WEBVTT - Second Date Update: 300 is the Magic Number

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<v Speaker 1>Second date. If a date doesn't go quite according to plan,

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<v Speaker 1>could be a bad thing, but could be a good

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<v Speaker 1>thing too, Like one time, my plan going into the

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<v Speaker 1>night was to pay the entire dinner bill, but forgot

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<v Speaker 1>my wallet instead had to pivot, dined and dashed, ended

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<v Speaker 1>up getting the whole meal for free. That turned out

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<v Speaker 1>to be a good thing, and you found out your

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<v Speaker 1>date was a really good runner exactly. You know, athletic

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<v Speaker 1>athletics plans turns out to be good. And that was

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<v Speaker 1>the case for one of our listeners, Megan, whose night

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<v Speaker 1>got derailed in a good way and now she's needing

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<v Speaker 1>our help. What's up, Megan? How you doing? Hey? Doing

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<v Speaker 1>all right? A guy? We like people who can turn

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<v Speaker 1>you know, lemons into lemonade, despite Jeffrey's whole situation. But yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>as long as you make some vodka into the lemonade, right, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>So tell us about the guy that you want us

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<v Speaker 1>to call. What's his name? His name is Curtis, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>and where'd you meet him? If we always needed to know? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>we met online. Honestly, that's the first first date but

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<v Speaker 1>I've had since I broke up with my long time

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<v Speaker 1>relationship about oh, we love our a month ago. Oh okay,

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<v Speaker 1>this is your rebound. You're getting back out there, Curtis

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<v Speaker 1>know that. Yeah. I was straight up with him about

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<v Speaker 1>this my first first date since I've been out there

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<v Speaker 1>and it's been a long time. And so what we

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<v Speaker 1>did is we made a plan. Okay, okay, So he

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<v Speaker 1>was okay with that. He was like, let's plan everything

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<v Speaker 1>out so you're not super nervous. That's a good idea.

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<v Speaker 1>What was the plan. The plan was just to kind

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<v Speaker 1>of go and see. But he turned up to be

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<v Speaker 1>a really really great guy. Good So what do you

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<v Speaker 1>guys do? We decided we're going to go to the bar,

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<v Speaker 1>gonna have a couple of drinks, gonna go to a movie,

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<v Speaker 1>and just kind of hang out. So you went to

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<v Speaker 1>a theater. It wasn't like a Netflix and chill situation.

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<v Speaker 1>Well no, because after we had the drinks at the bar,

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<v Speaker 1>we just were like, you know what, we just want

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<v Speaker 1>to continue talking and you can't do that at a

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<v Speaker 1>movie theater. So we just stayed there. So cancel the

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<v Speaker 1>plan to go to the theater. Just stay and get

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<v Speaker 1>more drunk at the bar. I like that. That's a

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<v Speaker 1>good plan. Beat, it's a better date to be honest. Ye, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean it must have been going pretty well. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>it's gone great. I mean we got kind of tipsy

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<v Speaker 1>and I came back from the restroom and I told him, Curtis,

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<v Speaker 1>you've got to see this picture that they've got in

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<v Speaker 1>the restroom, oh, the ladies room. So he was like,

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<v Speaker 1>he was like what, And I was like, come on,

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<v Speaker 1>I will watch to make sure no one comes in you,

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<v Speaker 1>but you've got to see this thing. It's hilarious. You

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<v Speaker 1>know that he thinks something else is going to happen

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<v Speaker 1>in the bathroom with you too, right, Maybe he's just

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<v Speaker 1>like a restroom art connoisseur. That's just his big passion.

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<v Speaker 1>So he said okay, like really reluctantly. So he was right.

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<v Speaker 1>It was a trap. I pulled him into the handicap

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<v Speaker 1>stall and I started to make out with him. You

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<v Speaker 1>are delighted with yourself, look at you. That's fine. It's

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<v Speaker 1>good for you having fun. I mean, was he into that?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah? I mean it only lasted a couple of

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<v Speaker 1>minutes because he was like, look, we're in the ladies

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<v Speaker 1>or let's get out of here. Oh cop, that's my record.

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<v Speaker 1>So I think we had a good time. How the

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<v Speaker 1>day end. I mean, you're you're making out, you go

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<v Speaker 1>back to your table and then what, well, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>we weren't at a table. We were at the bar.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh okay, And I mean the bartender was really nice,

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<v Speaker 1>and I guess I might have been a little flirty

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<v Speaker 1>with him. With the bartender two, you're like, hey, bartender,

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<v Speaker 1>there's a picture in the bathroom that you have to

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I wasn't that flirty. Okay, what type of

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<v Speaker 1>flirty then? I mean just chit chatty and smiling and

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<v Speaker 1>you know, talking Okay, how you talk to bartenders? Yeah, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>but you felt like it was something more there. I mean, honestly,

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<v Speaker 1>it could just be that Curtis is like, Okay, she's

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<v Speaker 1>just coming back into her own after being out of

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<v Speaker 1>a relationship. You know, good for her. But I just

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<v Speaker 1>am not I'm looking for something more serious. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>did he ever talk to you about that? You know,

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<v Speaker 1>we never really got into that. We were just kind

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<v Speaker 1>of like, hey, this is going to be a casual,

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<v Speaker 1>fun vibe, and we never really talked about anything serious. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>that's good. Casual fun. It is always good. Yeah. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>no matter who you're with, I mean maybe you gave

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<v Speaker 1>off that vibe where that's all you were looking for

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<v Speaker 1>that night was just like a casual, fun night and

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<v Speaker 1>didn't want to see him again. Yeah, and that's kind

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<v Speaker 1>of how I went into the night. But you know,

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<v Speaker 1>after talking with him and after the little makeout session,

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<v Speaker 1>he is so he hasn't texted or called or anything.

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<v Speaker 1>Have you reached out to him? No, I mean I've

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<v Speaker 1>reached out to him several times, but he hasn't chexted

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<v Speaker 1>back or anything. And I just don't know if I

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<v Speaker 1>moved too fast or thanks. Maybe it was a flirting

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<v Speaker 1>with the bartender. I don't know. Yeah, I mean it

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<v Speaker 1>could be that, it could be something else. It could

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<v Speaker 1>be that Curtis was with the bartender that night too.

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<v Speaker 1>You moved in on his man. Oh, I really don't

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<v Speaker 1>think so. Well, you never know. He's like, look, she's

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<v Speaker 1>a liar. There's no art in their own. Let's not

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<v Speaker 1>close the door to any possibilities. We're gonna play a song,

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<v Speaker 1>we'll come back, we'll call Curtis and we'll find out

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<v Speaker 1>why he's not calling you anymore when we do your

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<v Speaker 1>second date update. All right, okay, all right, hold on date.

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<v Speaker 1>It's another classic modern dating tale of girl meets boy.

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<v Speaker 1>Girl lies to boy about a picture in the woman's bathroom,

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<v Speaker 1>Girl makes out with boy in the handicap stall. Suddenly

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<v Speaker 1>girl not getting a call back from boy. We've seen

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<v Speaker 1>it a million times. Come on, Juliet, seriously, Now it's

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<v Speaker 1>the million and one time because it's happened to one

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<v Speaker 1>of our listeners, Megan, after she went out with a

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<v Speaker 1>guy named Curtis and now he's ghosting. Have you ever

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<v Speaker 1>thought that maybe he's a rule follower and it was

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<v Speaker 1>morally corrupt for him to use the handicap stall. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>that's a good point, you know, father, you Brook. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>if you're going to pick a stall, yeah, let's just

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<v Speaker 1>stand on the toilet of the regular stall. There was

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<v Speaker 1>just a line for people and wheelchairs the stall waiting

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<v Speaker 1>to get it. That would be my luck, though, Jeffrey,

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<v Speaker 1>is that what happened Megan? No, not at all. But

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if that was his issue, it might

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<v Speaker 1>be okay, Actually be happy if that was it. If

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<v Speaker 1>he was that good of a guy, let him go.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, here's the thing, Megan. If this doesn't work out,

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<v Speaker 1>you are fresh out of a big relationship. We will

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<v Speaker 1>find you somebody else on the text board or something,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, and you had a bathroom trick that works,

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<v Speaker 1>so yeah, score, or you could just fall back into

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<v Speaker 1>that old relationship again, Jeffrey, it's just a backup part

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<v Speaker 1>that is a cycle. Okay. I just want to see

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<v Speaker 1>if you know, it's maybe something stupid I did or

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<v Speaker 1>what I really want to try and make this work.

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<v Speaker 1>He's pretty great. Okay, Well let's find out. We're going

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<v Speaker 1>to dial his number right now, try and get your

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<v Speaker 1>second date update? You ready? Ready? Okay, here we go. Hello. Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm looking for Curtis. This is Curtis. Hey, Curtis, how

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<v Speaker 1>you doing? Man? My name is jeff from the radio

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<v Speaker 1>show Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning. No way, Oh

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<v Speaker 1>my gosh, you listen. Okay, see Jeffrey, somebody recognized you.

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<v Speaker 1>You listen to the show. Uh no, but I know

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<v Speaker 1>somebody who does. Okay, kind that's also jeff That's cool.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank them. Well, we're doing a segment on our show

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<v Speaker 1>called a second date Update. Yeah I figure that too.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh oh, are you sure you haven't. Megan messaged me

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<v Speaker 1>that this was going to be happening. So she warned

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<v Speaker 1>you that we were going to call. I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>if she knew for sure that I saw her message,

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<v Speaker 1>but yeah, she said this is something that she might

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<v Speaker 1>try to do to contact me. Are you saying like

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<v Speaker 1>she messaged you like five minutes ago right before we called,

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<v Speaker 1>or this was days ago that she warned you this

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<v Speaker 1>might happen. It's more like, when isn't she messaging me? Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>Wait a minute, she didn't say that. She said she

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<v Speaker 1>had texted you a couple of times and hadn't heard

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<v Speaker 1>back after your guys's date at the bar. No, no happening.

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<v Speaker 1>How many How many texts are we talking? I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>say around three hundred? Wow, Oh that's it. Okay, I

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<v Speaker 1>was worried for a second. It's only three What is

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<v Speaker 1>there to say? Three times? How have you not blocked her?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, honestly, well, there's really no point, as you

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<v Speaker 1>can see, like she's gonna try to contact me by

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<v Speaker 1>any means. All right, Well, before we talk about why

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<v Speaker 1>this is happening, let's just refocus on the date for

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<v Speaker 1>a second, because Curtis, we spoke with Megan, and from

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<v Speaker 1>her perspective, she said it went really well. She seemed

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<v Speaker 1>so normal. Yeah, no, that part of it is pretty true.

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<v Speaker 1>Actually it did go pretty well. So wait when you

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<v Speaker 1>ended the date, right, she said, you guys took to

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<v Speaker 1>Uber's home. Did you have plans to call her and

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<v Speaker 1>go out again? Yeah? No at that point. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>had a lot of fun. I would have loved to

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<v Speaker 1>go out again for sure. What happened, Yeah, why did

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<v Speaker 1>she send you so many texts? I don't know. So

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<v Speaker 1>what happened is that went home, I took a shower,

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<v Speaker 1>came out of the shower, and there was about four

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<v Speaker 1>texts from her, and then so I responded, yeah, you

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<v Speaker 1>had a great night, thanks, and so I went to bed.

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<v Speaker 1>When you're just done with the date, sometimes it is like, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>I had a lot of fun. Sorry if I'm talking

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<v Speaker 1>too much, just want you to know know. I'm thinking there's

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<v Speaker 1>four tex right, okay, not horrible. Did you not respond

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<v Speaker 1>to those initial four tex? He said he did? He did,

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah I did. I said, yeah, I had a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of fun, and yeah, hopefully we can do it again, okay.

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<v Speaker 1>And then and then you woke up the next morning,

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<v Speaker 1>you went to bed, You woke up the next morning,

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<v Speaker 1>then what Then there was about another twenty text messages

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<v Speaker 1>saying what just saying what? A good time she had,

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<v Speaker 1>and then sorry for messenging you so late. I hope

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<v Speaker 1>you can get this hopefully, things like that, it sounds

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<v Speaker 1>like she doesn't know how to put the phone down. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it sounds like she really likes you though doesn't or

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<v Speaker 1>she just an obsessive person. That means she really likes someone. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>So when I quit responding, it kind of made the

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<v Speaker 1>snowball effect. The twenty messages became sixty messages, which became

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<v Speaker 1>two hundred messages. It just got a real crazy, real

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<v Speaker 1>quick oh stressed, and you just never told her anything

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<v Speaker 1>after that. You've just let it snowball and continue to

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<v Speaker 1>this point, I couldn't keep up with one to pick

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<v Speaker 1>which one to respond to. So no, man, you have

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<v Speaker 1>such a good attitude about this right now I would

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<v Speaker 1>be freaked out. I'm so glad we're not doing textual

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<v Speaker 1>healing right now. That's where people through via text message, Curtis,

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<v Speaker 1>if you don't listen. So yeah, wow, this one's much

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<v Speaker 1>easier because instead of going with text, we just have

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<v Speaker 1>the person jump on the phone and let you know

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<v Speaker 1>that they've been on the other line listening this entire

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<v Speaker 1>time and want to talk to you much less messy. Yeah, sorry, Curtis. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I figured this was going to happen too, honestly. Okay, Okay, Megan,

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<v Speaker 1>did you warn him that this that you were waiting

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<v Speaker 1>on the other line this whole time? Did you text

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<v Speaker 1>him during this conversation? No? I didn't. But I'm really surprised.

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<v Speaker 1>I think I think you meet embarrassed and that's okaying,

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<v Speaker 1>what are you doing? No, I mean we we were

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<v Speaker 1>just like chit chatting and stuff, and I was just

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<v Speaker 1>trying to keep the conversation going. I don't know why

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<v Speaker 1>it so weird about it. I mean, there's definitely the

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<v Speaker 1>shit happening on your end. I don't know if the

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<v Speaker 1>chat has happened to Look, I'll defend you a little bit.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a flurry texter. We can call it where you're

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<v Speaker 1>text and flurries. Yea, he send? How are you saying? Yeah? Seven?

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<v Speaker 1>Though you stop, you don't keep going forever and ever?

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<v Speaker 1>And you want you want to leave the person on

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<v Speaker 1>the other end of the text message wanting more right,

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<v Speaker 1>Like you want to leave him hanging, like you have

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<v Speaker 1>other things going on in your life, the game, Like

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<v Speaker 1>what happened? Were you just sitting staring at your phone, like,

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<v Speaker 1>what's going through your head during this time? I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I just wanted to talk to him, like you know,

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<v Speaker 1>as if we were just sitting together at the bar

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<v Speaker 1>talking back and forth. It was just whatever came into

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<v Speaker 1>my head. I don't know why you all think that's

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<v Speaker 1>so weird. They are like, yeah, I mean, Curtis is

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<v Speaker 1>on the phone right now. Why don't you guys talk

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<v Speaker 1>at this moment? This is the perfect opportunity to have

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<v Speaker 1>a discussion. Sure, you know the all the messaging was excessive,

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<v Speaker 1>but there's really no point of blocking your number because

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<v Speaker 1>I know that you keep messaging me from other people's

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<v Speaker 1>phones too, and all these different numbers. Last part you No, No,

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<v Speaker 1>I have multiple phones. I have a phone for work,

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<v Speaker 1>I have my private phone, and I text from both phones.

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<v Speaker 1>For all she knows, he's not getting the text. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know how you guys are defending this behavior. Curtis.

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<v Speaker 1>Please step in here and tell her what your boundaries.

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<v Speaker 1>Trying to defend the person that actually listens to our show,

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<v Speaker 1>person that's never heard of us before. My legan side.

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<v Speaker 1>You could be great, but you need to tone it down. Curtis.

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<v Speaker 1>You got to tell her your boundaries right now, so

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<v Speaker 1>all the people texting them, because she obviously is not

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<v Speaker 1>getting it. I mean, if you want to talk to me,

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<v Speaker 1>he would just say, so, Megan, please stop texting to

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<v Speaker 1>me again? Say it again, Curtis, would you pretty pretty

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<v Speaker 1>please stop texting me? Don't do you get it? Megan?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, does that mean you don't want to talk

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<v Speaker 1>to me at all? I want to be just really

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<v Speaker 1>clear about this. You just don't want to talk to

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<v Speaker 1>me or see me. You just have to come out

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<v Speaker 1>and say that. Yes, that's what I'm saying. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know if we should talk anymore. You don't know or

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<v Speaker 1>you know, you're not being clear with me, Curtis. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>trying to be nice. I'm not sure of what you mean.

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<v Speaker 1>You drop nice. Yeah, we're gonna have to be brutal here, Curtis.

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<v Speaker 1>I think I'm just going to change my number. Gays,

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<v Speaker 1>Oh say it likely? Oh wow? Oh see this is

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<v Speaker 1>why I keep talking and I'm not getting a clear answer,

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<v Speaker 1>and oh my god, points just text our text board

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<v Speaker 1>anytime you feel like you want to text Curtis. Okay

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<v Speaker 1>to him, I mean, you're a great guy, but you're

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<v Speaker 1>just not really great at communication. I think that's a

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<v Speaker 1>good lesson guys text back, be better communicators and also

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<v Speaker 1>be better listeners, like Curtis, did you hear what she said? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>she's breaking up with you. She's not interested in seeing

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<v Speaker 1>you because you don't know how to communicate properly. Damn.

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<v Speaker 1>There we go. Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.