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Speaker 1: Ashley and I are together again in It Feels Nice.

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Speaker 1: What's Up? Bad? I did three episodes without you, Bet,

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Speaker 1: and he's a musician, and it's gotten the whole show.

426
00:23:14,680 --> 00:23:17,440
Speaker 1: I'm not sure if you saw this past episode this

427
00:23:17,440 --> 00:23:22,320
Speaker 1: this episode, Luke, but this episode, the family concentrates a

428
00:23:22,320 --> 00:23:27,400
Speaker 1: lot on Jed's music career and how he can provide

429
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Speaker 1: for Hannah financially in the future. What do you think

430
00:23:32,040 --> 00:23:35,280
Speaker 1: about Jed right now? Yeah, well, I mean, first of all,

431
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Speaker 1: I'll preface with this. It's the interesting thing about this is,

432
00:23:40,119 --> 00:23:43,480
Speaker 1: you know we've kind of before the show has exposed

433
00:23:43,560 --> 00:23:48,160
Speaker 1: Jet uh you know, activity before he filmed, and all

434
00:23:48,200 --> 00:23:50,720
Speaker 1: this about the girlfriend back home that's not been out

435
00:23:50,840 --> 00:23:54,640
Speaker 1: yet in public. That's all been um in tabloids on

436
00:23:54,840 --> 00:23:58,000
Speaker 1: you know bloggers, reality see those types of people. And

437
00:23:58,040 --> 00:24:01,159
Speaker 1: it's been this whole Bachelor Nation underground type of borrow

438
00:24:01,840 --> 00:24:05,680
Speaker 1: narrative that hasn't even happened on the show yet. So um,

439
00:24:05,720 --> 00:24:08,200
Speaker 1: that's just gonna get start to unfold here at the

440
00:24:08,280 --> 00:24:13,080
Speaker 1: very end of of the episodes. But um, you know,

441
00:24:13,320 --> 00:24:16,040
Speaker 1: I think that these days, people they call it quote

442
00:24:16,119 --> 00:24:20,560
Speaker 1: unquote receipts and you know, a kid like him, I don't.

443
00:24:20,560 --> 00:24:22,840
Speaker 1: I don't know Jed. I've met Jed, I don't know

444
00:24:22,920 --> 00:24:26,680
Speaker 1: him personally other than just meeting briefly, and it's tough

445
00:24:26,720 --> 00:24:29,440
Speaker 1: to see, you know. I always want to give people

446
00:24:29,440 --> 00:24:31,720
Speaker 1: to benefit of doubts, say maybe they you know, they're

447
00:24:31,760 --> 00:24:35,280
Speaker 1: not inherently a bad person. Maybe they had good intentions,

448
00:24:35,840 --> 00:24:38,239
Speaker 1: because most of us do have good intentions. I mean,

449
00:24:38,600 --> 00:24:41,600
Speaker 1: who wants to go on to a TV show in

450
00:24:41,640 --> 00:24:45,119
Speaker 1: front of the nation and be a bad person and

451
00:24:45,200 --> 00:24:49,080
Speaker 1: be hated Like nobody goes on there knowingly says, well

452
00:24:49,200 --> 00:24:52,159
Speaker 1: just hate me, world, I'm completely good with it. Bringing on.

453
00:24:52,600 --> 00:24:54,879
Speaker 1: They go on there with intentions of thinking that what

454
00:24:54,920 --> 00:24:56,719
Speaker 1: they've done in the past, or who they've been up

455
00:24:56,840 --> 00:24:59,960
Speaker 1: to that point is okay, is morally and ethically okay

456
00:25:00,040 --> 00:25:03,560
Speaker 1: a or that if they have made mistakes, which a

457
00:25:03,640 --> 00:25:05,520
Speaker 1: lot of us have in different levels. You may all

458
00:25:05,520 --> 00:25:07,520
Speaker 1: of it's some kind of mistake you hope that you know,

459
00:25:07,720 --> 00:25:10,159
Speaker 1: maybe that's in your past. But as you know, in

460
00:25:10,240 --> 00:25:12,879
Speaker 1: vastelardation in the nation of social media and Twitter and

461
00:25:13,320 --> 00:25:16,400
Speaker 1: people pulling up old screenshots, if you have made mistakes

462
00:25:16,920 --> 00:25:19,200
Speaker 1: and you come into this type of environment, they will

463
00:25:19,240 --> 00:25:21,200
Speaker 1: come back to haunt you. You know, we've seen that

464
00:25:21,320 --> 00:25:23,480
Speaker 1: too many times. It happens every season now, and it's

465
00:25:23,800 --> 00:25:26,120
Speaker 1: it's like the big reveal of reality Steve and those

466
00:25:26,119 --> 00:25:28,480
Speaker 1: types of people is to say, oh, let's dig up

467
00:25:28,520 --> 00:25:31,840
Speaker 1: the dirt on these people's past. So you know, um,

468
00:25:31,880 --> 00:25:33,320
Speaker 1: you know, maybe there are people out there that have

469
00:25:33,400 --> 00:25:36,439
Speaker 1: a very clean past, they've never done or said anything

470
00:25:36,480 --> 00:25:40,400
Speaker 1: that they shouldn't have said, or or you know, um

471
00:25:40,720 --> 00:25:43,720
Speaker 1: come onto the show with with bad intentions and they're

472
00:25:43,720 --> 00:25:46,280
Speaker 1: trying to hide something and then they get found out.

473
00:25:46,320 --> 00:25:49,119
Speaker 1: So I just I feel bad um in a way.

474
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Speaker 1: But at the same time, when you see what somebody

475
00:25:52,280 --> 00:25:55,560
Speaker 1: like that actually did, you're like, man, even if you

476
00:25:55,640 --> 00:25:57,800
Speaker 1: had good intentions, what like, what were you thinking? Like?

477
00:25:57,840 --> 00:26:00,439
Speaker 1: It didn't it doesn't make sense. It's not it's not

478
00:26:00,560 --> 00:26:04,199
Speaker 1: right to the girl that you were dating before. However,

479
00:26:04,520 --> 00:26:06,560
Speaker 1: whatever the details are on that, we only see it

480
00:26:06,600 --> 00:26:09,680
Speaker 1: through certain lands, but there are receipts, as they say,

481
00:26:09,680 --> 00:26:13,080
Speaker 1: out there, so you're like, gosh, that was just it

482
00:26:13,160 --> 00:26:15,000
Speaker 1: just kind of makes you it's cringeworthy. I guess you

483
00:26:15,000 --> 00:26:17,920
Speaker 1: would say to see that kind of stuff, and so, um,

484
00:26:17,960 --> 00:26:20,399
Speaker 1: I guess now that that jet is going to come

485
00:26:20,400 --> 00:26:22,399
Speaker 1: out of contracts he'll be able to speak about it.

486
00:26:22,480 --> 00:26:25,639
Speaker 1: I don't know what's going to happen now, so maybe

487
00:26:25,760 --> 00:26:27,920
Speaker 1: you guys, you guys know what's gonna happen from here.

488
00:26:28,000 --> 00:26:30,919
Speaker 1: Have you heard anything? Well, we have an inside scoop

489
00:26:31,320 --> 00:26:37,160
Speaker 1: that says that no one knows what's going to happen. Yeah,

490
00:26:37,280 --> 00:26:41,879
Speaker 1: well it's gonna be interesting to say the least. Um, Yeah, Chris,

491
00:26:41,960 --> 00:26:45,439
Speaker 1: Chris Harrison's uh, definitely right on this one as far

492
00:26:45,480 --> 00:26:48,400
Speaker 1: as one up being the most dramatic ending ever. So

493
00:26:48,840 --> 00:26:50,840
Speaker 1: I feel like it's gearing up to be one of

494
00:26:50,840 --> 00:26:53,440
Speaker 1: those kind of kind of nights I have to ask. So,

495
00:26:53,560 --> 00:26:56,119
Speaker 1: I mean, we have to be aware. And I was

496
00:26:56,160 --> 00:26:58,879
Speaker 1: just thinking about this this week. He isn't the first,

497
00:26:59,119 --> 00:27:01,439
Speaker 1: nor will he be the last person to come on

498
00:27:01,520 --> 00:27:05,240
Speaker 1: this show man or or man or woman that have

499
00:27:05,480 --> 00:27:07,720
Speaker 1: a significant other when they come onto the show that

500
00:27:07,800 --> 00:27:09,719
Speaker 1: they break up right before the show starts, once they

501
00:27:09,720 --> 00:27:11,280
Speaker 1: find out they're going to be a part of the cast.

502
00:27:11,560 --> 00:27:15,639
Speaker 1: That's happened many times before. And so I was thinking,

503
00:27:15,840 --> 00:27:18,200
Speaker 1: tell me if you think I'm wrong, and listeners, please

504
00:27:18,240 --> 00:27:24,359
Speaker 1: email us at Ben and Ashley I hired media dot Com. Um,

505
00:27:24,400 --> 00:27:26,840
Speaker 1: I was thinking, what did Jed do? So wrong here,

506
00:27:26,880 --> 00:27:29,879
Speaker 1: like why was his the storyline that really upset us?

507
00:27:30,320 --> 00:27:32,679
Speaker 1: And I think there's two things he did wrong. One,

508
00:27:33,280 --> 00:27:35,480
Speaker 1: you know, we found out too well before that we

509
00:27:35,520 --> 00:27:37,760
Speaker 1: found out that Peter had a girlfriend going onto the

510
00:27:37,800 --> 00:27:40,040
Speaker 1: show as well, or they broke up five months before.

511
00:27:40,920 --> 00:27:43,199
Speaker 1: The thing that Jed did wrong was he sit text

512
00:27:43,320 --> 00:27:45,600
Speaker 1: as he was getting the plane saying, all, this is

513
00:27:45,640 --> 00:27:47,800
Speaker 1: gonna work out in the end, right, I'm gonna come

514
00:27:47,800 --> 00:27:50,439
Speaker 1: back to you. This is just to heighten my career.

515
00:27:50,800 --> 00:27:52,800
Speaker 1: He's not the first and he won't be the last

516
00:27:52,840 --> 00:27:54,520
Speaker 1: person to come on the show to heighten their career.

517
00:27:54,760 --> 00:27:56,879
Speaker 1: That happens too. We've all seen it, we know it,

518
00:27:57,240 --> 00:27:59,280
Speaker 1: and some of us have done in ourselves, Like I

519
00:27:59,320 --> 00:28:01,320
Speaker 1: think I have eight friends who came on the show

520
00:28:01,359 --> 00:28:03,679
Speaker 1: going it's gonna be really good for my life and

521
00:28:03,720 --> 00:28:05,480
Speaker 1: my lifestyle, and then all of a sudden they find

522
00:28:05,520 --> 00:28:08,080
Speaker 1: themselves falling in love and they go, oh crap, things

523
00:28:08,080 --> 00:28:11,760
Speaker 1: have changed. Um. The second, and to this, this is

524
00:28:11,800 --> 00:28:14,359
Speaker 1: what I think Jed did wrong, is while he was

525
00:28:14,400 --> 00:28:16,840
Speaker 1: falling in love with Hannah. If he really did fall

526
00:28:16,840 --> 00:28:18,760
Speaker 1: in love with Hannah, which I would assume he did,

527
00:28:19,560 --> 00:28:22,439
Speaker 1: he should have brought his ex onto the show or

528
00:28:22,560 --> 00:28:25,240
Speaker 1: called her or something and said, hey, I know I

529
00:28:25,280 --> 00:28:28,200
Speaker 1: went into this with the intention of coming back to you.

530
00:28:28,720 --> 00:28:30,520
Speaker 1: I know I went into this and I've already admitted

531
00:28:30,520 --> 00:28:33,639
Speaker 1: on the show to get famous, Like I know that

532
00:28:33,680 --> 00:28:37,640
Speaker 1: was my intention. But please know I'm now in love

533
00:28:37,680 --> 00:28:40,160
Speaker 1: with this Hannah, and I'm here for a whole different

534
00:28:40,200 --> 00:28:42,400
Speaker 1: reason than I ever expected. I think if he would

535
00:28:42,400 --> 00:28:45,800
Speaker 1: have done that, or if he still does that on

536
00:28:45,880 --> 00:28:48,440
Speaker 1: this last episode that we haven't seen yet, I don't

537
00:28:48,440 --> 00:28:50,480
Speaker 1: think we do, because, like Astley said, we have some

538
00:28:50,520 --> 00:28:54,600
Speaker 1: inside information that nobody, producers, nobody knows how this is

539
00:28:54,600 --> 00:28:58,160
Speaker 1: gonna end, which is gonna make the last episode so wild. Um,

540
00:28:58,200 --> 00:28:59,760
Speaker 1: I think we forgive him, and I think we say

541
00:28:59,760 --> 00:29:03,000
Speaker 1: it all makes sense. Let me clarify, we don't know

542
00:29:03,040 --> 00:29:05,840
Speaker 1: what's going to happen during the live show. The producers

543
00:29:05,920 --> 00:29:08,760
Speaker 1: don't happen. The producers have no idea what is going

544
00:29:08,800 --> 00:29:12,360
Speaker 1: to unfold the live show. That's like because of course

545
00:29:12,600 --> 00:29:15,360
Speaker 1: we know how, like the producers know how the last

546
00:29:15,480 --> 00:29:19,120
Speaker 1: recorded episode unfaults, but it's the live show where it's

547
00:29:19,160 --> 00:29:23,240
Speaker 1: like anything can happen. And to talk about what you

548
00:29:23,360 --> 00:29:26,600
Speaker 1: have mentioned, Ben, I think it was the combination of

549
00:29:26,640 --> 00:29:32,080
Speaker 1: having a girlfriend and then obviously being there for his career. Right, Yeah,

550
00:29:32,120 --> 00:29:34,479
Speaker 1: I think I definitely I agree. I mean, you hit

551
00:29:34,520 --> 00:29:36,800
Speaker 1: the nail on the head. That's the difference in in

552
00:29:37,360 --> 00:29:40,720
Speaker 1: the Twitter world, you know, Jury is out there saying

553
00:29:40,760 --> 00:29:44,280
Speaker 1: that that. You know, Peter's girlfriend came out and everybody's like, yeah,

554
00:29:44,360 --> 00:29:46,959
Speaker 1: well that's kind of a moot point. He broke up

555
00:29:46,960 --> 00:29:50,000
Speaker 1: with you at Christmas, and you admitted that yourself by

556
00:29:50,040 --> 00:29:51,920
Speaker 1: sex messages, and he said, hey, I don't want to

557
00:29:51,920 --> 00:29:54,440
Speaker 1: be in this relationship with you anymore. And he completely

558
00:29:54,440 --> 00:29:59,240
Speaker 1: has that right, and that's completely forthcoming and truthful and

559
00:29:59,640 --> 00:30:02,040
Speaker 1: of you months before they even start filming the next show.

560
00:30:02,400 --> 00:30:05,720
Speaker 1: So you know, herst was kind of an ill advised uh,

561
00:30:05,760 --> 00:30:08,600
Speaker 1: you know, alarm that she sounded. But then Jazz, on

562
00:30:08,600 --> 00:30:11,160
Speaker 1: the other hand, Yes, the intention was, Hey, i'm gonna

563
00:30:11,240 --> 00:30:14,960
Speaker 1: go on this show. I'm gonna be um, I guess

564
00:30:15,040 --> 00:30:17,120
Speaker 1: kind of I'm gonna be faithful to you one, which

565
00:30:17,280 --> 00:30:20,360
Speaker 1: was a lie. Uh, and then too, I'm going to

566
00:30:20,600 --> 00:30:23,480
Speaker 1: come I'm going to bambooz all the whole world and

567
00:30:23,560 --> 00:30:27,160
Speaker 1: kind of mislead the world and say I'm on this

568
00:30:27,160 --> 00:30:29,400
Speaker 1: show to be in love and and find love with Hannah,

569
00:30:29,400 --> 00:30:31,160
Speaker 1: but I'm gonna I'm gonna come back to my real

570
00:30:31,160 --> 00:30:35,280
Speaker 1: girlfriend after and he had that intention the entire way through,

571
00:30:35,320 --> 00:30:39,680
Speaker 1: and so that's what is is just tough to look past.

572
00:30:39,800 --> 00:30:42,600
Speaker 1: You know, you're like, gosh, just you know, we've what

573
00:30:42,640 --> 00:30:45,120
Speaker 1: we've seen and what we have to judge that from

574
00:30:45,480 --> 00:30:48,000
Speaker 1: as far as evidence, so far as saying that is

575
00:30:48,120 --> 00:30:50,040
Speaker 1: just not the right way to go about it in

576
00:30:50,120 --> 00:30:53,360
Speaker 1: any sense. But there's more information to still come, and

577
00:30:53,600 --> 00:30:55,680
Speaker 1: there is like, like then said a couple of long

578
00:30:55,720 --> 00:30:58,560
Speaker 1: shots of scenarios, that this could work out in a

579
00:30:58,560 --> 00:31:01,160
Speaker 1: way where you would be like, okay, A that makes

580
00:31:01,200 --> 00:31:02,960
Speaker 1: a little bit more sense. It's sad, but you know,

581
00:31:03,000 --> 00:31:05,920
Speaker 1: I mean think of it like this. It's like we

582
00:31:05,960 --> 00:31:08,560
Speaker 1: look just at what Ari did on his season, right,

583
00:31:08,560 --> 00:31:12,840
Speaker 1: I mean Ari got engaged you know, uh the Sebecca

584
00:31:13,800 --> 00:31:16,840
Speaker 1: and then um and then completely and tells her I

585
00:31:16,880 --> 00:31:18,160
Speaker 1: want to spend the rest of my life with you

586
00:31:18,200 --> 00:31:21,040
Speaker 1: on Nashville TV. And then you know, a few weeks

587
00:31:21,080 --> 00:31:24,120
Speaker 1: later says wait a minute, Uh, there was this other

588
00:31:24,160 --> 00:31:26,520
Speaker 1: girl and her name is Lauren. I want to go

589
00:31:26,560 --> 00:31:28,040
Speaker 1: back to her. And so you know, so I mean

590
00:31:28,120 --> 00:31:30,560
Speaker 1: there is um in love. You know, it's kind of

591
00:31:30,640 --> 00:31:32,240
Speaker 1: all spair in love and war. It's kind of like

592
00:31:32,280 --> 00:31:34,280
Speaker 1: he he changed his mind, had to change his heart.

593
00:31:34,320 --> 00:31:37,080
Speaker 1: Now here he is. Um, they've had you know, they

594
00:31:37,080 --> 00:31:39,800
Speaker 1: started their family, They've got a happy life together, they're married,

595
00:31:40,280 --> 00:31:42,880
Speaker 1: and that was the right decision for him. Although it

596
00:31:42,960 --> 00:31:46,160
Speaker 1: looks very brutal to see what happened to Becca having

597
00:31:46,160 --> 00:31:48,920
Speaker 1: to break up with her um in the finale of

598
00:31:48,920 --> 00:31:52,880
Speaker 1: that of that season. So it's it's there's some predicaments

599
00:31:52,880 --> 00:31:57,760
Speaker 1: out there for sure, but um, yeah, oh that's what

600
00:31:57,760 --> 00:32:00,680
Speaker 1: I'm gonna talk about now. The other thing with that's

601
00:32:00,680 --> 00:32:05,080
Speaker 1: just in the relationship world. UM, I will say this. Um,

602
00:32:05,120 --> 00:32:08,320
Speaker 1: you know, you guys know that I've I've um delved

603
00:32:08,360 --> 00:32:11,080
Speaker 1: into the music world. Song that's always been kind of

604
00:32:11,240 --> 00:32:12,760
Speaker 1: although it wasn't what I was on the show. I

605
00:32:12,760 --> 00:32:15,360
Speaker 1: didn't talk about it on the show at all. Um,

606
00:32:15,520 --> 00:32:17,080
Speaker 1: I was in the military, and that I was an

607
00:32:17,160 --> 00:32:19,400
Speaker 1: Army veteran was like my career when I was on

608
00:32:19,440 --> 00:32:21,920
Speaker 1: The Bachelor at with Jojo the first time, and so

609
00:32:23,320 --> 00:32:26,600
Speaker 1: you know after that, Um, you know, I've been living

610
00:32:26,600 --> 00:32:28,200
Speaker 1: in nashvill when it came out that oh he's he's

611
00:32:28,200 --> 00:32:34,520
Speaker 1: a songwriter, he's whatever. Uh and The thing is with

612
00:32:34,520 --> 00:32:36,680
Speaker 1: with with having to go on there. I don't think

613
00:32:36,680 --> 00:32:40,760
Speaker 1: you should go on there trying to boost your career,

614
00:32:40,920 --> 00:32:42,480
Speaker 1: you know. I think people should try to go in

615
00:32:42,560 --> 00:32:45,480
Speaker 1: there with an open mind. And I think that every

616
00:32:45,480 --> 00:32:48,680
Speaker 1: every person that applies to the show, they realized now

617
00:32:48,680 --> 00:32:50,680
Speaker 1: in the in the world of social media, that yes,

618
00:32:51,320 --> 00:32:54,680
Speaker 1: it can't whatever you're doing. If you're doing music and

619
00:32:54,720 --> 00:32:57,040
Speaker 1: you've been doing that for ten years or you decided

620
00:32:57,080 --> 00:32:59,760
Speaker 1: to do it tomorrow, it can boost it possibly can

621
00:32:59,760 --> 00:33:05,080
Speaker 1: boot that career. If you're you know, selling widgets on Instagram,

622
00:33:05,120 --> 00:33:06,800
Speaker 1: it can boost your career. You know, if you're in

623
00:33:06,840 --> 00:33:09,360
Speaker 1: a career that you don't like in the cubicle, some

624
00:33:09,440 --> 00:33:12,520
Speaker 1: type of career, you're selling insurance or something, and you

625
00:33:12,600 --> 00:33:14,360
Speaker 1: go on The Bachelor, then when you come off, most

626
00:33:14,360 --> 00:33:17,320
Speaker 1: people don't go back to selling insurance or whatever they've

627
00:33:17,360 --> 00:33:21,600
Speaker 1: been before. They leave that and then they'll do another

628
00:33:21,720 --> 00:33:25,800
Speaker 1: reality show or they'll you know, continue uh to start

629
00:33:25,840 --> 00:33:29,800
Speaker 1: another business in different things. And so I don't think that, um,

630
00:33:30,040 --> 00:33:33,160
Speaker 1: there's anything wrong with making those kind of parlays and

631
00:33:33,200 --> 00:33:36,080
Speaker 1: those segues into other parts of people's lives and what

632
00:33:36,120 --> 00:33:38,120
Speaker 1: they're passionate about. But I don't think they should come

633
00:33:38,160 --> 00:33:42,600
Speaker 1: on there with that sole intention, you know. And so

634
00:33:43,120 --> 00:33:46,400
Speaker 1: do you think it was weird that the producers concentrated

635
00:33:46,520 --> 00:33:51,800
Speaker 1: so much on the musicians storyline the entire season? Yeah,

636
00:33:52,080 --> 00:33:54,040
Speaker 1: I do. I just I think a lot of people

637
00:33:54,160 --> 00:33:57,120
Speaker 1: notice that, you know, every every time Jets on the screen,

638
00:33:57,160 --> 00:33:59,400
Speaker 1: he's like playing the piano, they're playing the guitar. And

639
00:33:59,400 --> 00:34:01,280
Speaker 1: then they went to this studio and then I think

640
00:34:01,320 --> 00:34:04,360
Speaker 1: his dad apparently was like a career musician as well,

641
00:34:04,440 --> 00:34:07,280
Speaker 1: or something to that effect. And I mean it was

642
00:34:07,400 --> 00:34:12,880
Speaker 1: completely his storyline, and so I think that, you know,

643
00:34:12,960 --> 00:34:17,040
Speaker 1: it's tough to see that that career. I'm trying to

644
00:34:17,080 --> 00:34:18,800
Speaker 1: think if there's any other ones, I mean, that career

645
00:34:18,840 --> 00:34:25,200
Speaker 1: of anything, because it acting, Yes, those coincidentally crossover in

646
00:34:25,320 --> 00:34:28,920
Speaker 1: terms of, Wow, your business is not just selling products,

647
00:34:28,920 --> 00:34:31,759
Speaker 1: but it's about how many fans and people you have

648
00:34:31,960 --> 00:34:35,120
Speaker 1: following you. And so if that's what it is before

649
00:34:35,160 --> 00:34:36,520
Speaker 1: the show, and then you come on the show and

650
00:34:36,560 --> 00:34:40,440
Speaker 1: then you increase your followers and YadA, YadA, YadA. The

651
00:34:39,640 --> 00:34:42,799
Speaker 1: the the part that people believe in is if then

652
00:34:43,000 --> 00:34:46,000
Speaker 1: if that's true, then they must be getting those followers

653
00:34:46,040 --> 00:34:48,120
Speaker 1: to increase their career. What else would they be on

654
00:34:48,160 --> 00:34:51,360
Speaker 1: there for. And so that's kind of the logic that's there,

655
00:34:51,880 --> 00:34:55,640
Speaker 1: and for some it is sadly true. But for others,

656
00:34:55,680 --> 00:34:58,520
Speaker 1: I don't think it should be an automatic indictment on

657
00:34:58,600 --> 00:35:00,880
Speaker 1: their intentions, you know what I'm saying. Am I mean?

658
00:35:00,920 --> 00:35:03,600
Speaker 1: I feel like, I mean, what what should we do?

659
00:35:03,680 --> 00:35:05,080
Speaker 1: I think there's some people in bashing the world will

660
00:35:05,120 --> 00:35:07,920
Speaker 1: be like, yeah, well, the casting the producer should never

661
00:35:08,000 --> 00:35:11,480
Speaker 1: cast another anybody who's doing a musician or an actor

662
00:35:12,000 --> 00:35:14,200
Speaker 1: or anybody that is any type of career that might

663
00:35:14,239 --> 00:35:17,800
Speaker 1: possibly boost their quote unquote, you know, entertainment career or

664
00:35:17,840 --> 00:35:20,440
Speaker 1: whatever it is. They should never cast another one because

665
00:35:21,760 --> 00:35:24,320
Speaker 1: that's they're They're they're obviously there for their wrong attentions.

666
00:35:24,360 --> 00:35:26,040
Speaker 1: How could they be there for anything else, you know

667
00:35:26,080 --> 00:35:28,759
Speaker 1: what I mean? And so I feel like that's tough, um.

668
00:35:28,800 --> 00:35:31,239
Speaker 1: But also I do feel like the producers know that,

669
00:35:31,840 --> 00:35:35,440
Speaker 1: and that's a storyline that you know, a guy like

670
00:35:35,520 --> 00:35:39,880
Speaker 1: Jed can come on there and I think his intentions

671
00:35:39,880 --> 00:35:42,359
Speaker 1: were probably realized during the casting process, and you can

672
00:35:42,880 --> 00:35:45,719
Speaker 1: you can you know, borderline. I'm not saying they did

673
00:35:45,840 --> 00:35:47,640
Speaker 1: or they didn't, but you could exploit that if you

674
00:35:47,719 --> 00:35:50,839
Speaker 1: wanted to and you could say, yeah, look, this guy

675
00:35:50,880 --> 00:35:52,759
Speaker 1: always always just out here just trying to like to

676
00:35:52,960 --> 00:35:56,239
Speaker 1: his own horn. He's you know, uh, he hasn't had

677
00:35:56,239 --> 00:36:00,720
Speaker 1: any legitimate music industry success. He's not signed a record label,

678
00:36:01,040 --> 00:36:04,919
Speaker 1: any of those things. Uh, he's not on the radio, YadA, YadA, YadA.

679
00:36:05,000 --> 00:36:08,320
Speaker 1: So it's gonna look kind of like he's just clinging

680
00:36:08,520 --> 00:36:12,640
Speaker 1: for some success because of this TV show. Uh. And so,

681
00:36:13,840 --> 00:36:16,040
Speaker 1: I mean it's sad to see that. And so, I

682
00:36:16,080 --> 00:36:19,040
Speaker 1: mean I think at this point, if there was somebody

683
00:36:19,080 --> 00:36:22,160
Speaker 1: who was getting castine for this show right now and

684
00:36:22,200 --> 00:36:24,840
Speaker 1: they were saying and they told me what their career was,

685
00:36:24,960 --> 00:36:27,360
Speaker 1: you know, I would say, look, if you're in the

686
00:36:27,480 --> 00:36:30,399
Speaker 1: music industry or whatever, you should probably you know, think

687
00:36:30,440 --> 00:36:35,000
Speaker 1: twice about doing this, because, um, you know what, first

688
00:36:35,040 --> 00:36:37,240
Speaker 1: of all, be true to yourself. What are your intentions

689
00:36:37,280 --> 00:36:38,800
Speaker 1: on going on the show. Are you open to a

690
00:36:38,840 --> 00:36:42,440
Speaker 1: relationship and being fully vulnerable in that way? And secondly,

691
00:36:42,960 --> 00:36:46,439
Speaker 1: even if your intentions are good, what's the world gonna

692
00:36:46,480 --> 00:36:50,239
Speaker 1: think about you, um, because of your career? And that's

693
00:36:50,280 --> 00:36:51,759
Speaker 1: just I think the truth, the kind of the truth

694
00:36:51,840 --> 00:36:55,120
Speaker 1: of the matter in the situation as it is now. So, Luke,

695
00:36:55,760 --> 00:36:58,360
Speaker 1: if so you're you're telling us honestly that you didn't

696
00:36:58,360 --> 00:37:00,880
Speaker 1: go on for any sort of music career, and I

697
00:37:01,000 --> 00:37:03,600
Speaker 1: know you fell in love with Jojo. Are you that

698
00:37:03,920 --> 00:37:06,759
Speaker 1: instance though that you were just talking about where it's like,

699
00:37:07,120 --> 00:37:10,520
Speaker 1: maybe you went on to gain a following for your

700
00:37:10,600 --> 00:37:12,800
Speaker 1: music career, but then you did end up falling in

701
00:37:12,880 --> 00:37:15,279
Speaker 1: love with Jojo and making you know at the end

702
00:37:15,280 --> 00:37:17,600
Speaker 1: of the day, it was the right reasons. Yeah, I

703
00:37:17,680 --> 00:37:21,600
Speaker 1: think you know. For me, I try to be as

704
00:37:21,680 --> 00:37:24,080
Speaker 1: honest with myself as possible and I'm not gonna say

705
00:37:24,239 --> 00:37:28,040
Speaker 1: it went on. They're unaware that, you know, it could

706
00:37:28,200 --> 00:37:31,040
Speaker 1: maybe help. But at the same time, here's the reality

707
00:37:31,080 --> 00:37:33,400
Speaker 1: of it. I canna say this three years later is

708
00:37:33,760 --> 00:37:36,520
Speaker 1: what I didn't know it was. It was much uncertainty

709
00:37:36,600 --> 00:37:39,279
Speaker 1: because that was a conversation I had with myself and

710
00:37:39,360 --> 00:37:42,960
Speaker 1: even some people that um, you know and we're mentors

711
00:37:43,000 --> 00:37:45,680
Speaker 1: in my life and stuff outside of that world before

712
00:37:45,760 --> 00:37:49,040
Speaker 1: it's like, well, if I did go on this show, uh,

713
00:37:49,600 --> 00:37:53,360
Speaker 1: who knows, Like it may hurt my music career because

714
00:37:54,120 --> 00:37:56,280
Speaker 1: because now I've got a bunch of reality TV fans

715
00:37:56,520 --> 00:37:59,239
Speaker 1: that see my image in this in this certain way,

716
00:37:59,640 --> 00:38:01,560
Speaker 1: and they'll never be able to see me again as

717
00:38:01,600 --> 00:38:05,880
Speaker 1: a legitimate like, oh, he's an all authentic guy from

718
00:38:05,960 --> 00:38:09,760
Speaker 1: Texas who just drinks beer in the quintessential country music image.

719
00:38:10,120 --> 00:38:12,279
Speaker 1: Because then it will be burned in their mind or

720
00:38:12,480 --> 00:38:14,840
Speaker 1: in you know, millions of people's mind that he's the

721
00:38:15,040 --> 00:38:16,920
Speaker 1: he's the Bachelor TV guy, you know what I mean.

722
00:38:17,120 --> 00:38:19,680
Speaker 1: And so it could be the nail in your coffin

723
00:38:19,760 --> 00:38:21,520
Speaker 1: of a music career too, And so that was a

724
00:38:21,600 --> 00:38:23,560
Speaker 1: thought that I had. I was like, I don't know

725
00:38:23,719 --> 00:38:26,160
Speaker 1: what it what it's going to be for a career wise,

726
00:38:27,160 --> 00:38:30,279
Speaker 1: for a career implication. But I went on there thinking, well,

727
00:38:30,440 --> 00:38:32,640
Speaker 1: it's kind of like why not. At the end of

728
00:38:32,640 --> 00:38:35,239
Speaker 1: the day, I was like, well, this is like the

729
00:38:35,320 --> 00:38:37,920
Speaker 1: most exciting thing that's come up in my life in

730
00:38:37,960 --> 00:38:40,239
Speaker 1: a long time. I haven't dated anybody literally, and like

731
00:38:40,840 --> 00:38:42,560
Speaker 1: it had been two or three years at that at

732
00:38:42,600 --> 00:38:45,520
Speaker 1: that point before I've been in a relations serious relationship

733
00:38:45,560 --> 00:38:48,320
Speaker 1: of any time. UM, And I was like, well, it

734
00:38:48,400 --> 00:38:51,279
Speaker 1: won't surely it won't hurt. We'll just try it. We'll

735
00:38:51,360 --> 00:38:54,120
Speaker 1: see maybe I don't know, but you know, there was

736
00:38:54,239 --> 00:38:58,759
Speaker 1: no um I thought that. And and obviously when you

737
00:38:58,840 --> 00:39:00,520
Speaker 1: come off of it, you see that that hey, when

738
00:39:00,560 --> 00:39:03,399
Speaker 1: you come off the show. I'm not I'm not getting

739
00:39:03,440 --> 00:39:05,719
Speaker 1: a Grammy or anything. You know, you're not surrounded by

740
00:39:06,400 --> 00:39:09,520
Speaker 1: multi million dollar music producers, and all of a sudden

741
00:39:09,640 --> 00:39:12,399
Speaker 1: things are just like popping for you. You know, you can. Yes,

742
00:39:12,520 --> 00:39:13,759
Speaker 1: there are a lot of people. There are a lot

743
00:39:13,800 --> 00:39:15,920
Speaker 1: of fans from the TV show that crossed over for

744
00:39:15,960 --> 00:39:18,040
Speaker 1: a little while, and like, some of them will like

745
00:39:18,120 --> 00:39:19,920
Speaker 1: your music. Other ones will hate it and say you

746
00:39:20,040 --> 00:39:22,960
Speaker 1: suck and I'm not into I hate country music. And like,

747
00:39:23,040 --> 00:39:25,480
Speaker 1: you've got this whole, this conglomerate of fans and they're

748
00:39:25,480 --> 00:39:28,879
Speaker 1: not necessarily like music fans. So to go on there

749
00:39:28,880 --> 00:39:32,360
Speaker 1: and I think that your career is going to be

750
00:39:34,200 --> 00:39:37,400
Speaker 1: just help and and and and you know, propelled forward.

751
00:39:37,760 --> 00:39:41,120
Speaker 1: Um it's it didn't and it and it wasn't It

752
00:39:41,239 --> 00:39:43,040
Speaker 1: wasn't really about that. It was just I mean it

753
00:39:43,160 --> 00:39:47,040
Speaker 1: was I was passionate about music. And maybe it helps

754
00:39:47,120 --> 00:39:49,480
Speaker 1: my career, maybe it hurts my career. I don't know.

755
00:39:49,640 --> 00:39:51,640
Speaker 1: But it's an opportunity to just kind of go do

756
00:39:51,800 --> 00:39:55,439
Speaker 1: something different, meet two new friends, see the world, maybe

757
00:39:55,520 --> 00:39:58,040
Speaker 1: fall in love. You know one and thirty chances of

758
00:39:58,080 --> 00:40:00,160
Speaker 1: falling in love and let's go try it and That's

759
00:40:00,239 --> 00:40:01,440
Speaker 1: kind of what it was to me at the end

760
00:40:01,440 --> 00:40:04,160
Speaker 1: of the day. If you if you're a musician and

761
00:40:04,200 --> 00:40:06,000
Speaker 1: you want to go on a reality show to get fans,

762
00:40:06,040 --> 00:40:08,040
Speaker 1: why wouldn't you just go on The Voice or American Idol.

763
00:40:08,120 --> 00:40:13,399
Speaker 1: You know, well, there's that, yes, But now that these

764
00:40:13,520 --> 00:40:16,160
Speaker 1: days from what I hear and Nashville and people that

765
00:40:16,239 --> 00:40:18,960
Speaker 1: have been on it, it's it's that's a very watered

766
00:40:19,000 --> 00:40:24,200
Speaker 1: down place to make your music career work now because

767
00:40:24,280 --> 00:40:26,600
Speaker 1: you've got you know, there's so many of those shows,

768
00:40:26,680 --> 00:40:30,040
Speaker 1: so many seasons have happened. It's oversaturated, I guess, and

769
00:40:30,200 --> 00:40:34,200
Speaker 1: so you know, Terry Underwood made it, maybe Miranda Lambert

770
00:40:34,320 --> 00:40:36,600
Speaker 1: made it, do another show. There's a couple here and there,

771
00:40:37,280 --> 00:40:41,239
Speaker 1: But for the most part, those people have very mediocre careers. Now,

772
00:40:41,520 --> 00:40:44,080
Speaker 1: you know, the the other ninety percent of the people

773
00:40:44,120 --> 00:40:47,319
Speaker 1: that come off those shows, their actual music careers don't

774
00:40:47,320 --> 00:40:51,560
Speaker 1: segue at all. So um, it's it's it's a tough world.

775
00:40:51,680 --> 00:40:56,040
Speaker 1: Entertainment business is about art, it's about it's very subjective.

776
00:40:56,080 --> 00:40:58,160
Speaker 1: It's about what people like at the time. It's about

777
00:40:58,200 --> 00:41:00,759
Speaker 1: how much hype and how much of a team that

778
00:41:00,880 --> 00:41:02,959
Speaker 1: you have around you. In the industry, how much money

779
00:41:03,000 --> 00:41:06,480
Speaker 1: has pumped into the name and image as a as

780
00:41:06,520 --> 00:41:10,520
Speaker 1: a whole. It's a very complex industry to to have

781
00:41:10,760 --> 00:41:14,880
Speaker 1: quote unquote you know success or radio success or hundreds

782
00:41:14,920 --> 00:41:18,160
Speaker 1: of millions of streams, or to be the aspiring edge

783
00:41:18,160 --> 00:41:20,480
Speaker 1: shearing of the world or you know what what what

784
00:41:20,680 --> 00:41:23,480
Speaker 1: is success in the music industry is very subjective, you know,

785
00:41:23,760 --> 00:41:28,680
Speaker 1: so um anyway, for me, music is a passion. It's

786
00:41:28,719 --> 00:41:30,560
Speaker 1: something that I loved, I wanted to do it, and

787
00:41:30,560 --> 00:41:32,879
Speaker 1: I'll continue being involved in it with my entire life.

788
00:41:32,960 --> 00:41:36,759
Speaker 1: But like my pedigree or like my my background is

789
00:41:36,800 --> 00:41:39,279
Speaker 1: in like was was leading soldiers in the military for

790
00:41:39,400 --> 00:41:42,600
Speaker 1: ten years, was I was in business and and you know,

791
00:41:42,800 --> 00:41:45,600
Speaker 1: being a small business owner. And that's that's what I've

792
00:41:45,640 --> 00:41:47,920
Speaker 1: gone back to now as well. And that's that's started

793
00:41:47,920 --> 00:41:50,160
Speaker 1: a couple of businesses back here in Nashville, one in Kentucky.

794
00:41:50,320 --> 00:41:54,239
Speaker 1: And those are the things that despite you know, how

795
00:41:54,320 --> 00:41:57,520
Speaker 1: many followers I have or how many TV shows I

796
00:41:57,680 --> 00:42:00,680
Speaker 1: was on, that won't matter. That's just like of life stuff.

797
00:42:00,800 --> 00:42:03,400
Speaker 1: And and you continue moving forward with your life and

798
00:42:03,600 --> 00:42:06,279
Speaker 1: the people that are around you, and and and eventually

799
00:42:06,440 --> 00:42:09,239
Speaker 1: you have to come to terms with the fact that hey,

800
00:42:10,200 --> 00:42:12,960
Speaker 1: whatever intentions or however much type came from being on

801
00:42:13,560 --> 00:42:15,759
Speaker 1: one season The Bachelor at or six seasons of the

802
00:42:15,760 --> 00:42:18,680
Speaker 1: Bachelor spin off or whatever it is, that will eventually

803
00:42:18,760 --> 00:42:20,040
Speaker 1: kind of fade, you know what I mean, you have

804
00:42:20,160 --> 00:42:23,120
Speaker 1: to figure out recenting yourself and say what's important in

805
00:42:23,160 --> 00:42:25,960
Speaker 1: my life? What's my purpose in my life as a person.

806
00:42:26,080 --> 00:42:28,520
Speaker 1: And I think that that would be my advice to

807
00:42:28,600 --> 00:42:31,160
Speaker 1: these young guys that are just doing their first their

808
00:42:31,239 --> 00:42:33,839
Speaker 1: first season and maybe they've got to you know, been

809
00:42:33,880 --> 00:42:36,280
Speaker 1: the villain, or maybe they're going to be the next Bachelor,

810
00:42:36,360 --> 00:42:38,719
Speaker 1: whatever it is. Like, You've got to just be true

811
00:42:38,719 --> 00:42:40,400
Speaker 1: to yourself at the end of the day and decide

812
00:42:41,000 --> 00:42:43,480
Speaker 1: however good or bad this turns out for you. You

813
00:42:43,600 --> 00:42:46,560
Speaker 1: have to always stay centered and know this is me.

814
00:42:47,000 --> 00:42:48,839
Speaker 1: What will my life be in ten years when all

815
00:42:48,920 --> 00:42:53,560
Speaker 1: this fades away, good or bad? You know? So So, Luke,

816
00:42:53,719 --> 00:42:57,200
Speaker 1: what is your purpose today? Yeah? You know, my purpose

817
00:42:57,280 --> 00:43:02,440
Speaker 1: today is um working on building a life for my

818
00:43:02,520 --> 00:43:07,120
Speaker 1: family that I don't have yet. Um, but that is

819
00:43:07,320 --> 00:43:08,800
Speaker 1: that's in the back of my mind. I mean, I

820
00:43:08,840 --> 00:43:11,719
Speaker 1: want to build a life for uh. You know, I'm

821
00:43:11,800 --> 00:43:16,560
Speaker 1: preparing kind of um myself to to raise a family

822
00:43:16,640 --> 00:43:20,840
Speaker 1: to build the college fund, to build a house, have

823
00:43:20,960 --> 00:43:24,279
Speaker 1: a farm with kids, can run around on um you know,

824
00:43:24,480 --> 00:43:28,239
Speaker 1: And and I'm giving back to my military charities, which

825
00:43:28,840 --> 00:43:31,680
Speaker 1: you know, for a time I kind of got away

826
00:43:31,719 --> 00:43:33,080
Speaker 1: from that. I was kind of glad to get out

827
00:43:33,080 --> 00:43:35,239
Speaker 1: of the military for a few years. And then now

828
00:43:35,280 --> 00:43:36,640
Speaker 1: I'm at a point where I was like, well, that

829
00:43:36,800 --> 00:43:39,759
Speaker 1: was like a very formidable time in my life. And

830
00:43:39,800 --> 00:43:41,919
Speaker 1: I'm at some of the best people and and really

831
00:43:42,080 --> 00:43:44,200
Speaker 1: had some of the best learning experiences and some of

832
00:43:44,200 --> 00:43:46,480
Speaker 1: the best relationships in my entire life were in the military.

833
00:43:47,080 --> 00:43:49,799
Speaker 1: And and so now you know, I work with five

834
00:43:49,880 --> 00:43:54,120
Speaker 1: or six military charities very closely every day to find

835
00:43:54,160 --> 00:43:56,279
Speaker 1: ways to give back, raising awareness for what they do,

836
00:43:56,960 --> 00:43:59,960
Speaker 1: use whatever platform that has come from this TV time

837
00:44:00,000 --> 00:44:03,560
Speaker 1: time and and and give back to those military charities

838
00:44:03,560 --> 00:44:08,799
Speaker 1: from Wounded Warrior Projects, Homes for Heroes UM to Creative Vets,

839
00:44:08,840 --> 00:44:11,600
Speaker 1: which is the music related charity we work with here

840
00:44:12,120 --> 00:44:16,440
Speaker 1: in Nashville, UM uh to the Comfort Crew down in Austin, Texas.

841
00:44:16,520 --> 00:44:18,880
Speaker 1: And there's just the list goes on and on. And

842
00:44:19,200 --> 00:44:22,239
Speaker 1: that's that's the passion of mine. And uh I just

843
00:44:22,400 --> 00:44:25,800
Speaker 1: I just want to love people and and just and

844
00:44:25,920 --> 00:44:27,560
Speaker 1: just be a good friend, to stay centered and and

845
00:44:27,719 --> 00:44:30,560
Speaker 1: be a value of value added to whoever is life

846
00:44:30,600 --> 00:44:33,480
Speaker 1: that I'm in. I want to say that I'm value

847
00:44:33,520 --> 00:44:36,359
Speaker 1: to them as a friend, as a as a boss,

848
00:44:36,840 --> 00:44:38,960
Speaker 1: as a husband, as a father, or whatever. I want

849
00:44:38,960 --> 00:44:41,239
Speaker 1: to add value to people's lives. So that's that's that's

850
00:44:41,239 --> 00:44:46,719
Speaker 1: what I'm living for now. We love you, I love you,

851
00:44:46,840 --> 00:44:49,600
Speaker 1: got Luke. We really started for you guys. Actually, the wedding,

852
00:44:50,440 --> 00:44:53,560
Speaker 1: the wedding planning coming. It's pretty stressful, but it's coming

853
00:44:53,600 --> 00:44:58,160
Speaker 1: to a wine down. Thanks for You're sore. You're so close.

854
00:44:58,200 --> 00:45:03,200
Speaker 1: It's like, what is it a month away? Jeez, that's

855
00:45:03,239 --> 00:45:06,320
Speaker 1: so exciting. Yeah, it is. It's really great. We're excited.

856
00:45:06,560 --> 00:45:08,640
Speaker 1: It's it's to get into that real excitement phase where

857
00:45:08,680 --> 00:45:10,160
Speaker 1: you're like, oh my god, a matter of days and

858
00:45:10,160 --> 00:45:13,920
Speaker 1: you like the countdowns really on. It's pretty cool. I

859
00:45:14,000 --> 00:45:17,520
Speaker 1: can't imagine, Ben, are you coming to Nashville. You're gonna

860
00:45:17,560 --> 00:45:22,160
Speaker 1: come your your girlfriend lives here, right? Yeah? Man, she

861
00:45:22,320 --> 00:45:26,560
Speaker 1: lives she lives over by Vanderbilt. Um. I don't come

862
00:45:26,600 --> 00:45:29,920
Speaker 1: to Nashville as much as I'd like to, but honestly,

863
00:45:30,840 --> 00:45:33,919
Speaker 1: I need to start coming more. Yeah, it's a great city.

864
00:45:34,480 --> 00:45:37,000
Speaker 1: My favorite restaurant I've had in a while is uh

865
00:45:37,160 --> 00:45:41,520
Speaker 1: it's called City House. It's over there, Nashville. Um, yeah, yeah, yeah,

866
00:45:42,239 --> 00:45:47,680
Speaker 1: I love that. Have you been They have great pizza, Yeah, Amanda.

867
00:45:47,840 --> 00:45:49,759
Speaker 1: Amanda's told me about it, but I haven't been there.

868
00:45:51,000 --> 00:45:53,239
Speaker 1: You gotta check it out. We've had some nice days there.

869
00:45:53,320 --> 00:45:56,680
Speaker 1: But yeah, Jess lives there. Her family's in Franklin and

870
00:45:56,960 --> 00:46:00,799
Speaker 1: uh so yeah, the life's good, man, life really good. Hey,

871
00:46:00,880 --> 00:46:04,400
Speaker 1: that's liking. That's that's great to hear it. Let me

872
00:46:04,480 --> 00:46:07,920
Speaker 1: know you. Yeah, you're in town. I'm always here and uh,

873
00:46:08,480 --> 00:46:10,160
Speaker 1: I'd love to thank you guys to dinner or something

874
00:46:10,239 --> 00:46:12,719
Speaker 1: and catch up. Dude, I'd love to do you have

875
00:46:12,760 --> 00:46:20,160
Speaker 1: a girlfriend, yeah, Amanda, Yeah, for a year now. Luke,

876
00:46:20,280 --> 00:46:22,040
Speaker 1: thanks for coming on, Thanks for being an expert in

877
00:46:22,200 --> 00:46:25,800
Speaker 1: everything a boatlor. We love talking to you. Uh. We

878
00:46:25,920 --> 00:46:28,640
Speaker 1: hope life is going well. And uh, congrats in the

879
00:46:28,680 --> 00:46:32,560
Speaker 1: sex with the charities uh and the music uh and

880
00:46:33,080 --> 00:46:35,800
Speaker 1: unlike some you came on this show to not enhance

881
00:46:35,840 --> 00:46:38,840
Speaker 1: your music career, but gosh, Darnett, we really hope it

882
00:46:38,960 --> 00:46:42,759
Speaker 1: is enhanced in your life today. Luke. Thanks, Hey, thank

883
00:46:42,800 --> 00:46:44,799
Speaker 1: you guys so much I'll have a great week, Hi, Luke.

884
00:46:45,280 --> 00:46:47,680
Speaker 1: And if you guys are interested in Luke's music, he

885
00:46:47,760 --> 00:46:50,320
Speaker 1: has a new single out right now called Remember These Words.

886
00:46:50,560 --> 00:46:52,960
Speaker 1: And I know that when you listen to that, when

887
00:46:53,000 --> 00:46:55,200
Speaker 1: you're gonna probably download the rest of his stuff too.

888
00:46:55,320 --> 00:46:57,960
Speaker 1: It's really good, all right, Ben, Let's move on to

889
00:46:58,040 --> 00:47:02,280
Speaker 1: another topic like um, Blue Apron. I love Blue Apron

890
00:47:02,400 --> 00:47:05,040
Speaker 1: so much. It's been too long, Blue Apron, and I

891
00:47:05,120 --> 00:47:07,799
Speaker 1: cannot wait to talk about you once again. Nothing says

892
00:47:07,880 --> 00:47:11,640
Speaker 1: summer like the classic juicy burger, or whipping up a

893
00:47:11,719 --> 00:47:16,280
Speaker 1: fresh tomato salsa, or sharing a delicious meal. I'll fresco

894
00:47:17,200 --> 00:47:20,720
Speaker 1: this season, experienced the joy of cooking something new, trying

895
00:47:20,840 --> 00:47:24,239
Speaker 1: new to you techniques and make cooking fun again. With

896
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Speaker 1: Blue Apron, and with an ever changing mix of meat, fish,

897
00:47:28,360 --> 00:47:31,320
Speaker 1: and vegetarian recipes to choose from, it will be the

898
00:47:31,560 --> 00:47:35,279
Speaker 1: tastiest summer yet. With Blue Apron, the hard parts are

899
00:47:35,480 --> 00:47:38,239
Speaker 1: done for you. Cooking isn't a burden anymore. In fact,

900
00:47:38,719 --> 00:47:40,800
Speaker 1: it's actually a lot of fun to learn new kitching

901
00:47:40,840 --> 00:47:44,640
Speaker 1: skills with each meal. Because of my hectic schedule, I

902
00:47:44,719 --> 00:47:47,680
Speaker 1: will tell you what I feel. I got no other

903
00:47:47,760 --> 00:47:51,280
Speaker 1: choice eating more than I should. But the Blue Apron

904
00:47:51,440 --> 00:47:53,719
Speaker 1: I actually have time to cook a delicious, wholesome meal

905
00:47:54,120 --> 00:47:56,880
Speaker 1: instead of relying on take out. And let me tell you,

906
00:47:57,400 --> 00:48:01,120
Speaker 1: I feel better, I look better, and my taste appreciate it.

907
00:48:01,560 --> 00:48:05,759
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908
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Speaker 1: premium ingredient blends that would otherwise be difficult, expensive, or

909
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Speaker 1: time consuming the source or mate. I just made the

910
00:48:12,760 --> 00:48:17,520
Speaker 1: fresh basil buttacchini with San Marzano tomatoes and goat cheese.

911
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Speaker 1: Seem impressed, don't you? Yeah? You should be. It was

912
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913
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914
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919
00:48:47,200 --> 00:48:49,120
Speaker 1: you know, Actuley, Let's I want to dive into the episode.

920
00:48:49,120 --> 00:48:51,200
Speaker 1: Like you said, there isn't a lot to dive into.

921
00:48:51,600 --> 00:48:54,200
Speaker 1: You know, I think we've we've covered a bunch of topics.

922
00:48:54,800 --> 00:48:58,120
Speaker 1: But you had a lot of strong opinions early on

923
00:48:58,200 --> 00:49:01,239
Speaker 1: this season about Peter Key's now obviously gone, and I

924
00:49:01,280 --> 00:49:04,520
Speaker 1: want to hear from you. Are you surprised, are you saddened?

925
00:49:04,680 --> 00:49:07,640
Speaker 1: Or was this expected? I think it was pretty darn expected.

926
00:49:08,160 --> 00:49:11,200
Speaker 1: Like I said, I think last week, I feel like,

927
00:49:11,480 --> 00:49:16,200
Speaker 1: of all the moments in each episode, the last moment

928
00:49:16,280 --> 00:49:19,520
Speaker 1: I would think of would be Peter's date or Peter's time.

929
00:49:19,640 --> 00:49:22,239
Speaker 1: I'm like, I know that they they obviously got along

930
00:49:22,280 --> 00:49:25,960
Speaker 1: really well. They had some immense physical chemistry, but it

931
00:49:26,160 --> 00:49:29,480
Speaker 1: seemed like every time I went to recap the episode,

932
00:49:29,520 --> 00:49:32,800
Speaker 1: Peter was the last thing I thought of. Yeah, you know,

933
00:49:33,400 --> 00:49:35,640
Speaker 1: it's true. I thought about that last week or I

934
00:49:35,640 --> 00:49:37,000
Speaker 1: think it was two weeks ago when I was last

935
00:49:37,400 --> 00:49:40,480
Speaker 1: podcast with you, you had mentioned that theory. I agree,

936
00:49:40,800 --> 00:49:44,840
Speaker 1: he's now gone. So we moved into the family dates,

937
00:49:45,080 --> 00:49:48,200
Speaker 1: which I remember this week for me when my parents

938
00:49:48,239 --> 00:49:50,360
Speaker 1: showed up, This was the most stressful week of the

939
00:49:50,400 --> 00:49:53,200
Speaker 1: whole season for me, So I was like, really confused.

940
00:49:53,239 --> 00:49:55,880
Speaker 1: She kept saying my parents, my parents. She didn't say

941
00:49:55,920 --> 00:49:58,040
Speaker 1: anything about her brother, and then we show up and

942
00:49:58,120 --> 00:50:03,600
Speaker 1: there's her brother, and then like another couple which her

943
00:50:03,640 --> 00:50:06,040
Speaker 1: aunt uncle who knows, but we were never introduced, but

944
00:50:06,120 --> 00:50:09,080
Speaker 1: to anyone other than her two parents, who's kind of weird.

945
00:50:10,840 --> 00:50:12,680
Speaker 1: It feels weird, right, They're just like, why would you

946
00:50:12,760 --> 00:50:15,160
Speaker 1: bring people down? Why would they come if they're not

947
00:50:15,200 --> 00:50:17,120
Speaker 1: gonna be a part of it? And I mean, I

948
00:50:17,239 --> 00:50:20,200
Speaker 1: know from my parents experience, it's a big commitment, right,

949
00:50:20,239 --> 00:50:24,320
Speaker 1: You're nervous. You're meeting these people who will potentially be

950
00:50:24,719 --> 00:50:27,799
Speaker 1: engaged to your son or daughter, and you're meeting them.

951
00:50:27,880 --> 00:50:29,759
Speaker 1: It takes all day. Like it's not like it's like

952
00:50:30,239 --> 00:50:34,399
Speaker 1: a fifteen twenty minute talk. It's four hours of conversation.

953
00:50:36,840 --> 00:50:40,040
Speaker 1: It's a long time. And so like, why would you

954
00:50:40,160 --> 00:50:42,279
Speaker 1: ask a brother or sister and uncle to come down

955
00:50:42,320 --> 00:50:45,239
Speaker 1: if they're not even gonna be introduced. I know they

956
00:50:45,320 --> 00:50:49,359
Speaker 1: took the trip from grit to Greece, super super weird

957
00:50:49,400 --> 00:50:51,239
Speaker 1: that they just didn't introduce them, because I felt like

958
00:50:51,320 --> 00:50:53,400
Speaker 1: we were sitting in a room with a couple of

959
00:50:53,440 --> 00:50:58,200
Speaker 1: strangers there. How long is the conversations with like each

960
00:50:58,480 --> 00:51:01,759
Speaker 1: each one on one conversation. I mean, so this is

961
00:51:01,800 --> 00:51:04,319
Speaker 1: how it typically works. It was a little different with me, right,

962
00:51:04,400 --> 00:51:06,879
Speaker 1: because there's only three of us, Like it's my parents,

963
00:51:06,960 --> 00:51:10,080
Speaker 1: and I I was nervous because your parents don't sign

964
00:51:10,160 --> 00:51:12,600
Speaker 1: up this whole thing, and so they're gonna get thrown

965
00:51:12,600 --> 00:51:14,560
Speaker 1: into this world. All of a sudden, they're meeting these

966
00:51:14,600 --> 00:51:17,879
Speaker 1: two women who, for me like they're like, well, he's

967
00:51:17,880 --> 00:51:20,160
Speaker 1: obviously in love. This seems to be a good thing.

968
00:51:20,880 --> 00:51:22,799
Speaker 1: I have no clue about any of them, and now

969
00:51:22,840 --> 00:51:24,719
Speaker 1: I'm going to be on national television trying to, like,

970
00:51:24,960 --> 00:51:27,359
Speaker 1: in you know, a short amount of time, figure out

971
00:51:27,440 --> 00:51:30,319
Speaker 1: what's best for my son. It's a lot, and I'm

972
00:51:30,360 --> 00:51:32,840
Speaker 1: sure everybody stressed out. Every family stresses out about this.

973
00:51:33,600 --> 00:51:37,080
Speaker 1: But the mom or dad or both probably have like

974
00:51:37,120 --> 00:51:40,320
Speaker 1: an hour conversation. So if you have four people to

975
00:51:40,400 --> 00:51:43,319
Speaker 1: talk to you, you're there four hours. And then then

976
00:51:43,560 --> 00:51:46,040
Speaker 1: the bachelor bachelorrette talks to their parents for a good hour.

977
00:51:46,480 --> 00:51:49,400
Speaker 1: I mean, again, it's an all day adventure. Do you

978
00:51:49,560 --> 00:51:54,200
Speaker 1: think that they legitimately preferred Tyler over Jed that much

979
00:51:54,480 --> 00:51:57,920
Speaker 1: or that was a lot of just what we saw

980
00:51:59,040 --> 00:52:02,279
Speaker 1: I think. Oh, I mean here's another thing, and we've

981
00:52:02,280 --> 00:52:05,400
Speaker 1: seen it season over season over season. This is one

982
00:52:05,440 --> 00:52:10,720
Speaker 1: of those consistent storylines that you know, it just happens.

983
00:52:10,800 --> 00:52:13,200
Speaker 1: I don't know why, but it feels like the family

984
00:52:13,400 --> 00:52:16,600
Speaker 1: is never in favor of the person that is kind

985
00:52:16,640 --> 00:52:18,000
Speaker 1: of her the favorite in her heart. And I think

986
00:52:18,000 --> 00:52:22,239
Speaker 1: it's like the front runner, and like, as Hannah said,

987
00:52:22,320 --> 00:52:24,359
Speaker 1: you know, Jed the nissance beginning, and Tyler is kind

988
00:52:24,400 --> 00:52:25,960
Speaker 1: of this new thing for her. Who knows if at

989
00:52:26,000 --> 00:52:29,040
Speaker 1: the end, you know, she ends up continuing this thing

990
00:52:29,120 --> 00:52:32,160
Speaker 1: with Tyler or not. But we've all known Jed for

991
00:52:32,239 --> 00:52:35,520
Speaker 1: a while now, and if we didn't have this information

992
00:52:35,560 --> 00:52:38,440
Speaker 1: about his ex girlfriend released, I bet we're all pretty

993
00:52:38,480 --> 00:52:42,040
Speaker 1: big Jed fans at this point. And and when this

994
00:52:42,239 --> 00:52:45,440
Speaker 1: was being filmed, you know, Jed was the front runner

995
00:52:45,840 --> 00:52:48,200
Speaker 1: and like and kind of, like the dad said to Hannah,

996
00:52:48,320 --> 00:52:51,319
Speaker 1: Jed was answering these questions well, like he was kind

997
00:52:51,360 --> 00:52:54,640
Speaker 1: of dancing around the answers, and his answers kind of

998
00:52:54,719 --> 00:52:56,960
Speaker 1: pointed to like what is your dream, you know, support

999
00:52:57,000 --> 00:52:59,080
Speaker 1: a family? And he's like, well, I want to support

1000
00:52:59,120 --> 00:53:01,640
Speaker 1: my family one day, have multiple ways of income. It's like,

1001
00:53:01,680 --> 00:53:05,200
Speaker 1: well everybody wants multiple ways of income. Like how how

1002
00:53:05,280 --> 00:53:07,680
Speaker 1: are you going to get there? Jaed? Like, be a man,

1003
00:53:07,800 --> 00:53:09,279
Speaker 1: how are you going to get there? How? What are

1004
00:53:09,320 --> 00:53:12,840
Speaker 1: you what are you doing now to further your career?

1005
00:53:13,000 --> 00:53:16,279
Speaker 1: In your foundation for the future. And his response was,

1006
00:53:16,360 --> 00:53:19,000
Speaker 1: you know, he got this gig with a dog food company.

1007
00:53:19,320 --> 00:53:21,120
Speaker 1: I don't know anything about jingles, Like, I don't know

1008
00:53:21,160 --> 00:53:25,600
Speaker 1: how like it was portrayed as if it was they

1009
00:53:25,640 --> 00:53:28,000
Speaker 1: were kind of demeaning him, like the dog food jingle.

1010
00:53:28,120 --> 00:53:30,919
Speaker 1: But honestly, a dog food jingle like for arms, could

1011
00:53:30,960 --> 00:53:33,440
Speaker 1: be like a really big deal blue Buffalo. I mean

1012
00:53:33,520 --> 00:53:35,560
Speaker 1: like it could be like a big deal, so it's

1013
00:53:35,600 --> 00:53:40,080
Speaker 1: something to be little. However, it definitely came across that way.

1014
00:53:40,680 --> 00:53:42,720
Speaker 1: You know what it reminds me of. I mean, Charlie

1015
00:53:42,840 --> 00:53:45,840
Speaker 1: sheen On to DApp men made a really good living

1016
00:53:46,520 --> 00:53:49,279
Speaker 1: doing jingles the best. He had a house on the

1017
00:53:49,360 --> 00:53:55,359
Speaker 1: Pacific Coast Highway or something exactly. So I can't hate

1018
00:53:55,400 --> 00:53:58,080
Speaker 1: on a man for doing jingles. But the family was

1019
00:53:58,160 --> 00:54:01,000
Speaker 1: definitely concerned because I think they saw, well a lot

1020
00:54:01,040 --> 00:54:04,960
Speaker 1: of us have seen this season, that Jed doesn't necessarily

1021
00:54:05,120 --> 00:54:08,400
Speaker 1: have a foundation that he's building on right now, and

1022
00:54:08,480 --> 00:54:11,600
Speaker 1: he's throwing a lot of his eggs in the music basket. Right.

1023
00:54:12,120 --> 00:54:14,960
Speaker 1: Can we talk about how it was seemed super obvious

1024
00:54:15,360 --> 00:54:18,560
Speaker 1: that Jed was the front runner in Hannah's heart when

1025
00:54:19,320 --> 00:54:22,239
Speaker 1: she got angry at her mom being like, I knew

1026
00:54:22,280 --> 00:54:23,719
Speaker 1: you guys were going to do this. I knew you

1027
00:54:23,760 --> 00:54:26,840
Speaker 1: were going to say this about him. Yeah. She she

1028
00:54:26,960 --> 00:54:31,600
Speaker 1: definitely showed her true colors, right, like we know who

1029
00:54:31,680 --> 00:54:35,880
Speaker 1: her favorite is. She was very protective of Jed, and

1030
00:54:36,600 --> 00:54:39,120
Speaker 1: you know, I mean good for her in a sense.

1031
00:54:39,920 --> 00:54:43,000
Speaker 1: But also, you know, when when I do with my family,

1032
00:54:43,760 --> 00:54:46,279
Speaker 1: they know a lot, and you should listen to their

1033
00:54:46,320 --> 00:54:49,560
Speaker 1: opinion because they can see things that you don't see

1034
00:54:49,800 --> 00:54:52,480
Speaker 1: because you've been so entranced in this world for so long.

1035
00:54:53,040 --> 00:54:55,080
Speaker 1: And I think it's easy to get defensive because you

1036
00:54:55,160 --> 00:54:57,880
Speaker 1: can say, you know it's your parents. Oh, you just

1037
00:54:57,960 --> 00:55:00,600
Speaker 1: don't know the full story. But that could be to

1038
00:55:00,640 --> 00:55:04,400
Speaker 1: their benefit. And I think Hannah's parents are pretty spot

1039
00:55:04,480 --> 00:55:09,759
Speaker 1: on so far on what they're seeing. Do you agree, Yeah? Yeah,

1040
00:55:09,840 --> 00:55:11,759
Speaker 1: And I think that Tyler is obviously going to be

1041
00:55:11,840 --> 00:55:16,480
Speaker 1: the guy who's like more warm and masculine and seems

1042
00:55:16,520 --> 00:55:19,319
Speaker 1: like more of a protector. I think he's definitely going

1043
00:55:19,400 --> 00:55:24,040
Speaker 1: to be like most parents favorite based on the first impression. Ben,

1044
00:55:24,440 --> 00:55:27,280
Speaker 1: don't mean to get awkward here, but didn't your parents

1045
00:55:28,680 --> 00:55:34,400
Speaker 1: quote prefer Jojo? Yeah? I mean that's how Yeah, And

1046
00:55:34,520 --> 00:55:37,360
Speaker 1: so I talked to him afterwards, and this was the

1047
00:55:37,400 --> 00:55:39,640
Speaker 1: response I got from them, right, because it's obviously going

1048
00:55:39,680 --> 00:55:42,000
Speaker 1: to be shown like you support one side or together.

1049
00:55:42,600 --> 00:55:46,799
Speaker 1: And my mom is very opinionated and she loves her

1050
00:55:46,880 --> 00:55:49,400
Speaker 1: son very much, and so she had very strong opinions

1051
00:55:49,480 --> 00:55:52,839
Speaker 1: about who I was going to propose to. Hey, call

1052
00:55:52,880 --> 00:55:55,759
Speaker 1: her crazy, but I think every parents should have an

1053
00:55:55,800 --> 00:55:58,200
Speaker 1: opinion on who, you know, who their kids falling love with.

1054
00:55:58,680 --> 00:56:00,479
Speaker 1: And as she explained it to me, because I didn't

1055
00:56:00,480 --> 00:56:02,520
Speaker 1: get to see the whole thing, she said, yeah, I

1056
00:56:02,680 --> 00:56:07,000
Speaker 1: voiced opinions positive and negative about both, and obviously I

1057
00:56:07,120 --> 00:56:10,240
Speaker 1: couldn't like saying who my favorite was because I didn't

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00:56:10,320 --> 00:56:13,600
Speaker 1: know these girls. So like it came off as like

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00:56:13,719 --> 00:56:16,960
Speaker 1: she was super you know, supportive of Jojo, and she's like,

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00:56:17,239 --> 00:56:19,600
Speaker 1: at the time, all I knew is that Joejo and

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Speaker 1: I had a great conversation. It seemed fun, She seemed fun,

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Speaker 1: and she seemed to really care about you because I

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00:56:25,200 --> 00:56:26,799
Speaker 1: didn't have a lot of negative to say about either

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00:56:26,800 --> 00:56:29,239
Speaker 1: of them because I didn't know either of them. So like,

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Speaker 1: you're gonna sit there and go, you know, who's your

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00:56:31,080 --> 00:56:33,360
Speaker 1: favorite at this point, and it's kind of like throwing

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00:56:33,440 --> 00:56:35,520
Speaker 1: darts with a you know, a blindfold on. It's like, well,

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Speaker 1: I don't know which one, like both of them they

1069
00:56:37,920 --> 00:56:41,480
Speaker 1: seem fine, like this is this is whatever. So the show,

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Speaker 1: this is the one part of the show that I

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00:56:44,239 --> 00:56:47,040
Speaker 1: get pretty sensitive about because they did, you know, show

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00:56:47,160 --> 00:56:50,279
Speaker 1: my mother supporting Joejoe more and after talking to her,

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00:56:50,320 --> 00:56:52,440
Speaker 1: she's like, I didn't support either of them more. And

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00:56:52,520 --> 00:56:54,360
Speaker 1: then you watch it backseason or season and I just

1075
00:56:54,400 --> 00:56:58,879
Speaker 1: know how much it affects the family and the relationship afterwards. Yeah,

1076
00:57:00,239 --> 00:57:02,000
Speaker 1: so what do you think that Hannah is going to

1077
00:57:02,080 --> 00:57:05,640
Speaker 1: feel with her family after this is awesome? I think

1078
00:57:05,680 --> 00:57:07,839
Speaker 1: she's gonna I mean, we'll have to wait once again.

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Speaker 1: I mean, actually, this is one of the craziest seasons

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Speaker 1: because we don't know how this is gonna end. We

1081
00:57:12,400 --> 00:57:15,040
Speaker 1: know that there's this episode, we know that there's like

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00:57:15,280 --> 00:57:20,000
Speaker 1: this ends obviously somehow. But if Hannah is like super

1083
00:57:20,280 --> 00:57:22,960
Speaker 1: relieved that this information about Jed came out so that

1084
00:57:23,040 --> 00:57:26,000
Speaker 1: she sees the truth, then she's probably gonna be appreciative

1085
00:57:26,040 --> 00:57:29,280
Speaker 1: of her parents for carry now. If they're together and

1086
00:57:29,320 --> 00:57:31,440
Speaker 1: they're trying to make this thing work, this episode is

1087
00:57:31,440 --> 00:57:34,680
Speaker 1: gonna be pretty hard for them. The watch. Yeah, that's

1088
00:57:34,720 --> 00:57:37,760
Speaker 1: so true. Well, let's talk a little bit about how

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00:57:37,920 --> 00:57:41,800
Speaker 1: we have no we have no idea what's going to

1090
00:57:41,880 --> 00:57:46,800
Speaker 1: happen tomorrow. So this episode was like, it wasn't bland.

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00:57:46,840 --> 00:57:50,240
Speaker 1: It was a good episode, But the most dramatic parts

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00:57:50,320 --> 00:57:56,560
Speaker 1: of it were Hannah's issue with Hannah's family's issue with Jed,

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00:57:56,880 --> 00:58:01,240
Speaker 1: and then seeing her with Jed by the water and

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00:58:01,440 --> 00:58:04,440
Speaker 1: talking about how she she just kind of straight up

1095
00:58:04,520 --> 00:58:07,600
Speaker 1: told Jed she was like they like Tyler Moore. You know,

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Speaker 1: that was the most dramatic part. But I also have

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Speaker 1: to say that, based on watching this episode, I think

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Speaker 1: that there's a connection with Jed that she doesn't have

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Speaker 1: with Tyler. I think she wants to be connected with

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Speaker 1: Tyler the way she's with Jed. I think she wants

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Speaker 1: to pick Tyler, but she knows that she has something

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00:58:25,720 --> 00:58:29,880
Speaker 1: more unspoken and unspoken connection with Jed. Can we also

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00:58:30,040 --> 00:58:34,200
Speaker 1: comment that Jed and Hannah's hometown dates and family meeting

1104
00:58:34,280 --> 00:58:39,000
Speaker 1: dates have just gone really I mean, like really bad.

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00:58:39,160 --> 00:58:42,600
Speaker 1: They've both been pretty awful. But do you feel me

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00:58:42,920 --> 00:58:45,000
Speaker 1: when you say when I say that I think the

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00:58:45,080 --> 00:58:49,000
Speaker 1: connection was stronger with Jed. They like have real conversations.

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00:58:49,040 --> 00:58:51,360
Speaker 1: It's not just fluff. I do feel like with Tyler

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00:58:51,800 --> 00:58:55,040
Speaker 1: it's a lot of fluff. Yeah, I mean I do,

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Speaker 1: because Tyler has that like one liner communication style where

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00:58:58,800 --> 00:59:01,320
Speaker 1: he comes in he goes, I'm in love with Hannah

1112
00:59:01,360 --> 00:59:05,800
Speaker 1: Brown and you know, he you see and you like it.

1113
00:59:06,000 --> 00:59:08,560
Speaker 1: It works, but like, I don't think it like cultivates

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00:59:08,600 --> 00:59:11,680
Speaker 1: the deepest like back and forth conversation. And I think,

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00:59:12,480 --> 00:59:13,920
Speaker 1: I mean, I think she's a little bit at ease

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00:59:14,000 --> 00:59:15,760
Speaker 1: with Jed too. I mean she I think she's into

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00:59:15,840 --> 00:59:18,600
Speaker 1: him both, but Jed, I don't know how this is

1118
00:59:18,640 --> 00:59:21,439
Speaker 1: going to come up. Jed doesn't really intimidate her, meaning

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00:59:21,520 --> 00:59:24,120
Speaker 1: like not in like a good way. Like I think

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Speaker 1: when she's around Tyler, she's like a little anxious and

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00:59:27,160 --> 00:59:30,200
Speaker 1: nervous still, But I think Jed brings her to ease,

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00:59:30,440 --> 00:59:32,760
Speaker 1: like makes her just like be yourself. And I don't

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00:59:32,760 --> 00:59:35,760
Speaker 1: know if Tyler is like because how much she just

1124
00:59:36,200 --> 00:59:39,200
Speaker 1: is like blown away by who he is as a human.

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Speaker 1: She's still a little nervous and so she's not fully relaxed. Oh,

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Speaker 1: I don't know if I can interpret it like that.

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00:59:44,320 --> 00:59:46,720
Speaker 1: I just feel like Tyler doesn't challenge her, and she

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Speaker 1: feels more challenged by Jed. I have a perfect analogy here.

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Speaker 1: For all of you guys who have seen the movie Enchanted?

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00:59:54,120 --> 01:00:00,480
Speaker 1: Do you remember Enchanted? Do you remember? Don't say? Are

1131
01:00:00,520 --> 01:00:03,880
Speaker 1: you kidding me? It's a fantastic movie. Are you king

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01:00:04,880 --> 01:00:10,720
Speaker 1: you've never seen Enchanted with Adams? No? Okay, well we

1133
01:00:10,800 --> 01:00:13,280
Speaker 1: got people in here giving you the furry eyebrow. Okay,

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Speaker 1: um okay. In the movie Enchanted, for all you guys

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01:00:17,720 --> 01:00:25,080
Speaker 1: who've seen it, um, what's his what's his name? What? James? Okay?

1136
01:00:25,200 --> 01:00:28,360
Speaker 1: So in the movie Amy Adams is like a princess.

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01:00:28,400 --> 01:00:30,040
Speaker 1: I don't need to give you the synopsis. This is

1138
01:00:30,080 --> 01:00:32,960
Speaker 1: really only for people who have seen the movie and Chanted. Um,

1139
01:00:33,360 --> 01:00:38,360
Speaker 1: Jed is Patrick Dempsey. He's like that flawed, real human character.

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Speaker 1: He's kind of cynical. That's Jed. She never thought she

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01:00:41,640 --> 01:00:43,640
Speaker 1: would end up with anyone like that. She thought she

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01:00:43,760 --> 01:00:46,600
Speaker 1: was going to end up with like this charming prince

1143
01:00:46,640 --> 01:00:50,040
Speaker 1: who said the most wonderful pleasant things. And that was

1144
01:00:50,160 --> 01:00:53,560
Speaker 1: James Marson's character. And I think James Marsin's character is Tyler.

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01:00:54,080 --> 01:00:56,160
Speaker 1: And she's like, oh, I want to like him, but

1146
01:00:56,240 --> 01:01:01,200
Speaker 1: why am I so drawn to this like grouchier version.

1147
01:01:02,440 --> 01:01:06,720
Speaker 1: This is more guy. She ends up like finding herself

1148
01:01:06,840 --> 01:01:11,480
Speaker 1: more drawn to the rougher conversations that she has with

1149
01:01:11,640 --> 01:01:15,480
Speaker 1: Patrick Dempsey ak Jed than she does with the fluffy

1150
01:01:15,840 --> 01:01:19,000
Speaker 1: fairy tale convos that she has with James Marriston. I mean,

1151
01:01:19,040 --> 01:01:21,320
Speaker 1: I'm going to assume that was a good analogy. I

1152
01:01:21,440 --> 01:01:25,640
Speaker 1: have zero idea, But hey, Ashley, we gotta take a

1153
01:01:25,680 --> 01:01:27,280
Speaker 1: second and take a break and talk about one of

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Speaker 1: our favorite sponsors. Before the break, Ashley was giving us

1155
01:01:38,040 --> 01:01:41,800
Speaker 1: an amazing analogy on a movie I've never seen about

1156
01:01:41,840 --> 01:01:45,080
Speaker 1: how Hannah's in the Jed over Tyler. I'm sure it

1157
01:01:45,160 --> 01:01:47,120
Speaker 1: was great. Please email us once again if you thought

1158
01:01:47,200 --> 01:01:51,480
Speaker 1: she was right or wrong. Actually, um, I I cut

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Speaker 1: you off to talk about some of our sponsors. Um,

1160
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Speaker 1: but what are your final thoughts on this episode? It

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01:01:58,240 --> 01:02:01,160
Speaker 1: wasn't super exciting in my opinion, and it just is

1162
01:02:01,280 --> 01:02:03,200
Speaker 1: leading up to something that I think will blow our minds.

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01:02:04,000 --> 01:02:08,640
Speaker 1: I agree. So I think in conclusion, she wants to

1164
01:02:08,760 --> 01:02:11,760
Speaker 1: like Tyler. She does like Tyler, but I don't think

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01:02:11,840 --> 01:02:14,520
Speaker 1: she loves him. I don't think she sees a future

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01:02:14,760 --> 01:02:18,360
Speaker 1: with him. Um. I think that even when she says

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01:02:18,520 --> 01:02:21,880
Speaker 1: certain things about him in her in her interview like

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01:02:22,280 --> 01:02:25,480
Speaker 1: I could see being in his arms forever. It's almost

1169
01:02:25,520 --> 01:02:29,160
Speaker 1: a little forced, and I have Tori here in the

1170
01:02:29,280 --> 01:02:32,600
Speaker 1: studio nodding in a grants. It's almost like the producers

1171
01:02:32,680 --> 01:02:35,200
Speaker 1: were like, well, can you see being with him forever?

1172
01:02:35,760 --> 01:02:38,360
Speaker 1: And then she's like, I can see being in his

1173
01:02:38,560 --> 01:02:42,000
Speaker 1: arms forever. Like I've been able. I've said I haven't

1174
01:02:42,040 --> 01:02:45,400
Speaker 1: really like lied or anything in the I T M Room,

1175
01:02:45,600 --> 01:02:47,920
Speaker 1: but there are certain things that you end up like

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01:02:48,080 --> 01:02:50,880
Speaker 1: trying to act, to say with certainty when you definitely

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01:02:51,000 --> 01:02:53,720
Speaker 1: don't feel certain about them. But you're like, I'm gonna

1178
01:02:53,760 --> 01:02:57,200
Speaker 1: get through this line because I know I want to

1179
01:02:57,240 --> 01:02:59,040
Speaker 1: get out of here, and I just feel like that's

1180
01:02:59,080 --> 01:03:01,080
Speaker 1: how she's been talking about Tyler, which I know is

1181
01:03:01,120 --> 01:03:03,760
Speaker 1: shocking to all of America. He has one point one

1182
01:03:03,840 --> 01:03:10,680
Speaker 1: million followers, and that is unprecedented for a male UH contestant.

1183
01:03:11,080 --> 01:03:13,720
Speaker 1: I don't think any contestant has ever gotten that from

1184
01:03:13,800 --> 01:03:16,320
Speaker 1: one season, one point one million followers. He has Gigi

1185
01:03:16,400 --> 01:03:20,880
Speaker 1: Hadid following him on Instagram. This man is wanted, but

1186
01:03:21,280 --> 01:03:26,480
Speaker 1: I don't know how much he's wanted by Hannah Uh. Conversely,

1187
01:03:26,600 --> 01:03:31,000
Speaker 1: the Jed Day was messy, not just the family component,

1188
01:03:31,120 --> 01:03:34,320
Speaker 1: but also the boat component in which Hannah was super

1189
01:03:34,440 --> 01:03:38,000
Speaker 1: ce sick or just sick in general over the decision

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Speaker 1: that she had to make. But it's the one that

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01:03:41,360 --> 01:03:44,000
Speaker 1: she connects. He's the guy that she connects with the most.

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Speaker 1: And I just feel like, I don't know, it's it's

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01:03:50,000 --> 01:03:52,200
Speaker 1: there between the two of them, And even though it's there,

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01:03:53,200 --> 01:03:56,240
Speaker 1: I still don't think that's her husband. I don't even

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01:03:56,320 --> 01:03:58,840
Speaker 1: think Hannah thinks that either of these guys are her husband.

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Speaker 1: The more that I watch her, like the all the

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Speaker 1: little nuances in these episodes, I didn't even know that

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Speaker 1: she's like referring to husband, She's referring to an engagement,

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Speaker 1: but she's not saying like this is my forever guy.

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01:04:15,040 --> 01:04:18,840
Speaker 1: So if this, if she ends up picking Jed, and

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01:04:19,640 --> 01:04:25,280
Speaker 1: the whole girlfriend thing, uh continues to just make this

1202
01:04:25,400 --> 01:04:29,880
Speaker 1: whole situation even sloppier. I feel like I see her

1203
01:04:30,000 --> 01:04:31,640
Speaker 1: being like, you know what, at the end of the day,

1204
01:04:31,960 --> 01:04:35,080
Speaker 1: I didn't even see myself marrying him and being single.

1205
01:04:35,400 --> 01:04:38,160
Speaker 1: That's my prediction for what could happen tomorrow if she

1206
01:04:38,280 --> 01:04:42,960
Speaker 1: ends up picking Jed. But like I said, like we

1207
01:04:43,120 --> 01:04:48,880
Speaker 1: have inside sources saying looks as if even the producers

1208
01:04:48,920 --> 01:04:51,160
Speaker 1: don't know what's going to go down tomorrow's live episode,

1209
01:04:51,240 --> 01:04:54,880
Speaker 1: so that is pretty juicy. It is definitely, it's funny,

1210
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Speaker 1: and this is one of those seasons. Actually, I've got

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01:04:57,760 --> 01:05:01,080
Speaker 1: to admit, we went into it and I was critical

1212
01:05:01,160 --> 01:05:04,080
Speaker 1: of Hannah. You weren't. You're super supportive of her, like

1213
01:05:04,160 --> 01:05:07,200
Speaker 1: this is a great choice, and then it hit me like, yeah, Okay,

1214
01:05:07,240 --> 01:05:09,240
Speaker 1: this is gonna be fun she's gonna be awkward, she's

1215
01:05:09,240 --> 01:05:11,280
Speaker 1: gonna be funny. But how are they really going to

1216
01:05:11,360 --> 01:05:13,840
Speaker 1: do anything different with her season as they have in

1217
01:05:13,880 --> 01:05:18,400
Speaker 1: the past, And somehow, some way they pulled off once

1218
01:05:18,440 --> 01:05:22,320
Speaker 1: again where this season will have an ending unlike anything

1219
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Speaker 1: we've seen before. I'm telling you, we're gonna be here

1220
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Speaker 1: talking about it though. The almost famous podcast is going

1221
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Speaker 1: no meat where. No matter what we do, we're gonna

1222
01:05:30,360 --> 01:05:33,520
Speaker 1: be here talking. So we're gonna have an episode after

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Speaker 1: the final finale as well. It's gonna be great, it's

1224
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Speaker 1: gonna be wild, We're gonna have fun with it. Uh,

1225
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Speaker 1: and just holding onto your seats. We're gonna have a

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Speaker 1: special guest who who's that? We can't even say. I

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Speaker 1: don't even know if it's confirmed for us. I don't

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Speaker 1: even know if they're giving us a name yet, but

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Speaker 1: we are give being given a special guest. They're not

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Speaker 1: telling us who it is, but we know it's special

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Speaker 1: nutrition information totally free again, just text Famous through thirty

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Speaker 1: Standard message and data rates of may apply actually to

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Speaker 1: favorite time in the podcast. Yeah, we've got to. I mean,

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Speaker 1: that's the coolest thing is when we have time in

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Speaker 1: a podcast to do a few emails. Um, and I

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Speaker 1: think there's a few on here that we should definitely highlight.

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Speaker 1: Here's here's the here's the question. Okay, from Tallia, We've

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Speaker 1: just been talking about Paradise a lot. The question she

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Speaker 1: has is can Luke P redeem himself? Something said on

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Speaker 1: this week's pod really stood out to me. It was

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Speaker 1: a disgusting discussion on whether Luke P could ever redeem

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Speaker 1: himself or going batchel on Paradise. From what I understood

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Speaker 1: the group consists was that he could not redeem himself.

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Speaker 1: This made me think of Chris ran Done, who was

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Speaker 1: somewhat of villain on Becca season. However, Chris ended up

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Speaker 1: finding love with Crystal, who was the villain on our season.

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Speaker 1: Maybe if Luke went on Paradise and found love not engage,

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Speaker 1: everyone's perception of him would shift. What do you both

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Speaker 1: think of this? Would a good love story? Undo or

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Speaker 1: rewrite the narrative of a villain's nightmare? Wow? Great email?

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Speaker 1: Tell you you really make me consider I think it would.

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Speaker 1: I think if Luke P went on to Paradise and

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Speaker 1: kind of humbled, humbled himself and didn't take such a

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Speaker 1: stance like he was always right and that everybody else

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Speaker 1: in the world had to be wrong because he had

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Speaker 1: you know, got on his side then, and and maybe

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Speaker 1: he opened his heart up to actually falling in love

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Speaker 1: and being vulnerable. I think we would all say good

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Speaker 1: on you. I think Talia, what we were talking about

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Speaker 1: as the group in Tahoe was that we're concerned that,

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Speaker 1: based on mental all, that he is at the point

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Speaker 1: yet where he could redeem himself. I think we're still

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Speaker 1: like a little bit worried that he hasn't learned enough yet,

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Speaker 1: especially back when UM filming started for Paradise, which was

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Speaker 1: in early June. That would have meant that he only

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Speaker 1: got off Hannah season about a month earlier. But I'm

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Speaker 1: not saying that it's impossible and that he can't. I

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Speaker 1: think that we don't see him in previous or Paradise,

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Speaker 1: and I think he's The likelihood of him being there

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Speaker 1: is UM not high. But I do think it'd be

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Speaker 1: a great thing for him to do to try to

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Speaker 1: redeem himself next summer for Paradise, and then it'll give

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Speaker 1: people the audience some time to cool down on their

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Speaker 1: feelings about Luke anyway. Yeah, yeah, I mean know, I

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Speaker 1: think honestly he's going to kind of fade out and

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Speaker 1: and it will no longer be a thing. He and

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Speaker 1: I got into it on Twitter last week. Pretty good brother,

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Speaker 1: I guess his brother. Yeah, I heard about the thing. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: It's just frustrating to me, and I'm done with it.

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Speaker 1: You know. Sometimes it's it's like a clinging gong. It

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Speaker 1: just can't get anything to like, you can't even converse

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Speaker 1: and when you know, the one thing that I just

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Speaker 1: really upsets me about people is when they dismiss other

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Speaker 1: people completely and they don't even want to have a conversation.

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Speaker 1: And and this thing there's this like idea Ashley and

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Speaker 1: and it's happened for years, and it's one of the

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Speaker 1: biggest problems with with Christianity and the church is once

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Speaker 1: you have a topic that your stand firm on and

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Speaker 1: you have and anybody disagrees with you, you just go

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Speaker 1: to this thing of like, well, of course the world

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Speaker 1: is gonna do agree with me because I'm not of

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Speaker 1: the world. And that's always a comment that you hear,

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Speaker 1: is like, I'm not of the world, so the world

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Speaker 1: is going to disagree with me. They won't be on

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Speaker 1: my side. And it's such a b S way to

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Speaker 1: just dismiss any type of like good debate or conversation

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Speaker 1: into seed to come to truth and that was what's happening.

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Speaker 1: So I'm done with it. I'm not good. I'm I'm

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Speaker 1: no longer participating in the loop P story. All right,

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Speaker 1: then let's move on to another email. This one is

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Speaker 1: from Bailey. It's about my sister's speech at the wedding.

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Speaker 1: Instead of doing the super nerve racking speeches in front

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Speaker 1: of everyone, we had the maid of honor best man's

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Speaker 1: siblings pre record of video speeches and then we had

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Speaker 1: them all compiled onto one DVD and had it played

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Speaker 1: on a projector at the reception. And doing this, we

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Speaker 1: now have copies of the speeches and it's fun to

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Speaker 1: go back and watch some time to time. Uh, I

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Speaker 1: don't know how I feel. I mean, like, this is

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Speaker 1: great for you guys. I'm glad that you did this

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Speaker 1: because you you like the way it turned out. I

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Speaker 1: think we're going to have the speeches on tape from

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Speaker 1: the videographers anyway. I like uh an in person speech,

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Speaker 1: but I did tell my sister that I would prefer

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Speaker 1: her to record her speech on video like you guys did,

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Speaker 1: then have her not do a speech at all, or

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Speaker 1: have her speech done at the rehearsal dinner. So thank

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Speaker 1: you for this suggestion. It's definitely something I've considered. I

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Speaker 1: wouldn't do it for everyone. I like the in person speeches,

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Speaker 1: but if my sister is truly that nervous, then I'm

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Speaker 1: fine with her doing a video. I told I was

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Speaker 1: joking on my I don't get a podcast, that the

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Speaker 1: best case scenario for her would be if we had

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Speaker 1: um what are they called a hologram, A hologram of

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Speaker 1: Lauren just all of a sudden, she goes for and

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Speaker 1: she pops up it as a twin version next to herself,

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Speaker 1: and she gives the space that way. Yeah, you're just

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Speaker 1: a few you're just a few years too early getting

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Speaker 1: married in I know. I was like, Lauren, you could

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Speaker 1: lip sync it. I was like, well, the DJ play it,

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Speaker 1: you just have to memorize it so you can lip

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Speaker 1: sync it. Uh, that's awesome. Hey, Ashley, you're the best.

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Speaker 1: So pumped for you and Jerry coming up soon. We're

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Speaker 1: gonna keep talking about your wedding, even though you feel

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Speaker 1: like we're over talked it. I know that the world

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Speaker 1: is so I don't know. Pretty sure they're tired of it.

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Speaker 1: Pretty sure they're tired of it. We'll see. Hey, uh,

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Speaker 1: we have another episode coming out after the finale. Until then,

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Speaker 1: hold onto your cease, Bachelor Nation, because the word we

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Speaker 1: hit is that nobody knows how this thing can end.

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Speaker 1: But make sure you tune in because we'll be breaking

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Speaker 1: it down with you. With that I've been been Ashley,

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Speaker 1: See you later, next episode tomorrow. Follow the Benn and

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