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Speaker 1: Guess what decision we're about to make.

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Speaker 2: Horrible decision, hey, or have We are hitting the stage

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Speaker 2: baby one night.

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Speaker 1: Oh in New York City.

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Speaker 2: We haven't done any other shows this year, but Mandy's

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Speaker 2: leaving for Atlanta, so we decided we need one night

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Speaker 2: all together in New York City.

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Speaker 1: That's right, So Tuesday, December third, at Sony Hall, we

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Speaker 1: are bringing you.

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Speaker 3: A very very special show that you do not want

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Speaker 3: to miss.

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Speaker 2: You've never seen this show before. It's only gonna happen

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Speaker 2: for one night.

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Speaker 3: That's it, dad, So make sure you get your tickets now.

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Speaker 3: You can go to the Sony Hall website to get

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Speaker 3: your tickets one night only with Mandy Bee and WEEZYWTF.

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Speaker 3: You can also check the link in our bio on

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Speaker 3: our Instagram to get tickets as well.

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Speaker 1: We cannot wait to see you again.

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Speaker 3: That is Tuesday, December third at Sony Hall here in

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Speaker 3: New York City.

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Speaker 1: Get your tickets now, see you there, boob Beach, I

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Speaker 1: can say Happy Halloween. We don't need to sing anything.

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Speaker 4: Horrible decision.

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Speaker 2: I don't like to go with Oh, that's what you're

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Speaker 2: trying to do.

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Speaker 5: Damn it?

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Speaker 4: Like you know what?

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Speaker 2: No, Okay, Welcome y'all to another episode of horrible Decisions.

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Speaker 1: I am a playboy.

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Speaker 2: Funny, Oh, I'm a priest, mainly because you bought the

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Speaker 2: wrong costume. So I bought a non costume and a

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Speaker 2: priest costume for me and my nigga to wear next

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Speaker 2: week at this party. And I literally grabbed the wrong one.

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Speaker 1: But I know the non costume is way less material

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Speaker 1: than this.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but it's just a bag, So I just grabbed

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Speaker 2: the bag.

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Speaker 1: I knew one bag. That's crazy. So you ain't looking

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Speaker 1: the bag.

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Speaker 4: Non costume on right now?

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Speaker 1: You don't have all one?

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Speaker 4: I hope not.

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Speaker 1: But anyway, that would be funny if y'all swapped it.

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Speaker 2: Edn just asked Mandy what she was, and that to

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Speaker 2: me was a gug because it's like, hello, hello, you

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Speaker 2: know from the years.

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Speaker 4: Be is the Bee for Bunny and Mandy Bee.

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Speaker 2: But are you gonna wear that outfit with jeans tonight

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Speaker 2: be a normal person?

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Speaker 4: Oh no, I have a whole nother.

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Speaker 2: Because really it's just a body suit. If you went

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Speaker 2: that with jeans, I'd be like, oh, yeah, she's gonna go.

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Speaker 1: To dr Oh yeah no no, no, no, no no

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Speaker 1: no no. I have another bad body suit. You saw what?

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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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Speaker 4: Have you been other animals before? Folloween? Oh?

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Speaker 1: Have I been other animals before? For Halloween?

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Speaker 3: No, like I've been. I've done the nun I've done

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Speaker 3: Back in the day we was, we was broke, so

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Speaker 3: we used to have to make some so like, I

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Speaker 3: growing up with Shanaia Swain.

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Speaker 2: Okay, oh my god, no act bringing it up again?

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Speaker 1: What I'm just thinking? Why not?

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Speaker 3: And then over the last few years, like I've been

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Speaker 3: in Ninja, I've been beatled, you know, I'm trying.

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Speaker 4: To think that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, wait, what other my best I have ever done

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Speaker 2: was like Egyptian Goddess. I just looked good in greens

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Speaker 2: nigga to be Tarzan because of his locks so I

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Speaker 2: could be Jane. And he was like, yeah, he wants

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Speaker 2: to be Lenny and Lisa. I'm like, no, let's be pretest.

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Speaker 1: To nuts, but that's gonna look like how y'all just

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Speaker 1: dressed normally? That's what I said. Really did people say

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Speaker 2: I mean, not that you look like them, but dressing

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Speaker 2: like they'll already, do you know, it's just a that's

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Speaker 2: why people say that he got locked.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: It was like, y'all gonna look like y'all not in

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Speaker 1: a costle. I don't want to do that, bro.

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Speaker 2: So I did Chucky one year that was really good

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Speaker 1: Let me think another one that was good.

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Speaker 4: Sloodiest costumes you have done?

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Speaker 1: The nun out.

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Speaker 4: The nuns don't.

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Speaker 1: It's like they don't even make no like respectable nuts.

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Speaker 1: Like these nuns be whole. It's literally late.

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Speaker 3: It's mesh and latex, like I had crosses over my tits.

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Speaker 1: Baby.

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Speaker 2: However, I was thinking about doing you have to Earn

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Speaker 2: a Bunny this year, just because I thought about doing

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Speaker 1: I've seen that like a little gimp that mm hmm.

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Speaker 1: I like that. I'm not mad at that.

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Speaker 2: Y'all want to wear something slutty. I wanted to be

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Speaker 2: a little Kim with the titty out, and I was like,

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Speaker 2: I guess I saw that, but my titty ain't new enough.

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Speaker 2: I was like, my titty gonna be all the way down.

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Speaker 4: The little purple outfit look good.

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Speaker 1: Not my titty. You would see my toity, but you

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Speaker 3: Big book you get naked all yeah, yeah, but my titty,

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Speaker 3: it wouldn't look like the little Kim titty. But I

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Speaker 3: one of my o boos, like obu, like not my

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Speaker 3: boo anymore. And I literally like was telling him, I ye,

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Speaker 3: think I want these tips done in the next year.

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Speaker 1: I want them done.

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Speaker 3: So maybe while you're in Asia next year, I'm gonna

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Speaker 3: be healing from my tips getting done.

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Speaker 4: I think that's what I want done. So you're so,

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Speaker 4: do you mind me asking where you are at right now?

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Speaker 4: What sizing? Witch?

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Speaker 3: I barely wear bras, but it's a double D and

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Speaker 3: I would like to go down to a sea like

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Speaker 3: the full seed.

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Speaker 4: Is that a big cut? I don't know.

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Speaker 2: It's the anchor that's the problem.

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I want it without an anchor. I

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Speaker 1: don't know they could do it inside. You know what

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Speaker 1: anchor is?

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Speaker 2: What I say, A lot of time reductions. They do

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Speaker 1: It's a terrible scar. I don't like the scar, and bitch,

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Speaker 1: I keloid.

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Speaker 4: So what we're doing.

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Speaker 2: I don't want to touch a black thing to say

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Speaker 2: that's fine. I got keloid.

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Speaker 4: I mean no, I'm not.

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Speaker 1: I don't know white people. Do white people that are

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Speaker 1: far health? Is that not a thing? Because I don't

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Speaker 1: know white.

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Speaker 5: People with I've never heard of a white person mentioned.

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Speaker 5: I don't know keloid and white people don't go together.

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Speaker 4: They don't do white people.

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Speaker 1: This is crazy. We are educating you guys.

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Speaker 2: Per huge although anyone can get them.

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Speaker 1: Mainly WHOA listen to this.

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Speaker 2: Out of fifty two percent of patients, four percent we're white.

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, oh yeah, you know what for that.

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Speaker 2: Restaurant Latino black? Uh?

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Speaker 3: And the ones that was white they had some lineage, Yes,

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Speaker 3: they they had some bit. Anyways, before we started this podcast,

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Speaker 4: What why you laughing? Do you want to mention that

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Speaker 4: you guys have a love show coming up soon?

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Speaker 3: Oh bitch, yes, we'll hopefully be talking that day. If

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Speaker 3: you guys haven't yet, make sure you get tickets. We

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Speaker 3: are at Sony Hall on Tuesday, December third, one, not

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Speaker 2: And you know what, it is not gonna be a

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Speaker 2: Horrible Decisions live show as.

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Speaker 1: You may have seen. It'll be us live, but it

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Speaker 1: won't be the type of show that it'll.

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Speaker 2: Be a new version of what you've been seeing. Yep,

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, really quick?

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Speaker 1: Did you guys?

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Speaker 2: Does the threesome episode come out before this?

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Speaker 1: No?

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Speaker 2: Okay, well, just to let y'all know how to threesome?

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Speaker 2: And I said, I didn't know if she listens to

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Speaker 2: Horrible Yep, she does.

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Speaker 3: Count out to yet well, sorry, you guys, it's ruined.

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Speaker 3: Y'all won't hear that story for another month? Went over

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Speaker 3: the schedule?

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Speaker 1: Yo? No, lie? Though, I even said, oh no she does.

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Speaker 1: She's less being black against.

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Speaker 4: She might I had an idea.

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Speaker 2: She hit me this morning and was like, because we

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Speaker 2: it's my life. Okay, So she said, I went on

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Speaker 2: So she asked me, was like, yo, I've heard a

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Speaker 3: Oh no, no, no, I I'm not gonna lie Wheezy. Filming

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Speaker 3: that episode, I was uncomfortable. I was like, whoa, whoa,

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Speaker 3: don't do that.

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Speaker 1: Shut up.

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Speaker 3: I was just like, even you guys listening right now,

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Speaker 3: we stopped recording, I was like, oh my god, what

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Speaker 3: and this.

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Speaker 1: Is briefly shut you up?

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Speaker 2: Is everyone how long has everyone been working a horrible decisions?

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Speaker 4: While I would say maybe six.

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Speaker 2: And a half of the whole time, Dave, what would

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Speaker 2: you say about four years? Since that maybe five was

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Speaker 2: maybe one more year than Dave. Anything, I know, I

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Speaker 2: think I was someone's asshole. No, I get no, no, no,

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Speaker 2: I'm not saying it was just that.

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Speaker 1: It was cool. But I was just like, wow, because

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Speaker 1: when you were shot Dandy. I that's my point.

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Speaker 4: You came four times in that story, bro. It was

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Speaker 4: a long story, and I was like, whoa, damn.

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Speaker 1: Like, this is the whole ride from them picking.

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Speaker 4: Up They say that whole time, you know.

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Speaker 2: It was, But I was like, it's a bitch, it

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Speaker 2: was given dimpsey. I felt like, can you interrupt me?

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Speaker 1: That was a straight like.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it was straight down because I'm learning, and I

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Speaker 4: Is kind of a lot of damn. Whoa. I was like,

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Speaker 4: I should have interrupted, bitch. I was like, after the

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Speaker 4: A It was a lot. Thank you, look, thank you,

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Speaker 3: We dra coke on a crack cocaine.

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Speaker 1: Anyways, No, low key, I would have ordered that any time. Yeah, No,

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Speaker 3: That is crazy. That is crazy. So there was a

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Speaker 1: Yes, someone I know got micro cheated on it. And

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Speaker 1: Like that's where we know. I've never heard that word.

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Speaker 4: Again, I never heard that day.

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Speaker 1: Have you heard of micro cheating?

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Speaker 1: That's a big one. Oh yeah, Sharing.

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Speaker 3: Intimate thoughts or feelings with someone other than your partner.

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Speaker 3: I want to get to that, because I that's an

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Speaker 3: interesting one. Liking or I hate this one, liking or

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Speaker 3: commenting on someone's social media. I'm not doing that. Comparing

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Speaker 3: your partner unfavorably to someone else. Oh, that's trash. Developing

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Speaker 4: Can I add one?

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Speaker 1: Please add one?

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Speaker 4: Send someone photos of yourself?

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Speaker 1: Oh, selfie interesting? I don't want that, you know why?

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Speaker 1: I know that one's a good one. Why even with

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Speaker 1: the selfie?

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Speaker 2: Yes, at my desk, just got to the movie.

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Speaker 1: I just got to work with Mandy. Read our dinner.

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Speaker 1: Now I'm gonna go to the movies. Look at my popcorn?

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Speaker 1: What is the intent behind the picture though you look

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Speaker 4: Well?

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Speaker 1: No, what if it is just this is where I'm at?

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Speaker 1: Who does that? And I've never I've been friends with

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Speaker 1: these two for how long? And I ain't never? Send

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Speaker 1: it your self? Well if have we sent pictures to

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Speaker 1: each other before?

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Speaker 4: Yeah? Well have you guys sent pictures to each other?

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Speaker 1: I'm like trying to think I feel like we had.

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Speaker 5: That's recently with the uh the law camera ship.

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Speaker 2: With the no we were sitting No, that doesn't count. No,

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Speaker 2: that doesn't count. That's more technical, he ever sent yourself

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Speaker 2: and I invited you?

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Speaker 1: Did I not? Did I send you any pictures from

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Speaker 1: the Larry.

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Speaker 2: Junovit wolf is not a selfie? First, we're friends, and

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Speaker 2: I'm like, I feel like i've seen him. We're not

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Speaker 2: that's that wouldn't be cheating.

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Speaker 3: But that's what I'm saying. How who who identifies what's purpose?

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Speaker 4: Let's go back to the micro cheating ass because I

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Speaker 4: don't know, I don't know what y'all I like. But

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Speaker 4: my point is that, like, let's say, if you had

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Speaker 4: sure his partner would have like, could I.

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Speaker 1: Ask you are sending a lar June thing he loves?

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Speaker 4: I'm saying, like a selfie? No even a selfie?

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Speaker 1: So selfie? I agree.

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Speaker 3: So then let me ask both of you guys that,

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Speaker 3: because y'all have both been in long term relationships, would

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Speaker 3: it be a problem if one of your home girls

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Speaker 3: were sending you selfies?

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Speaker 5: Why would a woman ever send me yourself interesting?

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Speaker 4: Y'all are really I don't care. My friend has always

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Speaker 5: That's weird to me.

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Speaker 2: I completely agree with and ethically the relationship they know.

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Speaker 4: I'm like, bestie, Like, if it's.

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Speaker 2: Not someone that it's a sexual relationship with. He claimed

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Speaker 2: to have a platonic friend and she was like, I'm

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Speaker 2: just like, what interesting and let's I.

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Speaker 4: Don't know if that what's the point.

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Speaker 1: But see, I'm also.

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Speaker 3: Someone that's not going through someone's I don't think I

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Speaker 2: Have to do we're not talking about going through phone.

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Speaker 1: No, but I'm saying I don't.

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Speaker 3: But even if I saw, like we're together and I

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Speaker 3: look over and it's a selfie, I don't. I don't

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Speaker 2: I would no, no, no, So it's selfie if it's

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Speaker 2: like a group thing. Now, if it's in linger right,

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Speaker 2: if she's like, uh, if it's sexual a nature, no,

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Speaker 2: it's the update. And here's why interesting men and women

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Speaker 2: my opinion, to keep it as a platonic friendship. For one,

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Speaker 2: when any friendship, any of my homeboys, even Alex, I

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Speaker 2: always remember when we hired Alex Black Panther came out

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Speaker 2: is this a date?

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Speaker 1: And I said no, and he was.

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Speaker 2: Like, okay, I'm just making sure cool. That was years ago, right,

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Speaker 2: There's always this question of like, what is this between

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Speaker 3: To be fair, it'sh is one of my friends that

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Speaker 3: our text messages. He only has one selfie of me

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Speaker 3: and it's from our like on tour, one of my

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Speaker 4: Any selfies like that?

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Speaker 3: And then I say him, me at the game, You're right,

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Speaker 3: there's no selfie even you're right, You're right.

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Speaker 1: That's different. I say, like, that is that? Okay? I

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Speaker 1: say him, like a shot of me at the Cowboys game?

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Speaker 2: Last interesting you make You're trying to make me look

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Speaker 2: at you. I will say micro cheating for me, for

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Speaker 2: sure would be a secret friendship or like, if you're

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Speaker 2: keeping uh someone a secret to me, that's absolutely micro

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Speaker 2: cheating because there's some sort of intent for that to

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Speaker 1: That's hell of micro.

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Speaker 3: Like you keeping someone a secret or I don't know

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's super micro cheating.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, to me, it's the intention of keeping the relationship.

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Speaker 2: What is that and when that isn't necessarily something that

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Speaker 2: new friendships are something that should be discussed in this one, right.

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Speaker 2: But what I do know is with new friendships, it's

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Speaker 2: why are you feeling the need? How did you platonically

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Speaker 1: Right?

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Speaker 2: Like I literally said to my nigga the other day

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Speaker 2: to always make a new friend because you're in an

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Speaker 2: when you do that, there's got to be something serving

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Speaker 2: for Afrotech. I want to bring you back out like

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Speaker 2: I've been trying to link you. I don't know if

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Speaker 2: you check your DMS, can I get your number. I

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Speaker 1: Wow, okay cool.

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Speaker 2: And we talked about that in the car okay and

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Speaker 2: wouldn't be cool. But like rolling up on you when

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Speaker 2: and if it really was work, I'm good. But for me,

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Speaker 2: I wasn't, Like, I'm just like why, Like no, Also,

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Speaker 2: Like you would have found my email if you really

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Speaker 2: wanted to book me. I've had mad people book me

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Speaker 2: for things, TV shows, any fucking thing, you know what

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Speaker 2: I'm saying. We got booked for Mad magazine Introjuice from

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Speaker 2: find that like when you make new connections with a partner,

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Speaker 2: like it really does have to be a purpose, you

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Speaker 2: know what I'm saying, Like, I just don't see how

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Speaker 2: people need to connect otherwise, how do you think you

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Speaker 2: met someone cool at the club?

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Speaker 4: No, you did it.

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Speaker 3: So before we started potting, you said you'd rather you

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Speaker 3: knew he'd put his whole dick in than micro cheat. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: you would be more upset with the micro cheating than

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Speaker 2: And why I think sex can be emotionless for men.

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Speaker 2: And I think when men put time into things, they

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Speaker 2: really care about it. I know that from men talking

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Speaker 2: to me myself as a grown ass woman. I know

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Speaker 2: when men are interested in me because they're spending their

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Speaker 2: time building connections, sending a selfie of them talking about

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Speaker 2: a bunch of nothing. I think when someone just fucks you,

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Speaker 2: it's pretty much over with.

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Speaker 4: So do you agree with that?

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Speaker 1: Guys?

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Speaker 4: I've definitely had like meaningless sex more all just physically,

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Speaker 4: playing with someone's like feelings or a situation like that

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00:19:30,480 --> 00:19:34,320
Speaker 4: to happen. Yeah, but then feelings get caught, it happens.

444
00:19:34,400 --> 00:19:37,919
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know if I have really I'm not

445
00:19:37,960 --> 00:19:40,840
Speaker 3: a micro. I mean I communicate though, like and I'm

446
00:19:40,960 --> 00:19:43,720
Speaker 3: very clear with the guys that I don't want What

447
00:19:43,800 --> 00:19:44,600
Speaker 3: about the thing.

448
00:19:44,400 --> 00:19:48,000
Speaker 2: About sorry you when you read something you read about

449
00:19:48,119 --> 00:19:51,240
Speaker 2: sharing intimate thoughts and feelings? Oh yes, and I disagree

450
00:19:51,280 --> 00:19:54,360
Speaker 2: with that, So that's really microgating. To me, I don't

451
00:19:54,400 --> 00:19:57,120
Speaker 2: think that's micro cheating. And what's the context of the content.

452
00:19:57,359 --> 00:20:00,159
Speaker 3: So but here's here's why, right, Like, when you're as

453
00:20:00,160 --> 00:20:02,399
Speaker 3: a partner, and I think I bring this back to

454
00:20:03,000 --> 00:20:06,199
Speaker 3: the fact that your partner is not going to be

455
00:20:06,320 --> 00:20:09,240
Speaker 3: your all. And when I say you're all, that person

456
00:20:09,320 --> 00:20:11,320
Speaker 3: is not going to be able to do exactly everything

457
00:20:11,359 --> 00:20:14,400
Speaker 3: you want in bed, be the soundboard that you need

458
00:20:14,520 --> 00:20:17,840
Speaker 3: in business, in friendship and family matters, in physical health

459
00:20:17,880 --> 00:20:18,600
Speaker 3: and mental health.

460
00:20:18,880 --> 00:20:23,600
Speaker 1: And so to me say, I'm say I'm.

461
00:20:23,320 --> 00:20:26,800
Speaker 3: Dating someone who might be in the gym and is

462
00:20:26,840 --> 00:20:29,560
Speaker 3: really good at business, but in terms of his mental

463
00:20:29,720 --> 00:20:34,359
Speaker 3: or his his awareness in terms of mental health, I

464
00:20:34,440 --> 00:20:38,560
Speaker 3: may not feel if it's absent and I find that

465
00:20:38,880 --> 00:20:41,560
Speaker 3: one of my other male friends or even women friends

466
00:20:41,560 --> 00:20:44,560
Speaker 3: because I'm bisexual and I've had my ex be jealous

467
00:20:44,600 --> 00:20:47,240
Speaker 3: of a relationship I've had with a homegirl before, did

468
00:20:47,240 --> 00:20:55,760
Speaker 3: you feel yeah, well, I mean, I mean I get that,

469
00:20:56,040 --> 00:20:59,440
Speaker 3: but outside of sex, especially because sex isn't the big thing.

470
00:20:59,760 --> 00:21:03,040
Speaker 3: If I'm leading into that person because maybe you don't

471
00:21:03,040 --> 00:21:05,680
Speaker 3: have the capacity to be that person, it shouldn't be

472
00:21:05,720 --> 00:21:08,840
Speaker 3: considered micro cheating because we can't expect our partner to

473
00:21:08,920 --> 00:21:10,719
Speaker 3: be fully everything that we need them to do.

474
00:21:10,760 --> 00:21:12,320
Speaker 1: I'll tell you. Let me give you an example.

475
00:21:12,400 --> 00:21:18,080
Speaker 2: Yes, so something my ex said wants about a male

476
00:21:18,119 --> 00:21:19,159
Speaker 2: friend of my life.

477
00:21:20,600 --> 00:21:21,560
Speaker 1: Safe spaces.

478
00:21:22,440 --> 00:21:25,000
Speaker 2: He basically felt like another man in my life was

479
00:21:25,000 --> 00:21:27,199
Speaker 2: more of a safe space than he was. And I

480
00:21:27,240 --> 00:21:29,720
Speaker 2: had something very traumatic happen and I did not call

481
00:21:29,800 --> 00:21:34,160
Speaker 2: him first. Okay, I completely and a lot of should

482
00:21:34,160 --> 00:21:37,400
Speaker 2: I agree with default nigga, but that he was right

483
00:21:37,880 --> 00:21:39,520
Speaker 2: like you had all this family should happen and you

484
00:21:39,560 --> 00:21:40,840
Speaker 2: call it this nigga first, But.

485
00:21:40,800 --> 00:21:42,639
Speaker 3: You know what I you know what I compared to it.

486
00:21:42,680 --> 00:21:44,680
Speaker 3: I know I joked about it by calling him my

487
00:21:44,800 --> 00:21:48,000
Speaker 3: poly partner. But like Asante and I've talked about this,

488
00:21:48,080 --> 00:21:50,560
Speaker 3: my ex was very jealous because he was a man

489
00:21:50,720 --> 00:21:55,760
Speaker 3: and I had a very emotional relationship like I can

490
00:21:56,240 --> 00:21:57,760
Speaker 3: emotionally platonic.

491
00:21:58,040 --> 00:22:01,600
Speaker 1: But it still felt like some level of cheating. So

492
00:22:01,640 --> 00:22:02,600
Speaker 1: let's be real here though.

493
00:22:02,680 --> 00:22:05,840
Speaker 2: Yes, Vinnie and I have had that same thing right

494
00:22:05,880 --> 00:22:09,480
Speaker 2: where we're almost thirteen years into friendship tattooed on each other.

495
00:22:10,160 --> 00:22:12,680
Speaker 2: But the one thing that saves this whole thing is

496
00:22:12,760 --> 00:22:16,680
Speaker 2: Vinnie and I don't like, yeah, have sex. Right, there's

497
00:22:16,720 --> 00:22:18,760
Speaker 2: the safety right there. Man, you know what I'm saying,

498
00:22:18,960 --> 00:22:22,199
Speaker 2: Like your ex feels way better about your relationship with

499
00:22:22,200 --> 00:22:23,680
Speaker 2: a sance because he knows y'a don't want to fuck

500
00:22:23,720 --> 00:22:27,080
Speaker 2: each other. Now, I can't speak for your relationship with Ish,

501
00:22:27,359 --> 00:22:30,520
Speaker 2: who I think is a straight dude, but I don't

502
00:22:30,560 --> 00:22:33,600
Speaker 2: know how great it would be if you had this strong, emotional,

503
00:22:33,920 --> 00:22:36,440
Speaker 2: deep friendship and connection where you're running to Ish instead

504
00:22:36,440 --> 00:22:38,440
Speaker 2: of your nigga. I bet you he would have felt

505
00:22:38,440 --> 00:22:40,200
Speaker 2: way more weird if it was that than a sante.

506
00:22:40,400 --> 00:22:42,320
Speaker 2: Not saying your ex isn't a weird ass nigga for

507
00:22:42,440 --> 00:22:45,240
Speaker 2: being jealous of a sante, but a straight man being

508
00:22:45,280 --> 00:22:48,560
Speaker 2: your confidant over a gay dude is a hard Will

509
00:22:49,000 --> 00:22:51,120
Speaker 2: straight guys get safe with their girls gay.

510
00:22:51,040 --> 00:22:54,120
Speaker 3: For any any relationship now to be to be fair,

511
00:22:55,680 --> 00:22:58,320
Speaker 3: because I would never be in a relationship with a podcaster.

512
00:22:58,840 --> 00:23:02,040
Speaker 3: I will absolutely call Ish or even at me, and

513
00:23:02,080 --> 00:23:05,479
Speaker 3: you talk quite a bit my partner. I will not

514
00:23:05,600 --> 00:23:08,320
Speaker 3: vent to or go to for advice on this industry.

515
00:23:08,480 --> 00:23:09,320
Speaker 1: That doesn't count though.

516
00:23:09,359 --> 00:23:12,919
Speaker 2: That's not intimate thoughts and feelings that's worth but to me.

517
00:23:13,080 --> 00:23:15,840
Speaker 2: So let's be very clear if something happened in a workplace.

518
00:23:15,880 --> 00:23:18,960
Speaker 2: Let's take this to corporate America. If something was happening

519
00:23:19,040 --> 00:23:21,480
Speaker 2: at work and you chose to call a male friend

520
00:23:21,560 --> 00:23:23,880
Speaker 2: instead of venting you to your partner, your partner could

521
00:23:23,880 --> 00:23:25,359
Speaker 2: still feel a way that you didn't come to him

522
00:23:25,359 --> 00:23:26,240
Speaker 2: to tell him about work.

523
00:23:26,280 --> 00:23:27,800
Speaker 4: What would you say is more of an intimate thought

524
00:23:27,800 --> 00:23:28,399
Speaker 4: than if that's.

525
00:23:28,320 --> 00:23:28,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, what's okay?

526
00:23:28,920 --> 00:23:31,399
Speaker 2: So, for example, coming to Eden when you have a

527
00:23:31,440 --> 00:23:34,400
Speaker 2: podcast issue makes sense industry experience too.

528
00:23:34,440 --> 00:23:36,520
Speaker 1: Why am I call him my nigga for a podcast?

529
00:23:36,520 --> 00:23:38,440
Speaker 2: Actually, I would even argue that I do the same

530
00:23:38,480 --> 00:23:41,200
Speaker 2: thing if something goes on a podcast Shit, hell yeah,

531
00:23:41,200 --> 00:23:43,040
Speaker 2: i'mna called Alex first, you know.

532
00:23:43,680 --> 00:23:46,320
Speaker 1: But the ultimate thought or feeling, what's an intimate thought?

533
00:23:46,440 --> 00:23:49,919
Speaker 2: I would say something that brings you emotional sadness that

534
00:23:49,960 --> 00:23:55,199
Speaker 2: probably has to do with family, something that's wearing on

535
00:23:55,240 --> 00:23:58,000
Speaker 2: your mental health, like maybe it's finances and you're feeling sad,

536
00:23:58,440 --> 00:24:01,560
Speaker 2: self image, anything that could be something that's super personal

537
00:24:01,600 --> 00:24:03,520
Speaker 2: that you don't want the public to know and the

538
00:24:03,560 --> 00:24:07,280
Speaker 2: public to me outside of this relationship are platonic friends.

539
00:24:07,440 --> 00:24:10,160
Speaker 2: We're gonna hold our deep and intimate shit. But also,

540
00:24:10,240 --> 00:24:12,320
Speaker 2: I'm a writer in a different way on our relationship,

541
00:24:12,720 --> 00:24:15,359
Speaker 2: like the way that I have loyalty to someone's secrets

542
00:24:15,680 --> 00:24:19,760
Speaker 2: when we're in that place is very different. And maybe

543
00:24:19,800 --> 00:24:21,840
Speaker 2: just the length in which my family shit goes is

544
00:24:21,880 --> 00:24:24,280
Speaker 2: a little bit deeper, deeper than most people my age.

545
00:24:24,720 --> 00:24:27,959
Speaker 3: So I think I think micro cheating is exactly what

546
00:24:27,960 --> 00:24:30,879
Speaker 3: it even references. It's such a great area that I

547
00:24:30,920 --> 00:24:34,320
Speaker 3: think creates chaos where chaos doesn't need to be made,

548
00:24:34,359 --> 00:24:37,280
Speaker 3: and I think it puts expectations on your partner that

549
00:24:37,320 --> 00:24:38,080
Speaker 3: are unrealistic.

550
00:24:38,119 --> 00:24:39,800
Speaker 2: I actually think micro cheating is the lead on to

551
00:24:39,840 --> 00:24:40,520
Speaker 2: the red flags.

552
00:24:41,800 --> 00:24:42,879
Speaker 4: I don't think I can see that.

553
00:24:43,080 --> 00:24:45,320
Speaker 1: I think if if I've got a nigga, who's fucking.

554
00:24:47,240 --> 00:24:51,600
Speaker 2: Right depending on the sense, secretly messaging someone, you being

555
00:24:51,640 --> 00:24:53,960
Speaker 2: on a dating app, half of those things, I get

556
00:24:53,960 --> 00:24:54,439
Speaker 2: it that's.

557
00:24:54,400 --> 00:25:00,600
Speaker 1: Leading like me, but me having these emotional.

558
00:25:01,880 --> 00:25:04,959
Speaker 3: Conversations with someone else or hanging out with someone else,

559
00:25:05,000 --> 00:25:07,200
Speaker 3: because it does mention physical and that's what our context

560
00:25:07,240 --> 00:25:11,120
Speaker 3: was about. Physical planning to be around someone platonically because

561
00:25:11,119 --> 00:25:12,320
Speaker 3: I just enjoy your energy.

562
00:25:12,560 --> 00:25:14,480
Speaker 1: It doesn't mean that I have to desire. It also

563
00:25:14,480 --> 00:25:15,000
Speaker 1: doesn't mean.

564
00:25:15,280 --> 00:25:17,360
Speaker 2: Use the word platonic actually in this, So that's I

565
00:25:17,359 --> 00:25:18,959
Speaker 2: know you think the different. Yeah, but it doesn't mean

566
00:25:19,040 --> 00:25:21,040
Speaker 2: just because is that you hanging without your friends or

567
00:25:21,480 --> 00:25:21,880
Speaker 2: having an.

568
00:25:21,920 --> 00:25:24,879
Speaker 3: Emotional connection to someone or even liking to be around

569
00:25:24,880 --> 00:25:26,919
Speaker 3: them does not mean at all I want to be

570
00:25:26,960 --> 00:25:29,199
Speaker 3: with you or I want to fuck you. True, just

571
00:25:29,240 --> 00:25:31,840
Speaker 3: because I enjoy you as a person does not mean

572
00:25:31,920 --> 00:25:35,200
Speaker 3: and I would allow my partner to enjoy many other

573
00:25:35,200 --> 00:25:37,680
Speaker 3: people as a partner as a as a person.

574
00:25:37,520 --> 00:25:40,239
Speaker 1: Men, women, family members. That's what I talk about when

575
00:25:40,240 --> 00:25:43,359
Speaker 1: I when I say, like, we create these unrealistic like

576
00:25:43,520 --> 00:25:47,439
Speaker 1: boundaries or dynamics with romantic partnerships that we don't create

577
00:25:47,480 --> 00:25:49,760
Speaker 1: with all of the other relationships we had, you know,

578
00:25:49,800 --> 00:25:51,080
Speaker 1: and I guess that's what you need, right.

579
00:25:51,080 --> 00:25:54,000
Speaker 2: So for example, you and I had discussed on another

580
00:25:54,040 --> 00:25:57,200
Speaker 2: episode about how we think liking pictures isn't a big.

581
00:25:57,119 --> 00:25:57,680
Speaker 1: Deal, right.

582
00:25:58,200 --> 00:26:00,800
Speaker 2: Whatever boundary people have in their relationship is theirs. And

583
00:26:00,880 --> 00:26:04,760
Speaker 2: for me, I can already tell from this conversation if

584
00:26:04,800 --> 00:26:06,720
Speaker 2: someone else is more of a confidant to you than

585
00:26:06,760 --> 00:26:10,480
Speaker 2: I am besides a brother or family member or yeah,

586
00:26:10,520 --> 00:26:13,200
Speaker 2: I'm not good with that. Another woman being your confidant

587
00:26:13,200 --> 00:26:15,240
Speaker 2: and shoulder to lean on is not okay with me.

588
00:26:15,840 --> 00:26:17,840
Speaker 2: I need to be the person that we keep this

589
00:26:17,920 --> 00:26:20,719
Speaker 2: in house with, and I do think I need a

590
00:26:20,800 --> 00:26:23,840
Speaker 2: hierarchy for that in my life and in my future

591
00:26:23,840 --> 00:26:24,800
Speaker 2: committed relationships.

592
00:26:24,840 --> 00:26:25,199
Speaker 1: I love that.

593
00:26:25,320 --> 00:26:27,400
Speaker 3: I would say this then can be something that maybe

594
00:26:27,400 --> 00:26:29,399
Speaker 3: you should talk to with your partners because I am

595
00:26:29,440 --> 00:26:31,879
Speaker 3: on the opposite side. I don't want to be somebody's

596
00:26:32,040 --> 00:26:35,120
Speaker 3: everything and take that on, and I don't mind someone

597
00:26:35,200 --> 00:26:36,800
Speaker 3: leaning into someone else, man or woman.

598
00:26:36,880 --> 00:26:40,119
Speaker 2: I'm really surprised that you would be okay with in

599
00:26:40,160 --> 00:26:44,480
Speaker 2: a committed relationship a homegirl that they're that deeply. I

600
00:26:44,480 --> 00:26:47,200
Speaker 2: would say that right now in my life, my closest

601
00:26:47,200 --> 00:26:50,879
Speaker 2: friend that's a man, was engaged and then they're no

602
00:26:50,960 --> 00:26:53,360
Speaker 2: longer engaged, and we've shared a lot of discussion about that.

603
00:26:53,440 --> 00:26:56,840
Speaker 2: But to me, that's more a problem solving with each other,

604
00:26:57,800 --> 00:27:01,080
Speaker 2: like I'm even in a relationship like, to me, that's

605
00:27:01,280 --> 00:27:03,679
Speaker 2: very problem and a lot of men and women dynamics.

606
00:27:03,800 --> 00:27:06,040
Speaker 2: He actually just sent me this video I wanted to share.

607
00:27:06,400 --> 00:27:07,840
Speaker 2: I thought it would be really good for horrible. I

608
00:27:07,840 --> 00:27:10,640
Speaker 2: was gonna put in another moment, but four forty five

609
00:27:10,720 --> 00:27:11,880
Speaker 2: love you easy, send me this.

610
00:27:12,119 --> 00:27:14,880
Speaker 6: I got a female friend, lover her to death, right,

611
00:27:14,960 --> 00:27:18,080
Speaker 6: She's like my annoying ass big sister, she'd be pissing

612
00:27:18,119 --> 00:27:22,000
Speaker 6: me off. But the conversations we have come from a

613
00:27:22,119 --> 00:27:25,680
Speaker 6: completely different point of view. Right, So, when I'm expressing

614
00:27:25,720 --> 00:27:28,359
Speaker 6: myself and I'm telling my side of the story, or

615
00:27:28,359 --> 00:27:30,880
Speaker 6: if I'm telling my perspective of something that I went

616
00:27:30,880 --> 00:27:32,359
Speaker 6: through with a girl that I talked to, whatever the

617
00:27:32,359 --> 00:27:35,639
Speaker 6: case may be, she responds back to me from a

618
00:27:35,680 --> 00:27:38,200
Speaker 6: point of view of hey, stop letting this girl play

619
00:27:38,240 --> 00:27:40,080
Speaker 6: with you like this, because this is what she's on

620
00:27:40,400 --> 00:27:42,920
Speaker 6: and I feel like every man on the planet needs that.

621
00:27:43,119 --> 00:27:45,439
Speaker 6: And the fucking problem right now in our world is

622
00:27:45,480 --> 00:27:48,479
Speaker 6: that a lot of men are teaching men how to

623
00:27:48,480 --> 00:27:50,480
Speaker 6: interact with women, but there's not a lot of women

624
00:27:50,560 --> 00:27:52,280
Speaker 6: teaching men how to interact with women.

625
00:27:52,440 --> 00:27:52,760
Speaker 4: Women.

626
00:27:52,840 --> 00:27:56,760
Speaker 2: Now, why this is important is because most platonic meal conversation,

627
00:27:56,840 --> 00:27:59,840
Speaker 2: when it gets deep for me, is that's helping each other.

628
00:28:00,640 --> 00:28:03,719
Speaker 2: It is not the other way around. It's me leaning

629
00:28:03,720 --> 00:28:06,880
Speaker 2: on my male friends for guidance. In another way, it's

630
00:28:06,960 --> 00:28:10,280
Speaker 2: problem solving. It's not this fucking I'm spilling like you

631
00:28:10,320 --> 00:28:10,920
Speaker 2: an actor, bae.

632
00:28:11,400 --> 00:28:13,920
Speaker 1: That's not platonic. To me, we were never going to

633
00:28:13,960 --> 00:28:15,720
Speaker 1: be platonic. That's I let him know.

634
00:28:15,760 --> 00:28:17,800
Speaker 2: Every call I wanted to me, that's it. That's intimate,

635
00:28:17,920 --> 00:28:20,680
Speaker 2: whether you talk sexual or not. The way you tried

636
00:28:20,720 --> 00:28:21,280
Speaker 2: on the phone with.

637
00:28:21,240 --> 00:28:22,320
Speaker 1: Me and him were not platonic.

638
00:28:22,400 --> 00:28:24,560
Speaker 2: I know you weren't, but I'm saying that's sharing intimate

639
00:28:24,600 --> 00:28:28,600
Speaker 2: thoughts and feelings. This shit is more problem solving, the

640
00:28:28,640 --> 00:28:29,960
Speaker 2: same thing you brought up about PODT.

641
00:28:30,000 --> 00:28:30,639
Speaker 1: You know what's crazy.

642
00:28:30,640 --> 00:28:32,840
Speaker 3: A lot of the conversations I had with Actor Bae

643
00:28:33,760 --> 00:28:37,640
Speaker 3: in in dissection of it, I brought to Ish okay,

644
00:28:37,960 --> 00:28:41,160
Speaker 3: and so I've shared a lot of the same traumas

645
00:28:41,200 --> 00:28:43,440
Speaker 3: two different perspectives, which is why I would never so

646
00:28:43,560 --> 00:28:44,960
Speaker 3: you are my partner of that.

647
00:28:45,240 --> 00:28:47,480
Speaker 1: Like I brought yes the traumas in which that I

648
00:28:47,520 --> 00:28:48,280
Speaker 1: brought to Actor Bae.

649
00:28:48,600 --> 00:28:50,719
Speaker 3: Maybe I didn't cuite a ish about it, but when

650
00:28:50,760 --> 00:28:53,120
Speaker 3: I was talking to Actor Bay and we were indulging

651
00:28:53,160 --> 00:28:55,640
Speaker 3: each other in it, I did actually bring some of

652
00:28:55,640 --> 00:28:58,320
Speaker 3: those things because I did want to hear Issh's perspective

653
00:28:58,360 --> 00:28:58,560
Speaker 3: on it.

654
00:28:58,760 --> 00:29:02,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, you wanted ishes advice. You want to get deeper

655
00:29:02,320 --> 00:29:05,040
Speaker 2: with that, not advice. There's reason I was listening to

656
00:29:05,080 --> 00:29:05,520
Speaker 2: his trauma.

657
00:29:05,520 --> 00:29:07,920
Speaker 1: You said what you wanted to do. We were exchanging traumas.

658
00:29:07,920 --> 00:29:09,320
Speaker 1: But what I'm saying, is that's advice.

659
00:29:09,640 --> 00:29:12,360
Speaker 3: Know the things that I opened up to to Actor Bay,

660
00:29:12,680 --> 00:29:14,000
Speaker 3: I opened up two issues.

661
00:29:14,040 --> 00:29:18,840
Speaker 2: Well, I'm just saying from what if you we want

662
00:29:18,920 --> 00:29:21,360
Speaker 2: the person you're sharing You never met this man. You're

663
00:29:21,360 --> 00:29:24,080
Speaker 2: sharing things with him to get me with me, to

664
00:29:24,160 --> 00:29:25,480
Speaker 2: get deeper with me.

665
00:29:25,600 --> 00:29:27,680
Speaker 3: I believe in getting deep with my friends as well.

666
00:29:28,120 --> 00:29:30,560
Speaker 3: I'm sorry, I yeah, we just we agree to disagree with.

667
00:29:30,640 --> 00:29:34,400
Speaker 2: This is honestly a very good debate because there's someone

668
00:29:34,480 --> 00:29:37,680
Speaker 2: listening right now. No no, no, that like literally had

669
00:29:37,680 --> 00:29:38,120
Speaker 2: this situation.

670
00:29:38,640 --> 00:29:44,920
Speaker 4: You guys guilty of any of those things like secret messaging? Yeah,

671
00:29:45,000 --> 00:29:47,560
Speaker 4: I mean so do you. That's cheating right there straight through.

672
00:29:48,120 --> 00:29:50,240
Speaker 1: I mean when I when I was with my ex.

673
00:29:50,120 --> 00:29:51,160
Speaker 4: I was thrown off that nigga.

674
00:29:51,480 --> 00:29:53,400
Speaker 3: And then when we were on our breaks, I went

675
00:29:53,480 --> 00:29:57,680
Speaker 3: right back to step chat like but when I was

676
00:29:57,720 --> 00:30:00,120
Speaker 3: with him, I was with him. When I wasn't, I'm

677
00:30:00,160 --> 00:30:02,480
Speaker 3: talking to other people. And also that was another thing

678
00:30:02,800 --> 00:30:05,080
Speaker 3: like where the niggas hated the teetering. When I was

679
00:30:05,080 --> 00:30:07,080
Speaker 3: with him and nigga would hit me, I'd be like, yep,

680
00:30:07,120 --> 00:30:07,880
Speaker 3: back with my man.

681
00:30:10,360 --> 00:30:11,200
Speaker 1: Yesterday you had it.

682
00:30:11,400 --> 00:30:13,480
Speaker 3: I know yesterday I was trying to eat that ass

683
00:30:13,520 --> 00:30:16,040
Speaker 3: from the back. But now we got back together, so

684
00:30:16,920 --> 00:30:19,200
Speaker 3: we can't really micro cheating.

685
00:30:18,920 --> 00:30:19,400
Speaker 4: You know what I mean.

686
00:30:19,440 --> 00:30:20,840
Speaker 2: Like I let them know when I was on a break,

687
00:30:20,840 --> 00:30:23,480
Speaker 2: I was I was ready as soon as that nigga said,

688
00:30:23,560 --> 00:30:25,920
Speaker 2: we beck, I let them niggas know I'm back with

689
00:30:26,000 --> 00:30:28,360
Speaker 2: my man. Sorry, Well, I was gonna say deleting messages.

690
00:30:28,400 --> 00:30:31,240
Speaker 2: I've deleted some stuff where I was talking shit. However,

691
00:30:32,200 --> 00:30:34,680
Speaker 2: now that we're talking about micro cheating, I realize it's

692
00:30:34,680 --> 00:30:37,760
Speaker 2: mainly because the cheating is someone that you could be

693
00:30:37,840 --> 00:30:39,920
Speaker 2: cheated on with. Can't be your homegirl, can't be your

694
00:30:39,960 --> 00:30:41,520
Speaker 2: gay friend. I think we got to pull that out.

695
00:30:41,560 --> 00:30:42,400
Speaker 1: I can't be my homegirl.

696
00:30:42,480 --> 00:30:44,680
Speaker 2: I fucked my homegirl, right, I'm saying your homegirl, if

697
00:30:44,680 --> 00:30:47,080
Speaker 2: you're fucking her, then that's different. But I'm saying, like,

698
00:30:47,160 --> 00:30:49,120
Speaker 2: I think that's probably the difference with this because the

699
00:30:49,160 --> 00:30:52,120
Speaker 2: cheating is putting your relationship at risk. So who is

700
00:30:52,200 --> 00:30:54,160
Speaker 2: someone that can put your relationship at risk?

701
00:30:54,280 --> 00:30:56,719
Speaker 3: I think any any and air body can put your

702
00:30:56,760 --> 00:30:57,680
Speaker 3: relationship at risk?

703
00:30:57,800 --> 00:31:00,280
Speaker 1: Period, true period, Because be.

704
00:31:00,280 --> 00:31:02,640
Speaker 2: Very clear, just because he gave today it on me,

705
00:31:02,680 --> 00:31:04,520
Speaker 2: he ain't gonna take a little pussy like.

706
00:31:10,080 --> 00:31:16,080
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm just saying, anyways, I.

707
00:31:16,080 --> 00:31:19,960
Speaker 3: Want to get to our vanilla ship because in us

708
00:31:20,040 --> 00:31:23,320
Speaker 3: talking as well just about relationships, I wanted to go

709
00:31:23,400 --> 00:31:27,360
Speaker 3: over some sex myths that could potentially be holding your

710
00:31:27,400 --> 00:31:31,240
Speaker 3: relationship back. So micro cheating could be holding your relationship

711
00:31:31,280 --> 00:31:33,560
Speaker 3: back or be a sign that it's over. But there

712
00:31:33,560 --> 00:31:39,080
Speaker 3: are sex myths that are actually affecting relationships in the bedroom.

713
00:31:39,360 --> 00:31:40,680
Speaker 3: So I wanted to go over these and I wanted

714
00:31:40,720 --> 00:31:42,680
Speaker 3: to know y'all thoughts on them and if you agree

715
00:31:42,680 --> 00:31:46,880
Speaker 3: that this myth could potentially be ruining relationships. So the

716
00:31:46,920 --> 00:31:51,600
Speaker 3: first one is spontaneity is key. There's a belief that

717
00:31:51,640 --> 00:31:55,600
Speaker 3: sex should always be spontaneous and unplanned. Holding this myth

718
00:31:55,920 --> 00:31:58,080
Speaker 3: can lead to no sex at all. With busy lives,

719
00:31:58,160 --> 00:32:00,760
Speaker 3: it's easy for sex to slip off of a priority list.

720
00:32:01,120 --> 00:32:04,720
Speaker 3: Solution schedule sex into your life. Do y'all believe that

721
00:32:05,200 --> 00:32:09,080
Speaker 3: the idea that sex should just be always spontaneous could

722
00:32:09,080 --> 00:32:12,160
Speaker 3: be ruining you having sex at all in a relationship?

723
00:32:12,560 --> 00:32:14,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, because a lot of us, yeah, pretty much of us.

724
00:32:14,600 --> 00:32:17,440
Speaker 2: Are we all playing sex? I'm gonna tell you exactly who.

725
00:32:17,560 --> 00:32:19,280
Speaker 2: Because we think this is putting it on the calendar

726
00:32:19,360 --> 00:32:21,280
Speaker 2: type shit, like right, They do people, and let me

727
00:32:21,280 --> 00:32:21,960
Speaker 2: tell you what it is.

728
00:32:22,280 --> 00:32:23,200
Speaker 1: You free Saturday?

729
00:32:24,280 --> 00:32:28,000
Speaker 2: Like hello, if you're like, it's really simple, Like, let's

730
00:32:28,000 --> 00:32:30,280
Speaker 2: stop fucking acting like we're all not scheduling sex.

731
00:32:30,320 --> 00:32:32,800
Speaker 3: Bro Well, this one, this one, this one, I really like.

732
00:32:33,240 --> 00:32:37,040
Speaker 3: Another myth is that penetrative sex is the only real sex.

733
00:32:37,520 --> 00:32:40,200
Speaker 3: And this is what I like because this is where

734
00:32:40,280 --> 00:32:42,920
Speaker 3: I'm like, I like all the other shit happening right

735
00:32:42,920 --> 00:32:45,920
Speaker 3: now around sex too. So there's this misconception that sex

736
00:32:46,000 --> 00:32:50,120
Speaker 3: is only valid if it involves penetrative intercourse. Such a

737
00:32:50,160 --> 00:32:53,840
Speaker 3: myth neglects the diversity of sexuality and intimate activities, which

738
00:32:53,880 --> 00:32:56,440
Speaker 3: is why I'm outing this, while adding pressure to perform

739
00:32:56,520 --> 00:33:01,040
Speaker 3: penetrative sex, potentially leading to performance issues for both men

740
00:33:01,120 --> 00:33:04,400
Speaker 3: and women, it neglects other form of sexual pleasure that

741
00:33:04,440 --> 00:33:08,240
Speaker 3: can be equally or more sexually satisfying. So I wanted

742
00:33:08,280 --> 00:33:10,640
Speaker 3: to talk about this because a lot of times, if

743
00:33:10,640 --> 00:33:13,640
Speaker 3: you ask someone if they've had sex, their idea is

744
00:33:13,880 --> 00:33:17,520
Speaker 3: this being sex. Penis and vagina are actually engaging in

745
00:33:17,560 --> 00:33:21,360
Speaker 3: whatever sex they identify as sex, Whereas to me, there

746
00:33:21,440 --> 00:33:25,080
Speaker 3: is like the person that I see now, I've seen

747
00:33:25,160 --> 00:33:27,080
Speaker 3: him a lot of times this year, and we don't

748
00:33:27,120 --> 00:33:30,640
Speaker 3: always have sex, but there's other parts about us hanging

749
00:33:30,640 --> 00:33:33,000
Speaker 3: out with each other that I find fulfillment.

750
00:33:33,320 --> 00:33:35,920
Speaker 1: Michael Jading. There's no micro cheating.

751
00:33:36,360 --> 00:33:41,600
Speaker 3: We're not together, but or we've just done oral sex

752
00:33:41,640 --> 00:33:44,760
Speaker 3: which has been very pleasurable, or like I've been around

753
00:33:44,840 --> 00:33:46,720
Speaker 3: him and I've been on my period, so I've got

754
00:33:46,760 --> 00:33:49,320
Speaker 3: to watch him engage with someone else. Like there's other

755
00:33:49,360 --> 00:33:51,960
Speaker 3: ways in which you could have sex with someone. And

756
00:33:52,040 --> 00:33:53,840
Speaker 3: y'all know, I still like the trash being taken out,

757
00:33:53,880 --> 00:33:56,360
Speaker 3: but even cuddling. I just had a boyfriend experience a

758
00:33:56,400 --> 00:33:59,440
Speaker 3: couple months ago where a guy flew in literally just

759
00:33:59,480 --> 00:34:02,120
Speaker 3: to be here and play boyfriend. I baked them cookies

760
00:34:02,400 --> 00:34:04,520
Speaker 3: and we cuddled and watched what is It?

761
00:34:04,600 --> 00:34:04,920
Speaker 1: GENV?

762
00:34:05,600 --> 00:34:08,839
Speaker 3: The other thing to the boys, and we cuddled all night,

763
00:34:08,920 --> 00:34:10,800
Speaker 3: and then the next day rode scooters in the park

764
00:34:11,200 --> 00:34:14,920
Speaker 3: and I was so fulfilled. I was like, I'm good,

765
00:34:15,040 --> 00:34:16,560
Speaker 3: I don't even need intimacy right now.

766
00:34:16,600 --> 00:34:18,200
Speaker 4: It was.

767
00:34:19,200 --> 00:34:21,240
Speaker 2: I think the emotional ship is way worse.

768
00:34:21,320 --> 00:34:21,879
Speaker 1: Oh my god.

769
00:34:22,000 --> 00:34:25,120
Speaker 3: It was like it was intimacy overload that I just

770
00:34:25,360 --> 00:34:29,160
Speaker 3: enjoyed so much. I was like wow, Like he brought

771
00:34:29,160 --> 00:34:30,879
Speaker 3: his camera and I took him to the little ponds.

772
00:34:30,880 --> 00:34:33,480
Speaker 3: I showed them all around Cuchral Park and I was

773
00:34:33,520 --> 00:34:36,560
Speaker 3: just like, this is great to where literally I had

774
00:34:36,560 --> 00:34:38,600
Speaker 3: a nigga come the next week who normally gives me

775
00:34:38,600 --> 00:34:41,680
Speaker 3: all my intimacy, and I felt nothing damn right.

776
00:34:41,760 --> 00:34:42,800
Speaker 1: And it was crazy.

777
00:34:43,400 --> 00:34:46,320
Speaker 3: I never I didn't even think that, oh, I have

778
00:34:46,920 --> 00:34:49,759
Speaker 3: placed this guy so high sexually, because it was so

779
00:34:49,800 --> 00:34:53,600
Speaker 3: intimate that now that I've gotten my intimacy kick, it

780
00:34:53,680 --> 00:34:56,120
Speaker 3: wasn't even the same. And I was like, oh, wow,

781
00:34:56,560 --> 00:34:59,400
Speaker 3: I really think I enjoy intimacy on a level that's

782
00:34:59,680 --> 00:35:03,239
Speaker 3: that involved dick and vagina at all. I don't know

783
00:35:03,239 --> 00:35:06,200
Speaker 3: who the fuck I'm becoming, y'all. God damn shit is crazy.

784
00:35:08,239 --> 00:35:12,680
Speaker 3: I did also want to it's disgusting. This is when

785
00:35:12,719 --> 00:35:15,279
Speaker 3: we talk about a lot. Another myth is no communication

786
00:35:15,360 --> 00:35:18,440
Speaker 3: is needed. Often people assume that once you're with a partner,

787
00:35:18,760 --> 00:35:20,719
Speaker 3: you know their needs, you know what they like, you

788
00:35:20,800 --> 00:35:23,000
Speaker 3: know how they like it, and so of course we

789
00:35:23,120 --> 00:35:26,320
Speaker 3: always say talk to your partner, because the same way

790
00:35:26,600 --> 00:35:29,279
Speaker 3: that maybe at one point in time I like you

791
00:35:29,360 --> 00:35:33,440
Speaker 3: to ram my fucking vagina to fucking smithereens that can

792
00:35:33,520 --> 00:35:36,000
Speaker 3: change over time. So the same way that someone may

793
00:35:36,080 --> 00:35:38,880
Speaker 3: enjoy sex at one point may not be the way

794
00:35:39,120 --> 00:35:41,359
Speaker 3: that they enjoy it again. And then the last one

795
00:35:41,400 --> 00:35:43,160
Speaker 3: I wanted to bring up. I also want to send

796
00:35:43,160 --> 00:35:44,759
Speaker 3: you this link so that y'all can look. This is

797
00:35:44,760 --> 00:35:46,560
Speaker 3: from the New York Posts. And there's so many myths,

798
00:35:46,719 --> 00:35:50,000
Speaker 3: but the other one I really like, More is always better.

799
00:35:50,760 --> 00:35:54,480
Speaker 3: There is a misconception that the quantity of sexual encounters

800
00:35:54,800 --> 00:35:59,000
Speaker 3: is proportional to the quality of a relationship. It prioritizes

801
00:35:59,280 --> 00:36:02,880
Speaker 3: the quantity over the quality of sexual encounters, ignoring the

802
00:36:02,920 --> 00:36:06,800
Speaker 3: importance of the emotional connection and intimacy. So a solution

803
00:36:07,080 --> 00:36:09,600
Speaker 3: is to take the focus away from how much sex

804
00:36:09,640 --> 00:36:12,319
Speaker 3: you're having and focus on the quality of the sex

805
00:36:12,320 --> 00:36:16,120
Speaker 3: that you're actually having. Y'all agree with that, yeah, because

806
00:36:16,160 --> 00:36:18,279
Speaker 3: I do know people sometimes if they're not having a

807
00:36:18,280 --> 00:36:20,920
Speaker 3: lot of it, they will fit in quickies just to.

808
00:36:20,880 --> 00:36:22,760
Speaker 1: Make it feel like we're fucking.

809
00:36:23,000 --> 00:36:25,080
Speaker 3: That means we're good, we like each other because we're

810
00:36:25,120 --> 00:36:26,839
Speaker 3: having all this sex, but it doesn't mean that it's

811
00:36:26,960 --> 00:36:30,440
Speaker 3: actually good sex or sex that is meaningful.

812
00:36:30,640 --> 00:36:34,959
Speaker 2: I've been convinced that most people don't really have mind

813
00:36:35,000 --> 00:36:40,000
Speaker 2: blowing sex. Often, like because I could come from if

814
00:36:40,040 --> 00:36:41,960
Speaker 2: I sat here long enough and fucking rub the seed

815
00:36:42,160 --> 00:36:45,759
Speaker 2: that's greright, Like, it's not that I really don't think

816
00:36:45,760 --> 00:36:49,640
Speaker 2: it has anything to do with like how you're really

817
00:36:49,640 --> 00:36:53,560
Speaker 2: connecting with someone during sex. Also the intimacy I've done

818
00:36:53,600 --> 00:36:56,040
Speaker 2: this with, like someone I've only slept with once, right,

819
00:36:56,520 --> 00:36:59,160
Speaker 2: even if it's not intimate but more carnal. And it's like,

820
00:36:59,520 --> 00:37:01,319
Speaker 2: but just a lot of people don't really know how

821
00:37:01,320 --> 00:37:03,120
Speaker 2: to connec during sex. I've talked to so many friends

822
00:37:03,120 --> 00:37:06,399
Speaker 2: that are scared of eye contact that like, wow, shit

823
00:37:06,520 --> 00:37:09,880
Speaker 2: like that, Whereas I'm like, of course you're not fucking

824
00:37:10,160 --> 00:37:12,560
Speaker 2: getting the shit fucked up, like you really can't get there.

825
00:37:13,040 --> 00:37:16,080
Speaker 2: So what do you think that it's crazy? And maybe

826
00:37:16,080 --> 00:37:18,840
Speaker 2: we can just I have some Halloween sex positions, but

827
00:37:18,880 --> 00:37:20,640
Speaker 2: I really like that. What do you think it is.

828
00:37:22,040 --> 00:37:25,560
Speaker 3: Sex tip wise about eye contact? Because is it if

829
00:37:25,560 --> 00:37:28,200
Speaker 3: someone isn't giving you eye contact? Is it because they're

830
00:37:28,200 --> 00:37:30,440
Speaker 3: actually uncomfortable? It's because they're insecure?

831
00:37:30,880 --> 00:37:31,279
Speaker 4: What is it?

832
00:37:31,400 --> 00:37:34,080
Speaker 3: Because even you gave that as a tip with giving

833
00:37:34,280 --> 00:37:38,319
Speaker 3: with oral sex right, look them in the eyes. What

834
00:37:38,400 --> 00:37:40,520
Speaker 3: do you think if so many of your homegirls say

835
00:37:40,520 --> 00:37:42,200
Speaker 3: and I feel like eye contact is a hard one

836
00:37:42,239 --> 00:37:44,319
Speaker 3: even for men. What is it about eye contact that

837
00:37:44,400 --> 00:37:45,160
Speaker 3: makes it difficult.

838
00:37:45,280 --> 00:37:47,440
Speaker 4: And we have been Okay, I remember when Jade and

839
00:37:47,560 --> 00:37:50,799
Speaker 4: Jamal and they talked about that, like POV and I

840
00:37:50,880 --> 00:37:53,840
Speaker 4: love eye contact when it comes to like head and

841
00:37:53,880 --> 00:37:56,960
Speaker 4: everything like that. Okay, now during like fucking i'm it

842
00:37:56,960 --> 00:37:59,279
Speaker 4: depends like it's like eye contact through the mirror. Oh

843
00:37:59,320 --> 00:37:59,680
Speaker 4: I love that.

844
00:37:59,719 --> 00:38:00,839
Speaker 1: Shit, No, you're not gonna lie.

845
00:38:00,840 --> 00:38:04,280
Speaker 3: Eye contact during missionary is also a thing. But that's

846
00:38:04,320 --> 00:38:08,279
Speaker 3: also I've been with guys too that can't look at

847
00:38:08,280 --> 00:38:09,800
Speaker 3: me in the eye or they want to break the

848
00:38:10,480 --> 00:38:11,760
Speaker 3: it's to sometimes.

849
00:38:12,640 --> 00:38:13,239
Speaker 1: Is that what it is?

850
00:38:13,280 --> 00:38:15,200
Speaker 5: That's me? I'm not I'm not really with the eye content.

851
00:38:15,239 --> 00:38:15,520
Speaker 1: Why not?

852
00:38:16,360 --> 00:38:19,440
Speaker 5: I just don't care for it almost breaks my concentration.

853
00:38:19,520 --> 00:38:23,960
Speaker 2: That's interesting really, even when you're like in a super love.

854
00:38:23,760 --> 00:38:27,040
Speaker 5: Making mode missionary, I'm one hundred percent with it. But

855
00:38:27,120 --> 00:38:29,400
Speaker 5: head though, I don't know what it is. It pulls

856
00:38:29,400 --> 00:38:30,000
Speaker 5: me out of focus.

857
00:38:30,400 --> 00:38:31,719
Speaker 1: Really, you know what that is?

858
00:38:32,080 --> 00:38:34,000
Speaker 5: No offense, No, I don't.

859
00:38:34,160 --> 00:38:35,239
Speaker 1: It's a confidence thing.

860
00:38:35,680 --> 00:38:38,759
Speaker 2: It's a woman looking you in the eye is more

861
00:38:38,800 --> 00:38:40,919
Speaker 2: of her being in control than you, and you made

862
00:38:40,920 --> 00:38:43,000
Speaker 2: me feeling a little bit more out of control. And

863
00:38:43,080 --> 00:38:46,680
Speaker 2: see it looks he might saying he likes it you

864
00:38:46,760 --> 00:38:48,879
Speaker 2: on your knees and you're giving me eye contact during

865
00:38:48,880 --> 00:38:53,120
Speaker 2: the head like, so there's two two things. Right when

866
00:38:53,239 --> 00:38:56,160
Speaker 2: edding gets head he probably wants to feel like, oh,

867
00:38:56,200 --> 00:38:58,440
Speaker 2: she's taking over my body, whereas you might want to

868
00:38:58,440 --> 00:39:00,360
Speaker 2: feel like I'm getting my dick suck like she's on

869
00:39:00,400 --> 00:39:03,640
Speaker 2: her knees for me. So it's like, is this and

870
00:39:03,640 --> 00:39:05,040
Speaker 2: like I can't say anymore.

871
00:39:05,320 --> 00:39:08,839
Speaker 3: The eye contact maybe for you then puts her into

872
00:39:08,880 --> 00:39:10,080
Speaker 3: the power position.

873
00:39:09,960 --> 00:39:14,279
Speaker 2: Which and that they make the head It's uncomfortable because are.

874
00:39:14,200 --> 00:39:14,680
Speaker 1: You are you?

875
00:39:14,880 --> 00:39:21,239
Speaker 3: Are you not a personal but are are you full darm?

876
00:39:21,320 --> 00:39:23,080
Speaker 3: Like you're not switched? Like is there any moment in

877
00:39:23,120 --> 00:39:25,000
Speaker 3: sex where you actually like giving up power?

878
00:39:25,400 --> 00:39:25,880
Speaker 5: Not really?

879
00:39:26,000 --> 00:39:29,480
Speaker 1: Okay, that's what Yeah, I think that. So the thing with.

880
00:39:31,960 --> 00:39:37,160
Speaker 2: Eye contact that I've learned specifically about my boyfriend today,

881
00:39:38,200 --> 00:39:40,319
Speaker 2: one of my homegirls talked about how sexual he was,

882
00:39:40,320 --> 00:39:42,799
Speaker 2: how much his energy was sexual. And I was in

883
00:39:42,800 --> 00:39:44,440
Speaker 2: the room with them when they met. I was like,

884
00:39:44,440 --> 00:39:47,440
Speaker 2: that's so weird. She said that, wait weird right, and

885
00:39:47,480 --> 00:39:49,239
Speaker 2: so I was like, I was like she said that,

886
00:39:49,239 --> 00:39:50,960
Speaker 2: I wasn't bothered, was like, why do you think she

887
00:39:50,960 --> 00:39:51,200
Speaker 2: said that?

888
00:39:51,239 --> 00:39:52,759
Speaker 1: He's like because I looked at her an eye? Do

889
00:39:52,800 --> 00:39:54,600
Speaker 1: you know what's crazy about saying that?

890
00:39:55,239 --> 00:39:57,960
Speaker 3: You remember when I was dating like the musician, the

891
00:39:57,960 --> 00:39:59,720
Speaker 3: one that I showed you it looks like Lenny Kravitz.

892
00:40:00,239 --> 00:40:02,280
Speaker 3: So I ended up going to one of his shows

893
00:40:02,560 --> 00:40:05,560
Speaker 3: and we ended up talking. And it's so crazy because

894
00:40:05,840 --> 00:40:08,319
Speaker 3: he brought that up to me. He felt like my

895
00:40:08,600 --> 00:40:12,399
Speaker 3: energy was that I only wanted to have sex with him,

896
00:40:12,800 --> 00:40:14,799
Speaker 3: and that I was very sexual with him, and I

897
00:40:14,880 --> 00:40:18,319
Speaker 3: was like, what's crazy ist The two times we talked

898
00:40:18,320 --> 00:40:21,560
Speaker 3: about kids, his upbringing, where he's from, we didn't even

899
00:40:21,640 --> 00:40:24,600
Speaker 3: talk about sex, and I was like, yo, like I didn't.

900
00:40:24,840 --> 00:40:26,400
Speaker 1: I literally said, how did you get that?

901
00:40:27,280 --> 00:40:27,640
Speaker 4: Do you know?

902
00:40:27,719 --> 00:40:29,920
Speaker 3: He said, because when we talked, I would be like this,

903
00:40:30,080 --> 00:40:32,920
Speaker 3: and I was attentive and I would laugh it and

904
00:40:32,920 --> 00:40:35,279
Speaker 3: and he literally was like, because you're in it. You

905
00:40:35,360 --> 00:40:38,440
Speaker 3: were so into the conversation. I felt like you just

906
00:40:38,440 --> 00:40:40,440
Speaker 3: wanted to fuck me. And I was like, no, I

907
00:40:40,560 --> 00:40:43,920
Speaker 3: was really enjoying our conversation. And we literally had this

908
00:40:43,960 --> 00:40:47,120
Speaker 3: conversation and I was like, Yo, that's crazy because I

909
00:40:47,200 --> 00:40:49,760
Speaker 3: was listening to you and attentive and looking in your eyes,

910
00:40:50,080 --> 00:40:51,040
Speaker 3: but all I wanted to do.

911
00:40:51,000 --> 00:40:51,880
Speaker 1: Is eat your ass.

912
00:40:51,960 --> 00:40:54,719
Speaker 2: Let me tell you crazy, I really powerful people like

913
00:40:54,840 --> 00:40:56,719
Speaker 2: each other and eyes. Yes, Oh it made him. It

914
00:40:56,760 --> 00:40:58,640
Speaker 2: made him feel like he was a piece of meat.

915
00:40:58,640 --> 00:41:02,480
Speaker 2: And I was like, but I we didn't even talk. Bro,

916
00:41:03,440 --> 00:41:07,000
Speaker 2: you're not looking at us more, look like this.

917
00:41:08,320 --> 00:41:11,520
Speaker 4: Yeah, man, I guess you know. Let me just y.

918
00:41:12,040 --> 00:41:15,600
Speaker 2: Wow, honestly eye contact. So we did this thing we

919
00:41:15,640 --> 00:41:18,680
Speaker 2: tried not to talk for. We said we were gonna

920
00:41:18,680 --> 00:41:20,320
Speaker 2: do it for four hours, right, but we were on vacation,

921
00:41:20,360 --> 00:41:22,719
Speaker 2: so we're like, all right, we gotta break this. But

922
00:41:23,760 --> 00:41:26,680
Speaker 2: we were in Palm Springs at the hotel together just

923
00:41:26,760 --> 00:41:29,360
Speaker 2: eye contact. Bru said so much. I knew when he

924
00:41:29,480 --> 00:41:32,600
Speaker 2: was I was getting on his nerves just fucking around

925
00:41:32,600 --> 00:41:34,360
Speaker 2: with him. I knew when he was like wanted to

926
00:41:34,400 --> 00:41:36,160
Speaker 2: fuck me more. I knew when he looked at me, like,

927
00:41:36,440 --> 00:41:38,160
Speaker 2: oh my god, I love that. You actually know what

928
00:41:38,239 --> 00:41:40,480
Speaker 2: you're saying that. Do you remember one of our tips

929
00:41:40,480 --> 00:41:45,319
Speaker 2: we gave one time about I fucking technically, if you're

930
00:41:45,320 --> 00:41:50,440
Speaker 2: across the room, you keeping eyes with somebody long enough.

931
00:41:53,719 --> 00:41:55,239
Speaker 4: So you handle Can you handle that?

932
00:41:55,280 --> 00:41:55,440
Speaker 1: Though?

933
00:41:55,800 --> 00:41:58,360
Speaker 5: That is the only choosing signal I use that cont

934
00:41:58,400 --> 00:41:59,960
Speaker 5: really yeah, that's the main one.

935
00:42:00,480 --> 00:42:01,200
Speaker 1: So that's crazy.

936
00:42:01,200 --> 00:42:03,479
Speaker 3: But so if you're having a conversation with a woman

937
00:42:03,719 --> 00:42:05,480
Speaker 3: and she's looking at you in your eyes. Because now

938
00:42:05,520 --> 00:42:07,560
Speaker 3: this comes back to maybe why this nigga shouldn't want

939
00:42:07,600 --> 00:42:09,560
Speaker 3: to be so me talking to you in your eyes.

940
00:42:09,600 --> 00:42:11,839
Speaker 3: Say we're at a bar and I meet, we catch

941
00:42:11,880 --> 00:42:13,080
Speaker 3: eyes and I come and talk to you and I'm

942
00:42:13,120 --> 00:42:14,000
Speaker 3: looking at you in your eyes.

943
00:42:14,520 --> 00:42:17,000
Speaker 1: You you immediately think I want to suck your deck.

944
00:42:17,400 --> 00:42:20,760
Speaker 5: I ain't saying that, but it's but it's you maybe

945
00:42:20,800 --> 00:42:22,760
Speaker 5: affirming that you're interested in me. It's a choosing.

946
00:42:23,320 --> 00:42:23,920
Speaker 4: That's agreedlight.

947
00:42:24,520 --> 00:42:26,799
Speaker 5: That's always been my green light for women, always like

948
00:42:26,840 --> 00:42:28,840
Speaker 5: if you especially if you look over twice, oh she

949
00:42:28,880 --> 00:42:29,640
Speaker 5: want me? Oh my god?

950
00:42:29,719 --> 00:42:31,319
Speaker 4: Yeah, oh yeah, yeah that looks over.

951
00:42:32,360 --> 00:42:33,520
Speaker 1: Are you staring at a nigga? Yeah?

952
00:42:33,600 --> 00:42:33,719
Speaker 4: Man?

953
00:42:33,760 --> 00:42:38,279
Speaker 3: Maybe I like your shoes, nigga, calm down you. Maybe

954
00:42:38,320 --> 00:42:40,200
Speaker 3: I like your dreads and how you got this little

955
00:42:40,200 --> 00:42:41,520
Speaker 3: twisted thing tied up?

956
00:42:41,680 --> 00:42:41,879
Speaker 1: Bro?

957
00:42:42,000 --> 00:42:45,400
Speaker 2: I long recently and I have to walk up to

958
00:42:45,440 --> 00:42:47,680
Speaker 2: him and I know he thought all about them, and

959
00:42:47,719 --> 00:42:50,799
Speaker 2: I was like, I'm so sorry. Is it just me

960
00:42:51,160 --> 00:42:52,759
Speaker 2: or were you in insecure? He was like, yeah, it

961
00:42:52,800 --> 00:42:54,120
Speaker 2: was gros and two episodes.

962
00:42:54,480 --> 00:42:55,400
Speaker 4: That's hilarious.

963
00:42:55,640 --> 00:42:57,799
Speaker 1: I know he was like bitch, you ain't want to say, na,

964
00:42:58,120 --> 00:43:00,719
Speaker 1: that's are you that nig? Thank you?

965
00:43:00,880 --> 00:43:01,440
Speaker 4: I'm weak.

966
00:43:01,840 --> 00:43:04,640
Speaker 2: Well, let's get into the horrible decision and you know

967
00:43:04,719 --> 00:43:08,319
Speaker 2: what I actually can. It's gonna be outrageous role play

968
00:43:08,400 --> 00:43:11,120
Speaker 2: scenarios as well as I can still get to some

969
00:43:11,160 --> 00:43:15,960
Speaker 2: of these Halloween sex positions, baby, because if you and

970
00:43:16,040 --> 00:43:18,319
Speaker 2: your little outfit go ahead and pull that thing to

971
00:43:18,360 --> 00:43:20,360
Speaker 2: the side and get some you hear me, because I

972
00:43:20,360 --> 00:43:21,400
Speaker 2: know you're all gonna be looking.

973
00:43:21,200 --> 00:43:22,359
Speaker 1: Like, oh my Jesus peace.

974
00:43:23,040 --> 00:43:25,600
Speaker 3: So here's one, and let me know if you guys

975
00:43:25,640 --> 00:43:27,719
Speaker 3: are familiar with any of these as well. So this

976
00:43:27,760 --> 00:43:31,960
Speaker 3: one is called the witches broomstick. To feel this flying feeling,

977
00:43:32,400 --> 00:43:35,239
Speaker 3: one partner lies on their back flat on the bed

978
00:43:35,600 --> 00:43:39,319
Speaker 3: as the other partner faces and straddles them until they

979
00:43:39,400 --> 00:43:43,040
Speaker 3: feel penetration. With this move, you can move your hips

980
00:43:43,080 --> 00:43:46,120
Speaker 3: and circles side to side or up and down while

981
00:43:46,120 --> 00:43:47,600
Speaker 3: the broom guides you.

982
00:43:48,080 --> 00:43:50,040
Speaker 1: The broom. The broom is the dick bro.

983
00:43:50,520 --> 00:43:52,960
Speaker 2: Oh the come on, girl, I thought it was like

984
00:43:53,040 --> 00:43:53,720
Speaker 2: jail sacks.

985
00:43:53,960 --> 00:43:54,839
Speaker 4: Whoa, what's jill sick?

986
00:43:54,880 --> 00:43:58,759
Speaker 1: They say, that's what lesbians do these Wait, they use

987
00:43:58,800 --> 00:44:01,719
Speaker 1: the broom to do what sodom fuck each other like

988
00:44:01,719 --> 00:44:02,160
Speaker 1: a strap.

989
00:44:02,960 --> 00:44:04,040
Speaker 4: He was a broomstick.

990
00:44:04,760 --> 00:44:07,120
Speaker 1: Yeah wait wait wait.

991
00:44:12,400 --> 00:44:14,440
Speaker 2: And and y'all all have that reaction. But the bitch

992
00:44:14,480 --> 00:44:16,680
Speaker 2: fucking her side of the room is crazy. Do you

993
00:44:16,680 --> 00:44:19,480
Speaker 2: know they're making Michelin star meals in jail. That's crazy.

994
00:44:19,560 --> 00:44:21,400
Speaker 3: Now, this is what I feel like Weezy might do

995
00:44:21,440 --> 00:44:22,440
Speaker 3: because she'd be doing a lot.

996
00:44:22,480 --> 00:44:24,040
Speaker 4: But I don't know what if you can do it.

997
00:44:24,080 --> 00:44:29,120
Speaker 3: This one's called praculus, so sink your teeth in the

998
00:44:29,160 --> 00:44:33,200
Speaker 3: next move. It has the same positioning as missionary, but

999
00:44:33,280 --> 00:44:37,200
Speaker 3: a bit more biting and licking. Whoever may be in control,

1000
00:44:37,800 --> 00:44:43,200
Speaker 3: Wolf will start biting, We'll start biting and licking everywhere

1001
00:44:43,280 --> 00:44:46,560
Speaker 3: as though they can't get enough as they penetrate their partner.

1002
00:44:46,920 --> 00:44:50,240
Speaker 3: This will stimulate pleasure in every part of your body

1003
00:44:50,520 --> 00:44:53,279
Speaker 3: rather than just one, which is crazy. Because I've done this,

1004
00:44:53,480 --> 00:44:58,400
Speaker 3: I've like, especially like before giving head. I've like I

1005
00:44:58,480 --> 00:45:01,080
Speaker 3: like licking kneecaps, like biting, like.

1006
00:45:01,000 --> 00:45:07,680
Speaker 4: The inner thighs. Damn looking at when you might wait

1007
00:45:07,680 --> 00:45:09,040
Speaker 4: hold on? So I ask you a question, what do

1008
00:45:09,080 --> 00:45:11,719
Speaker 4: you be looking at when you'uing them? You keep your

1009
00:45:11,719 --> 00:45:12,480
Speaker 4: eyes closed, be.

1010
00:45:12,480 --> 00:45:12,840
Speaker 1: Looking at it?

1011
00:45:13,239 --> 00:45:14,439
Speaker 5: I think I do keep my eyes closed.

1012
00:45:14,480 --> 00:45:16,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, you're just watching her.

1013
00:45:16,520 --> 00:45:16,960
Speaker 4: I mean I do.

1014
00:45:17,000 --> 00:45:18,160
Speaker 5: I think it's a combination of both.

1015
00:45:18,960 --> 00:45:25,520
Speaker 1: The thig What time is it? Four? Four four? And

1016
00:45:25,680 --> 00:45:28,719
Speaker 1: I'll do the last one before we get a mother.

1017
00:45:29,760 --> 00:45:32,560
Speaker 1: I want to number be able to say, oh wow, look.

1018
00:45:32,440 --> 00:45:33,239
Speaker 4: At two three three.

1019
00:45:33,320 --> 00:45:37,840
Speaker 5: Numbers can be a lot, Numbers can be helpful.

1020
00:45:38,440 --> 00:45:41,080
Speaker 2: Numbers could be you you give a spiritual bitch of

1021
00:45:41,120 --> 00:45:42,120
Speaker 2: consecutive number.

1022
00:45:42,320 --> 00:45:45,279
Speaker 5: Listen, you're trying to stay in the game. Think about

1023
00:45:45,360 --> 00:45:46,799
Speaker 5: numbers and I'm gonna just throw that out there.

1024
00:45:46,800 --> 00:45:49,600
Speaker 1: Okay, so give the tip. Give this tip.

1025
00:45:49,800 --> 00:45:52,879
Speaker 2: Horrible the girl that we gave the tip, keep going.

1026
00:45:52,920 --> 00:45:53,200
Speaker 1: Tell me.

1027
00:45:53,239 --> 00:45:55,719
Speaker 3: I think about numbers in what way do you do

1028
00:45:55,840 --> 00:45:58,279
Speaker 3: like a boom back, like a like a boom like

1029
00:45:58,320 --> 00:46:00,120
Speaker 3: a one two three, both.

1030
00:46:00,080 --> 00:46:01,560
Speaker 4: Bay six once?

1031
00:46:01,680 --> 00:46:02,920
Speaker 5: I might actually do math?

1032
00:46:03,520 --> 00:46:08,240
Speaker 1: No, bro way, what math is you doing besides spreading

1033
00:46:08,280 --> 00:46:08,840
Speaker 1: and dividing?

1034
00:46:09,239 --> 00:46:12,400
Speaker 5: Specifically, I think about I think this is gonna sound crazy,

1035
00:46:12,440 --> 00:46:14,640
Speaker 5: but I think about stocks.

1036
00:46:15,960 --> 00:46:28,480
Speaker 4: You be thinking about ian when you fucking.

1037
00:46:25,160 --> 00:46:26,919
Speaker 5: No, no, no, I'm trying to stay in the game

1038
00:46:27,320 --> 00:46:29,520
Speaker 5: and I'm not ready yet. I start thinking about.

1039
00:46:34,760 --> 00:46:35,760
Speaker 1: What is what?

1040
00:46:36,239 --> 00:46:42,480
Speaker 3: No, no, no, do you think of mad and stocks and bullshit?

1041
00:46:43,000 --> 00:46:45,640
Speaker 3: To stop from coming without you, but you're able to

1042
00:46:45,640 --> 00:46:46,480
Speaker 3: still stay hard.

1043
00:46:47,480 --> 00:46:50,600
Speaker 1: Yeah. Interesting, Wait that makes you hard.

1044
00:46:51,160 --> 00:46:52,239
Speaker 5: No, it doesn't make me hard.

1045
00:46:54,200 --> 00:46:57,000
Speaker 1: Yes, completely completely, so he doesn't come.

1046
00:46:57,280 --> 00:46:59,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's what I mean, because that's interesting because that's

1047
00:46:59,640 --> 00:47:02,279
Speaker 3: such a boring topic. Like when I went to the

1048
00:47:02,360 --> 00:47:04,439
Speaker 3: to the dungeon with my ex and we were trying

1049
00:47:04,440 --> 00:47:07,160
Speaker 3: to get him in a chastity belt. We literally started

1050
00:47:07,160 --> 00:47:10,480
Speaker 3: talking politics to get him soft. So like the idea

1051
00:47:10,600 --> 00:47:14,160
Speaker 3: or thought of anything that's not sexual, I would assume, well.

1052
00:47:14,080 --> 00:47:16,880
Speaker 5: Or you got to consider the fact I'm still stroking,

1053
00:47:16,960 --> 00:47:19,279
Speaker 5: so I'm not getting soft because I'm being stimulated in

1054
00:47:19,280 --> 00:47:19,880
Speaker 5: the whole other.

1055
00:47:19,760 --> 00:47:25,359
Speaker 3: Way mentally, there's no way now I can't I want

1056
00:47:25,360 --> 00:47:27,720
Speaker 3: to fuck a guy who I know might be behind

1057
00:47:27,760 --> 00:47:29,560
Speaker 3: me fucking me thinking about goddamn.

1058
00:47:29,800 --> 00:47:31,520
Speaker 5: I'm not saying it happens every time, but I'm saying

1059
00:47:31,560 --> 00:47:34,200
Speaker 5: if i'm I'm in a space where I'm not ready yet,

1060
00:47:34,200 --> 00:47:35,960
Speaker 5: Like I'm not done, I'm not ready.

1061
00:47:36,320 --> 00:47:38,239
Speaker 1: So you're someone who can't get back up.

1062
00:47:38,280 --> 00:47:39,160
Speaker 4: You're a one and done.

1063
00:47:39,600 --> 00:47:41,759
Speaker 5: Most how are we getting this far?

1064
00:47:41,840 --> 00:47:41,880
Speaker 6: No?

1065
00:47:41,960 --> 00:47:44,200
Speaker 4: I never said how are we doing this?

1066
00:47:45,200 --> 00:47:46,279
Speaker 1: Okay, let's be clear.

1067
00:47:46,640 --> 00:47:49,239
Speaker 2: Most men have a fractory period that's longer than women. Right,

1068
00:47:49,280 --> 00:47:50,920
Speaker 2: So even when you come, like, it's still gonna take

1069
00:47:50,920 --> 00:47:52,799
Speaker 2: a moment to get back up. So coming is still

1070
00:47:52,800 --> 00:47:54,600
Speaker 2: a delay. Even if he could get back up in

1071
00:47:54,640 --> 00:47:55,320
Speaker 2: a minute.

1072
00:47:55,040 --> 00:47:55,560
Speaker 4: And a half.

1073
00:47:56,000 --> 00:47:58,279
Speaker 5: It really just depends because it depends on a lot

1074
00:47:58,320 --> 00:47:59,920
Speaker 5: of things. Like if a dude ain't really came in

1075
00:48:00,000 --> 00:48:02,560
Speaker 5: a while, he probably gonna get back up way faster. True,

1076
00:48:02,920 --> 00:48:04,600
Speaker 5: you get what I'm saying. So it just depends like

1077
00:48:04,640 --> 00:48:06,719
Speaker 5: if he ain't had sex in a long time and

1078
00:48:06,719 --> 00:48:09,359
Speaker 5: then he finally having sex, he probably gonna be good

1079
00:48:09,400 --> 00:48:10,880
Speaker 5: to go like way.

1080
00:48:10,640 --> 00:48:14,080
Speaker 4: Sooner maybe, like and men in the room like five

1081
00:48:14,080 --> 00:48:18,399
Speaker 4: minutes bad. I'm ready, that's pretty I'm feeling you. Oh yeah,

1082
00:48:18,520 --> 00:48:19,920
Speaker 4: stop jacking off. I'm right back up.

1083
00:48:20,239 --> 00:48:21,719
Speaker 3: Well, this is gonna be the last one before we

1084
00:48:21,760 --> 00:48:25,879
Speaker 3: get into these role playes. So so under arrest, of course,

1085
00:48:26,000 --> 00:48:28,560
Speaker 3: is another sex position you can get into for the holidays.

1086
00:48:29,080 --> 00:48:32,080
Speaker 2: What seems to be the problem, officer, So there's no

1087
00:48:32,120 --> 00:48:35,160
Speaker 2: problem with this move. The person receiving the warning.

1088
00:48:35,320 --> 00:48:38,359
Speaker 3: Bends over on the bed while the officer holds their

1089
00:48:38,440 --> 00:48:41,960
Speaker 3: risks firmly in place on their lower back. Once the

1090
00:48:42,040 --> 00:48:45,880
Speaker 3: receiving partner is in place, the giving partner penetrates from behind,

1091
00:48:46,280 --> 00:48:47,760
Speaker 3: restraining the risk from moving.

1092
00:48:48,800 --> 00:48:49,920
Speaker 1: Now I feel like I've done that.

1093
00:48:50,000 --> 00:48:52,880
Speaker 4: I think I have to doggy styles also.

1094
00:48:52,800 --> 00:48:55,000
Speaker 3: Doggy saw but not all the time do they bring

1095
00:48:55,040 --> 00:48:57,080
Speaker 3: your arms to your back. I don't mind the restraint.

1096
00:48:57,120 --> 00:48:58,960
Speaker 2: I do that almost every time I do dogs really,

1097
00:48:59,239 --> 00:49:00,879
Speaker 2: like on my own, I just put my hands back

1098
00:49:01,200 --> 00:49:02,920
Speaker 2: because I like the real I like this whole like

1099
00:49:03,040 --> 00:49:05,040
Speaker 2: rocking back and forth of the ground. So when when

1100
00:49:05,040 --> 00:49:08,080
Speaker 2: they're behind me, the only time my hands go behind

1101
00:49:08,120 --> 00:49:11,000
Speaker 2: me or normally to spread my cheeks because it allows

1102
00:49:11,040 --> 00:49:13,960
Speaker 2: them to get deeper, because you know, it pushes them away.

1103
00:49:13,840 --> 00:49:14,279
Speaker 4: A little bit.

1104
00:49:14,360 --> 00:49:16,600
Speaker 3: So I'll just only go back there and then I'm

1105
00:49:16,640 --> 00:49:18,960
Speaker 3: like head first and I'm black there, you know, and

1106
00:49:19,000 --> 00:49:21,760
Speaker 3: I'm just spreading my cheeks open so they could get deeper.

1107
00:49:21,880 --> 00:49:24,360
Speaker 4: But they like that.

1108
00:49:24,440 --> 00:49:27,440
Speaker 2: I don't think I really I don't really do the restraint,

1109
00:49:27,480 --> 00:49:29,959
Speaker 2: but I have like a trauma with like I feel

1110
00:49:29,960 --> 00:49:30,600
Speaker 2: like I'm classier.

1111
00:49:30,840 --> 00:49:33,600
Speaker 3: I need to be able to move like I've I've

1112
00:49:33,640 --> 00:49:37,360
Speaker 3: tried to do. Like the the ties. You know that

1113
00:49:37,360 --> 00:49:39,960
Speaker 3: that tie it goes under your mattress and then you're

1114
00:49:40,280 --> 00:49:40,840
Speaker 3: you're tied.

1115
00:49:41,360 --> 00:49:42,480
Speaker 2: Oh my god, like Valentine's.

1116
00:49:42,640 --> 00:49:45,799
Speaker 3: When I tell you I like, my anxiety kicks in.

1117
00:49:45,960 --> 00:49:49,600
Speaker 3: I realize I hate restraints in the bedroom. Maybe I've

1118
00:49:49,600 --> 00:49:58,000
Speaker 3: watched too much Lifetime Mavie. So, real quick, before we

1119
00:49:58,040 --> 00:50:01,439
Speaker 3: get out of here, let's go over some outrageous role

1120
00:50:01,600 --> 00:50:06,000
Speaker 3: plate scenarios. So I wanted to know real quick too.

1121
00:50:06,320 --> 00:50:09,440
Speaker 3: Have any of y'all in the room ever done something

1122
00:50:09,480 --> 00:50:13,800
Speaker 3: to where it wasn't the typical nurse and patient, teacher, student,

1123
00:50:14,320 --> 00:50:15,080
Speaker 3: doctor dah.

1124
00:50:15,000 --> 00:50:15,480
Speaker 4: Blah blah blah.

1125
00:50:15,520 --> 00:50:17,080
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I told you mine was sick.

1126
00:50:17,760 --> 00:50:19,440
Speaker 1: Oh you're Valentin's day one, right.

1127
00:50:19,680 --> 00:50:25,960
Speaker 2: No, So I basically when I got my braces, or

1128
00:50:26,040 --> 00:50:28,040
Speaker 2: it was when we were I don't know if you

1129
00:50:28,080 --> 00:50:29,680
Speaker 2: bought we were talking about, Oh, it was when I

1130
00:50:29,680 --> 00:50:32,320
Speaker 2: had embrace. Okay, we're talking about how I would have

1131
00:50:32,400 --> 00:50:35,200
Speaker 2: to learn how to kiss again, and then we did

1132
00:50:35,200 --> 00:50:37,520
Speaker 2: this weird It just jumped into it. It was not planned,

1133
00:50:37,560 --> 00:50:38,480
Speaker 2: and I was like, oh my god, I feel like

1134
00:50:38,480 --> 00:50:40,279
Speaker 2: I don't know how to kiss. And then he was like,

1135
00:50:40,280 --> 00:50:42,040
Speaker 2: oh my god, I feel like I'm in school. And

1136
00:50:42,080 --> 00:50:44,000
Speaker 2: so then he sat me down. Okay, y'all was in

1137
00:50:44,040 --> 00:50:45,000
Speaker 2: seventh grade. That's cute.

1138
00:50:45,080 --> 00:50:46,720
Speaker 1: He was like, Okay, open your mouth.

1139
00:50:46,760 --> 00:50:50,960
Speaker 2: I was like, girls nasty, and it was like, ooh,

1140
00:50:51,400 --> 00:50:52,960
Speaker 2: still girl, I the hole we was.

1141
00:50:53,640 --> 00:50:56,640
Speaker 3: It's crazy because I went down this Reddit thread of

1142
00:50:56,680 --> 00:50:59,480
Speaker 3: all of these outrageous things that people have actually played out,

1143
00:51:00,080 --> 00:51:05,120
Speaker 3: and we talked about it on September's town hall. It's

1144
00:51:05,200 --> 00:51:07,480
Speaker 3: so interesting, weasy, and we might have to find a

1145
00:51:07,480 --> 00:51:12,239
Speaker 3: way to really talk about it soon eventually, if we

1146
00:51:12,280 --> 00:51:13,600
Speaker 3: find a way to talk about it the right way.

1147
00:51:13,680 --> 00:51:14,400
Speaker 4: What how does.

1148
00:51:14,480 --> 00:51:16,080
Speaker 1: Worry what you gonna say? So too soon?

1149
00:51:16,200 --> 00:51:17,279
Speaker 4: So there's eventually.

1150
00:51:17,120 --> 00:51:22,360
Speaker 1: Much CNC role playing happening. Huh. CNC is consensual non consent,

1151
00:51:22,920 --> 00:51:23,960
Speaker 1: my jam.

1152
00:51:24,239 --> 00:51:25,640
Speaker 3: But I wanted to read some of these and I

1153
00:51:25,680 --> 00:51:28,279
Speaker 3: wanted for y'all to say if they're as weird as

1154
00:51:28,320 --> 00:51:31,440
Speaker 3: they sound. Of course, there's the old librarian and teacher one,

1155
00:51:31,640 --> 00:51:34,319
Speaker 3: but here's some other ones, and this one I really like.

1156
00:51:34,400 --> 00:51:38,000
Speaker 3: By the way, y'all know, I'm not fully into nerd shit,

1157
00:51:38,120 --> 00:51:40,200
Speaker 3: so correct me if I'm saying these wrongs. Sure, this

1158
00:51:40,239 --> 00:51:42,759
Speaker 3: one was one of the most interesting, based on even

1159
00:51:42,760 --> 00:51:47,279
Speaker 3: an upcoming order if we get so use fan fic

1160
00:51:47,520 --> 00:51:48,480
Speaker 3: for inspiration.

1161
00:51:49,520 --> 00:51:51,480
Speaker 1: One of the cliche quote.

1162
00:51:51,320 --> 00:51:54,239
Speaker 3: Unquote, most most out there fix I can think of

1163
00:51:54,320 --> 00:51:58,840
Speaker 3: as one from Harry Potter. So this is where Neville

1164
00:51:59,400 --> 00:52:02,160
Speaker 3: falls in the lake and ends up getting felt up

1165
00:52:02,200 --> 00:52:06,520
Speaker 3: and penetrated anally and orally by a squid. He ends

1166
00:52:06,600 --> 00:52:09,840
Speaker 3: up enjoying it that when he gets over, he he

1167
00:52:10,360 --> 00:52:13,400
Speaker 3: when he gets done with it and pulled out by Blaze.

1168
00:52:13,560 --> 00:52:14,560
Speaker 1: Vinny is that the name?

1169
00:52:15,040 --> 00:52:17,480
Speaker 4: Yeah, I know Neville, I don't know, Okay, Neville.

1170
00:52:17,160 --> 00:52:18,040
Speaker 1: You know Blaize Vinny?

1171
00:52:18,520 --> 00:52:22,279
Speaker 3: Uh So Neville asked Blaze not to tell anyone, and

1172
00:52:22,320 --> 00:52:25,040
Speaker 3: Blaze is like, why would I let the seeker get

1173
00:52:25,040 --> 00:52:28,160
Speaker 3: out before jumping in himself to get it on with

1174
00:52:28,239 --> 00:52:31,680
Speaker 3: the squid? So basically, so basically, how you would do

1175
00:52:31,719 --> 00:52:35,000
Speaker 3: it is imagine that you are one of Hogwarts students

1176
00:52:35,360 --> 00:52:38,960
Speaker 3: and the other one is a squid or tentacle stuff.

1177
00:52:39,000 --> 00:52:42,040
Speaker 3: In general, there's technical like sex toys that you can get.

1178
00:52:42,280 --> 00:52:44,080
Speaker 3: Look up tentacle porn for many ideas.

1179
00:52:44,120 --> 00:52:45,640
Speaker 1: This is how many times are you gonna say this?

1180
00:52:45,760 --> 00:52:48,560
Speaker 3: But clearly this is what I felt seen when I

1181
00:52:48,560 --> 00:52:50,960
Speaker 3: read this. This is calm down. I might just be

1182
00:52:51,000 --> 00:52:52,919
Speaker 3: at a tonical porn right now, leave me alone. Okay,

1183
00:52:53,040 --> 00:52:54,359
Speaker 3: then you need to start dating white man.

1184
00:52:54,600 --> 00:52:55,680
Speaker 4: No, I feel like.

1185
00:52:55,719 --> 00:52:57,439
Speaker 2: I could get a black man to do tentacle porn

1186
00:52:57,480 --> 00:52:58,400
Speaker 2: with me.

1187
00:52:58,920 --> 00:52:59,600
Speaker 1: But now, what do you.

1188
00:53:03,640 --> 00:53:03,799
Speaker 6: Mean?

1189
00:53:04,040 --> 00:53:05,239
Speaker 1: We just don't do that.

1190
00:53:05,600 --> 00:53:07,600
Speaker 3: Don't blake gripping black because I don't want people to

1191
00:53:07,600 --> 00:53:08,840
Speaker 3: say Mandy and Wheezy black.

1192
00:53:09,400 --> 00:53:11,239
Speaker 4: Oh they definitely should that.

1193
00:53:11,320 --> 00:53:12,640
Speaker 1: It's crazy because for.

1194
00:53:12,600 --> 00:53:15,000
Speaker 2: Example, you could be Mandy and Whezy mixed, or you

1195
00:53:15,000 --> 00:53:16,160
Speaker 2: could be Obama mixed.

1196
00:53:16,320 --> 00:53:18,960
Speaker 1: Don't do that. We are Obama. How are we not

1197
00:53:19,000 --> 00:53:19,640
Speaker 1: Obama mix?

1198
00:53:20,160 --> 00:53:22,279
Speaker 4: We are you know what I'm saying, No, no, no, no,

1199
00:53:22,600 --> 00:53:23,320
Speaker 4: you know what.

1200
00:53:22,880 --> 00:53:25,960
Speaker 2: I don't know what you're saying.

1201
00:53:26,040 --> 00:53:28,280
Speaker 1: No no no no no no mixed?

1202
00:53:28,400 --> 00:53:30,640
Speaker 4: Right you what's Obama?

1203
00:53:30,960 --> 00:53:32,839
Speaker 1: You mix?

1204
00:53:32,960 --> 00:53:37,320
Speaker 2: Or you could be making Margle mixed. Technically, Megan Markle

1205
00:53:37,680 --> 00:53:39,839
Speaker 2: doesn't even claim.

1206
00:53:39,600 --> 00:53:40,600
Speaker 4: All of the black.

1207
00:53:41,960 --> 00:53:44,439
Speaker 1: Claiming I'm talking about. We look at big umens level.

1208
00:53:45,760 --> 00:53:47,520
Speaker 1: When I go up to dykeman, they know a bitch black.

1209
00:53:48,520 --> 00:53:49,279
Speaker 4: I know I'm not.

1210
00:53:51,160 --> 00:53:51,840
Speaker 1: No a dykeman.

1211
00:53:51,960 --> 00:53:57,799
Speaker 3: They don't mistake me is spamic Wow, Wow, it's what

1212
00:53:59,120 --> 00:54:01,439
Speaker 3: that's crazy And we're not gonna do this right now.

1213
00:54:02,320 --> 00:54:06,200
Speaker 3: I think we literally destigmatize cakes in the black community.

1214
00:54:06,480 --> 00:54:09,160
Speaker 3: There is a black man that will allow me to

1215
00:54:09,320 --> 00:54:10,239
Speaker 3: enjoy tentacle porn.

1216
00:54:10,560 --> 00:54:16,000
Speaker 2: Pegging's fine, This is too far. That is sure, fuck

1217
00:54:16,040 --> 00:54:17,120
Speaker 2: him in the ass of the tentacle.

1218
00:54:17,239 --> 00:54:18,080
Speaker 1: He's Steve tripping.

1219
00:54:20,440 --> 00:54:22,439
Speaker 3: So you think if I pull out my dil doos,

1220
00:54:22,440 --> 00:54:24,440
Speaker 3: because you know, I like to be I like to

1221
00:54:24,560 --> 00:54:26,840
Speaker 3: role play like I'm having a gang bang with dildos.

1222
00:54:27,160 --> 00:54:29,640
Speaker 3: If I pull out one dial dough in a tentacle,

1223
00:54:30,040 --> 00:54:31,600
Speaker 3: it's gonna mess up the mood.

1224
00:54:31,680 --> 00:54:33,080
Speaker 2: I want to go back to a man who said

1225
00:54:33,120 --> 00:54:36,040
Speaker 2: me having a sensual threesome with too much No, no, no no.

1226
00:54:36,120 --> 00:54:39,160
Speaker 2: If you pull this out, yes, you're gonna judge me. Okay,

1227
00:54:39,160 --> 00:54:40,120
Speaker 2: what if it ain't purple?

1228
00:54:40,400 --> 00:54:40,600
Speaker 1: Them?

1229
00:54:40,680 --> 00:54:43,880
Speaker 2: Look at them look like OCTOPI.

1230
00:54:43,200 --> 00:54:45,040
Speaker 4: That's what But that's what it is. That's what I'm hing.

1231
00:54:45,040 --> 00:54:45,520
Speaker 4: It looks like too.

1232
00:54:46,160 --> 00:54:47,800
Speaker 1: What about the ones that look moro alien like?

1233
00:54:48,719 --> 00:54:50,400
Speaker 4: Yeah, that looks pretty crazy.

1234
00:54:50,920 --> 00:54:53,160
Speaker 2: It has a little things on it, the pop things.

1235
00:54:55,440 --> 00:54:58,080
Speaker 3: It might feel good, that's ridges in my pussy. It

1236
00:54:59,280 --> 00:55:01,800
Speaker 3: might be good it for me to feel it inside.

1237
00:55:01,800 --> 00:55:07,080
Speaker 2: It'll give me a different sensation than a regular Okay.

1238
00:55:06,880 --> 00:55:11,279
Speaker 3: Next one, This is where again CNC was brought up.

1239
00:55:12,440 --> 00:55:15,920
Speaker 3: This is where he brought up so rich, petulant housewife

1240
00:55:15,920 --> 00:55:19,640
Speaker 3: who keeps calling her private position for house calls for

1241
00:55:19,760 --> 00:55:22,799
Speaker 3: a bogus illness where she really just wants to fuck

1242
00:55:22,880 --> 00:55:26,239
Speaker 3: but he doesn't, but somehow she always wears him down.

1243
00:55:26,840 --> 00:55:28,960
Speaker 3: Another one, if you're in de bond in your CNC,

1244
00:55:29,600 --> 00:55:32,600
Speaker 3: this is where I don't know, maybe trigger warning. You

1245
00:55:32,640 --> 00:55:34,600
Speaker 3: can tie her up and then pretend that you're a

1246
00:55:34,680 --> 00:55:38,120
Speaker 3: leader of a sex trafficking ring and you want and

1247
00:55:38,120 --> 00:55:41,640
Speaker 3: and you need slash, want to test her out before

1248
00:55:41,640 --> 00:55:42,160
Speaker 3: you see.

1249
00:55:43,960 --> 00:55:44,640
Speaker 1: One.

1250
00:55:46,920 --> 00:55:49,560
Speaker 3: Now I'm judging you, bitch, So you want to be

1251
00:55:49,600 --> 00:55:51,480
Speaker 3: a test on me before you get sex traffic.

1252
00:55:53,640 --> 00:56:00,320
Speaker 2: Oh my god, Jesus, Jesus, I'm here.

1253
00:56:00,000 --> 00:56:03,000
Speaker 1: Here's the similar idea for you guys.

1254
00:56:03,000 --> 00:56:07,439
Speaker 3: If you're into fan fiction, you're a warrior back from

1255
00:56:07,480 --> 00:56:11,120
Speaker 3: battle and she's your prize from war. She has to

1256
00:56:11,160 --> 00:56:15,000
Speaker 3: do whatever you say or be killed. I personally like

1257
00:56:15,040 --> 00:56:20,600
Speaker 3: to imagine call Drago for this one. Crazy okay, And

1258
00:56:20,680 --> 00:56:22,920
Speaker 3: someone said, you can tell we're into C and C.

1259
00:56:23,120 --> 00:56:26,239
Speaker 3: Another idea is you're a stalker. You break into her

1260
00:56:26,239 --> 00:56:28,280
Speaker 3: house in the middle of the night while her husband

1261
00:56:28,320 --> 00:56:30,520
Speaker 3: is out of town on business. You threaten to kill

1262
00:56:30,560 --> 00:56:33,080
Speaker 3: the kids. If she's not quiet and does what you ask,

1263
00:56:33,520 --> 00:56:35,320
Speaker 3: joke's on you. She's into the ship and focks you,

1264
00:56:35,440 --> 00:56:39,200
Speaker 3: right back now.

1265
00:56:39,239 --> 00:56:40,279
Speaker 1: This is a nasty one.

1266
00:56:40,400 --> 00:56:42,399
Speaker 3: Before we get out of here, and I was like, wow,

1267
00:56:42,400 --> 00:56:45,920
Speaker 3: this one's kind of crazy. This one's a fantasy that

1268
00:56:46,000 --> 00:56:49,200
Speaker 3: he wants to do but hasn't. But oh wait, no,

1269
00:56:49,239 --> 00:56:52,120
Speaker 3: I'm lying. This is a fantasy. Oh yeah, and a

1270
00:56:52,160 --> 00:56:53,560
Speaker 3: fantasy he won't admit to having.

1271
00:56:54,400 --> 00:56:55,360
Speaker 1: I'm lying. It's a girl.

1272
00:56:55,920 --> 00:56:59,600
Speaker 3: My husband and I are driving and I have to pee,

1273
00:56:59,800 --> 00:57:02,200
Speaker 3: but he won't stop and tells me to hold it.

1274
00:57:02,800 --> 00:57:06,160
Speaker 3: My squirming turns him on and he pets my pissy

1275
00:57:06,200 --> 00:57:06,880
Speaker 3: and teases me.

1276
00:57:07,560 --> 00:57:10,440
Speaker 2: I swear I'll piss all in his truck, so he

1277
00:57:10,520 --> 00:57:13,359
Speaker 2: pulls over but pushes me down in the weeds and

1278
00:57:13,400 --> 00:57:16,760
Speaker 2: tickles me until I piss my pants. Then he pisses

1279
00:57:16,800 --> 00:57:19,800
Speaker 2: all over me too, Then he bucks me. It makes

1280
00:57:19,800 --> 00:57:22,560
Speaker 2: me get dressed in my bra and pissy panties for

1281
00:57:22,680 --> 00:57:26,440
Speaker 2: the ride back home, half naked and miserable, which comes

1282
00:57:26,440 --> 00:57:27,840
Speaker 2: still leaking out of my slit.

1283
00:57:28,000 --> 00:57:31,200
Speaker 1: I think the octopus is worse. I don't like that?

1284
00:57:31,320 --> 00:57:33,400
Speaker 4: Is it because I want this? This is making the

1285
00:57:33,440 --> 00:57:34,400
Speaker 4: octopus a little better.

1286
00:57:34,440 --> 00:57:39,320
Speaker 3: Wait her sitting in piss filled clothes and being pushed

1287
00:57:39,320 --> 00:57:42,440
Speaker 3: into the weeds and bucked and pissed on is less

1288
00:57:42,480 --> 00:57:43,800
Speaker 3: than my tentacle dildo.

1289
00:57:44,400 --> 00:57:47,040
Speaker 4: Teach me no, see that. I think this is where

1290
00:57:47,080 --> 00:57:51,480
Speaker 4: we different because p I'm like, whoa.

1291
00:57:49,880 --> 00:57:51,840
Speaker 1: Wait, but do you think the tentacle dildo?

1292
00:57:51,960 --> 00:57:54,480
Speaker 4: That whole sequence you just described sounding way worse than t.

1293
00:57:54,880 --> 00:57:56,440
Speaker 2: That's what I think we see. I think it's just

1294
00:57:56,480 --> 00:57:58,120
Speaker 2: trying to judge me. I swear to god, I really

1295
00:57:58,160 --> 00:57:59,440
Speaker 2: I said, you're gonna have to fo o oh.

1296
00:57:59,480 --> 00:58:00,560
Speaker 4: I was definitely right.

1297
00:58:00,600 --> 00:58:02,000
Speaker 1: Okay, what was the worst one she named?

1298
00:58:02,120 --> 00:58:02,360
Speaker 4: Baby?

1299
00:58:02,560 --> 00:58:04,640
Speaker 1: You just might be sex trapped? You literally just made

1300
00:58:04,640 --> 00:58:10,480
Speaker 1: it actually playing it. Let me get you have to

1301
00:58:10,760 --> 00:58:13,400
Speaker 1: me before I all these other people. That was crazy.

1302
00:58:13,560 --> 00:58:15,720
Speaker 4: I just say, I've never done role playing in any sense.

1303
00:58:16,920 --> 00:58:19,560
Speaker 1: Whoa, it's so weird. Wait, y'all have never done role playing.

1304
00:58:20,720 --> 00:58:22,520
Speaker 4: It's not like it was like I just never thought

1305
00:58:22,520 --> 00:58:22,880
Speaker 4: about it.

1306
00:58:22,920 --> 00:58:24,000
Speaker 2: You know. You know what we did the other day

1307
00:58:24,040 --> 00:58:26,960
Speaker 2: and it was mad funny. I was swiping bitches on

1308
00:58:26,960 --> 00:58:30,120
Speaker 2: this app and he was sleeping and he woke up

1309
00:58:30,160 --> 00:58:31,160
Speaker 2: and he was like, what did you do it? Because

1310
00:58:31,200 --> 00:58:33,160
Speaker 2: I moved the phone. I was like, y'all, feel like

1311
00:58:33,200 --> 00:58:35,920
Speaker 2: I just cheated, and he's laughing. It was like, actually,

1312
00:58:36,240 --> 00:58:38,880
Speaker 2: the bitches of this app so he was like, show me.

1313
00:58:39,320 --> 00:58:40,920
Speaker 2: So I'm showing him the girls that matched us, and

1314
00:58:40,920 --> 00:58:41,600
Speaker 2: he started sucking me.

1315
00:58:41,680 --> 00:58:43,080
Speaker 1: I was looking. He was like, right her back. We

1316
00:58:43,080 --> 00:58:45,560
Speaker 1: were fucking, and I was like, that's how you freeing

1317
00:58:45,600 --> 00:58:47,880
Speaker 1: this again? But literally he woke up at two am.

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Speaker 1: I just couldn't sleep.

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Speaker 3: I'm not mad at that I've done. I've done. I've

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00:58:53,240 --> 00:58:56,320
Speaker 3: done the like we met at the bar thing I've done.

1321
00:58:56,520 --> 00:58:59,400
Speaker 3: I've done quite a bit of consensual non consent as well.

1322
00:58:59,720 --> 00:59:01,240
Speaker 1: But oh so I'm the problem.

1323
00:59:01,360 --> 00:59:05,480
Speaker 2: No, no, Nora, I've never done a sex drafficking one,

1324
00:59:05,960 --> 00:59:09,120
Speaker 2: but like I would do like the I'm a teenage

1325
00:59:09,120 --> 00:59:15,440
Speaker 2: girl at a party and drink too much. Oh my lord,

1326
00:59:15,840 --> 00:59:19,680
Speaker 2: please stop it, stop it trigger warning.

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00:59:20,040 --> 00:59:23,400
Speaker 1: I'm just what but I asked for it. We don't

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00:59:23,400 --> 00:59:23,640
Speaker 1: do that.

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00:59:23,680 --> 00:59:23,960
Speaker 4: I don't.

1330
00:59:24,160 --> 00:59:25,520
Speaker 1: You were being really judging rate?

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00:59:26,680 --> 00:59:29,720
Speaker 4: Damn she be to him have.

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00:59:29,720 --> 00:59:38,760
Speaker 2: A how she you know what? Well now junior senior year,

1333
00:59:39,240 --> 00:59:40,680
Speaker 2: you know what?

1334
00:59:42,000 --> 00:59:42,400
Speaker 5: Go off?

1335
00:59:44,240 --> 00:59:46,880
Speaker 2: Hey we have the sex podcast. Only I could judge

1336
00:59:46,920 --> 00:59:47,320
Speaker 2: this bitch.

1337
00:59:47,600 --> 00:59:50,720
Speaker 1: That is crazy. So stop. You're disgusting anyway, And you

1338
00:59:50,720 --> 00:59:53,200
Speaker 1: don't know what Dollar Vanilla talking about, y'all. He never

1339
00:59:53,280 --> 00:59:53,960
Speaker 1: role play with y'all.

1340
00:59:54,000 --> 00:59:56,080
Speaker 4: Old as never thought I don't even know where to start.

1341
00:59:56,680 --> 00:59:59,880
Speaker 1: Honestly, we were literally I do, like I know, I do.

1342
00:59:59,880 --> 01:00:02,640
Speaker 4: Like the meeting like my significant other at a bar

1343
01:00:02,800 --> 01:00:03,160
Speaker 4: kind of thing.

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01:00:03,200 --> 01:00:03,720
Speaker 1: That's okay.

1345
01:00:03,720 --> 01:00:06,880
Speaker 2: I say this role playing just for example, like it's

1346
01:00:06,960 --> 01:00:08,840
Speaker 2: not always black and white. When I was like younger,

1347
01:00:08,840 --> 01:00:10,320
Speaker 2: I used to think role playing was I'm a nurse,

1348
01:00:10,360 --> 01:00:12,800
Speaker 2: you're a doctor with stress up. Sometimes we're in the

1349
01:00:12,800 --> 01:00:14,800
Speaker 2: middle of sex and we just start talking about some ship.

1350
01:00:15,360 --> 01:00:15,720
Speaker 1: Mm hmm.

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01:00:16,520 --> 01:00:19,000
Speaker 2: But that because role playing, though, yeah, because like the

1352
01:00:19,040 --> 01:00:20,120
Speaker 2: voice is changing.

1353
01:00:19,880 --> 01:00:22,600
Speaker 4: Like oh different, no no, no, no, no no no.

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01:00:22,880 --> 01:00:29,400
Speaker 2: I for example, what's the name missed the glasses? Who

1355
01:00:29,560 --> 01:00:31,960
Speaker 2: nigga with all the person I'm you know, like for

1356
01:00:32,000 --> 01:00:35,040
Speaker 2: example this, let's just say we went out for drinks,

1357
01:00:35,320 --> 01:00:38,800
Speaker 2: regular date night, regular home, We start sucking, and then

1358
01:00:38,880 --> 01:00:41,479
Speaker 2: he might just say some ship like I can't believe

1359
01:00:41,520 --> 01:00:43,960
Speaker 2: you let me fuck you before your boyfriend came home, and.

1360
01:00:43,920 --> 01:00:47,120
Speaker 1: Then you just start going it's very much.

1361
01:00:47,360 --> 01:00:50,520
Speaker 3: And oh and see, okay, you're you're starting a scene

1362
01:00:50,520 --> 01:00:52,960
Speaker 3: in the middle already fucking Okay.

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01:00:53,000 --> 01:00:56,520
Speaker 1: I'm not sad at that. I mean, well, well, technically

1364
01:00:56,560 --> 01:00:58,360
Speaker 1: I've done that, Like I do that a lot.

1365
01:00:58,520 --> 01:00:59,360
Speaker 4: I mean, I've done that.

1366
01:00:59,360 --> 01:01:03,800
Speaker 2: Again where we we role play with the other dildos.

1367
01:01:04,160 --> 01:01:06,200
Speaker 3: Because maybe he's tired and I'm still like I want

1368
01:01:06,200 --> 01:01:08,360
Speaker 3: to keep fucking. So he brings in these. He's like, well,

1369
01:01:08,400 --> 01:01:08,919
Speaker 3: I need a break.

1370
01:01:09,320 --> 01:01:12,440
Speaker 2: Watching something he said during your closure talk is so crazy.

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01:01:12,520 --> 01:01:16,680
Speaker 4: I know, I know you're now do you have a tentacle?

1372
01:01:17,360 --> 01:01:19,000
Speaker 4: You said, what you have a tentacle dildo?

1373
01:01:19,000 --> 01:01:21,640
Speaker 1: I don't have a textic. I've been looking. I mean,

1374
01:01:21,680 --> 01:01:22,880
Speaker 1: I've been looking them up.

1375
01:01:23,120 --> 01:01:25,360
Speaker 3: I told you, I mean, y'all hear in another episode,

1376
01:01:25,400 --> 01:01:27,920
Speaker 3: like the egg laying ones. There's also some that are

1377
01:01:27,960 --> 01:01:29,880
Speaker 3: like the size of my four Like there's some that

1378
01:01:29,920 --> 01:01:32,960
Speaker 3: are like really big. So I ended up on like

1379
01:01:33,000 --> 01:01:36,280
Speaker 3: this video where this woman was getting gaped by a

1380
01:01:36,360 --> 01:01:40,360
Speaker 3: tentacle dido, Like they're massive. So I'm like, and then

1381
01:01:40,480 --> 01:01:42,720
Speaker 3: you know, they're different shapes. Some of them have points,

1382
01:01:42,760 --> 01:01:44,960
Speaker 3: some of them are thicker at the base. And I

1383
01:01:45,000 --> 01:01:46,520
Speaker 3: just don't know what type of tentacle I want to

1384
01:01:46,520 --> 01:01:48,400
Speaker 3: be sucked by. Just let me just say, I don't

1385
01:01:48,440 --> 01:01:49,320
Speaker 3: like I don't like the side.

1386
01:01:49,320 --> 01:01:54,360
Speaker 2: But right now, buddy, this show December third, someone's bringing

1387
01:01:54,400 --> 01:01:55,160
Speaker 2: your technical day.

1388
01:01:55,640 --> 01:01:59,320
Speaker 1: You might get a few people have brought me books. People,

1389
01:01:59,600 --> 01:02:00,400
Speaker 1: I don't do that.

1390
01:02:00,440 --> 01:02:01,960
Speaker 3: I got books too. Don't make it seem like you

1391
01:02:02,040 --> 01:02:07,400
Speaker 3: just get books. I'm about get tentacle. Don't try to No, no,

1392
01:02:07,720 --> 01:02:10,640
Speaker 3: I've got We both have gotten drugs with that one bitch.

1393
01:02:10,680 --> 01:02:14,400
Speaker 1: You drugged me in Detroit. Whoa you got drugged in Detroit? Bro,

1394
01:02:14,520 --> 01:02:16,600
Speaker 1: you don't remember. She brought me that popcorn and I

1395
01:02:16,640 --> 01:02:18,160
Speaker 1: was fucked up and I was like, I don't know

1396
01:02:18,160 --> 01:02:21,280
Speaker 1: if I can make this like, yeah, maybe I should

1397
01:02:21,280 --> 01:02:22,360
Speaker 1: have ate it edible hungry.

1398
01:02:22,400 --> 01:02:25,160
Speaker 2: First off, we gotta stop just accepting drugs from some

1399
01:02:25,240 --> 01:02:25,720
Speaker 2: of these people.

1400
01:02:25,720 --> 01:02:27,600
Speaker 1: Could be the haters on you. No, no, no, but

1401
01:02:27,800 --> 01:02:29,680
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. They could be wanting us.

1402
01:02:29,680 --> 01:02:33,160
Speaker 2: They could want to take us the funk out from nobody.

1403
01:02:33,160 --> 01:02:33,440
Speaker 4: No more.

1404
01:02:33,680 --> 01:02:35,560
Speaker 2: I ain't gonna hold you. After I see all these comments.

1405
01:02:35,760 --> 01:02:37,880
Speaker 2: Niggas could be wanting us gone. They think that we

1406
01:02:37,920 --> 01:02:41,120
Speaker 2: are ruined at society and culture, bitch. They literally think

1407
01:02:41,160 --> 01:02:43,240
Speaker 2: that we are the reason there's holes out. You know,

1408
01:02:43,320 --> 01:02:45,280
Speaker 2: I never thought when bitches be bringing me stuff they'd

1409
01:02:45,320 --> 01:02:46,480
Speaker 2: be like, there's no eggs in it.

1410
01:02:46,720 --> 01:02:47,919
Speaker 1: It's their mind, be bitch.

1411
01:02:48,800 --> 01:02:49,400
Speaker 2: You know what I mean?

1412
01:02:49,880 --> 01:02:52,000
Speaker 4: No, but they know I like it. Don't matter.

1413
01:02:52,040 --> 01:02:52,720
Speaker 1: You can't fight if you.

1414
01:02:52,800 --> 01:02:57,040
Speaker 2: In the hospital, bitch, I'm coming back to see another day.

1415
01:02:57,960 --> 01:02:58,760
Speaker 1: And it does be fear.

1416
01:02:58,840 --> 01:03:01,280
Speaker 3: We sometimes don't have picked or even know if they

1417
01:03:01,280 --> 01:03:03,120
Speaker 3: don't put their Instagram name on our gifts.

1418
01:03:03,120 --> 01:03:04,920
Speaker 1: Sometimes we know it gives a popcorn.

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01:03:05,120 --> 01:03:07,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, I keep calling you, bitch. I don't care that

1420
01:03:08,080 --> 01:03:10,400
Speaker 2: brought that popcord. Mandy I was on I'm not gonna lie.

1421
01:03:10,400 --> 01:03:14,240
Speaker 2: That shows how and it shows how much we didn't

1422
01:03:14,320 --> 01:03:17,760
Speaker 2: view ourselves a celebrities because we were taking drugs, cakes meals.

1423
01:03:17,840 --> 01:03:18,600
Speaker 1: That was last year.

1424
01:03:18,840 --> 01:03:23,880
Speaker 2: Oh, COVID, didn't scare your ass. You about to be

1425
01:03:24,200 --> 01:03:27,400
Speaker 2: Agent zero. I did not eat that guy. Damn park Work.

1426
01:03:27,440 --> 01:03:28,680
Speaker 2: I told you I can't do edibles.

1427
01:03:29,000 --> 01:03:29,360
Speaker 1: The worst.

1428
01:03:30,400 --> 01:03:32,800
Speaker 2: We had a show the night of a Taylor Swift show,

1429
01:03:33,160 --> 01:03:35,000
Speaker 2: so we had to stay in this really shitty hotel.

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01:03:35,160 --> 01:03:37,720
Speaker 1: That's right. It wasn't that shitty, was it?

1431
01:03:37,800 --> 01:03:38,360
Speaker 4: Oh? It was.

1432
01:03:38,400 --> 01:03:41,480
Speaker 2: That was a bad carpet. The fan was attached to

1433
01:03:41,520 --> 01:03:45,720
Speaker 2: the wall, and I was just like, well, don't do that.

1434
01:03:45,800 --> 01:03:47,520
Speaker 2: I was already in the sheet on my clothes, like

1435
01:03:48,480 --> 01:03:49,240
Speaker 2: you know, like the.

1436
01:03:49,720 --> 01:03:51,240
Speaker 4: High in a bad hotel.

1437
01:03:52,480 --> 01:03:57,280
Speaker 1: I got a plane. Wasn't was that Detroit or Chicago.

1438
01:03:57,880 --> 01:04:00,240
Speaker 1: Was that Detroit Orchago? It wasn't it Taylor Swift. It

1439
01:04:00,280 --> 01:04:02,680
Speaker 1: was the first. It was the first, trust me, I remember,

1440
01:04:02,800 --> 01:04:06,240
Speaker 1: oh I remember, oh yeah, that was I was like

1441
01:04:06,720 --> 01:04:08,280
Speaker 1: our group chat with Mandy and Vinnie, and I was like,

1442
01:04:08,320 --> 01:04:08,960
Speaker 1: I don't know.

1443
01:04:08,840 --> 01:04:11,160
Speaker 2: Maybe we had no other We had no other options.

1444
01:04:11,200 --> 01:04:13,280
Speaker 2: All the hotels were gone because Tylor Swift was in town.

1445
01:04:13,480 --> 01:04:15,400
Speaker 1: That's right. We didn't even stay close to the venue.

1446
01:04:15,560 --> 01:04:17,680
Speaker 3: We was like thirty minutes out from the venue and

1447
01:04:17,720 --> 01:04:19,280
Speaker 3: we normally like to stay kind of closed.

1448
01:04:20,160 --> 01:04:21,400
Speaker 1: It was ghetto.

1449
01:04:22,080 --> 01:04:25,200
Speaker 2: I was shaking, I was googling hot like shitting it out.

1450
01:04:25,240 --> 01:04:28,120
Speaker 2: I was trying everything, two pieces of popcorn.

1451
01:04:28,520 --> 01:04:32,360
Speaker 4: And then she was like, again, she did not tell

1452
01:04:32,400 --> 01:04:33,440
Speaker 4: you this was it was too.

1453
01:04:33,600 --> 01:04:35,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, she did did. That's what I'm saying. She's just

1454
01:04:35,640 --> 01:04:36,880
Speaker 1: taking drugs from anybody.

1455
01:04:36,920 --> 01:04:40,600
Speaker 2: Hold on, So this is it is. It's absolutely Weazy's fault.

1456
01:04:41,000 --> 01:04:43,439
Speaker 2: And she would to call her a bitch accountability.

1457
01:04:43,600 --> 01:04:46,080
Speaker 1: She said, it wasn't that serious.

1458
01:04:46,360 --> 01:04:49,560
Speaker 4: You should never take that anyone else's drug tolerance.

1459
01:04:49,600 --> 01:04:53,960
Speaker 3: Bro Jesus guys, if you haven't yet, make sure you

1460
01:04:54,000 --> 01:04:57,280
Speaker 3: click the link in our description as well as on

1461
01:04:57,320 --> 01:05:00,240
Speaker 3: our Instagram. If you want to see us Tuesday today,

1462
01:05:00,360 --> 01:05:04,320
Speaker 3: December third, at Sony Hall, one night only, Baby Mandy

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01:05:04,360 --> 01:05:05,439
Speaker 3: and Weezy Live Show.

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01:05:05,480 --> 01:05:07,680
Speaker 1: Get your tickets now, meet and greet. There is a

1465
01:05:07,680 --> 01:05:08,560
Speaker 1: limited amount.

1466
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Speaker 3: Of tickets, so if you want to meet and greets us,

1467
01:05:10,440 --> 01:05:13,080
Speaker 3: not sleep with us or eats us. But if you

1468
01:05:13,080 --> 01:05:14,800
Speaker 3: want to meet and greet with us, please go ahead

1469
01:05:14,800 --> 01:05:16,840
Speaker 3: and get your tickets now. Also, if you want Bonus content,

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01:05:17,080 --> 01:05:20,760
Speaker 3: make sure you join us. Oh sorry on patreonspatreon dot

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Speaker 3: com backslash, horrible decision.

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01:05:22,520 --> 01:05:24,280
Speaker 2: Now, maybe sleep but you don't have baby Daddy coming.

1473
01:05:24,360 --> 01:05:26,200
Speaker 3: Also, as y'all know, it is a week of a

1474
01:05:26,360 --> 01:05:30,200
Speaker 3: motherfucking holiday, Uber, please do not think that you are

1475
01:05:30,200 --> 01:05:32,800
Speaker 3: a good drunk driver. And for those of y'all with kids,

1476
01:05:32,840 --> 01:05:35,560
Speaker 3: please make sure you go through their candy bags before

1477
01:05:35,600 --> 01:05:38,000
Speaker 3: they eat it. Let's be safe this holiday. I don't

1478
01:05:38,000 --> 01:05:39,760
Speaker 3: want to see you on the shade Room. Thank you

1479
01:05:39,760 --> 01:05:42,640
Speaker 3: guys so much for listening to another episode of Bonus.

1480
01:05:43,200 --> 01:05:45,880
Speaker 1: See you next week. Bye.

1481
01:05:46,880 --> 01:05:49,840
Speaker 3: I have a mailbox with my name that I got

1482
01:05:49,840 --> 01:05:53,120
Speaker 3: from HBO, so I was like, okay, that kind of

1483
01:05:53,120 --> 01:05:55,000
Speaker 3: looks kind of cool. We're just gonna do this and

1484
01:05:55,040 --> 01:05:58,520
Speaker 3: switch it up today. I also want to thank you guys.

1485
01:05:59,160 --> 01:06:05,200
Speaker 3: The last on the hotline, I started with breaking down

1486
01:06:05,280 --> 01:06:09,720
Speaker 3: kind of where I was mentally, and so many of

1487
01:06:09,760 --> 01:06:12,240
Speaker 3: you reassured me that I'm not a bad person, which

1488
01:06:12,240 --> 01:06:16,280
Speaker 3: I appreciate, but I didn't realize, which I guess I

1489
01:06:16,480 --> 01:06:19,240
Speaker 3: don't realize until I see the comments and meet you

1490
01:06:19,280 --> 01:06:21,720
Speaker 3: guys in person, how much we all kind of live

1491
01:06:21,760 --> 01:06:23,680
Speaker 3: the same life, just a little bit, maybe at different

1492
01:06:23,680 --> 01:06:27,520
Speaker 3: moments in our lives, but we all are going through

1493
01:06:27,520 --> 01:06:30,400
Speaker 3: the same fucking shit, trying to navigate life and life

1494
01:06:30,480 --> 01:06:32,080
Speaker 3: be life, and sometimes.

1495
01:06:32,400 --> 01:06:36,200
Speaker 1: I'm not in that place particularly anymore.

1496
01:06:36,960 --> 01:06:41,240
Speaker 2: By the time you guys hear this, y'all probably would

1497
01:06:41,280 --> 01:06:44,920
Speaker 2: have seen me cry on a regular episode.

1498
01:06:45,760 --> 01:06:48,480
Speaker 1: I've been dealing with grief lately. I lost a friend

1499
01:06:48,520 --> 01:06:53,439
Speaker 1: and former manager recently, and in dealing with grief, there

1500
01:06:53,600 --> 01:06:55,040
Speaker 1: was a lot of.

1501
01:06:56,760 --> 01:07:01,960
Speaker 3: This idea of closure or regret for not, you know,

1502
01:07:02,640 --> 01:07:05,800
Speaker 3: taking my trip to Tokyo or Dallas and spending more

1503
01:07:05,840 --> 01:07:08,640
Speaker 3: time with him. Because of course, if you know something

1504
01:07:08,720 --> 01:07:11,000
Speaker 3: is coming to an end or a person is leaving,

1505
01:07:11,560 --> 01:07:14,600
Speaker 3: you want to fill that up with great amazing memories, right,

1506
01:07:16,240 --> 01:07:18,160
Speaker 3: So boom story.

1507
01:07:17,840 --> 01:07:19,720
Speaker 1: Time, y'all.

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01:07:20,000 --> 01:07:23,760
Speaker 3: This this is really interesting because in speaking of closure,

1509
01:07:24,600 --> 01:07:28,480
Speaker 3: I did not know what closure would look like with

1510
01:07:28,760 --> 01:07:33,280
Speaker 3: a heartbreak. Yes, if you are sick of hearing about

1511
01:07:33,280 --> 01:07:35,400
Speaker 3: my ex, you could turn it off.

1512
01:07:35,800 --> 01:07:36,120
Speaker 1: Now.

1513
01:07:36,520 --> 01:07:43,640
Speaker 3: However, this is almost like the universe was like, bitch,

1514
01:07:43,920 --> 01:07:46,800
Speaker 3: let me do this for you in this grieving moment,

1515
01:07:47,200 --> 01:07:52,840
Speaker 3: xyz element op so boom. So I go to the funeral,

1516
01:07:54,040 --> 01:07:56,640
Speaker 3: Rest in peace, Jason Hoodie.

1517
01:07:58,320 --> 01:08:00,720
Speaker 1: But so I go to the funeral and in Harlem.

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01:08:01,200 --> 01:08:04,480
Speaker 3: So I met the funeral over on one sixteenth, I

1519
01:08:04,520 --> 01:08:08,560
Speaker 3: think it was and funeral. And you know, after the funeral,

1520
01:08:08,600 --> 01:08:13,360
Speaker 3: you gotta go to the repast. So asking around, asking around,

1521
01:08:14,280 --> 01:08:18,720
Speaker 3: I'm starving. I did not eat that morning funeral. They

1522
01:08:18,760 --> 01:08:22,439
Speaker 3: had the viewing at ten, the funeral service from eleven

1523
01:08:22,479 --> 01:08:25,639
Speaker 3: to one, and then the repass was one to five.

1524
01:08:27,000 --> 01:08:30,479
Speaker 3: A bitch was hungry, a bitch was dehydrated. Because I

1525
01:08:30,520 --> 01:08:32,760
Speaker 3: had no more tears to cry. I just sat there

1526
01:08:32,840 --> 01:08:36,280
Speaker 3: and bawled my eyes out for literally about two hours.

1527
01:08:36,720 --> 01:08:40,400
Speaker 3: And so when it came time to eat, couldn't nobody

1528
01:08:40,439 --> 01:08:42,680
Speaker 3: tell me who cooked the food at the repast?

1529
01:08:43,080 --> 01:08:44,840
Speaker 1: And I was like, well, I just say go eat

1530
01:08:45,040 --> 01:08:45,960
Speaker 1: just anybody food.

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01:08:46,479 --> 01:08:50,879
Speaker 3: So went across the street to Amy Rus had smothered

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Speaker 3: turkey wings, because that's my shit if I go to

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Speaker 3: a motherfucking soul food restaurants. So I had smothered turkey

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Speaker 3: wings with sutaine okra and make and cheese. And then

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Speaker 3: I was with a friend of mine, Ayana and Ishmael,

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Speaker 3: and we were like, you know what, I want to

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Speaker 3: go grab a drink. This has been a heavy last

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Speaker 3: two weeks with the realization that we lost our friend.

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Speaker 3: The service was beautiful, but very heavily emotional and bitch,

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Speaker 3: y'all know I'd be liking a drink. So we go

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Speaker 3: on over to Harlem Tavern. We have a drink. About

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Speaker 3: four more of our friends join us and end up

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Speaker 3: heading back to the Repast.

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Speaker 2: So as we're leaving the bar, though y'all ready for this.

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Speaker 2: As we're leaving the bar.

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Speaker 3: I see my ex's truck. Now, bitch, let me tell

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Speaker 3: y'all how my heart against sake, But not really because

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Speaker 3: I didn't know what emotions to have, because y'all know,

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Speaker 3: I had already ran into the motherfucker at the park

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Speaker 3: so where I had a whole panic attack.

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Speaker 1: So I see his car and I'm like, I don't

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Speaker 1: know if this is really his truck.

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Speaker 3: But it makes sense because retired firefighter, that nigga gonna

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Speaker 3: double park wherever. He don't believe in rules, he don't

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Speaker 3: believe in tickets, he gonna park that car. So I

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Speaker 3: look and see the car and I go to the

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Speaker 3: front to see in the dashboard or you know, see

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Speaker 3: any stickers to identify the vehicle, and it's his and

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Speaker 3: I'm like, oh, this nigga gotta be at Bixi. Bixi

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Speaker 3: is the bar right in front of where his car was.

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Speaker 3: So I tell my homegirl. I was like, bitch, is

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Speaker 3: a nigga that broke my heart? This is car, this

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Speaker 3: is my ex car. Bitch, let's just go into the bar,

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Speaker 3: get a shot, and I'm gonna be loud with it,

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Speaker 3: and I'm gonna make sure he see me and fill

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