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Speaker 1: all right? A guy? We like people who can turn

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Speaker 1: So tell us about the guy that you want us

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Speaker 1: and where'd you meet him? If we always needed to know? Well,

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Speaker 1: What was the plan. The plan was just to kind

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Speaker 1: It's another classic modern dating tale of girl meets boy.

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Speaker 1: Girl lies to boy about a picture in the woman's bathroom,

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Speaker 1: is that what happened Megan? No, not at all. But

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Speaker 1: second date update? You ready? Ready? Okay, here we go. Hello. Hey,

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Speaker 1: show Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning. No way, Oh

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Speaker 1: I'm a flurry texter. We can call it where you're

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Speaker 1: text and flurries. Yea, he send? How are you saying? Yeah? Seven?

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Speaker 1: Though you stop, you don't keep going forever and ever?

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Speaker 1: And you want you want to leave the person on

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Speaker 1: Like you want to leave him hanging, like you have

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Speaker 1: I have multiple phones. I have a phone for work,

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Speaker 1: I have my private phone, and I text from both phones.

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Speaker 1: For all she knows, he's not getting the text. Okay,

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Speaker 1: I don't know how you guys are defending this behavior. Curtis.

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Speaker 1: Please step in here and tell her what your boundaries.

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Speaker 1: Trying to defend the person that actually listens to our show,

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Speaker 1: You could be great, but you need to tone it down. Curtis.

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Speaker 1: You got to tell her your boundaries right now, so

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Speaker 1: he would just say, so, Megan, please stop texting to

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Speaker 1: I think I'm just going to change my number. Gays,

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Speaker 1: Oh say it likely? Oh wow? Oh see this is

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Speaker 1: anytime you feel like you want to text Curtis. Okay

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Speaker 1: good lesson guys text back, be better communicators and also

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Speaker 1: be better listeners, like Curtis, did you hear what she said? Okay,

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Speaker 1: she's breaking up with you. She's not interested in seeing

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Speaker 1: you because you don't know how to communicate properly. Damn.

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Speaker 1: There we go. Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.