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Speaker 3: Hey, oh, thank you.

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Speaker 4: Is this person just a roommate, because usually roommates are

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Speaker 3: We were great buddies. We had movie night.

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Speaker 4: I can't get over him leaving the cat. Did he

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Speaker 2: Now, remind me never to be a roommate with Jeffrey.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I couldn't have just been about silly little things

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Speaker 4: When you ask him that, do you say this doesn't

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Speaker 2: Can I just ask where's the cat?

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Speaker 2: Has the cat.

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Speaker 3: The cat is sitting by my feet right now?

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Speaker 3: We're on speaker phone. So if it's anything that would

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Speaker 1: Maybe you up that cat when we come back and

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Speaker 3: Thank you.

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Speaker 4: They were friends, Like, it's so crazy, I am so

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's right, Jose.

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Speaker 1: No no orientication as to where Roy went. So Adam's

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Speaker 1: who's going to do my dishes now? Because Adam, you

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Speaker 3: If I were to paint a picture, we were jokesters together.

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Speaker 2: That's a good sign.

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Speaker 4: Well, it's so weird because the friends and the family

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Speaker 1: And before we get to these questions, that's the reason

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Speaker 3: I don't I don't even want to accept that. That

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Speaker 2: Oh no, no, you're hut.

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Speaker 1: All right, Well, let's get right to it, because we

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Speaker 1: Number one. You said, hey man, it's been almost four years.

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Speaker 1: I still don't know why you moved out without telling

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Speaker 1: you have no idea? Adam? What?

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Speaker 1: Okay? For starters? You stole my cat?

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Speaker 2: I what are you talking about?

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Speaker 2: You said that Roy left the cat. Is that not true?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? He left the cat? Here? What did?

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Speaker 1: He says? I was the one who brought the cat

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Speaker 2: That's kind of weird.

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Speaker 3: First of all, much better name is a great name,

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Speaker 3: I can't believe that he would be holding a grudge

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Speaker 1: Well, there's there's more to his first answer. He also said,

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Speaker 2: Toxic you.

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Speaker 3: The cat wanted to sleep with me. Okay, you want

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Speaker 4: Listen, Yeah, we're not trying to attack you, but it

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Speaker 1: The only person who could honestly answer that is his cat.

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Speaker 1: And so we don't have time to do a whole

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Speaker 1: I know I wasn't the perfect roommate.

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Speaker 4: Okay, that's good. That's admitting some guilt there, responsibility.

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Speaker 1: If it was something I did when I lived with you,

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Speaker 1: We send them all in one mass email.

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Speaker 4: Adam, are you ready to hear this? Because it didn't

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Speaker 3: I will accept it. The cat threw me off. That

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Speaker 1: I feel optimistic about where this is going. So his

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Speaker 1: response was, okay, you want more about Netflix Sundays. When

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Speaker 1: sometimes sometimes it's better to spoil the ending so you

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Speaker 2: I did it before the movie started.

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Speaker 4: You let the man get a half an hour into

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Speaker 3: Okay, all right, I will say, and I'll say calmly,

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Speaker 3: that is fair. It's not worth losing a friendship over. Okay.

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Speaker 3: I may have told him the ending of Breaking Bad,

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Speaker 1: I still doing of that.

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Speaker 4: Actually, how many seasons into Breaking Bad were you before

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Speaker 3: Wow?

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Speaker 4: I mean, dude, I'll tell you there was one time

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Speaker 5: I was invested incle.

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Speaker 4: It's like that maybe if you need a new roommate,

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Speaker 1: Could be it.

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Speaker 4: But did Roy ever tell Did Roy ever tell you

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Speaker 3: No, he did, Brook.

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Speaker 1: This is not a closure call for you and watching

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Speaker 2: And it's not going well. No, that's the next question, Jeff.

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Speaker 1: He's a question question number three that we said, Roy

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Speaker 1: even know if I need to hear anymore, well, Brooke

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Speaker 1: to me if you came to my birthday party next.

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Speaker 1: I would love to see you.

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Speaker 2: That's really sweet.

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Speaker 3: I'd like him there. It's my birthday.

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Speaker 1: you trolling me with this? Don't you remember the great

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Speaker 1: birthday disaster? You threw me that surprise birthday party but

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Speaker 3: What?

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Speaker 1: I came home and the party was done, all my

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Speaker 1: What happened there, Adam?

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Speaker 3: That's okay. I did a lot of work for it,

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Speaker 3: it was an honest mistake. Just forgot the one thing.

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Speaker 4: Oh wait, text him in the middle of the party,

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Speaker 3: We were having.

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Speaker 1: I'm sure you left him a slice of cake for

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Speaker 1: when he got home, Right, Roy, What were we talking about? Oh? Yeah,

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I totally did not do it on purpose. I

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Speaker 2: And the stuff that all of his friends didn't stay.

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Speaker 1: Really good party that he's through obviously, sounds.

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Speaker 2: Like Roy's not coming to adams birthday.

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Speaker 1: Hold on, we have time for one more question here.

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Speaker 1: This could salvage the entire friendship and maybe even have

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Speaker 2: You, because I hope you're learning something from this.

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Speaker 1: Adam wrote, No matter what I did, do you think

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Speaker 5: Oh? God, statement doesn't forgive you, but in there so well,

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Speaker 3: Will you come back to me? And the cat?

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Speaker 1: The cat you kind of stole and renamed and locked

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Speaker 1: I know all this would happen again if we hung out.

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Speaker 1: You're way too immature, and life's a big joke to you,

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Speaker 1: Like every time you'd ask me to stop at the

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Speaker 3: Fund That was funny though it was creative.

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Speaker 1: Even Brooks laughing at that point. Twenty is gonna be

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Speaker 2: Here's the thing, Adam, You've got to balance.

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Speaker 4: All this stuff with also some siful relationship thing.

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Speaker 3: I like it was balanced, though I feel like.

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Speaker 2: You just made his life living hell, I'm willing.

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Speaker 3: To accept that he doesn't want to come back. I'll

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Speaker 3: have to break it to the cat, and I don't

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Speaker 1: You know, at the end of the day, the goal

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Speaker 1: was to get some closure for you, Adam, about what

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Speaker 3: You know what I did get closure. Life is a

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Speaker 3: giant joke, and I thought Roy was the jokester with me,

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Speaker 3: but apparently he's taken it all serious.

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Speaker 1: To find the middle ground there anyway, go ahead out him.

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Speaker 1: Feel free to hop on Craigslist and get yourself a

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Speaker 2: Hopefully none of them listen to this.

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Speaker 1: And happy belated birthday to Roy.

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Speaker 3: By the way, I don't wish him happy birthday. He's

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Speaker 1: Mammas,