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Speaker 1: Once upon a time there was a good old traditional housewife.

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Speaker 1: She cooked, she cleaned, cared for her children and the

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Speaker 1: man of the house, and of course she didn't talk back.

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Speaker 1: She was both obedient and soft by nature. She was

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Speaker 1: a good woman who always made good choices.

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Speaker 2: That we're good mom's bad choices.

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Speaker 3: Who's single mom? Who said, but the patriarchy you shared

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Speaker 3: all their bad choices.

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Speaker 2: And found out they weren't so bad after all.

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Speaker 3: We're experts. Overshairs and your new bestie.

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Speaker 2: Sit back and near the ride. I can do a

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Speaker 2: pat on my mom.

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Speaker 3: Welcome back to good Mom's bad Choices. I'm Eric and

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Speaker 3: I'm Nila.

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Speaker 2: My nipples are hard.

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Speaker 3: You asked for the air to be on, bitch, Now

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Speaker 3: your nipples are hard. Now you're gonn announce it.

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Speaker 2: I mean, for those that are listening, if you go

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Speaker 2: to YouTube, you can see my hard nipples. I don't

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Speaker 2: know you're nervous, no, but I'm actually really proud of

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Speaker 2: the left one because this one doesn't get hard. So

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Speaker 2: the fact that it's hard is this is important.

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Speaker 3: If you just tune in a little bit longer, when

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Speaker 3: it gets ten degrees less, mine will get me.

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Speaker 2: Mary, I'm getting sensation back in this one three six

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Speaker 2: years later.

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Speaker 3: I know it only took.

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Speaker 2: Seven years, but the doctor said it could take years.

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Speaker 3: You've been working on it.

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Speaker 2: A few men have been working on this tit. Your

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Speaker 2: former have been trying to bring this titty back to

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Speaker 2: life resuscitate. No, truly, like there's been guys that have

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Speaker 2: been like determined to get the sensation back to this titch.

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Speaker 3: Well you think you know everything about it, bitch. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: I forgot to tell you that I had no idea.

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Speaker 3: I feel I'm happy that the hard work paid off

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Speaker 3: me too, gives me hope.

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Speaker 2: How are you.

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Speaker 3: I'm good. How are you?

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Speaker 2: I'm good. I feel like I've been seeing you. I

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Speaker 2: missed you.

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Speaker 3: Hi, Hi, I know I feel like we have you know,

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Speaker 3: we've been out of the office for some time.

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Speaker 2: I know, I know. I'm excited to be back. And

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Speaker 2: we have a special guest, you guys. And I'm really

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Speaker 2: excited about this guest because we tried to get this guest. Like,

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Speaker 2: was it two years ago? It was almost It was

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Speaker 2: not last August, it was it was the last to May.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, it was a lot of shit happened

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Speaker 2: that last year. Oh god, my brain blocked most flashed

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Speaker 2: your out.

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Speaker 3: I know, I know you did. Yeah, I've been steady

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Speaker 3: stalking this guest over some years. I don't even know

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Speaker 3: where I discovered him. But today we are very very

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Speaker 3: happy after a year plus long of stalking, like good moms,

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Speaker 3: do we finally have our friend, our Floridian entrepreneur, serial entrepreneur,

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Speaker 3: father of many, father of many, biological and not biological,

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Speaker 3: Derek Grace.

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Speaker 4: I appreciate having Yes. I think May was when we met,

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Speaker 4: but I think you did reach out a year prior

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Speaker 4: in a DM. I just didn't see it until like

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Speaker 4: almost a year later. Dan, it was in Miami. R.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm a fucking we're professional stalkers. You think we're playing.

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Speaker 3: We'd be stalking people for years until we meet them,

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Speaker 3: Like we see them in the club and I'm like, hey,

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Speaker 3: check your DMS.

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Speaker 2: It's me.

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Speaker 3: Hey, you want to call on my show? I'm like, yeah,

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Speaker 3: We've done that over like years and years. But you

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Speaker 3: know what, being a little psycho on the DMS, it

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Speaker 3: obviously works because here you are.

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Speaker 4: Who's been the hardest to catch up to.

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Speaker 3: I mean the people who still haven't come on the show, specifica,

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Speaker 3: we're still waiting for you. Now we know Duran, so

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Speaker 3: we're just gonna like get yeah, Duran, He's gonna be

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Speaker 3: the link.

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Speaker 2: Come on, Duran, please.

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Speaker 3: He doesn't even know it yet. I know we're plotting on.

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Speaker 3: We're grooming him, hypnotizing you will introduce us to Auntie

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Speaker 3: Queen mother.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Last time in fucking Florida. We I feel so bad still.

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Speaker 3: We had you drive down from Tampa like hours and

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Speaker 3: then the fucking studio was like, sorry, we're booked double

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Speaker 3: the hurricane.

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Speaker 4: No, no, no.

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Speaker 2: No, it was the studio fucked up and it was.

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Speaker 3: It was Labor Day or Memorial weekend or something.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it was crazy, and I.

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Speaker 3: Was like, well, do you want to at least go

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Speaker 3: to bro?

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Speaker 2: It was some crazy, but you were so gracious and

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Speaker 2: so kind, and you were like, it's cool, let's go eat.

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Speaker 2: I was like, wow, No, it was me.

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Speaker 3: I was like, let's go eat. I was like, I've

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Speaker 3: been waiting five years to meet this nigga. We're going

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Speaker 3: to eat. Get dress bit wait.

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Speaker 2: And then Jamila was just fangirling over here, and I

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Speaker 2: was like, if you don't sit your little thirsty ass down.

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Speaker 2: Orlando was sitting there like what the fuck is wrong

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Speaker 2: with her, and I'm like, listen, I.

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Speaker 4: Get your bitch.

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Speaker 3: I preannounced to everyone. I don't give a fuck. I'll

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Speaker 3: take my responsibility. I said, I have a crush on

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Speaker 3: this nigga. I've been stalking him for five years. We're

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Speaker 3: going to breakfast. I can't believe he drove down here

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Speaker 3: and they fucked us like this at a studio. We're

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Speaker 3: going to meet him right now. Put on your good ship.

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Speaker 2: And I did, and we did.

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Speaker 3: We look cute, we did. And tell me more, Derek,

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Speaker 3: you like waffles. They did talk about me for about

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Speaker 3: two weeks after that that, I was.

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Speaker 2: We did me and Orlando. We're talking about Mila for

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Speaker 2: a good two weeks. Yeah, and her thirstiness. But I

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Speaker 2: just I believe in divine timing, and I believe you

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Speaker 2: were just supposed to be here with us in our

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Speaker 2: studio in La. We weren't supposed to pay those random

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Speaker 2: people money to record you. We were supposed to, you know.

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Speaker 3: Do it here or we can drink and smell and

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Speaker 3: hang out.

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Speaker 2: Amen.

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Speaker 3: Do you like La?

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Speaker 4: Uh No, not like that. The cost of living is

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Speaker 4: crazy compared to what stuff costs us from Florida and

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Speaker 4: uh oh yeah, And I can't bring my guns here,

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Speaker 4: and I hate that anywhere I can't bring my guns.

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Speaker 2: I can't you bring your guns here.

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Speaker 4: They don't have reciprocity with Florida. So like if I

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Speaker 4: travel as my security company, then that's different because you

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Speaker 4: can loophole that by saying this is business. But if

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Speaker 4: I'm just out here on Lesion and now I can't

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Speaker 4: bring my guns.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, LA has pretty strict carry carry laws, carry and

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Speaker 3: conceal laws. It's like almost like why the fuck would

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Speaker 3: I have a gun. I can't even have it on

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Speaker 3: access if something happens randomly, like the like the the

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Speaker 3: bullets and the guns have to be separated. I see

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Speaker 3: the lock box like in the trunk or in the

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Speaker 3: glove compartment, Like if I'm getting attacked, who the fuck

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Speaker 3: has time? Okay, yeah you even think I have like

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Speaker 3: a gun with all this knowledge.

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Speaker 2: I'm going to the shooting range this weekend. I want

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Speaker 2: to go, yeah everyone on Sunday.

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Speaker 3: I have it in May and like I just I

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Speaker 3: just really believe in my soul that I'm just going

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Speaker 3: to pick up the gun and just be crazy with it. No,

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Speaker 3: but I'm going to be a fucking ninjast. And they

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Speaker 3: were like, oh, my.

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Speaker 2: God looking at her. Just a natural, Yeah, a natural

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Speaker 2: shoot seven.

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Speaker 3: That's my dream. I think it's going to happen.

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Speaker 2: I will, I have, I have, not even not knowing

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Speaker 2: even how to say the word. I put the bullets

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Speaker 2: my baby daddy, he would go out of town and

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Speaker 2: this nigga always thought people were after him, and so

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Speaker 2: he would be like, Okay, I'm leaving, but like I

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Speaker 2: want you to have a gun. I'm like, so you're

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Speaker 2: leaving me with a gun, you're going out of town.

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Speaker 2: How would you leave me with security? Because I don't

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Speaker 2: know how to use the ship. So he would give

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Speaker 2: me like a five minute tutorial of how to use

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Speaker 2: they shoot themselves. And so I did load a few clips.

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Speaker 2: I couldn't tell you how to do it now. I

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Speaker 2: just prayed every time he left that like whoever he

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Speaker 4: After you loaded the clip, did one into the.

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Speaker 2: Yes, he put the one there so that like he

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Speaker 2: would be like, oh, you have to do is take

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Speaker 2: the safety off and shoot. That's it. You don't have

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Speaker 2: he so then he left me with because remember that time.

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Speaker 2: So one time I did mushrooms by myself. It was

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Speaker 2: the first time I ever did mushrooms on myself. At

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Speaker 3: Sheela came by.

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Speaker 2: She was like, all right, bitch, have fun. I left.

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Speaker 2: Some drunk guy tried to break into my house and

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Speaker 2: at the high of my peak, the peak of my high,

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Speaker 2: I mean, and I was like, oh my god, like

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Speaker 2: I'm fucking high. I don't have any weapons, Like I

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Speaker 2: don't know how to I can't use this gun.

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Speaker 4: Like what did you think he was hallucinating that first?

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Speaker 2: I really thought I it was hallucinating. I did because

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Speaker 2: I had music really loud. And then I heard someone

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Speaker 2: lowered it and I was like, am I tripping? And

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Speaker 2: then he just started getting closer and closer to the door,

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Speaker 2: and then he started banging on my door. It was

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Speaker 3: And then she called me and I was like, bitch,

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Speaker 3: I'm already about forty five minutes.

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Speaker 2: I was like, bitch, gun to do?

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Speaker 3: She just sat on the backyard. I was like, no, bitch,

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Speaker 3: She's just stay in the house.

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Speaker 2: Yes, And in that moment I realized I'm not prepared

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Speaker 2: at the time. Then he left me because we had

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Speaker 2: already broken up. Then he left me with the gun,

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Speaker 2: and then he got mad at me one day and

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Speaker 2: was like I'm kind of back and they got mac

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Speaker 2: a gun. I'm like, your daughter still lives here, and

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Speaker 2: to be like, what the fuck? So basically I have

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Speaker 2: no weapons in the house for now. Don't get you

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Speaker 2: know what, by the time this episode comes out, I

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Speaker 2: will have weapons. So don't you even think.

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Speaker 4: Are you like handy with the hands, door knives or anything?

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Speaker 2: I mean, are you handy with it? I can make

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Speaker 2: it do if it has to do, you know, I think.

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Speaker 2: But when I was on mushrooms, I felt helpless. I

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Speaker 2: was like, could I can I stab someone? Didn't? I

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Speaker 2: got it in me like it was, oh thank you.

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Speaker 2: That was years ago, and I told myself that I

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Speaker 2: was going to take control of my safety. And I

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Speaker 3: Is I'm just fucking your phone not off. I'm sorry,

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Speaker 4: You know what type of guns?

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Speaker 3: I have no idea, but this is what made me

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Speaker 2: And so, okay, you're stressing me out. How what what

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Speaker 4: He did help with that. But one of the main

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Speaker 2: What was the wildest shit that you, as a nine

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Speaker 4: On the job. It was a lady that was looking

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Speaker 3: And that's the shit I'm talking about. MdeR no hesitation.

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Speaker 2: So this is someone who wants wants to commit suicide,

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Speaker 4: It was like that, like they literally say like they're

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Speaker 2: But why did being a nine one one dispatcher, I

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Speaker 3: Probably they're taking two hours to fucking get there.

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Speaker 4: Well, no me me watching uh from the inside, how

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Speaker 4: But that really opened my eyes to uh, yeah, me knowing, like,

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Speaker 3: Was that your last like clocking job that you had, Yeah.

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Speaker 3: And after that you started making curriculum or what was

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Speaker 3: And that that was the day you put you were done.

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Speaker 4: After the no, I actually got suspended. I didn't quit,

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Speaker 3: That too much. You said, fuck that.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, the suspend somebody and definitely, like you don't fire them.

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Speaker 4: So they just chilled till you called him one day.

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Speaker 4: I was calling every week like what's up. Oh, we're

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Speaker 2: all of that, but I'm just so curious about your upbringing.

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Speaker 4: Okay, my upbringing was I had a blast. I had

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Speaker 4: Do you have siblings, Yeah, I got nothing but brothers,

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Speaker 2: Oh wow, yeah, that's wild. So when you were growing up,

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Speaker 2: Because I know that you know you practice your polyamorous

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Speaker 4: Yep, absolutely So one key thing I tell people like

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Speaker 2: The woman was in my mom, Oh your mom was

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Speaker 4: Yeah, some have some happened between them that was on

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Speaker 4: That's what I saw, That's what I was raised around.

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Speaker 4: And you just gotta think, like my dad is what

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Speaker 3: Yeah, exactly?

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Speaker 2: Do you think serious?

441
00:19:31,840 --> 00:19:35,320
Speaker 3: How you practice your relationship style as a maybe like

442
00:19:35,680 --> 00:19:38,560
Speaker 3: because of it's fear based, because of that, like him

443
00:19:38,600 --> 00:19:39,080
Speaker 3: telling you that.

444
00:19:39,119 --> 00:19:42,080
Speaker 4: As like a child, fears like having more than one woman.

445
00:19:41,960 --> 00:19:45,760
Speaker 3: Like just in order to avoid any infidelity, just be open.

446
00:19:46,359 --> 00:19:48,400
Speaker 4: Oh no, I don't care about the infidelity stuff. Nah

447
00:19:48,840 --> 00:19:51,560
Speaker 4: oh nine chrippering on that. Okay, everybody gonna do what

448
00:19:51,600 --> 00:19:53,720
Speaker 4: they want to do. I'm not even wasting my time

449
00:19:53,840 --> 00:19:55,560
Speaker 4: having those type of conversations like you're gonna do what

450
00:19:55,640 --> 00:19:56,600
Speaker 4: you want to do as and why.

451
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Speaker 3: So my other question is is I know you have

452
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Speaker 3: how many you of ten kids?

453
00:20:01,240 --> 00:20:04,520
Speaker 2: Your congratulations because you just you have a son? Right?

454
00:20:05,000 --> 00:20:07,800
Speaker 2: It was the last girl, the one I called two

455
00:20:07,840 --> 00:20:09,720
Speaker 2: three ago, and now your dynasty is complete.

456
00:20:10,280 --> 00:20:11,159
Speaker 4: Her name is dynasty.

457
00:20:11,240 --> 00:20:13,040
Speaker 3: Ye oh wow? But you didn't remember you told you

458
00:20:13,119 --> 00:20:15,960
Speaker 3: wanted to have one white baby. What breakfast?

459
00:20:16,960 --> 00:20:17,760
Speaker 2: I don't recall that.

460
00:20:18,240 --> 00:20:20,959
Speaker 4: I do want to integrate into a biracial family at

461
00:20:21,040 --> 00:20:23,440
Speaker 4: some point and learn. I want the game.

462
00:20:24,040 --> 00:20:24,800
Speaker 2: Look, I know what.

463
00:20:25,480 --> 00:20:26,920
Speaker 4: I know what being in the right room could do

464
00:20:27,000 --> 00:20:29,240
Speaker 4: for you. I've seen it with myself, my daddy, my

465
00:20:29,320 --> 00:20:32,159
Speaker 4: great granddaddy, he was law enforcement as well. So I

466
00:20:32,240 --> 00:20:34,840
Speaker 4: want to integrate like that. So if it's any what what?

467
00:20:35,080 --> 00:20:37,680
Speaker 2: What are you trying to integrate it? But I don't

468
00:20:37,760 --> 00:20:38,000
Speaker 2: get it.

469
00:20:38,119 --> 00:20:39,240
Speaker 4: I needed cheat codes?

470
00:20:39,760 --> 00:20:42,760
Speaker 2: So you anyway, you want a white passing child so

471
00:20:42,920 --> 00:20:45,400
Speaker 2: that they keep going, they can go with. They are

472
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Speaker 2: gonna be.

473
00:20:45,640 --> 00:20:47,960
Speaker 4: Able to access places that we normally can't. We all

474
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Speaker 4: got locks and domit down to my children, some of

475
00:20:51,280 --> 00:20:52,320
Speaker 4: them got locks and domity.

476
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Speaker 3: You don't think we have a white baby. That baby

477
00:20:53,880 --> 00:20:55,520
Speaker 3: gonna have locks and diming teeth, right, but we.

478
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Speaker 2: Could baby gonna look like me. You think I got them,

479
00:20:58,480 --> 00:21:00,080
Speaker 2: You think you think I can pass, and that's to

480
00:21:00,119 --> 00:21:04,119
Speaker 2: get the chee coats. Probably what Damn, I'm fucked up.

481
00:21:04,280 --> 00:21:09,760
Speaker 2: You did, I'm not. I'm failing my people ship. How

482
00:21:09,760 --> 00:21:11,359
Speaker 2: do you feel about white women? Have you ever slept

483
00:21:11,400 --> 00:21:12,120
Speaker 2: with white women?

484
00:21:12,160 --> 00:21:15,879
Speaker 4: I've only experienced physically one white woman. I would like

485
00:21:15,960 --> 00:21:17,000
Speaker 4: to experience.

486
00:21:16,640 --> 00:21:18,760
Speaker 2: More, but so emotionally you've experienced white women?

487
00:21:19,119 --> 00:21:21,199
Speaker 4: No, we just had s okay, Oh no.

488
00:21:21,600 --> 00:21:23,840
Speaker 2: Well you said only physically, so I thought maybe there

489
00:21:23,920 --> 00:21:25,000
Speaker 2: was some other aspect to this.

490
00:21:26,080 --> 00:21:29,399
Speaker 4: No, I've I've I do not even want to say dated.

491
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Speaker 2: What is your what is your white woman type? Derek Grace,

492
00:21:33,040 --> 00:21:35,919
Speaker 2: that's a good What is your white woman type? Your

493
00:21:35,960 --> 00:21:42,480
Speaker 2: white woman? Not your regular people want to know, Derek.

494
00:21:42,960 --> 00:21:45,040
Speaker 2: They've been waiting for this, my white woman type.

495
00:21:49,960 --> 00:21:52,800
Speaker 4: Blond? I love blonde hair. She was blonde, that would

496
00:21:52,800 --> 00:21:56,680
Speaker 4: be nice. And she got like a nice tan because

497
00:21:56,720 --> 00:21:59,840
Speaker 4: I do like it's like death that like some color, you.

498
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Speaker 3: Know, and be too pasty.

499
00:22:00,960 --> 00:22:03,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, Na, she's gonna need to be as white as hell.

500
00:22:03,200 --> 00:22:06,000
Speaker 2: If she's gonna be white, she's gonna infiltrate the system.

501
00:22:06,119 --> 00:22:07,480
Speaker 2: You might need to go as pasty as.

502
00:22:07,400 --> 00:22:09,679
Speaker 4: You might not even be her, like she might got

503
00:22:09,720 --> 00:22:12,720
Speaker 4: an uncle or pops who can do certain things. It's

504
00:22:12,760 --> 00:22:15,160
Speaker 4: just like, I just I really have seen the benefits

505
00:22:15,200 --> 00:22:17,120
Speaker 4: of being able to make that white phone call when

506
00:22:17,640 --> 00:22:19,040
Speaker 4: you know, when things get too real.

507
00:22:19,480 --> 00:22:23,760
Speaker 3: But you're having a baby for the white phone call. Listen, George,

508
00:22:23,840 --> 00:22:24,560
Speaker 3: call your dad.

509
00:22:25,880 --> 00:22:26,240
Speaker 2: For real.

510
00:22:28,040 --> 00:22:31,399
Speaker 4: Curvy am matter if she like the teter thick curvy

511
00:22:31,480 --> 00:22:33,320
Speaker 4: I know the one. I kicked it it one time.

512
00:22:33,400 --> 00:22:35,159
Speaker 4: She was super thick, she had got work done. Her

513
00:22:35,200 --> 00:22:39,480
Speaker 4: body was crazy. But yeah, as long as she curry.

514
00:22:39,600 --> 00:22:42,439
Speaker 4: I like skin, hair and teeth. So if those intact were.

515
00:22:42,320 --> 00:22:46,240
Speaker 3: Good, like you like bodies, bodies done, and you prefer

516
00:22:46,359 --> 00:22:47,600
Speaker 3: naturally you have a preference.

517
00:22:47,760 --> 00:22:49,639
Speaker 4: I like them both. But if I had to choose,

518
00:22:50,320 --> 00:22:53,400
Speaker 4: it'd be natural. But I like, I've enjoyed both.

519
00:22:54,520 --> 00:22:57,879
Speaker 3: You guys heard it here. First the pro black Derek

520
00:22:57,920 --> 00:22:59,840
Speaker 3: too Grace wants a white woman.

521
00:23:01,240 --> 00:23:05,920
Speaker 2: Blonde little I have one that pulled up on me

522
00:23:06,000 --> 00:23:07,440
Speaker 2: not too long ago from Slovakia.

523
00:23:07,560 --> 00:23:10,320
Speaker 4: She in New York. She's from Slovakia, and I'm like, really,

524
00:23:10,800 --> 00:23:12,040
Speaker 4: I do want to learn her culture.

525
00:23:12,200 --> 00:23:15,119
Speaker 3: I see with the Slovakian like hardcore pitch with the

526
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Speaker 3: machine gun.

527
00:23:15,880 --> 00:23:17,600
Speaker 4: Yeah, she had. She sent me like pictures of what

528
00:23:17,680 --> 00:23:20,400
Speaker 4: they cooked one day, and like people from other cultures

529
00:23:20,440 --> 00:23:21,520
Speaker 4: that do interesting, they're.

530
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Speaker 2: Food be nasty. I'm sorry for the ones that the

531
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Speaker 2: Slovakians listening, Honey, I went to Slovakia, I did, yes,

532
00:23:30,119 --> 00:23:31,760
Speaker 2: and what did you say? The food was nasty? Like

533
00:23:32,200 --> 00:23:38,480
Speaker 2: perogis what are those things called unseasoned potatoes? And ship

534
00:23:38,640 --> 00:23:41,840
Speaker 2: It's very unseasoned over there, lots of French fries.

535
00:23:42,000 --> 00:23:44,080
Speaker 4: I've had this theory that I feel like would be

536
00:23:44,160 --> 00:23:46,920
Speaker 4: really effective. I just haven't found a time. But I

537
00:23:47,000 --> 00:23:48,760
Speaker 4: think if I took a year to date a woman

538
00:23:48,880 --> 00:23:52,400
Speaker 4: from each state, like had a representative, I think that'll

539
00:23:52,480 --> 00:23:54,520
Speaker 4: make me like way more dangerous and diverse because I

540
00:23:54,560 --> 00:23:57,080
Speaker 4: do find a lot of benefit and intertwining with people

541
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Speaker 4: from other cultures.

542
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Speaker 3: So you're saying from each state or just from across

543
00:24:01,320 --> 00:24:02,080
Speaker 3: the globe.

544
00:24:02,119 --> 00:24:04,600
Speaker 4: No, each state, Like if I had like a California

545
00:24:04,640 --> 00:24:07,479
Speaker 4: representative of New York. But of course women who are

546
00:24:07,480 --> 00:24:09,359
Speaker 4: grounded in their culture so they could actually teach me

547
00:24:09,440 --> 00:24:11,359
Speaker 4: some I mean I can get some ass anywhere, but

548
00:24:11,480 --> 00:24:13,840
Speaker 4: like actually teach me like, oh, this is how we

549
00:24:14,000 --> 00:24:16,560
Speaker 4: eat or this what we do. In terms of education,

550
00:24:16,720 --> 00:24:17,320
Speaker 4: blah blah blah.

551
00:24:17,920 --> 00:24:19,600
Speaker 3: Is that like a part of your goal right now,

552
00:24:19,680 --> 00:24:23,200
Speaker 3: even with like constructing your family dynamic with like multiple

553
00:24:23,280 --> 00:24:26,200
Speaker 3: women and children, is it that they each provide something

554
00:24:26,280 --> 00:24:29,919
Speaker 3: different and so like all together it's everything you need, right.

555
00:24:29,920 --> 00:24:32,360
Speaker 4: Cause I feel like like the world is run by families.

556
00:24:32,560 --> 00:24:36,640
Speaker 4: So I feel like people be they be selling themselves

557
00:24:36,680 --> 00:24:38,440
Speaker 4: short thinking like they just gonna take on the world

558
00:24:38,680 --> 00:24:41,280
Speaker 4: solo and just rule and figure it all out. So

559
00:24:41,400 --> 00:24:43,400
Speaker 4: I do believe in like role playing and everybody playing

560
00:24:43,440 --> 00:24:47,520
Speaker 4: the intricate role so the overall mission and look is completed.

561
00:24:47,640 --> 00:24:51,440
Speaker 4: But yeah, like even my theory different, but people be

562
00:24:51,560 --> 00:24:55,400
Speaker 4: like hung up on the same parent household. I feel

563
00:24:55,440 --> 00:24:57,399
Speaker 4: like you need multiple Like if you look at the

564
00:24:57,480 --> 00:24:59,639
Speaker 4: statistics and the patterns, we diyeing not the same way

565
00:24:59,680 --> 00:25:04,000
Speaker 4: generation the generation. So clearly having a mom and just

566
00:25:04,080 --> 00:25:06,000
Speaker 4: a dad, I'm not gonna say that's not enough, but

567
00:25:06,080 --> 00:25:06,960
Speaker 4: more can be done.

568
00:25:08,440 --> 00:25:08,640
Speaker 3: More.

569
00:25:08,880 --> 00:25:11,159
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's way more effective, It's way more helpful. Like

570
00:25:11,800 --> 00:25:13,639
Speaker 4: if you got somebody with a million dollar idea and

571
00:25:13,720 --> 00:25:16,560
Speaker 4: seven people in the same roof that can move collectively,

572
00:25:16,640 --> 00:25:18,560
Speaker 4: like that's gonna get you further and faster than one

573
00:25:18,600 --> 00:25:20,560
Speaker 4: person trying to figure it out the next fifteen years.

574
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Speaker 3: Are most of your children in the household with you?

575
00:25:23,160 --> 00:25:24,399
Speaker 3: Or how many live in the house with you?

576
00:25:24,800 --> 00:25:27,199
Speaker 4: Yeah, most of them. Seven out of the ten are

577
00:25:27,240 --> 00:25:29,440
Speaker 4: with me. No, eight out of ten are with me,

578
00:25:29,600 --> 00:25:30,359
Speaker 4: twenty four to seven.

579
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Speaker 3: The women too, the women like, am.

580
00:25:35,920 --> 00:25:36,640
Speaker 4: I around their moms?

581
00:25:37,359 --> 00:25:39,240
Speaker 3: How many moms are there of the tential five moms

582
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Speaker 3: to ten children, and how many the five live with you?

583
00:25:42,840 --> 00:25:45,399
Speaker 4: Eight around me? Twenty four seven? Other two are out

584
00:25:45,440 --> 00:25:45,760
Speaker 4: of state.

585
00:25:46,080 --> 00:25:48,520
Speaker 3: Okay, but the moms they live in the neighborhood.

586
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Speaker 2: Are they living?

587
00:25:48,960 --> 00:25:52,560
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, no, my my, the one I just had

588
00:25:52,600 --> 00:25:54,560
Speaker 4: a baby with, she like ten minutes from me. We're

589
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Speaker 4: in the same proxis everybody within like ten fifteen minutes

590
00:25:57,000 --> 00:25:57,399
Speaker 4: at each other.

591
00:25:57,720 --> 00:25:59,800
Speaker 3: So you are basically in the household.

592
00:26:00,040 --> 00:26:02,280
Speaker 4: And she's mom to five of them. So she got

593
00:26:02,359 --> 00:26:04,800
Speaker 4: half the whole square, half the tribe. Yeah, and she

594
00:26:04,960 --> 00:26:06,800
Speaker 4: take and the other ones like she's been taken care

595
00:26:06,840 --> 00:26:08,280
Speaker 4: of us and say it was little kids too, or

596
00:26:08,320 --> 00:26:09,160
Speaker 4: she step in whenever.

597
00:26:09,280 --> 00:26:12,760
Speaker 2: So yeah, what would you say? Well, I have two questions.

598
00:26:12,960 --> 00:26:14,920
Speaker 2: Maybe I'll start with this one just because and you know,

599
00:26:15,240 --> 00:26:18,399
Speaker 2: we've been seeing this interview go around with Cam Newton

600
00:26:18,760 --> 00:26:21,240
Speaker 2: and of course they can in and Doctor Brian interviewing

601
00:26:21,800 --> 00:26:24,520
Speaker 2: and you know, reading these men to filth about just

602
00:26:24,600 --> 00:26:27,600
Speaker 2: their choices and how it's impossible for a father to

603
00:26:27,640 --> 00:26:30,240
Speaker 2: really show up for his multiple children, especially if they're

604
00:26:30,240 --> 00:26:32,400
Speaker 2: not living in the same house. Whereas for you, that's

605
00:26:32,400 --> 00:26:34,720
Speaker 2: a little bit different. Do you agree with that? Do

606
00:26:34,720 --> 00:26:37,000
Speaker 2: you agree with that that notion? And is that the

607
00:26:37,040 --> 00:26:39,359
Speaker 2: reason why? Well, I mean, it can be done. It's

608
00:26:39,400 --> 00:26:42,200
Speaker 2: done every day, like it's done every day, Like niggas

609
00:26:42,240 --> 00:26:44,000
Speaker 2: are having babies all over the globe and you know,

610
00:26:44,640 --> 00:26:46,399
Speaker 2: you know, seeing them here and there when they can.

611
00:26:47,040 --> 00:26:51,240
Speaker 2: But I'm just curious for you in your personal experience,

612
00:26:51,840 --> 00:26:54,520
Speaker 2: even with I'm sure you have friends that have, you know,

613
00:26:55,040 --> 00:26:58,320
Speaker 2: children and they don't practice polyamory or and they don't

614
00:26:58,320 --> 00:27:00,200
Speaker 2: have all their children living in the house. Do you

615
00:27:00,359 --> 00:27:05,680
Speaker 2: think that it's possible for your children to have the

616
00:27:05,800 --> 00:27:08,840
Speaker 2: most enriching experience with their parents if they're not living

617
00:27:08,960 --> 00:27:09,840
Speaker 2: in the household with you.

618
00:27:11,920 --> 00:27:13,840
Speaker 4: Yeah, I think it is possible. I think you just

619
00:27:13,880 --> 00:27:16,720
Speaker 4: got to be intentional about the time spent. So like

620
00:27:17,560 --> 00:27:19,680
Speaker 4: it's somebody that's gonna watch this interview that's a full

621
00:27:19,760 --> 00:27:22,800
Speaker 4: time mom, But if she really unpacked or dad. But

622
00:27:22,840 --> 00:27:25,200
Speaker 4: if they really unpacked, their hour spent it's maybe like

623
00:27:25,240 --> 00:27:27,639
Speaker 4: an hour, hour and a half. The other six was

624
00:27:27,680 --> 00:27:31,200
Speaker 4: the iPad, seven was sleep. The other seven was sending

625
00:27:31,240 --> 00:27:33,680
Speaker 4: them to somebody to get educated, blah blah blah. So

626
00:27:33,760 --> 00:27:37,840
Speaker 4: I feel like if it's consistent and with intent, then yeah,

627
00:27:38,000 --> 00:27:42,040
Speaker 4: Cause like Derek and Dereka are like for me, that's

628
00:27:42,160 --> 00:27:46,760
Speaker 4: my greatest example. I wasn't with them every day when

629
00:27:46,800 --> 00:27:49,240
Speaker 4: I was teaching them the things that like shocked the

630
00:27:49,280 --> 00:27:51,119
Speaker 4: world and wow the world. It's just when I did

631
00:27:51,200 --> 00:27:54,200
Speaker 4: spend time, it was intentional, like we're doing thirty minute

632
00:27:54,240 --> 00:27:56,119
Speaker 4: drids on these guns. Then I'm finna teach you out

633
00:27:56,119 --> 00:28:02,240
Speaker 4: how to be voisterous and be confident, articulate. This Saturday,

634
00:28:02,240 --> 00:28:04,159
Speaker 4: we're taking his lemonade standoff and to teach out how

635
00:28:04,200 --> 00:28:05,840
Speaker 4: to get money, how to market, how to get on

636
00:28:05,920 --> 00:28:08,880
Speaker 4: the camera, do x y Z. So I think it's possible,

637
00:28:08,960 --> 00:28:13,000
Speaker 4: but I think it's a It is a real lifelong commitment.

638
00:28:13,240 --> 00:28:16,280
Speaker 4: It's a real no days off type of life to

639
00:28:16,359 --> 00:28:17,000
Speaker 4: be yeah to not.

640
00:28:17,440 --> 00:28:20,080
Speaker 2: I was watching I was listening to Van's podcast the

641
00:28:20,160 --> 00:28:21,600
Speaker 2: other day and he was talking about when he saw

642
00:28:21,640 --> 00:28:23,240
Speaker 2: this clip where he was talking about how there's a

643
00:28:23,240 --> 00:28:27,439
Speaker 2: difference between being there and just showing up, and let

644
00:28:27,480 --> 00:28:29,560
Speaker 2: a lot of you know, a lot of parents. I'm

645
00:28:29,600 --> 00:28:31,560
Speaker 2: not going to generalize his fathers, but I would say

646
00:28:31,600 --> 00:28:36,440
Speaker 2: mostly it's fathers think that they're doing they're doing being

647
00:28:36,520 --> 00:28:38,360
Speaker 2: intentional because they show up, they show up to the

648
00:28:38,360 --> 00:28:41,120
Speaker 2: soccer games, they show up to the birthday parties. But like,

649
00:28:41,240 --> 00:28:43,880
Speaker 2: being there is different because you know when you're when,

650
00:28:44,000 --> 00:28:46,840
Speaker 2: you know when your child's energy has shifted, because you're

651
00:28:46,880 --> 00:28:48,720
Speaker 2: in that house all the time, so you notice the

652
00:28:48,760 --> 00:28:52,600
Speaker 2: little nuances about them, whereas a parent that just showing

653
00:28:52,680 --> 00:28:53,840
Speaker 2: up may not really see that.

654
00:28:54,120 --> 00:28:56,200
Speaker 4: No, I agree. I had this conversation. I like to

655
00:28:56,400 --> 00:28:58,680
Speaker 4: see one of the mons of my children, but like

656
00:28:58,840 --> 00:29:01,880
Speaker 4: little boys need to see a man's manners, like how

657
00:29:01,920 --> 00:29:04,000
Speaker 4: he walked through the house, how he tuk his pistol,

658
00:29:04,640 --> 00:29:06,800
Speaker 4: how he engages with other men, when he shake hands,

659
00:29:06,840 --> 00:29:09,920
Speaker 4: chin up, chest style, firm handshake, eye contact. So no,

660
00:29:09,960 --> 00:29:13,200
Speaker 4: I agree, just kicking it with him is very important

661
00:29:13,200 --> 00:29:15,440
Speaker 4: because it's just daily day stuff they got to learn

662
00:29:15,480 --> 00:29:16,760
Speaker 4: when they navigate in the jungle.

663
00:29:19,240 --> 00:29:23,800
Speaker 2: And then my other question was, wait, was I training

664
00:29:23,880 --> 00:29:26,640
Speaker 2: of thought even smoked yet? Damn and I was like, waiting,

665
00:29:28,800 --> 00:29:29,560
Speaker 2: have I smart enough?

666
00:29:29,680 --> 00:29:30,760
Speaker 3: M setting up smart things?

667
00:29:31,200 --> 00:29:33,880
Speaker 4: I think y'all don't y'all don't spark it during it.

668
00:29:34,040 --> 00:29:35,440
Speaker 3: No, we're going to, but I just have to make

669
00:29:35,480 --> 00:29:37,640
Speaker 3: sure my my my train of thought is clear. And

670
00:29:37,760 --> 00:29:42,160
Speaker 3: then I'm like, Okay, I'm smart. I think that's true,

671
00:29:42,200 --> 00:29:45,480
Speaker 3: though I think a lot of I think this even

672
00:29:45,720 --> 00:29:47,920
Speaker 3: obviously we're all winging it in some space.

673
00:29:48,680 --> 00:29:49,320
Speaker 4: Us know what we're doing.

674
00:29:49,400 --> 00:29:50,520
Speaker 3: Do know what the fuck we're doing? You know you

675
00:29:50,600 --> 00:29:52,440
Speaker 3: never had ten kids before? That does happened two weeks?

676
00:29:53,680 --> 00:29:55,160
Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying. And it's like even for us,

677
00:29:55,240 --> 00:29:57,120
Speaker 3: like we're trying our best, we see what didn't work.

678
00:29:57,160 --> 00:29:59,640
Speaker 3: We're trying to integrate these new like this new like

679
00:29:59,760 --> 00:30:03,120
Speaker 3: pairs ing styles. But shit, sometimes I snap out, just

680
00:30:03,200 --> 00:30:04,680
Speaker 3: like my mom did, because that's the only reason the

681
00:30:04,720 --> 00:30:06,720
Speaker 3: way I know how to communicate. But I feel like

682
00:30:07,000 --> 00:30:09,440
Speaker 3: I was watching something and she was like a teacher

683
00:30:09,520 --> 00:30:11,800
Speaker 3: and she was like, you know a lot of parents

684
00:30:12,040 --> 00:30:14,200
Speaker 3: assume that your kid knows shit. She's like, I was like,

685
00:30:14,440 --> 00:30:16,880
Speaker 3: we were talking about irony and like the nigga didn't

686
00:30:16,880 --> 00:30:20,239
Speaker 3: even know to like plug it in first turn it on. Kid.

687
00:30:20,400 --> 00:30:22,480
Speaker 2: Sorry, I'm like grown.

688
00:30:24,400 --> 00:30:26,480
Speaker 3: But that's the problem. A kid that doesn't know how

689
00:30:26,520 --> 00:30:28,760
Speaker 3: to do it, is not taught, becomes a man that

690
00:30:28,840 --> 00:30:30,440
Speaker 3: doesn't know how to do it because you assumed your

691
00:30:30,480 --> 00:30:33,120
Speaker 3: kid knows the basic of plugging the shit in. It's

692
00:30:33,200 --> 00:30:35,560
Speaker 3: just like wiping an ass, wiping a ball, Like you

693
00:30:35,680 --> 00:30:39,280
Speaker 3: have to be extremely like intentional and teaching. You can't

694
00:30:39,360 --> 00:30:41,880
Speaker 3: assume that they know because it's literally like a daily

695
00:30:42,000 --> 00:30:44,360
Speaker 3: task of like watch how I move, watch what I do,

696
00:30:44,480 --> 00:30:46,800
Speaker 3: and like even now, you see kids walk into rooms

697
00:30:46,840 --> 00:30:49,080
Speaker 3: on their iPads. They can't fucking interact. They can't look

698
00:30:49,080 --> 00:30:50,840
Speaker 3: at you in the face. They're afraid to ask questions

699
00:30:50,880 --> 00:30:52,959
Speaker 3: and shit, like little nigga, you're about to be a man,

700
00:30:53,000 --> 00:30:55,000
Speaker 3: and you can't even fucking make a phone call. Like

701
00:30:55,120 --> 00:30:55,760
Speaker 3: that's crazy.

702
00:30:55,880 --> 00:30:58,520
Speaker 4: But that's one of the main reasons not go hard.

703
00:30:58,600 --> 00:31:00,960
Speaker 4: But like I go hard the way I do on

704
00:31:01,040 --> 00:31:05,440
Speaker 4: my children, because technology in life is ever evolving and

705
00:31:05,520 --> 00:31:07,520
Speaker 4: it's moving way faster than it used to, and like

706
00:31:07,800 --> 00:31:09,880
Speaker 4: you could miss a year and just have to play

707
00:31:10,040 --> 00:31:11,920
Speaker 4: catch up for the next ten years. So I'm big

708
00:31:12,000 --> 00:31:14,280
Speaker 4: on that because people don't know, like it's a lot

709
00:31:14,360 --> 00:31:17,240
Speaker 4: of it's little kids out here, Like I was just

710
00:31:17,280 --> 00:31:19,320
Speaker 4: having this conversation with my daughter's like, y'all got to

711
00:31:19,360 --> 00:31:21,680
Speaker 4: do ten push ups today and they're like why, And

712
00:31:21,760 --> 00:31:24,800
Speaker 4: I'm like, cause it's grown men at it snatch children

713
00:31:25,000 --> 00:31:27,880
Speaker 4: and them little he we blows y'all throw and gonna

714
00:31:27,880 --> 00:31:30,080
Speaker 4: make somebody laugh at y'all. Y'all gotta really know, like

715
00:31:31,200 --> 00:31:33,200
Speaker 4: my daddy taught me ain't for the balls, and this

716
00:31:33,320 --> 00:31:35,680
Speaker 4: man gonna remember I ain't for them balls. But we

717
00:31:35,760 --> 00:31:38,840
Speaker 4: really dealing with children, like strength training is just not important,

718
00:31:39,080 --> 00:31:40,600
Speaker 4: Like they know how to lift the iPad, but tell

719
00:31:40,600 --> 00:31:42,920
Speaker 4: them lift they body weight and they're like, oh no,

720
00:31:43,280 --> 00:31:44,760
Speaker 4: I just got on my daughter's asked about it a

721
00:31:44,800 --> 00:31:47,040
Speaker 4: couple days ago, Like nah, everybody get up. I want

722
00:31:47,080 --> 00:31:48,000
Speaker 4: my push ups right now.

723
00:31:48,880 --> 00:31:49,360
Speaker 2: It's true.

724
00:31:49,360 --> 00:31:51,320
Speaker 3: Ivery thinking if shit hits the fan, Like how far

725
00:31:51,440 --> 00:31:53,120
Speaker 3: can I run with my daughter on my back?

726
00:31:53,280 --> 00:31:55,440
Speaker 2: What is the day Now I'm thinking about it, I

727
00:31:55,480 --> 00:31:57,040
Speaker 2: need to know the day in the life of Derek Grace,

728
00:31:57,200 --> 00:31:58,640
Speaker 2: Like what is the day in the life of you

729
00:31:58,840 --> 00:32:01,600
Speaker 2: being a dad? Like is there a curriculum that's followed

730
00:32:01,880 --> 00:32:03,680
Speaker 2: or like what's the vibe?

731
00:32:03,760 --> 00:32:05,600
Speaker 4: It used to be that, but since I when I

732
00:32:05,640 --> 00:32:09,040
Speaker 4: retire mam at twenty seven, she takes over the educational aspect. Okay,

733
00:32:09,560 --> 00:32:11,960
Speaker 4: I focus on not necessarily just the fun stuf.

734
00:32:12,000 --> 00:32:13,200
Speaker 2: They gotta wake up at a certain time.

735
00:32:13,840 --> 00:32:15,840
Speaker 4: Yeah, y'all wake up everech they get up every day.

736
00:32:16,840 --> 00:32:20,080
Speaker 4: They learned from ten thirty to six thirty. Not full on.

737
00:32:20,160 --> 00:32:22,400
Speaker 4: My mom, get them all type of breaks, do all

738
00:32:22,440 --> 00:32:24,640
Speaker 4: type of stuff with them. But then they come back

739
00:32:24,680 --> 00:32:27,080
Speaker 4: to me and I teach them more so about real life.

740
00:32:27,600 --> 00:32:29,760
Speaker 4: So like, I'm gonna make sure y'all you know, for

741
00:32:29,880 --> 00:32:31,400
Speaker 4: lack of better terms, you know how to kill somebody.

742
00:32:31,480 --> 00:32:33,480
Speaker 4: Y'all know how to articulate. Y'all know how to negotiate,

743
00:32:33,520 --> 00:32:36,320
Speaker 4: handle business, load a gun, check the doors, how to

744
00:32:36,360 --> 00:32:38,840
Speaker 4: sweep the house, how to check an Airbnb properly if

745
00:32:38,960 --> 00:32:40,360
Speaker 4: your daddy not there, stuff like that.

746
00:32:40,920 --> 00:32:42,600
Speaker 2: I need to I need to know how to check

747
00:32:42,640 --> 00:32:44,520
Speaker 2: an airbb bitch. Ever, since I went to the spy shop,

748
00:32:44,600 --> 00:32:46,680
Speaker 2: my mind is fucked up. Not the spy shop, the

749
00:32:46,760 --> 00:32:51,280
Speaker 2: spy shop like Airbnb's beware. There's this Oh they're creepy

750
00:32:51,720 --> 00:32:53,360
Speaker 2: because at the spy shop there was like it was

751
00:32:53,400 --> 00:32:55,360
Speaker 2: like a JBL speaker and there was like a camera

752
00:32:55,440 --> 00:32:56,280
Speaker 2: in it. It was crazy.

753
00:32:57,240 --> 00:33:01,080
Speaker 3: Wow, I haven't checked any of my airbing definitely foating

754
00:33:01,080 --> 00:33:03,120
Speaker 3: around me, but not day in their life.

755
00:33:03,200 --> 00:33:05,200
Speaker 4: Is I'm really simple? I'm easy going.

756
00:33:05,280 --> 00:33:07,080
Speaker 2: So who's cooking for all these kids?

757
00:33:07,960 --> 00:33:08,240
Speaker 3: Moms?

758
00:33:09,120 --> 00:33:11,080
Speaker 4: One of the women in my life will made cook.

759
00:33:11,680 --> 00:33:12,800
Speaker 3: How many girlfriends do you have?

760
00:33:15,520 --> 00:33:18,640
Speaker 4: How many girls? Uh?

761
00:33:22,120 --> 00:33:25,000
Speaker 2: He looks like, I don't know, you have a fiance?

762
00:33:27,120 --> 00:33:28,080
Speaker 2: Do you only have one fiance?

763
00:33:28,840 --> 00:33:29,440
Speaker 4: Yeah? Just one?

764
00:33:29,600 --> 00:33:35,080
Speaker 2: Why are you smile at me like that? You got

765
00:33:35,120 --> 00:33:35,640
Speaker 2: one on the way?

766
00:33:35,800 --> 00:33:40,040
Speaker 4: Like girlfriend, baby mom? It's it's different levels.

767
00:33:40,880 --> 00:33:43,520
Speaker 2: So are you sleeping with all your baby wamas still

768
00:33:43,680 --> 00:33:46,760
Speaker 2: or is it okay? So then there's like boundaries around that, right,

769
00:33:47,400 --> 00:33:49,240
Speaker 2: And then you have girlfriends.

770
00:33:49,520 --> 00:33:52,680
Speaker 4: Then I have some baby moms who like we still

771
00:33:52,720 --> 00:33:54,680
Speaker 4: have a relationship, we could pro create tomorrow.

772
00:33:54,960 --> 00:33:59,920
Speaker 3: So it's like a friend baby mm hmmm, Like are

773
00:34:00,200 --> 00:34:02,640
Speaker 3: or is that baby by I'm having like relations with

774
00:34:02,720 --> 00:34:05,160
Speaker 3: another man. She's a intimate relationship with somebody else as well.

775
00:34:05,960 --> 00:34:08,600
Speaker 4: No, but that's her choice though, It's not like me

776
00:34:08,719 --> 00:34:10,279
Speaker 4: and her sat out and I was like, yeah, well,

777
00:34:10,280 --> 00:34:11,920
Speaker 4: I'm gonna have all the women in the world and

778
00:34:12,040 --> 00:34:12,719
Speaker 4: you stay home.

779
00:34:12,840 --> 00:34:14,920
Speaker 3: I don't know, because that time at breakfast, I remember

780
00:34:14,960 --> 00:34:20,640
Speaker 3: you saying something about boy Whatlet me remember you were saying.

781
00:34:22,320 --> 00:34:24,640
Speaker 3: You said, yeah, but they have to be better than me,

782
00:34:24,680 --> 00:34:26,239
Speaker 3: and you're not gonna find a new better me.

783
00:34:26,800 --> 00:34:30,040
Speaker 4: No, no, no, listen, everybody free to do what they want.

784
00:34:30,400 --> 00:34:32,279
Speaker 3: Are you gonna dump them after they do what they want?

785
00:34:33,239 --> 00:34:37,560
Speaker 4: No? No, I don't know how to unlove people just

786
00:34:37,600 --> 00:34:39,800
Speaker 4: because they disappoint me. So I don't really work like that.

787
00:34:39,920 --> 00:34:42,840
Speaker 4: Like even if you disappoint me, there still is like

788
00:34:44,640 --> 00:34:46,800
Speaker 4: some wiggle room to spend the block because I just

789
00:34:46,920 --> 00:34:49,720
Speaker 4: don't Yeah, I don't just cut people off and unloved

790
00:34:49,719 --> 00:34:52,000
Speaker 4: them because they did something crazy that I don't agree with.

791
00:34:53,080 --> 00:34:56,959
Speaker 4: But girlfriends and all that. Uh, that's hard to answer

792
00:34:56,960 --> 00:34:58,120
Speaker 4: because I don't really do titles.

793
00:34:59,400 --> 00:35:00,319
Speaker 3: So everybody's equal.

794
00:35:01,360 --> 00:35:03,319
Speaker 4: No, okay, So this had of system where you got

795
00:35:03,400 --> 00:35:07,640
Speaker 4: level ones. Those are women who just come over. Uh

796
00:35:07,960 --> 00:35:10,200
Speaker 4: they get this, you know, have a good time, They

797
00:35:10,239 --> 00:35:12,719
Speaker 4: get the deck. Yeah, they get the dick. That's really it.

798
00:35:12,840 --> 00:35:15,279
Speaker 4: Then I get back to work, and then there is there.

799
00:35:15,160 --> 00:35:19,719
Speaker 2: Any emotional relationship conversation or is it just a sexual relationship?

800
00:35:19,760 --> 00:35:21,840
Speaker 4: If they're level one, isn't no emotions.

801
00:35:21,880 --> 00:35:23,919
Speaker 2: It's just like they don't even get like, they don't

802
00:35:23,920 --> 00:35:25,759
Speaker 2: even get checking and like what's up, how you doing?

803
00:35:25,920 --> 00:35:26,359
Speaker 2: How you feel?

804
00:35:26,440 --> 00:35:26,520
Speaker 4: Now?

805
00:35:26,560 --> 00:35:27,640
Speaker 2: It's just you know everyone.

806
00:35:27,760 --> 00:35:30,040
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'll check everyone. Kay, No, for sure, I don't

807
00:35:30,160 --> 00:35:32,719
Speaker 4: just discard of them. But if your level one is

808
00:35:32,800 --> 00:35:34,839
Speaker 4: just more so physical, like we like each other, it's

809
00:35:34,880 --> 00:35:36,399
Speaker 4: physical attraction. We're gonna have sex.

810
00:35:36,680 --> 00:35:38,480
Speaker 2: And do your children meet level ones?

811
00:35:39,120 --> 00:35:42,920
Speaker 4: No, my children really don't meet anybody. They rarely meet anybody.

812
00:35:43,520 --> 00:35:48,399
Speaker 4: They probably met for women my whole career. I don't

813
00:35:48,400 --> 00:35:50,160
Speaker 4: really let them meet too. Now my oldest too, they

814
00:35:50,239 --> 00:35:54,279
Speaker 4: meet everybody. They how old are they? Thirteen and sixteen? Okay,

815
00:35:54,520 --> 00:35:57,000
Speaker 4: they haven't been to my birthday party, so they know,

816
00:35:57,160 --> 00:36:00,239
Speaker 4: like Dad have fun, has a lot of fun with

817
00:36:00,280 --> 00:36:01,960
Speaker 4: all my children, so they know I have plenty of fun.

818
00:36:02,200 --> 00:36:04,000
Speaker 4: And they just keep having siblings so they know I'm

819
00:36:04,040 --> 00:36:07,960
Speaker 4: having plenty of fun. But level one is just like sex,

820
00:36:08,080 --> 00:36:12,080
Speaker 4: that's fun. They come over, they may spend the night,

821
00:36:12,120 --> 00:36:13,920
Speaker 4: they may not, but by the following morning, like they

822
00:36:13,960 --> 00:36:15,759
Speaker 4: definitely need to be gone. That's not like a real

823
00:36:15,840 --> 00:36:19,200
Speaker 4: hangout thing. That's just us having an experience. We're going

824
00:36:19,239 --> 00:36:22,200
Speaker 4: to enjoy one another than they leave after that. It

825
00:36:22,360 --> 00:36:24,840
Speaker 4: does not the actual urn, but it does go to

826
00:36:24,920 --> 00:36:29,680
Speaker 4: girlfriend where like we have consistent communication, they meet other people,

827
00:36:31,200 --> 00:36:33,640
Speaker 4: I might be in public with them, because.

828
00:36:33,440 --> 00:36:36,279
Speaker 2: Everybody started level one and then they gradually move up to.

829
00:36:36,360 --> 00:36:39,200
Speaker 4: The levels unless I just see them and I just

830
00:36:39,360 --> 00:36:41,919
Speaker 4: want them for something more than the level one. But yeah,

831
00:36:42,400 --> 00:36:44,399
Speaker 4: which I have running to women that caught my eye

832
00:36:44,480 --> 00:36:48,239
Speaker 4: like that strongly that I was like, don't want to

833
00:36:48,280 --> 00:36:49,880
Speaker 4: just have sex and you to leave. I want you

834
00:36:49,960 --> 00:36:50,520
Speaker 4: to come stay.

835
00:36:52,400 --> 00:36:55,000
Speaker 2: And then so level two is there's no level two.

836
00:36:55,040 --> 00:36:57,800
Speaker 4: It's no great area. So you either you either just

837
00:36:58,040 --> 00:37:01,920
Speaker 4: popping it or you like Bay and I'm finna hit

838
00:37:02,000 --> 00:37:03,960
Speaker 4: your phone every day and be like what you're doing

839
00:37:04,000 --> 00:37:05,320
Speaker 4: where you're at when you come to see me?

840
00:37:05,600 --> 00:37:06,560
Speaker 3: M okay?

841
00:37:06,960 --> 00:37:10,080
Speaker 4: It tricky.

842
00:37:10,680 --> 00:37:13,960
Speaker 2: So I have an a home woman about the yeah, okay,

843
00:37:14,360 --> 00:37:16,200
Speaker 2: one in home, just one in home.

844
00:37:17,080 --> 00:37:20,960
Speaker 4: And then I have other lives outside of my own.

845
00:37:21,840 --> 00:37:24,000
Speaker 4: And then I have a baby mama that I keep it,

846
00:37:24,200 --> 00:37:25,800
Speaker 4: I love dearly that I keep having children.

847
00:37:26,160 --> 00:37:29,200
Speaker 2: And then how transparent are you with you know your fiance?

848
00:37:29,280 --> 00:37:30,759
Speaker 2: I mean, obviously she knows who you are, but like,

849
00:37:31,200 --> 00:37:34,160
Speaker 2: are you like, is she asking you questions when you

850
00:37:34,239 --> 00:37:37,080
Speaker 2: come back? Is there like a no question policy?

851
00:37:37,520 --> 00:37:40,239
Speaker 4: Is it just so it's very but she really asks

852
00:37:40,320 --> 00:37:41,719
Speaker 4: questions when I come back because I don't go to

853
00:37:41,760 --> 00:37:43,880
Speaker 4: people houses. I mean everybody come to meet It's like

854
00:37:43,920 --> 00:37:46,200
Speaker 4: I got security, I got a certain sex house.

855
00:37:46,719 --> 00:37:48,480
Speaker 2: No, because you want a lot of properties. I'm just

856
00:37:48,480 --> 00:37:51,840
Speaker 2: wonder if there's one house that's designated for the meet up. Definitely,

857
00:37:51,880 --> 00:37:53,919
Speaker 2: because I would have if I were Unikka, i would

858
00:37:53,960 --> 00:37:57,080
Speaker 2: have a sex sensin house. Then i'd have the kid house.

859
00:37:57,200 --> 00:37:59,399
Speaker 2: Then I'd have like the party house, and then I'd

860
00:37:59,440 --> 00:38:01,719
Speaker 2: have like this to we take meetings houses. No, I

861
00:38:01,880 --> 00:38:03,120
Speaker 2: like this is the retreat house.

862
00:38:03,400 --> 00:38:06,080
Speaker 4: I like controlled chaos. So it's easier when people on

863
00:38:06,239 --> 00:38:09,279
Speaker 4: my turf because I got more security company, so my

864
00:38:09,360 --> 00:38:11,799
Speaker 4: people are there, we knowing you can't come in here

865
00:38:11,840 --> 00:38:16,839
Speaker 4: with guns IDs. NDA's everything done, so me traveling out

866
00:38:17,000 --> 00:38:21,239
Speaker 4: is just a liability security wise. So I said, I

867
00:38:21,320 --> 00:38:22,879
Speaker 4: had to say, she don't have to like really ask

868
00:38:22,960 --> 00:38:24,759
Speaker 4: what I did when I got back, because she was

869
00:38:24,800 --> 00:38:25,279
Speaker 4: gonna be there.

870
00:38:25,600 --> 00:38:27,439
Speaker 3: So you bring the bitches there and she just goes

871
00:38:27,480 --> 00:38:31,560
Speaker 3: in the other room sometimes that she participate. Oh okay,

872
00:38:31,640 --> 00:38:32,319
Speaker 3: so she's fun.

873
00:38:32,600 --> 00:38:33,920
Speaker 4: Yeah, she's with the ships.

874
00:38:34,800 --> 00:38:38,880
Speaker 2: Why most part some days she ain't with the ships?

875
00:38:41,840 --> 00:38:42,600
Speaker 2: Are people after you?

876
00:38:43,719 --> 00:38:45,400
Speaker 4: I don't know, but if they are, ain't gonna make

877
00:38:45,400 --> 00:38:45,960
Speaker 4: it easy for them.

878
00:38:46,000 --> 00:38:47,480
Speaker 2: I was just wondering because you said it's like a

879
00:38:47,560 --> 00:38:49,719
Speaker 2: liability for you to be out and about, and I

880
00:38:49,800 --> 00:38:52,320
Speaker 2: know Breakfast you had your security, and I'm just curious, like,

881
00:38:52,760 --> 00:38:55,120
Speaker 2: do you fear for your safety at times just because

882
00:38:55,120 --> 00:38:57,759
Speaker 2: of how I'll open and honest you are, and have

883
00:38:57,880 --> 00:39:02,359
Speaker 2: you had like actual concerns that led you to feel

884
00:39:02,400 --> 00:39:02,840
Speaker 2: like you need that.

885
00:39:04,000 --> 00:39:05,719
Speaker 4: No, No, I don't worry about the security because of

886
00:39:05,760 --> 00:39:08,920
Speaker 4: how open I am. I just in my city, like

887
00:39:09,080 --> 00:39:10,880
Speaker 4: there's not a lot of people who are winning on

888
00:39:10,960 --> 00:39:13,719
Speaker 4: a high level. So if you move around, then you like,

889
00:39:13,880 --> 00:39:16,239
Speaker 4: you know, you the big fish and you known for

890
00:39:17,520 --> 00:39:19,800
Speaker 4: that's like the gifting the curse that's being known for guns.

891
00:39:19,920 --> 00:39:23,839
Speaker 4: Nobody's gonna come to you with a razor blade. They're

892
00:39:23,880 --> 00:39:26,040
Speaker 4: gonna come with a damn wazooka because they just seen

893
00:39:26,120 --> 00:39:29,120
Speaker 4: you with a grenade launch on the internet. So yeah,

894
00:39:29,239 --> 00:39:31,680
Speaker 4: it's just easier and a better peace of mind to

895
00:39:32,320 --> 00:39:33,959
Speaker 4: make sure somebody around me at all times.

896
00:39:34,320 --> 00:39:39,920
Speaker 2: Interesting. Interesting, So I know we just bounced around and

897
00:39:40,000 --> 00:39:40,960
Speaker 2: I've never finished the day.

898
00:39:41,000 --> 00:39:41,960
Speaker 3: The day in the life of there.

899
00:39:44,200 --> 00:39:46,399
Speaker 4: She's like, I mean to know then in life, I'm

900
00:39:46,400 --> 00:39:49,440
Speaker 4: gonna get up. It depends on what season I'm in,

901
00:39:49,560 --> 00:39:54,760
Speaker 4: but I'll get up like between four and six. Lately

902
00:39:54,840 --> 00:39:56,759
Speaker 4: I haven't though I've been sleeping later. Don't know why,

903
00:39:56,880 --> 00:39:59,719
Speaker 4: but I get up early. I do my own thing.

904
00:40:00,040 --> 00:40:03,680
Speaker 4: I chill, I get in my sona start the work day.

905
00:40:04,360 --> 00:40:07,759
Speaker 4: I wake them up around ten thirty, well, no, like nine,

906
00:40:07,800 --> 00:40:09,880
Speaker 4: between nine thirty ten thirty because my mom lived two

907
00:40:09,920 --> 00:40:12,239
Speaker 4: doors down, so then they walk to my mom house

908
00:40:12,320 --> 00:40:14,120
Speaker 4: or security or drop them off to my mom house.

909
00:40:14,680 --> 00:40:18,080
Speaker 4: They do their thing with her. I get them after

910
00:40:18,160 --> 00:40:23,799
Speaker 4: the fact, either get dinner situated if the other main

911
00:40:23,920 --> 00:40:26,239
Speaker 4: mom who always on deck, is busy or don't feel

912
00:40:26,280 --> 00:40:28,200
Speaker 4: like because she just had a baby. So we switched

913
00:40:28,239 --> 00:40:31,680
Speaker 4: it up recently. But yeah, from like the hours of

914
00:40:32,880 --> 00:40:35,319
Speaker 4: seven or eight to probably four or five in the morning,

915
00:40:35,520 --> 00:40:37,840
Speaker 4: were just having fun and talking shit and learning and

916
00:40:37,960 --> 00:40:41,680
Speaker 4: teaching and I'm getting Hella love from all them daughters

917
00:40:41,719 --> 00:40:41,880
Speaker 4: like that.

918
00:40:44,000 --> 00:40:45,719
Speaker 3: How do you feel when people ask you? You know

919
00:40:45,800 --> 00:40:48,399
Speaker 3: you have you have a lot of daughters, right, eight

920
00:40:48,760 --> 00:40:51,360
Speaker 3: eight daughters and you know like that you have a

921
00:40:51,400 --> 00:40:55,200
Speaker 3: household now I do, but only cons You're essentially like

922
00:40:55,320 --> 00:40:58,080
Speaker 3: bringing women in that are level ones, or maybe they

923
00:40:58,160 --> 00:41:00,920
Speaker 3: jump to level Two's do you year ever that there

924
00:41:01,040 --> 00:41:03,800
Speaker 3: is a like the the example that you're setting or

925
00:41:03,800 --> 00:41:05,879
Speaker 3: what they're witnessing. I know they don't meet every woman,

926
00:41:06,040 --> 00:41:11,000
Speaker 3: but like even for your sons like that, they won't

927
00:41:11,040 --> 00:41:13,520
Speaker 3: see not a level of love in the household just

928
00:41:13,560 --> 00:41:15,839
Speaker 3: from between two people. But like that, maybe your daughter

929
00:41:15,880 --> 00:41:18,120
Speaker 3: will misinterpret that and then go find a boyfriend who

930
00:41:18,200 --> 00:41:20,480
Speaker 3: has six other girlfriends and eight other kids.

931
00:41:21,200 --> 00:41:24,120
Speaker 4: That could be a possibility, And I'm okay with that.

932
00:41:24,320 --> 00:41:26,320
Speaker 4: I'm uh, they gonna make their choices. I'm here to

933
00:41:26,360 --> 00:41:28,880
Speaker 4: support not getting the way, and I ain't gonna lie.

934
00:41:28,880 --> 00:41:31,279
Speaker 4: I've told my daughter's on multiple occasions they probably gonna

935
00:41:31,280 --> 00:41:34,160
Speaker 4: need like four or five men to meet them, because

936
00:41:34,239 --> 00:41:36,200
Speaker 4: like if you raised by this man and you accustomed

937
00:41:36,200 --> 00:41:39,640
Speaker 4: to this type of security way of living, I just

938
00:41:39,719 --> 00:41:41,600
Speaker 4: don't see that. I don't know, the next generation don't

939
00:41:41,640 --> 00:41:43,799
Speaker 4: look really promising based off the man that are out

940
00:41:43,840 --> 00:41:44,359
Speaker 4: here right now.

941
00:41:44,520 --> 00:41:45,080
Speaker 2: That's a fact.

942
00:41:45,239 --> 00:41:48,239
Speaker 4: So the likelihood of my daughter meeting one man all

943
00:41:48,320 --> 00:41:50,879
Speaker 4: eight in and meeting there one man that can meet

944
00:41:50,920 --> 00:41:54,800
Speaker 4: all these needs and give them the level of completion

945
00:41:54,920 --> 00:41:58,640
Speaker 4: they had with their daddy, that's unrealistic. So I don't

946
00:41:58,640 --> 00:42:02,600
Speaker 4: see them not having four or five men in their life,

947
00:42:02,719 --> 00:42:05,080
Speaker 4: like he gonna he do the long work. He no

948
00:42:05,280 --> 00:42:08,400
Speaker 4: business I'm sleeping with this one. Whatever the case, man be.

949
00:42:08,440 --> 00:42:11,640
Speaker 4: But I don't see them not having multiple men unless

950
00:42:11,640 --> 00:42:14,440
Speaker 4: they just completely like I'm finna defer from everything my

951
00:42:14,560 --> 00:42:15,799
Speaker 4: daddy taught us and showed us.

952
00:42:16,840 --> 00:42:21,880
Speaker 2: Mm hmmm. Someone asked, you know, my dad is uh,

953
00:42:22,440 --> 00:42:25,520
Speaker 2: my dad played in the NFL, and he you know,

954
00:42:25,600 --> 00:42:29,040
Speaker 2: he's always had women even now throw throw themselves at him,

955
00:42:29,040 --> 00:42:31,799
Speaker 2: and so he was always he always brought a lot

956
00:42:31,800 --> 00:42:34,439
Speaker 2: of women around me. And at one point, at first

957
00:42:34,480 --> 00:42:36,239
Speaker 2: I didn't really understand because he wasn't like you. There

958
00:42:36,280 --> 00:42:39,719
Speaker 2: was no communication. It was just like here's Epiphany and

959
00:42:39,800 --> 00:42:42,480
Speaker 2: here's Tiffany, and that was her name. That her name

960
00:42:42,560 --> 00:42:47,719
Speaker 2: was Epiphany. I'm not evenly I know this. And when

961
00:42:47,760 --> 00:42:49,359
Speaker 2: I and I remember the word. There was one time

962
00:42:49,400 --> 00:42:52,239
Speaker 2: I asked him and he laughed and he's like, she's

963
00:42:52,320 --> 00:42:54,680
Speaker 2: just my friend. And I that's I knew he was lying,

964
00:42:55,440 --> 00:42:58,440
Speaker 2: and I'll never forget. There was just I think it

965
00:42:58,520 --> 00:43:00,920
Speaker 2: was Epiphany. That's a very specific names, so you can

966
00:43:00,960 --> 00:43:01,640
Speaker 2: probably find her.

967
00:43:01,760 --> 00:43:03,960
Speaker 3: She's look up account for you, bitch. Like, why are

968
00:43:03,960 --> 00:43:05,240
Speaker 3: you talking about me in my past?

969
00:43:06,840 --> 00:43:08,840
Speaker 2: I think it was her. Maybe it wasn't you, Epiphany,

970
00:43:08,880 --> 00:43:10,600
Speaker 2: It was some It was one of my dad's a girlfriends.

971
00:43:10,840 --> 00:43:12,520
Speaker 2: I remember my dad got out the car to go

972
00:43:12,600 --> 00:43:14,400
Speaker 2: into the bank and she I was sit in the

973
00:43:14,440 --> 00:43:16,120
Speaker 2: backseat and she was sitting in the front. And then

974
00:43:16,120 --> 00:43:19,680
Speaker 2: she turned around said, Erica, did your dad have any

975
00:43:19,719 --> 00:43:20,400
Speaker 2: other girlfriends?

976
00:43:20,640 --> 00:43:23,000
Speaker 3: She asked you that what is psycho?

977
00:43:23,680 --> 00:43:25,279
Speaker 2: And then she asked me, She's like, do you think

978
00:43:25,320 --> 00:43:31,160
Speaker 2: your dad loves me? And I like this, but how

979
00:43:31,360 --> 00:43:34,040
Speaker 2: are you I was probably seven or eight.

980
00:43:34,120 --> 00:43:35,680
Speaker 4: Oh, yeah, you don't put that type of pressure on.

981
00:43:36,080 --> 00:43:37,000
Speaker 3: Do you think he loves me?

982
00:43:37,600 --> 00:43:40,160
Speaker 2: But anyway, you know, I went on that's I didn't

983
00:43:40,160 --> 00:43:44,080
Speaker 2: adopt his methods. I went on to, you know, choose

984
00:43:44,160 --> 00:43:47,880
Speaker 2: men like him, you know, and and ultimately get my

985
00:43:47,960 --> 00:43:51,360
Speaker 2: heart broken a lot, also because I had unresolved daddy

986
00:43:51,440 --> 00:43:55,719
Speaker 2: issues and saw how I guess disposable some of these

987
00:43:55,760 --> 00:43:58,440
Speaker 2: women were to him and his views around marriage too,

988
00:43:58,680 --> 00:44:00,359
Speaker 2: never going to be. He's still not married. He's been

989
00:44:00,400 --> 00:44:02,840
Speaker 2: with my I call her my stepmom, but they're not

990
00:44:03,040 --> 00:44:05,680
Speaker 2: technically married. He's been with her for over twenty years

991
00:44:06,040 --> 00:44:09,160
Speaker 2: and it's very like, at least to me, he's very

992
00:44:09,640 --> 00:44:11,479
Speaker 2: adamant about like, she know I never married.

993
00:44:11,560 --> 00:44:14,040
Speaker 3: I mean I think literally said he's never been in love.

994
00:44:14,320 --> 00:44:17,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, oh I know you're a lover boy. My daddy's

995
00:44:18,239 --> 00:44:21,920
Speaker 2: like my dad, Oh yeah, I could see it in

996
00:44:21,960 --> 00:44:22,359
Speaker 2: your eyes.

997
00:44:22,440 --> 00:44:23,960
Speaker 3: Look so some of them, if I just see him,

998
00:44:23,960 --> 00:44:25,440
Speaker 3: I just know immediately I want them to be in

999
00:44:25,520 --> 00:44:27,000
Speaker 3: my life. I'm like, oh they just skip.

1000
00:44:28,280 --> 00:44:30,320
Speaker 4: I automatically know, like I want you in the family.

1001
00:44:30,560 --> 00:44:33,000
Speaker 4: Were finished start with leo?

1002
00:44:33,440 --> 00:44:36,600
Speaker 2: Oh yeah interesting. Yeah, that's why you need a lot

1003
00:44:36,600 --> 00:44:38,759
Speaker 2: of attention. You love it. You built for this.

1004
00:44:39,280 --> 00:44:40,279
Speaker 4: Yeah, for sure you are.

1005
00:44:40,440 --> 00:44:42,600
Speaker 2: That's why you Also because I look at your page

1006
00:44:42,640 --> 00:44:45,279
Speaker 2: and I'm like, how the fuck does he do so

1007
00:44:45,600 --> 00:44:49,320
Speaker 2: much like you're on video, you're on live, like you're constant,

1008
00:44:49,520 --> 00:44:53,600
Speaker 2: Like you're constantly like speaking and talking and putting yourself

1009
00:44:53,640 --> 00:44:55,560
Speaker 2: out there. There's a lot of energy and frequency that

1010
00:44:55,600 --> 00:44:58,239
Speaker 2: you're putting out. And I'm also like, as you're telling

1011
00:44:58,280 --> 00:45:01,840
Speaker 2: me about your your day to day, I'm actually curious,

1012
00:45:01,960 --> 00:45:05,799
Speaker 2: like what is your like how do you what's your

1013
00:45:05,800 --> 00:45:07,800
Speaker 2: spiritual hygiene? Do you have some or like you have

1014
00:45:07,880 --> 00:45:10,000
Speaker 2: self care that you do you're getting your suna, but

1015
00:45:10,160 --> 00:45:12,600
Speaker 2: like do you meditate or like, is there anything.

1016
00:45:12,719 --> 00:45:15,080
Speaker 4: I struggle really bad with self care? But no, as

1017
00:45:15,120 --> 00:45:17,920
Speaker 4: far as like meditation, yoga, any of that, I've done it,

1018
00:45:18,040 --> 00:45:22,080
Speaker 4: but no I don't participate. Uh. My reset, just being

1019
00:45:22,120 --> 00:45:24,839
Speaker 4: honest is like my kids in sex. Those two things

1020
00:45:24,920 --> 00:45:29,439
Speaker 4: help me to reset. That's like my coffee or my Yeah,

1021
00:45:29,480 --> 00:45:32,360
Speaker 4: that's my go to. If I had that, I like

1022
00:45:32,480 --> 00:45:33,279
Speaker 4: I could run all.

1023
00:45:33,239 --> 00:45:36,560
Speaker 3: Day sex and my kids sex and kids. So you

1024
00:45:36,600 --> 00:45:40,040
Speaker 3: would say you're a pretty sexual person. Yeah, recently, because

1025
00:45:40,040 --> 00:45:42,440
Speaker 3: I follow your page and I follow all of the

1026
00:45:42,719 --> 00:45:46,799
Speaker 3: day to days and dramas in the marketing, and I'm like, God,

1027
00:45:46,800 --> 00:45:47,560
Speaker 3: should just text them.

1028
00:45:47,560 --> 00:45:51,320
Speaker 2: I want to know you.

1029
00:45:51,520 --> 00:45:54,400
Speaker 3: Then you recently launched only fans. Are you fucking on?

1030
00:45:54,480 --> 00:45:54,600
Speaker 1: There?

1031
00:45:55,040 --> 00:45:57,200
Speaker 3: I was you retired it already?

1032
00:45:57,719 --> 00:46:01,480
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's just the wear and tears. Just how would you.

1033
00:46:03,920 --> 00:46:07,840
Speaker 2: So look? Were living in a hypersexual society, right, So.

1034
00:46:09,440 --> 00:46:12,160
Speaker 4: I already knew it was gonna go from oh bro,

1035
00:46:12,480 --> 00:46:14,320
Speaker 4: get one of these and get one of these. So

1036
00:46:14,400 --> 00:46:16,920
Speaker 4: I just started wrapping my mind around their demands.

1037
00:46:16,840 --> 00:46:18,799
Speaker 3: Get one of these, Like what kind of bitch telling

1038
00:46:18,880 --> 00:46:19,479
Speaker 3: me different women?

1039
00:46:20,000 --> 00:46:22,480
Speaker 2: Oh right?

1040
00:46:22,800 --> 00:46:24,560
Speaker 4: So like, granted I ain't gonna lot of money, was good.

1041
00:46:24,640 --> 00:46:26,600
Speaker 4: Like my first three weeks I had cracking them for

1042
00:46:26,640 --> 00:46:30,759
Speaker 4: like thirty thousand. It was moving. But I sat there

1043
00:46:30,760 --> 00:46:33,600
Speaker 4: and I was like, on average, I'm probably gonna have

1044
00:46:33,600 --> 00:46:36,799
Speaker 4: to like have sex with roughly forty eight women a year.

1045
00:46:37,000 --> 00:46:39,400
Speaker 4: I'm not doing that. That's crazy to get them a

1046
00:46:39,440 --> 00:46:42,160
Speaker 4: different scene every week, Like so any p porn stars

1047
00:46:42,200 --> 00:46:45,640
Speaker 4: out there, I salute them because it's not simple. But

1048
00:46:45,800 --> 00:46:48,680
Speaker 4: former little wise, it was just like I gotta catch

1049
00:46:49,160 --> 00:46:51,160
Speaker 4: it ain't gonna be hard. I could put on social media.

1050
00:46:51,200 --> 00:46:52,360
Speaker 4: I had a lot of women reached out that I

1051
00:46:52,360 --> 00:46:54,360
Speaker 4: wanted to be on there, but just me having to

1052
00:46:54,360 --> 00:46:57,400
Speaker 4: wrap my mind around sleeping with fifty women a.

1053
00:46:57,440 --> 00:47:00,360
Speaker 3: Year outside of the ones somebody's requests right side of.

1054
00:47:00,360 --> 00:47:02,759
Speaker 4: The ones I actually like and love. I got an

1055
00:47:02,880 --> 00:47:04,920
Speaker 4: extra set of fifty over here that I got to

1056
00:47:04,960 --> 00:47:07,839
Speaker 4: have sex with just for content purposes. And I was like, nope,

1057
00:47:08,080 --> 00:47:08,520
Speaker 4: oh good.

1058
00:47:08,920 --> 00:47:11,320
Speaker 3: Were any of your lovers on only fans with you?

1059
00:47:11,920 --> 00:47:12,120
Speaker 4: Yeah?

1060
00:47:12,440 --> 00:47:14,600
Speaker 2: No, But what you could have done was just like

1061
00:47:14,880 --> 00:47:18,399
Speaker 2: five people, different things, different ways. I thought all year.

1062
00:47:18,800 --> 00:47:19,799
Speaker 4: I thought of that too. Well.

1063
00:47:19,800 --> 00:47:21,359
Speaker 2: I was just on your marketing team.

1064
00:47:23,640 --> 00:47:27,360
Speaker 4: It did extremely well and I have fun, but it

1065
00:47:27,480 --> 00:47:31,200
Speaker 4: was just like, I'm not. I ain't. I ain't finding

1066
00:47:31,360 --> 00:47:32,480
Speaker 4: fifty people per year?

1067
00:47:32,640 --> 00:47:34,680
Speaker 3: How long? How long would you do that? How long

1068
00:47:34,719 --> 00:47:35,560
Speaker 3: did that season last?

1069
00:47:36,719 --> 00:47:36,879
Speaker 4: Two?

1070
00:47:37,200 --> 00:47:39,120
Speaker 3: That's what I thought it was there, it was clear.

1071
00:47:40,520 --> 00:47:43,200
Speaker 2: I was I missed that. I followed him and I

1072
00:47:43,280 --> 00:47:44,800
Speaker 2: didn't know that. How did you know that?

1073
00:47:46,200 --> 00:47:48,080
Speaker 3: Because it's always ass and I ain't.

1074
00:47:47,920 --> 00:47:50,279
Speaker 4: Marketed as hard as our market things. I like, I

1075
00:47:50,480 --> 00:47:53,239
Speaker 4: marketed it, but it wasn't like loud like everything else.

1076
00:47:53,360 --> 00:47:54,520
Speaker 4: So a lot of people didn't know.

1077
00:47:57,160 --> 00:48:01,960
Speaker 2: You're such a businessman and entrepreneur, and I'm just curious, like,

1078
00:48:02,040 --> 00:48:05,920
Speaker 2: what is the best piece of advice you've gotten as

1079
00:48:05,920 --> 00:48:07,319
Speaker 2: an entrepreneur or what is the baby?

1080
00:48:07,480 --> 00:48:07,520
Speaker 4: What?

1081
00:48:07,680 --> 00:48:09,520
Speaker 2: Actually, what is the best piece of advice you could

1082
00:48:09,560 --> 00:48:11,120
Speaker 2: give to entrepreneurs?

1083
00:48:12,680 --> 00:48:18,280
Speaker 4: Best piece of advice would be to study whatever industry

1084
00:48:18,320 --> 00:48:23,920
Speaker 4: and game they playing, and and nothing is real. That's

1085
00:48:23,920 --> 00:48:26,680
Speaker 4: what they'll discover after they study. Because I'm in like

1086
00:48:26,719 --> 00:48:30,359
Speaker 4: the financial literacy world, So I thought, like buying all

1087
00:48:30,400 --> 00:48:33,960
Speaker 4: my house is cash and having thirty two kilos of

1088
00:48:34,040 --> 00:48:36,560
Speaker 4: goal would like separate you, only to find out that,

1089
00:48:36,719 --> 00:48:40,880
Speaker 4: like social media's perception based, somebody can go rent the

1090
00:48:40,960 --> 00:48:43,880
Speaker 4: same thing. I really spent a million dollars on as

1091
00:48:43,920 --> 00:48:47,240
Speaker 4: far as my jury, and he can get the same reaction.

1092
00:48:47,520 --> 00:48:49,000
Speaker 4: And I was just like, damn, we did all this

1093
00:48:49,719 --> 00:48:52,680
Speaker 4: real nigga shit, and if people who didn't do that

1094
00:48:52,800 --> 00:48:56,600
Speaker 4: are in the same rooms. So like in retrospect, because

1095
00:48:56,600 --> 00:48:59,080
Speaker 4: I went cash heavy about everything cash, So I know,

1096
00:48:59,200 --> 00:49:00,960
Speaker 4: like the most money I spent in the years, probably

1097
00:49:01,000 --> 00:49:03,200
Speaker 4: like seven eight million dollars on buying this house, buying

1098
00:49:03,239 --> 00:49:07,000
Speaker 4: the house, do you regret that I regret buying one

1099
00:49:07,080 --> 00:49:08,960
Speaker 4: of them? Because like they were a million dollar homes,

1100
00:49:09,320 --> 00:49:11,319
Speaker 4: so I could have still bought them and they got

1101
00:49:11,360 --> 00:49:14,040
Speaker 4: a mortgage on one and kept and stayed cash heavy,

1102
00:49:14,880 --> 00:49:19,399
Speaker 4: So like it's not the worst thing, but I'm I'm

1103
00:49:19,520 --> 00:49:21,879
Speaker 4: rich on paper, but if you asked me to give

1104
00:49:21,960 --> 00:49:24,160
Speaker 4: you according me in cash, I couldn't give it to you.

1105
00:49:24,320 --> 00:49:27,359
Speaker 4: But I do have equity in the remaining like six

1106
00:49:27,480 --> 00:49:29,040
Speaker 4: or seven homes in the one lot that I have,

1107
00:49:29,880 --> 00:49:31,600
Speaker 4: so I wouldn't have did it completely different, but I

1108
00:49:31,640 --> 00:49:33,640
Speaker 4: would and I went all cash and kept some of

1109
00:49:33,719 --> 00:49:38,560
Speaker 4: my cash because times like now, the market gets so

1110
00:49:38,719 --> 00:49:40,759
Speaker 4: tight that even the assets you do have you can't

1111
00:49:40,840 --> 00:49:43,640
Speaker 4: leverage because the world's so broke, nobody can't buy even

1112
00:49:44,120 --> 00:49:46,080
Speaker 4: even if you're doing it. For the low. It's still

1113
00:49:46,160 --> 00:49:49,560
Speaker 4: too much for the common man. So I've been asset

1114
00:49:49,680 --> 00:49:51,600
Speaker 4: tight and then stuck with all the assets at certain

1115
00:49:51,600 --> 00:49:53,680
Speaker 4: points like damn, we can't even leverage nothing right now,

1116
00:49:53,800 --> 00:49:57,120
Speaker 4: like nobody can't even buy what we were supposed to

1117
00:49:57,239 --> 00:49:59,160
Speaker 4: use as an asset. Four times like this, So I

1118
00:49:59,200 --> 00:50:00,640
Speaker 4: would have kept a couple million dollars.

1119
00:50:01,640 --> 00:50:02,560
Speaker 2: Why do you live in America?

1120
00:50:05,200 --> 00:50:08,239
Speaker 4: I thrive off of adversity, and America is the best

1121
00:50:08,280 --> 00:50:09,480
Speaker 4: worst place in the world.

1122
00:50:09,400 --> 00:50:11,719
Speaker 3: To live adversity.

1123
00:50:12,480 --> 00:50:13,000
Speaker 1: Do you like?

1124
00:50:13,480 --> 00:50:14,640
Speaker 2: You like an organized chaos?

1125
00:50:14,840 --> 00:50:17,160
Speaker 4: It breed real monsters. So I feel like this is

1126
00:50:17,320 --> 00:50:20,360
Speaker 4: the greatest country to be in because it's like a

1127
00:50:20,440 --> 00:50:22,640
Speaker 4: dog eat dog world. I love it, and I like

1128
00:50:22,800 --> 00:50:26,560
Speaker 4: the I like the competitive nature of a legacy and

1129
00:50:26,640 --> 00:50:28,880
Speaker 4: family name. So I go really hard because I'm like

1130
00:50:29,600 --> 00:50:31,839
Speaker 4: the Grace is gonna run ship and we're gonna carve

1131
00:50:31,880 --> 00:50:33,560
Speaker 4: out this part of the world X y Z. But

1132
00:50:34,280 --> 00:50:36,520
Speaker 4: it's a great and terrible place to live. I wouldn't

1133
00:50:36,520 --> 00:50:38,200
Speaker 4: live nowhere else and not be in several places, but

1134
00:50:38,200 --> 00:50:39,239
Speaker 4: I wouldn't live nowhere else.

1135
00:50:40,080 --> 00:50:41,759
Speaker 2: What's the what's one place that you've been that you

1136
00:50:42,000 --> 00:50:44,560
Speaker 2: that you did like them, or that you can see yourself.

1137
00:50:44,440 --> 00:50:48,600
Speaker 4: Brixton, I didn't know, like Brixton, I didn't. I didn't

1138
00:50:48,600 --> 00:50:51,000
Speaker 4: know London had like a black section. I loved it.

1139
00:50:51,040 --> 00:50:52,640
Speaker 4: And they showed me so much love. They gave me

1140
00:50:52,719 --> 00:50:55,120
Speaker 4: so much weed. They was coolly sad, fed me good.

1141
00:50:56,080 --> 00:50:58,560
Speaker 4: But I didn't I never saw that part of London,

1142
00:50:58,640 --> 00:51:00,839
Speaker 4: so that was real cool to see that it was nothing.

1143
00:51:00,880 --> 00:51:02,920
Speaker 2: But as there, do you travel a lot? Like internationally?

1144
00:51:03,120 --> 00:51:06,320
Speaker 4: Not anymore? I don't like to travel all now, what

1145
00:51:06,360 --> 00:51:08,279
Speaker 4: do you mean now? Why I just don't like coming

1146
00:51:08,280 --> 00:51:10,320
Speaker 4: out of the house spirit. I just I stay in

1147
00:51:10,360 --> 00:51:14,120
Speaker 4: the house out there, and sure that's my favorite pastime,

1148
00:51:14,280 --> 00:51:15,520
Speaker 4: just to sit still, and sure.

1149
00:51:16,719 --> 00:51:19,239
Speaker 2: I feel I'm it's hard for me to leave my

1150
00:51:19,320 --> 00:51:21,760
Speaker 2: house too. But I do enjoy traveling. I think it's important.

1151
00:51:21,800 --> 00:51:24,200
Speaker 2: I think even as an entrepreneur though, like you're gonna

1152
00:51:24,200 --> 00:51:26,080
Speaker 2: meet and see so many people that like are doing

1153
00:51:27,080 --> 00:51:29,200
Speaker 2: all types of shit in different places and spaces. And

1154
00:51:29,280 --> 00:51:32,719
Speaker 2: I agree, And Derek America, like, we gotta get out

1155
00:51:32,719 --> 00:51:34,600
Speaker 2: of here. What are we still doing here? Why are

1156
00:51:35,120 --> 00:51:37,960
Speaker 2: I understand organized chaos? But like you talk all this

1157
00:51:38,040 --> 00:51:41,560
Speaker 2: shit and you share all this shit about just like black,

1158
00:51:41,800 --> 00:51:45,759
Speaker 2: like having sovereignty over your life and your choices and

1159
00:51:45,880 --> 00:51:49,720
Speaker 2: then you're actively like participating in it. So like because

1160
00:51:49,719 --> 00:51:51,239
Speaker 2: you got to play the game to a certain level

1161
00:51:51,280 --> 00:51:53,600
Speaker 2: if you hear so you don't have but you don't

1162
00:51:53,680 --> 00:51:56,560
Speaker 2: have to be here. Is it because? Is it because

1163
00:51:56,600 --> 00:51:58,840
Speaker 2: you need to be an example for other people? That

1164
00:51:59,040 --> 00:52:00,000
Speaker 2: people that people.

1165
00:52:01,080 --> 00:52:03,120
Speaker 4: I can still teach him somewhere else. I just I

1166
00:52:03,320 --> 00:52:07,160
Speaker 4: just love it. I love like I love that AI

1167
00:52:07,320 --> 00:52:11,560
Speaker 4: is taking jobs. What why Because it's going to create

1168
00:52:11,760 --> 00:52:14,359
Speaker 4: a competitive market to where like it's gonna be win

1169
00:52:14,520 --> 00:52:19,080
Speaker 4: or go home. And I just feel like if if

1170
00:52:19,120 --> 00:52:21,279
Speaker 4: I'm no longer hearing thirty years and my children in

1171
00:52:21,360 --> 00:52:24,600
Speaker 4: the world that requires you to compete to live at

1172
00:52:24,600 --> 00:52:26,080
Speaker 4: a high level, Like I think that's a good thing.

1173
00:52:26,120 --> 00:52:28,920
Speaker 4: I feel like we two pacified culturally. That's why we

1174
00:52:29,040 --> 00:52:32,680
Speaker 4: don't do shit. I feel like I know people gonna

1175
00:52:32,719 --> 00:52:36,960
Speaker 4: talk shit, But my cousin said this, so shout out

1176
00:52:37,000 --> 00:52:38,960
Speaker 4: to my cousin, Pauns. It's like eight years ago. But

1177
00:52:39,000 --> 00:52:40,719
Speaker 4: I feel like Trump is the father that a lot

1178
00:52:40,760 --> 00:52:44,640
Speaker 4: of people need it. I feel like he creates an

1179
00:52:44,800 --> 00:52:48,520
Speaker 4: environment where like there's no lackluster, there's no lazy, there's

1180
00:52:48,600 --> 00:52:50,200
Speaker 4: no week you're gonna get your ass up and you're

1181
00:52:50,239 --> 00:52:53,840
Speaker 4: gonna fight. And I just feel like he creates that

1182
00:52:54,040 --> 00:52:55,520
Speaker 4: environment and that's what we need more of.

1183
00:52:55,680 --> 00:52:57,760
Speaker 2: That's why, like, are you a Trumper?

1184
00:52:58,560 --> 00:53:00,520
Speaker 4: I'm not either. I don't really care who. I'm gonna

1185
00:53:00,520 --> 00:53:02,799
Speaker 4: do the same thing either one. But I'm not gonna lie.

1186
00:53:02,840 --> 00:53:05,160
Speaker 4: I did make like ten plus million dollars.

1187
00:53:05,200 --> 00:53:06,040
Speaker 2: Did he get you up yet?

1188
00:53:06,160 --> 00:53:06,759
Speaker 4: Leveraging Trump?

1189
00:53:06,800 --> 00:53:10,319
Speaker 2: Why are you not at the Actually I don't know Trump.

1190
00:53:10,560 --> 00:53:12,279
Speaker 4: I probably wouldn't go even if he did invite me,

1191
00:53:12,320 --> 00:53:13,600
Speaker 4: because I just don't like going outside.

1192
00:53:13,800 --> 00:53:15,279
Speaker 2: Actually, you'd be a dangerous tool.

1193
00:53:16,040 --> 00:53:16,359
Speaker 4: I would.

1194
00:53:16,520 --> 00:53:18,560
Speaker 2: You would be a dangerous tool. But and I hope

1195
00:53:18,600 --> 00:53:21,800
Speaker 2: you know that, so just you can't do that. I

1196
00:53:22,840 --> 00:53:25,160
Speaker 2: don't care that much about it because our people are

1197
00:53:25,320 --> 00:53:28,319
Speaker 2: so like I understand what I don't know. I just.

1198
00:53:29,920 --> 00:53:31,920
Speaker 4: Yeah, like I don't agree with everything you do, Like

1199
00:53:32,040 --> 00:53:34,359
Speaker 4: he do be wild and sometimes, but I just feel

1200
00:53:34,440 --> 00:53:38,600
Speaker 4: like he gonna he creates an environment where you gotta

1201
00:53:38,600 --> 00:53:39,239
Speaker 4: get up and move.

1202
00:53:39,719 --> 00:53:42,680
Speaker 3: I do agree in the pacified culture, I feel like

1203
00:53:43,480 --> 00:53:47,880
Speaker 3: mediocracy is like in ignorance is like widely accepted. I

1204
00:53:47,920 --> 00:53:49,279
Speaker 3: wouldn't be rare if.

1205
00:53:49,200 --> 00:53:51,200
Speaker 4: It was three hundred more of us, It'd be like cool.

1206
00:53:51,239 --> 00:53:53,200
Speaker 4: We got a nation of men who are doing X,

1207
00:53:53,280 --> 00:53:55,200
Speaker 4: y Z, not just like oh so and so from

1208
00:53:55,239 --> 00:53:58,200
Speaker 4: this state and that. So I feel like he's going

1209
00:53:58,280 --> 00:54:01,040
Speaker 4: to create an environment where you gotta win. There's no like,

1210
00:54:01,280 --> 00:54:01,879
Speaker 4: there's no other.

1211
00:54:02,040 --> 00:54:04,160
Speaker 3: I don't know about him specifically. I don't know about

1212
00:54:04,160 --> 00:54:06,200
Speaker 3: being the father or whatever. I don't know about that.

1213
00:54:06,320 --> 00:54:08,280
Speaker 2: I don't know. I don't think that with this society.

1214
00:54:08,280 --> 00:54:10,799
Speaker 2: I don't think we live in a society of necessarily mediocrity.

1215
00:54:10,840 --> 00:54:13,160
Speaker 2: I think that the American dream is has always been

1216
00:54:13,200 --> 00:54:15,719
Speaker 2: to work. I think that we've fallen in line with

1217
00:54:16,000 --> 00:54:17,600
Speaker 2: whatever it is they fed us and told us what

1218
00:54:17,640 --> 00:54:19,920
Speaker 2: we're supposed to do. We're literally doing what they're what

1219
00:54:20,000 --> 00:54:22,560
Speaker 2: they're telling us. People like you are not You've you've

1220
00:54:22,560 --> 00:54:24,920
Speaker 2: figured out what works for you, and you figured out

1221
00:54:24,920 --> 00:54:32,880
Speaker 2: the cheekos essentially. But I feel like Trump, he's it's dangerous.

1222
00:54:32,920 --> 00:54:36,320
Speaker 2: He's dangerous. I think all of it is dangerous, but

1223
00:54:38,080 --> 00:54:39,920
Speaker 2: part of it is like, that's why I don't want

1224
00:54:39,960 --> 00:54:42,080
Speaker 2: to really, I'm here participating in it right now because

1225
00:54:42,080 --> 00:54:44,800
Speaker 2: you're sitting in my studio, paying the rent to this,

1226
00:54:45,440 --> 00:54:49,120
Speaker 2: you know, this place, and paying taxes and doing all that.

1227
00:54:49,360 --> 00:54:53,919
Speaker 2: But I don't know. I don't know if I could

1228
00:54:54,040 --> 00:54:57,440
Speaker 2: say that Trump is the father that everybody needed.

1229
00:54:58,880 --> 00:55:02,640
Speaker 4: No, No, I just feel like he, uh, he embodies

1230
00:55:03,560 --> 00:55:07,239
Speaker 4: the American way, and I just feel like he verbalizes

1231
00:55:07,320 --> 00:55:08,840
Speaker 4: what America feels.

1232
00:55:08,880 --> 00:55:12,319
Speaker 3: Any that we know it's better that we be clear

1233
00:55:12,400 --> 00:55:14,360
Speaker 3: about the enemy and the fun and that's usually.

1234
00:55:14,200 --> 00:55:14,600
Speaker 4: How it worked.

1235
00:55:14,640 --> 00:55:18,920
Speaker 2: Like you'd rather see that clear light than And.

1236
00:55:18,960 --> 00:55:20,800
Speaker 4: The reason I gave the analogy for the father's like

1237
00:55:21,000 --> 00:55:23,560
Speaker 4: moms for a lot of times, like you know, they passive.

1238
00:55:23,600 --> 00:55:25,600
Speaker 4: I think that's my baby daddy gonna come in and

1239
00:55:25,719 --> 00:55:27,920
Speaker 4: be like, man, get your ass up and shake that

1240
00:55:27,920 --> 00:55:29,720
Speaker 4: ship off and let's go get back to playing football.

1241
00:55:29,840 --> 00:55:32,480
Speaker 4: I feel like we need that energy culturally. He not

1242
00:55:32,600 --> 00:55:34,640
Speaker 4: that nice and gentle, but I feel like.

1243
00:55:34,760 --> 00:55:35,680
Speaker 2: I don't disagree with that.

1244
00:55:35,960 --> 00:55:38,160
Speaker 4: I feel like I don't disagree with that he gonna

1245
00:55:38,160 --> 00:55:39,560
Speaker 4: push people to have to turn it up.

1246
00:55:40,719 --> 00:55:42,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, because it's very clear that I just don't I

1247
00:55:42,840 --> 00:55:43,239
Speaker 3: don't think it.

1248
00:55:43,400 --> 00:55:45,160
Speaker 2: I'd realize it's one or the other, but I don't

1249
00:55:45,200 --> 00:55:47,480
Speaker 2: think that. I think that we've accepted that it's one

1250
00:55:47,560 --> 00:55:49,320
Speaker 2: or the other. They've given us two options and we

1251
00:55:49,360 --> 00:55:49,880
Speaker 2: said okay.

1252
00:55:51,200 --> 00:55:54,320
Speaker 3: He like highlights a lot of like America that is

1253
00:55:54,440 --> 00:55:57,640
Speaker 3: like relates to him, which is like kind of ignorant, basic,

1254
00:55:58,400 --> 00:56:01,719
Speaker 3: you know, like very He's speaks to a specific demographic,

1255
00:56:01,880 --> 00:56:03,200
Speaker 3: and that is scary because he.

1256
00:56:03,760 --> 00:56:06,160
Speaker 2: I agree with you, he doesn't also, I mean he

1257
00:56:06,280 --> 00:56:07,640
Speaker 2: speaks to not just basic people.

1258
00:56:07,760 --> 00:56:10,200
Speaker 3: I mean obviously it ranges. But I think when we

1259
00:56:10,280 --> 00:56:12,040
Speaker 3: when we talk about like when you think about like

1260
00:56:12,160 --> 00:56:15,279
Speaker 3: the danger that he incites, the like the false sense

1261
00:56:15,360 --> 00:56:17,880
Speaker 3: of like fuck things people, you know, the people who

1262
00:56:17,920 --> 00:56:21,359
Speaker 3: are in somewhere in the back country is like we're

1263
00:56:21,400 --> 00:56:22,960
Speaker 3: going to get up and go to the cantag.

1264
00:56:23,320 --> 00:56:23,560
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1265
00:56:24,440 --> 00:56:26,879
Speaker 4: But this is why I feel like he's a great

1266
00:56:26,960 --> 00:56:30,080
Speaker 4: example because he if you pay attention and you got

1267
00:56:30,160 --> 00:56:32,759
Speaker 4: it in you, like he shows you literally how to

1268
00:56:32,800 --> 00:56:35,040
Speaker 4: show your ass in America. Like he really had people

1269
00:56:35,160 --> 00:56:38,120
Speaker 4: go to the Capitol on his behalf. That's a different

1270
00:56:38,160 --> 00:56:38,800
Speaker 4: type of power.

1271
00:56:38,840 --> 00:56:42,799
Speaker 2: And you ain't there just like we're in the show.

1272
00:56:43,120 --> 00:56:43,400
Speaker 2: It's not.

1273
00:56:44,920 --> 00:56:46,759
Speaker 4: People pull up on your behalf. So I feel like

1274
00:56:47,200 --> 00:56:50,520
Speaker 4: down to the way his feeling the case working out,

1275
00:56:50,640 --> 00:56:52,600
Speaker 4: to the taxes, I feel like he is a walking

1276
00:56:52,719 --> 00:56:56,279
Speaker 4: example of like an American shark. But I think people

1277
00:56:56,400 --> 00:56:58,400
Speaker 4: just get you know, they get caught up in his conversation,

1278
00:56:58,600 --> 00:57:02,000
Speaker 4: so they don't pay attention to it. Move but he

1279
00:57:02,160 --> 00:57:04,759
Speaker 4: is like top schemer in the scheming ass country.

1280
00:57:06,680 --> 00:57:09,920
Speaker 3: Except like he's like the He's like the fucking mascot

1281
00:57:10,040 --> 00:57:12,239
Speaker 3: of schemers. Like if there was ever a mascot I

1282
00:57:12,440 --> 00:57:18,240
Speaker 3: like America, it's like it's him. He's like hiding it.

1283
00:57:18,320 --> 00:57:18,640
Speaker 2: He's like.

1284
00:57:21,280 --> 00:57:22,160
Speaker 3: We're getting away with it.

1285
00:57:23,040 --> 00:57:26,680
Speaker 2: He's like, look, I got shot. You better have talking

1286
00:57:26,760 --> 00:57:26,880
Speaker 2: like that.

1287
00:57:27,040 --> 00:57:30,160
Speaker 3: That's what I showed you today. They reported us on Instagram,

1288
00:57:30,360 --> 00:57:30,720
Speaker 3: or wasn't.

1289
00:57:30,760 --> 00:57:31,200
Speaker 2: I don't know.

1290
00:57:31,360 --> 00:57:33,960
Speaker 3: They won't show me, but it says something like the people.

1291
00:57:33,840 --> 00:57:35,520
Speaker 2: That the fact check the fact checker.

1292
00:57:37,120 --> 00:57:39,479
Speaker 3: About the fact check he said that he got shot,

1293
00:57:39,640 --> 00:57:41,760
Speaker 3: so don't say he did it. Was it that one

1294
00:57:41,840 --> 00:57:43,440
Speaker 3: that I don't know what we posted, but.

1295
00:57:43,720 --> 00:57:45,360
Speaker 2: I think it was a picture of Trump like a

1296
00:57:45,440 --> 00:57:48,520
Speaker 2: fake spewing stemen all over his face.

1297
00:57:50,640 --> 00:57:53,200
Speaker 3: The cultures that would be considered delightful.

1298
00:57:54,120 --> 00:57:55,920
Speaker 2: Anyway, I think I'm done talking about politics.

1299
00:57:56,680 --> 00:57:58,000
Speaker 3: I don't identify.

1300
00:58:00,440 --> 00:58:00,640
Speaker 4: Derek.

1301
00:58:00,720 --> 00:58:03,840
Speaker 2: We usually ask our guests to share an affirmation. Do

1302
00:58:03,960 --> 00:58:04,800
Speaker 2: you have an affirmation?

1303
00:58:04,880 --> 00:58:05,600
Speaker 3: You can share.

1304
00:58:09,280 --> 00:58:12,200
Speaker 4: Just one of my favorite ones. But it's not original, it's.

1305
00:58:12,080 --> 00:58:16,760
Speaker 2: Not for me, it's not from you. Yeah, I think

1306
00:58:16,800 --> 00:58:17,520
Speaker 2: I said it's not for you.

1307
00:58:18,440 --> 00:58:23,360
Speaker 4: But uh, you're familiar with wrestling, Brett Art, I know.

1308
00:58:23,680 --> 00:58:26,600
Speaker 4: I mean back in the day you never watched wrestling

1309
00:58:26,600 --> 00:58:26,840
Speaker 4: at all.

1310
00:58:27,000 --> 00:58:29,720
Speaker 2: A little bit like the Whole the Rock.

1311
00:58:30,000 --> 00:58:32,200
Speaker 4: What Brett said, He's the best there is, the best

1312
00:58:32,240 --> 00:58:34,640
Speaker 4: there was, and the best there ever will be. And

1313
00:58:34,760 --> 00:58:37,080
Speaker 4: that stuck with me from like five years old, and

1314
00:58:37,200 --> 00:58:40,960
Speaker 4: I've always repeated that one from time to time. The

1315
00:58:41,040 --> 00:58:43,160
Speaker 4: best there is, the best there was, and the best

1316
00:58:43,200 --> 00:58:45,080
Speaker 4: there ever will be. That was his line, the best

1317
00:58:45,120 --> 00:58:47,560
Speaker 4: there is. I'm the best there is, the best there was,

1318
00:58:47,640 --> 00:58:50,360
Speaker 4: and the best there ever will be. I love I

1319
00:58:50,520 --> 00:58:50,680
Speaker 4: like that.

1320
00:58:50,880 --> 00:58:52,880
Speaker 3: Yeah, I like that too. That's a good one.

1321
00:58:53,360 --> 00:58:57,760
Speaker 4: Thank you. But I think Brett Hart, thank you.

1322
00:58:57,800 --> 00:58:58,520
Speaker 2: Brett Hart.

1323
00:59:00,000 --> 00:59:02,360
Speaker 3: Dedicate Thank you Bratt.

1324
00:59:03,400 --> 00:59:06,960
Speaker 2: You guys, I brought my bowls. I'm still experimenting with

1325
00:59:07,040 --> 00:59:09,840
Speaker 2: the Tibetan bulls there. They're not as I have a

1326
00:59:09,920 --> 00:59:12,240
Speaker 2: bunch of my house with. Don't use them, you know, Derek,

1327
00:59:12,280 --> 00:59:14,320
Speaker 2: I know that you don't meditate, and you know your

1328
00:59:14,360 --> 00:59:16,720
Speaker 2: self care routines are a little bit you know poor.

1329
00:59:16,800 --> 00:59:18,840
Speaker 2: I think I can help you with that, though, So

1330
00:59:18,920 --> 00:59:20,800
Speaker 2: don't you just close your eyes for a second.

1331
00:59:20,760 --> 00:59:28,320
Speaker 4: Right now, Yeah, take some deep breaths. I mean four, yes,

1332
00:59:28,440 --> 00:59:50,480
Speaker 4: two three, I alreadyset that nervous system.

1333
00:59:50,760 --> 00:59:52,800
Speaker 2: You know, sometimes it's just that you don't got to

1334
00:59:52,840 --> 00:59:56,040
Speaker 2: be a whole thing. I think people will get overwhelmed

1335
00:59:56,120 --> 00:59:58,400
Speaker 2: with those type of self care methods because they think

1336
00:59:58,440 --> 01:00:00,680
Speaker 2: they have to sit there for thirty minutes be bud up,

1337
01:00:00,680 --> 01:00:02,120
Speaker 2: which maybe eventually you will.

1338
01:00:02,560 --> 01:00:02,640
Speaker 1: But.

1339
01:00:04,720 --> 01:00:07,240
Speaker 2: You could, I mean, how powerful you really would be

1340
01:00:07,320 --> 01:00:11,000
Speaker 2: the best there ever was because you've mastered everything good enlightenment.

1341
01:00:11,560 --> 01:00:16,240
Speaker 4: I don't. I don't think that's I just don't see

1342
01:00:16,240 --> 01:00:16,840
Speaker 4: that in my car?

1343
01:00:16,920 --> 01:00:17,680
Speaker 2: Are you God fearing?

1344
01:00:17,720 --> 01:00:17,880
Speaker 4: Are you?

1345
01:00:18,000 --> 01:00:18,560
Speaker 2: Are you Christian?

1346
01:00:19,000 --> 01:00:21,040
Speaker 4: I don't believe in God? You don't God?

1347
01:00:21,880 --> 01:00:23,480
Speaker 3: You believe things are coincidence?

1348
01:00:24,560 --> 01:00:28,120
Speaker 4: Yeah? Or just will we wiel ourselves into certain positions.

1349
01:00:28,200 --> 01:00:31,560
Speaker 4: I did though up until twenty and fifteen, because I've

1350
01:00:31,600 --> 01:00:33,600
Speaker 4: been questioning it since I was a little kid. But

1351
01:00:34,120 --> 01:00:36,800
Speaker 4: I finally got the answer I wanted in twenty fifteen.

1352
01:00:36,800 --> 01:00:39,040
Speaker 3: What happened in twenty fifteen, I was just.

1353
01:00:39,120 --> 01:00:40,720
Speaker 4: On one of my trips. I was out in Vegas

1354
01:00:40,760 --> 01:00:41,560
Speaker 4: and I went on a trip.

1355
01:00:41,680 --> 01:00:41,800
Speaker 2: Man.

1356
01:00:42,240 --> 01:00:44,040
Speaker 4: I just I feel like that trip gave me the

1357
01:00:44,200 --> 01:00:48,600
Speaker 4: understanding I needed and like looking for somebody rather than

1358
01:00:48,840 --> 01:00:51,000
Speaker 4: just honing in on what's within me and doing my

1359
01:00:51,080 --> 01:00:51,400
Speaker 4: own thing.

1360
01:00:51,520 --> 01:00:52,840
Speaker 3: Well do you think do you feel like you are

1361
01:00:52,880 --> 01:00:53,880
Speaker 3: the divine? You're that?

1362
01:00:54,320 --> 01:00:54,440
Speaker 2: Oh?

1363
01:00:54,480 --> 01:00:54,960
Speaker 4: Absolutely?

1364
01:00:55,000 --> 01:00:56,240
Speaker 3: Okay, so you do believe in God?

1365
01:00:57,880 --> 01:01:01,560
Speaker 2: Wait, the trip was on mushrooms or an actual trip

1366
01:01:01,760 --> 01:01:03,120
Speaker 2: like I was.

1367
01:01:04,280 --> 01:01:06,680
Speaker 4: I was on a trip in Vegas and I went

1368
01:01:06,720 --> 01:01:07,120
Speaker 4: on a trip.

1369
01:01:07,680 --> 01:01:10,040
Speaker 2: Okay, that's what I saw it, but I just wanted

1370
01:01:10,040 --> 01:01:12,560
Speaker 2: to understand for sure. It was painting the picture in

1371
01:01:12,600 --> 01:01:12,840
Speaker 2: my head.

1372
01:01:13,600 --> 01:01:15,160
Speaker 4: As far as a God part of it, I say,

1373
01:01:15,240 --> 01:01:17,280
Speaker 4: like my mom and my dad that's my that's my

1374
01:01:17,440 --> 01:01:19,480
Speaker 4: version of God. But outside of.

1375
01:01:19,480 --> 01:01:21,840
Speaker 2: Them, did you grow up like like going to church

1376
01:01:21,920 --> 01:01:22,360
Speaker 2: or anything like that.

1377
01:01:22,560 --> 01:01:24,000
Speaker 4: Yeah, they tried to take me a couple of times.

1378
01:01:24,000 --> 01:01:24,760
Speaker 4: I was bad as hell.

1379
01:01:25,080 --> 01:01:26,000
Speaker 3: They try to take me a cup.

1380
01:01:26,120 --> 01:01:28,000
Speaker 4: I'm either I was either sleep or just doing shit

1381
01:01:28,080 --> 01:01:30,240
Speaker 4: I had no business doing. But yeah, they tried to

1382
01:01:30,280 --> 01:01:33,240
Speaker 4: take me and my grandma's Jehovah witness. So I was like,

1383
01:01:33,440 --> 01:01:36,040
Speaker 4: talk a lot about it as a child, but I

1384
01:01:36,200 --> 01:01:37,720
Speaker 4: just never good bye into it.

1385
01:01:38,320 --> 01:01:41,440
Speaker 3: You think that's why you feel like strongly like otherwise,

1386
01:01:41,520 --> 01:01:44,840
Speaker 3: because growing up to hope for witness that's pretty extreme.

1387
01:01:45,960 --> 01:01:49,680
Speaker 4: No, I feel like, I feel like I'm gonna blame

1388
01:01:49,760 --> 01:01:51,560
Speaker 4: for all my good and bad. So I just don't

1389
01:01:51,800 --> 01:01:54,400
Speaker 4: believe in giving anybody else the credit or the power

1390
01:01:54,440 --> 01:01:56,800
Speaker 4: to dictate if I have a great or amazing life.

1391
01:01:57,000 --> 01:01:59,200
Speaker 4: So it's just it's on me. If I want it,

1392
01:01:59,240 --> 01:02:02,400
Speaker 4: I'll make it happen, you know.

1393
01:02:02,440 --> 01:02:04,240
Speaker 3: I feel like it's like alchemy in some ways.

1394
01:02:05,720 --> 01:02:07,520
Speaker 4: Oh, I would say on the spiritual side, I do

1395
01:02:07,640 --> 01:02:10,560
Speaker 4: feel like I'm not originally from here, so I feel

1396
01:02:10,600 --> 01:02:12,440
Speaker 4: like I'm just over on this side real quick, doing

1397
01:02:12,480 --> 01:02:13,960
Speaker 4: my one two. Then I gotta go back to where

1398
01:02:13,960 --> 01:02:16,800
Speaker 4: I'm from from. I don't know the name, but I

1399
01:02:16,920 --> 01:02:18,560
Speaker 4: know like I've seen it many times on my.

1400
01:02:18,600 --> 01:02:20,600
Speaker 3: Trips, like a different planet.

1401
01:02:20,960 --> 01:02:22,360
Speaker 4: It wasn't a different planet, but it was like a

1402
01:02:22,400 --> 01:02:25,200
Speaker 4: grassy terrain. It was mountainous. It was statues in me

1403
01:02:25,280 --> 01:02:26,840
Speaker 4: all outside, and I remember walking in.

1404
01:02:26,880 --> 01:02:28,440
Speaker 2: And there was the statues of you all outside.

1405
01:02:28,600 --> 01:02:30,920
Speaker 4: Yeah. I remember walking in and the dude was just

1406
01:02:31,040 --> 01:02:33,760
Speaker 4: like telling me how much they loved me and they

1407
01:02:33,880 --> 01:02:35,920
Speaker 4: need me. And then I just remember being like, all,

1408
01:02:36,000 --> 01:02:38,240
Speaker 4: I gotta go back, And I like literally came back

1409
01:02:38,280 --> 01:02:40,600
Speaker 4: to in my room in Vegas. But I've not been

1410
01:02:40,640 --> 01:02:42,800
Speaker 4: there multiple times though, so I believe it to be true.

1411
01:02:43,200 --> 01:02:45,040
Speaker 3: Do you feel like that's why you're returned after this,

1412
01:02:45,400 --> 01:02:46,600
Speaker 3: after this version of yourself?

1413
01:02:46,640 --> 01:02:48,200
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, I'm finna go back to where I'm supposed

1414
01:02:48,200 --> 01:02:49,720
Speaker 4: to be at because it's just it's terrible.

1415
01:02:50,040 --> 01:02:51,080
Speaker 2: This is your last life here.

1416
01:02:51,400 --> 01:02:54,840
Speaker 4: Yeah, so whack out here. I gotta get back.

1417
01:02:55,560 --> 01:02:57,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, America was kind of ghetto.

1418
01:02:57,280 --> 01:02:59,120
Speaker 4: One thing I didn't see that though, was the women,

1419
01:02:59,360 --> 01:03:00,360
Speaker 4: and that's gonna be I was.

1420
01:03:00,360 --> 01:03:04,320
Speaker 2: Concerning maybe maybe there's a lesson there. There's some sort

1421
01:03:04,320 --> 01:03:07,560
Speaker 2: of lesson. It's going to be paradise with no women.

1422
01:03:07,920 --> 01:03:08,280
Speaker 4: I'm good.

1423
01:03:08,480 --> 01:03:11,080
Speaker 2: That's not paradise with the.

1424
01:03:12,720 --> 01:03:15,760
Speaker 4: God have the level ones and the girlfriends and the

1425
01:03:15,920 --> 01:03:17,280
Speaker 4: baby mamas and the wives and all that.

1426
01:03:17,760 --> 01:03:19,760
Speaker 3: There's a little baby mamas and the wives, so you

1427
01:03:19,800 --> 01:03:20,760
Speaker 3: can have multiple wives.

1428
01:03:21,480 --> 01:03:23,200
Speaker 4: I don't think I'm ever have one wife.

1429
01:03:23,600 --> 01:03:24,480
Speaker 3: I thought you're engaged.

1430
01:03:25,320 --> 01:03:25,600
Speaker 2: I am.

1431
01:03:25,720 --> 01:03:31,240
Speaker 4: But when I say I don't mean title wise, I

1432
01:03:31,360 --> 01:03:32,720
Speaker 4: mean like, does she a ring?

1433
01:03:33,560 --> 01:03:33,600
Speaker 2: No?

1434
01:03:33,760 --> 01:03:37,440
Speaker 4: She proposed to me. Oh, so don't have one yet.

1435
01:03:38,000 --> 01:03:40,760
Speaker 4: But I feel like that's why I say I don't

1436
01:03:40,760 --> 01:03:44,280
Speaker 4: do titles. Titles come with possession expectations and I don't

1437
01:03:44,360 --> 01:03:46,880
Speaker 4: like though. So I'm being funny when I say wives

1438
01:03:46,920 --> 01:03:50,160
Speaker 4: and girlfriends, but there will be women who I love

1439
01:03:50,240 --> 01:03:55,000
Speaker 4: and that love me and will intertwine and coexist. But

1440
01:03:55,120 --> 01:03:57,360
Speaker 4: title wise, if I had to literally answer, I wouldn't

1441
01:03:57,360 --> 01:03:59,120
Speaker 4: give you a title at all because I just don't

1442
01:03:59,200 --> 01:03:59,400
Speaker 4: do them.

1443
01:04:01,320 --> 01:04:03,440
Speaker 2: What do you I know you have. It seems you

1444
01:04:03,520 --> 01:04:08,120
Speaker 2: have strong views around like the man's role, right, what

1445
01:04:08,200 --> 01:04:10,960
Speaker 2: would you say? A woman's role is for you in

1446
01:04:11,040 --> 01:04:13,720
Speaker 2: your life, for me in my life, for you in

1447
01:04:13,800 --> 01:04:15,400
Speaker 2: your life, and then yeah, if you I don't know

1448
01:04:15,440 --> 01:04:17,880
Speaker 2: if you want to share perspective around just in society,

1449
01:04:18,000 --> 01:04:19,960
Speaker 2: but I'm more I'm more interested in your life.

1450
01:04:20,200 --> 01:04:26,760
Speaker 4: So for me, I just really need sex and food.

1451
01:04:27,800 --> 01:04:31,560
Speaker 4: So that's like the biggest thing. My biggest requirement is like, but.

1452
01:04:31,680 --> 01:04:34,080
Speaker 2: That's the role in your life to give you sexy food.

1453
01:04:33,960 --> 01:04:36,479
Speaker 4: The baby mean, yeah, treat me like your little baby.

1454
01:04:39,240 --> 01:04:41,080
Speaker 4: I'm telling you the hard parts of life I figured

1455
01:04:41,080 --> 01:04:49,640
Speaker 4: out on my own. You said, you said audience, but

1456
01:04:49,720 --> 01:04:51,600
Speaker 4: this is my personal I ain't saying what women should do.

1457
01:04:51,800 --> 01:04:53,760
Speaker 4: I'm saying in my word, I did ask you.

1458
01:04:54,280 --> 01:04:57,360
Speaker 2: Okay, Yeah, mocked and fat? Oh my god, that is

1459
01:04:57,440 --> 01:04:58,000
Speaker 2: to be a shirt.

1460
01:04:58,880 --> 01:04:59,880
Speaker 4: Yeah, love on me.

1461
01:05:00,360 --> 01:05:02,760
Speaker 2: Let me like vent when I got some shit going

1462
01:05:02,800 --> 01:05:06,800
Speaker 2: on and baby me like and in turn, you're gonna

1463
01:05:06,800 --> 01:05:06,960
Speaker 2: do that.

1464
01:05:07,120 --> 01:05:09,200
Speaker 4: I'm gonnarea providing protect I'm gonna go home.

1465
01:05:09,320 --> 01:05:11,240
Speaker 2: Are you affectionate? Are you like an affectionate lover?

1466
01:05:11,440 --> 01:05:11,480
Speaker 4: Like?

1467
01:05:11,520 --> 01:05:11,920
Speaker 2: How would you?

1468
01:05:12,080 --> 01:05:14,680
Speaker 4: It depends on who it is. I'm not affectionate to

1469
01:05:14,800 --> 01:05:16,479
Speaker 4: all the women out of that way, but it's certain

1470
01:05:16,520 --> 01:05:19,200
Speaker 4: ones that, Yeah, they get all the love and affection.

1471
01:05:19,600 --> 01:05:21,200
Speaker 2: Are you an eye contact type of guy?

1472
01:05:21,480 --> 01:05:26,360
Speaker 4: Definitely? Okay, spinning to my off eye contact. Yeah, do

1473
01:05:26,520 --> 01:05:28,160
Speaker 4: beet asked? I do everything?

1474
01:05:28,280 --> 01:05:32,040
Speaker 2: Actually know what? I think? It's time for trigger? Oh yeah, trigger? Yeah,

1475
01:05:33,120 --> 01:05:33,920
Speaker 2: I thought you'd like that.

1476
01:05:35,960 --> 01:05:36,000
Speaker 1: You.

1477
01:05:37,320 --> 01:05:40,080
Speaker 2: Oh, can you explain to Derek what trigger is? My love?

1478
01:05:41,360 --> 01:05:44,120
Speaker 3: Trigger is? We're going to ask you. We're gonna say

1479
01:05:44,160 --> 01:05:45,680
Speaker 3: one word and you're gonna just tell us the first

1480
01:05:45,720 --> 01:05:46,960
Speaker 3: thing that comes to mind. You don't have to think

1481
01:05:47,000 --> 01:05:49,120
Speaker 3: about it, just give us one word answer. I'm just

1482
01:05:49,160 --> 01:05:51,160
Speaker 3: going to ask you some questions and you just go.

1483
01:05:51,880 --> 01:05:53,800
Speaker 4: I got you trigger.

1484
01:05:55,880 --> 01:06:07,320
Speaker 2: Here it goes trigger Derek Grace, bad habits, bad habit, drugs, drugs.

1485
01:06:07,520 --> 01:06:11,640
Speaker 4: Mm hmm like drugs, drugs. I've done some of everything,

1486
01:06:11,720 --> 01:06:17,600
Speaker 4: but shrooms, ascid weed of course, uh ls d d

1487
01:06:17,800 --> 01:06:20,840
Speaker 4: m T. I've had certain bought DMT.

1488
01:06:20,920 --> 01:06:22,560
Speaker 2: I should have bought that d I told you to

1489
01:06:22,600 --> 01:06:28,840
Speaker 2: buy the d MT. I really valued. That's the wellness store.

1490
01:06:30,560 --> 01:06:32,400
Speaker 4: That's the only part I don't very like about it.

1491
01:06:32,480 --> 01:06:34,040
Speaker 3: I know I've never done it, but I'm like, it's

1492
01:06:34,040 --> 01:06:37,000
Speaker 3: fifty the message quick, yeah, write down.

1493
01:06:37,080 --> 01:06:39,439
Speaker 2: I want to be No, I don't.

1494
01:06:39,520 --> 01:06:40,720
Speaker 3: That's what it gets me exciting.

1495
01:06:41,640 --> 01:06:43,560
Speaker 4: And it's not a bad habit because it's a drug.

1496
01:06:43,720 --> 01:06:45,960
Speaker 4: It's just it's only a bad habit in my seasons

1497
01:06:46,000 --> 01:06:48,120
Speaker 4: of focus and seriousness that I have to fast from

1498
01:06:48,160 --> 01:06:49,520
Speaker 4: the drugs so I can stay focused.

1499
01:06:50,200 --> 01:06:57,320
Speaker 2: Okay. Religion, None, marriage, I don't know about that. Ship. Yes,

1500
01:06:59,200 --> 01:07:02,160
Speaker 2: eating pussy. Yes, favorite sex position.

1501
01:07:03,480 --> 01:07:05,840
Speaker 4: They got to be on their side in the fetal position.

1502
01:07:06,720 --> 01:07:11,080
Speaker 2: Favorite porn castle side, specifically the left.

1503
01:07:11,400 --> 01:07:13,680
Speaker 4: Yeah. They need they needs need to be like covering

1504
01:07:13,920 --> 01:07:14,840
Speaker 4: curving around my body.

1505
01:07:14,920 --> 01:07:16,560
Speaker 3: Right, is you have a curve?

1506
01:07:17,320 --> 01:07:20,400
Speaker 4: Yeah? She if she in the feetle my knee like

1507
01:07:20,560 --> 01:07:21,160
Speaker 4: so one, so.

1508
01:07:21,160 --> 01:07:23,800
Speaker 2: You're behind her, yeah, like cuddling her sort of and

1509
01:07:23,880 --> 01:07:27,120
Speaker 2: then she's in the feetle right, yeah, like that, but

1510
01:07:27,200 --> 01:07:30,800
Speaker 2: you would flip this and then your legs would be

1511
01:07:30,880 --> 01:07:32,040
Speaker 2: over him like this.

1512
01:07:32,280 --> 01:07:33,040
Speaker 4: No, legs flat.

1513
01:07:33,080 --> 01:07:34,960
Speaker 2: I want to I thought you said over I want

1514
01:07:35,000 --> 01:07:35,520
Speaker 2: to flat on.

1515
01:07:37,960 --> 01:07:38,400
Speaker 3: YouTube?

1516
01:07:41,520 --> 01:07:44,640
Speaker 2: Okay, interesting, I like that. I like that position. That's

1517
01:07:44,680 --> 01:07:48,960
Speaker 2: a lazy position though. There you you could really dig

1518
01:07:49,320 --> 01:07:49,880
Speaker 2: great position.

1519
01:07:50,040 --> 01:07:51,880
Speaker 4: You can really dig in there that they can't run.

1520
01:07:52,080 --> 01:07:52,880
Speaker 4: It's no block.

1521
01:07:52,960 --> 01:07:55,320
Speaker 2: It's just like you can choke.

1522
01:07:56,280 --> 01:07:58,280
Speaker 3: Do you feel all safe because you just like cuddled there?

1523
01:07:58,400 --> 01:07:59,360
Speaker 2: Actually this is good? Right?

1524
01:07:59,560 --> 01:08:01,480
Speaker 4: Yeah, then you put the it's a certain way. You

1525
01:08:01,520 --> 01:08:03,120
Speaker 4: gotta grab them while they're on their side to put

1526
01:08:03,160 --> 01:08:06,200
Speaker 4: in that past code and you just unlock everything and then.

1527
01:08:06,280 --> 01:08:07,760
Speaker 3: Other past code is where you grab them.

1528
01:08:08,480 --> 01:08:09,920
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's the way in what you grab me. It's

1529
01:08:09,960 --> 01:08:12,080
Speaker 4: certain like pay not paying points, it's certain.

1530
01:08:12,160 --> 01:08:12,280
Speaker 2: Uh.

1531
01:08:13,240 --> 01:08:16,400
Speaker 4: It's the word pressure points that you can like, that's

1532
01:08:16,439 --> 01:08:17,000
Speaker 4: your points.

1533
01:08:18,360 --> 01:08:22,400
Speaker 3: That might be the be the next book, your points, Derek.

1534
01:08:22,840 --> 01:08:25,160
Speaker 4: You know, I do believe like sex is magic. So

1535
01:08:25,200 --> 01:08:27,400
Speaker 4: I've studied. I've been studying sex for a long time.

1536
01:08:27,840 --> 01:08:30,639
Speaker 3: US too, we live. Sexist is medicine.

1537
01:08:31,960 --> 01:08:34,200
Speaker 2: It is last bad choice.

1538
01:08:36,880 --> 01:08:39,000
Speaker 4: The word these holes just popped up in my head.

1539
01:08:39,040 --> 01:08:39,599
Speaker 4: I don't know why.

1540
01:08:43,840 --> 01:08:45,160
Speaker 3: What's your favorite porn category?

1541
01:08:46,560 --> 01:08:51,560
Speaker 4: Evony ain'tal mm hmm, boxes or briefs, brief.

1542
01:08:54,120 --> 01:08:57,280
Speaker 2: Black women? I love them white women.

1543
01:09:00,080 --> 01:09:03,400
Speaker 4: It's gonna sound bad, but the word and not fucking

1544
01:09:03,439 --> 01:09:11,080
Speaker 4: in a bad way like I would love to financial.

1545
01:09:08,120 --> 01:09:12,000
Speaker 2: Literacy, old generational wealth.

1546
01:09:13,360 --> 01:09:16,560
Speaker 4: The word, Yes, that's the first. Or guns, gotta have

1547
01:09:16,680 --> 01:09:19,800
Speaker 4: them tasers, No, we're not tasting it.

1548
01:09:22,000 --> 01:09:24,200
Speaker 2: Still I got in my house. Goddamn taser.

1549
01:09:24,600 --> 01:09:26,800
Speaker 4: I mean, if you got to use your taser. But

1550
01:09:26,920 --> 01:09:30,679
Speaker 4: if I got gun and taste it, definitely getting a gun.

1551
01:09:30,880 --> 01:09:37,000
Speaker 2: It's a celebrity crush. Damn celebrity crush. It is somebody

1552
01:09:37,080 --> 01:09:37,360
Speaker 2: I like.

1553
01:09:39,600 --> 01:09:43,040
Speaker 4: You know, I was in love with. Remember the lady

1554
01:09:43,400 --> 01:09:45,599
Speaker 4: that Jody went to go had sex with on Baby Boy?

1555
01:09:45,960 --> 01:09:52,920
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, uh what her name was? I started the start.

1556
01:09:53,280 --> 01:09:54,879
Speaker 3: I can't see her face anyway.

1557
01:09:54,920 --> 01:09:57,960
Speaker 4: I looked up her. I G she's still she fis

1558
01:09:57,960 --> 01:09:59,639
Speaker 4: she's still fine and beautiful?

1559
01:09:59,880 --> 01:10:00,599
Speaker 2: You did you slide?

1560
01:10:01,040 --> 01:10:02,640
Speaker 4: I thought about her, but she got a husband. I

1561
01:10:02,640 --> 01:10:04,519
Speaker 4: don't play with people who got unions.

1562
01:10:04,560 --> 01:10:07,560
Speaker 2: I stay out of said slide into it.

1563
01:10:08,000 --> 01:10:09,800
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, no, I'm never a verbally holler at a

1564
01:10:09,840 --> 01:10:12,559
Speaker 4: woman in my life. So I'm definitely the DMK. You're celebrity,

1565
01:10:14,080 --> 01:10:20,080
Speaker 4: uh my porn star, but no celebrities. I mean she

1566
01:10:20,200 --> 01:10:26,320
Speaker 4: was a celebrity because therapy. Oh it was all right.

1567
01:10:26,880 --> 01:10:29,840
Speaker 4: How long did you go for the first time was

1568
01:10:29,880 --> 01:10:32,080
Speaker 4: for like two months, the next time for like three weeks.

1569
01:10:33,360 --> 01:10:36,360
Speaker 4: The last lady was Yeah, she was terrible. It'd be

1570
01:10:36,400 --> 01:10:38,160
Speaker 4: hard because they you know who I am, sometimes and

1571
01:10:38,240 --> 01:10:40,519
Speaker 4: it just don't be It don't seem effective or as

1572
01:10:40,600 --> 01:10:43,519
Speaker 4: effective they be asking me. I mean they suposed to

1573
01:10:43,520 --> 01:10:47,200
Speaker 4: ask questions, but they don't seem like therapy based. Sometimes

1574
01:10:48,560 --> 01:10:52,240
Speaker 4: it's like they're fanning out. Yeah, they never fanned out,

1575
01:10:52,280 --> 01:10:54,600
Speaker 4: but yeah, for the most part, and I have a

1576
01:10:55,800 --> 01:10:57,439
Speaker 4: it's not a bad habit, but I do like to

1577
01:10:57,600 --> 01:11:01,639
Speaker 4: mix pleasure in business. So I'm not always uh, it's

1578
01:11:01,680 --> 01:11:03,800
Speaker 4: not always easy for me to get certain services because

1579
01:11:03,800 --> 01:11:05,599
Speaker 4: I end up sleeping with the people that's were routing

1580
01:11:05,640 --> 01:11:06,000
Speaker 4: the service.

1581
01:11:06,479 --> 01:11:09,240
Speaker 3: Put your dick away there, So basically you're suggesting that

1582
01:11:09,400 --> 01:11:13,560
Speaker 3: you're put your good After that, the therapist wants to smash.

1583
01:11:13,320 --> 01:11:16,120
Speaker 4: And so it just yeah, yeah, that's happened a lot.

1584
01:11:16,160 --> 01:11:18,120
Speaker 4: I had sex with them, then they suck up the service.

1585
01:11:18,320 --> 01:11:19,840
Speaker 3: What is the fucking sopranos?

1586
01:11:20,479 --> 01:11:25,719
Speaker 4: All right, So I'm gonna say this, right, I don't

1587
01:11:25,760 --> 01:11:29,720
Speaker 4: believe in how to say this. I like working with

1588
01:11:29,840 --> 01:11:32,000
Speaker 4: women that are attractive if I got to be around

1589
01:11:32,040 --> 01:11:34,599
Speaker 4: you twenty four seven, Like, it's nice if it's somebody

1590
01:11:34,640 --> 01:11:37,120
Speaker 4: that's like I can do, they look good. But that

1591
01:11:37,200 --> 01:11:38,400
Speaker 4: hasn't always been a good thing.

1592
01:11:38,760 --> 01:11:38,960
Speaker 1: I know.

1593
01:11:39,080 --> 01:11:42,320
Speaker 4: Like we literally were just at my birthday party. They

1594
01:11:42,439 --> 01:11:44,759
Speaker 4: was asking, like have I slept with everybody I employed?

1595
01:11:44,880 --> 01:11:48,320
Speaker 4: And like, literally like ninety six percent of them. I

1596
01:11:48,439 --> 01:11:50,800
Speaker 4: only want to say how many literally because people on

1597
01:11:50,880 --> 01:11:52,439
Speaker 4: my team gonna they're gonna.

1598
01:11:52,280 --> 01:11:55,320
Speaker 3: Be start to do the number. Yeah, six percent, another

1599
01:11:55,360 --> 01:11:55,960
Speaker 3: two they did it.

1600
01:11:56,680 --> 01:11:59,920
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's a so it'd be good in bad ones.

1601
01:12:00,320 --> 01:12:03,200
Speaker 3: Is there drama over there? Because I feel like, like

1602
01:12:03,320 --> 01:12:05,320
Speaker 3: in the household you slept with the ninety six percent

1603
01:12:05,360 --> 01:12:08,840
Speaker 3: of your employees, you're living girl, like baby mama lives there,

1604
01:12:08,880 --> 01:12:11,920
Speaker 3: you have like two babies, Like no, I.

1605
01:12:12,000 --> 01:12:14,200
Speaker 2: Know women, I've our baby mama don't live there.

1606
01:12:15,479 --> 01:12:17,880
Speaker 4: That's shout out of tip. That's the one who I'm

1607
01:12:17,880 --> 01:12:19,519
Speaker 4: gonna make sure she comes to a treat with y'all

1608
01:12:19,520 --> 01:12:20,400
Speaker 4: next year because she loves you.

1609
01:12:20,600 --> 01:12:23,840
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, don't come so But that's not even the

1610
01:12:23,880 --> 01:12:27,240
Speaker 2: biggest thing. It's a lot of things happening. I'm just curious, wait,

1611
01:12:27,360 --> 01:12:28,040
Speaker 2: and I need to.

1612
01:12:28,120 --> 01:12:31,760
Speaker 3: Know, Like I know, I like from the internet, I'm

1613
01:12:31,800 --> 01:12:33,880
Speaker 3: like speculating. I'm trying to read the comments, but like,

1614
01:12:34,000 --> 01:12:34,679
Speaker 3: since you're here.

1615
01:12:35,160 --> 01:12:38,000
Speaker 2: Just ask them all questions. Get it off, girl, get

1616
01:12:38,040 --> 01:12:38,320
Speaker 2: it out.

1617
01:12:38,520 --> 01:12:40,600
Speaker 3: So now that you say that, I'm like, did you

1618
01:12:41,080 --> 01:12:44,599
Speaker 3: did the the like main baby mama that moved out

1619
01:12:44,880 --> 01:12:46,800
Speaker 3: in love with the sun? Is that because you start

1620
01:12:46,840 --> 01:12:49,000
Speaker 3: sleeping with the other girl who was also like an

1621
01:12:49,040 --> 01:12:49,880
Speaker 3: employee at first?

1622
01:12:50,120 --> 01:12:53,200
Speaker 4: Oh okay, no, not at all, I know you're talking about. No,

1623
01:12:53,439 --> 01:12:56,840
Speaker 4: we split because of us just having differences. They had

1624
01:12:56,880 --> 01:13:02,360
Speaker 4: nothing to do with her. She came. So person B

1625
01:13:02,560 --> 01:13:04,839
Speaker 4: that you're referring to, she been working me since twenty

1626
01:13:05,000 --> 01:13:05,760
Speaker 4: and twenty one.

1627
01:13:05,880 --> 01:13:08,080
Speaker 3: I've been dying for this information her and I.

1628
01:13:08,320 --> 01:13:10,439
Speaker 2: Finally I'm trying to catch up.

1629
01:13:10,520 --> 01:13:14,400
Speaker 4: All right. Person A left June twenty twenty two, so

1630
01:13:14,479 --> 01:13:18,519
Speaker 4: that's been done. Then Person B been working for me

1631
01:13:18,600 --> 01:13:20,680
Speaker 4: since twenty and twenty one, So there were moments when

1632
01:13:20,680 --> 01:13:22,000
Speaker 4: we were all in the same room. Because she was

1633
01:13:22,000 --> 01:13:27,080
Speaker 4: an employee of one. We didn't start our relationship until

1634
01:13:28,320 --> 01:13:31,559
Speaker 4: April of twenty and twenty three. Remember the light skinned

1635
01:13:31,560 --> 01:13:33,080
Speaker 4: young lady with the green knives that was with me

1636
01:13:33,160 --> 01:13:37,040
Speaker 4: at breakfast? She went and bagged her, she was my employee,

1637
01:13:37,080 --> 01:13:39,559
Speaker 4: but she started she started the intimate process with her

1638
01:13:39,640 --> 01:13:42,120
Speaker 4: by saying like hey, Bay want you blah blah blah,

1639
01:13:42,160 --> 01:13:47,360
Speaker 4: and we all start kicking it. Then yeah, I don't know.

1640
01:13:47,439 --> 01:13:49,240
Speaker 4: Then like three kids came in a year and a half.

1641
01:13:49,439 --> 01:13:52,840
Speaker 3: It just blurred proper and you're at the center like

1642
01:13:53,040 --> 01:13:55,200
Speaker 3: all the dramas like no, no, no, no.

1643
01:13:55,640 --> 01:13:57,760
Speaker 4: So we do have bad days like everybody else, like

1644
01:13:57,840 --> 01:13:59,920
Speaker 4: we have shit that happens, and we have bad days,

1645
01:14:00,120 --> 01:14:03,439
Speaker 4: but drama, if we do have drama, it don't last

1646
01:14:03,479 --> 01:14:05,479
Speaker 4: long because I'm just like I'll be chilling. I'm a

1647
01:14:05,600 --> 01:14:08,360
Speaker 4: no nonsense type of guy with a big sense of humor,

1648
01:14:08,439 --> 01:14:11,120
Speaker 4: so I don't take a lot serious or like I

1649
01:14:11,240 --> 01:14:12,720
Speaker 4: just like the girls being the girls, or they like,

1650
01:14:12,800 --> 01:14:16,080
Speaker 4: let the girls be girls. They're doing what women do. Yeah,

1651
01:14:16,120 --> 01:14:17,680
Speaker 4: I'm out in the field what women do.

1652
01:14:19,840 --> 01:14:23,800
Speaker 2: Over all right, because wait, wait, let's go back, because

1653
01:14:23,800 --> 01:14:26,960
Speaker 2: we said, okay, I asked you, like what you feel

1654
01:14:27,080 --> 01:14:28,800
Speaker 2: like the role of a woman is in your life?

1655
01:14:28,840 --> 01:14:34,160
Speaker 2: Oh okay, you said, Okay, So I go back because

1656
01:14:34,160 --> 01:14:35,160
Speaker 2: I have said that.

1657
01:14:35,280 --> 01:14:38,880
Speaker 4: Okay, in my life, I figured out like the hard

1658
01:14:38,920 --> 01:14:43,720
Speaker 4: shitting life, So I really be wanting to replay my

1659
01:14:43,840 --> 01:14:45,600
Speaker 4: childhood because I feel like I missed out on a

1660
01:14:45,640 --> 01:14:48,120
Speaker 4: lot of stuff because I was really grown being bad.

1661
01:14:48,280 --> 01:14:50,960
Speaker 4: I was advanced, and then I went to live with

1662
01:14:51,000 --> 01:14:54,519
Speaker 4: my dad at thirteen. So like my appears to be

1663
01:14:54,560 --> 01:14:56,680
Speaker 4: talking about their favorite cartoons, I don't know nothing about that.

1664
01:14:56,760 --> 01:14:58,760
Speaker 4: I was like outside of my older brother doing bad

1665
01:14:58,840 --> 01:15:01,560
Speaker 4: shit or trying to be older than we were. My

1666
01:15:01,760 --> 01:15:04,599
Speaker 4: peers was trying to get lose a virginity in high school.

1667
01:15:05,280 --> 01:15:09,160
Speaker 4: We was like investing in terrible things that we shouldn't

1668
01:15:09,160 --> 01:15:11,040
Speaker 4: have been investing in because we wanted to open a

1669
01:15:11,120 --> 01:15:14,479
Speaker 4: tattoo shop in a strip club in eleventh grade. So

1670
01:15:14,640 --> 01:15:17,599
Speaker 4: I missed out. I missed out on a lot because

1671
01:15:18,479 --> 01:15:20,439
Speaker 4: I was focused whether it was good or bad. Just

1672
01:15:20,560 --> 01:15:22,080
Speaker 4: like in my twenties, I missed out on a lot.

1673
01:15:22,160 --> 01:15:24,839
Speaker 4: Like I was writing curriculums and teaching children in my twenties,

1674
01:15:24,880 --> 01:15:28,439
Speaker 4: So when my friends was getting their first bag and

1675
01:15:28,680 --> 01:15:30,960
Speaker 4: having the summer day lifetime and just wilding out, I

1676
01:15:31,000 --> 01:15:36,439
Speaker 4: didn't do that. I was focused. So I gravitate really hard.

1677
01:15:36,560 --> 01:15:38,559
Speaker 4: And I liked the type of woman that can bring

1678
01:15:38,680 --> 01:15:41,120
Speaker 4: me back to my childlike state, that can like nurture

1679
01:15:41,160 --> 01:15:43,760
Speaker 4: my inner child and have fun with him, because these

1680
01:15:43,840 --> 01:15:45,640
Speaker 4: days that's who really wanted to come out. I'm like,

1681
01:15:45,800 --> 01:15:48,200
Speaker 4: so over being the grown man. I'm over adulted my

1682
01:15:48,320 --> 01:15:50,320
Speaker 4: whole life. I pay on my my rent for the

1683
01:15:50,360 --> 01:15:53,000
Speaker 4: first time. When I was fifteen. My daddy taught us

1684
01:15:53,040 --> 01:15:57,840
Speaker 4: financial responsibility at like eleven, So I was taking life

1685
01:15:57,960 --> 01:16:00,479
Speaker 4: serious when everybody else was having a ball. So now

1686
01:16:00,560 --> 01:16:03,000
Speaker 4: I'm trying to have a ball. So yeah, if she

1687
01:16:03,800 --> 01:16:08,200
Speaker 4: got the food, she turned up on my level of

1688
01:16:08,280 --> 01:16:08,960
Speaker 4: turn up because I.

1689
01:16:09,000 --> 01:16:13,360
Speaker 2: Have I'm so curious, we need to come party with you?

1690
01:16:13,400 --> 01:16:14,080
Speaker 2: And what's going on?

1691
01:16:14,760 --> 01:16:17,200
Speaker 4: If a woman, like if she had a space, which

1692
01:16:17,240 --> 01:16:19,240
Speaker 4: I respect, but if she had a space where she's

1693
01:16:19,360 --> 01:16:21,040
Speaker 4: not she don't trust me enough to get me like

1694
01:16:21,120 --> 01:16:22,920
Speaker 4: full access to her body, then I don't want it.

1695
01:16:23,560 --> 01:16:25,280
Speaker 4: And I've had to happen. I've had I've turned down

1696
01:16:25,320 --> 01:16:27,760
Speaker 4: women like, oh I only do this, this and this,

1697
01:16:28,040 --> 01:16:31,080
Speaker 4: I feel you, Well, we probably shouldn't interact because if

1698
01:16:31,120 --> 01:16:33,240
Speaker 4: I'm if I'm going to engage in this experience and

1699
01:16:33,320 --> 01:16:34,600
Speaker 4: give you me as well, I.

1700
01:16:34,680 --> 01:16:36,320
Speaker 2: Got just means that you want to put it in

1701
01:16:36,400 --> 01:16:36,720
Speaker 2: her back?

1702
01:16:38,439 --> 01:16:40,000
Speaker 3: But what are your rules if I ever want to

1703
01:16:40,040 --> 01:16:41,240
Speaker 3: engage with you? And I'm like can I put my

1704
01:16:41,320 --> 01:16:43,760
Speaker 3: fing you have any rules? Because I want the same level.

1705
01:16:44,640 --> 01:16:45,880
Speaker 3: Are we on the same levels of free?

1706
01:16:45,960 --> 01:16:46,840
Speaker 4: If I trust her?

1707
01:16:47,560 --> 01:16:48,599
Speaker 2: If we both trust each other?

1708
01:16:48,760 --> 01:16:52,800
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, whatever she want to do. No, I had

1709
01:16:52,840 --> 01:16:54,960
Speaker 4: a finger nail with a finger of tongue and all that,

1710
01:16:55,040 --> 01:16:56,000
Speaker 4: but I ain't never been.

1711
01:16:56,160 --> 01:16:56,960
Speaker 3: One finger or two.

1712
01:16:57,680 --> 01:16:58,120
Speaker 2: It was one.

1713
01:16:59,120 --> 01:17:00,960
Speaker 3: It was one. It was one.

1714
01:17:01,600 --> 01:17:04,120
Speaker 2: Listen that long nail ship it wasn't it.

1715
01:17:04,240 --> 01:17:05,439
Speaker 4: I just like, no, we can't do this.

1716
01:17:06,000 --> 01:17:08,839
Speaker 3: The nails don't work. Yeah, so I cut mine off recently.

1717
01:17:11,080 --> 01:17:12,040
Speaker 2: But yeah, if she.

1718
01:17:13,800 --> 01:17:17,799
Speaker 4: Is she not providing U. If she ain't provide full access,

1719
01:17:17,880 --> 01:17:19,720
Speaker 4: though I don't want it, I'll do without it. I'd

1720
01:17:19,840 --> 01:17:22,240
Speaker 4: rather just I mean, I can masturbate for that.

1721
01:17:22,720 --> 01:17:24,200
Speaker 3: I mean I agree to that. I don't have sex

1722
01:17:24,280 --> 01:17:26,880
Speaker 3: with someone with a bunch of It's called sexual compatibility.

1723
01:17:27,040 --> 01:17:29,120
Speaker 2: If you don't got it, then get get next.

1724
01:17:29,560 --> 01:17:32,960
Speaker 4: Yeah, like if you ain't, you know, down to ATM.

1725
01:17:32,600 --> 01:17:36,479
Speaker 2: And it goes both ways, and it goes way. Derek

1726
01:17:36,640 --> 01:17:38,120
Speaker 2: isn't going to give you what you want, bitch, and

1727
01:17:38,240 --> 01:17:40,240
Speaker 2: you got to go because you deserve.

1728
01:17:40,760 --> 01:17:44,080
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's somebody out there and that will do what

1729
01:17:44,160 --> 01:17:44,799
Speaker 4: I'm not willing.

1730
01:17:45,080 --> 01:17:47,120
Speaker 2: We'll go ask you won't do. What is it that

1731
01:17:47,160 --> 01:17:47,960
Speaker 2: you're not gonna jail?

1732
01:17:51,760 --> 01:17:57,000
Speaker 4: Uh? I try anything once. I like that, So like,

1733
01:17:57,160 --> 01:17:59,000
Speaker 4: it ain't really nothing that I won't do. If I

1734
01:17:59,360 --> 01:18:00,760
Speaker 4: with you, like, we're gonna turn out. We gonna make

1735
01:18:00,800 --> 01:18:01,280
Speaker 4: some memories.

1736
01:18:02,400 --> 01:18:06,880
Speaker 3: What are some things that ignite baby, Derek?

1737
01:18:07,960 --> 01:18:11,519
Speaker 4: That's a good ass question. Wait, you're talking about the child.

1738
01:18:12,000 --> 01:18:18,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, no, we should, so it's quick.

1739
01:18:23,520 --> 01:18:27,040
Speaker 4: I like women with children because like I love my mom,

1740
01:18:27,320 --> 01:18:30,559
Speaker 4: and like women who mirror my mom are very attractive

1741
01:18:33,840 --> 01:18:36,759
Speaker 4: my inner child. Women with a sense of humor, women

1742
01:18:36,840 --> 01:18:39,920
Speaker 4: that are open minded. So when I say, like, let's

1743
01:18:39,960 --> 01:18:41,880
Speaker 4: try some different ship, she's not gonna be like, oh

1744
01:18:41,960 --> 01:18:43,720
Speaker 4: my god, my grandma. She's gonna be like, all right,

1745
01:18:43,720 --> 01:18:45,519
Speaker 4: I fuck with you. I'll try once If I like it,

1746
01:18:45,800 --> 01:18:50,880
Speaker 4: keep trying to women that like women just free people

1747
01:18:50,960 --> 01:18:54,519
Speaker 4: and rebellious people that really like ignite my inner child,

1748
01:18:54,680 --> 01:18:56,040
Speaker 4: Like people that just don't give a fuck.

1749
01:18:58,560 --> 01:19:01,320
Speaker 3: Yeah, I get it to tribe, you know, on that

1750
01:19:01,400 --> 01:19:03,280
Speaker 3: fake shit and you can't hang out.

1751
01:19:03,880 --> 01:19:08,719
Speaker 4: No, I agree. I agree. So what's your biggest regret

1752
01:19:09,800 --> 01:19:10,439
Speaker 4: overall life?

1753
01:19:10,479 --> 01:19:13,799
Speaker 2: Yeah, because we're still playing, we're in between trigger and why.

1754
01:19:15,360 --> 01:19:21,400
Speaker 4: Regret or do you have any I don't think I

1755
01:19:21,439 --> 01:19:24,080
Speaker 4: really had no big ones. I love all my experiences, good,

1756
01:19:24,160 --> 01:19:27,240
Speaker 4: bad and in different. They just make me. They made

1757
01:19:27,280 --> 01:19:29,680
Speaker 4: me more of a wizard for my children. So I

1758
01:19:29,920 --> 01:19:32,960
Speaker 4: just I'd be thoroughly embracing all the good shit in

1759
01:19:33,000 --> 01:19:34,439
Speaker 4: the bad shit, I just be grateful I got to

1760
01:19:34,520 --> 01:19:37,360
Speaker 4: experience it. Like some people would rather have not ever

1761
01:19:37,520 --> 01:19:39,760
Speaker 4: loved and had their heart broken three times about three

1762
01:19:39,760 --> 01:19:41,400
Speaker 4: different people. I'll take the heartbreak.

1763
01:19:41,560 --> 01:19:44,599
Speaker 2: That's my daddy, My dad. One woman, one girl broke

1764
01:19:44,640 --> 01:19:47,120
Speaker 2: his heart in high school. Literally, he always tells tells

1765
01:19:47,120 --> 01:19:48,599
Speaker 2: me her name whever he told me. No, he didn't

1766
01:19:48,640 --> 01:19:50,599
Speaker 2: have his heart opened after that, and I can't remember

1767
01:19:50,680 --> 01:19:52,760
Speaker 2: her name. I know it was earlier than that, but

1768
01:19:52,880 --> 01:19:54,840
Speaker 2: he always says that it was this one woman who

1769
01:19:54,920 --> 01:19:57,240
Speaker 2: broke his heart. But really it was something that happened

1770
01:19:57,240 --> 01:19:59,200
Speaker 2: in his childhood that he has yet to face.

1771
01:19:59,400 --> 01:20:01,960
Speaker 4: Yeah, to get my ship broke ten times before, I

1772
01:20:02,160 --> 01:20:04,840
Speaker 4: just like pack it up and not love.

1773
01:20:05,800 --> 01:20:06,800
Speaker 3: Love is little.

1774
01:20:07,120 --> 01:20:10,400
Speaker 4: All there is is defin That's one of the misconceptions people.

1775
01:20:10,520 --> 01:20:11,960
Speaker 4: I don't know if it's the tattoos of what would

1776
01:20:11,960 --> 01:20:14,360
Speaker 4: they be thinking, I'm like, really mean or.

1777
01:20:14,800 --> 01:20:15,799
Speaker 2: Are you still getting tattoos?

1778
01:20:15,800 --> 01:20:17,720
Speaker 4: You still get tattooed. I got tattoo in years. They

1779
01:20:17,840 --> 01:20:20,080
Speaker 4: hurt too bad. I don't they hurt after you got

1780
01:20:20,760 --> 01:20:22,599
Speaker 4: I got it said in my twenties. I'm good.

1781
01:20:22,760 --> 01:20:25,400
Speaker 2: You have met them. No get all them.

1782
01:20:25,439 --> 01:20:26,320
Speaker 3: You in your twenties.

1783
01:20:26,479 --> 01:20:28,720
Speaker 4: I probably only got two tattoos since I've been over

1784
01:20:28,800 --> 01:20:29,719
Speaker 4: my over thirty.

1785
01:20:30,040 --> 01:20:32,439
Speaker 3: It gets less appealing after thirty, Like I got other

1786
01:20:32,520 --> 01:20:32,920
Speaker 3: shit to do.

1787
01:20:33,040 --> 01:20:35,560
Speaker 4: Yeah, that shit hurt. The pain not the same. It

1788
01:20:35,680 --> 01:20:36,280
Speaker 4: hurts really bad.

1789
01:20:39,320 --> 01:20:41,840
Speaker 2: Okay, Derek, Well, I'm so grateful that you came on

1790
01:20:41,960 --> 01:20:44,240
Speaker 2: our show. Before we get out of here. Two things,

1791
01:20:45,520 --> 01:20:47,080
Speaker 2: We've talked a lot of sex. We've talked a lot

1792
01:20:47,120 --> 01:20:51,400
Speaker 2: of things. Trump, sacks, guns, all types of shit, fatherhoods.

1793
01:20:53,680 --> 01:20:55,679
Speaker 2: I would love if you could share a horror story.

1794
01:20:56,600 --> 01:20:56,880
Speaker 4: Okay.

1795
01:20:57,040 --> 01:20:59,040
Speaker 2: We ask our guests to share a horror story, which

1796
01:20:59,120 --> 01:21:04,240
Speaker 2: is a highly hope wish tail. That's funny, that's highly horrish,

1797
01:21:04,920 --> 01:21:07,120
Speaker 2: that's a little scary, whatever it might be, whatever comes

1798
01:21:07,160 --> 01:21:09,680
Speaker 2: to mind. You're like, Damn, that was some whole ash

1799
01:21:09,680 --> 01:21:10,240
Speaker 2: ship I just did.

1800
01:21:10,280 --> 01:21:12,240
Speaker 3: It could either be great like bad.

1801
01:21:12,680 --> 01:21:14,479
Speaker 2: It could be bad. I'd be nasty. It could be

1802
01:21:14,520 --> 01:21:15,760
Speaker 2: like damn, I overdid it.

1803
01:21:16,120 --> 01:21:18,160
Speaker 3: I did too much or I over did it and

1804
01:21:18,280 --> 01:21:18,719
Speaker 3: it was great.

1805
01:21:18,760 --> 01:21:19,400
Speaker 2: I loved every.

1806
01:21:21,240 --> 01:21:22,639
Speaker 4: Let me think ago, I got a lot.

1807
01:21:23,200 --> 01:21:28,120
Speaker 2: It's like, damn last night. Okay, New Year's this year.

1808
01:21:28,520 --> 01:21:30,320
Speaker 2: Oh so.

1809
01:21:35,040 --> 01:21:38,960
Speaker 4: New Year's this year. I go into these seasons where

1810
01:21:39,000 --> 01:21:41,120
Speaker 4: we real disciplined. So I'm be having sex or nothing

1811
01:21:41,200 --> 01:21:43,639
Speaker 4: like that while I'm in that on that type of time,

1812
01:21:43,680 --> 01:21:44,479
Speaker 4: I just be locked in.

1813
01:21:44,720 --> 01:21:46,800
Speaker 2: Is that because you believe in semen retention or is

1814
01:21:46,840 --> 01:21:49,080
Speaker 2: it just no, just like you.

1815
01:21:49,160 --> 01:21:56,160
Speaker 4: Pract have you ever, I'm not interested letting that thing real.

1816
01:21:58,520 --> 01:22:03,519
Speaker 4: I'm not interesting, all right? So yeah, this was this

1817
01:22:03,720 --> 01:22:08,360
Speaker 4: was January first of this year leading up to that. So, like,

1818
01:22:08,439 --> 01:22:11,760
Speaker 4: I really love scorpios sexually, like they just always other

1819
01:22:11,840 --> 01:22:14,800
Speaker 4: science to what scorpios just we have a special place

1820
01:22:14,840 --> 01:22:16,760
Speaker 4: in the darkness together. We dance in the dark all

1821
01:22:16,800 --> 01:22:17,040
Speaker 4: the time.

1822
01:22:17,040 --> 01:22:18,400
Speaker 2: I loved the scorpios to do that.

1823
01:22:18,800 --> 01:22:22,600
Speaker 4: Yeah. So at this point, I got a couple of

1824
01:22:22,600 --> 01:22:24,439
Speaker 4: scorpios in my life, but it they've never been all

1825
01:22:24,479 --> 01:22:26,240
Speaker 4: in the same room. So I just hit them all

1826
01:22:26,360 --> 01:22:28,559
Speaker 4: up and put them in a group chat and I'm like, Hey, got.

1827
01:22:28,400 --> 01:22:35,040
Speaker 2: A scorpio orgy? What I want to So Wow, as

1828
01:22:35,040 --> 01:22:36,599
Speaker 2: a fellow scorpio, I'm honored.

1829
01:22:36,840 --> 01:22:39,439
Speaker 4: Yeah, it was beautiful. So I threw them in a

1830
01:22:39,479 --> 01:22:42,160
Speaker 4: group chat. I'm like, hey, I want everybody to get acquainted,

1831
01:22:42,360 --> 01:22:44,960
Speaker 4: you know, love y'all. Blah blah blah, Meet so and so,

1832
01:22:45,120 --> 01:22:47,920
Speaker 4: meet so and so. So they start talking and I

1833
01:22:48,040 --> 01:22:49,000
Speaker 4: was just like, this is what I want to do.

1834
01:22:49,080 --> 01:22:51,519
Speaker 4: I want all of us to meet and I just

1835
01:22:51,600 --> 01:22:54,479
Speaker 4: want to have like a weekend full of drugs and

1836
01:22:54,720 --> 01:22:57,920
Speaker 4: orgy because I need to like get his energy. I've

1837
01:22:57,960 --> 01:22:59,639
Speaker 4: been real disciplined, real good lately.

1838
01:23:00,360 --> 01:23:04,280
Speaker 3: You said say something, how many scorpios did we have gathered?

1839
01:23:04,479 --> 01:23:07,280
Speaker 2: It was three women, so you made see like it

1840
01:23:07,360 --> 01:23:07,799
Speaker 2: was twelve.

1841
01:23:08,360 --> 01:23:11,880
Speaker 4: No, I needed like my top assassins, like my top

1842
01:23:11,920 --> 01:23:14,280
Speaker 4: ones that I know get the job done, not for

1843
01:23:14,400 --> 01:23:16,600
Speaker 4: real because like everybody can't get the job done. I

1844
01:23:16,720 --> 01:23:18,080
Speaker 4: needed like my real killers.

1845
01:23:18,120 --> 01:23:20,479
Speaker 2: The show was going to happen, you know, and like

1846
01:23:21,400 --> 01:23:22,080
Speaker 2: not just for me.

1847
01:23:22,320 --> 01:23:24,880
Speaker 4: But when you like it's three someome etiquette, when you

1848
01:23:25,080 --> 01:23:27,439
Speaker 4: just introducing them, you're either gonna have to take the

1849
01:23:27,520 --> 01:23:30,680
Speaker 4: time to make everybody comfortable prior or you just need

1850
01:23:30,760 --> 01:23:32,800
Speaker 4: them real assassins. That's like, I love this nigga and

1851
01:23:32,840 --> 01:23:35,000
Speaker 4: whatever he wants, I don't care who there I'm gonna

1852
01:23:35,040 --> 01:23:38,680
Speaker 4: do it because this is what you want. That's true, right,

1853
01:23:38,760 --> 01:23:40,479
Speaker 4: I ain't had it. I ain't have time for all that.

1854
01:23:40,680 --> 01:23:43,400
Speaker 4: I'm like, I need my assassins. That's with the ships

1855
01:23:43,600 --> 01:23:46,560
Speaker 4: on on on site. So I threw them in a

1856
01:23:46,560 --> 01:23:47,040
Speaker 4: group chat.

1857
01:23:47,400 --> 01:23:47,880
Speaker 2: I let them know.

1858
01:23:47,920 --> 01:23:49,240
Speaker 4: I'm like, hey, I want to see all y'all at

1859
01:23:49,280 --> 01:23:51,519
Speaker 4: the same time. We're gonna fly out here, let's meet

1860
01:23:51,600 --> 01:23:57,120
Speaker 4: up blah blah blah. And so we flew out, uh

1861
01:23:59,040 --> 01:24:01,240
Speaker 4: and yeah, like they know what I like. So everybody

1862
01:24:01,320 --> 01:24:04,599
Speaker 4: pulled up with they lingerie on. They had like matching

1863
01:24:04,680 --> 01:24:08,160
Speaker 4: lunge like they had talk, they did anything, they got

1864
01:24:08,200 --> 01:24:09,880
Speaker 4: each other. No one was outside of me and wining

1865
01:24:09,920 --> 01:24:14,120
Speaker 4: steth Urgers. So it's like leading up to it and

1866
01:24:14,200 --> 01:24:15,760
Speaker 4: they know, like they know I like, I ain't on,

1867
01:24:15,920 --> 01:24:18,120
Speaker 4: So leading up to it, it was just like this

1868
01:24:18,280 --> 01:24:20,840
Speaker 4: one day, they just flooded my ship, everybody busting it

1869
01:24:20,920 --> 01:24:23,439
Speaker 4: up in the same position, like they separate, they're not together,

1870
01:24:23,520 --> 01:24:26,439
Speaker 4: but they all just lighting the group chat up like oh,

1871
01:24:27,200 --> 01:24:29,680
Speaker 4: who you want to come in first? Who? And I'm

1872
01:24:29,800 --> 01:24:33,120
Speaker 4: just like grown me in the inner child, like they

1873
01:24:33,280 --> 01:24:36,439
Speaker 4: I can't wait. We about to cut up. So I

1874
01:24:36,600 --> 01:24:40,160
Speaker 4: get there and literally it was dope. Like they always

1875
01:24:40,200 --> 01:24:44,000
Speaker 4: in separate rooms and like everybody was just on all fours.

1876
01:24:44,080 --> 01:24:46,120
Speaker 4: When I checked the doors, no one was in the

1877
01:24:46,120 --> 01:24:48,679
Speaker 4: living room, one was in room in another room. Everybody

1878
01:24:48,720 --> 01:24:51,080
Speaker 4: on all fours, like spread it open, busts open, just

1879
01:24:51,160 --> 01:24:54,920
Speaker 4: waiting for me to get there. So we had the group. Yeah,

1880
01:24:54,920 --> 01:24:56,880
Speaker 4: they got me super high. We had a group orgy

1881
01:24:58,160 --> 01:25:01,799
Speaker 4: Friday night, and then like they all got out. Everybody

1882
01:25:01,920 --> 01:25:04,680
Speaker 4: came in for like they won on one appointment and

1883
01:25:04,760 --> 01:25:06,400
Speaker 4: then the last one like I ain't gonna lie. I

1884
01:25:06,400 --> 01:25:07,880
Speaker 4: couldn't come no more. So I had to lay down.

1885
01:25:07,880 --> 01:25:11,320
Speaker 4: I had to get had. And I woke up that

1886
01:25:11,439 --> 01:25:13,200
Speaker 4: next morning and I texted him. I was just like

1887
01:25:13,280 --> 01:25:15,760
Speaker 4: what you doing and she was like, oh, I ain't

1888
01:25:15,760 --> 01:25:17,400
Speaker 4: think I got away. I'm waiting, and I was like,

1889
01:25:17,479 --> 01:25:19,519
Speaker 4: say last, and then went in there with her and

1890
01:25:19,600 --> 01:25:21,600
Speaker 4: then yeah, that was we had our group thinking and

1891
01:25:21,720 --> 01:25:26,720
Speaker 4: I just had me like two or three individual individual

1892
01:25:27,160 --> 01:25:29,040
Speaker 4: session in some sessions.

1893
01:25:28,680 --> 01:25:32,400
Speaker 3: So basically you had your own special scorpio whorehouse.

1894
01:25:32,680 --> 01:25:34,879
Speaker 4: Yeah, it was. It was important to have that scorpio

1895
01:25:35,000 --> 01:25:37,360
Speaker 4: energy in there. I ain't taking nothing from no other

1896
01:25:37,400 --> 01:25:42,719
Speaker 4: signs because I haven't met other than I realized, Like God,

1897
01:25:42,960 --> 01:25:47,000
Speaker 4: but the last this Scorpios, the last thieteen years of

1898
01:25:47,040 --> 01:25:51,240
Speaker 4: my life, there has always been a definite Scorpio in

1899
01:25:51,320 --> 01:25:54,280
Speaker 4: the mix, Like a scorpio gave me my first first

1900
01:25:54,520 --> 01:25:57,640
Speaker 4: first fifteen hundred dollars to start my business. So, like

1901
01:25:57,840 --> 01:26:00,200
Speaker 4: everyone forsist, I don't know if this business every thing

1902
01:26:00,240 --> 01:26:02,120
Speaker 4: I done will be done. This was thirteen years ago.

1903
01:26:02,920 --> 01:26:04,880
Speaker 4: The same scorpio taught me how to eat pussy because

1904
01:26:04,880 --> 01:26:08,240
Speaker 4: she was a lesbian. My older scorpio has helped me

1905
01:26:08,320 --> 01:26:11,280
Speaker 4: mentally on ways that I can't explain, helped me to

1906
01:26:11,360 --> 01:26:13,479
Speaker 4: evolve as a man, be a better father, better lover.

1907
01:26:15,000 --> 01:26:18,400
Speaker 4: My other scorpio, y'all saw that relationship publicly, So yeah,

1908
01:26:18,439 --> 01:26:21,960
Speaker 4: scorpios have always always had an impact. Yeah, for sure,

1909
01:26:22,080 --> 01:26:25,679
Speaker 4: I love him. Interesting, my top assassin is a couple

1910
01:26:25,680 --> 01:26:26,479
Speaker 4: of them, is scorpio.

1911
01:26:26,560 --> 01:26:28,400
Speaker 2: You know you kept saying assassin. I was like, I

1912
01:26:28,520 --> 01:26:31,000
Speaker 2: want to be calling this That literally was my father.

1913
01:26:32,360 --> 01:26:35,480
Speaker 2: They be chill and real playing.

1914
01:26:37,000 --> 01:26:40,560
Speaker 4: Now when they get crazy. When they get crazy, that

1915
01:26:40,600 --> 01:26:42,720
Speaker 4: could be a problem, but for the most part, they

1916
01:26:42,840 --> 01:26:46,120
Speaker 4: be chilled, laid back. We've been in the same rooms

1917
01:26:46,200 --> 01:26:46,960
Speaker 4: with thirty people.

1918
01:26:47,040 --> 01:26:49,320
Speaker 2: They keep their composure I'm just letting you know, Derek,

1919
01:26:49,320 --> 01:26:51,920
Speaker 2: you're about to get an onslaught of scorpios in your

1920
01:26:51,960 --> 01:26:53,760
Speaker 2: inbox from this on.

1921
01:26:53,840 --> 01:26:56,360
Speaker 3: All for so many scorpios on all fours is going

1922
01:26:56,439 --> 01:26:57,040
Speaker 3: to be crazy.

1923
01:26:57,400 --> 01:27:00,280
Speaker 4: Yes, like unique identifiers. And I appreciate it because I

1924
01:27:00,400 --> 01:27:02,519
Speaker 4: like panties to the side, and they all like made

1925
01:27:02,560 --> 01:27:03,559
Speaker 4: sure they was to the side.

1926
01:27:04,160 --> 01:27:06,000
Speaker 3: They were paid attention to detail.

1927
01:27:06,200 --> 01:27:08,439
Speaker 4: Yeah for sure. They know, like I like certain movements

1928
01:27:08,479 --> 01:27:09,880
Speaker 4: and all that, and they all they went out their

1929
01:27:09,920 --> 01:27:11,519
Speaker 4: way and made that really special form.

1930
01:27:11,680 --> 01:27:12,400
Speaker 3: That's beautiful.

1931
01:27:13,720 --> 01:27:14,960
Speaker 2: Congratulations, thank you.

1932
01:27:15,000 --> 01:27:15,880
Speaker 3: I'm really happy for you.

1933
01:27:19,479 --> 01:27:32,479
Speaker 2: It's Tarot time. And you know I peaked at this

1934
01:27:32,600 --> 01:27:38,360
Speaker 2: Tarot card. This card, but Derek Poley pulled the King

1935
01:27:38,479 --> 01:27:40,800
Speaker 2: of Wands. Shout out to Mahogany Terror.

1936
01:27:41,240 --> 01:27:43,479
Speaker 3: Derek were witches. So the cards are always on point.

1937
01:27:43,840 --> 01:27:44,280
Speaker 4: I gotcha.

1938
01:27:46,080 --> 01:27:52,200
Speaker 2: King of Wands, natural born, leader, Vision, entrepreneur, honor. The

1939
01:27:52,280 --> 01:27:55,400
Speaker 2: King of WANs represents pure fier energy and its masculine

1940
01:27:55,439 --> 01:28:00,000
Speaker 2: form unlike the other one. Unlike the other ones court cards,

1941
01:28:00,200 --> 01:28:02,720
Speaker 2: the King is not so interested in creation and creativity

1942
01:28:03,280 --> 01:28:06,519
Speaker 2: or is dreaming up ideas and implementing them himself. Instead,

1943
01:28:06,560 --> 01:28:08,519
Speaker 2: he is more inclined to take an idea and then

1944
01:28:08,640 --> 01:28:11,640
Speaker 2: enlist others to help him actualize it. Thus, when the

1945
01:28:11,720 --> 01:28:13,680
Speaker 2: King of Wands appears in a tear reading, it is

1946
01:28:13,720 --> 01:28:15,360
Speaker 2: a sign that you are stepping into a role of

1947
01:28:15,479 --> 01:28:19,080
Speaker 2: visionary leader, reading to ready to direct your people towards

1948
01:28:19,120 --> 01:28:21,479
Speaker 2: a common goal. You have a clear vision of where

1949
01:28:21,479 --> 01:28:23,840
Speaker 2: you want to go, and now you're manifesting that vision

1950
01:28:24,800 --> 01:28:28,639
Speaker 2: with the support of those around you. That's funny, others

1951
01:28:28,760 --> 01:28:32,920
Speaker 2: naturally gravitate towards you because you're charismatic, focused and determined,

1952
01:28:32,920 --> 01:28:34,920
Speaker 2: and they believe in you and your vision. They want

1953
01:28:34,960 --> 01:28:36,640
Speaker 2: to be a part of what you're manifesting and are

1954
01:28:36,680 --> 01:28:38,920
Speaker 2: here to support you one hundred percent of the way.

1955
01:28:39,360 --> 01:28:41,840
Speaker 2: You are also masterful at getting other people to do

1956
01:28:41,960 --> 01:28:45,240
Speaker 2: work for you while you keep them on side on

1957
01:28:45,400 --> 01:28:51,240
Speaker 2: the side throughout the process. Yeah, let's see. The appearance

1958
01:28:51,240 --> 01:28:55,320
Speaker 2: is for a person business this overall, but you know,

1959
01:28:55,439 --> 01:29:01,080
Speaker 2: take how it applies to you. You never just go

1960
01:29:01,200 --> 01:29:03,559
Speaker 2: with the flow. Instead, you prefer to embark on a direct,

1961
01:29:04,200 --> 01:29:07,080
Speaker 2: robust course of action. The appearance of the King of

1962
01:29:07,200 --> 01:29:10,200
Speaker 2: WANs also suggest that an opportunity is presenting itself to you,

1963
01:29:10,640 --> 01:29:12,879
Speaker 2: and now you have the power to take on the challenge.

1964
01:29:13,240 --> 01:29:16,439
Speaker 2: You are determining. You are the determining factor in this situation.

1965
01:29:17,000 --> 01:29:19,839
Speaker 2: If you want it to be successful, it will, and equally,

1966
01:29:19,920 --> 01:29:21,760
Speaker 2: if you don't fully commit to it, the seed will

1967
01:29:21,760 --> 01:29:24,559
Speaker 2: struggle to blossom and grow. You hold the power.

1968
01:29:25,680 --> 01:29:27,760
Speaker 4: I like that. That sounded really relatable.

1969
01:29:29,120 --> 01:29:31,200
Speaker 2: Sounds like what you just said about yourself. Literally, you

1970
01:29:31,200 --> 01:29:32,840
Speaker 2: don't believe in God. I had the power.

1971
01:29:34,560 --> 01:29:37,559
Speaker 4: The wrestler said, Oh, the best there is, the best

1972
01:29:37,600 --> 01:29:38,679
Speaker 4: there was, and the best ever.

1973
01:29:38,760 --> 01:29:39,559
Speaker 2: Wivie. Amen.

1974
01:29:40,040 --> 01:29:42,679
Speaker 3: Amen. Everyone should feel the way about themselves.

1975
01:29:44,240 --> 01:29:45,800
Speaker 2: Well, Derek, thank you so much.

1976
01:29:45,920 --> 01:29:46,800
Speaker 4: I got a question for you.

1977
01:29:47,040 --> 01:29:47,880
Speaker 2: Oh, what what's up?

1978
01:29:49,800 --> 01:29:52,960
Speaker 4: Do y'all get like a lot of black from men?

1979
01:29:53,600 --> 01:29:55,639
Speaker 4: Or men don't really follow y'all L like it's mostly women.

1980
01:29:56,080 --> 01:29:59,360
Speaker 3: It literally is mostly women. But the few times we've

1981
01:29:59,400 --> 01:30:04,080
Speaker 3: had some some pretty off putting interactions on like podcasts

1982
01:30:04,280 --> 01:30:08,280
Speaker 3: like being Caught off Guard Wait in person. Yeah, I'm

1983
01:30:08,360 --> 01:30:10,400
Speaker 3: sure I'm sure you see all the niggas on the

1984
01:30:10,439 --> 01:30:14,280
Speaker 3: internet hating women, so definitely they definitely don't love us,

1985
01:30:14,720 --> 01:30:17,160
Speaker 3: Like be free your topics.

1986
01:30:17,160 --> 01:30:19,599
Speaker 4: I don't feel like your topics are things that should

1987
01:30:19,640 --> 01:30:22,439
Speaker 4: even bother them. I've never seen nothing that was like

1988
01:30:22,520 --> 01:30:22,800
Speaker 4: as a.

1989
01:30:22,880 --> 01:30:27,240
Speaker 3: Man may be talking shit, but we don't as a

1990
01:30:27,280 --> 01:30:28,640
Speaker 3: man because we ain't mess, you.

1991
01:30:28,640 --> 01:30:30,240
Speaker 4: Know what I'm saying. I don't see why a man

1992
01:30:30,280 --> 01:30:33,120
Speaker 4: would watch any of y'all content and feel away as

1993
01:30:33,160 --> 01:30:34,480
Speaker 4: a man, like because.

1994
01:30:34,240 --> 01:30:36,400
Speaker 2: We're free and because of well, it's usually if it's

1995
01:30:36,479 --> 01:30:37,599
Speaker 2: mirroring something for them.

1996
01:30:37,760 --> 01:30:41,040
Speaker 3: So we promote pleasure and happiness, and you know, men

1997
01:30:41,120 --> 01:30:42,919
Speaker 3: don't like their women happy and pleasurable.

1998
01:30:43,000 --> 01:30:46,120
Speaker 2: They hate. Yeah, it's got to be it's got to

1999
01:30:46,120 --> 01:30:49,080
Speaker 2: be what it looks like for them. Yeah, I mean,

2000
01:30:49,120 --> 01:30:51,000
Speaker 2: I think for the most part though we've we've been

2001
01:30:51,160 --> 01:30:55,640
Speaker 2: pretty protected. There's been definitely moments, but for the.

2002
01:30:55,680 --> 01:30:58,200
Speaker 3: Most part we've been we're pretty protected.

2003
01:30:58,520 --> 01:31:01,479
Speaker 4: So like I saw the the Nick Cannon posts other day,

2004
01:31:01,560 --> 01:31:02,680
Speaker 4: what was the response like.

2005
01:31:04,080 --> 01:31:07,160
Speaker 2: Us that we posted, No, it was the new cam

2006
01:31:07,240 --> 01:31:10,840
Speaker 2: new CA. I mean it was what I thought it

2007
01:31:10,880 --> 01:31:13,200
Speaker 2: would be, which was you know, even there were there

2008
01:31:13,240 --> 01:31:16,160
Speaker 2: are even a lot of men in that agreeing with

2009
01:31:16,960 --> 01:31:19,000
Speaker 2: or just like saying like, now, this is not how

2010
01:31:19,040 --> 01:31:22,320
Speaker 2: it's supposed to be, and clearly he's confused about it.

2011
01:31:22,360 --> 01:31:25,479
Speaker 4: So y'all feel like if a baby come about, you

2012
01:31:25,560 --> 01:31:27,680
Speaker 4: should Miriam No, no.

2013
01:31:27,680 --> 01:31:29,439
Speaker 3: No, no, no, no, no, I mean we both have

2014
01:31:29,560 --> 01:31:32,400
Speaker 3: kids and we weren't married, so we can't subscribe to that.

2015
01:31:33,000 --> 01:31:35,240
Speaker 3: But I think and have done and doing it that

2016
01:31:35,360 --> 01:31:39,160
Speaker 3: way once. I think I understand the necessity of like,

2017
01:31:39,640 --> 01:31:41,960
Speaker 3: like you said, a tribe like at the very minimum,

2018
01:31:42,080 --> 01:31:44,080
Speaker 3: the two people in the household, because I've done it

2019
01:31:44,520 --> 01:31:46,400
Speaker 3: otherwise and so if I'm going to do it again,

2020
01:31:46,439 --> 01:31:48,120
Speaker 3: I'm gonna put my body through that. I'm going to

2021
01:31:48,400 --> 01:31:51,679
Speaker 3: dedicate my life essentially like I do. I would prefer

2022
01:31:51,720 --> 01:31:54,360
Speaker 3: a partner to be in the household. I'm personally not

2023
01:31:54,400 --> 01:31:56,720
Speaker 3: going to put myself in a position with ten other

2024
01:31:56,800 --> 01:31:58,679
Speaker 3: women because I know what I need.

2025
01:31:58,920 --> 01:32:00,880
Speaker 4: Right, you know what I mean, y'all didn't work out?

2026
01:32:01,439 --> 01:32:03,439
Speaker 4: Would you still allow the partner to be in the

2027
01:32:03,520 --> 01:32:07,400
Speaker 4: house so the child can't have that like dual interaction

2028
01:32:07,720 --> 01:32:09,520
Speaker 4: or you gotta.

2029
01:32:09,280 --> 01:32:12,680
Speaker 3: Go no because he had to go Like I have

2030
01:32:12,760 --> 01:32:14,160
Speaker 3: a baby daddy. He doesn't live with me.

2031
01:32:15,760 --> 01:32:18,000
Speaker 2: She's saying, what if your baby daddy said, I want

2032
01:32:18,040 --> 01:32:19,639
Speaker 2: to stay in the house, be able to be together,

2033
01:32:19,720 --> 01:32:20,720
Speaker 2: We're going to raise a child.

2034
01:32:20,800 --> 01:32:22,519
Speaker 3: You can live next door, you live down the street.

2035
01:32:22,600 --> 01:32:25,240
Speaker 3: But are you like even respectful, You're mature. I'm all

2036
01:32:25,280 --> 01:32:28,360
Speaker 3: about the tribe shit. Wenome vacations together, but like chill,

2037
01:32:28,640 --> 01:32:31,400
Speaker 3: like be cool with what's happening over here, which is

2038
01:32:31,720 --> 01:32:33,680
Speaker 3: bitches are moving on, bitches are doing what I want

2039
01:32:33,680 --> 01:32:35,800
Speaker 3: to do, which is probably in my case, you didn't

2040
01:32:35,840 --> 01:32:37,599
Speaker 3: really love that about me to begin with, so you're

2041
01:32:37,600 --> 01:32:40,240
Speaker 3: definitely not gonna love it what I'm without you. So

2042
01:32:40,760 --> 01:32:43,600
Speaker 3: it's not realistic for my where my life needs to be.

2043
01:32:43,760 --> 01:32:46,720
Speaker 2: But yeah, no, definitely not.

2044
01:32:47,680 --> 01:32:49,479
Speaker 3: And I don't think it has to be that way.

2045
01:32:49,520 --> 01:32:52,080
Speaker 3: But I do think like when you can when you

2046
01:32:52,200 --> 01:32:53,760
Speaker 3: continue to have a lot of kids, you're not in

2047
01:32:53,760 --> 01:32:56,240
Speaker 3: the same household. It's just science math. There's only twenty

2048
01:32:56,280 --> 01:32:58,760
Speaker 3: four hours in a day, like you said, so there's

2049
01:32:58,800 --> 01:33:01,599
Speaker 3: only so much chrismas whatever, Like there's so much time,

2050
01:33:01,840 --> 01:33:04,320
Speaker 3: you know, like just you have to sleep, you gotta travel,

2051
01:33:04,360 --> 01:33:07,760
Speaker 3: you gotta work. And I think men think that like

2052
01:33:08,360 --> 01:33:11,160
Speaker 3: the money is enough, and we see how that we

2053
01:33:11,280 --> 01:33:15,960
Speaker 3: see the results of that. There are men lacking real

2054
01:33:16,040 --> 01:33:17,240
Speaker 3: men in their life, and that's why we got a

2055
01:33:17,240 --> 01:33:19,400
Speaker 3: lot of niggas on the internet talking shit and they

2056
01:33:19,400 --> 01:33:20,920
Speaker 3: don't know what the fuck they're talking about, loud and

2057
01:33:21,000 --> 01:33:23,000
Speaker 3: proud because they haven't had men to guide them who

2058
01:33:23,040 --> 01:33:24,479
Speaker 3: have been in their lives. I'm not saying that's the

2059
01:33:24,560 --> 01:33:26,959
Speaker 3: case for everyone, but it's important.

2060
01:33:27,400 --> 01:33:32,120
Speaker 4: No, I agree. I notice in my situation, like you

2061
01:33:32,200 --> 01:33:34,320
Speaker 4: were saying, with the actual time, not just the money.

2062
01:33:35,360 --> 01:33:38,160
Speaker 4: You definitely you can only be omnipresent, but so long,

2063
01:33:38,280 --> 01:33:40,559
Speaker 4: but you'll see the effects of like not just having

2064
01:33:40,640 --> 01:33:44,240
Speaker 4: that energy in the room period. And scientifically it is hard.

2065
01:33:44,280 --> 01:33:45,880
Speaker 4: I think most men that do that they have to

2066
01:33:45,920 --> 01:33:49,719
Speaker 4: make peace of like they're gonna die parenting. Like somebody

2067
01:33:49,760 --> 01:33:51,920
Speaker 4: that got like me, like, you can't have ten children

2068
01:33:52,680 --> 01:33:55,760
Speaker 4: and multiple households and be playing in like month long vacations.

2069
01:33:55,920 --> 01:33:58,080
Speaker 4: So I think you can, and they do, you know,

2070
01:33:58,120 --> 01:33:59,639
Speaker 4: That's what I'm saying. I think they say, we thinking

2071
01:33:59,680 --> 01:34:01,360
Speaker 4: you could have one hundred children and live your best

2072
01:34:01,880 --> 01:34:05,280
Speaker 4: You don't live your daddy life. Exist.

2073
01:34:05,560 --> 01:34:07,160
Speaker 3: That's not the thinking, and that's the problem.

2074
01:34:07,640 --> 01:34:07,800
Speaker 4: You know.

2075
01:34:07,800 --> 01:34:10,120
Speaker 3: They're thinking, Oh, I did I did this much, that's enough.

2076
01:34:10,240 --> 01:34:12,240
Speaker 3: Your mom has the rest, And that's selfish.

2077
01:34:12,920 --> 01:34:13,320
Speaker 4: I get it.

2078
01:34:14,040 --> 01:34:16,799
Speaker 2: Yeah, And I don't think. I think Cam really walked

2079
01:34:16,840 --> 01:34:20,040
Speaker 2: himself into a total trap with he just set himself up.

2080
01:34:20,160 --> 01:34:23,360
Speaker 2: He set himself up, especially what he said he didn't

2081
01:34:23,360 --> 01:34:24,040
Speaker 2: want to get married.

2082
01:34:24,400 --> 01:34:25,880
Speaker 3: He said he wants more kids from God.

2083
01:34:26,040 --> 01:34:27,400
Speaker 2: He just wants more kids God.

2084
01:34:27,800 --> 01:34:30,759
Speaker 3: And it didn't it meant I don't know the conception.

2085
01:34:31,000 --> 01:34:34,280
Speaker 2: I don't know that he wasn't basically you know, he

2086
01:34:34,400 --> 01:34:36,800
Speaker 2: wasn't basically claiming the woman he just had a child with.

2087
01:34:36,960 --> 01:34:39,480
Speaker 2: I mean, obviously we don't know the dynamic of their relationship.

2088
01:34:39,560 --> 01:34:42,240
Speaker 2: It appears that they're together. I think. More so it

2089
01:34:42,400 --> 01:34:46,400
Speaker 2: was just his nonchalantness around having all these kids and

2090
01:34:46,520 --> 01:34:49,639
Speaker 2: wanting more, and also like knowing that he's not present

2091
01:34:49,720 --> 01:34:52,240
Speaker 2: in any of their homes, you know, and she, I

2092
01:34:52,280 --> 01:34:54,679
Speaker 2: don't know. I felt like she eloquently broke his ass

2093
01:34:54,720 --> 01:34:57,719
Speaker 2: down and he had the opportunity to respond, and he didn't.

2094
01:34:57,760 --> 01:34:58,160
Speaker 4: He didn't.

2095
01:34:58,200 --> 01:35:00,800
Speaker 2: Maybe maybe he's thought more about it, has something to say,

2096
01:35:00,840 --> 01:35:05,240
Speaker 2: I don't know, but yeah, it was just of course,

2097
01:35:06,040 --> 01:35:07,800
Speaker 2: most of the women that were in the comments were like,

2098
01:35:08,240 --> 01:35:10,840
Speaker 2: what the fuck this is the problem, But there were

2099
01:35:10,840 --> 01:35:14,000
Speaker 2: also men in there that were also had the same sentiment.

2100
01:35:13,720 --> 01:35:16,120
Speaker 4: So you know, yeah, no, I see it both ways

2101
01:35:16,120 --> 01:35:19,800
Speaker 4: for sure, because I've had seasons where I'll be disappointed

2102
01:35:19,840 --> 01:35:21,840
Speaker 4: in myself based on the time spent, So it definitely

2103
01:35:21,880 --> 01:35:22,960
Speaker 4: can't happen. I don't care how.

2104
01:35:22,920 --> 01:35:26,360
Speaker 2: Smart should I have one kid thinking I'm not spending

2105
01:35:26,439 --> 01:35:26,960
Speaker 2: enough time.

2106
01:35:26,960 --> 01:35:31,320
Speaker 3: Right, Gilt is already like do her hair too, Like, yeah.

2107
01:35:31,280 --> 01:35:33,560
Speaker 2: I missed her birthday or this or that. Yeah, So

2108
01:35:33,800 --> 01:35:36,759
Speaker 2: it's just the guilt of parenting is just it's never.

2109
01:35:36,920 --> 01:35:39,080
Speaker 4: I tell everybody that being a conscious parent is a

2110
01:35:39,120 --> 01:35:42,120
Speaker 4: gift and the curse because the stress you sleep and

2111
01:35:42,200 --> 01:35:44,080
Speaker 4: live with and the words something is just out of

2112
01:35:44,160 --> 01:35:44,599
Speaker 4: this world.

2113
01:35:46,880 --> 01:35:50,080
Speaker 2: Well, I'm grateful that you've armed your children and that

2114
01:35:50,240 --> 01:35:53,760
Speaker 2: they are going to grow up to be intelligent, powerful,

2115
01:35:54,360 --> 01:35:57,679
Speaker 2: confident kids. We need more of those in the world.

2116
01:35:58,040 --> 01:36:00,880
Speaker 3: Yeah, we do. We need soldiers because we see what's

2117
01:36:00,920 --> 01:36:01,800
Speaker 3: happening without them.

2118
01:36:03,880 --> 01:36:05,559
Speaker 2: So where can our people find you, Derek?

2119
01:36:05,840 --> 01:36:08,800
Speaker 4: Oh, they could find everything at Derek gracetoo dot com.

2120
01:36:09,040 --> 01:36:12,400
Speaker 4: All my social media everything is Derek Grace to t

2121
01:36:12,720 --> 01:36:15,280
Speaker 4: w O. You know, I brought your curriculums and books

2122
01:36:15,400 --> 01:36:17,240
Speaker 4: and a board game, but I forgot it out there.

2123
01:36:17,320 --> 01:36:19,240
Speaker 3: But oh my god, I was hoping that that was

2124
01:36:19,320 --> 01:36:21,360
Speaker 3: for us. But I didn't want to be like nosy, Oh.

2125
01:36:21,360 --> 01:36:23,720
Speaker 4: No, so y'all in my bag because I forgot the

2126
01:36:23,760 --> 01:36:26,760
Speaker 4: wrapping paper in the airbnb. No, So it's just like

2127
01:36:27,080 --> 01:36:29,000
Speaker 4: in the bag rip because there's so many books in there.

2128
01:36:29,080 --> 01:36:31,040
Speaker 4: But yeah, I brought you some.

2129
01:36:31,280 --> 01:36:31,519
Speaker 3: Thank you.

2130
01:36:35,760 --> 01:36:36,480
Speaker 2: He's bringing.

2131
01:36:41,479 --> 01:36:41,800
Speaker 3: Thank you.

2132
01:36:42,040 --> 01:36:42,680
Speaker 4: Appreciate it. Bro.

2133
01:36:44,520 --> 01:36:48,840
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I had to like dig deep because I don't.

2134
01:36:48,720 --> 01:36:54,000
Speaker 4: Do physical No more book though, going to archives and finals.

2135
01:36:54,680 --> 01:36:55,040
Speaker 2: Thank you.

2136
01:36:56,720 --> 01:36:58,240
Speaker 3: I was gonna say, we'll give you a book for

2137
01:36:58,560 --> 01:37:00,760
Speaker 3: for you and for your baby mom. But I'm like,

2138
01:37:00,800 --> 01:37:02,240
Speaker 3: I don't know if you want her to have our book.

2139
01:37:03,920 --> 01:37:04,559
Speaker 3: I'm just joking.

2140
01:37:04,920 --> 01:37:07,719
Speaker 2: Oh no, all your baby mamas need to have our book.

2141
01:37:07,760 --> 01:37:08,400
Speaker 3: It's important.

2142
01:37:08,960 --> 01:37:13,280
Speaker 4: Yeah, I definitely want to say. She overdes she's been

2143
01:37:13,360 --> 01:37:16,519
Speaker 4: asking me to send her on your retreat since last year.

2144
01:37:16,600 --> 01:37:18,040
Speaker 3: Come on, circulate the black dollar.

2145
01:37:18,200 --> 01:37:21,840
Speaker 2: Come on, it's luxury, it's it's such a beautiful hook.

2146
01:37:22,439 --> 01:37:23,759
Speaker 3: She'll be come back refreshed.

2147
01:37:23,760 --> 01:37:26,160
Speaker 2: And oh she's going to be ready. She'll come over,

2148
01:37:26,400 --> 01:37:26,960
Speaker 2: She'll be ready.

2149
01:37:28,160 --> 01:37:31,000
Speaker 4: She deserves her. That's my right hand in the in

2150
01:37:31,120 --> 01:37:34,400
Speaker 4: the family aspect. She she holds it down. Damn you

2151
01:37:34,439 --> 01:37:38,400
Speaker 4: are all these books. Yeah, I'm actually missing too for you.

2152
01:37:38,560 --> 01:37:40,519
Speaker 4: So I got you all the same stuff a piece,

2153
01:37:40,600 --> 01:37:46,240
Speaker 4: but I'm missing two. I couldn't find Wow, thank you

2154
01:37:46,520 --> 01:37:49,840
Speaker 4: affirmations that she was asking about, like those three volume one, two,

2155
01:37:49,880 --> 01:37:52,200
Speaker 4: and three, those are all affirmations.

2156
01:37:52,360 --> 01:37:58,320
Speaker 2: I love it, thank you. Read one. The television is

2157
01:37:58,360 --> 01:38:01,519
Speaker 2: called scheduled programming for and put the phone, radio and

2158
01:38:01,600 --> 01:38:02,360
Speaker 2: television down.

2159
01:38:03,160 --> 01:38:05,040
Speaker 3: It's literally fucking programming.

2160
01:38:05,120 --> 01:38:07,160
Speaker 4: And see the difference. This is a cool difference. That

2161
01:38:07,280 --> 01:38:10,080
Speaker 4: black one, that thy one, that's my autobiography. I believed

2162
01:38:10,120 --> 01:38:12,519
Speaker 4: in God when I wrote that book. By the time

2163
01:38:12,600 --> 01:38:14,599
Speaker 4: I released a yellow one that says gods and ones.

2164
01:38:14,439 --> 01:38:16,080
Speaker 2: Man, I no longer believe in God in that one

2165
01:38:16,120 --> 01:38:16,760
Speaker 2: win number one.

2166
01:38:16,960 --> 01:38:20,840
Speaker 3: So yeah, this is like two totally different perspectives, way different,

2167
01:38:21,520 --> 01:38:28,280
Speaker 3: way different. Interesting not thank God, right, never mind, thank

2168
01:38:28,320 --> 01:38:32,320
Speaker 3: God and never mind, never mind. I don't mean that back.

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01:38:32,439 --> 01:38:36,120
Speaker 3: Thank me. Oh well, thank you so much for coming

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01:38:36,200 --> 01:38:38,479
Speaker 3: and joining us and coming to LA and pulling up

2171
01:38:38,680 --> 01:38:40,840
Speaker 3: and you know, showing us love. I appreciate that.

2172
01:38:41,479 --> 01:38:42,120
Speaker 4: I appreciate you.

2173
01:38:42,479 --> 01:38:45,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm so happy this finally happened. Y'all know where

2174
01:38:45,439 --> 01:38:48,200
Speaker 2: to find us at Good Momsbad Choices dot com at

2175
01:38:48,240 --> 01:38:50,800
Speaker 2: Good Mom's Bad Choices on Instagram. Make sure you check

2176
01:38:50,800 --> 01:38:53,360
Speaker 2: out the good Vibe treat because we are going to

2177
01:38:54,040 --> 01:38:56,439
Speaker 2: We're going all over the world next year with our tribe,

2178
01:38:57,040 --> 01:38:59,280
Speaker 2: and we have some really beautiful experiences. We have a

2179
01:38:59,320 --> 01:39:03,559
Speaker 2: couple's retreats. That is, it's different. It's going to be sexy.

2180
01:39:03,680 --> 01:39:05,880
Speaker 2: So come bring your the love of your life or

2181
01:39:06,000 --> 01:39:07,599
Speaker 2: come by yourself to one of our other ones.

2182
01:39:08,840 --> 01:39:10,000
Speaker 4: Can bring more than one woman.

2183
01:39:10,439 --> 01:39:12,400
Speaker 3: We can accommodate you. We can figure that out.

2184
01:39:14,280 --> 01:39:17,240
Speaker 2: We're open to all of the ladies. Yeah, Derek, actually

2185
01:39:17,360 --> 01:39:19,840
Speaker 2: you all should come. This will be a beautiful you know,

2186
01:39:20,080 --> 01:39:22,840
Speaker 2: this will be active self care for you. This will

2187
01:39:22,840 --> 01:39:24,519
Speaker 2: be an active self care that I think you.

2188
01:39:25,760 --> 01:39:29,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, June eleven to the Ace, June eleven to the eighteenth,

2189
01:39:30,360 --> 01:39:30,840
Speaker 3: we're going to be.

2190
01:39:30,880 --> 01:39:33,160
Speaker 4: I gotta try to make sure those cycles is a cyclone.

2191
01:39:33,200 --> 01:39:37,040
Speaker 4: I can't. We can't hang the cycle the period. You

2192
01:39:37,160 --> 01:39:39,000
Speaker 4: got no beiness on a vacation your cycle, and so

2193
01:39:39,040 --> 01:39:39,599
Speaker 4: I gotta.

2194
01:39:39,600 --> 01:39:43,880
Speaker 2: Why this was a booty hole. That's more.

2195
01:39:43,960 --> 01:39:45,320
Speaker 3: Anyway, you don't run red lights.

2196
01:39:46,000 --> 01:39:48,559
Speaker 4: No, I've done that once. I never do that again.

2197
01:39:49,920 --> 01:39:52,719
Speaker 4: That was terrible. I don't like blood on me. That's terrible.

2198
01:39:52,840 --> 01:39:54,720
Speaker 3: We have to talk about that later. Like, guys, if

2199
01:39:54,720 --> 01:39:55,520
Speaker 3: you only blood.

2200
01:39:55,280 --> 01:40:02,320
Speaker 2: On you from a distance, that's actually true. That actually

2201
01:40:02,360 --> 01:40:03,200
Speaker 2: doesn't make a lot of sense.

2202
01:40:03,520 --> 01:40:06,679
Speaker 4: Very high guns, I mean I'm shooting from I guess

2203
01:40:06,880 --> 01:40:08,200
Speaker 4: some one from ten feet away.

2204
01:40:08,479 --> 01:40:10,040
Speaker 3: I have to peek.

2205
01:40:11,240 --> 01:40:12,559
Speaker 2: Wait, let's let's cut.

2206
01:40:12,680 --> 01:40:18,920
Speaker 3: Let's cut it. Well, we can you can just walk off?

2207
01:40:20,760 --> 01:40:26,400
Speaker 2: Wait, what's okay? You said you? We said bye?

2208
01:40:26,680 --> 01:40:27,519
Speaker 3: I think we said bye?

2209
01:40:27,640 --> 01:40:28,960
Speaker 2: We did? Oh okay bye?

2210
01:40:30,600 --> 01:40:32,439
Speaker 4: Yeah? I've been so good?

2211
01:40:32,520 --> 01:40:34,479
Speaker 2: Can't you tell? I went through a drought.

2212
01:40:34,520 --> 01:40:37,040
Speaker 5: That's until I found a well maym have been known earth?

2213
01:40:37,120 --> 01:40:39,719
Speaker 5: I used to be broken tail, now got the blue dancer.

2214
01:40:39,800 --> 01:40:42,439
Speaker 5: Might be yond say just down throat shot with popping

2215
01:40:42,520 --> 01:40:45,240
Speaker 5: this cow wearing our voices. Patriarchy kept it in the

2216
01:40:45,320 --> 01:40:48,160
Speaker 5: box to exploit its women put the pee and powers.

2217
01:40:48,200 --> 01:40:50,080
Speaker 2: So what's the pointing that they want me to be good?

2218
01:40:50,160 --> 01:40:52,320
Speaker 4: So? I mean bad choice is bad mom?

2219
01:40:52,479 --> 01:40:54,280
Speaker 3: Not a bad mom, but a bad mom.

2220
01:40:54,400 --> 01:40:57,400
Speaker 5: Bitter's in, put cannabis in their bath, bomb walked in

2221
01:40:57,640 --> 01:40:59,519
Speaker 5: boss's cap, and I blew his cat ball.

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01:40:59,640 --> 01:41:02,400
Speaker 3: Time yall, Now I'm immune to the cat calls.

2223
01:41:02,240 --> 01:41:04,800
Speaker 2: Her being no waister? Straight to what like a dollar sign?

2224
01:41:04,880 --> 01:41:05,679
Speaker 1: Mother? Rent the lover?

2225
01:41:05,760 --> 01:41:07,360
Speaker 2: When to with the like a water sign?

2226
01:41:07,360 --> 01:41:09,960
Speaker 5: Where you're ren the winter essential will when the summertime?

2227
01:41:10,200 --> 01:41:10,919
Speaker 4: I do what'll?

2228
01:41:10,960 --> 01:41:12,599
Speaker 2: Ain't no one that needs to run it back