1 00:00:03,600 --> 00:00:06,800 Speaker 1: Reality with the King is hosted by me, Carlos King. 2 00:00:07,080 --> 00:00:10,239 Speaker 2: I'm an executive producer who have produced some of your 3 00:00:10,240 --> 00:00:13,000 Speaker 2: favorite shows from the Real house Boss of Atlanta, New 4 00:00:13,080 --> 00:00:17,160 Speaker 2: Jersey and my own creation, The Love and Marriage Franchise 5 00:00:17,280 --> 00:00:22,959 Speaker 2: and Bell Collective. Every episode, we recap reality television from 6 00:00:22,960 --> 00:00:27,240 Speaker 2: the Real Housewives Franchise to The Bachelor or Selling Sunset, 7 00:00:27,600 --> 00:00:31,360 Speaker 2: in addition to celebrity guests, whether in the unscripted space 8 00:00:31,600 --> 00:00:39,360 Speaker 2: or scripted as well. Hey, rain drops on today's episode 9 00:00:39,400 --> 00:00:40,720 Speaker 2: of Reality with the King. 10 00:00:41,040 --> 00:00:43,040 Speaker 1: I mean, we have an exclusive. 11 00:00:43,440 --> 00:00:47,680 Speaker 2: I haven't been this excited since I interviewed all the 12 00:00:47,720 --> 00:00:50,760 Speaker 2: celebrities that I do. But this particular person to me 13 00:00:51,880 --> 00:00:54,160 Speaker 2: is the gift that keeps on giving. She's the ape 14 00:00:54,160 --> 00:01:00,160 Speaker 2: housewife of the Real house BOSSI ors County. But no 15 00:01:00,320 --> 00:01:03,240 Speaker 2: all just aside, we have so much to get into. 16 00:01:03,360 --> 00:01:06,880 Speaker 2: She's my friend. I love me some Keiki Monique Lady. 17 00:01:06,880 --> 00:01:09,440 Speaker 1: Jumped to me. Gays and days give it up for 18 00:01:09,520 --> 00:01:10,880 Speaker 1: the reason for this season. 19 00:01:10,959 --> 00:01:14,040 Speaker 3: Hey, Kiki girl, Hey, what's going on? 20 00:01:17,680 --> 00:01:22,280 Speaker 1: Kiki? How famous are you now? Please? 21 00:01:22,440 --> 00:01:26,959 Speaker 3: I like trust me as I was like, I mean, 22 00:01:27,000 --> 00:01:28,920 Speaker 3: I'm like, are people sick of hearing my name? Because 23 00:01:28,959 --> 00:01:30,760 Speaker 3: I'm like, I feel like this is I feel like 24 00:01:30,760 --> 00:01:32,600 Speaker 3: I'm sick of hearing my name, But you know, I 25 00:01:32,600 --> 00:01:34,000 Speaker 3: guess everyone knows my name now. 26 00:01:35,760 --> 00:01:39,920 Speaker 1: No, listen, you are the. 27 00:01:39,400 --> 00:01:44,720 Speaker 2: Most talked about non cast member in Real Housewive history, 28 00:01:44,800 --> 00:01:48,480 Speaker 2: which to me is super fascinating. But before we get 29 00:01:48,520 --> 00:01:52,120 Speaker 2: into the conversation about what's saying happening this season and 30 00:01:52,160 --> 00:01:55,800 Speaker 2: you clearing the air as well, I do want. 31 00:01:55,680 --> 00:01:59,720 Speaker 1: To start with you, though, Kiki Monique, set the record straight. 32 00:02:00,720 --> 00:02:04,600 Speaker 1: Are you a blogger or journalist? I? 33 00:02:05,000 --> 00:02:06,720 Speaker 3: You know what, I don't think I'm either one of 34 00:02:06,720 --> 00:02:08,919 Speaker 3: those things, but I wouldn't you know, I don't care 35 00:02:09,040 --> 00:02:11,800 Speaker 3: if people want to categorize me as those I'm fine 36 00:02:11,840 --> 00:02:14,520 Speaker 3: to take those labels. I just think that people have 37 00:02:14,840 --> 00:02:17,800 Speaker 3: a certain attachment or identity of what they believe a 38 00:02:17,840 --> 00:02:20,080 Speaker 3: blogger is versus what they believe a journalist is. And 39 00:02:20,120 --> 00:02:22,760 Speaker 3: I think we live in a world where creators have 40 00:02:22,880 --> 00:02:26,400 Speaker 3: sort of evolved, and I've become this sort of hybrid 41 00:02:26,560 --> 00:02:29,560 Speaker 3: of like, I like to give people news their nosey about. 42 00:02:29,639 --> 00:02:32,440 Speaker 3: That's my tagline, and I want to do it in 43 00:02:32,480 --> 00:02:35,040 Speaker 3: a way that people can absorb it. People can't absorb 44 00:02:35,160 --> 00:02:39,680 Speaker 3: news the way that we used to they have very short, limited, 45 00:02:39,919 --> 00:02:42,800 Speaker 3: you know, attention spans because of TikTok, because of these things. 46 00:02:43,120 --> 00:02:45,360 Speaker 3: And that's why my audience really loved me, because I 47 00:02:45,400 --> 00:02:47,920 Speaker 3: was able to give them, you know, really you know, 48 00:02:48,040 --> 00:02:52,480 Speaker 3: direct information in like sixty seconds or less. And I 49 00:02:52,560 --> 00:02:54,560 Speaker 3: was And my whole point was, I was always going 50 00:02:54,600 --> 00:02:57,200 Speaker 3: to source. I was always going to find references. I'm 51 00:02:57,200 --> 00:03:00,800 Speaker 3: not someone who typically you know, does blind items, does rumors. 52 00:03:00,800 --> 00:03:03,200 Speaker 3: That's not my niche. While I and I dealt to 53 00:03:03,280 --> 00:03:05,519 Speaker 3: that niche. I will read those things, It's just not 54 00:03:05,639 --> 00:03:06,359 Speaker 3: what I do. 55 00:03:07,639 --> 00:03:10,880 Speaker 1: Okay, So how did you get your star? Because you 56 00:03:11,000 --> 00:03:12,160 Speaker 1: are on. 57 00:03:12,240 --> 00:03:15,680 Speaker 2: Radio and the you co hosts a daily show, Reality 58 00:03:15,840 --> 00:03:18,760 Speaker 2: Checked with the Icon the Legend Real House Spots of 59 00:03:18,800 --> 00:03:23,120 Speaker 2: New York star Derinda. So, but like, how did you 60 00:03:23,160 --> 00:03:25,440 Speaker 2: get started in the business in terms of doing what 61 00:03:25,440 --> 00:03:26,160 Speaker 2: you're doing now? 62 00:03:27,040 --> 00:03:29,280 Speaker 3: I mean I actually have a background. I did actually 63 00:03:29,320 --> 00:03:31,640 Speaker 3: go to school for journalism. So like that's not something 64 00:03:31,639 --> 00:03:34,120 Speaker 3: when people know because I don't talk about it because 65 00:03:34,160 --> 00:03:36,680 Speaker 3: my path really did skew from that. You know, I 66 00:03:36,680 --> 00:03:39,600 Speaker 3: spent a lot of years in corporate world doing not that. 67 00:03:40,560 --> 00:03:42,240 Speaker 3: And you know, I talk about this because you know, 68 00:03:42,240 --> 00:03:44,520 Speaker 3: I talk about my personal life a lot. I ended 69 00:03:44,560 --> 00:03:47,040 Speaker 3: up in a bad relationship, I got completely off track. 70 00:03:47,360 --> 00:03:49,040 Speaker 3: And the best thing that happened to me, I know 71 00:03:49,120 --> 00:03:52,560 Speaker 3: this sounds crazy, was COVID. COVID Lockdown was the best 72 00:03:52,560 --> 00:03:55,680 Speaker 3: thing that happened for me because I lost everything. I 73 00:03:55,720 --> 00:03:58,640 Speaker 3: lost absolutely everything. I had nothing, and the only thing 74 00:03:58,680 --> 00:04:02,040 Speaker 3: I had I learned TikTok. Everyone was on TikTok, and 75 00:04:02,120 --> 00:04:04,920 Speaker 3: at the time, you know, there weren't a lot of people. 76 00:04:04,920 --> 00:04:07,200 Speaker 3: A lot of people were doing dances and lip syncing. 77 00:04:07,440 --> 00:04:08,760 Speaker 3: I was like, I don't do any of that, but 78 00:04:08,800 --> 00:04:11,080 Speaker 3: I talk, and at that time, not a lot of 79 00:04:11,080 --> 00:04:13,560 Speaker 3: people were doing talking on TikTok. So I grew pretty 80 00:04:13,640 --> 00:04:15,400 Speaker 3: quickly because I was like, here, I'm going to talk 81 00:04:15,400 --> 00:04:17,719 Speaker 3: about pop culture. I'm gonna talk about your favorite reality shows. 82 00:04:17,800 --> 00:04:20,680 Speaker 3: Now everyone on TikTok does that, but in twenty twenty, 83 00:04:20,720 --> 00:04:24,279 Speaker 3: back then, it really wasn't like that. So I just started, 84 00:04:24,480 --> 00:04:26,760 Speaker 3: you know, reporting on that, and then I kind of 85 00:04:26,800 --> 00:04:28,479 Speaker 3: sort of switched over because I was like, I don't 86 00:04:28,480 --> 00:04:31,320 Speaker 3: want to just do reality TV, and I got into 87 00:04:31,560 --> 00:04:34,159 Speaker 3: you know, pop culture, true crime stuff, and I covered 88 00:04:34,160 --> 00:04:36,400 Speaker 3: the Johnny Depp trial, and that's where a lot of 89 00:04:36,440 --> 00:04:37,800 Speaker 3: my altors really got to. 90 00:04:37,800 --> 00:04:44,080 Speaker 2: Know me, and now you have a whole new legion 91 00:04:44,120 --> 00:04:47,200 Speaker 2: of followers who know you as the person that gave 92 00:04:47,240 --> 00:04:51,320 Speaker 2: the Real House Lives of Orange County the best storyline, 93 00:04:51,600 --> 00:04:55,240 Speaker 2: the most controversial storyline. I'll be a good bad since 94 00:04:55,600 --> 00:05:00,240 Speaker 2: Brooks allegedly lines about cancer like this is listen. 95 00:05:00,080 --> 00:05:01,440 Speaker 1: Kikimo nig Mus Singhy. 96 00:05:01,960 --> 00:05:05,000 Speaker 2: You have resurrected this show, although it had three second 97 00:05:05,040 --> 00:05:07,600 Speaker 2: grade scenes then, but you have breathed new life into 98 00:05:07,640 --> 00:05:09,240 Speaker 2: this just by being yourself. 99 00:05:09,560 --> 00:05:10,640 Speaker 1: Let's get right into it. 100 00:05:12,240 --> 00:05:16,279 Speaker 2: Your name came up every single episode this season, starting 101 00:05:16,279 --> 00:05:19,200 Speaker 2: with episode one. I want to go backwards to baby 102 00:05:19,200 --> 00:05:23,719 Speaker 2: because I want you to really, you know, very succinctly 103 00:05:24,040 --> 00:05:29,160 Speaker 2: explain to us, how did you get in contact with 104 00:05:29,720 --> 00:05:34,080 Speaker 2: Katie Janella or how did Katie Janella get in contact 105 00:05:34,080 --> 00:05:34,320 Speaker 2: with you? 106 00:05:34,560 --> 00:05:38,719 Speaker 3: To begin with, I always follow you know, new housewives 107 00:05:38,720 --> 00:05:41,359 Speaker 3: that interest me whenever they're announced. You know, here we 108 00:05:41,440 --> 00:05:45,320 Speaker 3: have this, you know, Asian beautiful woman joining OC. I 109 00:05:45,360 --> 00:05:47,159 Speaker 3: was like, of course I'm going to follow her, go 110 00:05:47,240 --> 00:05:49,000 Speaker 3: to follow her. She's already following me. I love that. 111 00:05:49,040 --> 00:05:51,400 Speaker 3: I'm sure you experienced that too. You know, you're very popular. 112 00:05:51,560 --> 00:05:52,960 Speaker 3: You follow people that are already following you and you 113 00:05:53,000 --> 00:05:54,640 Speaker 3: already feel like you have a connection. I think that 114 00:05:54,720 --> 00:05:57,320 Speaker 3: that's great. People are thinking I'm saying as a negative thing. 115 00:05:57,360 --> 00:06:00,120 Speaker 3: I'm like, no, I think that's awesome. And so, you know, 116 00:06:00,200 --> 00:06:02,479 Speaker 3: she writes, you know, I'm honored. I write back, looking 117 00:06:02,520 --> 00:06:04,480 Speaker 3: forward to the season, and so we just develop a 118 00:06:04,520 --> 00:06:08,279 Speaker 3: little rapport. I do host Reality Check on Radio Andy. 119 00:06:08,360 --> 00:06:11,440 Speaker 3: We obviously get bookings all the time, and I know 120 00:06:11,520 --> 00:06:14,800 Speaker 3: she wanted to come on our show because at the 121 00:06:14,839 --> 00:06:17,240 Speaker 3: time after her season, you know, Emily was saying she 122 00:06:17,320 --> 00:06:19,200 Speaker 3: lived in San Diego. There was a lot of things 123 00:06:19,200 --> 00:06:20,560 Speaker 3: that Emily was throwing out there. She was like, I 124 00:06:20,560 --> 00:06:21,960 Speaker 3: want to set the record trade about some things, and 125 00:06:21,960 --> 00:06:24,040 Speaker 3: I was like, come on. Her and Gen came on 126 00:06:24,080 --> 00:06:27,840 Speaker 3: my show. They were actually on Zoom, so we did 127 00:06:27,920 --> 00:06:30,200 Speaker 3: it virtually, but you know, I promoted the clips. 128 00:06:30,240 --> 00:06:30,760 Speaker 1: It was great. 129 00:06:31,040 --> 00:06:35,599 Speaker 3: After the show, she Katie threw me, her and Jen 130 00:06:35,640 --> 00:06:37,080 Speaker 3: on a group chat and was like, had so much 131 00:06:37,080 --> 00:06:39,480 Speaker 3: fun on the show. If you're ever in OC, hit 132 00:06:39,560 --> 00:06:43,479 Speaker 3: us up great flash forward. And then after that text exchange, 133 00:06:43,520 --> 00:06:46,000 Speaker 3: we then you know, continued to like, you know, just 134 00:06:46,040 --> 00:06:48,240 Speaker 3: have a little banter back and forth. I did go 135 00:06:48,360 --> 00:06:51,080 Speaker 3: down to OC separately, to have lunch with a friend. 136 00:06:51,400 --> 00:06:53,080 Speaker 3: And I was like, oh, you know, while i'm here, 137 00:06:53,520 --> 00:06:55,279 Speaker 3: let me hit up Katie and Jen on that group 138 00:06:55,360 --> 00:06:57,800 Speaker 3: chat and just let him know i'm here. I said, Hey, 139 00:06:58,279 --> 00:07:00,520 Speaker 3: headed to lunch. If you're around, you know, let's get 140 00:07:00,520 --> 00:07:03,480 Speaker 3: a drink or something. Jen was like, I'm in Mexico. Sorry, 141 00:07:03,520 --> 00:07:05,400 Speaker 3: I'm gonna miss it. Katie was like, oh, you know, 142 00:07:05,400 --> 00:07:07,679 Speaker 3: I'm running around. I'm shopping for the reunion. The reunion 143 00:07:07,720 --> 00:07:09,440 Speaker 3: was like two or three days away. She was like, 144 00:07:09,600 --> 00:07:12,640 Speaker 3: but I can you know, stop by. So I head 145 00:07:12,680 --> 00:07:15,480 Speaker 3: over to lunch. She stops by for lunch. We just 146 00:07:15,560 --> 00:07:18,240 Speaker 3: have a good old session, like we're just chatting, having 147 00:07:18,280 --> 00:07:21,680 Speaker 3: a good time. I was not there to be reporting 148 00:07:21,920 --> 00:07:24,640 Speaker 3: having off the rocker conversations. I was literally there just 149 00:07:24,680 --> 00:07:27,280 Speaker 3: like hanging out with people as we do in this industry. 150 00:07:27,360 --> 00:07:28,640 Speaker 3: We just make relationships. 151 00:07:30,560 --> 00:07:35,120 Speaker 2: So you reach out to Katie Jen, I'm going to 152 00:07:35,200 --> 00:07:38,480 Speaker 2: be in the OC. You guys told me whenever I'm 153 00:07:38,480 --> 00:07:40,320 Speaker 2: there to let you guys know. I'm letting you know 154 00:07:40,920 --> 00:07:44,200 Speaker 2: Jen's in Mexico with her finance fiance Ryan. And then 155 00:07:44,440 --> 00:07:47,400 Speaker 2: that leaves you and Katie to have a one on one. 156 00:07:47,760 --> 00:07:52,720 Speaker 2: So in this one of the conversation. Is this the 157 00:07:53,920 --> 00:07:58,560 Speaker 2: setting where all of a sudden Katie just started dropping 158 00:07:58,720 --> 00:08:04,320 Speaker 2: all of these allegacious against people, you know, Gina allegedly 159 00:08:04,960 --> 00:08:09,239 Speaker 2: you know, calling out the fact that she's not wearing 160 00:08:09,360 --> 00:08:12,360 Speaker 2: that Katie is not wearing Asian designers, and she thought 161 00:08:12,360 --> 00:08:14,680 Speaker 2: that that was a dick to her. Is this the 162 00:08:14,720 --> 00:08:17,640 Speaker 2: same setting where she talked to you about what Gretchen 163 00:08:17,760 --> 00:08:21,680 Speaker 2: allegedly said to her at matstros and OC. Is this 164 00:08:21,760 --> 00:08:22,480 Speaker 2: the same setting. 165 00:08:23,080 --> 00:08:26,080 Speaker 3: Yes, it was all that same day. Yes, And again 166 00:08:26,120 --> 00:08:28,720 Speaker 3: it wasn't coming out and I made that very clear. 167 00:08:29,280 --> 00:08:31,720 Speaker 3: She wasn't saying, ooh, I want to give you this information. 168 00:08:31,720 --> 00:08:33,040 Speaker 3: I didn't want you to do anything with it. We 169 00:08:33,040 --> 00:08:34,920 Speaker 3: were having a chat about a bunch of different things. 170 00:08:34,960 --> 00:08:36,720 Speaker 3: Of course, I'm being nosy as you would. I'm like, 171 00:08:36,880 --> 00:08:39,480 Speaker 3: can I see your reunion dress? Oh? You know, we're 172 00:08:39,480 --> 00:08:41,920 Speaker 3: going into things, you know, like who do you know 173 00:08:41,920 --> 00:08:44,480 Speaker 3: who's filming you know this upcoming season? You know, like 174 00:08:44,559 --> 00:08:47,439 Speaker 3: just having chat. And then I don't know exactly how 175 00:08:47,440 --> 00:08:50,240 Speaker 3: it came out, but she mentioned she was having you know, 176 00:08:50,640 --> 00:08:56,160 Speaker 3: lunch or dinner sorry, with Gretchen and Slade, and that's 177 00:08:56,200 --> 00:09:00,400 Speaker 3: when this conversation came up now. Of course, at the time, 178 00:09:00,440 --> 00:09:01,960 Speaker 3: I think I said something like, oh, you were having 179 00:09:02,000 --> 00:09:04,160 Speaker 3: dinner with Gretchen? Is she going to be on the 180 00:09:04,200 --> 00:09:06,920 Speaker 3: next season? Because this is on October. Gretchen hadn't been 181 00:09:06,920 --> 00:09:10,240 Speaker 3: announced for this the season yet. So when she told 182 00:09:10,280 --> 00:09:13,040 Speaker 3: me that story and she was like, oh, you know, 183 00:09:13,080 --> 00:09:15,560 Speaker 3: did you hear about naked Wasted? I was like floored, 184 00:09:15,800 --> 00:09:18,959 Speaker 3: And I was like, that's crazy, But you hear I 185 00:09:19,040 --> 00:09:22,520 Speaker 3: hear crazy things every single day. I literally hear off 186 00:09:22,559 --> 00:09:25,920 Speaker 3: the record stuff, crazy rumors every day. I take it 187 00:09:25,960 --> 00:09:29,040 Speaker 3: in I'm like, whoa, that's crazy. And then we moved on, 188 00:09:29,160 --> 00:09:31,160 Speaker 3: and then she did bring up the Gina thing, and 189 00:09:31,240 --> 00:09:33,439 Speaker 3: of course I you know, I've been side eyeing Gina 190 00:09:33,520 --> 00:09:35,200 Speaker 3: ever since because I was like, oh my god, I 191 00:09:35,200 --> 00:09:37,320 Speaker 3: can't believe she did that, Like I thought, it was 192 00:09:37,360 --> 00:09:40,320 Speaker 3: really messed up. And then we went about our day 193 00:09:40,480 --> 00:09:44,599 Speaker 3: like she left. You know, we ended up there was 194 00:09:44,640 --> 00:09:46,960 Speaker 3: an US Weekly party a few weeks later. I was 195 00:09:46,960 --> 00:09:49,480 Speaker 3: doing red carpet for that. I was like, hey, you know, 196 00:09:49,520 --> 00:09:51,160 Speaker 3: I'll see you at the party. You know, we again, 197 00:09:51,200 --> 00:09:53,720 Speaker 3: we just continued banter, and also I had wanted I 198 00:09:53,760 --> 00:09:56,040 Speaker 3: really wanted her to succeed at the reunion. So I 199 00:09:56,040 --> 00:09:57,719 Speaker 3: you know, if I saw something online then I thought 200 00:09:57,720 --> 00:09:59,240 Speaker 3: would help her. I'd be like, hey girl, you know 201 00:09:59,360 --> 00:10:01,360 Speaker 3: check this out. You know this is you know, funny. 202 00:10:01,640 --> 00:10:03,800 Speaker 3: And we just had banters, you know, we'd send tiktoks 203 00:10:03,840 --> 00:10:06,920 Speaker 3: to each other. It was a really light relationship. The 204 00:10:06,960 --> 00:10:11,200 Speaker 3: only reason it eventually made it to a journalist was 205 00:10:11,240 --> 00:10:13,840 Speaker 3: because in January. Again, this is months later. I've sat 206 00:10:13,840 --> 00:10:17,000 Speaker 3: it on October, November, December. If I was messy, I'd 207 00:10:17,040 --> 00:10:19,880 Speaker 3: be telling people I literally left that lunch and like 208 00:10:19,960 --> 00:10:23,040 Speaker 3: didn't really think about it. But in January and this happened. 209 00:10:23,440 --> 00:10:26,520 Speaker 2: So just so I'm clear, your one on one with 210 00:10:27,120 --> 00:10:32,120 Speaker 2: Katie happened October of twenty twenty four. Correct, okay, And 211 00:10:32,320 --> 00:10:34,160 Speaker 2: before we get into what happened in January, just to 212 00:10:34,160 --> 00:10:37,080 Speaker 2: clear things up, can you because I know that when 213 00:10:37,080 --> 00:10:40,240 Speaker 2: we watched reality shows, you got a film for hours 214 00:10:40,280 --> 00:10:41,439 Speaker 2: and things get edited down. 215 00:10:41,480 --> 00:10:43,640 Speaker 1: So I want you to have the opportunity, Kiki, to just. 216 00:10:43,600 --> 00:10:47,880 Speaker 2: Clear the air, to stay out of your own mouth, unedited, uninterrupted. 217 00:10:48,760 --> 00:10:52,880 Speaker 2: What did Katie say to you about naked Wasted? 218 00:10:53,120 --> 00:10:56,360 Speaker 1: And what Gretchen allegedly said to her at dinner? 219 00:10:57,280 --> 00:11:01,320 Speaker 3: She said, did you know that at that naked Wasted 220 00:11:01,440 --> 00:11:04,520 Speaker 3: night that Gretchen had to go to the hospital and 221 00:11:05,120 --> 00:11:08,160 Speaker 3: she found they found drugs in her system, and I 222 00:11:08,240 --> 00:11:11,080 Speaker 3: was like, like, what do you mean? I was like, 223 00:11:11,920 --> 00:11:15,640 Speaker 3: there were drugs in her system? Did she get a report? 224 00:11:15,920 --> 00:11:17,840 Speaker 3: Did she go to police? Did she go to production? 225 00:11:18,320 --> 00:11:20,400 Speaker 3: And she was just like, I don't know. And I 226 00:11:20,440 --> 00:11:22,960 Speaker 3: was just like, how is this never come up? Like 227 00:11:23,040 --> 00:11:26,000 Speaker 3: I don't understand, like if if she why wouldn't And 228 00:11:26,040 --> 00:11:27,800 Speaker 3: she was just kind of like, I don't know. I 229 00:11:27,920 --> 00:11:29,920 Speaker 3: just none of it really made sense because I was like, 230 00:11:30,520 --> 00:11:32,800 Speaker 3: if that happened, I just feel like so many other 231 00:11:32,840 --> 00:11:36,360 Speaker 3: things would have happened, just logically. But I'm just kind 232 00:11:36,400 --> 00:11:38,280 Speaker 3: of like, that's crazy that she told you that. 233 00:11:39,720 --> 00:11:44,440 Speaker 2: Okay, to stop you there, did she tell you that 234 00:11:44,559 --> 00:11:48,080 Speaker 2: in this meeting in October that Jen and Ryan were 235 00:11:48,120 --> 00:11:49,599 Speaker 2: present during this conversation. 236 00:11:50,240 --> 00:11:53,680 Speaker 3: See, That's what I don't think was clear. I don't 237 00:11:53,760 --> 00:11:58,240 Speaker 3: think I actually realized Jen and Ryan were also out 238 00:11:58,280 --> 00:12:01,240 Speaker 3: that dinner till later for some like maybe she said it. 239 00:12:01,280 --> 00:12:04,280 Speaker 3: I can't I honestly don't remember. I really only remember 240 00:12:04,640 --> 00:12:07,640 Speaker 3: her saying Gretchen and Slade, and then at some point 241 00:12:08,080 --> 00:12:10,280 Speaker 3: I did know that Jen and Ryan were also there, 242 00:12:11,160 --> 00:12:13,520 Speaker 3: but I don't know if I remember if it was 243 00:12:13,520 --> 00:12:13,960 Speaker 3: that day. 244 00:12:14,960 --> 00:12:23,640 Speaker 2: Okay, did did she intimate to you that Gretchen was 245 00:12:24,200 --> 00:12:25,600 Speaker 2: trying to get back on OC? 246 00:12:26,240 --> 00:12:28,520 Speaker 1: Was was and talk to get back on OC? In 247 00:12:28,559 --> 00:12:30,080 Speaker 1: this conversation? You know? 248 00:12:30,480 --> 00:12:32,120 Speaker 3: When I asked her, because I mean again, when she 249 00:12:32,120 --> 00:12:34,560 Speaker 3: initially said, oh, I went to dinner with Gretchen Slay, 250 00:12:34,800 --> 00:12:36,640 Speaker 3: of course I said like, oh, she gonna be on 251 00:12:36,679 --> 00:12:39,360 Speaker 3: next season? And she didn't answer, She didn't say anything. 252 00:12:39,360 --> 00:12:42,079 Speaker 3: But I always take those sort of non answers as like, oh, 253 00:12:42,280 --> 00:12:45,719 Speaker 3: maybe you know it makes sense, right, you're making allies. 254 00:12:45,920 --> 00:12:48,680 Speaker 3: You've come off a season where you know Jen is 255 00:12:48,679 --> 00:12:51,640 Speaker 3: not in a great place with Tamra. You're good friends 256 00:12:51,640 --> 00:12:54,800 Speaker 3: with Jen. We know how Gretchen feels. I understand why 257 00:12:54,800 --> 00:12:57,040 Speaker 3: the three of you would be at dinner, and so 258 00:12:57,120 --> 00:12:59,160 Speaker 3: it makes sense why they would be at dinner. And 259 00:13:00,000 --> 00:13:02,680 Speaker 3: I understand that people get friendly with, you know, all 260 00:13:02,720 --> 00:13:05,440 Speaker 3: sorts of housewives, you know, after their season to like 261 00:13:05,800 --> 00:13:08,000 Speaker 3: so you know, I was sort of fishing, but she 262 00:13:08,040 --> 00:13:10,199 Speaker 3: didn't give me any of that. I didn't know for sure. 263 00:13:11,120 --> 00:13:18,320 Speaker 2: Okay, when she told you the stuff about Gina did 264 00:13:18,720 --> 00:13:21,199 Speaker 2: when she mentioned that Gina question whether or not her 265 00:13:21,280 --> 00:13:26,160 Speaker 2: designers were Asian designers. How did she say it in 266 00:13:26,200 --> 00:13:28,760 Speaker 2: a way that made you feel uncomfortable? Did you feel 267 00:13:28,800 --> 00:13:32,040 Speaker 2: like the way she reported it to you it made 268 00:13:32,080 --> 00:13:35,760 Speaker 2: it appear that Gina said something racist. 269 00:13:36,240 --> 00:13:38,440 Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean I think that's why even if you 270 00:13:38,480 --> 00:13:40,760 Speaker 3: see in the episode the way I said it, I 271 00:13:40,800 --> 00:13:43,800 Speaker 3: was literally repeating it exactly how Katie said it to me, 272 00:13:43,840 --> 00:13:46,520 Speaker 3: because she was like, you know, like I was, you know, 273 00:13:46,559 --> 00:13:49,160 Speaker 3: I really wanted to feature Asian designers, you know, on 274 00:13:49,200 --> 00:13:50,600 Speaker 3: the show. And maybe this had been when we were 275 00:13:50,600 --> 00:13:52,880 Speaker 3: talking about her, like you know, RENI just I don't remember. 276 00:13:53,200 --> 00:13:54,760 Speaker 3: And I was like, oh yeah, She's like you know. 277 00:13:55,360 --> 00:13:57,440 Speaker 3: And then you know, one time I come into the 278 00:13:57,480 --> 00:13:59,720 Speaker 3: scene and I have an outf and on and Gina 279 00:13:59,720 --> 00:14:02,880 Speaker 3: looks me and goes, is that an age and designer? 280 00:14:03,720 --> 00:14:05,920 Speaker 3: And this is what she said to me. She said, 281 00:14:05,960 --> 00:14:07,960 Speaker 3: you know, I looked at the camera. I looked at 282 00:14:07,960 --> 00:14:10,839 Speaker 3: the producers like did you get that? And they were 283 00:14:10,880 --> 00:14:13,000 Speaker 3: just like and I was like, they didn't do anything 284 00:14:13,000 --> 00:14:14,760 Speaker 3: with it. They didn't show it. Why didn't they air it? 285 00:14:14,800 --> 00:14:17,040 Speaker 3: And she was just like I don't know, and I 286 00:14:17,120 --> 00:14:19,360 Speaker 3: was just like h and so like we just sort 287 00:14:19,360 --> 00:14:21,520 Speaker 3: of had that you know, brown girl, black girl fingers 288 00:14:21,600 --> 00:14:24,640 Speaker 3: like m you know, like what you do when someone 289 00:14:24,960 --> 00:14:27,280 Speaker 3: says something shady. And so that's kind of what I 290 00:14:27,320 --> 00:14:29,480 Speaker 3: walked away with that conversation feeling about Gina. 291 00:14:29,600 --> 00:14:33,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, Okay, while you were talking to her, did you 292 00:14:33,840 --> 00:14:35,880 Speaker 2: get the and I'm gonna get to January, But when 293 00:14:35,880 --> 00:14:37,360 Speaker 2: you were talking to her in this in this one 294 00:14:37,400 --> 00:14:42,320 Speaker 2: on one, did you get the sense that Katie was 295 00:14:42,400 --> 00:14:45,080 Speaker 2: telling you things off the record? You know, one thing 296 00:14:45,080 --> 00:14:48,200 Speaker 2: I know about conversations, sometimes you do a pinky swear 297 00:14:48,440 --> 00:14:52,400 Speaker 2: like what Drusidora, Angela Oakley and Shamia did right or 298 00:14:52,800 --> 00:14:56,400 Speaker 2: you say off the record? Were any of those things 299 00:14:56,440 --> 00:14:59,000 Speaker 2: said like to you from Katie? 300 00:15:00,000 --> 00:15:01,680 Speaker 3: I don't think people ever have to say that with 301 00:15:01,760 --> 00:15:04,120 Speaker 3: me because I just I'm not someone that repeats like 302 00:15:04,160 --> 00:15:06,560 Speaker 3: you know, Like again, I have friendships with a lot 303 00:15:06,560 --> 00:15:09,880 Speaker 3: of these reality stars, and I've I always go into 304 00:15:09,920 --> 00:15:14,160 Speaker 3: every conversation really just assuming like I'm not gonna repeat this. 305 00:15:14,520 --> 00:15:16,720 Speaker 3: I don't really say off the record because unless I'm 306 00:15:16,720 --> 00:15:19,160 Speaker 3: coming to you, you know, as a reporter, and we're 307 00:15:19,280 --> 00:15:22,080 Speaker 3: like you know, and I'm investigating a story, I'm not 308 00:15:22,120 --> 00:15:24,040 Speaker 3: going to say like off the record, but you know, 309 00:15:24,120 --> 00:15:27,600 Speaker 3: she knows I'm not going to I would assume repeat it. 310 00:15:28,240 --> 00:15:31,360 Speaker 3: That's how I assumed. The reason I started to like 311 00:15:31,440 --> 00:15:34,040 Speaker 3: feel a little bit weird was because as we sort 312 00:15:34,040 --> 00:15:36,320 Speaker 3: of continued our friendship, she would send me some things 313 00:15:36,320 --> 00:15:39,040 Speaker 3: here and there, and I started wondering, like, does she 314 00:15:39,160 --> 00:15:42,080 Speaker 3: think I'm gonna do something with this information? I couldn't 315 00:15:42,080 --> 00:15:44,720 Speaker 3: really tell because you know, or is she just telling 316 00:15:44,760 --> 00:15:46,960 Speaker 3: me because she thinks I want to know? You know, fine, 317 00:15:47,080 --> 00:15:49,320 Speaker 3: Like I don't really know. 318 00:15:50,640 --> 00:15:52,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, because one thing I know, Look, I got said 319 00:15:52,840 --> 00:15:56,120 Speaker 2: this on my own podcasts. I'm friends with everybody in 320 00:15:56,200 --> 00:16:00,040 Speaker 2: the business, almost everybody in the business, right and I 321 00:16:00,240 --> 00:16:05,680 Speaker 2: know that when reality stars didn't DM me stuff, I 322 00:16:05,800 --> 00:16:08,880 Speaker 2: know that a lot of it has to do with 323 00:16:08,920 --> 00:16:10,640 Speaker 2: the fact that they want me to talk about it. 324 00:16:11,600 --> 00:16:14,400 Speaker 2: They don't necessarily say talk about this, but they send 325 00:16:14,440 --> 00:16:18,440 Speaker 2: me stuff. And because my platform isn't he says, she say, 326 00:16:19,440 --> 00:16:21,240 Speaker 2: I don't base things off of that. I just base 327 00:16:21,320 --> 00:16:23,280 Speaker 2: things off of what we're watching on the show, my 328 00:16:23,400 --> 00:16:28,200 Speaker 2: opinion on the shows. And obviously if a story is 329 00:16:28,360 --> 00:16:31,680 Speaker 2: big that you just can't ignore, then I'll talk about 330 00:16:31,680 --> 00:16:33,440 Speaker 2: it that way. But I never come to the table 331 00:16:33,560 --> 00:16:37,200 Speaker 2: like Ooh, someone's sending this DM or X, Y and 332 00:16:37,320 --> 00:16:39,320 Speaker 2: Z because I never want to get in the muddy waters. 333 00:16:39,960 --> 00:16:47,040 Speaker 2: Did you feel like, okay, hmm, should I keep it 334 00:16:47,200 --> 00:16:49,800 Speaker 2: to myself or should I talk to somebody? Because what 335 00:16:49,920 --> 00:16:53,440 Speaker 2: happened in January? You said you spoke into a fellow 336 00:16:53,560 --> 00:16:56,560 Speaker 2: journalist about it. So what happened where you felt the 337 00:16:56,680 --> 00:16:58,760 Speaker 2: need to talk about it to somebody months later? 338 00:16:59,160 --> 00:17:02,440 Speaker 3: Yeah, I had no interest in doing anything with that information. 339 00:17:02,560 --> 00:17:05,280 Speaker 3: But when January was announced and it was announced that 340 00:17:05,320 --> 00:17:09,159 Speaker 3: Gretchen was coming to the Real Housewives of Orange County, 341 00:17:10,160 --> 00:17:13,520 Speaker 3: that is where I did get concerned, because now I 342 00:17:13,560 --> 00:17:17,560 Speaker 3: had a piece of information which I'm sorry if there's 343 00:17:17,600 --> 00:17:20,680 Speaker 3: if these allegations are true, that's illegal, and that is 344 00:17:21,400 --> 00:17:23,080 Speaker 3: I don't know. One, I want to get to the 345 00:17:23,080 --> 00:17:25,720 Speaker 3: bottom of there's any truth to this story, because like, 346 00:17:25,840 --> 00:17:30,479 Speaker 3: if so, this needs to be exposed. And two, like 347 00:17:30,720 --> 00:17:34,600 Speaker 3: we had just come off of that really dark Roney 348 00:17:34,680 --> 00:17:37,800 Speaker 3: season with Brinn and all of that, And I truthfully 349 00:17:37,960 --> 00:17:40,199 Speaker 3: was like if they were talking about this, because I 350 00:17:40,200 --> 00:17:42,120 Speaker 3: couldn't think of any other reason they were talking about 351 00:17:42,119 --> 00:17:45,800 Speaker 3: this at this dinner in October unless they were thinking 352 00:17:45,800 --> 00:17:48,919 Speaker 3: that this might be a storyline in the upcoming season, 353 00:17:48,920 --> 00:17:51,439 Speaker 3: and I said, this is just not something that I 354 00:17:51,440 --> 00:17:54,720 Speaker 3: think the viewers have the appetite for as a stomach 355 00:17:54,800 --> 00:17:57,280 Speaker 3: line when we just came of off that Roney season. 356 00:17:57,720 --> 00:17:59,560 Speaker 3: So I feel like I need to like either find 357 00:17:59,560 --> 00:18:02,159 Speaker 3: out if this story is true or not and like 358 00:18:02,359 --> 00:18:04,320 Speaker 3: just like put an end to it. And if it's 359 00:18:04,359 --> 00:18:06,719 Speaker 3: not true, like we can just like kill, you know, 360 00:18:06,800 --> 00:18:09,320 Speaker 3: debt it, or if there is truth in the story, 361 00:18:09,400 --> 00:18:11,480 Speaker 3: like we need to find out because this is actually 362 00:18:11,600 --> 00:18:14,560 Speaker 3: like it's it's illegal or it's defamatory, one or the other. 363 00:18:16,520 --> 00:18:21,360 Speaker 2: And and you thought this way, you had. 364 00:18:21,160 --> 00:18:25,880 Speaker 1: A conversation with another journalist. What was that conversation like. 365 00:18:26,320 --> 00:18:27,960 Speaker 3: And this is where it gets muddy. And this is 366 00:18:28,000 --> 00:18:32,600 Speaker 3: why again, like when you see things repeated on different 367 00:18:32,640 --> 00:18:36,720 Speaker 3: platforms as it goes, the game of Telephone is really terrible. 368 00:18:37,000 --> 00:18:40,160 Speaker 3: But I spoke to one journalist journalist initially, I said, 369 00:18:40,200 --> 00:18:43,840 Speaker 3: can you help me, because again I'm independent, their legacy media, 370 00:18:43,840 --> 00:18:46,439 Speaker 3: they have more resources and access than I do. I 371 00:18:46,440 --> 00:18:48,200 Speaker 3: don't want this attached to me, and I also don't 372 00:18:48,240 --> 00:18:50,240 Speaker 3: want this story coming to light. I just want to 373 00:18:50,280 --> 00:18:51,840 Speaker 3: find out if we can find out if there's any 374 00:18:51,840 --> 00:18:56,160 Speaker 3: truth in the story that reporter, despite what was out there, 375 00:18:56,960 --> 00:19:00,639 Speaker 3: never repeated my name, never said even that he or 376 00:19:00,720 --> 00:19:05,760 Speaker 3: she who found this information and was able I felt comfortable, 377 00:19:06,160 --> 00:19:09,440 Speaker 3: comfortably came back to me that this story was not true, 378 00:19:09,600 --> 00:19:13,720 Speaker 3: and so I was like, that's fine. I'm comfortable with 379 00:19:13,760 --> 00:19:16,399 Speaker 3: the story not being true. And I don't really know 380 00:19:16,440 --> 00:19:19,920 Speaker 3: what to do with it from here other than hope 381 00:19:19,960 --> 00:19:23,879 Speaker 3: it doesn't come out in the next season. Speaking to 382 00:19:24,000 --> 00:19:27,800 Speaker 3: the other journalist, it's hard to get into because, as 383 00:19:27,840 --> 00:19:33,000 Speaker 3: you know, building relationships in this industry requires very intimate, 384 00:19:33,240 --> 00:19:35,919 Speaker 3: off the record conversation about a lot of different things, 385 00:19:36,520 --> 00:19:39,439 Speaker 3: and the conversation with the second journalist really was centered 386 00:19:39,440 --> 00:19:42,040 Speaker 3: around that. We were having a very sort of open, 387 00:19:42,480 --> 00:19:45,800 Speaker 3: back and forth discussion about a lot of different things. Again, 388 00:19:45,840 --> 00:19:48,639 Speaker 3: I won't get into because it would expose him, but 389 00:19:49,040 --> 00:19:51,320 Speaker 3: there was a reason why Katie's name came up in 390 00:19:51,359 --> 00:19:54,520 Speaker 3: that conversation. I can say part of it was him 391 00:19:54,640 --> 00:19:58,600 Speaker 3: trying to understand my thoughts on her and you know, 392 00:19:58,960 --> 00:20:01,800 Speaker 3: trusting her and that, and I said, look, and I said, 393 00:20:01,920 --> 00:20:04,159 Speaker 3: I really do like her. You know, we've had a 394 00:20:04,160 --> 00:20:08,359 Speaker 3: great rapport. There was this one thing, so I wasn't sure, 395 00:20:08,480 --> 00:20:11,520 Speaker 3: but I'm comfortable. The story isn't true, so you know, 396 00:20:11,840 --> 00:20:13,760 Speaker 3: I've moved on from it. But I will say like 397 00:20:13,840 --> 00:20:17,440 Speaker 3: that was like a weird story. I expected that conversation 398 00:20:17,560 --> 00:20:20,919 Speaker 3: to never leave that bubble of again off the record, 399 00:20:21,240 --> 00:20:24,359 Speaker 3: and unfortunately that conversation was taken back to Tamra. 400 00:20:26,160 --> 00:20:28,680 Speaker 2: How did you find out that conversation was taken back 401 00:20:28,680 --> 00:20:29,159 Speaker 2: to Tamra? 402 00:20:30,480 --> 00:20:34,399 Speaker 3: When Katie texted me at the end of February, I 403 00:20:34,560 --> 00:20:37,159 Speaker 3: was literally on the tarmac, my flight was about to 404 00:20:37,160 --> 00:20:39,119 Speaker 3: take off. I'm flying to New York for two weeks. 405 00:20:39,520 --> 00:20:42,480 Speaker 3: I get a text from Katie that says, are you 406 00:20:42,600 --> 00:20:46,200 Speaker 3: around to film today? At five? And I just did 407 00:20:46,200 --> 00:20:50,760 Speaker 3: a question mark and then she wrote, your name was 408 00:20:50,800 --> 00:20:53,679 Speaker 3: brought up on camera and I did an exclamation point 409 00:20:54,240 --> 00:20:58,080 Speaker 3: and I said who and what? And she said, you 410 00:20:58,119 --> 00:21:02,320 Speaker 3: know Tamra about Tamra And I said what was it about? 411 00:21:02,359 --> 00:21:06,560 Speaker 3: And she said I don't know. And I said, I'm 412 00:21:06,640 --> 00:21:09,080 Speaker 3: literally in the air for the next five hours. And 413 00:21:09,200 --> 00:21:12,199 Speaker 3: she was like, oh, shoot, well you know, let me 414 00:21:12,280 --> 00:21:16,200 Speaker 3: know when you can. I had no interest in filming. 415 00:21:16,560 --> 00:21:19,560 Speaker 3: I had no interest in being part of this. I'm panicking, 416 00:21:20,040 --> 00:21:21,439 Speaker 3: but of course I'm in the air because I know 417 00:21:21,440 --> 00:21:23,680 Speaker 3: I've told. Even though she said she didn't know what 418 00:21:23,760 --> 00:21:25,800 Speaker 3: it was about. I can at that point I know 419 00:21:25,880 --> 00:21:27,760 Speaker 3: that it had to be something regarding this because I 420 00:21:27,960 --> 00:21:31,240 Speaker 3: just told this other person. So I texted he admitted 421 00:21:31,280 --> 00:21:34,040 Speaker 3: he had told Tamra. So I'm freaking out, like, why 422 00:21:34,119 --> 00:21:37,479 Speaker 3: did you do this? Said blah blah blah, And I 423 00:21:37,520 --> 00:21:39,040 Speaker 3: go to New York. I have to get work done. 424 00:21:39,080 --> 00:21:40,560 Speaker 3: I'm just kind of like, you know what, I'm gonna 425 00:21:40,600 --> 00:21:44,120 Speaker 3: go go to New York and just do whatever. I'm 426 00:21:44,119 --> 00:21:46,080 Speaker 3: in New York. I don't hear from Katie again, so 427 00:21:46,080 --> 00:21:49,160 Speaker 3: I'm thinking, Okay, in denial, I'm like, you know what, 428 00:21:49,280 --> 00:21:51,159 Speaker 3: this is not going to be a thing. I'm going 429 00:21:51,200 --> 00:21:54,640 Speaker 3: to keep moving on, do my life whatever, come back 430 00:21:54,640 --> 00:21:57,320 Speaker 3: to New York. Like three weeks later, two three weeks later, 431 00:21:58,359 --> 00:22:02,480 Speaker 3: I'm at a party and I get reached out to 432 00:22:02,760 --> 00:22:07,200 Speaker 3: by Orange County producers and they're like, so, your name 433 00:22:07,400 --> 00:22:11,080 Speaker 3: has been repeatedly brought up on camera and you know, 434 00:22:11,160 --> 00:22:13,879 Speaker 3: and basically that was how they reached out. And so 435 00:22:13,960 --> 00:22:16,960 Speaker 3: at that point, I'm just like and basically what I 436 00:22:17,040 --> 00:22:18,840 Speaker 3: learned was like, my name was brought up on camera 437 00:22:18,880 --> 00:22:21,959 Speaker 3: and we're basically being told that you're spreading something that 438 00:22:22,040 --> 00:22:24,000 Speaker 3: was not told to you. It's not the truth. And 439 00:22:24,040 --> 00:22:26,359 Speaker 3: that's when I freak out because I'm like, one, I 440 00:22:26,359 --> 00:22:28,040 Speaker 3: didn't want to be involved in this, but two, I 441 00:22:28,080 --> 00:22:30,720 Speaker 3: have kind of two options at this point, like let 442 00:22:30,760 --> 00:22:33,919 Speaker 3: this narrative play out and I don't know what that means, 443 00:22:34,200 --> 00:22:37,199 Speaker 3: or they're given me the opportunity, which honestly I'm grateful 444 00:22:37,200 --> 00:22:39,000 Speaker 3: for because not a lot of people give this opportunity 445 00:22:39,200 --> 00:22:42,399 Speaker 3: to try to clear my name. And so I agree 446 00:22:42,440 --> 00:22:44,200 Speaker 3: to film, and that's pretty much it. 447 00:22:46,160 --> 00:22:51,000 Speaker 2: When you agree to film, did the producers tell you 448 00:22:51,000 --> 00:22:57,280 Speaker 2: you are filming with Gretchen and Gina, because I'm assuming 449 00:22:57,640 --> 00:23:01,440 Speaker 2: you would have. I don't know if thought or would 450 00:23:01,480 --> 00:23:04,960 Speaker 2: have been positioned wanted to. I'm not clear some with 451 00:23:05,160 --> 00:23:07,760 Speaker 2: Katie since the information came from her, So how did 452 00:23:07,800 --> 00:23:08,879 Speaker 2: that come about. 453 00:23:10,280 --> 00:23:13,560 Speaker 3: I believe they wanted me to film with just Gretchen 454 00:23:14,600 --> 00:23:17,159 Speaker 3: and what I said to them, and I don't even 455 00:23:17,200 --> 00:23:19,119 Speaker 3: know if I'm but whatever, I'm going to say it 456 00:23:19,119 --> 00:23:22,119 Speaker 3: because people may not understand I was only supposed to 457 00:23:22,119 --> 00:23:24,840 Speaker 3: film with Gretchen and I said, look, there were three 458 00:23:24,840 --> 00:23:28,720 Speaker 3: people at this dinner. Gretchen and Katie were two of them. 459 00:23:29,320 --> 00:23:32,600 Speaker 3: I don't know how comfortable I feel only filming with 460 00:23:32,680 --> 00:23:35,439 Speaker 3: Gretchen because this is someone who was also part of 461 00:23:35,480 --> 00:23:40,480 Speaker 3: the story. I would feel more comfortable if someone else 462 00:23:40,840 --> 00:23:42,840 Speaker 3: was there. And this is okay, and this is where 463 00:23:42,880 --> 00:23:44,960 Speaker 3: and again, this maybe been the messy part, but this 464 00:23:45,040 --> 00:23:46,840 Speaker 3: was the only way I thought I could clear my name. 465 00:23:47,320 --> 00:23:50,560 Speaker 3: I said, I have a piece of information also from 466 00:23:50,560 --> 00:23:54,320 Speaker 3: that lunch that nobody else would know and would prove 467 00:23:54,400 --> 00:23:57,200 Speaker 3: that this information was told to me. I would rather 468 00:23:57,280 --> 00:24:00,760 Speaker 3: her be there, and I'd rather tell her there in 469 00:24:00,760 --> 00:24:03,480 Speaker 3: that moment what was said, because honestly, I feel like 470 00:24:03,520 --> 00:24:05,160 Speaker 3: if I say it to her face, I'll know also 471 00:24:05,200 --> 00:24:09,080 Speaker 3: if there's any truth to that story. And so I 472 00:24:09,800 --> 00:24:12,160 Speaker 3: was really the one that pushed for Gina to be there. 473 00:24:13,320 --> 00:24:16,120 Speaker 1: Got it. Now, let me go back a little bit. 474 00:24:18,640 --> 00:24:22,359 Speaker 2: The time you landed in New York, when Katie text you, 475 00:24:23,160 --> 00:24:26,879 Speaker 2: to the time that the producers contacted you. Did you 476 00:24:26,920 --> 00:24:29,560 Speaker 2: and Katie ever have a conversation during that window? 477 00:24:30,119 --> 00:24:33,000 Speaker 3: I never heard from her again, And like, again, that's 478 00:24:33,000 --> 00:24:35,040 Speaker 3: why I kind of thought, like, this won't be a thing. 479 00:24:35,240 --> 00:24:37,600 Speaker 3: I had no idea, And in the time that I 480 00:24:37,640 --> 00:24:39,679 Speaker 3: was in New York, they had gone to New Orleans 481 00:24:39,680 --> 00:24:42,040 Speaker 3: and all that stuff that we see playing out had happened. 482 00:24:42,560 --> 00:24:45,760 Speaker 3: She never contacted me, told me any of that happened. 483 00:24:46,320 --> 00:24:49,320 Speaker 3: I had no clue any of that had gone down, 484 00:24:49,320 --> 00:24:52,760 Speaker 3: which is why again, while I'm watching it, it's shocking 485 00:24:52,800 --> 00:24:55,920 Speaker 3: because I'm thinking, well, girl, you could have like reached 486 00:24:55,960 --> 00:24:57,920 Speaker 3: out to me and said, like, you know, they're saying 487 00:24:57,960 --> 00:25:00,159 Speaker 3: your name, they're saying I said this to you, But 488 00:25:00,240 --> 00:25:03,399 Speaker 3: I never heard from her again after that day. I 489 00:25:03,480 --> 00:25:07,280 Speaker 3: had no clue how deep it had gone in New Orleans. 490 00:25:09,960 --> 00:25:13,679 Speaker 2: When you got the cop on the producers, did you 491 00:25:14,080 --> 00:25:19,720 Speaker 2: have any communication with Katie before the scene with Gretchen 492 00:25:20,160 --> 00:25:22,359 Speaker 2: and Gina or even afterwards. 493 00:25:23,280 --> 00:25:25,639 Speaker 3: I hadn't talked to no. I mean I never heard 494 00:25:25,680 --> 00:25:32,639 Speaker 3: from from Katie ever. Ever, again I did, like I 495 00:25:32,680 --> 00:25:35,000 Speaker 3: did speak with Gretchen. Oh well, I kind of spoke 496 00:25:35,040 --> 00:25:39,560 Speaker 3: with Gretchen only because again when this came out, now 497 00:25:40,040 --> 00:25:43,080 Speaker 3: Gretchen has reached out turn Sheena Shee, who I'm good 498 00:25:43,119 --> 00:25:45,560 Speaker 3: friends with Seena. Se are friends, and so then Sheena 499 00:25:45,880 --> 00:25:49,120 Speaker 3: because Gretchen's like, who is this person Kiki Monique who's 500 00:25:49,119 --> 00:25:51,840 Speaker 3: saying spreading these things about me? Because Gretchen at this point, 501 00:25:51,920 --> 00:25:55,080 Speaker 3: Gretchen thinks I'm just like some again crazy blogger who's 502 00:25:55,080 --> 00:25:58,040 Speaker 3: just spreading rumors about her. But she knows that I'm 503 00:25:58,080 --> 00:26:00,119 Speaker 3: friends with Sheena, so she's trying to like get to 504 00:26:00,119 --> 00:26:02,760 Speaker 3: the bottom. And I said, look, look, I want nothing 505 00:26:02,800 --> 00:26:05,520 Speaker 3: to do with this, like I promise you, like I 506 00:26:05,600 --> 00:26:08,040 Speaker 3: wasn't trying to like spread rumors, like I was just 507 00:26:08,080 --> 00:26:09,560 Speaker 3: trying to get to the bottom of whether the story 508 00:26:09,640 --> 00:26:11,840 Speaker 3: was real. Because also she is looking at me crazy, 509 00:26:11,920 --> 00:26:13,879 Speaker 3: like girl, like this is you know, like the whole 510 00:26:13,880 --> 00:26:16,119 Speaker 3: thing was like I was like, I want nothing to 511 00:26:16,160 --> 00:26:19,760 Speaker 3: do with this. This was not the opposite of what 512 00:26:19,840 --> 00:26:21,840 Speaker 3: my intention. Is happening right now. 513 00:26:23,480 --> 00:26:25,879 Speaker 1: I want to ask you this because obviously you watch 514 00:26:26,000 --> 00:26:30,160 Speaker 1: the season. In the episode, just like we all have. 515 00:26:30,320 --> 00:26:35,960 Speaker 2: Right, they're in New Orleans the OC Housewives, and this 516 00:26:36,040 --> 00:26:39,720 Speaker 2: conversation does come up where you know, they talk about 517 00:26:40,080 --> 00:26:43,919 Speaker 2: whether or not Gretchen said these things once again. The 518 00:26:43,920 --> 00:26:48,120 Speaker 2: housewives call Katie to the carpet and they say, well, 519 00:26:48,160 --> 00:26:53,960 Speaker 2: call her, and Katie said she does not want to film. 520 00:26:56,280 --> 00:27:00,280 Speaker 2: Is did Katie ever contact you? Well, you know when 521 00:27:00,320 --> 00:27:02,439 Speaker 2: she contacted you, was that when you were on the 522 00:27:02,440 --> 00:27:04,600 Speaker 2: plane or was that after the fact. 523 00:27:05,000 --> 00:27:07,960 Speaker 3: Now, I was literally like all the tarmac about to 524 00:27:08,000 --> 00:27:10,320 Speaker 3: take off, so all of that conversation happened. So I 525 00:27:10,400 --> 00:27:12,840 Speaker 3: did respond to her. She reached out. She asked me 526 00:27:12,840 --> 00:27:14,960 Speaker 3: if I wanted to film. I didn't say yes or no. 527 00:27:15,200 --> 00:27:17,400 Speaker 3: I was again in shock. I was like, question mark 528 00:27:17,480 --> 00:27:20,000 Speaker 3: exclamation point, what is this about? What am I filming about? 529 00:27:20,000 --> 00:27:21,600 Speaker 3: What do you talk she wants? Because she wanted me 530 00:27:21,640 --> 00:27:23,720 Speaker 3: to get on the phone at five pm that day 531 00:27:24,040 --> 00:27:26,040 Speaker 3: to film something, but she wasn't telling me what it 532 00:27:26,080 --> 00:27:28,399 Speaker 3: was about. And I'm just like, but what is it about? 533 00:27:28,440 --> 00:27:30,280 Speaker 1: In New Orleans? So she went to New almost when 534 00:27:30,320 --> 00:27:30,600 Speaker 1: she text. 535 00:27:31,160 --> 00:27:34,240 Speaker 3: This was February twenty eighth. I got that text and 536 00:27:34,280 --> 00:27:36,080 Speaker 3: they didn't go to hold from March. 537 00:27:37,640 --> 00:27:40,800 Speaker 2: Okay, so let's cause you know we're getting somewhere here. 538 00:27:42,000 --> 00:27:45,160 Speaker 2: Katie texts you they want you to film in February. 539 00:27:45,960 --> 00:27:48,960 Speaker 3: February twenty eighth is when I got the text. 540 00:27:49,359 --> 00:27:54,359 Speaker 2: They found New Orleans in March. So when they said 541 00:27:54,960 --> 00:28:02,560 Speaker 2: reach out to her and she said she doesn't want 542 00:28:02,560 --> 00:28:08,080 Speaker 2: to film. She never contacted you at all while she 543 00:28:08,240 --> 00:28:09,240 Speaker 2: was in New Orleans. 544 00:28:09,640 --> 00:28:12,720 Speaker 3: No, I never heard from her again after February twenty eighth. 545 00:28:15,040 --> 00:28:17,879 Speaker 1: When you saw that moment, do you think again. 546 00:28:18,000 --> 00:28:20,240 Speaker 2: I don't know Katie from a can of paint, right, 547 00:28:20,240 --> 00:28:23,639 Speaker 2: But I just I'm basing my opinions on her, like 548 00:28:23,720 --> 00:28:25,359 Speaker 2: me and the audience watching the show. 549 00:28:25,880 --> 00:28:29,520 Speaker 1: But when you saw that scene in New Orleans, did 550 00:28:29,560 --> 00:28:30,200 Speaker 1: you feel like. 551 00:28:31,640 --> 00:28:36,760 Speaker 2: Katie was talking about you or her texting a month before, 552 00:28:37,400 --> 00:28:39,320 Speaker 2: or did you look at that say, oh my gosh, 553 00:28:39,400 --> 00:28:40,640 Speaker 2: Katie's line once again? 554 00:28:41,200 --> 00:28:43,320 Speaker 3: No, I looked at it is she was sort of 555 00:28:44,040 --> 00:28:47,240 Speaker 3: telling half truth. I think that's like she said. I 556 00:28:47,240 --> 00:28:50,680 Speaker 3: think she was saying I reached out her, She's not interested, 557 00:28:50,800 --> 00:28:53,360 Speaker 3: which is true. I was absolutely not because I did 558 00:28:53,360 --> 00:28:56,160 Speaker 3: not get back, okay, But what wasn't true was saying 559 00:28:56,320 --> 00:28:59,360 Speaker 3: she never responded. Because that wasn't true. I responded and 560 00:28:59,400 --> 00:29:01,360 Speaker 3: I asked you what it was about, and you said 561 00:29:01,400 --> 00:29:04,840 Speaker 3: you didn't know, So that part wasn't true because I 562 00:29:04,840 --> 00:29:09,080 Speaker 3: if again I wanted to know, because if she once 563 00:29:09,120 --> 00:29:11,560 Speaker 3: she knew that this was all being brought out, I 564 00:29:11,600 --> 00:29:13,880 Speaker 3: do think again, I had been a really good friend 565 00:29:13,880 --> 00:29:16,240 Speaker 3: to her at that point. I think it would have 566 00:29:16,320 --> 00:29:18,960 Speaker 3: made sense for her to just be honest with me 567 00:29:19,240 --> 00:29:21,840 Speaker 3: and actually confront me and be like, girl, did you 568 00:29:21,880 --> 00:29:24,560 Speaker 3: go tell people about this? Because then you know, like 569 00:29:24,640 --> 00:29:26,680 Speaker 3: I would have been like, well, damn, like I did, 570 00:29:26,760 --> 00:29:29,720 Speaker 3: but like I was trying to like squash the story 571 00:29:29,760 --> 00:29:33,160 Speaker 3: because you know, but you know, like but I would 572 00:29:33,160 --> 00:29:34,960 Speaker 3: have felt yeah, I would have felt bad. 573 00:29:36,120 --> 00:29:38,480 Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah. So look, it's one of those 574 00:29:38,520 --> 00:29:42,680 Speaker 2: things too. Where and listen, this is me being in 575 00:29:42,680 --> 00:29:45,040 Speaker 2: the scene. And it's the reason why I make sure 576 00:29:45,520 --> 00:29:48,960 Speaker 2: as much as I can to not involve myself in 577 00:29:49,520 --> 00:29:53,200 Speaker 2: the sort of ragamuffin of the telephone game, because it 578 00:29:53,280 --> 00:29:58,360 Speaker 2: is tricky as dicey, based on this era of reality 579 00:29:58,440 --> 00:30:01,560 Speaker 2: television and social media and contact and people being in 580 00:30:01,600 --> 00:30:08,240 Speaker 2: contact with radio hosts, journalists, bloggers, anyone, because unfortunately it 581 00:30:08,280 --> 00:30:12,000 Speaker 2: does now become part of the storyline. When you received 582 00:30:12,000 --> 00:30:14,560 Speaker 2: that phone call for production and you did the scene 583 00:30:14,640 --> 00:30:20,040 Speaker 2: with Gretchen and Gina, when you left the scene, did 584 00:30:20,080 --> 00:30:24,680 Speaker 2: you feel like, oh fuck, what did I just get 585 00:30:24,720 --> 00:30:25,560 Speaker 2: myself into? 586 00:30:26,160 --> 00:30:27,640 Speaker 1: Did I just ruin my career? 587 00:30:28,560 --> 00:30:31,360 Speaker 3: I mean I think I felt that way from the moment, 588 00:30:31,400 --> 00:30:33,960 Speaker 3: I you know, even before I filmed, because I'm thinking, like, 589 00:30:34,440 --> 00:30:37,520 Speaker 3: I don't know how to navigate out of this, because 590 00:30:38,080 --> 00:30:41,320 Speaker 3: you know, my this is my brand, you know, and 591 00:30:41,360 --> 00:30:45,200 Speaker 3: like it's yeah, it's fun to be called quote gossip girl, 592 00:30:45,200 --> 00:30:47,840 Speaker 3: but nobody wants to think that they can't have conversations 593 00:30:47,840 --> 00:30:50,719 Speaker 3: with you that aren't going to be taken elsewhere. And 594 00:30:50,800 --> 00:30:52,960 Speaker 3: so that was the part that was really hurting me 595 00:30:53,080 --> 00:30:55,280 Speaker 3: because I felt like I was in this position where 596 00:30:55,280 --> 00:30:57,640 Speaker 3: I didn't put myself in this position. I didn't go 597 00:30:57,720 --> 00:31:00,160 Speaker 3: to a housewife. I didn't try to involve myself, and 598 00:31:00,200 --> 00:31:02,880 Speaker 3: I wasn't trying to bring this to camera, but someone 599 00:31:02,920 --> 00:31:07,120 Speaker 3: I trusted did and you know, it hit me in 600 00:31:07,160 --> 00:31:08,240 Speaker 3: the ass? 601 00:31:09,360 --> 00:31:11,760 Speaker 1: Are you and the journalist friends today? Have y'all talked 602 00:31:11,760 --> 00:31:12,120 Speaker 1: about this? 603 00:31:12,880 --> 00:31:15,280 Speaker 3: I don't know, you know, like I don't. I'm not 604 00:31:15,400 --> 00:31:18,120 Speaker 3: someone who likes to carry grudges, but you know, I 605 00:31:18,160 --> 00:31:19,880 Speaker 3: haven't heard from him, So I don't know. 606 00:31:23,480 --> 00:31:29,400 Speaker 2: When you saw Gretchen and Gina's reaction in real time 607 00:31:32,080 --> 00:31:36,360 Speaker 2: in that moment, Keikey, at that table you told this information, 608 00:31:36,960 --> 00:31:41,080 Speaker 2: you saw the reaction, Did you believe that they were 609 00:31:41,120 --> 00:31:42,080 Speaker 2: telling me the truth? 610 00:31:43,920 --> 00:31:48,200 Speaker 3: What I believed was when Gina told me her explanation 611 00:31:49,240 --> 00:31:54,680 Speaker 3: and that sounded like it made sense. And Gina has been, 612 00:31:54,880 --> 00:31:56,680 Speaker 3: you know ever since, like I've met her, you know, 613 00:31:56,680 --> 00:31:59,000 Speaker 3: I've seen her again, like she's been really kind and 614 00:31:59,080 --> 00:32:02,680 Speaker 3: so like I don't really feel like I have any 615 00:32:02,720 --> 00:32:05,200 Speaker 3: reason to like hold you know, hold that against her. 616 00:32:06,400 --> 00:32:09,840 Speaker 3: What I will say is in this, I mean not 617 00:32:09,960 --> 00:32:12,400 Speaker 3: to you know, hate on you know all reality stars. 618 00:32:12,600 --> 00:32:15,240 Speaker 3: All reality stars are like fibbers liars. It's it's like 619 00:32:15,240 --> 00:32:17,520 Speaker 3: it's kind of like built into their DNA. Sometimes it's 620 00:32:17,560 --> 00:32:19,960 Speaker 3: like they were just like exaggerating, exaggerating the truth or 621 00:32:20,000 --> 00:32:22,720 Speaker 3: like doing this. I don't know sometimes who's lying and 622 00:32:22,760 --> 00:32:25,760 Speaker 3: who's telling the truth. What I was trying to get 623 00:32:25,760 --> 00:32:28,280 Speaker 3: to at this point was I just want you guys 624 00:32:28,280 --> 00:32:30,480 Speaker 3: to know that I'm telling the truth so I can 625 00:32:30,520 --> 00:32:32,959 Speaker 3: back away and then you guys can fight amongst yourselves 626 00:32:33,160 --> 00:32:35,920 Speaker 3: about who's the liars and who's not, because like I 627 00:32:36,080 --> 00:32:38,880 Speaker 3: just want to like remove myself and just put it 628 00:32:38,880 --> 00:32:41,760 Speaker 3: out there and then back away. I don't know, Like 629 00:32:43,000 --> 00:32:46,720 Speaker 3: I think that there's multiple theories that could be true. 630 00:32:46,960 --> 00:32:49,520 Speaker 3: I just don't know, because again, it's hard for me 631 00:32:50,000 --> 00:32:53,000 Speaker 3: now when only one person keeps basically calling me a 632 00:32:53,080 --> 00:32:55,440 Speaker 3: liar to side with them, even right because you know 633 00:32:55,440 --> 00:32:57,480 Speaker 3: you're like, even have wanted to decide with you, you're still 634 00:32:57,520 --> 00:32:59,760 Speaker 3: calling me a liar, So then how can I side 635 00:33:00,040 --> 00:33:03,760 Speaker 3: you know, well, calling you Katie by saying she never 636 00:33:03,800 --> 00:33:07,040 Speaker 3: told me repeatedly over So it's like, if you just 637 00:33:07,080 --> 00:33:09,280 Speaker 3: admitted it, then like maybe we could get somewhere. But 638 00:33:09,320 --> 00:33:10,840 Speaker 3: I just don't know why she won't admit it. 639 00:33:11,960 --> 00:33:12,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, and that's the thing. 640 00:33:13,000 --> 00:33:16,920 Speaker 2: I mean, Look, I appreciate you for being completely honest. 641 00:33:17,520 --> 00:33:18,440 Speaker 1: No one's perfect. 642 00:33:18,720 --> 00:33:23,840 Speaker 2: You have opted your mistake to be seen as somebody 643 00:33:23,920 --> 00:33:24,960 Speaker 2: who's honest about it. 644 00:33:25,040 --> 00:33:27,920 Speaker 1: Right. You're like, look, we had a conversation. 645 00:33:30,120 --> 00:33:33,720 Speaker 2: I knew that it wasn't something that I should go 646 00:33:33,800 --> 00:33:36,600 Speaker 2: back and tell people, but I did tell a trusted journalist. 647 00:33:37,720 --> 00:33:38,040 Speaker 1: Listen. 648 00:33:38,040 --> 00:33:41,280 Speaker 2: We've all done that, right, And for you, you just 649 00:33:41,280 --> 00:33:44,040 Speaker 2: felt like, Okay, this is something that I want to 650 00:33:44,040 --> 00:33:44,880 Speaker 2: share with somebody. 651 00:33:45,360 --> 00:33:47,600 Speaker 1: I will say. What I do want the world to 652 00:33:47,680 --> 00:33:48,200 Speaker 1: know is this. 653 00:33:50,600 --> 00:33:54,040 Speaker 2: It's one thing if key Ki Monique on her big 654 00:33:54,080 --> 00:33:56,680 Speaker 2: platform told Derinda, O. 655 00:33:57,040 --> 00:34:01,480 Speaker 1: Girl, guess what I heard. I heard. It's something that 656 00:34:01,640 --> 00:34:02,640 Speaker 1: to me would be different. 657 00:34:02,800 --> 00:34:06,360 Speaker 2: It would be different if you use your platform like. 658 00:34:06,360 --> 00:34:08,600 Speaker 1: Other people do. And that's that's O shame. Where we listen. 659 00:34:08,680 --> 00:34:10,760 Speaker 1: We all have our platform that works for our brand. 660 00:34:11,440 --> 00:34:12,880 Speaker 1: I've been listening to you for years. 661 00:34:13,200 --> 00:34:20,400 Speaker 2: You never based on my listening skill. Intimated secret conversations 662 00:34:20,560 --> 00:34:24,680 Speaker 2: for virality, right, and and and that. 663 00:34:24,760 --> 00:34:28,880 Speaker 1: Was the one thing I've really understood immediately. 664 00:34:28,360 --> 00:34:31,440 Speaker 2: Like, I think people are missing the fact that you 665 00:34:31,520 --> 00:34:34,640 Speaker 2: did not go on your own platform or on in 666 00:34:34,840 --> 00:34:38,719 Speaker 2: one's platform and publicly said this. You had an intimate conversation, 667 00:34:40,000 --> 00:34:42,839 Speaker 2: it got out, but knows to to to you even 668 00:34:42,880 --> 00:34:46,480 Speaker 2: knowing you would. And I think people also need to 669 00:34:46,560 --> 00:34:51,319 Speaker 2: understand this too. You are employed by Radio Andy, who 670 00:34:51,320 --> 00:34:55,799 Speaker 2: works obviously connection with Bravo, you know, Like I think 671 00:34:55,840 --> 00:34:59,040 Speaker 2: people need to understand that you're not somebody that is 672 00:34:59,160 --> 00:35:02,440 Speaker 2: just out there looking for the come up. You're employed 673 00:35:02,760 --> 00:35:07,800 Speaker 2: by Radio Andy, associated with Bravo, meeting the Angy Cohen obviously, 674 00:35:08,400 --> 00:35:11,680 Speaker 2: and they called you and you wanted to do your 675 00:35:11,719 --> 00:35:12,360 Speaker 2: due diligence. 676 00:35:12,440 --> 00:35:13,960 Speaker 1: That's what I got from it. You could stop me 677 00:35:13,960 --> 00:35:14,720 Speaker 1: if I got it wrong. 678 00:35:15,800 --> 00:35:18,719 Speaker 3: K K, that's the true because that's the thing I mean. 679 00:35:18,760 --> 00:35:22,279 Speaker 3: I think even Katie said herself, she followed me for 680 00:35:22,400 --> 00:35:25,759 Speaker 3: my true crime content. Obviously, if I hear something that 681 00:35:25,960 --> 00:35:29,920 Speaker 3: sounds criminal, I'm sorry. Like, if I feel a reason 682 00:35:29,920 --> 00:35:31,800 Speaker 3: that it needs to be investigated, I'm going to be 683 00:35:31,840 --> 00:35:33,600 Speaker 3: it needs to be investigated. And I did feel like 684 00:35:33,640 --> 00:35:35,959 Speaker 3: at the time once Stretchen was announced she was coming back. 685 00:35:36,239 --> 00:35:38,239 Speaker 3: If there was any truth to the story, I needed 686 00:35:38,280 --> 00:35:41,000 Speaker 3: to investigate and find out if the story was true, period, 687 00:35:41,160 --> 00:35:43,560 Speaker 3: like I and I was never going to publish it 688 00:35:43,600 --> 00:35:45,759 Speaker 3: on my platform unless I found there was You know, 689 00:35:45,800 --> 00:35:48,719 Speaker 3: I had a toxicology report that proved, you know, this 690 00:35:48,920 --> 00:35:50,040 Speaker 3: actually did happen. 691 00:35:53,600 --> 00:35:56,279 Speaker 2: Do you feel like you owe Katie an apology for 692 00:35:57,800 --> 00:36:01,239 Speaker 2: having an intimate conversation and you did go and tell 693 00:36:01,280 --> 00:36:01,879 Speaker 2: somebody else. 694 00:36:02,880 --> 00:36:06,320 Speaker 3: I would say that, yes, I would apologize because the 695 00:36:06,440 --> 00:36:09,960 Speaker 3: minute I decided to put on my true crime reporter 696 00:36:10,080 --> 00:36:13,280 Speaker 3: hat and take it to investigate, I should have said, oh, girl, 697 00:36:13,880 --> 00:36:15,799 Speaker 3: I know you told me the story. I wasn't gonna 698 00:36:15,840 --> 00:36:17,640 Speaker 3: do anything with it, but I do want to investigate it. 699 00:36:17,680 --> 00:36:19,880 Speaker 3: I'm not going to publish it. And I should have 700 00:36:20,080 --> 00:36:22,360 Speaker 3: given her the heads up that that was my plan 701 00:36:22,440 --> 00:36:24,600 Speaker 3: and that was the one thing I should have done. 702 00:36:25,960 --> 00:36:27,719 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah. 703 00:36:27,920 --> 00:36:31,759 Speaker 2: Based on you watching these episodes, do you feel like 704 00:36:31,800 --> 00:36:34,719 Speaker 2: when it comes to Katie again, I'm basing my opinion 705 00:36:34,719 --> 00:36:40,040 Speaker 2: on Katie off of the episodes I'm watching with the audience. Obviously, 706 00:36:40,280 --> 00:36:42,920 Speaker 2: Katie the biggest mistake to me, and this is me 707 00:36:42,960 --> 00:36:46,280 Speaker 2: speaking as a producer who produced for twenty years. 708 00:36:46,480 --> 00:36:50,520 Speaker 1: Right, almost once your hand is caught. 709 00:36:50,320 --> 00:36:53,360 Speaker 2: In the cookie jar, unfortunately, you have to own it immediately, 710 00:36:54,120 --> 00:36:55,920 Speaker 2: and it's just something you have to do. 711 00:36:55,920 --> 00:36:59,240 Speaker 1: It doesn't feel good and it's tough, but you signed 712 00:36:59,320 --> 00:37:02,000 Speaker 1: up to be real and we want you to be real. 713 00:37:03,800 --> 00:37:07,040 Speaker 2: Do you think when it comes to Katie that she 714 00:37:07,320 --> 00:37:10,560 Speaker 2: just has a problem with owning the truth in the 715 00:37:10,680 --> 00:37:14,120 Speaker 2: moment because she's afraid of the media backlass on the girls, 716 00:37:14,760 --> 00:37:18,240 Speaker 2: or do you think just Katie is just a flat 717 00:37:18,280 --> 00:37:22,560 Speaker 2: out liar and this sociopath that she's being painted out 718 00:37:22,560 --> 00:37:25,319 Speaker 2: to be by the by some of the girls and 719 00:37:25,360 --> 00:37:26,480 Speaker 2: some of the viewers. 720 00:37:27,040 --> 00:37:30,560 Speaker 3: I mean, before I probably would have just assumed that 721 00:37:30,640 --> 00:37:33,840 Speaker 3: she was like scared to get caught. Recently, it's felt 722 00:37:34,000 --> 00:37:38,000 Speaker 3: very like pathological because I'm just like this, this feels 723 00:37:38,080 --> 00:37:41,799 Speaker 3: unnecessary that the lengths we're going Now, I think it's 724 00:37:41,840 --> 00:37:44,359 Speaker 3: like she's at a point because what we know is 725 00:37:44,440 --> 00:37:48,600 Speaker 3: like it doesn't really matter what she does, her fans 726 00:37:48,640 --> 00:37:50,520 Speaker 3: will side with her. So now I think she knows 727 00:37:50,640 --> 00:37:54,680 Speaker 3: she can lean into saying whatever she wants truth or otherwise, 728 00:37:55,120 --> 00:37:59,200 Speaker 3: and her fans will make gymnastics to, you know, find 729 00:37:59,200 --> 00:38:02,640 Speaker 3: a way to like back her up. So I don't know. 730 00:38:02,719 --> 00:38:05,759 Speaker 3: I think it's I honestly, I can't even tell you. 731 00:38:05,800 --> 00:38:08,200 Speaker 3: I don't even know anymore because the person that I 732 00:38:08,320 --> 00:38:11,880 Speaker 3: met is not the person that I've experienced recently. 733 00:38:16,160 --> 00:38:19,120 Speaker 2: Do you have any intentions of going on Watch What 734 00:38:19,160 --> 00:38:20,440 Speaker 2: Happens Live this season? 735 00:38:20,960 --> 00:38:22,880 Speaker 3: Oh my god. Well, the thing is, I've been on 736 00:38:22,960 --> 00:38:25,120 Speaker 3: Watch What Happens Live as a bartender twice, and I've 737 00:38:25,120 --> 00:38:27,160 Speaker 3: always whenever I go, I'm like, when am I going 738 00:38:27,239 --> 00:38:29,600 Speaker 3: to get on the chair. So it's not like beyond 739 00:38:29,640 --> 00:38:32,440 Speaker 3: the realm of me being like, you know, Andy Cohen 740 00:38:32,560 --> 00:38:34,480 Speaker 3: is my boss, like I you know, it's not like 741 00:38:34,520 --> 00:38:37,439 Speaker 3: I can't. I obviously always a'm like, hey, guys, I'm 742 00:38:37,440 --> 00:38:40,480 Speaker 3: going to be in New York like but like yeah, 743 00:38:40,560 --> 00:38:45,320 Speaker 3: but not because it's not it's something I do. 744 00:38:45,360 --> 00:38:46,000 Speaker 1: You should be all. 745 00:38:46,040 --> 00:38:47,799 Speaker 2: I want to see you there all the THURSD night. 746 00:38:48,080 --> 00:38:52,200 Speaker 2: Maybe that's the head of the brow. I do want 747 00:38:52,200 --> 00:38:54,200 Speaker 2: to actually, before I let you go, you're a busy woman. 748 00:38:54,280 --> 00:38:55,640 Speaker 2: But before I let you go, I do want to 749 00:38:55,680 --> 00:38:59,799 Speaker 2: ask you this. You're watching the episodes like we are, 750 00:39:02,120 --> 00:39:04,680 Speaker 2: based on you watching the episodes and based on your 751 00:39:04,719 --> 00:39:08,280 Speaker 2: interaction with Katie Face to face, Gina face to face, 752 00:39:08,440 --> 00:39:12,480 Speaker 2: Gretchen face to face, Thum and even Jen right just 753 00:39:12,600 --> 00:39:20,000 Speaker 2: being in communication with her on via zoom. What does 754 00:39:20,160 --> 00:39:24,879 Speaker 2: Keky Monique believe put on your true crime hat, put 755 00:39:24,920 --> 00:39:27,359 Speaker 2: on your producer hat, put on the. 756 00:39:27,320 --> 00:39:29,120 Speaker 1: Hat of a woman who's been around these girls. 757 00:39:31,239 --> 00:39:40,359 Speaker 2: Do you believe that Gretchen told Katie that she allegedly 758 00:39:40,520 --> 00:39:44,080 Speaker 2: did get drug the night of nacker Wasted while she 759 00:39:44,239 --> 00:39:45,719 Speaker 2: was at dinner with Katie. 760 00:39:48,320 --> 00:39:51,480 Speaker 3: The only reason I'm going to give you two answers, 761 00:39:51,960 --> 00:39:54,440 Speaker 3: but I will answer. The reason I will say no 762 00:39:54,719 --> 00:39:57,719 Speaker 3: was because again, when I got back my initial information 763 00:39:57,800 --> 00:40:00,120 Speaker 3: and the information that I gathered, which I actually think 764 00:40:00,160 --> 00:40:02,839 Speaker 3: I said on camera, but they didn't play because there 765 00:40:02,880 --> 00:40:06,000 Speaker 3: was more to like it made sense, it didn't make 766 00:40:06,040 --> 00:40:08,880 Speaker 3: sense that she said it, and so I was like, 767 00:40:08,960 --> 00:40:12,880 Speaker 3: I feel like she didn't say it. But what I 768 00:40:12,920 --> 00:40:17,040 Speaker 3: do believe is that naked wasted absolutely came up at 769 00:40:17,040 --> 00:40:24,240 Speaker 3: that dinner. I believe the word hospital was absolutely used. Now, 770 00:40:24,400 --> 00:40:28,640 Speaker 3: whether someone heard hospital and made assumptions about why would 771 00:40:28,640 --> 00:40:30,880 Speaker 3: you go to the hospital and ran with it, or 772 00:40:30,920 --> 00:40:33,520 Speaker 3: whether they heard something specifically about being in the hospital, 773 00:40:33,680 --> 00:40:35,399 Speaker 3: that's the part I don't know, but I do believe 774 00:40:35,400 --> 00:40:37,480 Speaker 3: the word hospital is used at that dinner, and I 775 00:40:37,520 --> 00:40:39,120 Speaker 3: do believe naked wasted came up. 776 00:40:40,600 --> 00:40:41,920 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeahh no. 777 00:40:42,120 --> 00:40:45,319 Speaker 2: Me and Alexis Malino even conversed about this on this 778 00:40:45,480 --> 00:40:50,839 Speaker 2: very podcast about whether or not the assumption of hospital 779 00:40:52,040 --> 00:40:56,280 Speaker 2: equated to maybe Katie thinking she was drugged, which listen 780 00:40:56,640 --> 00:41:01,239 Speaker 2: in Katie's offence, I will understand because you're only going 781 00:41:01,280 --> 00:41:03,799 Speaker 2: to the hospital, you feel like I'm assuming you felt 782 00:41:03,920 --> 00:41:07,440 Speaker 2: drugged or whatever. And look, Gretchen is caught on camera 783 00:41:07,719 --> 00:41:11,400 Speaker 2: mentioning the hospital twice, so it is it is plausible, 784 00:41:11,440 --> 00:41:15,680 Speaker 2: and that's why my theory is, I believe Gretchen did 785 00:41:15,719 --> 00:41:21,560 Speaker 2: tell Katie the hospital. I do believe that Katie may 786 00:41:21,680 --> 00:41:27,560 Speaker 2: have misinterpret interpreted, misinterpreted. I don't know, but that's what 787 00:41:27,880 --> 00:41:31,200 Speaker 2: I gather from it, which is why for me, I 788 00:41:31,280 --> 00:41:36,320 Speaker 2: think they both have been caught lying. I think Katie 789 00:41:37,320 --> 00:41:41,680 Speaker 2: has obviously been seen as somebody that says no, no, no, 790 00:41:41,680 --> 00:41:42,040 Speaker 2: no no. 791 00:41:42,560 --> 00:41:44,800 Speaker 1: Then the next episode. 792 00:41:44,440 --> 00:41:48,879 Speaker 2: Says, okay, I actually did do this right, And I 793 00:41:48,920 --> 00:41:52,840 Speaker 2: think because Gretchen got caught saying hospital twice, I do 794 00:41:53,000 --> 00:41:56,680 Speaker 2: believe you that the hospital thing was used again, whether 795 00:41:56,760 --> 00:41:59,000 Speaker 2: or not the word Ruth the drug was used. I 796 00:41:59,040 --> 00:42:01,560 Speaker 2: think will have to keep watching the season to to, 797 00:42:02,239 --> 00:42:04,760 Speaker 2: you know, hopefully find out that answer. 798 00:42:06,400 --> 00:42:08,200 Speaker 1: Kickim on Nique, what would you like. 799 00:42:08,200 --> 00:42:11,360 Speaker 2: To say to the Bravo audience to the rain drops 800 00:42:11,760 --> 00:42:14,120 Speaker 2: when it comes to you are are you okay? 801 00:42:14,680 --> 00:42:16,880 Speaker 1: Have you been bullied online? 802 00:42:17,239 --> 00:42:21,680 Speaker 2: Have people been mean to you in your DMS and comments? 803 00:42:22,080 --> 00:42:25,000 Speaker 3: I mean, yeah, am I getting bullied? Absolutely? And like 804 00:42:25,200 --> 00:42:27,680 Speaker 3: have I just had to sort of like ignore it 805 00:42:27,760 --> 00:42:30,080 Speaker 3: and walk away, of course, And like, well, will I 806 00:42:30,160 --> 00:42:34,440 Speaker 3: always have this permanent stain attached to me because of this? Absolutely? 807 00:42:35,000 --> 00:42:37,720 Speaker 3: But you know you can't. I can't let that stop 808 00:42:37,760 --> 00:42:40,919 Speaker 3: my progress, you know, like I'm going to keep moving on. 809 00:42:41,160 --> 00:42:44,200 Speaker 3: You know, I have like rebuilding with you know, the 810 00:42:44,239 --> 00:42:46,960 Speaker 3: people that I care about in this industry the most, 811 00:42:47,040 --> 00:42:49,920 Speaker 3: people like you and the other people I have they 812 00:42:50,040 --> 00:42:52,640 Speaker 3: know me, and so I'm glad that I haven't ruined 813 00:42:52,680 --> 00:42:56,160 Speaker 3: those relationships because again, like all you have in this 814 00:42:56,239 --> 00:43:01,960 Speaker 3: business is your reputation, and I obviously care what obviously 815 00:43:02,120 --> 00:43:04,160 Speaker 3: followers and people out there who are viewing me, and 816 00:43:04,160 --> 00:43:06,200 Speaker 3: this might be the first introduction they have for me, 817 00:43:06,480 --> 00:43:07,560 Speaker 3: you know, is this show? 818 00:43:08,920 --> 00:43:09,200 Speaker 1: You know? 819 00:43:09,280 --> 00:43:11,440 Speaker 3: And so I have rebuilding to do and whether I'll 820 00:43:11,440 --> 00:43:13,279 Speaker 3: ever get it with a lot of people, I don't know. 821 00:43:13,719 --> 00:43:16,200 Speaker 3: Hopefully the bullying were tempered down, because look, we have 822 00:43:16,200 --> 00:43:18,400 Speaker 3: a whole other half a season to go. I'm hoping 823 00:43:18,440 --> 00:43:21,560 Speaker 3: that there's way more drama that is less interesting than me, 824 00:43:21,960 --> 00:43:24,239 Speaker 3: and then other people will start getting bullied. But you know, 825 00:43:24,280 --> 00:43:26,400 Speaker 3: I will say that, like I know, also other women 826 00:43:26,680 --> 00:43:30,080 Speaker 3: on the show are now getting bullied, and you know, 827 00:43:30,600 --> 00:43:34,080 Speaker 3: I just don't think that's fair because you know, I've 828 00:43:34,120 --> 00:43:36,319 Speaker 3: met now, I've met a lot of these women and 829 00:43:36,360 --> 00:43:39,320 Speaker 3: at the end of the day, they're all they're all cool, 830 00:43:39,480 --> 00:43:42,080 Speaker 3: you know, yeah, and you're cool. 831 00:43:42,120 --> 00:43:44,440 Speaker 2: And look, I'll before I let you go, I do 832 00:43:44,520 --> 00:43:47,600 Speaker 2: want to remind the audience of this. You haven't held 833 00:43:47,640 --> 00:43:53,279 Speaker 2: yourself accountable, right you have said. Look, I apologize to 834 00:43:53,360 --> 00:43:55,160 Speaker 2: Katie because at the end of the day, she did 835 00:43:55,160 --> 00:43:57,880 Speaker 2: tell me something that I should not have repeated to people, 836 00:43:58,280 --> 00:44:00,839 Speaker 2: and you admitted that that was a mistake for you. 837 00:44:01,120 --> 00:44:02,840 Speaker 2: So I do want to be honest to understand that 838 00:44:02,880 --> 00:44:06,040 Speaker 2: you're not here doubling down on the fact we all 839 00:44:06,040 --> 00:44:06,840 Speaker 2: make mistakes. 840 00:44:06,960 --> 00:44:09,239 Speaker 1: I think the lesson in this is not just. 841 00:44:09,120 --> 00:44:13,160 Speaker 2: For yous, for me, for everybody that when it comes 842 00:44:13,200 --> 00:44:19,120 Speaker 2: to sometimes reality stars confiding in you, you do have 843 00:44:19,200 --> 00:44:21,960 Speaker 2: to sometimes ask yourself, am I being told this? 844 00:44:22,120 --> 00:44:22,920 Speaker 1: To release it? 845 00:44:23,600 --> 00:44:26,840 Speaker 2: Or you do Sometime I have to say I don't 846 00:44:27,000 --> 00:44:28,960 Speaker 2: or or sometimes stop and say, look, I don't want 847 00:44:28,960 --> 00:44:32,759 Speaker 2: to talk about any rumor or being heard because I 848 00:44:32,800 --> 00:44:36,719 Speaker 2: don't want my name mentioned. And I'm learning from this 849 00:44:36,800 --> 00:44:40,720 Speaker 2: situation that comes to you as well that look, maybe 850 00:44:40,760 --> 00:44:43,479 Speaker 2: sometimes it is our job, Kikim mo Onnique to even 851 00:44:43,480 --> 00:44:46,440 Speaker 2: tell reality stars, you know what, I don't. 852 00:44:46,280 --> 00:44:49,200 Speaker 1: Want to hear it. Yeah, if I just, I just 853 00:44:49,280 --> 00:44:49,840 Speaker 1: I just do not. 854 00:44:49,880 --> 00:44:52,560 Speaker 2: Want to hear it because what I don't want is 855 00:44:52,880 --> 00:44:56,040 Speaker 2: why I only told this person and then you become 856 00:44:56,080 --> 00:45:00,000 Speaker 2: the story. So look, guys, give Ki Monique a break, 857 00:45:00,360 --> 00:45:01,360 Speaker 2: cut her some slack. 858 00:45:02,320 --> 00:45:04,480 Speaker 1: She's not the first, nor would she be the last. 859 00:45:04,760 --> 00:45:06,799 Speaker 2: But I think for all of us at the end 860 00:45:06,800 --> 00:45:09,399 Speaker 2: of day, this is what this is where we can 861 00:45:09,520 --> 00:45:13,040 Speaker 2: we can rally together rain drops and Bravo listeners and 862 00:45:13,080 --> 00:45:16,680 Speaker 2: audiences and say, at least we got a good fucking 863 00:45:16,719 --> 00:45:18,600 Speaker 2: season out of it because I've enjoying. 864 00:45:20,440 --> 00:45:22,200 Speaker 3: Yeah, I want people to at the end of the day, 865 00:45:22,239 --> 00:45:24,799 Speaker 3: like if I was not a part of this, I 866 00:45:24,800 --> 00:45:27,120 Speaker 3: would literally I was like I literally could sit outside 867 00:45:27,120 --> 00:45:29,520 Speaker 3: of myself and be like laughing about this is like 868 00:45:29,760 --> 00:45:32,200 Speaker 3: how crazy it is and ridiculous And at the end 869 00:45:32,239 --> 00:45:33,719 Speaker 3: of the day, it's just a show. And I think 870 00:45:33,800 --> 00:45:36,360 Speaker 3: a lot of people need to like go touch grass 871 00:45:36,600 --> 00:45:38,480 Speaker 3: and then come back and watch your show. But it's 872 00:45:38,480 --> 00:45:43,120 Speaker 3: not that serious. Okay, Katie's thriving, She's getting more followers 873 00:45:43,160 --> 00:45:44,960 Speaker 3: by the day. This is not hurting her at all. 874 00:45:45,200 --> 00:45:48,439 Speaker 3: She'll be okay. I promise you, yeah, and. 875 00:45:48,320 --> 00:45:50,040 Speaker 2: You'll be okay. I want to know you'll be okay. 876 00:45:50,120 --> 00:45:54,200 Speaker 2: This too shall pass. Listen, it's tough, and listen. One 877 00:45:54,200 --> 00:45:57,200 Speaker 2: thing I will say is this, at the end of 878 00:45:57,280 --> 00:46:04,480 Speaker 2: the day, you will be in the history books with people. Listen, 879 00:46:05,520 --> 00:46:07,879 Speaker 2: I can always fight things so like small a because 880 00:46:08,160 --> 00:46:11,880 Speaker 2: it ain't that serious, like it's reality Television's silly, it'sa whatever. 881 00:46:12,520 --> 00:46:15,680 Speaker 2: When it comes in season nineteen, just know you will 882 00:46:15,719 --> 00:46:19,000 Speaker 2: go down in the history books as the most talked 883 00:46:19,000 --> 00:46:21,480 Speaker 2: about person next to Katie Janella. 884 00:46:21,640 --> 00:46:23,239 Speaker 1: Like, I just want you to know that. 885 00:46:23,520 --> 00:46:25,200 Speaker 2: And at the end of the day, these are great 886 00:46:25,239 --> 00:46:28,640 Speaker 2: stories that you can have off the record at dinner. 887 00:46:28,760 --> 00:46:32,680 Speaker 3: Okay, I am. I will say the only thing I do, 888 00:46:32,800 --> 00:46:35,719 Speaker 3: like I am questioning is like, you know, I know 889 00:46:35,800 --> 00:46:38,560 Speaker 3: that there was a source in my I did US Weekly. 890 00:46:38,640 --> 00:46:40,280 Speaker 3: I you know I talked about this in US Weekly 891 00:46:40,800 --> 00:46:42,799 Speaker 3: and in that at the end of it, there was 892 00:46:42,800 --> 00:46:45,600 Speaker 3: something about, like, there's more to this Kiky story that 893 00:46:45,640 --> 00:46:47,719 Speaker 3: you don't know, and I'm like, is there what do 894 00:46:47,800 --> 00:46:48,440 Speaker 3: I know? 895 00:46:49,000 --> 00:46:49,160 Speaker 1: Now? 896 00:46:49,680 --> 00:46:52,520 Speaker 3: I'm concerned? Are you trying to drag me into season twenty? 897 00:46:52,560 --> 00:46:57,160 Speaker 3: Please don't. 898 00:46:57,080 --> 00:47:00,160 Speaker 1: Well, girl, listen, give your phone off top. I have 899 00:47:00,160 --> 00:47:00,799 Speaker 1: to call you back. 900 00:47:00,840 --> 00:47:01,080 Speaker 2: Girl. 901 00:47:01,200 --> 00:47:04,160 Speaker 1: You're still mentioned it sement. 902 00:47:04,760 --> 00:47:08,000 Speaker 2: Just know that, but they also aside Kiki on Nique, 903 00:47:08,040 --> 00:47:09,960 Speaker 2: please let the rain drops and know where they can 904 00:47:10,080 --> 00:47:16,320 Speaker 2: find you. Follow you and support your amazing radio. 905 00:47:16,120 --> 00:47:18,840 Speaker 1: Show, Reality Check with Derenda Medley. 906 00:47:19,200 --> 00:47:21,440 Speaker 3: Yeah. Well, you can always follow me on all platforms. 907 00:47:21,480 --> 00:47:24,520 Speaker 3: At the Talk of Shame, I'm obviously TikTok and IG 908 00:47:24,719 --> 00:47:28,080 Speaker 3: are my two platforms that are my favorite, and weekdays 909 00:47:28,120 --> 00:47:31,040 Speaker 3: on radio and y Reality Check with Derenda Medley, we 910 00:47:31,080 --> 00:47:32,600 Speaker 3: talk about all things reality. 911 00:47:34,160 --> 00:47:37,040 Speaker 2: Yay. 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