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Speaker 1: Well, I invited.

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Speaker 2: You here, thought I made myself perfectly clear. When you're

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Speaker 2: a guest in my home, you gotta come to me empty.

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Speaker 2: And I said, no, guests, your own presences presents enough.

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Speaker 2: I already had too much stuff, So how did you dare.

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Speaker 1: To surbey me?

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Speaker 3: Welcome to I said, no gifts. I'm brigard wine girl.

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Speaker 3: Oh what's going on? Let's see? Well, I just lowered

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Speaker 3: from the sea on the back of a kind of

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Speaker 3: a giant animatronic bat, kind of lowered from the rafters.

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Speaker 3: I'm sorry you weren't here to see it. It's you know,

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Speaker 3: it's covered in like a gold tinsel. It's probably more

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Speaker 3: glamorous than it is scary. But this is an audio format,

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Speaker 3: so you don't get to witness that. You just get

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Speaker 3: to listen, and I hope you will. I really love

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Speaker 3: today's guest. I just think she's so fantastic and funny.

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Speaker 3: Let's get into the podcast. Please listen. It's Lenin Parhum.

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Speaker 1: God damn it. That was a spectacle.

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Speaker 4: I didn't get to see Beyonce, but I feel like

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Speaker 4: I just did, you know what I.

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Speaker 3: Mean, that's kind of the experience I was trying to

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Speaker 3: bring it was.

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Speaker 4: I mean, you don't expect that in a backyard, you know,

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Speaker 3: The left, and the thunderous applause, Where did that come from?

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Speaker 3: They had to kind of pull me back up into

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Speaker 4: Until that part, I did feel fear for you, for

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Speaker 4: the audience underneath you.

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Speaker 3: You were shushing people.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I wanted to hear your personal noises because you know,

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Speaker 4: makes interesting noises come out.

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Speaker 3: It's squeaky. You forgot to oil it prior to the show. Yes,

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Speaker 3: you were screaming, let him speak. I want to hear

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Speaker 4: You speak, That is generally just my m o Let

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Speaker 4: him speak, let her speak, let him speak, Let me

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Speaker 3: We need to hear what they have to say, whether

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Speaker 3: they're on a bat or not. They've got everyone has

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Speaker 3: an opinion. Yeah, Lennon, I I'm not going to beat

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Speaker 3: it around the bush. Have had a scary morning.

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Speaker 1: What happened? I mean, other than the obviously aforementioned bat

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Speaker 3: Oh and I was totally calm about that.

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Speaker 1: Okay, got it.

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Speaker 3: You know, I I've been training for weeks, but I

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Speaker 3: noticed this bite on my ail. Okay, okay, you can

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Speaker 3: immediately see it. Yeah, just having you inspect.

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Speaker 1: Skeeter got you.

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Speaker 3: I don't think it's a mosquito. No, I think it's

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Speaker 1: Is it lifted? Is it raised? The bottom one is raised?

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Speaker 3: Let's see here slightly.

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Speaker 4: You're probably have sensitive skin already though, right, yes.

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Speaker 3: Very so. But I have to imagine because I do

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Speaker 3: get the occasional mosquito bite and then I touch it again.

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Speaker 1: Let me see? Oh it's raised?

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Speaker 3: Oh it is raised? Yeah, so what does that mean?

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Speaker 4: But the the vein coming off the top is that?

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Speaker 1: Was that there prior this here? Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Is that new? This is new?

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Speaker 1: Okay? Okay. Do you normally get eaten up?

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Speaker 3: No? I mean I'll get bites, but the mosquito bites

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Speaker 3: for me usually last. The itchiness lasts about ten minutes, okay,

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Speaker 1: Have you put anything on it?

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Speaker 3: I put a little cream on it, which one I

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Speaker 1: Was it a bena drill, a cortizone.

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Speaker 3: I think it's a cortizone. Okay, And I took to benadryll.

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Speaker 1: Oh you did? When was that?

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Speaker 3: Possibly nothing to worry about, because actually I was concerned

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Speaker 3: Just you know what was sudafed doing for anybody?

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Speaker 1: It's a decongestin, but it wasn't working, right, Was that.

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Speaker 3: No advil, just the cream, the benna drill. You know.

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Speaker 1: That's good? Uh, Like swelling in your face or throat.

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Speaker 3: Like, I don't know at least how swollen do I

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Speaker 3: Kind of insulting. Well, it'll be interesting to see what happens.

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Speaker 1: Did you wake up with it?

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Speaker 3: I woke up with it.

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Speaker 4: Well you woke up the hashtag? Okay, yeah, it.

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Speaker 3: All comes back on my way to steal your man,

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Speaker 3: this sort of thing. But no, it'll we'll just see

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Speaker 4: No no, And some people have like I get like

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Speaker 1: Bite how so like they can swell up to be.

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Speaker 3: Like oh no, like golf ball sideger bug spraying all

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Speaker 1: Have you ever tried skin so soft?

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Speaker 3: I don't even know if they get so soft.

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Speaker 1: So it was like a was it a Mary Kay product?

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Speaker 3: That should be on store shelves.

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Speaker 1: And citronella candles, what are they really do?

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Speaker 3: Do they work?

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Speaker 3: I still got bit, but what I've been bitten more

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Speaker 3: How are you filling your days these days? Yeah, it's

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a weird time. I have children.

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Speaker 3: Oh that helps.

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Speaker 3: Are they Are they in school?

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Speaker 4: What I'm like do having lunches with people? It's so exciting.

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Speaker 3: That's nice.

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Speaker 4: Doing laundry, a lot of laundry, a lot of home care.

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Speaker 3: This mirrors my reality outside of taking care of children. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: I'm slowly learning that you can do laundry more than

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Speaker 3: A load a day. Yeah, that is a lot of laundry.

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Speaker 1: It's a lot of laundry.

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Speaker 4: Well, you got usually two sets of clothing every day, right,

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Speaker 1: That's eight outfits. Wow, and that all the sock lights

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Speaker 4: It's sometimes soothing, to be honest, right, the folding part of.

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Speaker 4: I love folding, but I don't like the putting it away, right,

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Speaker 4: It's so soothing to make it into the perfect little

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Speaker 1: It just so a folder. No, I just I am.

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Speaker 1: I have great fingers, magic.

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Speaker 4: I have magic folding fingers that should be licensed by

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Speaker 1: But yeah, that part feels really good to me.

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Speaker 4: And then I put it in a basket and then

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Speaker 4: it just sits for days. I don't know if I

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Speaker 4: think you put it away, I folded it.

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Speaker 1: You know what I mean.

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Speaker 3: That come gather for me. I just leave it in

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Speaker 3: the dryer for extent. The dryer kind of becomes the

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I can't do a load unless you're gonna have

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Speaker 4: time to fold, right, because otherwise it's it's gonna have.

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Speaker 3: To do it to do it over or iron.

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Speaker 4: No, no, who does that. My husband does because he

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Speaker 4: has like work shirts.

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Speaker 3: Oh, like dress shirts, this sort of thing.

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Speaker 4: He'll break out the iron. It's I don't know where

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Speaker 4: we got this ironing board, but it is like from

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Speaker 1: It is, honestly, it makes the same sound the bat

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Speaker 4: And our iron is we had a regular iron, but

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Speaker 4: then he bought like he bought like an old iron.

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Speaker 3: Okay, like it's a.

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Speaker 1: It's a slim fit. Right. You know, you were at

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Speaker 3: Right, Yeah, coastal gramma is such a good look to

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Speaker 4: Like it's because they're just like don't give a fuck, Like,

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Speaker 4: I understand you're like running to get gas or like

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Speaker 3: It's very rare that I go somewhere. The only place

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Speaker 1: No, you're already ahead. It occurs.

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Speaker 3: I'm four hours ahead of that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: The people I'm seeing are dedicated.

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Speaker 3: They're dedicated moms and dads. I mean the last time,

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Speaker 1: Which one is that?

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Speaker 3: The one on your Bell's bagels?

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Speaker 1: I've never had that one?

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Speaker 1: It just moved over there.

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Speaker 3: Is I think that's the same place because that's Goldburger, right, Yeah,

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Speaker 3: There's some cahoots going on there.

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Speaker 3: But yeah, that's essentially me And I'm going to lunch

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Speaker 3: I always feel like this was fine, but the atmosphere

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Speaker 1: Yeah who have you seen who?

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Speaker 3: John Ham?

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Speaker 2: Oh?

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Speaker 1: Which one the one in Glendale. Yeah, light roller away.

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Speaker 3: Oh, how was it?

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Speaker 4: It was insane? So it was insane. I really bit

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Speaker 4: But all the parents know how okay because they're all

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Speaker 1: Was like we can't off on whatever? What Debbie deb

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Speaker 4: I was like I had made a playlist they played

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Speaker 1: What are you doing? And I'm like, this is it

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Speaker 4: it was supposed to happen three weeks to that, but

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Speaker 4: So I'm on heavy levels of Norco and there's two cakes.

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Speaker 3: You know, control over it at that point.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and I had gotten the final guess. I mean,

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Speaker 4: It was just so it was I had really bit

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Speaker 3: Were you mobile?

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Speaker 1: Totally mobile? I could wasn't able to drive myself.

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Speaker 4: So Jessica was like, clear, my writing partner picked me

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Speaker 1: And then but then I did skate.

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Speaker 3: Oh you were skatewording skate?

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Speaker 1: What's wrong with me?

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Speaker 4: No?

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Speaker 1: I didn't. That was painful. Actually, I remember I went back.

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Speaker 4: I had to go back later and get my skate

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Speaker 3: Right, I would hope.

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Speaker 1: So, yeah, yeah, that's you can't do that.

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Speaker 4: Period Like that was the whole email.

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Speaker 3: Were you able to take the job? Well, it kept

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00:20:59,440 --> 00:21:01,360
Speaker 3: getting pushed Oh incredible.

449
00:21:01,520 --> 00:21:03,600
Speaker 1: Great. So it worked out, and I feel like.

450
00:21:03,560 --> 00:21:05,879
Speaker 3: They probably could have faked it in some way, just

451
00:21:05,880 --> 00:21:07,600
Speaker 3: had you kind of move your shoulders and done like

452
00:21:07,600 --> 00:21:09,320
Speaker 3: a just a head sure.

453
00:21:10,600 --> 00:21:14,520
Speaker 1: Sure, yeah, So it ended up. I was full out.

454
00:21:15,080 --> 00:21:17,439
Speaker 4: I'm also supposed to be pregnant, so I had on

455
00:21:17,480 --> 00:21:20,359
Speaker 4: a pregnant belly and I was on a treadmill like

456
00:21:20,480 --> 00:21:22,879
Speaker 4: running as fast as I possibly.

457
00:21:24,440 --> 00:21:26,560
Speaker 1: It was great and funny.

458
00:21:26,200 --> 00:21:28,600
Speaker 3: Scene yelling at Larry or something. Yeah.

459
00:21:28,720 --> 00:21:31,600
Speaker 4: No, he was telling me that that that I was

460
00:21:31,640 --> 00:21:37,480
Speaker 4: harming the feet is it's a good episode.

461
00:21:38,359 --> 00:21:41,800
Speaker 3: I wonder if I've seen that. I haven't. I've I

462
00:21:41,920 --> 00:21:43,800
Speaker 3: haven't seen Curbon such a long time that it's all

463
00:21:43,840 --> 00:21:46,040
Speaker 3: gonna blurt together. But it's what season was.

464
00:21:46,000 --> 00:21:48,159
Speaker 4: This not the last one, but the one before. I

465
00:21:48,200 --> 00:21:51,280
Speaker 4: think it was like the first episode. It was a

466
00:21:51,359 --> 00:21:52,600
Speaker 4: happy New Year episode.

467
00:21:52,680 --> 00:21:53,760
Speaker 3: Oh this sounds familiar.

468
00:21:54,040 --> 00:21:54,359
Speaker 1: Yeah.

469
00:21:54,400 --> 00:21:56,800
Speaker 4: So he we saw each other and I said Happy

470
00:21:56,800 --> 00:21:59,840
Speaker 4: New Year. He goes, you can't say that, and I

471
00:22:00,119 --> 00:22:02,440
Speaker 4: was like, well, what's the limit? He was like three.

472
00:22:02,320 --> 00:22:04,840
Speaker 1: Days, oh, and of course two weeks. What are you

473
00:22:04,840 --> 00:22:05,480
Speaker 1: talking about?

474
00:22:05,840 --> 00:22:08,880
Speaker 4: And then we get on side by side treadmills and

475
00:22:09,240 --> 00:22:11,120
Speaker 4: I tell him my midwife said it was fine if

476
00:22:11,160 --> 00:22:15,240
Speaker 4: I exercise, and he was like, you're harming the fetus.

477
00:22:15,520 --> 00:22:17,560
Speaker 1: And then later he sees.

478
00:22:17,320 --> 00:22:19,440
Speaker 4: Me in a coffee shop drinking coffee and Gissie and

479
00:22:19,480 --> 00:22:22,199
Speaker 4: evil Eye. And then later I'm in the hospital and

480
00:22:22,240 --> 00:22:26,679
Speaker 4: he knocks me down going through the double doors. And also,

481
00:22:26,760 --> 00:22:32,960
Speaker 4: my character's name was Randy. It's like for a woman

482
00:22:33,000 --> 00:22:35,359
Speaker 4: to be named Randy. I mean, that's really all you

483
00:22:35,400 --> 00:22:39,600
Speaker 4: need to know, right, She's definitely hidden Moonlight rollerway.

484
00:22:40,400 --> 00:22:43,800
Speaker 3: The only I knew I had a friend Randy, who

485
00:22:43,840 --> 00:22:46,320
Speaker 3: was a boy in elementary and middle school. And then

486
00:22:46,320 --> 00:22:48,199
Speaker 3: the second Randy I learned of was a character on

487
00:22:48,200 --> 00:22:51,000
Speaker 3: The Brady Bunch who was a girl. In my world

488
00:22:51,200 --> 00:22:54,000
Speaker 3: was just shaken. It's like, Randy can be anybody.

489
00:22:54,600 --> 00:22:55,880
Speaker 1: Anyone can be anybody.

490
00:22:56,040 --> 00:22:58,800
Speaker 3: Anybody can be anybody. Yeah, I want to circle back

491
00:22:58,840 --> 00:23:02,240
Speaker 3: to your playlist the Roller. What were some of the songs.

492
00:23:01,960 --> 00:23:05,399
Speaker 4: On Some of them you can't play anymore? Oh yeah, honest,

493
00:23:06,080 --> 00:23:10,720
Speaker 4: they've been canceled or like big you know, documentaries have

494
00:23:10,800 --> 00:23:11,200
Speaker 4: come out.

495
00:23:11,320 --> 00:23:12,240
Speaker 3: Oh okay, well.

496
00:23:12,280 --> 00:23:16,200
Speaker 4: This is my childhood, right, this is my childhood everything music.

497
00:23:16,359 --> 00:23:19,440
Speaker 4: Of course, So that playlist still exists on my on

498
00:23:19,440 --> 00:23:22,359
Speaker 4: my iTunes because I am so such an old person

499
00:23:22,359 --> 00:23:25,120
Speaker 4: that I have still purchased albums on iTunes.

500
00:23:25,200 --> 00:23:28,680
Speaker 3: Still, yeah I should. Still I want to support the audience,

501
00:23:28,760 --> 00:23:29,800
Speaker 3: totally encourage that.

502
00:23:30,119 --> 00:23:33,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's also like making a playlist on Spotify. I

503
00:23:33,280 --> 00:23:35,199
Speaker 1: do do that as well. But like, what if you

504
00:23:35,200 --> 00:23:36,679
Speaker 1: don't have intranets? You know?

505
00:23:37,040 --> 00:23:38,880
Speaker 3: Oh I panic about that all the time. What if

506
00:23:38,880 --> 00:23:40,520
Speaker 3: I even if I go like over the hill on

507
00:23:40,600 --> 00:23:42,800
Speaker 3: Eagle Rock, I lose service for a minute. I'm like, yeah,

508
00:23:42,800 --> 00:23:44,680
Speaker 3: I can't choose what song I'm listening to right now,

509
00:23:44,680 --> 00:23:47,840
Speaker 3: and I hate that. Yeah, okay, so there was I

510
00:23:47,840 --> 00:23:49,440
Speaker 3: can imagine who you're talking about.

511
00:23:50,000 --> 00:23:52,880
Speaker 1: But it's heavy that it was heavy that.

512
00:23:54,359 --> 00:23:57,600
Speaker 4: If I were playing my old roller skating playlist, there

513
00:23:57,640 --> 00:24:00,280
Speaker 4: would have been like a bon Jovie song on sing

514
00:24:00,520 --> 00:24:03,639
Speaker 4: that was my that was my fourth grade, like my

515
00:24:03,720 --> 00:24:09,080
Speaker 4: first boyfriend. Uh huh, Kenny, not to be mistaken with Randy.

516
00:24:09,920 --> 00:24:12,399
Speaker 4: Uh and yeah, our song was born to be My Baby?

517
00:24:12,440 --> 00:24:13,400
Speaker 4: Which is Jovi?

518
00:24:13,920 --> 00:24:15,200
Speaker 3: Is that like a ballad?

519
00:24:15,720 --> 00:24:16,080
Speaker 1: No?

520
00:24:16,320 --> 00:24:17,639
Speaker 3: Oh? How do I know this?

521
00:24:18,119 --> 00:24:18,679
Speaker 1: Yeah?

522
00:24:18,760 --> 00:24:20,000
Speaker 3: I know living on a prayer?

523
00:24:20,119 --> 00:24:26,320
Speaker 1: Yes, of course. Uh, you give love a bad name,

524
00:24:26,720 --> 00:24:27,800
Speaker 1: right right? Yeah?

525
00:24:27,840 --> 00:24:29,720
Speaker 3: But ye born to be my baby?

526
00:24:29,840 --> 00:24:32,760
Speaker 4: Yeah, Okay, I'm going to look up because I have

527
00:24:32,800 --> 00:24:34,720
Speaker 4: a let me see if I have the actual playlist

528
00:24:34,760 --> 00:24:35,080
Speaker 4: on here.

529
00:24:35,359 --> 00:24:38,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm very curious. I love roller skating music. I

530
00:24:38,040 --> 00:24:39,760
Speaker 3: mean I when I think about roller skating music, I

531
00:24:39,800 --> 00:24:41,639
Speaker 3: feel like I have Donna Summer.

532
00:24:41,680 --> 00:24:47,080
Speaker 4: Oh interesting, you go disco Debbie Gibson. Okay, yeah, shake

533
00:24:47,160 --> 00:24:49,280
Speaker 4: your love, never can't shake your.

534
00:24:49,119 --> 00:24:53,120
Speaker 3: Love, Tiffany uh huh. But so now I'm very curious

535
00:24:53,160 --> 00:24:55,840
Speaker 3: about what else you've got happening here.

536
00:24:56,000 --> 00:25:01,840
Speaker 4: Okay, So the aforementioned artist opens it, and then there's

537
00:25:01,960 --> 00:25:03,480
Speaker 4: also his childhood group.

538
00:25:03,880 --> 00:25:07,080
Speaker 3: Oh sure, No, can we talk about that the difference?

539
00:25:07,119 --> 00:25:07,359
Speaker 3: Can we?

540
00:25:07,600 --> 00:25:09,439
Speaker 1: I feel like one is okay.

541
00:25:09,600 --> 00:25:12,160
Speaker 3: I feel like Jackson five is okay. I can still

542
00:25:12,200 --> 00:25:13,200
Speaker 3: listen to Jackson five.

543
00:25:13,320 --> 00:25:14,000
Speaker 1: It's hard for me.

544
00:25:14,160 --> 00:25:16,400
Speaker 3: Still, that's hard for you. I can't listen to Let's

545
00:25:16,400 --> 00:25:18,679
Speaker 3: just we all know what we're talking about here. I

546
00:25:18,680 --> 00:25:21,159
Speaker 3: can't listen to Michael Jackson anymore. Well, yeah I can.

547
00:25:21,200 --> 00:25:25,000
Speaker 3: Probably there's one songs off of Off the Wall I

548
00:25:25,040 --> 00:25:28,320
Speaker 3: can still kind of, but it's there's now just it's

549
00:25:28,320 --> 00:25:29,200
Speaker 3: almost impossible.

550
00:25:29,280 --> 00:25:32,440
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, that's my I think that's probably my favorite album.

551
00:25:32,640 --> 00:25:36,480
Speaker 3: It's his best album by a million miles, I would say, yeah.

552
00:25:36,560 --> 00:25:39,720
Speaker 4: Honestly, the whole thing makes me so sad. It used

553
00:25:39,720 --> 00:25:42,159
Speaker 4: to be I put that Off the Wall album on

554
00:25:42,280 --> 00:25:45,520
Speaker 4: and it would pump me up for anything. Literally, Now

555
00:25:45,720 --> 00:25:48,959
Speaker 4: I put it on and I feel overwhelming. Said, and

556
00:25:49,400 --> 00:25:53,400
Speaker 4: even with the Jackson five, like never Can't Say Goodbye,

557
00:25:53,560 --> 00:25:56,959
Speaker 4: like a lot of those sweet songs like I just

558
00:25:57,280 --> 00:25:59,000
Speaker 4: it's I can't.

559
00:25:59,200 --> 00:26:01,160
Speaker 3: No, there's a giant shadow over all of them.

560
00:26:01,200 --> 00:26:02,000
Speaker 1: Yeah.

561
00:26:02,040 --> 00:26:06,880
Speaker 3: So yeah, I've kind of just separated his solo work

562
00:26:07,040 --> 00:26:09,120
Speaker 3: from the Jackson five in my mind, and I feel

563
00:26:09,119 --> 00:26:11,920
Speaker 3: like these were the happy years. Well actually they weren't.

564
00:26:12,040 --> 00:26:13,720
Speaker 3: There was actually there was a.

565
00:26:13,640 --> 00:26:19,720
Speaker 4: Lot of abuse, a lot of parental abuse happening, for sure.

566
00:26:20,119 --> 00:26:21,719
Speaker 3: So let's just forget any of it.

567
00:26:21,800 --> 00:26:24,639
Speaker 1: Okay, that's not a good Okay.

568
00:26:24,680 --> 00:26:29,000
Speaker 4: I've got love Shack Shoes, Celebration, cool in the gang.

569
00:26:29,040 --> 00:26:31,600
Speaker 4: There's several cool in the gangs. I've got take on Me.

570
00:26:31,880 --> 00:26:34,639
Speaker 4: I've got The Warrior by Patty Smith because that's a

571
00:26:34,800 --> 00:26:36,240
Speaker 4: song that is my me and.

572
00:26:36,200 --> 00:26:36,960
Speaker 1: My daughter's song.

573
00:26:37,000 --> 00:26:37,959
Speaker 3: Oh that's so sweet.

574
00:26:38,160 --> 00:26:41,199
Speaker 1: Gloria Stefan, Ghostbusters.

575
00:26:42,160 --> 00:26:46,480
Speaker 3: That's what's his name, Ray something, Yeah, Ray Parker, June,

576
00:26:46,600 --> 00:26:47,840
Speaker 3: Ray Parker Junior. That's right.

577
00:26:48,480 --> 00:26:51,800
Speaker 4: But then you've also got some Beyonce, some uptown funk,

578
00:26:51,920 --> 00:26:57,200
Speaker 4: some happy and footloose and stuff from the Trolls movie.

579
00:26:57,720 --> 00:26:59,960
Speaker 3: You would be a roller rink teacher.

580
00:27:00,359 --> 00:27:04,240
Speaker 4: I could push it, you know, classic classic. I can't wait,

581
00:27:04,359 --> 00:27:07,560
Speaker 4: new Shoes. I mean, let the music play. We've got

582
00:27:07,640 --> 00:27:10,879
Speaker 4: Huey Lewis there, we go Born, Yeah, bon Jovi's on

583
00:27:10,920 --> 00:27:14,440
Speaker 4: there too, Bruno Mars. Anyway, it goes on and on

584
00:27:14,760 --> 00:27:17,520
Speaker 4: and on and on honestly, and ends.

585
00:27:17,320 --> 00:27:19,760
Speaker 1: With be Nice by the Black Eyed Peace? Do you

586
00:27:19,800 --> 00:27:20,000
Speaker 1: know that?

587
00:27:20,080 --> 00:27:21,760
Speaker 3: So I don't know. That's a very funny song.

588
00:27:21,760 --> 00:27:25,000
Speaker 1: Okay, so the song song Land do you know that show?

589
00:27:25,520 --> 00:27:26,280
Speaker 3: No, I'm not familiar.

590
00:27:26,280 --> 00:27:28,440
Speaker 4: Okay, So this show I'm not allowed to be talking

591
00:27:28,480 --> 00:27:32,119
Speaker 4: about AMPTP properties probably, But there was a show on

592
00:27:32,280 --> 00:27:35,800
Speaker 4: and it's not on anymore called Songland or there were

593
00:27:35,880 --> 00:27:39,280
Speaker 4: three like very famous producers, a country like a rock

594
00:27:39,359 --> 00:27:43,360
Speaker 4: and an R and B producer and artists would come

595
00:27:43,400 --> 00:27:48,480
Speaker 4: on and then six people would sing their original songs. Oh,

596
00:27:48,520 --> 00:27:50,680
Speaker 4: and then the artists would narrow it down to three,

597
00:27:50,840 --> 00:27:52,640
Speaker 4: and then they would get paired up with the producer

598
00:27:52,680 --> 00:27:54,200
Speaker 4: and they would go away and work on the song,

599
00:27:54,240 --> 00:27:57,920
Speaker 4: and then they would come back and present the new

600
00:27:58,040 --> 00:28:01,080
Speaker 4: song to the artist. The artist would pick one and

601
00:28:01,160 --> 00:28:01,800
Speaker 4: record it.

602
00:28:02,240 --> 00:28:04,600
Speaker 3: Oh so evolved.

603
00:28:04,760 --> 00:28:09,280
Speaker 4: He picked this song be Nice, which actually my husband

604
00:28:09,320 --> 00:28:12,040
Speaker 4: and I love and my kids are like, stop playing it.

605
00:28:13,680 --> 00:28:15,120
Speaker 3: So it's not that old of a show.

606
00:28:15,200 --> 00:28:17,960
Speaker 1: Then, no recent recent I.

607
00:28:17,840 --> 00:28:19,480
Speaker 3: Was imagining like a star search.

608
00:28:19,760 --> 00:28:21,639
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, no, no, no, no, that was like a

609
00:28:21,640 --> 00:28:24,719
Speaker 4: putting on the hits, Like, no, it was recent, it

610
00:28:24,720 --> 00:28:25,480
Speaker 4: was recent hits.

611
00:28:25,520 --> 00:28:27,600
Speaker 3: I've never heard of this what I love that name

612
00:28:27,680 --> 00:28:29,359
Speaker 3: is that putting on the rints?

613
00:28:29,359 --> 00:28:32,119
Speaker 1: Of course was a lip sync show.

614
00:28:32,760 --> 00:28:36,000
Speaker 4: Oh, it was a lip sync show hosted by I

615
00:28:36,040 --> 00:28:38,880
Speaker 4: want to say, the guy that played the Greatest American Hero,

616
00:28:39,000 --> 00:28:40,160
Speaker 4: but I don't think that's right.

617
00:28:40,240 --> 00:28:41,000
Speaker 1: Do you know that show?

618
00:28:41,120 --> 00:28:41,840
Speaker 3: I'm not familiar.

619
00:28:41,920 --> 00:28:49,000
Speaker 4: Okay, So that song, that song, uh oh my good

620
00:28:49,040 --> 00:28:50,680
Speaker 4: look it was happening to me.

621
00:28:51,480 --> 00:28:54,200
Speaker 3: That sounds familiar to believe the most.

622
00:28:53,880 --> 00:28:57,760
Speaker 1: Sound Okay, anyway, I'll play that for you later.

623
00:29:00,680 --> 00:29:02,800
Speaker 4: It was a lip sync show and it is stuck

624
00:29:02,840 --> 00:29:05,160
Speaker 4: in my head because people would come on and do

625
00:29:05,320 --> 00:29:07,680
Speaker 4: full like lip sync numbers.

626
00:29:07,720 --> 00:29:10,320
Speaker 1: This is pre there Jimmy.

627
00:29:10,040 --> 00:29:13,200
Speaker 4: Fallon and yes and pre Rue Paul or probably at

628
00:29:13,240 --> 00:29:16,280
Speaker 4: the same time, always coming up in Atlanta. But there

629
00:29:16,360 --> 00:29:20,760
Speaker 4: was one performance to Endless Love and a man dressed

630
00:29:21,320 --> 00:29:25,160
Speaker 4: half of his body like Lionel Richie, okay, like like

631
00:29:25,280 --> 00:29:27,920
Speaker 4: draw a line down the center of his face, and

632
00:29:27,960 --> 00:29:31,960
Speaker 4: the other half Diana Ross. So when each of them

633
00:29:31,960 --> 00:29:35,440
Speaker 4: were singing, he would turn and it started out and

634
00:29:35,480 --> 00:29:38,240
Speaker 4: it was like you know, ma love and it's just

635
00:29:38,720 --> 00:29:43,400
Speaker 4: leonel right, only you and my life, and then Martha's

636
00:29:43,520 --> 00:29:46,400
Speaker 4: love and it would turn and it would be her

637
00:29:46,640 --> 00:29:47,240
Speaker 4: and then.

638
00:29:47,400 --> 00:29:50,520
Speaker 1: When they were singing ah, he would turn.

639
00:29:50,360 --> 00:29:52,720
Speaker 3: Into the middle so you could see both of them.

640
00:29:53,320 --> 00:29:57,920
Speaker 4: Terrifying, but I went, yeah, it was really inspiring. And

641
00:29:57,920 --> 00:30:00,520
Speaker 4: there was another thing on there that like inspired Halloween

642
00:30:00,520 --> 00:30:03,040
Speaker 4: costume that I had where I was Carmen Miranda on

643
00:30:03,120 --> 00:30:08,280
Speaker 4: the top. Top of the bottom was a man carrying

644
00:30:08,320 --> 00:30:09,760
Speaker 4: her on a chair on his back.

645
00:30:11,520 --> 00:30:15,200
Speaker 1: That was seventh grade. Listen, it was these were fruitful years.

646
00:30:16,520 --> 00:30:19,400
Speaker 3: That's such a great costume. I love those costumes where

647
00:30:19,400 --> 00:30:21,960
Speaker 3: it's kind of an illusion, you know. I did like

648
00:30:22,000 --> 00:30:24,520
Speaker 3: the I think at fourth grade, the headless person where

649
00:30:24,520 --> 00:30:25,440
Speaker 3: you're holding your head.

650
00:30:26,280 --> 00:30:27,200
Speaker 1: Uh yeah, yeah.

651
00:30:27,240 --> 00:30:30,000
Speaker 4: My son wants to do that this year, held be

652
00:30:30,600 --> 00:30:33,040
Speaker 4: you know, like holding a head beside him. He's really

653
00:30:33,240 --> 00:30:34,760
Speaker 4: into violence right now.

654
00:30:36,240 --> 00:30:36,880
Speaker 1: So that's good.

655
00:30:37,000 --> 00:30:39,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, speaking from personal experience, I can say you get

656
00:30:39,520 --> 00:30:43,440
Speaker 3: a lot. It's a buzz buzzy costume. People are talking

657
00:30:43,480 --> 00:30:45,840
Speaker 3: about it. Oh yeah, they're thrilled that you're holding your head.

658
00:30:45,880 --> 00:30:48,200
Speaker 3: So that's a good costume. Yeah, and I don't well,

659
00:30:48,240 --> 00:30:50,479
Speaker 3: my parents probably put hours and hours of work into it.

660
00:30:50,560 --> 00:30:51,640
Speaker 1: They made it for you. Yeah.

661
00:30:51,680 --> 00:30:54,120
Speaker 3: I did nothing to help, but your.

662
00:30:54,000 --> 00:30:56,520
Speaker 1: Head was the head right, And there was like another

663
00:30:56,720 --> 00:30:57,680
Speaker 1: thing built up.

664
00:30:57,720 --> 00:31:00,240
Speaker 3: There was like a bloody stump on the top.

665
00:31:00,400 --> 00:31:02,000
Speaker 1: Like a headless horseman. Almost.

666
00:31:02,160 --> 00:31:04,400
Speaker 3: So I was in a football jersey. I was a

667
00:31:04,400 --> 00:31:08,560
Speaker 3: headless as far as I know football. Yeah, yeah, that's

668
00:31:08,640 --> 00:31:11,640
Speaker 3: perfectly fun. It actually does. The NFL does not want

669
00:31:11,680 --> 00:31:12,480
Speaker 3: you to hear about this.

670
00:31:12,600 --> 00:31:15,240
Speaker 4: They don't want to talk about it. But we are

671
00:31:15,400 --> 00:31:16,960
Speaker 4: here today.

672
00:31:17,040 --> 00:31:19,160
Speaker 3: To talk about it. This is the new head issue

673
00:31:19,200 --> 00:31:25,680
Speaker 3: in the NFL. It's completely completely decapitation. Decapitation, well, I

674
00:31:25,720 --> 00:31:29,720
Speaker 3: mean speaking about things that no one wants to talk about.

675
00:31:29,760 --> 00:31:34,000
Speaker 3: There's something you know that I've been a little upset

676
00:31:34,040 --> 00:31:36,480
Speaker 3: about for the last half hours. Have we been talking,

677
00:31:36,720 --> 00:31:38,760
Speaker 3: I've been see thing I've been.

678
00:31:38,680 --> 00:31:41,080
Speaker 1: Seeing, keeping it under wraps.

679
00:31:41,240 --> 00:31:44,719
Speaker 3: Look, I've been working on myself and I'm trying to

680
00:31:44,760 --> 00:31:47,640
Speaker 3: just keep control. The podcast is called I said, no gifts.

681
00:31:48,200 --> 00:31:49,640
Speaker 3: I'm so excited you were coming.

682
00:31:49,440 --> 00:31:51,560
Speaker 1: Today and I'm so happy to be here.

683
00:31:51,680 --> 00:31:53,400
Speaker 3: Just thrilled to have you. I thought we'll have a

684
00:31:53,440 --> 00:31:57,640
Speaker 3: good time. I'll be able to go to the urgent.

685
00:31:57,680 --> 00:32:01,160
Speaker 3: Care about my spider bite and my table perfect. Yeah,

686
00:32:01,200 --> 00:32:03,160
Speaker 3: so it was a little surprised. It was a little

687
00:32:03,880 --> 00:32:08,120
Speaker 3: thrown when you showed up in my backyard. Yeah, holding

688
00:32:09,680 --> 00:32:14,280
Speaker 3: what I would describe as two gift looking objects.

689
00:32:14,640 --> 00:32:17,720
Speaker 4: Well, this is just a little something, though, this is

690
00:32:17,760 --> 00:32:20,960
Speaker 4: not an actual gift, just a little something. Okay, Okay,

691
00:32:21,000 --> 00:32:23,400
Speaker 4: this one is a gift. But I will say this,

692
00:32:23,520 --> 00:32:28,480
Speaker 4: you don't invite a Southern woman into your backyard and

693
00:32:29,480 --> 00:32:31,200
Speaker 4: expect that she's not going to bring you a gift,

694
00:32:31,280 --> 00:32:32,800
Speaker 4: whether or not you say has no.

695
00:32:34,760 --> 00:32:35,480
Speaker 1: Meaning to her.

696
00:32:36,840 --> 00:32:40,239
Speaker 4: It would go against everything that she's been raised to

697
00:32:40,360 --> 00:32:45,040
Speaker 4: believe to be true about what a woman is if

698
00:32:45,040 --> 00:32:47,000
Speaker 4: she were to walk in empty handed. So this is

699
00:32:47,080 --> 00:32:50,800
Speaker 4: just a little something that we'll share, and this one.

700
00:32:52,200 --> 00:32:54,600
Speaker 1: Is a gift, for sure. It's a gift.

701
00:32:54,720 --> 00:32:58,080
Speaker 3: Okay, Well, I'm glad you've been honest. Should I open

702
00:32:58,640 --> 00:32:59,800
Speaker 3: these here on the podcast?

703
00:33:00,080 --> 00:33:01,680
Speaker 1: Yeah? I think that that's probably good.

704
00:33:23,480 --> 00:33:25,880
Speaker 3: Okay, what do you think that you've got the little

705
00:33:25,920 --> 00:33:30,280
Speaker 3: something that you said? Let's open that first. It's get

706
00:33:30,480 --> 00:33:34,920
Speaker 3: an adorable Santa Claus tin with a Santa Claus clauses

707
00:33:34,960 --> 00:33:39,600
Speaker 3: being spooned by a reindeer that's on a sleigh.

708
00:33:39,640 --> 00:33:41,680
Speaker 1: They're going down the hill on a yoga mat. It

709
00:33:41,680 --> 00:33:44,400
Speaker 1: looks like, oh, it just looks like a yoga but

710
00:33:44,960 --> 00:33:45,280
Speaker 1: it's not.

711
00:33:45,440 --> 00:33:50,000
Speaker 4: There's no legs underneath the sleigh no legs, using his core,

712
00:33:50,120 --> 00:33:50,920
Speaker 4: which I appreciate.

713
00:33:51,040 --> 00:33:53,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, of course. And it's nice to see the deer

714
00:33:54,160 --> 00:33:56,120
Speaker 3: in the back for once, you know.

715
00:33:56,440 --> 00:34:01,800
Speaker 4: Honestly, honestly, to see him fronting the ship for once.

716
00:34:01,880 --> 00:34:05,120
Speaker 3: It's so damn a little break. This is the power

717
00:34:05,160 --> 00:34:07,000
Speaker 3: of unions. Let me open.

718
00:34:07,000 --> 00:34:08,120
Speaker 4: I don't know if you're gonna be able to do

719
00:34:08,160 --> 00:34:09,680
Speaker 4: it with one hand.

720
00:34:09,920 --> 00:34:10,759
Speaker 1: You can, you can do it.

721
00:34:11,080 --> 00:34:14,640
Speaker 3: People to hear me struggle, That's what I was like.

722
00:34:15,080 --> 00:34:19,640
Speaker 1: I was like, shut up, let him speak, let him speak.

723
00:34:20,680 --> 00:34:22,200
Speaker 3: I smelled something immediately that.

724
00:34:22,200 --> 00:34:25,080
Speaker 4: Smells wonderful, smells good. Are you allergic to anything?

725
00:34:25,200 --> 00:34:26,440
Speaker 3: Nothing? Are you allergic to anything?

726
00:34:27,760 --> 00:34:30,359
Speaker 1: There's a lot of food I don't like, but to.

727
00:34:30,280 --> 00:34:32,680
Speaker 3: Get into that in a moment. But yeah, let's see

728
00:34:32,719 --> 00:34:36,600
Speaker 3: what this is? Oh is this fudge? Did you make this?

729
00:34:36,800 --> 00:34:39,399
Speaker 1: We made it last night? Hitting me and my chill?

730
00:34:39,560 --> 00:34:41,719
Speaker 3: Okay, am I allowed to hand, of.

731
00:34:41,680 --> 00:34:44,440
Speaker 4: Course, as long as you're not. I'm going to have

732
00:34:44,520 --> 00:34:46,359
Speaker 4: one puts in it because I didn't know.

733
00:34:46,760 --> 00:34:49,960
Speaker 1: Right, that's very but just be careful because it is

734
00:34:50,080 --> 00:34:50,880
Speaker 1: quite delicious.

735
00:34:50,880 --> 00:34:53,200
Speaker 3: Do you want one? You don't have to have no, I.

736
00:34:52,920 --> 00:35:00,440
Speaker 1: I've had been having very It's it's really good. Oh

737
00:35:00,480 --> 00:35:03,120
Speaker 1: how is it so good? You're well? It is filled

738
00:35:03,160 --> 00:35:05,160
Speaker 1: with so many sugars and fats.

739
00:35:04,880 --> 00:35:07,279
Speaker 3: Guys, tastes and is this your recipe?

740
00:35:07,360 --> 00:35:10,120
Speaker 4: It is the recipe on the back of the magic

741
00:35:10,200 --> 00:35:15,000
Speaker 4: fluff container, which is the recipe that my grandmother used

742
00:35:15,040 --> 00:35:19,759
Speaker 4: to make. It's just that marshmallow fluff container and then

743
00:35:19,800 --> 00:35:21,960
Speaker 4: you like follow it to now you have to like

744
00:35:22,000 --> 00:35:24,080
Speaker 4: follow a QR code. But it used to be printed

745
00:35:24,120 --> 00:35:27,600
Speaker 4: on the back of the marshmallow fluff thing, and it's

746
00:35:27,680 --> 00:35:31,319
Speaker 4: just like seven ingredients. It's yeah. She used to make

747
00:35:31,360 --> 00:35:34,520
Speaker 4: it for everything. And I actually made it in her pot.

748
00:35:34,680 --> 00:35:37,239
Speaker 4: That one that uh, that's so sweet, the one that

749
00:35:37,320 --> 00:35:39,960
Speaker 4: she uh that we that I took from her.

750
00:35:40,120 --> 00:35:42,040
Speaker 3: I feel so rude just eating in front of you.

751
00:35:42,480 --> 00:35:43,120
Speaker 1: Eat it, eat it.

752
00:35:43,200 --> 00:35:44,080
Speaker 3: This is phenomenal.

753
00:35:44,160 --> 00:35:44,640
Speaker 2: Eat it.

754
00:35:46,200 --> 00:35:47,480
Speaker 3: Now there's an artist. We can all go.

755
00:35:47,600 --> 00:35:48,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, let's get a high tip.

756
00:35:51,080 --> 00:35:58,480
Speaker 3: This is so good. So it's I imagine marshmallow fluff, sugar.

757
00:35:57,280 --> 00:35:59,680
Speaker 1: No, just the white sugar, white sugar.

758
00:36:00,200 --> 00:36:04,640
Speaker 3: Butter, yeah, margarine, margarine? Is that really rather than butter?

759
00:36:04,760 --> 00:36:04,960
Speaker 1: Yeah?

760
00:36:05,000 --> 00:36:09,360
Speaker 3: Oh, how fascinating vanilla? Huh? How many ingredients have I

761
00:36:09,360 --> 00:36:11,359
Speaker 3: got so far? Why do I care?

762
00:36:12,000 --> 00:36:16,279
Speaker 4: I'm not sure it condensed milk, oh, okay, and then

763
00:36:16,320 --> 00:36:19,120
Speaker 4: the semisweet chocolate, Oh delicious, And I.

764
00:36:19,080 --> 00:36:21,000
Speaker 1: Did I did do gerrar delli.

765
00:36:21,080 --> 00:36:21,239
Speaker 2: Oh.

766
00:36:21,280 --> 00:36:23,240
Speaker 1: I think that that makes all the difference.

767
00:36:23,280 --> 00:36:25,919
Speaker 3: That's the when I'm making cookies. That's the only chip

768
00:36:25,920 --> 00:36:26,880
Speaker 3: I'll use at this point.

769
00:36:26,920 --> 00:36:28,760
Speaker 1: Now, are you a baker.

770
00:36:28,960 --> 00:36:31,000
Speaker 3: I am a baker. I've never made fudge before.

771
00:36:31,280 --> 00:36:32,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's very satisfying.

772
00:36:32,760 --> 00:36:35,600
Speaker 4: Makes a big, like brownie size pan, right, and then

773
00:36:35,640 --> 00:36:38,000
Speaker 4: you can just give it out as a gift or whatever.

774
00:36:38,160 --> 00:36:39,360
Speaker 3: Is it difficult?

775
00:36:39,560 --> 00:36:39,680
Speaker 1: No?

776
00:36:40,239 --> 00:36:43,520
Speaker 3: Is it stressful? No, even though you're like having a

777
00:36:43,560 --> 00:36:45,320
Speaker 3: stir on the st Yeah.

778
00:36:45,160 --> 00:36:47,279
Speaker 1: You stir it until it boils, and then you stir

779
00:36:47,360 --> 00:36:48,120
Speaker 1: for five minutes.

780
00:36:48,400 --> 00:36:54,040
Speaker 3: Okay the heat, No, you keep the heat on, keep.

781
00:36:53,920 --> 00:36:57,120
Speaker 4: It boiling five minutes and then turn off the heat.

782
00:36:57,160 --> 00:37:01,160
Speaker 4: And then you mix in the chocolate, then the marshmallow,

783
00:37:01,200 --> 00:37:01,920
Speaker 4: and then the vanilla.

784
00:37:02,120 --> 00:37:03,040
Speaker 3: Oh fascinating.

785
00:37:03,080 --> 00:37:05,319
Speaker 1: So it's the condensed milk, the sugar, and.

786
00:37:05,280 --> 00:37:08,799
Speaker 4: The margarie margarine that are that are combining to begin

787
00:37:08,880 --> 00:37:09,759
Speaker 4: with margarine.

788
00:37:09,920 --> 00:37:11,600
Speaker 3: Did you already have margarine in your home? Or you

789
00:37:11,600 --> 00:37:12,640
Speaker 3: had to go get margine?

790
00:37:12,640 --> 00:37:14,520
Speaker 1: I had to go get all of us because.

791
00:37:14,280 --> 00:37:17,000
Speaker 3: I don't feel like anyone just has margarine anymore.

792
00:37:16,600 --> 00:37:19,640
Speaker 4: Not anymore, and it doesn't they won't say margarine on it.

793
00:37:19,920 --> 00:37:21,960
Speaker 3: Oh what do they call it? Butterspread or something.

794
00:37:22,719 --> 00:37:26,239
Speaker 4: It's like, well, this brand is Imperial, but I recognize

795
00:37:26,239 --> 00:37:27,960
Speaker 4: that as the famous margarine.

796
00:37:28,360 --> 00:37:28,480
Speaker 2: Right.

797
00:37:29,760 --> 00:37:33,760
Speaker 4: But it's like it's vegetabil oil basically, so you could

798
00:37:34,120 --> 00:37:35,560
Speaker 4: maybe I don't know if it's vegan.

799
00:37:36,239 --> 00:37:38,680
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I wonder that feels like it would be

800
00:37:38,760 --> 00:37:39,720
Speaker 3: vegan right.

801
00:37:39,920 --> 00:37:42,640
Speaker 4: Probably they probably trying to get some kind of horse

802
00:37:42,680 --> 00:37:43,520
Speaker 4: stuff into.

803
00:37:43,360 --> 00:37:46,960
Speaker 3: It, margin horse teeth or something.

804
00:37:49,440 --> 00:37:51,120
Speaker 1: Anyway, it's a decadent treat.

805
00:37:51,239 --> 00:37:54,160
Speaker 3: It's so good. How often are you making treats around

806
00:37:54,200 --> 00:37:54,520
Speaker 3: the house?

807
00:37:55,080 --> 00:37:57,480
Speaker 4: I love to bake as well, you do, yes, So

808
00:37:57,520 --> 00:38:00,360
Speaker 4: what are you bacon? I don't bake that often. I

809
00:38:00,400 --> 00:38:02,440
Speaker 4: do love to do it, just like so much to

810
00:38:02,480 --> 00:38:05,840
Speaker 4: clean up. And again we've established how much laundry.

811
00:38:05,520 --> 00:38:10,680
Speaker 1: I'm doing your head, But yeah, I do love like everyone,

812
00:38:10,760 --> 00:38:13,000
Speaker 1: so whim I'll do something like I want to make

813
00:38:13,080 --> 00:38:15,279
Speaker 1: Queen a Mon's. You know which are these?

814
00:38:15,360 --> 00:38:15,440
Speaker 2: Like?

815
00:38:15,920 --> 00:38:16,799
Speaker 1: Do you know what those are?

816
00:38:16,960 --> 00:38:17,400
Speaker 3: No? Idea?

817
00:38:17,840 --> 00:38:18,600
Speaker 1: There are these.

818
00:38:18,440 --> 00:38:24,640
Speaker 4: Really crazy layered pastries, like butter layered pastries that that

819
00:38:24,719 --> 00:38:28,240
Speaker 4: you cover in sugar, and then bake in like they

820
00:38:28,239 --> 00:38:30,799
Speaker 4: form up into this little muffiny kind of thing.

821
00:38:31,560 --> 00:38:32,560
Speaker 1: They have them at Sibyl.

822
00:38:33,520 --> 00:38:38,000
Speaker 3: It's almost like a what were those the fad cruffins?

823
00:38:38,680 --> 00:38:40,160
Speaker 3: That's like a croissant muffin.

824
00:38:40,400 --> 00:38:43,799
Speaker 1: Yeah, they're way better than that. And how do you

825
00:38:43,840 --> 00:38:47,360
Speaker 1: spell that queen amn? I think it starts with a

826
00:38:47,480 --> 00:38:52,759
Speaker 1: k O k o U I G N and am on.

827
00:38:53,080 --> 00:38:55,840
Speaker 4: I don't know if that's a m oh okay a

828
00:38:56,560 --> 00:38:59,520
Speaker 4: n yeah, something like that.

829
00:38:59,640 --> 00:39:00,640
Speaker 1: I don't I think it's French.

830
00:39:00,680 --> 00:39:01,920
Speaker 3: It sounds like queena'm on.

831
00:39:02,640 --> 00:39:03,839
Speaker 1: Yeah. I like it though.

832
00:39:03,960 --> 00:39:07,480
Speaker 3: So you make those? Are you ever making a cocaine?

833
00:39:07,600 --> 00:39:09,720
Speaker 4: I'll like I make I like to make a cake

834
00:39:09,840 --> 00:39:12,800
Speaker 4: or a yeah, like on a birthday, I'll make my

835
00:39:13,080 --> 00:39:16,600
Speaker 4: my mom her favorite cake, like caramel cake. This year

836
00:39:16,640 --> 00:39:19,560
Speaker 4: I ordered one from gold Belly. Oh, it came all

837
00:39:19,600 --> 00:39:21,440
Speaker 4: the way from like South Carolina or something.

838
00:39:21,560 --> 00:39:23,000
Speaker 3: Was it worth it? It was worth it.

839
00:39:23,320 --> 00:39:26,279
Speaker 4: Caramel cake is really I've never had hard to make.

840
00:39:26,800 --> 00:39:31,560
Speaker 4: It's a real Southern thing. The caramels almost like this consistency,

841
00:39:31,680 --> 00:39:34,680
Speaker 4: like it turns into like a kind of a fudge

842
00:39:34,920 --> 00:39:38,680
Speaker 4: but it's caramel, but it's delicious.

843
00:39:38,680 --> 00:39:43,080
Speaker 3: And then just like white cake or something. Yeah, Southerners

844
00:39:43,120 --> 00:39:45,960
Speaker 3: love just a purely like unbelievable sweet dessert.

845
00:39:46,200 --> 00:39:49,160
Speaker 4: Absolutely. We had banana pudding the other night. That's another

846
00:39:49,200 --> 00:39:50,800
Speaker 4: one of my faves. Banana pudding.

847
00:39:50,880 --> 00:39:53,840
Speaker 3: Nana pudding I love, but I can eat about three spoonfuls.

848
00:39:54,040 --> 00:39:54,279
Speaker 1: Okay.

849
00:39:54,400 --> 00:39:56,880
Speaker 3: I've been trying to formulate in my mind, like a

850
00:39:56,880 --> 00:39:59,000
Speaker 3: banana pudding with peanut butter or something to make it

851
00:39:59,040 --> 00:40:00,000
Speaker 3: slightly salty.

852
00:40:00,520 --> 00:40:03,560
Speaker 1: That's like a banafi? Do you know? Do you know

853
00:40:03,640 --> 00:40:05,479
Speaker 1: this like a British thing? I only know that because

854
00:40:05,520 --> 00:40:07,400
Speaker 1: of the great British making treat.

855
00:40:07,560 --> 00:40:09,480
Speaker 3: And I don't what is banafi?

856
00:40:10,360 --> 00:40:14,720
Speaker 4: I don't know if it's like banana top coffee, yeah, peanut,

857
00:40:14,760 --> 00:40:16,320
Speaker 4: maybe peanut butter or something?

858
00:40:16,680 --> 00:40:16,879
Speaker 3: Right?

859
00:40:17,200 --> 00:40:19,040
Speaker 1: Right, you know banana? Do you I just eat a

860
00:40:19,080 --> 00:40:20,800
Speaker 1: banana peanut butter sandwich.

861
00:40:21,000 --> 00:40:22,080
Speaker 3: Oh, that sounds delicious.

862
00:40:22,120 --> 00:40:23,800
Speaker 1: I don't think I've a bit of honey.

863
00:40:24,560 --> 00:40:27,520
Speaker 3: Interesting. I've ever put a banana in a sandwich with

864
00:40:27,560 --> 00:40:31,440
Speaker 3: peanut butter, but I've had the combination. It's very good combination,

865
00:40:31,520 --> 00:40:36,000
Speaker 3: and it's a healthy latch perfectly use like four or

866
00:40:36,040 --> 00:40:40,759
Speaker 3: five slices of bread. Yeah and yes, okay, so you

867
00:40:40,840 --> 00:40:43,319
Speaker 3: made this fudge? What gave you the idea you just

868
00:40:43,320 --> 00:40:45,120
Speaker 3: wanted to bring a treat.

869
00:40:44,960 --> 00:40:47,759
Speaker 1: I wanted I was thinking about.

870
00:40:47,760 --> 00:40:51,040
Speaker 4: Okay, so when I give a gift, generally speaking, I'm

871
00:40:51,080 --> 00:40:54,880
Speaker 4: thinking about the other person, not myself. And I don't

872
00:40:54,960 --> 00:40:58,279
Speaker 4: know you that well, and I don't know, but I

873
00:40:58,840 --> 00:41:02,640
Speaker 4: always know that something akin to this is going to

874
00:41:02,680 --> 00:41:05,160
Speaker 4: go overwell because it shows effort.

875
00:41:04,880 --> 00:41:08,399
Speaker 3: And like believable amount of it, you know, and like.

876
00:41:08,400 --> 00:41:11,360
Speaker 4: A level of thoughtfulness, which I appreciate in a gift.

877
00:41:12,840 --> 00:41:17,560
Speaker 4: And also I think it touches on like my southern heritage.

878
00:41:17,880 --> 00:41:20,440
Speaker 4: And then I also get to like make it with

879
00:41:20,480 --> 00:41:23,280
Speaker 4: my kids, which is always a treat. And then also

880
00:41:23,400 --> 00:41:26,200
Speaker 4: my I think about my grandmother who used to make this.

881
00:41:26,440 --> 00:41:29,240
Speaker 1: Oh that's so lovely, and so you know, everyone wins.

882
00:41:29,360 --> 00:41:30,279
Speaker 3: What state are you from?

883
00:41:30,719 --> 00:41:32,320
Speaker 1: I grew up in Georgia, Georgia?

884
00:41:32,400 --> 00:41:34,759
Speaker 3: Okay, Well, they love a fudge and a.

885
00:41:35,280 --> 00:41:36,360
Speaker 1: Oh they love a fudge.

886
00:41:36,840 --> 00:41:38,120
Speaker 3: And does your mom now live here?

887
00:41:38,680 --> 00:41:40,520
Speaker 1: Both my parents live in Altadena now.

888
00:41:40,600 --> 00:41:43,360
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, okay, so you do have to kind of

889
00:41:43,360 --> 00:41:47,200
Speaker 3: fly in desserts on occasion to make them. It's kind

890
00:41:47,239 --> 00:41:51,719
Speaker 3: of authentically Southern. Do your kids enjoy What grades are

891
00:41:51,760 --> 00:41:54,279
Speaker 3: they in? First and fifth Okay, so they still enjoy

892
00:41:54,400 --> 00:41:56,759
Speaker 3: like doing crafts with mom, that kind of thing.

893
00:41:56,840 --> 00:42:00,680
Speaker 4: Yeah, baking is an interesting one because it all starts

894
00:42:00,719 --> 00:42:04,319
Speaker 4: out a nightmare, like they're arguing over which who gets

895
00:42:04,320 --> 00:42:08,520
Speaker 4: to do which one, you know, but then it starts

896
00:42:08,560 --> 00:42:11,360
Speaker 4: to even out and we like hit this sweet spot.

897
00:42:11,400 --> 00:42:14,200
Speaker 4: And my husband says he like he'll he just loves

898
00:42:14,239 --> 00:42:17,560
Speaker 4: to listen to us as we're talking, and I'm like, oh,

899
00:42:17,800 --> 00:42:20,719
Speaker 4: you know, and I'm like helping him learn how to

900
00:42:20,760 --> 00:42:26,279
Speaker 4: stir correctly or like praising her for, you know, being

901
00:42:26,320 --> 00:42:29,000
Speaker 4: gentle with the eggs, like, you know.

902
00:42:29,640 --> 00:42:31,359
Speaker 1: I really like to do it when I do it.

903
00:42:31,400 --> 00:42:36,759
Speaker 3: But yeah, yeah, that's a nice background noise. I yeah,

904
00:42:36,760 --> 00:42:39,040
Speaker 3: I feel like I can only make cookies. I think

905
00:42:39,080 --> 00:42:41,400
Speaker 3: I might just have to all occasionally make a brownie.

906
00:42:41,960 --> 00:42:42,960
Speaker 1: But brownies are great.

907
00:42:43,080 --> 00:42:45,080
Speaker 3: Brownies are great, but they feel like one step too

908
00:42:45,120 --> 00:42:46,719
Speaker 3: far all the time, where it's like I had to

909
00:42:46,719 --> 00:42:48,960
Speaker 3: do one extra thing, not even.

910
00:42:48,800 --> 00:42:52,640
Speaker 1: Just buy a mix though I certain boxes are knocked

911
00:42:52,640 --> 00:42:53,160
Speaker 1: out of the park.

912
00:42:53,360 --> 00:42:55,760
Speaker 4: You know, we made a chocolate cake from Whole foods

913
00:42:55,880 --> 00:42:59,560
Speaker 4: uh huh, because we were near I don't care for

914
00:42:59,560 --> 00:43:00,000
Speaker 4: Whole food.

915
00:43:00,280 --> 00:43:02,000
Speaker 1: I'll just say that out loud. Tear it.

916
00:43:02,080 --> 00:43:05,520
Speaker 4: I don't like the experience of being in a being

917
00:43:05,560 --> 00:43:09,680
Speaker 4: in there. But anyway, we were nearby and we needed

918
00:43:09,719 --> 00:43:13,400
Speaker 4: to make a chocolate cake because my daughter wanted to

919
00:43:13,400 --> 00:43:15,120
Speaker 4: make a chocolate cake for my birthday.

920
00:43:15,239 --> 00:43:16,719
Speaker 3: Oh is that right?

921
00:43:16,840 --> 00:43:20,080
Speaker 4: Or for Mother's Day or something. Anyway, our anniversary, that's

922
00:43:20,120 --> 00:43:22,359
Speaker 4: what it was. And so we bought. We just bought.

923
00:43:22,400 --> 00:43:24,280
Speaker 4: I was like, how can I make this as easy

924
00:43:24,280 --> 00:43:28,120
Speaker 4: for me as possible? So we just bought the regular chocolate.

925
00:43:27,719 --> 00:43:30,160
Speaker 3: Cake mix, like they're like a store brand.

926
00:43:30,080 --> 00:43:35,279
Speaker 4: Sixty sixty right, and then the icing mix, and then

927
00:43:35,320 --> 00:43:38,080
Speaker 4: we use salted butter instead of regular butter, and so

928
00:43:38,120 --> 00:43:41,520
Speaker 4: it was like a salted chocolate oh frosty, and it

929
00:43:41,600 --> 00:43:43,120
Speaker 4: was one of the best cakes I've ever had in

930
00:43:43,160 --> 00:43:43,680
Speaker 4: my life.

931
00:43:44,160 --> 00:43:46,600
Speaker 3: Mixes, brownie mixes I have bo a recent convert to,

932
00:43:46,719 --> 00:43:49,600
Speaker 3: and I'll use just that you get like a slightly

933
00:43:49,719 --> 00:43:52,839
Speaker 3: nicer brownie mix. They're so good. And I've been told

934
00:43:52,880 --> 00:43:55,719
Speaker 3: that if you use coffee instead of water, it'll taste better.

935
00:43:56,239 --> 00:43:58,160
Speaker 3: There are all these little tricks people have learned. Some

936
00:43:58,239 --> 00:44:00,440
Speaker 3: maybe yeah, I just need to lean on that more

937
00:44:00,560 --> 00:44:01,080
Speaker 3: or something.

938
00:44:01,280 --> 00:44:03,799
Speaker 1: You can use a pre mix, yeah, I would.

939
00:44:03,840 --> 00:44:05,520
Speaker 3: I would never use a pre mix for a cookie.

940
00:44:06,040 --> 00:44:08,360
Speaker 3: Never I feel like that that doesn't make any sense.

941
00:44:08,160 --> 00:44:09,680
Speaker 1: At all to Yeah, that's probably true.

942
00:44:10,160 --> 00:44:12,759
Speaker 3: But a brownie and a cake, I think.

943
00:44:13,760 --> 00:44:16,560
Speaker 1: But I've never made a cake in your whole life.

944
00:44:16,960 --> 00:44:18,800
Speaker 3: I don't think in my entire life, I've never baked

945
00:44:18,800 --> 00:44:21,040
Speaker 3: a cake. My mom did a lot of baking, and

946
00:44:21,080 --> 00:44:23,120
Speaker 3: she would bake cakes. But do you have it?

947
00:44:23,160 --> 00:44:24,000
Speaker 1: Do you like cake?

948
00:44:24,880 --> 00:44:25,160
Speaker 3: Cake?

949
00:44:25,239 --> 00:44:25,520
Speaker 2: For me?

950
00:44:26,160 --> 00:44:26,520
Speaker 1: Tell me?

951
00:44:27,080 --> 00:44:31,759
Speaker 3: Is a giant commitment. With a cookie, I can eat

952
00:44:31,800 --> 00:44:33,520
Speaker 3: one and then I can like kind of judge how

953
00:44:33,520 --> 00:44:36,520
Speaker 3: many more I want to eat it? With cake? I'm like,

954
00:44:36,600 --> 00:44:40,359
Speaker 3: I now have a little project, and if it's not incredible,

955
00:44:41,360 --> 00:44:44,520
Speaker 3: I'm just doing a boring thing through this entire slice

956
00:44:44,520 --> 00:44:47,520
Speaker 3: of cake. What about you? Do you like a cake?

957
00:44:48,120 --> 00:44:49,200
Speaker 1: Specific cakes?

958
00:44:49,440 --> 00:44:54,319
Speaker 3: Okay? Such a car? Yeah right? I have you been

959
00:44:54,360 --> 00:44:56,480
Speaker 3: to quarter Sheets and Echo Park the pizza place?

960
00:44:56,640 --> 00:44:57,240
Speaker 1: Uh uh?

961
00:44:57,320 --> 00:44:59,479
Speaker 3: They have something called a princess cake.

962
00:45:00,320 --> 00:45:06,560
Speaker 4: That is I already don't like it. Okay, tell me more. Wait, no,

963
00:45:06,719 --> 00:45:08,879
Speaker 4: this is the one I've had it. It's like it's

964
00:45:08,880 --> 00:45:10,879
Speaker 4: not like a thousand crape layers.

965
00:45:10,600 --> 00:45:13,040
Speaker 3: Or whatever with the with the oh that sounds good?

966
00:45:13,400 --> 00:45:14,560
Speaker 1: Is that that's not it?

967
00:45:14,560 --> 00:45:17,080
Speaker 3: It's a few layers. It's like white cake okay, then

968
00:45:17,280 --> 00:45:22,040
Speaker 3: raspberry stuff and then kareema, then cake yeah, and then

969
00:45:22,040 --> 00:45:26,920
Speaker 3: it has like a what's the mars pan shell on it.

970
00:45:26,920 --> 00:45:30,359
Speaker 3: It's beautiful and I'm not crazy about a really sweet thing,

971
00:45:30,440 --> 00:45:32,520
Speaker 3: but this I really like, you like it.

972
00:45:32,719 --> 00:45:35,359
Speaker 4: I don't want to shit on it, but I like

973
00:45:35,719 --> 00:45:39,560
Speaker 4: mars Apan to me is it just is always too

974
00:45:39,640 --> 00:45:40,720
Speaker 4: much right.

975
00:45:40,920 --> 00:45:44,520
Speaker 3: Right, sugar paste, mars forget.

976
00:45:44,239 --> 00:45:45,719
Speaker 1: It, forget about it.

977
00:45:46,040 --> 00:45:48,480
Speaker 4: Decorative at the very least, I guess if it's all

978
00:45:48,520 --> 00:45:50,600
Speaker 4: over the edge and the outside of the cake makes

979
00:45:50,600 --> 00:45:53,120
Speaker 4: it look so beautiful and this is very thin, sure,

980
00:45:53,800 --> 00:45:56,040
Speaker 4: but also put fruit in a cake. I'm out, you're

981
00:45:56,080 --> 00:45:57,719
Speaker 4: out like a strawberry.

982
00:45:57,880 --> 00:46:00,440
Speaker 1: I mean, you know, like at all the work parties

983
00:46:00,440 --> 00:46:03,319
Speaker 1: they do like a strawberry cream cake because they think

984
00:46:03,320 --> 00:46:05,799
Speaker 1: everybody's gonna like love how deca it it is. And

985
00:46:05,840 --> 00:46:08,239
Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm out, I'm out.

986
00:46:08,600 --> 00:46:11,400
Speaker 4: Like, give me a red velvet, give me like a

987
00:46:11,480 --> 00:46:14,760
Speaker 4: you know, something that is in the like fried green tomatoes, cookboat,

988
00:46:15,120 --> 00:46:17,120
Speaker 4: you know what I mean, Like give me that completely.

989
00:46:17,400 --> 00:46:20,520
Speaker 3: I mean I need I almost always need chocolate. Otherwise

990
00:46:20,520 --> 00:46:23,640
Speaker 3: I'm like, okay, this is a C plus at best. Yeah,

991
00:46:23,680 --> 00:46:27,560
Speaker 3: if it's not a chocolate dessert. But this princess cake,

992
00:46:27,600 --> 00:46:28,759
Speaker 3: for whatever reason.

993
00:46:28,480 --> 00:46:30,280
Speaker 1: Has checks your boxing.

994
00:46:30,480 --> 00:46:34,240
Speaker 3: Nice to look at love whipped cream. Yeah, but I'm

995
00:46:34,280 --> 00:46:36,600
Speaker 3: basically on the same page with you as fruit. But

996
00:46:36,640 --> 00:46:39,480
Speaker 3: I also don't like a birthday cake cake? Is that

997
00:46:39,520 --> 00:46:41,480
Speaker 3: what those are called? The ones that the sprinkles, the

998
00:46:41,520 --> 00:46:42,840
Speaker 3: colorful stuff in them.

999
00:46:43,000 --> 00:46:46,000
Speaker 1: Like the milk bar or whatever, like those cakes?

1000
00:46:46,120 --> 00:46:47,399
Speaker 3: Yeah, crazy about that thing.

1001
00:46:47,520 --> 00:46:50,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, that woman is a genius though.

1002
00:46:49,880 --> 00:46:52,799
Speaker 3: She's really kind of a mad scientist. Yeah.

1003
00:46:52,880 --> 00:46:56,319
Speaker 4: I watched her like Chef's Table me too. Yeah, I

1004
00:46:56,360 --> 00:46:58,400
Speaker 4: love that show, but I can only watch it. I

1005
00:46:58,400 --> 00:47:00,960
Speaker 4: can only take it for so long before and then

1006
00:47:01,000 --> 00:47:01,399
Speaker 4: I'm like.

1007
00:47:01,360 --> 00:47:04,800
Speaker 1: We're going to bout a fucking what's happening?

1008
00:47:05,440 --> 00:47:08,440
Speaker 3: People can eat this ram nobody's allowed to eat this.

1009
00:47:10,520 --> 00:47:14,120
Speaker 4: But but she seemed accessible and like I recognized her,

1010
00:47:14,320 --> 00:47:17,040
Speaker 4: like the way she was raised and the women that

1011
00:47:17,160 --> 00:47:19,880
Speaker 4: raised her. And I was like, this is incredible that

1012
00:47:19,920 --> 00:47:24,520
Speaker 4: she's like putting like the flavor of cereal milk, which

1013
00:47:24,560 --> 00:47:29,040
Speaker 4: I don't like that flavor, but like, wow, into something,

1014
00:47:29,160 --> 00:47:30,320
Speaker 4: you know, like the ice cream.

1015
00:47:31,880 --> 00:47:32,800
Speaker 1: Have you ever tasted it?

1016
00:47:33,360 --> 00:47:35,960
Speaker 4: It is not called this anymore, but it's called crack pie.

1017
00:47:36,480 --> 00:47:38,799
Speaker 4: It's one of the best things ever known to man.

1018
00:47:38,840 --> 00:47:40,359
Speaker 4: They call it the milk bar pie now and they

1019
00:47:40,360 --> 00:47:41,120
Speaker 4: will also.

1020
00:47:40,880 --> 00:47:41,520
Speaker 1: Ship it to you.

1021
00:47:41,520 --> 00:47:42,080
Speaker 3: But there's one.

1022
00:47:42,239 --> 00:47:45,440
Speaker 4: There's one in Mals. Yeah, they used to have. My

1023
00:47:45,520 --> 00:47:48,600
Speaker 4: husband and I. They would set up shop at the

1024
00:47:48,800 --> 00:47:54,480
Speaker 4: Union Square Farmer's market, like the Holiday Village York, and

1025
00:47:54,600 --> 00:47:56,360
Speaker 4: we would go and you could buy a slice of

1026
00:47:56,400 --> 00:47:58,080
Speaker 4: it and just like put it in your hand and

1027
00:47:58,120 --> 00:47:59,200
Speaker 4: just eat it off your hand.

1028
00:47:59,640 --> 00:48:02,000
Speaker 3: It's uh, it's such a perfect combination of flight.

1029
00:48:02,080 --> 00:48:02,720
Speaker 1: Oh my god.

1030
00:48:04,360 --> 00:48:06,440
Speaker 3: This must have been before they really expanded.

1031
00:48:07,480 --> 00:48:07,960
Speaker 1: I think so.

1032
00:48:08,040 --> 00:48:11,160
Speaker 4: I don't think she had her own shop yet. She

1033
00:48:11,280 --> 00:48:16,799
Speaker 4: was a pastry chef at Momofuku and then maybe she

1034
00:48:16,880 --> 00:48:19,040
Speaker 4: had opened one of her shops or something or was

1035
00:48:19,080 --> 00:48:21,279
Speaker 4: doing I don't know. I don't really know her whole

1036
00:48:21,320 --> 00:48:22,239
Speaker 4: whole story.

1037
00:48:21,920 --> 00:48:24,880
Speaker 1: But I do know a lot of it. Surprising.

1038
00:48:25,440 --> 00:48:28,200
Speaker 3: You've kind of interacted with her at the beginning of

1039
00:48:28,239 --> 00:48:32,240
Speaker 3: her career journey. Yeah, it was so episode of TV

1040
00:48:32,360 --> 00:48:32,799
Speaker 3: about her.

1041
00:48:33,840 --> 00:48:38,759
Speaker 1: Yeah, I get her newsletter. I do. I signed up

1042
00:48:38,760 --> 00:48:39,920
Speaker 1: for it. I wanted to support her.

1043
00:48:40,080 --> 00:48:43,000
Speaker 3: What is her newsletter? Is it like a substick it?

1044
00:48:43,400 --> 00:48:46,279
Speaker 1: No, you sign up and it comes into your email. Yeah,

1045
00:48:46,400 --> 00:48:48,279
Speaker 1: not I mean, you don't go to somewhere to see it,

1046
00:48:50,560 --> 00:48:54,200
Speaker 1: or there might be recipes. I haven't read it in

1047
00:48:54,239 --> 00:48:58,319
Speaker 1: a while, but yeah, okay, yeah.

1048
00:48:57,560 --> 00:48:59,920
Speaker 3: Well I think we should open the gift. I think

1049
00:49:00,040 --> 00:49:02,719
Speaker 3: we should see what's happening there. Let me close the

1050
00:49:02,719 --> 00:49:08,839
Speaker 3: fudge for a minute. This is just unbelievable. Okay, Now

1051
00:49:08,840 --> 00:49:15,080
Speaker 3: this gift isn't a beautiful uh like orange orange rap

1052
00:49:15,160 --> 00:49:19,239
Speaker 3: their little pictures right, very California, and it's just too

1053
00:49:19,320 --> 00:49:22,520
Speaker 3: bridger from Lenen, very sweet. Okay, I'm going to open

1054
00:49:22,560 --> 00:49:26,640
Speaker 3: it up. Oh this is well wrapped. I like, look

1055
00:49:26,640 --> 00:49:30,040
Speaker 3: how satisfying that is to open? Yeah, almost clicks.

1056
00:49:30,680 --> 00:49:33,560
Speaker 4: This is rapping, is I know it's what is so wasteful,

1057
00:49:33,600 --> 00:49:35,839
Speaker 4: but it's it makes it.

1058
00:49:35,840 --> 00:49:37,359
Speaker 1: It takes it to the next so.

1059
00:49:37,440 --> 00:49:41,120
Speaker 3: Much unless I'm doing it and then it's directing and

1060
00:49:42,000 --> 00:49:44,399
Speaker 3: feel Okay, I'm pulling it out.

1061
00:49:45,040 --> 00:49:48,239
Speaker 1: It might be hard because it's got the coil there

1062
00:49:48,280 --> 00:49:48,600
Speaker 1: you go.

1063
00:49:49,400 --> 00:49:54,960
Speaker 3: Oh wait, is this a it's a music book standards

1064
00:49:55,000 --> 00:49:58,480
Speaker 3: all one hundred All Time Favorites, Yes, with songs like

1065
00:49:58,640 --> 00:50:03,480
Speaker 3: Ain't Misbehavior, blue Berry Hill, A Foggy Day, I Left

1066
00:50:03,520 --> 00:50:04,759
Speaker 3: my Heart in San Francisco.

1067
00:50:04,920 --> 00:50:06,680
Speaker 1: This one is my favorite one. Where is it?

1068
00:50:07,320 --> 00:50:08,400
Speaker 3: Don't cry out loud?

1069
00:50:08,480 --> 00:50:09,000
Speaker 1: Do you know that?

1070
00:50:09,320 --> 00:50:12,719
Speaker 3: Yeah? Of course? Ok, Wow, it's I mean this is

1071
00:50:12,800 --> 00:50:16,120
Speaker 3: like this is probably forty years old or something.

1072
00:50:16,239 --> 00:50:17,359
Speaker 1: Who knows how old it is.

1073
00:50:17,400 --> 00:50:20,720
Speaker 3: It's a really beautiful piano, vocal and guitar.

1074
00:50:20,880 --> 00:50:23,680
Speaker 1: Do you play oriental lessons.

1075
00:50:23,239 --> 00:50:26,600
Speaker 3: For from kindergarten till about ninth grade?

1076
00:50:26,719 --> 00:50:28,680
Speaker 1: And do you still play or pluck around?

1077
00:50:28,719 --> 00:50:32,120
Speaker 3: Hi? Fuck around? Yeah. My boyfriend actually knows how to

1078
00:50:32,120 --> 00:50:32,760
Speaker 3: play the piano.

1079
00:50:32,880 --> 00:50:36,600
Speaker 1: He does. Yes, I'm coming over, coming over.

1080
00:50:37,120 --> 00:50:37,880
Speaker 3: Do you have a piano?

1081
00:50:38,160 --> 00:50:38,640
Speaker 1: We don't.

1082
00:50:39,040 --> 00:50:40,719
Speaker 3: It's a nice I think it's a nice thing to have,

1083
00:50:40,800 --> 00:50:42,920
Speaker 3: even if you don't play the piano, because I'll go

1084
00:50:42,960 --> 00:50:45,160
Speaker 3: over there. Well, it's nice for the person playing it,

1085
00:50:45,239 --> 00:50:47,560
Speaker 3: because I imagine when I'm playing, other people are like,

1086
00:50:47,600 --> 00:50:51,799
Speaker 3: well you don't know how to play, so stop. But yeah,

1087
00:50:51,800 --> 00:50:53,160
Speaker 3: I took lessons for a long time and I can

1088
00:50:53,160 --> 00:50:57,760
Speaker 3: still form a chord. Yeah, and I know which keys

1089
00:50:57,840 --> 00:51:01,720
Speaker 3: go together essentially. That's helpful though enough.

1090
00:51:01,800 --> 00:51:02,320
Speaker 1: But I can't.

1091
00:51:02,440 --> 00:51:05,360
Speaker 3: I'm not I can't do both hands anymore. I'm not

1092
00:51:06,080 --> 00:51:07,000
Speaker 3: super skilled.

1093
00:51:07,239 --> 00:51:07,520
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1094
00:51:07,600 --> 00:51:09,560
Speaker 3: Do you did you take lessons or anything like this?

1095
00:51:09,680 --> 00:51:14,600
Speaker 4: I played the drums growing up. I played like I

1096
00:51:14,640 --> 00:51:18,000
Speaker 4: started just with snare and then did that all through

1097
00:51:18,040 --> 00:51:21,480
Speaker 4: middle started to do also like other percussion like timpany

1098
00:51:21,560 --> 00:51:25,960
Speaker 4: and chimes and glockenspiel and all that jazz, and then

1099
00:51:26,000 --> 00:51:29,680
Speaker 4: I marched snare all through high school and also played

1100
00:51:29,680 --> 00:51:31,279
Speaker 4: in the Symphonic band percussion.

1101
00:51:31,480 --> 00:51:31,840
Speaker 3: Wow.

1102
00:51:31,920 --> 00:51:35,400
Speaker 4: But I also loved to sing, although.

1103
00:51:36,560 --> 00:51:40,560
Speaker 1: I'm not I've never been paid for it.

1104
00:51:39,880 --> 00:51:43,399
Speaker 4: But I love I'm like so good at karaoke, and

1105
00:51:43,840 --> 00:51:45,840
Speaker 4: I loved to sing in the car. And then also

1106
00:51:46,560 --> 00:51:51,120
Speaker 4: I goofed with the guitar, but I'm still like very

1107
00:51:52,000 --> 00:51:55,560
Speaker 4: like it's very like herky jerky and probably not satisfying.

1108
00:51:55,760 --> 00:51:58,160
Speaker 3: Yeah that's me with the guitar, right, I can basically

1109
00:51:58,200 --> 00:52:01,080
Speaker 3: remember three ish chords. Not even with those, I can

1110
00:52:01,120 --> 00:52:05,080
Speaker 3: barely get to them. And yeah, so it ends up

1111
00:52:05,120 --> 00:52:07,480
Speaker 3: just being kind of a waste of time. Did you

1112
00:52:07,480 --> 00:52:08,840
Speaker 3: ever play in like a rock band.

1113
00:52:09,800 --> 00:52:13,280
Speaker 4: No, I did like a jazz ensemble a couple times

1114
00:52:13,320 --> 00:52:17,040
Speaker 4: on set, Like that's not too difficult to like to

1115
00:52:17,160 --> 00:52:20,880
Speaker 4: transition from like playing snare to playing like jazz set

1116
00:52:21,480 --> 00:52:26,719
Speaker 4: because it's very just straightforward, you know. Yeah, But I

1117
00:52:26,760 --> 00:52:30,239
Speaker 4: did do some set work, like I was trying to

1118
00:52:30,280 --> 00:52:32,920
Speaker 4: like do samba and some other stuff, and it just

1119
00:52:33,000 --> 00:52:36,040
Speaker 4: it's so it's like a whole new part of your

1120
00:52:36,080 --> 00:52:38,480
Speaker 4: brain to be able to do the bass drum, the

1121
00:52:38,520 --> 00:52:41,879
Speaker 4: high hat, the to you know that, all the.

1122
00:52:41,840 --> 00:52:46,000
Speaker 1: Other drums, the symbol. It just it it takes a

1123
00:52:46,000 --> 00:52:47,280
Speaker 1: lot of a lot of work.

1124
00:52:47,600 --> 00:52:50,239
Speaker 3: You're I mean, you're using it feels like every part

1125
00:52:50,239 --> 00:52:51,719
Speaker 3: of your brain to get your hands to move it

1126
00:52:51,800 --> 00:52:52,719
Speaker 3: and your feet to move it.

1127
00:52:52,800 --> 00:52:54,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, and all at the same time.

1128
00:52:54,239 --> 00:52:59,760
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's it's difficult, but it feels good, but it's difficult.

1129
00:53:00,120 --> 00:53:02,799
Speaker 3: A favorite drummer, you know.

1130
00:53:04,160 --> 00:53:06,160
Speaker 1: There's a woman named Evelyn Glennie.

1131
00:53:06,320 --> 00:53:11,279
Speaker 4: Okay, she's Irish and she's deaf, wow, and she's one

1132
00:53:11,320 --> 00:53:14,319
Speaker 4: of the like pre eminent percussionists in the world. And

1133
00:53:14,360 --> 00:53:18,680
Speaker 4: her albums are insane and she like plays with all

1134
00:53:18,840 --> 00:53:22,040
Speaker 4: kinds of instruments and sounds and now she looks like

1135
00:53:22,880 --> 00:53:25,800
Speaker 4: a witch, Like her hair is like white, and she's

1136
00:53:25,920 --> 00:53:28,480
Speaker 4: just if you ever see like a video of her

1137
00:53:28,640 --> 00:53:32,000
Speaker 4: or something, you're just like, what is happening?

1138
00:53:32,080 --> 00:53:33,840
Speaker 1: Like, But it's really, I.

1139
00:53:33,880 --> 00:53:36,480
Speaker 4: Mean, I down of course I paid for myth like

1140
00:53:36,640 --> 00:53:39,319
Speaker 4: I think I bought CDs of hers or something, you know,

1141
00:53:39,840 --> 00:53:43,960
Speaker 4: and then uploaded them onto my computer at some point

1142
00:53:44,600 --> 00:53:46,560
Speaker 4: to save them, put them in a binder.

1143
00:53:49,040 --> 00:53:50,959
Speaker 1: But yeah, I would say her.

1144
00:53:51,160 --> 00:53:55,240
Speaker 4: I'm not like there's certain like riffs, like drum riffs

1145
00:53:55,239 --> 00:53:58,439
Speaker 4: that I like love to like play along within the car,

1146
00:53:58,560 --> 00:53:59,399
Speaker 4: like Green Day.

1147
00:54:01,440 --> 00:54:03,719
Speaker 1: Do you have the time right right?

1148
00:54:04,160 --> 00:54:07,960
Speaker 4: Like that's the best to like fake air drum really

1149
00:54:08,000 --> 00:54:09,960
Speaker 4: impressive makeup and hair trailer.

1150
00:54:13,600 --> 00:54:15,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, air drumming it's so much.

1151
00:54:15,760 --> 00:54:18,680
Speaker 3: Even if you don't know how twist the you do

1152
00:54:18,719 --> 00:54:20,560
Speaker 3: the twisting, yeah, like.

1153
00:54:20,600 --> 00:54:22,799
Speaker 4: Roll the sticks in your hand like that and then

1154
00:54:22,840 --> 00:54:24,719
Speaker 4: you can like throw it up and catch it at

1155
00:54:24,760 --> 00:54:25,319
Speaker 4: the right time.

1156
00:54:25,520 --> 00:54:26,960
Speaker 1: It's just so satisfying.

1157
00:54:27,200 --> 00:54:29,040
Speaker 3: That feels like you should be doing that on TikTok

1158
00:54:29,160 --> 00:54:32,120
Speaker 3: or something that could be really terrified as am I,

1159
00:54:32,600 --> 00:54:34,960
Speaker 3: but I feel like I've just given you a real

1160
00:54:35,040 --> 00:54:38,920
Speaker 3: good You've given it to you could become TikTok lenin

1161
00:54:39,320 --> 00:54:40,279
Speaker 3: drumming Lennon.

1162
00:54:40,280 --> 00:54:42,839
Speaker 1: Yeah, come up with a better name.

1163
00:54:43,160 --> 00:54:47,760
Speaker 3: No, that's that's catchy. We've workedhop that before the podcast. Actually,

1164
00:54:47,800 --> 00:54:54,759
Speaker 3: I was just thinking, we've what are your karaoke go tos?

1165
00:54:55,200 --> 00:54:56,760
Speaker 1: It just depends on the room.

1166
00:54:57,200 --> 00:55:00,319
Speaker 4: I have again a playlist of songs that sing long

1167
00:55:00,400 --> 00:55:04,520
Speaker 4: songs that I can draw on, like my friend Michael

1168
00:55:04,560 --> 00:55:06,600
Speaker 4: and I used to go in New York, just the

1169
00:55:06,640 --> 00:55:08,880
Speaker 4: two of us to do karaoke, or sometimes I would

1170
00:55:08,880 --> 00:55:11,000
Speaker 4: just go by myself into a like a room because

1171
00:55:11,040 --> 00:55:13,839
Speaker 4: during the day it's like four dollars an hour and

1172
00:55:14,160 --> 00:55:18,360
Speaker 4: just sing until my heart's content wonder or he and

1173
00:55:18,360 --> 00:55:20,759
Speaker 4: I would go and do like Broadway duets, you know,

1174
00:55:21,000 --> 00:55:25,520
Speaker 4: which was wonderful, and then take turns. I love there's

1175
00:55:25,600 --> 00:55:29,920
Speaker 4: like some Martina McBride songs like carry Whatever you Say

1176
00:55:30,120 --> 00:55:33,279
Speaker 4: is a good one, Broken Wing is a good one,

1177
00:55:33,520 --> 00:55:38,720
Speaker 4: or like Reba Fancy that usually brings the house down.

1178
00:55:39,440 --> 00:55:43,520
Speaker 4: Some Dixie Chicks obviously, what else Pat Bedeitar hit Me

1179
00:55:43,560 --> 00:55:44,360
Speaker 4: with Your Best Shop.

1180
00:55:44,560 --> 00:55:46,359
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, that's got to be one of the all

1181
00:55:46,440 --> 00:55:49,040
Speaker 3: time most popular karaoke songs.

1182
00:55:49,080 --> 00:55:50,160
Speaker 1: Yeah probably.

1183
00:55:50,560 --> 00:55:55,759
Speaker 4: I like also now this is only for me. This

1184
00:55:55,840 --> 00:56:00,440
Speaker 4: would not be really, this would be torture, but that

1185
00:56:00,480 --> 00:56:03,640
Speaker 4: would be Bonnie Raids I Can't Make You Love Me.

1186
00:56:04,200 --> 00:56:09,480
Speaker 4: It's so it's the one of the hardest songs to sing,

1187
00:56:09,520 --> 00:56:11,880
Speaker 4: but it's like right, it sits right there in my

1188
00:56:11,920 --> 00:56:14,440
Speaker 4: alto range, and I love it. I also do like

1189
00:56:14,480 --> 00:56:18,160
Speaker 4: a bunch of like I like Chess the musical. I

1190
00:56:18,239 --> 00:56:21,760
Speaker 4: like a lot of musical but chess. You know chess,

1191
00:56:22,000 --> 00:56:22,520
Speaker 4: No chess?

1192
00:56:22,520 --> 00:56:26,600
Speaker 1: Okay. It was written by the by the abbi.

1193
00:56:26,440 --> 00:56:29,200
Speaker 4: Guys, Oh no way, and it came out I think

1194
00:56:29,239 --> 00:56:32,000
Speaker 4: in the eighties. So that song one Night in bunkok

1195
00:56:32,160 --> 00:56:33,200
Speaker 4: is from that musical.

1196
00:56:33,239 --> 00:56:35,040
Speaker 3: Oh I didn't know this, and we.

1197
00:56:34,960 --> 00:56:37,120
Speaker 4: Did it in college, so I was like made aware

1198
00:56:37,160 --> 00:56:41,000
Speaker 4: of it. And the woman who is like the advisor

1199
00:56:41,040 --> 00:56:45,920
Speaker 4: to the American chess player, Florence, is such a badass,

1200
00:56:46,120 --> 00:56:49,080
Speaker 4: and and then she switches teams and falls in love

1201
00:56:49,120 --> 00:56:49,680
Speaker 4: with the Russian.

1202
00:56:50,000 --> 00:56:50,640
Speaker 3: Oh of course.

1203
00:56:50,640 --> 00:56:50,960
Speaker 1: Okay.

1204
00:56:51,280 --> 00:56:54,680
Speaker 4: So there's some amazing ballads and the song I used

1205
00:56:54,680 --> 00:56:58,920
Speaker 4: to sing for auditions, Heaven Help my Heart. And then

1206
00:56:59,160 --> 00:57:03,160
Speaker 4: someone Else's story is an amazing song. Nobody's on Nobody's side.

1207
00:57:03,200 --> 00:57:07,520
Speaker 4: And then the two women duet. I know him so well.

1208
00:57:07,560 --> 00:57:11,040
Speaker 4: So if you get this will like kill everyone. If

1209
00:57:11,080 --> 00:57:14,600
Speaker 4: you find another woman who knows the song, like my

1210
00:57:14,640 --> 00:57:16,520
Speaker 4: friend Resa Sangery in New York, who was on my

1211
00:57:16,640 --> 00:57:20,480
Speaker 4: very first improv team, we will sing wasn't it good?

1212
00:57:20,920 --> 00:57:21,920
Speaker 1: Oh? So good?

1213
00:57:22,240 --> 00:57:24,680
Speaker 4: We do it in harmony, and it's just like everybody's

1214
00:57:24,760 --> 00:57:26,080
Speaker 4: losing their mind floored.

1215
00:57:26,400 --> 00:57:29,560
Speaker 3: Just I need to hear these. I mean, this sounds

1216
00:57:29,560 --> 00:57:30,920
Speaker 3: like roller skating music to me.

1217
00:57:31,240 --> 00:57:31,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, it is.

1218
00:57:32,000 --> 00:57:34,640
Speaker 4: I guess, yeah, I would love to do a chess

1219
00:57:34,680 --> 00:57:36,120
Speaker 4: themed roller skating party.

1220
00:57:36,880 --> 00:57:39,360
Speaker 3: Yeah, how yeah, I guess that one night in Bangkok

1221
00:57:39,440 --> 00:57:43,720
Speaker 3: really kind of just became its own thing. It did. Yeah,

1222
00:57:43,760 --> 00:57:48,160
Speaker 3: and it's such a weird, almost uncomfortable piece of music

1223
00:57:48,200 --> 00:57:48,800
Speaker 3: to listen to.

1224
00:57:49,240 --> 00:57:52,640
Speaker 1: Well, it's terrible, really right, Yeah, I think so, like

1225
00:57:52,760 --> 00:57:55,960
Speaker 1: so many of those songs in the mid eighties, just

1226
00:57:56,040 --> 00:57:59,240
Speaker 1: like things let's take this culture, thank you very much

1227
00:58:00,160 --> 00:58:03,320
Speaker 1: to a legit. I just listened to that song.

1228
00:58:04,360 --> 00:58:06,439
Speaker 4: Well, I was I was like, have you guys ever

1229
00:58:06,480 --> 00:58:08,520
Speaker 4: heard I was going to play Birdhouse and Your Soul

1230
00:58:08,880 --> 00:58:11,720
Speaker 4: okay for my kids because I'm in that place where

1231
00:58:11,720 --> 00:58:14,040
Speaker 4: I'm like, oh, they've never heard this song. This is

1232
00:58:14,080 --> 00:58:16,240
Speaker 4: so exciting. I get to share this and then they're

1233
00:58:16,240 --> 00:58:22,000
Speaker 4: like hmmm. But I was playing Maxwell's Silver Hammer, which

1234
00:58:22,040 --> 00:58:24,280
Speaker 4: is a Beatles song. So my dad used to play

1235
00:58:24,280 --> 00:58:25,800
Speaker 4: the guitar and I would sing that song and I

1236
00:58:25,840 --> 00:58:28,080
Speaker 4: loved that song. It's my favorite song. It's so dark

1237
00:58:28,120 --> 00:58:30,680
Speaker 4: and weird and we're playing it in the car and

1238
00:58:30,720 --> 00:58:35,160
Speaker 4: it's literally a serial It's about a serial killer killing

1239
00:58:35,200 --> 00:58:38,040
Speaker 4: people with his hammer, killing people with his hammer. The

1240
00:58:38,040 --> 00:58:40,800
Speaker 4: first girl is a girl on a date. What The

1241
00:58:40,880 --> 00:58:44,880
Speaker 4: second girl is a girl on the study group. The

1242
00:58:44,920 --> 00:58:48,480
Speaker 4: third is the or the teacher. The third one is

1243
00:58:48,520 --> 00:58:52,360
Speaker 4: the woman who is the judge for his trial. During

1244
00:58:52,440 --> 00:58:53,400
Speaker 4: his trial.

1245
00:58:53,160 --> 00:58:55,720
Speaker 3: He kills the judge. He cuss why did they let

1246
00:58:55,760 --> 00:58:56,640
Speaker 3: the hammer into court?

1247
00:58:56,960 --> 00:58:59,720
Speaker 1: Exactly? I don't know. That doesn't make sense.

1248
00:59:00,040 --> 00:59:02,360
Speaker 3: It's many things about this, And.

1249
00:59:02,280 --> 00:59:04,920
Speaker 4: So I was like, we're driving there, and Soyah was like,

1250
00:59:05,840 --> 00:59:08,560
Speaker 4: what why did they make this song?

1251
00:59:08,800 --> 00:59:11,160
Speaker 1: Ma? And I was like and Kyle was like, I

1252
00:59:11,360 --> 00:59:14,080
Speaker 1: love this And I was like, oh no, what have

1253
00:59:14,120 --> 00:59:15,720
Speaker 1: I done? Anyway?

1254
00:59:15,960 --> 00:59:17,920
Speaker 3: That's amazing. I mean I've never picked up on that

1255
00:59:17,960 --> 00:59:19,680
Speaker 3: with that song, I guess I've just never listened to

1256
00:59:19,680 --> 00:59:23,280
Speaker 3: it that closely. It's such a jaunty piece of music. Wow,

1257
00:59:23,320 --> 00:59:24,440
Speaker 3: I need to revisit now.

1258
00:59:24,480 --> 00:59:28,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, look at the words, let them speak.

1259
00:59:28,440 --> 00:59:30,520
Speaker 3: You know, I've got to learn to play one of

1260
00:59:30,520 --> 00:59:33,040
Speaker 3: these songs in here. I'm gonna I mean I used

1261
00:59:33,040 --> 00:59:36,600
Speaker 3: to have to memorize one song every year for piano recital. Yeah,

1262
00:59:36,680 --> 00:59:37,760
Speaker 3: and it's been a long time.

1263
00:59:37,640 --> 00:59:41,120
Speaker 1: Since they like classical or what were you?

1264
00:59:41,240 --> 00:59:43,160
Speaker 3: They were all over the place. I think my very

1265
00:59:43,200 --> 00:59:46,880
Speaker 3: first one in kindergarten was the Mickey Mouse Club theme song. Okay,

1266
00:59:48,080 --> 00:59:50,120
Speaker 3: and then we started, like you start to get interested,

1267
00:59:50,240 --> 00:59:52,280
Speaker 3: so like I would play these songs from the Disney

1268
00:59:52,280 --> 00:59:55,680
Speaker 3: animated movies, like from the Lion King or whatever. Yeah,

1269
00:59:55,720 --> 00:59:59,360
Speaker 3: and then kind of my most famous moment was I

1270
00:59:59,440 --> 01:00:02,640
Speaker 3: think it's sixth or seventh grade. I played I'll Be

1271
01:00:02,720 --> 01:00:07,200
Speaker 3: There for You from Friends the Friends, which.

1272
01:00:06,960 --> 01:00:10,040
Speaker 4: I'm suretioning you into the life that you live right now.

1273
01:00:10,520 --> 01:00:15,560
Speaker 3: Yes, professional theme song player, And I think that was

1274
01:00:15,640 --> 01:00:18,920
Speaker 3: kind of the end of my piano playing journey. That's

1275
01:00:18,960 --> 01:00:21,280
Speaker 3: what I really started to be. You peaked, I peaked.

1276
01:00:21,400 --> 01:00:24,560
Speaker 3: I could Where could I go from there? I could

1277
01:00:24,640 --> 01:00:26,160
Speaker 3: only embarrass myself rap.

1278
01:00:26,120 --> 01:00:26,919
Speaker 1: In the middle of it.

1279
01:00:27,360 --> 01:00:32,880
Speaker 3: I should have my teacher totally dropped the ball. Can

1280
01:00:32,920 --> 01:00:34,840
Speaker 3: you imagine a sixth grader?

1281
01:00:38,280 --> 01:00:41,440
Speaker 1: I love that. I would love that.

1282
01:00:41,840 --> 01:00:46,240
Speaker 3: I want to see. Okay, well, I'm gonna learn to

1283
01:00:46,280 --> 01:00:48,680
Speaker 3: play one of these. Yeah, maybe I'll learned to play

1284
01:00:48,680 --> 01:00:50,040
Speaker 3: Don't cry out loud?

1285
01:00:50,120 --> 01:00:51,240
Speaker 1: Oh, I would love it.

1286
01:00:51,520 --> 01:00:53,480
Speaker 4: Let me know so I can come over and I'm

1287
01:00:53,480 --> 01:00:56,000
Speaker 4: going to have a little in alphabetical order.

1288
01:00:57,040 --> 01:01:04,560
Speaker 3: Gone with the wind of someone. What's that despano Okay?

1289
01:01:04,720 --> 01:01:08,840
Speaker 1: Not written by someone with a Latin last name.

1290
01:01:09,080 --> 01:01:10,120
Speaker 3: Oh, there we go again.

1291
01:01:10,320 --> 01:01:13,560
Speaker 1: I don't want to set the world on fire. Here's that?

1292
01:01:13,760 --> 01:01:16,880
Speaker 4: Okay, so these are these are chances? Are we got

1293
01:01:16,880 --> 01:01:17,520
Speaker 4: to know that one?

1294
01:01:17,600 --> 01:01:19,560
Speaker 3: Right, I'll get by as long as I have you.

1295
01:01:20,320 --> 01:01:22,920
Speaker 1: I'm going to look in the glossary. Gotta be right.

1296
01:01:23,280 --> 01:01:29,720
Speaker 4: There we go Whens sixty six the very end. My

1297
01:01:29,760 --> 01:01:35,120
Speaker 4: mother is a therapist. And whenever this came on, the choruses,

1298
01:01:35,200 --> 01:01:39,120
Speaker 4: don't cry out loud, right right, keep it inside. Learn

1299
01:01:39,120 --> 01:01:40,640
Speaker 4: how to hide your feelings.

1300
01:01:41,000 --> 01:01:42,640
Speaker 3: This is what therapists always tell me.

1301
01:01:42,680 --> 01:01:47,280
Speaker 1: So my mom would go, well, that's not a good idea.

1302
01:01:47,560 --> 01:01:53,120
Speaker 1: I'll kill you anyway. I don't. I don't even know

1303
01:01:53,160 --> 01:01:55,800
Speaker 1: if I know the lyrics. I mean the verse anyway.

1304
01:01:56,040 --> 01:01:58,240
Speaker 3: I wonder what the what are we talking about with

1305
01:01:58,280 --> 01:02:00,960
Speaker 3: the verse? Let's see baby cry the day the circus

1306
01:02:01,000 --> 01:02:04,880
Speaker 3: came to town. Okay, that tracks because she didn't like

1307
01:02:05,400 --> 01:02:10,200
Speaker 3: parades just passing by her. Okay, well this is.

1308
01:02:10,440 --> 01:02:13,880
Speaker 1: Well, she has an affair with a clown, and she

1309
01:02:14,080 --> 01:02:15,960
Speaker 1: danced without a net on the wire.

1310
01:02:16,320 --> 01:02:18,640
Speaker 3: She became like an acrobat that was having an affair

1311
01:02:18,640 --> 01:02:22,080
Speaker 3: with a clown. Wow, I know a lot about uh,

1312
01:02:22,120 --> 01:02:24,800
Speaker 3: because you see baby, and then we kind of get

1313
01:02:24,800 --> 01:02:27,520
Speaker 3: to the universal chorus that everyone can relate to.

1314
01:02:28,120 --> 01:02:31,360
Speaker 4: This is the original baby though, Baby, don't you know?

1315
01:02:31,400 --> 01:02:34,240
Speaker 4: Don't put baby in the corner exactly, This is the original.

1316
01:02:34,280 --> 01:02:36,440
Speaker 3: Who would have thought that this was about a circus performer?

1317
01:02:36,520 --> 01:02:40,400
Speaker 1: And if you should fall, remember you almost had it all.

1318
01:02:40,640 --> 01:02:43,880
Speaker 1: Now this is a real full circle moment though, because

1319
01:02:44,080 --> 01:02:45,120
Speaker 1: that you.

1320
01:02:45,000 --> 01:02:46,280
Speaker 3: Almost this is perfect.

1321
01:02:46,320 --> 01:02:48,720
Speaker 1: This is you almost fell to your dead.

1322
01:02:48,800 --> 01:02:52,800
Speaker 3: You were so worried. I was terrified, My team was worried.

1323
01:02:54,000 --> 01:02:56,160
Speaker 3: The crew on the set was worried.

1324
01:02:56,520 --> 01:02:59,240
Speaker 1: Fly high and proud.

1325
01:03:00,360 --> 01:03:01,720
Speaker 3: And here I come on my back.

1326
01:03:03,920 --> 01:03:06,920
Speaker 1: Remember you all both hot.

1327
01:03:10,800 --> 01:03:14,080
Speaker 3: Wow, it's a beautiful song. And I'm gonna at least

1328
01:03:14,160 --> 01:03:15,919
Speaker 3: learn to play the right hand on the piano. Whether

1329
01:03:15,960 --> 01:03:18,000
Speaker 3: I'll be able to form the chords at the same time.

1330
01:03:18,360 --> 01:03:21,240
Speaker 3: But you really do just want the vocal melody. That's

1331
01:03:21,280 --> 01:03:24,280
Speaker 3: really anybody thinks about when you're listening to the piano

1332
01:03:24,800 --> 01:03:27,520
Speaker 3: at the piano recital or whatever. Maybe I'll add some

1333
01:03:27,560 --> 01:03:30,120
Speaker 3: collaps to that at the friends collapse.

1334
01:03:30,400 --> 01:03:32,880
Speaker 1: Don't cry out?

1335
01:03:33,520 --> 01:03:37,360
Speaker 3: Wow, Well, I think we should play a game. Okay, Yes,

1336
01:03:37,880 --> 01:03:40,000
Speaker 3: I need a number between one and ten from you.

1337
01:03:40,080 --> 01:03:40,480
Speaker 1: Seven.

1338
01:03:40,640 --> 01:03:43,040
Speaker 3: Okay, I need the number to do some light calculating.

1339
01:03:43,160 --> 01:03:45,360
Speaker 3: I have to get our game pieces. So right now,

1340
01:03:45,400 --> 01:03:48,919
Speaker 3: you can recommend something, promote something obviously not.

1341
01:03:49,160 --> 01:03:52,720
Speaker 1: The televisionthing that I've been doing.

1342
01:03:52,800 --> 01:03:55,600
Speaker 3: Or promote yourself in general. Do whatever you want.

1343
01:03:55,640 --> 01:03:56,280
Speaker 1: I'll be right back.

1344
01:03:56,440 --> 01:04:01,400
Speaker 4: Okay, Hey, everybody, it's Lennon. You can follow me on

1345
01:04:01,480 --> 01:04:05,840
Speaker 4: all the social media's at lenin Parum. You can follow

1346
01:04:05,880 --> 01:04:13,280
Speaker 4: my playlists on Spotify, where they're mostly light favorites, Rot yak, Rot, Nope,

1347
01:04:14,120 --> 01:04:15,440
Speaker 4: yacht rock.

1348
01:04:15,600 --> 01:04:16,240
Speaker 1: Et cetera.

1349
01:04:17,480 --> 01:04:21,120
Speaker 4: You can listen to old podcasts that I did called

1350
01:04:21,160 --> 01:04:24,360
Speaker 4: wamp it Up. You can buy my friend Dan O'Brien's

1351
01:04:24,760 --> 01:04:29,280
Speaker 4: three books that just came out. Those are beautiful, beautiful writings.

1352
01:04:29,720 --> 01:04:33,760
Speaker 3: Yeah, perfectly used time considering the circumstances of not being

1353
01:04:33,760 --> 01:04:37,400
Speaker 3: able to talk about. Hopefully by now the strike. At

1354
01:04:37,520 --> 01:04:40,080
Speaker 3: the release of this episode, the strike will be over. Otherwise,

1355
01:04:40,120 --> 01:04:41,320
Speaker 3: I mean, I think it really just.

1356
01:04:41,240 --> 01:04:45,200
Speaker 1: Come out in twenty twenty seven. That's what I'm feels

1357
01:04:45,280 --> 01:04:46,400
Speaker 1: like it at this point.

1358
01:04:47,840 --> 01:04:51,680
Speaker 3: We hate what these producers are doing, everybody. They've just

1359
01:04:51,680 --> 01:04:55,640
Speaker 3: got to pull it together. What could I recommend? That's

1360
01:04:55,760 --> 01:04:59,080
Speaker 3: something I've enjoyed recently. I read a book called The

1361
01:04:59,120 --> 01:05:03,320
Speaker 3: Blunderer by Patricia high Smith. I feel like a story

1362
01:05:03,320 --> 01:05:05,920
Speaker 3: about someone getting in a bind. This is a good,

1363
01:05:06,000 --> 01:05:08,560
Speaker 3: good book. Guy really gets himself in a quite.

1364
01:05:08,320 --> 01:05:12,680
Speaker 4: A bind, like makes bad choices and then ends up

1365
01:05:13,320 --> 01:05:14,800
Speaker 4: making more bad and.

1366
01:05:16,160 --> 01:05:18,560
Speaker 3: Bad choice that really blows up in his face. And

1367
01:05:18,600 --> 01:05:21,640
Speaker 3: then you watch him continue to make bad choices. So

1368
01:05:21,760 --> 01:05:24,120
Speaker 3: that's kind of fun. And you know, Patricia high Smith

1369
01:05:24,200 --> 01:05:29,720
Speaker 3: wrote Carol, she wrote, talented, mister Ripley. So you're in

1370
01:05:29,800 --> 01:05:32,920
Speaker 3: good hands there. I feel like I'm just recommending it

1371
01:05:33,000 --> 01:05:35,520
Speaker 3: right now solely to you and not the listener just

1372
01:05:35,520 --> 01:05:36,720
Speaker 3: trying to sell you on this book.

1373
01:05:36,800 --> 01:05:37,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm into it.

1374
01:05:38,280 --> 01:05:40,240
Speaker 3: Okay, this is how we play gift master. I'm gonna

1375
01:05:40,280 --> 01:05:42,680
Speaker 3: name I'm going to tell you three gifts. Yes, and

1376
01:05:42,720 --> 01:05:45,920
Speaker 3: I'm going to tell you three celebrities, famous people. And

1377
01:05:45,920 --> 01:05:48,280
Speaker 3: you're gonna tell me which gift you'll give, which celebrity

1378
01:05:48,280 --> 01:05:51,560
Speaker 3: and why. Okay, Okay, the gifts you'll be giving today

1379
01:05:51,840 --> 01:05:55,840
Speaker 3: are number one. This is from a listener suggestion. Someone

1380
01:05:55,920 --> 01:06:00,760
Speaker 3: named Eden suggested a lifetime subscription to Consumer Report, which

1381
01:06:00,840 --> 01:06:03,200
Speaker 3: is actually I feel like a valuable gift.

1382
01:06:03,040 --> 01:06:07,160
Speaker 1: The printed magazine or or like the subscription service.

1383
01:06:06,800 --> 01:06:09,600
Speaker 3: Where you get like the website, I bet you get,

1384
01:06:09,680 --> 01:06:12,160
Speaker 3: I bet you get web print all of it. That

1385
01:06:12,160 --> 01:06:14,760
Speaker 3: seems to be the way it goes Lifetime A Lifetime.

1386
01:06:15,760 --> 01:06:19,680
Speaker 3: Number two is a dinner with Blake Shelton. Oh so

1387
01:06:19,760 --> 01:06:30,440
Speaker 3: that's number three is TMJ. So that's some some jaw problem,

1388
01:06:31,000 --> 01:06:31,240
Speaker 3: you know.

1389
01:06:31,160 --> 01:06:33,440
Speaker 1: When you're going giving someone TMJ.

1390
01:06:34,400 --> 01:06:36,760
Speaker 3: It's an experience, okay, and.

1391
01:06:36,920 --> 01:06:42,160
Speaker 1: DMJ experience doleby sound okay.

1392
01:06:43,040 --> 01:06:45,680
Speaker 3: The three people you're giving them too are Number one,

1393
01:06:45,760 --> 01:06:50,360
Speaker 3: John David Washington, son of Denzel Uh is now really

1394
01:06:50,440 --> 01:06:52,280
Speaker 3: up and coming. He's got all sorts of movies. What

1395
01:06:52,320 --> 01:06:53,560
Speaker 3: was the last thing I saw him? Man?

1396
01:06:54,360 --> 01:06:58,000
Speaker 4: The movie was in DAYA probably where the two people.

1397
01:06:58,120 --> 01:07:03,080
Speaker 4: They filmed it during the pandemic. How exciting, the two

1398
01:07:03,120 --> 01:07:05,920
Speaker 4: of them in a house in Seattle Island and it

1399
01:07:06,120 --> 01:07:11,040
Speaker 4: was dark. I didn't see it, but you're familiar. Yeah,

1400
01:07:11,120 --> 01:07:14,600
Speaker 4: I'm familiar with that trailer. I should look him up.

1401
01:07:14,680 --> 01:07:17,080
Speaker 4: Let me look him up. Good looking man, okay, good

1402
01:07:17,120 --> 01:07:18,360
Speaker 4: actor hansom.

1403
01:07:18,200 --> 01:07:21,600
Speaker 3: While you're looking him up. Number two is Olivia Rodrigo,

1404
01:07:22,600 --> 01:07:26,160
Speaker 3: really of at the moment, and number three is Aida Totro,

1405
01:07:27,000 --> 01:07:29,520
Speaker 3: who is cousin.

1406
01:07:29,240 --> 01:07:31,360
Speaker 1: Of John Totorro played the sister.

1407
01:07:31,680 --> 01:07:38,280
Speaker 3: Janis on Sopranos, one of my favorite TV characters. Ever, however, she's.

1408
01:07:37,440 --> 01:07:45,240
Speaker 4: Being in a bind. Okay, John Toturo, No, John David Washington.

1409
01:07:45,320 --> 01:07:48,120
Speaker 1: Oh there he is, Okay, professional football player.

1410
01:07:48,240 --> 01:07:50,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, I learned that recently that I think me at

1411
01:07:50,720 --> 01:07:53,520
Speaker 3: more House for a little while he was playing football,

1412
01:07:53,520 --> 01:07:56,280
Speaker 3: and I's made a transition to another career that makes

1413
01:07:56,320 --> 01:07:58,480
Speaker 3: a lot of money. And then he's the son of Denzel,

1414
01:07:58,640 --> 01:08:01,880
Speaker 3: so he's got nothing to worry about. But I always

1415
01:08:01,880 --> 01:08:04,680
Speaker 3: do appreciate when he's in a movie.

1416
01:08:05,880 --> 01:08:15,480
Speaker 4: Okay, TMJ, Lifetime Consumer Reports and Dinner. Okay, Uh, I'm

1417
01:08:15,520 --> 01:08:19,560
Speaker 4: going to give the TMJ right away. I'm going to

1418
01:08:19,640 --> 01:08:26,559
Speaker 4: give that to Olivia now. Why she's never seen hardship

1419
01:08:26,800 --> 01:08:29,439
Speaker 4: from what I can tell, and this is going to

1420
01:08:29,520 --> 01:08:31,280
Speaker 4: give her a lot to work with, a lot to

1421
01:08:31,320 --> 01:08:36,920
Speaker 4: write about, and she'll have to translate it into something

1422
01:08:36,960 --> 01:08:41,559
Speaker 4: that I guess tweens will connect with, you know, the

1423
01:08:41,720 --> 01:08:46,880
Speaker 4: universal pain of whatever the specifics of it will be a.

1424
01:08:46,920 --> 01:08:48,920
Speaker 1: Challenge for her, I think, to write about.

1425
01:08:50,080 --> 01:08:53,000
Speaker 4: But I just feel like, you know, it's at this

1426
01:08:53,120 --> 01:08:59,560
Speaker 4: point after coming up through the Disney system, knowing incredible

1427
01:08:59,640 --> 01:09:07,519
Speaker 4: start prior to her Saturn returns. It'll just be a

1428
01:09:07,640 --> 01:09:12,160
Speaker 4: moment that that will help her transform and mature into

1429
01:09:12,760 --> 01:09:17,559
Speaker 4: the woman that we all can't wait. Yeah, what will

1430
01:09:17,600 --> 01:09:20,679
Speaker 4: she be coming down from the sky in at her

1431
01:09:21,280 --> 01:09:22,960
Speaker 4: sellout stadium tours?

1432
01:09:23,280 --> 01:09:28,519
Speaker 3: You know, maybe like a giant mouthguard, just like lying.

1433
01:09:29,479 --> 01:09:33,800
Speaker 1: Okay, pitch, pitch for you. So we'll ice it.

1434
01:09:34,040 --> 01:09:37,320
Speaker 4: Well, it'll be the shape of a mouthguard, right the teeth,

1435
01:09:37,400 --> 01:09:40,160
Speaker 4: like a tooth tray. We're gonna fill it with water,

1436
01:09:40,240 --> 01:09:43,280
Speaker 4: ice it, and then we're gonna do dancing and ice

1437
01:09:43,280 --> 01:09:45,720
Speaker 4: skating on top of it. We can throw back and

1438
01:09:45,800 --> 01:09:49,840
Speaker 4: we can do you know how Beyonce does the water

1439
01:09:49,960 --> 01:09:53,559
Speaker 4: work in the like tea at at her last concert,

1440
01:09:53,680 --> 01:09:55,000
Speaker 4: she had water work.

1441
01:09:54,880 --> 01:09:55,200
Speaker 3: Do you know?

1442
01:09:55,280 --> 01:09:59,200
Speaker 1: It was like dancing in the rain, and she's right right,

1443
01:10:00,400 --> 01:10:00,880
Speaker 1: and we've.

1444
01:10:00,760 --> 01:10:04,559
Speaker 4: Seen Taylor recently do that just with God's elements right

1445
01:10:05,560 --> 01:10:09,240
Speaker 4: so in Nashville. But yeah, so that's why I think

1446
01:10:09,280 --> 01:10:10,240
Speaker 4: that that's perfect.

1447
01:10:10,320 --> 01:10:11,719
Speaker 3: That's absolutely perfect.

1448
01:10:11,960 --> 01:10:17,200
Speaker 4: Okay, I eat it, toturo. I'm gonna give the consumer reports.

1449
01:10:18,520 --> 01:10:21,200
Speaker 4: It just feels like it really truly would be the

1450
01:10:21,200 --> 01:10:25,360
Speaker 4: perfect gift for her, like just something to complain about,

1451
01:10:25,600 --> 01:10:28,719
Speaker 4: you know, a place to constantly.

1452
01:10:28,240 --> 01:10:33,639
Speaker 1: Find things wrong with things and be able to vent.

1453
01:10:33,760 --> 01:10:35,920
Speaker 4: Doesn't she seem like the person who would like write

1454
01:10:35,960 --> 01:10:38,960
Speaker 4: a great like paragraph like this is bullshit.

1455
01:10:39,479 --> 01:10:42,160
Speaker 3: I would love Jennie Frano to be doing consumers.

1456
01:10:43,520 --> 01:10:47,160
Speaker 1: This is bullshit. This iron I can't even do. I push,

1457
01:10:47,280 --> 01:10:47,959
Speaker 1: I push.

1458
01:10:47,760 --> 01:10:49,960
Speaker 3: On the tiny little thing with my meddle finger, and

1459
01:10:50,080 --> 01:10:51,240
Speaker 3: it squeaks.

1460
01:10:50,760 --> 01:10:53,000
Speaker 4: And wakes up my husband, and I gotta get him

1461
01:10:53,000 --> 01:10:56,120
Speaker 4: a beer, you know, like this whole thing. Right, So

1462
01:10:56,439 --> 01:10:59,639
Speaker 4: maybe she does that and then has like a career change.

1463
01:10:59,720 --> 01:11:00,160
Speaker 1: I don't know.

1464
01:11:00,520 --> 01:11:02,240
Speaker 4: I just I feel like it would give her a

1465
01:11:02,280 --> 01:11:04,960
Speaker 4: lot of AMMO for her life, a place to vent

1466
01:11:05,080 --> 01:11:09,559
Speaker 4: during the strike, you know, while she's not working, and

1467
01:11:09,880 --> 01:11:13,720
Speaker 4: just uh, maybe some struggles with the internet, trying to

1468
01:11:13,720 --> 01:11:16,280
Speaker 4: figure out how to set up her subscription and try

1469
01:11:16,360 --> 01:11:19,360
Speaker 4: to cancel the print magazine or like forward it to

1470
01:11:19,439 --> 01:11:21,360
Speaker 4: a friend, like all of that would give.

1471
01:11:21,200 --> 01:11:21,880
Speaker 1: Her a lot of AMMO.

1472
01:11:22,080 --> 01:11:26,720
Speaker 3: Busy work, yeah, busy, something to do with her hands, yes, exactly.

1473
01:11:26,760 --> 01:11:31,639
Speaker 4: We all need to find our own fingers truth, right, Okay,

1474
01:11:32,080 --> 01:11:35,960
Speaker 4: And then John David Washington will be sitting down for

1475
01:11:36,080 --> 01:11:39,360
Speaker 4: dinner with Blake Shelton. Mister Blake Shelton, I feel like

1476
01:11:39,439 --> 01:11:43,679
Speaker 4: that would be quite the conversation, right.

1477
01:11:44,200 --> 01:11:46,320
Speaker 3: What would they have possibly to talk about?

1478
01:11:46,840 --> 01:11:49,519
Speaker 1: I don't I mean, I don't know.

1479
01:11:49,960 --> 01:11:53,000
Speaker 3: I can't imagine sitting at dinner with Blake Shelton. Oh

1480
01:11:53,120 --> 01:11:55,400
Speaker 3: maybe football is those two would probably. I feel like

1481
01:11:55,479 --> 01:11:56,880
Speaker 3: Blake's got to be a football fan.

1482
01:11:57,360 --> 01:12:00,479
Speaker 4: So the voice was coming out at the same time

1483
01:12:00,640 --> 01:12:03,519
Speaker 4: that Best Friends Forever. Oh wow, it was my first

1484
01:12:03,520 --> 01:12:07,840
Speaker 4: television show was launching, and I had to go to

1485
01:12:07,920 --> 01:12:12,280
Speaker 4: like one of those NBC Universal like upfront like kick

1486
01:12:12,320 --> 01:12:16,640
Speaker 4: season kickoff parties, and Jessica and I had been in

1487
01:12:16,680 --> 01:12:20,439
Speaker 4: our writer's room all day and she got insane food

1488
01:12:20,479 --> 01:12:23,040
Speaker 4: poisoning and I had to send her to the urgent care.

1489
01:12:23,160 --> 01:12:25,679
Speaker 4: When they ended up giving her like fluids and stuff.

1490
01:12:25,720 --> 01:12:28,320
Speaker 4: It was like that bad. But that meant I had

1491
01:12:28,360 --> 01:12:31,800
Speaker 4: to go by myself to this dinner and we were

1492
01:12:31,840 --> 01:12:35,120
Speaker 4: not used to doing well. I wasn't used to doing

1493
01:12:35,160 --> 01:12:39,120
Speaker 4: press period, much less press by myself about our show.

1494
01:12:40,240 --> 01:12:43,040
Speaker 4: I got hair and makeup ready at our writer's room

1495
01:12:43,080 --> 01:12:45,919
Speaker 4: office while Jessica was like on the floor of the bathroom.

1496
01:12:46,000 --> 01:12:50,920
Speaker 4: It was just like one of those insane days, you know,

1497
01:12:51,040 --> 01:12:53,120
Speaker 4: It's like where you feel like, oh, my dreams are

1498
01:12:53,120 --> 01:12:58,599
Speaker 4: coming true, but also this is so hard. And I

1499
01:12:58,840 --> 01:13:00,879
Speaker 4: get in the car and I I go to whatever

1500
01:13:01,400 --> 01:13:05,040
Speaker 4: house or mansion or whatever the place is. And I

1501
01:13:05,120 --> 01:13:08,440
Speaker 4: walk in and now I feel beautiful.

1502
01:13:09,160 --> 01:13:10,639
Speaker 1: I had on like.

1503
01:13:10,640 --> 01:13:14,599
Speaker 4: A cute dress, sexy, I had my hair and makeup done.

1504
01:13:14,640 --> 01:13:18,840
Speaker 4: It's been a minute. I walk in and who do

1505
01:13:18,960 --> 01:13:21,760
Speaker 4: I see? Blake Shelton.

1506
01:13:23,360 --> 01:13:29,160
Speaker 1: And he gave me an up and down once over.

1507
01:13:30,280 --> 01:13:31,679
Speaker 1: Now this is when he was.

1508
01:13:31,600 --> 01:13:38,599
Speaker 5: With Miranda, And literally I felt like, if I wanted to,

1509
01:13:40,520 --> 01:13:44,040
Speaker 5: he would have taken a bite out of me presently

1510
01:13:45,000 --> 01:13:49,360
Speaker 5: in whatever stall we could find empty and I could

1511
01:13:49,360 --> 01:13:50,639
Speaker 5: throw it all away for.

1512
01:13:50,720 --> 01:13:56,920
Speaker 1: One night with BS. Anyway, I kept moving.

1513
01:13:57,040 --> 01:14:02,400
Speaker 4: Obviously my life is not I don't I'm not currently

1514
01:14:03,240 --> 01:14:09,400
Speaker 4: married to Blake Shelton yet, not after this story, And

1515
01:14:09,400 --> 01:14:12,960
Speaker 4: and I sent Jessica photos of the Alaskan king crab

1516
01:14:13,040 --> 01:14:18,400
Speaker 4: legs and the giant like uh seahorse ice sculpture, you know,

1517
01:14:18,640 --> 01:14:20,840
Speaker 4: which is obviously what you want to get a photo

1518
01:14:20,920 --> 01:14:24,120
Speaker 4: of while you're of course in the throes of food poisoning.

1519
01:14:24,200 --> 01:14:29,480
Speaker 4: But you know now that Blake has finished his voice residency,

1520
01:14:29,520 --> 01:14:31,519
Speaker 4: because he's he just had his last season.

1521
01:14:31,600 --> 01:14:33,520
Speaker 3: He did. I didn't know that I always.

1522
01:14:33,240 --> 01:14:40,360
Speaker 1: Watched the only the auditions. I never get past the auditions. Yeah,

1523
01:14:40,400 --> 01:14:42,320
Speaker 1: and so I guess he's probably got some time on

1524
01:14:42,360 --> 01:14:42,800
Speaker 1: his hands.

1525
01:14:42,840 --> 01:14:44,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, he's probably doing it like us, going to a

1526
01:14:44,560 --> 01:14:47,240
Speaker 3: lot of dinners lunch to catch people.

1527
01:14:47,280 --> 01:14:48,080
Speaker 1: What he wears?

1528
01:14:48,960 --> 01:14:49,200
Speaker 4: You know?

1529
01:14:50,200 --> 01:14:52,439
Speaker 3: Does he wear to allerding too much on? Too little?

1530
01:14:53,120 --> 01:14:55,880
Speaker 1: Is he wearing a cowboy hat? Right? Probably? Not just

1531
01:14:55,920 --> 01:14:58,440
Speaker 1: wearing like a like a denim shirt.

1532
01:14:58,280 --> 01:15:01,240
Speaker 3: Right, yeah, kind of like a well tailor denim shirt.

1533
01:15:01,240 --> 01:15:02,840
Speaker 1: Yes, yes, and a scruff. Now.

1534
01:15:02,880 --> 01:15:05,880
Speaker 4: He is also exactly the same age as me, and

1535
01:15:05,880 --> 01:15:07,400
Speaker 4: that is feels weird to me.

1536
01:15:07,720 --> 01:15:09,080
Speaker 3: Does he feel a lot older?

1537
01:15:09,120 --> 01:15:10,479
Speaker 1: She feels a lot older to me?

1538
01:15:10,920 --> 01:15:11,200
Speaker 3: Is that?

1539
01:15:11,400 --> 01:15:11,920
Speaker 1: I don't know.

1540
01:15:12,080 --> 01:15:14,840
Speaker 4: And he also keeps, especially on the voice because I

1541
01:15:15,240 --> 01:15:17,680
Speaker 4: am a fan. I'll say it once and I'll say

1542
01:15:17,680 --> 01:15:21,840
Speaker 4: it again. It feels like, uh, he references how old

1543
01:15:21,880 --> 01:15:26,200
Speaker 4: he is. Oh, he's like, you know, like Kelly Clarkson,

1544
01:15:26,280 --> 01:15:29,519
Speaker 4: who also is not that much younger than right, she's

1545
01:15:29,560 --> 01:15:32,960
Speaker 4: probably in her like gotta be right.

1546
01:15:33,560 --> 01:15:37,040
Speaker 1: She'll go, okay, old man, you know, and then then

1547
01:15:37,120 --> 01:15:40,240
Speaker 1: he's like, I'm an old daddy, you know, And it's.

1548
01:15:40,120 --> 01:15:44,800
Speaker 4: Like, oh, he's simply not He's not a Grandpa, Okay, Grandpa,

1549
01:15:44,880 --> 01:15:47,320
Speaker 4: and it was like it just it puts me in

1550
01:15:47,320 --> 01:15:49,000
Speaker 4: my head a little bit, of course.

1551
01:15:49,680 --> 01:15:50,440
Speaker 1: Anyway.

1552
01:15:50,479 --> 01:15:55,320
Speaker 4: Anyway, so I feel like they would I mean, this

1553
01:15:55,439 --> 01:16:00,439
Speaker 4: is a a Nepo bait, Nepo baby, like a baby

1554
01:16:00,439 --> 01:16:02,080
Speaker 4: though that sounds better.

1555
01:16:02,240 --> 01:16:05,320
Speaker 3: That sounds like like tamagotchi or something like a little

1556
01:16:05,439 --> 01:16:08,479
Speaker 3: toy that you would buy.

1557
01:16:10,439 --> 01:16:15,800
Speaker 4: Yeah, so I feel like they this NEPO baby and Blake, Well,

1558
01:16:15,800 --> 01:16:17,760
Speaker 4: they probably might just talk about football the whole time.

1559
01:16:18,200 --> 01:16:21,080
Speaker 3: You know, they're probably guys, guys. They probably then they

1560
01:16:21,120 --> 01:16:22,320
Speaker 3: can move on to another sport.

1561
01:16:22,479 --> 01:16:26,360
Speaker 4: They just talk about beer or but maybe maybe if

1562
01:16:26,400 --> 01:16:28,439
Speaker 4: the two of these guys sit down, it'll all get

1563
01:16:28,439 --> 01:16:31,960
Speaker 4: figured out, you know what I mean, everything, all.

1564
01:16:31,800 --> 01:16:33,920
Speaker 1: Of it, and then they'll let us know.

1565
01:16:34,120 --> 01:16:36,360
Speaker 4: And then they'll come out and be like, guys, we

1566
01:16:36,520 --> 01:16:39,679
Speaker 4: figured it out, and then we can just all live

1567
01:16:39,720 --> 01:16:40,120
Speaker 4: in peace.

1568
01:16:40,200 --> 01:16:41,799
Speaker 1: After that they both.

1569
01:16:41,560 --> 01:16:44,840
Speaker 3: Have dinner at Wood Ranch and solve the world's problems.

1570
01:16:45,080 --> 01:16:45,600
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1571
01:16:45,680 --> 01:16:48,639
Speaker 3: Well, beautifully play really beautifully play so much?

1572
01:16:48,640 --> 01:16:49,120
Speaker 1: Did I win?

1573
01:16:49,400 --> 01:16:49,760
Speaker 3: You win?

1574
01:16:50,160 --> 01:16:53,400
Speaker 1: Thank you? It's important to me. I'm incredibly competitive.

1575
01:16:54,320 --> 01:16:57,479
Speaker 3: This is the final segment of the podcast. It's called

1576
01:16:57,520 --> 01:16:59,640
Speaker 3: I said no emails. People write into I said no

1577
01:16:59,680 --> 01:17:03,760
Speaker 3: gifts Gmail dot com. Desperate for answers? Will you help

1578
01:17:03,840 --> 01:17:04,719
Speaker 3: me answer a question?

1579
01:17:04,920 --> 01:17:05,479
Speaker 1: I love it.

1580
01:17:05,680 --> 01:17:09,519
Speaker 3: Okay, let's get into this. Let's see here. This is

1581
01:17:09,720 --> 01:17:14,040
Speaker 3: highbridger and sparkling guests. That's a nice way to introduce you.

1582
01:17:14,720 --> 01:17:18,360
Speaker 3: I'm facing a situation that could use your wisdom. Recently,

1583
01:17:18,479 --> 01:17:21,120
Speaker 3: my cousin started working at the same company as me.

1584
01:17:21,560 --> 01:17:24,200
Speaker 3: While we have a close relationship, I've noticed some behaviors

1585
01:17:24,240 --> 01:17:27,960
Speaker 3: of hers at the office that I find uncomfortable, i e.

1586
01:17:28,080 --> 01:17:31,599
Speaker 3: Discussing personal matters loudly on the phone and oversharing about

1587
01:17:31,640 --> 01:17:35,800
Speaker 3: our family to complicate matters. She's only been here for

1588
01:17:35,840 --> 01:17:39,440
Speaker 3: four months and is already giving extravagant gifts to coworkers

1589
01:17:39,439 --> 01:17:42,080
Speaker 3: for birthdays. It's nice, but it seems to be creating

1590
01:17:42,120 --> 01:17:44,400
Speaker 3: a bit of unease among our colleagues, who aren't sure

1591
01:17:44,439 --> 01:17:47,360
Speaker 3: how to receive a lavish presence from someone who's basically

1592
01:17:47,400 --> 01:17:50,479
Speaker 3: a stranger. How do I handle this before she makes

1593
01:17:50,560 --> 01:17:54,360
Speaker 3: us both office pariahs. And that's from Hondors or Andrews.

1594
01:17:54,360 --> 01:17:57,360
Speaker 3: That would probably be an hoers right, m Okay, so

1595
01:17:57,479 --> 01:18:01,519
Speaker 3: Andre's cousin. He probably helped the cousin get the job.

1596
01:18:02,040 --> 01:18:04,679
Speaker 3: Kind of a live in like.

1597
01:18:04,640 --> 01:18:09,680
Speaker 1: A like a town with only one right. But it's

1598
01:18:09,720 --> 01:18:13,360
Speaker 1: an office, right, so it's interesting.

1599
01:18:13,600 --> 01:18:15,680
Speaker 3: Maybe it was just by coincidence that she got a

1600
01:18:15,760 --> 01:18:17,639
Speaker 3: job there, but I don't.

1601
01:18:18,120 --> 01:18:22,519
Speaker 4: Honestly, it feels to me like this is not your problem,

1602
01:18:22,920 --> 01:18:27,240
Speaker 4: not your circus, not your monkey, says they say, right,

1603
01:18:27,640 --> 01:18:28,360
Speaker 4: but it is.

1604
01:18:28,720 --> 01:18:32,240
Speaker 3: But why because he's built obviously, he's probably built a

1605
01:18:32,280 --> 01:18:36,360
Speaker 3: reputation at the company as cool honders. Yes, and suddenly

1606
01:18:36,400 --> 01:18:40,120
Speaker 3: cousins marching in revealing family secrets.

1607
01:18:40,240 --> 01:18:45,280
Speaker 1: About him specifically or sharing about our family. Yeah, but

1608
01:18:45,520 --> 01:18:49,479
Speaker 1: like doesn't that just only reflect negatively on the cut

1609
01:18:49,560 --> 01:18:53,240
Speaker 1: on the weird cousin, Like the cousin's the one blabbing

1610
01:18:53,760 --> 01:18:56,679
Speaker 1: right the cut, Like maybe he just needs to act

1611
01:18:56,760 --> 01:18:58,960
Speaker 1: like he doesn't know her, you know what I mean,

1612
01:18:59,040 --> 01:19:02,840
Speaker 1: Like like they're not they're oh, yeah, we're cousins, but.

1613
01:19:02,880 --> 01:19:06,639
Speaker 4: Like you know, like cousins, like like we're not really cousins,

1614
01:19:06,680 --> 01:19:11,160
Speaker 4: Like yeah, cousin cousin or whatever. Like because someone once

1615
01:19:11,200 --> 01:19:14,040
Speaker 4: told me, let the bad ideas.

1616
01:19:13,640 --> 01:19:14,479
Speaker 1: Die on their own.

1617
01:19:14,840 --> 01:19:18,439
Speaker 4: Oh so I have a hard time with that because

1618
01:19:18,479 --> 01:19:20,240
Speaker 4: if I see a bad idea, you could tell it

1619
01:19:20,280 --> 01:19:22,599
Speaker 4: on my face, and I have a hard time faking

1620
01:19:22,640 --> 01:19:24,680
Speaker 4: it with you or letting you. You know, I'm not

1621
01:19:24,720 --> 01:19:27,599
Speaker 4: gonna sugarcoat it. I'm going to tell you right now,

1622
01:19:27,640 --> 01:19:30,160
Speaker 4: this is a I don't like this idea, and this

1623
01:19:30,200 --> 01:19:32,400
Speaker 4: is all the reasons that are wrong with it. But

1624
01:19:33,040 --> 01:19:37,559
Speaker 4: a lot of times you could just back off and

1625
01:19:37,680 --> 01:19:41,679
Speaker 4: then let the person and the bad idea just crumble,

1626
01:19:41,880 --> 01:19:46,320
Speaker 4: because it inevitably this is going to end poorly, and

1627
01:19:46,600 --> 01:19:51,519
Speaker 4: likely the cousin is going to right yeah there pretty soon.

1628
01:19:52,000 --> 01:19:53,439
Speaker 3: I mean, especially forget a.

1629
01:19:53,560 --> 01:19:57,479
Speaker 4: Stern talking to, and the closer they are together, the

1630
01:19:57,520 --> 01:19:58,880
Speaker 4: worse it is for andres.

1631
01:19:59,160 --> 01:20:00,519
Speaker 1: You know, So.

1632
01:20:02,280 --> 01:20:03,360
Speaker 3: Don't be an accessory.

1633
01:20:03,560 --> 01:20:07,759
Speaker 1: No, don't try to intervene, don't yes and that behavior.

1634
01:20:08,160 --> 01:20:11,920
Speaker 1: Don't also then talk shit about the cousin with other employees.

1635
01:20:12,040 --> 01:20:13,960
Speaker 3: You don't think you should do that. That feels like

1636
01:20:14,000 --> 01:20:15,040
Speaker 3: a good strategy to me.

1637
01:20:15,200 --> 01:20:18,360
Speaker 1: Shit talk the cousin. But you're still related. You're gonna

1638
01:20:18,360 --> 01:20:20,919
Speaker 1: see them forever and be giving them fudge.

1639
01:20:22,320 --> 01:20:24,640
Speaker 3: Right yeah, But something has to be done, and it

1640
01:20:24,640 --> 01:20:26,280
Speaker 3: feels like if you turn the office on her.

1641
01:20:26,760 --> 01:20:30,080
Speaker 1: I'm saying the opposite. Nothing needs to.

1642
01:20:29,960 --> 01:20:31,800
Speaker 3: Be done, Just let her turn the office on it.

1643
01:20:31,960 --> 01:20:35,960
Speaker 4: I know this is incredibly uncomfortable for you onders. Just

1644
01:20:36,080 --> 01:20:38,720
Speaker 4: pay attention to the balls in your court, and if

1645
01:20:38,760 --> 01:20:42,639
Speaker 4: one comes over, just toss it right back, gentle return.

1646
01:20:42,800 --> 01:20:45,040
Speaker 3: That's a very mature way of handling this site.

1647
01:20:45,080 --> 01:20:48,679
Speaker 1: So what are you saying. You're saying, let's go go

1648
01:20:48,760 --> 01:20:48,920
Speaker 1: to that.

1649
01:20:49,280 --> 01:20:50,880
Speaker 3: What a bitch? Right?

1650
01:20:51,439 --> 01:20:53,639
Speaker 1: Can you believe she gave you that gift? What did

1651
01:20:53,680 --> 01:20:56,960
Speaker 1: she give you? Like a series of monthly pantyhose or

1652
01:20:57,000 --> 01:21:01,840
Speaker 1: something like extravag I get jewelries.

1653
01:21:02,160 --> 01:21:06,080
Speaker 3: We all hate her? Right, yes, yes, who brought this

1654
01:21:06,160 --> 01:21:06,680
Speaker 3: lady in?

1655
01:21:07,040 --> 01:21:08,120
Speaker 1: Oh my god?

1656
01:21:08,439 --> 01:21:13,880
Speaker 3: Yeah, I feel like you get on a slack you're uh, your.

1657
01:21:13,760 --> 01:21:15,839
Speaker 1: Co work another technology that I'm.

1658
01:21:15,920 --> 01:21:19,719
Speaker 3: I was out of the office space after slack appeared,

1659
01:21:19,760 --> 01:21:21,519
Speaker 3: so it feels like a very foreign thing to me.

1660
01:21:22,000 --> 01:21:25,679
Speaker 3: But people like, I guess I'm a slack dropping chatting

1661
01:21:25,960 --> 01:21:29,000
Speaker 3: when I was at office jobs and I mentioned it's similar.

1662
01:21:29,520 --> 01:21:33,559
Speaker 3: But get on slack. Say whatever you want about the cousin.

1663
01:21:34,400 --> 01:21:38,400
Speaker 4: Make up a fake account, a fake account with a

1664
01:21:38,400 --> 01:21:42,080
Speaker 4: different email, get like Tony Noodle or something.

1665
01:21:41,960 --> 01:21:42,880
Speaker 1: Tony noodle and.

1666
01:21:45,880 --> 01:21:50,240
Speaker 4: Started Tony Noodle drums TikTok okay, and then you just

1667
01:21:50,280 --> 01:21:55,080
Speaker 4: get us done posting on slack. Like this bitch like

1668
01:21:55,520 --> 01:22:00,920
Speaker 4: crazy crazy Tony Noodle posts like anonymously just durs.

1669
01:22:02,800 --> 01:22:05,960
Speaker 3: Okay, while the drumming Don't cry Out?

1670
01:22:07,320 --> 01:22:10,040
Speaker 1: Is there any drums to that? Now?

1671
01:22:10,280 --> 01:22:12,360
Speaker 3: There should be a nasty drum solo?

1672
01:22:12,760 --> 01:22:15,120
Speaker 1: It just goes too hard. Can we get a bon

1673
01:22:15,240 --> 01:22:18,400
Speaker 1: Jovi cover of Don't cry Out Loud? That goes way

1674
01:22:18,439 --> 01:22:18,960
Speaker 1: too hard?

1675
01:22:20,920 --> 01:22:23,800
Speaker 3: I think that Uh yeah, I think that's a nice

1676
01:22:23,800 --> 01:22:27,200
Speaker 3: strategy that'll take care of things one way or the other. Yeah,

1677
01:22:27,280 --> 01:22:29,080
Speaker 3: it'll be something for everyone to talk about.

1678
01:22:29,280 --> 01:22:34,080
Speaker 1: Either one of these options honders Uh, you know once

1679
01:22:34,160 --> 01:22:36,800
Speaker 1: maybe more fun and would fill the time right. One.

1680
01:22:36,840 --> 01:22:40,439
Speaker 4: You have to get TMJ clenching your job in order

1681
01:22:40,600 --> 01:22:42,799
Speaker 4: to experience and sit.

1682
01:22:42,680 --> 01:22:46,080
Speaker 3: Through and co write an Olivia Rodrigo song. Yeah, she

1683
01:22:46,320 --> 01:22:48,760
Speaker 3: reaches out to you. I need someone who's actually experienced.

1684
01:22:48,960 --> 01:22:52,639
Speaker 3: I'm doing my Maxwell's Silver Hammer that part people will

1685
01:22:52,640 --> 01:22:55,320
Speaker 3: sing along to. The verses will be very dark about

1686
01:22:55,400 --> 01:22:57,680
Speaker 3: your teary and dark what's happening at night?

1687
01:22:58,280 --> 01:22:58,880
Speaker 1: Lockjaw?

1688
01:23:01,439 --> 01:23:04,639
Speaker 3: Well, we answered Andrew's question perfectly. We pray he doesn't

1689
01:23:04,640 --> 01:23:08,000
Speaker 3: write back in. But you never know what these pingles cross.

1690
01:23:08,160 --> 01:23:10,120
Speaker 3: It's going to delete the emails so we don't have

1691
01:23:10,200 --> 01:23:15,679
Speaker 3: to ever think about it again. Wonderfully answered. These gifts

1692
01:23:15,680 --> 01:23:19,439
Speaker 3: are wonderful. A beautiful piano book. Yeah, so stylish. And

1693
01:23:19,479 --> 01:23:22,200
Speaker 3: this fudge is going to I'll probably eat myself sick.

1694
01:23:22,520 --> 01:23:26,120
Speaker 1: Don't don't do that. Spread it out. It's not going

1695
01:23:26,200 --> 01:23:29,479
Speaker 1: to go bad anytime, a long six months. I don't know.

1696
01:23:29,800 --> 01:23:31,200
Speaker 1: It doesn't have any like.

1697
01:23:31,160 --> 01:23:34,080
Speaker 4: Egg or butter in it, right, it's very like uh,

1698
01:23:34,360 --> 01:23:35,920
Speaker 4: very process.

1699
01:23:35,280 --> 01:23:40,240
Speaker 3: Like nuclear bunker foods. Yeah, probably like fifties.

1700
01:23:40,280 --> 01:23:42,400
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know about yeah, margarine, it's vegetable

1701
01:23:42,479 --> 01:23:46,040
Speaker 1: two or three weeks to room temperature. Oh, but is

1702
01:23:46,080 --> 01:23:49,840
Speaker 1: that this kind of fudge fantasy fudge it's called is

1703
01:23:49,840 --> 01:23:54,080
Speaker 1: it fantasy fudgers at regular fudge like like Bavarian fudge

1704
01:23:54,080 --> 01:23:59,439
Speaker 1: shops where you like, yeah, mountain or whatever.

1705
01:24:00,080 --> 01:24:03,920
Speaker 3: I do, not that is. I'm now thinking that's a front.

1706
01:24:04,479 --> 01:24:07,760
Speaker 3: I've never seen somebody buy from there. They're only at

1707
01:24:07,760 --> 01:24:11,320
Speaker 3: out levels they are, you're right, and they're constantly full

1708
01:24:11,360 --> 01:24:13,520
Speaker 3: of apples. Those must be rotting.

1709
01:24:13,760 --> 01:24:16,519
Speaker 4: Dipped in chocolate or caramel. Yeah, they don't have amount

1710
01:24:16,640 --> 01:24:19,120
Speaker 4: good turnover there anyway.

1711
01:24:19,160 --> 01:24:21,880
Speaker 1: Why are you like going to buy like an off

1712
01:24:22,360 --> 01:24:26,080
Speaker 1: two to three weeks question?

1713
01:24:27,560 --> 01:24:31,320
Speaker 3: Okay, I've got three weeks to eat the fudge begin

1714
01:24:31,439 --> 01:24:35,840
Speaker 3: the well. This has been wonderful. Thank you so much

1715
01:24:35,840 --> 01:24:36,640
Speaker 3: for coming.

1716
01:24:36,360 --> 01:24:39,440
Speaker 1: For having me. It's been a treat and a treasure.

1717
01:24:40,800 --> 01:24:44,760
Speaker 3: Listener. The podcast is screeching to a halt. We came

1718
01:24:44,800 --> 01:24:47,920
Speaker 3: in with a bang, We're leaving with a bang. The

1719
01:24:47,960 --> 01:24:49,599
Speaker 3: rest of your day is going to be so dull

1720
01:24:49,680 --> 01:24:53,880
Speaker 3: without me. I wish you the absolute best, good luck,

1721
01:24:54,200 --> 01:24:59,919
Speaker 3: I love you, goodbye. I said no gifts isn't exactly

1722
01:25:00,080 --> 01:25:03,759
Speaker 3: write production. It's produced by our dear friend Annalise Nelson,

1723
01:25:03,960 --> 01:25:07,000
Speaker 3: and it's beautifully mixed by Ben Holliday. And we couldn't

1724
01:25:07,000 --> 01:25:10,840
Speaker 3: do it without our guest booker, Patrick Coottner. The theme song,

1725
01:25:11,040 --> 01:25:15,080
Speaker 3: of course, could only come from miracle worker Amy Mann.

1726
01:25:15,600 --> 01:25:18,559
Speaker 3: You must follow the show on Instagram. At I said

1727
01:25:18,600 --> 01:25:21,000
Speaker 3: no gifts. I don't want to hear any excuses. That's

1728
01:25:21,040 --> 01:25:23,040
Speaker 3: where you get to see pictures of all these gorgeous

1729
01:25:23,040 --> 01:25:25,040
Speaker 3: gifts I'm getting. And don't you want to see pictures

1730
01:25:25,040 --> 01:25:25,599
Speaker 3: of the gifts?

1731
01:25:27,560 --> 01:25:29,479
Speaker 1: Well, I invit? Did you hear?

1732
01:25:31,920 --> 01:25:37,120
Speaker 2: Funa man myself perfectly clear. When you're a guest to me,

1733
01:25:40,000 --> 01:25:46,080
Speaker 2: you gotta come to me empty. And I said no, guests,

1734
01:25:46,360 --> 01:25:53,320
Speaker 2: your presences, presence, and and I'm already too much stuff,

1735
01:25:53,960 --> 01:25:57,040
Speaker 2: So how do you dare to survey me?

1736
01:26:01,920 --> 01:26:02,559
Speaker 3: It don't