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Speaker 1: First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys

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Speaker 1: online at Advocateslaw dot com.

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Speaker 2: Mason is on the phone today for a first date

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Speaker 2: follow up and he's getting ghosted by a woman named Toy.

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Speaker 2: So in a few minutes we'll call her and see

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Speaker 2: if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe

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Speaker 2: get him a second date. But first, Mason, how long

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Speaker 2: has it been since you heard from Tory.

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Speaker 3: Gosh, it's been like ten days.

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Speaker 4: Okay. Have you tried to get a hold of her

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Speaker 4: in that time?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, you know, I text her like a

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Speaker 3: couple of times and she just left.

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Speaker 4: You on red So why don't you tell us about

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Speaker 4: the date? Mason, Let's see if we can try to

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Speaker 4: help you out.

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Speaker 5: Well, yeah, it was really cool.

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Speaker 3: Went to this thing called a Taco crawl. I didn't

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Speaker 3: know about it, so we went to it. But it's like, uh,

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Speaker 3: kind of like a bar crawl.

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Speaker 2: Okay, fun, that's cool. Yeah, that sounds like a good time.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's like tacos obviously, and then restaurants, you know,

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Speaker 3: food trucks, and then there's also like mariachi bands and

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Speaker 3: all the dancing. It was really cool.

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Speaker 2: So that did she seem to like it.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, honestly, she she ate more tacos than I did.

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Speaker 3: I was like, damn, I can respect that.

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Speaker 6: Oh good. What else happened on the day.

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Speaker 3: Well, let's see, there was this moment she had hot

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Speaker 3: sauce on her nose and like I wiped it off

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Speaker 3: and we just kind of looked at each other and laughed.

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Speaker 3: You know. It felt like we knew each other way

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Speaker 3: longer than just a couple hours.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, so it was cute, not awkward.

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Speaker 3: No, I mean it was it was nice. It was

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Speaker 3: fun and like we both laughed. It wasn't like weird

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Speaker 3: or anything.

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Speaker 4: You know.

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Speaker 6: Mm hmmm, did you guys keep flirting with each other? Like,

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Speaker 6: did you have other moments?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Okay, and it's kind of corny, but like we kissed

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Speaker 3: on top of the parking garage and like the sumb

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Speaker 3: was setting and it just felt so perfect.

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Speaker 6: So what could have gone wrong?

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Speaker 3: Well, gosh, like I did Okay, So I did do

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Speaker 3: one thing. I asked for mild salsa instead of spicy,

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Speaker 3: and she looked at me like kind of it made

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Speaker 3: me feel like she was questioning my manhood a little bit,

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Speaker 3: and I was like, I don't have a stomach.

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Speaker 5: Ulcer, which which is not true.

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Speaker 3: I don't know why I lied about that.

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Speaker 6: How does she react to, oh, I have a stomach ulcer?

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Speaker 3: Like she's eating hot, hotter stuff that I am, but

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Speaker 3: she's just taking it, and I'm like, kind of, what's

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Speaker 3: it out? So I kind of felt a little bit

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Speaker 3: nervous about it, you know, So I just I don't know,

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Speaker 3: I impulsively lied.

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Speaker 6: So it's not so much that you didn't eat hot sauce.

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Speaker 6: Maybe she just knew that you were lying.

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Speaker 3: Now, like I wonder if she did, because I I

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Speaker 3: think I got like flustered and maybe it was kind

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Speaker 4: I do kind of stud I do sometimes kind of

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Speaker 4: look sideways though it does it can't do spicy why,

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Speaker 4: I'm like why, I don't know.

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Speaker 6: It's just kind of.

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Speaker 4: Like, wait, if I can, why can't you?

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Speaker 6: You know, don't you ever wonder that?

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Speaker 1: No?

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Speaker 3: Okay, well, I mean I felt a little a little

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Speaker 2: Okay, do you think that's why she's ghosting you? Yeah,

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Speaker 2: it could be that.

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Speaker 3: I mean I don't know that that big of a deal,

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Speaker 3: but okay, well, I also drop the truro down the

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Speaker 3: storm drain and I said it was a sign from

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Speaker 3: the universe, and I feel like she thought that was stupid.

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Speaker 6: What kind of sign?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, oh, you know that this truro just wasn't meant

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Speaker 2: Okay, all right, so you think that she's ghosting you

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Speaker 2: because she thinks you might be a liar and stupid. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: it could be. All right, we'll play a song come back,

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Speaker 2: and then call her and see if she tell us

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Speaker 2: why she's ghosting you and maybe get you a second

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Speaker 2: data right, all right, thanks guys. Okay, we'll get your

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Speaker 2: first day follow up next. It's the Jewel Show. Right

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Speaker 2: in the middle of today's first date follow up, and

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Speaker 2: if you're just joining us, Mason is on the phone

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Speaker 2: and he's getting ghosted by a woman named Tori. So

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Speaker 2: we're about to call her and see if she'll tell

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Speaker 2: us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him a

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Speaker 2: second date if he still wants one. Before we do that, though, Mason,

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Speaker 2: why don't you break down your dating again for.

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Speaker 6: Us real quick?

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Speaker 3: Okay, So we went to a taco crawl, which is

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Speaker 3: kind of like a bar crawl. We hit up like

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Speaker 3: a bunch of taco shops, had a really good time,

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Speaker 3: and we kissed on top of the garage, and I

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Speaker 3: kind of felt like maybe because I didn't I kind

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Speaker 3: of lied about like having the stomach ulcer when she

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Speaker 3: looked at me funny because I was eating wasn't eating

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Speaker 3: like the spicy sauce? And I throw down the drain

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Speaker 3: and said it was a size for the universe. So

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Speaker 3: maybe she thinks I'm corny or something. I don't know.

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Speaker 2: All right, are you ready for us to call her?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Okay, here we go. Hello, Hi man, speak of toy

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Speaker 2: please and this is cheap hey toy? How are you?

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Speaker 2: This is the Jubil Show. It's a radio show.

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Speaker 6: Hi Tori, I'm Nina.

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Speaker 2: Hi, I'm Victoria.

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Speaker 5: Oh h hi hi uh?

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Speaker 1: Is this one of those like prank shows or something.

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Speaker 5: Like, y'all got to help me out?

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Speaker 2: What's going on? No, we're calling you today because we

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Speaker 2: do a segment on our show it's called the first

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Speaker 2: Date follow up. That's where if you go on a

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Speaker 2: date with somebody and you ghost them, that person can

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Speaker 2: ask us to get you on the phone and ask

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Speaker 2: why you're ghosting them. So we got an email about

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Speaker 2: you from somebody.

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Speaker 5: Oh, my god, is this about taco guy Mason?

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Speaker 2: He's got a name. Yes, it is about Taco guy.

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Speaker 1: Well, I mean, you know how you like, maybe the

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Speaker 1: girls know, Like when you're talking about guys with your girlfriends,

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Speaker 1: they all kind of wind up having nicknames. But I

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Speaker 1: didn't think people actually did this. Wow, I don't know

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Speaker 1: what to say.

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Speaker 6: Uh, yeah, are you ghosting him?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Honestly I ghosted him because he cried, Oh why not

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Speaker 1: like telling me something emotional or like something personal? He

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Speaker 1: teared up during a street performance. Uh there was like

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Speaker 1: a guy jugging, juggling flaming swords to my heart will

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Speaker 1: go on? Oh And I looked over and Mason literally

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Speaker 1: wiped away a tear.

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Speaker 5: I was like, is this that for real?

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Speaker 6: It's pretty cool.

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Speaker 2: Say anything to him about it.

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Speaker 5: Like you don't, you don't have to lean beyond.

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Speaker 2: Sorry, that's Mason. He's actually on the phone listing and

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Speaker 2: wants to talk to you.

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Speaker 5: Oh uh, hey, Mason.

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Speaker 1: Look, I'm not trying to like judge your feelings or whatever.

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Speaker 1: I just I need someone to start off with a

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Speaker 1: little more chill, like for I don't know if he

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Speaker 1: told y'all, but he also told me that my taco

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Speaker 1: order was poetry Like that seems a bit extreme, doesn't

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Speaker 6: Were you being serious, Mason?

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Speaker 3: I mean, it was a perfect order. It had like

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Speaker 3: great texture, great heat. It was feel like a perfect balance.

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Speaker 3: I was just trying to compliment.

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Speaker 5: Okay, okay, but you said it was and I quote,

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Speaker 5: the most sensual food pairing that you'd ever seen. Just

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Speaker 6: Oh that sounds like it's flirting.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean I was. I was just flirting, like

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Speaker 3: I mean, you know, I wasn't trying to be like

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Speaker 3: we're having fun, you know. I just thought it would

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Speaker 3: be like kind of a witty line. I wasn't trying

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Speaker 3: to make you feel uncomfortable or anything. Oh No, I

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Speaker 3: try to see things from like a perspective of like

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Speaker 3: see things poetically.

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Speaker 1: Like.

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Speaker 3: I thought that was romantic, you know. I didn't think

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Speaker 3: it was like weird or anything. I just thought it

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, and honestly, this felt like being on

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Speaker 1: a date with a Hallmark card.

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Speaker 5: Very strong came across very strong.

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Speaker 1: I don't know if you told them about this already,

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Speaker 1: but you dropped the true and you said something about

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Speaker 1: like it's a time the universe, and I could just

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Speaker 1: kind of tell that, like people around us who are

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Speaker 1: looking at us, like, do you take it down a much?

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Speaker 3: I don't get what you mean by that, because like everybody,

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Speaker 3: you know, all these girls like on social media and stuff,

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Speaker 3: they say they want like a sensitive, poetic guy, and

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Speaker 3: now like you know, I did that, and now you're

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Speaker 3: telling me that that's a turn off. I don't.

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Speaker 5: I don't get it.

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Speaker 1: Listen, it was just a lot for a first date, Okay,

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Speaker 1: Like I'm not like all those other girls, a lot

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Speaker 1: of girls on social media who are just constantly saying

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Speaker 1: whatever they you know, what they're looking for. I really

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Speaker 1: like masculine guys, okay, very masculine dudes.

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Speaker 3: I mean, I feel like poetry is like the ultimate

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Speaker 3: like masculinity, because you're you're able to like be one

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Speaker 3: with your sensitive side while also like expressing.

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Speaker 6: Beauty with us.

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Speaker 3: You know, it's like it's it's hard to be vulnerable.

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Speaker 2: Like I feel like.

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Speaker 3: The the hyper masculinity thing, it's not even real sculinity

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Speaker 3: because they're hiding part of themselves, you know, like I

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Speaker 3: was bearing myself for you. That's that's how I feel

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Speaker 3: about it. Let me tell you something about Mason. Mason

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Speaker 3: loves hard and he isn't scared to show.

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Speaker 1: It's okay, okay, Mason, thank you for the update on Mason.

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Speaker 2: Tory, would you like another date with Mason? We'll pay

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Speaker 2: for it.

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Speaker 1: Honestly, Mason is very sweet, but I just need a

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Speaker 1: little less of the poetry because it's kind of coming

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Speaker 1: across as fake and a little more reality.

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Speaker 5: So I'm gonna say no. Guys, but Mason. You know,

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Speaker 5: Mason can go find Mason someone who likes the poetry

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Speaker 5: you for the first date.

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Speaker 3: Well, Tory, I guess something else that you'll never find

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Speaker 3: out about Mason is that I.

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Speaker 5: Have trouble finding on the way that fits. Bo's first

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