WEBVTT - Tori & Mason - Too Much Too Soon? The Taco Date That Turned Poetic

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<v Speaker 1>First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys

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<v Speaker 1>online at Advocateslaw dot com.

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<v Speaker 2>Mason is on the phone today for a first date

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<v Speaker 2>follow up and he's getting ghosted by a woman named Toy.

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<v Speaker 2>So in a few minutes we'll call her and see

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<v Speaker 2>if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe

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<v Speaker 2>get him a second date. But first, Mason, how long

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<v Speaker 2>has it been since you heard from Tory.

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<v Speaker 3>Gosh, it's been like ten days.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay. Have you tried to get a hold of her

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<v Speaker 4>in that time?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I mean, you know, I text her like a

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<v Speaker 3>couple of times and she just left.

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<v Speaker 4>You on red So why don't you tell us about

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<v Speaker 4>the date? Mason, Let's see if we can try to

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<v Speaker 4>help you out.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, yeah, it was really cool.

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<v Speaker 3>Went to this thing called a Taco crawl. I didn't

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<v Speaker 3>know about it, so we went to it. But it's like, uh,

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<v Speaker 3>kind of like a bar crawl.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, fun, that's cool. Yeah, that sounds like a good time.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it's like tacos obviously, and then restaurants, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>food trucks, and then there's also like mariachi bands and

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<v Speaker 3>all the dancing. It was really cool.

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<v Speaker 2>So that did she seem to like it.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, honestly, she she ate more tacos than I did.

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<v Speaker 3>I was like, damn, I can respect that.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh good. What else happened on the day.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, let's see, there was this moment she had hot

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<v Speaker 3>sauce on her nose and like I wiped it off

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<v Speaker 3>and we just kind of looked at each other and laughed.

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<v Speaker 3>You know. It felt like we knew each other way

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<v Speaker 3>longer than just a couple hours.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, so it was cute, not awkward.

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<v Speaker 3>No, I mean it was it was nice. It was

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<v Speaker 3>fun and like we both laughed. It wasn't like weird

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<v Speaker 3>or anything.

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<v Speaker 4>You know.

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<v Speaker 6>Mm hmmm, did you guys keep flirting with each other? Like,

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<v Speaker 6>did you have other moments?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, and it's kind of corny, but like we kissed

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<v Speaker 3>on top of the parking garage and like the sumb

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<v Speaker 3>was setting and it just felt so perfect.

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<v Speaker 6>So what could have gone wrong?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, gosh, like I did Okay, So I did do

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<v Speaker 3>one thing. I asked for mild salsa instead of spicy,

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<v Speaker 3>and she looked at me like kind of it made

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<v Speaker 3>me feel like she was questioning my manhood a little bit,

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<v Speaker 3>and I was like, I don't have a stomach.

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<v Speaker 5>Ulcer, which which is not true.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know why I lied about that.

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<v Speaker 6>How does she react to, oh, I have a stomach ulcer?

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<v Speaker 3>Like she's eating hot, hotter stuff that I am, but

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<v Speaker 3>she's just taking it, and I'm like, kind of, what's

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<v Speaker 3>it out? So I kind of felt a little bit

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<v Speaker 3>nervous about it, you know, So I just I don't know,

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<v Speaker 3>I impulsively lied.

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<v Speaker 6>So it's not so much that you didn't eat hot sauce.

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<v Speaker 6>Maybe she just knew that you were lying.

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<v Speaker 3>Now, like I wonder if she did, because I I

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<v Speaker 3>think I got like flustered and maybe it was kind

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<v Speaker 3>of obvious I was lying.

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<v Speaker 4>I do kind of stud I do sometimes kind of

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<v Speaker 4>look sideways though it does it can't do spicy why,

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<v Speaker 4>I'm like why, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 6>It's just kind of.

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<v Speaker 4>Like, wait, if I can, why can't you?

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<v Speaker 6>You know, don't you ever wonder that?

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<v Speaker 1>No?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, well, I mean I felt a little a little

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<v Speaker 3>bit like it's secure to be honest.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, do you think that's why she's ghosting you? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>it could be that.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean I don't know that that big of a deal,

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<v Speaker 3>but okay, well, I also drop the truro down the

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<v Speaker 3>storm drain and I said it was a sign from

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<v Speaker 3>the universe, and I feel like she thought that was stupid.

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<v Speaker 6>What kind of sign?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, oh, you know that this truro just wasn't meant

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<v Speaker 3>to be, you know.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, all right, so you think that she's ghosting you

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<v Speaker 2>because she thinks you might be a liar and stupid. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>it could be. All right, we'll play a song come back,

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<v Speaker 2>and then call her and see if she tell us

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<v Speaker 2>why she's ghosting you and maybe get you a second

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<v Speaker 2>data right, all right, thanks guys. Okay, we'll get your

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<v Speaker 2>first day follow up next. It's the Jewel Show. Right

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<v Speaker 2>in the middle of today's first date follow up, and

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<v Speaker 2>if you're just joining us, Mason is on the phone

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<v Speaker 2>and he's getting ghosted by a woman named Tori. So

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<v Speaker 2>we're about to call her and see if she'll tell

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<v Speaker 2>us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him a

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<v Speaker 2>second date if he still wants one. Before we do that, though, Mason,

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<v Speaker 2>why don't you break down your dating again for.

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<v Speaker 6>Us real quick?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, So we went to a taco crawl, which is

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<v Speaker 3>kind of like a bar crawl. We hit up like

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<v Speaker 3>a bunch of taco shops, had a really good time,

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<v Speaker 3>and we kissed on top of the garage, and I

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<v Speaker 3>kind of felt like maybe because I didn't I kind

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<v Speaker 3>of lied about like having the stomach ulcer when she

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<v Speaker 3>looked at me funny because I was eating wasn't eating

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<v Speaker 3>like the spicy sauce? And I throw down the drain

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<v Speaker 3>and said it was a size for the universe. So

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<v Speaker 3>maybe she thinks I'm corny or something. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, are you ready for us to call her?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, here we go. Hello, Hi man, speak of toy

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<v Speaker 2>please and this is cheap hey toy? How are you?

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<v Speaker 2>This is the Jubil Show. It's a radio show.

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<v Speaker 6>Hi Tori, I'm Nina.

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<v Speaker 2>Hi, I'm Victoria.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh h hi hi uh?

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<v Speaker 1>Is this one of those like prank shows or something.

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<v Speaker 5>Like, y'all got to help me out?

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<v Speaker 2>What's going on? No, we're calling you today because we

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<v Speaker 2>do a segment on our show it's called the first

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<v Speaker 2>Date follow up. That's where if you go on a

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<v Speaker 2>date with somebody and you ghost them, that person can

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<v Speaker 2>ask us to get you on the phone and ask

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<v Speaker 2>why you're ghosting them. So we got an email about

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<v Speaker 2>you from somebody.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh, my god, is this about taco guy Mason?

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<v Speaker 2>He's got a name. Yes, it is about Taco guy.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I mean, you know how you like, maybe the

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<v Speaker 1>girls know, Like when you're talking about guys with your girlfriends,

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<v Speaker 1>they all kind of wind up having nicknames. But I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't think people actually did this. Wow, I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>what to say.

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<v Speaker 6>Uh, yeah, are you ghosting him?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Honestly I ghosted him because he cried, Oh why not

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<v Speaker 1>like telling me something emotional or like something personal? He

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<v Speaker 1>teared up during a street performance. Uh there was like

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<v Speaker 1>a guy jugging, juggling flaming swords to my heart will

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<v Speaker 1>go on? Oh And I looked over and Mason literally

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<v Speaker 1>wiped away a tear.

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<v Speaker 5>I was like, is this that for real?

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<v Speaker 6>It's pretty cool.

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<v Speaker 2>Say anything to him about it.

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<v Speaker 5>Like you don't, you don't have to lean beyond.

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<v Speaker 2>Sorry, that's Mason. He's actually on the phone listing and

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<v Speaker 2>wants to talk to you.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh uh, hey, Mason.

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<v Speaker 1>Look, I'm not trying to like judge your feelings or whatever.

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<v Speaker 1>I just I need someone to start off with a

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<v Speaker 1>little more chill, like for I don't know if he

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<v Speaker 1>told y'all, but he also told me that my taco

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<v Speaker 1>order was poetry Like that seems a bit extreme, doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>seem very normal to me.

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<v Speaker 6>Were you being serious, Mason?

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, it was a perfect order. It had like

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<v Speaker 3>great texture, great heat. It was feel like a perfect balance.

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<v Speaker 3>I was just trying to compliment.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, okay, but you said it was and I quote,

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<v Speaker 5>the most sensual food pairing that you'd ever seen. Just

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<v Speaker 5>kind of threw me off.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh that sounds like it's flirting.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I mean I was. I was just flirting, like

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, you know, I wasn't trying to be like

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<v Speaker 3>weird about it or anything, but like we're on a day,

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<v Speaker 3>we're having fun, you know. I just thought it would

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<v Speaker 3>be like kind of a witty line. I wasn't trying

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<v Speaker 3>to make you feel uncomfortable or anything. Oh No, I

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<v Speaker 3>try to see things from like a perspective of like

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<v Speaker 3>beauty in the world, you know, like I try to

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<v Speaker 3>see things poetically.

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<v Speaker 1>Like.

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<v Speaker 3>I thought that was romantic, you know. I didn't think

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<v Speaker 3>it was like weird or anything. I just thought it

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<v Speaker 3>was like, hey, let's add some romance to the situation.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I mean, and honestly, this felt like being on

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<v Speaker 1>a date with a Hallmark card.

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<v Speaker 5>Very strong came across very strong.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if you told them about this already,

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<v Speaker 1>but you dropped the true and you said something about

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<v Speaker 1>like it's a time the universe, and I could just

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<v Speaker 1>kind of tell that, like people around us who are

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<v Speaker 1>looking at us, like, do you take it down a much?

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<v Speaker 3>I don't get what you mean by that, because like everybody,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, all these girls like on social media and stuff,

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<v Speaker 3>they say they want like a sensitive, poetic guy, and

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<v Speaker 3>now like you know, I did that, and now you're

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<v Speaker 3>telling me that that's a turn off. I don't.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't get it.

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<v Speaker 1>Listen, it was just a lot for a first date, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>Like I'm not like all those other girls, a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of girls on social media who are just constantly saying

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<v Speaker 1>whatever they you know, what they're looking for. I really

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<v Speaker 1>like masculine guys, okay, very masculine dudes.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, I feel like poetry is like the ultimate

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<v Speaker 3>like masculinity, because you're you're able to like be one

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<v Speaker 3>with your sensitive side while also like expressing.

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<v Speaker 6>Beauty with us.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, it's like it's it's hard to be vulnerable.

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<v Speaker 2>Like I feel like.

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<v Speaker 3>The the hyper masculinity thing, it's not even real sculinity

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<v Speaker 3>because they're hiding part of themselves, you know, like I

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<v Speaker 3>was bearing myself for you. That's that's how I feel

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<v Speaker 3>about it. Let me tell you something about Mason. Mason

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<v Speaker 3>loves hard and he isn't scared to show.

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<v Speaker 1>It's okay, okay, Mason, thank you for the update on Mason.

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<v Speaker 2>Tory, would you like another date with Mason? We'll pay

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<v Speaker 2>for it.

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<v Speaker 1>Honestly, Mason is very sweet, but I just need a

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<v Speaker 1>little less of the poetry because it's kind of coming

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<v Speaker 1>across as fake and a little more reality.

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<v Speaker 5>So I'm gonna say no. Guys, but Mason. You know,

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<v Speaker 5>Mason can go find Mason someone who likes the poetry

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<v Speaker 5>you for the first date.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, Tory, I guess something else that you'll never find

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<v Speaker 3>out about Mason is that I.

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<v Speaker 5>Have trouble finding on the way that fits. Bo's first

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<v Speaker 5>date follow up