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Speaker 1: The Jebel Show on Demand. First Day follow Up. Amanda

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Speaker 1: is on the phone today for a first date follow up,

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Speaker 1: and she's getting ghosted by a dude named Brian. So

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Speaker 1: we'll see if we can figure out why and see

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Speaker 1: if we can get her another day if she still

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Speaker 1: wants one after here. After she hears why in just

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Speaker 1: a second, Amanda, thank you for coming on the show.

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Speaker 1: Before we get into your date and why you think

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Speaker 1: you're getting ghosted by this dude. How long has it

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Speaker 1: been since you heard from Brian? Hey, so I haven't

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Speaker 1: heard from Brian and got it. It has to have

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Speaker 1: been like eight days now, so I mean it hasn't

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Speaker 1: like excessive, but it's more than you know. He said

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Speaker 1: he would call back within like he said you'd call

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Speaker 1: back within a couple of days. Have you reached out

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Speaker 1: to him at all? Yeah? I mean I like messaged

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Speaker 1: him like hello, but he didn't respond to that, and

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Speaker 1: I didn't feel like sending another message because I thought

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Speaker 1: that would be weird. I feel you that's probably a

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Speaker 1: good move. Been on the date, Okay? So I went

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Speaker 1: to this rock show and I met Brian there and

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Speaker 1: he seemed really cool. We just kind of started talking

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Speaker 1: and we like sat at the bar next to each

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Speaker 1: other during the show, and um, then we started talking

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Speaker 1: for a really long time after the show, and when

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Speaker 1: everything closed down, we just decided to go like across

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Speaker 1: the street to another place and then just keep talking.

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Speaker 1: So so like it was going really well, and like

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Speaker 1: he is so attractive, and you know, I wasn't surprised

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Speaker 1: at all to learn that he was also a guitarist

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Speaker 1: and a band. Oh my gosh, this answers my question

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Speaker 1: why after eight days always the guys, I mean, I

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Speaker 1: get it. I'm a musician too, Like I guess it's fine. Whatever. Oh,

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Speaker 1: that's gotta be awesome if you're a musician to meet

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Speaker 1: another musician for a date. I mean, that's cool. You

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Speaker 1: guys are both into Yeah, we really bonded. It was

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Speaker 1: it was really cool. And you know, after they closed

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Speaker 1: everything down at the second place, I was kind of like,

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Speaker 1: you know, my apartment's only a block away, okay, girl,

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Speaker 1: So yeah, so like I just I decided I wanted

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Speaker 1: to take them home with me. Yeah, And so he

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Speaker 1: agreed and we went to my place and we had

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Speaker 1: a lot of fun and then he left the next morning.

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Speaker 1: And you know, before he left we did exchange numbers

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Speaker 1: and he told me he'd call like the next day,

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Speaker 1: and you know, again, it's been like well over a week,

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Speaker 1: and I don't really get it. I hate to state

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Speaker 1: the obvious, sorry, but do you think it's like whoop?

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Speaker 1: Got that? See you later? You know? I mean, it sucks.

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Speaker 1: It sucks that that's a real thing, but it is.

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Speaker 1: Do you think that could be it? I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I really hope it's not that. Like I mean, I

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Speaker 1: was really smitten with him, to be honest, and like,

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Speaker 1: you know, amongst everything else, I especially love talking about

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Speaker 1: our music taste, and you know, I'm not very snobby

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Speaker 1: about music, but like, maybe it's that, like I can

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Speaker 1: be a bit judgmental, and like Brian said, he was

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Speaker 1: exactly the same way. So I don't know. I'll admit

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Speaker 1: it's been a long time since the guy has pleased

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Speaker 1: me like that. Okay, so that's also why Okay, But yeah,

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Speaker 1: so I don't know. We like talked about damming together

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Speaker 1: at some point, and you know, I've played in a

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Speaker 1: few bands as well, so I don't know, would be

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Speaker 1: cool to just jam with him artistically and maybe physically.

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Speaker 1: Thing happened that he was able to do. Okay, well,

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Speaker 1: we'll see if we can figure it out for you.

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Speaker 1: Then we'll play a song come back, and then call

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Speaker 1: him and see if you can tell us, see if

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Speaker 1: you another date if you still want it. Okay, another

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Speaker 1: jam sesh, all right, we'll play a song come back

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Speaker 1: and get your first day follow up next. Amanda is

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Speaker 1: and she is not getting a call back from a

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Speaker 1: dude named Brian, and she really wants to almost said

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Speaker 1: rock out with Yeah, there you go, rock out with

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Speaker 1: her socks off. She wants a jam sesh with Brian.

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Speaker 1: see why he's been ghosting her and maybe get her

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Speaker 1: another date. But before we do that, Amanda, refresh everybody's memory.

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Speaker 1: Tell us about your date with Brian and why do

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Speaker 1: you think you're getting ghosted? I met I met Brian

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Speaker 1: on a little rock concert at a bar, and we

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Speaker 1: and I'm really just confused. Hey, Manda wants another date?

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Speaker 1: She does, or at least another evening. All right, so

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Speaker 1: we're gonna call him right now and see if we

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Speaker 1: can figure it out. You ready, Amanda? Yeah, Okay, here

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Speaker 1: we go. Hello, Hi, Man, I speak to Brian. This

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Speaker 1: is him, Brian. How are you man? My name is

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Speaker 1: Jewel calling from a radio show called The Jewil Show. Hi, Brian,

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Speaker 1: I'm here on the Jewil Show. What's up? Guys? Up?

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Speaker 1: Why are you on my phone? Have you ever heard

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Speaker 1: a segment that we do called the first Date follow Up?

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Speaker 1: I think so? Yeah, I'm pretty sure I have. What

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Speaker 1: that is is if you go out on a date

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Speaker 1: with someone and then end up ghosting that, they can

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Speaker 1: email us to get you on the phone to find

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Speaker 1: out why you've been ghosting them. And we got an

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Speaker 1: email about you from someone. Oh, I'm guessing it's probably Amanda, right. Oh?

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Speaker 1: Oh Andy smart too, So this is an intentional ghost yes, Amanda, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: for you to know right away, right, it is Amanda Man, Amanda, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: And she told us that she like, really really enjoyed

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Speaker 1: her evening with you and wanted to see you again.

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Speaker 1: But you know, it's been a while and she hasn't

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Speaker 1: heard anything. So she's wondering if you might tell us

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Speaker 1: why you're ghost. Yeah. Well, I mean Amanda's great. Uh.

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Speaker 1: She she was really great. We had a really good time.

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Speaker 1: We talked a lot, we drank a lot. They had

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Speaker 1: an excellent time. Word things kind of went a little

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Speaker 1: south was when we got to her place. I don't

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Speaker 1: know how much she told you, but everything she told

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Speaker 1: us everything, Like, yeah, she didn't give us all the details,

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Speaker 1: but I want some of the details later on, not

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Speaker 1: on the radio, because she said that you, sir, did

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Speaker 1: a great job and I would love some pointers. Oh,

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Speaker 1: we'll go to bread right now. I'm going to leave.

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Speaker 1: I don't know what happened at her place. We got

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Speaker 1: from like rock musician fangirl to like Danny Tanner from

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Speaker 1: Full House, he's a clean freak. She is a clean freak. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I felt like I couldn't sit down in the house

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Speaker 1: she wanted me to use coasters, which is fine, you know,

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Speaker 1: I understand, it's your house, you want to keep it clean.

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Speaker 1: But I also felt like there was nothing I could

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Speaker 1: something wrong. There was a lot of no, no, don't

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Speaker 1: It was just a bit much. It's too bad because

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Speaker 1: she she was real cute, She's a lot of fun.

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Speaker 1: She plays instruments, which is a rare saying it seems

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Speaker 1: like these days, and I was really looking forward to

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Speaker 1: jamming out with her. But I just couldn't put up

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Speaker 1: a clean freak for you. It was too much. And

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Speaker 1: I'm not even scratching the surface. Guys, if you if

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Speaker 1: you had seen it, you'd understand I'm trying to picture,

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Speaker 1: because I would just feel like clean is such a

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Speaker 1: turn on. All her chairs are wrapped in plastic. And

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Speaker 1: if it was only you know, once or twice, Okay, fine,

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Speaker 1: it's your house, I'll follow your rules. But it was

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Speaker 1: the whole night. Thank you for being HONESTO with this man,

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Speaker 1: I appreciate that. Yeah, is this gonna be on the radio? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: It is. Also she's actually on the phone, has been

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Speaker 1: listening this whole time and wants to talk to you.

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Speaker 1: Oh I should have guessed, right, Hi Briant, Hi Ananda?

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Speaker 1: How are you? How can I just say it? Like

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Speaker 1: I feel really ridiculous for going overboard about the cleanliness

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Speaker 1: because weirdly not the first time that someone's referred to

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Speaker 1: me as like a Danny Panner kind of are you serious?

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Speaker 1: But like I guess, I get kind of anxious when

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Speaker 1: I'm usually pretty chill and um, yeah, I don't know,

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Speaker 1: I don't know, I don't I just I think that

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Speaker 1: presents in clear wrappers. Well, um, so like the plastic

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Speaker 1: you might actually find this funny. I actually I am

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Speaker 1: really lazy and haven't unwrapped it since buying it. Wait,

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Speaker 1: why are you serious? I mean, like, here's the thing.

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Speaker 1: It does make it easier to clean. It is kind

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Speaker 1: of like my grandma vibe, which I hear a steak.

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Speaker 1: Now it's that Grandma's speak in your house. So somehow

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Speaker 1: your laziness turned stylish all of a sudden, right, But

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Speaker 1: I'm not even gonna lie, are you a lot? Yeah? So,

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I guess, like too, after the pandemic,

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Speaker 1: I feel like everybody's really just psych out about like

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Speaker 1: I have a little bit of that going on too.

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Speaker 1: I love how honest you're being about your cleanliness. I

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Speaker 1: don't think there's anything wrong with being clean. I just don't,

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Speaker 1: I definitely get that. I totally could see why that

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Speaker 1: promise I'm not crazy. Maybe it's just a little normal

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Speaker 1: amount of crazy, but that's not crazy. A little crazy

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Speaker 1: is good, right, Brian? Yeo, I mean a little crazy

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Speaker 1: is a lot of fun, exactly. Yes, So Bane, would

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Speaker 1: you like another date with Amanda will pay for it,

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Speaker 1: you know. Um yeah, Actually, I honestly didn't think we

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Speaker 1: think we could have a your time still jam Yeah yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: let's jam out for sure. Well let's get wild next

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Speaker 1: time and rip that plastic off the furniture. Wow, I'll

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Speaker 1: make sure to bring the face next time for our

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Speaker 1: jazz quesion. You guys talking dirty? I can't tell. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I can't tell, ripping plastic off the furniture and slapping

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Speaker 1: the bass of it. All right, Well, congratulations, you got

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Speaker 1: another date? Yay? Are you excited? Yeah? And I'm excited too. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: we're all excited. It's so excited. Yeah, and the chairs

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Speaker 1: are excited and the bass is excited, and the band's excited.

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Speaker 1: Thank you, guys, no, thank you. Then Jebil Show on

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