WEBVTT - Ep 393: Platonic Problems & Micro Cheating 0:00:02.600 --> 0:00:04.240 Guess what decision we're about to make. 0:00:04.760 --> 0:00:11.200 Horrible decision, hey, or have We are hitting the stage 0:00:11.280 --> 0:00:12.600 baby one night. 0:00:12.560 --> 0:00:13.760 Oh in New York City. 0:00:13.760 --> 0:00:16.480 We haven't done any other shows this year, but Mandy's 0:00:16.520 --> 0:00:19.239 leaving for Atlanta, so we decided we need one night 0:00:19.280 --> 0:00:20.800 all together in New York City. 0:00:20.920 --> 0:00:24.440 That's right, So Tuesday, December third, at Sony Hall, we 0:00:24.480 --> 0:00:25.279 are bringing you. 0:00:25.280 --> 0:00:29.040 A very very special show that you do not want 0:00:29.080 --> 0:00:29.400 to miss. 0:00:29.440 --> 0:00:32.360 You've never seen this show before. It's only gonna happen 0:00:32.400 --> 0:00:33.040 for one night. 0:00:33.680 --> 0:00:36.919 That's it, dad, So make sure you get your tickets now. 0:00:36.960 --> 0:00:39.919 You can go to the Sony Hall website to get 0:00:39.920 --> 0:00:43.839 your tickets one night only with Mandy Bee and WEEZYWTF. 0:00:43.840 --> 0:00:46.400 You can also check the link in our bio on 0:00:46.440 --> 0:00:48.160 our Instagram to get tickets as well. 0:00:48.360 --> 0:00:50.320 We cannot wait to see you again. 0:00:50.680 --> 0:00:54.320 That is Tuesday, December third at Sony Hall here in 0:00:54.400 --> 0:00:55.160 New York City. 0:00:55.400 --> 0:01:00.120 Get your tickets now, see you there, boob Beach, I 0:01:00.120 --> 0:01:04.600 can say Happy Halloween. We don't need to sing anything. 0:01:06.600 --> 0:01:08.320 Horrible decision. 0:01:10.080 --> 0:01:14.039 I don't like to go with Oh, that's what you're 0:01:14.080 --> 0:01:14.440 trying to do. 0:01:14.880 --> 0:01:15.360 Damn it? 0:01:15.600 --> 0:01:16.120 Like you know what? 0:01:19.319 --> 0:01:26.560 No, Okay, Welcome y'all to another episode of horrible Decisions. 0:01:27.200 --> 0:01:29.119 I am a playboy. 0:01:29.280 --> 0:01:35.280 Funny, Oh, I'm a priest, mainly because you bought the 0:01:35.319 --> 0:01:38.080 wrong costume. So I bought a non costume and a 0:01:38.120 --> 0:01:40.680 priest costume for me and my nigga to wear next 0:01:40.760 --> 0:01:44.959 week at this party. And I literally grabbed the wrong one. 0:01:45.640 --> 0:01:49.680 But I know the non costume is way less material 0:01:49.720 --> 0:01:49.960 than this. 0:01:50.640 --> 0:01:53.840 Yeah, but it's just a bag, So I just grabbed 0:01:53.840 --> 0:01:54.240 the bag. 0:01:55.040 --> 0:01:57.560 I knew one bag. That's crazy. So you ain't looking 0:01:57.600 --> 0:01:58.080 the bag. 0:01:59.520 --> 0:02:00.440 Non costume on right now? 0:02:00.520 --> 0:02:01.320 You don't have all one? 0:02:01.360 --> 0:02:01.840 I hope not. 0:02:02.160 --> 0:02:05.400 But anyway, that would be funny if y'all swapped it. 0:02:05.560 --> 0:02:08.120 Edn just asked Mandy what she was, and that to 0:02:08.160 --> 0:02:10.840 me was a gug because it's like, hello, hello, you 0:02:10.880 --> 0:02:13.399 know from the years. 0:02:13.440 --> 0:02:15.480 Be is the Bee for Bunny and Mandy Bee. 0:02:16.919 --> 0:02:18.920 But are you gonna wear that outfit with jeans tonight 0:02:18.960 --> 0:02:19.799 be a normal person? 0:02:20.040 --> 0:02:22.320 Oh no, I have a whole nother. 0:02:22.280 --> 0:02:24.080 Because really it's just a body suit. If you went 0:02:24.160 --> 0:02:25.680 that with jeans, I'd be like, oh, yeah, she's gonna go. 0:02:25.680 --> 0:02:27.239 To dr Oh yeah no no, no, no, no no 0:02:28.040 --> 0:02:32.919 no no. I have another bad body suit. You saw what? 0:02:32.960 --> 0:02:33.320 I don't know. 0:02:33.560 --> 0:02:36.000 Have you been other animals before? Folloween? Oh? 0:02:36.040 --> 0:02:38.560 Have I been other animals before? For Halloween? 0:02:40.080 --> 0:02:43.640 No, like I've been. I've done the nun I've done 0:02:44.840 --> 0:02:46.800 Back in the day we was, we was broke, so 0:02:46.840 --> 0:02:48.360 we used to have to make some so like, I 0:02:48.400 --> 0:02:50.720 think I'm one of my favorite outfits that I remember 0:02:50.880 --> 0:02:52.280 growing up with Shanaia Swain. 0:02:52.600 --> 0:02:54.519 Okay, oh my god, no act bringing it up again? 0:02:54.600 --> 0:02:55.760 What I'm just thinking? Why not? 0:02:56.960 --> 0:02:58.680 And then over the last few years, like I've been 0:02:58.720 --> 0:03:02.920 in Ninja, I've been beatled, you know, I'm trying. 0:03:02.720 --> 0:03:03.280 To think that. 0:03:03.480 --> 0:03:06.680 Yeah, wait, what other my best I have ever done 0:03:06.960 --> 0:03:09.120 was like Egyptian Goddess. I just looked good in greens 0:03:09.120 --> 0:03:11.400 and gold and ship like that. That I wanted my 0:03:11.480 --> 0:03:13.160 nigga to be Tarzan because of his locks so I 0:03:13.160 --> 0:03:15.680 could be Jane. And he was like, yeah, he wants 0:03:15.680 --> 0:03:18.120 to be Lenny and Lisa. I'm like, no, let's be pretest. 0:03:17.880 --> 0:03:19.800 To nuts, but that's gonna look like how y'all just 0:03:19.840 --> 0:03:23.560 dressed normally? That's what I said. Really did people say 0:03:23.600 --> 0:03:24.520 that to us all the time? 0:03:24.560 --> 0:03:26.480 I mean, not that you look like them, but dressing 0:03:26.480 --> 0:03:28.239 like they'll already, do you know, it's just a that's 0:03:28.240 --> 0:03:30.080 why people say that he got locked. 0:03:30.120 --> 0:03:30.280 Yeah. 0:03:30.320 --> 0:03:31.800 It was like, y'all gonna look like y'all not in 0:03:31.840 --> 0:03:33.880 a costle. I don't want to do that, bro. 0:03:34.000 --> 0:03:36.920 So I did Chucky one year that was really good 0:03:38.120 --> 0:03:39.120 where I didn't have your make up. 0:03:39.240 --> 0:03:40.360 Let me think another one that was good. 0:03:40.440 --> 0:03:41.720 Sloodiest costumes you have done? 0:03:42.280 --> 0:03:44.200 The nun out. 0:03:44.800 --> 0:03:46.040 The nuns don't. 0:03:46.400 --> 0:03:49.640 It's like they don't even make no like respectable nuts. 0:03:49.680 --> 0:03:53.600 Like these nuns be whole. It's literally late. 0:03:53.720 --> 0:03:57.920 It's mesh and latex, like I had crosses over my tits. 0:03:57.960 --> 0:03:58.280 Baby. 0:03:58.520 --> 0:04:00.520 However, I was thinking about doing you have to Earn 0:04:00.560 --> 0:04:02.920 a Bunny this year, just because I thought about doing 0:04:02.960 --> 0:04:05.240 like an alt bunny. I was thinking about wearing the 0:04:05.280 --> 0:04:07.520 whole thing with just the mouth out and then the 0:04:07.520 --> 0:04:08.040 bunny ears. 0:04:08.440 --> 0:04:10.760 I've seen that like a little gimp that mm hmm. 0:04:10.880 --> 0:04:11.920 I like that. I'm not mad at that. 0:04:12.000 --> 0:04:13.640 Y'all want to wear something slutty. I wanted to be 0:04:13.640 --> 0:04:15.040 a little Kim with the titty out, and I was like, 0:04:15.080 --> 0:04:17.240 I guess I saw that, but my titty ain't new enough. 0:04:17.600 --> 0:04:19.720 I was like, my titty gonna be all the way down. 0:04:19.760 --> 0:04:22.240 The little purple outfit look good. 0:04:22.800 --> 0:04:24.839 Not my titty. You would see my toity, but you 0:04:24.839 --> 0:04:25.039 have a. 0:04:25.000 --> 0:04:28.480 Big book you get naked all yeah, yeah, but my titty, 0:04:28.839 --> 0:04:30.960 it wouldn't look like the little Kim titty. But I 0:04:31.040 --> 0:04:33.120 literally looked at that costume. I was just like with 0:04:33.160 --> 0:04:35.320 one of my o boos, like obu, like not my 0:04:35.360 --> 0:04:37.839 boo anymore. And I literally like was telling him, I ye, 0:04:38.040 --> 0:04:40.520 think I want these tips done in the next year. 0:04:40.560 --> 0:04:41.120 I want them done. 0:04:41.200 --> 0:04:44.280 So maybe while you're in Asia next year, I'm gonna 0:04:44.320 --> 0:04:45.920 be healing from my tips getting done. 0:04:46.040 --> 0:04:48.159 I think that's what I want done. So you're so, 0:04:48.240 --> 0:04:49.920 do you mind me asking where you are at right now? 0:04:49.960 --> 0:04:51.600 What sizing? Witch? 0:04:51.600 --> 0:04:53.680 I barely wear bras, but it's a double D and 0:04:54.040 --> 0:04:56.240 I would like to go down to a sea like 0:04:56.320 --> 0:04:57.040 the full seed. 0:04:57.360 --> 0:04:59.240 Is that a big cut? I don't know. 0:04:59.520 --> 0:05:01.679 It's the anchor that's the problem. 0:05:01.960 --> 0:05:03.920 I don't know. I want it without an anchor. I 0:05:03.960 --> 0:05:05.360 don't know they could do it inside. You know what 0:05:05.440 --> 0:05:05.800 anchor is? 0:05:05.800 --> 0:05:08.280 What I say, A lot of time reductions. They do 0:05:08.320 --> 0:05:11.440 have some inside. She's right, but most reductions it's a 0:05:11.560 --> 0:05:14.400 line down from the areola and it goes like this. 0:05:15.760 --> 0:05:18.800 It's a terrible scar. I don't like the scar, and bitch, 0:05:18.839 --> 0:05:19.440 I keloid. 0:05:19.640 --> 0:05:20.960 So what we're doing. 0:05:21.800 --> 0:05:23.440 I don't want to touch a black thing to say 0:05:23.520 --> 0:05:24.880 that's fine. I got keloid. 0:05:25.279 --> 0:05:26.160 I mean no, I'm not. 0:05:26.560 --> 0:05:31.719 I don't know white people. Do white people that are 0:05:33.920 --> 0:05:40.840 far health? Is that not a thing? Because I don't 0:05:40.839 --> 0:05:41.359 know white. 0:05:41.160 --> 0:05:44.000 People with I've never heard of a white person mentioned. 0:05:44.040 --> 0:05:45.960 I don't know keloid and white people don't go together. 0:05:46.760 --> 0:05:48.880 They don't do white people. 0:05:49.120 --> 0:05:53.200 This is crazy. We are educating you guys. 0:05:52.920 --> 0:05:56.560 Per huge although anyone can get them. 0:05:58.279 --> 0:06:02.480 Mainly WHOA listen to this. 0:06:03.800 --> 0:06:07.719 Out of fifty two percent of patients, four percent we're white. 0:06:07.839 --> 0:06:10.400 Oh yeah, oh yeah, you know what for that. 0:06:10.480 --> 0:06:12.080 Restaurant Latino black? Uh? 0:06:12.240 --> 0:06:14.960 And the ones that was white they had some lineage, Yes, 0:06:15.440 --> 0:06:20.159 they they had some bit. Anyways, before we started this podcast, 0:06:20.960 --> 0:06:23.920 we were talking because you know, we'd be talking now 0:06:23.960 --> 0:06:24.960 sometimes before the pod. 0:06:26.240 --> 0:06:28.159 What why you laughing? Do you want to mention that 0:06:28.160 --> 0:06:29.520 you guys have a love show coming up soon? 0:06:29.760 --> 0:06:35.520 Oh bitch, yes, we'll hopefully be talking that day. If 0:06:35.520 --> 0:06:39.560 you guys haven't yet, make sure you get tickets. We 0:06:39.600 --> 0:06:43.000 are at Sony Hall on Tuesday, December third, one, not 0:06:43.160 --> 0:06:46.600 only plus one, not only. 0:06:46.680 --> 0:06:48.320 And you know what, it is not gonna be a 0:06:48.360 --> 0:06:49.880 Horrible Decisions live show as. 0:06:49.720 --> 0:06:53.800 You may have seen. It'll be us live, but it 0:06:53.839 --> 0:06:55.560 won't be the type of show that it'll. 0:06:55.320 --> 0:06:58.040 Be a new version of what you've been seeing. Yep, 0:06:59.360 --> 0:07:01.000 Oh my god, really quick? 0:07:01.520 --> 0:07:02.119 Did you guys? 0:07:02.279 --> 0:07:04.120 Does the threesome episode come out before this? 0:07:04.640 --> 0:07:05.120 No? 0:07:05.240 --> 0:07:06.919 Okay, well, just to let y'all know how to threesome? 0:07:06.960 --> 0:07:08.040 And I said, I didn't know if she listens to 0:07:08.080 --> 0:07:09.200 Horrible Yep, she does. 0:07:11.160 --> 0:07:15.040 Count out to yet well, sorry, you guys, it's ruined. 0:07:15.080 --> 0:07:20.400 Y'all won't hear that story for another month? Went over 0:07:20.440 --> 0:07:20.920 the schedule? 0:07:21.000 --> 0:07:23.840 Yo? No, lie? Though, I even said, oh no she does. 0:07:23.880 --> 0:07:25.480 She's less being black against. 0:07:25.160 --> 0:07:26.120 She might I had an idea. 0:07:26.480 --> 0:07:26.880 Yeah. 0:07:27.440 --> 0:07:29.720 She hit me this morning and was like, because we 0:07:29.720 --> 0:07:31.920 were like sending pictures last night, me and him and her, 0:07:32.680 --> 0:07:35.480 and she was like, sorry for listening, Actually no, no, sorry, 0:07:35.480 --> 0:07:39.000 it's my life. Okay, So she said, I went on 0:07:39.040 --> 0:07:41.960 a podcast called and we Have Gay Sex and it's 0:07:42.000 --> 0:07:45.520 a white pot. I was like, no one's ever gonna 0:07:45.560 --> 0:07:47.440 hear me on this. Shout out to them. They were 0:07:47.440 --> 0:07:48.840 great we need to have them on a fature on it. 0:07:49.320 --> 0:07:51.640 So she asked me, was like, yo, I've heard a 0:07:51.680 --> 0:07:54.040 few of your episodes, but I can't listen to it 0:07:54.040 --> 0:07:55.680 because it's a little too crazy for work. And I 0:07:55.720 --> 0:07:58.360 listened on my speaker, which is something you'd be saying. 0:07:58.120 --> 0:08:02.960 Oh no, no, no, I I'm not gonna lie Wheezy. Filming 0:08:03.000 --> 0:08:06.560 that episode, I was uncomfortable. I was like, whoa, whoa, 0:08:06.720 --> 0:08:07.200 don't do that. 0:08:07.240 --> 0:08:07.720 Shut up. 0:08:07.960 --> 0:08:11.280 I was just like, even you guys listening right now, 0:08:11.320 --> 0:08:13.800 we're gonna get into some ship. And I was like, oh, 0:08:14.000 --> 0:08:18.280 people are at work listening to this. After after, after 0:08:18.360 --> 0:08:21.640 we stopped recording, I was like, oh my god, what 0:08:21.680 --> 0:08:24.080 if someone is what if someone has their kids in 0:08:24.120 --> 0:08:26.840 their car and Wheezy starts saying this, or then I 0:08:26.920 --> 0:08:30.400 was like, oh my god, or they their headphones disconnect 0:08:30.440 --> 0:08:30.840 and this. 0:08:30.760 --> 0:08:32.559 Is briefly shut you up? 0:08:33.600 --> 0:08:36.280 Is everyone how long has everyone been working a horrible decisions? 0:08:36.559 --> 0:08:39.040 While I would say maybe six. 0:08:38.679 --> 0:08:41.320 And a half of the whole time, Dave, what would 0:08:41.360 --> 0:08:44.920 you say about four years? Since that maybe five was 0:08:44.920 --> 0:08:49.800 maybe one more year than Dave. Anything, I know, I 0:08:49.840 --> 0:08:56.040 think I was someone's asshole. No, I get no, no, no, 0:08:57.480 --> 0:08:58.840 I'm not saying it was just that. 0:09:00.320 --> 0:09:03.360 It was cool. But I was just like, wow, because 0:09:03.360 --> 0:09:07.280 when you were shot Dandy. I that's my point. 0:09:07.440 --> 0:09:09.920 You came four times in that story, bro. It was 0:09:09.960 --> 0:09:12.800 a long story, and I was like, whoa, damn. 0:09:12.720 --> 0:09:15.760 Like, this is the whole ride from them picking. 0:09:15.559 --> 0:09:20.160 Up They say that whole time, you know. 0:09:20.080 --> 0:09:22.959 It was, But I was like, it's a bitch, it 0:09:23.040 --> 0:09:27.480 was given dimpsey. I felt like, can you interrupt me? 0:09:29.000 --> 0:09:30.480 That was a straight like. 0:09:30.440 --> 0:09:34.079 Yeah, it was straight down because I'm learning, and I 0:09:34.160 --> 0:09:35.440 was like, this. 0:09:35.600 --> 0:09:40.280 Is kind of a lot of damn. Whoa. I was like, 0:09:40.880 --> 0:09:44.200 I should have interrupted, bitch. I was like, after the 0:09:44.240 --> 0:09:47.920 second time you came, we should have stopped you, you know, ship. 0:09:47.920 --> 0:09:50.280 Like when when I tell my story this like then 0:09:50.280 --> 0:09:50.719 what then? 0:09:50.720 --> 0:09:50.880 What? 0:09:50.920 --> 0:09:53.440 Then? We're going back and forth? Is jokes? Yours? Was like, 0:09:54.160 --> 0:09:55.800 am I supposed to be listening. 0:09:55.440 --> 0:09:58.960 To and Mandy? When I came this time, I couldn't stop. 0:09:59.040 --> 0:10:02.720 I was like, oh god, it was a lot, yeah, bitch. 0:10:03.080 --> 0:10:05.520 Even when I told my gang Bang story, there was 0:10:05.559 --> 0:10:07.880 a lot of interruptions. It was banter back and forth. 0:10:07.920 --> 0:10:09.960 You had questions, but I ain't asked you no questions 0:10:09.960 --> 0:10:11.560 I'll let you get your story off. And I was like, 0:10:12.360 --> 0:10:15.320 this is like Eroica, this is like. 0:10:15.240 --> 0:10:17.880 A It was a lot. Thank you, look, thank you, 0:10:17.880 --> 0:10:22.600 thank you the whole great. This is a compliment. Look, bitch, 0:10:22.640 --> 0:10:23.160 you're welcome. 0:10:23.200 --> 0:10:23.839 I ain't in a rut. 0:10:23.920 --> 0:10:24.040 Yo. 0:10:25.600 --> 0:10:28.200 Anyways, before we look at us, we fucking sidebarred, like 0:10:28.240 --> 0:10:29.800 we got coke and our ship again. 0:10:30.240 --> 0:10:33.480 Mandy, they didn't hear that one, y'all. 0:10:33.520 --> 0:10:38.880 We dra coke on a crack cocaine. 0:10:39.640 --> 0:10:42.439 Anyways, No, low key, I would have ordered that any time. Yeah, No, 0:10:42.600 --> 0:10:44.920 that was crazy. We're never I would. I couldn't sleep. 0:10:45.240 --> 0:10:48.600 I was twice same season. 0:10:48.720 --> 0:10:52.160 That is crazy. That is crazy. So there was a 0:10:52.280 --> 0:10:56.000 there was a story being shared and I know it's uh, 0:10:56.200 --> 0:10:59.960 you know, we're dropping this Halloween the week of Halloween, 0:11:00.400 --> 0:11:04.240 but we are getting into the holiday season, and there 0:11:04.320 --> 0:11:06.520 was a story being shared before we started, and the 0:11:06.559 --> 0:11:08.440 word micro cheating came up. 0:11:08.520 --> 0:11:10.600 Yes, someone I know got micro cheated on it. And 0:11:10.760 --> 0:11:12.720 she come in and she really is saying micro cheated, 0:11:12.760 --> 0:11:15.080 Like that's where we know. I've never heard that word. 0:11:15.080 --> 0:11:16.280 Again, I never heard that day. 0:11:16.800 --> 0:11:17.920 Have you heard of micro cheating? 0:11:18.000 --> 0:11:18.080 No? 0:11:18.320 --> 0:11:20.920 So I ended up looking up the definition and we're 0:11:20.920 --> 0:11:24.480 going to get into the conversation around micro cheating, especially 0:11:24.520 --> 0:11:27.600 when the holidays comes up. What we constitute is such 0:11:27.679 --> 0:11:30.680 and let's see where this takes us. So, micro cheating 0:11:30.800 --> 0:11:34.000 is a term used to describe a series. A series 0:11:34.040 --> 0:11:38.840 I think is important of small actions that can indicate 0:11:38.920 --> 0:11:43.280 someone is either emotionally or physically involved with someone other 0:11:43.360 --> 0:11:46.360 than their partner. It can be difficult to ident to 0:11:46.360 --> 0:11:51.000 define and identify, and is sometimes considered anethical This is interesting, 0:11:51.040 --> 0:11:55.520 an ethical gray area. So here's some examples of micro cheating, 0:11:55.559 --> 0:11:57.880 and then we'll get into our experiences with it, if 0:11:57.920 --> 0:12:00.120 we think we've done it, and what to look for 0:12:00.280 --> 0:12:03.240 during the holiday season. So examples of micro cheating include 0:12:04.160 --> 0:12:06.760 flirting with someone other than your partner, even if it's 0:12:06.840 --> 0:12:10.880 just online, keeping interactions with someone a secret, such as 0:12:10.960 --> 0:12:12.640 deleting messages or using nicknames. 0:12:12.679 --> 0:12:14.880 That's a big one. Oh yeah, Sharing. 0:12:14.520 --> 0:12:17.160 Intimate thoughts or feelings with someone other than your partner. 0:12:17.200 --> 0:12:19.120 I want to get to that, because I that's an 0:12:19.120 --> 0:12:22.240 interesting one. Liking or I hate this one, liking or 0:12:22.280 --> 0:12:25.520 commenting on someone's social media. I'm not doing that. Comparing 0:12:25.559 --> 0:12:31.720 your partner unfavorably to someone else. Oh, that's trash. Developing 0:12:31.800 --> 0:12:35.400 romantic feelings for someone else, not making it clear you're 0:12:35.520 --> 0:12:39.960 inner relationship with someone, joining a dating site, leaving your 0:12:39.960 --> 0:12:43.040 wedding ring at home, keeping a dating profile to see 0:12:43.040 --> 0:12:45.640 if you get matched with someone else, or giving your 0:12:45.679 --> 0:12:48.400 phone number to someone you find attractive. 0:12:48.480 --> 0:12:49.079 Can I add one? 0:12:49.480 --> 0:12:50.079 Please add one? 0:12:50.160 --> 0:12:51.680 Send someone photos of yourself? 0:12:52.480 --> 0:12:56.000 Oh, selfie interesting? I don't want that, you know why? 0:12:56.000 --> 0:12:58.960 I know that one's a good one. Why even with 0:12:59.040 --> 0:12:59.480 the selfie? 0:13:00.120 --> 0:13:02.920 Yes, at my desk, just got to the movie. 0:13:03.080 --> 0:13:06.360 I just got to work with Mandy. Read our dinner. 0:13:06.400 --> 0:13:08.480 Now I'm gonna go to the movies. Look at my popcorn? 0:13:08.520 --> 0:13:11.600 What is the intent behind the picture though you look 0:13:11.840 --> 0:13:12.320 that moment? 0:13:12.480 --> 0:13:12.640 Well? 0:13:12.679 --> 0:13:14.480 No, what if it is just this is where I'm at? 0:13:14.640 --> 0:13:17.760 Who does that? And I've never I've been friends with 0:13:17.800 --> 0:13:20.200 these two for how long? And I ain't never? Send 0:13:20.200 --> 0:13:22.040 it your self? Well if have we sent pictures to 0:13:22.080 --> 0:13:22.680 each other before? 0:13:22.760 --> 0:13:24.319 Yeah? Well have you guys sent pictures to each other? 0:13:26.360 --> 0:13:29.839 I'm like trying to think I feel like we had. 0:13:29.880 --> 0:13:33.959 That's recently with the uh the law camera ship. 0:13:33.880 --> 0:13:37.400 With the no we were sitting No, that doesn't count. No, 0:13:37.480 --> 0:13:39.760 that doesn't count. That's more technical, he ever sent yourself 0:13:39.880 --> 0:13:40.640 and I invited you? 0:13:40.679 --> 0:13:42.600 Did I not? Did I send you any pictures from 0:13:42.600 --> 0:13:43.120 the Larry. 0:13:43.000 --> 0:13:46.200 Junovit wolf is not a selfie? First, we're friends, and 0:13:46.240 --> 0:13:49.800 I'm like, I feel like i've seen him. We're not 0:13:50.000 --> 0:13:51.560 that's that wouldn't be cheating. 0:13:52.320 --> 0:13:56.000 But that's what I'm saying. How who who identifies what's purpose? 0:13:56.120 --> 0:13:58.319 Let's go back to the micro cheating ass because I 0:13:58.360 --> 0:14:02.240 don't know, I don't know what y'all I like. But 0:14:02.080 --> 0:14:03.760 my point is that, like, let's say, if you had 0:14:03.760 --> 0:14:06.240 a partner, or if he had a partner, I'm pretty 0:14:06.240 --> 0:14:07.679 sure his partner would have like, could I. 0:14:07.640 --> 0:14:10.240 Ask you are sending a lar June thing he loves? 0:14:10.600 --> 0:14:12.240 I'm saying, like a selfie? No even a selfie? 0:14:12.280 --> 0:14:13.120 So selfie? I agree. 0:14:13.160 --> 0:14:14.640 So then let me ask both of you guys that, 0:14:14.760 --> 0:14:17.880 because y'all have both been in long term relationships, would 0:14:17.920 --> 0:14:20.160 it be a problem if one of your home girls 0:14:20.240 --> 0:14:21.360 were sending you selfies? 0:14:22.400 --> 0:14:24.680 Why would a woman ever send me yourself interesting? 0:14:24.760 --> 0:14:27.400 Y'all are really I don't care. My friend has always 0:14:27.400 --> 0:14:29.160 sent me a selfie, Like it's not a big deal. 0:14:29.440 --> 0:14:30.120 That's weird to me. 0:14:30.640 --> 0:14:34.880 I completely agree with and ethically the relationship they know. 0:14:34.920 --> 0:14:36.840 I'm like, bestie, Like, if it's. 0:14:36.680 --> 0:14:39.600 Not someone that it's a sexual relationship with. He claimed 0:14:39.640 --> 0:14:42.240 to have a platonic friend and she was like, I'm 0:14:42.320 --> 0:14:45.760 just like, what interesting and let's I. 0:14:45.720 --> 0:14:48.360 Don't know if that what's the point. 0:14:48.480 --> 0:14:49.440 But see, I'm also. 0:14:49.240 --> 0:14:51.040 Someone that's not going through someone's I don't think I 0:14:51.040 --> 0:14:52.360 would ever know it's this doesn't. 0:14:52.160 --> 0:14:54.080 Have to do we're not talking about going through phone. 0:14:54.120 --> 0:14:55.120 No, but I'm saying I don't. 0:14:55.360 --> 0:14:57.480 But even if I saw, like we're together and I 0:14:57.480 --> 0:14:59.800 look over and it's a selfie, I don't. I don't 0:14:59.800 --> 0:15:01.600 think I would have a problem with the girl, So. 0:15:01.760 --> 0:15:06.320 I would no, no, no, So it's selfie if it's 0:15:06.360 --> 0:15:09.000 like a group thing. Now, if it's in linger right, 0:15:09.440 --> 0:15:12.800 if she's like, uh, if it's sexual a nature, no, 0:15:12.880 --> 0:15:16.400 it's the update. And here's why interesting men and women 0:15:16.480 --> 0:15:20.360 having platonic friendships. We need a lot of boundaries in 0:15:20.400 --> 0:15:24.280 my opinion, to keep it as a platonic friendship. For one, 0:15:24.440 --> 0:15:27.680 when any friendship, any of my homeboys, even Alex, I 0:15:27.760 --> 0:15:31.400 always remember when we hired Alex Black Panther came out 0:15:31.440 --> 0:15:34.200 that week and we went to the movies and he said, 0:15:34.360 --> 0:15:34.920 is this a date? 0:15:34.960 --> 0:15:36.360 And I said no, and he was. 0:15:36.280 --> 0:15:39.880 Like, okay, I'm just making sure cool. That was years ago, right, 0:15:40.160 --> 0:15:43.440 There's always this question of like, what is this between 0:15:44.000 --> 0:15:47.360 platonic friends in the beginning, I believe that every time. 0:15:47.840 --> 0:15:49.880 To be fair, it'sh is one of my friends that 0:15:49.920 --> 0:15:52.520 I talk to almost every day, and I'm looking through 0:15:52.680 --> 0:15:55.760 our text messages. He only has one selfie of me 0:15:55.800 --> 0:15:58.800 and it's from our like on tour, one of my 0:15:58.840 --> 0:15:59.360 tour outfits. 0:16:00.040 --> 0:16:00.920 Any selfies like that? 0:16:01.520 --> 0:16:03.240 And then I say him, me at the game, You're right, 0:16:03.280 --> 0:16:05.160 there's no selfie even you're right, You're right. 0:16:05.920 --> 0:16:10.360 That's different. I say, like, that is that? Okay? I 0:16:10.400 --> 0:16:12.800 say him, like a shot of me at the Cowboys game? 0:16:12.880 --> 0:16:17.840 Last interesting you make You're trying to make me look 0:16:17.880 --> 0:16:20.600 at you. I will say micro cheating for me, for 0:16:20.720 --> 0:16:24.120 sure would be a secret friendship or like, if you're 0:16:24.200 --> 0:16:28.560 keeping uh someone a secret to me, that's absolutely micro 0:16:28.680 --> 0:16:31.760 cheating because there's some sort of intent for that to 0:16:31.800 --> 0:16:33.160 be something more than just a friend. 0:16:33.560 --> 0:16:34.240 That's hell of micro. 0:16:35.400 --> 0:16:37.680 Like you keeping someone a secret or I don't know 0:16:37.760 --> 0:16:40.640 this person is your friend, but you talk to them 0:16:40.640 --> 0:16:40.960 a lot. 0:16:41.080 --> 0:16:42.480 Yeah, that's super micro cheating. 0:16:42.600 --> 0:16:46.320 Yeah, to me, it's the intention of keeping the relationship. 0:16:46.360 --> 0:16:51.160 What is that and when that isn't necessarily something that 0:16:51.200 --> 0:16:56.640 feels platonic, right, like the friendship isn't really I think 0:16:56.840 --> 0:17:00.360 new friendships are something that should be discussed in this one, right. 0:17:01.800 --> 0:17:04.919 So when you have established friends before you date someone, 0:17:05.560 --> 0:17:08.399 that's kind of different because we can't come for those people, right. 0:17:08.720 --> 0:17:12.080 But what I do know is with new friendships, it's 0:17:12.200 --> 0:17:15.400 very very difficult, yes, because it's like, all right, well, 0:17:15.400 --> 0:17:17.879 why are you feeling the need? How did you platonically 0:17:17.920 --> 0:17:20.919 just meet this new woman in your life? What is 0:17:20.960 --> 0:17:21.520 their purpose? 0:17:21.600 --> 0:17:21.760 Right? 0:17:22.119 --> 0:17:23.840 Like I literally said to my nigga the other day 0:17:24.320 --> 0:17:27.200 when we were joking about, you know, male and female friendships, 0:17:27.200 --> 0:17:29.439 and he was like, fuck, you know, you're almost going 0:17:29.520 --> 0:17:31.840 to always make a new friend because you're in an 0:17:31.880 --> 0:17:35.560 industry where you're making this network connection. But also even 0:17:35.600 --> 0:17:37.840 when you do that, there's got to be something serving 0:17:37.880 --> 0:17:40.080 from it. We were in La at a party. Dude 0:17:40.119 --> 0:17:43.640 came up to me. First few words, Yo, I work 0:17:43.680 --> 0:17:45.639