1 00:00:12,360 --> 00:00:14,200 Speaker 1: I think it's time to talk about the F one 2 00:00:14,200 --> 00:00:17,000 Speaker 1: weekend in Miami. It was the same weekend as the Derby, 3 00:00:17,040 --> 00:00:19,320 Speaker 1: and I was supposed to go to the Derby, and 4 00:00:20,079 --> 00:00:23,360 Speaker 1: I am moving and I have a place in Miami. 5 00:00:23,440 --> 00:00:27,000 Speaker 1: So it made it that like I don't have to 6 00:00:27,040 --> 00:00:32,479 Speaker 1: come together with so many like calculated outfits that you know, curated, 7 00:00:33,159 --> 00:00:36,440 Speaker 1: really meticulous outfits and styling and get on a plane 8 00:00:36,479 --> 00:00:38,440 Speaker 1: and go to a hotel and have glam that you 9 00:00:38,479 --> 00:00:40,640 Speaker 1: know people that I don't know, and go from one 10 00:00:40,720 --> 00:00:42,239 Speaker 1: event to the other and it could be hot, it 11 00:00:42,240 --> 00:00:43,239 Speaker 1: could be raining, and go. 12 00:00:43,640 --> 00:00:45,080 Speaker 2: I was like, this is going to kill me, this 13 00:00:45,120 --> 00:00:46,000 Speaker 2: is going to exhaust me. 14 00:00:46,040 --> 00:00:47,880 Speaker 1: So I went to F one because it was at 15 00:00:47,960 --> 00:00:50,839 Speaker 1: Carbone by the Beach, which is in Miami, and that 16 00:00:50,920 --> 00:00:52,760 Speaker 1: made the lift low. And I don't have to go. 17 00:00:52,840 --> 00:00:54,520 Speaker 1: I can go, I cannot go. I could go any 18 00:00:54,600 --> 00:00:57,720 Speaker 1: night I want. It was wonderful. I just want to 19 00:00:57,720 --> 00:00:59,320 Speaker 1: say it's rare that I'll say about a brand. They 20 00:00:59,360 --> 00:01:03,240 Speaker 1: deserve all their STFs, like there's an alchemy. That's a 21 00:01:03,280 --> 00:01:05,959 Speaker 1: word that was on this podcast by Ian Schrager. The 22 00:01:06,480 --> 00:01:12,200 Speaker 1: ultimate creator of the modern lifestyle nightlife experience is Ian 23 00:01:12,240 --> 00:01:16,760 Speaker 1: Schrager Delano Hotel, Studio fifty four, Like you name it, 24 00:01:16,800 --> 00:01:20,320 Speaker 1: I mean another level. And he said that there's an alchemy. 25 00:01:20,920 --> 00:01:25,920 Speaker 1: And the major food group carbone Zz's their dynamic. They 26 00:01:25,959 --> 00:01:28,720 Speaker 1: create an alchemy and they did this on the beach. 27 00:01:29,160 --> 00:01:31,680 Speaker 1: Whoever the visionary for all of their events and all 28 00:01:31,760 --> 00:01:37,040 Speaker 1: their branded experiences is a chef's kiss. Literally, It's just 29 00:01:37,080 --> 00:01:39,520 Speaker 1: there's something about it, and they handle it right, and 30 00:01:39,560 --> 00:01:42,600 Speaker 1: it can feel casual and people can be dressed casual, 31 00:01:42,640 --> 00:01:45,119 Speaker 1: even though it's very elite and very upscale, and you'll 32 00:01:45,120 --> 00:01:48,160 Speaker 1: get an eclectic group of people. It's not like Palm 33 00:01:48,240 --> 00:01:51,080 Speaker 1: Beach where every single person is a cookie cutter clone 34 00:01:51,120 --> 00:01:55,480 Speaker 1: of one another, just dripping filthy, rich wealth billionaire hedge 35 00:01:55,520 --> 00:01:59,040 Speaker 1: fund people with planes and sports teams. It's that, but 36 00:01:59,280 --> 00:02:02,800 Speaker 1: also like cool people and music people and interesting people 37 00:02:02,840 --> 00:02:04,720 Speaker 1: and every all shapes and size. 38 00:02:04,760 --> 00:02:06,800 Speaker 2: Is a really really interesting alchemy. 39 00:02:07,360 --> 00:02:10,679 Speaker 1: And you could just meet someone that's fun, you could 40 00:02:10,680 --> 00:02:12,280 Speaker 1: meet someone that's hot and attractive. 41 00:02:12,840 --> 00:02:14,359 Speaker 2: You could meet someone you could do business with. 42 00:02:14,639 --> 00:02:17,800 Speaker 1: The food is excellent, the music is excellent, the entertainment 43 00:02:17,919 --> 00:02:19,239 Speaker 1: is beyond chef's kiss. 44 00:02:19,520 --> 00:02:21,320 Speaker 2: It was really really amazing. 45 00:02:21,440 --> 00:02:25,320 Speaker 1: Lauren Hill shout out to Lauren Hill and Bust Rhymes 46 00:02:25,520 --> 00:02:28,960 Speaker 1: and Wyclef because while Jelly Roll was amazing and Tea 47 00:02:29,040 --> 00:02:32,000 Speaker 1: Pain was amazing, the last night is still all the 48 00:02:32,040 --> 00:02:36,440 Speaker 1: high rollers and still elite, but they folded in pastry 49 00:02:36,560 --> 00:02:40,399 Speaker 1: chefs and people who work in restaurants and like it's 50 00:02:40,440 --> 00:02:43,560 Speaker 1: always that best night. It's almost like the billionaire employees night, 51 00:02:43,600 --> 00:02:46,080 Speaker 1: like there was still everybody. There was still somebody, but 52 00:02:46,120 --> 00:02:50,360 Speaker 1: there were mixed in people that were more like local vibes. 53 00:02:50,800 --> 00:02:53,880 Speaker 1: And that night was the night that wy Clef and 54 00:02:53,960 --> 00:02:56,880 Speaker 1: Lauren Hill and Buster Rhymes performed, and that was the 55 00:02:56,919 --> 00:02:59,160 Speaker 1: best musical night. The DJ was the best that night, 56 00:02:59,560 --> 00:03:02,280 Speaker 1: and that that was the best night because they were 57 00:03:02,320 --> 00:03:05,560 Speaker 1: singing like they were in their own living room, like 58 00:03:05,600 --> 00:03:07,560 Speaker 1: they were singing like they were home in the backyard 59 00:03:07,600 --> 00:03:11,000 Speaker 1: and just decided to bust out with passion and with longevity, 60 00:03:11,040 --> 00:03:12,799 Speaker 1: and they were not looking at the clock, and it 61 00:03:12,840 --> 00:03:15,440 Speaker 1: didn't feel like a corporate appearance. It was just soulful 62 00:03:15,880 --> 00:03:17,560 Speaker 1: and it was like, I can't believe this is happening. 63 00:03:17,600 --> 00:03:20,560 Speaker 1: I'm smiling ear to ear. It was wonderful. When music 64 00:03:20,680 --> 00:03:24,080 Speaker 1: is good and it clicks, it's another level. And all weekend, 65 00:03:24,080 --> 00:03:26,680 Speaker 1: the entertainment was phenomenal. Jelly Roll was great because it 66 00:03:26,720 --> 00:03:29,120 Speaker 1: was not on the nose, you know, with just like 67 00:03:29,200 --> 00:03:32,760 Speaker 1: another hip hop artist, Latin American singer Tea Pain was amazing. 68 00:03:32,800 --> 00:03:36,160 Speaker 1: The whole thing was wonderful. People are wonderful. Mario Carbone 69 00:03:36,800 --> 00:03:41,600 Speaker 1: is wonderful. He's a handsome, young fit g chef. His 70 00:03:41,680 --> 00:03:45,080 Speaker 1: fiance Kate Bailey, who represents a lot of publicists, she's 71 00:03:45,120 --> 00:03:47,120 Speaker 1: amazing too. I just think they should have a production 72 00:03:47,160 --> 00:03:49,720 Speaker 1: company called Chef's Kiss. I'd like to be her publicist. 73 00:03:49,760 --> 00:03:54,400 Speaker 1: She's beautiful, she's friends with interesting people, They're engaged. 74 00:03:54,960 --> 00:03:58,360 Speaker 2: They're just lovely, very very nice, not pretentious at all. 75 00:03:58,400 --> 00:04:01,280 Speaker 1: So I really I like them, and I think they 76 00:04:01,280 --> 00:04:03,920 Speaker 1: deserve the success. And I love when a brand and 77 00:04:03,960 --> 00:04:05,640 Speaker 1: an individual deserves a success. 78 00:04:05,720 --> 00:04:06,480 Speaker 2: And that was great. 79 00:04:10,560 --> 00:04:13,600 Speaker 1: Don't be a flaky friend. It's a reflection of who 80 00:04:13,640 --> 00:04:16,120 Speaker 1: you are at work. Who you are at business, who 81 00:04:16,200 --> 00:04:17,799 Speaker 1: you are in work is who you are in personal 82 00:04:17,880 --> 00:04:20,120 Speaker 1: and vice versa. And I have a friend that I 83 00:04:20,160 --> 00:04:22,880 Speaker 1: hadn't spoken to in years, and since I'm down in Florida, 84 00:04:22,920 --> 00:04:27,080 Speaker 1: I reconnected and I was like, I don't remember what 85 00:04:27,160 --> 00:04:29,480 Speaker 1: the ultimate real reason I keep We've canceled planned so 86 00:04:29,520 --> 00:04:31,120 Speaker 1: many times in the last years and why it didn't 87 00:04:31,200 --> 00:04:34,720 Speaker 1: ultimately work. We went out to something really amazing and 88 00:04:34,800 --> 00:04:37,279 Speaker 1: this person doesn't get out much at all, and you know, 89 00:04:37,520 --> 00:04:39,520 Speaker 1: doesn't do that much. And I said, I'll bring you 90 00:04:39,560 --> 00:04:42,000 Speaker 1: again tomorrow and they said yes, and then we confirmed 91 00:04:42,040 --> 00:04:45,520 Speaker 1: it and they said they'd come, and the next night 92 00:04:45,560 --> 00:04:47,280 Speaker 1: at nine o'clock, I hadn't heard from them, and I 93 00:04:47,279 --> 00:04:51,520 Speaker 1: could have brought someone for this amazing coveted ticket, and like, 94 00:04:51,800 --> 00:04:54,480 Speaker 1: after the event was off to the races, this person 95 00:04:54,600 --> 00:04:57,360 Speaker 1: was like basically said that they kind of like spaced 96 00:04:57,400 --> 00:04:59,320 Speaker 1: out or were tired or I don't want to get 97 00:04:59,320 --> 00:05:02,480 Speaker 1: into specifics, but said something and it was like, wow, 98 00:05:02,720 --> 00:05:04,599 Speaker 1: now I remember what it was. What it was was 99 00:05:04,600 --> 00:05:07,120 Speaker 1: the flakiness. And I don't like to feel unsafe. You've 100 00:05:07,120 --> 00:05:08,880 Speaker 1: made a plan. I don't like to feel like I've 101 00:05:08,880 --> 00:05:10,159 Speaker 1: made a plan and now I'm gonna have to figure 102 00:05:10,160 --> 00:05:11,480 Speaker 1: out who I'm going with because I feel like I'm 103 00:05:11,480 --> 00:05:13,800 Speaker 1: a loser from alone or didn't want to go alone 104 00:05:13,880 --> 00:05:14,359 Speaker 1: or could. 105 00:05:14,200 --> 00:05:16,960 Speaker 2: Have brought someone else. I don't like it. I don't 106 00:05:17,040 --> 00:05:17,240 Speaker 2: like it. 107 00:05:17,279 --> 00:05:20,200 Speaker 1: And as a cousin to that, there have been these 108 00:05:20,200 --> 00:05:23,000 Speaker 1: like private clubs that open up in Florida and New 109 00:05:23,080 --> 00:05:28,040 Speaker 1: York and LA. And it's funny to me, the people 110 00:05:29,120 --> 00:05:32,839 Speaker 1: who I've asked to recommend me. Shout out to Kevin Huvane, 111 00:05:33,120 --> 00:05:35,400 Speaker 1: one of the most powerful men in the entertainment industry, 112 00:05:35,640 --> 00:05:37,800 Speaker 1: who I asked to recommend me for one of these clubs, 113 00:05:37,800 --> 00:05:39,839 Speaker 1: and in seconds he said, done, you're in. I don't 114 00:05:39,839 --> 00:05:42,120 Speaker 1: believe I ultimately joined because I was moving, but he 115 00:05:42,200 --> 00:05:44,880 Speaker 1: said done, you're in. And then people not at his 116 00:05:45,000 --> 00:05:48,600 Speaker 1: success level that I've asked to recommend me for these 117 00:05:48,640 --> 00:05:51,479 Speaker 1: private clubs like ghost me. Ignore it time and time again. 118 00:05:51,480 --> 00:05:54,240 Speaker 1: It's always the same people that ignore and then the 119 00:05:54,320 --> 00:05:57,200 Speaker 1: person that is going to end up recommending me to 120 00:05:57,240 --> 00:06:00,320 Speaker 1: this bougie bougie club where someone just ghosts. 121 00:06:00,080 --> 00:06:00,799 Speaker 2: Did the question. 122 00:06:01,480 --> 00:06:06,080 Speaker 1: This multi billionaire who is so powerful is the one 123 00:06:06,120 --> 00:06:10,240 Speaker 1: writing me the ultimate letter. So it's just interesting the 124 00:06:10,360 --> 00:06:14,360 Speaker 1: people that like ice you out and ghost you when 125 00:06:14,360 --> 00:06:16,680 Speaker 1: you're trying to do something, Like they'll call you when 126 00:06:16,680 --> 00:06:18,839 Speaker 1: they need something or call you about other things, but 127 00:06:18,960 --> 00:06:22,240 Speaker 1: like in this category, they just ignore you. 128 00:06:22,320 --> 00:06:24,880 Speaker 2: And I just I'm not addressing that. 129 00:06:24,800 --> 00:06:31,960 Speaker 1: Crowd anymore anymore. EH need more mark my words. These 130 00:06:31,960 --> 00:06:35,080 Speaker 1: private clubs though. Everything is a private club now, and 131 00:06:35,760 --> 00:06:37,760 Speaker 1: a lot of them are too private. They're so private 132 00:06:38,080 --> 00:06:40,200 Speaker 1: that you're sitting there in your own room and like 133 00:06:40,240 --> 00:06:42,120 Speaker 1: you picked a room and you're like alone, Like what 134 00:06:42,120 --> 00:06:42,560 Speaker 1: are we doing? 135 00:06:42,600 --> 00:06:43,440 Speaker 2: We went out? I don't. 136 00:06:43,720 --> 00:06:45,440 Speaker 1: I've been to so many private clubs. I don't find 137 00:06:45,440 --> 00:06:47,960 Speaker 1: them that fun. Like they're not fun. It's sort of 138 00:06:48,000 --> 00:06:50,960 Speaker 1: like sometimes you're at a section of a concert or something, 139 00:06:50,960 --> 00:06:52,240 Speaker 1: but it's like not the fun part. 140 00:06:53,279 --> 00:06:56,159 Speaker 2: Sometimes you're in the skybox at the tennis match and. 141 00:06:56,160 --> 00:06:57,520 Speaker 1: You're like, wait, but I want to be down there, 142 00:06:57,560 --> 00:06:59,719 Speaker 1: like with the people watching the match, just seeing Like 143 00:07:00,120 --> 00:07:01,920 Speaker 1: now I'm up. I could be in a penthouse suite 144 00:07:02,000 --> 00:07:04,440 Speaker 1: in Des Moines. What does it matter where I am? 145 00:07:04,480 --> 00:07:06,000 Speaker 1: If I'm up in a sweet I'm not near the thing, 146 00:07:06,000 --> 00:07:07,640 Speaker 1: and listen. I love a swite, don't get me wrong, 147 00:07:07,839 --> 00:07:09,320 Speaker 1: but I usually love a swee. When I don't even 148 00:07:09,320 --> 00:07:24,240 Speaker 1: know what the sport is, I don't really care. Another 149 00:07:24,280 --> 00:07:26,520 Speaker 1: thing I want to do and I think I'm in 150 00:07:26,560 --> 00:07:30,520 Speaker 1: a position to do it is talk about different famous 151 00:07:30,560 --> 00:07:34,120 Speaker 1: people who have ultimately gotten a rap for not being 152 00:07:34,200 --> 00:07:37,640 Speaker 1: kind or things like that. And it's happened to Catherine 153 00:07:37,680 --> 00:07:39,880 Speaker 1: Heiegel who I know, people who work with her. It's 154 00:07:39,880 --> 00:07:41,920 Speaker 1: happened to Jennifer Lopez. It's happened to Ellen, And I 155 00:07:42,000 --> 00:07:47,800 Speaker 1: just want to say something for these massively famous celebrities. Now, 156 00:07:47,840 --> 00:07:53,960 Speaker 1: I am nowhere near their fame level, but I experience 157 00:07:54,120 --> 00:07:57,680 Speaker 1: things that are extremely jarring that make you not want 158 00:07:57,720 --> 00:07:59,680 Speaker 1: to go out, that make you not want to trust anyone, 159 00:07:59,720 --> 00:08:01,960 Speaker 1: that make you not want to talk to anyone, that 160 00:08:02,040 --> 00:08:05,520 Speaker 1: make you understand how someone could almost say to their assistant, 161 00:08:05,520 --> 00:08:07,360 Speaker 1: tell them not to look me in the eye. What 162 00:08:07,480 --> 00:08:10,680 Speaker 1: happens with fit people are their fans. They admire you, 163 00:08:11,200 --> 00:08:13,920 Speaker 1: They want to be close to it. You're naive and 164 00:08:14,000 --> 00:08:15,640 Speaker 1: you think they're just great and they have the best 165 00:08:15,680 --> 00:08:19,040 Speaker 1: intentions and they just want part of it. And the 166 00:08:19,080 --> 00:08:22,680 Speaker 1: minute something goes bad, they want to either sue. They 167 00:08:22,720 --> 00:08:26,120 Speaker 1: want to either get attention. Everybody's a social media influenza now, 168 00:08:26,120 --> 00:08:28,600 Speaker 1: so they want to get attention by talking about it. 169 00:08:28,640 --> 00:08:30,280 Speaker 2: This is a way. It's a contact hie. 170 00:08:30,280 --> 00:08:32,440 Speaker 1: If someone talks about someone way more famous than them, 171 00:08:32,800 --> 00:08:36,640 Speaker 1: they can get something. And it makes you understand where 172 00:08:36,760 --> 00:08:40,000 Speaker 1: as an adult, as you get older, because you didn't 173 00:08:40,000 --> 00:08:41,960 Speaker 1: see these things happen to these women in their twenties. 174 00:08:42,320 --> 00:08:44,280 Speaker 1: As you get older, you get more set in your 175 00:08:44,280 --> 00:08:46,439 Speaker 1: ways and you want your circle to be tighter as 176 00:08:46,480 --> 00:08:50,000 Speaker 1: anyone as a civilian. So now you're also a public person, 177 00:08:50,040 --> 00:08:51,360 Speaker 1: you are ready or set in your ways. 178 00:08:51,360 --> 00:08:52,240 Speaker 2: You really don't trust. 179 00:08:52,280 --> 00:08:54,400 Speaker 1: You may have been through a bad divorce, You've been 180 00:08:54,440 --> 00:08:57,160 Speaker 1: through life more. You know what can happen. You know, 181 00:08:57,720 --> 00:09:00,160 Speaker 1: you know you see in a Lizzo get sued by assist, 182 00:09:00,480 --> 00:09:03,800 Speaker 1: or Lady Gaga buy a dog walker, or Jennifer Lopez 183 00:09:03,880 --> 00:09:05,840 Speaker 1: is walking up stairs and maybe said something the wrong 184 00:09:05,840 --> 00:09:08,560 Speaker 1: way in that one moment. And you know, I'm not 185 00:09:08,720 --> 00:09:11,480 Speaker 1: saying you need to feel for celebrities and their plight. 186 00:09:11,640 --> 00:09:14,880 Speaker 1: I'm just saying that as someone who gets pulled it 187 00:09:14,960 --> 00:09:18,240 Speaker 1: and picked at, you kind of see how it could 188 00:09:18,280 --> 00:09:24,480 Speaker 1: go sideways. Because just yesterday a person called me. I 189 00:09:24,520 --> 00:09:28,600 Speaker 1: thought it was my business lawyer. He was like hi, Bethany. 190 00:09:28,600 --> 00:09:30,800 Speaker 1: I'm like hi, and he's like, oh, X told me 191 00:09:30,960 --> 00:09:34,720 Speaker 1: you're moving to Why I don't know this person. I've 192 00:09:34,960 --> 00:09:37,600 Speaker 1: I've met this person over the years, but I haven't 193 00:09:37,960 --> 00:09:41,520 Speaker 1: seen this person for thirty maybe twenty five years, easily, 194 00:09:41,559 --> 00:09:44,280 Speaker 1: but I would not recognize them. I might say that 195 00:09:44,320 --> 00:09:46,480 Speaker 1: looks familiar because I know them through another person, but 196 00:09:46,559 --> 00:09:50,360 Speaker 1: like we've never spoken on the phone ever. Once it's 197 00:09:50,400 --> 00:09:52,199 Speaker 1: the friend of the friend that you're with that may 198 00:09:52,200 --> 00:09:54,400 Speaker 1: come out and meet everybody, Like, but like I'm not 199 00:09:54,440 --> 00:09:56,720 Speaker 1: friends of this person. So they called me where are 200 00:09:56,760 --> 00:09:59,920 Speaker 1: you moving exactly? And also I heard you're moving here? 201 00:10:00,040 --> 00:10:03,120 Speaker 1: Where's your daughter going to school? Like I felt like 202 00:10:03,200 --> 00:10:06,200 Speaker 1: I was getting a rectal exam. And I and here's 203 00:10:06,240 --> 00:10:09,240 Speaker 1: what was going through my mind in the moment. I said, 204 00:10:09,440 --> 00:10:12,120 Speaker 1: I feel very uncomfortable right now. It's almost like a 205 00:10:12,120 --> 00:10:14,880 Speaker 1: telemarketer call, but you like didn't really I go, but 206 00:10:14,960 --> 00:10:16,000 Speaker 1: more it was like a reporter. 207 00:10:16,040 --> 00:10:17,720 Speaker 2: I feel very uncomfortable. I'm so sorry. 208 00:10:17,800 --> 00:10:19,960 Speaker 1: I'm just like kind of private. No, no, no, I'm not 209 00:10:19,960 --> 00:10:20,760 Speaker 1: gonna tell anybody. 210 00:10:20,760 --> 00:10:21,000 Speaker 2: I'm not. 211 00:10:21,040 --> 00:10:22,800 Speaker 1: We don't gossip, but just like if you need anybody, 212 00:10:22,840 --> 00:10:25,080 Speaker 1: we're here. I'm like, okay, thank you, But like I 213 00:10:25,080 --> 00:10:26,720 Speaker 1: couldn't keep it together, and I was just like, I 214 00:10:26,720 --> 00:10:28,560 Speaker 1: feel very uncomfortable. I think I'm gonna go. I was 215 00:10:28,600 --> 00:10:30,880 Speaker 1: just very off guard and it was jarring. It wasn't 216 00:10:30,880 --> 00:10:32,880 Speaker 1: a text, it was a phone call, and it kind 217 00:10:32,920 --> 00:10:35,400 Speaker 1: of freaked me out. I just felt very like violated, 218 00:10:35,440 --> 00:10:38,480 Speaker 1: because I don't know this person, and maybe like someone's 219 00:10:38,520 --> 00:10:40,480 Speaker 1: calling someone to be nice, but like you're calling me 220 00:10:40,520 --> 00:10:43,040 Speaker 1: as a public but we're not friends, Like so you 221 00:10:43,040 --> 00:10:45,240 Speaker 1: didn't call me years ago as the twenty other times 222 00:10:45,240 --> 00:10:46,560 Speaker 1: I moved to call me. And I'm not saying it's 223 00:10:46,559 --> 00:10:48,720 Speaker 1: a bad person at all. And then we got off 224 00:10:48,720 --> 00:10:50,360 Speaker 1: and I was like paranoid and I called back. I go, hi, 225 00:10:50,360 --> 00:10:51,760 Speaker 1: I was just caught off guard. I just didn't mean 226 00:10:51,800 --> 00:10:53,840 Speaker 1: to be rude. So now I'm apologizing to this person 227 00:10:54,280 --> 00:10:56,720 Speaker 1: who I don't know because I felt bad because I'm thinking, 228 00:10:56,800 --> 00:10:58,719 Speaker 1: like I now feel bad and now I look like 229 00:10:58,760 --> 00:11:00,400 Speaker 1: this bitch and now I'm living up if it's like 230 00:11:00,440 --> 00:11:05,360 Speaker 1: bitchy celebrity like reputation. But I just did feel off guard, 231 00:11:05,440 --> 00:11:07,920 Speaker 1: and a public person is not allowed to have that moment. 232 00:11:07,920 --> 00:11:09,959 Speaker 1: They're just not You're not allowed to like complain, You're 233 00:11:10,000 --> 00:11:13,080 Speaker 1: not allowed to have a normal response to something. And 234 00:11:13,160 --> 00:11:15,120 Speaker 1: so I'm just saying I'm not saying you need to 235 00:11:15,200 --> 00:11:17,559 Speaker 1: like celebrities or no celebrities are dead and no one 236 00:11:17,640 --> 00:11:20,920 Speaker 1: likes celebrity and whatever. I was just giving a thought 237 00:11:20,960 --> 00:11:25,080 Speaker 1: that I had that, like I don't blame megastars for 238 00:11:25,160 --> 00:11:27,000 Speaker 1: keeping their head down, not wanting to talk to anybody, 239 00:11:27,040 --> 00:11:29,040 Speaker 1: and not wanting to expose themselves to anything, not wanting 240 00:11:29,080 --> 00:11:32,640 Speaker 1: anyone new, not wanting the new working for them, not wanting. 241 00:11:32,360 --> 00:11:34,360 Speaker 2: Any of it. I'm just telling you that's what I 242 00:11:34,400 --> 00:11:34,800 Speaker 2: feel like. 243 00:11:35,080 --> 00:11:38,120 Speaker 1: Your body language changes, you change because if you've had 244 00:11:38,240 --> 00:11:41,000 Speaker 1: enough people fuck with you and try to take from 245 00:11:41,000 --> 00:11:42,880 Speaker 1: you and try to take you down and try to 246 00:11:42,920 --> 00:11:46,720 Speaker 1: you know, and just fuck with you and grab then 247 00:11:46,880 --> 00:11:50,400 Speaker 1: you know, because the stakes are high. They're very high 248 00:11:50,440 --> 00:11:53,040 Speaker 1: for a person like a one of these famous people. 249 00:11:56,840 --> 00:11:59,560 Speaker 1: Married men simply have to wear rings. If they don't, 250 00:11:59,559 --> 00:12:01,600 Speaker 1: there has to be a very clear indication that they're married. 251 00:12:01,640 --> 00:12:03,280 Speaker 1: And this message isn't really even for the men. I 252 00:12:03,280 --> 00:12:06,640 Speaker 1: don't care what it's the women. They'll be a married 253 00:12:06,679 --> 00:12:08,800 Speaker 1: man talking to me that's not wearing a ring. And 254 00:12:08,840 --> 00:12:10,360 Speaker 1: I'm not even saying he's hitting on me. He's just 255 00:12:10,360 --> 00:12:12,040 Speaker 1: a man. We're talking for an extended period of time. 256 00:12:12,080 --> 00:12:15,160 Speaker 1: But I think he might be No, I think he 257 00:12:15,280 --> 00:12:17,640 Speaker 1: is single because he's not wearing a fucking ring. I 258 00:12:17,640 --> 00:12:21,360 Speaker 1: think he is single. But then the wife gets a 259 00:12:21,360 --> 00:12:24,160 Speaker 1: little snippy or is around And I did one person 260 00:12:24,160 --> 00:12:25,880 Speaker 1: I didn't even know how to wife. I didn't know, 261 00:12:25,960 --> 00:12:28,120 Speaker 1: and I was talking to the wife but didn't know 262 00:12:28,120 --> 00:12:29,160 Speaker 1: the wife was with the person. 263 00:12:29,559 --> 00:12:31,320 Speaker 2: I didn't know. How would I know? Why would I know? 264 00:12:32,240 --> 00:12:34,640 Speaker 2: I don't know who anybody is. I didn't know. 265 00:12:34,760 --> 00:12:36,520 Speaker 1: And you get a little bit of an attitude from 266 00:12:36,520 --> 00:12:39,000 Speaker 1: the wife and you're like, why don't you fucking step off? 267 00:12:39,480 --> 00:12:42,040 Speaker 1: Your man needs to wear a ring, Like that's how 268 00:12:42,080 --> 00:12:43,760 Speaker 1: you feel. I don't say that. I didn't say that, 269 00:12:43,760 --> 00:12:46,080 Speaker 1: but like, don't give me any kind of subtle coldness 270 00:12:46,160 --> 00:12:49,360 Speaker 1: or anything, because I did not know that your man 271 00:12:49,520 --> 00:12:53,000 Speaker 1: was married. And let's pretend it was me totally flirting. 272 00:12:53,080 --> 00:12:54,959 Speaker 1: Let's pretend I went over and gave the man a 273 00:12:55,040 --> 00:12:57,559 Speaker 1: lap dance as a man with no ring. Don't give 274 00:12:57,559 --> 00:12:58,080 Speaker 1: me an addict. 275 00:12:58,080 --> 00:12:58,520 Speaker 2: I didn't do that. 276 00:12:58,520 --> 00:13:00,440 Speaker 1: I would never do that. Don't give me an attitude 277 00:13:00,480 --> 00:13:02,240 Speaker 1: because your man's not wearing a ring. I would have 278 00:13:02,280 --> 00:13:04,199 Speaker 1: no way of knowing that he wasn't open for lap 279 00:13:04,320 --> 00:13:07,200 Speaker 1: dance business. So make your man a ring, put him 280 00:13:07,240 --> 00:13:09,120 Speaker 1: on a leash, keep him home. It's not my fucking problem. 281 00:13:09,160 --> 00:13:10,760 Speaker 1: If your man does not have a ring on and 282 00:13:10,800 --> 00:13:15,240 Speaker 1: I don't know you're married. Tough shit, tough actual shit. 283 00:13:19,440 --> 00:13:21,880 Speaker 1: Can we not with the kids getting into college. Everything 284 00:13:21,960 --> 00:13:24,720 Speaker 1: is a party for these coddled fucking kids. Everything is 285 00:13:24,760 --> 00:13:27,400 Speaker 1: a shiny balloon and streamers and a sweatshirt and a 286 00:13:27,440 --> 00:13:30,280 Speaker 1: sweatsuit down to Like the engagement is a full production. 287 00:13:30,360 --> 00:13:32,360 Speaker 1: You get engaged, there's a camera crew there and everything 288 00:13:32,360 --> 00:13:35,000 Speaker 1: has to be like and look who's talking, but like 289 00:13:35,040 --> 00:13:36,079 Speaker 1: an engagement, and. 290 00:13:36,040 --> 00:13:38,440 Speaker 2: Then there's an audience. Then you go to the wedding 291 00:13:38,440 --> 00:13:38,760 Speaker 2: and you're. 292 00:13:38,679 --> 00:13:40,280 Speaker 1: Wearing the outfit which I wore for the day before, 293 00:13:40,320 --> 00:13:42,319 Speaker 1: but there's five outfits the day of people getting three 294 00:13:42,360 --> 00:13:44,520 Speaker 1: wardrobe changes. I didn't have that when I got married, 295 00:13:44,520 --> 00:13:47,480 Speaker 1: and that wasn't that long ago. And now it's getting 296 00:13:47,520 --> 00:13:50,240 Speaker 1: into college. It's the bridal parties, it's people going broke. 297 00:13:50,760 --> 00:13:52,880 Speaker 1: Everybody has to wear a different fucking bling do own 298 00:13:52,920 --> 00:13:58,000 Speaker 1: outfit for everything. Like it's crazy nuts getting into college. 299 00:13:58,040 --> 00:14:00,280 Speaker 1: I mean, we didn't do any of this stuff. You 300 00:14:00,360 --> 00:14:01,960 Speaker 1: got into college, you were excited. 301 00:14:02,040 --> 00:14:02,360 Speaker 2: That's it.