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Speaker 1: Hello everyone, and welcome back to another fun episode of

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Speaker 1: Bachelor Happy Hour. Now, Rachel, we've made it through another

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Speaker 1: week in this quarantine, and I don't know about you,

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Speaker 1: but I feel like I'm finally starting too. And I

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Speaker 1: hate to say this, but like find my groove and

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Speaker 1: acclimate to a new normal quote adapting, like an adapting yes.

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Speaker 1: And you know, And it's funny because Garrett and I

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Speaker 1: were just talking about this the other night. It's like

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Speaker 1: it feels like it's been dragging on and on and

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Speaker 1: like never ending, but it's also gone surprisingly fast. And

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Speaker 1: I don't know if that's just because I am in

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Speaker 1: such a routine. Of course, I've had my ups and downs,

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Speaker 1: but I'm still trying to focus on the little things,

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Speaker 1: my little winds for the day, and of course, week

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Speaker 1: by week, I love recording with you. I love watching

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Speaker 1: the episodes of Listening to Your Heart. I love recapping

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Speaker 1: them together because it gives me something to look forward to,

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Speaker 1: and hopefully for all the listeners out there, it gives

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Speaker 1: you guys something to look forward to as well. And Rachel,

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Speaker 1: like I said, we've been feeling these ups and downs.

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Speaker 1: We've been going through the waves, through the emotions but

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Speaker 1: I think we can agree that there are two major

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Speaker 1: things that have definitely brought some joy and inspiration to

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Speaker 1: us during this quarantine. Absolutely, Becca, I mean, I agree

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Speaker 1: with you. I've definitely had my ups and downs, more

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Speaker 1: ups and downs. Like like I say, if you had

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Speaker 1: told me we were going to be doing this last year,

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Speaker 1: I would have been like, I'm out. I'm out. I

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Speaker 1: don't know where I'm going, but I'm out. But honestly,

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Speaker 1: two things have just kept me saying. Besides my peloton,

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Speaker 1: because that is giving me life every single day, we

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Speaker 1: call ourselves the Morning Mob. We run at ten thirty

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Speaker 1: Eastern time if you want to join us, But you

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Speaker 1: guys are keeping me saying. The fans are listeners and

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Speaker 1: of course listen to your heart. I'm so glad we

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Speaker 1: have some new Bachelor content that's coming to us every

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Speaker 1: single week. And I know last week we mentioned that

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Speaker 1: we started our very own online communities with at Bachelor

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Speaker 1: Happy Hour on Instagram and then also at Batch Happy

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Speaker 1: Hour on Facebook and Twitter, and just seeing the outpour

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Speaker 1: of support from you guys and talking to you guys

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Speaker 1: through these platforms has really been more helpful and inspiring

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Speaker 1: than I thought it would be. You know, It's like

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Speaker 1: I think we're doing it for them, but I feel

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Speaker 1: like they're doing it for us. And I know that

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Speaker 1: we just love hearing your stories and getting your feedback,

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Speaker 1: and now more than ever, it's important to just spread love.

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Speaker 1: And we want to thank all of you for reaching

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Speaker 1: out and continuing on this journey with us, giving us

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Speaker 1: that sense of normalcy that we need through all of this.

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Speaker 1: And the second thing that we also mentioned is listen

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Speaker 1: to your heart, which you all know. We're loving this show.

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Speaker 1: We can't wait to recap it for you guys and

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Speaker 1: talk to contestants and some of the celebrity judges. It's

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Speaker 1: just really been a lot of fun. And we had

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Speaker 1: a new episode last night, so that means we get

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Speaker 1: to break it all down on the podcast today. Oh yeah.

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Speaker 1: Like I said, one of my favorite things during the

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Speaker 1: week's giving me through this And we've been having so

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Speaker 1: much fun with the show, and I keep saying, but

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Speaker 1: week by week it is growing on me so much

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Speaker 1: like at first I didn't quite know to expect. I'm

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Speaker 1: sure a lot of the listeners and viewers out there

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Speaker 1: were like, we don't know how this is going to work.

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Speaker 1: But now that we've actually gotten into the performances and

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Speaker 1: seeing the judges and of course more of the drama.

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Speaker 1: I am so invested. I love it. I keep saying this,

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Speaker 1: but I want to be a guest judge on season two,

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Speaker 1: if there is a season two, because I am so invested.

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Speaker 1: We blame Garrett. We blamed Garrett. I don't know if

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Speaker 1: the listeners have heard the story, but I blame Garrett

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Speaker 1: because we were asked. He was also very drunk when

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Speaker 1: we were to be guest judges and he's like, Noah, like,

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Speaker 1: we don't need to be on TV. We're good, and

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Speaker 1: now we watch it back week by week and he's like,

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Speaker 1: because it's an experience. It's just an experience. And I

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Speaker 1: But like you said, it's just fun, Like it's lighthearted,

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Speaker 1: So this week we have two special guests on the show,

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Speaker 1: this last episode. And then we also have the amazingly

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Speaker 1: But before we have them on, of course, we have

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Speaker 1: a lot to digest and talk about this week's episode

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Speaker 1: because it was a wild one. And Rachel, I mean,

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Speaker 1: where do we start? As always, we start with Chris

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Speaker 1: Harrison's That's how each episode pops off, right, Like Chris

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Speaker 1: Harrison comes in and drops a bomb. So he comes in,

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Speaker 1: and honestly, I was thinking this have we ever seen

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Speaker 1: this before? Where Chris Harrison is basically like I'm paraphrasing,

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Speaker 1: but he was like, you ain't gotta go home, but

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Speaker 1: feel like that's what he said. But he says, if

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Speaker 1: I mean we're only on episode three at this point.

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Speaker 1: it's about couples making music together. We don't need anybody

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Speaker 1: the stragglers. Yeah, and you do see people scrambling and

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Speaker 1: everyone's like, oh shit, Like what do I gotta do

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Speaker 1: And obviously it didn't go anywhere. Unfortunately he went home

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Speaker 1: and making hopefully beautiful music. But I thought, I think

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Speaker 1: was true. Gabe could he gave his rose to Ruby

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Speaker 1: another Bachelor franchise shows. You see pitty roses, pitty kisses,

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Speaker 1: you said, Gabe just trimmed the fat. Yeah, in this

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Speaker 1: I know. I feel like if there's a redemption rose, like,

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Speaker 1: we see Gabe go home. He eliminates himself because Savannah's

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Speaker 1: just basically like, I just see you as a friend.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, well, Ruby, he came in the second week

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Speaker 1: that you know, people had already made their connections. You

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Speaker 1: another show. I don't know. So then we get into

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Speaker 1: hear your take on this, Julia, Savannah Brandon Sheridan like

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Speaker 1: love Rectangle, whatever, love Square, I love Quadron. I okay,

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Speaker 1: Juel and I said this in the podcast last week.

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Speaker 1: that grew exponentially in this episode. And I have such

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Speaker 1: conversation between her and Savannah when Savannah's on the line,

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Speaker 1: But I have such a problem with somebody basically talking

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Speaker 1: that went down. You didn't get a roast from Brandon,

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Speaker 1: and then you made out with Sheridan two seconds later,

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Speaker 1: such an issue with it. Nell on the head what

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Speaker 1: she's accusing other contestants of doing, not being here for

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Speaker 1: the right reasons, just doing things to stay week by week.

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Speaker 1: Are you not doing that with Sheridan because you're jealous

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Speaker 1: over every single move that Brandon makes it doesn't involve you,

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Speaker 1: And then you're you're pulling Shardan along and it's so sad.

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Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, there was Julia. I mean, starting with

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Speaker 1: the basics, Julia is a ham, which stands for hot asthments.

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Speaker 1: That is what Julia is. I get. I cringe. I

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Speaker 1: it's such a roller coaster, an emotional roller coaster, and

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Speaker 1: it's like, what do you want? Just say you want Brandon.

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Speaker 1: Brandon has clearly at this point we see him say,

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Speaker 1: I feel like I haven't given this relationship with Savannah

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Speaker 1: and see if we can make it work. Now, Julia

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Speaker 1: the outside, so we as the audience, see that Brandon

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Speaker 1: and Savannah are trying to give it their all to

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Speaker 1: see if there's really something there. Meanwhile, Julia is labeling

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Speaker 1: it as fake and she's like, you're doing You're giving

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Speaker 1: so much PDA And I'm like, well, there are a couple.

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Speaker 1: Why are you watching? Why are you watching what she doing?

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Speaker 1: And we've seen this in any other show, any other Bachelor, Bachelorette, Bachelor,

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Speaker 1: and Paradise show. Like the more somebody fixates on another

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Speaker 1: person or another relationship, like that's when the down roll

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Speaker 1: downward spiral happens. And that's what we're seeing happen with Julia.

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Speaker 1: But she doesn't want to admit it. She's so fixated

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Speaker 1: like what she's really there for. She's just talking smack

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Speaker 1: on Brandon and Savanna. I was gonna say, Shardan, there's

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Speaker 1: just like it's just such a mess. And I don't

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Speaker 1: they were singing two different songs. M what did you think?

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00:21:47,040 --> 00:21:53,360
Speaker 1: Because voice is great, yes, good. So before the judges

426
00:21:53,400 --> 00:21:55,560
Speaker 1: even and chimed in and gave their take, I wrote

427
00:21:55,600 --> 00:21:58,919
Speaker 1: friendship and friendship that's what it felt like. And I

428
00:21:59,000 --> 00:22:03,640
Speaker 1: felt for me they just didn't align. Like Danny, I

429
00:22:03,680 --> 00:22:07,840
Speaker 1: felt like he was like smiling, so happy, go lucky,

430
00:22:07,920 --> 00:22:10,480
Speaker 1: but it was like he was putting on that extra performance,

431
00:22:10,480 --> 00:22:12,440
Speaker 1: like he was putting on the act to be like, yeah,

432
00:22:12,520 --> 00:22:14,639
Speaker 1: we're so good, I'm happy, and it just like you

433
00:22:14,640 --> 00:22:17,520
Speaker 1: could feel it was off. You could feel like there

434
00:22:17,680 --> 00:22:20,320
Speaker 1: wasn't anything more in there, which is obviously just like

435
00:22:20,359 --> 00:22:24,359
Speaker 1: from their date anyways, nothing nothing to write home about

436
00:22:24,400 --> 00:22:27,439
Speaker 1: with that performance, obviously because we don't see them going

437
00:22:27,480 --> 00:22:31,960
Speaker 1: on to the next week, which like you could have

438
00:22:31,960 --> 00:22:36,800
Speaker 1: called it. Yeah, Savannah and Brandon, they sang I want

439
00:22:36,800 --> 00:22:39,280
Speaker 1: You to Want Me by Cheap Trick. Didn't like the

440
00:22:39,359 --> 00:22:42,840
Speaker 1: song choice for them. M I didn't either. There's no

441
00:22:42,960 --> 00:22:47,760
Speaker 1: depth to that song. It's just it's very baseline, over

442
00:22:47,800 --> 00:22:50,960
Speaker 1: and over, repetitive, like I didn't feel it didn't stir

443
00:22:51,119 --> 00:22:54,159
Speaker 1: up any sort of emotion, and I think that was

444
00:22:54,200 --> 00:22:57,560
Speaker 1: because of the song choice to not. I mean, we'll

445
00:22:57,560 --> 00:23:00,520
Speaker 1: get into like their relationship, but the song choice itself

446
00:23:00,520 --> 00:23:03,480
Speaker 1: just wasn't up on what is it like on par

447
00:23:03,560 --> 00:23:05,840
Speaker 1: with some of the other choices. It was like fever like.

448
00:23:05,880 --> 00:23:07,080
Speaker 1: When I saw them, I was like, are we sing

449
00:23:07,119 --> 00:23:08,840
Speaker 1: a fever again? Or are we singing I Want you

450
00:23:08,840 --> 00:23:10,800
Speaker 1: to Want Me? It didn't. It just didn't resonate with me.

451
00:23:11,119 --> 00:23:13,120
Speaker 1: Jojo and Jordan I thought it was interesting because they

452
00:23:13,160 --> 00:23:16,399
Speaker 1: said that it looked like Savannah wasn't into it. That's

453
00:23:16,400 --> 00:23:19,800
Speaker 1: how what I get from Brandon. He is more into

454
00:23:19,840 --> 00:23:22,199
Speaker 1: holding that guitar and playing that guitar more than he

455
00:23:22,280 --> 00:23:26,280
Speaker 1: isn't connecting with Savannah in the duet. Also, he makes

456
00:23:26,359 --> 00:23:29,159
Speaker 1: really cringey faces when he sings, and it bothers me.

457
00:23:29,200 --> 00:23:30,800
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I know that could be a part of

458
00:23:30,880 --> 00:23:34,120
Speaker 1: him singing it. Fuck the cameraman, you know, the cameraman

459
00:23:34,160 --> 00:23:36,800
Speaker 1: are ruthless. There's one point where he makes a face.

460
00:23:37,400 --> 00:23:39,160
Speaker 1: I'm making it for you because you can see me Becca.

461
00:23:39,240 --> 00:23:43,800
Speaker 1: It's like this, and the camera zoos in on it,

462
00:23:44,280 --> 00:23:47,119
Speaker 1: like just in case you didn't see, we're get a

463
00:23:47,119 --> 00:23:52,160
Speaker 1: closer in this snow either time made about this face

464
00:23:52,160 --> 00:23:56,520
Speaker 1: snow and he's attractive, but it was like, oh well,

465
00:23:56,520 --> 00:23:59,440
Speaker 1: reach you said it last week on the podcast, just

466
00:23:59,640 --> 00:24:02,560
Speaker 1: in the way he performs in his voice. He said

467
00:24:02,560 --> 00:24:05,120
Speaker 1: he's very theatrical, and you start to see that now

468
00:24:05,520 --> 00:24:09,880
Speaker 1: in his performance and appearance, like he so Brandon for me,

469
00:24:11,520 --> 00:24:14,000
Speaker 1: I don't think he's the strongest singer in the bunch

470
00:24:14,200 --> 00:24:16,439
Speaker 1: compared to some of these other people. I feel like

471
00:24:16,520 --> 00:24:19,960
Speaker 1: he's just not on their level necessarily. Like I think

472
00:24:20,280 --> 00:24:23,480
Speaker 1: he can sing, he can hold a note, that's fine,

473
00:24:23,600 --> 00:24:28,720
Speaker 1: but like you're on like a musical singing show, and

474
00:24:28,800 --> 00:24:34,240
Speaker 1: I don't think it's on par with like Rudy or Julia. Now,

475
00:24:34,800 --> 00:24:38,280
Speaker 1: I feel like he kind of forces it when he performs.

476
00:24:38,280 --> 00:24:41,480
Speaker 1: When he sings, I feel like going along with the theatrics.

477
00:24:41,520 --> 00:24:43,800
Speaker 1: I feel like he just pushes, like he's pushing through

478
00:24:43,840 --> 00:24:46,200
Speaker 1: to the next note. Now, people, I was in choir

479
00:24:46,280 --> 00:24:48,960
Speaker 1: back in the day, so I don't really know all

480
00:24:48,960 --> 00:24:50,720
Speaker 1: that much what I'm talking about, but like there were

481
00:24:50,760 --> 00:24:53,600
Speaker 1: times where like my choir teachers like, don't push so hard,

482
00:24:53,640 --> 00:24:55,520
Speaker 1: don't push so hard, and I felt like that's how

483
00:24:55,560 --> 00:24:59,199
Speaker 1: he is when he sings. Yeah, no, totally agree with you.

484
00:24:59,440 --> 00:25:02,640
Speaker 1: At find me to rewind to the part that I'm talking.

485
00:25:02,760 --> 00:25:06,879
Speaker 1: I'm a screenshot and sing it to you. Julia and

486
00:25:06,920 --> 00:25:10,440
Speaker 1: Sheridan as long as You Love Me, a classic by

487
00:25:10,440 --> 00:25:15,040
Speaker 1: the Backstreet Boys. What did you were you impressed? Because

488
00:25:15,359 --> 00:25:17,879
Speaker 1: the first time we saw Julia and Sheridan saying, we

489
00:25:17,960 --> 00:25:20,919
Speaker 1: were like, wow, that sounded like it was a recording.

490
00:25:21,320 --> 00:25:23,680
Speaker 1: What do you think this time? The song choice did

491
00:25:23,720 --> 00:25:26,320
Speaker 1: not do it for me? I okay, and listen, people,

492
00:25:26,800 --> 00:25:30,760
Speaker 1: I know this is an unpopular opinion. I love Backstreet Boys.

493
00:25:30,840 --> 00:25:34,560
Speaker 1: I grew up with BSB, but the song choice wasn't

494
00:25:34,680 --> 00:25:37,280
Speaker 1: there for me. I felt like, again, it was very baseline.

495
00:25:37,320 --> 00:25:39,919
Speaker 1: There was no depth to it. And yeah when we

496
00:25:40,040 --> 00:25:43,200
Speaker 1: first heard them sing, when Julia first sang at the

497
00:25:43,680 --> 00:25:46,560
Speaker 1: radio station last week, she blew me away like she

498
00:25:46,680 --> 00:25:50,560
Speaker 1: was one of my top favorite singers. Just vocals like

499
00:25:51,080 --> 00:25:54,399
Speaker 1: so freaking good and this like they did find performing,

500
00:25:54,840 --> 00:25:57,520
Speaker 1: like the judges liked it. But it just it wasn't

501
00:25:57,600 --> 00:25:59,439
Speaker 1: like I didn't feel it. I don't know, I was

502
00:25:59,560 --> 00:26:01,879
Speaker 1: something missing for me. You know what I think it was.

503
00:26:01,920 --> 00:26:03,720
Speaker 1: I think it was their version of it. You know,

504
00:26:03,760 --> 00:26:06,760
Speaker 1: they started off slowing it down, and I was like, no,

505
00:26:06,840 --> 00:26:09,000
Speaker 1: this is a classic, like you you I kept going

506
00:26:09,040 --> 00:26:10,840
Speaker 1: okay when they were singing, and you know there's that

507
00:26:10,920 --> 00:26:14,880
Speaker 1: one part there where they're like uh uh. They didn't

508
00:26:14,880 --> 00:26:17,600
Speaker 1: even hit that that everybody sings that no matter where

509
00:26:17,600 --> 00:26:20,080
Speaker 1: you are, And I just I didn't like that they

510
00:26:20,119 --> 00:26:22,080
Speaker 1: slowed it down in the beginning and then sped it

511
00:26:22,160 --> 00:26:25,040
Speaker 1: up to the normal beat of the song. I think

512
00:26:25,080 --> 00:26:27,240
Speaker 1: that was a little off for me. I thought Sheridan

513
00:26:27,320 --> 00:26:30,600
Speaker 1: though sounded great, it was Julia who was a little

514
00:26:30,600 --> 00:26:32,719
Speaker 1: bit more often. We know that she's gone through some

515
00:26:32,760 --> 00:26:35,200
Speaker 1: things this episode, so maybe she was just in her head.

516
00:26:35,880 --> 00:26:40,040
Speaker 1: But what I was more focused on was Brandon. Brandon

517
00:26:40,119 --> 00:26:42,840
Speaker 1: looked like he was like, that's the person I need

518
00:26:42,880 --> 00:26:45,240
Speaker 1: to be singing with, because I feel like Brandon is

519
00:26:45,320 --> 00:26:48,080
Speaker 1: navigating this like who can take me the farthest, who

520
00:26:48,160 --> 00:26:50,480
Speaker 1: has the better voice? And I think he was watching

521
00:26:50,560 --> 00:26:52,640
Speaker 1: Julia and he was like, you know what, I think

522
00:26:52,680 --> 00:26:55,919
Speaker 1: we'd probably sing better together. Yeah, no, I agree, and

523
00:26:55,960 --> 00:26:59,000
Speaker 1: they and the camera and cameraman he keeps panning this

524
00:26:59,400 --> 00:27:02,640
Speaker 1: Brandon and you see him kind of standing behind Savannah

525
00:27:02,680 --> 00:27:06,359
Speaker 1: and his face like he's is smiling, like trying to

526
00:27:06,359 --> 00:27:08,520
Speaker 1: be like, oh, this is fine whatever, and you know

527
00:27:08,560 --> 00:27:11,920
Speaker 1: inside he's like damn it, like it's just eating him

528
00:27:11,960 --> 00:27:19,480
Speaker 1: up inside a little bit. Yes, Nady, cameraman, Dougie. It

529
00:27:19,560 --> 00:27:24,200
Speaker 1: was definitely did you know You've getten in there? But yeah,

530
00:27:24,240 --> 00:27:26,800
Speaker 1: it's I mean, they did find the audience loved it.

531
00:27:26,920 --> 00:27:30,400
Speaker 1: Joe Jordan and Joejo really loved it. Like I think

532
00:27:30,400 --> 00:27:32,280
Speaker 1: that was my favorite part when Jordan was standing up

533
00:27:32,359 --> 00:27:35,040
Speaker 1: dancing in the background to it. Jordan loved the song choice,

534
00:27:35,080 --> 00:27:38,960
Speaker 1: he didn't love the performance, yeah, exactly. So, I mean

535
00:27:39,000 --> 00:27:40,080
Speaker 1: I think we just have to leave it to the

536
00:27:40,080 --> 00:27:43,240
Speaker 1: backs for boys to do that when people yes, okay,

537
00:27:43,240 --> 00:27:46,960
Speaker 1: so Ryan and Natasha. Natasha is amazing. I mean, like,

538
00:27:47,080 --> 00:27:50,280
Speaker 1: let's just Ryan did. He might as well not even

539
00:27:50,280 --> 00:27:51,680
Speaker 1: been there. And I hate to say that because I

540
00:27:51,720 --> 00:27:55,679
Speaker 1: think he's insanely talented, but he's falling off to me

541
00:27:55,840 --> 00:27:58,320
Speaker 1: every single week. I expected. I know it was her.

542
00:27:58,760 --> 00:28:01,960
Speaker 1: The song was about the female voice, but Ryan did

543
00:28:02,080 --> 00:28:04,639
Speaker 1: not anything to it. He looked at in his suit. Though.

544
00:28:04,840 --> 00:28:08,520
Speaker 1: I like that their styles don't match. Their singing styles

545
00:28:08,680 --> 00:28:11,919
Speaker 1: do not match, and you can tell that fresh off

546
00:28:11,960 --> 00:28:14,800
Speaker 1: the bat. I also think Ryan, yes, he's talented, but

547
00:28:14,840 --> 00:28:18,280
Speaker 1: he does anyone notice he sings so slow every time

548
00:28:18,320 --> 00:28:20,200
Speaker 1: he performs. It's like I want him to like pick

549
00:28:20,240 --> 00:28:22,960
Speaker 1: it up a little bit. And in my mind, I'm like,

550
00:28:22,960 --> 00:28:25,040
Speaker 1: oh my gosh, she's gonna like miss the next sentence,

551
00:28:25,080 --> 00:28:28,560
Speaker 1: like the next verse because he's like so slow. So

552
00:28:28,600 --> 00:28:30,440
Speaker 1: I just want him to pick it up a little bit.

553
00:28:30,720 --> 00:28:33,639
Speaker 1: Yeah he was. Yeah, it was. It is what it is.

554
00:28:33,640 --> 00:28:37,000
Speaker 1: The judges called it. We all saw Natasha killed it.

555
00:28:38,280 --> 00:28:40,800
Speaker 1: I'm expecting more from them next week. I hope that

556
00:28:40,880 --> 00:28:43,160
Speaker 1: Ryan takes in what the judges told him this week

557
00:28:43,160 --> 00:28:45,680
Speaker 1: and applies it to the next week. Last, but not

558
00:28:45,840 --> 00:28:47,560
Speaker 1: least Trevor and Jamie. I was shocked there were the

559
00:28:47,600 --> 00:28:49,400
Speaker 1: last performance. I thought we were going to get like

560
00:28:49,400 --> 00:28:58,080
Speaker 1: a more powerhouse performance. UM. I thought Jamie sounded off

561
00:28:59,000 --> 00:29:02,000
Speaker 1: and the performance it like I've heard her sing better.

562
00:29:02,520 --> 00:29:06,560
Speaker 1: To me, it was so pitchy that maybe that's a

563
00:29:06,640 --> 00:29:10,440
Speaker 1: choir term or an American idol term. I love it

564
00:29:10,760 --> 00:29:13,680
Speaker 1: just didn't they didn't connect to me. But I will

565
00:29:13,760 --> 00:29:18,240
Speaker 1: say her story and her journey to get from riding

566
00:29:18,240 --> 00:29:20,560
Speaker 1: in her room to the stage was the most powerful

567
00:29:20,600 --> 00:29:24,480
Speaker 1: part of her performance. M I think well, and I

568
00:29:24,480 --> 00:29:26,880
Speaker 1: will say I think they went last because of her nerves.

569
00:29:26,920 --> 00:29:29,720
Speaker 1: I think to like build it up into amp up,

570
00:29:29,760 --> 00:29:32,120
Speaker 1: how nervous she actually was, Like they had to make

571
00:29:32,120 --> 00:29:33,880
Speaker 1: her wait and be like, oh shit, we're gonna sing

572
00:29:33,880 --> 00:29:36,120
Speaker 1: in front of not only the judges and this crowd,

573
00:29:36,160 --> 00:29:40,600
Speaker 1: but like all of the other contestants too. UM. I

574
00:29:40,600 --> 00:29:44,600
Speaker 1: think just between the two, I think Jamie, like much

575
00:29:44,600 --> 00:29:46,680
Speaker 1: of these women in these in these couples, I think

576
00:29:46,720 --> 00:29:51,920
Speaker 1: Jamie stole the show like Trevor did fine, but between

577
00:29:51,920 --> 00:29:55,600
Speaker 1: the two, I think she held it a little bit better. UM.

578
00:29:55,640 --> 00:29:58,520
Speaker 1: I just think like vocally she just she's she's amazing.

579
00:29:58,600 --> 00:30:01,360
Speaker 1: I think she just needs some like fine tuning UM.

580
00:30:01,440 --> 00:30:05,560
Speaker 1: And I think like sometimes too God, I'm like trying

581
00:30:05,560 --> 00:30:07,280
Speaker 1: to act like I know what I'm talking about and

582
00:30:07,320 --> 00:30:10,960
Speaker 1: I don't. But you notice like the fluctuations in the

583
00:30:11,120 --> 00:30:15,120
Speaker 1: voice UM that like some vocal artists will do like

584
00:30:15,200 --> 00:30:17,520
Speaker 1: to make it more I don't know, stylish, whatever you

585
00:30:17,560 --> 00:30:20,280
Speaker 1: want to say, like pitchy maybe Um. There was just

586
00:30:20,320 --> 00:30:22,000
Speaker 1: a lot of that for me in the song. And

587
00:30:22,040 --> 00:30:24,400
Speaker 1: I don't know. Granted, like I'm not I don't listen

588
00:30:24,440 --> 00:30:26,680
Speaker 1: to country, so I don't I don't know this song.

589
00:30:26,800 --> 00:30:29,640
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie. I don't know it either. I

590
00:30:29,680 --> 00:30:32,400
Speaker 1: know country fans are gonna come at me. But you

591
00:30:32,440 --> 00:30:35,760
Speaker 1: know who Marion Morris is, Yeah, exactly so, And I

592
00:30:35,800 --> 00:30:37,680
Speaker 1: don't know how she performs it if it's like very

593
00:30:37,720 --> 00:30:41,040
Speaker 1: similar with like the ups and the downs and that fluctuation. UM.

594
00:30:41,280 --> 00:30:43,320
Speaker 1: But there was just sometimes I think when there's too

595
00:30:43,360 --> 00:30:45,560
Speaker 1: much of that in songs, it takes away from the

596
00:30:45,560 --> 00:30:48,840
Speaker 1: song and the performance itself. Yeah, it wasn't. It wasn't.

597
00:30:49,080 --> 00:30:53,160
Speaker 1: I thought Trevor actually did better um in this performance.

598
00:30:53,200 --> 00:30:56,000
Speaker 1: But hopefully they'll improve to the next week and hopefully

599
00:30:56,080 --> 00:30:59,400
Speaker 1: this is like what Jamie needed to get it out

600
00:30:59,440 --> 00:31:01,920
Speaker 1: of her system, Like, Okay, I did it. I'm stronger

601
00:31:01,960 --> 00:31:03,640
Speaker 1: than I think I can do this, and I have

602
00:31:03,680 --> 00:31:05,520
Speaker 1: a strong support system. That's what I do like about

603
00:31:05,560 --> 00:31:08,880
Speaker 1: their relationship. Trevor supports her and that's what she needs

604
00:31:09,040 --> 00:31:12,600
Speaker 1: and she acknowledged that. So they're cute. They're cute together. Okay, So,

605
00:31:12,680 --> 00:31:15,080
Speaker 1: Becca and I've given you our take and what we

606
00:31:15,200 --> 00:31:18,200
Speaker 1: thought in watching it, But would you love to hear

607
00:31:18,320 --> 00:31:21,800
Speaker 1: from somebody who was actually in the house, who was

608
00:31:22,000 --> 00:31:25,360
Speaker 1: actually no other way to put it in the middle

609
00:31:25,360 --> 00:31:28,000
Speaker 1: of the drama. So let's get back to one of

610
00:31:28,000 --> 00:31:30,680
Speaker 1: the most jaw dropping scenes from last night, when Julia

611
00:31:30,800 --> 00:31:35,560
Speaker 1: pulled Savannah aside to confront her about being quote disingenuous,

612
00:31:35,600 --> 00:31:37,880
Speaker 1: which I feel like is a new Bachelor term. Becca.

613
00:31:37,960 --> 00:31:41,480
Speaker 1: On your season, the guys kept using that. I'd never

614
00:31:41,960 --> 00:31:44,320
Speaker 1: no credit. I didn't really watch the show a lot before,

615
00:31:44,400 --> 00:31:47,000
Speaker 1: but I had never heard people use it as much.

616
00:31:47,000 --> 00:31:49,920
Speaker 1: I thought, who do people even know what it means? Why?

617
00:31:49,960 --> 00:31:52,200
Speaker 1: Why is everybody say It's like one person said it

618
00:31:52,240 --> 00:31:55,400
Speaker 1: and now everybody is disingenuous? But I think it was

619
00:31:55,440 --> 00:31:58,120
Speaker 1: on my season. It was either like Colton or Jordan

620
00:31:58,360 --> 00:32:00,720
Speaker 1: who started seeing it, but I think they used the

621
00:32:00,760 --> 00:32:03,720
Speaker 1: wrong terments that like disingenuine. Oh, it's probably Colton. There

622
00:32:03,800 --> 00:32:07,480
Speaker 1: was like a toss up between disingenuous and disingenuine. So

623
00:32:07,560 --> 00:32:10,640
Speaker 1: I'm hoping that on the podcast we have the correct term,

624
00:32:10,880 --> 00:32:14,040
Speaker 1: which is disingenuous. It is disingenuous. I love that you

625
00:32:14,080 --> 00:32:16,959
Speaker 1: recognize too, that so many people use that word on

626
00:32:17,000 --> 00:32:18,520
Speaker 1: your season. I don't know if it made them feel

627
00:32:18,560 --> 00:32:20,680
Speaker 1: smarter or what once they figured out the correct way

628
00:32:20,680 --> 00:32:22,440
Speaker 1: to use it. But I don't know. I have so

629
00:32:22,480 --> 00:32:24,880
Speaker 1: many opinions on this, and I know our listeners do too.

630
00:32:24,960 --> 00:32:28,280
Speaker 1: So we decided to do everyone just a solid why

631
00:32:28,320 --> 00:32:30,800
Speaker 1: might invite Savannah on the show to just go ahead

632
00:32:30,800 --> 00:32:33,320
Speaker 1: and talk it out with us. So, ladies and gentlemen,

633
00:32:33,520 --> 00:32:39,400
Speaker 1: please welcome Savannah McKinley to the show. Welcome to the podcast, Savannah. Now,

634
00:32:39,520 --> 00:32:41,360
Speaker 1: we're so happy to have you on the show today.

635
00:32:41,720 --> 00:32:43,320
Speaker 1: You know, we want to get a little bit of

636
00:32:43,440 --> 00:32:45,920
Speaker 1: the behind the scenes, the tea, if you will, because

637
00:32:46,000 --> 00:32:49,200
Speaker 1: last night's episode was just, of course wild. We saw

638
00:32:49,240 --> 00:32:52,000
Speaker 1: everything go down, we saw the drama between you and Julia,

639
00:32:52,040 --> 00:32:54,720
Speaker 1: and of course we have so many questions for you.

640
00:32:55,200 --> 00:32:58,280
Speaker 1: So let's start and talk about what everyone wants to

641
00:32:58,360 --> 00:33:02,760
Speaker 1: know and get into that comfrontation between you and Julia Savannah.

642
00:33:02,920 --> 00:33:07,120
Speaker 1: Is she as nutty as she seems? I wouldn't say nutty.

643
00:33:07,240 --> 00:33:09,840
Speaker 1: Nutty's probably not the word that I would use. I

644
00:33:09,840 --> 00:33:13,320
Speaker 1: think Julia is Julia is just really strong. I think

645
00:33:13,400 --> 00:33:21,120
Speaker 1: Julia is highly motivated, I think maybe opinionated, and the

646
00:33:21,160 --> 00:33:25,000
Speaker 1: way that she comes across can seem a little aggressive.

647
00:33:25,160 --> 00:33:28,760
Speaker 1: And so that conversation literally brings me back. I'm like,

648
00:33:28,760 --> 00:33:31,120
Speaker 1: oh my gosh, because I know that her intention probably

649
00:33:31,440 --> 00:33:34,520
Speaker 1: wasn't necessarily to attack me, but I also had a

650
00:33:34,560 --> 00:33:38,480
Speaker 1: hard time figuring out what her motivation was. You know,

651
00:33:38,600 --> 00:33:41,640
Speaker 1: like when you have a confrontation, it's either hey, I'm

652
00:33:41,680 --> 00:33:43,840
Speaker 1: a friend that I lovingly want to get to the

653
00:33:43,840 --> 00:33:45,680
Speaker 1: bottom of this because I think the way that you

654
00:33:45,720 --> 00:33:49,560
Speaker 1: are is maybe hurting yourself or hurting others, or you've

655
00:33:49,600 --> 00:33:53,480
Speaker 1: acknowledged something and you just you either want an apology

656
00:33:53,560 --> 00:33:55,800
Speaker 1: or some sort of resolve, you know. And so this

657
00:33:55,840 --> 00:33:58,480
Speaker 1: conversation was really difficult for me to navigate because I

658
00:33:58,520 --> 00:34:01,960
Speaker 1: don't think on what she said there was any intention

659
00:34:02,000 --> 00:34:04,760
Speaker 1: of a resolve. It was just I think you are

660
00:34:04,840 --> 00:34:08,560
Speaker 1: this way period, And I was like, I don't, I'm

661
00:34:08,600 --> 00:34:10,680
Speaker 1: not really share what to do with that. Well, I

662
00:34:10,719 --> 00:34:13,759
Speaker 1: don't think just from what we've seen, I don't know

663
00:34:13,800 --> 00:34:17,080
Speaker 1: if Julia even necessarily knows what she wants or what

664
00:34:17,160 --> 00:34:18,680
Speaker 1: she was hoping to get out of that. Maybe it

665
00:34:18,719 --> 00:34:21,000
Speaker 1: was just to get how she was feeling off of

666
00:34:21,040 --> 00:34:25,239
Speaker 1: her chest. But the part when she starts off that

667
00:34:25,239 --> 00:34:27,839
Speaker 1: conversation and says, look, I wanted to send myself home

668
00:34:27,920 --> 00:34:30,960
Speaker 1: or go home because of you, that in itself just

669
00:34:31,080 --> 00:34:34,360
Speaker 1: kind of shows like where she's at, because like, you

670
00:34:34,440 --> 00:34:36,680
Speaker 1: came on the show for a reason, whether that was

671
00:34:37,120 --> 00:34:42,000
Speaker 1: to find a partnership, to grow musically and maybe booster

672
00:34:42,120 --> 00:34:44,719
Speaker 1: care or do both, that's one thing. But to just

673
00:34:44,760 --> 00:34:48,560
Speaker 1: want to go home because of a relationship that she

674
00:34:48,680 --> 00:34:53,000
Speaker 1: says she doesn't care about or that she's not invested in,

675
00:34:53,040 --> 00:34:55,920
Speaker 1: It's like that what you're saying isn't lining up with

676
00:34:56,000 --> 00:34:59,439
Speaker 1: now what this conversation is about, and like why she's

677
00:34:59,480 --> 00:35:02,919
Speaker 1: even having in the first place. And so, I mean,

678
00:35:03,560 --> 00:35:06,920
Speaker 1: when that happened and she says I'm not into Brandon,

679
00:35:06,960 --> 00:35:10,799
Speaker 1: I'm over it, did you believe her? No? Not at all?

680
00:35:10,800 --> 00:35:13,840
Speaker 1: I mean, but to your point. If you have absolutely

681
00:35:13,840 --> 00:35:17,160
Speaker 1: no emotional investment in what the subject is, it wouldn't

682
00:35:17,160 --> 00:35:20,120
Speaker 1: even be a topic of discussion. So I wanted to

683
00:35:20,160 --> 00:35:22,520
Speaker 1: go about that conversation when she started it that way,

684
00:35:22,560 --> 00:35:25,319
Speaker 1: It's like, pluck, I can tell you're highly emotional about this.

685
00:35:25,640 --> 00:35:28,080
Speaker 1: I can tell that your feelings are very strong, and

686
00:35:28,120 --> 00:35:30,640
Speaker 1: so I never wanted to come off as hateful or rude.

687
00:35:30,800 --> 00:35:33,960
Speaker 1: I really just knew that, like, this does mean something

688
00:35:34,000 --> 00:35:36,640
Speaker 1: to you, So let's navigate around this so we can

689
00:35:36,640 --> 00:35:39,279
Speaker 1: come to a conclusion. Do you feel like you came

690
00:35:39,320 --> 00:35:43,120
Speaker 1: to a conclusion though, because I will say yeah, I

691
00:35:43,160 --> 00:35:45,719
Speaker 1: will say you hint, she was on one level, and

692
00:35:45,760 --> 00:35:47,799
Speaker 1: it was almost like you were so mature in not

693
00:35:47,920 --> 00:35:50,360
Speaker 1: matching her there and just kind of calmly trying to

694
00:35:50,360 --> 00:35:52,359
Speaker 1: talk to her about it, and then and you just

695
00:35:52,400 --> 00:35:55,040
Speaker 1: answered the question. There wasn't a resolution. See if that

696
00:35:55,120 --> 00:35:57,760
Speaker 1: had been me and she said I'm not here because

697
00:35:57,880 --> 00:35:59,600
Speaker 1: or I wanted to go home because of you, I

698
00:35:59,600 --> 00:36:01,520
Speaker 1: would have said, do you need me to help you pack?

699
00:36:02,560 --> 00:36:11,279
Speaker 1: That's uh in that moment. But but Savannah, the way

700
00:36:11,280 --> 00:36:14,080
Speaker 1: that you handled it and navigated it you like, I

701
00:36:14,160 --> 00:36:16,279
Speaker 1: love that you. Just as Rachel said, sat there calling

702
00:36:16,320 --> 00:36:18,680
Speaker 1: and you were like, well, why why is what I'm

703
00:36:18,680 --> 00:36:22,080
Speaker 1: doing in my relationship affecting you so much? And it

704
00:36:22,120 --> 00:36:25,800
Speaker 1: shouldn't be. And that's the thing, like if she's over Brandon,

705
00:36:25,920 --> 00:36:29,800
Speaker 1: if she's trying to figure out whatever she is with Sheridan,

706
00:36:29,920 --> 00:36:32,600
Speaker 1: like that should be her focus and shouldn't be. It

707
00:36:32,640 --> 00:36:35,120
Speaker 1: just felt like she was fixating on it so much

708
00:36:35,160 --> 00:36:39,759
Speaker 1: because she wanted something, and you know, like, yeah, we've

709
00:36:39,800 --> 00:36:41,520
Speaker 1: all been there, We've all like wanted the thing that

710
00:36:41,560 --> 00:36:45,839
Speaker 1: we can't have. But I think like it wasn't fair

711
00:36:45,880 --> 00:36:48,080
Speaker 1: for her to come at you and call you disingenuous.

712
00:36:48,320 --> 00:36:50,520
Speaker 1: How many we gotta count how many times the word

713
00:36:50,560 --> 00:36:54,640
Speaker 1: disingenuous came up in that conversation, But it was that

714
00:36:54,800 --> 00:36:57,680
Speaker 1: was like the buzzword of the house. Yeah, well, Rachel

715
00:36:57,680 --> 00:36:59,279
Speaker 1: and I were talking to it on my season. It's

716
00:36:59,280 --> 00:37:01,360
Speaker 1: when it kind of sort of like being thrown around,

717
00:37:01,480 --> 00:37:03,840
Speaker 1: but it was I think it was used in correctly

718
00:37:03,880 --> 00:37:06,680
Speaker 1: as disingenuine. So I'm glad that it's finally like the

719
00:37:06,719 --> 00:37:09,200
Speaker 1: correct version of it. I feel like they should bleep

720
00:37:09,239 --> 00:37:11,960
Speaker 1: it out like it's a curse word, Like anytime somebody, Yes,

721
00:37:13,560 --> 00:37:18,279
Speaker 1: every time I hear that you PTSD when you hear disingenuous.

722
00:37:18,360 --> 00:37:21,120
Speaker 1: So oh yeah, I mean I hear the autio clip

723
00:37:21,120 --> 00:37:24,319
Speaker 1: in my heart's like, oh gosh, beat it out. Were

724
00:37:24,360 --> 00:37:27,120
Speaker 1: you and Julia close prior to this conversation. Did you

725
00:37:27,160 --> 00:37:29,759
Speaker 1: feel like you'll had a friendship in the house. I

726
00:37:30,200 --> 00:37:34,759
Speaker 1: honestly no, um And I mentioned this in during that

727
00:37:34,760 --> 00:37:36,640
Speaker 1: conversation out and know if it made it or not.

728
00:37:36,800 --> 00:37:39,440
Speaker 1: But one of the things that was a constant for

729
00:37:39,520 --> 00:37:42,040
Speaker 1: me is I would always say this, like, hey, I'm

730
00:37:42,080 --> 00:37:44,399
Speaker 1: here to make people feel loved and feel welcome. That's

731
00:37:44,400 --> 00:37:46,040
Speaker 1: really all I want to do. And as you see

732
00:37:46,160 --> 00:37:50,080
Speaker 1: throughout the episodes, it's like that was my main goal.

733
00:37:50,160 --> 00:37:53,960
Speaker 1: And so I'm not here to stir up drama. I'm

734
00:37:54,000 --> 00:37:56,319
Speaker 1: not here to be rude. I'm that's just not who

735
00:37:56,320 --> 00:38:00,040
Speaker 1: I am. Um And so I had told Julia in

736
00:38:00,120 --> 00:38:02,880
Speaker 1: that conversation, I'm like, hey, you think this is a

737
00:38:03,000 --> 00:38:06,160
Speaker 1: zero to one hundred thing. Yet you and I aren't

738
00:38:06,239 --> 00:38:09,000
Speaker 1: best friends. And so the way that I have typically

739
00:38:09,040 --> 00:38:11,719
Speaker 1: handled relationships is like I'll connect really well with one

740
00:38:11,760 --> 00:38:14,000
Speaker 1: girl and like she's my girl, like so I'll know

741
00:38:14,080 --> 00:38:17,200
Speaker 1: all the details of everything. And Julia was just never that,

742
00:38:17,400 --> 00:38:19,200
Speaker 1: and so to me, it was a bit of a

743
00:38:19,239 --> 00:38:22,799
Speaker 1: shock that she would expect me to confide in her

744
00:38:22,880 --> 00:38:25,319
Speaker 1: and share my heart with her, if to be frank, like,

745
00:38:25,440 --> 00:38:28,080
Speaker 1: she wasn't the nicest to me or the most open

746
00:38:28,160 --> 00:38:31,759
Speaker 1: to me, whether or not that was a response to

747
00:38:31,800 --> 00:38:35,000
Speaker 1: the way that you know, the way that I might

748
00:38:35,000 --> 00:38:40,080
Speaker 1: have been, but no, like we weren't the best of friends.

749
00:38:40,160 --> 00:38:43,680
Speaker 1: And so I think that whole conversation blindsided me because

750
00:38:44,160 --> 00:38:46,320
Speaker 1: I'm a very stay in your lane, like I'm here

751
00:38:46,360 --> 00:38:50,520
Speaker 1: to do my thing, find you know, my relationship, and

752
00:38:51,280 --> 00:38:54,360
Speaker 1: stay in my stay in my lane, And it was

753
00:38:54,400 --> 00:38:57,120
Speaker 1: just a tough conversation to navigate because I'm like, I

754
00:38:57,200 --> 00:39:00,839
Speaker 1: don't get the whole I'm gonna feel a certain way

755
00:39:00,880 --> 00:39:03,200
Speaker 1: because of you, but has nothing to do with hers

756
00:39:03,239 --> 00:39:07,160
Speaker 1: in Brandon's relationship. I think that comes out on the show.

757
00:39:07,200 --> 00:39:10,040
Speaker 1: I think your character comes out, especially how there were

758
00:39:10,040 --> 00:39:12,040
Speaker 1: two things that really stood out to me in this episode. One,

759
00:39:12,080 --> 00:39:15,759
Speaker 1: how you handled your relationship with Gabe and you could

760
00:39:15,760 --> 00:39:19,160
Speaker 1: tell you were emotional about it and you but you

761
00:39:19,200 --> 00:39:20,799
Speaker 1: wanted to be very honest with him and you didn't

762
00:39:20,800 --> 00:39:22,759
Speaker 1: want to lead him on. So it definitely want to

763
00:39:22,760 --> 00:39:24,600
Speaker 1: get your take on that. But then also something you

764
00:39:24,640 --> 00:39:28,520
Speaker 1: said about your relationship with Brandon. You said, I gave

765
00:39:28,560 --> 00:39:31,279
Speaker 1: you my first rose. You gave me your rose, and

766
00:39:31,320 --> 00:39:33,760
Speaker 1: you have to create a strong foundation at the beginning,

767
00:39:33,760 --> 00:39:35,920
Speaker 1: and I thought that we were doing that. So I

768
00:39:35,960 --> 00:39:38,600
Speaker 1: think that gives us insight to how you are just

769
00:39:38,719 --> 00:39:41,759
Speaker 1: as a person. You're very matter of fact and you

770
00:39:41,800 --> 00:39:43,279
Speaker 1: know what it is that you want and you go

771
00:39:43,320 --> 00:39:46,680
Speaker 1: after it and you don't be yes about it. So

772
00:39:46,960 --> 00:39:49,200
Speaker 1: tell us about that conversation that you had with Gabe.

773
00:39:49,560 --> 00:39:53,160
Speaker 1: How hard was that? Oh, y'all, Gabe, it was like

774
00:39:53,200 --> 00:39:57,520
Speaker 1: the sweetest human on planet Earth. I swear we always

775
00:39:57,600 --> 00:39:59,920
Speaker 1: joked and were like Gabe's house dad, because he was

776
00:40:00,120 --> 00:40:02,880
Speaker 1: always the one that was like sitting there and giving

777
00:40:02,920 --> 00:40:05,440
Speaker 1: like the best advice and like would listen to you.

778
00:40:05,520 --> 00:40:07,040
Speaker 1: And I was like the shoulder to cry on. And

779
00:40:07,080 --> 00:40:10,000
Speaker 1: so I just have the softest spot in my heart

780
00:40:10,040 --> 00:40:14,279
Speaker 1: for Gabe, Like he's just a phenomenal man. And that

781
00:40:14,280 --> 00:40:17,360
Speaker 1: conversation was difficult, but just because of the way that

782
00:40:17,440 --> 00:40:22,680
Speaker 1: Gabe is, he allowed me to be myself. He never

783
00:40:22,760 --> 00:40:26,919
Speaker 1: once said we can't mend this relationship if you don't

784
00:40:26,920 --> 00:40:29,640
Speaker 1: pick me, or I'm gonna hate you forever. He was

785
00:40:29,680 --> 00:40:32,479
Speaker 1: like hey, matter of fact, like this is where I am.

786
00:40:32,560 --> 00:40:35,120
Speaker 1: I choose you. If you don't choose me, I'm not

787
00:40:35,200 --> 00:40:38,000
Speaker 1: pressuring you to do so. And so it was almost

788
00:40:38,000 --> 00:40:42,200
Speaker 1: this like freedom to share with him how much he

789
00:40:42,280 --> 00:40:44,640
Speaker 1: meant to me, even though he knew like it probably

790
00:40:44,719 --> 00:40:48,360
Speaker 1: wasn't enough to keep him. And I think that's something

791
00:40:48,360 --> 00:40:51,960
Speaker 1: we don't see enough on the show, is that that

792
00:40:52,080 --> 00:40:56,000
Speaker 1: level of respect where he didn't get upset. He just

793
00:40:56,080 --> 00:40:58,000
Speaker 1: was like, I appreciate you telling me this, thank you,

794
00:40:58,080 --> 00:41:00,759
Speaker 1: and now I'm going to remove myself if it's not

795
00:41:01,040 --> 00:41:03,319
Speaker 1: like for the right reasons. That's something that Rich and

796
00:41:03,360 --> 00:41:05,680
Speaker 1: I before I jumped on that we said about him,

797
00:41:05,760 --> 00:41:07,560
Speaker 1: is it seems like even though it didn't work out

798
00:41:07,560 --> 00:41:10,640
Speaker 1: for him, it felt like he was truly there taking

799
00:41:10,680 --> 00:41:13,000
Speaker 1: this heart for the right reasons and being like, look,

800
00:41:13,000 --> 00:41:15,080
Speaker 1: if I'm not gonna force it, I'm not just gonna

801
00:41:15,239 --> 00:41:18,040
Speaker 1: try to find a relationship to make it week by week.

802
00:41:19,120 --> 00:41:20,880
Speaker 1: And so, yeah, we didn't see enough of him. I

803
00:41:20,880 --> 00:41:23,440
Speaker 1: would love to see more of him, but um, you know,

804
00:41:23,480 --> 00:41:26,239
Speaker 1: for that that interaction, that conversation that had was had

805
00:41:26,280 --> 00:41:28,759
Speaker 1: between you two, it was it was a good one.

806
00:41:28,760 --> 00:41:31,480
Speaker 1: So thank you for that. No, overall like, we saw

807
00:41:31,480 --> 00:41:34,239
Speaker 1: a lot of the drama go down obviously with you

808
00:41:34,360 --> 00:41:38,239
Speaker 1: and Julia, but your experience overall while being on the show,

809
00:41:38,280 --> 00:41:42,200
Speaker 1: what was that Like? The whole experience on the show

810
00:41:42,360 --> 00:41:45,719
Speaker 1: is both of you know, it's such a rollercoaster, right.

811
00:41:45,880 --> 00:41:47,560
Speaker 1: You have days where you're on top of the world,

812
00:41:47,600 --> 00:41:49,080
Speaker 1: and then you have days where you just want to

813
00:41:49,080 --> 00:41:52,239
Speaker 1: crawl a hole and cry, you know. And I think

814
00:41:52,320 --> 00:41:57,120
Speaker 1: up until this episode, I was really confident, really excited

815
00:41:57,160 --> 00:42:01,120
Speaker 1: to be there, really happy, and just I was happy

816
00:42:01,200 --> 00:42:04,640
Speaker 1: just being myself. Like I think, Rachel, you just said,

817
00:42:04,680 --> 00:42:06,719
Speaker 1: I'm really a matter of fact, like I know what's up.

818
00:42:07,160 --> 00:42:12,000
Speaker 1: And it's interesting going into one of these experiences or

819
00:42:12,040 --> 00:42:16,200
Speaker 1: going into this journey. I was like, I'm mentally super

820
00:42:16,280 --> 00:42:18,879
Speaker 1: strong and I've got this. I know who I am.

821
00:42:19,360 --> 00:42:22,360
Speaker 1: And then you get far enough along and you realize,

822
00:42:22,480 --> 00:42:25,920
Speaker 1: oh my gosh, emotionally, I haven't been challenged like this ever.

823
00:42:27,360 --> 00:42:31,279
Speaker 1: And I would say on set, like we're in a

824
00:42:31,280 --> 00:42:35,840
Speaker 1: pressure cooker. This is like an accelerated thing. And so

825
00:42:36,400 --> 00:42:39,760
Speaker 1: for me, it was a challenge to be able to

826
00:42:39,840 --> 00:42:42,640
Speaker 1: identify my emotions and then speak to them really well.

827
00:42:43,120 --> 00:42:45,759
Speaker 1: And you just you have your good days, you have

828
00:42:45,880 --> 00:42:48,640
Speaker 1: your bad days. But through and through, I think there

829
00:42:48,640 --> 00:42:53,040
Speaker 1: are enough genuine people on that show or during the

830
00:42:53,200 --> 00:42:56,440
Speaker 1: journey along for the journey with me that I was

831
00:42:56,480 --> 00:42:59,440
Speaker 1: able to combide in and lean on, and so it

832
00:42:59,600 --> 00:43:02,319
Speaker 1: was ended up being amazing. I wouldn't train for the world.

833
00:43:03,440 --> 00:43:06,120
Speaker 1: Were you a fan of The Bachelor Bachelorette before you

834
00:43:06,160 --> 00:43:10,799
Speaker 1: went on this show? I was so. Whenever I was

835
00:43:10,840 --> 00:43:16,120
Speaker 1: preparing for, you know, filming, I realized that I had

836
00:43:16,120 --> 00:43:18,160
Speaker 1: seen bits and pieces here and there. I've seen both

837
00:43:18,160 --> 00:43:21,400
Speaker 1: of your seasons bits and pieces, and I wanted to

838
00:43:21,440 --> 00:43:24,240
Speaker 1: know more about the culture and everything. So I actually

839
00:43:24,239 --> 00:43:27,799
Speaker 1: sat down and I was working on something for PRETT,

840
00:43:27,840 --> 00:43:29,840
Speaker 1: and I had my phone on this desk and I

841
00:43:29,880 --> 00:43:33,680
Speaker 1: was working on something, and I watched y'all five hours

842
00:43:33,840 --> 00:43:38,239
Speaker 1: worth of like YouTube videos from anything from like Jake

843
00:43:38,320 --> 00:43:42,560
Speaker 1: Pavelka to Colton Underwood to like even the beginning of Peter.

844
00:43:43,800 --> 00:43:47,120
Speaker 1: And it was so funny because I got all Bachelorette, Bachelor,

845
00:43:47,239 --> 00:43:49,960
Speaker 1: Bachelor in Paradise drama, the highs and lows, and I

846
00:43:50,000 --> 00:43:54,479
Speaker 1: was like, Oh, we're in for it, guys away right.

847
00:43:55,320 --> 00:44:00,360
Speaker 1: I was like, oh man, I'm in, Like, let's do it. Yeah, Well, Havannah,

848
00:44:00,400 --> 00:44:02,480
Speaker 1: we gotta wrap up. But I Rachel and I like

849
00:44:02,520 --> 00:44:05,280
Speaker 1: to play games, and we don't have a full game today.

850
00:44:05,680 --> 00:44:10,120
Speaker 1: But I want to know, honestly, during your dumb on

851
00:44:10,160 --> 00:44:12,560
Speaker 1: the show, who did you think had the best voice

852
00:44:12,640 --> 00:44:17,239
Speaker 1: and the worst voice? Oh? I can't pick yourself. You

853
00:44:17,239 --> 00:44:20,600
Speaker 1: can't pick yourself as the best. Can you imagine? If

854
00:44:20,640 --> 00:44:29,000
Speaker 1: I'm like me? Why not? Why not? Um? Okay? Oh gosh,

855
00:44:29,040 --> 00:44:33,120
Speaker 1: I think best voice hands down as Rudy. I mean, girls,

856
00:44:33,440 --> 00:44:37,800
Speaker 1: I never met Rudy, but I'm obsessed with her. This girl,

857
00:44:38,040 --> 00:44:42,040
Speaker 1: y'all has pipes. She's just she's one of those like

858
00:44:42,640 --> 00:44:45,880
Speaker 1: she could sing any genre, any key and like you

859
00:44:45,920 --> 00:44:49,000
Speaker 1: would just melt. And she's equally as amazing on the

860
00:44:49,040 --> 00:44:51,480
Speaker 1: inside as her voice portrays on the outside. So I

861
00:44:51,480 --> 00:44:55,880
Speaker 1: would say best voice is her, by far. Um what

862
00:44:56,080 --> 00:45:00,839
Speaker 1: was the other worst voice? Voice? Yo? All? Yes, I don't.

863
00:45:00,920 --> 00:45:04,839
Speaker 1: I don't know if I'm necessarily gonna dog anybody, but um,

864
00:45:06,840 --> 00:45:10,920
Speaker 1: can we talk about the Michael Todd moment? Because you

865
00:45:11,320 --> 00:45:14,400
Speaker 1: worst voice? But I would say, like the funniest interaction

866
00:45:14,520 --> 00:45:19,600
Speaker 1: with someone singing and how all that turned out. I'm

867
00:45:19,640 --> 00:45:21,719
Speaker 1: so happy you brought this up because you were the

868
00:45:21,760 --> 00:45:24,120
Speaker 1: one where he's like, I like your lips, and I

869
00:45:24,200 --> 00:45:28,239
Speaker 1: was seriously cringing into my couch. I don't remember when

870
00:45:28,280 --> 00:45:30,360
Speaker 1: I was drinking something like a margarite or something, and

871
00:45:30,440 --> 00:45:32,160
Speaker 1: I almost like broke the glass because I was like,

872
00:45:32,200 --> 00:45:38,840
Speaker 1: oh my gosh, hand you're like, thank you. You have

873
00:45:38,840 --> 00:45:43,040
Speaker 1: been like but lips. Yeah, Like okay, Rachel, what would

874
00:45:43,080 --> 00:45:45,120
Speaker 1: you have done in that moment? I feel like you're

875
00:45:45,160 --> 00:45:47,319
Speaker 1: my sassy girl. That would have like put this man

876
00:45:47,400 --> 00:45:49,880
Speaker 1: in his place or something. I honestly probably would have

877
00:45:49,920 --> 00:45:52,839
Speaker 1: walked away without any explanation. I would have just left

878
00:45:52,920 --> 00:45:56,560
Speaker 1: him there. No words would have been spoken, not an

879
00:45:56,600 --> 00:45:59,480
Speaker 1: excuse me, nothing, just I would have walked away up

880
00:45:59,600 --> 00:46:02,480
Speaker 1: and Lee I would have been like, I'm I'm like

881
00:46:02,520 --> 00:46:04,560
Speaker 1: the weird awkward girls would have been like, you're making

882
00:46:04,600 --> 00:46:07,600
Speaker 1: me feel weird right now, Like oh but dude, see

883
00:46:08,480 --> 00:46:10,440
Speaker 1: I feel like I was more on your level with that,

884
00:46:10,480 --> 00:46:13,359
Speaker 1: because you know, it's like a moment for it to

885
00:46:13,360 --> 00:46:17,680
Speaker 1: sink in. I was like, oh my gosh, this is happening. Yeah,

886
00:46:17,719 --> 00:46:21,279
Speaker 1: but it doesn't happen. Seriously. I think we always go

887
00:46:21,320 --> 00:46:23,520
Speaker 1: through it where some guy is trying to hit on

888
00:46:23,600 --> 00:46:26,120
Speaker 1: you and you're just like, how in the world do

889
00:46:26,200 --> 00:46:28,360
Speaker 1: I shut this down as soon as I can, and

890
00:46:28,440 --> 00:46:31,279
Speaker 1: it's just so awkward. But in this so much you

891
00:46:31,320 --> 00:46:33,239
Speaker 1: can you could be like, oh, can you talk less

892
00:46:33,239 --> 00:46:35,279
Speaker 1: and sing more? Or can I hear that song again?

893
00:46:35,320 --> 00:46:37,600
Speaker 1: Can can I hear that beatbox again? Isn't that well?

894
00:46:37,640 --> 00:46:39,840
Speaker 1: That's what I was kind of getting at Rachel. I

895
00:46:39,920 --> 00:46:41,560
Speaker 1: was like when I asked him, I was like, can

896
00:46:41,600 --> 00:46:43,480
Speaker 1: you beatbox? I'm like, okay, we can do that. And

897
00:46:43,480 --> 00:46:46,439
Speaker 1: then there's you know, an exit plan here, no exit plan.

898
00:46:46,600 --> 00:46:51,680
Speaker 1: I was like, Oh, we're in. When you're in? Who

899
00:46:51,719 --> 00:46:54,959
Speaker 1: were you the closest in the house too? What you said?

900
00:46:55,120 --> 00:46:58,640
Speaker 1: Who are you the closest with in the house? Oh, y'all?

901
00:46:58,680 --> 00:47:02,160
Speaker 1: Becca is my girl. I liked she loves Beecca too.

902
00:47:02,360 --> 00:47:05,720
Speaker 1: I really liked Secca like the beginning of intro package,

903
00:47:05,760 --> 00:47:07,880
Speaker 1: Like she just sold me. She sucked me in right away.

904
00:47:08,120 --> 00:47:11,560
Speaker 1: Oh I died. I called her immediately and I was like, what,

905
00:47:12,400 --> 00:47:15,120
Speaker 1: that's just her? I mean, that is just her. She's

906
00:47:15,200 --> 00:47:19,759
Speaker 1: genuine and she's so caring and she's just funny. She's hilarious.

907
00:47:20,080 --> 00:47:23,040
Speaker 1: You did cry when she left, so yeah, I could

908
00:47:23,080 --> 00:47:25,919
Speaker 1: tell you guys were close. Yeah, she's my girl. We're

909
00:47:25,920 --> 00:47:28,120
Speaker 1: holding hands and it was one of those moments of like,

910
00:47:28,880 --> 00:47:31,000
Speaker 1: you know, we did we did everything we could. We

911
00:47:31,080 --> 00:47:34,319
Speaker 1: left it all out there, and I mean, she's a

912
00:47:34,320 --> 00:47:37,120
Speaker 1: lifelonger for me. So oh, it's so great when you

913
00:47:37,120 --> 00:47:39,360
Speaker 1: get that from the show. You're never expecting that. You know,

914
00:47:39,400 --> 00:47:41,239
Speaker 1: you're on a love show, but the friendships that you

915
00:47:41,320 --> 00:47:45,359
Speaker 1: make are forever if you're if you're lucky, you get

916
00:47:45,360 --> 00:47:47,600
Speaker 1: a friend forever from the show. Yeah. Yeah, And that

917
00:47:47,719 --> 00:47:49,600
Speaker 1: was something that I told Chris Sayerson. I don't know

918
00:47:49,640 --> 00:47:51,200
Speaker 1: if it made it or not, but when we were

919
00:47:51,200 --> 00:47:53,520
Speaker 1: sitting standing in the driveway when I first met him,

920
00:47:53,960 --> 00:47:55,680
Speaker 1: and he's like, what do you expect out of the show,

921
00:47:55,719 --> 00:47:57,440
Speaker 1: And I was like, honestly, my heart is open, my

922
00:47:57,480 --> 00:48:00,400
Speaker 1: hands are open. I just want to make authentic connections

923
00:48:00,440 --> 00:48:03,319
Speaker 1: and relationships. And he laughed and he's like that sounds

924
00:48:03,360 --> 00:48:05,799
Speaker 1: a little sterile, don't you think. I was like, honestly, no,

925
00:48:05,960 --> 00:48:08,080
Speaker 1: because I could walk through those doors and meet the

926
00:48:08,120 --> 00:48:10,640
Speaker 1: love of my life, but I could also make the

927
00:48:10,680 --> 00:48:13,879
Speaker 1: best friend of my life. And so it was so

928
00:48:14,000 --> 00:48:17,920
Speaker 1: beautiful and you'll see how everything unravels, but on like

929
00:48:18,000 --> 00:48:21,160
Speaker 1: the friendship side of things, like that absolutely happened with her,

930
00:48:21,200 --> 00:48:23,839
Speaker 1: so I'm grateful. Well, I always say, like, even if

931
00:48:23,880 --> 00:48:26,680
Speaker 1: you don't find love on the show, in you know, partnership,

932
00:48:26,680 --> 00:48:29,920
Speaker 1: you still find love with your girls. So I'm happy

933
00:48:29,920 --> 00:48:31,360
Speaker 1: for you guys. I can't wait to see kind of

934
00:48:31,360 --> 00:48:34,279
Speaker 1: like what pans out from here. Now, before we let

935
00:48:34,280 --> 00:48:36,879
Speaker 1: you go, I have to ask, So your first date

936
00:48:36,880 --> 00:48:40,400
Speaker 1: with Brandon, you guys went to that cute little jazz club.

937
00:48:40,880 --> 00:48:43,400
Speaker 1: What were your thoughts on? What were their names? Elaine

938
00:48:43,400 --> 00:48:49,200
Speaker 1: and Mortier there were so yeah, y'all, they were so cute.

939
00:48:49,200 --> 00:48:51,160
Speaker 1: I was so happy that they got a little bit

940
00:48:51,160 --> 00:48:54,920
Speaker 1: of airtime because they were precious. So I've been looking

941
00:48:54,920 --> 00:48:57,759
Speaker 1: forward to that date. I mean, obviously you don't know

942
00:48:58,040 --> 00:48:59,840
Speaker 1: that when you're gonna get a date card or not.

943
00:49:00,400 --> 00:49:02,319
Speaker 1: So it's always an honor and like a shock yard

944
00:49:02,360 --> 00:49:04,640
Speaker 1: starts beating fast, like I just got a day guard.

945
00:49:05,640 --> 00:49:08,240
Speaker 1: But walking into the Dresden was just it was amazing,

946
00:49:08,280 --> 00:49:11,279
Speaker 1: Like it's iconic as we all know, and they are

947
00:49:11,320 --> 00:49:15,480
Speaker 1: just they genuinely are so in love, Like no part

948
00:49:15,480 --> 00:49:18,680
Speaker 1: of that was staged. It honestly was just they're beaming

949
00:49:18,800 --> 00:49:22,040
Speaker 1: at all times, and they had this playful banter and

950
00:49:22,080 --> 00:49:23,960
Speaker 1: they still poke at each other and she can tell

951
00:49:24,000 --> 00:49:26,480
Speaker 1: the story of how they met, or she can tell

952
00:49:26,480 --> 00:49:31,320
Speaker 1: like the little details about something funny that happened years ago.

953
00:49:32,600 --> 00:49:35,600
Speaker 1: And so it was really cool that they came and

954
00:49:35,640 --> 00:49:37,279
Speaker 1: sat down at the table with us and we got

955
00:49:37,280 --> 00:49:40,680
Speaker 1: to ask some relationship questions to them because they still

956
00:49:40,719 --> 00:49:44,319
Speaker 1: got it and they're amazing, They're so cute. I'm so

957
00:49:44,360 --> 00:49:46,239
Speaker 1: happy that you guys were able to meet them and

958
00:49:46,400 --> 00:49:48,040
Speaker 1: have them be part of the show. As you said,

959
00:49:48,840 --> 00:49:50,520
Speaker 1: But I mean, it was so much fun having you.

960
00:49:50,560 --> 00:49:51,840
Speaker 1: I mean, I feel like we can just talk for

961
00:49:51,920 --> 00:49:54,880
Speaker 1: hours and I you know, maybe we'll chine after this

962
00:49:54,960 --> 00:49:56,680
Speaker 1: and you know, get some more tea because I do

963
00:49:56,719 --> 00:49:58,399
Speaker 1: want to dive in a little bit more. But thank

964
00:49:58,440 --> 00:49:59,920
Speaker 1: you for being with us today. We can't wait to

965
00:50:00,120 --> 00:50:02,960
Speaker 1: keep watching you on this season. You truly are bringing

966
00:50:03,040 --> 00:50:05,919
Speaker 1: us a lot of entertainment drama side, just performance wise,

967
00:50:06,520 --> 00:50:09,360
Speaker 1: So thank you, um. But we're very happy that you

968
00:50:09,440 --> 00:50:11,719
Speaker 1: decided to come on with us today. Yes, thank you

969
00:50:11,760 --> 00:50:14,520
Speaker 1: so much. And stay safe. We didn't even check in

970
00:50:14,560 --> 00:50:17,600
Speaker 1: on you and see how you're doing during quarantine, but yeah, okay,

971
00:50:17,800 --> 00:50:21,880
Speaker 1: yeah I'm doing great. So um, obviously, thank you so

972
00:50:21,960 --> 00:50:24,560
Speaker 1: much both of you for for having me on your show.

973
00:50:24,600 --> 00:50:26,799
Speaker 1: I look up to the two of you so incredibly much,

974
00:50:26,800 --> 00:50:29,319
Speaker 1: so this is a big honor for me. So thank

975
00:50:29,360 --> 00:50:31,239
Speaker 1: you for your love and support. I love you, guys,

976
00:50:32,360 --> 00:50:36,160
Speaker 1: um and yeah, quarantine, Quarantine's crazy. But this is a

977
00:50:36,200 --> 00:50:39,120
Speaker 1: really fun time, specifically in my life and even in

978
00:50:39,200 --> 00:50:42,279
Speaker 1: Bachelor Nation history, with a brand new show coming out.

979
00:50:42,320 --> 00:50:45,200
Speaker 1: So it's been a blast and I'm thankful for every

980
00:50:45,200 --> 00:50:47,200
Speaker 1: bit of it. I'm sure it's keeping you busy those

981
00:50:47,200 --> 00:50:53,160
Speaker 1: Sunday nights have something all right. Well, thank you, Savannah,

982
00:50:54,160 --> 00:50:57,319
Speaker 1: thank you bye. I love talking to her. I love

983
00:50:57,360 --> 00:51:00,200
Speaker 1: getting some of the tea, the behind the scenes, you know.

984
00:51:00,239 --> 00:51:02,239
Speaker 1: I feel like they didn't do her justice because the

985
00:51:02,239 --> 00:51:04,400
Speaker 1: first episode, I remember she's talking about being a model

986
00:51:04,440 --> 00:51:07,240
Speaker 1: and like a manslayer and all of that, and then

987
00:51:07,520 --> 00:51:10,879
Speaker 1: this episode I was like, no, like, I've vibe with

988
00:51:10,920 --> 00:51:14,360
Speaker 1: this chick. I love how she handled the situation with Julia,

989
00:51:14,480 --> 00:51:18,560
Speaker 1: with Gay, even with Brandon, and I think we really

990
00:51:18,560 --> 00:51:20,680
Speaker 1: got to learn who she is. And then even talking

991
00:51:20,719 --> 00:51:23,279
Speaker 1: to her now, it's the same thing. So yeah, I

992
00:51:23,880 --> 00:51:27,360
Speaker 1: am very curious as to what happens next week. I

993
00:51:28,239 --> 00:51:32,080
Speaker 1: gave very curious as am I because just talking with

994
00:51:32,120 --> 00:51:35,160
Speaker 1: her now and seeing what we saw go down between

995
00:51:35,160 --> 00:51:37,200
Speaker 1: her and Julia and just how she handles herself. I

996
00:51:37,239 --> 00:51:40,160
Speaker 1: think she does a very good job of, you know,

997
00:51:41,080 --> 00:51:43,120
Speaker 1: seeing it like it is, being a matter of fact,

998
00:51:43,200 --> 00:51:47,280
Speaker 1: having this good, strong head on her shoulders. But yeah,

999
00:51:47,320 --> 00:51:49,160
Speaker 1: I think next week is going to be a good one.

1000
00:51:49,760 --> 00:51:51,880
Speaker 1: You know, we've seen some tears already from her, and

1001
00:51:51,880 --> 00:51:55,600
Speaker 1: I think there's just going to be more to come. Unfortunately.

1002
00:51:56,080 --> 00:51:58,200
Speaker 1: I mean, this is what all I'll say is, this

1003
00:51:58,280 --> 00:52:02,600
Speaker 1: is the episode that I'm on, so I know some things,

1004
00:52:02,719 --> 00:52:04,239
Speaker 1: but I don't know how it all plays out. So

1005
00:52:04,280 --> 00:52:07,480
Speaker 1: I'm like, I gotta know how can this happen? I

1006
00:52:07,600 --> 00:52:11,719
Speaker 1: need to understand what's happening here. So well, I know

1007
00:52:11,800 --> 00:52:15,000
Speaker 1: you guys are excited to and can't wait. It just

1008
00:52:15,080 --> 00:52:18,080
Speaker 1: keeps getting better and better. Okay, well Becca, I'll tell

1009
00:52:18,080 --> 00:52:20,600
Speaker 1: you more. Savannah drama isn't the only thing that we

1010
00:52:20,680 --> 00:52:23,480
Speaker 1: have to look forward to next week, because we have

1011
00:52:23,640 --> 00:52:26,719
Speaker 1: some absolutely amazing judges next week, if I do say

1012
00:52:26,719 --> 00:52:29,839
Speaker 1: so myself. Now I am not just talking about myself. Yes,

1013
00:52:29,880 --> 00:52:31,920
Speaker 1: I'm a judge. We know this, Brian as a judge. Yes,

1014
00:52:32,800 --> 00:52:38,160
Speaker 1: we forget us because we have the incredibly talented Andy Grammar.

1015
00:52:38,280 --> 00:52:41,480
Speaker 1: Everyone he's a judge and we have him right now

1016
00:52:41,680 --> 00:52:44,680
Speaker 1: on the show. Okay, so just to start off, how

1017
00:52:44,719 --> 00:52:48,879
Speaker 1: are you doing in quarantine? How are you coping? What's new?

1018
00:52:48,920 --> 00:52:52,600
Speaker 1: Are you safe? Are you saying what's going on? I

1019
00:52:52,680 --> 00:52:55,960
Speaker 1: am safe and saying, you know, it's been two weeks

1020
00:52:56,000 --> 00:52:58,799
Speaker 1: now since we had our second baby in quarantine. My

1021
00:52:58,840 --> 00:53:00,840
Speaker 1: wife had a baby in the room and it was

1022
00:53:00,920 --> 00:53:06,439
Speaker 1: unbelievable and amazing, beautiful and and I know some people

1023
00:53:06,520 --> 00:53:08,640
Speaker 1: think I'm crazy. I caught her. I caught my baby

1024
00:53:08,640 --> 00:53:11,920
Speaker 1: in the tub. It was wow. Wait so this was

1025
00:53:11,960 --> 00:53:16,800
Speaker 1: planned and having like a spiritual, crazy, awesome quarantine? Ye wait, Andy,

1026
00:53:17,000 --> 00:53:19,400
Speaker 1: was the birth planned in the living room or was

1027
00:53:19,440 --> 00:53:23,040
Speaker 1: this like all of a sudden she had the Okay, man,

1028
00:53:23,080 --> 00:53:24,759
Speaker 1: it was really lucky because we had planned to have

1029
00:53:24,840 --> 00:53:27,920
Speaker 1: a home birth what we wanted to do, and then

1030
00:53:28,719 --> 00:53:31,640
Speaker 1: it happened to just be right during the quarantine. And

1031
00:53:31,680 --> 00:53:33,840
Speaker 1: then because people were afraid to go to the hospital,

1032
00:53:34,680 --> 00:53:36,640
Speaker 1: it's a homework started to be something that was like

1033
00:53:36,640 --> 00:53:40,239
Speaker 1: way more popular, and our midwife was saying that she

1034
00:53:40,320 --> 00:53:42,239
Speaker 1: had to get a new phone because everyone's calling her

1035
00:53:42,280 --> 00:53:43,680
Speaker 1: so much. But we had already planned to do it

1036
00:53:43,719 --> 00:53:46,239
Speaker 1: at home and it worked out. It was really cool.

1037
00:53:46,600 --> 00:53:49,359
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, that's crazy. Well, I feel like this

1038
00:53:49,440 --> 00:53:51,520
Speaker 1: is the best time to have a baby because now

1039
00:53:51,560 --> 00:53:53,640
Speaker 1: you can both be home together. I mean, my sister

1040
00:53:53,719 --> 00:53:55,520
Speaker 1: had a baby back in September and she's like, this

1041
00:53:55,600 --> 00:53:58,440
Speaker 1: is just a really long maternity leave for me. So

1042
00:53:58,480 --> 00:54:01,760
Speaker 1: at least you're busy and have a new little bundle

1043
00:54:01,760 --> 00:54:04,880
Speaker 1: of joy to keep you busy. Yeah. And there's so

1044
00:54:04,960 --> 00:54:07,920
Speaker 1: much like mental intensity going on right now. I feel like,

1045
00:54:07,920 --> 00:54:10,200
Speaker 1: if you read the news or because it is, we're

1046
00:54:10,239 --> 00:54:14,080
Speaker 1: in like an unprecedented time. Yeah, I have my brain

1047
00:54:14,160 --> 00:54:16,440
Speaker 1: can't go that far into all that because it's just

1048
00:54:16,520 --> 00:54:22,240
Speaker 1: like I got a new little girl here. Yeah. Story

1049
00:54:22,560 --> 00:54:24,359
Speaker 1: like she's going to grow up and be looking through

1050
00:54:24,400 --> 00:54:26,799
Speaker 1: her baby book and like the story she can tell

1051
00:54:26,840 --> 00:54:28,879
Speaker 1: her friends. And she was born in your living room

1052
00:54:28,960 --> 00:54:32,160
Speaker 1: during the midst of a quarantine. That's like what movies

1053
00:54:32,160 --> 00:54:36,839
Speaker 1: are made of exactly. She's coming in with She wanted

1054
00:54:36,840 --> 00:54:40,120
Speaker 1: to make an entrance for sure. Oh yeah, Andy, I'm

1055
00:54:40,120 --> 00:54:44,080
Speaker 1: obsessed with her name Israel Blue. Oh if you hear

1056
00:54:44,120 --> 00:54:50,040
Speaker 1: it again, don't get mad at me. Beautiful, beautiful. I

1057
00:54:50,360 --> 00:54:52,200
Speaker 1: just and I'm so glad my husband isn't on the

1058
00:54:52,239 --> 00:54:54,279
Speaker 1: phone because he wants me to have an at home birth.

1059
00:54:54,600 --> 00:54:58,240
Speaker 1: And that's a point of confession for us. I'm terrified.

1060
00:54:58,400 --> 00:55:00,560
Speaker 1: Are you afraid of it? Why? Why are you afraid?

1061
00:55:00,640 --> 00:55:02,560
Speaker 1: Let's talk about it for a second. Okay, let's talk

1062
00:55:02,560 --> 00:55:06,200
Speaker 1: about it. Um of the pain. I think I'm a

1063
00:55:06,200 --> 00:55:08,760
Speaker 1: person who's like, can you just give me whatever medicine

1064
00:55:08,800 --> 00:55:10,560
Speaker 1: I need to get through it. I've had another friend

1065
00:55:10,600 --> 00:55:13,080
Speaker 1: who said it at home birth, and she speaks of

1066
00:55:13,200 --> 00:55:16,359
Speaker 1: how this is the most beautiful experience ever. I just

1067
00:55:17,080 --> 00:55:20,560
Speaker 1: I mean, is it beautiful? Pass screaming, that's the screaming past,

1068
00:55:20,760 --> 00:55:23,520
Speaker 1: drawing things around the roof. I was gonna say if

1069
00:55:23,560 --> 00:55:25,479
Speaker 1: I gave birth in my home, every time I would

1070
00:55:25,480 --> 00:55:27,400
Speaker 1: pass a certain area and be like, oh, that's the

1071
00:55:27,480 --> 00:55:29,839
Speaker 1: moment that you like tore my insides apart, or like,

1072
00:55:30,320 --> 00:55:32,560
Speaker 1: that's the moment where there's like this blood gushing out

1073
00:55:32,560 --> 00:55:36,640
Speaker 1: onto the carpet. Actually, oh yeah, I will say it's

1074
00:55:36,680 --> 00:55:38,359
Speaker 1: a little bit. It's a little bit that. But it's

1075
00:55:38,400 --> 00:55:42,480
Speaker 1: also the other side of like our house feels so magical, like,

1076
00:55:42,520 --> 00:55:45,279
Speaker 1: oh my god, that's where this happened. That's where the

1077
00:55:45,280 --> 00:55:49,040
Speaker 1: baby came into the world, is right there. That's there's

1078
00:55:49,040 --> 00:55:50,600
Speaker 1: some of that too. It feels like our house like

1079
00:55:50,719 --> 00:55:54,760
Speaker 1: got even closer to us. Yeah, but there's no judgment

1080
00:55:54,840 --> 00:55:58,440
Speaker 1: on anyone. All all have getting a baby out are

1081
00:55:58,520 --> 00:56:02,200
Speaker 1: valid and fair. I could say, you're making me see

1082
00:56:02,520 --> 00:56:05,359
Speaker 1: a better side of it. I will say that, Rachel,

1083
00:56:05,400 --> 00:56:08,399
Speaker 1: would you do it if you could get the drugs? Yes,

1084
00:56:09,040 --> 00:56:11,840
Speaker 1: if I could, Yes, for sure, for sure. I'm just

1085
00:56:11,880 --> 00:56:14,680
Speaker 1: picture like Dexter style where he puts down all of

1086
00:56:14,719 --> 00:56:17,840
Speaker 1: the plastic all over, like covering the walls, the floor

1087
00:56:17,840 --> 00:56:20,319
Speaker 1: of the tables. Like that's what I would need, is

1088
00:56:20,320 --> 00:56:24,680
Speaker 1: like full Dexter style, like to not have blood and

1089
00:56:25,640 --> 00:56:31,000
Speaker 1: juices get everywhere. Oh god, okay, that's question when I say,

1090
00:56:31,080 --> 00:56:33,440
Speaker 1: it's not like a bathtub, it's like a whole, Like

1091
00:56:33,480 --> 00:56:36,120
Speaker 1: you blow up this tub and it's like a it's

1092
00:56:36,120 --> 00:56:37,759
Speaker 1: like a small little pool that we put in our

1093
00:56:37,800 --> 00:56:44,120
Speaker 1: living room. Yeah. Well, congratulations, Yes, congratulations. Our listeners thought

1094
00:56:44,120 --> 00:56:46,399
Speaker 1: that we were only going to talk about you being

1095
00:56:46,440 --> 00:56:48,960
Speaker 1: on Listen to your Heart, and little did they know

1096
00:56:49,000 --> 00:56:51,279
Speaker 1: they're going to get like a full birthing experience with

1097
00:56:51,320 --> 00:56:56,759
Speaker 1: Indy Grammar Today didn't know that bonus at the time.

1098
00:56:56,800 --> 00:56:59,399
Speaker 1: On that show. By the way, it was so fun. Yeah, well,

1099
00:56:59,400 --> 00:57:01,920
Speaker 1: we want to get into your experience because I mean,

1100
00:57:02,000 --> 00:57:04,560
Speaker 1: I know Rachel had the privilege to meet you. I

1101
00:57:04,640 --> 00:57:07,280
Speaker 1: unfortunately wasn't there, which I'm bummed. Andy. I did actually

1102
00:57:07,360 --> 00:57:10,879
Speaker 1: see you perform in Minneapolis a couple of years ago

1103
00:57:10,880 --> 00:57:14,000
Speaker 1: at the Basilica block party. So when Rachel I was

1104
00:57:14,040 --> 00:57:18,120
Speaker 1: actually recording with Rachel, like the day before or the

1105
00:57:18,200 --> 00:57:20,400
Speaker 1: day of, you guys filmed Listen to Your Heart and

1106
00:57:20,400 --> 00:57:21,960
Speaker 1: you guys were both judges, and She's like, yeah, I

1107
00:57:22,000 --> 00:57:23,960
Speaker 1: get to beat Andy Grammer'm like I saw him a

1108
00:57:24,000 --> 00:57:28,439
Speaker 1: couple of years ago and you were phenomenal live. Yeah,

1109
00:57:28,520 --> 00:57:31,160
Speaker 1: that show was really good. I remember that one that

1110
00:57:31,240 --> 00:57:34,280
Speaker 1: was such a vibe. It was a corner of the festival.

1111
00:57:34,560 --> 00:57:37,600
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, and you close it down, you try it down.

1112
00:57:37,640 --> 00:57:40,600
Speaker 1: It was the perfect ending to the weekend. Very very

1113
00:57:40,600 --> 00:57:42,920
Speaker 1: good performance. So when Rachel said that she was going

1114
00:57:42,960 --> 00:57:44,280
Speaker 1: to meet you and have you as one of the

1115
00:57:44,320 --> 00:57:46,200
Speaker 1: guest judges, I was like, damn, I wish I could

1116
00:57:46,240 --> 00:57:51,080
Speaker 1: be there. But how was her time on the show.

1117
00:57:52,800 --> 00:57:54,720
Speaker 1: I had a really good time. I was really impressed

1118
00:57:54,720 --> 00:57:58,520
Speaker 1: at the level of like talent, Like everybody's really good.

1119
00:57:59,280 --> 00:58:01,800
Speaker 1: All the voices were good, Like there was like a

1120
00:58:01,880 --> 00:58:05,840
Speaker 1: level of like a standard level of like, oh, everybody

1121
00:58:05,840 --> 00:58:08,640
Speaker 1: that's here and singing is really good. They're all really good.

1122
00:58:08,680 --> 00:58:12,480
Speaker 1: There's no doubt about it, you know. I was really impressed. Yeah,

1123
00:58:12,520 --> 00:58:14,800
Speaker 1: and that's something that Rachel and I have talked about.

1124
00:58:14,840 --> 00:58:17,360
Speaker 1: I mean, we knew that we would be covering the

1125
00:58:17,400 --> 00:58:19,240
Speaker 1: show and that you know, these people would come in

1126
00:58:19,280 --> 00:58:22,080
Speaker 1: and hopefully be good singers, but for some of them

1127
00:58:22,120 --> 00:58:24,840
Speaker 1: were actually blown away. So it's really fun week by

1128
00:58:24,880 --> 00:58:27,200
Speaker 1: week to hear them sing, to hear them perform together.

1129
00:58:27,600 --> 00:58:30,080
Speaker 1: But one of my favorite parts of now watching the

1130
00:58:30,120 --> 00:58:34,000
Speaker 1: actual performances is hearing your feedback that the judges feedback

1131
00:58:34,520 --> 00:58:37,680
Speaker 1: is something that's really I think special for me and

1132
00:58:37,720 --> 00:58:41,000
Speaker 1: you guys. The way that you listen and interpret these

1133
00:58:41,000 --> 00:58:43,680
Speaker 1: performances is on this whole new level, and you guys

1134
00:58:43,760 --> 00:58:46,640
Speaker 1: catch things that I, you know, just as a viewer,

1135
00:58:46,680 --> 00:58:48,800
Speaker 1: don't always see. So it's really fun to have you

1136
00:58:48,800 --> 00:58:53,360
Speaker 1: guys on as well. Yeah. Yeah, it's really you know,

1137
00:58:53,480 --> 00:58:57,320
Speaker 1: I've done I guess I haven't been a judge that much.

1138
00:58:57,360 --> 00:59:01,440
Speaker 1: I've done like performances on other singing competitions, like saying

1139
00:59:01,440 --> 00:59:04,560
Speaker 1: I think I'm an American idol a couple of times

1140
00:59:04,560 --> 00:59:06,600
Speaker 1: something on the voice, but I've never like actually sat

1141
00:59:06,600 --> 00:59:08,720
Speaker 1: in the chair and been like, oh, let me tell

1142
00:59:08,720 --> 00:59:10,560
Speaker 1: you some stuff that I've learned over doing this for

1143
00:59:10,600 --> 00:59:12,720
Speaker 1: a really long time and how I think it can

1144
00:59:12,800 --> 00:59:14,720
Speaker 1: help you. There's like a service element to it that

1145
00:59:14,760 --> 00:59:17,240
Speaker 1: I'm always into. It was really fun. Did you find

1146
00:59:17,280 --> 00:59:19,520
Speaker 1: a difficult though, to have to be in the judges

1147
00:59:19,640 --> 00:59:22,440
Speaker 1: seat where you have to like give your critique and

1148
00:59:22,760 --> 00:59:24,320
Speaker 1: then at the end of it, because we learned that

1149
00:59:24,360 --> 00:59:27,320
Speaker 1: this week in the episode that you have to eliminate

1150
00:59:27,360 --> 00:59:31,920
Speaker 1: one of the couples. Was that difficult for you? Not really?

1151
00:59:32,280 --> 00:59:36,280
Speaker 1: I mean part of being an artist is not part.

1152
00:59:36,480 --> 00:59:40,440
Speaker 1: Most of being an artist is a rejection. So it's

1153
00:59:40,480 --> 00:59:44,400
Speaker 1: like it's just like a part of it your story

1154
00:59:43,560 --> 00:59:46,720
Speaker 1: because because I've taken so much rejection in my life

1155
00:59:46,720 --> 00:59:50,400
Speaker 1: that if these people, these artists are putting themselves out

1156
00:59:50,400 --> 00:59:53,560
Speaker 1: there and they want to really know what being an

1157
00:59:53,600 --> 00:59:58,600
Speaker 1: artist is like, it's mostly people being like no kind

1158
00:59:58,600 --> 01:00:01,360
Speaker 1: of artist. One one has been like your voice han't

1159
01:00:01,360 --> 01:00:03,080
Speaker 1: been good enough. You're looking and good enough, you don't

1160
01:00:03,080 --> 01:00:05,800
Speaker 1: sound good enough, like go away, like okay, cool, Well

1161
01:00:05,800 --> 01:00:09,280
Speaker 1: now you're an artist, like welcome, you know, great passage.

1162
01:00:09,400 --> 01:00:12,160
Speaker 1: Can you please tell your story because I will. I mean,

1163
01:00:12,200 --> 01:00:14,800
Speaker 1: it was one of the most fascinating conversations I've had

1164
01:00:15,040 --> 01:00:17,080
Speaker 1: about your story of how you got started in the

1165
01:00:17,160 --> 01:00:20,160
Speaker 1: post it. Can you please tell that story. I feel

1166
01:00:20,160 --> 01:00:22,880
Speaker 1: like it'sn't just as so encouraging for anybody who's listening

1167
01:00:22,960 --> 01:00:26,080
Speaker 1: right now. Yeah, you know, so much of like I

1168
01:00:26,160 --> 01:00:28,120
Speaker 1: was saying, so much of being an artists or really

1169
01:00:28,160 --> 01:00:32,400
Speaker 1: any career is knowing how to just push through rejection

1170
01:00:32,600 --> 01:00:35,800
Speaker 1: and not letting someone else define what you're going to do,

1171
01:00:35,920 --> 01:00:38,400
Speaker 1: or who you are, or what your worth is. You know,

1172
01:00:38,560 --> 01:00:43,360
Speaker 1: I was practicing to go street perform it in Santa Monica.

1173
01:00:43,480 --> 01:00:46,880
Speaker 1: They have it's called Third Street Promenade, and you're allowed

1174
01:00:46,880 --> 01:00:48,560
Speaker 1: to go perform out there and people give you tips

1175
01:00:48,560 --> 01:00:50,880
Speaker 1: and stuff. And that's what I did for four years

1176
01:00:50,880 --> 01:00:53,800
Speaker 1: before anything happened for me. And I was tracticing in

1177
01:00:53,840 --> 01:00:57,280
Speaker 1: my apartment to go play on the street for no one. So, like,

1178
01:00:57,360 --> 01:00:59,760
Speaker 1: just for context, that is the lowest you get into

1179
01:00:59,800 --> 01:01:02,920
Speaker 1: music industry is to be practicing really hard to go

1180
01:01:03,000 --> 01:01:06,720
Speaker 1: play for no one. And I'm practicing my heart out

1181
01:01:06,720 --> 01:01:08,080
Speaker 1: and I get a knock at the door and I

1182
01:01:08,200 --> 01:01:09,920
Speaker 1: go open the door, and there's a sticky note on

1183
01:01:09,960 --> 01:01:12,120
Speaker 1: the door that says, your voice sucks. Give up the

1184
01:01:12,240 --> 01:01:18,240
Speaker 1: dream was that what? I don't know? There's nobody there.

1185
01:01:19,400 --> 01:01:23,920
Speaker 1: So basically the universe is telling you you should probably stop,

1186
01:01:24,200 --> 01:01:29,360
Speaker 1: you need to stop, and that It's like that. Stuff

1187
01:01:29,440 --> 01:01:33,840
Speaker 1: happens pretty consistently to the point where you just get

1188
01:01:33,880 --> 01:01:36,560
Speaker 1: thick enough skin where you're not being oblivious. You want

1189
01:01:36,600 --> 01:01:38,840
Speaker 1: to be self aware, but you do know that that's

1190
01:01:38,880 --> 01:01:40,320
Speaker 1: just a part of this and you got to push

1191
01:01:40,320 --> 01:01:41,960
Speaker 1: through it. And there's a lot of moments like that

1192
01:01:42,000 --> 01:01:43,760
Speaker 1: where you get to decide like, all right, am I

1193
01:01:43,760 --> 01:01:46,160
Speaker 1: gonna let some angry neighbor take me down? Or I'm

1194
01:01:46,160 --> 01:01:47,920
Speaker 1: going to just brush that off and keep pushing through it.

1195
01:01:48,960 --> 01:01:50,600
Speaker 1: And then the same thing happens when you got to

1196
01:01:50,640 --> 01:01:53,120
Speaker 1: the street and you're performing for you know, I'll play

1197
01:01:53,120 --> 01:01:55,560
Speaker 1: for eight hours and there'll be hours and hours where

1198
01:01:55,560 --> 01:01:57,520
Speaker 1: no one would care stop or drop any tips in.

1199
01:01:57,920 --> 01:01:59,880
Speaker 1: This is like the type of resistance that you grow

1200
01:02:00,160 --> 01:02:04,120
Speaker 1: accustomed to. And then now you know, I'll do like

1201
01:02:04,160 --> 01:02:07,280
Speaker 1: a national anthem and like half the people love it

1202
01:02:07,280 --> 01:02:10,120
Speaker 1: and half the people hate it, and the numbers are astronomical,

1203
01:02:10,480 --> 01:02:12,960
Speaker 1: and you've hopefully grown up, and you've grown up a

1204
01:02:14,880 --> 01:02:19,040
Speaker 1: resistance to taking it too personally. Yeah, I just love

1205
01:02:19,080 --> 01:02:22,280
Speaker 1: the story because it's it's applicable to almost every aspect

1206
01:02:22,320 --> 01:02:25,240
Speaker 1: of your life and when it really resonated with me,

1207
01:02:25,280 --> 01:02:27,440
Speaker 1: and then it just applies to what's going on to

1208
01:02:27,600 --> 01:02:30,760
Speaker 1: with these couples performing and you know, starting out or

1209
01:02:30,800 --> 01:02:33,960
Speaker 1: maybe way into their music careers at this point. So anyways,

1210
01:02:34,000 --> 01:02:36,280
Speaker 1: I just want everybody to hear that story because it's

1211
01:02:36,320 --> 01:02:41,160
Speaker 1: so amazing to me. Yeah, did you keep that posting? Ida?

1212
01:02:42,160 --> 01:02:45,560
Speaker 1: I asked the same. I wanted to be like framed now,

1213
01:02:45,600 --> 01:02:47,880
Speaker 1: and every time you look at it, it just pushes

1214
01:02:47,880 --> 01:02:53,040
Speaker 1: you to make even better music. No, I mean you

1215
01:02:53,080 --> 01:02:55,280
Speaker 1: know that's the other thing is in that moment, it

1216
01:02:55,400 --> 01:02:59,280
Speaker 1: wasn't as triumphant as it sounds now. It was hurt

1217
01:02:59,360 --> 01:03:02,960
Speaker 1: like hell, and you just have to believe for some

1218
01:03:03,000 --> 01:03:06,480
Speaker 1: reason that they're wrong. But it wasn't like it fueled

1219
01:03:06,480 --> 01:03:08,960
Speaker 1: me in a great way. Literally. I saw it and was, yeah,

1220
01:03:09,000 --> 01:03:11,920
Speaker 1: I'm gonna show you. I remember being like, Wow, I

1221
01:03:12,200 --> 01:03:16,880
Speaker 1: really mean, I'm gonna keep going. I guess slowly get

1222
01:03:16,880 --> 01:03:19,240
Speaker 1: better and better and better and better. Yet, I hope

1223
01:03:19,280 --> 01:03:22,000
Speaker 1: that person out there listens to you. Now and they're

1224
01:03:22,040 --> 01:03:26,400
Speaker 1: just like, damn it, I was wrong. I was so wrong, right, Yeah,

1225
01:03:26,440 --> 01:03:29,400
Speaker 1: And the truth is, you know, I don't know. I wasn't.

1226
01:03:29,440 --> 01:03:32,960
Speaker 1: I wasn't as good as I am now. So you know,

1227
01:03:33,040 --> 01:03:35,000
Speaker 1: someone can be judging you based on what you are

1228
01:03:35,040 --> 01:03:36,920
Speaker 1: at the moment, but they don't see your work ethic

1229
01:03:36,960 --> 01:03:40,280
Speaker 1: or where you're gonna go. So yeah, don't take it personally.

1230
01:03:40,360 --> 01:03:42,120
Speaker 1: Just keep putting the work. That's the idea. Maybe you

1231
01:03:42,160 --> 01:03:44,720
Speaker 1: were just performing a song or singing a song that

1232
01:03:44,840 --> 01:03:46,800
Speaker 1: they got broken up too over and they were just

1233
01:03:46,840 --> 01:03:50,880
Speaker 1: having a moment. Who knows totally exactly, there was like

1234
01:03:50,920 --> 01:03:55,360
Speaker 1: a trigger. Yeah. Well, and I want to ask you

1235
01:03:55,440 --> 01:03:58,560
Speaker 1: because we know that your wife is also a musician.

1236
01:03:58,760 --> 01:04:01,240
Speaker 1: You know, I went on the hole and looked on

1237
01:04:01,320 --> 01:04:03,160
Speaker 1: both of your instagrams and I love the ones off

1238
01:04:03,160 --> 01:04:06,240
Speaker 1: you performing together, especially in Quarantine you did the lovely

1239
01:04:06,280 --> 01:04:09,320
Speaker 1: one of I think it was Somewhere over the Rainbow

1240
01:04:09,400 --> 01:04:12,560
Speaker 1: that you performed, which was I think special together. And

1241
01:04:12,560 --> 01:04:14,520
Speaker 1: this is something that we've asked some of the other

1242
01:04:14,840 --> 01:04:17,480
Speaker 1: guests on our podcast, is if they've ever dated a

1243
01:04:17,560 --> 01:04:20,120
Speaker 1: musician before, and like, what's the key to making that work?

1244
01:04:20,760 --> 01:04:23,000
Speaker 1: So I want to know from you firsthand. I mean,

1245
01:04:23,160 --> 01:04:25,720
Speaker 1: is it difficult or is it something that really bonds

1246
01:04:25,760 --> 01:04:29,600
Speaker 1: you and brings you two together. I think it's both.

1247
01:04:30,280 --> 01:04:34,000
Speaker 1: It's like exactly down the middle, really difficult and then

1248
01:04:34,160 --> 01:04:36,880
Speaker 1: something that was really awesome and bonds you together. So

1249
01:04:36,920 --> 01:04:39,160
Speaker 1: we speak the same language when we listen to music.

1250
01:04:39,760 --> 01:04:42,840
Speaker 1: We have a lot of like elevated language around it,

1251
01:04:42,880 --> 01:04:45,560
Speaker 1: and it's really fun. And I think for us we

1252
01:04:45,720 --> 01:04:50,120
Speaker 1: found that being really specific about what we're doing right

1253
01:04:50,120 --> 01:04:55,080
Speaker 1: now in the moment is there's a lot of excommunication

1254
01:04:55,160 --> 01:04:57,680
Speaker 1: of if I want to show her a song, she

1255
01:04:57,720 --> 01:05:00,000
Speaker 1: will say, what do you want from me right now?

1256
01:05:00,000 --> 01:05:01,680
Speaker 1: You want me to be your wife or you want

1257
01:05:01,680 --> 01:05:05,880
Speaker 1: me to be like a critic, And that's actually that

1258
01:05:06,000 --> 01:05:08,760
Speaker 1: sounds crazy, but that's really helpful. So sometimes it gives

1259
01:05:08,800 --> 01:05:12,919
Speaker 1: me my life. I love it. Before you starts, it's

1260
01:05:13,000 --> 01:05:18,120
Speaker 1: so good. I'll do the same. Yeah, it was like

1261
01:05:18,240 --> 01:05:19,880
Speaker 1: you guys kind of know what hat you'll need to

1262
01:05:19,960 --> 01:05:22,880
Speaker 1: put on. Yeah, you really do have to put on

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Speaker 1: different hats. And then also know that for many people,

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01:05:27,360 --> 01:05:29,720
Speaker 1: listening to a song is a fun time, it's like easy,

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01:05:30,280 --> 01:05:33,080
Speaker 1: but for us it's it's actually worked. So if you're

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Speaker 1: sitting down at the end of the day, say can

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01:05:35,280 --> 01:05:38,440
Speaker 1: I tell you a song? Sometimes the answer is like now, now,

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01:05:38,520 --> 01:05:40,560
Speaker 1: right now, You're not gonna get what you want from me,

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01:05:40,600 --> 01:05:42,120
Speaker 1: and we're both gonna be bummed out and it's going

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01:05:42,160 --> 01:05:46,520
Speaker 1: to ruin a movie that we're about to watch. You

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01:05:46,600 --> 01:05:49,760
Speaker 1: know better and better at understanding when the right time

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01:05:49,920 --> 01:05:52,480
Speaker 1: is to share music of each other. M I think

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01:05:52,520 --> 01:05:54,440
Speaker 1: that's important because one of the questions we wanted to

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01:05:54,480 --> 01:05:56,560
Speaker 1: ask you was what's the trick? But I think you

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01:05:56,680 --> 01:05:59,320
Speaker 1: said it right there. It's it's hard to work together

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01:05:59,400 --> 01:06:01,200
Speaker 1: as a couple. I know that, like my husband and

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01:06:01,240 --> 01:06:04,760
Speaker 1: I've experienced that, and we too say which hat do

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01:06:04,800 --> 01:06:06,400
Speaker 1: you want me to put on? I'm a lawyer by trade,

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01:06:06,400 --> 01:06:07,280
Speaker 1: so I'm like, do you want me to be a

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01:06:07,360 --> 01:06:08,760
Speaker 1: lawyer right now? Or do you want me to be

1281
01:06:08,840 --> 01:06:12,680
Speaker 1: your wife? And you have to separate the two. Yeah,

1282
01:06:13,000 --> 01:06:16,400
Speaker 1: so helpful. It really is what advice would you give

1283
01:06:16,760 --> 01:06:18,479
Speaker 1: or do you have for the couples on the show,

1284
01:06:18,920 --> 01:06:22,720
Speaker 1: like moving forward trying to have this relationship but then

1285
01:06:22,840 --> 01:06:25,480
Speaker 1: also make music together. What advice would you give them?

1286
01:06:25,760 --> 01:06:29,200
Speaker 1: I hate One of the main building blocks in any

1287
01:06:29,200 --> 01:06:31,680
Speaker 1: relationship is vulnerability. So the more that you're able to

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01:06:31,760 --> 01:06:37,760
Speaker 1: share your ugly with somebody else, then that makes them

1289
01:06:37,840 --> 01:06:41,080
Speaker 1: share they're ugly, and then you have a tighter, deeper bond.

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01:06:41,720 --> 01:06:45,160
Speaker 1: So trust I think comes from vulnerability, So I would

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01:06:45,560 --> 01:06:48,320
Speaker 1: advise you to be couple, to be vulnerable with each other.

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01:06:49,880 --> 01:06:52,840
Speaker 1: Watching the performers when you were on as one of

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01:06:52,880 --> 01:06:55,240
Speaker 1: the judges, did you feel like some of them really

1294
01:06:55,320 --> 01:06:58,040
Speaker 1: were bond and really had that special connection, like you

1295
01:06:58,080 --> 01:07:04,439
Speaker 1: could see their relationship grow from here and after the show. Yeah,

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01:07:04,440 --> 01:07:07,800
Speaker 1: I think that's really hard to tell in the short terms,

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01:07:08,360 --> 01:07:11,160
Speaker 1: but some definitely had It seemed like they clicked a

1298
01:07:11,160 --> 01:07:13,880
Speaker 1: little bit better than others. But over a long period

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01:07:13,920 --> 01:07:17,240
Speaker 1: of time, it's it's hard to tell. Yeah, did you

1300
01:07:17,400 --> 01:07:19,520
Speaker 1: think any any of the couples were kind of fake

1301
01:07:19,560 --> 01:07:21,200
Speaker 1: and it just to make it through the next week?

1302
01:07:23,120 --> 01:07:26,240
Speaker 1: I'm sure, Yeah, definitely, Oh they were. They were ending

1303
01:07:27,360 --> 01:07:29,520
Speaker 1: artist is a really intense thing to be put through

1304
01:07:29,600 --> 01:07:33,360
Speaker 1: that that amount of pressure. I remember when I did

1305
01:07:33,440 --> 01:07:36,000
Speaker 1: Dancing with the Stars, and it's just a lot. It's

1306
01:07:36,000 --> 01:07:38,320
Speaker 1: like a lot of pressure and intensity to go through

1307
01:07:38,360 --> 01:07:42,320
Speaker 1: with someone else. It's you bond with them, it's pretty cool. Well,

1308
01:07:42,400 --> 01:07:45,560
Speaker 1: fortunately with the quarantine, the silver lining is that you

1309
01:07:45,680 --> 01:07:47,880
Speaker 1: have no choice. If these couples are together, they have

1310
01:07:47,960 --> 01:07:51,000
Speaker 1: no choice but to be vulnerable and show their ugly side,

1311
01:07:51,000 --> 01:07:53,520
Speaker 1: because I know I am with my husband. Oh yeah,

1312
01:07:53,680 --> 01:07:55,360
Speaker 1: I have no choice but to be a little ugly.

1313
01:07:55,800 --> 01:07:57,960
Speaker 1: Right now, before we let you go, what can we

1314
01:07:58,040 --> 01:08:00,280
Speaker 1: expect to see from you? And what new projects do

1315
01:08:00,360 --> 01:08:03,600
Speaker 1: you have gone on? Well, yeah, I'm writing a ton

1316
01:08:03,680 --> 01:08:08,040
Speaker 1: of music in this time. You know, we're we're kind

1317
01:08:08,040 --> 01:08:10,920
Speaker 1: of figuring out if I can't go around and play shows,

1318
01:08:11,080 --> 01:08:12,640
Speaker 1: what's my next move? And we got a lot of

1319
01:08:12,680 --> 01:08:15,240
Speaker 1: really cool ideas. You know, it's really fun for me

1320
01:08:15,400 --> 01:08:18,800
Speaker 1: to have kind of a laser beam focused on things.

1321
01:08:19,000 --> 01:08:21,280
Speaker 1: And up until this point this year, it's been all

1322
01:08:21,280 --> 01:08:23,720
Speaker 1: about how do I throw the best show possible that

1323
01:08:23,880 --> 01:08:26,040
Speaker 1: when you come to see it, you leave and you

1324
01:08:26,080 --> 01:08:29,120
Speaker 1: have to tell all your friends. And now that being

1325
01:08:29,240 --> 01:08:31,400
Speaker 1: is being put into other places. So I got a

1326
01:08:31,439 --> 01:08:32,840
Speaker 1: lot of things that must leave. None of them are

1327
01:08:33,000 --> 01:08:38,160
Speaker 1: are perfected yet, but for sure new music is coming soon. Good. Well,

1328
01:08:38,200 --> 01:08:41,120
Speaker 1: we can't wait to see in here. And it sounds

1329
01:08:41,240 --> 01:08:43,760
Speaker 1: like you're just getting so much inspiration from your new

1330
01:08:43,840 --> 01:08:45,880
Speaker 1: growing family, So we can't wait to see what's in

1331
01:08:45,960 --> 01:08:49,200
Speaker 1: stre with you. Andy, Thank you so much for having

1332
01:08:49,240 --> 01:08:52,880
Speaker 1: me both amazing. No, thank you so much for being here.

1333
01:08:53,200 --> 01:08:55,320
Speaker 1: We are excited for what you have coming up. And

1334
01:08:55,840 --> 01:08:59,719
Speaker 1: stay safe and hope those babies for us. Yeah into

1335
01:09:00,120 --> 01:09:07,479
Speaker 1: little ones mean time. Okay, Okay, I liked him. I

1336
01:09:07,680 --> 01:09:10,960
Speaker 1: know he's so great. I feel like your paths will

1337
01:09:11,040 --> 01:09:15,760
Speaker 1: meet hopefully kind of already have. Um but I really

1338
01:09:15,840 --> 01:09:18,439
Speaker 1: thought I didn't know his music until afterwards, and then

1339
01:09:18,439 --> 01:09:21,680
Speaker 1: I started looking at his discography and I was like,

1340
01:09:21,800 --> 01:09:24,040
Speaker 1: oh wait, I know that song. Yeah, well two, I

1341
01:09:24,080 --> 01:09:26,160
Speaker 1: didn't realize that that was Andy Grammer. You know, he's

1342
01:09:26,560 --> 01:09:28,720
Speaker 1: he's great and his story that's why I wanted him

1343
01:09:28,720 --> 01:09:31,280
Speaker 1: to tell that post the story. It's just so inspirational.

1344
01:09:31,320 --> 01:09:34,000
Speaker 1: Even love that, the story of how he met his wife.

1345
01:09:34,280 --> 01:09:37,120
Speaker 1: I think they were friends. First there wasn't a romantic

1346
01:09:37,280 --> 01:09:42,040
Speaker 1: connection and then just like it but yeah, it's it's

1347
01:09:42,120 --> 01:09:45,120
Speaker 1: it came together. They weren't expecting it. I will say,

1348
01:09:45,200 --> 01:09:47,360
Speaker 1: it's fun to talk to him now because, like I said,

1349
01:09:47,360 --> 01:09:49,800
Speaker 1: I saw him perform a couple of years ago and

1350
01:09:50,080 --> 01:09:54,040
Speaker 1: he just had like this really special, fun, crazy energy,

1351
01:09:54,240 --> 01:09:56,760
Speaker 1: And now talking to him, I feel that, like I

1352
01:09:56,840 --> 01:09:59,400
Speaker 1: feel like who I saw on stage is also who

1353
01:09:59,439 --> 01:10:02,160
Speaker 1: we're talking into which is really cool to see. Yeah. Yeah,

1354
01:10:02,240 --> 01:10:05,439
Speaker 1: he came straight in like what's up, guys, how are

1355
01:10:05,479 --> 01:10:08,000
Speaker 1: you doing? You know, normally like new parents are like

1356
01:10:09,200 --> 01:10:12,960
Speaker 1: I'm exhausted up all night with the baby. Super chill. No,

1357
01:10:13,240 --> 01:10:15,240
Speaker 1: he came full gun to blazon and I love it.

1358
01:10:15,840 --> 01:10:18,240
Speaker 1: That's the energy we need during this quarantine. I need

1359
01:10:18,280 --> 01:10:20,439
Speaker 1: to channel some of that. And I thought it was

1360
01:10:20,520 --> 01:10:24,000
Speaker 1: really special that the contestants got to have him as

1361
01:10:24,040 --> 01:10:27,880
Speaker 1: a judge because his story is amazing and he really

1362
01:10:28,040 --> 01:10:31,240
Speaker 1: is all about perseverance and just like working hard, and

1363
01:10:31,560 --> 01:10:35,120
Speaker 1: that critique was great for the contestants to hear on stage,

1364
01:10:35,240 --> 01:10:36,880
Speaker 1: Like even when I was like, were you nervous? Did

1365
01:10:36,880 --> 01:10:38,760
Speaker 1: you feel awkward having a judge, He's like, no, nope,

1366
01:10:38,760 --> 01:10:41,559
Speaker 1: It's part of the business. Yeah, it's a rite of passage.

1367
01:10:41,560 --> 01:10:44,160
Speaker 1: And I like that because I think for some people,

1368
01:10:44,760 --> 01:10:46,920
Speaker 1: Even talking to Kesha last week, she's like, I hate

1369
01:10:47,000 --> 01:10:49,519
Speaker 1: judging people and it's hard, but to get the other

1370
01:10:49,600 --> 01:10:51,560
Speaker 1: side of things where it's like everyone goes through that.

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Speaker 1: That's something that probably bonds everyone in the musician world,

1372
01:10:55,439 --> 01:10:58,240
Speaker 1: is you hear no at times and hopefully it can

1373
01:10:58,280 --> 01:10:59,760
Speaker 1: just build you up and make you stronger, and I

1374
01:10:59,800 --> 01:11:02,800
Speaker 1: think critique is a good thing, and so it's fun

1375
01:11:02,840 --> 01:11:05,400
Speaker 1: to hear his take on things. Yeah, you guys are

1376
01:11:05,439 --> 01:11:07,559
Speaker 1: gonna love him on the show. Yeah, can't wait. Can't

1377
01:11:07,600 --> 01:11:10,280
Speaker 1: wait to see you guys. Okay, you guys, that episode

1378
01:11:10,600 --> 01:11:13,720
Speaker 1: was amazing, per usual. I really don't expect anything less

1379
01:11:13,760 --> 01:11:16,160
Speaker 1: from us, Becca and our guests today. We're amazing. I swear.

1380
01:11:16,240 --> 01:11:18,560
Speaker 1: We keep stepping it up and up and up with

1381
01:11:18,640 --> 01:11:21,640
Speaker 1: who we have coming on Bachelor Happy Hour. We love it,

1382
01:11:21,840 --> 01:11:24,080
Speaker 1: we appreciate it. We hope you guys do too. And

1383
01:11:24,360 --> 01:11:26,280
Speaker 1: I cannot wait for you guys to see what's coming

1384
01:11:26,360 --> 01:11:29,920
Speaker 1: up next. And that's not just because yours truly is

1385
01:11:29,960 --> 01:11:32,760
Speaker 1: on the episode. Well I mean kind of because I'm

1386
01:11:32,800 --> 01:11:34,439
Speaker 1: on the episode, but it's also just a really, really

1387
01:11:34,520 --> 01:11:37,080
Speaker 1: good week. The performances are fire. Let me tell you,

1388
01:11:37,240 --> 01:11:40,840
Speaker 1: the drama does not stop. If you thought Julia was

1389
01:11:40,920 --> 01:11:46,240
Speaker 1: a basket case before, just wait. So this is what

1390
01:11:46,520 --> 01:11:49,160
Speaker 1: you guys get expect. So Chris Harrison is going to

1391
01:11:49,240 --> 01:11:52,519
Speaker 1: drop a bomb that will break some couples apart. We're

1392
01:11:52,560 --> 01:11:57,720
Speaker 1: gonna see seven incredible live performances. Well, having been there,

1393
01:11:57,840 --> 01:12:00,479
Speaker 1: I'll just say that most of them are incredible. We've

1394
01:12:00,560 --> 01:12:05,000
Speaker 1: got amazing guest judges Tony Braxton. Tony Braxton, I couldn't

1395
01:12:05,040 --> 01:12:07,360
Speaker 1: believe it was Tony Braxton. When they told me who

1396
01:12:07,400 --> 01:12:08,840
Speaker 1: was going to be judging with us, I thought, we

1397
01:12:09,080 --> 01:12:11,639
Speaker 1: don't deserve to be here. Andy Grammer another one. Why

1398
01:12:11,680 --> 01:12:14,160
Speaker 1: are we on this stage? And yours truly and of

1399
01:12:14,280 --> 01:12:17,720
Speaker 1: course with my handsome husband Brian will be there as well.

1400
01:12:18,040 --> 01:12:19,720
Speaker 1: And then we finally get to see the pressure of

1401
01:12:19,800 --> 01:12:21,760
Speaker 1: the competition starts to take a toll on some of

1402
01:12:21,840 --> 01:12:25,759
Speaker 1: our couples. So it's it's a mussy. It's a mussy.

1403
01:12:26,200 --> 01:12:28,240
Speaker 1: It just keeps getting better and better. As you said,

1404
01:12:28,280 --> 01:12:30,719
Speaker 1: and you guys, we of course love having you along

1405
01:12:30,800 --> 01:12:32,439
Speaker 1: for the ride with us, and as we mentioned, we

1406
01:12:32,600 --> 01:12:35,439
Speaker 1: love to hear from you everything, so please keep reaching

1407
01:12:35,479 --> 01:12:37,840
Speaker 1: out sharing your stories with us. Of course, you can

1408
01:12:37,840 --> 01:12:40,479
Speaker 1: always follow us on Instagram at Bachelor Happy Hour. It's

1409
01:12:40,520 --> 01:12:42,920
Speaker 1: the new account, so please check it out, and then

1410
01:12:42,960 --> 01:12:45,800
Speaker 1: also follow us on Twitter and Facebook at Badge Happy Hour.

1411
01:12:46,200 --> 01:12:49,200
Speaker 1: And also please don't forget to tune into another episode

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01:12:49,200 --> 01:12:51,599
Speaker 1: of Listening to Your Heart Monday nights at eight seven

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01:12:51,640 --> 01:12:52,679
Speaker 1: Central on ABC