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Speaker 1: Let's just welcome to the show, Jessica. Jessica, how you doing? Hi?

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Speaker 1: How are you? Would you do Jessica, like your taxes

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Speaker 1: First one, don't you tell us about the guy that

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Speaker 1: we're going to call? Who is he? Where'd you meet him? Oh? Well,

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Speaker 1: his name is Lewis, and um, I met him on Tinder? Okay,

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Speaker 1: did you make the first contact? Yeah? Contact whatever the word?

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Speaker 1: Did you hit him up first? Oh my god, you guys.

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Speaker 1: I mean, this is how it just worked out. I

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Speaker 1: so you suggested it like, hey, yeah, you can help

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Speaker 1: how did it go, Jessica? Well, you know what, he

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Speaker 1: I could have asked other friends, but it would have

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Speaker 1: and I? Did you at least, like when people help

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Speaker 1: I really like him. It has nothing to do with

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Speaker 1: let's call Lewis. Are you feeling ready? Jessica? Who are Okay? Here?

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Speaker 1: We go, I'm in a Dillar's number right now. Hello, Hey,

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Speaker 1: is this Lewis? Yeah, let's see. Hey Lewis, how you doing.

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Speaker 1: in the Morning. Really yeah, really mean? Oh cool? What's

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Speaker 1: up guys? Hey? Hellois, thanks for listening obviously. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: both categories. It's okay, Yeah, that's funny. Who's Jeffrey? Oh okay, okay,

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Speaker 1: a little dagger right there. Yeah, I'm just kidding. I

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Speaker 1: You obviously know how those work. Oh yeah, okay, all right?

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Speaker 1: did you consider that a date? Yeah? I guess so. Okay.

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Speaker 1: But for me, app wasn't a date, was it? Tongue

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Speaker 1: I mean it's our golf clubs. But yeah, you made

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Speaker 1: him move the other Like, why wouldn't you tell him that? Well?

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Speaker 1: leave you. Yeah, it's like a little a little fun

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Speaker 1: little love trap. Yeah. I love a great idea with that.

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Speaker 1: I feel like people who are in open relationships should

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Speaker 1: be really, really upfront about it. Yeah. Bottom line is

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Speaker 1: I didn't use him to move. That's why I'm calling

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Speaker 1: to hang out with him again. So okay, don't accuse

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Speaker 1: you that. Yeah, it's kind of weird that defensive about it. Lewis,

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Speaker 1: I mean, how do you feel about this situation? Are

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Speaker 1: like a, I don't know. It's a commodity that I

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Speaker 1: you would have been more up fun. Right. I appreciate

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Speaker 1: you Lewis for saying this. But you know, maybe if

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Speaker 1: out with us. Oh yeah, I didn't even think about that, Lewis. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: her other guy might be pretty cool. You could use

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Speaker 1: like a cool guy friend along with your girlfriend. Right,

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Speaker 1: So this is getting kind of weird for me. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: weird or fun? Well, I mean it's sort of dependent.

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Speaker 1: From my perspective, it's a little weirder, Like, what does

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Speaker 1: people to go out to eat or just two? Like,

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Speaker 1: where are we at on that? We only have one

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Speaker 1: want to split it. But we are going to offer

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Speaker 1: to send you guys out on another date. We will

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Speaker 1: pay for that next date if you're up for it, Lewis.

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Speaker 1: I mean, we had a great connection, Lewis, and I

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Speaker 1: would hate for it not to at least explore explore

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Speaker 1: hashtag exploration hashtag harp action dart Lady was going to

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Speaker 1: be this. Oh, maybe that's the sign of an open relationship.

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Speaker 1: If somebody owns at Lewis, I appreciate what you're saying, Esca,

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Speaker 1: and that's just not what I'm looking for. You're you're

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Speaker 1: a one partner type of Fellah Lewis. Yeah, I'm just

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Speaker 1: not a thruffles kind of guy. You know, it's important

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Speaker 1: to know about yourself, but not in your dating bio. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: And then Jessica, you may want to add into your

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Speaker 1: dating profile what people are you know, what your expectations are. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: just put a little harp in your profile. Everyone will know.

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Speaker 1: Look at Jeffrey in the morning.