Speaker 1: Once upon a time there was a good old traditional housewife.
Speaker 1: She cooked, she cleaned, cared for her children and the
Speaker 1: man of the house, and of course she didn't talk back.
Speaker 1: She was both obedient and soft by nature. She was
Speaker 1: a good woman who always made good choices.
Speaker 2: That we're good mom's bad choices.
Speaker 3: Who's single mom? Who said, but the patriarchy you shared
Speaker 3: all their bad choices.
Speaker 2: And found out they weren't so bad after all.
Speaker 3: We're experts. Overshairs and your new bestie.
Speaker 2: Sit back and near the ride. I can do a
Speaker 2: pat on my mom.
Speaker 3: Welcome back to good Mom's bad Choices. I'm Eric and
Speaker 3: I'm Nila.
Speaker 2: My nipples are hard.
Speaker 3: You asked for the air to be on, bitch, Now
Speaker 3: your nipples are hard. Now you're gonn announce it.
Speaker 2: I mean, for those that are listening, if you go
Speaker 2: to YouTube, you can see my hard nipples. I don't
Speaker 2: know you're nervous, no, but I'm actually really proud of
Speaker 2: the left one because this one doesn't get hard. So
Speaker 2: the fact that it's hard is this is important.
Speaker 3: If you just tune in a little bit longer, when
Speaker 3: it gets ten degrees less, mine will get me.
Speaker 2: Mary, I'm getting sensation back in this one three six
Speaker 2: years later.
Speaker 3: I know it only took.
Speaker 2: Seven years, but the doctor said it could take years.
Speaker 3: You've been working on it.
Speaker 2: A few men have been working on this tit. Your
Speaker 2: former have been trying to bring this titty back to
Speaker 2: life resuscitate. No, truly, like there's been guys that have
Speaker 2: been like determined to get the sensation back to this titch.
Speaker 3: Well you think you know everything about it, bitch. Yeah,
Speaker 3: I forgot to tell you that I had no idea.
Speaker 3: I feel I'm happy that the hard work paid off
Speaker 3: me too, gives me hope.
Speaker 2: How are you.
Speaker 3: I'm good. How are you?
Speaker 2: I'm good. I feel like I've been seeing you. I
Speaker 2: missed you.
Speaker 3: Hi, Hi, I know I feel like we have you know,
Speaker 3: we've been out of the office for some time.
Speaker 2: I know, I know. I'm excited to be back. And
Speaker 2: we have a special guest, you guys. And I'm really
Speaker 2: excited about this guest because we tried to get this guest. Like,
Speaker 2: was it two years ago? It was almost It was
Speaker 2: not last August, it was it was the last to May.
Speaker 2: Oh my god, it was a lot of shit happened
Speaker 2: that last year. Oh god, my brain blocked most flashed
Speaker 2: your out.
Speaker 3: I know, I know you did. Yeah, I've been steady
Speaker 3: stalking this guest over some years. I don't even know
Speaker 3: where I discovered him. But today we are very very
Speaker 3: happy after a year plus long of stalking, like good moms,
Speaker 3: do we finally have our friend, our Floridian entrepreneur, serial entrepreneur,
Speaker 3: father of many, father of many, biological and not biological,
Speaker 3: Derek Grace.
Speaker 4: I appreciate having Yes. I think May was when we met,
Speaker 4: but I think you did reach out a year prior
Speaker 4: in a DM. I just didn't see it until like
Speaker 4: almost a year later. Dan, it was in Miami. R.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm a fucking we're professional stalkers. You think we're playing.
Speaker 3: We'd be stalking people for years until we meet them,
Speaker 3: Like we see them in the club and I'm like, hey,
Speaker 3: check your DMS.
Speaker 2: It's me.
Speaker 3: Hey, you want to call on my show? I'm like, yeah,
Speaker 3: We've done that over like years and years. But you
Speaker 3: know what, being a little psycho on the DMS, it
Speaker 3: obviously works because here you are.
Speaker 4: Who's been the hardest to catch up to.
Speaker 3: I mean the people who still haven't come on the show, specifica,
Speaker 3: we're still waiting for you. Now we know Duran, so
Speaker 3: we're just gonna like get yeah, Duran, He's gonna be
Speaker 3: the link.
Speaker 2: Come on, Duran, please.
Speaker 3: He doesn't even know it yet. I know we're plotting on.
Speaker 3: We're grooming him, hypnotizing you will introduce us to Auntie
Speaker 3: Queen mother.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 3: Last time in fucking Florida. We I feel so bad still.
Speaker 3: We had you drive down from Tampa like hours and
Speaker 3: then the fucking studio was like, sorry, we're booked double
Speaker 3: the hurricane.
Speaker 4: No, no, no.
Speaker 2: No, it was the studio fucked up and it was.
Speaker 3: It was Labor Day or Memorial weekend or something.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it was crazy, and I.
Speaker 3: Was like, well, do you want to at least go
Speaker 3: to bro?
Speaker 2: It was some crazy, but you were so gracious and
Speaker 2: so kind, and you were like, it's cool, let's go eat.
Speaker 2: I was like, wow, No, it was me.
Speaker 3: I was like, let's go eat. I was like, I've
Speaker 3: been waiting five years to meet this nigga. We're going
Speaker 3: to eat. Get dress bit wait.
Speaker 2: And then Jamila was just fangirling over here, and I
Speaker 2: was like, if you don't sit your little thirsty ass down.
Speaker 2: Orlando was sitting there like what the fuck is wrong
Speaker 2: with her, and I'm like, listen, I.
Speaker 4: Get your bitch.
Speaker 3: I preannounced to everyone. I don't give a fuck. I'll
Speaker 3: take my responsibility. I said, I have a crush on
Speaker 3: this nigga. I've been stalking him for five years. We're
Speaker 3: going to breakfast. I can't believe he drove down here
Speaker 3: and they fucked us like this at a studio. We're
Speaker 3: going to meet him right now. Put on your good ship.
Speaker 2: And I did, and we did.
Speaker 3: We look cute, we did. And tell me more, Derek,
Speaker 3: you like waffles. They did talk about me for about
Speaker 3: two weeks after that that, I was.
Speaker 2: We did me and Orlando. We're talking about Mila for
Speaker 2: a good two weeks. Yeah, and her thirstiness. But I
Speaker 2: just I believe in divine timing, and I believe you
Speaker 2: were just supposed to be here with us in our
Speaker 2: studio in La. We weren't supposed to pay those random
Speaker 2: people money to record you. We were supposed to, you know.
Speaker 3: Do it here or we can drink and smell and
Speaker 3: hang out.
Speaker 2: Amen.
Speaker 3: Do you like La?
Speaker 4: Uh No, not like that. The cost of living is
Speaker 4: crazy compared to what stuff costs us from Florida and
Speaker 4: uh oh yeah, And I can't bring my guns here,
Speaker 4: and I hate that anywhere I can't bring my guns.
Speaker 2: I can't you bring your guns here.
Speaker 4: They don't have reciprocity with Florida. So like if I
Speaker 4: travel as my security company, then that's different because you
Speaker 4: can loophole that by saying this is business. But if
Speaker 4: I'm just out here on Lesion and now I can't
Speaker 4: bring my guns.
Speaker 3: Yeah, LA has pretty strict carry carry laws, carry and
Speaker 3: conceal laws. It's like almost like why the fuck would
Speaker 3: I have a gun. I can't even have it on
Speaker 3: access if something happens randomly, like the like the the
Speaker 3: bullets and the guns have to be separated. I see
Speaker 3: the lock box like in the trunk or in the
Speaker 3: glove compartment, Like if I'm getting attacked, who the fuck
Speaker 3: has time? Okay, yeah you even think I have like
Speaker 3: a gun with all this knowledge.
Speaker 2: I'm going to the shooting range this weekend. I want
Speaker 2: to go, yeah everyone on Sunday.
Speaker 3: I have it in May and like I just I
Speaker 3: just really believe in my soul that I'm just going
Speaker 3: to pick up the gun and just be crazy with it. No,
Speaker 3: but I'm going to be a fucking ninjast. And they
Speaker 3: were like, oh, my.
Speaker 2: God looking at her. Just a natural, Yeah, a natural
Speaker 2: shoot seven.
Speaker 3: That's my dream. I think it's going to happen.
Speaker 2: I will, I have, I have, not even not knowing
Speaker 2: even how to say the word. I put the bullets
Speaker 2: in the gun loaded. I loaded the clip before because
Speaker 2: my baby daddy, he would go out of town and
Speaker 2: this nigga always thought people were after him, and so
Speaker 2: he would be like, Okay, I'm leaving, but like I
Speaker 2: want you to have a gun. I'm like, so you're
Speaker 2: leaving me with a gun, you're going out of town.
Speaker 2: How would you leave me with security? Because I don't
Speaker 2: know how to use the ship. So he would give
Speaker 2: me like a five minute tutorial of how to use
Speaker 2: the gun. I'm like, this is how people die, like
Speaker 2: they shoot themselves. And so I did load a few clips.
Speaker 2: I couldn't tell you how to do it now. I
Speaker 2: just prayed every time he left that like whoever he
Speaker 2: thought was after him wasn't going to come after me.
Speaker 4: After you loaded the clip, did one into the.
Speaker 2: Yes, he put the one there so that like he
Speaker 2: would be like, oh, you have to do is take
Speaker 2: the safety off and shoot. That's it. You don't have
Speaker 2: to know anything else. But just know, like you gotta
Speaker 2: hold it strong because it might go back. And then
Speaker 2: he so then he left me with because remember that time.
Speaker 2: So one time I did mushrooms by myself. It was
Speaker 2: the first time I ever did mushrooms on myself. At
Speaker 2: my house, I was about to have like a beautiful
Speaker 2: night drink wine, color and ship.
Speaker 3: Sheela came by.
Speaker 2: She was like, all right, bitch, have fun. I left.
Speaker 2: Some drunk guy tried to break into my house and
Speaker 2: at the high of my peak, the peak of my high,
Speaker 2: I mean, and I was like, oh my god, like
Speaker 2: I'm fucking high. I don't have any weapons, Like I
Speaker 2: don't know how to I can't use this gun.
Speaker 4: Like what did you think he was hallucinating that first?
Speaker 2: I really thought I it was hallucinating. I did because
Speaker 2: I had music really loud. And then I heard someone
Speaker 2: screaming outside and I was like, I'm tripping, and I
Speaker 2: lowered it and I was like, am I tripping? And
Speaker 2: then he just started getting closer and closer to the door,
Speaker 2: and then he started banging on my door. It was
Speaker 2: like twelve o'clock.
Speaker 3: And then she called me and I was like, bitch,
Speaker 3: I'm already about forty five minutes.
Speaker 2: I was like, bitch, gun to do?
Speaker 3: She just sat on the backyard. I was like, no, bitch,
Speaker 3: She's just stay in the house.
Speaker 2: Yes, And in that moment I realized I'm not prepared
Speaker 2: for shit and so actually I didn't have a gun
Speaker 2: at the time. Then he left me because we had
Speaker 2: already broken up. Then he left me with the gun,
Speaker 2: and then he got mad at me one day and
Speaker 2: was like I'm kind of back and they got mac
Speaker 2: a gun. I'm like, your daughter still lives here, and
Speaker 2: to be like, what the fuck? So basically I have
Speaker 2: no weapons in the house for now. Don't get you
Speaker 2: know what, by the time this episode comes out, I
Speaker 2: will have weapons. So don't you even think.
Speaker 4: Are you like handy with the hands, door knives or anything?
Speaker 2: I mean, are you handy with it? I can make
Speaker 2: it do if it has to do, you know, I think.
Speaker 2: But when I was on mushrooms, I felt helpless. I
Speaker 2: felt like I didn't called me. I was scared. I
Speaker 2: was like, could I can I stab someone? Didn't? I
Speaker 2: got it in me like it was, oh thank you.
Speaker 2: That was years ago, and I told myself that I
Speaker 2: was going to take control of my safety. And I
Speaker 2: still haven't, so this weekend.
Speaker 3: Is I'm just fucking your phone not off. I'm sorry,
Speaker 3: your own show.
Speaker 2: Sorry, sorry, I'm so popular.
Speaker 4: You know what type of guns?
Speaker 3: I have no idea, but this is what made me
Speaker 3: when I first saw you attracted to you. I'm like,
Speaker 3: I don't know if anybody knows this. This is very
Speaker 3: important information. Come closer, Come closer. Let me tell you.
Speaker 3: Come closer, Come closer. I am a militant black. I
Speaker 3: am like, my name is Asada. I like, I feel
Speaker 3: heavily about knowing how to protect myself, but I don't
Speaker 3: know how to yet. I feel very interested in guns,
Speaker 3: but I don't have one yet. But I feel like
Speaker 3: it's important because.
Speaker 2: But she thinks she's a professional, She's for sure going
Speaker 2: to be a pro even she doesn't have one yet.
Speaker 3: Theoretically, in my head, I was just like, fuck the man.
Speaker 3: You know, I must have to know how to bear
Speaker 3: arms and like protect my people, especially as a single mom.
Speaker 3: So what I pulled when I first started following you
Speaker 3: like years ago, and I saw your little girl like
Speaker 3: blindfolded loading the clip, I was like, yeah, this is
Speaker 3: my kind of family. And I immediately was like, I
Speaker 3: gotta teach loadter, but first I got to learn, but
Speaker 3: I haven't. It's been five years since then and I
Speaker 3: haven't quite tapped in. So this is why I was like,
Speaker 3: I'm gonna be friends so that I could get there.
Speaker 3: I can level up because I feel like I realized
Speaker 3: as a single mom once, like when you're in the
Speaker 3: world living by yourself, you're like, ah, but then you
Speaker 3: get a kid and you're like, oh shit, if something happens,
Speaker 3: do I have the fucking tools? And a lot of
Speaker 3: us don't have the tools because we're relying on police,
Speaker 3: and we see what police do. They shoot you if
Speaker 3: you call them. You know what I'm saying, And it's like,
Speaker 3: I don't want to put my safety or my child's
Speaker 3: life in the hands of some niggas I don't know,
Speaker 3: and even in my own I don't fucking know what
Speaker 3: to do. And I'm like, this is something that moms
Speaker 3: and women, especially like single moms, this is something that
Speaker 3: we should be more in tune with because ab you know,
Speaker 3: I'm America is fucking shisty and who knows what the
Speaker 3: fun's gonna happen next, and we're not safe. And secondly,
Speaker 3: you could just be at home chilling and you never
Speaker 3: know and like or in the car, but I want
Speaker 3: to know. I wanted to you to know. If I
Speaker 3: come at this little ninety eight pound bitch, it's a
Speaker 3: wrap for me. I want everybody in the streets to know.
Speaker 3: But I'm like, is there because you trained your kids
Speaker 3: that way? Even she was pretty young in that video.
Speaker 4: I started him at three and six, So Derek was six,
Speaker 4: Derek was three.
Speaker 3: And now they probably have no fear because they know
Speaker 3: like the importance and like how deadly it can be
Speaker 3: and how violent it can be, and they take it
Speaker 3: probably super seriously. Luna and I are behind it.
Speaker 2: And so, okay, you're stressing me out. How what what
Speaker 2: was your path to that? Like, did you grow up
Speaker 2: with your did your dad or your whoever teach you
Speaker 2: or arm you with this kind of.
Speaker 4: So my dad is retired circret service, but he was
Speaker 4: in the hands on with his guns, but he left
Speaker 4: him around and gave us like the basics. But it
Speaker 4: started with him because I was raised around guns. So
Speaker 4: that's a part of my tradition, I would say for
Speaker 4: my family. And then also I shot somebody in front
Speaker 4: of Dereka when she was three, so I just felt
Speaker 4: compelled to like overly teach her about guns and the
Speaker 4: dangers and x y Z and that led to the
Speaker 4: videos that people saw.
Speaker 2: Did they survive?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 3: Okay, how old was she in not having three? Okay,
Speaker 3: she obviously remembers that.
Speaker 4: Yeah, she was pretty don't remember fully, but she remembers.
Speaker 2: So because your dad was in the secret Secret Service,
Speaker 2: did that somehow also influence you now as to why
Speaker 2: you are just really an advocate and just so outspoken
Speaker 2: about just America and just all of the shit, all
Speaker 2: the blind, blindfolds they put on us when it comes
Speaker 2: to just news and information and everything.
Speaker 4: He did help with that. But one of the main
Speaker 4: things was I was a nomin one dispatcher, so oh yeah,
Speaker 4: I got the hands on fuckery within those systems. So
Speaker 4: I got to see a lot of stuff for myself
Speaker 4: that I didn't know was real or really.
Speaker 2: What was the wildest shit that you, as a nine
Speaker 2: one dispatcher experienced.
Speaker 4: On the job. It was a lady that was looking
Speaker 4: for her son one day and she couldn't find him,
Speaker 4: and she was just like she calling on one panicking
Speaker 4: and going through the house and he was hanging in
Speaker 4: the closet. So I had to like those type of calls.
Speaker 4: You got to chill on the phone with those people
Speaker 4: to police make contacts. So that one was a little weird.
Speaker 4: Her boyfriend killed him when she was at work.
Speaker 3: By hanging him.
Speaker 4: Yeah, oh how old was this her son?
Speaker 3: And that's the shit I'm talking about. MdeR no hesitation.
Speaker 3: I'll be waiting for you when you get here, Popo, Like.
Speaker 4: I yeah, that was the craziest one, Like that's wild.
Speaker 4: Other crazy ones would be like suicide calls because with
Speaker 4: those people you have to talk to them again until
Speaker 4: the Definity made contacts. So I've had people that wouldn't
Speaker 4: lock the door so the Definity can't make contact. So
Speaker 4: I just got to make small talk with somebody for
Speaker 4: like two hours hours.
Speaker 2: So this is someone who wants wants to commit suicide,
Speaker 2: but I.
Speaker 4: Want to kill myself. And then I got to be.
Speaker 2: Like that, brokay what should be today?
Speaker 4: It was like that, like they literally say like they're
Speaker 4: just say whatever you got to say, don't let them
Speaker 4: hang up this small talk. I'm just like, yeah, so
Speaker 4: what you like to watch? And they like about killing myself?
Speaker 4: You want to talk to me about what I want
Speaker 4: to watch on YouTube?
Speaker 2: But why did being a nine one one dispatcher, I
Speaker 2: guess give you this idea that I guess, no one's
Speaker 2: really coming to save you.
Speaker 3: Probably they're taking two hours to fucking get there.
Speaker 4: Well, no me me watching uh from the inside, how
Speaker 4: like how much they really care or like how much
Speaker 4: of it is a job, which I respect, it is
Speaker 4: a job. They want to get home to their families too.
Speaker 4: But that really opened my eyes to uh, yeah, me knowing, like,
Speaker 4: ain't nobody really coming to save you? Like this is
Speaker 4: a job at the end of the day. They want
Speaker 4: to get home just like everybody else. And a lot
Speaker 4: of this job is just based off monetary gain. It's
Speaker 4: not really we all genuinely care about the safety of
Speaker 4: the people in one child to live peaceful, happy lives.
Speaker 4: It's all about the money. So when I peeped that
Speaker 4: part too, it definitely made me want to go educate
Speaker 4: people on what they really dealing with.
Speaker 3: Was that your last like clocking job that you had, Yeah.
Speaker 4: Twenty two, I'm thirty five now, but that was my
Speaker 4: last job thirteen years ago.
Speaker 3: And after that you started making curriculum or what was
Speaker 3: your path?
Speaker 4: No, I had a retail business. I used to sell shoes,
Speaker 4: and clothes. So I started a brand back then and
Speaker 4: I did that for four years and then my second
Speaker 4: book ended up going number one on Amazon, and I
Speaker 4: was just like, all right, I'm not I'm done well.
Speaker 4: I transitioned from retail, but last job was Black Friday
Speaker 4: of twenty twenty one, dispatching.
Speaker 3: And that that was the day you put you were done.
Speaker 4: After the no, I actually got suspended. I didn't quit,
Speaker 4: which I'm grateful for them because I might still be working.
Speaker 4: But they suspended me in definitely for like two and
Speaker 4: a half months, and then they fired me. And after that,
Speaker 4: I was like, I'm never working for nobody.
Speaker 3: That too much. You said, fuck that.
Speaker 4: Yeah, the suspend somebody and definitely, like you don't fire them.
Speaker 4: So they just chilled till you called him one day.
Speaker 4: I was calling every week like what's up. Oh, we're
Speaker 4: still investigating me, and they just called me one day
Speaker 4: like it was all good, and they fired me.
Speaker 3: I've heard a lot of stories like that.
Speaker 2: Wow, I have a question about You're originally from Florida, right,
Speaker 2: so tell me about your childhood because I'm so interested
Speaker 2: in like how baby Derek Grace came to be this this,
Speaker 2: you know, I would say the master entrepreneur man who
Speaker 2: is just really about taking control over his destiny, showing
Speaker 2: your children that you know, you homeschool your children, you birth,
Speaker 2: you catch your babies. I mean, we're gonna get into
Speaker 2: all of that, but I'm just so curious about your upbringing.
Speaker 4: Okay, my upbringing was I had a blast. I had
Speaker 4: really good but I have really good parents. It wasn't together.
Speaker 4: They got divorced that I was one when they got divorced.
Speaker 4: Do you have siblings, Yeah, I got nothing but brothers,
Speaker 4: three brothers. Okay, so yeah, they got divorced when I
Speaker 4: was one. I live with my mom up until twelve
Speaker 4: or thirteen. Then I went to live with my dad
Speaker 4: because I almost getting on my nurse. Yeah, my mom
Speaker 4: is a school teacher. Well she's I retire her back
Speaker 4: when I was twenty seven. She still she teaches my
Speaker 4: children now primarily that's it, but other than that, she
Speaker 4: was a school teacher. My pastors retired Creckert Service, and
Speaker 4: she basically taught me. She gave me my confidence the
Speaker 4: way I articulate. She gave me like all the education.
Speaker 4: She was big on education. And then my dad gave
Speaker 4: me like the business side of things and ownership and
Speaker 4: control and stuff and just having power. And yeah, I
Speaker 4: say for the most part that was like the dichotomy
Speaker 4: how it split up between mom and dad. I had
Speaker 4: an older brother that was super close with it, but
Speaker 4: he he got sentenced to fifteen years as she get
Speaker 4: out April seventh coming up, so he'll be home in
Speaker 4: less than a year. And then I got two younger brothers.
Speaker 2: Oh wow, yeah, that's wild. So when you were growing up,
Speaker 2: were your parents or like, did you see your dad?
Speaker 2: Because I know that you know you practice your polyamorous
Speaker 2: is that what you would consider what you do just
Speaker 2: be I was wondering if that was something that made
Speaker 2: that was was do you think that was inspired by
Speaker 2: anything in your in your childhood?
Speaker 4: Yep, absolutely So one key thing I tell people like
Speaker 4: I was and am I saying this for a bad reason,
Speaker 4: but I was like raised and steered by a man
Speaker 4: who partner had infidelity issues and they went through a divorce.
Speaker 2: The woman was in my mom, Oh your mom was
Speaker 2: be cheating.
Speaker 4: Yeah, some have some happened between them that was on
Speaker 4: the infidelity side their divorce. So hell yeah. A lot
Speaker 4: of how I deal with people and a lot of
Speaker 4: how I'm able to discard the situations with a smile
Speaker 4: and not trips, because especially because of my daddy, he
Speaker 4: like really taught us out of sight, out of mind,
Speaker 4: and then I've seen him with you know, countless beautiful women,
Speaker 4: and my mom that had you know, her fair share
Speaker 4: of people that she dated as well. So it definitely
Speaker 4: dictates how I function now, especially with having a variety.
Speaker 4: That's what I saw, That's what I was raised around.
Speaker 4: And you just gotta think, like my dad is what
Speaker 4: twenty five twenty four when it's take place, and he
Speaker 4: raising boys, So those conversations wasn't like was just like
Speaker 4: fuck these bitches?
Speaker 3: Yeah, exactly?
Speaker 2: Do you think serious?
Speaker 3: How you practice your relationship style as a maybe like
Speaker 3: because of it's fear based, because of that, like him
Speaker 3: telling you that.
Speaker 4: As like a child, fears like having more than one woman.
Speaker 3: Like just in order to avoid any infidelity, just be open.
Speaker 4: Oh no, I don't care about the infidelity stuff. Nah
Speaker 4: oh nine chrippering on that. Okay, everybody gonna do what
Speaker 4: they want to do. I'm not even wasting my time
Speaker 4: having those type of conversations like you're gonna do what
Speaker 4: you want to do as and why.
Speaker 3: So my other question is is I know you have
Speaker 3: how many you of ten kids?
Speaker 2: Your congratulations because you just you have a son? Right?
Speaker 2: It was the last girl, the one I called two
Speaker 2: three ago, and now your dynasty is complete.
Speaker 4: Her name is dynasty.
Speaker 3: Ye oh wow? But you didn't remember you told you
Speaker 3: wanted to have one white baby. What breakfast?
Speaker 2: I don't recall that.
Speaker 4: I do want to integrate into a biracial family at
Speaker 4: some point and learn. I want the game.
Speaker 2: Look, I know what.
Speaker 4: I know what being in the right room could do
Speaker 4: for you. I've seen it with myself, my daddy, my
Speaker 4: great granddaddy, he was law enforcement as well. So I
Speaker 4: want to integrate like that. So if it's any what what?
Speaker 2: What are you trying to integrate it? But I don't
Speaker 2: get it.
Speaker 4: I needed cheat codes?
Speaker 2: So you anyway, you want a white passing child so
Speaker 2: that they keep going, they can go with. They are
Speaker 2: gonna be.
Speaker 4: Able to access places that we normally can't. We all
Speaker 4: got locks and domit down to my children, some of
Speaker 4: them got locks and domity.
Speaker 3: You don't think we have a white baby. That baby
Speaker 3: gonna have locks and diming teeth, right, but we.
Speaker 2: Could baby gonna look like me. You think I got them,
Speaker 2: You think you think I can pass, and that's to
Speaker 2: get the chee coats. Probably what Damn, I'm fucked up.
Speaker 2: You did, I'm not. I'm failing my people ship. How
Speaker 2: do you feel about white women? Have you ever slept
Speaker 2: with white women?
Speaker 4: I've only experienced physically one white woman. I would like
Speaker 4: to experience.
Speaker 2: More, but so emotionally you've experienced white women?
Speaker 4: No, we just had s okay, Oh no.
Speaker 2: Well you said only physically, so I thought maybe there
Speaker 2: was some other aspect to this.
Speaker 4: No, I've I've I do not even want to say dated.
Speaker 2: What is your what is your white woman type? Derek Grace,
Speaker 2: that's a good What is your white woman type? Your
Speaker 2: white woman? Not your regular people want to know, Derek.
Speaker 2: They've been waiting for this, my white woman type.
Speaker 4: Blond? I love blonde hair. She was blonde, that would
Speaker 4: be nice. And she got like a nice tan because
Speaker 4: I do like it's like death that like some color, you.
Speaker 3: Know, and be too pasty.
Speaker 2: Yeah, Na, she's gonna need to be as white as hell.
Speaker 2: If she's gonna be white, she's gonna infiltrate the system.
Speaker 2: You might need to go as pasty as.
Speaker 4: You might not even be her, like she might got
Speaker 4: an uncle or pops who can do certain things. It's
Speaker 4: just like, I just I really have seen the benefits
Speaker 4: of being able to make that white phone call when
Speaker 4: you know, when things get too real.
Speaker 3: But you're having a baby for the white phone call. Listen, George,
Speaker 3: call your dad.
Speaker 2: For real.
Speaker 4: Curvy am matter if she like the teter thick curvy
Speaker 4: I know the one. I kicked it it one time.
Speaker 4: She was super thick, she had got work done. Her
Speaker 4: body was crazy. But yeah, as long as she curry.
Speaker 4: I like skin, hair and teeth. So if those intact were.
Speaker 3: Good, like you like bodies, bodies done, and you prefer
Speaker 3: naturally you have a preference.
Speaker 4: I like them both. But if I had to choose,
Speaker 4: it'd be natural. But I like, I've enjoyed both.
Speaker 3: You guys heard it here. First the pro black Derek
Speaker 3: too Grace wants a white woman.
Speaker 2: Blonde little I have one that pulled up on me
Speaker 2: not too long ago from Slovakia.
Speaker 4: She in New York. She's from Slovakia, and I'm like, really,
Speaker 4: I do want to learn her culture.
Speaker 3: I see with the Slovakian like hardcore pitch with the
Speaker 3: machine gun.
Speaker 4: Yeah, she had. She sent me like pictures of what
Speaker 4: they cooked one day, and like people from other cultures
Speaker 4: that do interesting, they're.
Speaker 2: Food be nasty. I'm sorry for the ones that the
Speaker 2: Slovakians listening, Honey, I went to Slovakia, I did, yes,
Speaker 2: and what did you say? The food was nasty? Like
Speaker 2: perogis what are those things called unseasoned potatoes? And ship
Speaker 2: It's very unseasoned over there, lots of French fries.
Speaker 4: I've had this theory that I feel like would be
Speaker 4: really effective. I just haven't found a time. But I
Speaker 4: think if I took a year to date a woman
Speaker 4: from each state, like had a representative, I think that'll
Speaker 4: make me like way more dangerous and diverse because I
Speaker 4: do find a lot of benefit and intertwining with people
Speaker 4: from other cultures.
Speaker 3: So you're saying from each state or just from across
Speaker 3: the globe.
Speaker 4: No, each state, Like if I had like a California
Speaker 4: representative of New York. But of course women who are
Speaker 4: grounded in their culture so they could actually teach me
Speaker 4: some I mean I can get some ass anywhere, but
Speaker 4: like actually teach me like, oh, this is how we
Speaker 4: eat or this what we do. In terms of education,
Speaker 4: blah blah blah.
Speaker 3: Is that like a part of your goal right now,
Speaker 3: even with like constructing your family dynamic with like multiple
Speaker 3: women and children, is it that they each provide something
Speaker 3: different and so like all together it's everything you need, right.
Speaker 4: Cause I feel like like the world is run by families.
Speaker 4: So I feel like people be they be selling themselves
Speaker 4: short thinking like they just gonna take on the world
Speaker 4: solo and just rule and figure it all out. So
Speaker 4: I do believe in like role playing and everybody playing
Speaker 4: the intricate role so the overall mission and look is completed.
Speaker 4: But yeah, like even my theory different, but people be
Speaker 4: like hung up on the same parent household. I feel
Speaker 4: like you need multiple Like if you look at the
Speaker 4: statistics and the patterns, we diyeing not the same way
Speaker 4: generation the generation. So clearly having a mom and just
Speaker 4: a dad, I'm not gonna say that's not enough, but
Speaker 4: more can be done.
Speaker 3: More.
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's way more effective, It's way more helpful. Like
Speaker 4: if you got somebody with a million dollar idea and
Speaker 4: seven people in the same roof that can move collectively,
Speaker 4: like that's gonna get you further and faster than one
Speaker 4: person trying to figure it out the next fifteen years.
Speaker 3: Are most of your children in the household with you?
Speaker 3: Or how many live in the house with you?
Speaker 4: Yeah, most of them. Seven out of the ten are
Speaker 4: with me. No, eight out of ten are with me,
Speaker 4: twenty four to seven.
Speaker 3: The women too, the women like, am.
Speaker 4: I around their moms?
Speaker 3: How many moms are there of the tential five moms
Speaker 3: to ten children, and how many the five live with you?
Speaker 4: Eight around me? Twenty four seven? Other two are out
Speaker 4: of state.
Speaker 3: Okay, but the moms they live in the neighborhood.
Speaker 2: Are they living?
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, no, my my, the one I just had
Speaker 4: a baby with, she like ten minutes from me. We're
Speaker 4: in the same proxis everybody within like ten fifteen minutes
Speaker 4: at each other.
Speaker 3: So you are basically in the household.
Speaker 4: And she's mom to five of them. So she got
Speaker 4: half the whole square, half the tribe. Yeah, and she
Speaker 4: take and the other ones like she's been taken care
Speaker 4: of us and say it was little kids too, or
Speaker 4: she step in whenever.
Speaker 2: So yeah, what would you say? Well, I have two questions.
Speaker 2: Maybe I'll start with this one just because and you know,
Speaker 2: we've been seeing this interview go around with Cam Newton
Speaker 2: and of course they can in and Doctor Brian interviewing
Speaker 2: and you know, reading these men to filth about just
Speaker 2: their choices and how it's impossible for a father to
Speaker 2: really show up for his multiple children, especially if they're
Speaker 2: not living in the same house. Whereas for you, that's
Speaker 2: a little bit different. Do you agree with that? Do
Speaker 2: you agree with that that notion? And is that the
Speaker 2: reason why? Well, I mean, it can be done. It's
Speaker 2: done every day, like it's done every day, Like niggas
Speaker 2: are having babies all over the globe and you know,
Speaker 2: you know, seeing them here and there when they can.
Speaker 2: But I'm just curious for you in your personal experience,
Speaker 2: even with I'm sure you have friends that have, you know,
Speaker 2: children and they don't practice polyamory or and they don't
Speaker 2: have all their children living in the house. Do you
Speaker 2: think that it's possible for your children to have the
Speaker 2: most enriching experience with their parents if they're not living
Speaker 2: in the household with you.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I think it is possible. I think you just
Speaker 4: got to be intentional about the time spent. So like
Speaker 4: it's somebody that's gonna watch this interview that's a full
Speaker 4: time mom, But if she really unpacked or dad. But
Speaker 4: if they really unpacked, their hour spent it's maybe like
Speaker 4: an hour, hour and a half. The other six was
Speaker 4: the iPad, seven was sleep. The other seven was sending
Speaker 4: them to somebody to get educated, blah blah blah. So
Speaker 4: I feel like if it's consistent and with intent, then yeah,
Speaker 4: Cause like Derek and Dereka are like for me, that's
Speaker 4: my greatest example. I wasn't with them every day when
Speaker 4: I was teaching them the things that like shocked the
Speaker 4: world and wow the world. It's just when I did
Speaker 4: spend time, it was intentional, like we're doing thirty minute
Speaker 4: drids on these guns. Then I'm finna teach you out
Speaker 4: how to be voisterous and be confident, articulate. This Saturday,
Speaker 4: we're taking his lemonade standoff and to teach out how
Speaker 4: to get money, how to market, how to get on
Speaker 4: the camera, do x y Z. So I think it's possible,
Speaker 4: but I think it's a It is a real lifelong commitment.
Speaker 4: It's a real no days off type of life to
Speaker 4: be yeah to not.
Speaker 2: I was watching I was listening to Van's podcast the
Speaker 2: other day and he was talking about when he saw
Speaker 2: this clip where he was talking about how there's a
Speaker 2: difference between being there and just showing up, and let
Speaker 2: a lot of you know, a lot of parents. I'm
Speaker 2: not going to generalize his fathers, but I would say
Speaker 2: mostly it's fathers think that they're doing they're doing being
Speaker 2: intentional because they show up, they show up to the
Speaker 2: soccer games, they show up to the birthday parties. But like,
Speaker 2: being there is different because you know when you're when,
Speaker 2: you know when your child's energy has shifted, because you're
Speaker 2: in that house all the time, so you notice the
Speaker 2: little nuances about them, whereas a parent that just showing
Speaker 2: up may not really see that.
Speaker 4: No, I agree. I had this conversation. I like to
Speaker 4: see one of the mons of my children, but like
Speaker 4: little boys need to see a man's manners, like how
Speaker 4: he walked through the house, how he tuk his pistol,
Speaker 4: how he engages with other men, when he shake hands,
Speaker 4: chin up, chest style, firm handshake, eye contact. So no,
Speaker 4: I agree, just kicking it with him is very important
Speaker 4: because it's just daily day stuff they got to learn
Speaker 4: when they navigate in the jungle.
Speaker 2: And then my other question was, wait, was I training
Speaker 2: of thought even smoked yet? Damn and I was like, waiting,
Speaker 2: have I smart enough?
Speaker 3: M setting up smart things?
Speaker 4: I think y'all don't y'all don't spark it during it.
Speaker 3: No, we're going to, but I just have to make
Speaker 3: sure my my my train of thought is clear. And
Speaker 3: then I'm like, Okay, I'm smart. I think that's true,
Speaker 3: though I think a lot of I think this even
Speaker 3: obviously we're all winging it in some space.
Speaker 4: Us know what we're doing.
Speaker 3: Do know what the fuck we're doing? You know you
Speaker 3: never had ten kids before? That does happened two weeks?
Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying. And it's like even for us,
Speaker 3: like we're trying our best, we see what didn't work.
Speaker 3: We're trying to integrate these new like this new like
Speaker 3: pairs ing styles. But shit, sometimes I snap out, just
Speaker 3: like my mom did, because that's the only reason the
Speaker 3: way I know how to communicate. But I feel like
Speaker 3: I was watching something and she was like a teacher
Speaker 3: and she was like, you know a lot of parents
Speaker 3: assume that your kid knows shit. She's like, I was like,
Speaker 3: we were talking about irony and like the nigga didn't
Speaker 3: even know to like plug it in first turn it on. Kid.
Speaker 2: Sorry, I'm like grown.
Speaker 3: But that's the problem. A kid that doesn't know how
Speaker 3: to do it, is not taught, becomes a man that
Speaker 3: doesn't know how to do it because you assumed your
Speaker 3: kid knows the basic of plugging the shit in. It's
Speaker 3: just like wiping an ass, wiping a ball, Like you
Speaker 3: have to be extremely like intentional and teaching. You can't
Speaker 3: assume that they know because it's literally like a daily
Speaker 3: task of like watch how I move, watch what I do,
Speaker 3: and like even now, you see kids walk into rooms
Speaker 3: on their iPads. They can't fucking interact. They can't look
Speaker 3: at you in the face. They're afraid to ask questions
Speaker 3: and shit, like little nigga, you're about to be a man,
Speaker 3: and you can't even fucking make a phone call. Like
Speaker 3: that's crazy.
Speaker 4: But that's one of the main reasons not go hard.
Speaker 4: But like I go hard the way I do on
Speaker 4: my children, because technology in life is ever evolving and
Speaker 4: it's moving way faster than it used to, and like
Speaker 4: you could miss a year and just have to play
Speaker 4: catch up for the next ten years. So I'm big
Speaker 4: on that because people don't know, like it's a lot
Speaker 4: of it's little kids out here, Like I was just
Speaker 4: having this conversation with my daughter's like, y'all got to
Speaker 4: do ten push ups today and they're like why, And
Speaker 4: I'm like, cause it's grown men at it snatch children
Speaker 4: and them little he we blows y'all throw and gonna
Speaker 4: make somebody laugh at y'all. Y'all gotta really know, like
Speaker 4: my daddy taught me ain't for the balls, and this
Speaker 4: man gonna remember I ain't for them balls. But we
Speaker 4: really dealing with children, like strength training is just not important,
Speaker 4: Like they know how to lift the iPad, but tell
Speaker 4: them lift they body weight and they're like, oh no,
Speaker 4: I just got on my daughter's asked about it a
Speaker 4: couple days ago, Like nah, everybody get up. I want
Speaker 4: my push ups right now.
Speaker 2: It's true.
Speaker 3: Ivery thinking if shit hits the fan, Like how far
Speaker 3: can I run with my daughter on my back?
Speaker 2: What is the day Now I'm thinking about it, I
Speaker 2: need to know the day in the life of Derek Grace,
Speaker 2: Like what is the day in the life of you
Speaker 2: being a dad? Like is there a curriculum that's followed
Speaker 2: or like what's the vibe?
Speaker 4: It used to be that, but since I when I
Speaker 4: retire mam at twenty seven, she takes over the educational aspect. Okay,
Speaker 4: I focus on not necessarily just the fun stuf.
Speaker 2: They gotta wake up at a certain time.
Speaker 4: Yeah, y'all wake up everech they get up every day.
Speaker 4: They learned from ten thirty to six thirty. Not full on.
Speaker 4: My mom, get them all type of breaks, do all
Speaker 4: type of stuff with them. But then they come back
Speaker 4: to me and I teach them more so about real life.
Speaker 4: So like, I'm gonna make sure y'all you know, for
Speaker 4: lack of better terms, you know how to kill somebody.
Speaker 4: Y'all know how to articulate. Y'all know how to negotiate,
Speaker 4: handle business, load a gun, check the doors, how to
Speaker 4: sweep the house, how to check an Airbnb properly if
Speaker 4: your daddy not there, stuff like that.
Speaker 2: I need to I need to know how to check
Speaker 2: an airbb bitch. Ever, since I went to the spy shop,
Speaker 2: my mind is fucked up. Not the spy shop, the
Speaker 2: spy shop like Airbnb's beware. There's this Oh they're creepy
Speaker 2: because at the spy shop there was like it was
Speaker 2: like a JBL speaker and there was like a camera
Speaker 2: in it. It was crazy.
Speaker 3: Wow, I haven't checked any of my airbing definitely foating
Speaker 3: around me, but not day in their life.
Speaker 4: Is I'm really simple? I'm easy going.
Speaker 2: So who's cooking for all these kids?
Speaker 3: Moms?
Speaker 4: One of the women in my life will made cook.
Speaker 3: How many girlfriends do you have?
Speaker 4: How many girls? Uh?
Speaker 2: He looks like, I don't know, you have a fiance?
Speaker 2: Do you only have one fiance?
Speaker 4: Yeah? Just one?
Speaker 2: Why are you smile at me like that? You got
Speaker 2: one on the way?
Speaker 4: Like girlfriend, baby mom? It's it's different levels.
Speaker 2: So are you sleeping with all your baby wamas still
Speaker 2: or is it okay? So then there's like boundaries around that, right,
Speaker 2: And then you have girlfriends.
Speaker 4: Then I have some baby moms who like we still
Speaker 4: have a relationship, we could pro create tomorrow.
Speaker 3: So it's like a friend baby mm hmmm, Like are
Speaker 3: or is that baby by I'm having like relations with
Speaker 3: another man. She's a intimate relationship with somebody else as well.
Speaker 4: No, but that's her choice though, It's not like me
Speaker 4: and her sat out and I was like, yeah, well,
Speaker 4: I'm gonna have all the women in the world and
Speaker 4: you stay home.
Speaker 3: I don't know, because that time at breakfast, I remember
Speaker 3: you saying something about boy Whatlet me remember you were saying.
Speaker 3: You said, yeah, but they have to be better than me,
Speaker 3: and you're not gonna find a new better me.
Speaker 4: No, no, no, listen, everybody free to do what they want.
Speaker 3: Are you gonna dump them after they do what they want?
Speaker 4: No? No, I don't know how to unlove people just
Speaker 4: because they disappoint me. So I don't really work like that.
Speaker 4: Like even if you disappoint me, there still is like
Speaker 4: some wiggle room to spend the block because I just
Speaker 4: don't Yeah, I don't just cut people off and unloved
Speaker 4: them because they did something crazy that I don't agree with.
Speaker 4: But girlfriends and all that. Uh, that's hard to answer
Speaker 4: because I don't really do titles.
Speaker 3: So everybody's equal.
Speaker 4: No, okay, So this had of system where you got
Speaker 4: level ones. Those are women who just come over. Uh
Speaker 4: they get this, you know, have a good time, They
Speaker 4: get the deck. Yeah, they get the dick. That's really it.
Speaker 4: Then I get back to work, and then there is there.
Speaker 2: Any emotional relationship conversation or is it just a sexual relationship?
Speaker 4: If they're level one, isn't no emotions.
Speaker 2: It's just like they don't even get like, they don't
Speaker 2: even get checking and like what's up, how you doing?
Speaker 2: How you feel?
Speaker 4: Now?
Speaker 2: It's just you know everyone.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'll check everyone. Kay, No, for sure, I don't
Speaker 4: just discard of them. But if your level one is
Speaker 4: just more so physical, like we like each other, it's
Speaker 4: physical attraction. We're gonna have sex.
Speaker 2: And do your children meet level ones?
Speaker 4: No, my children really don't meet anybody. They rarely meet anybody.
Speaker 4: They probably met for women my whole career. I don't
Speaker 4: really let them meet too. Now my oldest too, they
Speaker 4: meet everybody. They how old are they? Thirteen and sixteen? Okay,
Speaker 4: they haven't been to my birthday party, so they know,
Speaker 4: like Dad have fun, has a lot of fun with
Speaker 4: all my children, so they know I have plenty of fun.
Speaker 4: And they just keep having siblings so they know I'm
Speaker 4: having plenty of fun. But level one is just like sex,
Speaker 4: that's fun. They come over, they may spend the night,
Speaker 4: they may not, but by the following morning, like they
Speaker 4: definitely need to be gone. That's not like a real
Speaker 4: hangout thing. That's just us having an experience. We're going
Speaker 4: to enjoy one another than they leave after that. It
Speaker 4: does not the actual urn, but it does go to
Speaker 4: girlfriend where like we have consistent communication, they meet other people,
Speaker 4: I might be in public with them, because.
Speaker 2: Everybody started level one and then they gradually move up to.
Speaker 4: The levels unless I just see them and I just
Speaker 4: want them for something more than the level one. But yeah,
Speaker 4: which I have running to women that caught my eye
Speaker 4: like that strongly that I was like, don't want to
Speaker 4: just have sex and you to leave. I want you
Speaker 4: to come stay.
Speaker 2: And then so level two is there's no level two.
Speaker 4: It's no great area. So you either you either just
Speaker 4: popping it or you like Bay and I'm finna hit
Speaker 4: your phone every day and be like what you're doing
Speaker 4: where you're at when you come to see me?
Speaker 3: M okay?
Speaker 4: It tricky.
Speaker 2: So I have an a home woman about the yeah, okay,
Speaker 2: one in home, just one in home.
Speaker 4: And then I have other lives outside of my own.
Speaker 4: And then I have a baby mama that I keep it,
Speaker 4: I love dearly that I keep having children.
Speaker 2: And then how transparent are you with you know your fiance?
Speaker 2: I mean, obviously she knows who you are, but like,
Speaker 2: are you like, is she asking you questions when you
Speaker 2: come back? Is there like a no question policy?
Speaker 4: Is it just so it's very but she really asks
Speaker 4: questions when I come back because I don't go to
Speaker 4: people houses. I mean everybody come to meet It's like
Speaker 4: I got security, I got a certain sex house.
Speaker 2: No, because you want a lot of properties. I'm just
Speaker 2: wonder if there's one house that's designated for the meet up. Definitely,
Speaker 2: because I would have if I were Unikka, i would
Speaker 2: have a sex sensin house. Then i'd have the kid house.
Speaker 2: Then I'd have like the party house, and then I'd
Speaker 2: have like this to we take meetings houses. No, I
Speaker 2: like this is the retreat house.
Speaker 4: I like controlled chaos. So it's easier when people on
Speaker 4: my turf because I got more security company, so my
Speaker 4: people are there, we knowing you can't come in here
Speaker 4: with guns IDs. NDA's everything done, so me traveling out
Speaker 4: is just a liability security wise. So I said, I
Speaker 4: had to say, she don't have to like really ask
Speaker 4: what I did when I got back, because she was
Speaker 4: gonna be there.
Speaker 3: So you bring the bitches there and she just goes
Speaker 3: in the other room sometimes that she participate. Oh okay,
Speaker 3: so she's fun.
Speaker 4: Yeah, she's with the ships.
Speaker 2: Why most part some days she ain't with the ships?
Speaker 2: Are people after you?
Speaker 4: I don't know, but if they are, ain't gonna make
Speaker 4: it easy for them.
Speaker 2: I was just wondering because you said it's like a
Speaker 2: liability for you to be out and about, and I
Speaker 2: know Breakfast you had your security, and I'm just curious, like,
Speaker 2: do you fear for your safety at times just because
Speaker 2: of how I'll open and honest you are, and have
Speaker 2: you had like actual concerns that led you to feel
Speaker 2: like you need that.
Speaker 4: No, No, I don't worry about the security because of
Speaker 4: how open I am. I just in my city, like
Speaker 4: there's not a lot of people who are winning on
Speaker 4: a high level. So if you move around, then you like,
Speaker 4: you know, you the big fish and you known for
Speaker 4: that's like the gifting the curse that's being known for guns.
Speaker 4: Nobody's gonna come to you with a razor blade. They're
Speaker 4: gonna come with a damn wazooka because they just seen
Speaker 4: you with a grenade launch on the internet. So yeah,
Speaker 4: it's just easier and a better peace of mind to
Speaker 4: make sure somebody around me at all times.
Speaker 2: Interesting. Interesting, So I know we just bounced around and
Speaker 2: I've never finished the day.
Speaker 3: The day in the life of there.
Speaker 4: She's like, I mean to know then in life, I'm
Speaker 4: gonna get up. It depends on what season I'm in,
Speaker 4: but I'll get up like between four and six. Lately
Speaker 4: I haven't though I've been sleeping later. Don't know why,
Speaker 4: but I get up early. I do my own thing.
Speaker 4: I chill, I get in my sona start the work day.
Speaker 4: I wake them up around ten thirty, well, no, like nine,
Speaker 4: between nine thirty ten thirty because my mom lived two
Speaker 4: doors down, so then they walk to my mom house
Speaker 4: or security or drop them off to my mom house.
Speaker 4: They do their thing with her. I get them after
Speaker 4: the fact, either get dinner situated if the other main
Speaker 4: mom who always on deck, is busy or don't feel
Speaker 4: like because she just had a baby. So we switched
Speaker 4: it up recently. But yeah, from like the hours of
Speaker 4: seven or eight to probably four or five in the morning,
Speaker 4: were just having fun and talking shit and learning and
Speaker 4: teaching and I'm getting Hella love from all them daughters
Speaker 4: like that.
Speaker 3: How do you feel when people ask you? You know
Speaker 3: you have you have a lot of daughters, right, eight
Speaker 3: eight daughters and you know like that you have a
Speaker 3: household now I do, but only cons You're essentially like
Speaker 3: bringing women in that are level ones, or maybe they
Speaker 3: jump to level Two's do you year ever that there
Speaker 3: is a like the the example that you're setting or
Speaker 3: what they're witnessing. I know they don't meet every woman,
Speaker 3: but like even for your sons like that, they won't
Speaker 3: see not a level of love in the household just
Speaker 3: from between two people. But like that, maybe your daughter
Speaker 3: will misinterpret that and then go find a boyfriend who
Speaker 3: has six other girlfriends and eight other kids.
Speaker 4: That could be a possibility, And I'm okay with that.
Speaker 4: I'm uh, they gonna make their choices. I'm here to
Speaker 4: support not getting the way, and I ain't gonna lie.
Speaker 4: I've told my daughter's on multiple occasions they probably gonna
Speaker 4: need like four or five men to meet them, because
Speaker 4: like if you raised by this man and you accustomed
Speaker 4: to this type of security way of living, I just
Speaker 4: don't see that. I don't know, the next generation don't
Speaker 4: look really promising based off the man that are out
Speaker 4: here right now.
Speaker 2: That's a fact.
Speaker 4: So the likelihood of my daughter meeting one man all
Speaker 4: eight in and meeting there one man that can meet
Speaker 4: all these needs and give them the level of completion
Speaker 4: they had with their daddy, that's unrealistic. So I don't
Speaker 4: see them not having four or five men in their life,
Speaker 4: like he gonna he do the long work. He no
Speaker 4: business I'm sleeping with this one. Whatever the case, man be.
Speaker 4: But I don't see them not having multiple men unless
Speaker 4: they just completely like I'm finna defer from everything my
Speaker 4: daddy taught us and showed us.
Speaker 2: Mm hmmm. Someone asked, you know, my dad is uh,
Speaker 2: my dad played in the NFL, and he you know,
Speaker 2: he's always had women even now throw throw themselves at him,
Speaker 2: and so he was always he always brought a lot
Speaker 2: of women around me. And at one point, at first
Speaker 2: I didn't really understand because he wasn't like you. There
Speaker 2: was no communication. It was just like here's Epiphany and
Speaker 2: here's Tiffany, and that was her name. That her name
Speaker 2: was Epiphany. I'm not evenly I know this. And when
Speaker 2: I and I remember the word. There was one time
Speaker 2: I asked him and he laughed and he's like, she's
Speaker 2: just my friend. And I that's I knew he was lying,
Speaker 2: and I'll never forget. There was just I think it
Speaker 2: was Epiphany. That's a very specific names, so you can
Speaker 2: probably find her.
Speaker 3: She's look up account for you, bitch. Like, why are
Speaker 3: you talking about me in my past?
Speaker 2: I think it was her. Maybe it wasn't you, Epiphany,
Speaker 2: It was some It was one of my dad's a girlfriends.
Speaker 2: I remember my dad got out the car to go
Speaker 2: into the bank and she I was sit in the
Speaker 2: backseat and she was sitting in the front. And then
Speaker 2: she turned around said, Erica, did your dad have any
Speaker 2: other girlfriends?
Speaker 3: She asked you that what is psycho?
Speaker 2: And then she asked me, She's like, do you think
Speaker 2: your dad loves me? And I like this, but how
Speaker 2: are you I was probably seven or eight.
Speaker 4: Oh, yeah, you don't put that type of pressure on.
Speaker 3: Do you think he loves me?
Speaker 2: But anyway, you know, I went on that's I didn't
Speaker 2: adopt his methods. I went on to, you know, choose
Speaker 2: men like him, you know, and and ultimately get my
Speaker 2: heart broken a lot, also because I had unresolved daddy
Speaker 2: issues and saw how I guess disposable some of these
Speaker 2: women were to him and his views around marriage too,
Speaker 2: never going to be. He's still not married. He's been
Speaker 2: with my I call her my stepmom, but they're not
Speaker 2: technically married. He's been with her for over twenty years
Speaker 2: and it's very like, at least to me, he's very
Speaker 2: adamant about like, she know I never married.
Speaker 3: I mean I think literally said he's never been in love.
Speaker 2: Yeah, oh I know you're a lover boy. My daddy's
Speaker 2: like my dad, Oh yeah, I could see it in
Speaker 2: your eyes.
Speaker 3: Look so some of them, if I just see him,
Speaker 3: I just know immediately I want them to be in
Speaker 3: my life. I'm like, oh they just skip.
Speaker 4: I automatically know, like I want you in the family.
Speaker 4: Were finished start with leo?
Speaker 2: Oh yeah interesting. Yeah, that's why you need a lot
Speaker 2: of attention. You love it. You built for this.
Speaker 4: Yeah, for sure you are.
Speaker 2: That's why you Also because I look at your page
Speaker 2: and I'm like, how the fuck does he do so
Speaker 2: much like you're on video, you're on live, like you're constant,
Speaker 2: Like you're constantly like speaking and talking and putting yourself
Speaker 2: out there. There's a lot of energy and frequency that
Speaker 2: you're putting out. And I'm also like, as you're telling
Speaker 2: me about your your day to day, I'm actually curious,
Speaker 2: like what is your like how do you what's your
Speaker 2: spiritual hygiene? Do you have some or like you have
Speaker 2: self care that you do you're getting your suna, but
Speaker 2: like do you meditate or like, is there anything.
Speaker 4: I struggle really bad with self care? But no, as
Speaker 4: far as like meditation, yoga, any of that, I've done it,
Speaker 4: but no I don't participate. Uh. My reset, just being
Speaker 4: honest is like my kids in sex. Those two things
Speaker 4: help me to reset. That's like my coffee or my Yeah,
Speaker 4: that's my go to. If I had that, I like
Speaker 4: I could run all.
Speaker 3: Day sex and my kids sex and kids. So you
Speaker 3: would say you're a pretty sexual person. Yeah, recently, because
Speaker 3: I follow your page and I follow all of the
Speaker 3: day to days and dramas in the marketing, and I'm like, God,
Speaker 3: should just text them.
Speaker 2: I want to know you.
Speaker 3: Then you recently launched only fans. Are you fucking on?
Speaker 1: There?
Speaker 3: I was you retired it already?
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's just the wear and tears. Just how would you.
Speaker 2: So look? Were living in a hypersexual society, right, So.
Speaker 4: I already knew it was gonna go from oh bro,
Speaker 4: get one of these and get one of these. So
Speaker 4: I just started wrapping my mind around their demands.
Speaker 3: Get one of these, Like what kind of bitch telling
Speaker 3: me different women?
Speaker 2: Oh right?
Speaker 4: So like, granted I ain't gonna lot of money, was good.
Speaker 4: Like my first three weeks I had cracking them for
Speaker 4: like thirty thousand. It was moving. But I sat there
Speaker 4: and I was like, on average, I'm probably gonna have
Speaker 4: to like have sex with roughly forty eight women a year.
Speaker 4: I'm not doing that. That's crazy to get them a
Speaker 4: different scene every week, Like so any p porn stars
Speaker 4: out there, I salute them because it's not simple. But
Speaker 4: former little wise, it was just like I gotta catch
Speaker 4: it ain't gonna be hard. I could put on social media.
Speaker 4: I had a lot of women reached out that I
Speaker 4: wanted to be on there, but just me having to
Speaker 4: wrap my mind around sleeping with fifty women a.
Speaker 3: Year outside of the ones somebody's requests right side of.
Speaker 4: The ones I actually like and love. I got an
Speaker 4: extra set of fifty over here that I got to
Speaker 4: have sex with just for content purposes. And I was like, nope,
Speaker 4: oh good.
Speaker 3: Were any of your lovers on only fans with you?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 2: No, But what you could have done was just like
Speaker 2: five people, different things, different ways. I thought all year.
Speaker 4: I thought of that too. Well.
Speaker 2: I was just on your marketing team.
Speaker 4: It did extremely well and I have fun, but it
Speaker 4: was just like, I'm not. I ain't. I ain't finding
Speaker 4: fifty people per year?
Speaker 3: How long? How long would you do that? How long
Speaker 3: did that season last?
Speaker 4: Two?
Speaker 3: That's what I thought it was there, it was clear.
Speaker 2: I was I missed that. I followed him and I
Speaker 2: didn't know that. How did you know that?
Speaker 3: Because it's always ass and I ain't.
Speaker 4: Marketed as hard as our market things. I like, I
Speaker 4: marketed it, but it wasn't like loud like everything else.
Speaker 4: So a lot of people didn't know.
Speaker 2: You're such a businessman and entrepreneur, and I'm just curious, like,
Speaker 2: what is the best piece of advice you've gotten as
Speaker 2: an entrepreneur or what is the baby?
Speaker 4: What?
Speaker 2: Actually, what is the best piece of advice you could
Speaker 2: give to entrepreneurs?
Speaker 4: Best piece of advice would be to study whatever industry
Speaker 4: and game they playing, and and nothing is real. That's
Speaker 4: what they'll discover after they study. Because I'm in like
Speaker 4: the financial literacy world, So I thought, like buying all
Speaker 4: my house is cash and having thirty two kilos of
Speaker 4: goal would like separate you, only to find out that,
Speaker 4: like social media's perception based, somebody can go rent the
Speaker 4: same thing. I really spent a million dollars on as
Speaker 4: far as my jury, and he can get the same reaction.
Speaker 4: And I was just like, damn, we did all this
Speaker 4: real nigga shit, and if people who didn't do that
Speaker 4: are in the same rooms. So like in retrospect, because
Speaker 4: I went cash heavy about everything cash, So I know,
Speaker 4: like the most money I spent in the years, probably
Speaker 4: like seven eight million dollars on buying this house, buying
Speaker 4: the house, do you regret that I regret buying one
Speaker 4: of them? Because like they were a million dollar homes,
Speaker 4: so I could have still bought them and they got
Speaker 4: a mortgage on one and kept and stayed cash heavy,
Speaker 4: So like it's not the worst thing, but I'm I'm
Speaker 4: rich on paper, but if you asked me to give
Speaker 4: you according me in cash, I couldn't give it to you.
Speaker 4: But I do have equity in the remaining like six
Speaker 4: or seven homes in the one lot that I have,
Speaker 4: so I wouldn't have did it completely different, but I
Speaker 4: would and I went all cash and kept some of
Speaker 4: my cash because times like now, the market gets so
Speaker 4: tight that even the assets you do have you can't
Speaker 4: leverage because the world's so broke, nobody can't buy even
Speaker 4: even if you're doing it. For the low. It's still
Speaker 4: too much for the common man. So I've been asset
Speaker 4: tight and then stuck with all the assets at certain
Speaker 4: points like damn, we can't even leverage nothing right now,
Speaker 4: like nobody can't even buy what we were supposed to
Speaker 4: use as an asset. Four times like this, So I
Speaker 4: would have kept a couple million dollars.
Speaker 2: Why do you live in America?
Speaker 4: I thrive off of adversity, and America is the best
Speaker 4: worst place in the world.
Speaker 3: To live adversity.
Speaker 1: Do you like?
Speaker 2: You like an organized chaos?
Speaker 4: It breed real monsters. So I feel like this is
Speaker 4: the greatest country to be in because it's like a
Speaker 4: dog eat dog world. I love it, and I like
Speaker 4: the I like the competitive nature of a legacy and
Speaker 4: family name. So I go really hard because I'm like
Speaker 4: the Grace is gonna run ship and we're gonna carve
Speaker 4: out this part of the world X y Z. But
Speaker 4: it's a great and terrible place to live. I wouldn't
Speaker 4: live nowhere else and not be in several places, but
Speaker 4: I wouldn't live nowhere else.
Speaker 2: What's the what's one place that you've been that you
Speaker 2: that you did like them, or that you can see yourself.
Speaker 4: Brixton, I didn't know, like Brixton, I didn't. I didn't
Speaker 4: know London had like a black section. I loved it.
Speaker 4: And they showed me so much love. They gave me
Speaker 4: so much weed. They was coolly sad, fed me good.
Speaker 4: But I didn't I never saw that part of London,
Speaker 4: so that was real cool to see that it was nothing.
Speaker 2: But as there, do you travel a lot? Like internationally?
Speaker 4: Not anymore? I don't like to travel all now, what
Speaker 4: do you mean now? Why I just don't like coming
Speaker 4: out of the house spirit. I just I stay in
Speaker 4: the house out there, and sure that's my favorite pastime,
Speaker 4: just to sit still, and sure.
Speaker 2: I feel I'm it's hard for me to leave my
Speaker 2: house too. But I do enjoy traveling. I think it's important.
Speaker 2: I think even as an entrepreneur though, like you're gonna
Speaker 2: meet and see so many people that like are doing
Speaker 2: all types of shit in different places and spaces. And
Speaker 2: I agree, And Derek America, like, we gotta get out
Speaker 2: of here. What are we still doing here? Why are
Speaker 2: I understand organized chaos? But like you talk all this
Speaker 2: shit and you share all this shit about just like black,
Speaker 2: like having sovereignty over your life and your choices and
Speaker 2: then you're actively like participating in it. So like because
Speaker 2: you got to play the game to a certain level
Speaker 2: if you hear so you don't have but you don't
Speaker 2: have to be here. Is it because? Is it because
Speaker 2: you need to be an example for other people? That
Speaker 2: people that people.
Speaker 4: I can still teach him somewhere else. I just I
Speaker 4: just love it. I love like I love that AI
Speaker 4: is taking jobs. What why Because it's going to create
Speaker 4: a competitive market to where like it's gonna be win
Speaker 4: or go home. And I just feel like if if
Speaker 4: I'm no longer hearing thirty years and my children in
Speaker 4: the world that requires you to compete to live at
Speaker 4: a high level, Like I think that's a good thing.
Speaker 4: I feel like we two pacified culturally. That's why we
Speaker 4: don't do shit. I feel like I know people gonna
Speaker 4: talk shit, But my cousin said this, so shout out
Speaker 4: to my cousin, Pauns. It's like eight years ago. But
Speaker 4: I feel like Trump is the father that a lot
Speaker 4: of people need it. I feel like he creates an
Speaker 4: environment where like there's no lackluster, there's no lazy, there's
Speaker 4: no week you're gonna get your ass up and you're
Speaker 4: gonna fight. And I just feel like he creates that
Speaker 4: environment and that's what we need more of.
Speaker 2: That's why, like, are you a Trumper?
Speaker 4: I'm not either. I don't really care who. I'm gonna
Speaker 4: do the same thing either one. But I'm not gonna lie.
Speaker 4: I did make like ten plus million dollars.
Speaker 2: Did he get you up yet?
Speaker 4: Leveraging Trump?
Speaker 2: Why are you not at the Actually I don't know Trump.
Speaker 4: I probably wouldn't go even if he did invite me,
Speaker 4: because I just don't like going outside.
Speaker 2: Actually, you'd be a dangerous tool.
Speaker 4: I would.
Speaker 2: You would be a dangerous tool. But and I hope
Speaker 2: you know that, so just you can't do that. I
Speaker 2: don't care that much about it because our people are
Speaker 2: so like I understand what I don't know. I just.
Speaker 4: Yeah, like I don't agree with everything you do, Like
Speaker 4: he do be wild and sometimes, but I just feel
Speaker 4: like he gonna he creates an environment where you gotta
Speaker 4: get up and move.
Speaker 3: I do agree in the pacified culture, I feel like
Speaker 3: mediocracy is like in ignorance is like widely accepted. I
Speaker 3: wouldn't be rare if.
Speaker 4: It was three hundred more of us, It'd be like cool.
Speaker 4: We got a nation of men who are doing X,
Speaker 4: y Z, not just like oh so and so from
Speaker 4: this state and that. So I feel like he's going
Speaker 4: to create an environment where you gotta win. There's no like,
Speaker 4: there's no other.
Speaker 3: I don't know about him specifically. I don't know about
Speaker 3: being the father or whatever. I don't know about that.
Speaker 2: I don't know. I don't think that with this society.
Speaker 2: I don't think we live in a society of necessarily mediocrity.
Speaker 2: I think that the American dream is has always been
Speaker 2: to work. I think that we've fallen in line with
Speaker 2: whatever it is they fed us and told us what
Speaker 2: we're supposed to do. We're literally doing what they're what
Speaker 2: they're telling us. People like you are not You've you've
Speaker 2: figured out what works for you, and you figured out
Speaker 2: the cheekos essentially. But I feel like Trump, he's it's dangerous.
Speaker 2: He's dangerous. I think all of it is dangerous, but
Speaker 2: part of it is like, that's why I don't want
Speaker 2: to really, I'm here participating in it right now because
Speaker 2: you're sitting in my studio, paying the rent to this,
Speaker 2: you know, this place, and paying taxes and doing all that.
Speaker 2: But I don't know. I don't know if I could
Speaker 2: say that Trump is the father that everybody needed.
Speaker 4: No, No, I just feel like he, uh, he embodies
Speaker 4: the American way, and I just feel like he verbalizes
Speaker 4: what America feels.
Speaker 3: Any that we know it's better that we be clear
Speaker 3: about the enemy and the fun and that's usually.
Speaker 4: How it worked.
Speaker 2: Like you'd rather see that clear light than And.
Speaker 4: The reason I gave the analogy for the father's like
Speaker 4: moms for a lot of times, like you know, they passive.
Speaker 4: I think that's my baby daddy gonna come in and
Speaker 4: be like, man, get your ass up and shake that
Speaker 4: ship off and let's go get back to playing football.
Speaker 4: I feel like we need that energy culturally. He not
Speaker 4: that nice and gentle, but I feel like.
Speaker 2: I don't disagree with that.
Speaker 4: I feel like I don't disagree with that he gonna
Speaker 4: push people to have to turn it up.
Speaker 3: Yeah, because it's very clear that I just don't I
Speaker 3: don't think it.
Speaker 2: I'd realize it's one or the other, but I don't
Speaker 2: think that. I think that we've accepted that it's one
Speaker 2: or the other. They've given us two options and we
Speaker 2: said okay.
Speaker 3: He like highlights a lot of like America that is
Speaker 3: like relates to him, which is like kind of ignorant, basic,
Speaker 3: you know, like very He's speaks to a specific demographic,
Speaker 3: and that is scary because he.
Speaker 2: I agree with you, he doesn't also, I mean he
Speaker 2: speaks to not just basic people.
Speaker 3: I mean obviously it ranges. But I think when we
Speaker 3: when we talk about like when you think about like
Speaker 3: the danger that he incites, the like the false sense
Speaker 3: of like fuck things people, you know, the people who
Speaker 3: are in somewhere in the back country is like we're
Speaker 3: going to get up and go to the cantag.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 4: But this is why I feel like he's a great
Speaker 4: example because he if you pay attention and you got
Speaker 4: it in you, like he shows you literally how to
Speaker 4: show your ass in America. Like he really had people
Speaker 4: go to the Capitol on his behalf. That's a different
Speaker 4: type of power.
Speaker 2: And you ain't there just like we're in the show.
Speaker 2: It's not.
Speaker 4: People pull up on your behalf. So I feel like
Speaker 4: down to the way his feeling the case working out,
Speaker 4: to the taxes, I feel like he is a walking
Speaker 4: example of like an American shark. But I think people
Speaker 4: just get you know, they get caught up in his conversation,
Speaker 4: so they don't pay attention to it. Move but he
Speaker 4: is like top schemer in the scheming ass country.
Speaker 3: Except like he's like the He's like the fucking mascot
Speaker 3: of schemers. Like if there was ever a mascot I
Speaker 3: like America, it's like it's him. He's like hiding it.
Speaker 2: He's like.
Speaker 3: We're getting away with it.
Speaker 2: He's like, look, I got shot. You better have talking
Speaker 2: like that.
Speaker 3: That's what I showed you today. They reported us on Instagram,
Speaker 3: or wasn't.
Speaker 2: I don't know.
Speaker 3: They won't show me, but it says something like the people.
Speaker 2: That the fact check the fact checker.
Speaker 3: About the fact check he said that he got shot,
Speaker 3: so don't say he did it. Was it that one
Speaker 3: that I don't know what we posted, but.
Speaker 2: I think it was a picture of Trump like a
Speaker 2: fake spewing stemen all over his face.
Speaker 3: The cultures that would be considered delightful.
Speaker 2: Anyway, I think I'm done talking about politics.
Speaker 3: I don't identify.
Speaker 4: Derek.
Speaker 2: We usually ask our guests to share an affirmation. Do
Speaker 2: you have an affirmation?
Speaker 3: You can share.
Speaker 4: Just one of my favorite ones. But it's not original, it's.
Speaker 2: Not for me, it's not from you. Yeah, I think
Speaker 2: I said it's not for you.
Speaker 4: But uh, you're familiar with wrestling, Brett Art, I know.
Speaker 4: I mean back in the day you never watched wrestling
Speaker 4: at all.
Speaker 2: A little bit like the Whole the Rock.
Speaker 4: What Brett said, He's the best there is, the best
Speaker 4: there was, and the best there ever will be. And
Speaker 4: that stuck with me from like five years old, and
Speaker 4: I've always repeated that one from time to time. The
Speaker 4: best there is, the best there was, and the best
Speaker 4: there ever will be. That was his line, the best
Speaker 4: there is. I'm the best there is, the best there was,
Speaker 4: and the best there ever will be. I love I
Speaker 4: like that.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I like that too. That's a good one.
Speaker 4: Thank you. But I think Brett Hart, thank you.
Speaker 2: Brett Hart.
Speaker 3: Dedicate Thank you Bratt.
Speaker 2: You guys, I brought my bowls. I'm still experimenting with
Speaker 2: the Tibetan bulls there. They're not as I have a
Speaker 2: bunch of my house with. Don't use them, you know, Derek,
Speaker 2: I know that you don't meditate, and you know your
Speaker 2: self care routines are a little bit you know poor.
Speaker 2: I think I can help you with that, though, So
Speaker 2: don't you just close your eyes for a second.
Speaker 4: Right now, Yeah, take some deep breaths. I mean four, yes,
Speaker 4: two three, I alreadyset that nervous system.
Speaker 2: You know, sometimes it's just that you don't got to
Speaker 2: be a whole thing. I think people will get overwhelmed
Speaker 2: with those type of self care methods because they think
Speaker 2: they have to sit there for thirty minutes be bud up,
Speaker 2: which maybe eventually you will.
Speaker 1: But.
Speaker 2: You could, I mean, how powerful you really would be
Speaker 2: the best there ever was because you've mastered everything good enlightenment.
Speaker 4: I don't. I don't think that's I just don't see
Speaker 4: that in my car?
Speaker 2: Are you God fearing?
Speaker 4: Are you?
Speaker 2: Are you Christian?
Speaker 4: I don't believe in God? You don't God?
Speaker 3: You believe things are coincidence?
Speaker 4: Yeah? Or just will we wiel ourselves into certain positions.
Speaker 4: I did though up until twenty and fifteen, because I've
Speaker 4: been questioning it since I was a little kid. But
Speaker 4: I finally got the answer I wanted in twenty fifteen.
Speaker 3: What happened in twenty fifteen, I was just.
Speaker 4: On one of my trips. I was out in Vegas
Speaker 4: and I went on a trip.
Speaker 2: Man.
Speaker 4: I just I feel like that trip gave me the
Speaker 4: understanding I needed and like looking for somebody rather than
Speaker 4: just honing in on what's within me and doing my
Speaker 4: own thing.
Speaker 3: Well do you think do you feel like you are
Speaker 3: the divine? You're that?
Speaker 2: Oh?
Speaker 4: Absolutely?
Speaker 3: Okay, so you do believe in God?
Speaker 2: Wait, the trip was on mushrooms or an actual trip
Speaker 2: like I was.
Speaker 4: I was on a trip in Vegas and I went
Speaker 4: on a trip.
Speaker 2: Okay, that's what I saw it, but I just wanted
Speaker 2: to understand for sure. It was painting the picture in
Speaker 2: my head.
Speaker 4: As far as a God part of it, I say,
Speaker 4: like my mom and my dad that's my that's my
Speaker 4: version of God. But outside of.
Speaker 2: Them, did you grow up like like going to church
Speaker 2: or anything like that.
Speaker 4: Yeah, they tried to take me a couple of times.
Speaker 4: I was bad as hell.
Speaker 3: They try to take me a cup.
Speaker 4: I'm either I was either sleep or just doing shit
Speaker 4: I had no business doing. But yeah, they tried to
Speaker 4: take me and my grandma's Jehovah witness. So I was like,
Speaker 4: talk a lot about it as a child, but I
Speaker 4: just never good bye into it.
Speaker 3: You think that's why you feel like strongly like otherwise,
Speaker 3: because growing up to hope for witness that's pretty extreme.
Speaker 4: No, I feel like, I feel like I'm gonna blame
Speaker 4: for all my good and bad. So I just don't
Speaker 4: believe in giving anybody else the credit or the power
Speaker 4: to dictate if I have a great or amazing life.
Speaker 4: So it's just it's on me. If I want it,
Speaker 4: I'll make it happen, you know.
Speaker 3: I feel like it's like alchemy in some ways.
Speaker 4: Oh, I would say on the spiritual side, I do
Speaker 4: feel like I'm not originally from here, so I feel
Speaker 4: like I'm just over on this side real quick, doing
Speaker 4: my one two. Then I gotta go back to where
Speaker 4: I'm from from. I don't know the name, but I
Speaker 4: know like I've seen it many times on my.
Speaker 3: Trips, like a different planet.
Speaker 4: It wasn't a different planet, but it was like a
Speaker 4: grassy terrain. It was mountainous. It was statues in me
Speaker 4: all outside, and I remember walking in.
Speaker 2: And there was the statues of you all outside.
Speaker 4: Yeah. I remember walking in and the dude was just
Speaker 4: like telling me how much they loved me and they
Speaker 4: need me. And then I just remember being like, all,
Speaker 4: I gotta go back, And I like literally came back
Speaker 4: to in my room in Vegas. But I've not been
Speaker 4: there multiple times though, so I believe it to be true.
Speaker 3: Do you feel like that's why you're returned after this,
Speaker 3: after this version of yourself?
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, I'm finna go back to where I'm supposed
Speaker 4: to be at because it's just it's terrible.
Speaker 2: This is your last life here.
Speaker 4: Yeah, so whack out here. I gotta get back.
Speaker 3: Yeah, America was kind of ghetto.
Speaker 4: One thing I didn't see that though, was the women,
Speaker 4: and that's gonna be I was.
Speaker 2: Concerning maybe maybe there's a lesson there. There's some sort
Speaker 2: of lesson. It's going to be paradise with no women.
Speaker 4: I'm good.
Speaker 2: That's not paradise with the.
Speaker 4: God have the level ones and the girlfriends and the
Speaker 4: baby mamas and the wives and all that.
Speaker 3: There's a little baby mamas and the wives, so you
Speaker 3: can have multiple wives.
Speaker 4: I don't think I'm ever have one wife.
Speaker 3: I thought you're engaged.
Speaker 2: I am.
Speaker 4: But when I say I don't mean title wise, I
Speaker 4: mean like, does she a ring?
Speaker 2: No?
Speaker 4: She proposed to me. Oh, so don't have one yet.
Speaker 4: But I feel like that's why I say I don't
Speaker 4: do titles. Titles come with possession expectations and I don't
Speaker 4: like though. So I'm being funny when I say wives
Speaker 4: and girlfriends, but there will be women who I love
Speaker 4: and that love me and will intertwine and coexist. But
Speaker 4: title wise, if I had to literally answer, I wouldn't
Speaker 4: give you a title at all because I just don't
Speaker 4: do them.
Speaker 2: What do you I know you have. It seems you
Speaker 2: have strong views around like the man's role, right, what
Speaker 2: would you say? A woman's role is for you in
Speaker 2: your life, for me in my life, for you in
Speaker 2: your life, and then yeah, if you I don't know
Speaker 2: if you want to share perspective around just in society,
Speaker 2: but I'm more I'm more interested in your life.
Speaker 4: So for me, I just really need sex and food.
Speaker 4: So that's like the biggest thing. My biggest requirement is like, but.
Speaker 2: That's the role in your life to give you sexy food.
Speaker 4: The baby mean, yeah, treat me like your little baby.
Speaker 4: I'm telling you the hard parts of life I figured
Speaker 4: out on my own. You said, you said audience, but
Speaker 4: this is my personal I ain't saying what women should do.
Speaker 4: I'm saying in my word, I did ask you.
Speaker 2: Okay, Yeah, mocked and fat? Oh my god, that is
Speaker 2: to be a shirt.
Speaker 4: Yeah, love on me.
Speaker 2: Let me like vent when I got some shit going
Speaker 2: on and baby me like and in turn, you're gonna
Speaker 2: do that.
Speaker 4: I'm gonnarea providing protect I'm gonna go home.
Speaker 2: Are you affectionate? Are you like an affectionate lover?
Speaker 4: Like?
Speaker 2: How would you?
Speaker 4: It depends on who it is. I'm not affectionate to
Speaker 4: all the women out of that way, but it's certain
Speaker 4: ones that, Yeah, they get all the love and affection.
Speaker 2: Are you an eye contact type of guy?
Speaker 4: Definitely? Okay, spinning to my off eye contact. Yeah, do
Speaker 4: beet asked? I do everything?
Speaker 2: Actually know what? I think? It's time for trigger? Oh yeah, trigger? Yeah,
Speaker 2: I thought you'd like that.
Speaker 1: You.
Speaker 2: Oh, can you explain to Derek what trigger is? My love?
Speaker 3: Trigger is? We're going to ask you. We're gonna say
Speaker 3: one word and you're gonna just tell us the first
Speaker 3: thing that comes to mind. You don't have to think
Speaker 3: about it, just give us one word answer. I'm just
Speaker 3: going to ask you some questions and you just go.
Speaker 4: I got you trigger.
Speaker 2: Here it goes trigger Derek Grace, bad habits, bad habit, drugs, drugs.
Speaker 4: Mm hmm like drugs, drugs. I've done some of everything,
Speaker 4: but shrooms, ascid weed of course, uh ls d d
Speaker 4: m T. I've had certain bought DMT.
Speaker 2: I should have bought that d I told you to
Speaker 2: buy the d MT. I really valued. That's the wellness store.
Speaker 4: That's the only part I don't very like about it.
Speaker 3: I know I've never done it, but I'm like, it's
Speaker 3: fifty the message quick, yeah, write down.
Speaker 2: I want to be No, I don't.
Speaker 3: That's what it gets me exciting.
Speaker 4: And it's not a bad habit because it's a drug.
Speaker 4: It's just it's only a bad habit in my seasons
Speaker 4: of focus and seriousness that I have to fast from
Speaker 4: the drugs so I can stay focused.
Speaker 2: Okay. Religion, None, marriage, I don't know about that. Ship. Yes,
Speaker 2: eating pussy. Yes, favorite sex position.
Speaker 4: They got to be on their side in the fetal position.
Speaker 2: Favorite porn castle side, specifically the left.
Speaker 4: Yeah. They need they needs need to be like covering
Speaker 4: curving around my body.
Speaker 3: Right, is you have a curve?
Speaker 4: Yeah? She if she in the feetle my knee like
Speaker 4: so one, so.
Speaker 2: You're behind her, yeah, like cuddling her sort of and
Speaker 2: then she's in the feetle right, yeah, like that, but
Speaker 2: you would flip this and then your legs would be
Speaker 2: over him like this.
Speaker 4: No, legs flat.
Speaker 2: I want to I thought you said over I want
Speaker 2: to flat on.
Speaker 3: YouTube?
Speaker 2: Okay, interesting, I like that. I like that position. That's
Speaker 2: a lazy position though. There you you could really dig
Speaker 2: great position.
Speaker 4: You can really dig in there that they can't run.
Speaker 4: It's no block.
Speaker 2: It's just like you can choke.
Speaker 3: Do you feel all safe because you just like cuddled there?
Speaker 2: Actually this is good? Right?
Speaker 4: Yeah, then you put the it's a certain way. You
Speaker 4: gotta grab them while they're on their side to put
Speaker 4: in that past code and you just unlock everything and then.
Speaker 3: Other past code is where you grab them.
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's the way in what you grab me. It's
Speaker 4: certain like pay not paying points, it's certain.
Speaker 2: Uh.
Speaker 4: It's the word pressure points that you can like, that's
Speaker 4: your points.
Speaker 3: That might be the be the next book, your points, Derek.
Speaker 4: You know, I do believe like sex is magic. So
Speaker 4: I've studied. I've been studying sex for a long time.
Speaker 3: US too, we live. Sexist is medicine.
Speaker 2: It is last bad choice.
Speaker 4: The word these holes just popped up in my head.
Speaker 4: I don't know why.
Speaker 3: What's your favorite porn category?
Speaker 4: Evony ain'tal mm hmm, boxes or briefs, brief.
Speaker 2: Black women? I love them white women.
Speaker 4: It's gonna sound bad, but the word and not fucking
Speaker 4: in a bad way like I would love to financial.
Speaker 2: Literacy, old generational wealth.
Speaker 4: The word, Yes, that's the first. Or guns, gotta have
Speaker 4: them tasers, No, we're not tasting it.
Speaker 2: Still I got in my house. Goddamn taser.
Speaker 4: I mean, if you got to use your taser. But
Speaker 4: if I got gun and taste it, definitely getting a gun.
Speaker 2: It's a celebrity crush. Damn celebrity crush. It is somebody
Speaker 2: I like.
Speaker 4: You know, I was in love with. Remember the lady
Speaker 4: that Jody went to go had sex with on Baby Boy?
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, uh what her name was? I started the start.
Speaker 3: I can't see her face anyway.
Speaker 4: I looked up her. I G she's still she fis
Speaker 4: she's still fine and beautiful?
Speaker 2: You did you slide?
Speaker 4: I thought about her, but she got a husband. I
Speaker 4: don't play with people who got unions.
Speaker 2: I stay out of said slide into it.
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, no, I'm never a verbally holler at a
Speaker 4: woman in my life. So I'm definitely the DMK. You're celebrity,
Speaker 4: uh my porn star, but no celebrities. I mean she
Speaker 4: was a celebrity because therapy. Oh it was all right.
Speaker 4: How long did you go for the first time was
Speaker 4: for like two months, the next time for like three weeks.
Speaker 4: The last lady was Yeah, she was terrible. It'd be
Speaker 4: hard because they you know who I am, sometimes and
Speaker 4: it just don't be It don't seem effective or as
Speaker 4: effective they be asking me. I mean they suposed to
Speaker 4: ask questions, but they don't seem like therapy based. Sometimes
Speaker 4: it's like they're fanning out. Yeah, they never fanned out,
Speaker 4: but yeah, for the most part, and I have a
Speaker 4: it's not a bad habit, but I do like to
Speaker 4: mix pleasure in business. So I'm not always uh, it's
Speaker 4: not always easy for me to get certain services because
Speaker 4: I end up sleeping with the people that's were routing
Speaker 4: the service.
Speaker 3: Put your dick away there, So basically you're suggesting that
Speaker 3: you're put your good After that, the therapist wants to smash.
Speaker 4: And so it just yeah, yeah, that's happened a lot.
Speaker 4: I had sex with them, then they suck up the service.
Speaker 3: What is the fucking sopranos?
Speaker 4: All right, So I'm gonna say this, right, I don't
Speaker 4: believe in how to say this. I like working with
Speaker 4: women that are attractive if I got to be around
Speaker 4: you twenty four seven, Like, it's nice if it's somebody
Speaker 4: that's like I can do, they look good. But that
Speaker 4: hasn't always been a good thing.
Speaker 1: I know.
Speaker 4: Like we literally were just at my birthday party. They
Speaker 4: was asking, like have I slept with everybody I employed?
Speaker 4: And like, literally like ninety six percent of them. I
Speaker 4: only want to say how many literally because people on
Speaker 4: my team gonna they're gonna.
Speaker 3: Be start to do the number. Yeah, six percent, another
Speaker 3: two they did it.
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's a so it'd be good in bad ones.
Speaker 3: Is there drama over there? Because I feel like, like
Speaker 3: in the household you slept with the ninety six percent
Speaker 3: of your employees, you're living girl, like baby mama lives there,
Speaker 3: you have like two babies, Like no, I.
Speaker 2: Know women, I've our baby mama don't live there.
Speaker 4: That's shout out of tip. That's the one who I'm
Speaker 4: gonna make sure she comes to a treat with y'all
Speaker 4: next year because she loves you.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, don't come so But that's not even the
Speaker 2: biggest thing. It's a lot of things happening. I'm just curious, wait,
Speaker 2: and I need to.
Speaker 3: Know, Like I know, I like from the internet, I'm
Speaker 3: like speculating. I'm trying to read the comments, but like,
Speaker 3: since you're here.
Speaker 2: Just ask them all questions. Get it off, girl, get
Speaker 2: it out.
Speaker 3: So now that you say that, I'm like, did you
Speaker 3: did the the like main baby mama that moved out
Speaker 3: in love with the sun? Is that because you start
Speaker 3: sleeping with the other girl who was also like an
Speaker 3: employee at first?
Speaker 4: Oh okay, no, not at all, I know you're talking about. No,
Speaker 4: we split because of us just having differences. They had
Speaker 4: nothing to do with her. She came. So person B
Speaker 4: that you're referring to, she been working me since twenty
Speaker 4: and twenty one.
Speaker 3: I've been dying for this information her and I.
Speaker 2: Finally I'm trying to catch up.
Speaker 4: All right. Person A left June twenty twenty two, so
Speaker 4: that's been done. Then Person B been working for me
Speaker 4: since twenty and twenty one, So there were moments when
Speaker 4: we were all in the same room. Because she was
Speaker 4: an employee of one. We didn't start our relationship until
Speaker 4: April of twenty and twenty three. Remember the light skinned
Speaker 4: young lady with the green knives that was with me
Speaker 4: at breakfast? She went and bagged her, she was my employee,
Speaker 4: but she started she started the intimate process with her
Speaker 4: by saying like hey, Bay want you blah blah blah,
Speaker 4: and we all start kicking it. Then yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 4: Then like three kids came in a year and a half.
Speaker 3: It just blurred proper and you're at the center like
Speaker 3: all the dramas like no, no, no, no.
Speaker 4: So we do have bad days like everybody else, like
Speaker 4: we have shit that happens, and we have bad days,
Speaker 4: but drama, if we do have drama, it don't last
Speaker 4: long because I'm just like I'll be chilling. I'm a
Speaker 4: no nonsense type of guy with a big sense of humor,
Speaker 4: so I don't take a lot serious or like I
Speaker 4: just like the girls being the girls, or they like,
Speaker 4: let the girls be girls. They're doing what women do. Yeah,
Speaker 4: I'm out in the field what women do.
Speaker 2: Over all right, because wait, wait, let's go back, because
Speaker 2: we said, okay, I asked you, like what you feel
Speaker 2: like the role of a woman is in your life?
Speaker 2: Oh okay, you said, Okay, So I go back because
Speaker 2: I have said that.
Speaker 4: Okay, in my life, I figured out like the hard
Speaker 4: shitting life, So I really be wanting to replay my
Speaker 4: childhood because I feel like I missed out on a
Speaker 4: lot of stuff because I was really grown being bad.
Speaker 4: I was advanced, and then I went to live with
Speaker 4: my dad at thirteen. So like my appears to be
Speaker 4: talking about their favorite cartoons, I don't know nothing about that.
Speaker 4: I was like outside of my older brother doing bad
Speaker 4: shit or trying to be older than we were. My
Speaker 4: peers was trying to get lose a virginity in high school.
Speaker 4: We was like investing in terrible things that we shouldn't
Speaker 4: have been investing in because we wanted to open a
Speaker 4: tattoo shop in a strip club in eleventh grade. So
Speaker 4: I missed out. I missed out on a lot because
Speaker 4: I was focused whether it was good or bad. Just
Speaker 4: like in my twenties, I missed out on a lot.
Speaker 4: Like I was writing curriculums and teaching children in my twenties,
Speaker 4: So when my friends was getting their first bag and
Speaker 4: having the summer day lifetime and just wilding out, I
Speaker 4: didn't do that. I was focused. So I gravitate really hard.
Speaker 4: And I liked the type of woman that can bring
Speaker 4: me back to my childlike state, that can like nurture
Speaker 4: my inner child and have fun with him, because these
Speaker 4: days that's who really wanted to come out. I'm like,
Speaker 4: so over being the grown man. I'm over adulted my
Speaker 4: whole life. I pay on my my rent for the
Speaker 4: first time. When I was fifteen. My daddy taught us
Speaker 4: financial responsibility at like eleven, So I was taking life
Speaker 4: serious when everybody else was having a ball. So now
Speaker 4: I'm trying to have a ball. So yeah, if she
Speaker 4: got the food, she turned up on my level of
Speaker 4: turn up because I.
Speaker 2: Have I'm so curious, we need to come party with you?
Speaker 2: And what's going on?
Speaker 4: If a woman, like if she had a space, which
Speaker 4: I respect, but if she had a space where she's
Speaker 4: not she don't trust me enough to get me like
Speaker 4: full access to her body, then I don't want it.
Speaker 4: And I've had to happen. I've had I've turned down
Speaker 4: women like, oh I only do this, this and this,
Speaker 4: I feel you, Well, we probably shouldn't interact because if
Speaker 4: I'm if I'm going to engage in this experience and
Speaker 4: give you me as well, I.
Speaker 2: Got just means that you want to put it in
Speaker 2: her back?
Speaker 3: But what are your rules if I ever want to
Speaker 3: engage with you? And I'm like can I put my
Speaker 3: fing you have any rules? Because I want the same level.
Speaker 3: Are we on the same levels of free?
Speaker 4: If I trust her?
Speaker 2: If we both trust each other?
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, whatever she want to do. No, I had
Speaker 4: a finger nail with a finger of tongue and all that,
Speaker 4: but I ain't never been.
Speaker 3: One finger or two.
Speaker 2: It was one.
Speaker 3: It was one. It was one.
Speaker 2: Listen that long nail ship it wasn't it.
Speaker 4: I just like, no, we can't do this.
Speaker 3: The nails don't work. Yeah, so I cut mine off recently.
Speaker 2: But yeah, if she.
Speaker 4: Is she not providing U. If she ain't provide full access,
Speaker 4: though I don't want it, I'll do without it. I'd
Speaker 4: rather just I mean, I can masturbate for that.
Speaker 3: I mean I agree to that. I don't have sex
Speaker 3: with someone with a bunch of It's called sexual compatibility.
Speaker 2: If you don't got it, then get get next.
Speaker 4: Yeah, like if you ain't, you know, down to ATM.
Speaker 2: And it goes both ways, and it goes way. Derek
Speaker 2: isn't going to give you what you want, bitch, and
Speaker 2: you got to go because you deserve.
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's somebody out there and that will do what
Speaker 4: I'm not willing.
Speaker 2: We'll go ask you won't do. What is it that
Speaker 2: you're not gonna jail?
Speaker 4: Uh? I try anything once. I like that, So like,
Speaker 4: it ain't really nothing that I won't do. If I
Speaker 4: with you, like, we're gonna turn out. We gonna make
Speaker 4: some memories.
Speaker 3: What are some things that ignite baby, Derek?
Speaker 4: That's a good ass question. Wait, you're talking about the child.
Speaker 2: Yeah, no, we should, so it's quick.
Speaker 4: I like women with children because like I love my mom,
Speaker 4: and like women who mirror my mom are very attractive
Speaker 4: my inner child. Women with a sense of humor, women
Speaker 4: that are open minded. So when I say, like, let's
Speaker 4: try some different ship, she's not gonna be like, oh
Speaker 4: my god, my grandma. She's gonna be like, all right,
Speaker 4: I fuck with you. I'll try once If I like it,
Speaker 4: keep trying to women that like women just free people
Speaker 4: and rebellious people that really like ignite my inner child,
Speaker 4: Like people that just don't give a fuck.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I get it to tribe, you know, on that
Speaker 3: fake shit and you can't hang out.
Speaker 4: No, I agree. I agree. So what's your biggest regret
Speaker 4: overall life?
Speaker 2: Yeah, because we're still playing, we're in between trigger and why.
Speaker 4: Regret or do you have any I don't think I
Speaker 4: really had no big ones. I love all my experiences, good,
Speaker 4: bad and in different. They just make me. They made
Speaker 4: me more of a wizard for my children. So I
Speaker 4: just I'd be thoroughly embracing all the good shit in
Speaker 4: the bad shit, I just be grateful I got to
Speaker 4: experience it. Like some people would rather have not ever
Speaker 4: loved and had their heart broken three times about three
Speaker 4: different people. I'll take the heartbreak.
Speaker 2: That's my daddy, My dad. One woman, one girl broke
Speaker 2: his heart in high school. Literally, he always tells tells
Speaker 2: me her name whever he told me. No, he didn't
Speaker 2: have his heart opened after that, and I can't remember
Speaker 2: her name. I know it was earlier than that, but
Speaker 2: he always says that it was this one woman who
Speaker 2: broke his heart. But really it was something that happened
Speaker 2: in his childhood that he has yet to face.
Speaker 4: Yeah, to get my ship broke ten times before, I
Speaker 4: just like pack it up and not love.
Speaker 3: Love is little.
Speaker 4: All there is is defin That's one of the misconceptions people.
Speaker 4: I don't know if it's the tattoos of what would
Speaker 4: they be thinking, I'm like, really mean or.
Speaker 2: Are you still getting tattoos?
Speaker 4: You still get tattooed. I got tattoo in years. They
Speaker 4: hurt too bad. I don't they hurt after you got
Speaker 4: I got it said in my twenties. I'm good.
Speaker 2: You have met them. No get all them.
Speaker 3: You in your twenties.
Speaker 4: I probably only got two tattoos since I've been over
Speaker 4: my over thirty.
Speaker 3: It gets less appealing after thirty, Like I got other
Speaker 3: shit to do.
Speaker 4: Yeah, that shit hurt. The pain not the same. It
Speaker 4: hurts really bad.
Speaker 2: Okay, Derek, Well, I'm so grateful that you came on
Speaker 2: our show. Before we get out of here. Two things,
Speaker 2: We've talked a lot of sex. We've talked a lot
Speaker 2: of things. Trump, sacks, guns, all types of shit, fatherhoods.
Speaker 2: I would love if you could share a horror story.
Speaker 4: Okay.
Speaker 2: We ask our guests to share a horror story, which
Speaker 2: is a highly hope wish tail. That's funny, that's highly horrish,
Speaker 2: that's a little scary, whatever it might be, whatever comes
Speaker 2: to mind. You're like, Damn, that was some whole ash
Speaker 2: ship I just did.
Speaker 3: It could either be great like bad.
Speaker 2: It could be bad. I'd be nasty. It could be
Speaker 2: like damn, I overdid it.
Speaker 3: I did too much or I over did it and
Speaker 3: it was great.
Speaker 2: I loved every.
Speaker 4: Let me think ago, I got a lot.
Speaker 2: It's like, damn last night. Okay, New Year's this year.
Speaker 2: Oh so.
Speaker 4: New Year's this year. I go into these seasons where
Speaker 4: we real disciplined. So I'm be having sex or nothing
Speaker 4: like that while I'm in that on that type of time,
Speaker 4: I just be locked in.
Speaker 2: Is that because you believe in semen retention or is
Speaker 2: it just no, just like you.
Speaker 4: Pract have you ever, I'm not interested letting that thing real.
Speaker 4: I'm not interesting, all right? So yeah, this was this
Speaker 4: was January first of this year leading up to that. So, like,
Speaker 4: I really love scorpios sexually, like they just always other
Speaker 4: science to what scorpios just we have a special place
Speaker 4: in the darkness together. We dance in the dark all
Speaker 4: the time.
Speaker 2: I loved the scorpios to do that.
Speaker 4: Yeah. So at this point, I got a couple of
Speaker 4: scorpios in my life, but it they've never been all
Speaker 4: in the same room. So I just hit them all
Speaker 4: up and put them in a group chat and I'm like, Hey, got.
Speaker 2: A scorpio orgy? What I want to So Wow, as
Speaker 2: a fellow scorpio, I'm honored.
Speaker 4: Yeah, it was beautiful. So I threw them in a
Speaker 4: group chat. I'm like, hey, I want everybody to get acquainted,
Speaker 4: you know, love y'all. Blah blah blah, Meet so and so,
Speaker 4: meet so and so. So they start talking and I
Speaker 4: was just like, this is what I want to do.
Speaker 4: I want all of us to meet and I just
Speaker 4: want to have like a weekend full of drugs and
Speaker 4: orgy because I need to like get his energy. I've
Speaker 4: been real disciplined, real good lately.
Speaker 3: You said say something, how many scorpios did we have gathered?
Speaker 2: It was three women, so you made see like it
Speaker 2: was twelve.
Speaker 4: No, I needed like my top assassins, like my top
Speaker 4: ones that I know get the job done, not for
Speaker 4: real because like everybody can't get the job done. I
Speaker 4: needed like my real killers.
Speaker 2: The show was going to happen, you know, and like
Speaker 2: not just for me.
Speaker 4: But when you like it's three someome etiquette, when you
Speaker 4: just introducing them, you're either gonna have to take the
Speaker 4: time to make everybody comfortable prior or you just need
Speaker 4: them real assassins. That's like, I love this nigga and
Speaker 4: whatever he wants, I don't care who there I'm gonna
Speaker 4: do it because this is what you want. That's true, right,
Speaker 4: I ain't had it. I ain't have time for all that.
Speaker 4: I'm like, I need my assassins. That's with the ships
Speaker 4: on on on site. So I threw them in a
Speaker 4: group chat.
Speaker 2: I let them know.
Speaker 4: I'm like, hey, I want to see all y'all at
Speaker 4: the same time. We're gonna fly out here, let's meet
Speaker 4: up blah blah blah. And so we flew out, uh
Speaker 4: and yeah, like they know what I like. So everybody
Speaker 4: pulled up with they lingerie on. They had like matching
Speaker 4: lunge like they had talk, they did anything, they got
Speaker 4: each other. No one was outside of me and wining
Speaker 4: steth Urgers. So it's like leading up to it and
Speaker 4: they know, like they know I like, I ain't on,
Speaker 4: So leading up to it, it was just like this
Speaker 4: one day, they just flooded my ship, everybody busting it
Speaker 4: up in the same position, like they separate, they're not together,
Speaker 4: but they all just lighting the group chat up like oh,
Speaker 4: who you want to come in first? Who? And I'm
Speaker 4: just like grown me in the inner child, like they
Speaker 4: I can't wait. We about to cut up. So I
Speaker 4: get there and literally it was dope. Like they always
Speaker 4: in separate rooms and like everybody was just on all fours.
Speaker 4: When I checked the doors, no one was in the
Speaker 4: living room, one was in room in another room. Everybody
Speaker 4: on all fours, like spread it open, busts open, just
Speaker 4: waiting for me to get there. So we had the group. Yeah,
Speaker 4: they got me super high. We had a group orgy
Speaker 4: Friday night, and then like they all got out. Everybody
Speaker 4: came in for like they won on one appointment and
Speaker 4: then the last one like I ain't gonna lie. I
Speaker 4: couldn't come no more. So I had to lay down.
Speaker 4: I had to get had. And I woke up that
Speaker 4: next morning and I texted him. I was just like
Speaker 4: what you doing and she was like, oh, I ain't
Speaker 4: think I got away. I'm waiting, and I was like,
Speaker 4: say last, and then went in there with her and
Speaker 4: then yeah, that was we had our group thinking and
Speaker 4: I just had me like two or three individual individual
Speaker 4: session in some sessions.
Speaker 3: So basically you had your own special scorpio whorehouse.
Speaker 4: Yeah, it was. It was important to have that scorpio
Speaker 4: energy in there. I ain't taking nothing from no other
Speaker 4: signs because I haven't met other than I realized, Like God,
Speaker 4: but the last this Scorpios, the last thieteen years of
Speaker 4: my life, there has always been a definite Scorpio in
Speaker 4: the mix, Like a scorpio gave me my first first
Speaker 4: first fifteen hundred dollars to start my business. So, like
Speaker 4: everyone forsist, I don't know if this business every thing
Speaker 4: I done will be done. This was thirteen years ago.
Speaker 4: The same scorpio taught me how to eat pussy because
Speaker 4: she was a lesbian. My older scorpio has helped me
Speaker 4: mentally on ways that I can't explain, helped me to
Speaker 4: evolve as a man, be a better father, better lover.
Speaker 4: My other scorpio, y'all saw that relationship publicly, So yeah,
Speaker 4: scorpios have always always had an impact. Yeah, for sure,
Speaker 4: I love him. Interesting, my top assassin is a couple
Speaker 4: of them, is scorpio.
Speaker 2: You know you kept saying assassin. I was like, I
Speaker 2: want to be calling this That literally was my father.
Speaker 2: They be chill and real playing.
Speaker 4: Now when they get crazy. When they get crazy, that
Speaker 4: could be a problem, but for the most part, they
Speaker 4: be chilled, laid back. We've been in the same rooms
Speaker 4: with thirty people.
Speaker 2: They keep their composure I'm just letting you know, Derek,
Speaker 2: you're about to get an onslaught of scorpios in your
Speaker 2: inbox from this on.
Speaker 3: All for so many scorpios on all fours is going
Speaker 3: to be crazy.
Speaker 4: Yes, like unique identifiers. And I appreciate it because I
Speaker 4: like panties to the side, and they all like made
Speaker 4: sure they was to the side.
Speaker 3: They were paid attention to detail.
Speaker 4: Yeah for sure. They know, like I like certain movements
Speaker 4: and all that, and they all they went out their
Speaker 4: way and made that really special form.
Speaker 3: That's beautiful.
Speaker 2: Congratulations, thank you.
Speaker 3: I'm really happy for you.
Speaker 2: It's Tarot time. And you know I peaked at this
Speaker 2: Tarot card. This card, but Derek Poley pulled the King
Speaker 2: of Wands. Shout out to Mahogany Terror.
Speaker 3: Derek were witches. So the cards are always on point.
Speaker 4: I gotcha.
Speaker 2: King of Wands, natural born, leader, Vision, entrepreneur, honor. The
Speaker 2: King of WANs represents pure fier energy and its masculine
Speaker 2: form unlike the other one. Unlike the other ones court cards,
Speaker 2: the King is not so interested in creation and creativity
Speaker 2: or is dreaming up ideas and implementing them himself. Instead,
Speaker 2: he is more inclined to take an idea and then
Speaker 2: enlist others to help him actualize it. Thus, when the
Speaker 2: King of Wands appears in a tear reading, it is
Speaker 2: a sign that you are stepping into a role of
Speaker 2: visionary leader, reading to ready to direct your people towards
Speaker 2: a common goal. You have a clear vision of where
Speaker 2: you want to go, and now you're manifesting that vision
Speaker 2: with the support of those around you. That's funny, others
Speaker 2: naturally gravitate towards you because you're charismatic, focused and determined,
Speaker 2: and they believe in you and your vision. They want
Speaker 2: to be a part of what you're manifesting and are
Speaker 2: here to support you one hundred percent of the way.
Speaker 2: You are also masterful at getting other people to do
Speaker 2: work for you while you keep them on side on
Speaker 2: the side throughout the process. Yeah, let's see. The appearance
Speaker 2: is for a person business this overall, but you know,
Speaker 2: take how it applies to you. You never just go
Speaker 2: with the flow. Instead, you prefer to embark on a direct,
Speaker 2: robust course of action. The appearance of the King of
Speaker 2: WANs also suggest that an opportunity is presenting itself to you,
Speaker 2: and now you have the power to take on the challenge.
Speaker 2: You are determining. You are the determining factor in this situation.
Speaker 2: If you want it to be successful, it will, and equally,
Speaker 2: if you don't fully commit to it, the seed will
Speaker 2: struggle to blossom and grow. You hold the power.
Speaker 4: I like that. That sounded really relatable.
Speaker 2: Sounds like what you just said about yourself. Literally, you
Speaker 2: don't believe in God. I had the power.
Speaker 4: The wrestler said, Oh, the best there is, the best
Speaker 4: there was, and the best ever.
Speaker 2: Wivie. Amen.
Speaker 3: Amen. Everyone should feel the way about themselves.
Speaker 2: Well, Derek, thank you so much.
Speaker 4: I got a question for you.
Speaker 2: Oh, what what's up?
Speaker 4: Do y'all get like a lot of black from men?
Speaker 4: Or men don't really follow y'all L like it's mostly women.
Speaker 3: It literally is mostly women. But the few times we've
Speaker 3: had some some pretty off putting interactions on like podcasts
Speaker 3: like being Caught off Guard Wait in person. Yeah, I'm
Speaker 3: sure I'm sure you see all the niggas on the
Speaker 3: internet hating women, so definitely they definitely don't love us,
Speaker 3: Like be free your topics.
Speaker 4: I don't feel like your topics are things that should
Speaker 4: even bother them. I've never seen nothing that was like
Speaker 4: as a.
Speaker 3: Man may be talking shit, but we don't as a
Speaker 3: man because we ain't mess, you.
Speaker 4: Know what I'm saying. I don't see why a man
Speaker 4: would watch any of y'all content and feel away as
Speaker 4: a man, like because.
Speaker 2: We're free and because of well, it's usually if it's
Speaker 2: mirroring something for them.
Speaker 3: So we promote pleasure and happiness, and you know, men
Speaker 3: don't like their women happy and pleasurable.
Speaker 2: They hate. Yeah, it's got to be it's got to
Speaker 2: be what it looks like for them. Yeah, I mean,
Speaker 2: I think for the most part though we've we've been
Speaker 2: pretty protected. There's been definitely moments, but for the.
Speaker 3: Most part we've been we're pretty protected.
Speaker 4: So like I saw the the Nick Cannon posts other day,
Speaker 4: what was the response like.
Speaker 2: Us that we posted, No, it was the new cam
Speaker 2: new CA. I mean it was what I thought it
Speaker 2: would be, which was you know, even there were there
Speaker 2: are even a lot of men in that agreeing with
Speaker 2: or just like saying like, now, this is not how
Speaker 2: it's supposed to be, and clearly he's confused about it.
Speaker 4: So y'all feel like if a baby come about, you
Speaker 4: should Miriam No, no.
Speaker 3: No, no, no, no, no, I mean we both have
Speaker 3: kids and we weren't married, so we can't subscribe to that.
Speaker 3: But I think and have done and doing it that
Speaker 3: way once. I think I understand the necessity of like,
Speaker 3: like you said, a tribe like at the very minimum,
Speaker 3: the two people in the household, because I've done it
Speaker 3: otherwise and so if I'm going to do it again,
Speaker 3: I'm gonna put my body through that. I'm going to
Speaker 3: dedicate my life essentially like I do. I would prefer
Speaker 3: a partner to be in the household. I'm personally not
Speaker 3: going to put myself in a position with ten other
Speaker 3: women because I know what I need.
Speaker 4: Right, you know what I mean, y'all didn't work out?
Speaker 4: Would you still allow the partner to be in the
Speaker 4: house so the child can't have that like dual interaction
Speaker 4: or you gotta.
Speaker 3: Go no because he had to go Like I have
Speaker 3: a baby daddy. He doesn't live with me.
Speaker 2: She's saying, what if your baby daddy said, I want
Speaker 2: to stay in the house, be able to be together,
Speaker 2: We're going to raise a child.
Speaker 3: You can live next door, you live down the street.
Speaker 3: But are you like even respectful, You're mature. I'm all
Speaker 3: about the tribe shit. Wenome vacations together, but like chill,
Speaker 3: like be cool with what's happening over here, which is
Speaker 3: bitches are moving on, bitches are doing what I want
Speaker 3: to do, which is probably in my case, you didn't
Speaker 3: really love that about me to begin with, so you're
Speaker 3: definitely not gonna love it what I'm without you. So
Speaker 3: it's not realistic for my where my life needs to be.
Speaker 2: But yeah, no, definitely not.
Speaker 3: And I don't think it has to be that way.
Speaker 3: But I do think like when you can when you
Speaker 3: continue to have a lot of kids, you're not in
Speaker 3: the same household. It's just science math. There's only twenty
Speaker 3: four hours in a day, like you said, so there's
Speaker 3: only so much chrismas whatever, Like there's so much time,
Speaker 3: you know, like just you have to sleep, you gotta travel,
Speaker 3: you gotta work. And I think men think that like
Speaker 3: the money is enough, and we see how that we
Speaker 3: see the results of that. There are men lacking real
Speaker 3: men in their life, and that's why we got a
Speaker 3: lot of niggas on the internet talking shit and they
Speaker 3: don't know what the fuck they're talking about, loud and
Speaker 3: proud because they haven't had men to guide them who
Speaker 3: have been in their lives. I'm not saying that's the
Speaker 3: case for everyone, but it's important.
Speaker 4: No, I agree. I notice in my situation, like you
Speaker 4: were saying, with the actual time, not just the money.
Speaker 4: You definitely you can only be omnipresent, but so long,
Speaker 4: but you'll see the effects of like not just having
Speaker 4: that energy in the room period. And scientifically it is hard.
Speaker 4: I think most men that do that they have to
Speaker 4: make peace of like they're gonna die parenting. Like somebody
Speaker 4: that got like me, like, you can't have ten children
Speaker 4: and multiple households and be playing in like month long vacations.
Speaker 4: So I think you can, and they do, you know,
Speaker 4: That's what I'm saying. I think they say, we thinking
Speaker 4: you could have one hundred children and live your best
Speaker 4: You don't live your daddy life. Exist.
Speaker 3: That's not the thinking, and that's the problem.
Speaker 4: You know.
Speaker 3: They're thinking, Oh, I did I did this much, that's enough.
Speaker 3: Your mom has the rest, And that's selfish.
Speaker 4: I get it.
Speaker 2: Yeah, And I don't think. I think Cam really walked
Speaker 2: himself into a total trap with he just set himself up.
Speaker 2: He set himself up, especially what he said he didn't
Speaker 2: want to get married.
Speaker 3: He said he wants more kids from God.
Speaker 2: He just wants more kids God.
Speaker 3: And it didn't it meant I don't know the conception.
Speaker 2: I don't know that he wasn't basically you know, he
Speaker 2: wasn't basically claiming the woman he just had a child with.
Speaker 2: I mean, obviously we don't know the dynamic of their relationship.
Speaker 2: It appears that they're together. I think. More so it
Speaker 2: was just his nonchalantness around having all these kids and
Speaker 2: wanting more, and also like knowing that he's not present
Speaker 2: in any of their homes, you know, and she, I
Speaker 2: don't know. I felt like she eloquently broke his ass
Speaker 2: down and he had the opportunity to respond, and he didn't.
Speaker 4: He didn't.
Speaker 2: Maybe maybe he's thought more about it, has something to say,
Speaker 2: I don't know, but yeah, it was just of course,
Speaker 2: most of the women that were in the comments were like,
Speaker 2: what the fuck this is the problem, But there were
Speaker 2: also men in there that were also had the same sentiment.
Speaker 4: So you know, yeah, no, I see it both ways
Speaker 4: for sure, because I've had seasons where I'll be disappointed
Speaker 4: in myself based on the time spent, So it definitely
Speaker 4: can't happen. I don't care how.
Speaker 2: Smart should I have one kid thinking I'm not spending
Speaker 2: enough time.
Speaker 3: Right, Gilt is already like do her hair too, Like, yeah.
Speaker 2: I missed her birthday or this or that. Yeah, So
Speaker 2: it's just the guilt of parenting is just it's never.
Speaker 4: I tell everybody that being a conscious parent is a
Speaker 4: gift and the curse because the stress you sleep and
Speaker 4: live with and the words something is just out of
Speaker 4: this world.
Speaker 2: Well, I'm grateful that you've armed your children and that
Speaker 2: they are going to grow up to be intelligent, powerful,
Speaker 2: confident kids. We need more of those in the world.
Speaker 3: Yeah, we do. We need soldiers because we see what's
Speaker 3: happening without them.
Speaker 2: So where can our people find you, Derek?
Speaker 4: Oh, they could find everything at Derek gracetoo dot com.
Speaker 4: All my social media everything is Derek Grace to t
Speaker 4: w O. You know, I brought your curriculums and books
Speaker 4: and a board game, but I forgot it out there.
Speaker 3: But oh my god, I was hoping that that was
Speaker 3: for us. But I didn't want to be like nosy, Oh.
Speaker 4: No, so y'all in my bag because I forgot the
Speaker 4: wrapping paper in the airbnb. No, So it's just like
Speaker 4: in the bag rip because there's so many books in there.
Speaker 4: But yeah, I brought you some.
Speaker 3: Thank you.
Speaker 2: He's bringing.
Speaker 3: Thank you.
Speaker 4: Appreciate it. Bro.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I had to like dig deep because I don't.
Speaker 4: Do physical No more book though, going to archives and finals.
Speaker 2: Thank you.
Speaker 3: I was gonna say, we'll give you a book for
Speaker 3: for you and for your baby mom. But I'm like,
Speaker 3: I don't know if you want her to have our book.
Speaker 3: I'm just joking.
Speaker 2: Oh no, all your baby mamas need to have our book.
Speaker 3: It's important.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I definitely want to say. She overdes she's been
Speaker 4: asking me to send her on your retreat since last year.
Speaker 3: Come on, circulate the black dollar.
Speaker 2: Come on, it's luxury, it's it's such a beautiful hook.
Speaker 3: She'll be come back refreshed.
Speaker 2: And oh she's going to be ready. She'll come over,
Speaker 2: She'll be ready.
Speaker 4: She deserves her. That's my right hand in the in
Speaker 4: the family aspect. She she holds it down. Damn you
Speaker 4: are all these books. Yeah, I'm actually missing too for you.
Speaker 4: So I got you all the same stuff a piece,
Speaker 4: but I'm missing two. I couldn't find Wow, thank you
Speaker 4: affirmations that she was asking about, like those three volume one, two,
Speaker 4: and three, those are all affirmations.
Speaker 2: I love it, thank you. Read one. The television is
Speaker 2: called scheduled programming for and put the phone, radio and
Speaker 2: television down.
Speaker 3: It's literally fucking programming.
Speaker 4: And see the difference. This is a cool difference. That
Speaker 4: black one, that thy one, that's my autobiography. I believed
Speaker 4: in God when I wrote that book. By the time
Speaker 4: I released a yellow one that says gods and ones.
Speaker 2: Man, I no longer believe in God in that one
Speaker 2: win number one.
Speaker 3: So yeah, this is like two totally different perspectives, way different,
Speaker 3: way different. Interesting not thank God, right, never mind, thank
Speaker 3: God and never mind, never mind. I don't mean that back.
Speaker 3: Thank me. Oh well, thank you so much for coming
Speaker 3: and joining us and coming to LA and pulling up
Speaker 3: and you know, showing us love. I appreciate that.
Speaker 4: I appreciate you.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm so happy this finally happened. Y'all know where
Speaker 2: to find us at Good Momsbad Choices dot com at
Speaker 2: Good Mom's Bad Choices on Instagram. Make sure you check
Speaker 2: out the good Vibe treat because we are going to
Speaker 2: We're going all over the world next year with our tribe,
Speaker 2: and we have some really beautiful experiences. We have a
Speaker 2: couple's retreats. That is, it's different. It's going to be sexy.
Speaker 2: So come bring your the love of your life or
Speaker 2: come by yourself to one of our other ones.
Speaker 4: Can bring more than one woman.
Speaker 3: We can accommodate you. We can figure that out.
Speaker 2: We're open to all of the ladies. Yeah, Derek, actually
Speaker 2: you all should come. This will be a beautiful you know,
Speaker 2: this will be active self care for you. This will
Speaker 2: be an active self care that I think you.
Speaker 3: Yeah, June eleven to the Ace, June eleven to the eighteenth,
Speaker 3: we're going to be.
Speaker 4: I gotta try to make sure those cycles is a cyclone.
Speaker 4: I can't. We can't hang the cycle the period. You
Speaker 4: got no beiness on a vacation your cycle, and so
Speaker 4: I gotta.
Speaker 2: Why this was a booty hole. That's more.
Speaker 3: Anyway, you don't run red lights.
Speaker 4: No, I've done that once. I never do that again.
Speaker 4: That was terrible. I don't like blood on me. That's terrible.
Speaker 3: We have to talk about that later. Like, guys, if
Speaker 3: you only blood.
Speaker 2: On you from a distance, that's actually true. That actually
Speaker 2: doesn't make a lot of sense.
Speaker 4: Very high guns, I mean I'm shooting from I guess
Speaker 4: some one from ten feet away.
Speaker 3: I have to peek.
Speaker 2: Wait, let's let's cut.
Speaker 3: Let's cut it. Well, we can you can just walk off?
Speaker 2: Wait, what's okay? You said you? We said bye?
Speaker 3: I think we said bye?
Speaker 2: We did? Oh okay bye?
Speaker 4: Yeah? I've been so good?
Speaker 2: Can't you tell? I went through a drought.
Speaker 5: That's until I found a well maym have been known earth?
Speaker 5: I used to be broken tail, now got the blue dancer.
Speaker 5: Might be yond say just down throat shot with popping
Speaker 5: this cow wearing our voices. Patriarchy kept it in the
Speaker 5: box to exploit its women put the pee and powers.
Speaker 2: So what's the pointing that they want me to be good?
Speaker 4: So? I mean bad choice is bad mom?
Speaker 3: Not a bad mom, but a bad mom.
Speaker 5: Bitter's in, put cannabis in their bath, bomb walked in
Speaker 5: boss's cap, and I blew his cat ball.
Speaker 3: Time yall, Now I'm immune to the cat calls.
Speaker 2: Her being no waister? Straight to what like a dollar sign?
Speaker 1: Mother? Rent the lover?
Speaker 2: When to with the like a water sign?
Speaker 5: Where you're ren the winter essential will when the summertime?
Speaker 4: I do what'll?
Speaker 2: Ain't no one that needs to run it back