Speaker 1: Hell, we suck at being newlyweds? Kylen miller Key and
Speaker 1: Jared Haven an iHeartRadio podcast. What's going on? Everyone, Welcome
Speaker 1: to an all new episode of Help We Suck at
Speaker 1: Being Newlyweds. It's a new week, it's a new episode,
Speaker 1: and Kaylyn, we still suck at being fiances? That really
Speaker 1: float off your tongue. Well that was the first time. Yeah,
Speaker 1: in Joe, I've been practicing all morning for the past
Speaker 1: three minutes, just in my head, running cycles through and
Speaker 1: making sure I was prepared for the podcast today. Um,
Speaker 1: We've got a great episode for you guys today. Jared's
Speaker 1: not here, so you know it's going to be a
Speaker 1: good one. Kaylyn, why don't you tell the listeners who
Speaker 1: are guest it's going to be this week? Oh, I'm
Speaker 1: so excited. Today we have Serena Pitt and she is
Speaker 1: just the sweetest person ever. She is wonderful, also engaged
Speaker 1: to Joe. Also met her fiance on Bachelor and Paradise,
Speaker 1: so we have a lot to chat about. How do
Speaker 1: you know she's the sweetest person her We went to
Speaker 1: Mexico together. You said that about Marie and Kenny too,
Speaker 1: as if I was like forgetting a fact that we
Speaker 1: hung out with all of them, Serena, I went to
Speaker 1: Mexico together, different from Paradise. I see. I thought you
Speaker 1: were saying only from knowing her at Paradise you decided
Speaker 1: that she's the swetest person here. No, we've traveled together. Okay,
Speaker 1: well that's great. Then I definitely concede to your knowledge.
Speaker 1: You know more than I do she's a swetest person ever.
Speaker 1: I thought you were saying just from the time that
Speaker 1: we spent with her on Paradise and she was very sweet,
Speaker 1: But I don't think that's enough time to make the
Speaker 1: distinction that she's the sweetest person ever. Correct. That's why
Speaker 1: that's not what I always said, And I understand. I
Speaker 1: don't even know why I'm still talking about it, to
Speaker 1: be honest. Let's bring Serena. Yeah, let's get Serena pitt
Speaker 1: in here. Huh. Serena, Welcome to the podcast. We're so
Speaker 1: happy to have you here. I don't even know like
Speaker 1: we introduced you before you got on. We didn't really
Speaker 1: do a proper segue into having you co host with
Speaker 1: us today. So for the listeners out there, you obviously
Speaker 1: know Serena. She was from Bachelor in Paradise, I want
Speaker 1: to say season seven, Yeah, no, season eight, seventh, season
Speaker 1: seven seven? I think no, no, no no, no, it was eight.
Speaker 1: It was oh yeah, no it seven because the last
Speaker 1: film was eight, right it was. I was for some
Speaker 1: reason thinking that Ashley and Jared got engaged on season seven,
Speaker 1: but no, that was season five, so yeah, because that
Speaker 1: was Joe's first season, right right, because they need to
Speaker 1: start titling the seasons. It's easier with Bachelor Batchel Rat
Speaker 1: because you're like, oh, like Matt James's season, But with Paradise,
Speaker 1: they need to start giving them like a creative title
Speaker 1: so people can identify. If you could name your season
Speaker 1: in Paradise, what would you name it? Oh, gosh, I
Speaker 1: don't know, um, dumpster fire. Then I got engaged. What
Speaker 1: would you name ours? Yeah, baster and Paradise chow. I mean,
Speaker 1: but I feel like every season is it's never like yeah,
Speaker 1: it's never like beautiful aways exactly. It's never what you
Speaker 1: think it's going to be. Well, I think every season
Speaker 1: has one defining moment, so I think you just have
Speaker 1: to think about what the defining moment is. In the
Speaker 1: name of years, every season has tears where they could
Speaker 1: like create a theme within every season, right, that's true.
Speaker 1: Bachelor in Paradise eighties edition, and then you just show up,
Speaker 1: We're in eighties closed the whole time someone did that?
Speaker 1: Was that your season? Yeah, we did like an eighties
Speaker 1: prom theme. Yeah, they like brought us a bunch of
Speaker 1: like eighties clothes. That's so fun. But then they could
Speaker 1: make like the whole overarching theme as well, like everyone
Speaker 1: stays in eighties the whole time. Eighties swimsuits that would
Speaker 1: be re intros would be eighties themed, the food would
Speaker 1: be eighties themes. You can't really, Yeah, that was so hard.
Speaker 1: You think Kitlan has a lot of clothes, Now, imagine
Speaker 1: you had to go to show that was eighties theme
Speaker 1: for a whole month. She get a whole new wardrobe.
Speaker 1: I mean, well, I was in Paradise. I just wore
Speaker 1: the same shirt and swim trunks every single day. Did Joe?
Speaker 1: He packed half a suit case. You're allowed to bring
Speaker 1: two full ones, right in a small one. He brought
Speaker 1: one half packed suit case of T shirts and shorts.
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh. That's I think. Say, men's stay doing
Speaker 1: the least, right, we stay doing Men's Day. Even when
Speaker 1: I was on Bachelorette, I brought a Duffel bag and
Speaker 1: that was all I brought. And there were guys on
Speaker 1: my season that I brought like three checked bags with
Speaker 1: like the vacuum technology that would like shrink yourself. Yeah.
Speaker 1: I actually tried that out when I was going on
Speaker 1: the show, but I felt like I could like squeeze
Speaker 1: a lot more in. I get. The theory is it's
Speaker 1: just funny to see grown men. I mean, I guess
Speaker 1: you know, it's it's weird to say a lot, but
Speaker 1: it was just funny to see grown men putting that
Speaker 1: much effort into their clothes. I don't know why. I
Speaker 1: just thought it was kind of silly. Well, you also
Speaker 1: grew up in a mountain town where people don't care.
Speaker 1: Typically you also showed up with the Duffel bags, like
Speaker 1: they could say the same about you. That's one percent true,
Speaker 1: That's very true. All right, So season seven, Serena, welcome
Speaker 1: you famously. Well it's not what made you famous, obviously,
Speaker 1: but you and Joe are famously now married if I
Speaker 1: remember correctly. So you guys got married. We did, But
Speaker 1: you can you explain this all to me? Because I
Speaker 1: saw the Instagram post. But it looked like it was
Speaker 1: just like an intimate thing versus like a full on
Speaker 1: wedding ceremony, which I think as they're still planning on having, right. Yeah. Yeah,
Speaker 1: So we got into the wedding planning process, like we started,
Speaker 1: we picked a wedding planner and kind of started looking
Speaker 1: at venues, and we just didn't want to wait the
Speaker 1: whole year to get married. We thought it'd be fun
Speaker 1: to kick off the wedding process with an actual wedding.
Speaker 1: And also, we just had so much like extravagance and
Speaker 1: publicity around our relationship, Like we thought it'd be really
Speaker 1: cool to do something just super kind of untraditional and intimate.
Speaker 1: I mean, nothing about our relationship has been traditional to
Speaker 1: this point anyway, so like why start now. So we
Speaker 1: kind of looked into getting married at the courthouse. We
Speaker 1: have some friends here that did it during the pandemic.
Speaker 1: And you can't like wake up and just like show
Speaker 1: up at the courthouse and get married, Like it's not
Speaker 1: like Vegas. You have to kind of like put in
Speaker 1: the paperwork and you do a call with them. And
Speaker 1: it was about a three week process from the time
Speaker 1: we first submitted the application to our actual courthouse appointment,
Speaker 1: so we were allowed to bring one witness, so we
Speaker 1: brought Natasha Parker from our season and she was our witness.
Speaker 1: She like signed the form and then you go into
Speaker 1: this room and like we didn't really know what we
Speaker 1: were getting ourselves into. We were just like, yeah, like
Speaker 1: we go, we'll sign some documents and we'll be married.
Speaker 1: But they make you like I mean, like if you
Speaker 1: saw the video, like we had to like they're like
Speaker 1: stand hold each other's hands. Um, So it was very
Speaker 1: surreal and like actually so emotional because you're like saying
Speaker 1: your vows and I don't know, it was like eight
Speaker 1: forty five in the morning on like a weekday, Like
Speaker 1: we didn't really like you could see how we're dressed.
Speaker 1: Were like, yeah, I was thirty dollars. It was so cheap,
Speaker 1: Like I don't know, like after we did it, really
Speaker 1: do we still want to do a whole wedding, Like
Speaker 1: it's going to be so much more. This was like
Speaker 1: the cheapest thing ever. But yeah, it was great. Honestly.
Speaker 1: We went and we had like breakfast after and then
Speaker 1: my parents flew in that night to take us for dinner,
Speaker 1: which was fun. Um, we got to like surprise all
Speaker 1: of our friends, like we just got married. Who I
Speaker 1: have so many questions? Yeah, go ahead, this sounds like
Speaker 1: my dream and too late. It's too late. Okay. So
Speaker 1: my first question is you said it was thirty bucks. Well, actually,
Speaker 1: like I said, I've got a million questions. Let me
Speaker 1: start with the first one that came into my head
Speaker 1: when you were talking. So you said it took three
Speaker 1: weeks from planning it to doing it, leading up to
Speaker 1: those leading up to that day those three weeks, were
Speaker 1: you like, was there any weird feeling in the air,
Speaker 1: not like weird but like bad decision weird, But like
Speaker 1: were you getting excited? Were you getting nervous? Like what
Speaker 1: was kind of going through your head? I don't know.
Speaker 1: I don't think it really like hit us that we
Speaker 1: were doing it until the night before, like we talked
Speaker 1: about it enough and like we knew we were getting married,
Speaker 1: Like I didn't have that like oh my god, what
Speaker 1: are we doing? Like should we wait? Feeling like we
Speaker 1: were very much like, yeah, we're getting me, this is great. Whatever.
Speaker 1: And then the night before I remember us blaying and
Speaker 1: bad looking at each other and being like, oh my god,
Speaker 1: we're getting married tomorrow. That's insane. Because I feel like
Speaker 1: when you do a whole wedding, you have like almost
Speaker 1: a whole year leading up to that moment, like wrap
Speaker 1: it around your head that like, Okay, I'm getting married.
Speaker 1: I'm getting married, Like it's really like drilled into your
Speaker 1: head for a whole year, right, like all of these
Speaker 1: decisions are being made for us. It was like twenty
Speaker 1: minutes on the laptop to book an appointment and then
Speaker 1: we had like a zoom call and like in between that,
Speaker 1: like we weren't really thinking about it, and the night
Speaker 1: before we were like wow, And then even the morning
Speaker 1: of we just kept looking each other thing, I cannot
Speaker 1: believe we're about to go get married right now, Like
Speaker 1: this is insane, But we were so excited. Like it was.
Speaker 1: It was very easy and it was just fun. And yeah,
Speaker 1: when it came to the vows and stuff, was it
Speaker 1: did you guys prepare vows like leading like every day
Speaker 1: leading up to it in the sense where it was
Speaker 1: what your real vows would have been at your real
Speaker 1: get a big blowout wedding or was it more of
Speaker 1: just like an off the cuff kind of spontaneous thing.
Speaker 1: So when we went, we didn't realize that we were
Speaker 1: going to have to like stand at the podium and
Speaker 1: like even like say vows to each other. We thought
Speaker 1: it was going to be because like I've only been
Speaker 1: to like one wedding, and I remember at my cousin's wedding,
Speaker 1: like they sat down at a table and basically signed
Speaker 1: their marriage sins, and I just thought that that was
Speaker 1: going to be the whole process of the courthouse. I
Speaker 1: didn't realize they were going to have like someone they're
Speaker 1: marrying us essentially, which I guess I should have. I
Speaker 1: just didn't know. So we didn't have anything prepared. Like
Speaker 1: we were even shocked by that part of it. So
Speaker 1: we were basically just repeating what they were saying to
Speaker 1: us back to each other, which is very short. It's
Speaker 1: just like do you take Joe to be your husband? Essentially,
Speaker 1: And for our wedding, I think we will prepare like
Speaker 1: vows because we're still going to have a full wedding.
Speaker 1: So for that reason, because we're already married, we then
Speaker 1: want to kind of say something a little more personalized. Gotcha,
Speaker 1: And I kind of answered my last question, well not
Speaker 1: my last, but another big question I had was because
Speaker 1: you guys already had the wedding per se. I would
Speaker 1: imagine you could save so much money by having a
Speaker 1: party that looks like a wedding but not calling it
Speaker 1: a wedding. And since you're not saying the word wedding,
Speaker 1: you're going to save you fifty on all of the
Speaker 1: expenses and everything. Yeah, yeah, we've been we've been learning
Speaker 1: that too, that the minute you tell any venue or
Speaker 1: vendor that you're having a wedding, the prices are so
Speaker 1: much more expensive than if you're just like, yeah, we're
Speaker 1: just throwing a party, which is crazy to me, and
Speaker 1: like just the cost overall of weddings, Like for the
Speaker 1: first few months we were kind of like what are
Speaker 1: we doing, Like we're already married. It was thirty dollars,
Speaker 1: Like we could just have some like intimate dinner with
Speaker 1: our family and friends or like throw a reception or
Speaker 1: I don't know, like this money could literally go to
Speaker 1: a home that we're spending on this wedding. Like it's
Speaker 1: really jarring finding out how expensive weddings are. But with
Speaker 1: that being said, I'm not someone that like grew up
Speaker 1: dreaming of my wedding, but at the same time, like
Speaker 1: I still want that experience, Like you only get it
Speaker 1: once in your life, like I want to walk down
Speaker 1: the aisle, like I want to wear a white dress,
Speaker 1: and like if we don't do it now, we're never
Speaker 1: gonna do it. Like I don't think I'll ever look
Speaker 1: back and like I might be like, wow, that was
Speaker 1: a lot of money, But I don't think I'll ever
Speaker 1: look back and like regret doing it. But like I
Speaker 1: would be scared that I would look back and be
Speaker 1: like wow, like I missed out on something in my
Speaker 1: life that like would have been this like huge celebration
Speaker 1: of like Joe and my relationship. And like we do
Speaker 1: like have our family and friends like all over the place,
Speaker 1: like Minor in Toronto and his or in Chicago. So
Speaker 1: like for us, it's important to have like that coming
Speaker 1: together of everyone because it's not like we're gonna have
Speaker 1: that like for a lot of events in our lives,
Speaker 1: Like it's not like gonna be like Sunday dinners with
Speaker 1: our parents together necessarily. So being able to have like
Speaker 1: everyone come together in one place is kind of like
Speaker 1: what the like big driving force was for us to
Speaker 1: kind of do the wedding. I love that. Are you
Speaker 1: gonna do like a bachelortte bridle shower all of that.
Speaker 1: I mean, I do a bachelort. I just booked to
Speaker 1: my bachelort actually, like two days ago. We're gonna go
Speaker 1: to Vegas. I've never been, so I'm excited. The best
Speaker 1: place ever. Yeah. Oh yeah, you guys live there, don't
Speaker 1: you know. Yeah, so that'll be fun. And then I
Speaker 1: don't know if I'm gonna do a bridle shower or not.
Speaker 1: I'm still kind of up in the air. My like
Speaker 1: really close family friend has offered to throw me one
Speaker 1: if I want it. It's just a matter of like
Speaker 1: it would kind of just be like the same people
Speaker 1: going on my bachelorette and then like my family because
Speaker 1: and like obviously Joe's family would be invited, but like
Speaker 1: they live in Chicago, Like if they all lived in
Speaker 1: the same place, they feel like it would be or
Speaker 1: if like they were all able to come, like it'd
Speaker 1: be really special to have like everyone in one room.
Speaker 1: But I don't know, I don't, like I already feel
Speaker 1: a little weird about the bachelorette. Like having an event
Speaker 1: that surrendered around me, where like I feel a sense
Speaker 1: of responsibility for everyone to have a good time makes
Speaker 1: me really anxious and a little uncomfortable at least, like
Speaker 1: with the wedding, it's shared with Joe, so we'll see.
Speaker 1: I'm up in the air on the bridal shower. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I was gonna say how your engagement party was, because
Speaker 1: he is the same way and he had fun at
Speaker 1: the engagement party, but yeah, he doesn't love the pressure.
Speaker 1: Well it's a pressure. Yeah, I like how you said
Speaker 1: it too. At those things, at those shared events, you
Speaker 1: share the burden of attention, I guess. But then at
Speaker 1: your bachelor at part of your bachelor party, your bridle shower,
Speaker 1: whatever it is, it's just you. But also on the
Speaker 1: other side of it too, it's like those people that
Speaker 1: are going to that are like your closest friends, So
Speaker 1: maybe it's less of a pressure because you know, you
Speaker 1: know and love those people. So we're in the process
Speaker 1: right now. Well, I guess I'm in the process of
Speaker 1: planning my bachelor party and she's already got hers plan
Speaker 1: but um, yeah, that's not for a few more months. Anyway,
Speaker 1: where are you going. I'm going to San Diego. Just
Speaker 1: making it easy for everyone, and I'm I don't know
Speaker 1: if you're having someone planned your bachelorette but they have
Speaker 1: made it so easy. I'm using Batch to Basic and
Speaker 1: they just sent me like the whole itinerary and they
Speaker 1: send everyone like payment reminders, So oh my god, that's amazing.
Speaker 1: I was actually looking at one I think it's called
Speaker 1: I'm in Miami Batch or something like that, and I
Speaker 1: was if I went to Miami, like they would have
Speaker 1: been great. But I think because we're one of Vegas,
Speaker 1: like we're partnering with the hotel like the Venetian, so
Speaker 1: I feel like a lot of activities will take place
Speaker 1: at the resort essentially. But if I was to do
Speaker 1: it somewhere like Miami or Arizona like something like that,
Speaker 1: where I'm like booking dinners, I feel like having someone
Speaker 1: planet for you is so helpful. Yes, that's a nice
Speaker 1: thing about Vegas. Yeah, it's very very concentrated in the area.
Speaker 1: You can just kind of like not really even leave
Speaker 1: the Venetian if you don't want to. Yeah, I feel
Speaker 1: like it's like an all inclusive resort, but everything's really
Speaker 1: expensive and it's exactive all inclusive minus the inclusivity, and
Speaker 1: the prices are super high. Yeah, mine's gonna be in
Speaker 1: Jackson and that's gonna be similar, Like we're the only
Speaker 1: real lodging you can book is like hotel rooms. And
Speaker 1: I don't have like a best man or anything like that.
Speaker 1: But there's gonna be like fourteen people at my bachelor party,
Speaker 1: and so it's just like a big, big burden to
Speaker 1: schedule that for everyone, especially when I am awful at planning.
Speaker 1: So yeah, yeah, I message my girlfriends and was like,
Speaker 1: we're doing a destination wedding, so like, if this there's
Speaker 1: a lot to ask, like, don't feel pressured to come,
Speaker 1: but like I'm trying to just think of it like
Speaker 1: a big girls trap versus like a batchelat party. But
Speaker 1: then obviously my girlfriends are like, we want the balloons,
Speaker 1: we want the dick straws, we want it all. Like
Speaker 1: all right, well then you can bring it. I'm not
Speaker 1: packing that in my suitcase. Right. Where's the wedding. Um,
Speaker 1: it's in Charleston, South Carolina. Oh beautiful? Yeah that like
Speaker 1: an old cigar factory. It's like an industrial kind of venue. Nice.
Speaker 1: You always talk about Charleston, don't you. Yeah? I love
Speaker 1: it there have you guys been? Yeah? I used to
Speaker 1: live in North Carolina, so I was like four hours
Speaker 1: from there. I think, oh nice would go whenever I could. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's really the South, so he'll never go. I hate it.
Speaker 1: I've never had a positive experience down there, but I've
Speaker 1: also just never really traveled down there. So I mean,
Speaker 1: look like if you had asked me if I was
Speaker 1: going to get married in the South, like I definitely
Speaker 1: would have said no. How I didn't think I would
Speaker 1: yet on that we just wanted we wanted a destination wedding,
Speaker 1: but we want it in the US. So we kind
Speaker 1: of told our planner, like just research a bunch of
Speaker 1: different like weekend getaway cities that are going to be
Speaker 1: accessible for people from Toronto Chicago and also just fun
Speaker 1: like our friends want to go. They want to like
Speaker 1: day drink and party, and we just want if we're
Speaker 1: going to make people travel like, we want it to
Speaker 1: feel enjoyable for them where they're going and easy as
Speaker 1: much as possible. So we were looking at Austin, Texas,
Speaker 1: We're looking at Charleston, we were looking at Nashville, which
Speaker 1: we're kind of like all big like wedding cities, like
Speaker 1: Nash's got like a million venues, and then just our
Speaker 1: favorite venue is Charleston. And I spent some time in
Speaker 1: Hilton head South Carolina, So I'd been there like two
Speaker 1: or three times before, and just we thought it would
Speaker 1: be a good fit. And then when we went and
Speaker 1: checked out the venue, we're like, yeah, this is great.
Speaker 1: We love it so kind of like random, like we
Speaker 1: have we have no personal ties to this place, but
Speaker 1: it'll be cool, like we'll develop a personal tie to
Speaker 1: it because it'll be where we got married. Yeah. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and as the Guy Factory is pretty cool. That's funny
Speaker 1: too because ours, yours is in a neutral location, so
Speaker 1: it's like Joe's family and your family and your friends
Speaker 1: are all having to go to this random place, and
Speaker 1: then ours is where I basically grew up. So I
Speaker 1: feel guilty because it's like, Okay, I'm familiar with the area,
Speaker 1: a lot of my friends live close by. But then
Speaker 1: Kaylin's family and friends all have to go out there
Speaker 1: for the first time. So it's like no one's complaining
Speaker 1: about going to Aspen. Everyone's I was going to say,
Speaker 1: like that's a pretty nice place to go to, right yeah,
Speaker 1: And I would say only like fifteen percent of the
Speaker 1: wedding are actually currently living in Basalter Aspen, maybe less,
Speaker 1: And that's true. It just does feel I don't know,
Speaker 1: like a neutral site would have made me. Not that
Speaker 1: I've actually felt this way until just now, but a
Speaker 1: neutral site, you know, kind of makes sense that way.
Speaker 1: No one is like, I mean, we did our engagement
Speaker 1: party in Toronto, if that makes you feel better, So
Speaker 1: we did make everyone travel there for that. But how
Speaker 1: involved is Joe and the wedding planning stuff? He's very involved.
Speaker 1: He's very involved. Oh yeah, yeah, I honestly like would
Speaker 1: be nervous make a decision without checking with him first,
Speaker 1: not that he doesn't trust my decision making, but like
Speaker 1: he is very opinion did just as in general as
Speaker 1: a person. Um. But I like it, Like I like
Speaker 1: that he cares what like the save the dates look
Speaker 1: like and stuff like that, Like he helped me like
Speaker 1: pick our tasting menu, like all the cake flavors, like
Speaker 1: all the venues. Like it's been very fifty fifty. I'm
Speaker 1: a little bit more involved in like the administrative stuff
Speaker 1: of like going back and forth with the planner and
Speaker 1: like all of that. But that's just more of my strength.
Speaker 1: But yeah, he's he's all up in it. Becaus made
Speaker 1: any like weird decisions, like unique, quirky type of decisions,
Speaker 1: that's a good question, I don't think so. What would
Speaker 1: you define as a quirky decision for a wedding? Well,
Speaker 1: I really want to have ice cream cake instead of
Speaker 1: wedding cake and our wedding. You're about to say something else.
Speaker 1: I really also wants a lot of ideas. I really
Speaker 1: want to wear a penguin tuxedo. Okay, it's surprised, I
Speaker 1: really wanna Can I say it? No? Okay, I really
Speaker 1: want to a special musical act while Kayleen walks down
Speaker 1: the aisle. Joe's had you know what, Joe had a
Speaker 1: lot of these. He's come to me with a lot
Speaker 1: of music suggestions. Um, he was watching Triangle of Sadness
Speaker 1: the other day and like loved it, so all of
Speaker 1: a sudden, I'm getting all these songs that I should
Speaker 1: be walking down the aisle too. I'm like, what am
Speaker 1: I listening to this? Like instrumental rock man? Like, oh,
Speaker 1: I can't walk down the aisle to this. And then
Speaker 1: he has sent me some like outfit the ideas that
Speaker 1: were vetoed. But we are doing ice cream sandwiches, I
Speaker 1: think because it's like his favorite dessert. Um, and we're
Speaker 1: gonna do like a dessert bar, and his one thing
Speaker 1: was he was like, I want cookies and ice cream.
Speaker 1: I think we can make that happen. What a what
Speaker 1: a gracious person you ad to let him have that
Speaker 1: at his work? He wants an ice cream cake. I
Speaker 1: don't know what the logistics of, Like I was gonna say,
Speaker 1: an ice cream cake. You might need like a freezer
Speaker 1: for that. I just want to bask and Robbins mint
Speaker 1: chocolate chip ice cream cake that's three feet high and
Speaker 1: past four tears on it. I don't think that's happened really.
Speaker 1: Specifics can deliver on that. They can find a way.
Speaker 1: There's it's twenty twenty three. There's ways for you know,
Speaker 1: anything to happen these days. Anything. Um, do you have
Speaker 1: your dress yet? I do. I have my wedding dress,
Speaker 1: which I'm excited about, but I'm still searching for, like
Speaker 1: I want to do a second dress. So I kind
Speaker 1: of like rushed into buying my first dress, like not
Speaker 1: that I don't love it, but I very much like
Speaker 1: went to like two stores and like picked the first
Speaker 1: one that I like loved and was like, yeah, I'm done.
Speaker 1: And then I don't know if you felt this at all,
Speaker 1: Like I have dress panic every day, like my feet
Speaker 1: is just covered in dresses, and I'm like, I love
Speaker 1: everything so much. Did ivery third decision? And then some
Speaker 1: just I'll call my like I hate my dress and
Speaker 1: she's like, no, you don't, you love it, Like go
Speaker 1: back to doing what you're doing, Like you're overthinking it.
Speaker 1: But I feel there's just like so much pressure on it.
Speaker 1: Maybe that's just me putting pressure on it. I don't know. No,
Speaker 1: I think like pinterest in and Instagram get more difficult too,
Speaker 1: because you're just being flooded with all these other options.
Speaker 1: I felt that way immediately after I said yes to
Speaker 1: the two dresses, and then I started to panic. But
Speaker 1: I'm really happy with it. But I don't know. There's days.
Speaker 1: There are days where you're like, shoot, did I yet
Speaker 1: like eight months in advance right, And it's like I
Speaker 1: feel like I've done so much more research now than
Speaker 1: before I went dress shopping. So I'm trying to like
Speaker 1: take my time with the second dress and then like
Speaker 1: balance out the things that I feel like maybe like
Speaker 1: I don't have in the first dress so that I
Speaker 1: kind of have everything that I would want. And then
Speaker 1: I'm just gonna block everything off of Instagram and Pinterest
Speaker 1: that our wedding dress in suppose I know, follow every
Speaker 1: account literally like by restrict mute, don't don't show my exploreage.
Speaker 1: Have you had your first dress fitting yet? Because we're
Speaker 1: I think we're only like two weeks apart our weddings.
Speaker 1: Yeah we are, because I know um Wells Wells actually
Speaker 1: messages and I was like, okay, we're all the clear,
Speaker 1: Like right you think like there was like uncertainty if
Speaker 1: like we were going to have crossover. Um, but we're
Speaker 1: we're beginning of September and I think you guys are
Speaker 1: middle right. Yeah. I haven't have my dress fitting yet,
Speaker 1: but it hasn't come in yet hopefully like next month
Speaker 1: or the month after. Yeah. Because I just went back
Speaker 1: um and got they like, let me try it on again.
Speaker 1: So I was okay because I was like, I think
Speaker 1: I want a different veil. Literally okay, So I went
Speaker 1: back and tried it on again. Are you gonna have
Speaker 1: a veil? I guess I shouldn't know that, should I?
Speaker 1: You shouldn't. Joe, he's asking to see my dress. Have
Speaker 1: you been same? Oh? Yeah, He's like just show me,
Speaker 1: let me see it. What No, I will not show him.
Speaker 1: I've showed like everyone. Everyone's like, oh, did you pick
Speaker 1: out your dress? And like showing everyone Because I'm the same,
Speaker 1: people say like, don't show my anyone, and I'm like
Speaker 1: literally like offering people to see my dress, Oh, do
Speaker 1: you want to see it? They're not even asking, like
Speaker 1: a baby, I'm like please. Yeah, it's funny you mentioned
Speaker 1: the Welles thing Wells at our engagement party. Uh he was.
Speaker 1: He brought that up too. He's like, I don't know
Speaker 1: if I can make it to your wedding. You know,
Speaker 1: Joe and Serena are getting married in September sometime too,
Speaker 1: and this is like before I think either of us
Speaker 1: had dates. And I was like dogging him so hard
Speaker 1: on it because I missed his bachelor party and his wedding.
Speaker 1: And I was like, dude, oh yeah, so mad, It's okay.
Speaker 1: I missed his wedding too. Yeah, Joe wet and I
Speaker 1: had COVID I couldn't go, so I had a very
Speaker 1: valid excuse. But I was in Pakistan too, but I
Speaker 1: was like getting so mad. I was like, well, as
Speaker 1: you have to be there. If you're not there, I'm
Speaker 1: gonna be so sad. And he goes, what are you
Speaker 1: talking about like you missed my wedding, now that he
Speaker 1: would do that to get even with me, But I
Speaker 1: still I realized how how much you would be sad
Speaker 1: if one of your good friends missed your wedding. You know,
Speaker 1: it's like kind of a big deal. I feel like
Speaker 1: in the moment, you're like, there's gonna be one hundred
Speaker 1: and fifty people there, like you're not even gonna notice
Speaker 1: I'm not there. But then when it's your wedding, you're like, oh,
Speaker 1: I guess I like actually do even just seeing their
Speaker 1: faces like mean something. Yeah, that's been the biggest surprise
Speaker 1: to me. We've gotten like two nos, and one of
Speaker 1: them I was pretty offended because I was like, this
Speaker 1: makes zero sense that you're not going to come for
Speaker 1: this reason. But I thought the same thing going to weddings,
Speaker 1: like there's gonna be so many people, I'm not going
Speaker 1: to be missed, but people do care. Yeah. Yeah, it's
Speaker 1: like you take it for I feel like I'll take
Speaker 1: it even there's people that like I know probably won't
Speaker 1: come or we invite it being like they probably won't
Speaker 1: be able to make it. But I still feel like
Speaker 1: you have like a twinge of like I'm a little
Speaker 1: sad that you're not coming to my wedding, even though
Speaker 1: like I didn't think you were going to come, right,
Speaker 1: I know, we felt that for our engagement party a
Speaker 1: little bit, like there were certain people who couldn't come,
Speaker 1: and I was like, we still had ninety people there,
Speaker 1: but I was like, oh, it's sad, jeez, I needs
Speaker 1: a lot. How big is a wedding going to be? Well,
Speaker 1: Joe has a very large Italian family, so I think
Speaker 1: our guest list for just his immediate family is like
Speaker 1: sixty five people maybe more, maybe closer to seventy. Yeah,
Speaker 1: we go, yeah, so like we're not there was no
Speaker 1: small wedding option for us. Yeah, like that is a
Speaker 1: small wedding. Actually, just his immediate family is well be
Speaker 1: considered a small to medium sized wedding. But I think
Speaker 1: our guest list is like one eighty five right now.
Speaker 1: But like we know we're having a destination wedding, so
Speaker 1: we know that'll like kind of impact the RSVPs. We
Speaker 1: had like the toughest to this day, are having like
Speaker 1: the toughest time with the guest list on like where
Speaker 1: to cut it off, Like, yeah, I don't know, I
Speaker 1: didn't expect to have such a hard time. But oh yeah,
Speaker 1: in my head, I'm like, oh, everyone I've ever talked
Speaker 1: to can come to my wedding. Oh my gosh. She
Speaker 1: keeps adding people. And we have a very specific venue,
Speaker 1: like people are going to be on the property the
Speaker 1: entire time, so we can only fit so many people.
Speaker 1: And Dean's like, no, my golf buddy's got to come.
Speaker 1: Well he doesn't, He's got yes. And that This is
Speaker 1: the issue that we've recently been faced with is when
Speaker 1: I look at the list of people attending the wedding
Speaker 1: and I'll see someone that Kalin's known for eight months
Speaker 1: and I'm like, oh, but I've known this guy for
Speaker 1: three years and I see him every single week. He's
Speaker 1: got to come to the wedding. I'm like, I say
Speaker 1: it on the past, I'll tell you afterwards. But it's
Speaker 1: like when I start, when I start sizing up, like
Speaker 1: you know, a to A or Apple's Apples or whatever,
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, well, then this person has to at
Speaker 1: least get an invite you. I don't know. It is
Speaker 1: definitely a challenge, especially with our venue is like very strict.
Speaker 1: It's like ninety five people, very strict. The nice thing
Speaker 1: about us in our situation. I guess nice is a
Speaker 1: loose Leu's term is we only have our very immediate
Speaker 1: close family that we're close with, and we don't have
Speaker 1: like a big familial guest list. Like between the two
Speaker 1: of us, there's like fourteen family members, right, Yeah, I'd
Speaker 1: say that's about right. So that's nice. So I kind
Speaker 1: of it's like mostly friends and it doesn't there's no
Speaker 1: like expectation where you know, Kaylin's family list is going
Speaker 1: to be huge and the mind is small or vice versa.
Speaker 1: So it kind of like relieves some pressure on us
Speaker 1: that way, I guess. But yeah, do you have a
Speaker 1: big family? Not really, Um, I'm trying to think, Like
Speaker 1: I think my like family guest list is like twenty people,
Speaker 1: Like that's including both my mom and dad's like siblings
Speaker 1: and my cousins and grandparents and stuff. So like compared
Speaker 1: to Joe's, like it's small, but yeah, that's all good.
Speaker 1: Should I invite my aunts to the wedding? It's too late.
Speaker 1: I got at least send an invite. It's one of
Speaker 1: those things where it's like, oh, you're graduating high school,
Speaker 1: send out invitations and then that way they know that
Speaker 1: they're included even though you know they're not going to
Speaker 1: make it, and then maybe listen to you a gift too. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you get the credit for the invite. Yeah, it's like, oh,
Speaker 1: at least we got invited, but what have they come? Yeah,
Speaker 1: then you're screwed. But I feel like I feel like
Speaker 1: ninety five, like or at least having a strict guest
Speaker 1: count is helpful because our venue, the outdoors, only accommodates
Speaker 1: two hundred people. The inside accommodates five hundred, but we
Speaker 1: are using the outside for cocktail hour, so technically our
Speaker 1: cut off is two hundred. But like we don't want
Speaker 1: that many people, not because like, like we would love
Speaker 1: to invite everyone to our wedding, Like we're social. We
Speaker 1: want to have a huge party. The more the merrier
Speaker 1: is like really our mentality. But like our wedding planters
Speaker 1: very much like, look, the best way to cut down
Speaker 1: on costs is to have less people, Like that's truly
Speaker 1: what it is. So we're kind of trying to stay
Speaker 1: like I end up around a certain number, and like
Speaker 1: the more people you invite, the further away from that
Speaker 1: number you get, and the higher up everything goes on
Speaker 1: your budget list so we'll see what happens. It's crazy.
Speaker 1: The cost of food, the cost of alcohol, the cost
Speaker 1: of it is flat wire insane. Yes, yeah, we got lucky.
Speaker 1: Our venue includes like all the silverware tables, Linen's chairs,
Speaker 1: but ours is no Our venue host is a nightmare.
Speaker 1: He's the worst. No really, yeah, but luckily we don't
Speaker 1: really have to deal with them. It's the wedding planners
Speaker 1: that's good. Yeah. So, I mean the cost is crazy,
Speaker 1: and last night I was up a little bit just
Speaker 1: getting stressed. Even like hair and makeup. You're flying in
Speaker 1: and you have to put them up and pay for
Speaker 1: their rental car and all sorts of it just really
Speaker 1: adds up. Yeah, no, it does. Like even like I'm
Speaker 1: doing um, like Kristen from Quantour Foss coming to do
Speaker 1: my hair and makeup and like love her. I'm so
Speaker 1: happy she's doing it. But yeah, then it's like you
Speaker 1: forget about all the ad on ones of like okay,
Speaker 1: like Uber's hotels, flights there and back, like anything that
Speaker 1: goes over time, Like it just every little thing adds up.
Speaker 1: So yeah, I mean, if you're looking to save money,
Speaker 1: thirty dollars at the courthouse guys, Yeah, oh, we might
Speaker 1: go do that today if we didn't have all of
Speaker 1: our deposits down. Oh yeah, we had a great We
Speaker 1: had a great musical guest reach out to us and say, hey,
Speaker 1: we'll play your first song for free, and we're like,
Speaker 1: oh great, And then we started adding all the expenses
Speaker 1: up and we're like, oh man, this is gonna be
Speaker 1: a lot more expensive than any thoughts. So we're gonna
Speaker 1: maybe we're gonna say no to that because it's like
Speaker 1: airfare and a hotel and you know, all the other
Speaker 1: things that they might need while they're there. It's just
Speaker 1: it's great and meals and Aspen flights alone or a
Speaker 1: thousand dollars and then stay and Aspen is insane. So
Speaker 1: we chose not the best place to get married. We
Speaker 1: we wanted to do a band too. We were like,
Speaker 1: Joe is dead set on a band he like loved
Speaker 1: Wells and Sarah's band was like, it's just it brings
Speaker 1: so much more energy. But again, the like, we couldn't
Speaker 1: believe the cost of some wedding band. And I mean,
Speaker 1: like it's not like that I'm saying like they're over priced.
Speaker 1: I just like I had no idea, Like here's the
Speaker 1: thing like planning a wedding is something you just don't
Speaker 1: know until you do it, and then you're in it
Speaker 1: and you're like, wow, I'm learning so much. If only
Speaker 1: I could have like five of these, by the fifth one,
Speaker 1: I would be crushing it. But the first one, like,
Speaker 1: thank God for our planner. Truly, he was like, I
Speaker 1: would not know what the hell was going on. It
Speaker 1: just makes me want to buy twenty acres and turn
Speaker 1: it into a wedding venue. Truly, you should, and then
Speaker 1: you should live there and you should rent it out. Yeah,
Speaker 1: they're making so much money, it's so insane. And when
Speaker 1: everyone says like weddings are so expensive, I'm like, okay,
Speaker 1: maybe like twenty thirty thousand. And we talked about budget,
Speaker 1: and I think Dean initially said five thousand dollars for
Speaker 1: the whole wedding. When we first started talking about weddings,
Speaker 1: I was like that if that was possible, yeah, And
Speaker 1: then I was like, that's definitely not possible. But then
Speaker 1: we start getting hit with numbers, and even for a
Speaker 1: wedding photographer, two people for two hours, with the rehearsal,
Speaker 1: din and the wedding day, fifty five thousand dollars. I
Speaker 1: was shocked. Not even video that's not wedding, so like, yeah,
Speaker 1: sure that was my bad, but still fifty five and
Speaker 1: you yeah, you knew that it was gonna be expensive.
Speaker 1: Use for it was like no, I was like no,
Speaker 1: but you just don't know what, like what average is, right,
Speaker 1: Like if you told me, like, oh, you're gonna book
Speaker 1: a wedding photograph, how much do you think it is?
Speaker 1: Like I would be like, I genuinely have no idea.
Speaker 1: I've never booked a wedding photographer before. And then like
Speaker 1: if you ask me what the spectrum was, like, I
Speaker 1: don't know what I would have said, but like I
Speaker 1: feel like it's literally anywhere from like five to ten
Speaker 1: thousand to like sixty thousand, Like it's such a wide spectrum.
Speaker 1: And like you're like, okay, like my favorite photographer is
Speaker 1: shooting for Vogue, but like that's my budget for my
Speaker 1: whole wedding exactly. Well, if you want to free wedding photographers,
Speaker 1: we can be your your your go too, yeah portfolio.
Speaker 1: I feel like we're gonna like Bachelor Nation, you know,
Speaker 1: like Blake horsemank a DJ Like you guys could be
Speaker 1: our wedding photographer and videographer, Like, we should all just
Speaker 1: start or Susie too, she does weddings. We should all
Speaker 1: just start being each other's like wedding vendors, right for
Speaker 1: a lot of money. We all team up like the
Speaker 1: Power Rangers, and then we all become you know this
Speaker 1: outside Bachelor packet, Yeah, the Bachelor packet. Truly, we should
Speaker 1: start planning that. There should be Man, I should really
Speaker 1: not say this because someone's going to steal. This is
Speaker 1: a great idea. There should be like a team of
Speaker 1: people from Bachelor that plan Bachelor bachelortte parties. Yeah. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that'd be a great idea. Too bad I don't have
Speaker 1: a background and event plan here. I go right onto that.
Speaker 1: Yeah that sounds great. You could do that. You love planning.
Speaker 1: I love planning. This has been my dream come true. Planning. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you're loving it. It's so fun. I don't know what
Speaker 1: I'm gonna do after, which is more the reason why
Speaker 1: I'm just hands off because I'm not a planner and
Speaker 1: you love it. So Yeah. I try to give DNA
Speaker 1: say and I like ask him his opinion and he's
Speaker 1: like whatever, I don't care. He just wants the ice cream.
Speaker 1: Kate man um I care. I just I know that
Speaker 1: you care more than I care, So it just would
Speaker 1: be silly for me to put my foot down for
Speaker 1: something that I don't care as much about as you. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I do have a question. Have you changed your last
Speaker 1: name and are you going to? I have not changed
Speaker 1: my last name, still Serena Pitt. I'm going to change
Speaker 1: my last name, probably to Amblie. I just there's just
Speaker 1: no rush right now. Like at the end of the day,
Speaker 1: if we weren't having kids, I would probably always stay
Speaker 1: Serena Pit. The only reason I think I'll change my
Speaker 1: last name is because I want our kids and us
Speaker 1: to all have the same last name. And I actually
Speaker 1: know people who have said, like, having a different last
Speaker 1: name than your kids if you're trying to cross the border,
Speaker 1: like from Canada the US, gets very, very difficult because
Speaker 1: they're essentially like, prove that these are your kids because
Speaker 1: you don't have the same last name, it was them.
Speaker 1: So I think I don't have a middle name, like
Speaker 1: my parents never gave me one. So if I can,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna give myself the middle name Pit and then
Speaker 1: switch my last name to a Moblie so I'll still
Speaker 1: be like Serena pitt a Mobli, But I won't have
Speaker 1: typhon name not why not Joe Pit. That sounds pretty cool,
Speaker 1: don't get we started. My dad would be freaking over
Speaker 1: the moon. He has two daughters and the line ends
Speaker 1: with him. He's the only son, so it's devastating. Um.
Speaker 1: But yeah, I think it's important to him that I
Speaker 1: take his last name, is as much as I would
Speaker 1: love to have Pit forever. Like, I think it's more
Speaker 1: important to him that I take his lass name than
Speaker 1: it would be important to me for him to take
Speaker 1: my last name. Like if I felt really passionate about it,
Speaker 1: like it would definitely be a conversation we'd have. But
Speaker 1: I kind of always expected and like we could also
Speaker 1: hyphenate like Pitt Moubley for both of us. But I'm
Speaker 1: just not really into the hyphenation of it all. But
Speaker 1: Maubley's mouthful. It's a great last name, but it's not.
Speaker 1: It's not as easy as Pitt. Pitt's quite simple. You
Speaker 1: guys are doing Belle right, we're doing doing Bell. We're
Speaker 1: changing it, changing it up. But both brothers did the
Speaker 1: same thing too. I was annoyed, Well not annoy it.
Speaker 1: I'm happy for them. But I came up with this
Speaker 1: idea like three years ago, and then my oldest brother
Speaker 1: got married and did that. He took my idea. And
Speaker 1: then my second brother got married and did the same thing.
Speaker 1: And don't tell them your future kids names, they'll take
Speaker 1: them too. You've got like seven Catherines in the family, right,
Speaker 1: seven Debbies. Yeah, No, Joe's whole family's names are Joe
Speaker 1: on both sides. And it's so complicated. Oh my gosh,
Speaker 1: there's like three Joe Mobley's. So is there what's the children?
Speaker 1: Um idea? Are you guys gonna have kids? Is there
Speaker 1: a plan for kids? Is it just going to kind
Speaker 1: of be what whatever happens happens. Yeah, I think we
Speaker 1: want to have kids. We're thinking two kids would be
Speaker 1: like what we want if that is what we can have. Um,
Speaker 1: right now, we're just live in life, like we haven't
Speaker 1: really put a hard timeline on it. Um the whole
Speaker 1: like dual income, no kid life is like really for
Speaker 1: me right now. And I mean I definitely want kids.
Speaker 1: But I was saying to my parents the other day,
Speaker 1: I was like, man, like it's gonna it's hard to
Speaker 1: like imagine giving up your freedom, like selfishly and like
Speaker 1: just how you know you're We went away to Florida
Speaker 1: with Joe's um with two of Joe's friends and they
Speaker 1: have a really cute two year old and he's great
Speaker 1: and they're a beautiful family. But it really made me
Speaker 1: see because we were living with them, like kids are
Speaker 1: a twenty four seven job and like I obviously knew that,
Speaker 1: but then seeing you're like, wow, like it really changes
Speaker 1: your whole life when you have them, which is both
Speaker 1: is amazing, but like I want to make sure we're
Speaker 1: like really ready for that and we're gonna have them.
Speaker 1: It's just making sure like all of our ducks are
Speaker 1: in a row and like there's no perfect time for anything.
Speaker 1: But yeah, it's it's a big decision to have children,
Speaker 1: like it really is. But two two is what we're
Speaker 1: interested in maybe in like two or three years. Think
Speaker 1: life is the way to go. Can't go wrong it is,
Speaker 1: you can't go along with it. It's really the height
Speaker 1: of luxury. What are you most excited about the second wedding?
Speaker 1: Because you're you're already married, What's like, what are you
Speaker 1: guys the most excited for? Oh, I don't know. I
Speaker 1: think just um, I think both of our like both
Speaker 1: our engagement and our marriage now have been away from
Speaker 1: our family and friends because we obviously got engaged on
Speaker 1: the show. So when we had our engagement party, like
Speaker 1: it's a lot of like running around and like saying
Speaker 1: hide people and like a little bit stressful, but I
Speaker 1: just remember being like so happy seeing like all of
Speaker 1: our people together in one space and like everyone just
Speaker 1: felt like it was just so happy and wonderful and
Speaker 1: like such a great memory to have, and like I
Speaker 1: think I'm just excited for that, like to create those
Speaker 1: memories and like see you know Joe's loved ones, my
Speaker 1: loved ones all there. Like we just want people to
Speaker 1: have a good time, like guest experiences like top of
Speaker 1: our lists, and yeah, I'm just excited to be in
Speaker 1: the room and like have that energy of like people
Speaker 1: around us and be like wow, like we're married. This
Speaker 1: is really exciting. Like I mean, it feels official, but
Speaker 1: like I feel like standing up there like saying our
Speaker 1: vows will be like holy shit, it's real. Right. Do
Speaker 1: you think Joe's gonna cry when he sees you? Oh,
Speaker 1: he really doesn't want to, but like he's like I'm
Speaker 1: not gonna cry. I can't cry. We're doing a first look,
Speaker 1: which I said I would never do a first look,
Speaker 1: but when we talk to our photographer and our wedding
Speaker 1: planner just logistically for like the day of schedule, it
Speaker 1: makes a lot more sense for us to do it,
Speaker 1: especially just like with our venue and stuff, like it's
Speaker 1: going to be easier to take photos like in other
Speaker 1: spaces in the city, like prior to us going to
Speaker 1: the venue. So if he does cry, he has the
Speaker 1: privacy of a first look to like let it out.
Speaker 1: But I'll get emotional. I'm like such a happy crier,
Speaker 1: So that's yeah, that's bound to happen. Do you guys
Speaker 1: have honeymoon plans or ideas yet? I think so. Um,
Speaker 1: nothing's like for sure set in stone, but we're looking
Speaker 1: at the Fairmont my Cobra right now. That's maybe an option.
Speaker 1: I don't really care one hundred percent where we go.
Speaker 1: I just said to him, like, I don't want to
Speaker 1: really do like a Grease or a Europe trip because
Speaker 1: I don't want to have to like plan about tret
Speaker 1: and then plan a wedding and then also plan like
Speaker 1: a multidestination honeymoon. Like we will do those trips like,
Speaker 1: we love traveling, We'll always eventually make time to make
Speaker 1: it there. I would love to just go somewhere where
Speaker 1: we can like lay on a beach for a few
Speaker 1: days and like really unwind and relax after the chaos
Speaker 1: of it all, because what we're doing is we have
Speaker 1: our wedding and then I think we have to go
Speaker 1: to his cousin's wedding the weekend after, so it's gonna
Speaker 1: be like a really busy few weeks. So I'm like,
Speaker 1: I just want to relax. But what are you guys doing?
Speaker 1: You guys have been like everywhere. How do you pick
Speaker 1: a honeymoon vacation when you guys travel so much? We're
Speaker 1: going to the moon. Oh my god. I really want
Speaker 1: to do South Africa. But I agree like planning it
Speaker 1: is a lot, especially South Africa when you have to
Speaker 1: go to Cape Town. Then you do the Safaris and true, yeah,
Speaker 1: Wells's brother plans those trips, so I've been talking to
Speaker 1: him about maybe doing it for me. That's me. I
Speaker 1: always wanted to do one of those trips. I think,
Speaker 1: like African Safari might not really be on Joe's bucket
Speaker 1: list of travel, but I think that would be so amazing.
Speaker 1: I don't know. One of our good friends is just
Speaker 1: down there and he said the food is incredible. So
Speaker 1: if it's really down there, that's a point. That's a
Speaker 1: point for me. I'm gonna I'm gonna let him know that.
Speaker 1: Are you guys, what's the food situation gonna be at
Speaker 1: your wedding? Because we all know Joe's a big foodie,
Speaker 1: so he's got to have like a big hand in that. Yeah,
Speaker 1: he is a big foodie. The thing is, so we're
Speaker 1: talking about this in the beginning. We're like, we need
Speaker 1: our wedding food to be like amazing. Like I was like,
Speaker 1: I want to do like family style pasta, and I
Speaker 1: want to do food trucks, and I want to do
Speaker 1: like all of these things. But like, and we haven't
Speaker 1: done our tasting yet. I'm very confident that, like the
Speaker 1: venues we've picked, like the food is going to be delicious,
Speaker 1: but like it's just so hard to have wedding food
Speaker 1: be like the best food you've ever eaten, Like they're
Speaker 1: serving like a hundred people at the same time. Like
Speaker 1: Joe's a huge foody and he's like I literally can
Speaker 1: even remember like any wedding, Like the food doesn't make
Speaker 1: or break the wedding. Like it's just a meal. You
Speaker 1: sit down, you enjoy it. Like I'm excited to our tasting,
Speaker 1: but he's mostly concerned about like the ice cream sandwiches,
Speaker 1: Like as long as we got those, like I think
Speaker 1: he'll be happy. Um, but yeah, what about you guys?
Speaker 1: Do you know what you're serving? Ice cream of some
Speaker 1: sort out or what? I like ice cream sandwiches, But
Speaker 1: we can't steal that, so we'll make it. Maybe we'll
Speaker 1: steal it. It wasn't our idea our venue offers it.
Speaker 1: I wanted a mochi kick, just a bunch of mochi
Speaker 1: balls stacked up on top of each other, which I
Speaker 1: really love, which leave him in charge of dessert. And
Speaker 1: like it's like just like doing that what I show.
Speaker 1: It seems to be what you're most passionate and right,
Speaker 1: but our venue has um a farm to table chef. Oh,
Speaker 1: we don't really like have much. Say, we're gonna do
Speaker 1: a tasting in June, but I don't know if like
Speaker 1: they're going to give us a bunch of options. I
Speaker 1: don't really know how it works. You know, it's so
Speaker 1: weird for tastings. Is so when you pick your wedding
Speaker 1: like you serve. Like I think we get like two
Speaker 1: mains and then like a vegetarian option. It's not like
Speaker 1: you to try like ten mains and then pick two.
Speaker 1: You only get to try too, so you're basically just
Speaker 1: trying what you're serving, just making sure what if it's awful.
Speaker 1: Then it's like you think you get to try like
Speaker 1: ten different things and then be like, oh, these two
Speaker 1: are my favorite. Yeah, but it's just like these two
Speaker 1: look the best, all right. They taste good too. Guess
Speaker 1: we're good. And that's kind of what I always envision envisioned. Two.
Speaker 1: It's just like a table where you're just like picking
Speaker 1: and seeing what you love the most. It's not gonna
Speaker 1: be for us, Nope, not for you. No. Um, since
Speaker 1: you guys have been married almost a year now, probably right,
Speaker 1: we got married, no October, so February like four. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I don't know time, you know, time's weird these days.
Speaker 1: Winter moves so slow. It's been a whole year in yeah,
Speaker 1: especially in Chicago. I can only imagine York. In New York. Yeah,
Speaker 1: we're in New York. The weather is a little milder here,
Speaker 1: but still like kind of cold and gray most days.
Speaker 1: Was there every like a shift in like the relationship
Speaker 1: after the wedding, you guys experience. Oh, A lot of
Speaker 1: people asked us if we felt like our relationship changed
Speaker 1: in any way. Um, honestly, not at all. I was
Speaker 1: talking to a friend about this actually because she was like,
Speaker 1: I feel like everyone always says like, oh my god,
Speaker 1: everything changes when you're married, or like the first year
Speaker 1: of marriage is the hardest year. I feel like that
Speaker 1: applies more to people that, um, like maybe don't move
Speaker 1: in together until they get married, or like hold off
Speaker 1: on certain aspects of the relationship until they're married. Literally, like,
Speaker 1: nothing changed for us structurally in our relationship once we
Speaker 1: got married, Like we're already living together all of that stuff,
Speaker 1: So I feel like it's the same. I think it
Speaker 1: will mostly change, like when we have kids. The only
Speaker 1: thing that's changes. Joe lost to be like I want
Speaker 1: to divorce. Like if I like do something that I
Speaker 1: didn't always say, I'm gonna be like, what's that out
Speaker 1: as a joke? But so that's fun. You have that
Speaker 1: to look forward to, right, I can't wait for those jokes?
Speaker 1: So off, Like crazy do you does he wear a
Speaker 1: wedding band? Now or is he waiting until the big ceremony.
Speaker 1: He's waiting, so I just have my engagement ring, Like
Speaker 1: I didn't get a wedding band, and then he didn't
Speaker 1: get one, so we decided to save like the exchange
Speaker 1: of rings and bows for our wedding, just to kind
Speaker 1: of like have still some of like the symbolism when
Speaker 1: we do it. But he also likes to make jokes
Speaker 1: about how he's a single man because he doesn't wear
Speaker 1: a wedding rings. So that might change soon if those
Speaker 1: keep ups. Oh my gosh. When you guys are like
Speaker 1: out to dinner or at a hotel, do you call
Speaker 1: each other husband and wives if you're like my wife
Speaker 1: needs a toothbrush or something. Yeah he does, but like
Speaker 1: it's so bad, but like we almost do it as
Speaker 1: a joke, like he'll be like, hi, my wife forgot
Speaker 1: her purse. But it's like we're actually married, Like it
Speaker 1: shouldn't be a joke anymore, Like it's been four months,
Speaker 1: but it's so it feels so weird still, like yeah,
Speaker 1: there were so many newly wed phase um, but yeah,
Speaker 1: it's like I will call him my husband, but like
Speaker 1: really only if I'm in a situation where I like
Speaker 1: have to refer to him as my husband. It doesn't
Speaker 1: like roll off the tongue yet I use all three.
Speaker 1: I call her girlfriend, fiance, and wife. Just depends on
Speaker 1: the mood, like yesterday to mix it up, just makes
Speaker 1: it up. Yesterday I had to pick something up from
Speaker 1: for like an adam doing from a food and wine
Speaker 1: you're here and they were like, oh, yeah, we try
Speaker 1: to deliver it this morning and I was like, oh yeah,
Speaker 1: my fiance was in the shower and she couldn't get
Speaker 1: the door or something, and I was like, why did
Speaker 1: I call her my fiance? She is my fiance. But
Speaker 1: I never I use the fiance at least often. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you know, yeah, mostly girlfriend or wife. Fiance is the
Speaker 1: one that feels like, so yes, pretentious, Like I was
Speaker 1: gonna say fancy, pretentious is a way better word. Um
Speaker 1: where you're like, oh, my fiance, I hate saying it.
Speaker 1: But then it's like, if that's what you are, that's
Speaker 1: what you say. But then it feels like people have
Speaker 1: to ask you, oh, when you're getting married, and then
Speaker 1: they're like, oh, when did you get engaged? And I'm like, no,
Speaker 1: I'm not asking for you, Like I'm not asking for me. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's like an invitation for people to ask you a
Speaker 1: bunch of personal questions about your life by saying your fiance.
Speaker 1: Like if I see my boyfriend, no one cares, no
Speaker 1: one my husband, no one cares. Still, right, but I
Speaker 1: actually followed this TikToker and she's engaged, and she did
Speaker 1: a TikTok. She was like, I will not be using
Speaker 1: fiance like he is my boyfriend, Like I will be
Speaker 1: calling my boyfriend and then I'll be calling him my husband.
Speaker 1: Like She's like, I can't get behind fiance. How do
Speaker 1: I do that? There was a point where I was
Speaker 1: talking about Dean and I kept saying it fiance, and
Speaker 1: I was like, oh, I hate I feel like I
Speaker 1: sounds so annoying right now, but that's what he is. Yeah.
Speaker 1: The thing with us is like we were only each
Speaker 1: other's fiance, so like when we were on the show
Speaker 1: and then we like I never really called him my
Speaker 1: boyfriend on the show unless I was like joking around. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and then we got engaged, so then he was my
Speaker 1: fiance for a year and a half and then he
Speaker 1: now he's my husband, so like, basically the entirety of
Speaker 1: our relationship, he's been my fiance. Oh wow, which is
Speaker 1: weird and you never used it or rarely? No, I
Speaker 1: would because like that's the only thing I knew really,
Speaker 1: but yeah, I don't know. None of it feels normal. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I agree. Well, Serena, thank you so much for joining us.
Speaker 1: We don't want to take up too much of your time,
Speaker 1: but we're excited to see the pictures. Were so happy
Speaker 1: for you and Joe offer still stands. If you guys
Speaker 1: need a wedding photographer and videographer, give us a call.
Speaker 1: Let us know. It's like, we won't even be there.
Speaker 1: We'll use our long lens and shoot you from a
Speaker 1: distance like you can just drone drone shots only Oh yeah,
Speaker 1: we'll get some nice silent drones that way you don't
Speaker 1: hear the buzzing all around you. Um, what's one last
Speaker 1: question we can ask, Serena. Let's think of one last question. Um, oh,
Speaker 1: will you be I'm doing the whole cake in the face. No,
Speaker 1: I actually said that to him. We're watching a movie
Speaker 1: the other day, We're watching Father of the Bride, and
Speaker 1: I was like, I'm paying good money and Kristen is
Speaker 1: spending a long time on this face. I swear to God,
Speaker 1: if you smash vanilla cake in it or whatever, we
Speaker 1: end up eating chocolate even worse, Like I just don't
Speaker 1: do it, like immediate divorce, Like you don't do it.
Speaker 1: But he, I feel like would feel just as passionately
Speaker 1: about me smashing cake in his face. So are you
Speaker 1: guys gonna do it? You can smash it in my face.
Speaker 1: I think it's gonna letting really smear. Oh yeah, you
Speaker 1: can smash it in my face. I'll do it. He's
Speaker 1: not about to pull up in. The mustache would be
Speaker 1: great for photos. The mustache isn't gonna be here for
Speaker 1: the wedding, but okay, think so, Yeah, this is more
Speaker 1: of just like a joke. He looks to Klin to
Speaker 1: find out if he's going to be having a mustache.
Speaker 1: Oh gosh, every day, every time, we'll look myself in
Speaker 1: the mirror with this mustache and I'm like, you are disgusting.
Speaker 1: It was just so so gross. Yeah, so that's not
Speaker 1: going to stick around. But I think that's a good side.
Speaker 1: You should probably take it, all right, feel that way
Speaker 1: about yourself. I also need to lose twenty pounds in
Speaker 1: seven six months, so I gotta get to work on that. Oh,
Speaker 1: you're on that wedding diet. I mean, I'm not yet,
Speaker 1: but I need to be. I like, I've just been
Speaker 1: eating Girl Scout cookies and that's about it for the
Speaker 1: past few days. So definitely, and that'll do it. That'll
Speaker 1: do it. But yeah, thank you so much for joining us.
Speaker 1: We appreciate it. Like I said, we're so happy and
Speaker 1: excited for you guys. Yeah, thanks for having me. It's
Speaker 1: so fun to chat with you guys when you're also
Speaker 1: planning the wedding. So yeah, I'm excited for you guys too.
Speaker 1: Can't wait to see all the picks in the videos
Speaker 1: and the drone shots. Well I want to say best
Speaker 1: to but it seems like you guys already got it
Speaker 1: all figured out, so keep doing what you're doing. Definitely not,
Speaker 1: but I appreciate the confidence that you're having us. Big
Speaker 1: thank you to you for joining us, Big thank you
Speaker 1: for listeners and Syrina you also do you also host
Speaker 1: a podcast? I do not. I just I thought you
Speaker 1: mosted the one with Joe or something, So I hosted
Speaker 1: Happy Hour for like a season and then I like
Speaker 1: did the live show with Joe for a clickbait. When
Speaker 1: we did, we interview Zac, which was really fun. I'm
Speaker 1: actually popping on to Clickbait. I think this week too nice.
Speaker 1: So well, for the listeners that are listening to this,
Speaker 1: be sure to go check out Clickbait and check out
Speaker 1: Serena on Instagram and all the social media platforms and
Speaker 1: all that kind of stuff. Stay updated on the wedding
Speaker 1: and everything. But yeah, thank you so much for joining us.
Speaker 1: We appreciate it. We love you, guys, and we wish
Speaker 1: you nothing but the best. Thanks, guys, have a good one.
Speaker 1: Thanks for having to And that's gonna do it for
Speaker 1: this week's episode. It just flows so much better when
Speaker 1: Jared's not here. I want, I want, I was gonna say,
Speaker 1: I want the listeners to just start DM and Jared
Speaker 1: and say, hey, just don't show up every week. Just
Speaker 1: collect your paycheck every quarter and just let Dean and
Speaker 1: Kayleen handle all that heavy lifting. Okay, but you guys
Speaker 1: have all had time off. I know I get timeline,
Speaker 1: but I only say this because sick today. I only
Speaker 1: say this because I know that I take a lot
Speaker 1: of time off as well. And Kaylin is set Kalina
Speaker 1: has a cold. I gave it to her. You're welcome.
Speaker 1: I'm also dealing with some torn knee ligaments. It's about
Speaker 1: me right now. Okay, Yeah, let's focus on me. And
Speaker 1: Kayleen is sick. I'm just getting she's drinking two green juices.
Speaker 1: She's got a bunch of medicine over here. She's been
Speaker 1: snoring up a storm every single night I have. I'm sorry,
Speaker 1: I can't breathe. Yeah, and I don't have a phone
Speaker 1: charger on my side of the bed, so I'll like
Speaker 1: put my headphones in, but my phone is only alive
Speaker 1: for like an hour. And then let me just say
Speaker 1: something about that. There are so many phone chargers around
Speaker 1: our house. Dean could easily just plug one into his
Speaker 1: sad table. But here's the thing is I forget all
Speaker 1: day to bring one up into the room, and then
Speaker 1: when it's time for me to go to bed, I
Speaker 1: am just too tired to go get one. This is crazy. Um.
Speaker 1: Let's also talk about your LCL real quick. Yeah. I
Speaker 1: think I tore my LCL or my meniscus. Something weird
Speaker 1: happened in my knee. I was supposed to be goingus. Um,
Speaker 1: I think so, I don't see why not? Do you
Speaker 1: know what a meniscus is? Nope? Then did you think
Speaker 1: you wouldn't be militaris. Isn't it your knee? Uh, well,
Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't. I believe it's a ligament
Speaker 1: on the outside of your knee. Um, I don't know
Speaker 1: what it was. I didn't have like a fall or anything.
Speaker 1: I just I hiked hard on it, I guess is
Speaker 1: the only thing. I hug like twenty miles in two
Speaker 1: days in Pedagoon yet and I woke up and I
Speaker 1: can barely bend my knee now. So I'm get an
Speaker 1: MRI this weekend. We'll see how that goes. But you're
Speaker 1: just going to the doctor. They have to schedule them, right,
Speaker 1: but they don't need to know logistics. Okay, But also
Speaker 1: the pain has moved from your knee to your quad.
Speaker 1: There's all sorts of things happening with this. Quad is
Speaker 1: feeling better. The quad was just so or because I'm
Speaker 1: limping on my leg and I'm activating different muscles in
Speaker 1: my leg like that was my suspicion. And today I
Speaker 1: woke up and it doesn't feel as bad as it yesterday.
Speaker 1: So I'm confirming that suspicion. But yeah, I'm supposed to
Speaker 1: ski from now until the end of the ski season.
Speaker 1: But I can't do that because I can barely even walk.
Speaker 1: So now I'm just building foe beams in our guest
Speaker 1: room in the meantime while this thing heals, which is
Speaker 1: kind of a bummer. But that's the update on us.
Speaker 1: Is there anything else you want to share about our
Speaker 1: wedding planning or anything like that. I mean, I'm just
Speaker 1: a little just about the money aspect, but otherwise we're
Speaker 1: good and we have everything booked, like every single vendor
Speaker 1: is booked, and now it's just like the design process.
Speaker 1: So we're doing great. I mean, I'm doing great because
Speaker 1: you're not really involved, which I'm fine with. It's a
Speaker 1: little bit of anger, and I like having free range
Speaker 1: and being able to do whatever I want. Do you
Speaker 1: have so much fun with this? As a little girl
Speaker 1: dreaming about your future wedding, did you imagine your husban
Speaker 1: been to be being so blase about the planning process. Yes,
Speaker 1: this is exactly what I dreamt it is, so I'm
Speaker 1: giving you your dream exactly. Gosh, I'm so great, aren't
Speaker 1: I'm so great? And this is exactly what I dream
Speaker 1: just not having to do anything, just sitting back and
Speaker 1: writing a check, writing a check out of my fiance's
Speaker 1: bank account because I have no money. Oh my gosh,
Speaker 1: this again? Yeah? Sorry. You know, if anyone's out there
Speaker 1: and wants to donate to the Dean Fund, no, Dean
Speaker 1: is fine. Extra work. Um yeah, there's anything else we
Speaker 1: want to talk about before we say goodbye? Um? Probably? Oh.
Speaker 1: I always like think of things throughout the week and
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, we should talk about this, we should
Speaker 1: talk about that, and then the time comes and I forget.
Speaker 1: Do you want to talk about your Vanderpump Rules drama?
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, yes I do. Thank you for asking. Um. So,
Speaker 1: if anyone following the Vanderpump Rules drama, it is wild,
Speaker 1: and I I don't really know what else to say
Speaker 1: beyond that, it's I just can't imagine dating someone for
Speaker 1: a decade, we're dating, married, whatever, and my best friend
Speaker 1: is cheating on you with what? Yeah, cheating cheating on
Speaker 1: you with me? Yeah? Wait? What? Those things always confuse me.
Speaker 1: I don't know why, but yes, I think it's wild.
Speaker 1: I think also the Internet just loves to cancel people
Speaker 1: and hate on people. Yes, what they did is horrible
Speaker 1: and so wrong, but I don't think people should be
Speaker 1: just like whatever. Let them learn their lesson and don't
Speaker 1: be so hateful, and let's support Arianna. I think Arianna
Speaker 1: is an amazing person and we'll just uplift her without
Speaker 1: dragging people down. Do you think they're doing this for headlines?
Speaker 1: You know, that's definitely been a topic on TikTok. People
Speaker 1: think it's all fake just to get the views up.
Speaker 1: And I heard on a podcast that vander watch What
Speaker 1: Happens Live with Andy Cohen. It was the top rated episode,
Speaker 1: like highest viewership in two years, which seems like it
Speaker 1: should be more. But um, I don't know what was it.
Speaker 1: They had the guests from vander Pump. They had Lisa
Speaker 1: vander Pump on but she's not even in the drama. No,
Speaker 1: but Lisa is the owner of these restaurants and she
Speaker 1: takes care of all of her little chicklings. And so
Speaker 1: she was talking about it and basically said what I said, like, yes,
Speaker 1: they did a horrible thing, but let's not like, you know,
Speaker 1: people's mental health are also involved, Like they did, they
Speaker 1: did a horrible thing, but we can say they did
Speaker 1: a horrible thing without like sending them so much hate.
Speaker 1: If people that I knew were having an affair, the
Speaker 1: last person I would care to hear about. Is their
Speaker 1: Bob from there? Is their Bob? Well, like Lisa is
Speaker 1: also friends with them. It's the show is like it
Speaker 1: started because of her, right, It just it seems like
Speaker 1: the highest rated show. You would expect one of the
Speaker 1: people involved in the scandal to be on the show,
Speaker 1: not just one of their friends, you know what I mean? Yes,
Speaker 1: But also I think because it's basically Lisa's show, the
Speaker 1: other people on the show, um, they have NDA's and
Speaker 1: a lot of them have like tried to talk about
Speaker 1: it and go on podcasts and things, but um, it's
Speaker 1: Bravo and they're like restricting it. So also because it's Bravo,
Speaker 1: they can't go on Andy Cohen because it's live, and
Speaker 1: they're worried like what they would say. That's my understanding,
Speaker 1: could be totally wrong. I see, so still crazy any
Speaker 1: new developments since last week? You know, I checked TikTok
Speaker 1: regularly and I haven't seen anything. I know. Raquel apologized twice.
Speaker 1: Tom Sandoval also apologized twice. His first apology was like, no,
Speaker 1: I need to make money, don't come after my business.
Speaker 1: And then that's literally it. And then he came out
Speaker 1: and he's like, oh, actually, like, I'm sorry to my
Speaker 1: partner of ten years. Ten years a long time, nine years,
Speaker 1: but basically ten do you think they would have benefited
Speaker 1: from being in an open relationship? Well, okay, so those
Speaker 1: are the rumors that they were in an open relationship,
Speaker 1: and that was kind of leading up to this season.
Speaker 1: I heard you guys were in an open relationship, and
Speaker 1: so then it's like, maybe they were, but then he
Speaker 1: got feelings. I don't know. I don't really know. I
Speaker 1: just think I feel for Arianna, and I'm putting myself
Speaker 1: in her position. If I were to be airy on it,
Speaker 1: I wouldn't want all this pity coming towards me, which
Speaker 1: I feel like she's getting a lot of pity. I
Speaker 1: would just want to be like whatever, I'm moving on, like,
Speaker 1: screw that guy. So Arianna, keep doing you. So they
Speaker 1: broke up, yeah, of course, And is he dating the
Speaker 1: girl that he was cheating on her with. There's a
Speaker 1: lot of back and forth about that as well. People
Speaker 1: are like Raquel fired her PR team and hired a
Speaker 1: new one and said she's going to break things off
Speaker 1: with him. But then there's things saying like they're in
Speaker 1: love and they want to be together, So who knows.
Speaker 1: I don't. I just I could talk about this for
Speaker 1: days and I don't know why I'm talking. And I'm like,
Speaker 1: why am I talking about this? Well, it's interesting to me,
Speaker 1: probably not to you. It's not to me, but I'm
Speaker 1: glad that you're interested in it. It's just crazy. Do
Speaker 1: you want to talk about NFL free agency? Right? It's
Speaker 1: interesting to me, but it's not interesting to you. Right,
Speaker 1: you know, you see what I'm saying. That's it. That's
Speaker 1: all I got. I think that's all we got as
Speaker 1: an episode today too. We got north of an hour,
Speaker 1: so anytime we can hit sixty minutes plus, I think
Speaker 1: we're doing a little too much. Maybe maybe we could
Speaker 1: shorten it up a little bit. But you know, Serena
Speaker 1: is a great guest. She's got a you know, interesting
Speaker 1: slate of things coming up for her, so it's always
Speaker 1: good to hear from her and check in and hear
Speaker 1: how they're doing. And thank goodness their wedding isn't on
Speaker 1: the same day as ours, Yeah, because then Walls wouldn't
Speaker 1: come to our wedding, yeah, which you know, I guess. Well,
Speaker 1: it's just values Joe's friendship more than it does mine.
Speaker 1: We're really learning a lot about our friends and where
Speaker 1: we rank in their lives. Well, Wells hadn't more of
Speaker 1: an obligation. I'm just kidding. But with other people who
Speaker 1: aren't coming to then it's like, okay, fine, Wells, you
Speaker 1: can officiate our wedding if that's what it's going to take. No,
Speaker 1: we already asked, could you imagine saying, hey, sorry, we
Speaker 1: actually don't want to have anymore to Jackson. Are we
Speaker 1: allowed to say? Why wouldn't we? I guess it doesn't matter. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure we should just bleep random things out
Speaker 1: of the podcast, just like I don't understand why you
Speaker 1: want to keep everything so secretive. I don't know either
Speaker 1: I would, but I do. Okay, well, I guess you
Speaker 1: got to know come back to that. Yeah, that's your prerogative.
Speaker 1: I don't know. I guess I'm open to sharing more
Speaker 1: about the venue maybe another day. Yeah, that's gonna do it.
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