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Speaker 1: Cassandra on Facebook rights My siblings are planning a big

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Speaker 1: family vacation with our parents, and they're asking me to

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Speaker 1: chip in for it. The problem is they've been saving

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Speaker 1: up for this for years, and I hadn't been planning

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Speaker 1: and going. But they're making me feel guilty for not contributing.

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Speaker 1: It's a lot of money that I'd rather use on

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Speaker 1: things that matter to me, but I don't want to

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Speaker 1: look selfish. How do I tell them I'm not interested

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Speaker 1: in helping to fund the trip without causing a family feud?

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Speaker 2: That is, well, you don't tell them you're not interested

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Speaker 2: in helping fund the family vacation. You tell them you

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Speaker 2: can't afford the family vacation. See there's a difference. You've

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Speaker 2: got to fix your wording. I don't want to help

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Speaker 2: fund it. I need other things. Just say hey, look,

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Speaker 2: I'm sorry, y'all. I just can't afford it. Too much

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Speaker 2: stuff has come up. I got this that pending, and

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Speaker 2: if I spend this money on vacation, I'm gonna be

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Speaker 2: in a world of trouble.

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Speaker 3: So forgive me, but I.

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Speaker 2: Can't some help if I'm goat and I don't even

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Speaker 2: think I'm gonna be able to go and how I

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Speaker 2: want to go, but I just can't.

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Speaker 3: Don't look like I'm a be able to go.

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Speaker 4: She doesn't like her family very much. Your family vacation

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Speaker 4: with her parents? Wow?

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Speaker 1: Okay, well we have time for another one, Steve. This

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Speaker 1: is from Kevin on Steve Harvey FM. Kevin says, this

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Speaker 1: question is a sad one, but my wife and I

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Speaker 1: are beefing about how to handle it while she gets

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Speaker 1: on her feet after graduating from college. Our twenty three

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Speaker 1: year old daughter is living with us and she has

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Speaker 1: a pet cat. Yesterday she went off on a seven

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Speaker 1: day trip with some girlfriends, and today her beloved cat

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Speaker 1: passed away.

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Speaker 4: I think we should.

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Speaker 1: Tell her, but my wife doesn't want to because she

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Speaker 1: thinks it'll ruin her trip.

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Speaker 4: She's even suggested just burying it and telling her that

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Speaker 4: it ran away.

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Speaker 1: I think I feel like she's an adult and she

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Speaker 1: can handle it.

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Speaker 4: What's the best way to deal with this? How would

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Speaker 4: you say?

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Speaker 3: Is Steve?

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Speaker 2: Know you know a lot of people take their pets

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Speaker 2: real serious, so you got to handle this kind of gingerly.

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Speaker 2: I think the truth, even though I like the lie

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Speaker 2: the cat ran off. I like to tell the wife,

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Speaker 2: but I think it's best in this that people have

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Speaker 2: to learn, you know, this is life, it happens. I

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Speaker 2: think you should tell the truth. The cat died, and

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Speaker 2: this was number nine. Then this was number nine obviously,

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Speaker 2: because this was this is pretty final. He just sucked

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Speaker 2: up eight of them, and I think this was not

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Speaker 2: And obviously we didn't know about the other eight, because

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Speaker 2: this is it. Your cat is dead. This was number nine. Obviously,

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Speaker 2: that's how you yeah, because I'm you know, in case,

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Speaker 2: we need to put some humor in it.

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Speaker 3: I don't like cats, no damn way. So that's really

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Speaker 3: the best I could do.

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Speaker 1: Well, they give your advice. They asked specifically for your advice.

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Speaker 2: So why would you ask somebody don't care about cats.

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Speaker 4: He's supposed to know that. The guy that wrote the.

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Speaker 3: Letter, he was, okay, what would you? What's his real diliver?

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Speaker 4: He wants it's him and his wife.

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Speaker 1: His wife wants to tell her that the cat ran

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Speaker 1: away the daughter. The daughter lost the cat, but the

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Speaker 1: daughter went on vacation. And when she went on vacation, okay,

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Speaker 1: the cat died.

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Speaker 3: Daughter.

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Speaker 4: But she's twenty three. He's tall, man.

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Speaker 2: You got to tell a baby, your baby, baby, whiskers,

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Speaker 2: it's gold, but.

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Speaker 4: She's on vacation.

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Speaker 1: They don't want to tell her while she's on vacation

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Speaker 1: because they think it'll ruin her trip.

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Speaker 2: It will wait till she come back, telling her name,

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Speaker 2: bringing the cat back, Wait until she come home. Sit down, No, no,

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Speaker 2: this was you do. Wait till your daughter come home.

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Speaker 2: So how was the trip?

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Speaker 3: Mama had a good time.

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Speaker 2: We was in the water, we were splashing, we were

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Speaker 2: playing it. We had a good phone and everything in

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Speaker 2: the differ. And then don't don't say nothing, and just

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Speaker 2: and then wait till her because she gonna say, Mama,

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Speaker 2: where is whiskers? And just go, well, we didn't want.

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Speaker 3: To call you. We didn't want to call you while.

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Speaker 4: You are the worst.

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Speaker 2: And then just opened up your iPhone and show them

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Speaker 2: where you found whiskers.

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Speaker 1: Oh, we'll have more of Steve Harvey Morning Shows Ignorant

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Speaker 1: Show twenty minutes after be our. Right after this, you're

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Speaker 1: listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.