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Speaker 1: Dating a workaholic.

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Speaker 2: There's a theory that dating someone who's addicted to their

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Speaker 2: job just as bad as dating someone who is addicted

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Speaker 2: to addicted to a substance. Steve, So, I got to

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Speaker 2: ask you, can you be in a healthy relationship with

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Speaker 2: someone who is.

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Speaker 1: Addicted to their job?

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Speaker 2: Or can two people who are each addicted to their

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Speaker 2: own job have a healthy relationship with each other?

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Speaker 1: That is your question.

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Speaker 3: Addicted is a tough word, but that is if you

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Speaker 3: are addicted to your job. Any addiction is a problem.

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Speaker 3: It means you're doing something in excess and you can't

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Speaker 3: seem to control it.

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Speaker 1: Right. You keep going back.

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Speaker 3: So you could control it. But if you think you

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Speaker 3: trapped in it.

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Speaker 1: So it's a lot of ways around this thing. I

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Speaker 1: don't what would you do, Julie, I just throw it

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Speaker 1: to job.

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Speaker 3: I'm sitting here looking at you. You just staying at

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Speaker 3: me talking.

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Speaker 1: Well, what do you see it? In this union?

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Speaker 3: I see it? I can't.

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Speaker 1: It could work.

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Speaker 3: It could work.

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Speaker 1: You know, two people are addicted to their job. You know,

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Speaker 1: if you love doing what you do, you know, I mean,

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Speaker 1: I love my job. But isn't it a time issue?

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Speaker 3: Though?

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Speaker 1: I mean, if you're addicted to your job?

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Speaker 2: Do you have time to cut each other with each other?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Well, if both of you is addicted, uh has to

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Speaker 3: be a mutual time you know that you agree upon

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Speaker 3: and it probably ain't gonna be long.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't see. I don't see this working because

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Speaker 2: your job comes first. You won't you don't put the

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Speaker 2: other person first.

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Speaker 3: Could you be in here's my question, ladies. Could you

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Speaker 3: be in a relationship with a man who was addicted

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Speaker 3: to you?

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Speaker 1: Oh? Why not? Yeah? Be addicted to me? Yeah, y'all?

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Speaker 3: Yes?

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Speaker 1: Oh man? Yes, yeah? What's your means?

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Speaker 3: They get on your nerves? Like every time they do

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Speaker 3: something bothering you turn around, yes, smothering. Well, I'm using

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Speaker 3: the word addiction in the harshest way because, like I said,

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Speaker 3: addiction is a tough word.

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Speaker 1: It is.

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Speaker 3: So the question is, how would you would you like

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Speaker 3: to be in a relationship with the man that was

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Speaker 3: addicted to you? Now this might sound good, be all

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Speaker 3: over me, but I mean everywhere.

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Speaker 2: But Steve, he has to have time.

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Speaker 3: I mean, yeah, he right there at the deal.

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Speaker 2: Everyone needs me time gets the everyone needs alone time

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Speaker 2: and meantime. Every even if you're in a relationship and

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Speaker 2: you're very close and all of that. You still need

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Speaker 2: your mean time.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you want to get it every day?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, she in the toilet, baby, it's paper and I'm

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Speaker 3: just checking. You mean, give you some water while you using.

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Speaker 1: It that would get on my nerves, that would get

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Speaker 1: up what you had for lunch today? You on some

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Speaker 1: water that would get up.

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Speaker 3: Well, you're in the kitchen cooking and he's sitting on

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Speaker 3: the countertap talking to you while you're trying to cook

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Speaker 3: garlics oud a garlic pot boat with steady rubbing rub.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's it. There is a thing called too much.

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Speaker 1: I see. Yeah. Yeah, what you're saying, I'm go to

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Speaker 1: the stove. Well let me get him on other side.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, hold up, you need some time to yourself. Everyone

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Speaker 2: needs that.

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Speaker 1: You want me to get I'm not worried about that.

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Speaker 1: I lost my baby. I don't need help. But you

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Speaker 1: you go to work. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Well see that's the thing though, so the workaholic, because

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Speaker 2: I know that I have a girlfriend that she says

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Speaker 2: she complains because her man works all the time.

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Speaker 1: And I'm like, it's gotta be a healthy balance.

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Speaker 3: If you can't make it to the salon, I shall

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Speaker 3: know my family they did what they thought was an

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Speaker 3: intervention on me to talk to me about the hours

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Speaker 3: I work and I need to slow down.

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Speaker 1: And I agree with them, and so.

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Speaker 3: I asked them all the time, though, what what's y'all's

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Speaker 3: payment playing for all this.

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Speaker 1: Here, for all of you?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, you know, y'all over here, just steady

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Speaker 3: opening up bottles of water. Ain't putting yournche I don't

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Speaker 3: put a magic marker in the water drawer so everybody

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Speaker 3: can label their water when they come over, because I

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Speaker 3: can't stand. At the end of the night. I look

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Speaker 3: in there and it's fourteen bottles of half half yeah,

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Speaker 3: And I'm sitting up in there going okay, yeah, you

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Speaker 3: know here, Well, this was your house, you wouldn't have

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Speaker 3: no fourteen half open bottle on your ground. Put your

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Speaker 3: name on your damn bottle with that magic mark I

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Speaker 3: put in there.

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Speaker 2: But but there comes a point when are you working

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Speaker 2: because you have to work or you working because you

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Speaker 2: just love what you do too.

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Speaker 3: It's a combination. Somebody, my son said something that was

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Speaker 3: really moving to me in Abu Dhabi, and it kind

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Speaker 3: of really made me feel really good because it let

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Speaker 3: me know he was thinking about his dad. So I

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Speaker 3: was talking to this wealthy guy. He was from Kirshni

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Speaker 3: or somewhere like that. I don't know where that is.

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Speaker 3: Go ahead me either, A really nice guy.

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Speaker 1: I don't remember you ever talking about.

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Speaker 3: He said, Steve, what are you going to do now?

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Speaker 3: I said, Man, I want to be a billionaire. He

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Speaker 3: said for what? What do you need it for? He said,

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Speaker 3: name something that you can do with a billion dollars

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Speaker 3: that you can't do right now? You live in nice homes,

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Speaker 3: you fly private, you own cars, you want, you dress

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Speaker 3: how you want. What can you do anymore with the

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Speaker 3: billion that you can't do now? My son went and

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Speaker 3: looked at him and said nothing. My dad just wants

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Speaker 3: to do nothing.

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Speaker 1: He said, my dad just wants to My dad.

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Speaker 3: Just wants to do nothing. And with a billion dollars

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Speaker 3: he can go do nothing. Yeah, and I love to

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Speaker 3: see my dad smile like he do when he ain't

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Speaker 3: doing nothing. That was great and that was the coolest

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Speaker 3: thing for me. Man, that he gets it. He know

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Speaker 3: what I'm trying to do. I don't need a billion

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Speaker 3: not to do nothing, No, trust me, I gotta do

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Speaker 3: nothing else.

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