:31:55.480 --> 0:31:57.040 need to know the day in the life of Derek Grace, 0:31:57.200 --> 0:31:58.640 Like what is the day in the life of you 0:31:58.840 --> 0:32:01.600 being a dad? Like is there a curriculum that's followed 0:32:01.880 --> 0:32:03.680 or like what's the vibe? 0:32:03.760 --> 0:32:05.600 It used to be that, but since I when I 0:32:05.640 --> 0:32:09.040 retire mam at twenty seven, she takes over the educational aspect. Okay, 0:32:09.560 --> 0:32:11.960 I focus on not necessarily just the fun stuf. 0:32:12.000 --> 0:32:13.200 They gotta wake up at a certain time. 0:32:13.840 --> 0:32:15.840 Yeah, y'all wake up everech they get up every day. 0:32:16.840 --> 0:32:20.080 They learned from ten thirty to six thirty. Not full on. 0:32:20.160 --> 0:32:22.400 My mom, get them all type of breaks, do all 0:32:22.440 --> 0:32:24.640 type of stuff with them. But then they come back 0:32:24.680 --> 0:32:27.080 to me and I teach them more so about real life. 0:32:27.600 --> 0:32:29.760 So like, I'm gonna make sure y'all you know, for 0:32:29.880 --> 0:32:31.400 lack of better terms, you know how to kill somebody. 0:32:31.480 --> 0:32:33.480 Y'all know how to articulate. Y'all know how to negotiate, 0:32:33.520 --> 0:32:36.320 handle business, load a gun, check the doors, how to 0:32:36.360 --> 0:32:38.840 sweep the house, how to check an Airbnb properly if 0:32:38.960 --> 0:32:40.360 your daddy not there, stuff like that. 0:32:40.920 --> 0:32:42.600 I need to I need to know how to check 0:32:42.640 --> 0:32:44.520 an airbb bitch. Ever, since I went to the spy shop, 0:32:44.600 --> 0:32:46.680 my mind is fucked up. Not the spy shop, the 0:32:46.760 --> 0:32:51.280 spy shop like Airbnb's beware. There's this Oh they're creepy 0:32:51.720 --> 0:32:53.360 because at the spy shop there was like it was 0:32:53.400 --> 0:32:55.360 like a JBL speaker and there was like a camera 0:32:55.440 --> 0:32:56.280 in it. It was crazy. 0:32:57.240 --> 0:33:01.080 Wow, I haven't checked any of my airbing definitely foating 0:33:01.080 --> 0:33:03.120 around me, but not day in their life. 0:33:03.200 --> 0:33:05.200 Is I'm really simple? I'm easy going. 0:33:05.280 --> 0:33:07.080 So who's cooking for all these kids? 0:33:07.960 --> 0:33:08.240 Moms? 0:33:09.120 --> 0:33:11.080 One of the women in my life will made cook. 0:33:11.680 --> 0:33:12.800 How many girlfriends do you have? 0:33:15.520 --> 0:33:18.640 How many girls? Uh? 0:33:22.120 --> 0:33:25.000 He looks like, I don't know, you have a fiance? 0:33:27.120 --> 0:33:28.080 Do you only have one fiance? 0:33:28.840 --> 0:33:29.440 Yeah? Just one? 0:33:29.600 --> 0:33:35.080 Why are you smile at me like that? You got 0:33:35.120 --> 0:33:35.640 one on the way? 0:33:35.800 --> 0:33:40.040 Like girlfriend, baby mom? It's it's different levels. 0:33:40.880 --> 0:33:43.520 So are you sleeping with all your baby wamas still 0:33:43.680 --> 0:33:46.760 or is it okay? So then there's like boundaries around that, right, 0:33:47.400 --> 0:33:49.240 And then you have girlfriends. 0:33:49.520 --> 0:33:52.680 Then I have some baby moms who like we still 0:33:52.720 --> 0:33:54.680 have a relationship, we could pro create tomorrow. 0:33:54.960 --> 0:33:59.920 So it's like a friend baby mm hmmm, Like are 0:34:00.200 --> 0:34:02.640 or is that baby by I'm having like relations with 0:34:02.720 --> 0:34:05.160 another man. She's a intimate relationship with somebody else as well. 0:34:05.960 --> 0:34:08.600 No, but that's her choice though, It's not like me 0:34:08.719 --> 0:34:10.279 and her sat out and I was like, yeah, well, 0:34:10.280 --> 0:34:11.920 I'm gonna have all the women in the world and 0:34:12.040 --> 0:34:12.719 you stay home. 0:34:12.840 --> 0:34:14.920 I don't know, because that time at breakfast, I remember 0:34:14.960 --> 0:34:20.640 you saying something about boy Whatlet me remember you were saying. 0:34:22.320 --> 0:34:24.640 You said, yeah, but they have to be better than me, 0:34:24.680 --> 0:34:26.239 and you're not gonna find a new better me. 0:34:26.800 --> 0:34:30.040 No, no, no, listen, everybody free to do what they want. 0:34:30.400 --> 0:34:32.279 Are you gonna dump them after they do what they want? 0:34:33.239 --> 0:34:37.560 No? No, I don't know how to unlove people just 0:34:37.600 --> 0:34:39.800 because they disappoint me. So I don't really work like that. 0:34:39.920 --> 0:34:42.840 Like even if you disappoint me, there still is like 0:34:44.640 --> 0:34:46.800 some wiggle room to spend the block because I just 0:34:46.920 --> 0:34:49.720 don't Yeah, I don't just cut people off and unloved 0:34:49.719 --> 0:34:52.000 them because they did something crazy that I don't agree with. 0:34:53.080 --> 0:34:56.959 But girlfriends and all that. Uh, that's hard to answer 0:34:56.960 --> 0:34:58.120 because I don't really do titles. 0:34:59.400 --> 0:35:00.319 So everybody's equal. 0:35:01.360 --> 0:35:03.319 No, okay, So this had of system where you got 0:35:03.400 --> 0:35:07.640 level ones. Those are women who just come over. Uh 0:35:07.960 --> 0:35:10.200 they get this, you know, have a good time, They 0:35:10.239 --> 0:35:12.719 get the deck. Yeah, they get the dick. That's really it. 0:35:12.840 --> 0:35:15.279 Then I get back to work, and then there is there. 0:35:15.160 --> 0:35:19.719 Any emotional relationship conversation or is it just a sexual relationship? 0:35:19.760 --> 0:35:21.840 If they're level one, isn't no emotions. 0:35:21.880 --> 0:35:23.919 It's just like they don't even get like, they don't 0:35:23.920 --> 0:35:25.759 even get checking and like what's up, how you doing? 0:35:25.920 --> 0:35:26.359 How you feel? 0:35:26.440 --> 0:35:26.520 Now? 0:35:26.560 --> 0:35:27.640 It's just you know everyone. 0:35:27.760 --> 0:35:30.040 Yeah, I'll check everyone. Kay, No, for sure, I don't 0:35:30.160 --> 0:35:32.719 just discard of them. But if your level one is 0:35:32.800 --> 0:35:34.839 just more so physical, like we like each other, it's 0:35:34.880 --> 0:35:36.399 physical attraction. We're gonna have sex. 0:35:36.680 --> 0:35:38.480 And do your children meet level ones? 0:35:39.120 --> 0:35:42.920 No, my children really don't meet anybody. They rarely meet anybody. 0:35:43.520 --> 0:35:48.399 They probably met for women my whole career. I don't 0:35:48.400 --> 0:35:50.160 really let them meet too. Now my oldest too, they 0:35:50.239 --> 0:35:54.279 meet everybody. They how old are they? Thirteen and sixteen? Okay, 0:35:54.520 --> 0:35:57.000 they haven't been to my birthday party, so they know, 0:35:57.160 --> 0:36:00.239 like Dad have fun, has a lot of fun with 0:36:00.280 --> 0:36:01.960 all my children, so they know I have plenty of fun. 0:36:02.200 --> 0:36:04.000 And they just keep having siblings so they know I'm 0:36:04.040 --> 0:36:07.960 having plenty of fun. But level one is just like sex, 0:36:08.080 --> 0:36:12.080 that's fun. They come over, they may spend the night, 0:36:12.120 --> 0:36:13.920 they may not, but by the following morning, like they 0:36:13.960 --> 0:36:15.759 definitely need to be gone. That's not like a real 0:36:15.840 --> 0:36:19.200 hangout thing. That's just us having an experience. We're going 0:36:19.239 --> 0:36:22.200 to enjoy one another than they leave after that. It 0:36:22.360 --> 0:36:24.840 does not the actual urn, but it does go to 0:36:24.920 --> 0:36:29.680 girlfriend where like we have consistent communication, they meet other people, 0:36:31.200 --> 0:36:33.640 I might be in public with them, because. 0:36:33.440 --> 0:36:36.279 Everybody started level one and then they gradually move up to. 0:36:36.360 --> 0:36:39.200 The levels unless I just see them and I just 0:36:39.360 --> 0:36:41.919 want them for something more than the level one. But yeah, 0:36:42.400 --> 0:36:44.399 which I have running to women that caught my eye 0:36:44.480 --> 0:36:48.239 like that strongly that I was like, don't want to 0:36:48.280 --> 0:36:49.880 just have sex and you to leave. I want you 0:36:49.960 --> 0:36:50.520 to come stay. 0:36:52.400 --> 0:36:55.000 And then so level two is there's no level two. 0:36:55.040 --> 0:36:57.800 It's no great area. So you either you either just 0:36:58.040 --> 0:37:01.920 popping it or you like Bay and I'm finna hit 0:37:02.000 --> 0:37:03.960 your phone every day and be like what you're doing 0:37:04.000 --> 0:37:05.320 where you're at when you come to see me? 0:37:05.600 --> 0:37:06.560 M okay? 0:37:06.960 --> 0:37:10.080 It tricky. 0:37:10.680 --> 0:37:13.960 So I have an a home woman about the yeah, okay, 0:37:14.360 --> 0:37:16.200 one in home, just one in home. 0:37:17.080 --> 0:37:20.960 And then I have other lives outside of my own. 0:37:21.840 --> 0:37:24.000 And then I have a baby mama that I keep it, 0:37:24.200 --> 0:37:25.800 I love dearly that I keep having children. 0:37:26.160 --> 0:37:29.200 And then how transparent are you with you know your fiance? 0:37:29.280 --> 0:37:30.759 I mean, obviously she knows who you are, but like, 0:37:31.200 --> 0:37:34.160 are you like, is she asking you questions when you 0:37:34.239 --> 0:37:37.080 come back? Is there like a no question policy? 0:37:37.520 --> 0:37:40.239 Is it just so it's very but she really asks 0:37:40.320 --> 0:37:41.719 questions when I come back because I don't go to 0:37:41.760 --> 0:37:43.880 people houses. I mean everybody come to meet It's like 0:37:43.920 --> 0:37:46.200 I got security, I got a certain sex house. 0:37:46.719 --> 0:37:48.480 No, because you want a lot of properties. I'm just 0:37:48.480 --> 0:37:51.840 wonder if there's one house that's designated for the meet up. Definitely, 0:37:51.880 --> 0:37:53.919 because I would have if I were Unikka, i would 0:37:53.960 --> 0:37:57.080 have a sex sensin house. Then i'd have the kid house. 0:37:57.200 --> 0:37:59.399 Then I'd have like the party house, and then I'd 0:37:59.440 --> 0:38:01.719 have like this to we take meetings houses. No, I 0:38:01.880 --> 0:38:03.120 like this is the retreat house. 0:38:03.400 --> 0:38:06.080 I like controlled chaos. So it's easier when people on 0:38:06.239 --> 0:38:09.279 my turf because I got more security company, so my 0:38:09.360 --> 0:38:11.799 people are there, we knowing you can't come in here 0:38:11.840 --> 0:38:16.839 with guns IDs. NDA's everything done, so me traveling out 0:38:17.000 --> 0:38:21.239 is just a liability security wise. So I said, I 0:38:21.320 --> 0:38:22.879 had to say, she don't have to like really ask 0:38:22.960 --> 0:38:24.759 what I did when I got back, because she was 0:38:24.800 --> 0:38:25.279 gonna be there. 0:38:25.600 --> 0:38:27.439 So you bring the bitches there and she just goes 0:38:27.480 --> 0:38:31.560 in the other room sometimes that she participate. Oh okay, 0:38:31.640 --> 0:38:32.319 so she's fun. 0:38:32.600 --> 0:38:33.920 Yeah, she's with the ships. 0:38:34.800 --> 0:38:38.880 Why most part some days she ain't with the ships? 0:38:41.840 --> 0:38:42.600 Are people after you? 0:38:43.719 --> 0:38:45.400 I don't know, but if they are, ain't gonna make 0:38:45.400 --> 0:38:45.960 it easy for them. 0:38:46.000 --> 0:38:47.480 I was just wondering because you said it's like a 0:38:47.560 --> 0:38:49.719 liability for you to be out and about, and I 0:38:49.800 --> 0:38:52.320 know Breakfast you had your security, and I'm just curious, like, 0:38:52.760 --> 0:38:55.120 do you fear for your safety at times just because 0:38:55.120 --> 0:38:57.759 of how I'll open and honest you are, and have 0:38:57.880 --> 0:39:02.359 you had like actual concerns that led you to feel 0:39:02.400 --> 0:39:02.840 like you need that. 0:39:04.000 --> 0:39:05.719 No, No, I don't worry about the security because of 0:39:05.760 --> 0:39:08.920 how open I am. I just in my city, like 0:39:09.080 --> 0:39:10.880 there's not a lot of people who are winning on 0:39:10.960 --> 0:39:13.719 a high level. So if you move around, then you like, 0:39:13.880 --> 0:39:16.239 you know, you the big fish and you known for 0:39:17.520 --> 0:39:19.800 that's like the gifting the curse that's being known for guns. 0:39:19.920 --> 0:39:23.839 Nobody's gonna come to you with a razor blade. They're 0:39:23.880 --> 0:39:26.040 gonna come with a damn wazooka because they just seen 0:39:26.120 --> 0:39:29.120 you with a grenade launch on the internet. So yeah, 0:39:29.239 --> 0:39:31.680 it's just easier and a better peace of mind to 0:39:32.320 --> 0:39:33.959 make sure somebody around me at all times. 0:39:34.320 --> 0:39:39.920 Interesting. Interesting, So I know we just bounced around and 0:39:40.000 --> 0:39:40.960 I've never finished the day. 0:39:41.000 --> 0:39:41.960 The day in the life of there. 0:39:44.200 --> 0:39:46.399 She's like, I mean to know then in life, I'm 0:39:46.400 --> 0:39:49.440 gonna get up. It depends on what season I'm in, 0:39:49.560 --> 0:39:54.760 but I'll get up like between four and six. Lately 0:39:54.840 --> 0:39:56.759 I haven't though I've been sleeping later. Don't know why, 0:39:56.880 --> 0:39:59.719 but I get up early. I do my own thing. 0:40:00.040 --> 0:40:03.680 I chill, I get in my sona start the work day. 0:40:04.360 --> 0:40:07.759 I wake them up around ten thirty, well, no, like nine, 0:40:07.800 --> 0:40:09.880 between nine thirty ten thirty because my mom lived two 0:40:09.920 --> 0:40:12.239 doors down, so then they walk to my mom house 0:40:12.320 --> 0:40:14.120 or security or drop them off to my mom house. 0:40:14.680 --> 0:40:18.080 They do their thing with her. I get them after 0:40:18.160 --> 0:40:23.799 the fact, either get dinner situated if the other main 0:40:23.920 --> 0:40:26.239 mom who always on deck, is busy or don't feel 0:40:26.280 --> 0:40:28.200 like because she just had a baby. So we switched 0:40:28.239 --> 0:40:31.680 it up recently. But yeah, from like the hours of 0:40:32.880 --> 0:40:35.319 seven or eight to probably four or five in the morning, 0:40:35.520 --> 0:40:37.840 were just having fun and talking shit and learning and 0:40:37.960 --> 0:40:41.680 teaching and I'm getting Hella love from all them daughters 0:40:41.719 --> 0:40:41.880 like that. 0:40:44.000 --> 0:40:45.719 How do you feel when people ask you? You know 0:40:45.800 --> 0:40:48.399 you have you have a lot of daughters, right, eight 0:40:48.760 --> 0:40:51.360 eight daughters and you know like that you have a 0:40:51.400 --> 0:40:55.200 household now I do, but only cons You're essentially like 0:40:55.320 --> 0:40:58.080 bringing women in that are level ones, or maybe they 0:40:58.160 --> 0:41:00.920 jump to level Two's do you year ever that there 0:41:01.040 --> 0:41:03.800 is a like the the example that you're setting or 0:41:03.800 --> 0:41:05.879 what they're witnessing. I know they don't meet every woman, 0:41:06.040 --> 0:41:11.000 but like even for your sons like that, they won't 0:41:11.040 --> 0:41:13.520 see not a level of love in the household just 0:41:13.560 --> 0:41:15.839 from between two people. But like that, maybe your daughter 0:41:15.880 --> 0:41:18.120 will misinterpret that and then go find a boyfriend who 0:41:18.200 --> 0:41:20.480 has six other girlfriends and eight other kids. 0:41:21.200 --> 0:41:24.120 That could be a possibility, And I'm okay with that. 0:41:24.320 --> 0:41:26.320 I'm uh, they gonna make their choices. I'm here to 0:41:26.360 --> 0:41:28.880 support not getting the way, and I ain't gonna lie. 0:41:28.880 --> 0:41:31.279 I've told my daughter's on multiple occasions they probably gonna 0:41:31.280 --> 0:41:34.160 need like four or five men to meet them, because 0:41:34.239 --> 0:41:36.200 like if you raised by this man and you accustomed 0:41:36.200 --> 0:41:39.640 to this type of security way of living, I just 0:41:39.719 --> 0:41:41.600 don't see that. I don't know, the next generation don't 0:41:41.640 --> 0:41:43.799 look really promising based off the man that are out 0:41:43.840 --> 0:41:44.359 here right now. 0:41:44.520 --> 0:41:45.080 That's a fact. 0:41:45.239 --> 0:41:48.239 So the likelihood of my daughter meeting one man all 0:41:48.320 --> 0:41:50.879 eight in and meeting there one man that can meet 0:41:50.920 --> 0:41:54.800 all these needs and give them the level of completion 0:41:54.920 --> 0:41:58.640 they had with their daddy, that's unrealistic. So I don't 0:41:58.640 --> 0:42:02.600 see them not having four or five men in their life, 0:42:02.719 --> 0:42:05.080 like he gonna he do the long work. He no 0:42:05.280 --> 0:42:08.400 business I'm sleeping with this one. Whatever the case, man be. 0:42:08.440 --> 0:42:11.640 But I don't see them not having multiple men unless 0:42:11.640 --> 0:42:14.440 they just completely like I'm finna defer from everything my 0:42:14.560 --> 0:42:15.799 daddy taught us and showed us. 0:42:16.840 --> 0:42:21.880 Mm hmmm. Someone asked, you know, my dad is uh, 0:42:22.440 --> 0:42:25.520 my dad played in the NFL, and he you know, 0:42:25.600 --> 0:42:29.040 he's always had women even now throw throw themselves at him, 0:42:29.040 --> 0:42:31.799 and so he was always he always brought a lot 0:42:31.800 --> 0:42:34.439 of women around me. And at one point, at first 0:42:34.480 --> 0:42:36.239 I didn't really understand because he wasn't like you. There 0:42:36.280 --> 0:42:39.719 was no communication. It was just like here's Epiphany and 0:42:39.800 --> 0:42:42.480 here's Tiffany, and that was her name. That her name 0:42:42.560 --> 0:42:47.719 was Epiphany. I'm not evenly I know this. And when 0:42:47.760 --> 0:42:49.359 I and I remember the word. There was one time 0:42:49.400 --> 0:42:52.239 I asked him and he laughed and he's like, she's 0:42:52.320 --> 0:42:54.680 just my friend. And I that's I knew he was lying, 0:42:55.440 --> 0:42:58.440 and I'll never forget. There was just I think it 0:42:58.520 --> 0:43:00.920 was Epiphany. That's a very specific names, so you can 0:43:00.960 --> 0:43:01.640 probably find her. 0:43:01.760 --> 0:43:03.960 She's look up account for you, bitch. Like, why are 0:43:03.960 --> 0:43:05.240 you talking about me in my past? 0:43:06.840 --> 0:43:08.840 I think it was her. Maybe it wasn't you, Epiphany, 0:43:08.880 --> 0:43:10.600 It was some It was one of my dad's a girlfriends. 0:43:10.840 --> 0:43:12.520 I remember my dad got out the car to go 0:43:12.600 --> 0:43:14.400 into the bank and she I was sit in the 0:43:14.440 --> 0:43:16.120 backseat and she was sitting in the front. And then 0:43:16.120 --> 0:43:19.680 she turned around said, Erica, did your dad have any 0:43:19.719 --> 0:43:20.400 other girlfriends? 0:43:20.640 --> 0:43:23.000 She asked you that what is psycho? 0:43:23.680 --> 0:43:25.279 And then she asked me, She's like, do you think 0:43:25.320 --> 0:43:31.160 your dad loves me? And I like this, but how 0:43:31.360 --> 0:43:34.040 are you I was probably seven or eight. 0:43:34.120 --> 0:43:35.680 Oh, yeah, you don't put that type of pressure on. 0:43:36.080 --> 0:43:37.000 Do you think he loves me? 0:43:37.600 --> 0:43:40.160 But anyway, you know, I went on that's I didn't 0:43:40.160 --> 0:43:44.080 adopt his methods. I went on to, you know, choose 0:43:44.160 --> 0:43:47.880 men like him, you know, and and ultimately get my 0:43:47.960 --> 0:43:51.360 heart broken a lot, also because I had unresolved daddy 0:43:51.440 --> 0:43:55.719 issues and saw how I guess disposable some of these 0:43:55.760 --> 0:43:58.440 women were to him and his views around marriage too, 0:43:58.680 --> 0:44:00.359 never going to be. He's still not married. He's been 0:44:00.400 --> 0:44:02.840 with my I call her my stepmom, but they're not 0:44:03.040 --> 0:44:05.680 technically married. He's been with her for over twenty years 0:44:06.040 --> 0:44:09.160 and it's very like, at least to me, he's very 0:44:09.640 --> 0:44:11.479 adamant about like, she know I never married. 0:44:11.560 --> 0:44:14.040 I mean I think literally said he's never been in love. 0:44:14.320 --> 0:44:17.960 Yeah, oh I know you're a lover boy. My daddy's 0:44:18.239 --> 0:44:21.920 like my dad, Oh yeah, I could see it in 0:44:21.960 --> 0:44:22.359 your eyes. 0:44:22.440 --> 0:44:23.960 Look so some of them, if I just see him, 0:44:23.960 --> 0:44:25.440 I just know immediately I want them to be in 0:44:25.520 --> 0:44:27.000 my life. I'm like, oh they just skip. 0:44:28.280 --> 0:44:30.320 I automatically know, like I want you in the family. 0:44:30.560 --> 0:44:33.000 Were finished start with leo? 0:44:33.440 --> 0:44:36.600 Oh yeah interesting. Yeah, that's why you need a lot 0:44:36.600 --> 0:44:38.759 of attention. You love it. You built for this. 0:44:39.280 --> 0:44:40.279 Yeah, for sure you are. 0:44:40.440 --> 0:44:42.600 That's why you Also because I look at your page 0:44:42.640 --> 0:44:45.279 and I'm like, how the fuck does he do so 0:44:45.600 --> 0:44:49.320 much like you're on video, you're on live, like you're constant, 0:44:49.520 --> 0:44:53.600 Like you're constantly like speaking and talking and putting yourself 0:44:53.640 --> 0:44:55.560 out there. There's a lot of energy and frequency that 0:44:55.600 --> 0:44:58.239 you're putting out. And I'm also like, as you're telling 0:44:58.280 --> 0:45:01.840 me about your your day to day, I'm actually curious, 0:45:01.960 --> 0:45:05.799 like what is your like how do you what's your 0:45:05.800 --> 0:45:07.800 spiritual hygiene? Do you have some or like you have 0:45:07.880 --> 0:45:10.000 self care that you do you're getting your suna, but 0:45:10.160 --> 0:45:12.600 like do you meditate or like, is there anything. 0:45:12.719 --> 0:45:15.080 I struggle really bad with self care? But no, as 0:45:15.120 --> 0:45:17.920 far as like meditation, yoga, any of that, I've done it, 0:45:18.040 --> 0:45:22.080 but no I don't participate. Uh. My reset, just being 0:45:22.120 --> 0:45:24.839 honest is like my kids in sex. Those two things 0:45:24.920 --> 0:45:29.439 help me to reset. That's like my coffee or my Yeah, 0:45:29.480 --> 0:45:32.360 that's my go to. If I had that, I like 0:45:32.480 --> 0:45:33.279 I could run all. 0:45:33.239 --> 0:45:36.560 Day sex and my kids sex and kids. So you 0:45:36.600 --> 0:45:40.040 would say you're a pretty sexual person. Yeah, recently, because 0:45:40.040 --> 0:45:42.440 I follow your page and I follow all of the 0:45:42.719 --> 0:45:46.799 day to days and dramas in the marketing, and I'm like, God, 0:45:46.800 --> 0:45:47.560 should just text them. 0:45:47.560 --> 0:45:51.320 I want to know you. 0:45:51.520 --> 0:45:54.400 Then you recently launched only fans. Are you fucking on? 0:45:54.480 --> 0:45:54.600 There? 0:45:55.040 --> 0:45:57.200 I was you retired it already? 0:45:57.719 --> 0:46:01.480 Yeah, it's just the wear and tears. Just how would you. 0:46:03.920 --> 0:46:07.840 So look? Were living in a hypersexual society, right, So. 0:46:09.440 --> 0:46:12.160 I already knew it was gonna go from oh bro, 0:46:12.480 --> 0:46:14.320 get one of these and get one of these. So 0:46:14.400 --> 0:46:16.920 I just started wrapping my mind around their demands. 0:46:16.840 --> 0:46:18.799 Get one of these, Like what kind of bitch telling 0:46:18.880 --> 0:46:19.479 me different women? 0:46:20.000 --> 0:46:22.480 Oh right? 0:46:22.800 --> 0:46:24.560 So like, granted I ain't gonna lot of money, was good. 0:46:24.640 --> 0:46:26.600 Like my first three weeks I had cracking them for 0:46:26.640 --> 0:46:30.759 like thirty thousand. It was moving. But I sat there 0:46:30.760 --> 0:46:33.600 and I was like, on average, I'm probably gonna have 0:46:33.600 --> 0:46:36.799 to like have sex with roughly forty eight women a year. 0:46:37.000 --> 0:46:39.400 I'm not doing that. That's crazy to get them a 0:46:39.440 --> 0:46:42.160 different scene every week, Like so any p porn stars 0:46:42.200 --> 0:46:45.640 out there, I salute them because it's not simple. But 0:46:45.800 --> 0:46:48.680 former little wise, it was just like I gotta catch 0:46:49.160 --> 0:46:51.160 it ain't gonna be hard. I could put on social media. 0:46:51.200 --> 0:46:52.360 I had a lot of women reached out that I 0:46:52.360 --> 0:46:54.360 wanted to be on there, but just me having to 0:46:54.360 --> 0:46:57.400 wrap my mind around sleeping with fifty women a. 0:46:57.440 --> 0:47:00.360 Year outside of the ones somebody's requests right side of. 0:47:00.360 --> 0:47:02.759 The ones I actually like and love. I got an 0:47:02.880 --> 0:47:04.920 extra set of fifty over here that I got to 0:47:04.960 --> 0:47:07.839 have sex with just for content purposes. And I was like, nope, 0:47:08.080 --> 0:47:08.520 oh good. 0:47:08.920 --> 0:47:11.320 Were any of your lovers on only fans with you? 0:47:11.920 --> 0:47:12.120 Yeah? 0:47:12.440 --> 0:47:14.600 No, But what you could have done was just like 0:47:14.880 --> 0:47:18.399 five people, different things, different ways. I thought all year. 0:47:18.800 --> 0:47:19.799 I thought of that too. Well. 0:47:19.800 --> 0:47:21.359 I was just on your marketing team. 0:47:23.640 --> 0:47:27.360 It did extremely well and I have fun, but it 0:47:27.480 --> 0:47:31.200 was just like, I'm not. I ain't. I ain't finding 0:47:31.360 --> 0:47:32.480 fifty people per year? 0:47:32.640 --> 0:47:34.680 How long? How long would you do that? How long 0:47:34.719 --> 0:47:35.560 did that season last? 0:47:36.719 --> 0:47:36.879 Two? 0:47:37.200 --> 0:47:39.120 That's what I thought it was there, it was clear. 0:47:40.520 --> 0:47:43.200 I was I missed that. I followed him and I 0:47:43.280 --> 0:47:44.800 didn't know that. How did you know that? 0:47:46.200 --> 0:47:48.080 Because it's always ass and I ain't. 0:47:47.920 --> 0:47:50.279 Marketed as hard as our market things. I like, I 0:47:50.480 --> 0:47:53.239 marketed it, but it wasn't like loud like everything else. 0:47:53.360 --> 0:47:54.520 So a lot of people didn't know. 0:47:57.160 --> 0:48:01.960 You're such a businessman and entrepreneur, and I'm just curious, like, 0:48:02.040 --> 0:48:05.920 what is the best piece of advice you've gotten as 0:48:05.920 --> 0:48:07.319 an entrepreneur or what is the baby? 0:48:07.480 --> 0:48:07.520 What? 0:48:07.680 --> 0:48:09.520 Actually, what is the best piece of advice you could 0:48:09.560 --> 0:48:11.120 give to entrepreneurs? 0:48:12.680 --> 0:48:18.280 Best piece of advice would be to study whatever industry 0:48:18.320 --> 0:48:23.920 and game they playing, and and nothing is real. That's 0:48:23.920 --> 0:48:26.680 what they'll discover after they study. Because I'm in like 0:48:26.719 --> 0:48:30.359 the financial literacy world, So I thought, like buying all 0:48:30.400 --> 0:48:33.960 my house is cash and having thirty two kilos of 0:48:34.040 --> 0:48:36.560 goal would like separate you, only to find out that, 0:48:36.719 --> 0:48:40.880 like social media's perception based, somebody can go rent the 0:48:40.960 --> 0:48:43.880 same thing. I really spent a million dollars on as 0:48:43.920 --> 0:48:47.240 far as my jury, and he can get the same reaction. 0:48:47.520 --> 0:48:49.000 And I was just like, damn, we did all this 0:48:49.719 --> 0:48:52.680 real nigga shit, and if people who didn't do that 0:48:52.800 --> 0:48:56.600 are in the same rooms. So like in retrospect, because 0:48:56.600 --> 0:48:59.080 I went cash heavy about everything cash, So I know, 0:48:59.200 --> 0:49:00.960 like the most money I spent in the years, probably 0:49:01.000 --> 0:49:03.200 like seven eight million dollars on buying this house, buying 0:49:03.239 --> 0:49:07.000 the house, do you regret that I regret buying one 0:49:07.080 --> 0:49:08.960 of them? Because like they were a million dollar homes, 0:49:09.320 --> 0:49:11.319 so I could have still bought them and they got 0:49:11.360 --> 0:49:14.040 a mortgage on one and kept and stayed cash heavy, 0:49:14.880 --> 0:49:19.399 So like it's not the worst thing, but I'm I'm 0:49:19.520 --> 0:49:21.879 rich on paper, but if you asked me to give 0:49:21.960 --> 0:49:24.160 you according me in cash, I couldn't give it to you. 0:49:24.320 --> 0:49:27.359 But I do have equity in the remaining like six 0:49:27.480 --> 0:49:29.040 or seven homes in the one lot that I have, 0:49:29.880 --> 0:49:31.600 so I wouldn't have did it completely different, but I 0:49:31.640 --> 0:49:33.640 would and I went all cash and kept some of 0:49:33.719 --> 0:49:38.560 my cash because times like now, the market gets so 0:49:38.719 --> 0:49:40.759 tight that even the assets you do have you can't 0:49:40.840 --> 0:49:43.640 leverage because the world's so broke, nobody can't buy even 0:49:44.120 --> 0:49:46.080 even if you're doing it. For the low. It's still 0:49:46.160 --> 0:49:49.560 too much for the common man. So I've been asset 0:49:49.680 --> 0:49:51.600 tight and then stuck with all the assets at certain 0:49:51.600 --> 0:49:53.680 points like damn, we can't even leverage nothing right now, 0:49:53.800 --> 0:49:57.120 like nobody can't even buy what we were supposed to 0:49:57.239 --> 0:49:59.160 use as an asset. Four times like this, So I 0:49:59.200 --> 0:50:00.640 would have kept a couple million dollars. 0:50:01.640 --> 0:50:02.560 Why do you live in America? 0:50:05.200 --> 0:50:08.239 I thrive off of adversity, and America is the best 0:50:08.280 --> 0:50:09.480 worst place in the world. 0:50:09.400 --> 0:50:11.719 To live adversity. 0:50:12.480 --> 0:50:13.000 Do you like? 0:50:13.480 --> 0:50:14.640 You like an organized chaos? 0:50:14.840 --> 0:50:17.160 It breed real monsters. So I feel like this is 0:50:17.320 --> 0:50:20.360 the greatest country to be in because it's like a 0:50:20.440 --> 0:50:22.640 dog eat dog world. I love it, and I like 0:50:22.800 --> 0:50:26.560 the I like the competitive nature of a legacy and 0:50:26.640 --> 0:50:28.880 family name. So I go really hard because I'm like 0:50:29.600 --> 0:50:31.839 the Grace is gonna run ship and we're gonna carve 0:50:31.880 --> 0:50:33.560 out this part of the world X y Z. But 0:50:34.280 --> 0:50:36.520 it's a great and terrible place to live. I wouldn't 0:50:36.520 --> 0:50:38.200 live nowhere else and not be in several places, but 0:50:38.200 --> 0:50:39.239 I wouldn't live nowhere else. 0:50:40.080 --> 0:50:41.759 What's the what's one place that you've been that you 0:50:42.000 --> 0:50:44.560 that you did like them, or that you can see yourself. 0:50:44.440 --> 0:50:48.600 Brixton, I didn't know, like Brixton, I didn't. I didn't 0:50:48.600 --> 0:50:51.000 know London had like a black section. I loved it. 0:50:51.040 --> 0:50:52.640 And they showed me so much love. They gave me 0:50:52.719 --> 0:50:55.120 so much weed. They was coolly sad, fed me good. 0:50:56.080 --> 0:50:58.560 But I didn't I never saw that part of London, 0:50:58.640 --> 0:51:00.839 so that was real cool to see that it was nothing. 0:51:00.880 --> 0:51:02.920 But as there, do you travel a lot? Like internationally? 0:51:03.120 --> 0:51:06.320 Not anymore? I don't like to travel all now, what 0:51:06.360 --> 0:51:08.279 do you mean now? Why I just don't like coming 0:51:08.280 --> 0:51:10.320 out of the house spirit. I just I stay in 0:51:10.360 --> 0:51:14.120 the house out there, and sure that's my favorite pastime, 0:51:14.280 --> 0:51:15.520 just to sit still, and sure. 0:51:16.719 --> 0:51:19.239 I feel I'm it's hard for me to leave my 0:51:19.320 --> 0:51:21.760 house too. But I do enjoy traveling. I think it's important. 0:51:21.800 --> 0:51:24.200 I think even as an entrepreneur though, like you're gonna 0:51:24.200 --> 0:51:26.080 meet and see so many people that like are doing 0:51:27.080 --> 0:51:29.200 all types of shit in different places and spaces. And 0:51:29.280 --> 0:51:32.719 I agree, And Derek America, like, we gotta get out 0:51:32.719 --> 0:51:34.600 of here. What are we still doing here? Why are 0:51:35.120 --> 0:51:37.960 I understand organized chaos? But like you talk all this 0:51:38.040 --> 0:51:41.560 shit and you share all this shit about just like black, 0:51:41.800 --> 0:51:45.759 like having sovereignty over your life and your choices and 0:51:45.880 --> 0:51:49.720 then you're actively like participating in it. So like because 0:51:49.719 --> 0:51:51.239 you got to play the game to a certain level 0:51:51.280 --> 0:51:53.600 if you hear so you don't have but you don't 0:51:53.680 --> 0:51:56.560 have to be here. Is it because? Is it because 0:51:56.600 --> 0:51:58.840 you need to be an example for other people? That 0:51:59.040 --> 0:52:00.000 people that people. 0:52:01.080 --> 0:52:03.120 I can still teach him somewhere else. I just I 0:52:03.320 --> 0:52:07.160 just love it. I love like I love that AI 0:52:07.320 --> 0:52:11.560 is taking jobs. What why Because it's going to create 0:52:11.760 --> 0:52:14.359 a competitive market to where like it's gonna be win 0:52:14.520 --> 0:52:19.080 or go home. And I just feel like if if 0:52:19.120 --> 0:52:21.279 I'm no longer hearing thirty years and my children in 0:52:21.360 --> 0:52:24.600 the world that requires you to compete to live at 0:52:24.600 --> 0:52:26.080 a high level, Like I think that's a good thing. 0:52:26.120 --> 0:52:28.920 I feel like we two pacified culturally. That's why we 0:52:29.040 --> 0:52:32.680 don't do shit. I feel like I know people gonna 0:52:32.719 --> 0:52:36.960 talk shit, But my cousin said this, so shout out 0:52:37.000 --> 0:52:38.960 to my cousin, Pauns. It's like eight years ago. But 0:52:39.000 --> 0:52:40.719 I feel like Trump is the father that a lot 0:52:40.760 --> 0:52:44.640 of people need it. I feel like he creates an 0:52:44.800 --> 0:52:48.520 environment where like there's no lackluster, there's no lazy, there's 0:52:48.600 --> 0:52:50.200 no week you're gonna get your ass up and you're 0:52:50.239 --> 0:52:53.840 gonna fight. And I just feel like he creates that 0:52:54.040 --> 0:52:55.520 environment and that's what we need more of. 0:52:55.680 --> 0:52:57.760 That's why, like, are you a Trumper? 0:52:58.560 --> 0:53:00.520 I'm not either. I don't really care who. I'm gonna 0:53:00.520 --> 0:53:02.799 do the same thing either one. But I'm not gonna lie. 0:53:02.840 --> 0:53:05.160 I did make like ten plus million dollars. 0:53:05.200 --> 0:53:06.040 Did he get you up yet? 0:53:06.160 --> 0:53:06.759 Leveraging Trump? 0:53:06.800 --> 0:53:10.319 Why are you not at the Actually I don't know Trump. 0:53:10.560 --> 0:53:12.279 I probably wouldn't go even if he did invite me, 0:53:12.320 --> 0:53:13.600 because I just don't like going outside. 0:53:13.800 --> 0:53:15.279 Actually, you'd be a dangerous tool. 0:53:16.040 --> 0:53:16.359 I would. 0:53:16.520 --> 0:53:18.560 You would be a dangerous tool. But and I hope 0:53:18.600 --> 0:53:21.800 you know that, so just you can't do that. I 0:53:22.840 --> 0:53:25.160 don't care that much about it because our people are 0:53:25.320 --> 0:53:28.319 so like I understand what I don't know. I just. 0:53:29.920 --> 0:53:31.920 Yeah, like I don't agree with everything you do, Like 0:53:32.040 --> 0:53:34.359 he do be wild and sometimes, but I just feel 0:53:34.440 --> 0:53:38.600 like he gonna he creates an environment where you gotta 0:53:38.600 --> 0:53:39.239 get up and move. 0:53:39.719 --> 0:53:42.680 I do agree in the pacified culture, I feel like 0:53:43.480 --> 0:53:47.880 mediocracy is like in ignorance is like widely accepted. I 0:53:47.920 --> 0:53:49.279 wouldn't be rare if. 0:53:49.200 --> 0:53:51.200 It was three hundred more of us, It'd be like cool. 0:53:51.239 --> 0:53:53.200 We got a nation of men who are doing X, 0:53:53.280 --> 0:53:55.200 y Z, not just like oh so and so from 0:53:55.239 --> 0:53:58.200 this state and that. So I feel like he's going 0:53:58.280 --> 0:54:01.040 to create an environment where you gotta win. There's no like, 0:54:01.280 --> 0:54:01.879 there's no other. 0:54:02.040 --> 0:54:04.160 I don't know about him specifically. I don't know about 0:54:04.160 --> 0:54:06.200 being the father or whatever. I don't know about that. 0:54:06.320 --> 0:54:08.280 I don't know. I don't think that with this society. 0:54:08.280 --> 0:54:10.799 I don't think we live in a society of necessarily mediocrity. 0:54:10.840 --> 0:54:13.160 I think that the American dream is has always been 0:54:13.200 --> 0:54:15.719 to work. I think that we've fallen in line with 0:54:16.000 --> 0:54:17.600 whatever it is they fed us and told us what 0:54:17.640 --> 0:54:19.920 we're supposed to do. We're literally doing what they're what 0:54:20.000 --> 0:54:22.560 they're telling us. People like you are not You've you've 0:54:22.560 --> 0:54:24.920 figured out what works for you, and you figured out 0:54:24.920 --> 0:54:32.880 the cheekos essentially. But I feel like Trump, he's it's dangerous. 0:54:32.920 --> 0:54:36.320 He's dangerous. I think all of it is dangerous, but 0:54:38.080 --> 0:54:39.920 part of it is like, that's why I don't want 0:54:39.960 --> 0:54:42.080 to really, I'm here participating in it right now because 0:54:42.080 --> 0:54:44.800 you're sitting in my studio, paying the rent to this, 0:54:45.440 --> 0:54:49.120 you know, this place, and paying taxes and doing all that. 0:54:49.360 --> 0:54:53.919 But I don't know. I don't know if I could 0:54:54.040 --> 0:54:57.440 say that Trump is the father that everybody needed. 0:54:58.880 --> 0:55:02.640 No, No, I just feel like he, uh, he embodies 0:55:03.560 --> 0:55:07.239 the American way, and I just feel like he verbalizes 0:55:07.320 --> 0:55:08.840 what America feels. 0:55:08.880 --> 0:55:12.319 Any that we know it's better that we be clear 0:55:12.400 --> 0:55:14.360 about the enemy and the fun and that's usually. 0:55:14.200 --> 0:55:14.600 How it worked. 0:55:14.640 --> 0:55:18.920 Like you'd rather see that clear light than And. 0:55:18.960 --> 0:55:20.800 The reason I gave the analogy for the father's like 0:55:21.000 --> 0:55:23.560 moms for a lot of times, like you know, they passive. 0:55:23.600 --> 0:55:25.600 I think that's my baby daddy gonna come in and 0:55:25.719 --> 0:55:27.920 be like, man, get your ass up and shake that 0:55:27.920 --> 0:55:29.720 ship off and let's go get back to playing football. 0:55:29.840 --> 0:55:32.480 I feel like we need that energy culturally. He not 0:55:32.600 --> 0:55:34.640 that nice and gentle, but I feel like. 0:55:34.760 --> 0:55:35.680 I don't disagree with that. 0:55:35.960 --> 0:55:38.160 I feel like I don't disagree with that he gonna 0:55:38.160 --> 0:55:39.560 push people to have to turn it up. 0:55:40.719 --> 0:55:42.800 Yeah, because it's very clear that I just don't I 0:55:42.840 --> 0:55:43.239 don't think it. 0:55:43.400 --> 0:55:45.160 I'd realize it's one or the other, but I don't 0:55:45.200 --> 0:55:47.480 think that. I think that we've accepted that it's one 0:55:47.560 --> 0:55:49.320 or the other. They've given us two options and we 0:55:49.360 --> 0:55:49.880 said okay. 0:55:51.200 --> 0:55:54.320 He like highlights a lot of like America that is 0:55:54.440 --> 0:55:57.640 like relates to him, which is like kind of ignorant, basic, 0:55:58.400 --> 0:56:01.719 you know, like very He's speaks to a specific demographic, 0:56:01.880 --> 0:56:03.200 and that is scary because he. 0:56:03.760 --> 0:56:06.160 I agree with you, he doesn't also, I mean he 0:56:06.280 --> 0:56:07.640 speaks to not just basic people. 0:56:07.760 --> 0:56:10.200 I mean obviously it ranges. But I think when we 0:56:10.280 --> 0:56:12.040 when we talk about like when you think about like 0:56:12.160 --> 0:56:15.279 the danger that he incites, the like the false sense 0:56:15.360 --> 0:56:17.880 of like fuck things people, you know, the people who 0:56:17.920 --> 0:56:21.359 are in somewhere in the back country is like we're 0:56:21.400 --> 0:56:22.960 going to get up and go to the cantag. 0:56:23.320 --> 0:56:23.560 Yeah. 0:56:24.440 --> 0:56:26.879 But this is why I feel like he's a great 0:56:26.960 --> 0:56:30.080 example because he if you pay attention and you got 0:56:30.160 --> 0:56:32.759 it in you, like he shows you literally how to 0:56:32.800 --> 0:56:35.040 show your ass in America. Like he really had people 0:56:35.160 --> 0:56:38.120 go to the Capitol on his behalf. That's a different 0:56:38.160 --> 0:56:38.800 type of power. 0:56:38.840 --> 0:56:42.799 And you ain't there just like we're in the show. 0:56:43.120 --> 0:56:43.400 It's not. 0:56:44.920 --> 0:56:46.759 People pull up on your behalf. So I feel like 0:56:47.200 --> 0:56:50.520 down to the way his feeling the case working out, 0:56:50.640 --> 0:56:52.600 to the taxes, I feel like he is a walking 0:56:52.719 --> 0:56:56.279 example of like an American shark. But I think people 0:56:56.400 --> 0:56:58.400 just get you know, they get caught up in his conversation, 0:56:58.600 --> 0:57:02.000 so they don't pay attention to it. Move but he 0:57:02.160 --> 0:57:04.759 is like top schemer in the scheming ass country. 0:57:06.680 --> 0:57:09.920 Except like he's like the He's like the fucking mascot 0:57:10.040 --> 0:57:12.239 of schemers. Like if there was ever a mascot I 0:57:12.440 --> 0:57:18.240 like America, it's like it's him. He's like hiding it. 0:57:18.320 --> 0:57:18.640 He's like. 0:57:21.280 --> 0:57:22.160 We're getting away with it. 0:57:23.040 --> 0:57:26.680 He's like, look, I got shot. You better have talking 0:57:26.760 --> 0:57:26.880 like that. 0:57:27.040 --> 0:57:30.160 That's what I showed you today. They reported us on Instagram, 0:57:30.360 --> 0:57:30.720 or wasn't. 0:57:30.760 --> 0:57:31.200 I don't know. 0:57:31.360 --> 0:57:33.960 They won't show me, but it says something like the people. 0:57:33.840 --> 0:57:35.520 That the fact check the fact checker. 0:57:37.120 --> 0:57:39.479 About the fact check he said that he got shot, 0:57:39.640 --> 0:57:41.760 so don't say he did it. Was it that one 0:57:41.840 --> 0:57:43.440 that I don't know what we posted, but. 0:57:43.720 --> 0:57:45.360 I think it was a picture of Trump like a 0:57:45.440 --> 0:57:48.520 fake spewing stemen all over his face. 0:57:50.640 --> 0:57:53.200 The cultures that would be considered delightful. 0:57:54.120 --> 0:57:55.920 Anyway, I think I'm done talking about politics. 0:57:56.680 --> 0:57:58.000 I don't identify. 0:58:00.440 --> 0:58:00.640 Derek. 0:58:00.720 --> 0:58:03.840 We usually ask our guests to share an affirmation. Do 0:58:03.960 --> 0:58:04.800 you have an affirmation? 0:58:04.880 --> 0:58:05.600 You can share. 0:58:09.280 --> 0:58:12.200 Just one of my favorite ones. But it's not original, it's. 0:58:12.080 --> 0:58:16.760 Not for me, it's not from you. Yeah, I think 0:58:16.800 --> 0:58:17.520 I said it's not for you. 0:58:18.440 --> 0:58:23.360 But uh, you're familiar with wrestling, Brett Art, I know. 0:58:23.680 --> 0:58:26.600 I mean back in the day you never watched wrestling 0:58:26.600 --> 0:58:26.840 at all. 0:58:27.000 --> 0:58:29.720 A little bit like the Whole the Rock. 0:58:30.000 --> 0:58:32.200 What Brett said, He's the best there is, the best 0:58:32.240 --> 0:58:34.640 there was, and the best there ever will be. And 0:58:34.760 --> 0:58:37.080 that stuck with me from like five years old, and 0:58:37.200 --> 0:58:40.960 I've always repeated that one from time to time. The 0:58:41.040 --> 0:58:43.160 best there is, the best there was, and the best 0:58:43.200 --> 0:58:45.080 there ever will be. That was his line, the best 0:58:45.120 --> 0:58:47.560 there is. I'm the best there is, the best there was, 0:58:47.640 --> 0:58:50.360 and the best there ever will be. I love I 0:58:50.520 --> 0:58:50.680 like that. 0:58:50.880 --> 0:58:52.880 Yeah, I like that too. That's a good one. 0:58:53.360 --> 0:58:57.760 Thank you. But I think Brett Hart, thank you. 0:58:57.800 --> 0:58:58.520 Brett Hart. 0:59:00.000 --> 0:59:02.360 Dedicate Thank you Bratt. 0:59:03.400 --> 0:59:06.960 You guys, I brought my bowls. I'm still experimenting with 0:59:07.040 --> 0:59:09.840 the Tibetan bulls there. They're not as I have a 0:59:09.920 --> 0:59:12.240 bunch of my house with. Don't use them, you know, Derek, 0:59:12.280 --> 0:59:14.320 I know that you don't meditate, and you know your 0:59:14.360 --> 0:59:16.720 self care routines are a little bit you know poor. 0:59:16.800 --> 0:59:18.840 I think I can help you with that, though, So 0:59:18.920 --> 0:59:20.800 don't you just close your eyes for a second. 0:59:20.760 --> 0:59:28.320 Right now, Yeah, take some deep breaths. I mean four, yes, 0:59:28.440 --> 0:59:50.480 two three, I alreadyset that nervous system. 0:59:50.760 --> 0:59:52.800 You know, sometimes it's just that you don't got to 0:59:52.840 --> 0:59:56.040 be a whole thing. I think people will get overwhelmed 0:59:56.120 --> 0:59:58.400 with those type of self care methods because they think 0:59:58.440 --> 1:00:00.680 they have to sit there for thirty minutes be bud up, 1:00:00.680 --> 1:00:02.120 which maybe eventually you will. 1:00:02.560 --> 1:00:02.640 But. 1:00:04.720 --> 1:00:07.240 You could, I mean, how powerful you really would be 1:00:07.320 --> 1:00:11.000 the best there ever was because you've mastered everything good enlightenment. 1:00:11.560 --> 1:00:16.240 I don't. I don't think that's I just don't see 1:00:16.240 --> 1:00:16.840 that in my car? 1:00:16.920 --> 1:00:17.680 Are you God fearing? 1:00:17.720 --> 1:00:17.880 Are you? 1:00:18.000 --> 1:00:18.560 Are you Christian? 1:00:19.000 --> 1:00:21.040 I don't believe in God? You don't God? 1:00:21.880 --> 1:00:23.480 You believe things are coincidence? 1:00:24.560 --> 1:00:28.120 Yeah? Or just will we wiel ourselves into certain positions. 1:00:28.200 --> 1:00:31.560 I did though up until twenty and fifteen, because I've 1:00:31.600 --> 1:00:33.600 been questioning it since I was a little kid. But 1:00:34.120 --> 1:00:36.800 I finally got the answer I wanted in twenty fifteen. 1:00:36.800 --> 1:00:39.040 What happened in twenty fifteen, I was just. 1:00:39.120 --> 1:00:40.720 On one of my trips. I was out in Vegas 1:00:40.760 --> 1:00:41.560 and I went on a trip. 1:00:41.680 --> 1:00:41.800 Man. 1:00:42.240 --> 1:00:44.040 I just I feel like that trip gave me the 1:00:44.200 --> 1:00:48.600 understanding I needed and like looking for somebody rather than 1:00:48.840 --> 1:00:51.000 just honing in on what's within me and doing my 1:00:51.080 --> 1:00:51.400 own thing. 1:00:51.520 --> 1:00:52.840 Well do you think do you feel like you are 1:00:52.880 --> 1:00:53.880 the divine? You're that? 1:00:54.320 --> 1:00:54.440 Oh? 1:00:54.480 --> 1:00:54.960 Absolutely? 1:00:55.000 --> 1:00:56.240 Okay, so you do believe in God? 1:00:57.880 --> 1:01:01.560 Wait, the trip was on mushrooms or an actual trip 1:01:01.760 --> 1:01:03.120 like I was. 1:01:04.280 --> 1:01:06.680 I was on a trip in Vegas and I went 1:01:06.720 --> 1:01:07.120 on a trip. 1:01:07.680 --> 1:01:10.040 Okay, that's what I saw it, but I just wanted 1:01:10.040 --> 1:01:12.560 to understand for sure. It was painting the picture in 1:01:12.600 --> 1:01:12.840 my head. 1:01:13.600 --> 1:01:15.160 As far as a God part of it, I say, 1:01:15.240 --> 1:01:17.280 like my mom and my dad that's my that's my 1:01:17.440 --> 1:01:19.480 version of God. But outside of. 1:01:19.480 --> 1:01:21.840 Them, did you grow up like like going to church 1:01:21.920 --> 1:01:22.360 or anything like that. 1:01:22.560 --> 1:01:24.000 Yeah, they tried to take me a couple of times. 1:01:24.000 --> 1:01:24.760 I was bad as hell. 1:01:25.080 --> 1:01:26.000 They try to take me a cup. 1:01:26.120 --> 1:01:28.000 I'm either I was either sleep or just doing shit 1:01:28.080 --> 1:01:30.240 I had no business doing. But yeah, they tried to 1:01:30.280 --> 1:01:33.240 take me and my grandma's Jehovah witness. So I was like, 1:01:33.440 --> 1:01:36.040 talk a lot about it as a child, but I 1:01:36.200 --> 1:01:37.720 just never good bye into it. 1:01:38.320 --> 1:01:41.440 You think that's why you feel like strongly like otherwise, 1:01:41.520 --> 1:01:44.840 because growing up to hope for witness that's pretty extreme. 1:01:45.960 --> 1:01:49.680 No, I feel like, I feel like I'm gonna blame 1:01:49.760 --> 1:01:51.560 for all my good and bad. So I just don't 1:01:51.800 --> 1:01:54.400 believe in giving anybody else the credit or the power 1:01:54.440 --> 1:01:56.800 to dictate if I have a great or amazing life. 1:01:57.000 --> 1:01:59.200 So it's just it's on me. If I want it, 1:01:59.240 --> 1:02:02.400 I'll make it happen, you know. 1:02:02.440 --> 1:02:04.240 I feel like it's like alchemy in some ways. 1:02:05.720 --> 1:02:07.520 Oh, I would say on the spiritual side, I do 1:02:07.640 --> 1:02:10.560 feel like I'm not originally from here, so I feel 1:02:10.600 --> 1:02:12.440 like I'm just over on this side real quick, doing 1:02:12.480 --> 1:02:13.960 my one two. Then I gotta go back to where 1:02:13.960 --> 1:02:16.800 I'm from from. I don't know the name, but I 1:02:16.920 --> 1:02:18.560 know like I've seen it many times on my. 1:02:18.600 --> 1:02:20.600 Trips, like a different planet. 1:02:20.960 --> 1:02:22.360 It wasn't a different planet, but it was like a 1:02:22.400 --> 1:02:25.200 grassy terrain. It was mountainous. It was statues in me 1:02:25.280 --> 1:02:26.840 all outside, and I remember walking in. 1:02:26.880 --> 1:02:28.440 And there was the statues of you all outside. 1:02:28.600 --> 1:02:30.920 Yeah. I remember walking in and the dude was just 1:02:31.040 --> 1:02:33.760 like telling me how much they loved me and they 1:02:33.880 --> 1:02:35.920 need me. And then I just remember being like, all, 1:02:36.000 --> 1:02:38.240 I gotta go back, And I like literally came back 1:02:38.280 --> 1:02:40.600 to in my room in Vegas. But I've not been 1:02:40.640 --> 1:02:42.800 there multiple times though, so I believe it to be true. 1:02:43.200 --> 1:02:45.040 Do you feel like that's why you're returned after this, 1:02:45.400 --> 1:02:46.600 after this version of yourself? 1:02:46.640 --> 1:02:48.200 Oh yeah, I'm finna go back to where I'm supposed 1:02:48.200 --> 1:02:49.720 to be at because it's just it's terrible. 1:02:50.040 --> 1:02:51.080 This is your last life here. 1:02:51.400 --> 1:02:54.840 Yeah, so whack out here. I gotta get back. 1:02:55.560 --> 1:02:57.040 Yeah, America was kind of ghetto. 1:02:57.280 --> 1:02:59.120 One thing I didn't see that though, was the women, 1:02:59.360 --> 1:03:00.360 and that's gonna be I was. 1:03:00.360 --> 1:03:04.320 Concerning maybe maybe there's a lesson there. There's some sort 1:03:04.320 --> 1:03:07.560 of lesson. It's going to be paradise with no women. 1:03:07.920 --> 1:03:08.280 I'm good. 1:03:08.480 --> 1:03:11.080 That's not paradise with the. 1:03:12.720 --> 1:03:15.760 God have the level ones and the girlfriends and the 1:03:15.920 --> 1:03:17.280 baby mamas and the wives and all that. 1:03:17.760 --> 1:03:19.760 There's a little baby mamas and the wives, so you 1:03:19.800 --> 1:03:20.760 can have multiple wives. 1:03:21.480 --> 1:03:23.200 I don't think I'm ever have one wife. 1:03:23.600 --> 1:03:24.480 I thought you're engaged. 1:03:25.320 --> 1:03:25.600 I am. 1:03:25.720 --> 1:03:31.240 But when I say I don't mean title wise, I 1:03:31.360 --> 1:03:32.720 mean like, does she a ring? 1:03:33.560 --> 1:03:33.600 No? 1:03:33.760 --> 1:03:37.440 She proposed to me. Oh, so don't have one yet. 1:03:38.000 --> 1:03:40.760 But I feel like that's why I say I don't 1:03:40.760 --> 1:03:44.280 do titles. Titles come with possession expectations and I don't 1:03:44.360 --> 1:03:46.880 like though. So I'm being funny when I say wives 1:03:46.920 --> 1:03:50.160 and girlfriends, but there will be women who I love 1:03:50.240 --> 1:03:55.000 and that love me and will intertwine and coexist. But 1:03:55.120 --> 1:03:57.360 title wise, if I had to literally answer, I wouldn't 1:03:57.360 --> 1:03:59.120 give you a title at all because I just don't 1:03:59.200 --> 1:03:59.400 do them. 1:04:01.320 --> 1:04:03.440 What do you I know you have. It seems you 1:04:03.520 --> 1:04:08.120 have strong views around like the man's role, right, what 1:04:08.200 --> 1:04:10.960 would you say? A woman's role is for you in 1:04:11.040 --> 1:04:13.720 your life, for me in my life, for you in 1:04:13.800 --> 1:04:15.400 your life, and then yeah, if you I don't know 1:04:15.440 --> 1:04:17.880 if you want to share perspective around just in society, 1:04:18.000 --> 1:04:19.960 but I'm more I'm more interested in your life. 1:04:20.200 --> 1:04:26.760 So for me, I just really need sex and food. 1:04:27.800 --> 1:04:31.560 So that's like the biggest thing. My biggest requirement is like, but. 1:04:31.680 --> 1:04:34.080 That's the role in your life to give you sexy food. 1:04:33.960 --> 1:04:36.479 The baby mean, yeah, treat me like your little baby. 1:04:39.240 --> 1:04:41.080 I'm telling you the hard parts of life I figured 1:04:41.080 --> 1:04:49.640 out on my own. You said, you said audience, but 1:04:49.720 --> 1:04:51.600 this is my personal I ain't saying what women should do. 1:04:51.800 --> 1:04:53.760 I'm saying in my word, I did ask you. 1:04:54.280 --> 1:04:57.360 Okay, Yeah, mocked and fat? Oh my god, that is 1:04:57.440 --> 1:04:58.000 to be a shirt. 1:04:58.880 --> 1:04:59.880 Yeah, love on me. 1:05:00.360 --> 1:05:02.760 Let me like vent when I got some shit going 1:05:02.800 --> 1:05:06.800 on and baby me like and in turn, you're gonna 1:05:06.800 --> 1:05:06.960 do that. 1:05:07.120 --> 1:05:09.200 I'm gonnarea providing protect I'm gonna go home. 1:05:09.320 --> 1:05:11.240 Are you affectionate? Are you like an affectionate lover? 1:05:11.440 --> 1:05:11.480 Like? 1:05:11.520 --> 1:05:11.920 How would you? 1:05:12.080 --> 1:05:14.680 It depends on who it is. I'm not affectionate to 1:05:14.800 --> 1:05:16.479 all the women out of that way, but it's certain 1:05:16.520 --> 1:05:19.200 ones that, Yeah, they get all the love and affection. 1:05:19.600 --> 1:05:21.200 Are you an eye contact type of guy? 1:05:21.480 --> 1:05:26.360 Definitely? Okay, spinning to my off eye contact. Yeah, do 1:05:26.520 --> 1:05:28.160 beet asked? I do everything? 1:05:28.280 --> 1:05:32.040 Actually know what? I think? It's time for trigger? Oh yeah, trigger? Yeah, 1:05:33.120 --> 1:05:33.920 I thought you'd like that. 1:05:35.960 --> 1:05:36.000 You. 1:05:37.320 --> 1:05:40.080 Oh, can you explain to Derek what trigger is? My love? 1:05:41.360 --> 1:05:44.120 Trigger is? We're going to ask you. We're gonna say 1:05:44.160 --> 1:05:45.680 one word and you're gonna just tell us the first 1:05:45.720 --> 1:05:46.960 thing that comes to mind. You don't have to think 1:05:47.000 --> 1:05:49.120 about it, just give us one word answer. I'm just 1:05:49.160 --> 1:05:51.160 going to ask you some questions and you just go. 1:05:51.880 --> 1:05:53.800 I got you trigger. 1:05:55.880 --> 1:06:07.320 Here it goes trigger Derek Grace, bad habits, bad habit, drugs, drugs. 1:06:07.520 --> 1:06:11.640 Mm hmm like drugs, drugs. I've done some of everything, 1:06:11.720 --> 1:06:17.600 but shrooms, ascid weed of course, uh ls d d 1:06:17.800 --> 1:06:20.840 m T. I've had certain bought DMT. 1:06:20.920 --> 1:06:22.560 I should have bought that d I told you to 1:06:22.600 --> 1:06:28.840 buy the d MT. I really valued. That's the wellness store. 1:06:30.560 --> 1:06:32.400 That's the only part I don't very like about it. 1:06:32.480 --> 1:06:34.040 I know I've never done it, but I'm like, it's 1:06:34.040 --> 1:06:37.000 fifty the message quick, yeah, write down. 1:06:37.080 --> 1:06:39.439 I want to be No, I don't. 1:06:39.520 --> 1:06:40.720 That's what it gets me exciting. 1:06:41.640 --> 1:06:43.560 And it's not a bad habit because it's a drug. 1:06:43.720 --> 1:06:45.960 It's just it's only a bad habit in my seasons 1:06:46.000 --> 1:06:48.120 of focus and seriousness that I have to fast from 1:06:48.160 --> 1:06:49.520 the drugs so I can stay focused. 1:06:50.200 --> 1:06:57.320 Okay. Religion, None, marriage, I don't know about that. Ship. Yes, 1:06:59.200 --> 1:07:02.160 eating pussy. Yes, favorite sex position. 1:07:03.480 --> 1:07:05.840 They got to be on their side in the fetal position. 1:07:06.720 --> 1:07:11.080 Favorite porn castle side, specifically the left. 1:07:11.400 --> 1:07:13.680 Yeah. They need they needs need to be like covering 1:07:13.920 --> 1:07:14.840 curving around my body. 1:07:14.920 --> 1:07:16.560 Right, is you have a curve? 1:07:17.320 --> 1:07:20.400 Yeah? She if she in the feetle my knee like 1:07:20.560 --> 1:07:21.160 so one, so. 1:07:21.160 --> 1:07:23.800 You're behind her, yeah, like cuddling her sort of and 1:07:23.880 --> 1:07:27.120 then she's in the feetle right, yeah, like that, but 1:07:27.200 --> 1:07:30.800 you would flip this and then your legs would be 1:07:30.880 --> 1:07:32.040 over him like this. 1:07:32.280 --> 1:07:33.040 No, legs flat. 1:07:33.080 --> 1:07:34.960 I want to I thought you said over I want 1:07:35.000 --> 1:07:35.520 to flat on. 1:07:37.960 --> 1:07:38.400 YouTube? 1:07:41.520 --> 1:07:44.640 Okay, interesting, I like that. I like that position. That's 1:07:44.680 --> 1:07:48.960 a lazy position though. There you you could really dig 1:07:49.320 --> 1:07:49.880 great position. 1:07:50.040 --> 1:07:51.880 You can really dig in there that they can't run. 1:07:52.080 --> 1:07:52.880 It's no block. 1:07:52.960 --> 1:07:55.320 It's just like you can choke. 1:07:56.280 --> 1:07:58.280 Do you feel all safe because you just like cuddled there? 1:07:58.400 --> 1:07:59.360 Actually this is good? Right? 1:07:59.560 --> 1:08:01.480 Yeah, then you put the it's a certain way. You 1:08:01.520 --> 1:08:03.120 gotta grab them while they're on their side to put 1:08:03.160 --> 1:08:06.200 in that past code and you just unlock everything and then. 1:08:06.280 --> 1:08:07.760 Other past code is where you grab them. 1:08:08.480 --> 1:08:09.920 Yeah, it's the way in what you grab me. It's 1:08:09.960 --> 1:08:12.080 certain like pay not paying points, it's certain. 1:08:12.160 --> 1:08:12.280 Uh. 1:08:13.240 --> 1:08:16.400 It's the word pressure points that you can like, that's 1:08:16.439 --> 1:08:17.000 your points. 1:08:18.360 --> 1:08:22.400 That might be the be the next book, your points, Derek. 1:08:22.840 --> 1:08:25.160 You know, I do believe like sex is magic. So 1:08:25.200 --> 1:08:27.400 I've studied. I've been studying sex for a long time. 1:08:27.840 --> 1:08:30.639 US too, we live. Sexist is medicine. 1:08:31.960 --> 1:08:34.200 It is last bad choice. 1:08:36.880 --> 1:08:39.000 The word these holes just popped up in my head. 1:08:39.040 --> 1:08:39.599 I don't know why. 1:08:43.840 --> 1:08:45.160 What's your favorite porn category? 1:08:46.560 --> 1:08:51.560 Evony ain'tal mm hmm, boxes or briefs, brief. 1:08:54.120 --> 1:08:57.280 Black women? I love them white women. 1:09:00.080 --> 1:09:03.400 It's gonna sound bad, but the word and not fucking 1:09:03.439 --> 1:09:11.080 in a bad way like I would love to financial. 1:09:08.120 --> 1:09:12.000 Literacy, old generational wealth. 1:09:13.360 --> 1:09:16.560 The word, Yes, that's the first. Or guns, gotta have 1:09:16.680 --> 1:09:19.800 them tasers, No, we're not tasting it. 1:09:22.000 --> 1:09:24.200 Still I got in my house. Goddamn taser. 1:09:24.600 --> 1:09:26.800 I mean, if you got to use your taser. But 1:09:26.920 --> 1:09:30.679 if I got gun and taste it, definitely getting a gun. 1:09:30.880 --> 1:09:37.000 It's a celebrity crush. Damn celebrity crush. It is somebody 1:09:37.080 --> 1:09:37.360 I like. 1:09:39.600 --> 1:09:43.040 You know, I was in love with. Remember the lady 1:09:43.400 --> 1:09:45.599 that Jody went to go had sex with on Baby Boy? 1:09:45.960 --> 1:09:52.920 Oh yeah, uh what her name was? I started the start. 1:09:53.280 --> 1:09:54.879 I can't see her face anyway. 1:09:54.920 --> 1:09:57.960 I looked up her. I G she's still she fis 1:09:57.960 --> 1:09:59.639 she's still fine and beautiful? 1:09:59.880 --> 1:10:00.599 You did you slide? 1:10:01.040 --> 1:10:02.640 I thought about her, but she got a husband. I 1:10:02.640 --> 1:10:04.519 don't play with people who got unions. 1:10:04.560 --> 1:10:07.560 I stay out of said slide into it. 1:10:08.000 --> 1:10:09.800 Oh yeah, no, I'm never a verbally holler at a 1:10:09.840 --> 1:10:12.559 woman in my life. So I'm definitely the DMK. You're celebrity, 1:10:14.080 --> 1:10:20.080 uh my porn star, but no celebrities. I mean she 1:10:20.200 --> 1:10:26.320 was a celebrity because therapy. Oh it was all right. 1:10:26.880 --> 1:10:29.840 How long did you go for the first time was 1:10:29.880 --> 1:10:32.080 for like two months, the next time for like three weeks. 1:10:33.360 --> 1:10:36.360 The last lady was Yeah, she was terrible. It'd be 1:10:36.400 --> 1:10:38.160 hard because they you know who I am, sometimes and 1:10:38.240 --> 1:10:40.519 it just don't be It don't seem effective or as 1:10:40.600 --> 1:10:43.519 effective they be asking me. I mean they suposed to 1:10:43.520 --> 1:10:47.200 ask questions, but they don't seem like therapy based. Sometimes 1:10:48.560 --> 1:10:52.240 it's like they're fanning out. Yeah, they never fanned out, 1:10:52.280 --> 1:10:54.600 but yeah, for the most part, and I have a 1:10:55.800 --> 1:10:57.439 it's not a bad habit, but I do like to 1:10:57.600 --> 1:11:01.639 mix pleasure in business. So I'm not always uh, it's 1:11:01.680 --> 1:11:03.800 not always easy for me to get certain services because 1:11:03.800 --> 1:11:05.599 I end up sleeping with the people that's were routing 1:11:05.640 --> 1:11:06.000 the service. 1:11:06.479 --> 1:11:09.240 Put your dick away there, So basically you're suggesting that 1:11:09.400 --> 1:11:13.560 you're put your good After that, the therapist wants to smash. 1:11:13.320 --> 1:11:16.120 And so it just yeah, yeah, that's happened a lot. 1:11:16.160 --> 1:11:18.120 I had sex with them, then they suck up the service. 1:11:18.320 --> 1:11:19.840 What is the fucking sopranos? 1:11:20.479 --> 1:11:25.719 All right, So I'm gonna say this, right, I don't 1:11:25.760 --> 1:11:29.720 believe in how to say this. I like working with 1:11:29.840 --> 1:11:32.000 women that are attractive if I got to be around 1:11:32.040 --> 1:11:34.599 you twenty four seven, Like, it's nice if it's somebody 1:11:34.640 --> 1:11:37.120 that's like I can do, they look good. But that 1:11:37.200 --> 1:11:38.400 hasn't always been a good thing. 1:11:38.760 --> 1:11:38.960 I know. 1:11:39.080 --> 1:11:42.320 Like we literally were just at my birthday party. They 1:11:42.439 --> 1:11:44.759 was asking, like have I slept with everybody I employed? 1:11:44.880 --> 1:11:48.320 And like, literally like ninety six percent of them. I 1:11:48.439 --> 1:11:50.800 only want to say how many literally because people on 1:11:50.880 --> 1:11:52.439 my team gonna they're gonna. 1:11:52.280 --> 1:11:55.320 Be start to do the number. Yeah, six percent, another 1:11:55.360 --> 1:11:55.960 two they did it. 1:11:56.680 --> 1:11:59.920 Yeah, it's a so it'd be good in bad ones. 1:12:00.320 --> 1:12:03.200 Is there drama over there? Because I feel like, like 1:12:03.320 --> 1:12:05.320 in the household you slept with the ninety six percent 1:12:05.360 --> 1:12:08.840 of your employees, you're living girl, like baby mama lives there, 1:12:08.880 --> 1:12:11.920 you have like two babies, Like no, I. 1:12:12.000 --> 1:12:14.200 Know women, I've our baby mama don't live there. 1:12:15.479 --> 1:12:17.880 That's shout out of tip. That's the one who I'm 1:12:17.880 --> 1:12:19.519 gonna make sure she comes to a treat with y'all 1:12:19.520 --> 1:12:20.400 next year because she loves you. 1:12:20.600 --> 1:12:23.840 Oh yeah, don't come so But that's not even the 1:12:23.880 --> 1:12:27.240 biggest thing. It's a lot of things happening. I'm just curious, wait, 1:12:27.360 --> 1:12:28.040 and I need to. 1:12:28.120 --> 1:12:31.760 Know, Like I know, I like from the internet, I'm 1:12:31.800 --> 1:12:33.880 like speculating. I'm trying to read the comments, but like, 1:12:34.000 --> 1:12:34.679 since you're here. 1:12:35.160 --> 1:12:38.000 Just ask them all questions. Get it off, girl, get 1:12:38.040 --> 1:12:38.320 it out. 1:12:38.520 --> 1:12:40.600 So now that you say that, I'm like, did you 1:12:41.080 --> 1:12:44.599 did the the like main baby mama that moved out 1:12:44.880 --> 1:12:46.800 in love with the sun? Is that because you start 1:12:46.840 --> 1:12:49.000 sleeping with the other girl who was also like an 1:12:49.040 --> 1:12:49.880 employee at first? 1:12:50.120 --> 1:12:53.200 Oh okay, no, not at all, I know you're talking about. No, 1:12:53.439 --> 1:12:56.840 we split because of us just having differences. They had 1:12:56.880 --> 1:13:02.360 nothing to do with her. She came. So person B 1:13:02.560 --> 1:13:04.839 that you're referring to, she been working me since twenty 1:13:05.000 --> 1:13:05.760 and twenty one. 1:13:05.880 --> 1:13:08.080 I've been dying for this information her and I. 1:13:08.320 --> 1:13:10.439 Finally I'm trying to catch up. 1:13:10.520 --> 1:13:14.400 All right. Person A left June twenty twenty two, so 1:13:14.479 --> 1:13:18.519 that's been done. Then Person B been working for me 1:13:18.600 --> 1:13:20.680 since twenty and twenty one, So there were moments when 1:13:20.680 --> 1:13:22.000 we were all in the same room. Because she was 1:13:22.000 --> 1:13:27.080 an employee of one. We didn't start our relationship until 1:13:28.320 --> 1:13:31.559 April of twenty and twenty three. Remember the light skinned 1:13:31.560 --> 1:13:33.080 young lady with the green knives that was with me 1:13:33.160 --> 1:13:37.040 at breakfast? She went and bagged her, she was my employee, 1:13:37.080 --> 1:13:39.559 but she started she started the intimate process with her 1:13:39.640 --> 1:13:42.120 by saying like hey, Bay want you blah blah blah, 1:13:42.160 --> 1:13:47.360 and we all start kicking it. Then yeah, I don't know. 1:13:47.439 --> 1:13:49.240 Then like three kids came in a year and a half. 1:13:49.439 --> 1:13:52.840 It just blurred proper and you're at the center like 1:13:53.040 --> 1:13:55.200 all the dramas like no, no, no, no. 1:13:55.640 --> 1:13:57.760 So we do have bad days like everybody else, like 1:13:57.840 --> 1:13:59.920 we have shit that happens, and we have bad days, 1:14:00.120 --> 1:14:03.439 but drama, if we do have drama, it don't last 1:14:03.479 --> 1:14:05.479 long because I'm just like I'll be chilling. I'm a 1:14:05.600 --> 1:14:08.360 no nonsense type of guy with a big sense of humor, 1:14:08.439 --> 1:14:11.120 so I don't take a lot serious or like I 1:14:11.240 --> 1:14:12.720 just like the girls being the girls, or they like, 1:14:12.800 --> 1:14:16.080 let the girls be girls. They're doing what women do. Yeah, 1:14:16.120 --> 1:14:17.680 I'm out in the field what women do. 1:14:19.840 --> 1:14:23.800 Over all right, because wait, wait, let's go back, because 1:14:23.800 --> 1:14:26.960 we said, okay, I asked you, like what you feel 1:14:27.080 --> 1:14:28.800 like the role of a woman is in your life? 1:14:28.840 --> 1:14:34.160 Oh okay, you said, Okay, So I go back because 1:14:34.160 --> 1:14:35.160 I have said that. 1:14:35.280 --> 1:14:38.880 Okay, in my life, I figured out like the hard 1:14:38.920 --> 1:14:43.720 shitting life, So I really be wanting to replay my 1:14:43.840 --> 1:14:45.600 childhood because I feel like I missed out on a 1:14:45.640 --> 1:14:48.120 lot of stuff because I was really grown being bad. 1:14:48.280 --> 1:14:50.960 I was advanced, and then I went to live with 1:14:51.000 --> 1:14:54.519 my dad at thirteen. So like my appears to be 1:14:54.560 --> 1:14:56.680 talking about their favorite cartoons, I don't know nothing about that. 1:14:56.760 --> 1:14:58.760 I was like outside of my older brother doing bad 1:14:58.840 --> 1:15:01.560 shit or trying to be older than we were. My 1:15:01.760 --> 1:15:04.599 peers was trying to get lose a virginity in high school. 1:15:05.280 --> 1:15:09.160 We was like investing in terrible things that we shouldn't 1:15:09.160 --> 1:15:11.040 have been investing in because we wanted to open a 1:15:11.120 --> 1:15:14.479 tattoo shop in a strip club in eleventh grade. So 1:15:14.640 --> 1:15:17.599 I missed out. I missed out on a lot because 1:15:18.479 --> 1:15:20.439 I was focused whether it was good or bad. Just 1:15:20.560 --> 1:15:22.080 like in my twenties, I missed out on a lot. 1:15:22.160 --> 1:15:24.839 Like I was writing curriculums and teaching children in my twenties, 1:15:24.880 --> 1:15:28.439 So when my friends was getting their first bag and 1:15:28.680 --> 1:15:30.960 having the summer day lifetime and just wilding out, I 1:15:31.000 --> 1:15:36.439 didn't do that. I was focused. So I gravitate really hard. 1:15:36.560 --> 1:15:38.559 And I liked the type of woman that can bring 1:15:38.680 --> 1:15:41.120 me back to my childlike state, that can like nurture 1:15:41.160 --> 1:15:43.760 my inner child and have fun with him, because these 1:15:43.840 --> 1:15:45.640 days that's who really wanted to come out. I'm like, 1:15:45.800 --> 1:15:48.200 so over being the grown man. I'm over adulted my 1:15:48.320 --> 1:15:50.320 whole life. I pay on my my rent for the 1:15:50.360 --> 1:15:53.000 first time. When I was fifteen. My daddy taught us 1:15:53.040 --> 1:15:57.840 financial responsibility at like eleven, So I was taking life 1:15:57.960 --> 1:16:00.479 serious when everybody else was having a ball. So now 1:16:00.560 --> 1:16:03.000 I'm trying to have a ball. So yeah, if she 1:16:03.800 --> 1:16:08.200 got the food, she turned up on my level of 1:16:08.280 --> 1:16:08.960 turn up because I. 1:16:09.000 --> 1:16:13.360 Have I'm so curious, we need to come party with you? 1:16:13.400 --> 1:16:14.080 And what's going on? 1:16:14.760 --> 1:16:17.200 If a woman, like if she had a space, which 1:16:17.240 --> 1:16:19.240 I respect, but if she had a space where she's 1:16:19.360 --> 1:16:21.040 not she don't trust me enough to get me like 1:16:21.120 --> 1:16:22.920 full access to her body, then I don't want it. 1:16:23.560 --> 1:16:25.280 And I've had to happen. I've had I've turned down 1:16:25.320 --> 1:16:27.760 women like, oh I only do this, this and this, 1:16:28.040 --> 1:16:31.080 I feel you, Well, we probably shouldn't interact because if 1:16:31.120 --> 1:16:33.240 I'm if I'm going to engage in this experience and 1:16:33.320 --> 1:16:34.600 give you me as well, I. 1:16:34.680 --> 1:16:36.320 Got just means that you want to put it in 1:16:36.400 --> 1:16:36.720 her back? 1:16:38.439 --> 1:16:40.000 But what are your rules if I ever want to 1:16:40.040 --> 1:16:41.240 engage with you? And I'm like can I put my 1:16:41.320 --> 1:16:43.760 fing you have any rules? Because I want the same level. 1:16:44.640 --> 1:16:45.880 Are we on the same levels of free? 1:16:45.960 --> 1:16:46.840 If I trust her? 1:16:47.560 --> 1:16:48.599 If we both trust each other? 1:16:48.760 --> 1:16:52.800 Oh yeah, whatever she want to do. No, I had 1:16:52.840 --> 1:16:54.960 a finger nail with a finger of tongue and all that, 1:16:55.040 --> 1:16:56.000 but I ain't never been. 1:16:56.160 --> 1:16:56.960 One finger or two. 1:16:57.680 --> 1:16:58.120 It was one. 1:16:59.120 --> 1:17:00.960 It was one. It was one. 1:17:01.600 --> 1:17:04.120 Listen that long nail ship it wasn't it. 1:17:04.240 --> 1:17:05.439 I just like, no, we can't do this. 1:17:06.000 --> 1:17:08.839 The nails don't work. Yeah, so I cut mine off recently. 1:17:11.080 --> 1:17:12.040 But yeah, if she. 1:17:13.800 --> 1:17:17.799 Is she not providing U. If she ain't provide full access, 1:17:17.880 --> 1:17:19.720 though I don't want it, I'll do without it. I'd 1:17:19.840 --> 1:17:22.240 rather just I mean, I can masturbate for that. 1:17:22.720 --> 1:17:24.200 I mean I agree to that. I don't have sex 1:17:24.280 --> 1:17:26.880 with someone with a bunch of It's called sexual compatibility. 1:17:27.040 --> 1:17:29.120 If you don't got it, then get get next. 1:17:29.560 --> 1:17:32.960 Yeah, like if you ain't, you know, down to ATM. 1:17:32.600 --> 1:17:36.479 And it goes both ways, and it goes way. Derek 1:17:36.640 --> 1:17:38.120 isn't going to give you what you want, bitch, and 1:17:38.240 --> 1:17:40.240 you got to go because you deserve. 1:17:40.760 --> 1:17:44.080 Yeah, it's somebody out there and that will do what 1:17:44.160 --> 1:17:44.799 I'm not willing. 1:17:45.080 --> 1:17:47.120 We'll go ask you won't do. What is it that 1:17:47.160 --> 1:17:47.960 you're not gonna jail? 1:17:51.760 --> 1:17:57.000 Uh? I try anything once. I like that, So like, 1:17:57.160 --> 1:17:59.000 it ain't really nothing that I won't do. If I 1:17:59.360 --> 1:18:00.760 with you, like, we're gonna turn out. We gonna make 1:18:00.800 --> 1:18:01.280 some memories. 1:18:02.400 --> 1:18:06.880 What are some things that ignite baby, Derek? 1:18:07.960 --> 1:18:11.519 That's a good ass question. Wait, you're talking about the child. 1:18:12.000 --> 1:18:18.880 Yeah, no, we should, so it's quick. 1:18:23.520 --> 1:18:27.040 I like women with children because like I love my mom, 1:18:27.320 --> 1:18:30.559 and like women who mirror my mom are very attractive 1:18:33.840 --> 1:18:36.759 my inner child. Women with a sense of humor, women 1:18:36.840 --> 1:18:39.920 that are open minded. So when I say, like, let's 1:18:39.960 --> 1:18:41.880 try some different ship, she's not gonna be like, oh 1:18:41.960 --> 1:18:43.720 my god, my grandma. She's gonna be like, all right, 1:18:43.720 --> 1:18:45.519 I fuck with you. I'll try once If I like it, 1:18:45.800 --> 1:18:50.880 keep trying to women that like women just free people 1:18:50.960 --> 1:18:54.519 and rebellious people that really like ignite my inner child, 1:18:54.680 --> 1:18:56.040 Like people that just don't give a fuck. 1:18:58.560 --> 1:19:01.320 Yeah, I get it to tribe, you know, on that 1:19:01.400 --> 1:19:03.280 fake shit and you can't hang out. 1:19:03.880 --> 1:19:08.719 No, I agree. I agree. So what's your biggest regret 1:19:09.800 --> 1:19:10.439 overall life? 1:19:10.479 --> 1:19:13.799 Yeah, because we're still playing, we're in between trigger and why. 1:19:15.360 --> 1:19:21.400 Regret or do you have any I don't think I 1:19:21.439 --> 1:19:24.080 really had no big ones. I love all my experiences, good, 1:19:24.160 --> 1:19:27.240 bad and in different. They just make me. They made 1:19:27.280 --> 1:19:29.680 me more of a wizard for my children. So I 1:19:29.920 --> 1:19:32.960 just I'd be thoroughly embracing all the good shit in 1:19:33.000 --> 1:19:34.439 the bad shit, I just be grateful I got to 1:19:34.520 --> 1:19:37.360 experience it. Like some people would rather have not ever 1:19:37.520 --> 1:19:39.760 loved and had their heart broken three times about three 1:19:39.760 --> 1:19:41.400 different people. I'll take the heartbreak. 1:19:41.560 --> 1:19:44.599 That's my daddy, My dad. One woman, one girl broke 1:19:44.640 --> 1:19:47.120 his heart in high school. Literally, he always tells tells 1:19:47.120 --> 1:19:48.599 me her name whever he told me. No, he didn't 1:19:48.640 --> 1:19:50.599 have his heart opened after that, and I can't remember 1:19:50.680 --> 1:19:52.760 her name. I know it was earlier than that, but 1:19:52.880 --> 1:19:54.840 he always says that it was this one woman who 1:19:54.920 --> 1:19:57.240 broke his heart. But really it was something that happened 1:19:57.240 --> 1:19:59.200 in his childhood that he has yet to face. 1:19:59.400 --> 1:20:01.960 Yeah, to get my ship broke ten times before, I 1:20:02.160 --> 1:20:04.840 just like pack it up and not love. 1:20:05.800 --> 1:20:06.800 Love is little. 1:20:07.120 --> 1:20:10.400 All there is is defin That's one of the misconceptions people. 1:20:10.520 --> 1:20:11.960 I don't know if it's the tattoos of what would 1:20:11.960 --> 1:20:14.360 they be thinking, I'm like, really mean or. 1:20:14.800 --> 1:20:15.799 Are you still getting tattoos? 1:20:15.800 --> 1:20:17.720 You still get tattooed. I got tattoo in years. They 1:20:17.840 --> 1:20:20.080 hurt too bad. I don't they hurt after you got 1:20:20.760 --> 1:20:22.599 I got it said in my twenties. I'm good. 1:20:22.760 --> 1:20:25.400 You have met them. No get all them. 1:20:25.439 --> 1:20:26.320 You in your twenties. 1:20:26.479 --> 1:20:28.720 I probably only got two tattoos since I've been over 1:20:28.800 --> 1:20:29.719 my over thirty. 1:20:30.040 --> 1:20:32.439 It gets less appealing after thirty, Like I got other 1:20:32.520 --> 1:20:32.920 shit to do. 1:20:33.040 --> 1:20:35.560 Yeah, that shit hurt. The pain not the same. It 1:20:35.680 --> 1:20:36.280 hurts really bad. 1:20:39.320 --> 1:20:41.840 Okay, Derek, Well, I'm so grateful that you came on 1:20:41.960 --> 1:20:44.240 our show. Before we get out of here. Two things, 1:20:45.520 --> 1:20:47.080 We've talked a lot of sex. We've talked a lot 1:20:47.120 --> 1:20:51.400 of things. Trump, sacks, guns, all types of shit, fatherhoods. 1:20:53.680 --> 1:20:55.679 I would love if you could share a horror story. 1:20:56.600 --> 1:20:56.880 Okay. 1:20:57.040 --> 1:20:59.040 We ask our guests to share a horror story, which 1:20:59.120 --> 1:21:04.240 is a highly hope wish tail. That's funny, that's highly horrish, 1:21:04.920 --> 1:21:07.120 that's a little scary, whatever it might be, whatever comes 1:21:07.160 --> 1:21:09.680 to mind. You're like, Damn, that was some whole ash 1:21:09.680 --> 1:21:10.240 ship I just did. 1:21:10.280 --> 1:21:12.240 It could either be great like bad. 1:21:12.680 --> 1:21:14.479 It could be bad. I'd be nasty. It could be 1:21:14.520 --> 1:21:15.760 like damn, I overdid it. 1:21:16.120 --> 1:21:18.160 I did too much or I over did it and 1:21:18.280 --> 1:21:18.719 it was great. 1:21:18.760 --> 1:21:19.400 I loved every. 1:21:21.240 --> 1:21:22.639 Let me think ago, I got a lot. 1:21:23.200 --> 1:21:28.120 It's like, damn last night. Okay, New Year's this year. 1:21:28.520 --> 1:21:30.320 Oh so. 1:21:35.040 --> 1:21:38.960 New Year's this year. I go into these seasons where 1:21:39.000 --> 1:21:41.120 we real disciplined. So I'm be having sex or nothing 1:21:41.200 --> 1:21:43.639 like that while I'm in that on that type of time, 1:21:43.680 --> 1:21:44.479 I just be locked in. 1:21:44.720 --> 1:21:46.800 Is that because you believe in semen retention or is 1:21:46.840 --> 1:21:49.080 it just no, just like you. 1:21:49.160 --> 1:21:56.160 Pract have you ever, I'm not interested letting that thing real. 1:21:58.520 --> 1:22:03.519 I'm not interesting, all right? So yeah, this was this 1:22:03.720 --> 1:22:08.360 was January first of this year leading up to that. So, like, 1:22:08.439 --> 1:22:11.760 I really love scorpios sexually, like they just always other 1:22:11.840 --> 1:22:14.800 science to what scorpios just we have a special place 1:22:14.840 --> 1:22:16.760 in the darkness together. We dance in the dark all 1:22:16.800 --> 1:22:17.040 the time. 1:22:17.040 --> 1:22:18.400 I loved the scorpios to do that. 1:22:18.800 --> 1:22:22.600 Yeah. So at this point, I got a couple of 1:22:22.600 --> 1:22:24.439 scorpios in my life, but it they've never been all 1:22:24.479 --> 1:22:26.240 in the same room. So I just hit them all 1:22:26.360 --> 1:22:28.559 up and put them in a group chat and I'm like, Hey, got. 1:22:28.400 --> 1:22:35.040 A scorpio orgy? What I want to So Wow, as 1:22:35.040 --> 1:22:36.599 a fellow scorpio, I'm honored. 1:22:36.840 --> 1:22:39.439 Yeah, it was beautiful. So I threw them in a 1:22:39.479 --> 1:22:42.160 group chat. I'm like, hey, I want everybody to get acquainted, 1:22:42.360 --> 1:22:44.960 you know, love y'all. Blah blah blah, Meet so and so, 1:22:45.120 --> 1:22:47.920 meet so and so. So they start talking and I 1:22:48.040 --> 1:22:49.000 was just like, this is what I want to do. 1:22:49.080 --> 1:22:51.519 I want all of us to meet and I just 1:22:51.600 --> 1:22:54.479 want to have like a weekend full of drugs and 1:22:54.720 --> 1:22:57.920 orgy because I need to like get his energy. I've 1:22:57.960 --> 1:22:59.639 been real disciplined, real good lately. 1:23:00.360 --> 1:23:04.280 You said say something, how many scorpios did we have gathered? 1:23:04.479 --> 1:23:07.280 It was three women, so you made see like it 1:23:07.360 --> 1:23:07.799 was twelve. 1:23:08.360 --> 1:23:11.880 No, I needed like my top assassins, like my top 1:23:11.920 --> 1:23:14.280 ones that I know get the job done, not for 1:23:14.400 --> 1:23:16.600 real because like everybody can't get the job done. I 1:23:16.720 --> 1:23:18.080 needed like my real killers. 1:23:18.120 --> 1:23:20.479 The show was going to happen, you know, and like 1:23:21.400 --> 1:23:22.080 not just for me. 1:23:22.320 --> 1:23:24.880 But when you like it's three someome etiquette, when you 1:23:25.080 --> 1:23:27.439 just introducing them, you're either gonna have to take the 1:23:27.520 --> 1:23:30.680 time to make everybody comfortable prior or you just need 1:23:30.760 --> 1:23:32.800 them real assassins. That's like, I love this nigga and 1:23:32.840 --> 1:23:35.000 whatever he wants, I don't care who there I'm gonna 1:23:35.040 --> 1:23:38.680 do it because this is what you want. That's true, right, 1:23:38.760 --> 1:23:40.479 I ain't had it. I ain't have time for all that. 1:23:40.680 --> 1:23:43.400 I'm like, I need my assassins. That's with the ships 1:23:43.600 --> 1:23:46.560 on on on site. So I threw them in a 1:23:46.560 --> 1:23:47.040 group chat. 1:23:47.400 --> 1:23:47.880 I let them know. 1:23:47.920 --> 1:23:49.240 I'm like, hey, I want to see all y'all at 1:23:49.280 --> 1:23:51.519 the same time. We're gonna fly out here, let's meet 1:23:51.600 --> 1:23:57.120 up blah blah blah. And so we flew out, uh 1:23:59.040 --> 1:24:01.240 and yeah, like they know what I like. So everybody 1:24:01.320 --> 1:24:04.599 pulled up with they lingerie on. They had like matching 1:24:04.680 --> 1:24:08.160 lunge like they had talk, they did anything, they got 1:24:08.200 --> 1:24:09.880 each other. No one was outside of me and wining 1:24:09.920 --> 1:24:14.120 steth Urgers. So it's like leading up to it and 1:24:14.200 --> 1:24:15.760 they know, like they know I like, I ain't on, 1:24:15.920 --> 1:24:18.120 So leading up to it, it was just like this 1:24:18.280 --> 1:24:20.840 one day, they just flooded my ship, everybody busting it 1:24:20.920 --> 1:24:23.439 up in the same position, like they separate, they're not together, 1:24:23.520 --> 1:24:26.439 but they all just lighting the group chat up like oh, 1:24:27.200 --> 1:24:29.680 who you want to come in first? Who? And I'm 1:24:29.800 --> 1:24:33.120 just like grown me in the inner child, like they 1:24:33.280 --> 1:24:36.439 I can't wait. We about to cut up. So I 1:24:36.600 --> 1:24:40.160 get there and literally it was dope. Like they always 1:24:40.200 --> 1:24:44.000 in separate rooms and like everybody was just on all fours. 1:24:44.080 --> 1:24:46.120 When I checked the doors, no one was in the 1:24:46.120 --> 1:24:48.679 living room, one was in room in another room. Everybody 1:24:48.720 --> 1:24:51.080 on all fours, like spread it open, busts open, just 1:24:51.160 --> 1:24:54.920 waiting for me to get there. So we had the group. Yeah, 1:24:54.920 --> 1:24:56.880 they got me super high. We had a group orgy 1:24:58.160 --> 1:25:01.799 Friday night, and then like they all got out. Everybody 1:25:01.920 --> 1:25:04.680 came in for like they won on one appointment and 1:25:04.760 --> 1:25:06.400 then the last one like I ain't gonna lie. I 1:25:06.400 --> 1:25:07.880 couldn't come no more. So I had to lay down. 1:25:07.880 --> 1:25:11.320 I had to get had. And I woke up that 1:25:11.439 --> 1:25:13.200 next morning and I texted him. I was just like 1:25:13.280 --> 1:25:15.760 what you doing and she was like, oh, I ain't 1:25:15.760 --> 1:25:17.400 think I got away. I'm waiting, and I was like, 1:25:17.479 --> 1:25:19.519 say last, and then went in there with her and 1:25:19.600 --> 1:25:21.600 then yeah, that was we had our group thinking and 1:25:21.720 --> 1:25:26.720 I just had me like two or three individual individual 1:25:27.160 --> 1:25:29.040 session in some sessions. 1:25:28.680 --> 1:25:32.400 So basically you had your own special scorpio whorehouse. 1:25:32.680 --> 1:25:34.879 Yeah, it was. It was important to have that scorpio 1:25:35.000 --> 1:25:37.360 energy in there. I ain't taking nothing from no other 1:25:37.400 --> 1:25:42.719 signs because I haven't met other than I realized, Like God, 1:25:42.960 --> 1:25:47.000 but the last this Scorpios, the last thieteen years of 1:25:47.040 --> 1:25:51.240 my life, there has always been a definite Scorpio in 1:25:51.320 --> 1:25:54.280 the mix, Like a scorpio gave me my first first 1:25:54.520 --> 1:25:57.640 first fifteen hundred dollars to start my business. So, like 1:25:57.840 --> 1:26:00.200 everyone forsist, I don't know if this business every thing 1:26:00.240 --> 1:26:02.120 I done will be done. This was thirteen years ago. 1:26:02.920 --> 1:26:04.880 The same scorpio taught me how to eat pussy because 1:26:04.880 --> 1:26:08.240 she was a lesbian. My older scorpio has helped me 1:26:08.320 --> 1:26:11.280 mentally on ways that I can't explain, helped me to 1:26:11.360 --> 1:26:13.479 evolve as a man, be a better father, better lover. 1:26:15.000 --> 1:26:18.400 My other scorpio, y'all saw that relationship publicly, So yeah, 1:26:18.439 --> 1:26:21.960 scorpios have always always had an impact. Yeah, for sure, 1:26:22.080 --> 1:26:25.679 I love him. Interesting, my top assassin is a couple 1:26:25.680 --> 1:26:26.479 of them, is scorpio. 1:26:26.560 --> 1:26:28.400 You know you kept saying assassin. I was like, I 1:26:28.520 --> 1:26:31.000 want to be calling this That literally was my father. 1:26:32.360 --> 1:26:35.480 They be chill and real playing. 1:26:37.000 --> 1:26:40.560 Now when they get crazy. When they get crazy, that 1:26:40.600 --> 1:26:42.720 could be a problem, but for the most part, they 1:26:42.840 --> 1:26:46.120 be chilled, laid back. We've been in the same rooms 1:26:46.200 --> 1:26:46.960 with thirty people. 1:26:47.040 --> 1:26:49.320 They keep their composure I'm just letting you know, Derek, 1:26:49.320 --> 1:26:51.920 you're about to get an onslaught of scorpios in your 1:26:51.960 --> 1:26:53.760 inbox from this on. 1:26:53.840 --> 1:26:56.360 All for so many scorpios on all fours is going 1:26:56.439 --> 1:26:57.040 to be crazy. 1:26:57.400 --> 1:27:00.280 Yes, like unique identifiers. And I appreciate it because I 1:27:00.400 --> 1:27:02.519 like panties to the side, and they all like made 1:27:02.560 --> 1:27:03.559 sure they was to the side. 1:27:04.160 --> 1:27:06.000 They were paid attention to detail. 1:27:06.200 --> 1:27:08.439 Yeah for sure. They know, like I like certain movements 1:27:08.479 --> 1:27:09.880 and all that, and they all they went out their 1:27:09.920 --> 1:27:11.519 way and made that really special form. 1:27:11.680 --> 1:27:12.400 That's beautiful. 1:27:13.720 --> 1:27:14.960 Congratulations, thank you. 1:27:15.000 --> 1:27:15.880 I'm really happy for you. 1:27:19.479 --> 1:27:32.479 It's Tarot time. And you know I peaked at this 1:27:32.600 --> 1:27:38.360 Tarot card. This card, but Derek Poley pulled the King 1:27:38.479 --> 1:27:40.800 of Wands. Shout out to Mahogany Terror. 1:27:41.240 --> 1:27:43.479 Derek were witches. So the cards are always on point. 1:27:43.840 --> 1:27:44.280 I gotcha. 1:27:46.080 --> 1:27:52.200 King of Wands, natural born, leader, Vision, entrepreneur, honor. The 1:27:52.280 --> 1:27:55.400 King of WANs represents pure fier energy and its masculine 1:27:55.439 --> 1:28:00.000 form unlike the other one. Unlike the other ones court cards, 1:28:00.200 --> 1:28:02.720 the King is not so interested in creation and creativity 1:28:03.280 --> 1:28:06.519 or is dreaming up ideas and implementing them himself. Instead, 1:28:06.560 --> 1:28:08.519 he is more inclined to take an idea and then 1:28:08.640 --> 1:28:11.640 enlist others to help him actualize it. Thus, when the 1:28:11.720 --> 1:28:13.680 King of Wands appears in a tear reading, it is 1:28:13.720 --> 1:28:15.360 a sign that you are stepping into a role of 1:28:15.479 --> 1:28:19.080 visionary leader, reading to ready to direct your people towards 1:28:19.120 --> 1:28:21.479 a common goal. You have a clear vision of where 1:28:21.479 --> 1:28:23.840 you want to go, and now you're manifesting that vision 1:28:24.800 --> 1:28:28.639 with the support of those around you. That's funny, others 1:28:28.760 --> 1:28:32.920 naturally gravitate towards you because you're charismatic, focused and determined, 1:28:32.920 --> 1:28:34.920 and they believe in you and your vision. They want 1:28:34.960 --> 1:28:36.640 to be a part of what you're manifesting and are 1:28:36.680 --> 1:28:38.920 here to support you one hundred percent of the way. 1:28:39.360 --> 1:28:41.840 You are also masterful at getting other people to do 1:28:41.960 --> 1:28:45.240 work for you while you keep them on side on 1:28:45.400 --> 1:28:51.240 the side throughout the process. Yeah, let's see. The appearance 1:28:51.240 --> 1:28:55.320 is for a person business this overall, but you know, 1:28:55.439 --> 1:29:01.080 take how it applies to you. You never just go 1:29:01.200 --> 1:29:03.559 with the flow. Instead, you prefer to embark on a direct, 1:29:04.200 --> 1:29:07.080 robust course of action. The appearance of the King of 1:29:07.200 --> 1:29:10.200 WANs also suggest that an opportunity is presenting itself to you, 1:29:10.640 --> 1:29:12.879 and now you have the power to take on the challenge. 1:29:13.240 --> 1:29:16.439 You are determining. You are the determining factor in this situation. 1:29:17.000 --> 1:29:19.839 If you want it to be successful, it will, and equally, 1:29:19.920 --> 1:29:21.760 if you don't fully commit to it, the seed will 1:29:21.760 --> 1:29:24.559 struggle to blossom and grow. You hold the power. 1:29:25.680 --> 1:29:27.760 I like that. That sounded really relatable. 1:29:29.120 --> 1:29:31.200 Sounds like what you just said about yourself. Literally, you 1:29:31.200 --> 1:29:32.840 don't believe in God. I had the power. 1:29:34.560 --> 1:29:37.559 The wrestler said, Oh, the best there is, the best 1:29:37.600 --> 1:29:38.679 there was, and the best ever. 1:29:38.760 --> 1:29:39.559 Wivie. Amen. 1:29:40.040 --> 1:29:42.679 Amen. Everyone should feel the way about themselves. 1:29:44.240 --> 1:29:45.800 Well, Derek, thank you so much. 1:29:45.920 --> 1:29:46.800 I got a question for you. 1:29:47.040 --> 1:29:47.880 Oh, what what's up? 1:29:49.800 --> 1:29:52.960 Do y'all get like a lot of black from men? 1:29:53.600 --> 1:29:55.639 Or men don't really follow y'all L like it's mostly women. 1:29:56.080 --> 1:29:59.360 It literally is mostly women. But the few times we've 1:29:59.400 --> 1:30:04.080 had some some pretty off putting interactions on like podcasts 1:30:04.280 --> 1:30:08.280 like being Caught off Guard Wait in person. Yeah, I'm 1:30:08.360 --> 1:30:10.400 sure I'm sure you see all the niggas on the 1:30:10.439 --> 1:30:14.280 internet hating women, so definitely they definitely don't love us, 1:30:14.720 --> 1:30:17.160 Like be free your topics. 1:30:17.160 --> 1:30:19.599 I don't feel like your topics are things that should 1:30:19.640 --> 1:30:22.439 even bother them. I've never seen nothing that was like 1:30:22.520 --> 1:30:22.800 as a. 1:30:22.880 --> 1:30:27.240 Man may be talking shit, but we don't as a 1:30:27.280 --> 1:30:28.640 man because we ain't mess, you. 1:30:28.640 --> 1:30:30.240 Know what I'm saying. I don't see why a man 1:30:30.280 --> 1:30:33.120 would watch any of y'all content and feel away as 1:30:33.160 --> 1:30:34.480 a man, like because. 1:30:34.240 --> 1:30:36.400 We're free and because of well, it's usually if it's 1:30:36.479 --> 1:30:37.599 mirroring something for them. 1:30:37.760 --> 1:30:41.040 So we promote pleasure and happiness, and you know, men 1:30:41.120 --> 1:30:42.919 don't like their women happy and pleasurable. 1:30:43.000 --> 1:30:46.120 They hate. Yeah, it's got to be it's got to 1:30:46.120 --> 1:30:49.080 be what it looks like for them. Yeah, I mean, 1:30:49.120 --> 1:30:51.000 I think for the most part though we've we've been 1:30:51.160 --> 1:30:55.640 pretty protected. There's been definitely moments, but for the. 1:30:55.680 --> 1:30:58.200 Most part we've been we're pretty protected. 1:30:58.520 --> 1:31:01.479 So like I saw the the Nick Cannon posts other day, 1:31:01.560 --> 1:31:02.680 what was the response like. 1:31:04.080 --> 1:31:07.160 Us that we posted, No, it was the new cam 1:31:07.240 --> 1:31:10.840 new CA. I mean it was what I thought it 1:31:10.880 --> 1:31:13.200 would be, which was you know, even there were there 1:31:13.240 --> 1:31:16.160 are even a lot of men in that agreeing with 1:31:16.960 --> 1:31:19.000 or just like saying like, now, this is not how 1:31:19.040 --> 1:31:22.320 it's supposed to be, and clearly he's confused about it. 1:31:22.360 --> 1:31:25.479 So y'all feel like if a baby come about, you 1:31:25.560 --> 1:31:27.680 should Miriam No, no. 1:31:27.680 --> 1:31:29.439 No, no, no, no, no, I mean we both have 1:31:29.560 --> 1:31:32.400 kids and we weren't married, so we can't subscribe to that. 1:31:33.000 --> 1:31:35.240 But I think and have done and doing it that 1:31:35.360 --> 1:31:39.160 way once. I think I understand the necessity of like, 1:31:39.640 --> 1:31:41.960 like you said, a tribe like at the very minimum, 1:31:42.080 --> 1:31:44.080 the two people in the household, because I've done it 1:31:44.520 --> 1:31:46.400 otherwise and so if I'm going to do it again, 1:31:46.439 --> 1:31:48.120 I'm gonna put my body through that. I'm going to 1:31:48.400 --> 1:31:51.679 dedicate my life essentially like I do. I would prefer 1:31:51.720 --> 1:31:54.360 a partner to be in the household. I'm personally not 1:31:54.400 --> 1:31:56.720 going to put myself in a position with ten other 1:31:56.800 --> 1:31:58.679 women because I know what I need. 1:31:58.920 --> 1:32:00.880 Right, you know what I mean, y'all didn't work out? 1:32:01.439 --> 1:32:03.439 Would you still allow the partner to be in the 1:32:03.520 --> 1:32:07.400 house so the child can't have that like dual interaction 1:32:07.720 --> 1:32:09.520 or you gotta. 1:32:09.280 --> 1:32:12.680 Go no because he had to go Like I have 1:32:12.760 --> 1:32:14.160 a baby daddy. He doesn't live with me. 1:32:15.760 --> 1:32:18.000 She's saying, what if your baby daddy said, I want 1:32:18.040 --> 1:32:19.639 to stay in the house, be able to be together, 1:32:19.720 --> 1:32:20.720 We're going to raise a child. 1:32:20.800 --> 1:32:22.519 You can live next door, you live down the street. 1:32:22.600 --> 1:32:25.240 But are you like even respectful, You're mature. I'm all 1:32:25.280 --> 1:32:28.360 about the tribe shit. Wenome vacations together, but like chill, 1:32:28.640 --> 1:32:31.400 like be cool with what's happening over here, which is 1:32:31.720 --> 1:32:33.680 bitches are moving on, bitches are doing what I want 1:32:33.680 --> 1:32:35.800 to do, which is probably in my case, you didn't 1:32:35.840 --> 1:32:37.599 really love that about me to begin with, so you're 1:32:37.600 --> 1:32:40.240 definitely not gonna love it what I'm without you. So 1:32:40.760 --> 1:32:43.600 it's not realistic for my where my life needs to be. 1:32:43.760 --> 1:32:46.720 But yeah, no, definitely not. 1:32:47.680 --> 1:32:49.479 And I don't think it has to be that way. 1:32:49.520 --> 1:32:52.080 But I do think like when you can when you 1:32:52.200 --> 1:32:53.760 continue to have a lot of kids, you're not in 1:32:53.760 --> 1:32:56.240 the same household. It's just science math. There's only twenty 1:32:56.280 --> 1:32:58.760 four hours in a day, like you said, so there's 1:32:58.800 --> 1:33:01.599 only so much chrismas whatever, Like there's so much time, 1:33:01.840 --> 1:33:04.320 you know, like just you have to sleep, you gotta travel, 1:33:04.360 --> 1:33:07.760 you gotta work. And I think men think that like 1:33:08.360 --> 1:33:11.160 the money is enough, and we see how that we 1:33:11.280 --> 1:33:15.960 see the results of that. There are men lacking real 1:33:16.040 --> 1:33:17.240 men in their life, and that's why we got a 1:33:17.240 --> 1:33:19.400 lot of niggas on the internet talking shit and they 1:33:19.400 --> 1:33:20.920 don't know what the fuck they're talking about, loud and 1:33:21.000 --> 1:33:23.000 proud because they haven't had men to guide them who 1:33:23.040 --> 1:33:24.479 have been in their lives. I'm not saying that's the 1:33:24.560 --> 1:33:26.959 case for everyone, but it's important. 1:33:27.400 --> 1:33:32.120 No, I agree. I notice in my situation, like you 1:33:32.200 --> 1:33:34.320 were saying, with the actual time, not just the money. 1:33:35.360 --> 1:33:38.160 You definitely you can only be omnipresent, but so long, 1:33:38.280 --> 1:33:40.559 but you'll see the effects of like not just having 1:33:40.640 --> 1:33:44.240 that energy in the room period. And scientifically it is hard. 1:33:44.280 --> 1:33:45.880 I think most men that do that they have to 1:33:45.920 --> 1:33:49.719 make peace of like they're gonna die parenting. Like somebody 1:33:49.760 --> 1:33:51.920 that got like me, like, you can't have ten children 1:33:52.680 --> 1:33:55.760 and multiple households and be playing in like month long vacations. 1:33:55.920 --> 1:33:58.080 So I think you can, and they do, you know, 1:33:58.120 --> 1:33:59.639 That's what I'm saying. I think they say, we thinking 1:33:59.680 --> 1:34:01.360 you could have one hundred children and live your best 1:34:01.880 --> 1:34:05.280 You don't live your daddy life. Exist. 1:34:05.560 --> 1:34:07.160 That's not the thinking, and that's the problem. 1:34:07.640 --> 1:34:07.800 You know. 1:34:07.800 --> 1:34:10.120 They're thinking, Oh, I did I did this much, that's enough. 1:34:10.240 --> 1:34:12.240 Your mom has the rest, And that's selfish. 1:34:12.920 --> 1:34:13.320 I get it. 1:34:14.040 --> 1:34:16.799 Yeah, And I don't think. I think Cam really walked 1:34:16.840 --> 1:34:20.040 himself into a total trap with he just set himself up. 1:34:20.160 --> 1:34:23.360 He set himself up, especially what he said he didn't 1:34:23.360 --> 1:34:24.040 want to get married. 1:34:24.400 --> 1:34:25.880 He said he wants more kids from God. 1:34:26.040 --> 1:34:27.400 He just wants more kids God. 1:34:27.800 --> 1:34:30.759 And it didn't it meant I don't know the conception. 1:34:31.000 --> 1:34:34.280 I don't know that he wasn't basically you know, he 1:34:34.400 --> 1:34:36.800 wasn't basically claiming the woman he just had a child with. 1:34:36.960 --> 1:34:39.480 I mean, obviously we don't know the dynamic of their relationship. 1:34:39.560 --> 1:34:42.240 It appears that they're together. I think. More so it 1:34:42.400 --> 1:34:46.400 was just his nonchalantness around having all these kids and 1:34:46.520 --> 1:34:49.639 wanting more, and also like knowing that he's not present 1:34:49.720 --> 1:34:52.240 in any of their homes, you know, and she, I 1:34:52.280 --> 1:34:54.679 don't know. I felt like she eloquently broke his ass 1:34:54.720 --> 1:34:57.719 down and he had the opportunity to respond, and he didn't. 1:34:57.760 --> 1:34:58.160 He didn't. 1:34:58.200 --> 1:35:00.800 Maybe maybe he's thought more about it, has something to say, 1:35:00.840 --> 1:35:05.240 I don't know, but yeah, it was just of course, 1:35:06.040 --> 1:35:07.800 most of the women that were in the comments were like, 1:35:08.240 --> 1:35:10.840 what the fuck this is the problem, But there were 1:35:10.840 --> 1:35:14.000 also men in there that were also had the same sentiment. 1:35:13.720 --> 1:35:16.120 So you know, yeah, no, I see it both ways 1:35:16.120 --> 1:35:19.800 for sure, because I've had seasons where I'll be disappointed 1:35:19.840 --> 1:35:21.840 in myself based on the time spent, So it definitely 1:35:21.880 --> 1:35:22.960 can't happen. I don't care how. 1:35:22.920 --> 1:35:26.360 Smart should I have one kid thinking I'm not spending 1:35:26.439 --> 1:35:26.960 enough time. 1:35:26.960 --> 1:35:31.320 Right, Gilt is already like do her hair too, Like, yeah. 1:35:31.280 --> 1:35:33.560 I missed her birthday or this or that. Yeah, So 1:35:33.800 --> 1:35:36.759 it's just the guilt of parenting is just it's never. 1:35:36.920 --> 1:35:39.080 I tell everybody that being a conscious parent is a 1:35:39.120 --> 1:35:42.120 gift and the curse because the stress you sleep and 1:35:42.200 --> 1:35:44.080 live with and the words something is just out of 1:35:44.160 --> 1:35:44.599 this world. 1:35:46.880 --> 1:35:50.080 Well, I'm grateful that you've armed your children and that 1:35:50.240 --> 1:35:53.760 they are going to grow up to be intelligent, powerful, 1:35:54.360 --> 1:35:57.679 confident kids. We need more of those in the world. 1:35:58.040 --> 1:36:00.880 Yeah, we do. We need soldiers because we see what's 1:36:00.920 --> 1:36:01.800 happening without them. 1:36:03.880 --> 1:36:05.559 So where can our people find you, Derek? 1:36:05.840 --> 1:36:08.800 Oh, they could find everything at Derek gracetoo dot com. 1:36:09.040 --> 1:36:12.400 All my social media everything is Derek Grace to t 1:36:12.720 --> 1:36:15.280 w O. You know, I brought your curriculums and books 1:36:15.400 --> 1:36:17.240 and a board game, but I forgot it out there. 1:36:17.320 --> 1:36:19.240 But oh my god, I was hoping that that was 1:36:19.320 --> 1:36:21.360 for us. But I didn't want to be like nosy, Oh. 1:36:21.360 --> 1:36:23.720 No, so y'all in my bag because I forgot the 1:36:23.760 --> 1:36:26.760 wrapping paper in the airbnb. No, So it's just like 1:36:27.080 --> 1:36:29.000 in the bag rip because there's so many books in there. 1:36:29.080 --> 1:36:31.040 But yeah, I brought you some. 1:36:31.280 --> 1:36:31.519 Thank you. 1:36:35.760 --> 1:36:36.480 He's bringing. 1:36:41.479 --> 1:36:41.800 Thank you. 1:36:42.040 --> 1:36:42.680 Appreciate it. Bro. 1:36:44.520 --> 1:36:48.840 Oh yeah, I had to like dig deep because I don't. 1:36:48.720 --> 1:36:54.000 Do physical No more book though, going to archives and finals. 1:36:54.680 --> 1:36:55.040 Thank you. 1:36:56.720 --> 1:36:58.240 I was gonna say, we'll give you a book for 1:36:58.560 --> 1:37:00.760 for you and for your baby mom. But I'm like, 1:37:00.800 --> 1:37:02.240 I don't know if you want her to have our book. 1:37:03.920 --> 1:37:04.559 I'm just joking. 1:37:04.920 --> 1:37:07.719 Oh no, all your baby mamas need to have our book. 1:37:07.760 --> 1:37:08.400 It's important. 1:37:08.960 --> 1:37:13.280 Yeah, I definitely want to say. She overdes she's been 1:37:13.360 --> 1:37:16.519 asking me to send her on your retreat since last year. 1:37:16.600 --> 1:37:18.040 Come on, circulate the black dollar. 1:37:18.200 --> 1:37:21.840 Come on, it's luxury, it's it's such a beautiful hook. 1:37:22.439 --> 1:37:23.759 She'll be come back refreshed. 1:37:23.760 --> 1:37:26.160 And oh she's going to be ready. She'll come over, 1:37:26.400 --> 1:37:26.960 She'll be ready. 1:37:28.160 --> 1:37:31.000 She deserves her. That's my right hand in the in 1:37:31.120 --> 1:37:34.400 the family aspect. She she holds it down. Damn you 1:37:34.439 --> 1:37:38.400 are all these books. Yeah, I'm actually missing too for you. 1:37:38.560 --> 1:37:40.519 So I got you all the same stuff a piece, 1:37:40.600 --> 1:37:46.240 but I'm missing two. I couldn't find Wow, thank you 1:37:46.520 --> 1:37:49.840 affirmations that she was asking about, like those three volume one, two, 1:37:49.880 --> 1:37:52.200 and three, those are all affirmations. 1:37:52.360 --> 1:37:58.320 I love it, thank you. Read one. The television is 1:37:58.360 --> 1:38:01.519 called scheduled programming for and put the phone, radio and 1:38:01.600 --> 1:38:02.360 television down. 1:38:03.160 --> 1:38:05.040 It's literally fucking programming. 1:38:05.120 --> 1:38:07.160 And see the difference. This is a cool difference. That 1:38:07.280 --> 1:38:10.080 black one, that thy one, that's my autobiography. I believed 1:38:10.120 --> 1:38:12.519 in God when I wrote that book. By the time 1:38:12.600 --> 1:38:14.599 I released a yellow one that says gods and ones. 1:38:14.439 --> 1:38:16.080 Man, I no longer believe in God in that one 1:38:16.120 --> 1:38:16.760 win number one. 1:38:16.960 --> 1:38:20.840 So yeah, this is like two totally different perspectives, way different, 1:38:21.520 --> 1:38:28.280 way different. Interesting not thank God, right, never mind, thank 1:38:28.320 --> 1:38:32.320 God and never mind, never mind. I don't mean that back. 1:38:32.439 --> 1:38:36.120 Thank me. Oh well, thank you so much for coming 1:38:36.200 --> 1:38:38.479 and joining us and coming to LA and pulling up 1:38:38.680 --> 1:38:40.840 and you know, showing us love. I appreciate that. 1:38:41.479 --> 1:38:42.120 I appreciate you. 1:38:42.479 --> 1:38:45.400 Yeah, I'm so happy this finally happened. Y'all know where 1:38:45.439 --> 1:38:48.200 to find us at Good Momsbad Choices dot com at 1:38:48.240 --> 1:38:50.800 Good Mom's Bad Choices on Instagram. Make sure you check 1:38:50.800 --> 1:38:53.360 out the good Vibe treat because we are going to 1:38:54.040 --> 1:38:56.439 We're going all over the world next year with our tribe, 1:38:57.040 --> 1:38:59.280 and we have some really beautiful experiences. We have a 1:38:59.320 --> 1:39:03.559 couple's retreats. That is, it's different. It's going to be sexy. 1:39:03.680 --> 1:39:05.880 So come bring your the love of your life or 1:39:06.000 --> 1:39:07.599 come by yourself to one of our other ones. 1:39:08.840 --> 1:39:10.000 Can bring more than one woman. 1:39:10.439 --> 1:39:12.400 We can accommodate you. We can figure that out. 1:39:14.280 --> 1:39:17.240 We're open to all of the ladies. Yeah, Derek, actually 1:39:17.360 --> 1:39:19.840 you all should come. This will be a beautiful you know, 1:39:20.080 --> 1:39:22.840 this will be active self care for you. This will 1:39:22.840 --> 1:39:24.519 be an active self care that I think you. 1:39:25.760 --> 1:39:29.080 Yeah, June eleven to the Ace, June eleven to the eighteenth, 1:39:30.360 --> 1:39:30.840 we're going to be. 1:39:30.880 --> 1:39:33.160 I gotta try to make sure those cycles is a cyclone. 1:39:33.200 --> 1:39:37.040 I can't. We can't hang the cycle the period. You 1:39:37.160 --> 1:39:39.000 got no beiness on a vacation your cycle, and so 1:39:39.040 --> 1:39:39.599 I gotta. 1:39:39.600 --> 1:39:43.880 Why this was a booty hole. That's more. 1:39:43.960 --> 1:39:45.320 Anyway, you don't run red lights. 1:39:46.000 --> 1:39:48.559 No, I've done that once. I never do that again. 1:39:49.920 --> 1:39:52.719 That was terrible. I don't like blood on me. That's terrible. 1:39:52.840 --> 1:39:54.720 We have to talk about that later. Like, guys, if 1:39:54.720 --> 1:39:55.520 you only blood. 1:39:55.280 --> 1:40:02.320 On you from a distance, that's actually true. That actually 1:40:02.360 --> 1:40:03.200 doesn't make a lot of sense. 1:40:03.520 --> 1:40:06.679 Very high guns, I mean I'm shooting from I guess 1:40:06.880 --> 1:40:08.200 some one from ten feet away. 1:40:08.479 --> 1:40:10.040 I have to peek. 1:40:11.240 --> 1:40:12.559 Wait, let's let's cut. 1:40:12.680 --> 1:40:18.920 Let's cut it. Well, we can you can just walk off? 1:40:20.760 --> 1:40:26.400 Wait, what's okay? You said you? We said bye? 1:40:26.680 --> 1:40:27.519 I think we said bye? 1:40:27.640 --> 1:40:28.960 We did? Oh okay bye? 1:40:30.600 --> 1:40:32.439 Yeah? I've been so good? 1:40:32.520 --> 1:40:34.479 Can't you tell? I went through a drought. 1:40:34.520 --> 1:40:37.040 That's until I found a well maym have been known earth? 1:40:37.120 --> 1:40:39.719 I used to be broken tail, now got the blue dancer. 1:40:39.800 --> 1:40:42.439 Might be yond say just down throat shot with popping 1:40:42.520 --> 1:40:45.240 this cow wearing our voices. Patriarchy kept it in the 1:40:45.320 --> 1:40:48.160 box to exploit its women put the pee and powers. 1:40:48.200 --> 1:40:50.080 So what's the pointing that they want me to be good? 1:40:50.160 --> 1:40:52.320 So? I mean bad choice is bad mom? 1:40:52.479 --> 1:40:54.280 Not a bad mom, but a bad mom. 1:40:54.400 --> 1:40:57.400 Bitter's in, put cannabis in their bath, bomb walked in 1:40:57.640 --> 1:40:59.519 boss's cap, and I blew his cat ball. 1:40:59.640 --> 1:41:02.400 Time yall, Now I'm immune to the cat calls. 1:41:02.240 --> 1:41:04.800 Her being no waister? Straight to what like a dollar sign? 1:41:04.880 --> 1:41:05.679 Mother? Rent the lover? 1:41:05.760 --> 1:41:07.360 When to with the like a water sign? 1:41:07.360 --> 1:41:09.960 Where you're ren the winter essential will when the summertime? 1:41:10.200 --> 1:41:10.919 I do what'll? 1:41:10.960 --> 1:41:12.599 Ain't no one that needs to run it back