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Speaker 1: Rooking jew Boles. Second date update. We've done a few

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Speaker 1: second date updates where the topic of money comes up,

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Speaker 1: and it's usually a bad thing when people start discussing

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Speaker 1: money on a first date. Today, Cody is on the

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Speaker 1: phone with us. He wants us to call a girl

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Speaker 1: named Robin. Apparently Cody thinks that he kind of screwed

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Speaker 1: that he's having, and he thinks maybe Robin thinks he's broke. Hey, Cody,

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Speaker 1: how are you. I'm doing all right, how are you guys? Good?

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Speaker 1: So your email said that you screwed up by telling

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Speaker 1: her all about your monetary issues. Yeah, I didn't set

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Speaker 1: up to do that, but we were at dinner and

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Speaker 1: the conversation sort of just led that way, and you know,

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Speaker 1: because it had. It's been a little bit of a

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Speaker 1: rough time. I've had a rough year so far, and

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Speaker 1: you know a lot of things are have been coming down,

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Speaker 1: and you set it up as sad as it sounds

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Speaker 1: right now too, because no, wonder, she's not calling you back.

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Speaker 1: To be honest with you, I really don't know how

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Speaker 1: the conversation actually got there. I don't really remember. We're

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Speaker 1: just talking about you know what I do and what

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Speaker 1: she does, and you know my schooling, and then my

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Speaker 1: student loans came up, and you know I have a

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Speaker 1: lot of student loans, so I had to divulge a

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Speaker 1: little bit about that. And then I told her that

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Speaker 1: I bought this car that I can't even really afford,

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Speaker 1: but somehow I managed. So you're just rattling off a

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Speaker 1: list of all the things financially that are wrong in

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Speaker 1: your life. Did you go over your credit score as well? Cody, No,

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Speaker 1: we didn't impress on that. She probably did a credit

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Speaker 1: check on me, as probably why I haven't earned from her,

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Speaker 1: but I didn't really mean for it to go that way,

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Speaker 1: and you know, we were just talking about life. Did

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Speaker 1: she react weirdly when you were bringing up money and stuff,

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Speaker 1: because in your email you said that's why you think

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Speaker 1: she's not calling you back. Did she say something to

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Speaker 1: make you think that it was a turnoff. She seemed understanding,

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Speaker 1: but at the same time, you know how you're when

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Speaker 1: you're in one of those situations where you know, you

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Speaker 1: can kind of feel that the vibe has sort of change. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: apparently when you bring up money in student loans and

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Speaker 1: cars that you can't afford. Yeah. But yeah, if I

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Speaker 1: she did was talking about how she's broke, I'd be like,

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Speaker 1: I'm probably not gonna take her out again. Yeah, how

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Speaker 1: did you meet her? By the way, we meet online?

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Speaker 1: Did you pay for the dinner? Well? I did. She

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Speaker 1: offered to pay for dinner, and she may have felt

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Speaker 1: I paid for dinner. I was gonna say, tell me

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Speaker 1: the money talk happened before the bill was dropped off.

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Speaker 1: It's like the bills dropped off and they're like, oh man,

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Speaker 1: this bill just makes me think about my student. It

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Speaker 1: wasn't like that, like I was like, oh, I forgot

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Speaker 1: and I thought that that was nice of her, and

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Speaker 1: and be paying this date off for the next seven years.

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Speaker 1: You're worth it, How did the date end? Was it

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Speaker 1: Or well? Not really. I mean it was kind of

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Speaker 1: And so you want to call her and explain to her, hey,

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Speaker 1: I'm not really as broke as I was joking about.

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Speaker 1: I mean, well, I am as broke as I was saying,

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Speaker 1: but I don't want to think that I am. You

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Speaker 1: many times have you tried to get ahold of her

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Speaker 1: and she said anything back? Absolutely not nothing. All right, Well,

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Speaker 1: we're gonna play a song, come back, call her and

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Speaker 1: get your second date update. Okay, all right, thanks, hold

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Speaker 1: on brooking Jubile in the morning. Up. All right, Cody,

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Speaker 1: are you ready to give Robin the call? Definitely? I

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Speaker 1: hopefully it turns out for the better. You got your

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Speaker 1: joking that you're going bankrupt, you got kind of a

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Speaker 1: big hole to dig out of here. When we get

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Speaker 1: her on the phone, Yeah, I know, what are you

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Speaker 1: going to say to her to try to convince her

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Speaker 1: to go out with you again? Well, I really think,

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Speaker 1: and maybe it's just me, I really think we had

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Speaker 1: and she was pretty, and she was down to earth.

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Speaker 1: How can we help you? What can we do to

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Speaker 1: help you out? I don't know, man, just I don't

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Speaker 1: I personally know you sound like a nice guy. I

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Speaker 1: want to help you out. It's just you know, well,

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I'm not not a good guy. I

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Speaker 1: this is just a temporary thing. It's it's not the

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Speaker 1: end of the world. I mean, I just you just

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Speaker 1: you're not asking her for money. I mean, that's what

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Speaker 1: you're not asking for support or anything from her, right, No,

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Speaker 1: I'm not. I just be nice to have someone that

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Speaker 1: to spend money, and it's just worth a try. That's

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Speaker 1: why I contacted you. Guys. If anyone's gonna be able

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Speaker 1: we go. Hello. Hi is Robin there, Hi, This is Robin. Hey, Robin.

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Speaker 1: This is Jewel from Brook and Jewel in the morning.

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Speaker 1: I'm moving ninety two point five. How are you? I'm fine.

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Speaker 1: Have you ever listened to our show before? Yeah? Sometimes. Okay,

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Speaker 1: you recently went out on a date with a listener

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Speaker 1: of ours and he really likes you. I would love

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Speaker 1: to find out why you're not calling him back. Okay,

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Speaker 1: his name is Cody. Huh do you remember going out

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Speaker 1: with Cody? Yeah? I do remember going out with Cody.

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Speaker 1: He told us that you guys had dinner, and he

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Speaker 1: feels bad. He thinks that he screwed up your date

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Speaker 1: because he was talking about the fact that he has

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Speaker 1: and you seemed he seemed kind of cold after that,

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Speaker 1: that's that's that's pretty much what happened, because wouldn't he

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Speaker 1: It wasn't like a casual like, oh man, I'm drowning

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Speaker 1: that what it felt like for you? Yeah? And did

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Speaker 1: He said he gave him a hug and wished him

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Speaker 1: good luck. It's pretty obvious that you didn't want to

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Speaker 1: go up with him. I guess, like how dinner ended. No,

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Speaker 1: he didn't tell us that. Okay, did something weird happened

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Speaker 1: at the end of dinner. Yeah, the check came, and

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Speaker 1: you know, obviously I felt really bad because I understand,

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Speaker 1: I mean, he was very sweet and he's like, no, no, no,

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Speaker 1: with that? The yeah, well, it was just a lot.

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Speaker 1: And then ultimately he couldn't find it and he's like,

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Speaker 1: that's understandable. Then when I go on a date, I'm

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Speaker 1: and the truth is it just sort of feels like

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Speaker 1: Cody is not really in a place where he should

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Speaker 1: be dating right now. Yeah, he's having trouble supporting himself

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Speaker 1: right now, let alone supporting a dating life. But be

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Speaker 1: a relationship will We'd be eating like Ramen noodles every night, right,

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Speaker 1: I'd end up like giving him my paycheck to help

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Speaker 1: pay off his part, like it didn't want a long

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Speaker 1: term relationship would look like with him. And that's really

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Speaker 1: not what I'm looking for, Robin. Cody's actually on the

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Speaker 1: other line and just heard everything you said. Hi, Robin,

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I'm actually really kind of uncomfortable with this.

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Speaker 1: I gave you a choice of which restaurant you wanted

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Speaker 1: I thought I had a goup on four and obviously

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Speaker 1: I didn't add sounds like you took for ever to

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Speaker 1: look for the coupon. I mean, it wasn't there a

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Speaker 1: certain point, Cody, where you could tell like, Okay, this

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Speaker 1: is awkward now and that I'm looking for too long? Well, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'm a point where when I actually had to pay

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Speaker 1: for the check. Here's here's the thing. Here, here's the

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Speaker 1: way I see it is that a lot of things

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Speaker 1: actually really do have a pretty decent job. I mean,

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Speaker 1: it's just I'm peeing out some months. It seems I'm

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Speaker 1: We'll pay for you guys to go on a second date. No,

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Speaker 1: reopen it. All right, Sorry, Cody, Sorry, you got tried

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Speaker 1: you're never going out with me again. I just I

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Speaker 1: you need to be with somebody who can be responsible financially.

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Speaker 1: somebody who can tolerate you. Cody. Wow, that's deteriorating quickly.

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Speaker 1: I really was on your side. For a while, but

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Speaker 1: I'm really not like and I take great offense to that. Robin.

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Speaker 1: Thank you for your time, finances, and I still going, Robin.

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Speaker 1: There's passion here though. Robin, thank you for your time.

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Speaker 1: I appreciate it. Thank you for talking to us. Thanks Cody. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: date update. All right, twenty five percent interest. I'm sorry

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Speaker 1: lifetime to deet me. I'm in a bad spot right now.

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Speaker 1: But I develop apps and I've been working on something,

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Speaker 1: and something's gonna hit the next billionaire. Stay with it.

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