WEBVTT - Second Date Update Classic: You, Me & Apathy

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, you found us.

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<v Speaker 2>It's working Jeffrey in the Morning and our Second Date podcast.

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<v Speaker 2>Not like is that hard to find these days since

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<v Speaker 2>we're charting on the top comedy.

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<v Speaker 1>Charts every week on Spotify.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah welcome. Yeah, I go every night and I just

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<v Speaker 3>stream it on five thousand different laptops.

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<v Speaker 1>You're the one that.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm sorry, guys, but I'm tired of those ratings.

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<v Speaker 4>All right, Hey, thanks for being Aaron.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't forget.

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<v Speaker 2>We do have forty five more minutes of this painful

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<v Speaker 2>show if you can endure it over on our main feed.

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<v Speaker 1>Just go to Brook and Jeffrey for that one. But

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<v Speaker 1>right now, let's get to what you came forward. That's

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<v Speaker 1>a second date.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, second date update. We're gonna do a fun little

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<v Speaker 3>experiment here.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh that's exciting.

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<v Speaker 3>Before you got together with your husband, Michael, think about

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<v Speaker 3>the last couple guys before him that you dated. I

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<v Speaker 3>need you to rate them based on their attractiveness. Just

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<v Speaker 3>simply one to ten.

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<v Speaker 2>The last two, Oh they're both well, no, okay, one

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<v Speaker 2>of them changing in your head. I'd give one of

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<v Speaker 2>them an eight, and then i'd give one of the

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<v Speaker 2>other ones when he.

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<v Speaker 4>Showered five showered unshowered, I go, ok, really greasy hair.

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<v Speaker 3>Now, A recent study says, if you average out the

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<v Speaker 3>numbers of your exes, that is what society deems your

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<v Speaker 3>number is, so brooke, you would be a solid five.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't actually argue that, Okay, I.

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<v Speaker 3>Didn't think you would. It's like you are what you eat,

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<v Speaker 3>you are who you've dated. One of our listeners may

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<v Speaker 3>be dealing with a numbers crisis in his dating life.

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<v Speaker 3>His name and I apologize if I pronounced this wrong.

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<v Speaker 3>Is it thom t h O M.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, there's an hys.

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<v Speaker 3>So according to your it says that before the date,

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<v Speaker 3>you considered yourself to be a six, but afterwards you

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<v Speaker 3>considered yourself a four. Now, oh, why why do you

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<v Speaker 3>feel that way? Did you fall face down on an escalator?

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<v Speaker 3>What's going on?

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<v Speaker 5>No? No, I mean when I went out with her,

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<v Speaker 5>I thought she was a six easily, but she's like

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<v Speaker 5>not calling me back. So now I'm thinking I'm a four.

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<v Speaker 3>You know you you can't lock down a six? Then? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>what is that?

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<v Speaker 5>Right?

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<v Speaker 2>Just like put it out there that no woman, no

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<v Speaker 2>matter where you actually think they stand, should ever be

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<v Speaker 2>called anything but a seven or eight.

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<v Speaker 3>Well yeah, yeah, at least not to their face. But

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<v Speaker 3>she's not on the phone right now, so we're allowed

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<v Speaker 3>to be honest.

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<v Speaker 1>What do you think you failed?

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<v Speaker 5>I have absolutely no idea. I mean, look, I didn't

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<v Speaker 5>put in like a ton of effort.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe that was It's one big clue there.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know what her name is.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, do you know what her name is? Do we

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<v Speaker 3>put that Shefford in?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah? Tory?

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<v Speaker 3>Is it Torri or is it Thory with an atre?

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<v Speaker 3>It's just yeah, Okay, where did you meet Tory?

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<v Speaker 5>Dating app? Which I normally it was? It was weird.

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<v Speaker 5>Like I normally, I kind of aim higher. I'm going

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<v Speaker 5>after seven to eight hear know, you gotta wait listen.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean that was the thing I've been like kind

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<v Speaker 5>of going after these sort of I guess aesthetically more

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<v Speaker 5>beautiful women. But it wasn't really working. So I was

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<v Speaker 5>kind of like, well, you know, I'll go out with

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<v Speaker 5>this girl. She's probably six.

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<v Speaker 3>I feel you broat.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you always think of people on this rating scale?

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<v Speaker 3>No? I mean, okay, all men think that way. Surprise flash.

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<v Speaker 3>We think beautiful women are beautiful.

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<v Speaker 1>Different.

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<v Speaker 2>That's different than rating every single person you meet.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, So here's my question.

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<v Speaker 3>Women do this. I know women rate guys.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't rate people in my head, like yes, I find.

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<v Speaker 2>Them attractive or not attractive for sure, but I don't play.

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<v Speaker 3>He was one of your boyfriends, was the only one went?

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<v Speaker 3>You don't wait people? Okay, I guess your word on that.

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<v Speaker 1>Can I just ask them a question?

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<v Speaker 3>Go ahead?

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<v Speaker 2>I'm curious because it doesn't sound like you are attracted

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<v Speaker 2>to this woman, and it doesn't sound like you're interested.

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<v Speaker 1>Why are you calling us to getting in touch with her.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean it's not as if I wasn't like unattracted

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<v Speaker 5>to her. I mean we were definitely getting along. I

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<v Speaker 5>guess you say, I.

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<v Speaker 2>Guess people, you keep on he's being rejected and he

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<v Speaker 2>hates it, you know what I mean?

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<v Speaker 1>Like it's a want what you can't have things?

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<v Speaker 3>That's true?

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know. I mean, look, we just went to

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<v Speaker 5>like a dive bar. It wasn't like we did some

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<v Speaker 5>big fancy dinner. I wasn't exactly willing to spend a

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<v Speaker 5>lot of money on it. But if I don't know, if.

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<v Speaker 3>She was a seven or eight, then you would have

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<v Speaker 3>gone the extra.

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<v Speaker 5>Mile and like paid extra probably would.

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<v Speaker 3>Have Okay, I think that's for you.

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<v Speaker 1>Were you nice to her when you were on the

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<v Speaker 1>day I'm.

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<v Speaker 3>Being serious about did you.

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<v Speaker 5>Compliment her a little bit? I mean, if we hung out,

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<v Speaker 5>I mean we laughed every once in a while. It

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<v Speaker 5>was kind of cool. The one thing that was kind.

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<v Speaker 3>Of strange, I guess after we had been.

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<v Speaker 5>Drinking a little bit, like went to the bathroom and

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<v Speaker 5>I came back and I was going to give her

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<v Speaker 5>like a surprise hug, but she was she was sitting

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<v Speaker 5>down on a bar stool, and I kind of like

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<v Speaker 5>gave her a hug from behind, and it was almost

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<v Speaker 5>like I got her in like a little head lug.

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<v Speaker 3>You're standing up and she's sitting, so, yeah, isn't right.

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<v Speaker 3>He didn't really put her in a.

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<v Speaker 1>Head No, my husband's height.

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<v Speaker 2>It's like whenever he hugs me from behind, it is

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<v Speaker 2>literally like a chokehold.

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<v Speaker 1>And I hate it. I hate it so much.

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<v Speaker 3>Did you let go after thirty seconds? Consciousness?

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<v Speaker 5>I gave her like a little new you know kind

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<v Speaker 5>of thing like.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you joking? No, that's a joke.

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<v Speaker 5>No, it was just like stupid quick thing.

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<v Speaker 3>That's a little friend.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, I would never call a bag.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't care if he was a twenty on what

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<v Speaker 2>other scale you're working on.

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<v Speaker 4>And gave me a noogie.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, but you're a broad Brook, you're a five. You

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<v Speaker 3>don't get to choose like that. We're talking about.

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<v Speaker 1>What was her response to the now gie?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, Look, she seems startled at first, but we had

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<v Speaker 5>been drinking, so it kind of she just brushed it

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<v Speaker 5>off and we just got back to talking.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay.

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<v Speaker 3>When she realized it was you, everything.

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<v Speaker 2>Was okay, and her mood didn't change, like, shouldn't become

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<v Speaker 2>more icy or cold towards you.

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<v Speaker 5>And to be honest, I didn't really notice because I

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<v Speaker 5>was sort of like not as interested anymore. I sort

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<v Speaker 5>of lost the desire to take it any further.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, man, whatever, am trying to be a

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<v Speaker 1>jerk right now?

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<v Speaker 3>No?

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<v Speaker 5>Look, I mean I'm being honest with you. That's totally

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<v Speaker 5>how it was. On the date, I was just like

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<v Speaker 5>not into it. But then when I got home, it

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<v Speaker 5>was like I realized, out of all the dates I've

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<v Speaker 5>been on and all the dates that I don't like,

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<v Speaker 5>I kind of liked her the most.

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<v Speaker 1>She was down.

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<v Speaker 2>She was the best of the worst, right right, Okay, Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm really concerned with myself that I.

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<v Speaker 4>Followed that.

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<v Speaker 3>Position that some of us have been in many, many times. So, okay,

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<v Speaker 3>how long has it been since your date with Toy?

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<v Speaker 5>Then it's been a week.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>Have you tried to put any effort in since it

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<v Speaker 2>doesn't sound like you put any in it initially?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I mean, look, I waited about four days and

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<v Speaker 5>then I called one. I didn't leave a messageor anything.

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<v Speaker 5>I just hung up and then I texted her after that.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow, okay, good.

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<v Speaker 3>And they say romance is dead, Well, some people might

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<v Speaker 3>think it's coming on a little bit strong. Let it

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<v Speaker 3>ring once bro ing. But we'll see how Tory feels

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<v Speaker 3>because we're going to come back. We'll call her directly.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm actually really excited to hear her opinion of this situation, and.

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<v Speaker 3>Maybe maybe we'll have her rate you, rate everybody in

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<v Speaker 3>this room.

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<v Speaker 1>We're gonna come back and healthy.

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<v Speaker 3>It's a rape fest when we come back for your

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<v Speaker 3>second date update. Right after this second date update, we've

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<v Speaker 3>got an interesting situation on our hands here with one

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<v Speaker 3>of our listeners, Thombe spelled like Tom but with an

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<v Speaker 3>H in there, and to a few of us on

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<v Speaker 3>the show, it sounds like he only wants another date

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<v Speaker 3>with this woman Tory because he's kind of bored or.

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<v Speaker 1>He's being rejected and hates that. I can't decide which.

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<v Speaker 3>He doesn't see that into her, at least according to

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<v Speaker 3>some people in this.

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<v Speaker 1>Room, according to him.

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<v Speaker 3>To me, he said that, well, I don't know how

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<v Speaker 3>he feels personally. It sounds like he is passionately in

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<v Speaker 3>love trying to play it KOI.

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<v Speaker 1>He told us that he was being honest like eight times,

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<v Speaker 1>so I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>That's what a koy person would say.

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<v Speaker 1>That trick me too, true.

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<v Speaker 3>Because there really weren't a lot of highlights to cover

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<v Speaker 3>from their dive bar hangout, except for when he tried

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<v Speaker 3>to hug her from behind and accidentally put her into

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<v Speaker 3>a mini headlock.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's a huge highlight. I mean, I'm more a

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<v Speaker 1>low lighte for her.

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<v Speaker 3>It's kind of playful flirtiness there.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not well so it could.

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<v Speaker 3>Be almost like the I do kiss. It's very cute

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<v Speaker 3>and romantic. That's the potential for it. Anyway, we're hoping

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<v Speaker 3>to help cure Thomb of his you know, eternal boredness

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<v Speaker 3>and get him another date with here Brook. Is there

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<v Speaker 3>anything disparaging you'd like to say to Thumb before we

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<v Speaker 3>begin here.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like I covered it all.

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<v Speaker 3>Anything left.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>What I want to ask him is if he is

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<v Speaker 2>going to be embarrassed if he gets rejected on the radio.

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<v Speaker 5>No, honestly, not really, Okay, no pressure.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean she's already basically rejecting you as it is.

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<v Speaker 3>Sure can't be rejected.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know how you know how much else I

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<v Speaker 5>can worry about that if it happens.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, we usually so you just don't care about that either, Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>we just I just full apathetic.

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<v Speaker 3>I can sense the passion in Tom's voice, right, Sorry,

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<v Speaker 3>tom My bad?

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<v Speaker 4>What if Thom's just killing time with us right now?

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<v Speaker 1>He's like, Man, I'm kind of bored.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm just gonna call this maybe, but let's get it done.

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<v Speaker 3>We'll see what she has to say. I'm gonna dial

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<v Speaker 3>her number right now.

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<v Speaker 5>You ready, you guys, are you asking me that?

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<v Speaker 3>Yes? Yeah, okay, never mind. Let me just focus on

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<v Speaker 3>Tory here.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, so many emails, and this is the one we

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<v Speaker 2>chose to do.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, Brook, we're not going to turn down the

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<v Speaker 3>chance to interview a hard four on his dating life.

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<v Speaker 3>So here we go. This is for Tho.

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<v Speaker 5>Let's call her.

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<v Speaker 3>Hello, Hi, we're looking to speak with Tory.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, this is her.

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<v Speaker 1>It is a dumb joke. Sorry, Tory.

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<v Speaker 3>What's up. You're on the radio with Brooke and Jeffrey

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<v Speaker 3>in the morning.

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<v Speaker 5>Hey, Torri, Hi, weird.

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<v Speaker 1>It's gonna get a lot weirder in a second.

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<v Speaker 3>We don't know that for sure. We do want to

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<v Speaker 3>try into your personal life, just the tiniest bit and

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<v Speaker 3>ask you about a date that you went on the

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<v Speaker 3>other day with a guy named Thomb. Oh. You probably

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<v Speaker 3>meant a lot of thomb so this one. Uh, he

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<v Speaker 3>was the one that took you to a dive bar.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah thomb Okay, I remember him.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, weird, he's weird or it's weird that we're calling No.

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<v Speaker 6>It's weird that you're it's weird that you're calling me.

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<v Speaker 3>Right, Well, we're just trying to ask in general, how

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<v Speaker 3>you felt about the date and how you felt about

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<v Speaker 3>thomb himself.

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<v Speaker 6>I don't know he's okay, Okay, fine, Okay, you ask

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<v Speaker 6>your Alexis on a scale.

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<v Speaker 3>No, let's not. Let's not go to the SUPERI that's

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<v Speaker 3>just weird, Okay, I don't want.

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<v Speaker 1>To hear that it's weird now, I see we're above.

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<v Speaker 3>That's what you want to ask, Like, we want to

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<v Speaker 3>get a sense of how you really feel about thomb.

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<v Speaker 3>Is there like a chance that there might be another meetup? Maybe?

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<v Speaker 6>I mean, I guess he did like text me. I

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<v Speaker 6>just I never texted him back, like he it was

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<v Speaker 6>a fine day. I mean, I didn't really seem like

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<v Speaker 6>he wanted to be there, but like I didn't really

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<v Speaker 6>want to be there either, So.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh okay, why didn't you want to be there?

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<v Speaker 6>I mean, it wasn't like a bad date, It just

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<v Speaker 6>wasn't a great day. I don't know. I guess I've

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<v Speaker 6>been like going back and forth on how I feel

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<v Speaker 6>about him.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, Like part of me is.

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<v Speaker 6>Like I can probably do better. Then there's another part

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<v Speaker 6>of me that's like is it even worth trying to

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<v Speaker 6>find somebody else? You know, like, don't settle.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't settle for.

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<v Speaker 3>Our listener, he's asked us for help.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't want him to settle either.

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<v Speaker 1>He also, I just.

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<v Speaker 3>You didn't say that to him.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>Is there any highlights or low lights, any moments from

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<v Speaker 2>the date that really stand out to you?

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<v Speaker 6>I mean not not really, Like I haven't even really

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<v Speaker 6>thought about him.

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<v Speaker 3>What do you mean you haven't thought about him?

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 6>Just like you know, you have an experience, it's like eh,

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<v Speaker 6>and then you just kind of like go about your

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<v Speaker 6>life and don't give it much attention.

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<v Speaker 3>Maybe no highlights is a highlight, Like that's actually in

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<v Speaker 3>itself that's interesting.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, wait, are you guys asking me? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>Have you ever thought of it that way?

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<v Speaker 1>All right?

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<v Speaker 3>The similarities are actually pretty striking. I know that's just

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<v Speaker 3>confusing me. I seem like I can't wait to see

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<v Speaker 3>the fireworks that explode out of a conversation when we

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<v Speaker 3>tell you, Tory that Thumb is actually on the other

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<v Speaker 3>line right now listening to this conversation. Oh yeah, and

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<v Speaker 3>he wants to he wants to jump in and talk

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<v Speaker 3>to you.

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<v Speaker 5>Huh hey, yeah, that's stop.

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<v Speaker 3>So we're just going to back away and let you

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<v Speaker 3>two love birds. Yeah, talk this out, go ahead.

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<v Speaker 6>Sorry. I mean, I I don't want to like hurt

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<v Speaker 6>your feelings. I'm just being honest, Like, I don't know,

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<v Speaker 6>I just didn't feel like it.

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<v Speaker 5>Was that special.

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<v Speaker 6>Really, no offense to you, like you're a nice guy.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, look, no offense taken. I agree it was

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<v Speaker 5>it was fine. It's not like we we didn't hate

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<v Speaker 5>each other, you know what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, No, I don't know. I mean I guess, like

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<v Speaker 6>I said, I'm like going back and forth. Part of

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<v Speaker 6>me is like, yeah, why not? It was like fine,

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<v Speaker 6>And then the other part of me is just like

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<v Speaker 6>he's not even on my mind at all that we

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<v Speaker 6>even went out.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, is this where dating sat?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>Is this what's happening? Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, look, I appreciate the honesty, and I'll be

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<v Speaker 5>honest with you. I mean I kind of only thought

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<v Speaker 5>about you when this radio show came on. They sort

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<v Speaker 5>of asked me if I wanted to do the second

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<v Speaker 5>date call so Kevin.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean, that's fair, That's totally fair. Like I think

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<v Speaker 6>back on their date, there's there's nothing like special about

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<v Speaker 6>our date, you.

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<v Speaker 5>Know, like I get it offended, weird, Like that's what

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<v Speaker 5>I kind of liked about it, Like the lack of interest,

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<v Speaker 5>Like there was no drama, and like that's kind of

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<v Speaker 5>not bad.

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<v Speaker 2>That was actually the most positive thing that I've heard

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<v Speaker 2>any of them say.

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<v Speaker 3>The most romantic things I've been spoken on the show.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you guys attracted to each other?

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<v Speaker 3>Very long?

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<v Speaker 5>Thought.

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<v Speaker 3>I think you guys are actually perfect for each other.

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<v Speaker 3>You're madly in love and you just don't care enough.

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<v Speaker 3>Yet the bar is set so so low for both

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<v Speaker 3>of you, not even that this might actually work.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I think there is a bar. I think the

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<v Speaker 1>bar is left.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, let's find out for sure, because Toy, we love

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<v Speaker 3>to offer you another date with Thomb, and we would

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<v Speaker 3>pay for that date if you're willing to see him

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<v Speaker 3>one more time.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean, I guess, like the dating apps are just.

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<v Speaker 5>So bad right now.

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<v Speaker 6>Like I don't know if you guys are on there,

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<v Speaker 6>but there's just like herves and weirdos and like I

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<v Speaker 6>had like a group of three things they wanted to

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<v Speaker 6>add a fourth one time. It's just like rock out there.

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<v Speaker 6>So we're giving I guess, yeah, like why not it

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<v Speaker 6>doesn't like her to do another one?

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<v Speaker 1>All right?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, to hold on, Brooke, he may have changed his mind.

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<v Speaker 3>Let's ask him, Thomb, are you still up for this?

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, I think it's great. I mean, I'll take

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<v Speaker 5>a free date, all right, I'll.

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<v Speaker 3>Take a free dad. And why not? How much worse

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<v Speaker 3>can it gets?

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<v Speaker 2>Sure?

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<v Speaker 3>What the heck? Well, congratulate. I don't even want to

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<v Speaker 3>congratulate you. It doesn't feel like it deserves the congratulations.

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<v Speaker 1>I have never been so depressed at the end of

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<v Speaker 1>a second day.

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<v Speaker 3>Now it's officially my favorite second date we've ever done.

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<v Speaker 3>Now that book's depressed. Good work, thomb and you're going

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<v Speaker 3>out one more time.

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<v Speaker 5>Good luck, Thanks guys, Are we done?

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<v Speaker 1>Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.