WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Bond Over Moving Boxes

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<v Speaker 1>Second date of date. What activities count as dates? I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>there's a lot of things you could do, like a

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<v Speaker 1>romantic evening out. Yeah, drinks in a movie, that's a

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<v Speaker 1>good one. Romantic unicycle ride, one on top, one on bottom,

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<v Speaker 1>you're on bottom of the wheel, if you ever do that?

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<v Speaker 1>Like where where are you? Are you seat or shoulders? Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>I see, was just running over the top of the other.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't understand. It's like a little pyramid on the

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<v Speaker 1>unicycle you I sure, yeah, I could see Michault riding

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<v Speaker 1>on your shoulders. Anyway, A lot of stuff can classify

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<v Speaker 1>as a date, but this one, I don't know if

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<v Speaker 1>it counts really why? And you know, we're pretty lenient

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<v Speaker 1>here when it comes to what is allowed as a

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<v Speaker 1>date here, but I'm not really sure about this one.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's just welcome to the show, Jessica. Jessica, how you doing? Hi?

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<v Speaker 1>How are you? Would you do Jessica, like your taxes

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<v Speaker 1>together or something? Well, I still think that would count.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll get to your date night activity in just a second.

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<v Speaker 1>First one, don't you tell us about the guy that

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<v Speaker 1>we're going to call? Who is he? Where'd you meet him? Oh? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>his name is Lewis, and um, I met him on Tinder? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>did you make the first contact? Yeah? Contact whatever the word?

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<v Speaker 1>Did you hit him up first? Oh my god, you guys.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you inquire with him? Did you make his acquaintance?

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<v Speaker 1>What did you What did you say to get his attention?

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I just said Hi, how are you? And

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<v Speaker 1>all you have to do for us? Oh? Coming on

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<v Speaker 1>a little strong there with that, don't you think, Jessica.

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<v Speaker 1>But anyway, so what did you and Lewis end up doing? Well?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, this is how it just worked out. I

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<v Speaker 1>know it sounds kind of weird, but he helped me

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<v Speaker 1>move on the first date? Help you move? Yeah? Were

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<v Speaker 1>you just hitting up tinder? Funny one guy with the truck? Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>come on a day with me? Yeah? I mean we

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<v Speaker 1>could figure out a real date to meet or a

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<v Speaker 1>night to meet because I was just running around trying

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<v Speaker 1>to figure out where I was going to move Max

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<v Speaker 1>and the the only real date was the day of

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<v Speaker 1>my move and he was fine with it. Okay, So

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<v Speaker 1>so you suggested it like, hey, yeah, you can help

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<v Speaker 1>me move, wow? And he actually said yes. I mean

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<v Speaker 1>that tells you that he's definitely a good guy, just right, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>or you know what I think. But honestly, it could

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<v Speaker 1>be a good like sign if you're a match or

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<v Speaker 1>not right, like because movie I could either be a

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<v Speaker 1>fun experience or it can turn into like an argument

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<v Speaker 1>over you're not doing something right experience. Well, like you know,

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<v Speaker 1>it shows you if you can work together. Absolutely, So

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<v Speaker 1>how did it go, Jessica? Well, you know what, he

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<v Speaker 1>just showed up that day and she had a great attitude,

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<v Speaker 1>like he was super cool. Okay, And did you have

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<v Speaker 1>other friends helping you or was it just you and him? Well?

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<v Speaker 1>I could have asked other friends, but it would have

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<v Speaker 1>been weird with a tender date, So was just him

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<v Speaker 1>and I? Did you at least, like when people help

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<v Speaker 1>you move, you have to get him like pizza at

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<v Speaker 1>the end of the night in beer, Like that's just

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<v Speaker 1>kind of status quo. Did you go to dinner or

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<v Speaker 1>anything at the end? Yeah, after we moved, Like, I

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<v Speaker 1>offered to pay him because I felt so bad. You

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<v Speaker 1>offered to pay him? You said, yeah, and he didn't

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<v Speaker 1>accept that. So I did say, they have a pizza

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<v Speaker 1>and drinks, and so that's what we did. Okay, he Tony.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm still trying to figure out if there was like

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<v Speaker 1>a love connection there, Like did you guys bond? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>So we did. Um, we really got to know each other.

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<v Speaker 1>You know. He told me that he was overseas, like

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<v Speaker 1>if he played guitar things like I didn't know from

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<v Speaker 1>the sendew profile. I found out he could lift seventy

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<v Speaker 1>pounds and he's really good at lifting. It was late,

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<v Speaker 1>what was like the low light of the evening outside

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<v Speaker 1>of just the overall move like he's not calling back,

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<v Speaker 1>so like, what was there any bad time? Yeah? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I have a harp and it's a little bit large.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you say a harp like the instrument like a

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<v Speaker 1>fall harp? Wow? Worst things are enormous. You're rich an

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<v Speaker 1>zero people with heart. Classy people have heart. So it

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<v Speaker 1>makes sense if we don't know anybody. But he didn't

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<v Speaker 1>like the harp. It was too heavy. Yeah, so like,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean we did have a trouble moving it in

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<v Speaker 1>and out of the truck. Did it lead to a

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<v Speaker 1>fight or an argument or anything? No, it just was heavy. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah yeah, I mean it sounds like kind of a

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<v Speaker 1>stressful date if I'm the guy. But I mean, how

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<v Speaker 1>did things end? Well? I mean after that, I walked

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<v Speaker 1>him through the door and I kissed him. Oh oh dude,

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<v Speaker 1>I like that. A real forward harpist. She's like, I

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<v Speaker 1>busted out my piccolo first, and I said, I call

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<v Speaker 1>him after I got settled a bit, and so that's

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<v Speaker 1>how we ended it. Did you call him? Yeah, so

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<v Speaker 1>I did text him after cool days and then texted

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<v Speaker 1>him again and I didn't hear back. Okay, I mean

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<v Speaker 1>it seems pretty cut and dry. I probably thought that

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<v Speaker 1>you were like asking him to do another favor for you.

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<v Speaker 1>Move somewhere else, right, help a friend move now, offered

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<v Speaker 1>him money. It does feel like you were just using

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<v Speaker 1>him for that. No, I was pretty clear about it,

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<v Speaker 1>like I said, no, next time, we're gonna have fun.

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<v Speaker 1>We're just gonna only have fun. Okay, it's only the

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<v Speaker 1>first date that you gotta earn it like we're unpacking

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<v Speaker 1>the well, let's find out what's going on. We're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>play a song. We'll come back and call Lewis and

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<v Speaker 1>try and get you your second date update. Okay, thank you,

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<v Speaker 1>Hold on, Jessica. Today's second date update features the musical

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<v Speaker 1>stylings of our listener Jessica, who owns a giant harp

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<v Speaker 1>and her date Lewis knows that because he helped her

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<v Speaker 1>move it along with everything else in her apartment. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>because that was their date helping her move. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>if your first date on tender was helping someone move,

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<v Speaker 1>would you go out with him again? Jessica's hoping the

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<v Speaker 1>answer is yes, Yeah, I get better from there? Right? Yes?

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<v Speaker 1>I bet Jessica you would even pay for another dinner

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<v Speaker 1>for him, because moving is expensive and it's pretty cool

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<v Speaker 1>what Lewis did for you there. Yeah, yeah, I would.

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<v Speaker 1>But wouldn't you guys do that for a second date? Ye? Words,

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<v Speaker 1>But Jessica, you are a woman who knows the systems

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<v Speaker 1>and knows how to work out, don't you? Is that

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<v Speaker 1>the only reason that you're doing this is just for

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<v Speaker 1>the free dinner? Hey? Can I get a card? We

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<v Speaker 1>are not hating, not a woman who likes a deal. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>it's gonna be hard for me to be invested in days.

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<v Speaker 1>I really like him. It has nothing to do with

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<v Speaker 1>any free dinner. Okay. Good, it's nice that you say that,

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<v Speaker 1>even if you don't believe it helps me with this. Right,

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<v Speaker 1>let's call Lewis. Are you feeling ready? Jessica? Who are Okay? Here?

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<v Speaker 1>We go, I'm in a Dillar's number right now. Hello, Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>is this Lewis? Yeah, let's see. Hey Lewis, how you doing.

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<v Speaker 1>My name is jeff from the radio show Broken Jeffrey

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<v Speaker 1>in the Morning. Really yeah, really mean? Oh cool? What's

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<v Speaker 1>up guys? Hey? Hellois, thanks for listening obviously. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a big fan. Okay. I was wondering if it

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<v Speaker 1>was that or you're just one of, you know, Jeffrey's

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<v Speaker 1>Craigslist clients. I didn't know which. You can fall into

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<v Speaker 1>both categories. It's okay, Yeah, that's funny. Who's Jeffrey? Oh okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>a little dagger right there. Yeah, I'm just kidding. I

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<v Speaker 1>know it's you treating me like my parents. Dude, I like,

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<v Speaker 1>we're so we're doing a second date update right now.

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<v Speaker 1>You obviously know how those work. Oh yeah, okay, all right?

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<v Speaker 1>And so you went out with somebody who also listens

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<v Speaker 1>to our show named Jessica. Oh right, Jessica. Yeah, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>did you consider that a date? Yeah? I guess so. Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean she said it ended with pizza and a kiss,

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<v Speaker 1>which I think qualifies as a date. I mean I

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<v Speaker 1>also kissed my movers when I moved all four of them.

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<v Speaker 1>But for me, app wasn't a date, was it? Tongue

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<v Speaker 1>with tongue? Look, I'm just kidding again. I'm okay, I

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<v Speaker 1>got you. I mean she told us that, Like, she

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<v Speaker 1>let you know that it was going to be you

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<v Speaker 1>helping her move, and you seem to be okay with it.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not like you were going in blind to this date, right.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, Like I didn't want to seem like a jerk,

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<v Speaker 1>and it seemed like that she needed help, So yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I was trying to help out. It was just that

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<v Speaker 1>was the first one totally. It was it was nice,

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<v Speaker 1>like once we got done with everything, we conversed and

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<v Speaker 1>did like normal date stuff. Obviously she felt the same

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<v Speaker 1>way as you did, because that's why she's asking us

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<v Speaker 1>to reach out to you right now. She's confused why

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<v Speaker 1>after having a really good time, you've been kind of

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<v Speaker 1>avoiding her. Well, I'm a bit confused. Why are you confused?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean she said she was the one that kissed

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<v Speaker 1>you at the end of the night. Yeah, and that

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<v Speaker 1>was nice. I just um, let me lay the sp

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<v Speaker 1>for you guys. As I was leaving, I went downstairs,

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<v Speaker 1>right and I was looking at the mailboxes there, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>it's got everybody's name on the mailboxes and stuff. And

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<v Speaker 1>I looked at her unit and it said mister and

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<v Speaker 1>missus on it. It was wait from her current place

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<v Speaker 1>or her new place, because maybe it was like a

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<v Speaker 1>previous tenant. If it was her new place, well maybe maybe.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's thought to run across my line. I'm here,

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<v Speaker 1>you got it all wrong, Okay, Okay, Jessica, remember you're

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<v Speaker 1>supposed to wait till I call you in. Oh sorry,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry. I thought it interrupted at this point. And so, yeah, Lewis,

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<v Speaker 1>there's Jessica. She's been one to talk to. Hey, um, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>you obviously knew she was listening. Louis, it sounds like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I kind of was suspicious for that from the start,

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<v Speaker 1>I know. Okay, Well, now that you are both on, Jessica,

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<v Speaker 1>what's going on with the mister and missus thing on that? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean you got you have it all wrong, Louis, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>the reality is I'm not married, and I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>why it's those mister misses, but I'm not married. Okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So so the mister and missus is from the previous tenant.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what you're saying. Well, I mean I'm in an

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<v Speaker 1>open relationship. Yeah, yes, I'm with another guy, but we're

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<v Speaker 1>in an open relationship. You're in an open relationship, and

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<v Speaker 1>the other dude wasn't helping move, like you had to

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<v Speaker 1>find somebody on Tinder. Yeah, we know he's out of town.

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<v Speaker 1>So he's out of town most of the time anyway.

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<v Speaker 1>And yeah, so like those were his golf clubs. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean it's our golf clubs. But yeah, you made

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<v Speaker 1>him move the other Like, why wouldn't you tell him that? Well?

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<v Speaker 1>Are your golf clubs in an open relationship? Can other

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<v Speaker 1>people use your golf clubs? I like, Louisa, you still

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<v Speaker 1>have a good sense of humor about this. Maybe maybe

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<v Speaker 1>you're open to it. Maybe it's okay with you. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know. Yeah, I'm it's like people who are on

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<v Speaker 1>Tinder are mostly in open relationships what they are really Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>people also disclose that in their profile. Yeah I've seen that,

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<v Speaker 1>but they they're all honest about it in the bios.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe it's just your algorithm. Does your boyfriend know it's

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<v Speaker 1>an open relationship? Good question? Yeah, I mean I don't

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<v Speaker 1>think you. I don't think he minds that. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>think he mind. I think yeah, And I didn't think

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<v Speaker 1>Lewis would mind either. Okay, why didn't you talk about

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<v Speaker 1>it right off the bat? I mean it feels like

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<v Speaker 1>something you were hiding when you don't tell someone right away, right.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, it's hard to talk about like in the

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<v Speaker 1>first date. You know, I could see that. I could

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<v Speaker 1>see how like leading with that might turn a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of people off. So maybe you hold it back for

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<v Speaker 1>a date or two before you reveal I'm actually with

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<v Speaker 1>another person in love with you, and then they can't

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<v Speaker 1>leave you. Yeah, it's like a little a little fun

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<v Speaker 1>little love trap. Yeah. I love a great idea with that.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like people who are in open relationships should

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<v Speaker 1>be really, really upfront about it. Yeah. Bottom line is

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't use him to move. That's why I'm calling

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<v Speaker 1>to hang out with him again. So okay, don't accuse

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<v Speaker 1>you that. Yeah, it's kind of weird that defensive about it. Lewis,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, how do you feel about this situation? Are

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<v Speaker 1>you open to it? I'm kind of I'm kind of

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<v Speaker 1>torn because I wish you would have just been upfront

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<v Speaker 1>with me from the beginning, because time is sort of

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<v Speaker 1>like a, I don't know. It's a commodity that I

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<v Speaker 1>don't have a lot of, and I feel like you

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<v Speaker 1>kind of wasted it a little bit. I just wish

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<v Speaker 1>you would have been more up fun. Right. I appreciate

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<v Speaker 1>you Lewis for saying this. But you know, maybe if

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<v Speaker 1>you meet both of us, you might want to hang

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<v Speaker 1>out with us. Oh yeah, I didn't even think about that, Lewis. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>her other guy might be pretty cool. You could use

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<v Speaker 1>like a cool guy friend along with your girlfriend. Right,

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<v Speaker 1>So this is getting kind of weird for me. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>weird or fun? Well, I mean it's sort of dependent.

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<v Speaker 1>From my perspective, it's a little weirder, Like, what does

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<v Speaker 1>this mean for us? We have to play for three

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<v Speaker 1>people to go out to eat or just two? Like,

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<v Speaker 1>where are we at on that? We only have one

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<v Speaker 1>gift card, so we'll let you guys decide how you

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<v Speaker 1>want to split it. But we are going to offer

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<v Speaker 1>to send you guys out on another date. We will

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<v Speaker 1>pay for that next date if you're up for it, Lewis.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, we had a great connection, Lewis, and I

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<v Speaker 1>would hate for it not to at least explore explore

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<v Speaker 1>hashtag exploration hashtag harp action dart Lady was going to

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<v Speaker 1>be this. Oh, maybe that's the sign of an open relationship.

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<v Speaker 1>If somebody owns at Lewis, I appreciate what you're saying, Esca,

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<v Speaker 1>and that's just not what I'm looking for. You're you're

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<v Speaker 1>a one partner type of Fellah Lewis. Yeah, I'm just

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<v Speaker 1>not a thruffles kind of guy. You know, it's important

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<v Speaker 1>to know about yourself, but not in your dating bio. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>And then Jessica, you may want to add into your

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<v Speaker 1>dating profile what people are you know, what your expectations are. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>just put a little harp in your profile. Everyone will know.

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<v Speaker 1>Look at Jeffrey in the morning.