1 00:00:00,200 --> 00:00:02,640 Speaker 1: I just received a request for child support from a 2 00:00:02,680 --> 00:00:05,520 Speaker 1: woman I've never met. I'm assessed woman and have never 3 00:00:05,600 --> 00:00:08,680 Speaker 1: had children. So should I sue her? I'm Sam. This 4 00:00:08,760 --> 00:00:12,959 Speaker 1: is OKOP where we tell the funniest stories on Earth. John, 5 00:00:13,360 --> 00:00:15,840 Speaker 1: What do you think should OP sue or give the money? 6 00:00:15,920 --> 00:00:19,640 Speaker 2: Do not send any money? First off, one hundred percent 7 00:00:19,920 --> 00:00:21,720 Speaker 2: like this, it's not your child. 8 00:00:21,800 --> 00:00:23,639 Speaker 1: It's it's not your child. Why do we do it? 9 00:00:23,680 --> 00:00:25,079 Speaker 1: And then also as soon as you give a little 10 00:00:25,079 --> 00:00:27,800 Speaker 1: bit of money, then there's precedent to give more. And 11 00:00:27,840 --> 00:00:29,320 Speaker 1: it's like, why would you ever? 12 00:00:29,480 --> 00:00:31,480 Speaker 2: Like if I if I walked up to a stranger 13 00:00:31,520 --> 00:00:34,400 Speaker 2: and I'm like, YO, pay my child support, They're gonna 14 00:00:34,400 --> 00:00:35,760 Speaker 2: be like, what are you talking about? 15 00:00:35,840 --> 00:00:37,839 Speaker 1: I wonder how often that happens to drake. 16 00:00:37,880 --> 00:00:40,800 Speaker 2: Bro paternity testing from women that I never slept with. 17 00:00:40,840 --> 00:00:43,479 Speaker 2: I'm legally obligated if they request it. That's literally a 18 00:00:43,560 --> 00:00:46,200 Speaker 2: drake line Bro. It happens. It happens all the time. 19 00:00:46,280 --> 00:00:48,640 Speaker 2: But let's see what happens to OP. So this comes 20 00:00:48,680 --> 00:00:52,680 Speaker 2: from Carl Solomon Violets and this is on November tenth, 21 00:00:52,760 --> 00:00:55,040 Speaker 2: twenty twenty three. They say, a few days ago, I 22 00:00:55,080 --> 00:00:57,680 Speaker 2: received a notice from an attorney that I am being 23 00:00:57,720 --> 00:01:01,520 Speaker 2: sued for child support from a woman I have never 24 00:01:01,640 --> 00:01:02,520 Speaker 2: met or heard of. 25 00:01:03,080 --> 00:01:06,800 Speaker 1: Context. I am a biological sis woman. I am straight, 26 00:01:07,520 --> 00:01:12,280 Speaker 1: I have zero children. I have never done surrogacy, egg donation, 27 00:01:12,600 --> 00:01:15,640 Speaker 1: or even given birth or come close to it. Yeah. 28 00:01:15,640 --> 00:01:17,360 Speaker 2: I feel like if you're a woman, you would know 29 00:01:17,400 --> 00:01:20,840 Speaker 2: if you've I know, I don't remember that. 30 00:01:21,000 --> 00:01:24,880 Speaker 1: The last nine months are blurred. I contacted the attorney 31 00:01:24,959 --> 00:01:27,839 Speaker 1: listed on the document, a fairly well known attorney around 32 00:01:27,880 --> 00:01:32,160 Speaker 1: where I live, to make sure it was legit. And no, 33 00:01:32,240 --> 00:01:34,880 Speaker 1: I wasn't legits, so the whole story's over. Just kidding 34 00:01:34,920 --> 00:01:38,200 Speaker 1: it was legit. Ah. He stated that his client came 35 00:01:38,240 --> 00:01:42,080 Speaker 1: to him to sue me for backdated and future child 36 00:01:42,080 --> 00:01:46,280 Speaker 1: support for her fifteen year old and stated I am 37 00:01:46,280 --> 00:01:51,480 Speaker 1: the biological father, but OPI is not biologically a man 38 00:01:52,200 --> 00:01:55,720 Speaker 1: or a father. The attorney had my name, address and 39 00:01:55,800 --> 00:01:58,680 Speaker 1: info like my birthday, where I went to school, yet 40 00:01:58,760 --> 00:02:02,600 Speaker 1: somehow didn't know that I am a woman. I wonder 41 00:02:02,640 --> 00:02:05,160 Speaker 1: what their name is, the attorney. It's like it's like 42 00:02:05,160 --> 00:02:08,880 Speaker 1: like Jamie or something. Yeah, yeah, like gender neutral Madison. 43 00:02:09,320 --> 00:02:12,760 Speaker 1: The attorney also stated that the woman is in her forties, 44 00:02:12,919 --> 00:02:15,640 Speaker 1: repeated her name to me and verified with me if 45 00:02:15,680 --> 00:02:20,040 Speaker 1: I know her, I stated, I've never met heard of her. God, 46 00:02:20,280 --> 00:02:23,400 Speaker 1: I'm a biological woman who has never had a child, 47 00:02:23,680 --> 00:02:25,679 Speaker 1: and even brought up that if I was a man 48 00:02:26,000 --> 00:02:28,680 Speaker 1: and was a bio dad, how would she not be 49 00:02:28,800 --> 00:02:32,240 Speaker 1: in trouble for statutory as I would have been barely 50 00:02:32,320 --> 00:02:35,360 Speaker 1: fifteen when the child was conceived and she would have 51 00:02:35,440 --> 00:02:37,040 Speaker 1: been in her mid to late twenties. 52 00:02:37,160 --> 00:02:40,600 Speaker 2: Wait a second, So what if what if Op's like, hey, 53 00:02:40,680 --> 00:02:42,160 Speaker 2: let's just like bring this to court. 54 00:02:42,280 --> 00:02:46,440 Speaker 1: So number one, it's gonna be so obvious it's not true, 55 00:02:46,639 --> 00:02:51,160 Speaker 1: but too let me sue for what sexual misconduct? Yeah? 56 00:02:51,240 --> 00:02:52,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like like, hey, if you want to assume 57 00:02:53,000 --> 00:02:55,040 Speaker 2: me for this, then I'm gonna suit you back. 58 00:02:55,200 --> 00:02:58,280 Speaker 1: Come on. The attorney stated that as an attorney, he 59 00:02:58,320 --> 00:03:00,680 Speaker 1: needs to follow through and I need to see him 60 00:03:00,760 --> 00:03:03,959 Speaker 1: and sign the documents and do a DNA test no 61 00:03:04,120 --> 00:03:07,080 Speaker 1: to confirm any relation to the child. This is the case. 62 00:03:07,720 --> 00:03:11,880 Speaker 1: This maybe bro just hop on FaceTime or something. But 63 00:03:12,120 --> 00:03:15,760 Speaker 1: number one case, I'm not doing a DNA test. I know, 64 00:03:16,040 --> 00:03:18,320 Speaker 1: I know, waste of time. Like you would think this 65 00:03:18,360 --> 00:03:20,679 Speaker 1: attorney would be good enough, as famous attorney would be 66 00:03:20,680 --> 00:03:23,560 Speaker 1: good enough to like do enough research to know that 67 00:03:23,960 --> 00:03:27,600 Speaker 1: this is not possible. But again, maybe it's the paralegal 68 00:03:27,600 --> 00:03:30,000 Speaker 1: that's working on this one. I Wonderney in training, do 69 00:03:30,040 --> 00:03:32,960 Speaker 1: people also change their sex to get out of child support? 70 00:03:33,280 --> 00:03:35,920 Speaker 1: Great idea. Maybe I don't know. Is that a thing 71 00:03:35,960 --> 00:03:38,680 Speaker 1: that happens. Let us know the comments if that has 72 00:03:38,720 --> 00:03:43,120 Speaker 1: happened to you. I informed the attorney that it's literally 73 00:03:43,280 --> 00:03:45,680 Speaker 1: impossible for me to be the father, but he won't 74 00:03:45,680 --> 00:03:47,480 Speaker 1: take no for an answer and told me to bring 75 00:03:47,600 --> 00:03:51,520 Speaker 1: my lawyer to his office tomorrow, which sucks because now, 76 00:03:51,560 --> 00:03:53,480 Speaker 1: like op, he's having to pay a bunch of money. 77 00:03:53,280 --> 00:03:56,800 Speaker 2: For that that in that case, hopefully you can get 78 00:03:57,160 --> 00:03:59,480 Speaker 2: and you know, you legal people might know more than 79 00:03:59,520 --> 00:04:01,240 Speaker 2: me in the comment, but you could just get a 80 00:04:01,280 --> 00:04:01,960 Speaker 2: public defender. 81 00:04:02,040 --> 00:04:04,279 Speaker 1: You legal people, you legal people. 82 00:04:03,960 --> 00:04:07,280 Speaker 2: That comment on our videos and educate us so wonderfully. Uh, 83 00:04:07,320 --> 00:04:09,320 Speaker 2: maybe you could just get a free public defender. And 84 00:04:09,360 --> 00:04:11,720 Speaker 2: that's actually a case that the public defender could be 85 00:04:11,760 --> 00:04:13,880 Speaker 2: like this, Yeah, easy. 86 00:04:13,560 --> 00:04:21,480 Speaker 1: But sometimes the public defenders are so bad they end 87 00:04:21,560 --> 00:04:32,840 Speaker 1: up successfully being sued for town depart paid guilty. It's like, dude, oh, 88 00:04:32,760 --> 00:04:37,159 Speaker 1: where there's definitely some like worst public defender stories out there. 89 00:04:38,120 --> 00:04:41,120 Speaker 1: Do I actually need to get an attorney? Can I 90 00:04:41,279 --> 00:04:46,440 Speaker 1: just show up and be like, look at me very 91 00:04:46,520 --> 00:04:50,240 Speaker 1: much a woman and have never given birth? Leave me alone. 92 00:04:50,800 --> 00:04:54,120 Speaker 1: I need some proper guidance on where to go from here. 93 00:04:54,520 --> 00:05:02,239 Speaker 1: And obviously there is a big juicy update. But John, 94 00:05:02,960 --> 00:05:06,599 Speaker 1: if you were a giving legal advice, which we are not, 95 00:05:07,279 --> 00:05:08,840 Speaker 1: what advice would you give to OPI? 96 00:05:09,120 --> 00:05:13,680 Speaker 2: I would not give but give legal advice of Honestly, 97 00:05:13,920 --> 00:05:15,760 Speaker 2: if this is me, I would kind of just want 98 00:05:15,800 --> 00:05:17,400 Speaker 2: to stoke the flames and have fun with it. And 99 00:05:17,400 --> 00:05:20,240 Speaker 2: it's like, all right, you're continuing to like harass me 100 00:05:20,279 --> 00:05:21,680 Speaker 2: with this like lawsuit stuff. 101 00:05:22,120 --> 00:05:23,520 Speaker 1: Bet let's go to court. 102 00:05:23,800 --> 00:05:26,560 Speaker 2: Let's get in front of the judge, and let's let 103 00:05:26,560 --> 00:05:29,040 Speaker 2: this judge, you know, laugh you out of the courtroom. 104 00:05:29,520 --> 00:05:32,440 Speaker 1: And I also wonder if there's a way to like 105 00:05:32,760 --> 00:05:35,440 Speaker 1: flip it on that person suing, Like if it's if 106 00:05:35,440 --> 00:05:38,360 Speaker 1: it's so obvious that you're going to win, can you 107 00:05:38,720 --> 00:05:43,279 Speaker 1: win more than just like your your attorney fees paid? 108 00:05:43,279 --> 00:05:45,599 Speaker 1: Like can you could you counter sue? 109 00:05:45,839 --> 00:05:47,440 Speaker 3: You're saying, can I put more money on this? 110 00:05:47,880 --> 00:05:49,640 Speaker 1: Yeah? Can I? That's our money? 111 00:05:50,120 --> 00:05:52,839 Speaker 2: To see if I can get like some crazy return 112 00:05:52,880 --> 00:05:55,360 Speaker 2: back what's the ROI I mean, I know, like because 113 00:05:55,360 --> 00:05:58,719 Speaker 2: you can counter suit for yeah, emotional emotional damage. Plus 114 00:05:59,279 --> 00:06:03,080 Speaker 2: there has to be some other Again, are wonderful legal 115 00:06:03,120 --> 00:06:06,920 Speaker 2: people in the comments go crazy, illegal people come on 116 00:06:07,000 --> 00:06:11,040 Speaker 2: out in foremost you always talk you illegal people or 117 00:06:11,080 --> 00:06:13,800 Speaker 2: anyone with an opinion with legsoever. 118 00:06:13,839 --> 00:06:15,719 Speaker 1: We love reading. I love all of those people. 119 00:06:15,839 --> 00:06:18,560 Speaker 2: Yes, but I think that there's something more, even beyond 120 00:06:18,600 --> 00:06:19,440 Speaker 2: emotional damages. 121 00:06:19,760 --> 00:06:21,360 Speaker 1: Got to be something else, right, Yeah, yeah, it has 122 00:06:21,440 --> 00:06:24,560 Speaker 1: to be so legal people let us know. But John, Yes, 123 00:06:24,839 --> 00:06:30,280 Speaker 1: there is a Juicy Josy juicy update coming in on 124 00:06:30,400 --> 00:06:34,080 Speaker 1: November eleventh, which is the next day. Wow. First, to 125 00:06:34,200 --> 00:06:39,479 Speaker 1: answer some questions I've received via private message and stop posted. No, 126 00:06:40,040 --> 00:06:42,920 Speaker 1: I do not have a masculine slash gender neutral name, 127 00:06:42,960 --> 00:06:45,599 Speaker 1: which we we were thinking of. I actually have a 128 00:06:45,760 --> 00:06:49,880 Speaker 1: very long feminine first and middle name. Both are spelled 129 00:06:49,960 --> 00:06:55,760 Speaker 1: very uniquely, so Elizabeth, Princess Maybolene. That's my guess. That 130 00:06:55,920 --> 00:06:58,880 Speaker 1: is a great name, super female. Can you name your 131 00:06:58,960 --> 00:07:04,280 Speaker 1: kid princess? Probably? Yeah, sure you can't. Actually, yeah, there 132 00:07:04,320 --> 00:07:06,920 Speaker 1: are things that are banded. Elon Musk kid wasn't allowed 133 00:07:06,960 --> 00:07:14,080 Speaker 1: to be named like some numbers of password. He's generator 134 00:07:14,120 --> 00:07:16,160 Speaker 1: to name your child. Yeah, Riley look that up while 135 00:07:16,160 --> 00:07:19,640 Speaker 1: I keep reading this. Yes, I have brothers. No, none 136 00:07:19,720 --> 00:07:22,640 Speaker 1: of them have passed, so I wasn't being sued in 137 00:07:22,720 --> 00:07:26,400 Speaker 1: their place. They are all alive and well and even 138 00:07:26,600 --> 00:07:28,920 Speaker 1: easier to get in touch with. And I am as 139 00:07:28,960 --> 00:07:31,120 Speaker 1: I'm not even on social media, and they're all very 140 00:07:31,200 --> 00:07:36,240 Speaker 1: active on social media and have public pages LinkedIn profiles, 141 00:07:36,560 --> 00:07:40,840 Speaker 1: much easier to find randomly through Google Search. Yes, I 142 00:07:40,920 --> 00:07:43,440 Speaker 1: also have a father. No, he wasn't the one that 143 00:07:43,600 --> 00:07:46,440 Speaker 1: was being sued for child support on behalf of me 144 00:07:46,840 --> 00:07:49,920 Speaker 1: and Riley. Before we go on, is there any illegal 145 00:07:50,000 --> 00:07:53,040 Speaker 1: names that we can't have in the US? Do we 146 00:07:53,080 --> 00:07:55,640 Speaker 1: know some great ones? Yeah? I peaked at the list 147 00:07:56,560 --> 00:07:56,920 Speaker 1: we got. 148 00:07:57,120 --> 00:08:01,560 Speaker 3: You can't name your kids King, Queen, Jesus Christ three 149 00:08:02,240 --> 00:08:08,160 Speaker 3: like III and the Roman numerals Santa Claus, Majesty, Adolf, Hitler, Issaiah, 150 00:08:08,680 --> 00:08:12,800 Speaker 3: the AT symbol or ten sixty nine. 151 00:08:12,720 --> 00:08:15,440 Speaker 1: Which is like, isn't that like a tax form A 152 00:08:15,520 --> 00:08:16,600 Speaker 1: ten ninety nine is attack? 153 00:08:16,680 --> 00:08:19,840 Speaker 2: Maybe maybe time, But here's my question. Can you name 154 00:08:19,920 --> 00:08:21,120 Speaker 2: your child other numbers? 155 00:08:21,200 --> 00:08:24,240 Speaker 1: Though? Yeah? It just not it's just tends to do 156 00:08:24,280 --> 00:08:25,880 Speaker 1: that that. I feel like you should look that up 157 00:08:25,880 --> 00:08:28,320 Speaker 1: on chat gipt according to this article, but I'm going 158 00:08:28,360 --> 00:08:31,920 Speaker 1: to keep reading. So in the beginning, this woman stated 159 00:08:31,960 --> 00:08:34,440 Speaker 1: that I didn't even have any family. By the way, 160 00:08:34,840 --> 00:08:37,439 Speaker 1: she told the attorneys, I can give him the family 161 00:08:37,520 --> 00:08:41,319 Speaker 1: he's never had since he's been alone his whole life, 162 00:08:41,679 --> 00:08:44,880 Speaker 1: referring to me as he So the attorneys are like 163 00:08:45,200 --> 00:08:48,760 Speaker 1: trying to play to the emotional side of op and 164 00:08:48,800 --> 00:08:52,600 Speaker 1: they're like, look, you should really help this sadly child 165 00:08:52,920 --> 00:08:56,760 Speaker 1: have a father. It's like, look at me, pick up 166 00:08:56,800 --> 00:08:57,520 Speaker 1: the FaceTime. 167 00:08:58,280 --> 00:09:01,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, he should have a father, not a mother. 168 00:09:01,240 --> 00:09:04,600 Speaker 1: A father. Wow, that was really homophobic of you. Josh, 169 00:09:04,640 --> 00:09:07,040 Speaker 1: you're so righty Jesus can't have two mothers. I don't 170 00:09:07,040 --> 00:09:10,480 Speaker 1: know where I'm at, right, Yeah, this is twenty twenty four, 171 00:09:10,520 --> 00:09:15,679 Speaker 1: I know, or twenty twenty four, I know. Yeah, anyway, 172 00:09:15,880 --> 00:09:20,120 Speaker 1: after him, even if one of my brothers was a 173 00:09:20,160 --> 00:09:23,080 Speaker 1: father and I did a DNA test, I didn't, there 174 00:09:23,120 --> 00:09:25,559 Speaker 1: would still be no way to prove I'm biologically related 175 00:09:25,600 --> 00:09:28,199 Speaker 1: to this child as I'm adopted. I mean, they could 176 00:09:28,200 --> 00:09:29,880 Speaker 1: do a d couldn't you do a DNA test? 177 00:09:29,920 --> 00:09:32,240 Speaker 2: And I guess you could, but oh maybe there isn't 178 00:09:32,880 --> 00:09:35,440 Speaker 2: like hospital records of the medical history. But I would 179 00:09:35,480 --> 00:09:39,240 Speaker 2: imagine that the if someone in their family has done it, 180 00:09:39,280 --> 00:09:41,280 Speaker 2: then they could connect that way, but it's not guaranteed. 181 00:09:41,280 --> 00:09:44,400 Speaker 1: Probably the only relation to my siblings is literally because 182 00:09:44,400 --> 00:09:46,719 Speaker 1: my parents signed a piece of paper and drove to 183 00:09:46,760 --> 00:09:49,680 Speaker 1: pick me up from a state custody. Also, if she 184 00:09:49,840 --> 00:09:51,800 Speaker 1: were trying to set up the DNA test to prove 185 00:09:51,800 --> 00:09:54,079 Speaker 1: a familial link to the kid without the father present, 186 00:09:54,360 --> 00:09:57,079 Speaker 1: if she knew anything worth her time about my family, 187 00:09:57,320 --> 00:09:59,920 Speaker 1: she would have gone to my sister, who is biologically 188 00:10:00,040 --> 00:10:02,880 Speaker 1: related to the rest of my adoptive family adopted from 189 00:10:02,920 --> 00:10:07,960 Speaker 1: another family member. So what I think maybe they're trying 190 00:10:07,960 --> 00:10:09,800 Speaker 1: to do, or what it says, is like, oh, do 191 00:10:09,920 --> 00:10:11,640 Speaker 1: this biological test so we can see if one of 192 00:10:11,720 --> 00:10:16,280 Speaker 1: your brothers is the father, because then because if they're 193 00:10:16,280 --> 00:10:19,160 Speaker 1: biologically related, then you would kind of prove that because 194 00:10:19,120 --> 00:10:21,920 Speaker 1: it's like if like one of the brothers was the 195 00:10:21,960 --> 00:10:23,920 Speaker 1: actual father. Said like, no, I'm not doing a DNA 196 00:10:23,960 --> 00:10:26,360 Speaker 1: test now, They're just going through the whole family to 197 00:10:26,480 --> 00:10:27,720 Speaker 1: see if anyone will do it. 198 00:10:27,760 --> 00:10:31,280 Speaker 2: If op is the aunt of the kid, that likely 199 00:10:31,320 --> 00:10:34,000 Speaker 2: means that the brother could be the father exactly. 200 00:10:35,360 --> 00:10:38,120 Speaker 1: No, I thankfully have not been a victim of identity theft. 201 00:10:38,200 --> 00:10:41,080 Speaker 1: This was not someone posing as me, and thankfully there 202 00:10:41,120 --> 00:10:42,960 Speaker 1: was no shady shit in trying to change the paperwork 203 00:10:42,960 --> 00:10:45,880 Speaker 1: from bio dad to mom. Even in the documents this 204 00:10:45,920 --> 00:10:48,400 Speaker 1: woman's lawyer presented to my attorney and the documents I 205 00:10:48,440 --> 00:10:52,040 Speaker 1: was sent, it clearly stated that I was supposedly the 206 00:10:52,080 --> 00:10:55,000 Speaker 1: biological father, which is like, it's like a name like 207 00:10:55,040 --> 00:10:58,280 Speaker 1: Princess Elizabeth. So you know, like, I don't know why 208 00:10:58,320 --> 00:11:01,840 Speaker 1: that wouldn't ring clear something is wrong. But Riley, do 209 00:11:01,840 --> 00:11:04,920 Speaker 1: we have any more info on the whole what you 210 00:11:05,000 --> 00:11:07,560 Speaker 1: cannot name your child in America? 211 00:11:08,240 --> 00:11:14,559 Speaker 3: Yeah, the law bands names that contain obscenity, numericals, symbols, 212 00:11:14,640 --> 00:11:18,280 Speaker 3: or combination of letters, numerals, or symbols. But naming a 213 00:11:18,400 --> 00:11:21,080 Speaker 3: child after a mass murderer is a okay. 214 00:11:21,080 --> 00:11:24,080 Speaker 1: So Ted Bundy on the table, perfect, But you can't. 215 00:11:23,840 --> 00:11:25,200 Speaker 3: Do whatever Elon was trying to do. 216 00:11:25,320 --> 00:11:27,280 Speaker 1: And you can't do they said, you can't do Adolf 217 00:11:27,320 --> 00:11:30,960 Speaker 1: Hitler neither. No, But that's but that's a bass murderer, 218 00:11:31,000 --> 00:11:33,199 Speaker 1: is It's just just it's only eight off that you 219 00:11:33,240 --> 00:11:36,120 Speaker 1: can't do. I mean, I guess it's both in the 220 00:11:36,160 --> 00:11:39,680 Speaker 1: same thing. What if your last name is Hitler, then 221 00:11:39,880 --> 00:11:42,079 Speaker 1: you can't have Adolf. So you just can't have like, 222 00:11:42,200 --> 00:11:44,000 Speaker 1: is it you can't have your first name be Adolf 223 00:11:44,080 --> 00:11:46,520 Speaker 1: Hitler Or it's just that you can't have your like 224 00:11:46,720 --> 00:11:48,520 Speaker 1: whole name bea my guess. 225 00:11:48,720 --> 00:11:50,440 Speaker 2: And then and then the other thing too is like 226 00:11:50,720 --> 00:11:54,560 Speaker 2: what parent named it? That's a whole other rabbit hole. Yeah, 227 00:11:54,559 --> 00:11:56,400 Speaker 2: I mean they do exist, you guys. 228 00:11:57,640 --> 00:11:59,640 Speaker 1: Okay, story talk about a video I saw that I 229 00:11:59,679 --> 00:12:01,679 Speaker 1: want to show both of you that's going to make 230 00:12:01,679 --> 00:12:03,959 Speaker 1: you mad, and it's about bad parents. We'll get to 231 00:12:04,000 --> 00:12:06,800 Speaker 1: at the end of the story. So now ask to 232 00:12:06,840 --> 00:12:09,160 Speaker 1: what happened. I went to the attorney's office with my 233 00:12:09,200 --> 00:12:12,280 Speaker 1: attorney as he requested during our call yesterday, and guess what. 234 00:12:12,720 --> 00:12:17,720 Speaker 1: The suit was dismissed. Hey, thank you. It happened very quickly, 235 00:12:17,880 --> 00:12:20,800 Speaker 1: Thank god. I thought we would meet with a judge 236 00:12:20,840 --> 00:12:22,800 Speaker 1: because that's how I assumed it work. But we went 237 00:12:22,920 --> 00:12:24,959 Speaker 1: to the lawyer's office and met with him and the 238 00:12:25,000 --> 00:12:27,240 Speaker 1: woman who filed the suit. I got an attorney as 239 00:12:27,240 --> 00:12:29,160 Speaker 1: I reached out to a friend who lives in my state, 240 00:12:29,280 --> 00:12:31,760 Speaker 1: as a lot of his family or attorneys. One of 241 00:12:31,800 --> 00:12:35,200 Speaker 1: the families where it's in their blood basically, and turns 242 00:12:35,200 --> 00:12:37,760 Speaker 1: out his aunt handle's family cases. He got me in 243 00:12:37,800 --> 00:12:40,360 Speaker 1: touch with her and we spoke. After I told her 244 00:12:40,440 --> 00:12:42,880 Speaker 1: the situation, she laughed and said she'd do it pro 245 00:12:42,960 --> 00:12:46,880 Speaker 1: bono just for the entertainment, which is I mean, it's 246 00:12:46,880 --> 00:12:50,440 Speaker 1: pretty fun. One Apparently she knows the other attorney and 247 00:12:50,520 --> 00:12:54,000 Speaker 1: says he's a dick, So I guess that's a benefit 248 00:12:54,120 --> 00:12:56,720 Speaker 1: for me since she was more than happy to represent me. 249 00:12:57,040 --> 00:13:01,120 Speaker 1: We met with the attorney, showed my bc ID passport, 250 00:13:01,360 --> 00:13:05,959 Speaker 1: adoption papers, and my initial bc birth certificate prior to adoption. 251 00:13:06,480 --> 00:13:10,559 Speaker 1: We're good, measure good. The attorney was frustrated with his client, obviously, 252 00:13:10,920 --> 00:13:13,720 Speaker 1: but very kind with myself and my attorney about it. 253 00:13:14,000 --> 00:13:17,240 Speaker 1: He apologized for the inconvenience. Why didn't he do that 254 00:13:17,280 --> 00:13:20,000 Speaker 1: in the beginning, I mean, I don't know. He probably 255 00:13:20,080 --> 00:13:21,839 Speaker 1: just like kept pushing. It was like, let's just get 256 00:13:21,840 --> 00:13:24,760 Speaker 1: this person and like because it's like obviously they're the 257 00:13:24,800 --> 00:13:28,920 Speaker 1: one lying. And the whole thing was dismissed. And while 258 00:13:29,040 --> 00:13:33,120 Speaker 1: my attorney initially suggested an order of protection because clearly 259 00:13:33,160 --> 00:13:36,040 Speaker 1: this woman was unwell, as while we were in the office, 260 00:13:36,080 --> 00:13:38,760 Speaker 1: she was saying that I was a man who had 261 00:13:38,760 --> 00:13:42,000 Speaker 1: a sex change to dodge support, which is why she 262 00:13:42,120 --> 00:13:44,240 Speaker 1: referred to me as he and said I make more 263 00:13:44,280 --> 00:13:47,240 Speaker 1: than enough money and my money belongs to her in 264 00:13:47,640 --> 00:13:53,959 Speaker 1: our child, et cetera, et cetera. Wild Oh that is 265 00:13:54,160 --> 00:13:58,320 Speaker 1: just mine numbingly insane. But I got to believe that 266 00:13:58,360 --> 00:13:59,880 Speaker 1: it's happened at least once. 267 00:14:00,160 --> 00:14:03,320 Speaker 2: Oh I'm sure, yeah, the sex change at least on paper, 268 00:14:03,320 --> 00:14:06,920 Speaker 2: because I believe there was a story in like Ecuador 269 00:14:07,000 --> 00:14:10,440 Speaker 2: or something like that of a man just legally changing 270 00:14:10,480 --> 00:14:13,080 Speaker 2: his sex to female so he could like win a 271 00:14:13,080 --> 00:14:15,959 Speaker 2: custody case or something like that. Yeah, so it's like, oh, 272 00:14:15,960 --> 00:14:18,160 Speaker 2: now a female that's a mother, and then you know 273 00:14:18,320 --> 00:14:20,000 Speaker 2: it was it was easier to win the case. 274 00:14:19,760 --> 00:14:22,680 Speaker 1: That way or something, and that worked. I believe it worked. Yeah. 275 00:14:22,720 --> 00:14:25,000 Speaker 2: I think that's why it was like so big and 276 00:14:25,480 --> 00:14:28,320 Speaker 2: all he did was and I do you see, because 277 00:14:28,360 --> 00:14:30,840 Speaker 2: he was like, I literally just changed it to a 278 00:14:30,880 --> 00:14:32,840 Speaker 2: female on paper to get the kid. 279 00:14:33,120 --> 00:14:35,960 Speaker 1: Wow, let us know you've heard of anything like that. 280 00:14:36,000 --> 00:14:37,680 Speaker 1: I would love to know your ass in the comments. 281 00:14:37,920 --> 00:14:41,760 Speaker 1: We ultimately decided against the ro This is with a 282 00:14:41,800 --> 00:14:45,600 Speaker 1: restraining order, as after all of this insanity, she was 283 00:14:45,640 --> 00:14:47,840 Speaker 1: honest about how this came about. So we're going to 284 00:14:47,880 --> 00:14:50,960 Speaker 1: get the tea, Okay. She myself and my male cousin 285 00:14:51,160 --> 00:14:54,400 Speaker 1: used to work in the same place over a decade ago. 286 00:14:54,800 --> 00:14:56,680 Speaker 1: I worked a different shift in a different part of 287 00:14:56,720 --> 00:14:59,160 Speaker 1: the building. She was a secretary and he was a 288 00:14:59,160 --> 00:15:05,000 Speaker 1: typical office He is the father of the child, as 289 00:15:05,040 --> 00:15:08,320 Speaker 1: apparently they had known each other for years prior. But 290 00:15:08,400 --> 00:15:11,640 Speaker 1: he is also now a stand up guy. Nope, what 291 00:15:12,240 --> 00:15:18,400 Speaker 1: is whiplash is also now a convicted violent felon. Oh 292 00:15:18,440 --> 00:15:23,560 Speaker 1: my god, currently incarcerated and not on the birth certificate. Wow. 293 00:15:23,800 --> 00:15:25,520 Speaker 1: They are the same age and went to school together 294 00:15:25,600 --> 00:15:27,720 Speaker 1: in the next ten over. Since she had access to 295 00:15:27,760 --> 00:15:31,440 Speaker 1: my information as the office still has prior employee records, 296 00:15:31,760 --> 00:15:34,080 Speaker 1: and knows I'm his cousin as he told her, I 297 00:15:34,200 --> 00:15:36,280 Speaker 1: was his cousin and I worked there, even though I 298 00:15:36,320 --> 00:15:39,120 Speaker 1: had never crossed paths with either of them there. Didn't 299 00:15:39,120 --> 00:15:41,720 Speaker 1: even know she worked there, knew he did, but never 300 00:15:41,840 --> 00:15:45,000 Speaker 1: saw him due to the different shift slash areas. She said. 301 00:15:45,040 --> 00:15:48,080 Speaker 1: She confirmed the connection via Facebook because he has our 302 00:15:48,120 --> 00:15:50,920 Speaker 1: family listed, and with that she was able to link 303 00:15:51,040 --> 00:15:54,280 Speaker 1: my cousin to his father, which led to my mother 304 00:15:54,480 --> 00:15:57,720 Speaker 1: as he had her listed as a sister and she's 305 00:15:57,800 --> 00:15:58,640 Speaker 1: his sister in law. 306 00:15:58,960 --> 00:16:04,560 Speaker 2: So breaking down, they were basically able to deduce through 307 00:16:04,560 --> 00:16:05,880 Speaker 2: that that it was coworker. 308 00:16:06,080 --> 00:16:11,240 Speaker 1: So basically, this crazy person, yes who was who the 309 00:16:11,480 --> 00:16:16,240 Speaker 1: actual birth father is? Opie's cousin was able to track 310 00:16:16,280 --> 00:16:19,800 Speaker 1: op down through this network of Facebook related. 311 00:16:20,400 --> 00:16:24,000 Speaker 2: I see, so is the Facebook connections that landed and 312 00:16:24,040 --> 00:16:25,800 Speaker 2: they just picked the wrong account. 313 00:16:26,120 --> 00:16:28,760 Speaker 1: Well, no, she's just going through anyone that she can, 314 00:16:29,080 --> 00:16:32,320 Speaker 1: right right, right, right right, because the actual father is 315 00:16:32,320 --> 00:16:35,280 Speaker 1: in prison. Yes, my mother was always my emergency contact, 316 00:16:35,320 --> 00:16:37,760 Speaker 1: so she has access to my information. She said she 317 00:16:37,880 --> 00:16:40,760 Speaker 1: was able to get my contact information in the easiest way. 318 00:16:40,840 --> 00:16:43,040 Speaker 1: She figured she could throw a suit against me, get 319 00:16:43,040 --> 00:16:45,600 Speaker 1: a DNA test, then lead back to him, and she 320 00:16:45,640 --> 00:16:48,000 Speaker 1: would try to go over him and sue my uncle 321 00:16:48,040 --> 00:16:50,520 Speaker 1: for support as he retired from a good job and 322 00:16:50,600 --> 00:16:55,000 Speaker 1: has disposable income, and my cousin is incarcerated. So she 323 00:16:55,120 --> 00:16:57,720 Speaker 1: was just trying to like basically latch onto any DNA 324 00:16:57,800 --> 00:17:00,560 Speaker 1: evidence that she could so she could get some money, 325 00:17:00,640 --> 00:17:04,639 Speaker 1: which honestly she's entitled to, just not for anyone except 326 00:17:04,680 --> 00:17:08,920 Speaker 1: the incarcerated person. No, I don't understand her thought process 327 00:17:08,960 --> 00:17:10,879 Speaker 1: because honestly, I have no idea how any of this 328 00:17:10,960 --> 00:17:13,400 Speaker 1: works or if this is even a thing she could 329 00:17:13,400 --> 00:17:16,280 Speaker 1: possibly do, which is I don't know. Also, she said 330 00:17:16,320 --> 00:17:19,000 Speaker 1: she was recently fired, which is why this came up now, 331 00:17:19,040 --> 00:17:21,119 Speaker 1: and since she knew my cousin was incarcerated and she 332 00:17:21,200 --> 00:17:23,840 Speaker 1: needed the money, she found me via our last name 333 00:17:23,880 --> 00:17:26,359 Speaker 1: and made a copy of my resume and the important 334 00:17:26,359 --> 00:17:30,399 Speaker 1: info in my file. After all the theatrics and chaos, 335 00:17:30,480 --> 00:17:33,320 Speaker 1: et cetera, she said, she finally decided to give up 336 00:17:33,320 --> 00:17:37,880 Speaker 1: the fight because she realized she couldn't win, which smart. Yeah, 337 00:17:37,960 --> 00:17:40,280 Speaker 1: the only smart thing that this woman has done. Yes, 338 00:17:40,520 --> 00:17:43,920 Speaker 1: my god, especially once I presented my paperwork and mentioned 339 00:17:43,920 --> 00:17:46,960 Speaker 1: that some of it was my initial adoption slash birth 340 00:17:47,000 --> 00:17:50,720 Speaker 1: records before adoption, as that's when she realized there was 341 00:17:51,000 --> 00:17:53,800 Speaker 1: zero chance that the DNA test would get her where 342 00:17:53,800 --> 00:17:56,800 Speaker 1: she wanted with everything. Sorry if this wasn't the super 343 00:17:56,840 --> 00:17:59,600 Speaker 1: exciting update you were looking for, but I'm just glad 344 00:17:59,680 --> 00:18:01,960 Speaker 1: it's over. At the end of the day, I just 345 00:18:02,000 --> 00:18:04,359 Speaker 1: hope she gets help, but I'm staying far away and 346 00:18:04,440 --> 00:18:07,000 Speaker 1: warning my family about her. I hope you all have 347 00:18:07,080 --> 00:18:11,160 Speaker 1: a great day. And there are some relevant comments and 348 00:18:11,280 --> 00:18:17,080 Speaker 1: some small updates but I guess like with all of this, 349 00:18:17,840 --> 00:18:20,960 Speaker 1: do you think like should other families be responsible to 350 00:18:21,000 --> 00:18:26,439 Speaker 1: give money to like a mother? So it's like I 351 00:18:26,520 --> 00:18:29,400 Speaker 1: accidentally knock someone up, they I don't have any money, 352 00:18:29,440 --> 00:18:31,480 Speaker 1: so they don't go to child support for me, and 353 00:18:31,520 --> 00:18:34,120 Speaker 1: so they go to my parents? Is that even? Is that? 354 00:18:34,359 --> 00:18:36,480 Speaker 1: Should that happen? What do you think I do? 355 00:18:36,600 --> 00:18:39,639 Speaker 2: And now I'm kind of understanding maybe more context of 356 00:18:39,720 --> 00:18:41,960 Speaker 2: them just trying to go through anyone to get to 357 00:18:42,000 --> 00:18:44,800 Speaker 2: the person they were trying to contact. I think that 358 00:18:45,000 --> 00:18:49,520 Speaker 2: is massively more reasonable in terms of like, hey, you know, 359 00:18:49,920 --> 00:18:53,600 Speaker 2: this person is very closely related to you. I'm trying 360 00:18:53,640 --> 00:18:56,720 Speaker 2: to get in contact, so like legally kind of like 361 00:18:56,960 --> 00:19:01,080 Speaker 2: not the same, but when some one suspects that someone's 362 00:19:01,080 --> 00:19:02,800 Speaker 2: the father, it's like, hey, you need to take the 363 00:19:02,840 --> 00:19:07,240 Speaker 2: paternity test to prove your innocence. Essentially, not quite as 364 00:19:07,240 --> 00:19:09,639 Speaker 2: strong a case, but definitely a case kind of in 365 00:19:09,680 --> 00:19:12,200 Speaker 2: that vein of like, yo, you are their parent, their 366 00:19:12,200 --> 00:19:14,439 Speaker 2: sister or whatever. I'm trying to get in touch with 367 00:19:14,480 --> 00:19:17,040 Speaker 2: this person and you have contact, so help me figure 368 00:19:17,080 --> 00:19:18,879 Speaker 2: something out, to figure something out, get the proof to 369 00:19:19,160 --> 00:19:22,359 Speaker 2: contact them, right, But you're getting money from that person 370 00:19:22,560 --> 00:19:23,240 Speaker 2: doesn't make sense. 371 00:19:23,359 --> 00:19:25,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean you can ask for sure. I mean, 372 00:19:25,600 --> 00:19:28,280 Speaker 1: I believe is there any legal precedent for that happened? 373 00:19:28,400 --> 00:19:31,960 Speaker 1: Legal precedent? Who knows? They looked that up on chat GBT. 374 00:19:32,160 --> 00:19:35,800 Speaker 1: Can you sue family members for child support or the 375 00:19:35,840 --> 00:19:38,560 Speaker 1: family members of the father for child support? Yeah, I 376 00:19:38,960 --> 00:19:40,800 Speaker 1: so we'll in California. We'll see if there's anything. 377 00:19:40,840 --> 00:19:43,359 Speaker 2: But I will say I also imagine, like take an 378 00:19:43,400 --> 00:19:47,120 Speaker 2: example where grandparents that you know, they know their kid 379 00:19:47,200 --> 00:19:49,879 Speaker 2: is wild and crazy. It's like, okay that they're not 380 00:19:49,920 --> 00:19:51,439 Speaker 2: being a good parent, but I want to be a 381 00:19:51,440 --> 00:19:54,480 Speaker 2: good parent to the grandkid. If they were able to 382 00:19:54,520 --> 00:19:56,480 Speaker 2: reach out and get in touch with the grandparents, they 383 00:19:56,520 --> 00:19:59,280 Speaker 2: would maybe voluntarily be like, oh yes, we will. 384 00:19:59,400 --> 00:20:03,320 Speaker 1: Maybe we've seen before where like parents and grandparents have 385 00:20:03,480 --> 00:20:07,399 Speaker 1: offered to pay for their grandchild to have a better life. Yeah. 386 00:20:07,400 --> 00:20:10,760 Speaker 1: But let's get into some relevant comment. So Mob fifty 387 00:20:10,760 --> 00:20:13,199 Speaker 1: five says, Wow, what a psycho. I get that she 388 00:20:13,440 --> 00:20:16,320 Speaker 1: is desperate, but she should have texted your cousin's dad 389 00:20:16,400 --> 00:20:18,720 Speaker 1: and told him about the situation and then went from there. 390 00:20:19,000 --> 00:20:21,040 Speaker 1: But you should at least let your uncle know that 391 00:20:21,119 --> 00:20:23,040 Speaker 1: he has a grandson out there, that he did not 392 00:20:23,160 --> 00:20:25,159 Speaker 1: know about, so he can decide what he wants to 393 00:20:25,200 --> 00:20:28,200 Speaker 1: do about that situation, and Oki replied, I definitely am 394 00:20:28,200 --> 00:20:31,959 Speaker 1: going to inform him and more family members about this 395 00:20:32,200 --> 00:20:34,280 Speaker 1: just in case. However, according to her, she has no 396 00:20:34,320 --> 00:20:37,000 Speaker 1: way of contacting anyone else in my family. She only 397 00:20:37,000 --> 00:20:39,840 Speaker 1: got my info from taking it from an old employee 398 00:20:39,880 --> 00:20:45,040 Speaker 1: file from decades ago. And then Mega Ma Wax says, 399 00:20:45,359 --> 00:20:47,479 Speaker 1: I was hoping for something more along the lines of 400 00:20:47,520 --> 00:20:49,520 Speaker 1: you asking the lawyer whether or not he knows how 401 00:20:49,560 --> 00:20:52,560 Speaker 1: babies are made, and if his belief is that fifteen 402 00:20:52,640 --> 00:20:55,199 Speaker 1: years ago his client mid twenties had sex with a 403 00:20:55,200 --> 00:20:58,200 Speaker 1: fifteen year old girl and became pregnant as a result, 404 00:20:58,400 --> 00:21:00,600 Speaker 1: then you eventually tell him that you aren't coming in 405 00:21:00,800 --> 00:21:02,719 Speaker 1: and if he wants to talk to you, he can 406 00:21:02,840 --> 00:21:05,040 Speaker 1: have you served. Eventually, he files a suit and you 407 00:21:05,080 --> 00:21:07,639 Speaker 1: appear in court without a lawyer and are just like, 408 00:21:08,200 --> 00:21:11,240 Speaker 1: look at me, look at me, judge. You gets so 409 00:21:11,280 --> 00:21:14,000 Speaker 1: annoyed by this basic failure to do due diligence that 410 00:21:14,080 --> 00:21:16,840 Speaker 1: this leads to the lawyer getting disbarred and perhaps criminal 411 00:21:16,920 --> 00:21:19,520 Speaker 1: charges are filed against the woman for adempted fraud or something. 412 00:21:19,720 --> 00:21:23,040 Speaker 1: So everything you did is much more mature and reasonable. 413 00:21:23,080 --> 00:21:25,640 Speaker 1: I do wonder, though, whether what this woman was attempting 414 00:21:25,680 --> 00:21:28,199 Speaker 1: to do was illegal, and I'd be curious what her 415 00:21:28,280 --> 00:21:31,040 Speaker 1: lawyer was actually thinking when you informed him that you 416 00:21:31,080 --> 00:21:34,600 Speaker 1: were a woman. Presumably he had to have some thoughts 417 00:21:34,600 --> 00:21:37,919 Speaker 1: about contacting someone with an obviously feminine name. Did the 418 00:21:37,960 --> 00:21:41,119 Speaker 1: woman tell her lawyer that you were a male to 419 00:21:41,200 --> 00:21:44,760 Speaker 1: female trans prior to coming in? What a bizarre situation, 420 00:21:45,040 --> 00:21:48,639 Speaker 1: and Op says, so there was more conversation than what 421 00:21:48,680 --> 00:21:51,280 Speaker 1: I posted, as I was mostly just trying to give 422 00:21:51,280 --> 00:21:55,360 Speaker 1: an informative enough update. She never mentioned anything to him 423 00:21:55,400 --> 00:21:58,080 Speaker 1: about me being trans. She insisted I was a man 424 00:21:58,160 --> 00:22:01,000 Speaker 1: and fathered her child myn He asked him what his 425 00:22:01,040 --> 00:22:03,639 Speaker 1: initial thought was when he learned my name and spoke 426 00:22:03,680 --> 00:22:06,000 Speaker 1: with me over the phone, and said he assumed I 427 00:22:06,080 --> 00:22:10,400 Speaker 1: was a man, mispronouncing my name and disguising my voice 428 00:22:10,560 --> 00:22:14,080 Speaker 1: as his client insisted I was a man. However, later 429 00:22:14,200 --> 00:22:16,560 Speaker 1: in the conversation it came out that the attorney was 430 00:22:16,600 --> 00:22:19,399 Speaker 1: aware of how she received my information, and she had 431 00:22:19,480 --> 00:22:22,080 Speaker 1: even provided him with a copy of my employee file 432 00:22:22,200 --> 00:22:25,760 Speaker 1: from the former job, which has all my information, plus 433 00:22:25,840 --> 00:22:28,120 Speaker 1: a copy of my ID and passport. So in reality, 434 00:22:28,560 --> 00:22:31,680 Speaker 1: I couldn't even begin to tell you what either their 435 00:22:31,720 --> 00:22:35,320 Speaker 1: state of mind was. And there is some additional info 436 00:22:35,359 --> 00:22:39,760 Speaker 1: from Ope in the comments. But pausing right here, Yes, 437 00:22:40,320 --> 00:22:41,960 Speaker 1: why aren't lawyers doing their jobs? 438 00:22:42,119 --> 00:22:44,760 Speaker 2: That's a great question, And the thing that the commenter 439 00:22:44,840 --> 00:22:48,119 Speaker 2: posed was basically my exact idea. If a lawyer is 440 00:22:48,160 --> 00:22:51,840 Speaker 2: this incompetent and is willing to, you know, do all 441 00:22:51,880 --> 00:22:54,480 Speaker 2: this without doing the due diligence, take them to Core. 442 00:22:54,600 --> 00:22:58,199 Speaker 1: Yeah, and like, just honestly, just for the satisfaction, just 443 00:22:58,200 --> 00:23:01,879 Speaker 1: to do the lawyer John coming in, I mean I 444 00:23:01,880 --> 00:23:04,760 Speaker 1: do look like he looks like a lawyer on his 445 00:23:04,840 --> 00:23:08,800 Speaker 1: off day, like not quite on the tie off, Yeah, 446 00:23:09,200 --> 00:23:13,679 Speaker 1: taking the tie off a little bit. Yeah, dude, this 447 00:23:13,760 --> 00:23:14,879 Speaker 1: is perfect for this story. 448 00:23:14,960 --> 00:23:17,119 Speaker 2: Can I also very quickly point out all three of 449 00:23:17,160 --> 00:23:20,160 Speaker 2: our SOT games today are just going absolutely incredible? Riley, 450 00:23:20,240 --> 00:23:26,880 Speaker 2: Can you flash your avocado guawk dip stuff bow ties 451 00:23:26,960 --> 00:23:27,520 Speaker 2: on yours? 452 00:23:27,680 --> 00:23:27,880 Speaker 1: Yeah? 453 00:23:27,920 --> 00:23:30,480 Speaker 2: There we go, Yeah, come around, Let the people see 454 00:23:30,480 --> 00:23:33,160 Speaker 2: those sweet little piggly wigglies. 455 00:23:32,760 --> 00:23:36,479 Speaker 1: You got going on. Here we go, dude, kick it up, 456 00:23:36,520 --> 00:23:39,000 Speaker 1: kick it up, best socks I've ever seen you wear. Yeah, 457 00:23:39,119 --> 00:23:41,760 Speaker 1: get up, kick it up, and get up dude, look 458 00:23:41,800 --> 00:23:42,800 Speaker 1: all the way up there we go. 459 00:23:44,920 --> 00:23:48,480 Speaker 2: Sam's going to break our producer. Oh my god, boom, 460 00:23:48,520 --> 00:23:49,000 Speaker 2: there we go. 461 00:23:49,160 --> 00:23:51,000 Speaker 1: I like it. We did a little old foot five 462 00:23:51,080 --> 00:23:53,359 Speaker 1: lites sock sot game is on on top today. 463 00:23:53,359 --> 00:23:56,679 Speaker 2: But yeah, I think this is a great way to 464 00:23:56,840 --> 00:23:59,160 Speaker 2: go after the lawyer because at that point it's almost 465 00:23:59,160 --> 00:23:59,719 Speaker 2: self protection. 466 00:24:00,359 --> 00:24:03,879 Speaker 1: And also you've wasted Opie's time and energy. And again, 467 00:24:04,320 --> 00:24:07,480 Speaker 1: don't forget about the emotional damage. Come on, but let's 468 00:24:07,520 --> 00:24:11,520 Speaker 1: get into some comments from Opie. So without sounding mean, 469 00:24:11,680 --> 00:24:14,800 Speaker 1: she sounds very unwell. She genuinely thought that this was 470 00:24:14,920 --> 00:24:19,080 Speaker 1: the best method to handle the situation. Unfortunately, in the end, 471 00:24:19,119 --> 00:24:22,000 Speaker 1: she screwed herself over. The suit has been dismissed, and 472 00:24:22,040 --> 00:24:25,080 Speaker 1: now she'll most likely be reported to the former employer 473 00:24:25,480 --> 00:24:30,480 Speaker 1: for stealing private records. Plus, my uncle has no responsibility 474 00:24:30,480 --> 00:24:32,840 Speaker 1: for this kid. He doesn't even have a relationship with 475 00:24:33,000 --> 00:24:39,840 Speaker 1: his son nowadays since he's incarcerated for life. Her best 476 00:24:39,840 --> 00:24:42,679 Speaker 1: option at this point is to pursue maternity with a violent, 477 00:24:42,720 --> 00:24:47,480 Speaker 1: convicted felon that isn't even allowed around children. I feel 478 00:24:47,480 --> 00:24:49,639 Speaker 1: for her, but I hope she gets any help she 479 00:24:49,760 --> 00:24:53,080 Speaker 1: needs and things get better for her and her kid, 480 00:24:53,480 --> 00:24:55,960 Speaker 1: and then another comment on hoping the woman gets help 481 00:24:56,040 --> 00:24:57,919 Speaker 1: From what I found out today, she has plenty of 482 00:24:57,960 --> 00:25:01,399 Speaker 1: family and was with someone up until right before she 483 00:25:01,520 --> 00:25:04,600 Speaker 1: lost her job recently. The other dude has helped raise 484 00:25:04,600 --> 00:25:07,520 Speaker 1: a kid and still plans to be in the kids' lives, 485 00:25:07,720 --> 00:25:11,199 Speaker 1: but he has no legal responsibilities. She got desperate and 486 00:25:11,240 --> 00:25:13,240 Speaker 1: decided this was the best method. It's just kind of 487 00:25:13,280 --> 00:25:15,400 Speaker 1: a mess of a situation and comes down to her 488 00:25:15,480 --> 00:25:19,919 Speaker 1: needing help that even finances can't provide. There's also the 489 00:25:19,960 --> 00:25:24,040 Speaker 1: issue of legal repercussions, since she openly admitted to stealing 490 00:25:24,080 --> 00:25:29,040 Speaker 1: private documents and providing her attorney with them on false pretenses, 491 00:25:29,440 --> 00:25:33,440 Speaker 1: and also lawyer fees. Oh, I mean, it's like she's 492 00:25:33,480 --> 00:25:36,520 Speaker 1: not like she probably was expecting maybe to like get 493 00:25:36,520 --> 00:25:40,120 Speaker 1: something out of winning, because I know sometimes these lawyers 494 00:25:40,160 --> 00:25:43,800 Speaker 1: do things on like they don't charge until like the 495 00:25:44,200 --> 00:25:46,560 Speaker 1: case is one or whatever or lost or no, yeah 496 00:25:46,680 --> 00:25:49,080 Speaker 1: or lost yet. But hopefully it's one of those situations 497 00:25:49,119 --> 00:25:51,679 Speaker 1: that it's like on contingency. You know. 498 00:25:51,680 --> 00:25:54,679 Speaker 2: Would be really funny is if the lawyer was like, no, 499 00:25:54,840 --> 00:25:56,920 Speaker 2: we're only going to do it if you lose, it'll 500 00:25:56,960 --> 00:25:57,439 Speaker 2: be free. 501 00:25:57,720 --> 00:25:57,919 Speaker 3: You know. 502 00:25:58,000 --> 00:26:01,920 Speaker 1: It's like I only if you win into like god, yeah, 503 00:26:01,920 --> 00:26:03,400 Speaker 1: it's like, why did I waste all this time? Which 504 00:26:03,520 --> 00:26:06,280 Speaker 1: is like a lot of lawyers work on contingency. Are 505 00:26:06,359 --> 00:26:08,080 Speaker 1: our neighbors that we met the other day, They are 506 00:26:08,440 --> 00:26:11,160 Speaker 1: in personal injury lawyers that work in contingency, so they 507 00:26:11,160 --> 00:26:15,200 Speaker 1: only make money if you win, exactly, So exactly, let's 508 00:26:15,359 --> 00:26:18,480 Speaker 1: hope that she isn't financially ruined, or maybe let's hope 509 00:26:18,480 --> 00:26:20,320 Speaker 1: that she is. Maybe she needs to learn her lesson. 510 00:26:20,320 --> 00:26:23,120 Speaker 1: I don't know. Do you want her to be financially ruined? 511 00:26:23,480 --> 00:26:26,119 Speaker 1: Put your answers in the comments below let us know. 512 00:26:26,240 --> 00:26:29,280 Speaker 2: I'm personally I do it was this was wild, but 513 00:26:29,320 --> 00:26:31,280 Speaker 2: I feel for the mother just trying to get some 514 00:26:31,400 --> 00:26:31,880 Speaker 2: for a kid. 515 00:26:31,880 --> 00:26:33,879 Speaker 1: But totally, I mean like she's got to do what 516 00:26:33,920 --> 00:26:36,159 Speaker 1: a mother's got to do. But it sounds like she 517 00:26:36,560 --> 00:26:41,680 Speaker 1: maybe isn't being the best parent right now. It's I'm 518 00:26:41,760 --> 00:26:43,720 Speaker 1: very curious to hear what y'all have to say on this. Yeah, 519 00:26:43,760 --> 00:26:46,760 Speaker 1: for sure. And on that note of bad parents, I 520 00:26:46,800 --> 00:26:48,639 Speaker 1: need to show you guys a video that I saw 521 00:26:49,440 --> 00:26:54,679 Speaker 1: of the worst parenting ever a parent basically raising little douches. 522 00:26:54,720 --> 00:27:00,239 Speaker 1: If you look up worse parents Reddit vaping. Oh is 523 00:27:00,280 --> 00:27:03,119 Speaker 1: this what I think it's going to be? That is 524 00:27:03,200 --> 00:27:07,040 Speaker 1: what I'm afraid of this one and the Worst Preaching 525 00:27:07,080 --> 00:27:11,280 Speaker 1: Award this one. Nah, let's watch it. Okay, kid with 526 00:27:11,320 --> 00:27:17,520 Speaker 1: a basketball just oh my god, oh my god, that 527 00:27:17,720 --> 00:27:18,560 Speaker 1: is awful. 528 00:27:19,480 --> 00:27:25,280 Speaker 2: Literally put the child in complete blackface. Oh my god, 529 00:27:26,320 --> 00:27:28,919 Speaker 2: and the kid like what this is the like the 530 00:27:29,000 --> 00:27:30,040 Speaker 2: kid can't do anything? 531 00:27:30,640 --> 00:27:33,120 Speaker 1: Or the kid's a kid? You know what is wrong 532 00:27:33,160 --> 00:27:38,040 Speaker 1: with those parents? Jesus Christ? Oh, here we go. I 533 00:27:38,080 --> 00:27:41,000 Speaker 1: found it. Okay, So I saw this video of just 534 00:27:41,080 --> 00:27:44,239 Speaker 1: like horrible, horrible parents, and I wanted to show you 535 00:27:44,280 --> 00:27:51,440 Speaker 1: guys and get your reactions. Here we go, uh to, 536 00:27:52,400 --> 00:27:55,120 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, do you look at the little chains 537 00:27:55,480 --> 00:27:57,800 Speaker 1: on those So there's like two kids, like, I mean 538 00:27:57,920 --> 00:28:02,959 Speaker 1: three and four fap frosted tips and vaping frosted tips. Uh. 539 00:28:03,520 --> 00:28:08,480 Speaker 2: One kid has a gold chain, gold chain, a tank 540 00:28:08,600 --> 00:28:10,920 Speaker 2: like a Jersey Shore tank top like a Jersey Shore 541 00:28:10,960 --> 00:28:13,280 Speaker 2: fit basically like the Guido chain. 542 00:28:13,480 --> 00:28:16,400 Speaker 1: And it looks like they have like faked hands. 543 00:28:16,480 --> 00:28:20,520 Speaker 3: Dude, so bad a nicotine addiction that, like the age 544 00:28:21,119 --> 00:28:21,720 Speaker 3: is insane. 545 00:28:21,760 --> 00:28:23,640 Speaker 1: Have you ever seen that video of like the baby 546 00:28:23,760 --> 00:28:27,800 Speaker 1: that's just like chain smoking cigarettes? No? Look up Riley 547 00:28:27,800 --> 00:28:30,359 Speaker 1: look up baby chain smoking cigarettes for. 548 00:28:30,480 --> 00:28:33,280 Speaker 2: Getting all of the terrible parenting videos in Today Ladies 549 00:28:33,280 --> 00:28:33,760 Speaker 2: and Gentleman. 550 00:28:33,920 --> 00:28:36,880 Speaker 1: It's like, it's like this and he's like super fat. Yeah, 551 00:28:36,960 --> 00:28:38,360 Speaker 1: Indonesian baby. 552 00:28:39,560 --> 00:28:44,479 Speaker 2: This kid, Oh my gosh what he's just twirling a sig. 553 00:28:46,720 --> 00:28:51,320 Speaker 1: He's happy though, look at him three maybe, bro my god, 554 00:28:51,360 --> 00:28:57,760 Speaker 1: like to he's still in a diaper, he's. 555 00:28:55,840 --> 00:28:58,480 Speaker 3: On his other one in one mouth and then he 556 00:28:58,520 --> 00:28:59,560 Speaker 3: has the other one. 557 00:28:59,680 --> 00:29:04,320 Speaker 1: Ready, bruh, that's crazy. It's so crazy. 558 00:29:04,760 --> 00:29:07,520 Speaker 2: Now now he's like literally he looked like a little adult, 559 00:29:07,800 --> 00:29:09,560 Speaker 2: but now he has a bottle and it looks like 560 00:29:09,560 --> 00:29:10,320 Speaker 2: a baby again. 561 00:29:10,840 --> 00:29:14,200 Speaker 1: But like it's like I don't want this freaking bottle. Literally, yeah, 562 00:29:14,360 --> 00:29:19,040 Speaker 1: more cigarettes? Wait? What no? Shall we? 563 00:29:19,880 --> 00:29:20,080 Speaker 3: Man? 564 00:29:20,280 --> 00:29:22,240 Speaker 1: Like? Like, so when you're asking, like what kind of 565 00:29:22,320 --> 00:29:25,320 Speaker 1: parents would name their kids like Adolf Hitler or like 566 00:29:25,440 --> 00:29:28,239 Speaker 1: ten and sixty nine? The same parents that allow their 567 00:29:28,320 --> 00:29:32,400 Speaker 1: kids to vape and chain smoke cigarettes. Wow, they exist 568 00:29:32,400 --> 00:29:35,760 Speaker 1: out there unfortunately insanity insanity. But you know what else 569 00:29:35,840 --> 00:29:36,280 Speaker 1: is insane? 570 00:29:36,440 --> 00:29:40,120 Speaker 2: This next story, sir, let's get into which