1 00:00:00,440 --> 00:00:02,759 Speaker 1: It's the Fresh Show. This is what's trended. 2 00:00:02,800 --> 00:00:07,720 Speaker 2: Okay, So over the weekend the NFL Wildcard and we 3 00:00:07,840 --> 00:00:08,399 Speaker 2: had picks. 4 00:00:10,200 --> 00:00:10,760 Speaker 1: Is our intern. 5 00:00:10,880 --> 00:00:14,120 Speaker 2: She actually knows about sports and wants to be a 6 00:00:14,120 --> 00:00:18,280 Speaker 2: sports broadcaster. Army and Jason Brown obviously knows about sports. 7 00:00:18,280 --> 00:00:21,720 Speaker 2: I didn't mean to apply. You didn't know about sports. 8 00:00:21,760 --> 00:00:24,000 Speaker 2: You are the president of sports reporting for the programs. 9 00:00:24,440 --> 00:00:26,040 Speaker 1: A lot of efforts to make it this far. 10 00:00:26,360 --> 00:00:28,400 Speaker 2: Well, and I'll tell you this much as far as 11 00:00:28,440 --> 00:00:31,680 Speaker 2: the picks were concerned, you guys had an equal number 12 00:00:31,720 --> 00:00:35,159 Speaker 2: of correct picks. Oh really, yeah, you tied the actual 13 00:00:35,240 --> 00:00:39,519 Speaker 2: expert and she actually watches football, right, right, and you 14 00:00:39,680 --> 00:00:43,479 Speaker 2: just have a gift. Yeah right, The picks just come 15 00:00:43,520 --> 00:00:45,720 Speaker 2: to you. You don't have to know anything about it. 16 00:00:46,680 --> 00:00:48,720 Speaker 2: But in this case, you tied. You tied as far 17 00:00:48,720 --> 00:00:50,600 Speaker 2: as the number of quick picks for the wild card games. 18 00:00:51,640 --> 00:00:56,400 Speaker 2: What fella had the Chargers over the Texans. You had 19 00:00:56,400 --> 00:00:59,360 Speaker 2: the Charges as well. Actually, didn't you have good similar picks? 20 00:00:59,360 --> 00:01:01,680 Speaker 2: Didn't you? We did very well, I thought, because Sean 21 00:01:01,760 --> 00:01:03,320 Speaker 2: McVay was on the Chargers for a minute. 22 00:01:03,520 --> 00:01:05,400 Speaker 1: So but it's okay, well wait a minute, Hold on 23 00:01:05,440 --> 00:01:08,520 Speaker 1: a second. You picked all the same, didn't you guys? Yeah, no, 24 00:01:08,640 --> 00:01:11,039 Speaker 1: except the last one, the last one commanders. 25 00:01:11,240 --> 00:01:13,520 Speaker 2: Wait a minute, that means one of you did better then, right, 26 00:01:14,000 --> 00:01:14,960 Speaker 2: because who did you have? 27 00:01:15,360 --> 00:01:18,240 Speaker 1: No, no, no, no, So we're tied completely. We're three and two. 28 00:01:18,520 --> 00:01:21,279 Speaker 2: But but if you picked different teams, No, we didn't. 29 00:01:21,720 --> 00:01:22,320 Speaker 1: What says here? 30 00:01:22,360 --> 00:01:24,480 Speaker 2: You did say someone picked the commanders and someone picked 31 00:01:24,480 --> 00:01:25,720 Speaker 2: the bucks. That's what this says. 32 00:01:25,840 --> 00:01:27,400 Speaker 1: No, sorry, we both picked the bucks. 33 00:01:27,480 --> 00:01:30,760 Speaker 2: Oh okay, But you had the Ravens they won. You 34 00:01:30,800 --> 00:01:33,160 Speaker 2: had the Bills they won. You had the Eagles they won. 35 00:01:33,680 --> 00:01:35,400 Speaker 2: You both had the buccaneers. 36 00:01:35,480 --> 00:01:37,720 Speaker 1: Of you got this. 37 00:01:39,800 --> 00:01:42,920 Speaker 2: You think repetition would help, you would take two seasons 38 00:01:42,920 --> 00:01:44,440 Speaker 2: of doing this in repetition would help. 39 00:01:44,480 --> 00:01:49,520 Speaker 1: But no, no, giving South maybe somewhere in the South. 40 00:01:49,560 --> 00:01:54,960 Speaker 2: It's giving the South the South buccaneers. Yeah, any anywhere, 41 00:01:55,000 --> 00:02:02,400 Speaker 2: particularly in particular buccaneers buccaneer, that's exactly. It's a long 42 00:02:02,520 --> 00:02:05,040 Speaker 2: road trip for those guys to do that. But you 43 00:02:05,040 --> 00:02:07,840 Speaker 2: guys said the bucks. The Commander's won. And then tonight, 44 00:02:08,440 --> 00:02:10,120 Speaker 2: who do you guys have vikings or rams? 45 00:02:10,200 --> 00:02:13,000 Speaker 1: So, Sean McVay, you have the rams, I have the vikings. 46 00:02:13,000 --> 00:02:13,880 Speaker 1: This is our tiebreaker. 47 00:02:14,040 --> 00:02:16,760 Speaker 2: Oh okay, okay, right, well that then then it will 48 00:02:16,800 --> 00:02:19,400 Speaker 2: all be revealed tonight. Who really knows what the hell 49 00:02:19,480 --> 00:02:20,200 Speaker 2: is going on? Right? 50 00:02:20,400 --> 00:02:22,440 Speaker 1: Yeah? Well are you sure? 51 00:02:22,760 --> 00:02:26,359 Speaker 2: Well? I got wrong that one who watches football every week, 52 00:02:26,720 --> 00:02:29,560 Speaker 2: Jason bren has never seen a football game, and somehow 53 00:02:29,760 --> 00:02:30,560 Speaker 2: you guys are tied. 54 00:02:30,639 --> 00:02:32,040 Speaker 1: So I don't know what that says. I don't know 55 00:02:32,080 --> 00:02:32,600 Speaker 1: what it says. 56 00:02:32,600 --> 00:02:36,320 Speaker 2: Either you've been to football game, she's gone to and 57 00:02:36,360 --> 00:02:37,480 Speaker 2: you just go to the locker room. 58 00:02:37,560 --> 00:02:37,880 Speaker 1: That's it? 59 00:02:38,000 --> 00:02:38,200 Speaker 2: Yes? 60 00:02:38,720 --> 00:02:40,639 Speaker 1: Why else? Why would I be out in the cold? Yeah, 61 00:02:40,720 --> 00:02:41,680 Speaker 1: it could be in the showers. 62 00:02:41,720 --> 00:02:44,320 Speaker 2: It's like supporter Jason Brown, why don't you ever go 63 00:02:44,360 --> 00:02:46,360 Speaker 2: watch the game? Why do you just sit here in 64 00:02:46,400 --> 00:02:48,560 Speaker 2: the shower naked? My services don't needed elsewhere? 65 00:02:48,560 --> 00:02:48,880 Speaker 1: Exactly? 66 00:02:49,080 --> 00:02:51,640 Speaker 2: That's exactly right? All right, Well we'll see what happens tonight. 67 00:02:51,680 --> 00:02:53,920 Speaker 2: Then we'll see who really knows what's going on after 68 00:02:53,960 --> 00:02:55,320 Speaker 2: the final wild card game tonight. 69 00:02:55,400 --> 00:02:58,200 Speaker 1: I'm actually really stressed out. You should be, I tell Jason. 70 00:02:58,200 --> 00:03:00,120 Speaker 2: If I get this wrong, I don't, I'm gonna have 71 00:03:00,160 --> 00:03:03,400 Speaker 2: to look at myself a little different. But thank you guys, 72 00:03:03,680 --> 00:03:05,839 Speaker 2: excellent work. I'm proud of you. I don't know why, 73 00:03:05,880 --> 00:03:10,839 Speaker 2: but I am so fires across the LA area have 74 00:03:10,960 --> 00:03:14,240 Speaker 2: continued to cause all kinds of issues. Twenty four people 75 00:03:14,280 --> 00:03:17,520 Speaker 2: have died, twelve thousand structures have been destroyed, and it's 76 00:03:17,520 --> 00:03:21,799 Speaker 2: scores more than sixty square miles of land and displaced 77 00:03:21,800 --> 00:03:25,440 Speaker 2: thousands of people. The National Weather Service in LA they've 78 00:03:25,480 --> 00:03:30,800 Speaker 2: posted particularly dangerous situation red flag wind warnings that is 79 00:03:30,840 --> 00:03:35,160 Speaker 2: hard to say for four am Tuesday through noon Wednesdays 80 00:03:35,160 --> 00:03:37,520 Speaker 2: say that winds could be strong enough to cause explosive 81 00:03:37,520 --> 00:03:39,800 Speaker 2: fire growth. More than one hundred and fifty thousand people 82 00:03:40,040 --> 00:03:42,720 Speaker 2: in LA County or under evacuation orders, with more than 83 00:03:42,760 --> 00:03:46,160 Speaker 2: seven hundred people taking refuge in nine shelters. Curfews are 84 00:03:46,160 --> 00:03:48,640 Speaker 2: in place for the Palisades and Eaten fire zones from 85 00:03:48,680 --> 00:03:51,720 Speaker 2: six pm to six am. Crews from California and eight 86 00:03:51,760 --> 00:03:54,760 Speaker 2: other states, Canada and Mexico are part of the ongoing 87 00:03:54,800 --> 00:03:57,920 Speaker 2: response that includes more than thirteen hundred fire engines, eighty 88 00:03:57,960 --> 00:04:01,040 Speaker 2: four aircraft and more than fourteen thousand personnel. And of 89 00:04:01,080 --> 00:04:03,160 Speaker 2: course you've got people acting a fool. You've got people 90 00:04:03,280 --> 00:04:07,280 Speaker 2: starting fires now like idiots. You got people flying drones 91 00:04:07,800 --> 00:04:10,320 Speaker 2: near this stuff. In fact, one hid an airplane and 92 00:04:10,360 --> 00:04:12,160 Speaker 2: put a hole in the side of it an airplane 93 00:04:12,200 --> 00:04:14,000 Speaker 2: that we're using to fight the fires. Now it's had 94 00:04:14,000 --> 00:04:16,040 Speaker 2: a commission until they can fix it. It's like, stop 95 00:04:16,040 --> 00:04:19,599 Speaker 2: being people are looting, Like stop being idiots, please stop awful, 96 00:04:19,640 --> 00:04:22,520 Speaker 2: honestly and A benefit concert for the victims of the 97 00:04:22,600 --> 00:04:24,839 Speaker 2: LA wildfires will take place at the intu A Dome 98 00:04:24,880 --> 00:04:27,720 Speaker 2: on January thirtieth. The money rays will help rebuild the 99 00:04:27,720 --> 00:04:31,200 Speaker 2: communities that have been lost from the fires, support displaced families, 100 00:04:31,279 --> 00:04:35,040 Speaker 2: and advanced fire protection technologies in La. The lineup hasn't 101 00:04:35,080 --> 00:04:37,360 Speaker 2: been announced. The event is being described as an evening 102 00:04:37,440 --> 00:04:40,080 Speaker 2: of music and solidarity. More than one hundred thousand people 103 00:04:40,080 --> 00:04:42,239 Speaker 2: have been evacuated. Of course, as I told you before, 104 00:04:42,240 --> 00:04:46,200 Speaker 2: TikTok is going away. No, no, no, no, it's going away. 105 00:04:46,240 --> 00:04:49,360 Speaker 1: No got like, Well, one week I listened to the entires, 106 00:04:49,480 --> 00:04:49,800 Speaker 1: I didn't. 107 00:04:50,040 --> 00:04:51,960 Speaker 2: I like, I listened to some of the Supreme Court 108 00:04:52,360 --> 00:04:53,440 Speaker 2: on Friday and not good. 109 00:04:53,839 --> 00:04:55,839 Speaker 1: It's not good. But it's not over until it's over. 110 00:04:55,920 --> 00:04:58,880 Speaker 2: That's right, except that it's over. No, No, it's not, 111 00:04:59,040 --> 00:05:02,520 Speaker 2: except that it is. Yeah. And then also TikTok being 112 00:05:02,520 --> 00:05:08,240 Speaker 2: announced as the most popular social media platform among underage users. Yes, 113 00:05:08,320 --> 00:05:11,880 Speaker 2: not you, under people thirteen years of age and younger. 114 00:05:12,000 --> 00:05:14,440 Speaker 1: They're on the right track in life. Is that what 115 00:05:14,480 --> 00:05:15,160 Speaker 1: it is? Yes? 116 00:05:16,800 --> 00:05:21,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, Instagram, Snapchat, kids use this stuff despite the age restrictions. 117 00:05:21,520 --> 00:05:23,480 Speaker 2: Researchers found that a majority of the eleven of fifteen 118 00:05:23,520 --> 00:05:26,880 Speaker 2: year olds has had at least one social media account. 119 00:05:26,960 --> 00:05:29,560 Speaker 2: Six point three percent of young users maintained secret accounts, 120 00:05:29,600 --> 00:05:35,800 Speaker 2: even from their parents. The number of unpartnered adults has 121 00:05:35,880 --> 00:05:38,840 Speaker 2: declined for the first time in about twenty years. So 122 00:05:38,920 --> 00:05:42,719 Speaker 2: that means there are fewer single people, but not by 123 00:05:42,720 --> 00:05:45,760 Speaker 2: a lot. So people who are not married, living with 124 00:05:45,800 --> 00:05:48,400 Speaker 2: a partner, or in a committee relationship. That number has 125 00:05:48,440 --> 00:05:52,360 Speaker 2: declined about forty two percent of Americans of adults rather 126 00:05:52,640 --> 00:05:57,360 Speaker 2: or unpartnered, down from forty four percent. They're saying singlehood 127 00:05:57,480 --> 00:06:00,960 Speaker 2: has peaked, single dumb has peaked. Do you think it's 128 00:06:00,960 --> 00:06:03,200 Speaker 2: because of COVID? You think people were like, I just can't, 129 00:06:03,400 --> 00:06:05,920 Speaker 2: I can't. Like I was okay being single, but at 130 00:06:05,960 --> 00:06:07,760 Speaker 2: least I could see people when I wanted to, And 131 00:06:07,800 --> 00:06:09,840 Speaker 2: then COVID happens, and you're like, I'm stuck in my house, 132 00:06:09,880 --> 00:06:11,719 Speaker 2: I can't do anything, I can't go anywhere. 133 00:06:11,760 --> 00:06:13,880 Speaker 1: I need someone. Now you think that's what happen? 134 00:06:14,200 --> 00:06:16,880 Speaker 2: Like, why all of a sudden, now are people like nah, 135 00:06:17,040 --> 00:06:18,080 Speaker 2: I don't want to be single anymore. 136 00:06:18,120 --> 00:06:19,840 Speaker 1: I want to be in a relationship because the cost 137 00:06:19,920 --> 00:06:20,400 Speaker 1: of living. 138 00:06:21,600 --> 00:06:25,720 Speaker 3: They need roommates, okay, permanent roommate, That might be true. 139 00:06:25,960 --> 00:06:28,120 Speaker 2: I think I'd rather be broke than really unhappy in 140 00:06:28,120 --> 00:06:28,800 Speaker 2: a relationship. 141 00:06:29,040 --> 00:06:29,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, how about that? 142 00:06:30,200 --> 00:06:32,360 Speaker 3: When you gotta pay rent and you gotta pay bills, 143 00:06:32,480 --> 00:06:33,880 Speaker 3: you'd be like, you know what, you're not so bad. 144 00:06:36,000 --> 00:06:36,400 Speaker 1: I don't know. 145 00:06:36,880 --> 00:06:39,680 Speaker 2: I don't know, like a little like a bad credit score, 146 00:06:39,760 --> 00:06:41,719 Speaker 2: but you know, the mental peace? 147 00:06:42,160 --> 00:06:44,240 Speaker 1: Hey, now, who needs that? It's okay to me? It 148 00:06:44,279 --> 00:06:46,880 Speaker 1: would be nice over there right now? 149 00:06:47,000 --> 00:06:48,840 Speaker 2: No, okay, I mean I don't know if I would 150 00:06:48,880 --> 00:06:50,560 Speaker 2: have any more mental peace if I were if I 151 00:06:50,560 --> 00:06:52,760 Speaker 2: live with somebody right now, you know, the wrong person 152 00:06:52,800 --> 00:06:55,800 Speaker 2: at least just to be with somebody, okay, I mean 153 00:06:55,960 --> 00:06:57,160 Speaker 2: just to not be single. 154 00:06:57,200 --> 00:06:58,400 Speaker 1: I don't think that's a good idea. 155 00:06:58,560 --> 00:06:58,680 Speaker 4: No. 156 00:06:58,720 --> 00:07:02,880 Speaker 2: I think I'd rather be broke and with alone then 157 00:07:03,120 --> 00:07:04,720 Speaker 2: flush with the wrong person. 158 00:07:04,960 --> 00:07:08,359 Speaker 1: Okay, Yeah, I'm going with them. Yeah, and you're not. 159 00:07:09,440 --> 00:07:10,320 Speaker 1: You don't agree. 160 00:07:10,680 --> 00:07:14,080 Speaker 2: There's a Duncan scent collab that will make you smell 161 00:07:14,120 --> 00:07:16,520 Speaker 2: like a frosted donut. Ooh, I don't know how I 162 00:07:16,560 --> 00:07:18,880 Speaker 2: feel about a grown person to smell like a frosted donut. 163 00:07:19,040 --> 00:07:20,920 Speaker 1: I know, if that doesn't for me, we don't need this. 164 00:07:21,240 --> 00:07:24,200 Speaker 1: I'm looking for more of like a floral smell than 165 00:07:24,200 --> 00:07:25,840 Speaker 1: I am, like a you like your woman to smell 166 00:07:25,840 --> 00:07:26,280 Speaker 1: like flowers? 167 00:07:26,320 --> 00:07:29,320 Speaker 2: Well, sure, the collection the way you say when you 168 00:07:29,360 --> 00:07:32,040 Speaker 2: say like that, it just sounds way worse. But the 169 00:07:32,080 --> 00:07:35,480 Speaker 2: collection includes the odoran body wash, shampoo conditioner, two in 170 00:07:35,560 --> 00:07:38,960 Speaker 2: one hand, and body lotion. It will come in four 171 00:07:39,040 --> 00:07:43,840 Speaker 2: different Duncan inspired scent Strawberry, frosted, Vanilla sprinkle, Blueberry Cobbler, 172 00:07:43,840 --> 00:07:44,720 Speaker 2: and Boston Cream. 173 00:07:44,760 --> 00:07:46,280 Speaker 1: This is all from the Native Company. 174 00:07:46,560 --> 00:07:49,280 Speaker 2: The Dunkin Scented line of products can be found exclusively 175 00:07:49,320 --> 00:07:50,960 Speaker 2: at Walmart or on the Native website. 176 00:07:51,000 --> 00:07:53,320 Speaker 5: So I love Native. I use their deodorant. It's natural, 177 00:07:53,440 --> 00:07:55,560 Speaker 5: come for me, whatever it works. But they did a 178 00:07:55,560 --> 00:07:58,400 Speaker 5: Girl Scout cookie line and my armpits for a while 179 00:07:58,600 --> 00:07:59,440 Speaker 5: smelled like Girl. 180 00:07:59,360 --> 00:08:01,080 Speaker 1: Scout cookies and it was delicious. 181 00:08:01,280 --> 00:08:03,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, I just don't know how I feel about that, 182 00:08:03,400 --> 00:08:05,960 Speaker 2: like a you know, grown woman like good stuff's about 183 00:08:05,960 --> 00:08:07,680 Speaker 2: to go down and I'm like smells like. 184 00:08:09,200 --> 00:08:13,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, it smells like a they lost me with blueberry cobbler, 185 00:08:13,640 --> 00:08:15,200 Speaker 1: Like that is not that's all. 186 00:08:15,040 --> 00:08:18,680 Speaker 2: I'm concerned about a blueberry cobbler. But you got going 187 00:08:18,760 --> 00:08:24,560 Speaker 2: up down there. I don't know anyone who has like 188 00:08:24,600 --> 00:08:27,720 Speaker 2: a very strong, strong, strong trunk stand on their body. 189 00:08:28,680 --> 00:08:31,160 Speaker 2: I feel like you're trying to distract me from something 190 00:08:31,520 --> 00:08:34,400 Speaker 2: like if you smell like a dunk in location, you 191 00:08:34,400 --> 00:08:36,679 Speaker 2: know what I mean? Then my concern is like what 192 00:08:36,720 --> 00:08:38,480 Speaker 2: are we doing? Like what what is? 193 00:08:39,120 --> 00:08:39,440 Speaker 1: Why? 194 00:08:39,679 --> 00:08:41,120 Speaker 2: Why do why do we need to roll around and 195 00:08:41,160 --> 00:08:43,280 Speaker 2: powdered sugar? Don't have to start our day? Like what 196 00:08:43,360 --> 00:08:45,560 Speaker 2: are we not working with you? Like what's wrong? Like 197 00:08:45,600 --> 00:08:49,520 Speaker 2: what is dial Soap? Not getting rid of boy Colone? 198 00:08:49,520 --> 00:08:53,560 Speaker 2: Though I'm stealing. I get more compliments on Appleconby Colone 199 00:08:53,600 --> 00:08:55,559 Speaker 2: than anything else. But that's not me smelling like a 200 00:08:55,640 --> 00:09:00,680 Speaker 2: donut shop. But you smell like a Crombie up Kombie 201 00:09:01,720 --> 00:09:05,760 Speaker 2: early two. I mean that's effective. Yeah, maybe like a 202 00:09:05,800 --> 00:09:07,319 Speaker 2: thin mate. Maybe I should try the fin mitt and 203 00:09:07,360 --> 00:09:08,160 Speaker 2: see which one's better. 204 00:09:08,240 --> 00:09:08,320 Speaker 6: Ye. 205 00:09:08,679 --> 00:09:08,839 Speaker 1: Yes. 206 00:09:09,480 --> 00:09:11,720 Speaker 2: And finally there's a woman and I think a lot 207 00:09:11,760 --> 00:09:13,520 Speaker 2: of women listening are gonna feel bad for this person. 208 00:09:13,559 --> 00:09:18,880 Speaker 2: But her pea cup sized boobs won't stop growing due 209 00:09:18,920 --> 00:09:22,000 Speaker 2: to a rare condition. Her name is Page Amelia and 210 00:09:22,040 --> 00:09:27,080 Speaker 2: she suffers from I'm not even try and say with that, 211 00:09:27,360 --> 00:09:29,400 Speaker 2: I'm gonna screw up. What it is a medical term 212 00:09:29,440 --> 00:09:33,520 Speaker 2: for this a rare condition which causes rapid breast tissue growth. 213 00:09:34,000 --> 00:09:36,480 Speaker 2: So she has to show out thousands each year on 214 00:09:36,600 --> 00:09:39,360 Speaker 2: a one hundred and seventy a piece one hundred and 215 00:09:39,440 --> 00:09:42,720 Speaker 2: seventy dollars a piece custom made braw new clothes every 216 00:09:42,720 --> 00:09:45,079 Speaker 2: time her cup size goes up again. For the mom 217 00:09:45,160 --> 00:09:47,760 Speaker 2: of one from Melbourne, Australia, she makes over, of course, 218 00:09:48,040 --> 00:09:50,720 Speaker 2: three hundred and seventy thousand dollars a year on OnlyFans 219 00:09:50,960 --> 00:09:52,560 Speaker 2: because lots of admire is like her. 220 00:09:52,480 --> 00:09:54,480 Speaker 1: Fuller bust right monetize, but she. 221 00:09:54,440 --> 00:09:56,960 Speaker 2: Has severe back pain and she fears the reduction surgery 222 00:09:57,000 --> 00:09:59,360 Speaker 2: would be pointless because they would just grow back again. 223 00:09:59,480 --> 00:10:01,679 Speaker 2: There's nothing you can do about this. It's just you know, 224 00:10:02,000 --> 00:10:04,800 Speaker 2: bigger and bigger and bigger. But at least there's only fans. 225 00:10:05,240 --> 00:10:05,720 Speaker 2: Why not. 226 00:10:06,200 --> 00:10:07,760 Speaker 1: You know, if you're gonna have a condition like that, 227 00:10:07,800 --> 00:10:08,640 Speaker 1: you may as well. 228 00:10:08,480 --> 00:10:11,439 Speaker 2: Monetize, make money, honey, yes, thank you, yeah no. 229 00:10:11,520 --> 00:10:14,439 Speaker 7: But her port back though, like I feel for women 230 00:10:14,480 --> 00:10:17,160 Speaker 7: who have to carry these bazungas like myself around, like 231 00:10:17,200 --> 00:10:18,200 Speaker 7: it is hard. 232 00:10:18,240 --> 00:10:23,760 Speaker 1: It is a rough life. Low, That's what I'm saying. 233 00:10:23,800 --> 00:10:25,480 Speaker 2: Like, you know, I don't know people are like only 234 00:10:25,520 --> 00:10:28,040 Speaker 2: fans ooh big, oh wow, No not me. I'm like 235 00:10:28,080 --> 00:10:30,959 Speaker 2: that must be terrible. Yeah, I feel terrible for this woman. 236 00:10:31,120 --> 00:10:32,160 Speaker 2: What is her only fans? 237 00:10:32,160 --> 00:10:32,319 Speaker 1: Though? 238 00:10:32,880 --> 00:10:34,640 Speaker 2: For journalistic purpose, I just want to take a look. 239 00:10:34,640 --> 00:10:36,520 Speaker 2: I want to contribute to the cause, you know, yeah, 240 00:10:36,800 --> 00:10:39,679 Speaker 2: I just want to be helpful. National Korean American Day, 241 00:10:40,000 --> 00:10:43,000 Speaker 2: National Clean off your Desk Day today as well. And 242 00:10:43,040 --> 00:10:45,240 Speaker 2: the Entertainment report with Kaelyn is next to two minutes 243 00:10:45,280 --> 00:10:48,640 Speaker 2: after Teddy Swims on the French shows. 244 00:10:47,800 --> 00:10:48,560 Speaker 1: A Fresh show. 245 00:10:49,360 --> 00:10:51,680 Speaker 2: It's Kiky I saw you guys are the jury eight 246 00:10:51,800 --> 00:10:54,120 Speaker 2: five five, five nine to one, one O three five 247 00:10:54,120 --> 00:10:55,880 Speaker 2: al rise, The Honorable Kiki Leak is here. 248 00:10:55,960 --> 00:10:57,120 Speaker 1: Take it away, Judge Kieky. 249 00:10:57,360 --> 00:11:00,000 Speaker 3: So let's step into the courtroom. The gabble has been 250 00:11:00,440 --> 00:11:03,160 Speaker 3: all right, it says Heikei Kei. My name is Connie. 251 00:11:03,280 --> 00:11:06,040 Speaker 3: I'm currently no contact with my oldest son and it's 252 00:11:06,120 --> 00:11:08,720 Speaker 3: killing me. I've always been very close to him and 253 00:11:08,760 --> 00:11:11,520 Speaker 3: his wife, my daughter in law would always text and 254 00:11:11,559 --> 00:11:13,360 Speaker 3: call me when they would have fights and I would 255 00:11:13,400 --> 00:11:16,600 Speaker 3: be the mediator and get them back to a happy place. Well, 256 00:11:16,960 --> 00:11:19,599 Speaker 3: about two months ago, everything hit the fan when my 257 00:11:19,679 --> 00:11:22,400 Speaker 3: daughter in law posted a Facebook status saying that she 258 00:11:22,520 --> 00:11:26,000 Speaker 3: was filing for divorce. All of our family and friends 259 00:11:26,040 --> 00:11:29,240 Speaker 3: saw her posts, including my son's coworkers. It was so 260 00:11:29,440 --> 00:11:32,280 Speaker 3: embarrassing for our family. I couldn't believe she would post 261 00:11:32,280 --> 00:11:34,920 Speaker 3: something like that. I later learned that she caught my 262 00:11:34,960 --> 00:11:38,480 Speaker 3: son cheating, but I still feel like posting something like that. 263 00:11:38,480 --> 00:11:39,480 Speaker 1: Was just unforgivable. 264 00:11:39,800 --> 00:11:42,920 Speaker 3: They've gone to counseling and decided to work on their marriage, 265 00:11:42,960 --> 00:11:46,080 Speaker 3: but I can't bring myself to forgive her for publicly 266 00:11:46,120 --> 00:11:49,679 Speaker 3: embarrassing our family. Our church family saw it, and we 267 00:11:49,679 --> 00:11:52,280 Speaker 3: were the talk of the town all because she decided 268 00:11:52,280 --> 00:11:55,080 Speaker 3: to run to Facebook. Over the holidays, I asked my 269 00:11:55,120 --> 00:11:57,400 Speaker 3: son not to bring her around and to only bring 270 00:11:57,440 --> 00:12:00,680 Speaker 3: my grandchildren. Well, he didn't listen and brought her anyway. 271 00:12:01,000 --> 00:12:02,960 Speaker 3: I asked her to leave on Christmas Eve and I 272 00:12:03,000 --> 00:12:06,000 Speaker 3: haven't spoke to my son or my grandkids since. Should 273 00:12:06,000 --> 00:12:08,439 Speaker 3: I reach out and apologize to my son because I 274 00:12:08,520 --> 00:12:10,040 Speaker 3: really miss my grandkids? 275 00:12:10,880 --> 00:12:11,040 Speaker 2: Hm? 276 00:12:11,080 --> 00:12:13,839 Speaker 1: Hm, wow, Okay. 277 00:12:14,440 --> 00:12:18,960 Speaker 3: Wow, Connie, Connie, I'm gonna hold your hand when I 278 00:12:19,000 --> 00:12:21,640 Speaker 3: say this girl. Your daughter in law's not the problem here. 279 00:12:21,880 --> 00:12:23,600 Speaker 3: Your son is the issue. 280 00:12:23,800 --> 00:12:26,719 Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, So he cheated, but then she exposed him 281 00:12:26,920 --> 00:12:31,480 Speaker 2: on Facebook. On Facebook, yes, and and then that makes 282 00:12:31,480 --> 00:12:32,120 Speaker 2: her look bad. 283 00:12:32,400 --> 00:12:33,800 Speaker 1: It made the whole family apparently. 284 00:12:34,000 --> 00:12:37,000 Speaker 2: So she's upset because it's like, why did you Why 285 00:12:37,040 --> 00:12:38,720 Speaker 2: did you have to air that all out? Why can't 286 00:12:38,720 --> 00:12:41,439 Speaker 2: you just say you know, it didn't work out, or 287 00:12:41,480 --> 00:12:43,439 Speaker 2: we're not together anymore, or why not just not say 288 00:12:43,480 --> 00:12:44,360 Speaker 2: anything exactly. 289 00:12:44,920 --> 00:12:48,600 Speaker 3: But let's not skip past what brought us here, which 290 00:12:48,640 --> 00:12:52,720 Speaker 3: is your son cheating. Okay, however I react to your 291 00:12:52,760 --> 00:12:55,720 Speaker 3: son cheating is just however I react. And if we 292 00:12:55,800 --> 00:12:58,280 Speaker 3: decide to go to counseling and get over our marital issues, 293 00:12:58,480 --> 00:13:00,160 Speaker 3: that has nothing to do with you, ma'am. 294 00:13:00,440 --> 00:13:01,760 Speaker 1: Like, I understand you're upset. 295 00:13:02,000 --> 00:13:04,959 Speaker 3: The church saw why people aren't asking, but it's hey, 296 00:13:05,720 --> 00:13:08,520 Speaker 3: I felt emotional in the moment I put it on Facebook. 297 00:13:09,559 --> 00:13:11,920 Speaker 3: If he needs to answer for his issues, you know 298 00:13:12,000 --> 00:13:14,600 Speaker 3: what I'm saying, Like, he brought us here. It's not 299 00:13:14,800 --> 00:13:18,679 Speaker 3: the daughter in law's issue, it's your son cheating on her. 300 00:13:18,720 --> 00:13:21,120 Speaker 3: Let's address that first did you correct your son at all? 301 00:13:21,320 --> 00:13:23,480 Speaker 2: Well, internally I would say that, but and look, no 302 00:13:23,480 --> 00:13:25,559 Speaker 2: one should be cheating on anybody else. But I guess 303 00:13:25,920 --> 00:13:29,360 Speaker 2: I still think that Facebook and social media is the 304 00:13:29,400 --> 00:13:33,080 Speaker 2: death of us all because there's just we do we 305 00:13:33,160 --> 00:13:34,800 Speaker 2: have to take it to that point? Do we have 306 00:13:34,840 --> 00:13:36,160 Speaker 2: to take it to the floor. Do we have to 307 00:13:36,200 --> 00:13:39,480 Speaker 2: air all of our dirty laundry? Look, she was wrong, 308 00:13:39,800 --> 00:13:42,000 Speaker 2: I get it, he should. I agree with you. He 309 00:13:42,040 --> 00:13:43,839 Speaker 2: should not be cheating on anybody. 310 00:13:44,000 --> 00:13:47,200 Speaker 1: Yes, but she was emotional, and we do stupid things. 311 00:13:47,240 --> 00:13:50,680 Speaker 2: Were very emotional. So we're admitting them that posting. Yeah, 312 00:13:51,679 --> 00:13:54,679 Speaker 2: all this out out there is is goofy. No, Yeah, 313 00:13:54,720 --> 00:13:55,840 Speaker 2: it's not the best decision. 314 00:13:56,120 --> 00:14:00,720 Speaker 3: But like this, Connie has completely disregarded all her son's 315 00:14:00,800 --> 00:14:03,559 Speaker 3: actions and just focusing on the daughter in law's reaction 316 00:14:03,679 --> 00:14:04,560 Speaker 3: to his actions. 317 00:14:04,880 --> 00:14:06,960 Speaker 1: Yes, what's great. Connie's worried about the wrong stuff. 318 00:14:06,960 --> 00:14:09,960 Speaker 7: And also Connie needs to understand that they chose to 319 00:14:10,040 --> 00:14:12,120 Speaker 7: fix their marriage right, They went to counseling, they're working 320 00:14:12,200 --> 00:14:12,480 Speaker 7: on it. 321 00:14:13,120 --> 00:14:15,240 Speaker 1: Also, Connie is the grandmother to these. 322 00:14:15,080 --> 00:14:18,199 Speaker 7: Babies, right to so, Okay, to have access to the baby, 323 00:14:18,280 --> 00:14:20,320 Speaker 7: to have access to your grandkids, you need to treat 324 00:14:20,440 --> 00:14:23,680 Speaker 7: the mother with respect. You need to always understand that 325 00:14:23,680 --> 00:14:25,520 Speaker 7: that is the mother and you don't have to like 326 00:14:25,680 --> 00:14:27,440 Speaker 7: her choice is what she did with the whole Facebook 327 00:14:27,480 --> 00:14:30,240 Speaker 7: thing and the whole church scandal whatever, You'll get over that. 328 00:14:30,520 --> 00:14:34,040 Speaker 1: This is your grandkids, that's your daughter in law. You 329 00:14:34,080 --> 00:14:34,880 Speaker 1: need to understand that. 330 00:14:35,000 --> 00:14:35,240 Speaker 6: See. 331 00:14:35,240 --> 00:14:37,560 Speaker 2: But I just I don't understand. And again I'm not 332 00:14:37,600 --> 00:14:40,320 Speaker 2: excusing the cheating whatsoever. Do not hear that as my message. 333 00:14:40,400 --> 00:14:43,200 Speaker 2: I just don't understand going to the floor on social media, 334 00:14:43,240 --> 00:14:45,600 Speaker 2: because now it just makes it a bigger issue now 335 00:14:45,640 --> 00:14:48,040 Speaker 2: because you've now embarrassed the kids even I mean, it's. 336 00:14:47,920 --> 00:14:49,880 Speaker 1: Like, it's not great. And I get it, you're mad. 337 00:14:50,080 --> 00:14:52,520 Speaker 2: You have every right to be mad, but it's just 338 00:14:52,520 --> 00:14:54,960 Speaker 2: a bigger problem now now, I mean, as we don't 339 00:14:54,960 --> 00:14:56,440 Speaker 2: know what was going on inside that relationship. 340 00:14:56,440 --> 00:14:59,920 Speaker 1: But again, doesn't excuse the cheating. Doesn't excuse the cheating. 341 00:14:59,920 --> 00:15:03,000 Speaker 2: But I never see the point in outing somebody one 342 00:15:03,000 --> 00:15:05,720 Speaker 2: side of the story and then wondering why it just 343 00:15:05,760 --> 00:15:08,440 Speaker 2: blows up everybody's life. Well, because because that was a 344 00:15:08,440 --> 00:15:10,320 Speaker 2: private matter and you made it not private. 345 00:15:11,080 --> 00:15:13,800 Speaker 5: Yeah, it's not great. I don't Yeah, you're emotional. Sorry, 346 00:15:13,840 --> 00:15:15,440 Speaker 5: I'm gonna cut you off. I mean you can't. I 347 00:15:15,480 --> 00:15:17,880 Speaker 5: mean you can't. There's no post without the cheating, and 348 00:15:17,920 --> 00:15:19,320 Speaker 5: I think that that's the case, you know. 349 00:15:19,520 --> 00:15:22,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, And that's my issue with miss Connie is that 350 00:15:23,200 --> 00:15:26,040 Speaker 3: she has completely disregarded her so she has no fault 351 00:15:26,080 --> 00:15:28,320 Speaker 3: for her son. It's just don't bring that girl to 352 00:15:28,360 --> 00:15:30,800 Speaker 3: my house. She embarrassed the whole family. But like, what 353 00:15:30,960 --> 00:15:32,080 Speaker 3: about what he did? 354 00:15:32,440 --> 00:15:32,640 Speaker 6: You know? 355 00:15:33,080 --> 00:15:35,200 Speaker 1: What about that? I don't know. 356 00:15:35,240 --> 00:15:36,880 Speaker 3: I just feel like she's taking her son's side and 357 00:15:36,920 --> 00:15:38,520 Speaker 3: completely just blaming the daughter in law. 358 00:15:38,680 --> 00:15:41,800 Speaker 5: And as your Facebook friend, please keep posting your drama, yes. 359 00:15:41,680 --> 00:15:43,640 Speaker 1: Because I need it. I need to follow up immediately. 360 00:15:44,400 --> 00:15:47,440 Speaker 1: Hey Brittany, Yeah, Hi Brittany, good morning. 361 00:15:47,480 --> 00:15:50,560 Speaker 2: So Kikey's court, So just recap it quickly, kee, Yes, 362 00:15:50,680 --> 00:15:52,280 Speaker 2: like like a ten second recap. 363 00:15:52,320 --> 00:15:54,560 Speaker 1: All right, Connie's son ch did on his wife. 364 00:15:54,680 --> 00:15:57,240 Speaker 3: His wife got on Facebook and told everybody that cheated 365 00:15:57,280 --> 00:15:59,320 Speaker 3: and she wants a divorce. Now Connie is mad at 366 00:15:59,320 --> 00:16:00,000 Speaker 3: her daughter in law. 367 00:16:00,480 --> 00:16:02,800 Speaker 4: Yeah, well she has no right to be mad. I 368 00:16:02,840 --> 00:16:06,120 Speaker 4: was in the same situation. I'm married, my husband had 369 00:16:06,120 --> 00:16:08,520 Speaker 4: an affair with who was I thought my friend. 370 00:16:08,320 --> 00:16:09,040 Speaker 1: For three years? 371 00:16:10,160 --> 00:16:12,840 Speaker 4: I did the Facebook thing. I didn't necessarily put what 372 00:16:12,880 --> 00:16:15,560 Speaker 4: he did or whatever the case was. But I think 373 00:16:15,640 --> 00:16:17,640 Speaker 4: the mother in law or the mom is in the 374 00:16:17,680 --> 00:16:21,680 Speaker 4: wrong because that's their marriage, not her marriage. So what 375 00:16:21,800 --> 00:16:24,760 Speaker 4: goes on behind closed doors, even though that's your son 376 00:16:24,840 --> 00:16:27,400 Speaker 4: and he came from you, it doesn't matter. That's not 377 00:16:27,520 --> 00:16:30,640 Speaker 4: your marriage. Your marriage is with your husband, not your son. 378 00:16:31,120 --> 00:16:33,520 Speaker 4: So what goes on between them stays between them. And 379 00:16:34,320 --> 00:16:36,400 Speaker 4: I wholeheartedly believe the mother in law isn't the wrong 380 00:16:36,480 --> 00:16:38,840 Speaker 4: because I said, that's their marriage, and me and my 381 00:16:38,920 --> 00:16:41,360 Speaker 4: husband are still together. It took us a while to 382 00:16:41,400 --> 00:16:44,240 Speaker 4: get back to where we are, but that's like I said, 383 00:16:44,240 --> 00:16:47,000 Speaker 4: it's our marriage. Nobody else is. But nobody like that. 384 00:16:47,000 --> 00:16:48,040 Speaker 4: That's not their business. 385 00:16:48,240 --> 00:16:50,640 Speaker 2: Brittany, if you had if you had completely outed your 386 00:16:50,720 --> 00:16:53,720 Speaker 2: husband on social media, like and gon on this whole thing, 387 00:16:53,920 --> 00:16:56,040 Speaker 2: I thought you said you didn't get into the cheating though. 388 00:16:56,080 --> 00:16:57,640 Speaker 2: I thought you said you didn't tell everything. 389 00:16:58,560 --> 00:17:00,840 Speaker 4: Oh, I mean, I just said that he had cheated. 390 00:17:00,880 --> 00:17:03,320 Speaker 4: It just wasn't the whole like three year fair. It 391 00:17:03,360 --> 00:17:05,000 Speaker 4: wasn't who it was it was. 392 00:17:05,160 --> 00:17:05,400 Speaker 6: You know. 393 00:17:05,840 --> 00:17:09,000 Speaker 4: I did out him, but at the end of the day, 394 00:17:09,320 --> 00:17:11,199 Speaker 4: me and him worked on it. We got back together, 395 00:17:11,400 --> 00:17:13,800 Speaker 4: and what people say doesn't matter once. 396 00:17:13,840 --> 00:17:16,000 Speaker 2: See that's what I mean, because I think like, when 397 00:17:16,040 --> 00:17:17,880 Speaker 2: you do that and again, you didn't do anything wrong, 398 00:17:17,920 --> 00:17:19,280 Speaker 2: you were the one who was You were the one 399 00:17:19,280 --> 00:17:22,840 Speaker 2: who was wrong. But when people just expose and they 400 00:17:22,960 --> 00:17:25,480 Speaker 2: really get into like the nitty gritty and the dirt 401 00:17:25,520 --> 00:17:27,760 Speaker 2: within their relationship, well then you have to undo all 402 00:17:27,800 --> 00:17:29,840 Speaker 2: of that too, because in this case, you chose to 403 00:17:29,840 --> 00:17:32,560 Speaker 2: stay with the man, and now you have to explain 404 00:17:32,600 --> 00:17:35,119 Speaker 2: to everybody, well, yeah, he did do all that as 405 00:17:35,160 --> 00:17:37,640 Speaker 2: where if you just keep that private, doesn't it make 406 00:17:37,640 --> 00:17:41,679 Speaker 2: the reconciliation process easier, like it's our business, not everybody else's. 407 00:17:41,720 --> 00:17:45,359 Speaker 4: Yes, yes, yes, yes it does because I mean what 408 00:17:45,480 --> 00:17:48,520 Speaker 4: people say honestly doesn't matter to me. But I did 409 00:17:48,560 --> 00:17:51,000 Speaker 4: take that into consideration. Put at the same time, that's 410 00:17:51,040 --> 00:17:54,520 Speaker 4: my marriage and I love my husband and I feel 411 00:17:54,520 --> 00:17:56,160 Speaker 4: like we should work on it and worked it out, 412 00:17:56,200 --> 00:17:57,800 Speaker 4: and we did. We have two children, so. 413 00:17:58,640 --> 00:18:01,959 Speaker 2: Well, you know what're you have a lot more uh 414 00:18:02,600 --> 00:18:04,760 Speaker 2: forgiveness in you than I do. And I'm glad it 415 00:18:04,760 --> 00:18:06,200 Speaker 2: worked out. And thank you for calling it for sharre. 416 00:18:06,200 --> 00:18:07,919 Speaker 2: I appreciate you. Brittany. 417 00:18:08,200 --> 00:18:10,080 Speaker 4: You guys have a great dak, have a good day. 418 00:18:10,160 --> 00:18:10,639 Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know. 419 00:18:10,680 --> 00:18:12,360 Speaker 2: It's like when you it's like when you tell your 420 00:18:12,400 --> 00:18:15,440 Speaker 2: friends about trivial fights that you have, and this is 421 00:18:15,520 --> 00:18:18,200 Speaker 2: more than trivial. This is but even if it's cheating, Yeah, 422 00:18:18,280 --> 00:18:19,720 Speaker 2: you tell your friends about this, all my got you 423 00:18:19,800 --> 00:18:21,760 Speaker 2: cheated on me, whatever. And then let's say you decided 424 00:18:21,760 --> 00:18:23,359 Speaker 2: to take them back, because it's your life where you 425 00:18:23,359 --> 00:18:25,200 Speaker 2: decide to take her back or whatever it is. Now 426 00:18:25,200 --> 00:18:27,400 Speaker 2: you got to undo all that damage with your friends, 427 00:18:27,440 --> 00:18:29,840 Speaker 2: who will never forget that you were wrong in that way. 428 00:18:29,880 --> 00:18:32,360 Speaker 2: And I guess the question I would ask is, if 429 00:18:32,400 --> 00:18:35,199 Speaker 2: you have any intention of forgiving someone, then why make 430 00:18:35,240 --> 00:18:36,280 Speaker 2: it bigger than it has to be? 431 00:18:36,680 --> 00:18:39,280 Speaker 1: But why did you cheat on me? Right? 432 00:18:38,760 --> 00:18:42,120 Speaker 3: You put me here, You put me in this situation 433 00:18:42,280 --> 00:18:45,040 Speaker 3: to make this decision to air you out like you 434 00:18:45,119 --> 00:18:45,560 Speaker 3: gave me. 435 00:18:45,640 --> 00:18:48,399 Speaker 1: I agree, I agree he embarrassed you when he cheated. 436 00:18:48,520 --> 00:18:50,680 Speaker 1: I agree, I just. 437 00:18:50,720 --> 00:18:52,040 Speaker 2: I would be I don't know that I would make 438 00:18:52,080 --> 00:18:54,280 Speaker 2: it bigger because I'd be embarrassed about it myself. 439 00:18:54,280 --> 00:18:56,439 Speaker 1: You're not thinking rationally though it's. 440 00:18:56,320 --> 00:18:58,440 Speaker 2: Emotional, But I think people need to be a little 441 00:18:58,440 --> 00:19:02,119 Speaker 2: more rational when it comes because it's the social media 442 00:19:02,160 --> 00:19:03,440 Speaker 2: is undoing of many. 443 00:19:03,320 --> 00:19:04,960 Speaker 1: Take my phone if I get cheated, I'm just like 444 00:19:05,080 --> 00:19:06,919 Speaker 1: my phone. That's what I want to I. 445 00:19:08,480 --> 00:19:12,080 Speaker 3: Can only imagine, probably right, sadesses if she I almost 446 00:19:12,119 --> 00:19:13,800 Speaker 3: went just gun emojis. 447 00:19:13,840 --> 00:19:16,119 Speaker 2: I think people paint themselves into a corner with social 448 00:19:16,160 --> 00:19:18,320 Speaker 2: media all the time. I think people they say stuff 449 00:19:18,320 --> 00:19:20,600 Speaker 2: and do stuff about their at work or about their 450 00:19:20,640 --> 00:19:23,960 Speaker 2: relationships or whatever, and then about their friends in the moment. 451 00:19:24,040 --> 00:19:25,000 Speaker 1: That stuff lives forever. 452 00:19:25,280 --> 00:19:27,439 Speaker 7: And again, guess what, pee, I got into a fight 453 00:19:27,480 --> 00:19:30,560 Speaker 7: with my husband on Saturday night with overnight care with 454 00:19:30,600 --> 00:19:32,479 Speaker 7: the baby because you know, baby wakes up. 455 00:19:32,720 --> 00:19:36,000 Speaker 1: I'm frustrated, I'm tired, he's not getting up. I almost 456 00:19:36,080 --> 00:19:37,840 Speaker 1: almost and I didn't do a friend. I didn't do it. 457 00:19:38,040 --> 00:19:40,639 Speaker 1: I almost want on Instagram, not live on the story. 458 00:19:40,680 --> 00:19:43,000 Speaker 7: I almost posted a story and I almost said, you know, 459 00:19:43,520 --> 00:19:46,159 Speaker 7: this is why I feel like women are staying single 460 00:19:46,160 --> 00:19:46,880 Speaker 7: and not having kids. 461 00:19:46,920 --> 00:19:51,280 Speaker 1: These saying I almost said that would have caused a 462 00:19:51,560 --> 00:19:58,679 Speaker 1: five times bigger fight. I gotta tell my side. It's cathartic. 463 00:19:58,760 --> 00:20:00,000 Speaker 1: It's just you can't be undone. 464 00:20:00,400 --> 00:20:04,280 Speaker 2: That's again, I am not excusing someone's behavior, but you 465 00:20:04,359 --> 00:20:05,960 Speaker 2: go out there and do that now, trying to make 466 00:20:06,000 --> 00:20:07,800 Speaker 2: it better, trying to fix it. If you ever planned 467 00:20:07,840 --> 00:20:10,720 Speaker 2: to do it, it's just one hundred times worse, he found. Jennifer. 468 00:20:12,040 --> 00:20:12,840 Speaker 8: Yes, good morning. 469 00:20:13,000 --> 00:20:14,879 Speaker 2: You guys just don't want their tee. That's what it is. 470 00:20:15,600 --> 00:20:17,920 Speaker 2: It is always cathartic. But actually make sure you tell 471 00:20:17,920 --> 00:20:19,400 Speaker 2: me when you do it. Jennifer, what did you want 472 00:20:19,440 --> 00:20:22,119 Speaker 2: to say? Welcome, Hi, good. 473 00:20:21,960 --> 00:20:25,880 Speaker 8: Morning, thank you. I agree with everyone a little bit, 474 00:20:26,080 --> 00:20:29,640 Speaker 8: except for the mother in law and the son obviously 475 00:20:29,680 --> 00:20:32,720 Speaker 8: for cheating. So like, I'm with Kiki on this and 476 00:20:32,840 --> 00:20:35,720 Speaker 8: I'm with you, and Facebook should be like the highlight reel. 477 00:20:35,880 --> 00:20:38,320 Speaker 8: You should not put your business out there. Unfortunately she 478 00:20:38,400 --> 00:20:41,600 Speaker 8: had an emotional response. She did. But if her son, 479 00:20:41,680 --> 00:20:43,159 Speaker 8: if the mother in law's son is Knie' son is 480 00:20:43,160 --> 00:20:46,399 Speaker 8: trying to fix his marriage and make up for what 481 00:20:46,520 --> 00:20:49,560 Speaker 8: he did, and his mother in law put him in 482 00:20:49,560 --> 00:20:52,480 Speaker 8: the position to choose between her and his wife, which 483 00:20:52,480 --> 00:20:56,000 Speaker 8: is exactly what she did and ban her from the family, 484 00:20:56,680 --> 00:20:58,760 Speaker 8: Like she had to know that he was going to 485 00:20:58,800 --> 00:20:59,600 Speaker 8: take her side. 486 00:21:00,000 --> 00:21:00,520 Speaker 1: He has to. 487 00:21:00,760 --> 00:21:04,239 Speaker 8: He's trying to fix his marriage. So and for her 488 00:21:04,280 --> 00:21:06,399 Speaker 8: it is like think that the daughter in law is 489 00:21:06,400 --> 00:21:08,760 Speaker 8: at fault for embarrassing her and ruining the family. Like yeah, 490 00:21:08,800 --> 00:21:10,240 Speaker 8: she put it out there and I don't agree with 491 00:21:10,240 --> 00:21:10,680 Speaker 8: that either. 492 00:21:11,240 --> 00:21:12,040 Speaker 4: But again, like. 493 00:21:12,040 --> 00:21:15,040 Speaker 8: Keke said, we're only here because of what he did, 494 00:21:15,240 --> 00:21:17,400 Speaker 8: but the only reason why any of this is happening, 495 00:21:17,480 --> 00:21:20,439 Speaker 8: So like, yeah, she can't ride with her son on 496 00:21:20,440 --> 00:21:23,560 Speaker 8: this one. She should have if she cared about having 497 00:21:23,560 --> 00:21:26,240 Speaker 8: the kids as a part of her life, she should 498 00:21:26,280 --> 00:21:29,159 Speaker 8: have had some accountability for her son and wrote it 499 00:21:29,160 --> 00:21:31,480 Speaker 8: out with the daughter in law like hey, yeah, he 500 00:21:31,600 --> 00:21:34,280 Speaker 8: messed up, and I'm with you. I'm with you and 501 00:21:34,320 --> 00:21:37,040 Speaker 8: the kids and hold her son accountable. And she did it, 502 00:21:37,119 --> 00:21:39,679 Speaker 8: and now she's on the outs and she at this 503 00:21:39,680 --> 00:21:41,520 Speaker 8: point now she can only blame herself in well. 504 00:21:41,600 --> 00:21:43,040 Speaker 2: And Jennifer, let me tell you this, and I'm not 505 00:21:43,080 --> 00:21:44,960 Speaker 2: saying that you know, if I'm married with kids, which 506 00:21:44,960 --> 00:21:46,840 Speaker 2: I'm not, but if I were, I'm not saying you 507 00:21:46,840 --> 00:21:49,040 Speaker 2: should be calling my mom and saying what happened with 508 00:21:49,040 --> 00:21:51,280 Speaker 2: in our relationship. But just let my mom find out 509 00:21:51,440 --> 00:21:53,600 Speaker 2: that I cheated on my wife when kids. Just let 510 00:21:53,640 --> 00:21:55,439 Speaker 2: my mom find out. And that you don't have to 511 00:21:55,440 --> 00:21:58,000 Speaker 2: go on social media because my mom will kill me herself, 512 00:21:58,480 --> 00:22:02,119 Speaker 2: like you put the media is r I P. Because 513 00:22:02,440 --> 00:22:04,120 Speaker 2: trust me, my mom gets wind of it that it'll 514 00:22:04,160 --> 00:22:05,440 Speaker 2: be the worst. That'll be the worst thing that could 515 00:22:05,440 --> 00:22:07,639 Speaker 2: possibly happen to me, and I would deserve it if 516 00:22:07,680 --> 00:22:09,239 Speaker 2: I were a cheater. But you know how you can 517 00:22:09,320 --> 00:22:11,959 Speaker 2: skip the social media post because mom will handle this 518 00:22:12,280 --> 00:22:15,600 Speaker 2: for you and and so and then that way mine 519 00:22:15,600 --> 00:22:19,239 Speaker 2: doesn't get embarrassed because her dumb ass son cheated. But 520 00:22:19,280 --> 00:22:20,720 Speaker 2: thank you, Jennifer, have a good day. 521 00:22:21,640 --> 00:22:22,240 Speaker 8: Thanks you too. 522 00:22:22,400 --> 00:22:25,120 Speaker 2: I just think the social media man is just ah. 523 00:22:25,160 --> 00:22:27,240 Speaker 2: It does everybody and hey, yeah, Gigi. 524 00:22:26,960 --> 00:22:32,879 Speaker 9: Hi, Hi guys, good morning hello. So yeah, he should 525 00:22:32,880 --> 00:22:35,679 Speaker 9: be called out. I'm going through the same situation, not 526 00:22:35,840 --> 00:22:37,760 Speaker 9: as extreme, not cheating. 527 00:22:37,840 --> 00:22:39,520 Speaker 1: And that's she called the radio show about to call 528 00:22:39,560 --> 00:22:41,960 Speaker 1: this man out. Okay, good, what happened? What happened? Girl? 529 00:22:42,320 --> 00:22:45,000 Speaker 9: He puts secret caramelras in the house and I call 530 00:22:45,119 --> 00:22:50,440 Speaker 9: him and his but it's all what happened was it's 531 00:22:50,480 --> 00:22:55,720 Speaker 9: all through a secret secret of events he's insecure for 532 00:22:55,840 --> 00:22:57,480 Speaker 9: and he he thought I was cheating, even though he 533 00:22:57,480 --> 00:22:59,359 Speaker 9: says it's not. He doesn't think I should have put 534 00:22:59,440 --> 00:23:01,960 Speaker 9: him on blast. When I found the third camera. 535 00:23:02,040 --> 00:23:03,960 Speaker 4: He lied about it. He lied. 536 00:23:05,440 --> 00:23:08,080 Speaker 9: About the device. They were little secret cameras and he 537 00:23:08,640 --> 00:23:12,720 Speaker 9: said he I found He told me about it because 538 00:23:12,720 --> 00:23:15,080 Speaker 9: he knew I was gonna end up finding out. And 539 00:23:15,080 --> 00:23:16,840 Speaker 9: then the third one he lied to me. I asked 540 00:23:16,880 --> 00:23:19,080 Speaker 9: him how many did you have? He said three? I said, 541 00:23:19,119 --> 00:23:21,160 Speaker 9: what happened to the third one? He says, it didn't come? 542 00:23:21,280 --> 00:23:23,600 Speaker 9: It came, And then I put it on social media. 543 00:23:23,680 --> 00:23:25,640 Speaker 9: And now he's like, oh, well, now I can't get 544 00:23:25,640 --> 00:23:28,280 Speaker 9: a good job. I have an airport job. And they 545 00:23:28,359 --> 00:23:32,520 Speaker 9: go based on your your what do you call it, 546 00:23:32,560 --> 00:23:36,200 Speaker 9: your your who you are, your character? You know, they 547 00:23:36,240 --> 00:23:41,920 Speaker 9: don't so called out. Somebody will feel that what you're 548 00:23:41,960 --> 00:23:44,320 Speaker 9: doing is wrong. So and he feels stupid because I 549 00:23:44,359 --> 00:23:44,919 Speaker 9: wasn't cheating. 550 00:23:45,600 --> 00:23:47,879 Speaker 4: Wow, and let me to Texas. 551 00:23:47,880 --> 00:23:50,520 Speaker 1: Are you staying with him? Yeah, we'll see. 552 00:23:50,600 --> 00:23:53,360 Speaker 2: Okay, w's no judgment. But like now the dude can't 553 00:23:53,400 --> 00:23:55,240 Speaker 2: get a job, and so that affects you. 554 00:23:55,240 --> 00:23:57,160 Speaker 9: No, he can't get a job. He can't get a job, 555 00:23:57,440 --> 00:24:01,399 Speaker 9: can't get a good one, can't. But it's it's not 556 00:24:01,920 --> 00:24:04,280 Speaker 9: he has a job. He's just saying that. That's an 557 00:24:04,280 --> 00:24:07,440 Speaker 9: excuse on why you can't just reputation because I made 558 00:24:07,480 --> 00:24:10,720 Speaker 9: him look at No, you made you look I agree 559 00:24:10,760 --> 00:24:13,880 Speaker 9: with that. You might be my piece on my home 560 00:24:13,960 --> 00:24:17,840 Speaker 9: away from you, I agree, And his excuse was he 561 00:24:18,000 --> 00:24:20,399 Speaker 9: just wanted to see me do something inappropriate because I 562 00:24:20,440 --> 00:24:23,240 Speaker 9: don't do things to myself in appropriate, Okay, And I'm just. 563 00:24:23,200 --> 00:24:26,840 Speaker 2: Like, no nobody, because right nobody should be invading people's 564 00:24:26,840 --> 00:24:27,399 Speaker 2: privacy like that. 565 00:24:27,440 --> 00:24:29,680 Speaker 1: Thank you, you have a good days. 566 00:24:30,200 --> 00:24:31,840 Speaker 2: I just mean I love you to I just want 567 00:24:31,880 --> 00:24:35,760 Speaker 2: you see like these celebrities who like make a huge 568 00:24:36,000 --> 00:24:38,640 Speaker 2: big deal out of the bad thing that their famous 569 00:24:38,800 --> 00:24:41,520 Speaker 2: husband or wife did. Okay, all right, maybe you are 570 00:24:41,680 --> 00:24:44,639 Speaker 2: entitled to that, but then when that person's career falters, 571 00:24:44,880 --> 00:24:47,160 Speaker 2: you also aren't getting paid, you know what I mean, 572 00:24:47,200 --> 00:24:50,000 Speaker 2: Like you have no income now, and again that is 573 00:24:50,000 --> 00:24:52,520 Speaker 2: a problem for them, but it's now becomes a problem 574 00:24:52,560 --> 00:24:55,480 Speaker 2: for you, and it also is because you expose him. Again, 575 00:24:55,760 --> 00:24:58,240 Speaker 2: I'm not saying it's your fault. I just mean, what 576 00:24:58,320 --> 00:24:59,840 Speaker 2: kind of damage are you doing? It will have it 577 00:24:59,880 --> 00:25:03,200 Speaker 2: a affect on you negatively to add insult to injury. 578 00:25:03,359 --> 00:25:06,720 Speaker 3: You already want you already heard me, So I'm already damaged? 579 00:25:07,280 --> 00:25:10,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, Adriana, Yes, Hey, good bye? 580 00:25:10,720 --> 00:25:12,480 Speaker 1: How are you the Kiki's Court? What does you want 581 00:25:12,480 --> 00:25:14,679 Speaker 1: to say? Welcome? Fine? 582 00:25:15,280 --> 00:25:16,640 Speaker 9: First off, that last story was wild. 583 00:25:17,880 --> 00:25:24,720 Speaker 6: Yes, everyone everyone's that fault. I think one hid for 584 00:25:24,800 --> 00:25:27,040 Speaker 6: cheating her for posting, and for the mother in law 585 00:25:27,080 --> 00:25:29,359 Speaker 6: for getting involved. But I do think that there should 586 00:25:29,359 --> 00:25:31,560 Speaker 6: have been no post to begin with, especially if you're 587 00:25:31,560 --> 00:25:34,639 Speaker 6: going to work your marriage out, just because it's it's embarrassing, 588 00:25:35,160 --> 00:25:38,360 Speaker 6: regardless of whether you want someone else to stick their 589 00:25:38,359 --> 00:25:40,920 Speaker 6: nose in your business or to make comments, the fact 590 00:25:40,920 --> 00:25:43,000 Speaker 6: that it's out there, everyone's going to make comments. Now 591 00:25:43,000 --> 00:25:44,360 Speaker 6: you're staying with this man. 592 00:25:44,240 --> 00:25:44,959 Speaker 4: You look stupid. 593 00:25:45,480 --> 00:25:46,800 Speaker 6: At the end of the day, if you're going to 594 00:25:46,920 --> 00:25:49,439 Speaker 6: work things out, it should be it should be done quietly. 595 00:25:49,480 --> 00:25:52,240 Speaker 6: It shouldn't be done in public. 596 00:25:52,040 --> 00:25:55,160 Speaker 2: Right, like, mitigate the damage by not making it bigger 597 00:25:55,200 --> 00:25:57,320 Speaker 2: than it already has to be, because now you know, 598 00:25:57,600 --> 00:26:01,840 Speaker 2: Mema knows about it, and you know uncle yeah, and 599 00:26:02,240 --> 00:26:03,840 Speaker 2: all the crazy people posting, you. 600 00:26:03,800 --> 00:26:07,879 Speaker 1: Know, for this foreign family across the right person, and 601 00:26:07,920 --> 00:26:09,560 Speaker 1: then maybe they should, maybe they should. 602 00:26:09,560 --> 00:26:12,000 Speaker 2: But but in the case of like a Gigi where yeah, 603 00:26:12,000 --> 00:26:14,560 Speaker 2: this dude, I don't, I mean, that's a that's quite 604 00:26:14,560 --> 00:26:17,160 Speaker 2: the betrayal to go back to. But then again, yeah, 605 00:26:17,280 --> 00:26:19,239 Speaker 2: everybody knows about the betrayal. But now you're back with him, 606 00:26:19,280 --> 00:26:21,000 Speaker 2: so now everyone's like, oh, how can you do that, 607 00:26:21,119 --> 00:26:22,240 Speaker 2: and it just makes it worse. 608 00:26:22,520 --> 00:26:24,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, exactly, Yes, because you. 609 00:26:26,320 --> 00:26:28,040 Speaker 6: Want to embarrass him, But at the end of the day, 610 00:26:28,080 --> 00:26:30,119 Speaker 6: if you're staying with him, you're embarrassing yourself and you're 611 00:26:30,160 --> 00:26:31,160 Speaker 6: embarrassing a kid. 612 00:26:31,160 --> 00:26:32,160 Speaker 1: So protect yourself. 613 00:26:33,119 --> 00:26:35,239 Speaker 6: Yeah, I think at this point if like you're in 614 00:26:35,240 --> 00:26:37,760 Speaker 6: that situation. I was in that situation. My ex husband 615 00:26:38,119 --> 00:26:40,600 Speaker 6: cheated on me and actually had a baby with his mistress. 616 00:26:40,680 --> 00:26:44,000 Speaker 6: Oh I didn't. I didn't go and post it on media, 617 00:26:44,040 --> 00:26:46,800 Speaker 6: and was like, I thought about my son and I 618 00:26:46,840 --> 00:26:49,679 Speaker 6: thought about At the time, I was thinking maybe we 619 00:26:49,680 --> 00:26:52,360 Speaker 6: were really young when we got married. But now I'm 620 00:26:52,359 --> 00:26:55,040 Speaker 6: in my forties and that happened in my twenties, and 621 00:26:55,080 --> 00:26:56,919 Speaker 6: I was like, maybe I should stay with him. 622 00:26:56,920 --> 00:26:57,760 Speaker 9: I have a baby with him. 623 00:26:58,560 --> 00:27:01,040 Speaker 6: I think I would have looked even more open if 624 00:27:01,080 --> 00:27:03,480 Speaker 6: I had posted all this stuff about him, about how 625 00:27:03,520 --> 00:27:05,639 Speaker 6: awful he was to me, how awful he was to 626 00:27:05,680 --> 00:27:09,000 Speaker 6: my son, and then ended up staying. I don't know 627 00:27:09,000 --> 00:27:10,600 Speaker 6: if that makes any sense, Like I. 628 00:27:10,920 --> 00:27:12,160 Speaker 9: Look more stupid than he would. 629 00:27:12,280 --> 00:27:13,840 Speaker 1: You have every right to do it, but it just 630 00:27:13,840 --> 00:27:17,360 Speaker 1: makes things more complicated. But thank you have a good day, 631 00:27:18,200 --> 00:27:21,320 Speaker 1: you too, have a great one. Don't be cheating. Don't 632 00:27:21,320 --> 00:27:26,040 Speaker 1: be cheating, Nope. But if you're getting cheated on, I 633 00:27:26,080 --> 00:27:31,560 Speaker 1: recommend put the phone down. That's I'm just I'm do 634 00:27:31,640 --> 00:27:33,640 Speaker 1: that too. We could do that as well. Fred Show