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Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't have a sister.

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Speaker 1: Alrip, I have a sister. You know about you. Okay,

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Speaker 1: Degree in promiscuity. Gotcha. She had everything printed out, chats, photos, emails, receipts.

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Speaker 2: when you've made all these mistakes, when you going crazy?

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Speaker 1: She tried to explain how it all happened. She admitted

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Speaker 1: They met at a bar a few weeks after his

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Speaker 2: And she's like, I want to be a great mom,

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Speaker 3: Are they have these kids even met you?

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Speaker 3: But they will. They will once I'm the wife.

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Speaker 1: Yes? So he came up after the crazy you know. Uh,

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Speaker 1: I'm ready to date your sister, Opie.

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Speaker 2: Yeah and op he's gonna say, I made a vow

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Speaker 1: Lest of volume, I'll get you a date with the police. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I will evict her. Pole comes where Victor na not

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Speaker 4: That pole?

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Speaker 3: What's the poll?

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Speaker 1: Victor? Nah? Victor.

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Speaker 2: I don't think I would evicted the sister quite yet,

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Speaker 1: I might disagree. I want to see what the chat says.

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Speaker 2: So I mean, unless unless she's like ruining your I

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Speaker 4: If you're sleeping with the dogs, you're gonna get the fleas.

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Speaker 3: But she's a pregnant woman.

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Speaker 1: So you might as well go out in the wild.

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Speaker 3: Might just go.

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Speaker 2: I think right now you're saying to evict the sister,

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Speaker 2: I think maybe if if this keeps being a continuous

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Speaker 2: But I think right now I don't know if I

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Speaker 3: Just for this.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. I'm trying to decide too, but it kind of

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Speaker 2: I think ope, he could say like, if you continue

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Speaker 2: to do this, I'm going to advict you.

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Speaker 1: I might say it, but lie, No, I wouldn't actually a.

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Speaker 3: Victor, but putting pressure on it, but putting.

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Speaker 1: Pressure on it to hopefully, like finally get it through

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Speaker 2: That Nicole h as well, considering op herself, said that

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Speaker 2: she would not kick her out because she does not

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Speaker 3: I choose to honor Opie's wishes.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and Kimberly Fine says baby ain't out yet, so ope,

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Speaker 2: he wouldn't be the ahle for now. That window will

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Speaker 2: you saying Opie should beat up her pregnant sister?

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Speaker 4: Dude?

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Speaker 1: What is right now? Crazy?

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Speaker 2: Oh?

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Speaker 1: Canberly fined? You're crazy? Okay, well let's get back to

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Speaker 1: the story. So Opie says she's free to date anyone

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Speaker 4: Fair.

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Speaker 3: I think these are all fair.

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Speaker 2: It's not like I'm going to immediately vict you, but

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Speaker 2: I'm putting in place boundary a boundary there.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, A word has gotten around our community about the affair.

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Speaker 1: While we were grocery shopping. A woman even spat on

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Speaker 1: my sister dang smalls this town right. Many of her

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Speaker 1: friends have cut ties with her, calling her a home wrecker.

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Speaker 1: Some are married themselves and don't want her near their

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Speaker 1: Even once great restraint, Opie, we unexpectedly ran into his

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Speaker 1: the wife laughed coldly up a and said, you made

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Speaker 1: expect me to make this easier for you. No, but

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Speaker 1: right now. That is the end of the story on

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Speaker 1: the victor. Naw, eighty one percent of people are saying

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Speaker 1: putting up the putting up the boundary of heh you

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Speaker 1: keep doing if you bring over the husband, if you

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Speaker 1: you know, oh, cheat with him by behind, or you know,

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Speaker 1: get with together with him behind my back when he's here,

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Speaker 1: any of these things. Here's the list of things that like,

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Speaker 1: I can't have you continue staying at the house.

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Speaker 3: I think that's fair.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I agree.

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Speaker 2: I think right now, based off like everything that's happened,

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Speaker 2: I don't think she necessarily your victor now, which is

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Speaker 2: what if she continues to push past those boundaries, yes.

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Speaker 1: Totally, which is like in fairness. Op wasn't like I'm

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Speaker 1: So the original thought process was I don't want to, uh,

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Speaker 1: It seems like him the wife are no longer together.

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Speaker 1: That's what he said. I'm almost like, because I'm like,

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Speaker 1: this is not my problem. I did not do this.

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Speaker 1: I'm over here helping you. I'm almost like, just release

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Speaker 1: him to the guy if he'll financially take care of her. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: But I also understand Opie's you know, because it seems

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Speaker 2: And I think op probably feels responsible for her sister

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Speaker 2: and is like, I don't you know, I don't want

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Speaker 2: you already have made a lot of really bad decisions

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Speaker 2: and that I don't support you for. If there's if

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Speaker 2: there's any way that I can kind of pull you

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Speaker 2: off this ledge, yeah, I'll try it.

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Speaker 1: For which would be great. It seems like this sister is, uh, yeah,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, which in that case, if she continues to respect boundaries,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, Because I don't know. I'm like and and

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Speaker 1: and again, like, let's say if there's a scenario where

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Speaker 1: Then it's like, okay, like coming back in just so

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Speaker 1: I don't know. It just seems like a very tricky

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Speaker 1: but feel undecided.

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Speaker 2: The only thing I was going to say is that

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Speaker 2: I think it's interesting because she's an adult. If she

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Speaker 2: I think it's pretty telling that she hasn't because I

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, yeah, because because if she could just be

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Speaker 1: the past. Yeah, exactly. So I think I'm undecided. You guys,

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Speaker 1: how about you? You guys stook down in the comments?

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Speaker 1: How about that about d But you know what else

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Speaker 1: we have, Sophia, What another story for your freaking face holes?

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Speaker 1: All right, let's get into this next story. I'm leaving

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Speaker 1: thirty female, recently discovered that my husband, thirty two male,

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Speaker 1: I found explicit messages and photos on my husband's phone,

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Speaker 1: painful because my sister and I are incredibly close. We

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Speaker 2: You know what will help you with satisfaction? Talking to

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Speaker 2: your partner, Yes, ask, even divorce, divorce, even leave, just

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Speaker 1: At least not because if you cheat, it's like the

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Speaker 1: pain of cheating and the pain of the divorce. Yeah,

440
00:22:35,520 --> 00:22:37,000
Speaker 1: at least, let it just be the pain of this

441
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Speaker 1: cho Just choose.

442
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Speaker 3: One doesn't like a two for one deal here, and you.

443
00:22:40,760 --> 00:22:43,359
Speaker 1: Can and you can be fully honest if you do go,

444
00:22:43,480 --> 00:22:45,680
Speaker 1: the divorce drops exactly. I don't have to lie to someone,

445
00:22:45,720 --> 00:22:48,199
Speaker 1: my god. He tried explaining it away by saying that

446
00:22:48,280 --> 00:22:50,359
Speaker 1: he didn't know how to communicate his knees and it

447
00:22:50,400 --> 00:22:52,600
Speaker 1: was just a momentary lapse and judgment.

448
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Speaker 3: I saw how those work.

449
00:22:55,359 --> 00:22:59,720
Speaker 2: No, a momentary lapse of judgment is when you're like, uh,

450
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Speaker 2: I know this ice cream is really going to hurt

451
00:23:01,400 --> 00:23:03,800
Speaker 2: my stomach, but I love it so much, so you

452
00:23:03,800 --> 00:23:04,280
Speaker 2: eat it.

453
00:23:04,280 --> 00:23:08,480
Speaker 1: It's too delicious. Cheating, isn't ice cream? New t shirt?

454
00:23:09,240 --> 00:23:12,639
Speaker 1: His excuses sound hollow and insincere. How can I believe

455
00:23:12,680 --> 00:23:14,480
Speaker 1: that this was just a lapse in judgment when he

456
00:23:14,560 --> 00:23:17,760
Speaker 1: actively chose to betray me over such a long period.

457
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Speaker 3: It wasn't, dude, you can't. It's too much.

458
00:23:21,200 --> 00:23:24,000
Speaker 1: My sister has also apologized, claiming that the affair was

459
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Speaker 1: never serious and happened only two or three times, describing

460
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Speaker 1: it is just for fun, little Okay.

461
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Speaker 2: If you want to have fun, go to the freaking

462
00:23:35,760 --> 00:23:36,720
Speaker 2: climbing chym.

463
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Speaker 1: Yeah, and get some bruises all over your body.

464
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Speaker 3: All over your body.

465
00:23:41,400 --> 00:23:47,840
Speaker 1: It's old man first hand account right here, guys.

466
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Speaker 3: I'm upset, not with cheating, with climbing.

467
00:23:50,320 --> 00:23:53,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, to be clear, honestly, this makes me even angrier

468
00:23:53,720 --> 00:23:56,639
Speaker 1: three times only. Come on, who believes that if it

469
00:23:56,680 --> 00:23:59,400
Speaker 1: had been just once I could have still forgiven them?

470
00:23:59,600 --> 00:24:01,520
Speaker 1: The fact that she's trying to downplay it as a

471
00:24:01,560 --> 00:24:03,280
Speaker 1: fun fling only adds insult.

472
00:24:03,400 --> 00:24:04,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's so much worse. It's like, no, I didn't

473
00:24:04,960 --> 00:24:07,360
Speaker 2: even care about it. It was just like fun. It's it's

474
00:24:07,400 --> 00:24:10,200
Speaker 2: not it just ruined your life for fun.

475
00:24:10,359 --> 00:24:13,399
Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, dismisses the seriousness of it for op and

476
00:24:13,400 --> 00:24:15,680
Speaker 1: like oh pie's feelings. How could she think it was

477
00:24:15,760 --> 00:24:18,120
Speaker 1: acceptable to get involved with my husband and how could

478
00:24:18,119 --> 00:24:21,320
Speaker 1: they both trivialize such a serious betrayal. She moved out

479
00:24:21,320 --> 00:24:23,280
Speaker 1: of town to give me space, but I'm struggling to

480
00:24:23,320 --> 00:24:26,280
Speaker 1: even imagine having a relationship with her again right now.

481
00:24:26,320 --> 00:24:28,240
Speaker 1: I really want nothing to do with the both of them.

482
00:24:28,560 --> 00:24:31,320
Speaker 1: I will definitely be leaving my husband because he doesn't

483
00:24:31,320 --> 00:24:37,200
Speaker 1: deserve my trust or commitment. Go off. Wait, I also

484
00:24:37,240 --> 00:24:41,960
Speaker 1: won't be seeing my sister for a long time. Fair ever, fair, totally.

485
00:24:41,560 --> 00:24:46,440
Speaker 3: Fair again, she ruined your life for a fling.

486
00:24:46,280 --> 00:24:50,480
Speaker 1: Sister stealing your husband is insaney like crazy?

487
00:24:50,280 --> 00:24:52,119
Speaker 3: Why are we attracted to that person?

488
00:24:52,800 --> 00:24:54,600
Speaker 1: What are we doing well? I guess they do share

489
00:24:54,640 --> 00:24:56,520
Speaker 1: a lot of common there if they are siblings after all,

490
00:24:56,560 --> 00:25:00,119
Speaker 1: I guess several red flags were a parent before I

491
00:25:00,200 --> 00:25:04,040
Speaker 1: discovered the affair. My husband was unusually secretive with his phone,

492
00:25:04,560 --> 00:25:08,159
Speaker 1: had a drastic change in work hours, seemed increasingly distant

493
00:25:08,160 --> 00:25:11,240
Speaker 1: and emotionally unavailable. I should have noticed these signs earlier,

494
00:25:11,240 --> 00:25:14,280
Speaker 1: but I was blindsided about how quickly things escalated. So

495
00:25:14,920 --> 00:25:16,880
Speaker 1: am I the ahole for wanting to leave my husband?

496
00:25:16,960 --> 00:25:19,920
Speaker 1: I definitely will be leaving him now, and I'm also

497
00:25:20,000 --> 00:25:23,200
Speaker 1: considering cutting off my sister for the foreseeable future. Should

498
00:25:23,200 --> 00:25:25,879
Speaker 1: I even consider forgiving her? Or is there no coming

499
00:25:25,920 --> 00:25:30,000
Speaker 1: back from the betrayal? There is some relevant comments and

500
00:25:30,160 --> 00:25:34,560
Speaker 1: an update where Opie Uh makes a big decision after

501
00:25:34,560 --> 00:25:35,280
Speaker 1: some soul searching.

502
00:25:36,720 --> 00:25:38,560
Speaker 3: What type of big decision.

503
00:25:38,520 --> 00:25:41,320
Speaker 1: But Sophia, let's let's run through the roster here. It's

504
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Speaker 1: number one? Is Opie the ahole for wanting to leave

505
00:25:43,560 --> 00:25:47,640
Speaker 1: her husband? No, not even the slightest count one, not guilty,

506
00:25:47,800 --> 00:25:48,600
Speaker 1: clean of all child?

507
00:25:48,720 --> 00:25:49,400
Speaker 3: Is uh?

508
00:25:49,760 --> 00:25:55,040
Speaker 1: Number two? Should is it okay for her to cut

509
00:25:55,080 --> 00:25:58,000
Speaker 1: off contact, at least for the foreseeable future, kill her sister,

510
00:25:58,080 --> 00:26:03,280
Speaker 1: do not guilty. It'll be count number three. Should I

511
00:26:03,359 --> 00:26:06,840
Speaker 1: consider forgiving her? Or is there no coming back for this?

512
00:26:07,600 --> 00:26:08,200
Speaker 1: Cat three?

513
00:26:08,760 --> 00:26:09,560
Speaker 3: Indecisive?

514
00:26:09,800 --> 00:26:10,760
Speaker 1: Indecisive? Why?

515
00:26:11,640 --> 00:26:15,159
Speaker 2: Because I think that years down the line, she couldn't,

516
00:26:15,320 --> 00:26:20,119
Speaker 2: you know, make a big old comeback and prove her

517
00:26:21,000 --> 00:26:22,320
Speaker 2: devotion to her sister.

518
00:26:22,600 --> 00:26:24,720
Speaker 3: Right now, we don't know if that's the case.

519
00:26:25,200 --> 00:26:28,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel like it's like, again, one, this all

520
00:26:28,320 --> 00:26:32,240
Speaker 1: hinges on if OP is okay with that and wants

521
00:26:32,280 --> 00:26:35,240
Speaker 1: that exactly. But then two, I think it literally it

522
00:26:35,280 --> 00:26:39,760
Speaker 1: would literally just take years of rebuilding the trust and

523
00:26:39,920 --> 00:26:44,600
Speaker 1: proving that you're trustworthy for OP to even begin to

524
00:26:44,640 --> 00:26:49,120
Speaker 1: think about feeling comfortable in trusting her. Agreed again, Okay again,

525
00:26:49,320 --> 00:26:51,800
Speaker 1: just like I'm just trying to think of things that

526
00:26:51,840 --> 00:26:54,120
Speaker 1: could top that. I'm just coming up short.

527
00:26:55,400 --> 00:26:55,760
Speaker 3: Nothing.

528
00:26:56,200 --> 00:27:00,560
Speaker 1: I got nothing except for these relevant comments. Whooh. Comment

529
00:27:00,600 --> 00:27:03,040
Speaker 1: to number one says, not the a whole? Why even

530
00:27:03,080 --> 00:27:05,600
Speaker 1: consider forgiving your sister? She betrayed you in the worst

531
00:27:05,640 --> 00:27:07,560
Speaker 1: way possible and her excuses are crap?

532
00:27:07,640 --> 00:27:10,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, she does a pretty bad excuses, right.

533
00:27:10,720 --> 00:27:13,200
Speaker 1: Commun Number two says, You're definitely not in the wrong

534
00:27:13,240 --> 00:27:15,760
Speaker 1: for wanting to leave him. Betrayal like this is massive,

535
00:27:15,800 --> 00:27:18,879
Speaker 1: and your feelings are completely valid. Taking time for yourself

536
00:27:18,880 --> 00:27:22,280
Speaker 1: and reevaluating your relationship with your sister is smart. Agreed,

537
00:27:22,560 --> 00:27:24,720
Speaker 1: And in comment your number three not the a hole

538
00:27:24,720 --> 00:27:27,000
Speaker 1: for wanting to leave your husband and distance yourself from

539
00:27:27,000 --> 00:27:29,880
Speaker 1: your sister. They both betrayed your trust in a massive way.

540
00:27:30,040 --> 00:27:33,199
Speaker 1: If anything, you're the sane one here, not putting up

541
00:27:33,200 --> 00:27:37,080
Speaker 1: with pathetic excuses and minimizing of their actions. Prioritize your

542
00:27:37,119 --> 00:27:42,080
Speaker 1: own healing. You owe them nothing, exactly. I love that.

543
00:27:42,359 --> 00:27:43,959
Speaker 3: And yeah, and that's the truth.

544
00:27:44,280 --> 00:27:47,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, Like right now, they've they they've weren't thinking about

545
00:27:47,560 --> 00:27:51,520
Speaker 1: you when you know they got together multiple times, maybe

546
00:27:51,560 --> 00:27:53,840
Speaker 1: many times, And you don't have to feel it.

547
00:27:54,080 --> 00:27:58,240
Speaker 3: You don't have to hurt, you know, feel for their feelings.

548
00:27:58,400 --> 00:28:02,640
Speaker 1: You're already entitled to, you know, prioritize yourself first. Now

549
00:28:02,680 --> 00:28:06,280
Speaker 1: you have like a million x self prioritizing yourself exactly.

550
00:28:06,960 --> 00:28:07,160
Speaker 4: Yep.

551
00:28:07,680 --> 00:28:11,639
Speaker 1: But let's get into the update. So, first of all,

552
00:28:11,640 --> 00:28:14,399
Speaker 1: I want to thank everyone for the overwhelming supports, support

553
00:28:14,440 --> 00:28:16,520
Speaker 1: and advice on my original post. I've been having a

554
00:28:16,560 --> 00:28:19,360
Speaker 1: really tough time and your words helped me feel less

555
00:28:19,359 --> 00:28:22,520
Speaker 1: alone in this situation. After a lot of soul searching

556
00:28:22,560 --> 00:28:25,639
Speaker 1: and discussion and discussion with trusted friends, I've made some

557
00:28:25,720 --> 00:28:29,760
Speaker 1: decisions about how to move forward. I've officially left my

558
00:28:29,880 --> 00:28:33,080
Speaker 1: husband good, it's done. The pain of his betrayal is

559
00:28:33,119 --> 00:28:35,719
Speaker 1: still fresh, but I know that staying with someone who

560
00:28:35,800 --> 00:28:38,120
Speaker 1: could do this to me is not an option. I

561
00:28:38,240 --> 00:28:41,000
Speaker 1: deserve better, and I'm determined to find a healthier, happier

562
00:28:41,040 --> 00:28:43,600
Speaker 1: path for myself. As for my sister, she reached out

563
00:28:43,640 --> 00:28:46,320
Speaker 1: to me after moving out of town. She expressed regret

564
00:28:46,400 --> 00:28:49,240
Speaker 1: and claimed that she never meant to hurt me. I'm

565
00:28:49,320 --> 00:28:52,040
Speaker 1: still processing my feelings, and while I do appreciate her

566
00:28:52,040 --> 00:28:54,240
Speaker 1: reaching out, I told her I need time and space

567
00:28:54,280 --> 00:28:55,640
Speaker 1: to heal. Yeah.

568
00:28:55,720 --> 00:29:00,600
Speaker 2: I mean she's only regretful because you caught her. Yes,

569
00:29:01,200 --> 00:29:03,760
Speaker 2: that's exactly what it feels like, which is, yeah, like

570
00:29:04,400 --> 00:29:06,880
Speaker 2: that's gonna take a lot of time. Even if she

571
00:29:07,120 --> 00:29:12,560
Speaker 2: is genuinely, you know, regretful and apologetic, that doesn't mean

572
00:29:12,560 --> 00:29:14,240
Speaker 2: that you need to forget for right now.

573
00:29:14,480 --> 00:29:16,960
Speaker 1: And I, in all honesty, kind of believe she's just

574
00:29:17,320 --> 00:29:19,480
Speaker 1: saying that so she doesn't have to deal with op

575
00:29:19,680 --> 00:29:21,880
Speaker 1: you know, hating her or cutting her off for whatever

576
00:29:21,880 --> 00:29:24,080
Speaker 1: the case might be. I've decided to take a break

577
00:29:24,080 --> 00:29:26,720
Speaker 1: from our relationship for the foreseeable future with her sister.

578
00:29:27,240 --> 00:29:29,360
Speaker 1: I just can't wrap my head around how she could

579
00:29:29,400 --> 00:29:31,560
Speaker 1: betray me in such a profound way, and I'm not

580
00:29:31,600 --> 00:29:34,600
Speaker 1: ready to forgive or engage in any kind of conversation

581
00:29:34,720 --> 00:29:37,560
Speaker 1: just yet. In the aftermath of the situation, I've also

582
00:29:37,600 --> 00:29:40,160
Speaker 1: been focusing on my mental health. I've started therapy to

583
00:29:40,160 --> 00:29:43,400
Speaker 1: help work with my feelings to betrayal, anger, and loss.

584
00:29:43,760 --> 00:29:45,880
Speaker 1: I realize that I need to take care of myself

585
00:29:46,000 --> 00:29:49,040
Speaker 1: rebuild my life, even if it feels daunting right now.

586
00:29:49,320 --> 00:29:53,120
Speaker 1: I've learned to trust my instincts more and recognize red flags.

587
00:29:53,360 --> 00:29:56,280
Speaker 1: I will not ignore my gut feelings in future relationships,

588
00:29:56,400 --> 00:29:59,200
Speaker 1: whether they're romantic or familial. I know I have a

589
00:29:59,280 --> 00:30:02,240
Speaker 1: long road ahead, but I'm determined to come out stronger,

590
00:30:03,040 --> 00:30:06,840
Speaker 1: and we're gonna close with these quick relevant comments. Number one,

591
00:30:07,040 --> 00:30:10,920
Speaker 1: never ever trust your sister around any other man you meet. Nope,

592
00:30:11,000 --> 00:30:14,360
Speaker 1: she'd be no contact if she were my sister. Screw

593
00:30:14,440 --> 00:30:17,040
Speaker 1: them both. She didn't mean to hurt you, she did

594
00:30:17,360 --> 00:30:20,080
Speaker 1: blatantly she did. She's lying to save her own skin.

595
00:30:20,560 --> 00:30:23,200
Speaker 1: She's moved, so the drama won't follow her. I would

596
00:30:23,240 --> 00:30:26,920
Speaker 1: out her and your x I agreed. Commentary number two says,

597
00:30:26,960 --> 00:30:29,600
Speaker 1: she didn't mean to hurt you. What exactly did she

598
00:30:29,680 --> 00:30:31,600
Speaker 1: think you would feel like after she slept with her

599
00:30:31,640 --> 00:30:33,080
Speaker 1: husband multiple times?

600
00:30:33,560 --> 00:30:33,840
Speaker 3: Joy?

601
00:30:34,840 --> 00:30:40,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, wood Bee, you're seeing how you know I love

602
00:30:40,080 --> 00:30:41,560
Speaker 2: him and now you love him.

603
00:30:41,600 --> 00:30:44,680
Speaker 1: And we all love We do that way, oh way,

604
00:30:45,000 --> 00:30:48,960
Speaker 1: no wrong. I'm glad you're moving on and prioritizing yourself.

605
00:30:49,080 --> 00:30:51,600
Speaker 1: You're right, your do better. You deserve better. And the

606
00:30:51,640 --> 00:30:54,640
Speaker 1: final comment number three, leaving your husband was the right decision,

607
00:30:54,680 --> 00:30:57,320
Speaker 1: and you should be proud of yourself for recognizing that

608
00:30:57,440 --> 00:30:59,400
Speaker 1: you deserve better exactly.

609
00:30:59,440 --> 00:31:04,000
Speaker 2: This isn't kindergarten. Sharing is not caring exactly.

610
00:31:03,640 --> 00:31:06,480
Speaker 1: And you don't need a kindergarten degree to join her

611
00:31:06,560 --> 00:31:09,160
Speaker 1: life every weekday at three pm PST. So hop on

612
00:31:09,240 --> 00:31:14,840
Speaker 1: in tap a profile. But yeah, I think just just

613
00:31:14,840 --> 00:31:15,600
Speaker 1: just cut her out.

614
00:31:15,600 --> 00:31:18,120
Speaker 3: Cut her off, snip, snip snip.

615
00:31:18,560 --> 00:31:21,560
Speaker 1: I would not be surprised or mad if basically her

616
00:31:21,600 --> 00:31:26,160
Speaker 1: whole life they didn't never regular contact. I'm also this

617
00:31:26,200 --> 00:31:29,960
Speaker 1: is an assumption that I'm making, but I just do

618
00:31:30,240 --> 00:31:33,800
Speaker 1: not feel that the sister is actually remorseful, and she's

619
00:31:33,920 --> 00:31:35,920
Speaker 1: just lying just to get back in the sister's coure.

620
00:31:36,080 --> 00:31:39,360
Speaker 2: I think it's too soon after for her to actually

621
00:31:39,440 --> 00:31:43,280
Speaker 2: be apologetic. And also you have to see, you know,

622
00:31:43,680 --> 00:31:47,800
Speaker 2: are they gonna get together after this, the husband and

623
00:31:47,840 --> 00:31:50,560
Speaker 2: the sister, Like are they going to continue this now

624
00:31:50,560 --> 00:31:51,440
Speaker 2: that it's in the open?

625
00:31:52,440 --> 00:31:54,160
Speaker 3: What's what's the relationship there?

626
00:31:54,200 --> 00:31:59,760
Speaker 1: Now? Final question for you, Yes, if her and the

627
00:31:59,800 --> 00:32:03,640
Speaker 1: HU has been ex husband out do get together? Is

628
00:32:03,680 --> 00:32:08,120
Speaker 1: that a automatic permanent no contact? I think so.

629
00:32:08,480 --> 00:32:11,640
Speaker 3: I think that is an automatic permanent no contact.

630
00:32:11,200 --> 00:32:15,000
Speaker 1: Because like they've already done so much them getting together

631
00:32:16,080 --> 00:32:20,760
Speaker 1: is like okay, so you really just don't care and care.

632
00:32:20,680 --> 00:32:23,280
Speaker 3: More about him than you do about our relationship.

633
00:32:23,480 --> 00:32:26,600
Speaker 1: Yes, and like there could have been a world where

634
00:32:27,360 --> 00:32:30,680
Speaker 1: maybe they divorce, Like if they had divorced a proper way,

635
00:32:30,800 --> 00:32:33,080
Speaker 1: obviously it would have been crazy.

636
00:32:32,960 --> 00:32:35,920
Speaker 3: Be awful, but still it's not at least not Ye,

637
00:32:36,680 --> 00:32:37,200
Speaker 3: you could have.

638
00:32:37,160 --> 00:32:40,520
Speaker 1: Been truthful the whole way and just like yes, you know,

639
00:32:40,800 --> 00:32:45,280
Speaker 1: talked about it with the sister again. Still almost always

640
00:32:45,320 --> 00:32:50,080
Speaker 1: like terrible, especially if it's like super recent. But I digress. Yeah,

641
00:32:50,720 --> 00:32:52,440
Speaker 1: but you want to know some other recent news what

642
00:32:53,320 --> 00:32:58,960
Speaker 1: it's episodes over what I know. Sorry, guys, I don't

643
00:32:59,160 --> 00:32:59,440
Speaker 1: tell you.

644
00:32:59,560 --> 00:33:00,560
Speaker 3: I don't know hot to tell you.

645
00:33:01,120 --> 00:33:04,080
Speaker 1: Watch out for your sisters, watch out for your sisters.

646
00:33:04,560 --> 00:33:06,000
Speaker 1: But what I do know what to tell you is

647
00:33:06,040 --> 00:33:08,680
Speaker 1: if you love us, make sure to subscribe.

648
00:33:08,120 --> 00:33:10,360
Speaker 3: We love you and see tomorrow.

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Speaker 1: Boom Boom nailed it.