1 00:00:10,960 --> 00:00:14,159 Speaker 1: Yeah, welcome to Thursday Show. More in studio. Let's go 2 00:00:14,200 --> 00:00:18,079 Speaker 1: around the room. He ate an entire tub of ice 3 00:00:18,079 --> 00:00:20,520 Speaker 1: cream in one sitting. Now his pants might have a 4 00:00:20,680 --> 00:00:24,319 Speaker 1: little more trouble fitting here. He is produce ready eddies. Hey, definitely. Damn. 5 00:00:24,680 --> 00:00:26,639 Speaker 1: I can't believe I'm gonna admit this, and I thought 6 00:00:26,640 --> 00:00:28,440 Speaker 1: about not doing it, but I have to do it. 7 00:00:28,520 --> 00:00:30,600 Speaker 1: So a while back, I said, I saw a UFO. 8 00:00:31,080 --> 00:00:33,120 Speaker 1: I looked out my bedroom window. I saw this light 9 00:00:33,159 --> 00:00:36,000 Speaker 1: hovering for about twenty seconds. I was like, that's interesting 10 00:00:36,040 --> 00:00:37,800 Speaker 1: and zoomed in on it with my eyes and then 11 00:00:37,800 --> 00:00:40,800 Speaker 1: it went up straight into the air. You did say 12 00:00:41,000 --> 00:00:44,280 Speaker 1: with total conviction, Yeah, you saw it outside your window 13 00:00:44,280 --> 00:00:46,239 Speaker 1: of your house. Corect. We didn't believe you, but we 14 00:00:46,280 --> 00:00:48,360 Speaker 1: believe that you believed you. Yes, And I saw it 15 00:00:48,400 --> 00:00:51,639 Speaker 1: again last night and I'm like, oh my gosh, there 16 00:00:51,680 --> 00:00:53,000 Speaker 1: it is again. Try to get a shot of it. 17 00:00:53,120 --> 00:00:54,560 Speaker 1: So I know. I just walked up to the window. 18 00:00:54,560 --> 00:00:55,920 Speaker 1: It's almost like a movie, you know, like walking on 19 00:00:56,120 --> 00:00:58,560 Speaker 1: like pajamas and like walking close to the window. And 20 00:00:58,640 --> 00:01:01,960 Speaker 1: then again I look closer to the light. It's a 21 00:01:02,000 --> 00:01:05,280 Speaker 1: reflection on my wife's phone. And I saw that because 22 00:01:05,360 --> 00:01:08,400 Speaker 1: we have double paned windows, and I didn't realize that 23 00:01:08,520 --> 00:01:12,399 Speaker 1: the reflection can be that far. So the original sighting 24 00:01:12,840 --> 00:01:15,479 Speaker 1: was her on her phone and her putting the phone 25 00:01:15,480 --> 00:01:19,200 Speaker 1: away on her nightstand. That was the lightning straight up, UFOs. 26 00:01:19,200 --> 00:01:21,560 Speaker 1: Do you think this is actually what's happening? Something stupid 27 00:01:21,560 --> 00:01:23,800 Speaker 1: where someone doesn't even realize. That made me realize this 28 00:01:23,840 --> 00:01:25,760 Speaker 1: happens all the time, I bet, because bones when it 29 00:01:25,800 --> 00:01:27,679 Speaker 1: happened the first time, I was like, this is real 30 00:01:27,760 --> 00:01:29,880 Speaker 1: and no one's ever gonna believe it. Scare you? Yes? 31 00:01:30,040 --> 00:01:31,600 Speaker 1: Did it scare you that if you did tell your 32 00:01:31,600 --> 00:01:33,360 Speaker 1: truth that we would all judge you as well. Yeah, 33 00:01:33,360 --> 00:01:35,080 Speaker 1: but you guys did judge me. Yeah, But I mean, 34 00:01:35,120 --> 00:01:36,880 Speaker 1: like really like, people don't think I'm a weirdo dude. 35 00:01:36,880 --> 00:01:38,280 Speaker 1: So last night when I saw it again, I'm like, 36 00:01:38,720 --> 00:01:40,840 Speaker 1: it's happening again. They're calling for me, And then it 37 00:01:40,880 --> 00:01:44,559 Speaker 1: was the dumb phone. They're calling for you. They came 38 00:01:44,600 --> 00:01:49,440 Speaker 1: back to get their leader. All right, Next up my 39 00:01:49,480 --> 00:01:51,560 Speaker 1: basketball team beat He is in March madness and now 40 00:01:51,560 --> 00:01:56,120 Speaker 1: for him it's all March sadness. That's huge. That's huge, 41 00:01:56,160 --> 00:01:59,160 Speaker 1: thank you. Hey, wait at everything football basketball doesn't matter. 42 00:01:59,160 --> 00:02:00,960 Speaker 1: I thought we weren't red it in. I love his 43 00:02:01,080 --> 00:02:03,360 Speaker 1: days days. I didn't write it, and they won one game, 44 00:02:03,400 --> 00:02:05,560 Speaker 1: win a national championship. Would talk to us. I didn't 45 00:02:05,560 --> 00:02:08,359 Speaker 1: write win a national championship. Talk to us. It's Mark Sadness. 46 00:02:08,440 --> 00:02:11,640 Speaker 1: Here he is, mister Mark Sadness. Let's bout everybody. You 47 00:02:11,639 --> 00:02:13,680 Speaker 1: guys keep telling me I need to quit playing the lottery. 48 00:02:13,720 --> 00:02:15,400 Speaker 1: But I went into the gas station, I bought a 49 00:02:15,440 --> 00:02:17,440 Speaker 1: ten dollars scratch off, went back to the oh five 50 00:02:17,560 --> 00:02:20,840 Speaker 1: Ultimate scratch scratch. I want a free ticket, So I 51 00:02:20,880 --> 00:02:23,120 Speaker 1: went back here, said, hey, give me that same ticket. 52 00:02:23,560 --> 00:02:27,359 Speaker 1: Go back to the car scratch scratch scratch, and I 53 00:02:27,520 --> 00:02:33,560 Speaker 1: hit it big. I hit it big. Is it so 54 00:02:33,639 --> 00:02:37,880 Speaker 1: big that? Okay? Hold on that audio? Oh we got audio? Okay, 55 00:02:37,919 --> 00:02:40,799 Speaker 1: here we go. Is that over a thousand bucks? He's 56 00:02:40,800 --> 00:02:42,679 Speaker 1: I canna say this all right? I played the club, 57 00:02:43,320 --> 00:02:45,520 Speaker 1: I had that free ticket, and then I won ten dollars. 58 00:02:45,960 --> 00:02:49,200 Speaker 1: And then I'm back because I hit it big. Now, 59 00:02:49,240 --> 00:02:50,480 Speaker 1: I hit it big. Now, I don't know if you 60 00:02:50,520 --> 00:02:53,760 Speaker 1: can handle it. If I gotta go to the lottery office. 61 00:02:53,840 --> 00:02:57,200 Speaker 1: Hundred dollars, hundred dollars, you know what that makes me do? 62 00:02:57,360 --> 00:03:01,720 Speaker 1: Polo hundred let me what a hundred dollars make us do? 63 00:03:02,320 --> 00:03:07,720 Speaker 1: Let's do it one two three? Thank you up in here. Man. 64 00:03:07,800 --> 00:03:09,640 Speaker 1: It was felt good though. That is good if you 65 00:03:09,680 --> 00:03:11,400 Speaker 1: just said I one hundred bucks and scratch off. Yeah, 66 00:03:11,440 --> 00:03:13,639 Speaker 1: we've been like, dude, that's awesome. But you played the 67 00:03:13,680 --> 00:03:15,280 Speaker 1: quiet game with us and they really try to build 68 00:03:15,280 --> 00:03:17,760 Speaker 1: it up. That's good though. Good for you, man, it 69 00:03:17,880 --> 00:03:20,280 Speaker 1: was awesome. It was it was like, oh, I get 70 00:03:20,320 --> 00:03:22,360 Speaker 1: that free ticket, go back in. Then you intend all 71 00:03:22,440 --> 00:03:24,519 Speaker 1: you get another tea. So it's like a little game. 72 00:03:24,560 --> 00:03:27,280 Speaker 1: It's like you're inching towards it and then boom, big one. 73 00:03:27,440 --> 00:03:30,160 Speaker 1: Should he take that hundred and pay you for Oh 74 00:03:30,560 --> 00:03:34,600 Speaker 1: I don't know, yeah, robbed and this shoe deal. Yeah, 75 00:03:34,840 --> 00:03:37,200 Speaker 1: there is a separate transaction. We have a we have 76 00:03:37,240 --> 00:03:39,760 Speaker 1: a business account for that. We have no account and 77 00:03:40,000 --> 00:03:43,000 Speaker 1: then account we would have a broke. Uh. Finally, she 78 00:03:43,080 --> 00:03:45,320 Speaker 1: celebrated her birthday over the last weekend. And she's also 79 00:03:45,360 --> 00:03:48,120 Speaker 1: a really great friend here. She is Amy everybody. Okay, 80 00:03:48,280 --> 00:03:50,880 Speaker 1: So just something that's been coming up in our house 81 00:03:50,920 --> 00:03:55,080 Speaker 1: since we flew last weekend is this flight attendant was 82 00:03:55,120 --> 00:03:58,760 Speaker 1: talking about how our seats turned into a flirtation device. 83 00:03:58,800 --> 00:04:00,840 Speaker 1: Which is the theoryll Nick and Joe, and then talking 84 00:04:00,840 --> 00:04:03,120 Speaker 1: about how if you're in the water, then there's lights 85 00:04:03,160 --> 00:04:07,160 Speaker 1: and then if you there's sharks, you'll be safer. And 86 00:04:07,400 --> 00:04:10,960 Speaker 1: my son cannot handle stuff like this, So I thought, 87 00:04:11,080 --> 00:04:14,160 Speaker 1: is she not aware that there's children on the plane 88 00:04:14,200 --> 00:04:17,200 Speaker 1: And now you're talking about us in the water with 89 00:04:17,240 --> 00:04:20,960 Speaker 1: our flotation device encountering sharks. Weeah crashing first of all, 90 00:04:21,400 --> 00:04:23,279 Speaker 1: but that you have to say, listen, flotation device right, 91 00:04:23,320 --> 00:04:24,680 Speaker 1: And I get that part, But we don't have to 92 00:04:24,720 --> 00:04:26,800 Speaker 1: go off into this whole scenario have we're stuck in 93 00:04:26,839 --> 00:04:30,440 Speaker 1: the water and then there's sharks involved, because that just 94 00:04:30,480 --> 00:04:34,599 Speaker 1: created this whole like slew of questions. My only saving 95 00:04:34,640 --> 00:04:38,279 Speaker 1: grace is that Austin to Nashville, we're not flying over 96 00:04:38,640 --> 00:04:40,760 Speaker 1: any ocean, so we have nothing to worry about. She 97 00:04:40,880 --> 00:04:43,000 Speaker 1: just has to say that, But I mean, he's still 98 00:04:43,040 --> 00:04:45,280 Speaker 1: asking about it. I guarantee you next time we fly, 99 00:04:45,480 --> 00:04:47,240 Speaker 1: it will come up. Do you think we're gonna be okay? 100 00:04:47,279 --> 00:04:49,400 Speaker 1: Are we flying over water? Is there going to be sharks? 101 00:04:50,240 --> 00:04:53,159 Speaker 1: They also thinks because of the news right that Russia 102 00:04:53,240 --> 00:04:54,960 Speaker 1: is gonna like or China's gonna bomb us or something 103 00:04:55,080 --> 00:04:58,480 Speaker 1: into the world. Yeah, I think that too. Sometimes that'll 104 00:04:58,480 --> 00:04:59,960 Speaker 1: be fair after watching the news you do. That's why 105 00:05:00,000 --> 00:05:02,080 Speaker 1: I don't watch the news anymore. That's right. Go ahead 106 00:05:02,279 --> 00:05:05,840 Speaker 1: from Mountain Pine in Arkansas. His dog goes rehab for dogs, 107 00:05:06,000 --> 00:05:09,200 Speaker 1: and man, that dog can saw some logs, Bobby bones, 108 00:05:09,720 --> 00:05:14,240 Speaker 1: you're talking about. That's not what that means, is it. Yeah, 109 00:05:16,160 --> 00:05:19,400 Speaker 1: Conant poop never heard that. Well. So we have an 110 00:05:19,440 --> 00:05:25,440 Speaker 1: affiliate in Saskatchewan, Canada, and the town is called Regina. 111 00:05:25,760 --> 00:05:28,000 Speaker 1: And I will sit here and I cut stuff for 112 00:05:28,040 --> 00:05:30,440 Speaker 1: them individually every morning, and I'm like, hey, thanks for listening. 113 00:05:30,480 --> 00:05:32,160 Speaker 1: We have a lot of Canadian affiliates, which is really 114 00:05:32,160 --> 00:05:34,800 Speaker 1: cool with our shows on there. I saw them in 115 00:05:34,800 --> 00:05:36,760 Speaker 1: the news. I want to give a special shout out. 116 00:05:36,760 --> 00:05:38,880 Speaker 1: I love being able to shout out our affiliate towns 117 00:05:38,920 --> 00:05:41,640 Speaker 1: that we're in. So, this town, Regina just got in 118 00:05:41,680 --> 00:05:47,840 Speaker 1: trouble because the tourism board had to apologize because they 119 00:05:47,839 --> 00:05:56,160 Speaker 1: had their new slogan that was show us your Regina. 120 00:05:56,720 --> 00:05:58,360 Speaker 1: I know it's the name of the town, buttons, there's 121 00:05:58,400 --> 00:06:01,320 Speaker 1: something to show us your Regina, Amy Amy, stop, No, 122 00:06:01,440 --> 00:06:05,320 Speaker 1: I get what it could sound like. That's the problem. 123 00:06:05,120 --> 00:06:07,839 Speaker 1: They wanted it to sound that way. Yeah, that's the 124 00:06:07,839 --> 00:06:09,599 Speaker 1: point of show. What else are you gonna show? The 125 00:06:09,680 --> 00:06:13,600 Speaker 1: other one? I thought that Regina. It says Regina, a 126 00:06:13,720 --> 00:06:18,120 Speaker 1: city that rhymes was fun. Hey man, that's creative. I've 127 00:06:18,200 --> 00:06:20,480 Speaker 1: known that one for that's creative. I want to shout 128 00:06:20,480 --> 00:06:26,760 Speaker 1: out to our affiliate in Regina. Don't lit her in Regina. Amy, 129 00:06:26,800 --> 00:06:29,640 Speaker 1: that's good too. Whoa, Yeah, well it's just the name 130 00:06:29,680 --> 00:06:32,239 Speaker 1: of their town. Yeah, I know, so shut out Regina. 131 00:06:32,279 --> 00:06:34,440 Speaker 1: It's just some good, clean Canadian fine. And I'd like 132 00:06:34,520 --> 00:06:36,719 Speaker 1: to recognize that. And I think that they're tourism board, 133 00:06:36,920 --> 00:06:39,720 Speaker 1: you know. I hate to apologize. That is the name 134 00:06:39,720 --> 00:06:42,600 Speaker 1: of your town. And if I said show us or Nashville, 135 00:06:42,640 --> 00:06:44,720 Speaker 1: I'd mean, like, show me the good parts of Nashville 136 00:06:44,720 --> 00:06:46,520 Speaker 1: that you love. Yeah, that's true. All they're saying to 137 00:06:46,520 --> 00:06:50,200 Speaker 1: show us at Regina. Oh man, that's so good. There's 138 00:06:50,240 --> 00:06:53,320 Speaker 1: so many good ones. We say. Yeah, I'm not gonna 139 00:06:53,360 --> 00:06:55,040 Speaker 1: do that. All right, thank you guys. Let's get started 140 00:06:55,040 --> 00:07:06,080 Speaker 1: with the Joe. Time for the mail bag. Get something here. Hello, 141 00:07:06,200 --> 00:07:08,800 Speaker 1: Bobby Bones. My husband and I've been married for two years. 142 00:07:09,279 --> 00:07:11,720 Speaker 1: I recently discovered that he has a secret bank account. 143 00:07:13,760 --> 00:07:16,960 Speaker 1: That's tough it's not good. That's tough, because what else 144 00:07:17,000 --> 00:07:20,680 Speaker 1: is the hind I emerged my bank account into his 145 00:07:20,880 --> 00:07:23,200 Speaker 1: when we got married, and that has been our primary account. 146 00:07:23,920 --> 00:07:26,040 Speaker 1: But I just found out after he made a few 147 00:07:26,120 --> 00:07:28,680 Speaker 1: recent big purchases and noticed they did not come out 148 00:07:28,680 --> 00:07:31,560 Speaker 1: of our joint account, that he has a secret account. 149 00:07:32,000 --> 00:07:36,080 Speaker 1: He calls it his rainy day fund. He deposits any 150 00:07:36,080 --> 00:07:38,440 Speaker 1: bonuses he gets from work and any money he makes 151 00:07:38,440 --> 00:07:41,800 Speaker 1: from his side hustle of detailing cars. Turns out he 152 00:07:41,840 --> 00:07:46,160 Speaker 1: has a significant amount of money on this account. We're 153 00:07:46,240 --> 00:07:49,960 Speaker 1: okay financially, but at times it has bothers him and 154 00:07:50,200 --> 00:07:52,920 Speaker 1: it probably can help us out on a pinch. He 155 00:07:52,960 --> 00:07:55,520 Speaker 1: doesn't think it's a big deal, Bobby, like you, he 156 00:07:55,600 --> 00:07:57,640 Speaker 1: grow up very poor, So maybe there's something there, and 157 00:07:57,720 --> 00:08:00,200 Speaker 1: there are issues with reverting back to that, but I 158 00:08:00,240 --> 00:08:02,920 Speaker 1: can't help asking why would my husband have a secret 159 00:08:02,960 --> 00:08:05,080 Speaker 1: bank account other other things he's hiding? Is this a 160 00:08:05,120 --> 00:08:09,040 Speaker 1: red flag signed wife with money woes? Yeah, it's a 161 00:08:09,080 --> 00:08:14,800 Speaker 1: red's a light red flag, and that he shouldn't do it. 162 00:08:15,240 --> 00:08:17,240 Speaker 1: And yes, I would think if someone was keeping something 163 00:08:17,280 --> 00:08:20,080 Speaker 1: from me in that space, what else are they keeping 164 00:08:20,120 --> 00:08:22,120 Speaker 1: from me in other spaces like I definitely would have 165 00:08:22,160 --> 00:08:24,840 Speaker 1: that feeling. I do think there's probably a bit of 166 00:08:24,920 --> 00:08:28,239 Speaker 1: trauma to look at, though, and try to understand why 167 00:08:28,360 --> 00:08:32,240 Speaker 1: he would do this, aside from anything anything to furious, 168 00:08:32,280 --> 00:08:37,200 Speaker 1: anything bad. I don't have any secret accounts, and if 169 00:08:37,200 --> 00:08:40,120 Speaker 1: I did, I wouldn't say it here, that's for sure. 170 00:08:40,520 --> 00:08:42,280 Speaker 1: But I don't have any secret accounts. But I would 171 00:08:42,360 --> 00:08:47,000 Speaker 1: understand if he feels like, at any minute, you guys 172 00:08:47,000 --> 00:08:51,439 Speaker 1: could be poor again. I have very troubling I've had 173 00:08:51,480 --> 00:08:53,679 Speaker 1: many issues with that over my life. I'm at a 174 00:08:53,720 --> 00:08:55,280 Speaker 1: place now where I don't feel like I worry about 175 00:08:55,280 --> 00:08:58,560 Speaker 1: that as much, but I can understand if this is 176 00:08:58,760 --> 00:09:01,400 Speaker 1: me seven years go, it'd be in a different story, 177 00:09:02,559 --> 00:09:04,400 Speaker 1: because if I had a secret account, it wasn't that 178 00:09:04,440 --> 00:09:05,840 Speaker 1: I was trying to hide something. It was that I 179 00:09:05,880 --> 00:09:09,840 Speaker 1: was trying to have something safe just in case, and 180 00:09:09,880 --> 00:09:11,920 Speaker 1: I'd be afraid that if someone else had access to 181 00:09:11,960 --> 00:09:14,360 Speaker 1: that safe just in case, they would spend that safe 182 00:09:14,400 --> 00:09:16,640 Speaker 1: just in case. The issue here is, I see he 183 00:09:16,679 --> 00:09:18,800 Speaker 1: made a couple of big purchases, and if he's buying 184 00:09:18,800 --> 00:09:21,560 Speaker 1: golf clothes and you know, that kind of cancels that out. 185 00:09:22,520 --> 00:09:24,560 Speaker 1: So I guess it matters what the purchases are because 186 00:09:24,559 --> 00:09:26,680 Speaker 1: it really just could be as fun fund. I hate 187 00:09:26,679 --> 00:09:28,480 Speaker 1: to give him the benefit of the trauma if it's 188 00:09:28,520 --> 00:09:32,160 Speaker 1: just as fun fund. It's a conversation that needs to 189 00:09:32,200 --> 00:09:36,280 Speaker 1: be had because he shouldn't be keeping things from you 190 00:09:36,400 --> 00:09:39,520 Speaker 1: like that. My only request of you is that you 191 00:09:39,640 --> 00:09:44,439 Speaker 1: actually listen, open minded, and go. I want to hear 192 00:09:44,440 --> 00:09:45,960 Speaker 1: what he has to say, why he has to say it, 193 00:09:46,320 --> 00:09:49,480 Speaker 1: and then see if you understand his explanation. You don't 194 00:09:49,480 --> 00:09:51,640 Speaker 1: have to agree with it, just understand it and then 195 00:09:51,679 --> 00:09:54,880 Speaker 1: go from there. Because if he grew up like I did, 196 00:09:54,960 --> 00:09:57,280 Speaker 1: I understand him wanting to have a safety net. I 197 00:09:57,280 --> 00:09:59,160 Speaker 1: tried to have one my whole entire life. I would 198 00:09:59,200 --> 00:10:02,760 Speaker 1: pay extra my bills and they'd be like, stop doing this, 199 00:10:03,720 --> 00:10:08,000 Speaker 1: So that to me was like a safety account. But again, 200 00:10:08,040 --> 00:10:11,600 Speaker 1: if he's buying a go cart, wheah, there's a whole 201 00:10:11,600 --> 00:10:15,600 Speaker 1: issue here. So he's not cheating on you. But he's 202 00:10:15,640 --> 00:10:20,000 Speaker 1: not not cheating on you. Okay, So he's not cheating 203 00:10:20,000 --> 00:10:22,280 Speaker 1: on you because of this, it also doesn't mean that 204 00:10:22,320 --> 00:10:24,480 Speaker 1: he's not not cheating on you, but I don't think 205 00:10:24,480 --> 00:10:28,520 Speaker 1: he is. I think there's some trauma you need to investigate. Listen, 206 00:10:28,559 --> 00:10:30,880 Speaker 1: to him and then go from there. Don't go in 207 00:10:30,920 --> 00:10:34,400 Speaker 1: with accusations, going with hey, I see you got an account, 208 00:10:34,440 --> 00:10:37,080 Speaker 1: what's up? Why do you have this? He's gonna get defensive. 209 00:10:38,000 --> 00:10:41,520 Speaker 1: It'll probably turn it into a fight if so, let 210 00:10:41,520 --> 00:10:43,160 Speaker 1: it calm down and then go back to it at 211 00:10:43,160 --> 00:10:47,240 Speaker 1: a later point, because sometimes you got with me, like 212 00:10:47,720 --> 00:10:51,120 Speaker 1: he get defensive. My wife's might play okay, cool. Then 213 00:10:51,160 --> 00:10:52,800 Speaker 1: we'll after I've had time to think about why I 214 00:10:52,800 --> 00:10:54,520 Speaker 1: shouldn't be defensive. I don't do anything wrong. I just 215 00:10:54,520 --> 00:10:58,160 Speaker 1: automatically defensive. We'll go she'll readdress it later. She chats 216 00:10:58,280 --> 00:10:59,640 Speaker 1: I'm a child. I am a child. I was gonna say. 217 00:10:59,640 --> 00:11:01,840 Speaker 1: She treats like I am a child, and so she 218 00:11:01,840 --> 00:11:04,760 Speaker 1: has learned how to negotiate through life with me in 219 00:11:04,800 --> 00:11:08,240 Speaker 1: that way. Yeah. Also, I've been alone for my whole life, 220 00:11:08,240 --> 00:11:10,440 Speaker 1: talk told her thirty eight thirty. I never lived with anyone, 221 00:11:10,520 --> 00:11:12,640 Speaker 1: never was engaged, never married, anything like that. So I 222 00:11:12,679 --> 00:11:17,240 Speaker 1: still have that mentality. Just you need to talk about it, 223 00:11:17,280 --> 00:11:20,280 Speaker 1: but don't go in angry about it in that conversation. 224 00:11:20,360 --> 00:11:22,839 Speaker 1: Should she ask for access to the account so you 225 00:11:22,920 --> 00:11:25,440 Speaker 1: can watch ag not at the beginning. Yeah, Somewhere in 226 00:11:25,480 --> 00:11:27,839 Speaker 1: the conversation well, but also I don't think I think 227 00:11:27,840 --> 00:11:30,080 Speaker 1: it's okay for people to have their own accounts if 228 00:11:30,120 --> 00:11:34,920 Speaker 1: they want so, he can hey, okay, if you want that, great, 229 00:11:34,960 --> 00:11:37,880 Speaker 1: but let's just be transparent with each other and secret 230 00:11:37,920 --> 00:11:40,960 Speaker 1: secret account a secondary then there's trouble. Then for her 231 00:11:41,040 --> 00:11:43,640 Speaker 1: she can be like, Okay, Wow, you've inspired me. I'm 232 00:11:43,640 --> 00:11:46,520 Speaker 1: gonna go open up my own account. Talk about it. 233 00:11:47,000 --> 00:11:50,480 Speaker 1: Understand where he's coming from, don't go in angry. Figure 234 00:11:50,480 --> 00:11:52,520 Speaker 1: it out the end. I don't think he's cheating on you, 235 00:11:52,880 --> 00:11:54,960 Speaker 1: but I'm not totally wiping that out my favorite party. 236 00:11:55,200 --> 00:11:56,920 Speaker 1: He's not cheating on you, but he's not not right. 237 00:11:56,920 --> 00:11:58,360 Speaker 1: I don't think he is. We don't know that. You 238 00:11:58,360 --> 00:12:00,480 Speaker 1: can't go ahead and say you for sure he isn't right. 239 00:12:01,040 --> 00:12:03,599 Speaker 1: Thank you. That's been a very special edition of the 240 00:12:03,600 --> 00:12:07,080 Speaker 1: Mailbag Multi Layers Nuance, which you know America doesn't really 241 00:12:07,120 --> 00:12:09,240 Speaker 1: have that anymore. That's nuanced for you, all right, close 242 00:12:09,280 --> 00:12:14,600 Speaker 1: it up. We got and that was found to close. 243 00:12:18,080 --> 00:12:20,640 Speaker 1: It's been happening over the past six seven months or so. 244 00:12:21,600 --> 00:12:24,440 Speaker 1: Lunchbox and I went in together, which was a huge mistake, 245 00:12:25,559 --> 00:12:27,880 Speaker 1: and we got into the business of finding a storage 246 00:12:27,960 --> 00:12:29,760 Speaker 1: unit and then when it goes up and they don't 247 00:12:29,800 --> 00:12:32,040 Speaker 1: pay their bill, they auctioned it off. We bought one, 248 00:12:32,360 --> 00:12:34,719 Speaker 1: had lots of stuff in it, lots of shoes, had 249 00:12:34,760 --> 00:12:37,640 Speaker 1: some illegal stuff we haven't been able to talk about yet. 250 00:12:38,360 --> 00:12:40,400 Speaker 1: And I said, I'll pay for seventy, but you just 251 00:12:40,440 --> 00:12:43,280 Speaker 1: do the listing and handle it online. He's like, no problem. 252 00:12:43,400 --> 00:12:47,120 Speaker 1: We've run into a few hiccups along the way, which 253 00:12:47,679 --> 00:12:50,640 Speaker 1: the last one was the person said they got the shoes. 254 00:12:50,920 --> 00:12:52,839 Speaker 1: Well no, they said they didn't get them, so they 255 00:12:53,280 --> 00:12:55,760 Speaker 1: got a refund. But I have a receipt saying that 256 00:12:55,800 --> 00:12:58,400 Speaker 1: they were delivered. Like, but do you have the shoes back? No, 257 00:12:58,440 --> 00:13:00,400 Speaker 1: I think we lost the shoes and the money. Yeah. 258 00:13:00,440 --> 00:13:03,320 Speaker 1: So an eBay said they held a court order or 259 00:13:03,320 --> 00:13:05,920 Speaker 1: whatever and they decided to grant them their refunds. So 260 00:13:05,920 --> 00:13:08,840 Speaker 1: it was taking out of our shoes. They were signed 261 00:13:08,840 --> 00:13:11,120 Speaker 1: for at that address, so I don't have any control 262 00:13:11,160 --> 00:13:13,800 Speaker 1: over that. Okay, So we lost money there. That was 263 00:13:13,840 --> 00:13:16,720 Speaker 1: a nice pair of Baalis too. Yeah, so what's next? 264 00:13:17,559 --> 00:13:23,280 Speaker 1: How we took another hit man? So go ahead? No? No, 265 00:13:23,360 --> 00:13:25,840 Speaker 1: We sold a pair of air Force ones for ninety bucks, 266 00:13:25,840 --> 00:13:29,040 Speaker 1: size eight and the person said, hey, will you sign them. 267 00:13:29,080 --> 00:13:31,160 Speaker 1: So I had everybody in here signed them. Everybody was 268 00:13:31,160 --> 00:13:34,280 Speaker 1: gracious with their autographs, put them on the shoes, mailed 269 00:13:34,320 --> 00:13:40,040 Speaker 1: them out, and our item didn't pass authentication because they 270 00:13:40,040 --> 00:13:46,079 Speaker 1: were altered, and the buyer was refunded their ninety dollars. 271 00:13:46,400 --> 00:13:50,520 Speaker 1: And I'm an autographed the item you can sell? Yeah, yeah, 272 00:13:50,600 --> 00:13:54,640 Speaker 1: the show has been repainted or altered from the original condition. 273 00:13:54,840 --> 00:13:57,160 Speaker 1: But didn't they ask for that? Yes, but can't you 274 00:13:57,200 --> 00:13:59,240 Speaker 1: show them that. Go to whatever court they're talking about 275 00:13:59,280 --> 00:14:02,320 Speaker 1: and say your honor, this is them. And eBay said, 276 00:14:02,400 --> 00:14:06,079 Speaker 1: your buyer was refunded, your item couldn't be authenticated, and 277 00:14:06,120 --> 00:14:08,960 Speaker 1: with shipped back, I haven't got it back. Front refunded 278 00:14:08,960 --> 00:14:11,640 Speaker 1: the buyer ninety dollars because it was altered or damaged. 279 00:14:11,720 --> 00:14:13,440 Speaker 1: Maybe it's the wording. Maybe he has to put on 280 00:14:13,480 --> 00:14:18,719 Speaker 1: their autographed shoes so they weren't asked for it. If 281 00:14:18,720 --> 00:14:21,200 Speaker 1: you repost it and say autographed and sell it to 282 00:14:21,240 --> 00:14:24,200 Speaker 1: that person, maybe you can sell it. And so ninety 283 00:14:24,200 --> 00:14:26,720 Speaker 1: dollars out of our account gone boom, see you later. 284 00:14:27,560 --> 00:14:30,720 Speaker 1: I don't like eBay just does not like us. Get 285 00:14:30,880 --> 00:14:33,360 Speaker 1: really well, I just put so much money into this. 286 00:14:33,440 --> 00:14:35,480 Speaker 1: Never guys, never give lunch bunch, any money for anything 287 00:14:35,960 --> 00:14:38,760 Speaker 1: whatever we're going, and I are in with him on investment. 288 00:14:38,880 --> 00:14:40,640 Speaker 1: Yeah that's thirty bucks though, and I'm okay with that 289 00:14:40,720 --> 00:14:43,400 Speaker 1: a little more than I am the hundreds I gave him. 290 00:14:44,240 --> 00:14:46,720 Speaker 1: But how is that my fault? I did exactly what 291 00:14:46,840 --> 00:14:49,720 Speaker 1: the buyer wanted. Everything is so so if wanted this, 292 00:14:49,800 --> 00:14:51,760 Speaker 1: If only one of these head things happens, we're like, dang, 293 00:14:51,760 --> 00:14:53,880 Speaker 1: that's that's show based, baby. It's part of doing business, man. 294 00:14:53,960 --> 00:14:56,480 Speaker 1: This is every single thing that we do is wrong. 295 00:14:56,560 --> 00:14:58,680 Speaker 1: And I don't think that we're just unlucky every time. 296 00:14:58,760 --> 00:15:01,080 Speaker 1: Oh I do entrepreneurs ship is hard and you don't 297 00:15:01,080 --> 00:15:04,080 Speaker 1: see these you don't see these dead ends coming and 298 00:15:04,120 --> 00:15:06,360 Speaker 1: then you gotta pivot. This is human error. This is 299 00:15:06,400 --> 00:15:08,680 Speaker 1: not How is that human error? It said, hey, will 300 00:15:08,720 --> 00:15:10,760 Speaker 1: you sign the shoes? Cool signed them? And how does 301 00:15:10,840 --> 00:15:14,760 Speaker 1: eBay know they're altered? Like they didn't pass authentication? What 302 00:15:14,800 --> 00:15:18,000 Speaker 1: does that mean? Does eBay like take your where did 303 00:15:18,040 --> 00:15:21,520 Speaker 1: you mail them too? When you mailed them? Whatever address 304 00:15:21,560 --> 00:15:25,120 Speaker 1: it says on the thing. So if it's something like 305 00:15:25,160 --> 00:15:27,880 Speaker 1: a shoe, what shoe? Was it? An Air Force one? 306 00:15:27,920 --> 00:15:29,720 Speaker 1: Air Force ones? They will take it and make sure 307 00:15:29,720 --> 00:15:33,000 Speaker 1: it's not a fake shoe stock X does it for shoes. 308 00:15:33,000 --> 00:15:35,160 Speaker 1: They don't wan any Bay selling ripped off fake shoes. 309 00:15:35,680 --> 00:15:37,280 Speaker 1: Oh you were saying if you were sending it right 310 00:15:37,320 --> 00:15:39,320 Speaker 1: to the address. See, I don't think he did your research. 311 00:15:39,400 --> 00:15:42,400 Speaker 1: That's my point. No. I whatever they paid for it, 312 00:15:42,520 --> 00:15:44,760 Speaker 1: you didn't write autographed on there, and you have to 313 00:15:44,800 --> 00:15:48,320 Speaker 1: send it to the person. Listen, it said, I'm listening. 314 00:15:48,360 --> 00:15:51,600 Speaker 1: I couldn't be listening harder. They once they paid, they 315 00:15:51,600 --> 00:15:53,760 Speaker 1: said ship to this address, So I shipped it to 316 00:15:53,760 --> 00:15:55,800 Speaker 1: that address. I don't know whose address that is. I mean, 317 00:15:55,840 --> 00:15:57,560 Speaker 1: do I get my check? Man, it's supposed to be 318 00:15:57,560 --> 00:16:00,600 Speaker 1: the Monday after your birthday April third, that's supposed to 319 00:16:00,640 --> 00:16:02,720 Speaker 1: be it will be. Well, yeah, but right now we're 320 00:16:02,760 --> 00:16:06,760 Speaker 1: we ain't gonna money man, And he sounds whimpy. Man, 321 00:16:06,920 --> 00:16:09,840 Speaker 1: Come on, man, money man, we just keep losing. I'm 322 00:16:09,840 --> 00:16:12,200 Speaker 1: about to kill him, like I'm giving him till the 323 00:16:12,240 --> 00:16:14,880 Speaker 1: dad my birthday and then I'm gonna kill him. You 324 00:16:14,880 --> 00:16:17,240 Speaker 1: don't mess up people's money. And he obviously didn't read 325 00:16:17,240 --> 00:16:19,600 Speaker 1: the rules about selling shoes on eBay. What do you mean? 326 00:16:20,240 --> 00:16:22,160 Speaker 1: Why do you yell? What do I mean? You didn't 327 00:16:22,200 --> 00:16:24,960 Speaker 1: read the rules about selling shoes on eBay said would 328 00:16:24,960 --> 00:16:26,560 Speaker 1: you like to sell something? I said, yeah, shoes, And 329 00:16:26,560 --> 00:16:28,240 Speaker 1: they said, all right, cool, what do they look like? 330 00:16:28,360 --> 00:16:30,960 Speaker 1: What show us a picture? What size are they? I 331 00:16:31,000 --> 00:16:33,640 Speaker 1: did it, And you're telling me when you're putting up shoes, nay, 332 00:16:33,640 --> 00:16:35,960 Speaker 1: don't say anything about Oh, you need to mail them 333 00:16:36,000 --> 00:16:37,520 Speaker 1: to this person to make sure that they're saying that 334 00:16:37,520 --> 00:16:39,760 Speaker 1: they're going to authenticate them and anyone. Why do you 335 00:16:39,760 --> 00:16:43,640 Speaker 1: say he didn't say no, No, let me see here, 336 00:16:43,720 --> 00:16:46,200 Speaker 1: let's go selling ray. What do you think's happening here? 337 00:16:46,920 --> 00:16:49,000 Speaker 1: The shoe thing is new for me. That is whack, 338 00:16:49,120 --> 00:16:51,160 Speaker 1: because I guess there must be a center. You have 339 00:16:51,200 --> 00:16:52,800 Speaker 1: to send the shoes too. And that's how it all 340 00:16:53,040 --> 00:16:55,640 Speaker 1: my shoes anywhere that I've never bought shoes, I've never 341 00:16:55,680 --> 00:16:57,480 Speaker 1: sold shoes. I've never been stilled. That's got to be 342 00:16:57,480 --> 00:16:59,840 Speaker 1: in the rule. It's gonna be in some sort of typing. 343 00:17:00,000 --> 00:17:02,320 Speaker 1: Already went wrong? Was eBay? He needed to go to 344 00:17:02,440 --> 00:17:05,920 Speaker 1: there's all these different kinds of apps, swap, Facebook, marketplace. 345 00:17:05,960 --> 00:17:07,520 Speaker 1: What about the money that we didn't get back from 346 00:17:07,520 --> 00:17:08,719 Speaker 1: the person who didn't sign for it. Do you think 347 00:17:08,760 --> 00:17:10,440 Speaker 1: all this is us being unlucky or do you think 348 00:17:10,440 --> 00:17:13,960 Speaker 1: it's human error. No, eBay's gone the way of the everything, 349 00:17:14,000 --> 00:17:17,040 Speaker 1: the Dodo bird because of that, the stupid signing thing. 350 00:17:17,080 --> 00:17:20,040 Speaker 1: I'm telling you got to meet people in person. Facebook, marketplaces, money, 351 00:17:20,080 --> 00:17:22,320 Speaker 1: it's taking over. No idea. Why you guys did eBay? 352 00:17:22,359 --> 00:17:24,560 Speaker 1: So you think, well I did? Well, you want to 353 00:17:24,560 --> 00:17:26,359 Speaker 1: know why, because then you have a whole new market 354 00:17:26,359 --> 00:17:28,080 Speaker 1: that it's open to. Like, let's listen to the market. 355 00:17:28,560 --> 00:17:30,960 Speaker 1: Because if you can Facebook marketplace about the market that 356 00:17:30,960 --> 00:17:32,600 Speaker 1: screws you and you get no money? Is that better? 357 00:17:32,840 --> 00:17:34,760 Speaker 1: Is a massive market where you get screwed and get 358 00:17:34,760 --> 00:17:37,840 Speaker 1: no money better than the tiny market where you get money? 359 00:17:37,920 --> 00:17:39,359 Speaker 1: How was I know that we were going to get 360 00:17:40,480 --> 00:17:43,080 Speaker 1: But I know, how was I supposed to know that 361 00:17:43,119 --> 00:17:45,919 Speaker 1: we were gonna get scammed? This is your business, Like 362 00:17:45,920 --> 00:17:49,280 Speaker 1: I've been scammed. If I've been scammed, come on this 363 00:17:49,320 --> 00:17:52,160 Speaker 1: show and we do scam alerts, and I say, live flock, 364 00:17:52,520 --> 00:17:54,720 Speaker 1: and yeah, I'm the one that got scammed by him. 365 00:17:55,480 --> 00:17:58,560 Speaker 1: I think I've been a victim of a scam. It's me. 366 00:17:58,840 --> 00:18:03,240 Speaker 1: I'm the victim here. No, I was the victim. We 367 00:18:03,280 --> 00:18:05,520 Speaker 1: put those shoes up and I mailed them and they 368 00:18:05,600 --> 00:18:07,840 Speaker 1: were signed for. How does that happen? And how do 369 00:18:07,920 --> 00:18:09,960 Speaker 1: they just take that person's word for it? Over ours? 370 00:18:10,040 --> 00:18:12,920 Speaker 1: My day? April third, I just don't better having my mind, 371 00:18:13,160 --> 00:18:16,440 Speaker 1: get a better have my money or there will be 372 00:18:16,880 --> 00:18:20,520 Speaker 1: a double hockey six today? What big thing have we 373 00:18:20,600 --> 00:18:24,200 Speaker 1: learned from this? Don't give Lunchbox your money. Nobe is tough, 374 00:18:25,359 --> 00:18:27,840 Speaker 1: like eBay is hard to deal with. Ask you about this? 375 00:18:28,600 --> 00:18:31,280 Speaker 1: Who can you help me now? Like lunchbox is giving 376 00:18:31,320 --> 00:18:34,400 Speaker 1: a lesson how to scam him? Yes, just order anything 377 00:18:34,400 --> 00:18:36,680 Speaker 1: he puts up. Say you signed for it? Oh yeah, 378 00:18:36,760 --> 00:18:41,080 Speaker 1: good point. Oh my gosh, okay, thank you Lunchbox. So please, 379 00:18:41,119 --> 00:18:42,720 Speaker 1: mail room be on the lookout for these shoes. They 380 00:18:42,720 --> 00:18:44,560 Speaker 1: were supposed to be coming back to us. Nail room, 381 00:18:44,720 --> 00:18:47,520 Speaker 1: you've got the return address here at work, I mean 382 00:18:47,600 --> 00:18:50,480 Speaker 1: the table in the kitchen. That's where all our mail goes. 383 00:18:51,119 --> 00:18:54,000 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, Like where were you just taking money 384 00:18:54,040 --> 00:18:56,359 Speaker 1: and burned it on the show where like here's the 385 00:18:56,400 --> 00:18:58,320 Speaker 1: money and the lighter and burning Well, I didn't think 386 00:18:58,359 --> 00:19:02,679 Speaker 1: you think maybe returned to us may look goodness, and 387 00:19:02,760 --> 00:19:04,480 Speaker 1: we still got a pair of that won't sell man? 388 00:19:05,200 --> 00:19:08,280 Speaker 1: What's that? The Nike Airmax ninety seven World Tour Men's 389 00:19:08,320 --> 00:19:12,080 Speaker 1: size eleven. Put them on Facebook Marketplace. They've been up 390 00:19:12,240 --> 00:19:14,800 Speaker 1: three times the first time. Why do you keep going 391 00:19:14,840 --> 00:19:16,760 Speaker 1: to eBay? We've been scammed every single person. I'm sold 392 00:19:16,920 --> 00:19:19,160 Speaker 1: like it got to thirty five dollars, but my minimum 393 00:19:19,240 --> 00:19:21,760 Speaker 1: was thirty nine ninety nine, so they didn't read meet 394 00:19:21,760 --> 00:19:23,919 Speaker 1: the requirement. Why not try a different place? Why not? 395 00:19:24,040 --> 00:19:27,280 Speaker 1: You could have tried posh mark. Go to Facebook book marketplace. 396 00:19:27,440 --> 00:19:29,720 Speaker 1: You're on Facebook every morning on the show. Just click 397 00:19:29,800 --> 00:19:32,400 Speaker 1: one mold tab called market place anti Facebook on the street. 398 00:19:32,400 --> 00:19:36,120 Speaker 1: They're not crossword puzzles. That's correct. Okay, there's no marketplace 399 00:19:36,160 --> 00:19:38,400 Speaker 1: for that. I can't We're done. I'm gonna play this song. 400 00:19:38,840 --> 00:19:40,560 Speaker 1: I'm gonna cry into my table here because I'm out 401 00:19:40,640 --> 00:19:42,920 Speaker 1: that money. I'm never gonna see it, right, No, it's 402 00:19:43,119 --> 00:19:44,600 Speaker 1: we got a big check. You're gonna present me the 403 00:19:44,600 --> 00:19:46,520 Speaker 1: big check. I'm never getting a business with him again. 404 00:19:47,640 --> 00:19:51,119 Speaker 1: That's it. Now, we got other things on the docket. No, 405 00:19:51,280 --> 00:19:55,400 Speaker 1: we don't you know about what You're gonna start sounding 406 00:19:55,359 --> 00:20:00,440 Speaker 1: the illegal stuff way. Oh, he's getting desperate. Now, time 407 00:20:00,480 --> 00:20:07,920 Speaker 1: for the good news. Tammy Lauren is a second grade 408 00:20:07,920 --> 00:20:11,600 Speaker 1: teacher in Byron Michigan and March is reading month, so 409 00:20:11,640 --> 00:20:13,119 Speaker 1: she thought, he don't want Let me reach out to 410 00:20:13,119 --> 00:20:15,040 Speaker 1: one of my students and see if he can come 411 00:20:15,080 --> 00:20:17,000 Speaker 1: and speak to my class. Well. One of her old 412 00:20:17,040 --> 00:20:20,520 Speaker 1: students back in second grade was race car driver Eric Jones. 413 00:20:20,560 --> 00:20:22,800 Speaker 1: He drives the number forty three Chevrolet car for NASCAR. 414 00:20:23,040 --> 00:20:25,399 Speaker 1: This dude's awesome. So she reaches out. She said, hey, 415 00:20:25,400 --> 00:20:28,040 Speaker 1: will you come visit the students. Sure, he shows up, 416 00:20:28,200 --> 00:20:31,080 Speaker 1: goes back to his hometown sits, tell stories about race 417 00:20:31,080 --> 00:20:34,679 Speaker 1: car driving, and then he gives them a book vending machine. 418 00:20:35,000 --> 00:20:38,560 Speaker 1: So like, students can earn tokens by like taking tests 419 00:20:38,640 --> 00:20:40,520 Speaker 1: or whatever. Then they get those tokens put in the 420 00:20:40,560 --> 00:20:43,520 Speaker 1: vending machine and get a book. Pretty cool. Do they 421 00:20:43,560 --> 00:20:45,480 Speaker 1: make book vending machines or did he have one made? 422 00:20:45,560 --> 00:20:49,119 Speaker 1: I've never heard of this they do. How do you 423 00:20:49,119 --> 00:20:51,280 Speaker 1: earn your tokens? Bobby? And your wife would say, you've 424 00:20:51,320 --> 00:20:53,320 Speaker 1: been good today, a good husband. Here's three tokens, Go 425 00:20:53,440 --> 00:20:56,840 Speaker 1: get your book and I'll who would stock the vending 426 00:20:56,920 --> 00:20:59,840 Speaker 1: mache I guess him Eric Jones? And that one oh 427 00:21:00,240 --> 00:21:04,119 Speaker 1: for your probably My wife Abe mostly books that she 428 00:21:04,160 --> 00:21:06,359 Speaker 1: wants me to read, marriage books. And then occasionally I 429 00:21:06,400 --> 00:21:09,480 Speaker 1: do a little house in the prairie. Is that it? 430 00:21:09,640 --> 00:21:11,840 Speaker 1: That's it? All right? Awesome story. Do you know him? 431 00:21:12,240 --> 00:21:15,000 Speaker 1: I mean I know him, you know, like like yeah, 432 00:21:15,000 --> 00:21:16,560 Speaker 1: but I don't bet on him. He doesn't win a lot. 433 00:21:16,800 --> 00:21:19,119 Speaker 1: Was asking about betting it. I'm just saying he's not 434 00:21:19,160 --> 00:21:24,360 Speaker 1: my top ten gabler. It immediately goes to gambler. That 435 00:21:24,520 --> 00:21:27,600 Speaker 1: is what it's all about. That was tell me something good. 436 00:21:29,600 --> 00:21:32,760 Speaker 1: Last week here Amy was talking about how she's getting 437 00:21:32,760 --> 00:21:35,960 Speaker 1: a divorce and we were very sensitive to talking about 438 00:21:35,960 --> 00:21:37,160 Speaker 1: it for a long time. There's a lot of reasons 439 00:21:37,200 --> 00:21:39,879 Speaker 1: that we weren't able to talk about it, kids, legal stuff, 440 00:21:40,200 --> 00:21:42,720 Speaker 1: privacy issues. But we did and it's out and a 441 00:21:42,760 --> 00:21:45,240 Speaker 1: lot of people reaching out there. They've been fantastic about 442 00:21:45,240 --> 00:21:46,880 Speaker 1: at least to me from what I've seen, been cool 443 00:21:46,880 --> 00:21:50,359 Speaker 1: with you. Yeah, anybody even not been cool. I mean yeah. 444 00:21:50,400 --> 00:21:55,280 Speaker 1: I try to just swipe on by me their name 445 00:21:55,880 --> 00:21:57,800 Speaker 1: most people, and I feel like I'm supposed to see 446 00:21:57,800 --> 00:22:00,280 Speaker 1: these comments are ones that are like, oh man, going 447 00:22:00,280 --> 00:22:02,280 Speaker 1: through this too, and so that's where it's like, oh wow, 448 00:22:02,520 --> 00:22:05,359 Speaker 1: like it's this because it's not easy to navigate, and 449 00:22:05,400 --> 00:22:07,680 Speaker 1: I feel for anybody that's having to do it. And 450 00:22:08,200 --> 00:22:09,680 Speaker 1: you know, some of the stuff that I've done over 451 00:22:09,680 --> 00:22:11,360 Speaker 1: the last six months that I have not been able 452 00:22:11,400 --> 00:22:13,600 Speaker 1: to talk about is like how I was really nervous 453 00:22:13,640 --> 00:22:16,639 Speaker 1: I was going to fail my co parenting divorce course 454 00:22:16,720 --> 00:22:19,760 Speaker 1: that I had to take. It's a four hours making 455 00:22:19,760 --> 00:22:22,040 Speaker 1: you take it, you say, have to take the law. Oh, 456 00:22:22,920 --> 00:22:26,600 Speaker 1: so every state is different, but the state of Tennessee 457 00:22:26,680 --> 00:22:30,800 Speaker 1: at least, like when you go before like the judge. 458 00:22:31,040 --> 00:22:34,480 Speaker 1: So there's courts that are looking at everything and this 459 00:22:34,520 --> 00:22:36,639 Speaker 1: has to be completed and you have to pass a 460 00:22:36,680 --> 00:22:39,600 Speaker 1: test after you take the four hour course. And it 461 00:22:39,680 --> 00:22:41,199 Speaker 1: doesn't it's not one of those where you can just 462 00:22:41,640 --> 00:22:44,120 Speaker 1: you know, act like you took the four hours. There's 463 00:22:44,160 --> 00:22:48,520 Speaker 1: a timer, so it's timing its page. Yeah, each page, 464 00:22:48,560 --> 00:22:51,359 Speaker 1: like you're on there until you've completed it and watched 465 00:22:51,359 --> 00:22:54,080 Speaker 1: the videos. Kind of questions they ask though, like just 466 00:22:54,920 --> 00:22:58,280 Speaker 1: an example, well you watch so for example, it would 467 00:22:58,280 --> 00:23:01,560 Speaker 1: be like you they take you through a scenario of 468 00:23:02,240 --> 00:23:04,480 Speaker 1: a like a video of reenactment or something of a 469 00:23:04,520 --> 00:23:07,240 Speaker 1: family where the co parents are not being nice to 470 00:23:07,320 --> 00:23:09,760 Speaker 1: each other, and how they're handling the situation is not 471 00:23:09,800 --> 00:23:12,359 Speaker 1: necessarily going to be beneficial for the kids, and you 472 00:23:12,440 --> 00:23:15,240 Speaker 1: have to watch the whole scenes, so you know, like hey, 473 00:23:15,280 --> 00:23:17,639 Speaker 1: then the question would be like, hey, what did you 474 00:23:17,640 --> 00:23:20,960 Speaker 1: know the dad say wrong? In this case? Like what 475 00:23:21,040 --> 00:23:23,440 Speaker 1: could he have done better? And then you pick the answer. 476 00:23:23,720 --> 00:23:26,600 Speaker 1: But sometimes I felt like my core like believed like 477 00:23:26,680 --> 00:23:28,840 Speaker 1: stuff I believe in how I would handle it. It 478 00:23:28,920 --> 00:23:31,199 Speaker 1: was a little bit different than I guess what the 479 00:23:31,280 --> 00:23:33,280 Speaker 1: law is saying. So I was so nervous I was 480 00:23:33,280 --> 00:23:36,560 Speaker 1: going to answer stuff wrong. I only missed two questions, though, 481 00:23:36,960 --> 00:23:39,520 Speaker 1: how do have any I don't remember four? That's what 482 00:23:39,560 --> 00:23:41,919 Speaker 1: I was going to say. Oh no, it was a 483 00:23:41,960 --> 00:23:45,480 Speaker 1: full blown test, Like it was four hours over fifty questions. 484 00:23:46,160 --> 00:23:50,200 Speaker 1: We probably how'd you feel about the acting in the scenes? Well, 485 00:23:50,240 --> 00:23:52,000 Speaker 1: I thought that people, Well what I wanted to know 486 00:23:52,280 --> 00:23:54,879 Speaker 1: it's I'm assuming it was re enact Yeah, it had 487 00:23:54,880 --> 00:24:01,080 Speaker 1: to be the kids. I don't know what I meant 488 00:24:01,119 --> 00:24:03,440 Speaker 1: to say was I know they're reenacting, but I don't 489 00:24:03,480 --> 00:24:06,320 Speaker 1: know if these are like real families that they pulled 490 00:24:06,400 --> 00:24:08,600 Speaker 1: or husband and wives where they're like, hey, we know 491 00:24:08,640 --> 00:24:11,840 Speaker 1: you're going through this, this is awesome. Oh really, yeah, 492 00:24:11,920 --> 00:24:14,400 Speaker 1: they did a good job. I thought I was gonna ask, 493 00:24:14,440 --> 00:24:16,040 Speaker 1: did you watch it? And we're like this se corny acting. 494 00:24:16,160 --> 00:24:21,760 Speaker 1: Maybe that's a good I could get. Well, that's good. 495 00:24:22,119 --> 00:24:25,440 Speaker 1: Somebody who's getting divorce sees it. It's like, wow, look, 496 00:24:25,640 --> 00:24:28,480 Speaker 1: has anything happened with your acting career? No, I'm still 497 00:24:28,520 --> 00:24:32,000 Speaker 1: taking lessons, but I have not auditioned for anything either. 498 00:24:32,600 --> 00:24:35,120 Speaker 1: So but I'm trying to get through some big life 499 00:24:35,160 --> 00:24:39,080 Speaker 1: things right now. But I'm I'm still consistent in my 500 00:24:39,440 --> 00:24:43,720 Speaker 1: practice and that's important to me. Was missing two questions, 501 00:24:44,000 --> 00:24:46,920 Speaker 1: it's still a past test, right, Yeah, I passed, so 502 00:24:47,080 --> 00:24:48,800 Speaker 1: that was good. So I've got that. And you know, 503 00:24:49,000 --> 00:24:50,800 Speaker 1: you know Ben had to do it too, and we're 504 00:24:50,880 --> 00:24:54,040 Speaker 1: co parenting in a way that I think that course 505 00:24:54,119 --> 00:24:57,800 Speaker 1: actually helped us too. It taught us a lot, but 506 00:24:57,920 --> 00:25:01,800 Speaker 1: so did our co parenting therapist, our counselor, and the 507 00:25:01,920 --> 00:25:04,840 Speaker 1: kids are the main priority. What if you don't take 508 00:25:04,880 --> 00:25:07,880 Speaker 1: the test, they make you get back together, like the law. Sorry, 509 00:25:08,119 --> 00:25:09,600 Speaker 1: you have to do it. But if you don't, like, 510 00:25:09,640 --> 00:25:12,160 Speaker 1: well it looks like you got to be married still. Well, 511 00:25:12,200 --> 00:25:15,080 Speaker 1: so even once you file, there's like a ninety day 512 00:25:15,880 --> 00:25:18,399 Speaker 1: Nothing can really happen even for ninety days because they 513 00:25:18,800 --> 00:25:22,520 Speaker 1: want you to. Yeah, so to make sure nobody's filing 514 00:25:22,600 --> 00:25:25,520 Speaker 1: out of any sort of you know, angst or anger 515 00:25:25,600 --> 00:25:27,640 Speaker 1: or anything. And I wonder how many people that ninety 516 00:25:27,720 --> 00:25:31,440 Speaker 1: days actually works for them to Oh, I'm sure a lot. 517 00:25:31,680 --> 00:25:33,399 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, but can you imagine if you did, it 518 00:25:33,560 --> 00:25:38,680 Speaker 1: was an instant Yeah yeah, I'll take a divorce please, 519 00:25:38,800 --> 00:25:41,720 Speaker 1: and I'll take some guawk and then all of a 520 00:25:41,720 --> 00:25:46,000 Speaker 1: sudden out all the time. What I don't understand though, 521 00:25:46,240 --> 00:25:48,359 Speaker 1: is like when we had kids, you know, when we 522 00:25:48,440 --> 00:25:50,720 Speaker 1: were just like parenting to begin with, we don't have 523 00:25:50,760 --> 00:25:53,000 Speaker 1: to take a test. We should take a test when 524 00:25:53,040 --> 00:25:55,800 Speaker 1: we just have the first kid, not just because they 525 00:25:55,800 --> 00:25:58,639 Speaker 1: should lock up our private parts and they can't unlock 526 00:25:58,720 --> 00:26:01,359 Speaker 1: until you take a test about having kids. Right. Well, 527 00:26:01,400 --> 00:26:03,960 Speaker 1: so that's how I felt about the adoption process. Like 528 00:26:04,040 --> 00:26:06,919 Speaker 1: if I was able to get pregnant, which we had 529 00:26:06,960 --> 00:26:10,320 Speaker 1: fertility stuff so I wasn't, But if I had been, 530 00:26:10,359 --> 00:26:13,240 Speaker 1: I would have just walla had a baby. But adoption, no, 531 00:26:13,520 --> 00:26:16,240 Speaker 1: I had to like all kinds of things, paper work, this, 532 00:26:16,440 --> 00:26:19,480 Speaker 1: that homestead. They can control that, right, And I get it, 533 00:26:19,520 --> 00:26:21,879 Speaker 1: that's valid. You can't just be handing out kids to people, right, 534 00:26:22,240 --> 00:26:24,280 Speaker 1: But it is a little like sometimes it's just we 535 00:26:24,400 --> 00:26:26,640 Speaker 1: need Waila, you have a baby, take a test before 536 00:26:26,640 --> 00:26:29,000 Speaker 1: you have it. Willa. Again, you don't get the key 537 00:26:29,040 --> 00:26:33,640 Speaker 1: to your private right until that's what it is. We're 538 00:26:33,680 --> 00:26:36,280 Speaker 1: all wearing contraptions around our ways, right, and then you 539 00:26:36,400 --> 00:26:41,560 Speaker 1: know you don't have one on one days gratulation for you. Yeah, yeah, 540 00:26:41,840 --> 00:26:46,160 Speaker 1: I only got two wrong. It's all good on that front. Yeah. 541 00:26:46,400 --> 00:26:49,120 Speaker 1: Just for anyone that's frustrated by the process of having 542 00:26:49,200 --> 00:26:52,960 Speaker 1: to take a co parenting or divorce course online like mandatory, 543 00:26:53,560 --> 00:26:55,960 Speaker 1: you it. Actually you can learn from it. So lean in, 544 00:26:56,480 --> 00:26:58,639 Speaker 1: ask questions, want to be better, because then you can 545 00:26:58,680 --> 00:27:02,160 Speaker 1: be amicable. There you go, heard it from her? Maybe 546 00:27:04,680 --> 00:27:07,520 Speaker 1: the more you know. I want to bring back on 547 00:27:07,720 --> 00:27:10,359 Speaker 1: Roy in North Carolina. You may remember Roy because Roy 548 00:27:10,440 --> 00:27:12,520 Speaker 1: called us and said, there's an artist and I have 549 00:27:12,720 --> 00:27:14,480 Speaker 1: meet and greets and I really want to ask her out. 550 00:27:14,960 --> 00:27:17,879 Speaker 1: Do you remember that? Yeah, we were all rooting for him, 551 00:27:18,200 --> 00:27:20,520 Speaker 1: but we were like, you really gotta be It's a 552 00:27:20,600 --> 00:27:23,800 Speaker 1: delicate situation. Roy is on right now? Roy, what's up, Buddy? 553 00:27:24,800 --> 00:27:30,399 Speaker 1: Good morning, Bobby and studio. I'm yeah, yeah, yeah, he's 554 00:27:30,440 --> 00:27:34,040 Speaker 1: yellow Pep in his death. Roy, So what happened? Give 555 00:27:34,119 --> 00:27:36,120 Speaker 1: us as much as you can give us? I wait, 556 00:27:36,200 --> 00:27:38,680 Speaker 1: in mind for meet and greets and all that, and 557 00:27:38,840 --> 00:27:40,760 Speaker 1: then it was my turn to meet her and all that, 558 00:27:41,960 --> 00:27:44,520 Speaker 1: and she saw my vest out of everybody had met 559 00:27:44,560 --> 00:27:48,600 Speaker 1: and greets and nobody else happen for two grannies, and 560 00:27:48,760 --> 00:27:50,239 Speaker 1: she was like, I'm here for it. I liked your 561 00:27:50,280 --> 00:27:51,760 Speaker 1: vest and all that. And then finally I get to 562 00:27:51,840 --> 00:27:54,800 Speaker 1: meet her and I asked her. I said, hey, do 563 00:27:54,840 --> 00:27:56,720 Speaker 1: you want to switch your vest? She'd be like, she 564 00:27:56,880 --> 00:27:58,520 Speaker 1: was like, I was so down for it and auto stuff, 565 00:27:58,560 --> 00:28:05,520 Speaker 1: and we switched the vest. Yeah. I was like, hey, y, 566 00:28:05,760 --> 00:28:07,920 Speaker 1: I was on Bobby Balls talking about you and I 567 00:28:08,000 --> 00:28:10,760 Speaker 1: got something to give you. And it was just a note. 568 00:28:10,840 --> 00:28:12,920 Speaker 1: And she was like, I can't think the note, But 569 00:28:13,280 --> 00:28:14,680 Speaker 1: were you the one that was calling on the radio 570 00:28:14,680 --> 00:28:16,480 Speaker 1: because my drummer said he heard it early in the 571 00:28:16,560 --> 00:28:18,800 Speaker 1: morning one day last week. I'm like what, no way. 572 00:28:18,960 --> 00:28:20,960 Speaker 1: We just started busting out laughing and all that stuff. 573 00:28:21,480 --> 00:28:23,639 Speaker 1: She thought it was hilarious and all that stuff that 574 00:28:23,800 --> 00:28:25,800 Speaker 1: being said, we never said her name. Oh her name 575 00:28:25,920 --> 00:28:29,760 Speaker 1: is Priscilla. No, we never said her name on the show, 576 00:28:30,359 --> 00:28:32,480 Speaker 1: so we just kind of left it generic. So he 577 00:28:32,640 --> 00:28:35,960 Speaker 1: must have known it, yes, yeah, based on the city 578 00:28:36,040 --> 00:28:38,720 Speaker 1: and date and all that, so well, you just said 579 00:28:38,760 --> 00:28:41,640 Speaker 1: who it was, so it was Priscilla Block and then 580 00:28:41,720 --> 00:28:44,720 Speaker 1: she wouldn't take the note. So where did you put 581 00:28:44,800 --> 00:28:46,640 Speaker 1: the note? If I was smart enough? So one told 582 00:28:46,640 --> 00:28:48,400 Speaker 1: me at the meet and greet when she took my vest, 583 00:28:48,440 --> 00:28:51,360 Speaker 1: I should have put my number in the vest, but 584 00:28:51,560 --> 00:28:53,880 Speaker 1: I didn't think about that at the time, so I 585 00:28:53,960 --> 00:28:56,840 Speaker 1: didn't give her the note. Did you do as I suggested? 586 00:28:56,880 --> 00:28:58,560 Speaker 1: And you went and like found the manager or something 587 00:28:58,640 --> 00:29:00,320 Speaker 1: that's with her and went, hey, I'd like to take 588 00:29:00,320 --> 00:29:02,520 Speaker 1: her out. So it didn't seem as weird or did 589 00:29:02,560 --> 00:29:04,880 Speaker 1: she just bail after the meat and greet? No, I 590 00:29:04,960 --> 00:29:06,600 Speaker 1: mean she was right next to her taking pictures and 591 00:29:06,600 --> 00:29:10,000 Speaker 1: all that stuff too. So the manager was these pictures 592 00:29:10,040 --> 00:29:13,640 Speaker 1: of Priscilla performing an invest Was your vest yellow with stripes? Uh? Yeah? 593 00:29:13,720 --> 00:29:15,720 Speaker 1: And that's a Block party on it? Yeah, I mean 594 00:29:15,800 --> 00:29:18,000 Speaker 1: she's wearing it in the pictures. That's pretty Like you 595 00:29:18,040 --> 00:29:20,080 Speaker 1: give that to your best girl whenever you Yeah, you know, 596 00:29:20,360 --> 00:29:23,160 Speaker 1: letterman jacket. And she even told me, she's like, you 597 00:29:23,240 --> 00:29:24,560 Speaker 1: have to look like you're gonna be stuck with a 598 00:29:24,600 --> 00:29:27,520 Speaker 1: crop top best. Now I'm like, all right, it sounds good. 599 00:29:27,920 --> 00:29:29,480 Speaker 1: Do you still have the vest? That she gave you 600 00:29:30,240 --> 00:29:33,880 Speaker 1: all right, sure do so, and you guys never went out. Nope, 601 00:29:33,960 --> 00:29:36,760 Speaker 1: sadly munch bunch. What you want to say? I mean 602 00:29:36,880 --> 00:29:38,480 Speaker 1: this dude drop. I mean, I don't understand why she 603 00:29:38,520 --> 00:29:40,400 Speaker 1: couldn't take the note. Well, you don't take the note 604 00:29:40,400 --> 00:29:42,640 Speaker 1: because I'll tell you why. First of all, you're in 605 00:29:42,680 --> 00:29:44,120 Speaker 1: the middle of a munch people and you're signing stuff, 606 00:29:44,120 --> 00:29:46,000 Speaker 1: you're taking pictures. You don't. You don't take stuff and 607 00:29:46,000 --> 00:29:48,320 Speaker 1: hold stuff from people for the most part. And secondly, 608 00:29:48,720 --> 00:29:50,480 Speaker 1: you don't take notes because they could be really creepy, 609 00:29:51,200 --> 00:29:53,960 Speaker 1: and so you're like, yeah, I can't take anything. Sometimes 610 00:29:54,000 --> 00:29:56,160 Speaker 1: people leave some creepy crap. I tell you from experience. 611 00:29:56,560 --> 00:29:58,440 Speaker 1: Now I'm not saying what he's doing creepy a little bit, 612 00:29:58,680 --> 00:30:01,640 Speaker 1: but that it's not creepy. I've had some real creepers 613 00:30:01,800 --> 00:30:03,920 Speaker 1: And didn't you didn't wait by the bus after the show. 614 00:30:04,000 --> 00:30:06,600 Speaker 1: That's also creepy. Okay, have you slid into her dms? 615 00:30:07,360 --> 00:30:09,720 Speaker 1: Like what are you doing? I've been trying to catch 616 00:30:09,760 --> 00:30:12,240 Speaker 1: her attention by commented on her pictures and all that stuff, 617 00:30:12,280 --> 00:30:15,400 Speaker 1: But I mean, the fish ain't biden how many oh man? Yeah, 618 00:30:15,440 --> 00:30:20,040 Speaker 1: you've been comment a lot, I mean quite frequently overcoming 619 00:30:20,160 --> 00:30:23,200 Speaker 1: too much. What's your name on Instagram? And now though 620 00:30:23,640 --> 00:30:26,920 Speaker 1: it's blink l I m t K underscore at ninety six, 621 00:30:27,120 --> 00:30:30,920 Speaker 1: all right, keep coming slide in her DMS. Now you're 622 00:30:30,960 --> 00:30:32,960 Speaker 1: already known, so you can't play cool. So I would 623 00:30:32,960 --> 00:30:35,160 Speaker 1: just go all out, buddy, but not a lot in 624 00:30:35,200 --> 00:30:37,240 Speaker 1: a creepyway. Don't talk her. I would just try for 625 00:30:37,280 --> 00:30:39,680 Speaker 1: another week or so commenting and messaging her and then 626 00:30:39,840 --> 00:30:41,640 Speaker 1: give us a call back and let us know she responds, okay, 627 00:30:41,680 --> 00:30:44,360 Speaker 1: but send her a DM. Oh, I mean, all right, 628 00:30:44,440 --> 00:30:48,720 Speaker 1: wisdom from Bobby this morning. Oh hey, I'm not trying 629 00:30:48,720 --> 00:30:53,560 Speaker 1: to find this dude. On a voicemail from Taylor and Pittsburgh, PA. 630 00:30:54,040 --> 00:30:56,640 Speaker 1: I'm a trust driver and I just delivered a load 631 00:30:56,720 --> 00:30:59,920 Speaker 1: up period at New Hampshire, and I have to say geographic, 632 00:31:00,560 --> 00:31:04,200 Speaker 1: it is a place on the map, and it does exist. However, 633 00:31:04,640 --> 00:31:08,920 Speaker 1: I'm not convinced that it exists in our universe. Everybody 634 00:31:09,000 --> 00:31:11,920 Speaker 1: there is way too nice, the towns are way too peaceful. 635 00:31:12,160 --> 00:31:14,360 Speaker 1: It doesn't seem like it's an actual place on Earth. 636 00:31:14,640 --> 00:31:17,959 Speaker 1: But I was physically there, can't confirm that it actually 637 00:31:18,040 --> 00:31:20,520 Speaker 1: does exist in this universe. So I want to, let's know, 638 00:31:21,160 --> 00:31:23,320 Speaker 1: listen to the podcast every day. You guys keeping going 639 00:31:23,400 --> 00:31:25,240 Speaker 1: on a road, so I appreciate it. Keep doing what 640 00:31:25,280 --> 00:31:27,160 Speaker 1: you're doing. I told you somethings up. He's one of 641 00:31:27,280 --> 00:31:31,120 Speaker 1: us that is interesting. He got supposedly there. Physically everything's perfect. 642 00:31:31,120 --> 00:31:33,000 Speaker 1: I'm telling you, people from New Hampshire either aren't real 643 00:31:33,480 --> 00:31:36,440 Speaker 1: or they're the most amazing people ever. Yeah, sounds to 644 00:31:36,520 --> 00:31:38,080 Speaker 1: me like they're not real. He was in some sort 645 00:31:38,080 --> 00:31:39,719 Speaker 1: of virtual reality and doesn't know it. So you think 646 00:31:39,720 --> 00:31:43,479 Speaker 1: when you pass the state line, it's like if there 647 00:31:43,520 --> 00:31:46,640 Speaker 1: even is a state line. Your Hampshire sounds too perfect. 648 00:31:46,720 --> 00:31:52,520 Speaker 1: You guys are calling you're Samy's Pile of Stories. Teachers 649 00:31:52,680 --> 00:31:55,560 Speaker 1: have revealed the code words that they use when they're 650 00:31:55,560 --> 00:31:57,840 Speaker 1: trying to tell parents that their kid might have like 651 00:31:57,960 --> 00:32:00,720 Speaker 1: an issue, but they're trying to not really say by issue. 652 00:32:01,280 --> 00:32:05,719 Speaker 1: So is it is it a word that the parents 653 00:32:05,840 --> 00:32:07,960 Speaker 1: know what the code is for or they just trying 654 00:32:08,040 --> 00:32:10,520 Speaker 1: Is it like a euphemism to make it not seem 655 00:32:10,600 --> 00:32:13,160 Speaker 1: so bad. It's to make it not seem so bad, 656 00:32:13,200 --> 00:32:15,760 Speaker 1: but they're hoping the parents catch on. And a teacher 657 00:32:15,800 --> 00:32:17,960 Speaker 1: went viral on TikTok sharing it and so many other 658 00:32:18,000 --> 00:32:21,520 Speaker 1: teachers were commenting like, yes, this is one hundred percent fact. 659 00:32:21,600 --> 00:32:25,040 Speaker 1: So I guess parents pay attention. If your child is oh, 660 00:32:25,320 --> 00:32:29,239 Speaker 1: very social, it means they won't stop talking before me too. 661 00:32:29,640 --> 00:32:31,600 Speaker 1: So I don't think that was a good thing. I 662 00:32:31,680 --> 00:32:34,920 Speaker 1: thought very much. Yeah, social too, Yeah, yeah, I would 663 00:32:34,960 --> 00:32:38,560 Speaker 1: not catch that code word. Go ahead, your child's excitement 664 00:32:38,640 --> 00:32:41,440 Speaker 1: in the classroom is contagious. I would think that's positive 665 00:32:41,480 --> 00:32:43,440 Speaker 1: for me too. I know it means your kid can't 666 00:32:43,480 --> 00:32:46,560 Speaker 1: calm down. But parents not gonna know this. This is 667 00:32:46,600 --> 00:32:49,000 Speaker 1: not code. You gotta say you kid won't shut up. 668 00:32:51,040 --> 00:32:53,240 Speaker 1: Right to the point I knew their excitement is contagious 669 00:32:53,440 --> 00:32:55,400 Speaker 1: because that is very much a positive thing. What else, 670 00:32:56,120 --> 00:32:59,280 Speaker 1: Your child is a natural born leader. I love that. 671 00:32:59,520 --> 00:33:02,000 Speaker 1: That's why could that be bad? Oh they're super bossy? 672 00:33:02,640 --> 00:33:05,840 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, I don't know this is not good. 673 00:33:05,960 --> 00:33:09,000 Speaker 1: Natural born leader is an amazing thing to be called. Yeah, 674 00:33:09,080 --> 00:33:10,360 Speaker 1: I get called it every day about you guys. What 675 00:33:10,400 --> 00:33:12,320 Speaker 1: are you trying to tell me your boss? Yeah, behind 676 00:33:12,360 --> 00:33:16,000 Speaker 1: the scenes, you guys, a code word he's leading. Well today, everybody, 677 00:33:16,160 --> 00:33:18,800 Speaker 1: go ahead. Your son is going to be a great 678 00:33:19,000 --> 00:33:23,440 Speaker 1: lawyer one day. He argues a lot smar and can 679 00:33:23,520 --> 00:33:27,280 Speaker 1: study and is able to retain knowledge. Well, Eddie's right, 680 00:33:27,320 --> 00:33:29,520 Speaker 1: it means your son won't stop arguing with me. Well, 681 00:33:29,560 --> 00:33:31,440 Speaker 1: they need to stop this. I don't like it. And 682 00:33:31,560 --> 00:33:33,760 Speaker 1: they're more tax dollars or whatever programs is that those 683 00:33:33,760 --> 00:33:35,520 Speaker 1: teachers are in. Because you gotta tell him for real 684 00:33:35,600 --> 00:33:37,280 Speaker 1: if that's an issue. All right, go ahead, Okay. So 685 00:33:37,400 --> 00:33:42,080 Speaker 1: Billy Joel you may know him from Uptown Girl or 686 00:33:42,240 --> 00:33:47,680 Speaker 1: piano man. Oh yeah, I mean I've seen Billy of 687 00:33:47,720 --> 00:33:50,160 Speaker 1: John concert three times. Good. I saw Billy Joel and 688 00:33:50,160 --> 00:33:53,960 Speaker 1: Elton John same concert. Did they do dueling pianos? Well, 689 00:33:54,040 --> 00:33:55,880 Speaker 1: sort of, they sang together. That's cool. They didn't do 690 00:33:55,960 --> 00:33:58,400 Speaker 1: dueling pianos like at the bar. Why do you bring 691 00:33:58,480 --> 00:34:01,480 Speaker 1: him up? Well, so he loses thousands every night, and 692 00:34:01,520 --> 00:34:04,280 Speaker 1: he does this on purpose because he doesn't want anybody 693 00:34:04,360 --> 00:34:07,560 Speaker 1: to have the front row seats, so that during his 694 00:34:07,680 --> 00:34:10,960 Speaker 1: show he can send his people to the back back 695 00:34:11,080 --> 00:34:14,280 Speaker 1: far rows and say, hey, what up, you've been upgraded 696 00:34:14,320 --> 00:34:17,000 Speaker 1: to the front row. So it's about twenty to thirty 697 00:34:17,000 --> 00:34:19,200 Speaker 1: thousand bucks and Idy loses. But the story with this 698 00:34:19,400 --> 00:34:21,840 Speaker 1: is he would get annoyed at rich people up front 699 00:34:22,200 --> 00:34:23,680 Speaker 1: and he would look into the crowd and he would 700 00:34:23,680 --> 00:34:25,520 Speaker 1: see people just like twelvend the thumbs or on their 701 00:34:25,560 --> 00:34:28,080 Speaker 1: phones or just talking to each other. Because rich people 702 00:34:28,160 --> 00:34:29,800 Speaker 1: get all this stuff all the time, they weren't excited 703 00:34:29,840 --> 00:34:31,680 Speaker 1: to be there. So for his own mental health, because 704 00:34:31,680 --> 00:34:33,400 Speaker 1: he would struggle with seeing people not having fun so 705 00:34:33,480 --> 00:34:35,600 Speaker 1: would affect his show, he was like, don't sell the 706 00:34:35,680 --> 00:34:37,640 Speaker 1: front row. I'm just gonna take people at the top 707 00:34:37,680 --> 00:34:39,719 Speaker 1: who I know, like saved up to come to the 708 00:34:39,760 --> 00:34:41,440 Speaker 1: show and put him out there because they will be 709 00:34:41,560 --> 00:34:44,520 Speaker 1: cheering and be into it and in the end helps 710 00:34:44,600 --> 00:34:48,319 Speaker 1: him perform better. Wow, that's really cool. So he loses money, 711 00:34:48,400 --> 00:34:51,080 Speaker 1: but really it's more of an investment back into him 712 00:34:51,600 --> 00:34:54,080 Speaker 1: so he feels better as he performs. But that's that's 713 00:34:54,080 --> 00:34:57,920 Speaker 1: pretty cool. Actually, I sell mine for double or the better. 714 00:34:58,040 --> 00:34:59,759 Speaker 1: You don't care if they're on their phone either, whatever, 715 00:35:00,600 --> 00:35:04,680 Speaker 1: go ahead. So there's a neighborhood in California that is 716 00:35:04,719 --> 00:35:08,920 Speaker 1: just getting food delivered to it like Crazy Taco Bell, McDonald's, Starbucks. 717 00:35:09,080 --> 00:35:11,200 Speaker 1: These residents they don't know where it's coming from, but 718 00:35:11,440 --> 00:35:13,919 Speaker 1: Uber Eats just dropping all the foods. Yes, and they're 719 00:35:14,000 --> 00:35:17,600 Speaker 1: trying to call the phone numbers that are on the receipts, 720 00:35:17,760 --> 00:35:20,800 Speaker 1: but says it's out of service. The meals are prepaid, 721 00:35:20,920 --> 00:35:24,520 Speaker 1: the tips are paid, and they're like, okay, this this 722 00:35:24,680 --> 00:35:27,600 Speaker 1: is just getting a little annoying and they don't really 723 00:35:27,640 --> 00:35:28,719 Speaker 1: know what to do with all the food, but it 724 00:35:28,800 --> 00:35:31,160 Speaker 1: keeps happening. Well, if it was you, you'd moved. Yeah, 725 00:35:31,719 --> 00:35:33,960 Speaker 1: you've done that. You moved people pizza and you moved 726 00:35:34,040 --> 00:35:35,560 Speaker 1: pizza show up at your house and you're like, I'm 727 00:35:35,560 --> 00:35:37,640 Speaker 1: out of here. People would die for free Pizza's aim. Yeah, 728 00:35:37,960 --> 00:35:40,000 Speaker 1: the whole town has this been. It's like an invasion 729 00:35:40,200 --> 00:35:42,640 Speaker 1: of Uber eats. So it's a joke or do they 730 00:35:42,800 --> 00:35:46,680 Speaker 1: gotta be somebody up to something? Either Uber Eats, the company, 731 00:35:48,400 --> 00:35:51,200 Speaker 1: the owner of some I want to say one single restaurant, 732 00:35:51,200 --> 00:35:53,560 Speaker 1: because it's a multiple restaurant. That's something's up and it's 733 00:35:53,600 --> 00:35:55,800 Speaker 1: turned into promotion for something here. I don't know what 734 00:35:55,880 --> 00:35:59,440 Speaker 1: it is. It's hilarious and I was all hours and 735 00:35:59,520 --> 00:36:02,480 Speaker 1: I wouldn't eat the food if it only came to 736 00:36:02,600 --> 00:36:04,680 Speaker 1: my house. But if it's going to everybody's house, I'd 737 00:36:04,760 --> 00:36:07,160 Speaker 1: risk the poisoning because I don't think they're poisoning everybody. 738 00:36:07,400 --> 00:36:09,800 Speaker 1: I haven't been targeted I did not eat one single 739 00:36:09,880 --> 00:36:12,520 Speaker 1: slice of people, but you were targeted. I was yeah, 740 00:36:12,680 --> 00:36:17,720 Speaker 1: something I moved. Yes, that was Amy's pile of stories. 741 00:36:18,040 --> 00:36:25,520 Speaker 1: It's time for the good news. She's almost eighty years old. 742 00:36:25,560 --> 00:36:28,400 Speaker 1: Her name's Lewin, and she washes dishes. She gotta do 743 00:36:28,440 --> 00:36:30,239 Speaker 1: it because she got to pay the bills. I mean, 744 00:36:30,320 --> 00:36:33,600 Speaker 1: she'd loved to retire because she is eighty, but she can't. 745 00:36:34,000 --> 00:36:36,200 Speaker 1: So she keeps working and sometimes she does extra shifts, 746 00:36:36,239 --> 00:36:37,759 Speaker 1: but sometimes she can't make those shifts because the car 747 00:36:37,840 --> 00:36:40,000 Speaker 1: breaks down. She's worried that her car will all the 748 00:36:40,040 --> 00:36:41,799 Speaker 1: way die then she will not be able to get 749 00:36:41,800 --> 00:36:43,560 Speaker 1: to work at all. Well, this is what's happening. And 750 00:36:43,600 --> 00:36:46,319 Speaker 1: the people that work with her lover and so one 751 00:36:46,360 --> 00:36:49,759 Speaker 1: of the girls that she works with, Alicia, created a crowdfund, 752 00:36:50,120 --> 00:36:51,680 Speaker 1: and she didn't get on the internet and scream it, 753 00:36:51,760 --> 00:36:54,440 Speaker 1: but she did go to people and like send the 754 00:36:54,520 --> 00:36:56,160 Speaker 1: email to people in the neighborhood that she knew, and 755 00:36:56,200 --> 00:36:58,279 Speaker 1: there was a whole list. The fund started with the 756 00:36:58,320 --> 00:37:00,839 Speaker 1: goal of raising a few thousand bucks they would cover rent, 757 00:37:01,440 --> 00:37:03,799 Speaker 1: possibly a few other bills, and to fix the car. 758 00:37:04,480 --> 00:37:08,200 Speaker 1: But after about a week they'd raised sixteen thousand dollars. Wow. 759 00:37:09,040 --> 00:37:12,120 Speaker 1: So it's not enough to retire quite yet, but it 760 00:37:12,280 --> 00:37:13,840 Speaker 1: is enough to get the car fixed and actually have 761 00:37:13,920 --> 00:37:17,160 Speaker 1: a little money so that she can work and also 762 00:37:17,760 --> 00:37:21,000 Speaker 1: not always stress about getting to work. And so that 763 00:37:21,080 --> 00:37:22,600 Speaker 1: was all just because somebody that worked there was super 764 00:37:22,640 --> 00:37:24,000 Speaker 1: cool and like, hey, we're trying to help you out 765 00:37:24,000 --> 00:37:27,400 Speaker 1: here at eighty years old. That's amazing paying sixteen thousand 766 00:37:27,400 --> 00:37:30,560 Speaker 1: bucks just buy some random I feel like I would 767 00:37:30,600 --> 00:37:32,440 Speaker 1: owe them everything. Yeah, you'd always have to be nice, 768 00:37:32,480 --> 00:37:33,879 Speaker 1: even if you had a bad day, it'd be nice 769 00:37:33,880 --> 00:37:36,440 Speaker 1: to them. If if they made you mad at work, 770 00:37:36,480 --> 00:37:38,120 Speaker 1: you still have to be nice to them because they'd 771 00:37:38,200 --> 00:37:40,960 Speaker 1: raised sixteen thousand bucks. That's an awesome story. That is 772 00:37:41,040 --> 00:37:43,879 Speaker 1: what it's all about. That was tell me something good.