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Speaker 1: Second date of date.

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Speaker 2: Sometimes in the dating world you realize the ideal person

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Speaker 2: that you have built up in your mind. Yeah, isn't

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Speaker 2: necessarily the ideal person for you in real life.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, rip that right out of Brooks wedding vows to

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Speaker 1: her husband. But that could be the case for our listener,

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Speaker 1: Rob today.

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Speaker 3: It's so rude.

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Speaker 2: Well, you said him who says he met a different

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Speaker 2: type of woman than the one he would normally go for,

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Speaker 2: and he described her in the email as someone who

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Speaker 2: doesn't drink, doesn't smoke, is one hundred percent vegan, and

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Speaker 2: must be in bed every night by eight forty five pm.

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Speaker 3: Rob, discipline woman.

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Speaker 2: How did you let this party animal slip through your fingers?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: I don't know. I just found it endearing. I thought

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Speaker 5: she was kind of wholesome and not really the type

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Speaker 5: of girl that I would normally go for.

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Speaker 6: But it's interesting because it could be whole or it

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Speaker 6: could be that she's done all those things so much

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Speaker 6: that she can't do them.

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Speaker 1: Anymore, you know, on the party life. Okay, Well, what's

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Speaker 1: her name?

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Speaker 5: Name's Maggie.

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Speaker 1: All right, how did you meet her?

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Speaker 5: We met online? But I just thought her pictures were

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Speaker 5: so natural. She was very naturally beautiful. The pictures weren't photoshopped,

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Speaker 5: and she wasn't out at the club. There's kind of

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Speaker 5: pictures of her hanging out with her friends, and I

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Speaker 5: just thought it was nice or it was such.

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Speaker 3: A photoshop you didn't notice. Can I ask, are you

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Speaker 3: any of the things she is like?

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Speaker 1: Dry?

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Speaker 3: You know, no smoking, vegan?

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Speaker 5: No, not at all.

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Speaker 2: It could be in opposite of track sort of situation

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Speaker 2: where you like mesh together over.

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Speaker 1: Times and bacon.

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Speaker 3: I mean, it could be the reason she's not calling

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Speaker 1: Well, what'd you guys do when you guys went out?

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Speaker 5: Well, it's weird. We went on two dates back to

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Speaker 2: Well that makes sense because she used to be in

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Speaker 1: Very much the first one.

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Speaker 3: Wait, how did that work?

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Speaker 5: Well, so she wasn't like to drink, so we got

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Speaker 5: ramen and then we went and got ice cream.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, took the vegan to ice cream.

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Speaker 5: Well I learned that they actually have vegan ice cream.

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Speaker 7: Oh cool, so you checked it, I mean you to me,

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Speaker 7: but for her that's great.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, like coconut milk ice cream.

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Speaker 5: Sure, yeah, and it actually tastes the pretty good.

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Speaker 6: She was probably impressed that you, like put some effort

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Speaker 6: in to find a place that could fit her.

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Speaker 1: So how did date number one end?

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Speaker 5: So there was no kiss at the end, but it

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Speaker 5: was like a long hug. And then she actually suggested

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Speaker 5: that we go out again the next day.

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Speaker 7: Oh wow, okayug no kidding.

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Speaker 3: So what did you do the next day?

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Speaker 5: So the next day, I was like, you get to

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Speaker 5: pick where we want to go. So we went to

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Speaker 5: a vegan restaurant.

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Speaker 6: Cool, okay, Oh my god, I'm not vegan, but one

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Speaker 6: of my favorite places to eat is a vegan restaurant.

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Speaker 7: In my scary, Like, I'm a foodie and even someone

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Speaker 7: going going to go to a vegan restaurant, it's kind

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Speaker 2: Well maybe it's like the ice cream shop where they

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Speaker 2: have the one vegan option for the people, one plate

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Speaker 2: for the media.

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Speaker 1: Really bloody. How was it?

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Speaker 5: I mean it was okay, I didn't mind it.

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Speaker 6: Okay, They like, how is the connection between you two?

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Speaker 5: I mean after that date, we definitely kissed.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Yeah, your first two dates sounds like they went great.

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Speaker 1: So what's happened since then?

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Speaker 5: Well, so then after the date she starts texting me

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Speaker 5: and like it's text like I can't wait to see you.

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Speaker 5: There's a lot of love gifts and uh memes about love,

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Speaker 5: and she was really accentuating the love aspect of everything,

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Speaker 5: and uh, you know it was a little bit much.

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Speaker 3: I don't get why he's on with us if it

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Speaker 1: You out, calling you back.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, Well what happened was she sent me a Spotify song.

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Speaker 5: It's a song by Starship called we Built This Thing Together.

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Speaker 5: I don't know if you guys know that song.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we built this String Together.

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Speaker 2: Nothing's gonna stop us.

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Speaker 3: That's a good song.

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Speaker 1: Everyone knows.

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Speaker 6: She trying to like force a couple songs already organic.

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Speaker 5: Oh yeah, like what have we built?

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Speaker 1: We were on two dates Like did you say that

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Speaker 5: Well, I said, oh, that's a nice song. I'm not

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Speaker 5: really into the song though, it's I'm not really a

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Speaker 5: big fan of it. And that totally changed things for her.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, just slammed her taste in music.

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Speaker 6: No, she was trying to convey something. It's like when

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Speaker 6: I used to make mixed CDs and like put in

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Speaker 6: secret songs for different dudes, I like and be like, yeah,

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Speaker 6: I know that one hit you basically turned her down

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Speaker 6: by not liking the song good honestly, maybe she needed

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Speaker 1: But you said that changed things between you two.

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Speaker 5: Yeah. I mean I wasn't trying to put her down.

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Speaker 5: I'm just a little confused by it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, So what do you want.

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Speaker 3: Our help with? Do you want another date or do

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Speaker 3: you not?

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Speaker 5: Yeah? I just want to see where she's at, and

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Speaker 5: I hope I didn't offend her, And I just want

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Speaker 3: I see, I see on it. Yeah.

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Speaker 6: Maybe if she knows how you feel, she can lay

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Speaker 6: off the love gifts and the songs.

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Speaker 5: Yeah. Yeah, I don't know how to tell her that politely.

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Speaker 5: If she is that kind of person, I don't necessarily

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Speaker 5: want to change her.

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Speaker 3: You know.

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Speaker 1: Okay, we'll let Brook tell her to cut that crap out.

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Speaker 2: We'll do the second date update for you right after

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Speaker 2: this second date update.

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Speaker 3: You're in the middle of a second date update update, and.

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Speaker 6: We're gonna find out how the couple is doing right

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Speaker 6: after you here Part two.

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Speaker 2: Man, we're back to the nineteen eighties again.

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Speaker 3: Is this the song?

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Speaker 1: The Decade of Love?

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Speaker 3: Wow?

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Speaker 2: Sixteen Candles, Dirty Dancing.

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Speaker 1: Wow, Ghost, All the best love movies.

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Speaker 2: I can honestly say that we built this thing together.

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Speaker 2: Nothing lasts forever, Nothing was gonna stop us.

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Speaker 1: Now that's a song.

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Speaker 2: Unless Maggie doesn't answer the phone, then that would kind

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Speaker 2: of stop us and we'd be screwed.

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Speaker 3: Are you all forgetting it's a song that she sent

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Speaker 3: to him?

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Speaker 2: Yes, this is the song from the nineteen eighties that

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Speaker 2: kind of soured the relationship after Rob went on back

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Speaker 2: to back dates with Maggie, both of which went great,

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Speaker 2: but this Spotify song ruined it because Rob said, I'm

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, it's pretty cheesy.

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Speaker 1: But Brooke had a good point. He was trying to say,

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Speaker 1: I don't really like this song.

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Speaker 2: Maybe Maggie took it as he doesn't like my love.

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Speaker 1: He's rejecting our relationship.

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Speaker 3: That's how I would take it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, sure, but that's not the case.

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Speaker 2: So that's why Rob has reached out to us, hoping

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Speaker 2: we can respark this, get this going again, maybe do

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Speaker 2: a little ghost love scene situation.

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Speaker 1: Right, Rob, that's right, pottery.

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Speaker 6: Class, you know, alcohol, very vegan, you know, be perfect

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Speaker 6: shirtless though, Are.

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Speaker 3: You wanting to apologize to her for your response?

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Speaker 5: Yeah? I mean the way you put it I guess

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Speaker 5: I kind of see it like I was being a

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Speaker 2: Yeah, well, we don't know for sure if she took

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Speaker 2: it that way. That's just Brook's opinion, and you know

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Speaker 3: So let's say you had to throw a dig in there.

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Speaker 2: I'm just saying, we don't know. Yeah, let's find out

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Speaker 2: once and for all. I'm going to call it right now.

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Speaker 5: Here we go.

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Speaker 1: Hello, Hi, is this Maggie?

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Speaker 4: Yes?

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Speaker 8: This is she? Who is this?

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Speaker 1: We gotcha?

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Speaker 4: Uh?

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Speaker 1: Sorry?

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Speaker 2: I mean I'm happy that you answered, is what I

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Speaker 2: meant to say. Because we're a radio show. We're called

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Speaker 2: Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning, and we've been dying

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Speaker 8: Okay for what I mean? Why what's going on?

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Speaker 2: Because we're doing a segment here called a Second Date Update,

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Speaker 2: and it's where we try and help out our listeners

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Speaker 2: if they've kind of stalled out in their dating life

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Speaker 1: We're trying to help somebody named Rob.

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Speaker 8: Oh yeah, Rob, okay, I.

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Speaker 6: See, Oh my god, Rob said you had two great

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Speaker 7: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: He actually told us that he felt really good about it.

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Speaker 2: How did you feel?

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Speaker 8: I felt really good about it too.

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Speaker 4: I felt like we had this instant connection and potential

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Speaker 4: keep things going with him.

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Speaker 3: It's so sweet.

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Speaker 6: Was there something that made that change, because it does

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Speaker 4: Well, I mean, I'm the type of person who wants

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Speaker 4: a guy who's going to be my prince charming and

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Speaker 4: come in and ride in on the horse and professes

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Speaker 4: love to me and just.

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Speaker 8: Go all out and then we ride off into the

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Speaker 8: sunset together.

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Speaker 1: You like grand romantic gestures, that's what you like. Yes, exactly,

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Speaker 1: that's totally fair.

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Speaker 2: It could be a lot though, for some guys to

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Speaker 2: process that after just one weekend hanging out, you know,

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Speaker 2: and not a lot of.

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Speaker 3: Guys are romantic at all.

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Speaker 8: Well they should be. And I made that very clear

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Speaker 8: on my profile.

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Speaker 3: Oh really, it's on your profile. What'd you say on

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Speaker 3: your profile?

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Speaker 4: I want someone who's sweet.

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Speaker 8: So if I want you to send me messages and

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Speaker 8: let me know that you appreciate me, because that's my

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Speaker 8: My love language is affirmations, words of affirmation, So I

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Speaker 8: love giving those out and I want that back in return.

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Speaker 3: Got it?

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Speaker 1: Okay? And you feel like Rob was not fulfilling those

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Speaker 4: Correct It especially came down to where, you know, I

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Speaker 4: sent him what I thought was our first like love

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Speaker 1: Honestly, here is what I worry about for you, Maggie.

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Speaker 2: Along the way in your life, you've come up with

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Speaker 7: Okay and Ford, right now, it's totally okay to have

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Speaker 3: It's already adjusting.

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Speaker 6: I mean, she was already going out with somebody who

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Speaker 1: But she said the problem was he didn't like one song.

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Speaker 3: No, she said, the problem was he wasn't romantic Jack.

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Speaker 1: But the thing is, that's the conversation.

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Speaker 2: You have to go off of the two great dates

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Speaker 2: That's special and that's something that you should actually hold

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Speaker 1: Do you know what I mean?

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Speaker 8: I mean it was just my favorite song and I just.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, if you can't hear it, and I think Jeff's play.

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Speaker 2: It's too easy for people to just ghost right now

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Speaker 3: Why did you drink this morning? Brook?

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Speaker 2: I don't need your love hate right now. I'm trying

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Speaker 2: That's why I need to tell you, Maggie. Rob is

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Speaker 1: Here it is. He is waiting to talk.

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Speaker 5: Hey, hey, Maggie, how you doing.

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Speaker 3: Hi?

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Speaker 6: Rob?

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Speaker 8: I'm good.

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Speaker 4: How are you.

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Speaker 5: Good? You know, I just I wanted to apologize for

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Speaker 1: Okay.

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Speaker 2: Rob is a little bit more of a slow burner,

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Speaker 4: Well, I mean, I do appreciate that, and I felt

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Speaker 2: Brook's been saying that same thing to her husband for

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Speaker 6: I think every woman has said any relationship you've ever been.

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Speaker 4: Prob, you could send me kind of a love song.

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Speaker 8: What would it be?

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Speaker 5: It'd be that song Maggie by Rod Stewart.

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Speaker 3: Wake Up. That's just her name, right.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I think that Maggie leaves.

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Speaker 3: What's amazing is he's not scared away right now. I

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Speaker 2: We'd like to offer to send you guys out one

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Speaker 8: Yeah's that'd be great.

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Speaker 2: It's true what they say, you can build this love together.

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Speaker 1: Some things do last forever.

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Speaker 2: Nothing's gonna stop us now except we're running out of

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Speaker 3: Brooking Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 2: Months ago, we convinced him to give it another try,

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Speaker 2: and it sounds like they did, because both Rob and

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, I vote them most likely to be

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Speaker 6: Really Yeah, well, I just you know, she needed the effort,

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Speaker 2: Let's find out, Rob, were you able to step up

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Speaker 5: Yeah? I think I was, you know, after being on

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Speaker 5: I think I hired I hired like this twenty person

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Speaker 1: Whoa wait a flash mob?

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Speaker 5: Yeah? Yeah, And then after that, I hired this horse

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Speaker 2: Dude?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I had. I had her favorite song playing on

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Speaker 2: Okay, but we asked you did you do anything romantic though?

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, I bet Maggie was over the moon.

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Speaker 1: That's so much.

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Speaker 5: Well, after I did all that, she didn't talk to

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Speaker 3: Wait what why?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, well he was trying way too hard and I

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Speaker 2: When and I don't want to said you said he

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Speaker 6: Are you like Goldilocks and the Bears or something with

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Speaker 8: It's true, it's true.

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Speaker 4: But honestly, I really I learned something about myself and

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Has he struck the right chord by this time?

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Speaker 4: Right?

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Speaker 6: Well? Yes?

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Speaker 8: And so I did ask, can you just be in

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Speaker 5: And that's be perfect? Okay? Sure that? Yeah?

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Speaker 8: I made her.

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Speaker 5: I made her this photo scrap book of pictures of us.

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Speaker 5: There's only like two pictures, but it would have been

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Speaker 5: It was starting.

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Speaker 4: I liked it, it was genuine.

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Speaker 3: You guys are together and still Yeah.

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Speaker 5: I think so. I hope she likes me.

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Speaker 1: Hard to calibrate here.

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Speaker 2: He's trying not to come on too strong with his affirmation.

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Speaker 1: Okay, all right, there you go, Jeffrey in the morning.