1 00:00:02,560 --> 00:00:06,040 Speaker 1: Welcome everyone to your Sunday Morning Run. It is Sunday, 2 00:00:06,080 --> 00:00:10,120 Speaker 1: September twenty eighth. I'm Amy Roeboch alongside TJ. Holmes, and 3 00:00:11,000 --> 00:00:14,200 Speaker 1: this is where we give you a little inspiration to 4 00:00:14,280 --> 00:00:17,560 Speaker 1: start your week, and we go through our quotes of 5 00:00:17,600 --> 00:00:19,800 Speaker 1: the week, and we have a bonus quote at the 6 00:00:19,920 --> 00:00:23,720 Speaker 1: end of the episode, but we'll begin with a quote 7 00:00:23,720 --> 00:00:27,800 Speaker 1: from an unknown Every day is a new beginning, stay 8 00:00:27,840 --> 00:00:30,840 Speaker 1: away from what might have been and look at what 9 00:00:31,200 --> 00:00:34,280 Speaker 1: can be. That's a good Monday quote. 10 00:00:34,880 --> 00:00:39,480 Speaker 2: Is that where we started the week? Yeah, yeah, I 11 00:00:39,560 --> 00:00:44,040 Speaker 2: think I am. I'm taking so many of your quotes 12 00:00:44,080 --> 00:00:47,559 Speaker 2: personally because there's many of you know, she is the 13 00:00:47,560 --> 00:00:49,800 Speaker 2: one that usually is responsible for pulling out the quotes, 14 00:00:49,800 --> 00:00:51,720 Speaker 2: and I don't actually see them before we use them 15 00:00:51,760 --> 00:00:55,840 Speaker 2: during Morning Run, and oftentimes I seem to be reflective 16 00:00:55,880 --> 00:00:58,640 Speaker 2: of whatever my mood was or whatever you didn't like 17 00:00:58,680 --> 00:01:01,960 Speaker 2: about my mood that morning. So I'm taking all of 18 00:01:02,000 --> 00:01:04,000 Speaker 2: these with little grain of salt. 19 00:01:04,080 --> 00:01:07,760 Speaker 1: Sometimes it's also the news cycle or if there's a 20 00:01:07,840 --> 00:01:12,120 Speaker 1: news maker, so I don't always base it on what 21 00:01:12,200 --> 00:01:15,160 Speaker 1: I'm hoping you can learn from the quote of the day, FYI, 22 00:01:15,200 --> 00:01:18,720 Speaker 1: But yes, you have become wise to some of my tactics, 23 00:01:18,760 --> 00:01:20,840 Speaker 1: but I did love this one. Every day is a 24 00:01:20,880 --> 00:01:24,680 Speaker 1: new beginning, stay away from what might have been and 25 00:01:24,760 --> 00:01:29,479 Speaker 1: look at what can be. That's all about regret. It 26 00:01:29,520 --> 00:01:33,039 Speaker 1: doesn't serve any purpose. So I love that quote all right. 27 00:01:33,080 --> 00:01:36,760 Speaker 1: The next one comes from Dale Carnegie. Did you know 28 00:01:36,800 --> 00:01:37,400 Speaker 1: who that was? 29 00:01:38,160 --> 00:01:40,759 Speaker 2: Uh? From Hall as in the Hall? 30 00:01:41,240 --> 00:01:43,240 Speaker 1: Yes, exactly. He has a whole. But do you know 31 00:01:43,360 --> 00:01:44,800 Speaker 1: what he did? Oh? 32 00:01:44,880 --> 00:01:45,280 Speaker 2: His whole hit? 33 00:01:45,400 --> 00:01:48,800 Speaker 1: No. So like I knew his name, I knew he 34 00:01:48,880 --> 00:01:52,040 Speaker 1: was some sort of I thought philosopher, but I actually 35 00:01:52,040 --> 00:01:54,160 Speaker 1: decided to go and look. He was born in eighteen 36 00:01:54,280 --> 00:01:56,360 Speaker 1: eighty eight. I didn't realize that long ago, but he 37 00:01:56,440 --> 00:02:01,360 Speaker 1: was author of the still famous stills circulated How to 38 00:02:01,400 --> 00:02:05,080 Speaker 1: Win Friends and Influence People. And his story is so cool. 39 00:02:05,120 --> 00:02:07,000 Speaker 1: I actually did a deep dive on him. But I 40 00:02:07,080 --> 00:02:13,519 Speaker 1: love that this was his quote. In action breeds doubt 41 00:02:13,600 --> 00:02:19,440 Speaker 1: and fear. Action breeds confidence and courage. And isn't that true? 42 00:02:19,480 --> 00:02:21,320 Speaker 1: Because when we're stuck, we don't know what to do, 43 00:02:22,080 --> 00:02:25,960 Speaker 1: We're not sure what to do. Sometimes we're frozen with fear. Yeah, 44 00:02:26,000 --> 00:02:28,640 Speaker 1: you're just doubting yourself. But if you take an action, 45 00:02:29,800 --> 00:02:31,960 Speaker 1: you do it with confidence. You do it with courage, 46 00:02:31,960 --> 00:02:35,760 Speaker 1: and that action changes your whole energy. 47 00:02:36,600 --> 00:02:39,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, action can be go ahead and send that text message. 48 00:02:39,280 --> 00:02:41,400 Speaker 2: That action can be go ahead and just take that 49 00:02:41,520 --> 00:02:44,440 Speaker 2: next step forward. Yeah, that action doesn't have to be 50 00:02:44,440 --> 00:02:47,640 Speaker 2: a major way A man doing nothing sucks and you 51 00:02:47,680 --> 00:02:52,160 Speaker 2: can just rot Doing nothing is the worst feeling that 52 00:02:52,200 --> 00:02:53,040 Speaker 2: you just don't want to have. 53 00:02:53,720 --> 00:02:55,919 Speaker 1: Think about it, Like we both had our daughters talk 54 00:02:55,960 --> 00:02:59,440 Speaker 1: about rotting in bed And do you ever feel better 55 00:02:59,480 --> 00:03:02,560 Speaker 1: after you've Maybe some people will say yes, but my 56 00:03:02,760 --> 00:03:06,040 Speaker 1: personal experience has been I get up and I have 57 00:03:06,080 --> 00:03:09,359 Speaker 1: to kind of like shake it off. I feel ugh. 58 00:03:10,040 --> 00:03:14,760 Speaker 1: I don't like just going into fetal position and doing nothing. 59 00:03:15,440 --> 00:03:17,000 Speaker 1: I don't think serves anyone. 60 00:03:17,600 --> 00:03:20,600 Speaker 2: No, I don't ever have a desire for that. I 61 00:03:20,639 --> 00:03:22,560 Speaker 2: haven't sure for rest, that's different. 62 00:03:22,760 --> 00:03:23,480 Speaker 1: Oh I'm not talking. 63 00:03:23,600 --> 00:03:26,560 Speaker 2: Mostly I can sit down and relax for a moment. 64 00:03:26,639 --> 00:03:29,960 Speaker 2: But this idea of just crawling into bed and being 65 00:03:30,080 --> 00:03:33,640 Speaker 2: left alone and closing the blinds and not wanting to 66 00:03:33,639 --> 00:03:37,000 Speaker 2: get out into the world, it doesn't feel good. It 67 00:03:36,520 --> 00:03:38,400 Speaker 2: feels it does It feels like illness to me. 68 00:03:38,640 --> 00:03:41,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's doubt and fear. So it's just a reminder 69 00:03:41,200 --> 00:03:43,200 Speaker 1: when you're not sure what to do? You know, what, 70 00:03:43,360 --> 00:03:46,280 Speaker 1: do something? And I love that. I think. I remember 71 00:03:47,080 --> 00:03:48,720 Speaker 1: one time my doctor told me, when you want to 72 00:03:48,760 --> 00:03:52,000 Speaker 1: take a nap, take a walk and it will make 73 00:03:52,080 --> 00:03:55,880 Speaker 1: a difference. So yes, in action breeds doubt and fear. 74 00:03:56,640 --> 00:04:00,920 Speaker 1: Action breeds confidence and courage. Dale Carne, thank you for that, 75 00:04:01,400 --> 00:04:04,000 Speaker 1: all right. This next one came from, Oh my goodness, 76 00:04:04,040 --> 00:04:06,640 Speaker 1: one of my favorite authors, Jeanette Walls. She wrote The 77 00:04:06,640 --> 00:04:11,240 Speaker 1: Glass Castle. It's a true story about her unbelievable childhood 78 00:04:11,280 --> 00:04:15,880 Speaker 1: and how she overcame so much to be come. She 79 00:04:15,920 --> 00:04:18,280 Speaker 1: was an MSNBC contributor and now, of course a New 80 00:04:18,360 --> 00:04:24,080 Speaker 1: York Times bestseller. But this is her quote, sometimes you 81 00:04:24,120 --> 00:04:27,359 Speaker 1: need a little crisis to get your adrenaline flowing and 82 00:04:27,440 --> 00:04:31,479 Speaker 1: help you realize your potential. This one was personal, but 83 00:04:31,520 --> 00:04:33,600 Speaker 1: it wasn't something at you. It is something we were 84 00:04:33,600 --> 00:04:34,080 Speaker 1: dealing with. 85 00:04:34,520 --> 00:04:35,840 Speaker 2: Oh what was it? I can remember? 86 00:04:36,160 --> 00:04:41,120 Speaker 1: Wasn't that the Yeah, that was the entire Wi Fi 87 00:04:41,160 --> 00:04:44,040 Speaker 1: situation that was last Wednesday. Yeah, that was the crisis. 88 00:04:44,120 --> 00:04:46,440 Speaker 2: Oh my goodness, that was our crisis. Then wow, And 89 00:04:46,480 --> 00:04:48,479 Speaker 2: we made it work. We made it happen, and we 90 00:04:48,560 --> 00:04:52,120 Speaker 2: showed ourselves what we are capable of in that moment. Yes, 91 00:04:52,200 --> 00:04:56,479 Speaker 2: I'm sometimes love to get my blood boiling. And I 92 00:04:56,600 --> 00:04:59,839 Speaker 2: because I'm tired a lot, because I don't get proper 93 00:05:00,000 --> 00:05:02,840 Speaker 2: sleep sometimes, but I always have to be on, it seems. 94 00:05:02,839 --> 00:05:04,760 Speaker 2: And that used to be a trick sometimes when we 95 00:05:04,800 --> 00:05:08,560 Speaker 2: were anchoring a television show together, when I was dragging, 96 00:05:08,920 --> 00:05:12,480 Speaker 2: I would write before the show came on and turn 97 00:05:12,560 --> 00:05:15,400 Speaker 2: to you and say say something to piss me off. 98 00:05:16,080 --> 00:05:19,080 Speaker 1: And I was like, uh no, I'm not going to 99 00:05:19,120 --> 00:05:21,039 Speaker 1: be doing that because the last thing I want is 100 00:05:21,040 --> 00:05:22,920 Speaker 1: for you to be angry at me. But then sure enough, 101 00:05:22,920 --> 00:05:25,240 Speaker 1: some of them usually say something like yep, that did 102 00:05:25,279 --> 00:05:25,840 Speaker 1: it me. 103 00:05:27,120 --> 00:05:29,560 Speaker 2: This gets my blood boil and get me going. And 104 00:05:29,600 --> 00:05:33,359 Speaker 2: it's not quite crisis, but I understand the sentiment. Sometimes 105 00:05:33,360 --> 00:05:36,080 Speaker 2: you actually need something where you don't have a choice 106 00:05:36,800 --> 00:05:41,120 Speaker 2: but to go into safety or survival mode or into 107 00:05:41,240 --> 00:05:42,120 Speaker 2: action of some kind. 108 00:05:42,160 --> 00:05:44,520 Speaker 1: Hell ya, yeah, And when you yet, when you don't 109 00:05:44,560 --> 00:05:47,960 Speaker 1: have a choice, when you have to act actually or react. 110 00:05:48,200 --> 00:05:51,440 Speaker 1: So yes, sometimes you need a little crisis to get 111 00:05:51,480 --> 00:05:56,120 Speaker 1: your adrenaline flowing and help you realize your potential. All right, 112 00:05:56,160 --> 00:06:01,239 Speaker 1: this one, TJ. You came up with the quote you did, 113 00:06:01,520 --> 00:06:05,479 Speaker 1: and you said you wrote it down and you don't 114 00:06:05,480 --> 00:06:08,240 Speaker 1: know who said it, but let's see if maybe me 115 00:06:08,400 --> 00:06:11,760 Speaker 1: reading it back to you jogged your memory. We have 116 00:06:11,839 --> 00:06:14,640 Speaker 1: to assert our dignity. Sorry, we have to assert our 117 00:06:14,680 --> 00:06:18,400 Speaker 1: dignity in small ways. It's the small details that let 118 00:06:18,440 --> 00:06:20,560 Speaker 1: people know we are not invisible. 119 00:06:20,920 --> 00:06:23,039 Speaker 2: It just spoke to me in the moment I was 120 00:06:23,080 --> 00:06:26,800 Speaker 2: watching a movie that I shouldn't have been, I guess 121 00:06:27,360 --> 00:06:30,800 Speaker 2: looking for inspirational quotes. And this was not even a 122 00:06:31,040 --> 00:06:36,400 Speaker 2: primary star of this movie. She was kind of the elderly, 123 00:06:36,680 --> 00:06:39,159 Speaker 2: the matriarch of this family. She took care of folks 124 00:06:39,160 --> 00:06:41,320 Speaker 2: as an older lady, but had to do with a 125 00:06:41,360 --> 00:06:45,920 Speaker 2: Latino family in New York. And she was trying to 126 00:06:46,320 --> 00:06:49,360 Speaker 2: impart advice to this young girl and why it was 127 00:06:49,400 --> 00:06:51,120 Speaker 2: important for her to take up for herself or stand 128 00:06:51,200 --> 00:06:54,240 Speaker 2: up for herself. And the idea was sometimes just holding 129 00:06:54,279 --> 00:06:57,640 Speaker 2: your head high, always walking with good posture. It's just 130 00:06:57,760 --> 00:07:02,880 Speaker 2: it's always presenting yourself in a manner in which people 131 00:07:02,960 --> 00:07:05,919 Speaker 2: recognize that dignity. And you have to have it in 132 00:07:05,960 --> 00:07:10,160 Speaker 2: the small ways. First. And the movie was in the Heights. 133 00:07:10,200 --> 00:07:13,800 Speaker 1: In the Heights, what a great, great film, lin Manuel Miranda. 134 00:07:14,240 --> 00:07:16,840 Speaker 1: But yes, I even think about it when you just see. 135 00:07:16,880 --> 00:07:18,680 Speaker 1: It doesn't matter how much you have, it's how you 136 00:07:18,720 --> 00:07:22,920 Speaker 1: take care of it. Whether it's your physical body, but 137 00:07:23,480 --> 00:07:26,280 Speaker 1: even your home, like planting a little flowers or just 138 00:07:26,360 --> 00:07:29,640 Speaker 1: keeping your place neat. It's that dignity I take pride 139 00:07:29,720 --> 00:07:31,960 Speaker 1: and who I am and how I live, and how 140 00:07:32,000 --> 00:07:34,800 Speaker 1: I treat people and how I treat myself. That is 141 00:07:35,160 --> 00:07:38,240 Speaker 1: a beautiful way to let people know. It's a quiet 142 00:07:38,240 --> 00:07:40,400 Speaker 1: form of protests in a sense, like ah, you can 143 00:07:40,440 --> 00:07:44,360 Speaker 1: see me because I am worthy. We have to assert 144 00:07:44,400 --> 00:07:48,000 Speaker 1: our dignity in small ways. It's the small details that 145 00:07:48,080 --> 00:07:53,400 Speaker 1: let people know we are not invisible. And on Friday, 146 00:07:53,520 --> 00:07:58,960 Speaker 1: this one came to us from Mandy Hail And you 147 00:07:59,000 --> 00:08:00,760 Speaker 1: said this one was direct? Did you? But I don't 148 00:08:00,760 --> 00:08:03,520 Speaker 1: think I necessarily did throw this one at you. 149 00:08:04,480 --> 00:08:05,640 Speaker 2: Oh I can't can't remember. 150 00:08:05,920 --> 00:08:07,520 Speaker 1: I know, I'm actually I can't wait for you to 151 00:08:07,520 --> 00:08:11,360 Speaker 1: hear it again. You don't always need a plan. Sometimes 152 00:08:11,440 --> 00:08:16,000 Speaker 1: you just need to breathe trust, let go and see 153 00:08:16,040 --> 00:08:16,760 Speaker 1: what happens. 154 00:08:16,840 --> 00:08:20,600 Speaker 2: It's true, we all know that and believe that. But 155 00:08:21,200 --> 00:08:24,480 Speaker 2: I mean it's sometimes has great advice going through certain 156 00:08:24,560 --> 00:08:26,800 Speaker 2: parts of your life, but not great advice if you're 157 00:08:26,840 --> 00:08:29,680 Speaker 2: on a roller coaster. I mean, or if you. 158 00:08:29,680 --> 00:08:33,720 Speaker 1: Walk into and like you're always walking into every restaurant, 159 00:08:33,920 --> 00:08:36,760 Speaker 1: every place of business, and I can see your head 160 00:08:36,800 --> 00:08:40,120 Speaker 1: on a swivel, and you have a plan. Yeah, you're 161 00:08:40,200 --> 00:08:42,960 Speaker 1: thinking for the worst case scenario. Yes, every time we 162 00:08:43,000 --> 00:08:43,520 Speaker 1: go anywhere. 163 00:08:43,559 --> 00:08:45,880 Speaker 2: Yes, I don't know where that comes from. I don't 164 00:08:45,880 --> 00:08:48,600 Speaker 2: know why, but yes, I count heads. When I get 165 00:08:48,600 --> 00:08:51,600 Speaker 2: into a subway, I count exit, I count how many 166 00:08:51,679 --> 00:08:54,240 Speaker 2: number of seats that are here, how many people can stand? 167 00:08:54,280 --> 00:08:57,000 Speaker 2: How many of us are here? Which guy's possibly a threat? 168 00:08:57,000 --> 00:08:58,760 Speaker 2: Who would he go after first? Would it be me? I? 169 00:08:58,760 --> 00:09:00,560 Speaker 2: Would we go after that big guy? So I need 170 00:09:00,600 --> 00:09:02,280 Speaker 2: to make eye contact with his brother over here, so 171 00:09:02,320 --> 00:09:05,120 Speaker 2: we on the same page. Yes, what is that? I 172 00:09:05,200 --> 00:09:07,280 Speaker 2: don't know. Maybe it's being raised in Memphis. 173 00:09:08,120 --> 00:09:10,240 Speaker 1: I'm won and then I'm trying to be like, hey, babe, 174 00:09:10,280 --> 00:09:12,320 Speaker 1: So the other day when I was doing and you're 175 00:09:12,360 --> 00:09:15,040 Speaker 1: sitting there like a squirrel, just like staring at every 176 00:09:15,080 --> 00:09:18,720 Speaker 1: single possible threat like boom boom boom, boom boom. It's 177 00:09:19,160 --> 00:09:22,120 Speaker 1: impressive but also exhausting. It has to be. Do you 178 00:09:22,200 --> 00:09:27,400 Speaker 1: ever let yourself? Nope, just breathe and trust and let go. 179 00:09:27,520 --> 00:09:30,560 Speaker 2: In a public environment, I do not. I absolutely don't. 180 00:09:31,000 --> 00:09:33,200 Speaker 2: There have been times we've gone to certain places where 181 00:09:33,200 --> 00:09:36,000 Speaker 2: there's certain safety. Our back is to a wall. I 182 00:09:36,000 --> 00:09:38,000 Speaker 2: can see everything in front of me, kind of a thing. 183 00:09:38,040 --> 00:09:41,400 Speaker 2: But you will never see me in the middle of something, 184 00:09:41,600 --> 00:09:44,600 Speaker 2: a crowd all around me and my head is not 185 00:09:44,720 --> 00:09:47,319 Speaker 2: moving and I'm just chilling. You're probably not going to 186 00:09:47,400 --> 00:09:50,080 Speaker 2: see that. And you probably know that by now, given 187 00:09:50,720 --> 00:09:51,160 Speaker 2: how much. 188 00:09:51,120 --> 00:09:56,000 Speaker 1: Stuff I did. But what about this concept just in life, 189 00:09:56,160 --> 00:10:00,720 Speaker 1: about when you go on vacation or a Saturday Oh yeah, 190 00:10:01,320 --> 00:10:05,040 Speaker 1: you know, on that level, it makes sense the idea. 191 00:10:04,720 --> 00:10:08,120 Speaker 2: There of planning or this didn't work out, or what 192 00:10:08,160 --> 00:10:10,280 Speaker 2: are we going to do here? And then what Oh no, 193 00:10:10,720 --> 00:10:13,040 Speaker 2: let's just roll it and see what happens. Now, I'm 194 00:10:13,080 --> 00:10:13,640 Speaker 2: great about that. 195 00:10:13,679 --> 00:10:16,360 Speaker 1: On vacation you are, oh yeah, Actually to the point 196 00:10:16,360 --> 00:10:20,280 Speaker 1: where I'm like, hey, let's plan something. Can't we have 197 00:10:20,320 --> 00:10:21,920 Speaker 1: an excursion or an adventure? 198 00:10:22,240 --> 00:10:24,440 Speaker 2: They I do not want to keep a schedule here 199 00:10:24,440 --> 00:10:24,959 Speaker 2: on the island. 200 00:10:25,080 --> 00:10:27,719 Speaker 1: Yes, we have had that exact conversation. So I need 201 00:10:27,760 --> 00:10:30,000 Speaker 1: to I need to pay attention to this little bit 202 00:10:30,040 --> 00:10:34,040 Speaker 1: of advice. You don't always need a plan. Sometimes you 203 00:10:34,280 --> 00:10:38,840 Speaker 1: just need to breathe. Trust, Let go and see what happens. 204 00:10:38,880 --> 00:10:42,200 Speaker 1: Thank you to Mandy Hale, she's an author for that 205 00:10:42,480 --> 00:10:47,040 Speaker 1: amazing quote. When we come back our bonus quote of 206 00:10:47,120 --> 00:11:00,600 Speaker 1: the week. Welcome back to this Sunday morning run where 207 00:11:00,640 --> 00:11:03,080 Speaker 1: we go over our quotes of the week. Help you 208 00:11:03,120 --> 00:11:08,120 Speaker 1: get inspired, find a little motivation as we all get 209 00:11:08,160 --> 00:11:11,240 Speaker 1: ready for our Monday and the rest of our work week. 210 00:11:11,320 --> 00:11:14,520 Speaker 1: So we have our bonus quote for you on this Sunday. 211 00:11:14,600 --> 00:11:17,400 Speaker 1: This one, I hope I can pronounce. This is an 212 00:11:17,440 --> 00:11:21,280 Speaker 1: Indian professor and philosopher who was born back in eighteen 213 00:11:21,360 --> 00:11:25,800 Speaker 1: eighty two, has Rot and Nayat Khan. And this is 214 00:11:25,880 --> 00:11:31,160 Speaker 1: what con said. Some people look for a beautiful place, 215 00:11:31,880 --> 00:11:34,319 Speaker 1: others make a place beautiful. 216 00:11:37,080 --> 00:11:39,240 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I mean how many versions of something like that? 217 00:11:39,240 --> 00:11:41,960 Speaker 2: What have we heard? That's a great way to put 218 00:11:42,000 --> 00:11:44,920 Speaker 2: it right. The same thing, grass is always green, and 219 00:11:44,960 --> 00:11:47,280 Speaker 2: want you water your own grass and it's gonna be 220 00:11:47,440 --> 00:11:50,679 Speaker 2: just as beautiful. That concept, that idea, Yeah, I it's 221 00:11:50,720 --> 00:11:52,839 Speaker 2: also that concept of your in a room and you're 222 00:11:52,840 --> 00:11:54,880 Speaker 2: waiting for somebody else to brighten the place up. You 223 00:11:54,960 --> 00:11:56,840 Speaker 2: are the light. You be the light. Yes, you walk 224 00:11:56,880 --> 00:11:59,160 Speaker 2: into a dark room. Don't get mad at everybody else, 225 00:11:59,200 --> 00:12:01,400 Speaker 2: you are the thing that's needed in there. So I 226 00:12:01,440 --> 00:12:03,600 Speaker 2: love There's so many variations of that, but that's a 227 00:12:03,720 --> 00:12:04,840 Speaker 2: I haven't heard it put that way far. 228 00:12:04,920 --> 00:12:06,680 Speaker 1: I had neither, and so I think it. Also it 229 00:12:06,679 --> 00:12:09,920 Speaker 1: made me think about you know, we're always searching for 230 00:12:10,120 --> 00:12:12,800 Speaker 1: a place to make us happy. And look, I love 231 00:12:12,800 --> 00:12:15,880 Speaker 1: a beach, I love a vacation, and people were always 232 00:12:15,920 --> 00:12:17,960 Speaker 1: longing for if I could just get to that beach, 233 00:12:18,000 --> 00:12:20,040 Speaker 1: if I could just go to that mountain. I want 234 00:12:20,040 --> 00:12:22,120 Speaker 1: to be in a beautiful place and then I'll feel peace. 235 00:12:22,520 --> 00:12:25,080 Speaker 1: But it's so cool to turn that on its head. 236 00:12:25,080 --> 00:12:28,120 Speaker 1: If you're feeling that way and say others make a 237 00:12:28,120 --> 00:12:30,920 Speaker 1: place beautiful, that means you can make a place more 238 00:12:30,960 --> 00:12:35,280 Speaker 1: beautiful by your presence, but also recognizing that the people 239 00:12:35,320 --> 00:12:38,440 Speaker 1: who you are with make the place you're in beautiful. 240 00:12:38,559 --> 00:12:42,480 Speaker 1: So if you value your relationship, you know when you're 241 00:12:42,480 --> 00:12:46,000 Speaker 1: with your love, when you're with your person, that makes 242 00:12:46,040 --> 00:12:49,040 Speaker 1: the place you're in beautiful. Babe, you and I could 243 00:12:49,040 --> 00:12:51,480 Speaker 1: be anywhere in the world and maybe the worst, but 244 00:12:51,679 --> 00:12:55,040 Speaker 1: if I was with you, that that's what it's about. 245 00:12:55,320 --> 00:12:57,800 Speaker 1: It's not you know, I'd rather be I don't want to. 246 00:12:57,800 --> 00:13:00,640 Speaker 1: I don't want to disparage a city, but I'd rather 247 00:13:00,720 --> 00:13:03,199 Speaker 1: be in a less desirable city. 248 00:13:03,600 --> 00:13:06,719 Speaker 2: Oh thank you for not filling with you. 249 00:13:06,720 --> 00:13:09,640 Speaker 1: Versus being alone or with someone else in Paris, you know, 250 00:13:09,679 --> 00:13:12,080 Speaker 1: I mean that's kind of what it is like. And 251 00:13:12,120 --> 00:13:13,600 Speaker 1: that's a good way to look at it too, to 252 00:13:13,760 --> 00:13:16,760 Speaker 1: value the people you're with. And that's what makes your 253 00:13:16,800 --> 00:13:19,840 Speaker 1: space beautiful. It doesn't have to be in some exotic locale, but. 254 00:13:20,040 --> 00:13:23,120 Speaker 2: You man, And isn't that terrible? The flip side of that, 255 00:13:23,240 --> 00:13:27,760 Speaker 2: if you are in a beautiful local and you don't 256 00:13:27,800 --> 00:13:30,400 Speaker 2: find it beautiful because of who you're with. 257 00:13:30,440 --> 00:13:33,120 Speaker 1: You got haven't we all been there? I tell you 258 00:13:33,160 --> 00:13:35,199 Speaker 1: something to you and that actually has been a wake 259 00:13:35,280 --> 00:13:37,120 Speaker 1: up call for me. Or you've been in a beautiful 260 00:13:37,120 --> 00:13:39,720 Speaker 1: place and you're alone and you're like, I'm really glad. 261 00:13:39,760 --> 00:13:42,040 Speaker 1: I am Like. These are all moments where I think 262 00:13:42,080 --> 00:13:45,840 Speaker 1: we do get perspective, because yeah, how about that feeling? 263 00:13:45,960 --> 00:13:48,800 Speaker 1: Who hasn't among us? Maybe if you haven't, you're lucky 264 00:13:49,160 --> 00:13:52,720 Speaker 1: where you're in this beautiful space and you're looking around 265 00:13:52,840 --> 00:13:55,400 Speaker 1: and you think to yourself, why am I not happy? 266 00:13:55,480 --> 00:13:58,920 Speaker 1: I should be happy? How can I not be happy here? 267 00:13:59,480 --> 00:14:01,200 Speaker 1: And those are all moments where you do have to 268 00:14:01,240 --> 00:14:03,920 Speaker 1: do that that work and that self reflection because that 269 00:14:04,080 --> 00:14:08,079 Speaker 1: is a sign, because it should be wherever you are 270 00:14:09,160 --> 00:14:12,600 Speaker 1: with the person you love, that is your happy place. 271 00:14:13,200 --> 00:14:18,559 Speaker 1: So with that, everyone, thank you for listening to us. 272 00:14:19,280 --> 00:14:23,480 Speaker 1: Some people look for a beautiful place, others make a 273 00:14:23,520 --> 00:14:29,760 Speaker 1: place beautiful. And now with that, everyone, thank you for listening. 274 00:14:29,760 --> 00:14:33,560 Speaker 1: I made me robock On behalf of my love. TJ. Holmes, 275 00:14:33,840 --> 00:14:34,840 Speaker 1: We'll talk to you real soon.