1 00:00:00,680 --> 00:00:05,400 Speaker 1: There was the problem. 2 00:00:05,600 --> 00:00:06,600 Speaker 2: We're taking mud. 3 00:00:09,039 --> 00:00:12,960 Speaker 1: And three two one. Hi, I'm Joe Gatto and this 4 00:00:13,160 --> 00:00:15,920 Speaker 1: is two Cool Mouse Pod. Now I was just you 5 00:00:15,920 --> 00:00:18,480 Speaker 1: gonna say your name. Oh shoot, let's go. Let's try 6 00:00:18,480 --> 00:00:21,280 Speaker 1: the other way. One two three, Hey, my name's Joe Gatto. 7 00:00:22,000 --> 00:00:25,040 Speaker 2: I'm Steve Mom. Cool close and you're so cool. All right, 8 00:00:25,079 --> 00:00:26,200 Speaker 2: you know what, I'll just take the whole thing. You 9 00:00:26,280 --> 00:00:27,720 Speaker 2: just give a thumb up at the end, a thumbs 10 00:00:27,760 --> 00:00:30,560 Speaker 2: up at the Endready, Hey, everybody, I'm Joe Gatto along 11 00:00:30,600 --> 00:00:33,199 Speaker 2: with Steve Burn, and they're listening to two Cool Moms. 12 00:00:34,960 --> 00:00:40,440 Speaker 2: Great because if they're listening, you didn't do anything and 13 00:00:40,479 --> 00:00:41,680 Speaker 2: they're not watching the video for you. 14 00:00:41,720 --> 00:00:44,280 Speaker 1: That thumbs up. You know what, Steve, this is what 15 00:00:44,320 --> 00:00:50,920 Speaker 1: I love about you. Yes, adding value, so much, so 16 00:00:51,080 --> 00:00:51,680 Speaker 1: much value. 17 00:00:51,720 --> 00:00:53,920 Speaker 2: Just setting the plate for you, just setting the plate, 18 00:00:54,160 --> 00:00:54,840 Speaker 2: adding value. 19 00:00:54,880 --> 00:00:55,960 Speaker 1: I think that's very important. 20 00:00:56,240 --> 00:00:58,040 Speaker 2: So you know, the dinner to a plate at the 21 00:00:58,040 --> 00:01:00,600 Speaker 2: table is always nice to have when we're eating together. 22 00:01:00,920 --> 00:01:04,080 Speaker 2: And here we are and feasting on the podcast world 23 00:01:04,160 --> 00:01:07,080 Speaker 2: with our friends. Everyone who's joined us, all six people listening, 24 00:01:07,280 --> 00:01:10,720 Speaker 2: Yeah you me. Jigg's barely listening, but he's got his 25 00:01:10,760 --> 00:01:14,759 Speaker 2: own cameram good. To see Jiggy. 26 00:01:14,800 --> 00:01:17,160 Speaker 1: How are you doing great? It's great to be here. Yeah, 27 00:01:17,280 --> 00:01:17,960 Speaker 1: we love it. 28 00:01:20,080 --> 00:01:22,560 Speaker 2: I've never seen Jigging in bad mood. I'm sure you might. 29 00:01:24,160 --> 00:01:27,399 Speaker 1: It's a rare occasion. It's rare gets moods. You know. 30 00:01:27,600 --> 00:01:29,280 Speaker 2: He does a good job of hiding it. But I 31 00:01:29,280 --> 00:01:32,280 Speaker 2: will say there are some triggers for our friend Jiggers. 32 00:01:32,360 --> 00:01:34,400 Speaker 3: Yeah. 33 00:01:34,440 --> 00:01:36,240 Speaker 1: One of them. One of the trigger triggs for Jiggy 34 00:01:36,319 --> 00:01:40,200 Speaker 1: Jigs is incompetence by someone. It's his biggest one. If 35 00:01:40,200 --> 00:01:41,399 Speaker 1: there's an incompetent thing. 36 00:01:41,920 --> 00:01:44,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I've been out to eat with him and 37 00:01:44,040 --> 00:01:47,880 Speaker 2: if like he asked for like the salt, and they'll 38 00:01:47,880 --> 00:01:49,120 Speaker 2: come back to that. When it comes back, it's like, 39 00:01:49,280 --> 00:01:50,000 Speaker 2: is everything okay? 40 00:01:50,040 --> 00:01:53,680 Speaker 1: And he'll be like just the salt, Oh, yes, the salt. 41 00:01:53,680 --> 00:01:55,400 Speaker 1: You know that kind of thing. You know that kind 42 00:01:55,440 --> 00:01:55,960 Speaker 1: of thing, you know. 43 00:01:56,200 --> 00:01:58,600 Speaker 2: Or I see him on phone calls where his whole 44 00:01:58,640 --> 00:02:01,000 Speaker 2: demeanoral change, like be like, hey, what's. 45 00:02:00,920 --> 00:02:04,320 Speaker 1: Up and they're like, oh okay. Then I just of this, 46 00:02:04,720 --> 00:02:07,000 Speaker 1: you know, he becomes Mark. He goes from jig and 47 00:02:07,000 --> 00:02:08,519 Speaker 1: he goes to Mark right right. 48 00:02:08,800 --> 00:02:11,360 Speaker 4: Hospitality situations do get me frustrated because I worked in 49 00:02:11,400 --> 00:02:12,080 Speaker 4: hospitality for. 50 00:02:12,080 --> 00:02:14,760 Speaker 1: A while, I worked at one of the premiere the premier. 51 00:02:15,200 --> 00:02:18,440 Speaker 4: Hospitality, So I feel like I take it personally, like 52 00:02:18,480 --> 00:02:20,640 Speaker 4: when when service isn't right, it does affect me. 53 00:02:20,800 --> 00:02:22,720 Speaker 3: There's a bar of excellence you have, but that that 54 00:02:22,800 --> 00:02:26,760 Speaker 3: is so true anywhere we've gone hotels, restaurants, doesn't matter store. 55 00:02:27,360 --> 00:02:30,600 Speaker 3: You both are pretty keen on great service, oh for. 56 00:02:30,560 --> 00:02:32,240 Speaker 1: Sure, but I mean him and hotels. 57 00:02:33,120 --> 00:02:35,600 Speaker 2: When there's an incompetence at the front desk, he literally 58 00:02:35,639 --> 00:02:37,680 Speaker 2: starts telling people how to do their job. He's like, 59 00:02:37,720 --> 00:02:39,480 Speaker 2: you can just rout the chargers to the both room 60 00:02:39,680 --> 00:02:42,400 Speaker 2: for both rooms that like he said. He says like that, 61 00:02:42,440 --> 00:02:43,839 Speaker 2: He's like, it's one card, we don't have to scand 62 00:02:43,840 --> 00:02:45,440 Speaker 2: the three times you could just wrap route the charges 63 00:02:45,480 --> 00:02:46,440 Speaker 2: to that your rude. 64 00:02:46,639 --> 00:02:48,400 Speaker 1: And the woman's like, oh, you're right, I could do that, 65 00:02:48,520 --> 00:02:49,280 Speaker 1: Like I know you can do that. 66 00:02:49,720 --> 00:02:52,160 Speaker 2: But he doesn't realize we're in a freaking married courtyard 67 00:02:52,360 --> 00:02:55,520 Speaker 2: and fucking but duncan duncan Wisconsin. 68 00:02:56,680 --> 00:02:59,200 Speaker 4: He gets it, like I I can't imagine what would 69 00:02:59,240 --> 00:03:01,480 Speaker 4: be like for Joe to check into a hotel. And 70 00:03:01,520 --> 00:03:03,560 Speaker 4: sometimes we've seen some crazy stuff, like we were checking 71 00:03:03,560 --> 00:03:06,000 Speaker 4: into a hotel in like Illinois and it's like, oh, 72 00:03:06,040 --> 00:03:08,000 Speaker 4: we got the reservation right here, and then she pulls 73 00:03:08,040 --> 00:03:10,480 Speaker 4: out her phone and is on a full blown face 74 00:03:10,560 --> 00:03:11,880 Speaker 4: time with her husband. 75 00:03:11,520 --> 00:03:14,919 Speaker 1: Like look, who's here? Are you serious? We weren't even 76 00:03:14,919 --> 00:03:15,240 Speaker 1: at the. 77 00:03:15,160 --> 00:03:18,320 Speaker 4: Credit card transaction And it's a full face time where Joe. 78 00:03:19,880 --> 00:03:22,280 Speaker 1: Especially for like that gets me going. I get uncom. 79 00:03:24,400 --> 00:03:27,079 Speaker 2: I will say, I'm I'm normally in a good mood too. 80 00:03:27,120 --> 00:03:30,720 Speaker 2: I do think when people say no when they. 81 00:03:30,600 --> 00:03:32,399 Speaker 1: Could clearly say yes to help. 82 00:03:32,760 --> 00:03:34,800 Speaker 2: You as a customer, those things are like like what 83 00:03:34,920 --> 00:03:36,839 Speaker 2: airlines is like, there's just little things that you could 84 00:03:36,840 --> 00:03:39,680 Speaker 2: do that are that that that's for me. That's that's 85 00:03:39,680 --> 00:03:43,120 Speaker 2: a choice someone's making you not to be helpful, you know. 86 00:03:43,200 --> 00:03:44,760 Speaker 2: So that that is where I get it. It's not 87 00:03:44,800 --> 00:03:47,120 Speaker 2: really an incompetence. It's more like the choice because some 88 00:03:47,120 --> 00:03:50,040 Speaker 2: people sometimes does and they don't understand what's going on. 89 00:03:52,560 --> 00:03:54,600 Speaker 2: So they don't understand what's going on. It's like, all right, 90 00:03:54,600 --> 00:03:57,240 Speaker 2: this person just doesn't you know, every light's not on 91 00:03:57,320 --> 00:03:57,840 Speaker 2: in the attic. 92 00:03:58,080 --> 00:04:00,800 Speaker 3: I see it all the time with with with airlines, 93 00:04:00,880 --> 00:04:02,880 Speaker 3: we fly all the time. I'll never forget this one time, 94 00:04:02,880 --> 00:04:05,960 Speaker 3: this one flight attendant there was a guy who was 95 00:04:06,000 --> 00:04:08,480 Speaker 3: a little shorter that was having trouble putting his thing up, 96 00:04:08,520 --> 00:04:10,440 Speaker 3: and he put it down. He looked at the flight attendant, 97 00:04:10,480 --> 00:04:12,160 Speaker 3: the flight attend and goes, it's not my job, sir, 98 00:04:12,920 --> 00:04:14,080 Speaker 3: and you're just thinking. 99 00:04:14,000 --> 00:04:16,720 Speaker 1: Come on considered, you help him and put him in 100 00:04:16,720 --> 00:04:22,160 Speaker 1: the overhead. So you ever get there, Phil, don't worry. 101 00:04:22,680 --> 00:04:26,360 Speaker 3: Save some night's safe down here, speed or hanging out. 102 00:04:26,400 --> 00:04:29,080 Speaker 3: You shut the damn thing, get these sketchers in there. 103 00:04:29,400 --> 00:04:31,880 Speaker 1: Oh man. I had I love when. 104 00:04:33,600 --> 00:04:34,960 Speaker 2: I used to do this bit all the time, and 105 00:04:35,000 --> 00:04:36,720 Speaker 2: I still do it just for fun. Where I'll will 106 00:04:36,800 --> 00:04:39,960 Speaker 2: it'll take me too long to put my put my 107 00:04:40,400 --> 00:04:43,159 Speaker 2: bag overhead, and you've seen it, and I just have 108 00:04:43,320 --> 00:04:45,720 Speaker 2: like my I make sure my shirt's up just enough 109 00:04:45,800 --> 00:04:51,840 Speaker 2: to be. It's a backpack this big, and it's no 110 00:04:51,960 --> 00:04:54,680 Speaker 2: reason why, and I'll just bounce around and like this. 111 00:04:55,360 --> 00:04:57,120 Speaker 2: And then sometimes I used to travel with the boys. 112 00:04:57,120 --> 00:04:59,200 Speaker 2: I would travel with Sal. I would always take Sala's 113 00:04:59,240 --> 00:05:05,520 Speaker 2: bag down, put my bag in. I'd wait to look 114 00:05:05,560 --> 00:05:07,599 Speaker 2: because see when he gets on, he clicks in, he 115 00:05:07,680 --> 00:05:10,080 Speaker 2: puts his head on, and I remember what time we 116 00:05:10,080 --> 00:05:12,400 Speaker 2: were flying, wherever we were flying. He puts his shot 117 00:05:12,480 --> 00:05:13,919 Speaker 2: on like he puts he looks like he has a 118 00:05:14,120 --> 00:05:17,640 Speaker 2: he looks like who's from South Park Kenny who gets killed? 119 00:05:17,640 --> 00:05:19,080 Speaker 1: He looks like that, like he's got his thing, his 120 00:05:19,160 --> 00:05:20,719 Speaker 1: hood on. You can't even see anything. 121 00:05:20,839 --> 00:05:22,440 Speaker 2: And one time I took down his bag and put 122 00:05:22,480 --> 00:05:23,800 Speaker 2: my bag up because there's no more room, and I 123 00:05:23,880 --> 00:05:25,839 Speaker 2: loved in the middle of the aisle and then. 124 00:05:27,360 --> 00:05:30,400 Speaker 1: Goes, whose bag is this? Whose bag is this? And 125 00:05:30,440 --> 00:05:33,040 Speaker 1: it sounds like got his headphones on listening to Biggie Smalls. 126 00:05:33,240 --> 00:05:33,719 Speaker 1: Well he does not. 127 00:05:33,800 --> 00:05:35,640 Speaker 2: He's listening to like Tony Tony and the Tony Tones, 128 00:05:35,800 --> 00:05:37,880 Speaker 2: like because he knows every band right, and he's like 129 00:05:37,920 --> 00:05:39,640 Speaker 2: sitting there listening to his music whatever. 130 00:05:39,760 --> 00:05:41,719 Speaker 1: He's got his sting on, his face is covered, and 131 00:05:41,720 --> 00:05:44,280 Speaker 1: he're like, whose bag is this? Whose bag is this? 132 00:05:44,720 --> 00:05:45,920 Speaker 1: And it's stuck getting more urgent. 133 00:05:46,279 --> 00:05:47,880 Speaker 2: And then I was like, I think it's that guy's 134 00:05:48,080 --> 00:05:50,560 Speaker 2: and she's like, sir, it's this year bag goes yeah, 135 00:05:50,600 --> 00:05:53,000 Speaker 2: He's like it's I was like, he's like it was 136 00:05:53,040 --> 00:05:54,640 Speaker 2: in the overhead and he's like. 137 00:05:54,720 --> 00:05:59,720 Speaker 1: No, my bag's in the He's like so funny. 138 00:06:00,160 --> 00:06:02,839 Speaker 3: He's like he's he's the one person you you you 139 00:06:02,880 --> 00:06:04,839 Speaker 3: shouldn't do that stuff too, right, because that's why you 140 00:06:04,839 --> 00:06:05,200 Speaker 3: do it right. 141 00:06:05,560 --> 00:06:07,400 Speaker 1: Everyone laughing him. It's fun. 142 00:06:08,000 --> 00:06:10,760 Speaker 2: But like getting getting onto a plane is always an 143 00:06:10,760 --> 00:06:12,000 Speaker 2: opportunity for fun for me. 144 00:06:12,200 --> 00:06:15,200 Speaker 1: I always enjoy getting like into my seat. 145 00:06:15,279 --> 00:06:17,680 Speaker 2: I'll always like look like if I'm seat sixteen like 146 00:06:17,920 --> 00:06:19,159 Speaker 2: b and I'll start. 147 00:06:18,960 --> 00:06:25,400 Speaker 1: A two up, like two three like my brother law Vini. 148 00:06:25,400 --> 00:06:27,119 Speaker 1: You know he's a big deal, right, so I always 149 00:06:27,160 --> 00:06:31,479 Speaker 1: book him in the middle seat no purpose, big Vin. I'll 150 00:06:31,480 --> 00:06:32,880 Speaker 1: get him right in the middle of purpose. 151 00:06:32,960 --> 00:06:37,600 Speaker 2: Like he's like, why book twelve E And he's like 152 00:06:37,600 --> 00:06:39,080 Speaker 2: they're trying to put him in the b He's the. 153 00:06:39,000 --> 00:06:40,720 Speaker 3: Guy if you're like on a Southwest flight and he's 154 00:06:40,760 --> 00:06:44,360 Speaker 3: walking down here, like do not keep going? 155 00:06:44,440 --> 00:06:47,400 Speaker 1: Yeah? Yeah. But in the Caribbean, we all, like Bessie 156 00:06:47,440 --> 00:06:48,039 Speaker 1: likes to book us. 157 00:06:48,080 --> 00:06:50,080 Speaker 2: We've traveled with his family a lot, and she likes 158 00:06:50,120 --> 00:06:52,880 Speaker 2: to book us sitting together. And I'm like, just put 159 00:06:52,920 --> 00:06:55,960 Speaker 2: them and just put Vin grab Vinnie a comfort plus seat, 160 00:06:56,040 --> 00:06:57,720 Speaker 2: and she's like no, because then we're not all sitting together, 161 00:06:57,720 --> 00:06:59,440 Speaker 2: Like do you think Vinnie cares for the three hours 162 00:06:59,480 --> 00:07:01,840 Speaker 2: are going to paid, there's gonna be sitting with us 163 00:07:02,040 --> 00:07:04,240 Speaker 2: crammed in the middle like he wants that vacation to 164 00:07:04,320 --> 00:07:07,320 Speaker 2: start in the play and in the extra leg room section. 165 00:07:07,480 --> 00:07:09,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, of course you can't do that. 166 00:07:09,360 --> 00:07:13,840 Speaker 2: Sometimes people will look and be like, no, no, no, 167 00:07:14,160 --> 00:07:14,520 Speaker 2: not you. 168 00:07:14,800 --> 00:07:17,440 Speaker 1: What are you doing? Do you ever think the bus 169 00:07:17,560 --> 00:07:18,640 Speaker 1: that where it's open seating. 170 00:07:19,640 --> 00:07:21,480 Speaker 2: And when I used to go for Infant Staten Island, 171 00:07:21,480 --> 00:07:23,120 Speaker 2: there was open seating, and you'd have to be like 172 00:07:23,160 --> 00:07:25,160 Speaker 2: you just it was the express bus from Staten Island 173 00:07:25,160 --> 00:07:26,840 Speaker 2: to get into the city. You sit wherever, you just 174 00:07:26,840 --> 00:07:28,720 Speaker 2: pay for your ticket to get on right, and you 175 00:07:28,760 --> 00:07:31,000 Speaker 2: would hate if somebody was gonna sit next to you right, 176 00:07:31,200 --> 00:07:33,200 Speaker 2: and you would just hope that it wouldn't. And ever 177 00:07:33,320 --> 00:07:34,840 Speaker 2: when it came to the last stop, like if you 178 00:07:34,840 --> 00:07:36,440 Speaker 2: had an empty seat, you'd be like, oh, please, don't 179 00:07:36,440 --> 00:07:38,440 Speaker 2: be a lot of people at least right, And then 180 00:07:38,480 --> 00:07:41,520 Speaker 2: there'd always just be four empty seats and the person 181 00:07:41,560 --> 00:07:43,240 Speaker 2: would always just pick the one next to me all 182 00:07:43,240 --> 00:07:43,720 Speaker 2: the ways. 183 00:07:43,840 --> 00:07:44,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, I was. 184 00:07:44,720 --> 00:07:47,840 Speaker 3: I got sad at a restaurant in Vegas recently, and 185 00:07:47,920 --> 00:07:48,760 Speaker 3: I love this restaurant. 186 00:07:48,760 --> 00:07:49,560 Speaker 1: It's one of my favorites. 187 00:07:49,600 --> 00:07:52,080 Speaker 3: But I you know, I'm by myself, so I'm like, well, 188 00:07:52,120 --> 00:07:53,600 Speaker 3: I was with wy It. Actually it was with wyat 189 00:07:53,680 --> 00:07:55,960 Speaker 3: or good front white, the same thing as I sit 190 00:07:56,280 --> 00:07:59,720 Speaker 3: at the bar right right next to each other. The 191 00:08:00,000 --> 00:08:04,640 Speaker 3: hoess brings a guy over and sits him next to me, 192 00:08:05,200 --> 00:08:07,120 Speaker 3: literally next to me on the same table, four top 193 00:08:07,360 --> 00:08:07,920 Speaker 3: at a bar. 194 00:08:08,080 --> 00:08:09,600 Speaker 1: Oh at a bar, at the whole bar. 195 00:08:10,000 --> 00:08:13,440 Speaker 2: Okay what? And then she comes over ten minutes later 196 00:08:13,520 --> 00:08:15,720 Speaker 2: and sits a guy next to that guy. Now there's 197 00:08:15,760 --> 00:08:18,760 Speaker 2: four of us and sitting at an empty bar, all 198 00:08:18,760 --> 00:08:20,440 Speaker 2: next to each other, and. 199 00:08:20,360 --> 00:08:21,880 Speaker 3: Nobody's talking to each other. And I just look at 200 00:08:21,920 --> 00:08:25,200 Speaker 3: him and go, guys, are you a little uncomfortable that 201 00:08:25,240 --> 00:08:26,760 Speaker 3: she set us all next to each other? And the 202 00:08:26,800 --> 00:08:28,800 Speaker 3: one guy goes, I can't stand it. And guy goes, 203 00:08:28,880 --> 00:08:32,400 Speaker 3: I don't understand what's happening. But nobody moved and we 204 00:08:32,440 --> 00:08:34,480 Speaker 3: all just ate our lunch together. So why did I talk? 205 00:08:35,760 --> 00:08:37,920 Speaker 3: And then we talked about baseball for a second, all 206 00:08:37,960 --> 00:08:40,200 Speaker 3: of us, and then everybody just ate their meals and 207 00:08:40,240 --> 00:08:42,200 Speaker 3: they could have moved down. By the way, this is 208 00:08:42,240 --> 00:08:46,480 Speaker 3: a huge square bar. It's like cheers, right, and we 209 00:08:46,480 --> 00:08:49,040 Speaker 3: were all just four people in the corner and an 210 00:08:49,080 --> 00:08:51,120 Speaker 3: empty bar around us, And I was like, why did 211 00:08:51,120 --> 00:08:52,640 Speaker 3: this moron see us like this? 212 00:08:52,640 --> 00:08:54,520 Speaker 2: This is so weird. I don't know. 213 00:08:54,520 --> 00:08:57,640 Speaker 1: Maybe she thought we wanted to beat He was like, hey, 214 00:08:57,720 --> 00:08:58,640 Speaker 1: maybe i'll make some friends here. 215 00:08:58,679 --> 00:09:00,520 Speaker 2: Maybe we'll make some best friends, because every you know, 216 00:09:00,559 --> 00:09:01,840 Speaker 2: best friend starts as a stranger. 217 00:09:03,920 --> 00:09:07,280 Speaker 4: Oh my god, I used to you know, I used 218 00:09:07,280 --> 00:09:09,720 Speaker 4: to be so on the bus there's like two people. 219 00:09:09,800 --> 00:09:12,640 Speaker 4: You're either the waiter, you know, the waiter of people 220 00:09:12,679 --> 00:09:15,120 Speaker 4: walking down the aisle. I praise people doesn't sit with me. 221 00:09:15,160 --> 00:09:16,840 Speaker 4: And now I used to be a waiter, like pray 222 00:09:16,960 --> 00:09:19,040 Speaker 4: someone doesn't sit with me. And then I changed to 223 00:09:19,080 --> 00:09:21,080 Speaker 4: be a picker, so I used Now I went to 224 00:09:21,120 --> 00:09:23,280 Speaker 4: the back of the line of the bus because you 225 00:09:23,320 --> 00:09:24,560 Speaker 4: get to pick or you get to sit with. 226 00:09:26,000 --> 00:09:28,400 Speaker 2: Total game changer, So take your time to get on 227 00:09:28,400 --> 00:09:31,320 Speaker 2: the bus. So you you are picking your destiny. 228 00:09:31,480 --> 00:09:33,640 Speaker 4: I'm picking I get to sit with. But if you 229 00:09:33,679 --> 00:09:35,240 Speaker 4: go early, you're a waiter. 230 00:09:35,280 --> 00:09:35,640 Speaker 1: You get this. 231 00:09:35,760 --> 00:09:36,640 Speaker 3: You don't have any choice. 232 00:09:36,640 --> 00:09:39,040 Speaker 1: So you say smart game changer. Smart. See IM tell 233 00:09:39,120 --> 00:09:40,000 Speaker 1: you he's not Sigg's. 234 00:09:40,600 --> 00:09:42,640 Speaker 2: He gets the layer of the land. I used to 235 00:09:42,679 --> 00:09:44,560 Speaker 2: do the backpack on the seat and then I would like, 236 00:09:44,840 --> 00:09:46,280 Speaker 2: if I like, who was coming, I would make sure 237 00:09:46,280 --> 00:09:47,600 Speaker 2: I'd be like, oh, let me move that for you. 238 00:09:47,679 --> 00:09:49,280 Speaker 2: And like trying to invite them to the seat, and 239 00:09:49,280 --> 00:09:50,840 Speaker 2: then he'd be like no, thank you, and they'd keep walking. 240 00:09:50,840 --> 00:09:51,760 Speaker 1: I'm like, son of a bitch. 241 00:09:52,640 --> 00:09:56,840 Speaker 2: When I'm underwrated a train, train is you know, I 242 00:09:56,880 --> 00:09:58,640 Speaker 2: have some dates coming up, and I was like I 243 00:09:58,679 --> 00:09:59,079 Speaker 2: could fly. 244 00:09:59,160 --> 00:10:00,920 Speaker 1: I was like, wait, I could take train. I'm just 245 00:10:00,960 --> 00:10:04,320 Speaker 1: gonna take the train. I'd rather four hours, yeah, four 246 00:10:04,360 --> 00:10:05,120 Speaker 1: hours max. 247 00:10:05,480 --> 00:10:08,800 Speaker 2: Four hours on a train, read, write, watch a movie. 248 00:10:08,840 --> 00:10:10,720 Speaker 2: I mean get out, you get case, you take the 249 00:10:10,800 --> 00:10:13,960 Speaker 2: airport out of it. Oh, I will do. I will 250 00:10:13,960 --> 00:10:17,040 Speaker 2: take a mule. I'll get on mule back and I'll 251 00:10:17,080 --> 00:10:22,880 Speaker 2: be fucking hoofing it. I'll be hoofing it to Adelaide, Texas. 252 00:10:23,000 --> 00:10:26,320 Speaker 2: I'll be hoofing it Detroit. Detroit's airport, I'd rather walk. 253 00:10:26,960 --> 00:10:27,920 Speaker 2: I'd rather walk. 254 00:10:27,960 --> 00:10:28,440 Speaker 1: Where's there? 255 00:10:28,480 --> 00:10:33,000 Speaker 3: I'd rather that airport. It is five miles long. 256 00:10:33,520 --> 00:10:34,720 Speaker 1: And if you get off. 257 00:10:34,559 --> 00:10:39,559 Speaker 2: At A A whatever one, and then your connecting flight 258 00:10:39,760 --> 00:10:43,280 Speaker 2: is A sixty six and thirty eight, it's like you 259 00:10:43,320 --> 00:10:45,880 Speaker 2: are screwed. They have that tram that's still It's just 260 00:10:46,000 --> 00:10:47,200 Speaker 2: it's a garbage airport. 261 00:10:47,280 --> 00:10:47,760 Speaker 1: I hate it. 262 00:10:47,920 --> 00:10:50,559 Speaker 2: I don't city hate there. I don't mind the airport. 263 00:10:50,600 --> 00:10:53,360 Speaker 2: I don't like the tram. I like a tram that's 264 00:10:53,400 --> 00:10:55,600 Speaker 2: integrated into it. You know who could use that tram? 265 00:10:55,720 --> 00:10:58,120 Speaker 1: JFK. They got some. 266 00:10:58,080 --> 00:11:03,520 Speaker 2: Balls putting you in your flight lands at gate fucking 267 00:11:03,640 --> 00:11:07,880 Speaker 2: in Delta Lions in flight gate B yeah sixty two, 268 00:11:08,600 --> 00:11:11,800 Speaker 2: and they're like, go to the exit, and the exit 269 00:11:12,000 --> 00:11:16,800 Speaker 2: is by gate B eighteen and I'm hoofing it all 270 00:11:16,800 --> 00:11:18,959 Speaker 2: the way. They got, they got. It has so many 271 00:11:19,000 --> 00:11:22,040 Speaker 2: of those moving walkways, but there's so much there is much. 272 00:11:21,920 --> 00:11:23,880 Speaker 1: Equal ground that's not covered by the moving walkway. 273 00:11:24,120 --> 00:11:26,280 Speaker 2: I timed it, and I'm a fast walker, and it 274 00:11:26,320 --> 00:11:27,960 Speaker 2: took me twenty two minutes to walk. 275 00:11:28,000 --> 00:11:30,720 Speaker 1: Who's got twenty two minutes. I'll give you the world 276 00:11:31,040 --> 00:11:34,880 Speaker 1: to walk all the way down there. That's insanity. That 277 00:11:34,960 --> 00:11:37,520 Speaker 1: was a ten ten ten ten. I'll give you the 278 00:11:37,559 --> 00:11:41,800 Speaker 1: world in the world. It was ten ten ten ten wins. 279 00:11:41,840 --> 00:11:42,160 Speaker 1: That was. 280 00:11:42,400 --> 00:11:45,840 Speaker 2: But it's insane how far that every day it angers 281 00:11:45,880 --> 00:11:46,440 Speaker 2: me so much? 282 00:11:46,520 --> 00:11:49,600 Speaker 1: And when great minutes to. 283 00:11:49,640 --> 00:12:01,719 Speaker 5: Give me the world what walking, I'm not getting the world. 284 00:12:01,760 --> 00:12:03,480 Speaker 1: I get in fury. When we're landing. 285 00:12:03,480 --> 00:12:05,160 Speaker 2: I do this thing when it because me and Jiggy 286 00:12:05,160 --> 00:12:07,000 Speaker 2: fly a lot, right, and when we're landing I'll open 287 00:12:07,040 --> 00:12:08,440 Speaker 2: the shutter and I look at the like and I'll 288 00:12:08,440 --> 00:12:09,240 Speaker 2: see where we're pulling in. 289 00:12:09,320 --> 00:12:11,600 Speaker 1: I'm like, we're going to be sixty. This is bullshit. 290 00:12:11,679 --> 00:12:13,280 Speaker 2: We're gonna be like I'll be like hoping to go 291 00:12:13,320 --> 00:12:16,280 Speaker 2: to a closer gate. And it makes me instantly angry. 292 00:12:16,600 --> 00:12:18,080 Speaker 1: That's the worst. If you miss a lay over it 293 00:12:18,080 --> 00:12:22,080 Speaker 1: because you couldn't walk fast enough. That is gutted. That's 294 00:12:22,080 --> 00:12:22,560 Speaker 1: the worst. 295 00:12:22,640 --> 00:12:26,800 Speaker 2: That is Alice, Oh, I thought you're mad District footwear, 296 00:12:28,920 --> 00:12:32,880 Speaker 2: But Dallas that that Detroit, by the way, sneaky city. 297 00:12:33,480 --> 00:12:35,960 Speaker 3: I've always thought Detroit's kind of like, you know, just 298 00:12:36,000 --> 00:12:39,719 Speaker 3: the perception of the media, run down you why get 299 00:12:39,720 --> 00:12:41,640 Speaker 3: a hotel, just buy a house, you know, It's just 300 00:12:41,679 --> 00:12:44,200 Speaker 3: like it's so awful there. And then I got there 301 00:12:44,240 --> 00:12:49,800 Speaker 3: and I spent a week there, blown away, great restaurants, believable, beautiful, down, 302 00:12:49,960 --> 00:12:50,480 Speaker 3: up and coming. 303 00:12:50,520 --> 00:12:53,320 Speaker 2: I looked in real estate, no joke, really, And we 304 00:12:53,400 --> 00:12:56,000 Speaker 2: went to Shinola to do that. They have their one 305 00:12:56,040 --> 00:12:57,760 Speaker 2: of my favorite watch brands, one of my favorite brands. 306 00:12:57,920 --> 00:13:00,680 Speaker 2: They have a their fact there, so we went on 307 00:13:00,679 --> 00:13:04,040 Speaker 2: a factory tour. I did their podcast there and the 308 00:13:04,440 --> 00:13:06,440 Speaker 2: I was like on the concrete floor. Remember, yes, Oh, 309 00:13:06,480 --> 00:13:07,120 Speaker 2: let's take you there. 310 00:13:07,160 --> 00:13:09,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, I forgot because you didn't add any value. 311 00:13:09,960 --> 00:13:12,720 Speaker 2: And I said we. I was like, this is unbelievable 312 00:13:12,760 --> 00:13:15,360 Speaker 2: to be like here. And I was like, I'm this 313 00:13:15,400 --> 00:13:16,280 Speaker 2: is like up and coming. 314 00:13:16,480 --> 00:13:17,120 Speaker 1: There's got to be. 315 00:13:17,160 --> 00:13:20,000 Speaker 2: There was the university around there. There was like a 316 00:13:20,080 --> 00:13:21,360 Speaker 2: lot of that money coming in. 317 00:13:21,760 --> 00:13:24,120 Speaker 1: I agree with you totally. It's one of my favorite cities. 318 00:13:23,840 --> 00:13:27,040 Speaker 3: Detroit now it's it's It's definitely my top ten. I 319 00:13:27,080 --> 00:13:32,240 Speaker 3: had great meals. That stadium is awesome, Tiger Stadium, America Park, home. 320 00:13:32,160 --> 00:13:34,319 Speaker 2: Of my favorite, my favorite theater that I'm one of 321 00:13:34,320 --> 00:13:36,400 Speaker 2: my favorite theaters I've ever played, The Fox there. Fox 322 00:13:36,840 --> 00:13:39,160 Speaker 2: is completely up there. It was one of my favorite 323 00:13:39,200 --> 00:13:40,920 Speaker 2: memorable spots that I ever played. Well, I want to 324 00:13:40,920 --> 00:13:43,080 Speaker 2: get back there, like I love that. I'm just not 325 00:13:43,120 --> 00:13:44,199 Speaker 2: big enough Detroit. 326 00:13:45,160 --> 00:13:46,280 Speaker 1: You Well, we. 327 00:13:46,240 --> 00:13:48,600 Speaker 2: Love you, Detroit. We'll be back soon, should we? 328 00:13:48,679 --> 00:13:52,280 Speaker 4: Uh Roco's Italian Deli By the way, that sandwich was incredible. 329 00:13:52,600 --> 00:13:55,199 Speaker 4: Which was Rocko's Italian Deli. I just I had to 330 00:13:55,200 --> 00:13:57,600 Speaker 4: look it up because when we were in Detroit. Oh, 331 00:13:57,600 --> 00:14:00,880 Speaker 4: shut your man, it was it was the Italian Deli. 332 00:14:01,040 --> 00:14:03,880 Speaker 4: We were three bites into Rocos Italian Deli when you 333 00:14:03,920 --> 00:14:04,960 Speaker 4: started looking at real estate. 334 00:14:05,040 --> 00:14:06,960 Speaker 1: That's right, That's right, I was. I was fed with 335 00:14:07,080 --> 00:14:09,560 Speaker 1: it was so good that meal. 336 00:14:09,800 --> 00:14:11,880 Speaker 3: The many you said it, I go back in time 337 00:14:12,360 --> 00:14:14,560 Speaker 3: in heaven and the only thing I wish is that 338 00:14:14,600 --> 00:14:16,000 Speaker 3: we got to sit down and eat in there. 339 00:14:16,400 --> 00:14:19,200 Speaker 1: But we got the Sandys to go and. 340 00:14:19,160 --> 00:14:22,480 Speaker 2: All of us everyone was like, Holy house, what is 341 00:14:22,640 --> 00:14:24,520 Speaker 2: happening here? I want to go back. When we go 342 00:14:24,520 --> 00:14:25,840 Speaker 2: into Detroit, we gotta go to Troy. Look at my 343 00:14:25,880 --> 00:14:28,160 Speaker 2: tost schedule. Go to tru I'll meet you guys a guy. 344 00:14:28,640 --> 00:14:30,480 Speaker 2: That's how we'll get Steve to come with us. It's like, 345 00:14:30,520 --> 00:14:32,200 Speaker 2: where you playing? Let me see what can I eat there? 346 00:14:32,200 --> 00:14:34,040 Speaker 2: That's how Steve picks the daytimes to play with me. 347 00:14:34,600 --> 00:14:37,600 Speaker 3: Like, uh, I'm not saying this because we're friends with him. 348 00:14:37,920 --> 00:14:41,280 Speaker 3: Joe DeRosa, Joey Roses. Uh, you know I'm staying at 349 00:14:41,320 --> 00:14:43,680 Speaker 3: his place. I was like, Oh, where's Joey Roses? Is 350 00:14:43,720 --> 00:14:44,840 Speaker 3: like half a mile from his plate. 351 00:14:44,920 --> 00:14:45,800 Speaker 2: I walk over there. 352 00:14:46,600 --> 00:14:48,760 Speaker 3: That sandwich could be one of the best sandwiches I've 353 00:14:48,760 --> 00:14:50,920 Speaker 3: ever had because it's literally and Jiggy and I have 354 00:14:50,960 --> 00:14:53,800 Speaker 3: talked about this at Nauseum Bread a great roll. 355 00:14:54,160 --> 00:14:57,880 Speaker 2: Makes makes the first thing that's in your mouth, the 356 00:14:57,920 --> 00:15:00,640 Speaker 2: first thing that's it's always the first thing, the first thing, the. 357 00:15:00,600 --> 00:15:01,600 Speaker 1: First thing that's in your mouth. 358 00:15:02,080 --> 00:15:06,200 Speaker 3: But he he has high quality meats. There's no dressing, 359 00:15:06,560 --> 00:15:10,360 Speaker 3: there's no like cream, there's no secret sauce, there's no 360 00:15:11,120 --> 00:15:12,320 Speaker 3: you know, Joey's cream. 361 00:15:12,360 --> 00:15:13,360 Speaker 1: It's just did you. 362 00:15:13,280 --> 00:15:16,520 Speaker 2: Pick out the term high quality meats on you? It 363 00:15:16,560 --> 00:15:19,280 Speaker 2: is high quality meats and roll it up in a way. 364 00:15:20,840 --> 00:15:23,600 Speaker 1: Way quality failing you. 365 00:15:23,680 --> 00:15:26,320 Speaker 3: They roll it up in a way where they roll 366 00:15:26,360 --> 00:15:30,560 Speaker 3: the meat into the bun. There's nothing's dripping. It's just 367 00:15:30,600 --> 00:15:35,360 Speaker 3: the meat, a tinge of cheese and this bread. And 368 00:15:35,400 --> 00:15:37,680 Speaker 3: I'm like, this is one of the best sandwiches I've 369 00:15:37,680 --> 00:15:40,680 Speaker 3: ever had. And there's nothing on it. There's nothing on it. 370 00:15:40,720 --> 00:15:43,240 Speaker 2: If you took what you just did and muted it, 371 00:15:43,240 --> 00:15:45,160 Speaker 2: it would look like that you were explaining sex to 372 00:15:45,240 --> 00:15:46,920 Speaker 2: someone because you were. 373 00:15:46,760 --> 00:15:53,720 Speaker 1: Like, you take this, you get excited. I get excited 374 00:15:53,720 --> 00:15:54,440 Speaker 1: for a good sandwich show. 375 00:15:54,520 --> 00:15:57,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, that is all right, I've never had. 376 00:15:57,880 --> 00:16:00,680 Speaker 1: I gotta go. I don't need high quality meats that 377 00:16:00,800 --> 00:16:01,800 Speaker 1: you want. I talked to him about it. 378 00:16:02,200 --> 00:16:06,120 Speaker 2: They have high quality vegetables, they meeting quality vegetables, but 379 00:16:06,200 --> 00:16:07,080 Speaker 2: high quality meats. 380 00:16:07,120 --> 00:16:08,920 Speaker 3: I'm telling you, if you make it out and you're 381 00:16:09,000 --> 00:16:10,520 Speaker 3: downtown in New York City, you gotta go. 382 00:16:10,640 --> 00:16:11,120 Speaker 1: I got it. 383 00:16:11,200 --> 00:16:13,480 Speaker 2: We we talk about food all the time. 384 00:16:13,640 --> 00:16:15,880 Speaker 3: We're when you're in the back doing your dude as 385 00:16:15,880 --> 00:16:17,600 Speaker 3: you do, is as you would say we are. 386 00:16:17,680 --> 00:16:20,800 Speaker 2: It's literally just talking about food. And uh yeah, that's 387 00:16:20,800 --> 00:16:21,400 Speaker 2: a that's. 388 00:16:22,800 --> 00:16:24,160 Speaker 1: The experience of a good sandwich. 389 00:16:24,200 --> 00:16:26,760 Speaker 2: It's like an art, and it's an art, yes, I 390 00:16:26,800 --> 00:16:29,400 Speaker 2: mean when you go, that's a talk about picking somebody 391 00:16:29,600 --> 00:16:30,200 Speaker 2: right when you go. 392 00:16:30,320 --> 00:16:32,080 Speaker 1: That's the worst. That's worse than the bus. 393 00:16:32,400 --> 00:16:35,120 Speaker 2: When you are online in a deli and there's the 394 00:16:35,160 --> 00:16:37,120 Speaker 2: three people making the sandwiches, and you see the guy 395 00:16:37,120 --> 00:16:39,280 Speaker 2: back there who's doing his he's doing his thing there. 396 00:16:39,280 --> 00:16:41,320 Speaker 1: He's getting up the nice cuts of everything, and he's 397 00:16:41,400 --> 00:16:42,080 Speaker 1: layer it well. 398 00:16:42,160 --> 00:16:45,000 Speaker 2: He's looking to make sure that everything's evenly dispersed with 399 00:16:45,120 --> 00:16:46,320 Speaker 2: your balsama glazes. 400 00:16:46,560 --> 00:16:47,720 Speaker 1: He's picking the right peppers. 401 00:16:47,800 --> 00:16:48,840 Speaker 2: And then you got the one guy, what do you 402 00:16:48,840 --> 00:16:52,760 Speaker 2: want next? Like that, I'm hoping that when they say 403 00:16:52,760 --> 00:16:55,200 Speaker 2: my number, I've not I've not raised. 404 00:16:54,960 --> 00:16:57,040 Speaker 1: My hand when they say a number right right, and 405 00:16:57,080 --> 00:16:58,640 Speaker 1: I'd be like, oh, you missed it. They're like number 406 00:16:58,720 --> 00:17:00,320 Speaker 1: thirty two, and if it's not the right guy calling it, 407 00:17:00,360 --> 00:17:02,680 Speaker 1: I'll just sit there and they're like thirty three. They 408 00:17:02,680 --> 00:17:04,520 Speaker 1: pick it. And then when my guy I goes thirty four, 409 00:17:04,560 --> 00:17:05,639 Speaker 1: I go, oh, I saw I missed. 410 00:17:05,720 --> 00:17:08,800 Speaker 2: I'm thirty two. I get new and they go this, 411 00:17:09,160 --> 00:17:11,040 Speaker 2: oh yeah, what do you want? And now'll pick my guy. 412 00:17:11,240 --> 00:17:12,840 Speaker 2: That is the worst person if you get the wrong 413 00:17:12,880 --> 00:17:15,720 Speaker 2: person making your sandwich in an Italian deli, Yeah, I 414 00:17:15,840 --> 00:17:16,159 Speaker 2: hate that. 415 00:17:16,240 --> 00:17:18,560 Speaker 3: But that's the thing about like an Italian sandwich. 416 00:17:18,560 --> 00:17:20,840 Speaker 1: It doesn't need much. Yeah, it doesn't need Like you. 417 00:17:20,800 --> 00:17:23,320 Speaker 3: Go to Jersey Mics, It's like they're slicing it all 418 00:17:23,359 --> 00:17:25,440 Speaker 3: up there gausing it with oil and vinegar and throw 419 00:17:25,480 --> 00:17:26,919 Speaker 3: the mayo wan salt and pepper. 420 00:17:27,200 --> 00:17:29,640 Speaker 1: It's I love Jersey Mike's of all those, but Subway. 421 00:17:29,680 --> 00:17:32,639 Speaker 3: When I first had a Subway in Pittsburgh, I was like, 422 00:17:32,760 --> 00:17:34,440 Speaker 3: this is the greatest sandwich. 423 00:17:34,080 --> 00:17:36,320 Speaker 2: I've ever had in my like God, and then I don't. 424 00:17:36,160 --> 00:17:38,160 Speaker 1: Know, for some reason, it's just not as uh, did 425 00:17:38,160 --> 00:17:40,920 Speaker 1: you have blimpy in your I had blimpy and I 426 00:17:41,280 --> 00:17:43,840 Speaker 1: had uh blimpy. I remember the double dose. 427 00:17:44,240 --> 00:17:47,760 Speaker 3: One time I had a bad sandy and uh upstairs 428 00:17:47,800 --> 00:17:48,960 Speaker 3: and downstairs. 429 00:17:48,480 --> 00:17:50,200 Speaker 1: It was it was a yards. Yeah you got blimpeed, 430 00:17:50,680 --> 00:17:53,080 Speaker 1: I got blimped. Oh I got blimomy Blumpet. I got 431 00:17:53,119 --> 00:17:59,280 Speaker 1: blumpy my bliopy went blumpy. Oh yeah. 432 00:17:59,280 --> 00:18:01,280 Speaker 2: We had Blimpy's in the Staten Island wall. And I 433 00:18:01,280 --> 00:18:03,639 Speaker 2: remember they had the shredded lettuce that I couldn't get 434 00:18:03,720 --> 00:18:06,600 Speaker 2: enough of. I and I just have basically a shredded 435 00:18:06,680 --> 00:18:08,520 Speaker 2: lettuce on top of my sandwich. It was so good 436 00:18:08,520 --> 00:18:10,760 Speaker 2: because they had that oil vinegar and just sat in 437 00:18:10,760 --> 00:18:11,360 Speaker 2: there so nice. 438 00:18:11,760 --> 00:18:12,720 Speaker 1: You can tell it's a lunchtime. 439 00:18:13,000 --> 00:18:14,560 Speaker 2: I tell you something real quick. 440 00:18:14,640 --> 00:18:17,359 Speaker 3: Guy, Sojiggy, I don't know if you heard this, but 441 00:18:17,480 --> 00:18:20,360 Speaker 3: we're sitting there and before the show starts, Joe goes, 442 00:18:20,400 --> 00:18:22,119 Speaker 3: all right, listen this episode. 443 00:18:22,800 --> 00:18:24,240 Speaker 2: You know, here's what I don't want you to do. 444 00:18:24,359 --> 00:18:25,400 Speaker 2: I don't want you to talk about food. 445 00:18:25,440 --> 00:18:27,240 Speaker 3: We talked about food too much, Okay, so let's not 446 00:18:27,320 --> 00:18:30,160 Speaker 3: talking about food. And I'm sitting here like the shredded lettuce, 447 00:18:30,200 --> 00:18:31,560 Speaker 3: the oil vinegar ad just sits. 448 00:18:31,600 --> 00:18:38,080 Speaker 1: I'm like, yeah, I'm talking about foo. I'd even get here. 449 00:18:38,440 --> 00:18:40,280 Speaker 2: How do you even get to talking about a blimpy 450 00:18:40,280 --> 00:18:41,520 Speaker 2: sandwich because it's lunchtime. 451 00:18:41,560 --> 00:18:44,480 Speaker 1: AND's lunchtime, right, Let's get into questions. 452 00:18:44,680 --> 00:18:46,720 Speaker 2: Let's get to why people come for help for help 453 00:18:46,760 --> 00:18:47,760 Speaker 2: and the dilemmas. 454 00:18:48,320 --> 00:18:49,440 Speaker 4: A Donna hit us up. 455 00:18:49,440 --> 00:18:51,600 Speaker 2: On em A Donna? 456 00:18:51,880 --> 00:18:55,119 Speaker 1: Donna Madonna? And what should I have for lunch? 457 00:18:56,480 --> 00:19:00,280 Speaker 4: Talk to me about blimpy? So the quote is be 458 00:19:00,320 --> 00:19:03,800 Speaker 4: stronger than your excuse. What's one excuse that you have 459 00:19:03,960 --> 00:19:06,480 Speaker 4: come that you have overcome to achieve your goals? 460 00:19:06,840 --> 00:19:09,479 Speaker 3: Pretty good question? Wait can you just say that one 461 00:19:09,480 --> 00:19:10,760 Speaker 3: more time? What's one excuse? 462 00:19:11,840 --> 00:19:12,840 Speaker 4: Yeah, so there's a quote. 463 00:19:13,000 --> 00:19:15,160 Speaker 1: The quote is be stronger than You're stronger than. 464 00:19:15,080 --> 00:19:16,960 Speaker 4: Your excuse, which I think is a saying. And what's 465 00:19:17,080 --> 00:19:20,920 Speaker 4: one excuse that you have had to overcome to achieve 466 00:19:20,960 --> 00:19:22,760 Speaker 4: your goals? 467 00:19:24,040 --> 00:19:25,879 Speaker 1: Hm? That's a that's very deep. 468 00:19:26,280 --> 00:19:30,399 Speaker 2: Yeah, I will say so one excuse you always you know, 469 00:19:30,480 --> 00:19:33,720 Speaker 2: I used to always blame work, right, you know It's like, 470 00:19:33,760 --> 00:19:35,080 Speaker 2: well I'm out here working. 471 00:19:35,160 --> 00:19:38,399 Speaker 1: You know, when I was away and whatever. 472 00:19:38,440 --> 00:19:41,359 Speaker 2: So I would say, probably I had to overcome that 473 00:19:41,400 --> 00:19:43,920 Speaker 2: to actually become a better partner and father, for sure. 474 00:19:44,320 --> 00:19:45,639 Speaker 2: I think that was that was a big one I 475 00:19:45,680 --> 00:19:47,760 Speaker 2: always use as an excuse. I'm trying to think of 476 00:19:47,800 --> 00:19:50,240 Speaker 2: things I use as excuses. I keep myself pretty accountable 477 00:19:50,400 --> 00:19:53,879 Speaker 2: for the most part, especially nowadays, but back then even 478 00:19:53,920 --> 00:19:55,800 Speaker 2: even so, I think I was. I just think I 479 00:19:55,800 --> 00:19:58,960 Speaker 2: was misguided. But I think an excuse for a lot 480 00:19:59,000 --> 00:20:00,800 Speaker 2: of people. One that off for a lot of people 481 00:20:00,880 --> 00:20:03,240 Speaker 2: is that like you're like, I gotta do what I 482 00:20:03,280 --> 00:20:05,240 Speaker 2: gotta do to put food on the table, like especially 483 00:20:05,280 --> 00:20:05,640 Speaker 2: as at. 484 00:20:05,520 --> 00:20:07,000 Speaker 1: That right, yeah, you know that thing. 485 00:20:07,000 --> 00:20:08,959 Speaker 2: It's like I'm out here, you know, making money or 486 00:20:09,480 --> 00:20:12,639 Speaker 2: you know, providing. I think that's probably one of the 487 00:20:12,640 --> 00:20:13,760 Speaker 2: biggest excuses that. 488 00:20:13,680 --> 00:20:18,400 Speaker 1: You hear from fatherhood or or whatever. So I think 489 00:20:18,400 --> 00:20:19,119 Speaker 1: that was probably. 490 00:20:18,920 --> 00:20:21,880 Speaker 2: One for me that was like I'm busy working shore 491 00:20:21,960 --> 00:20:25,919 Speaker 2: me ignore stuff that should have had my attention. 492 00:20:26,359 --> 00:20:28,679 Speaker 3: I would get a little more granular of of what 493 00:20:28,720 --> 00:20:31,439 Speaker 3: you would say, but I try to, and you know this, 494 00:20:32,359 --> 00:20:35,840 Speaker 3: I'm probably not the best at like getting back text twise, 495 00:20:36,359 --> 00:20:38,720 Speaker 3: unless it's like happening in real time. If it's in 496 00:20:38,760 --> 00:20:40,600 Speaker 3: real time, I'm right there, I'm like, yeah, boom, boom, 497 00:20:40,640 --> 00:20:43,000 Speaker 3: do it, Okay. But then the minute I sit down, 498 00:20:43,040 --> 00:20:45,200 Speaker 3: or I'm with my kids and I'm playing baseball, or 499 00:20:45,280 --> 00:20:47,280 Speaker 3: I'm out taking a walk with my wife, whatever, I 500 00:20:47,440 --> 00:20:50,639 Speaker 3: just check out. I check out so I'm trying to 501 00:20:51,040 --> 00:20:53,359 Speaker 3: not make an excuse of like not getting back to 502 00:20:54,200 --> 00:20:56,560 Speaker 3: you know, somebody's reaching out, they're communicating with you, and 503 00:20:56,560 --> 00:20:59,960 Speaker 3: I'm not communicating back with them, and there's an annoyance 504 00:21:00,119 --> 00:21:01,880 Speaker 3: that because I don't like when it happens to me. Right, Yeah, 505 00:21:01,880 --> 00:21:05,159 Speaker 3: So that's one thing I've been trying to nip in 506 00:21:05,200 --> 00:21:07,360 Speaker 3: the butt recently and not make an excuse for that, 507 00:21:07,400 --> 00:21:10,040 Speaker 3: but like be more present with that and not let 508 00:21:10,400 --> 00:21:12,720 Speaker 3: like even today, I had thirty nine text messages I 509 00:21:12,720 --> 00:21:14,560 Speaker 3: didn't get back to. So in the cab ride over 510 00:21:14,600 --> 00:21:17,080 Speaker 3: here that took forty five minutes because I was downtown 511 00:21:17,280 --> 00:21:19,080 Speaker 3: and it was seventy dollars in uber. I'm not here 512 00:21:19,080 --> 00:21:22,679 Speaker 3: to complain I had to. I just went through and 513 00:21:22,760 --> 00:21:24,240 Speaker 3: just was like, I want to get back to everybody 514 00:21:24,280 --> 00:21:25,640 Speaker 3: whant to set us out the time and make sure 515 00:21:25,800 --> 00:21:27,959 Speaker 3: I do that. So that's an excuse I'm trying to 516 00:21:28,960 --> 00:21:32,400 Speaker 3: walk away from. I will say, not get put an email, gotcha, gotcha? 517 00:21:32,280 --> 00:21:34,600 Speaker 1: Gotcha. I will say the. 518 00:21:36,000 --> 00:21:37,719 Speaker 2: Not getting in shape has been an excuse that I've 519 00:21:37,760 --> 00:21:40,320 Speaker 2: been battling with too, like of dropping the pounds, like 520 00:21:40,359 --> 00:21:42,520 Speaker 2: I've always wanted to get a little bit not in 521 00:21:42,560 --> 00:21:44,479 Speaker 2: shape by any means of meaning muscular, I just mean 522 00:21:44,520 --> 00:21:47,000 Speaker 2: not a big like big fat guy that gets out 523 00:21:47,040 --> 00:21:49,720 Speaker 2: of breath going up steps. So for a while, my 524 00:21:49,800 --> 00:21:52,720 Speaker 2: excuse was like my excuse was like, oh, I'll do 525 00:21:52,760 --> 00:21:54,080 Speaker 2: it after this or after like you. 526 00:21:54,080 --> 00:21:56,719 Speaker 1: Always have the time. So the excuse wasn't necessarily an excuse. 527 00:21:56,760 --> 00:21:59,000 Speaker 2: It was like a timeline you put yourself on, sure, 528 00:21:59,000 --> 00:22:00,000 Speaker 2: which becomes an excuse. 529 00:22:00,160 --> 00:22:01,720 Speaker 1: It's like, oh, yeah, I said I'm going to start that, 530 00:22:01,840 --> 00:22:03,520 Speaker 1: you know, in June or whatever. You know. 531 00:22:03,600 --> 00:22:08,360 Speaker 2: So I eventually started being like, okay, stop, you got 532 00:22:08,359 --> 00:22:09,040 Speaker 2: to start, like. 533 00:22:09,359 --> 00:22:13,000 Speaker 3: Start something right, but the hardest because we're of a 534 00:22:13,040 --> 00:22:15,520 Speaker 3: certain age. I think we were guys that probably in 535 00:22:15,560 --> 00:22:17,720 Speaker 3: our twenties and thirties never worked out. 536 00:22:17,800 --> 00:22:19,000 Speaker 1: I ate whatever I wanted. 537 00:22:19,040 --> 00:22:21,760 Speaker 3: I didn't care. I was like, never had to do 538 00:22:21,800 --> 00:22:23,800 Speaker 3: a push up. It was just like everything was fine. 539 00:22:24,040 --> 00:22:26,920 Speaker 3: And then you at a certain age, it's like it's 540 00:22:26,960 --> 00:22:28,679 Speaker 3: not just getting in shape, it's like you have to 541 00:22:28,800 --> 00:22:31,760 Speaker 3: change the lifestyle. You've got to be like, all right, 542 00:22:31,840 --> 00:22:32,760 Speaker 3: I've got to eat healthier. 543 00:22:32,800 --> 00:22:35,520 Speaker 1: Are you one of the people that you are? 544 00:22:35,880 --> 00:22:39,120 Speaker 2: If you surround yourself with people, you take on their 545 00:22:39,160 --> 00:22:42,080 Speaker 2: behaviors or you one that helps define the behaviors of 546 00:22:42,119 --> 00:22:46,480 Speaker 2: others around you, because I feel like when you're I 547 00:22:46,520 --> 00:22:50,119 Speaker 2: feel like when you're on tour with me, yeah, you 548 00:22:50,240 --> 00:22:55,520 Speaker 2: eat a little worse worse and you drink a little less. 549 00:22:57,000 --> 00:23:00,240 Speaker 3: Well, yeah, there's probably truth to that. 550 00:23:02,440 --> 00:23:04,639 Speaker 1: I eat, it's like I'm breaking even then, Yeah, I 551 00:23:04,680 --> 00:23:06,800 Speaker 1: think so, I think you should probably stay away from me. 552 00:23:08,720 --> 00:23:10,320 Speaker 3: No, but that's one of the reasons I love going 553 00:23:10,320 --> 00:23:12,400 Speaker 3: on tour with you and Jiggy, especially like I love 554 00:23:12,440 --> 00:23:14,680 Speaker 3: being out with you guys. Hey, the camaraderie is great. 555 00:23:14,720 --> 00:23:17,000 Speaker 3: The hang is always fun, for sure. The road trips 556 00:23:17,000 --> 00:23:20,200 Speaker 3: are a blast just traveling with you guys. And then again, 557 00:23:20,320 --> 00:23:22,840 Speaker 3: like boarding a plane is an adventure with Joe Gatto, 558 00:23:22,920 --> 00:23:26,040 Speaker 3: it's never not dull because you're watching the reactions of people. 559 00:23:25,800 --> 00:23:27,560 Speaker 1: Going, oh the Joe Gatto. Oh he's doing a bit. 560 00:23:27,720 --> 00:23:28,679 Speaker 1: Oh my god, this is crazy. 561 00:23:28,720 --> 00:23:31,120 Speaker 2: Look at he's doing the thing. You know, Like that's 562 00:23:31,119 --> 00:23:31,680 Speaker 2: always fun. 563 00:23:31,720 --> 00:23:34,960 Speaker 3: But but I do drink less. But but I've also 564 00:23:35,000 --> 00:23:36,480 Speaker 3: been drinking less lately, I think. 565 00:23:37,040 --> 00:23:37,720 Speaker 1: But do you like. 566 00:23:37,680 --> 00:23:39,360 Speaker 2: Also, like what made me think of that was when 567 00:23:39,400 --> 00:23:40,760 Speaker 2: you said, like the workout, Are you a guy that 568 00:23:40,800 --> 00:23:41,520 Speaker 2: needs like a workout? 569 00:23:41,520 --> 00:23:41,800 Speaker 1: Buddy? 570 00:23:41,880 --> 00:23:43,880 Speaker 3: Or you no, no, no, that is something I do. 571 00:23:43,960 --> 00:23:47,399 Speaker 3: I've been pretty regimented at especially the last few months, and. 572 00:23:47,920 --> 00:23:52,560 Speaker 2: Again because you we have a laugh, because I'll just 573 00:23:52,640 --> 00:23:54,400 Speaker 2: talk to you on the phone and I was like, hey, what's. 574 00:23:54,359 --> 00:23:55,120 Speaker 1: Up, Like, oh my god. 575 00:23:55,119 --> 00:23:57,800 Speaker 2: It's like I like, I'm in my fourth what's the 576 00:23:57,800 --> 00:23:59,679 Speaker 2: place like Peterson's, what's the place that you go to 577 00:23:59,680 --> 00:24:00,880 Speaker 2: with the pay all time Pinoli? 578 00:24:01,280 --> 00:24:05,680 Speaker 1: What's some place Parpadell's the place the each. 579 00:24:05,960 --> 00:24:08,440 Speaker 2: I went to brother seventeen Dogs today, And then I'll 580 00:24:08,440 --> 00:24:10,199 Speaker 2: go to your Instagram store and you're like hitting the 581 00:24:10,200 --> 00:24:12,280 Speaker 2: gem and yeah, it's you're jumping rope at three in 582 00:24:12,320 --> 00:24:12,600 Speaker 2: the morning. 583 00:24:12,640 --> 00:24:14,760 Speaker 1: I'm like, yes, you just ate nine per manning because 584 00:24:14,800 --> 00:24:15,920 Speaker 1: that's why. 585 00:24:15,680 --> 00:24:17,359 Speaker 2: That's why to break even again. 586 00:24:17,200 --> 00:24:19,560 Speaker 1: It's so awesome. You're living your life to break even. 587 00:24:20,840 --> 00:24:23,119 Speaker 1: Yeah I could just I could just be healthy. 588 00:24:23,240 --> 00:24:24,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, but I can't. 589 00:24:24,680 --> 00:24:27,080 Speaker 3: It's so like even here in New York City, it's like, well, 590 00:24:27,119 --> 00:24:29,520 Speaker 3: I'm not gonna not have pizza times. Of course, I'm 591 00:24:29,520 --> 00:24:31,399 Speaker 3: gonna have pizza. I'm not gonna not have a fresh 592 00:24:31,440 --> 00:24:34,520 Speaker 3: bagel from a bodega and have a great sandwich. 593 00:24:35,000 --> 00:24:38,200 Speaker 1: Of course I have to go sliced stop talking about food. 594 00:24:38,240 --> 00:24:47,560 Speaker 3: Sorry, But to put to your point, I think I'm 595 00:24:47,600 --> 00:24:52,320 Speaker 3: somebody who uh, I think you're You're very much a leader. 596 00:24:52,720 --> 00:24:55,600 Speaker 3: I think in any group you're you're pretty dominant in 597 00:24:55,680 --> 00:24:59,840 Speaker 3: terms of your personality. And that's why it's easy to 598 00:24:59,880 --> 00:25:01,960 Speaker 3: go out with you, for example, like on tour, because 599 00:25:01,960 --> 00:25:03,480 Speaker 3: it's like, oh, we're gonna go here for lunch. It's 600 00:25:03,480 --> 00:25:06,639 Speaker 3: like great, awesome. You know, when it's me by myself, 601 00:25:06,680 --> 00:25:08,199 Speaker 3: I kind of meander. I make a thing of it. 602 00:25:08,240 --> 00:25:10,840 Speaker 3: But but when I always a group of friends, I 603 00:25:11,520 --> 00:25:13,440 Speaker 3: think there's like a little bit a give and take 604 00:25:13,520 --> 00:25:17,120 Speaker 3: of Like, you know, I could have a personality trait 605 00:25:17,200 --> 00:25:20,320 Speaker 3: that might be receptive, or a word or a phrase 606 00:25:20,359 --> 00:25:22,520 Speaker 3: you say that your friends pick up on. But then 607 00:25:22,720 --> 00:25:26,520 Speaker 3: I'm a sponge too, you know. A blurf is one 608 00:25:26,840 --> 00:25:29,720 Speaker 3: of the greatest words I've ever heard in my life, 609 00:25:29,760 --> 00:25:32,439 Speaker 3: and I used it on stage the other day. I 610 00:25:32,480 --> 00:25:34,800 Speaker 3: was like, look at me. I was like in Mississippi. 611 00:25:35,400 --> 00:25:37,480 Speaker 3: I was like one hundred people and I told a 612 00:25:37,560 --> 00:25:39,520 Speaker 3: monologue joke that was new and it got like a 613 00:25:39,560 --> 00:25:42,200 Speaker 3: middling laugh, and you know, it's riddled with bomb lines, 614 00:25:42,200 --> 00:25:43,240 Speaker 3: and I'm like, look at me. 615 00:25:43,560 --> 00:25:44,440 Speaker 1: I'm dressed in a suit. 616 00:25:44,480 --> 00:25:46,679 Speaker 3: I should be doing blow out a steakhouse, but I'm 617 00:25:46,840 --> 00:25:48,520 Speaker 3: entertaining you blurfs. 618 00:25:48,800 --> 00:25:50,520 Speaker 1: And they all get it. 619 00:25:50,560 --> 00:25:54,120 Speaker 3: They are the greatest word. 620 00:25:54,720 --> 00:25:56,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, but do. 621 00:25:56,280 --> 00:25:59,399 Speaker 3: You consider yourself more because I think you're more of 622 00:25:59,400 --> 00:26:03,760 Speaker 3: a dominant p not than somebody who is receiving and mirroring. 623 00:26:03,920 --> 00:26:06,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, I think I take that role. 624 00:26:06,480 --> 00:26:11,679 Speaker 2: But I will say I've lived a life of collaboration. Sure, 625 00:26:11,760 --> 00:26:14,639 Speaker 2: more than I think, especially in our industry, but more 626 00:26:14,680 --> 00:26:17,679 Speaker 2: than most. But it's always been collaborative. So I think 627 00:26:17,880 --> 00:26:20,440 Speaker 2: there are certain things that simulate. But like I would 628 00:26:20,440 --> 00:26:22,480 Speaker 2: never like go to work out by myself. 629 00:26:22,520 --> 00:26:24,040 Speaker 1: I'm like, Okay, I'm gonna go work out. 630 00:26:24,440 --> 00:26:26,080 Speaker 2: But like when I live with Murray for a minute, 631 00:26:26,080 --> 00:26:27,920 Speaker 2: we were working out together because we had a gym 632 00:26:27,920 --> 00:26:30,800 Speaker 2: in the place. My brother in law, Vinni, he lived 633 00:26:30,840 --> 00:26:32,119 Speaker 2: down the street from me, so he took me for 634 00:26:32,160 --> 00:26:34,920 Speaker 2: like three weeks and we started working out and stuff. 635 00:26:34,920 --> 00:26:36,919 Speaker 2: So for like some of those things, I think when 636 00:26:36,920 --> 00:26:38,880 Speaker 2: it comes to bettering myself, I feel like it's better 637 00:26:38,920 --> 00:26:41,239 Speaker 2: to have a partner. I write like scripts better if 638 00:26:41,280 --> 00:26:42,840 Speaker 2: I'm writing with somebody. 639 00:26:42,960 --> 00:26:44,600 Speaker 1: I feel like that's kind of a fun thing. 640 00:26:44,880 --> 00:26:47,600 Speaker 2: So I think there's certain things, But I'm not afraid 641 00:26:47,640 --> 00:26:51,639 Speaker 2: to try to bring out a different personality and people 642 00:26:51,800 --> 00:26:53,560 Speaker 2: or make them better or try to like get people 643 00:26:53,600 --> 00:26:56,760 Speaker 2: to like do something fun or out of their comfort zone. 644 00:26:57,200 --> 00:26:59,480 Speaker 3: But that's like goes to the heart of the question 645 00:26:59,520 --> 00:27:04,840 Speaker 3: of like, you know you you You could say, oh, 646 00:27:05,280 --> 00:27:09,119 Speaker 3: so there's an excuse in reality, right, yep. The excuse is, well, 647 00:27:09,359 --> 00:27:12,280 Speaker 3: to work out, I probably need somebody. The reality is, well, 648 00:27:12,280 --> 00:27:14,560 Speaker 3: probably not gonna work out. Yeah, right, So it's like, 649 00:27:15,840 --> 00:27:17,600 Speaker 3: is that wrong to make an excuse or is it 650 00:27:17,640 --> 00:27:19,800 Speaker 3: better to just accept the reality of the situation. The 651 00:27:19,840 --> 00:27:22,760 Speaker 3: reality is just like you know, my reality is I 652 00:27:22,840 --> 00:27:25,560 Speaker 3: will jump rope for thirty minutes a day by myself. 653 00:27:26,520 --> 00:27:31,719 Speaker 3: But the excuses, you know, I'm gonna have a pizza 654 00:27:31,920 --> 00:27:34,399 Speaker 3: by myself. And if you're gonna have pizza, well, I'll 655 00:27:34,400 --> 00:27:36,760 Speaker 3: probably have a coke. Yeah, if I have a coke, call, 656 00:27:36,800 --> 00:27:37,840 Speaker 3: I'll probably get cherry coke. 657 00:27:37,880 --> 00:27:41,000 Speaker 2: And it counts not enough, you know, it might not 658 00:27:41,080 --> 00:27:42,560 Speaker 2: doesn't help Pinia poppers up in there. 659 00:27:44,720 --> 00:27:46,480 Speaker 1: I uh, yeah, I don't know. 660 00:27:46,520 --> 00:27:50,520 Speaker 2: I think I think excuses are It's hard excuses because 661 00:27:51,720 --> 00:27:53,240 Speaker 2: they're self imposed. 662 00:27:53,440 --> 00:27:54,960 Speaker 1: Right, But the only person I could get rid of 663 00:27:55,000 --> 00:27:57,520 Speaker 1: them is really you. And to do that acknowledge it. 664 00:27:57,600 --> 00:28:01,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, to acknowledge the important an excuse from you. Right, 665 00:28:01,240 --> 00:28:02,879 Speaker 2: it's your brain saying this is why not? 666 00:28:03,920 --> 00:28:07,679 Speaker 3: But excuses ultimately, And I told my kids this before 667 00:28:07,720 --> 00:28:09,520 Speaker 3: when they lie to me, I'm like, you're not lying 668 00:28:09,560 --> 00:28:12,400 Speaker 3: to me. You know that you are, but you're really 669 00:28:12,480 --> 00:28:15,240 Speaker 3: lying yourself. You're putting yourself in a situation where you're 670 00:28:15,320 --> 00:28:18,560 Speaker 3: lying to yourself about this situation very profound. So that 671 00:28:18,960 --> 00:28:21,520 Speaker 3: is almost an excuse within itself. 672 00:28:21,680 --> 00:28:22,920 Speaker 1: And also inexcusable. 673 00:28:24,560 --> 00:28:28,200 Speaker 3: Now we're in a van going off a bridge like inception, 674 00:28:28,720 --> 00:28:29,960 Speaker 3: which is reality. 675 00:28:30,320 --> 00:28:32,439 Speaker 1: I don't know where we are, Okay, all right, that's good. 676 00:28:32,480 --> 00:28:33,120 Speaker 1: That's a great question. 677 00:28:33,200 --> 00:28:34,440 Speaker 4: That great, great question. 678 00:28:34,560 --> 00:28:37,600 Speaker 1: Thank you, a Donna, Adonna a Donna, great question. 679 00:28:38,080 --> 00:28:40,920 Speaker 4: This one's a fun one, kind of on theme for today. 680 00:28:41,600 --> 00:28:43,880 Speaker 4: What was your go to from getting something from the 681 00:28:43,920 --> 00:28:45,000 Speaker 4: ice cream truck? 682 00:28:45,160 --> 00:28:45,280 Speaker 1: As? 683 00:28:45,480 --> 00:28:49,920 Speaker 3: Oh, what a great from Susan, she said that her 684 00:28:49,960 --> 00:28:52,040 Speaker 3: favorite was pac Man. 685 00:28:51,920 --> 00:28:55,480 Speaker 4: Or blue Ghost with a bubble gum eyeball, which is 686 00:28:55,480 --> 00:28:58,720 Speaker 4: a great detail. Yeah, I didn't have a if I 687 00:28:58,720 --> 00:29:01,720 Speaker 4: didn't have enough money, would get a piece of bazooka Joe. 688 00:29:02,040 --> 00:29:02,880 Speaker 4: So that's from Susan. 689 00:29:02,920 --> 00:29:04,200 Speaker 1: On Instagram. I think that's a fun one. 690 00:29:04,320 --> 00:29:06,360 Speaker 2: I basically think of the freehold. 691 00:29:07,320 --> 00:29:08,520 Speaker 1: H There was like a public pool. 692 00:29:08,560 --> 00:29:11,320 Speaker 2: My grandfather lived in apartment complex and we go swimming 693 00:29:11,320 --> 00:29:11,760 Speaker 2: there all the time. 694 00:29:11,840 --> 00:29:13,760 Speaker 3: My folks would drop us off there because they had 695 00:29:13,760 --> 00:29:16,560 Speaker 3: to work. And so when the ice Cream Man came, 696 00:29:17,880 --> 00:29:20,560 Speaker 3: they didn't think that pac Man was like the filame 697 00:29:20,600 --> 00:29:21,720 Speaker 3: Mignon on the menu. 698 00:29:21,800 --> 00:29:22,920 Speaker 1: You had to get it though, because they sold a 699 00:29:22,920 --> 00:29:24,080 Speaker 1: lot of Jumbo. 700 00:29:23,840 --> 00:29:29,800 Speaker 3: Jetstar Jet Star Classic Sucking jets Star. Yeah. 701 00:29:29,840 --> 00:29:32,760 Speaker 2: And by the way, it's kind of a I'm looking back, 702 00:29:32,800 --> 00:29:34,200 Speaker 2: it's kind of like a girthy pop. 703 00:29:34,320 --> 00:29:42,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, not exactly for young boys. Young boy, Yeah, definitely, definitely. 704 00:29:42,200 --> 00:29:45,200 Speaker 1: This is the Kevin Spacey alert here. But yeah, ice 705 00:29:45,600 --> 00:29:49,040 Speaker 1: the ice cream Dryer was like, what do you want, boy? Yeah, 706 00:29:49,080 --> 00:29:51,280 Speaker 1: it's on the house. Jumbo Jet Star was mine. 707 00:29:51,480 --> 00:29:54,520 Speaker 2: How about you guys. Bubblo Bill what is that? Bubbleo 708 00:29:54,600 --> 00:29:56,360 Speaker 2: Bill was basically a pac Man kind of deal. 709 00:29:56,480 --> 00:29:56,840 Speaker 1: It was. 710 00:29:56,880 --> 00:29:59,880 Speaker 2: It was a cowboy hat with a bubble gum nose. 711 00:30:00,040 --> 00:30:02,040 Speaker 1: It was a cowboy. It was just his head. He 712 00:30:02,080 --> 00:30:04,040 Speaker 1: had a bubble gum nose and he had two chocolate 713 00:30:04,080 --> 00:30:04,560 Speaker 1: chip eyes. 714 00:30:04,800 --> 00:30:08,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, that was a bubble bubble O Bill bubble like 715 00:30:08,120 --> 00:30:09,320 Speaker 2: Buffalo Bill, bubble O Bill. 716 00:30:09,560 --> 00:30:11,120 Speaker 1: I always loved the Choco Taco. 717 00:30:11,840 --> 00:30:15,680 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, that's another good one. People went nuts when 718 00:30:15,680 --> 00:30:16,640 Speaker 2: I think got discontinued. 719 00:30:16,680 --> 00:30:20,200 Speaker 4: Remember that when you'd open up the silver Choco Taco 720 00:30:20,240 --> 00:30:21,520 Speaker 4: and like the steam would come out of the back. 721 00:30:21,520 --> 00:30:23,840 Speaker 4: Well that's everything with the ice cream A nine thousand 722 00:30:23,880 --> 00:30:25,760 Speaker 4: degrees like the ice cream steam. 723 00:30:26,520 --> 00:30:30,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, I the way steam, but you get it, you 724 00:30:30,720 --> 00:30:33,880 Speaker 1: get it. I'm doing my jiggy. I did the I 725 00:30:34,960 --> 00:30:36,760 Speaker 1: I go with. I don't really like ice cream, which 726 00:30:36,800 --> 00:30:38,440 Speaker 1: is weird because I yeah, I don't. I'm not an 727 00:30:38,480 --> 00:30:39,040 Speaker 1: ice cream guy. 728 00:30:39,240 --> 00:30:41,400 Speaker 2: But my I if I get if I have to, 729 00:30:41,520 --> 00:30:43,840 Speaker 2: and I get forced a new corner, I'm straight up 730 00:30:43,880 --> 00:30:48,440 Speaker 2: like a vanilla soft serve with rainbow sprinkies. Oh to Carvell, Yeah, 731 00:30:48,520 --> 00:30:52,640 Speaker 2: car Bell is greatest soft serve. 732 00:30:53,480 --> 00:30:55,280 Speaker 1: Scream. But look at about it. 733 00:30:55,520 --> 00:30:58,800 Speaker 2: I have fond members of the at the vel we 734 00:30:58,840 --> 00:31:00,440 Speaker 2: had we had a local vel. Did you have the 735 00:31:00,440 --> 00:31:02,760 Speaker 2: local ones? Like you used to go to the Dad 736 00:31:02,760 --> 00:31:03,200 Speaker 2: would take. 737 00:31:03,160 --> 00:31:05,080 Speaker 3: A car back when I lived in Manalapin. My father 738 00:31:05,080 --> 00:31:07,560 Speaker 3: would get us in the pickup and that was like. 739 00:31:08,080 --> 00:31:09,480 Speaker 1: Did you eat it in the pickup? In the back. 740 00:31:10,240 --> 00:31:12,400 Speaker 3: We we'd stay because I don't I don't want to 741 00:31:12,400 --> 00:31:15,280 Speaker 3: get my sprinkles all over here and pick up, So 742 00:31:15,320 --> 00:31:16,560 Speaker 3: we would eat in the park a lot. 743 00:31:16,720 --> 00:31:17,200 Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah. 744 00:31:17,240 --> 00:31:19,480 Speaker 2: My dad used to lay on the car and eat, 745 00:31:19,600 --> 00:31:21,600 Speaker 2: uh and eat the what do you call it? 746 00:31:21,640 --> 00:31:23,440 Speaker 1: Eat the cookie puss? 747 00:31:23,480 --> 00:31:24,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, the saucers. 748 00:31:25,240 --> 00:31:27,640 Speaker 1: Flying saucers used to get. Yeah, Fudgie the Whale was 749 00:31:27,640 --> 00:31:28,400 Speaker 1: the was the go to. 750 00:31:28,720 --> 00:31:30,520 Speaker 2: But that's why I don't like ice cream because my 751 00:31:30,640 --> 00:31:32,960 Speaker 2: mother on my birthdays in June, he used to foroce 752 00:31:33,040 --> 00:31:35,120 Speaker 2: ice cream cakes on me because it was just like 753 00:31:35,640 --> 00:31:37,000 Speaker 2: ice cream cake is the greatest. 754 00:31:39,240 --> 00:31:43,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, I hate it, really hate it. Look Fudgi the Whale. 755 00:31:44,120 --> 00:31:45,040 Speaker 2: To this day, right. 756 00:31:44,880 --> 00:31:48,400 Speaker 1: Now, if I look at a cookie puss, come on 757 00:31:48,800 --> 00:31:49,040 Speaker 1: for me. 758 00:31:49,600 --> 00:31:51,800 Speaker 2: Your puss looks at the cookie puss and that's like, oh, 759 00:31:51,960 --> 00:31:54,560 Speaker 2: it gives me a puss. My smile turns into a 760 00:31:54,560 --> 00:31:55,760 Speaker 2: pus when I see a cookie puss. 761 00:31:56,080 --> 00:31:59,440 Speaker 3: Come on, man, the greatest. What's the greatest birthday cake ever? 762 00:31:59,520 --> 00:32:02,680 Speaker 3: That to me, it's carvel hands down. You put candles. 763 00:32:02,840 --> 00:32:05,960 Speaker 3: I go to publics in in Nashville now they sell 764 00:32:06,000 --> 00:32:06,880 Speaker 3: them in the freezer section. 765 00:32:06,920 --> 00:32:09,280 Speaker 2: I'm like, yeah, I get them. 766 00:32:09,480 --> 00:32:12,680 Speaker 1: You're getting you're getting the push in publics. I get publics. 767 00:32:12,920 --> 00:32:14,360 Speaker 1: I'm a grown man. I'm an adult. 768 00:32:14,360 --> 00:32:15,840 Speaker 2: That's what I tell my why I'll eat it right now. 769 00:32:16,400 --> 00:32:17,160 Speaker 2: It's not my birthday. 770 00:32:17,240 --> 00:32:20,040 Speaker 1: That's it, right right, it's not my birthday. I don't 771 00:32:20,040 --> 00:32:20,600 Speaker 1: need license. 772 00:32:20,680 --> 00:32:23,080 Speaker 2: I'm getting this public's puss and I'm getting into it. 773 00:32:23,200 --> 00:32:25,440 Speaker 1: You get on board or go out and get out 774 00:32:25,480 --> 00:32:28,960 Speaker 1: of my house. Give me. It's my birthday. Your wife. 775 00:32:29,080 --> 00:32:31,120 Speaker 1: Your wife's talking to a girlfriends in the Newlon. She's like, oh, 776 00:32:31,200 --> 00:32:33,560 Speaker 1: he's gonna want that buzz for birthday. To get it. 777 00:32:33,640 --> 00:32:36,280 Speaker 2: I'm like, all right, girlfriend, He's like, no, the cookie, 778 00:32:36,280 --> 00:32:38,000 Speaker 2: budd sandwich and publics. 779 00:32:40,160 --> 00:32:42,320 Speaker 3: What is your birthday dessert? 780 00:32:42,400 --> 00:32:42,520 Speaker 1: Then? 781 00:32:43,240 --> 00:32:45,000 Speaker 2: Well, I love a cake like I love to blow 782 00:32:45,000 --> 00:32:46,480 Speaker 2: out the candle cake, but I can't. You can't beat 783 00:32:46,480 --> 00:32:48,120 Speaker 2: the Duncan Hines with a chocolate frost and just a 784 00:32:48,120 --> 00:32:49,000 Speaker 2: standard by. 785 00:32:48,920 --> 00:32:52,480 Speaker 1: The way, yellow cake chocolate frost. Yeah, give me that. 786 00:32:52,480 --> 00:32:53,000 Speaker 2: That's the bird. 787 00:32:53,120 --> 00:32:55,640 Speaker 1: I feel like that's more of the birthday cake than well. No, 788 00:32:55,720 --> 00:32:58,080 Speaker 1: you're right. Those are probably the two leading birthday cakes. 789 00:32:58,400 --> 00:33:01,040 Speaker 2: It's like a carvel ice cream cake, or it's you 790 00:33:01,040 --> 00:33:02,840 Speaker 2: don't have ice cream cake, not at a birthday party. 791 00:33:02,880 --> 00:33:04,120 Speaker 1: And now that I'm thinking about this, you don't. 792 00:33:04,120 --> 00:33:06,200 Speaker 2: You're right, you don't have nobody's like comes over the 793 00:33:06,240 --> 00:33:08,360 Speaker 2: house and brings an ice cream cake because there's a 794 00:33:08,400 --> 00:33:09,360 Speaker 2: lot of maintenance with it. 795 00:33:09,400 --> 00:33:11,840 Speaker 3: They do the cupcakes, or they get like the sheet 796 00:33:11,880 --> 00:33:12,760 Speaker 3: cake and sheet cake. 797 00:33:13,320 --> 00:33:15,440 Speaker 1: Fuck out of here with your sheet cake? Is that 798 00:33:15,520 --> 00:33:17,480 Speaker 1: what you me? I'm a sheet cake person because I 799 00:33:17,480 --> 00:33:19,200 Speaker 1: don't go to I don't go to a house empty handed. 800 00:33:19,440 --> 00:33:21,600 Speaker 1: You don't. You know that's a discrusticht. You have to 801 00:33:21,600 --> 00:33:23,240 Speaker 1: show up with something. So I'm not going to show 802 00:33:23,280 --> 00:33:26,160 Speaker 1: up with a sheet cake from Ralphs. Oh my god, 803 00:33:26,400 --> 00:33:29,400 Speaker 1: the worst. Oh that kind of person. I shut the door. 804 00:33:29,520 --> 00:33:30,920 Speaker 2: Just bring me a bag of sugar and flour. 805 00:33:31,000 --> 00:33:31,760 Speaker 1: You know what white is? 806 00:33:31,840 --> 00:33:35,479 Speaker 2: Take a ship in a bag and right chocolate and 807 00:33:35,520 --> 00:33:37,040 Speaker 2: giving me and I'll rather, I'll. 808 00:33:36,880 --> 00:33:38,520 Speaker 1: Tell you what. Leave it on the street though homeless 809 00:33:38,520 --> 00:33:41,160 Speaker 1: won't even touch it. You know how bad I see 810 00:33:41,160 --> 00:33:42,080 Speaker 1: the guy walking. 811 00:33:41,840 --> 00:33:49,880 Speaker 2: By throws it awayd The worst sheet cake is disgusting. 812 00:33:50,000 --> 00:33:50,960 Speaker 1: There's no flavor. 813 00:33:51,160 --> 00:33:54,560 Speaker 2: It even sounds terrible. Would you like for dessert? Give 814 00:33:54,600 --> 00:33:57,080 Speaker 2: me a nice like a sheet cake. 815 00:33:58,600 --> 00:34:01,160 Speaker 1: Piece of sheet you piece of sheet cake? 816 00:34:01,360 --> 00:34:01,720 Speaker 2: All right? 817 00:34:01,760 --> 00:34:02,000 Speaker 1: Well? 818 00:34:02,560 --> 00:34:05,400 Speaker 3: Uh, summer deserve. I go Carvel. Carvel is my but 819 00:34:05,440 --> 00:34:07,080 Speaker 3: but jumbo Jets stars, the ice Cream Man. 820 00:34:07,120 --> 00:34:08,800 Speaker 2: From the ice Cream Man, you your deep throat, and 821 00:34:08,800 --> 00:34:13,080 Speaker 2: the fucking jumbo Jets. Yeah, I would bubble gum. But 822 00:34:13,120 --> 00:34:14,719 Speaker 2: now that my kids go to it, we see all 823 00:34:14,760 --> 00:34:18,279 Speaker 2: the new flavors, and my son it's the same prototype, right, 824 00:34:18,480 --> 00:34:21,000 Speaker 2: it's the Sonic the Hedgehog. Now my son loves the 825 00:34:21,000 --> 00:34:23,000 Speaker 2: Sonic the Hedgehog because it's the same thing. It's got 826 00:34:23,040 --> 00:34:24,759 Speaker 2: the you know, the eyes that you can eat their 827 00:34:25,040 --> 00:34:25,640 Speaker 2: gum and stuff. 828 00:34:25,680 --> 00:34:29,160 Speaker 3: So Joe, here's here's here's our shark tank. Pick shark tank. Yeah, 829 00:34:29,200 --> 00:34:32,839 Speaker 3: here's our pitch. Ready, good humor. You know, jumbo Jet 830 00:34:32,840 --> 00:34:34,560 Speaker 3: Star comes out. Wooden stick. 831 00:34:34,880 --> 00:34:37,719 Speaker 1: Let's make an edible an edible. 832 00:34:37,480 --> 00:34:41,000 Speaker 3: Stick, so you finish it like drugs, like mushrooms. But 833 00:34:41,040 --> 00:34:43,680 Speaker 3: then you have like the stick itself is like a candy. 834 00:34:43,719 --> 00:34:45,000 Speaker 1: You can eat that. Yeah, they had that. 835 00:34:45,320 --> 00:34:49,400 Speaker 2: When they had that, they combined forces with the stick people, 836 00:34:49,400 --> 00:34:52,640 Speaker 2: you know the stick candy sticks back in the day. 837 00:34:52,680 --> 00:34:55,160 Speaker 2: I remember it vaguely, but it didn't didn't catch on. 838 00:34:55,320 --> 00:34:56,920 Speaker 2: That's why it's not a good deal, because you. 839 00:34:56,960 --> 00:34:59,719 Speaker 1: Just then it's just the boss'd start melted in your hand. 840 00:34:59,719 --> 00:35:03,040 Speaker 1: It's making your hand pink. It was like those sugar sticks. 841 00:35:03,040 --> 00:35:05,319 Speaker 4: It could be like a pretzel if you had like 842 00:35:05,360 --> 00:35:06,720 Speaker 4: a flat pretzel stick. 843 00:35:07,160 --> 00:35:12,560 Speaker 2: Oh dude, a flat pretzel with a chocolate on. Oh 844 00:35:13,480 --> 00:35:18,160 Speaker 2: call me trade Mark, Lloyd Greneer, your friends, Llurid, tell 845 00:35:18,160 --> 00:35:18,759 Speaker 2: her we got a. 846 00:35:18,840 --> 00:35:22,120 Speaker 1: We gotta Let's call her and ask her, Yeah, pretzel stick? 847 00:35:23,360 --> 00:35:28,400 Speaker 2: Are you really calling her? She's after ten years on 848 00:35:28,520 --> 00:35:29,960 Speaker 2: Shark Tank, right, fifteen years? 849 00:35:30,000 --> 00:35:31,400 Speaker 1: I think they just I'll send her a text. 850 00:35:31,440 --> 00:35:34,239 Speaker 2: How many businesses is she a part of? 851 00:35:34,360 --> 00:35:36,319 Speaker 3: Because I know you have the conglomerate so many and 852 00:35:36,360 --> 00:35:38,400 Speaker 3: you have so many execs that bandle it. 853 00:35:38,600 --> 00:35:40,800 Speaker 2: That's how many are under her umbrella. 854 00:35:40,920 --> 00:35:42,640 Speaker 1: When you're good at it, I mean, when you're good 855 00:35:42,640 --> 00:35:45,160 Speaker 1: at it, there's so many. But I don't want to 856 00:35:45,200 --> 00:35:49,280 Speaker 1: call her. I'll send her a voice message watching Hey, Laurie, 857 00:35:49,320 --> 00:35:51,279 Speaker 1: it's Joe. I quick question for you. 858 00:35:51,680 --> 00:35:53,680 Speaker 2: I'm doing my podcast two Cool Moms with my friend 859 00:35:53,719 --> 00:35:55,160 Speaker 2: Steve burn here, and we think we came over with 860 00:35:55,160 --> 00:35:56,919 Speaker 2: the genius idea, and I said I needed to. 861 00:35:56,880 --> 00:35:58,879 Speaker 1: Call a profession. So here it is. 862 00:35:59,120 --> 00:36:01,879 Speaker 2: We were talking about ice creams, and we were talking 863 00:36:01,920 --> 00:36:05,160 Speaker 2: about ice cream like on a edible like a good 864 00:36:05,200 --> 00:36:06,680 Speaker 2: humor like you know you used to get off the 865 00:36:06,680 --> 00:36:07,360 Speaker 2: ice cream truck. 866 00:36:07,560 --> 00:36:08,080 Speaker 1: What if that. 867 00:36:08,120 --> 00:36:11,680 Speaker 2: Stick was edible like a pretzel like maybe like a 868 00:36:11,680 --> 00:36:12,399 Speaker 2: pretzel stick. 869 00:36:12,640 --> 00:36:15,080 Speaker 1: As I'm sending this this, I realized it's a bad idea. 870 00:36:15,120 --> 00:36:17,279 Speaker 1: Sorry to waste time. I love you, I miss you. Buy. 871 00:36:18,600 --> 00:36:20,920 Speaker 3: I think a pretzel stick is a smart call, like 872 00:36:20,960 --> 00:36:22,560 Speaker 3: a chocolate pudding pop. 873 00:36:23,360 --> 00:36:27,919 Speaker 2: Yeah, oh, you know what the edible because you're gonna 874 00:36:27,920 --> 00:36:29,480 Speaker 2: be touching it right then you have to eat it. 875 00:36:30,200 --> 00:36:31,879 Speaker 1: Yeah, what's gonna make it melt in your hands? 876 00:36:32,120 --> 00:36:34,360 Speaker 2: It's gotta be eminem technology melts in your mouth, not 877 00:36:34,400 --> 00:36:37,240 Speaker 2: in your hand, right technology. 878 00:36:37,320 --> 00:36:41,080 Speaker 1: Put it all together. We got to go. It's not 879 00:36:41,160 --> 00:36:44,080 Speaker 1: that easy, buddy. We don't have any prototypes. We have 880 00:36:44,160 --> 00:36:45,640 Speaker 1: no we have no sales. 881 00:36:45,840 --> 00:36:48,560 Speaker 2: You walk into show that It's like Steve Burne has 882 00:36:48,600 --> 00:36:50,160 Speaker 2: an idea of an edible stick. 883 00:36:53,600 --> 00:36:55,920 Speaker 3: Hi, I'm Steve burn I'm out. 884 00:36:55,960 --> 00:36:56,920 Speaker 2: I didn't even thank you. 885 00:36:57,040 --> 00:36:58,200 Speaker 1: You won't even get to the bird. 886 00:36:58,200 --> 00:36:59,000 Speaker 2: I wouldn't even get to it. 887 00:36:59,040 --> 00:37:03,799 Speaker 1: Hi, I'm Steve. But yeah, out here, you won't even 888 00:37:03,840 --> 00:37:04,520 Speaker 1: get to the urn. 889 00:37:12,160 --> 00:37:14,680 Speaker 4: All right, So we got a question here. This is 890 00:37:14,680 --> 00:37:17,480 Speaker 4: from Jennifer hit us up on the Instagram. She says, 891 00:37:17,520 --> 00:37:20,839 Speaker 4: any advice for dating a man with kids that has 892 00:37:20,880 --> 00:37:22,680 Speaker 4: a less than delightful X. 893 00:37:23,800 --> 00:37:25,600 Speaker 1: Oh, that's tough because you're part of that equation. 894 00:37:26,239 --> 00:37:30,319 Speaker 4: So it looks like she's she's in the she's got 895 00:37:30,360 --> 00:37:32,520 Speaker 4: a dynamic. She doesn't like with this X sounds like 896 00:37:32,719 --> 00:37:34,200 Speaker 4: he's snooping around. 897 00:37:34,719 --> 00:37:38,239 Speaker 2: So no, she So she's got the guy's got an 898 00:37:38,239 --> 00:37:40,839 Speaker 2: ex wife that has he has kids with, and now 899 00:37:40,840 --> 00:37:41,640 Speaker 2: she's the girlfriend. 900 00:37:41,800 --> 00:37:43,040 Speaker 1: That's the dynamic, right right. 901 00:37:43,200 --> 00:37:45,839 Speaker 2: Yes, Well, the new lady is there, you know right 902 00:37:45,840 --> 00:37:47,320 Speaker 2: away like all the tropes, she's not going to be 903 00:37:47,360 --> 00:37:48,920 Speaker 2: their mother for the kids. 904 00:37:49,400 --> 00:37:51,480 Speaker 1: But you're dealing with the problems that you're dealing. 905 00:37:51,280 --> 00:37:55,799 Speaker 2: With the the mom, the X so real mom. So 906 00:37:55,880 --> 00:37:57,840 Speaker 2: I think the best way is to steer clear of 907 00:37:57,880 --> 00:38:00,319 Speaker 2: anything when it comes to raising her children or of that. 908 00:38:00,440 --> 00:38:02,879 Speaker 1: Or you'll never win. You'll never win. Yeah, you'll never win. 909 00:38:03,040 --> 00:38:06,160 Speaker 3: It's it's that cake's already baked. 910 00:38:06,239 --> 00:38:07,399 Speaker 2: Yeah, you can't go back. 911 00:38:07,440 --> 00:38:09,520 Speaker 3: So you can be as supportive, you can be as 912 00:38:09,560 --> 00:38:13,240 Speaker 3: wonderful to the kids. But I think everything's behind closed doors. 913 00:38:13,280 --> 00:38:15,279 Speaker 3: Once it's out there, it's like you're right, you're the mom, 914 00:38:15,600 --> 00:38:17,560 Speaker 3: you got it, you make the rules whatever. But the 915 00:38:17,640 --> 00:38:20,640 Speaker 3: minute they're on site with you, it's like, you know, 916 00:38:20,920 --> 00:38:22,360 Speaker 3: you can make your rules. 917 00:38:22,400 --> 00:38:24,359 Speaker 2: Take the kids out of the equation. Let's talk about 918 00:38:24,360 --> 00:38:27,080 Speaker 2: the dynamic between you and the woman. This woman has 919 00:38:27,120 --> 00:38:30,000 Speaker 2: no more has no say in your relationship with her 920 00:38:30,040 --> 00:38:32,400 Speaker 2: ex husband or a person, so that's going to be different. 921 00:38:32,560 --> 00:38:34,120 Speaker 1: So there, you've got to make sure you're assertive in 922 00:38:34,160 --> 00:38:34,960 Speaker 1: that relationship. 923 00:38:35,120 --> 00:38:37,799 Speaker 2: You can't be pushing the footing around that stuff because hey, 924 00:38:38,000 --> 00:38:40,239 Speaker 2: you had your shot with him, he didn't want it, 925 00:38:40,480 --> 00:38:43,760 Speaker 2: and now I'm here, so listen, this is my man 926 00:38:43,840 --> 00:38:45,760 Speaker 2: and this is going to be our situation. You can't 927 00:38:45,880 --> 00:38:49,399 Speaker 2: talk to me like that exactly that you can't talk 928 00:38:49,440 --> 00:38:51,120 Speaker 2: to him like that or about things like So I 929 00:38:51,160 --> 00:38:54,759 Speaker 2: think that's important to establish the relationship of you and 930 00:38:54,800 --> 00:38:58,080 Speaker 2: the man. Is the relationship between you and the man. 931 00:38:58,160 --> 00:39:00,000 Speaker 2: She has nothing to do with that. And there's the pendulums, 932 00:39:00,239 --> 00:39:03,759 Speaker 2: right Yep. It's like, Okay, I have nothing to say 933 00:39:03,800 --> 00:39:06,000 Speaker 2: here because you always will be the mom, but I 934 00:39:06,000 --> 00:39:08,560 Speaker 2: have everything to say here. So I think there's got 935 00:39:08,600 --> 00:39:10,360 Speaker 2: to be if if you're at least. 936 00:39:10,320 --> 00:39:14,000 Speaker 3: Mentally balanced and somewhat healthy, you should be able to 937 00:39:14,000 --> 00:39:17,640 Speaker 3: meet in the middle. But it sounds like that's not 938 00:39:17,719 --> 00:39:19,719 Speaker 3: the perspective on the other end. But that's always what 939 00:39:19,719 --> 00:39:21,319 Speaker 3: you're gonna hear, right, And I'm sure that she's going 940 00:39:21,360 --> 00:39:22,319 Speaker 3: to think the same thing this. 941 00:39:22,400 --> 00:39:23,919 Speaker 1: But this puts our. This puts our, Fella. 942 00:39:24,040 --> 00:39:26,080 Speaker 2: It's in a tricky situation here because he needs to 943 00:39:26,080 --> 00:39:27,560 Speaker 2: make sure that he's towing the line in the right 944 00:39:27,600 --> 00:39:30,359 Speaker 2: way here. You know, that's that's a situation for him 945 00:39:30,400 --> 00:39:31,800 Speaker 2: as well. It's got to be like you got to 946 00:39:31,800 --> 00:39:34,080 Speaker 2: make sure. She's got to make sure that he's supporting 947 00:39:34,080 --> 00:39:34,839 Speaker 2: her when she needs it. 948 00:39:34,960 --> 00:39:35,799 Speaker 1: But also, look at. 949 00:39:35,719 --> 00:39:40,600 Speaker 2: That dog, had someone on the sign a new one 950 00:39:40,840 --> 00:39:45,520 Speaker 2: or he failed as a husband, Go get a horrible husband. 951 00:39:45,600 --> 00:39:47,359 Speaker 1: Now he's going to wreck another woman's life. 952 00:39:47,800 --> 00:39:53,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, keep them on up, wreck him up, let's wreck it, Ralph. 953 00:39:54,080 --> 00:39:57,480 Speaker 2: I think you know, sometimes it doesn't work out, so 954 00:39:58,160 --> 00:40:00,680 Speaker 2: you know, it really is hard. 955 00:40:01,120 --> 00:40:02,600 Speaker 1: I guess communication is always keen. 956 00:40:02,640 --> 00:40:05,800 Speaker 2: We always say this, but really communication is if you're like, hey, listen, 957 00:40:06,120 --> 00:40:08,640 Speaker 2: you know she's this is what's happening here? How do 958 00:40:08,719 --> 00:40:10,360 Speaker 2: I navigate this? I mean, it's it's got to be 959 00:40:10,360 --> 00:40:12,440 Speaker 2: built together. Yeah, but she can't be the one. 960 00:40:12,360 --> 00:40:14,319 Speaker 1: Voice being like I don't like that. You know that's 961 00:40:14,320 --> 00:40:14,799 Speaker 1: not gonna work. 962 00:40:14,840 --> 00:40:19,640 Speaker 3: The core dynamic is the relationship with her and her fella. Yeah, 963 00:40:19,719 --> 00:40:23,040 Speaker 3: and they set the precedent from there forward, so you 964 00:40:23,080 --> 00:40:25,360 Speaker 3: know it's got to be a healthy set of parameters obviously. 965 00:40:25,400 --> 00:40:25,640 Speaker 1: Yeah. 966 00:40:25,680 --> 00:40:27,359 Speaker 2: In the question, the tone of it sounds like she's 967 00:40:27,360 --> 00:40:29,960 Speaker 2: getting guff from the woman, not about the kids. 968 00:40:29,960 --> 00:40:31,120 Speaker 1: Like kids aren't even mentioned. 969 00:40:31,120 --> 00:40:33,120 Speaker 2: It's more like just or they are, but it's more 970 00:40:33,200 --> 00:40:36,120 Speaker 2: like it's like, hey, how do I establish myself in 971 00:40:36,160 --> 00:40:36,960 Speaker 2: this relationship? 972 00:40:37,080 --> 00:40:37,400 Speaker 1: Yeah? 973 00:40:37,480 --> 00:40:41,319 Speaker 4: Yeah, it's or causing stress to her boyfriend. Yes, if 974 00:40:41,320 --> 00:40:43,759 Speaker 4: she's like just always nagging the boyfriend even if she 975 00:40:43,800 --> 00:40:44,520 Speaker 4: doesn't even talk to them. 976 00:40:44,560 --> 00:40:47,319 Speaker 2: And guess who pays for that she does, right, because 977 00:40:47,320 --> 00:40:49,800 Speaker 2: she ain't getting that dong because he's not in food 978 00:40:50,280 --> 00:40:52,960 Speaker 2: because his ex wife is running him out. Oh my god, 979 00:40:53,000 --> 00:40:56,000 Speaker 2: the school that you didn't register them for the summer camp. 980 00:40:55,960 --> 00:40:59,359 Speaker 1: And you think he's like it's like boner alert. It's 981 00:40:59,400 --> 00:41:02,600 Speaker 1: a flat on the left and the right. So that's 982 00:41:02,640 --> 00:41:05,879 Speaker 1: not fair. She ain't getting the thing, don donky kong. 983 00:41:06,400 --> 00:41:08,920 Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. She's just trying to fucking 984 00:41:09,920 --> 00:41:12,120 Speaker 2: she just trying to get this a little boo. But 985 00:41:12,480 --> 00:41:16,840 Speaker 2: you can't because she is I just hear. 986 00:41:19,400 --> 00:41:24,360 Speaker 1: Go to the bedroom. The top is just a dog 987 00:41:25,080 --> 00:41:25,680 Speaker 1: donkey dong. 988 00:41:28,239 --> 00:41:30,640 Speaker 3: She's trying to get the king Kong donkey dong dong 989 00:41:31,120 --> 00:41:32,200 Speaker 3: will always be funny. 990 00:41:32,200 --> 00:41:33,000 Speaker 1: That's the best word. 991 00:41:33,360 --> 00:41:38,960 Speaker 3: Oh dong oh dong when he says that in sixteen Candles, Yes, 992 00:41:39,440 --> 00:41:42,000 Speaker 3: the donger oh god, one of my favorites. 993 00:41:42,920 --> 00:41:45,279 Speaker 1: Yeah, so I think we helped that. Yeah, yeah, yeah, 994 00:41:45,480 --> 00:41:47,080 Speaker 1: get that dong dong dong dong. 995 00:41:47,600 --> 00:41:53,759 Speaker 2: She got that dom donga donk mom dongda dounk. 996 00:41:55,280 --> 00:41:57,439 Speaker 3: You would be a great cruise ship DJ. 997 00:41:58,239 --> 00:42:02,040 Speaker 1: But phenomenal fist. My life's not over. That might be 998 00:42:02,120 --> 00:42:04,080 Speaker 1: my I might go on, I might go down that path. 999 00:42:04,480 --> 00:42:06,960 Speaker 1: I might do a cruise. Hit that airhorn like a mofo. 1000 00:42:08,120 --> 00:42:08,960 Speaker 1: I love an airhorn. 1001 00:42:09,239 --> 00:42:11,799 Speaker 2: Ahn is my favorite sound. My favorite sound better than 1002 00:42:11,880 --> 00:42:13,560 Speaker 2: children laughter. An airhorn. 1003 00:42:13,800 --> 00:42:16,319 Speaker 1: I love it and it was great. 1004 00:42:16,520 --> 00:42:20,680 Speaker 2: The DJ airhorn those are my That's my favorite thing. 1005 00:42:20,760 --> 00:42:23,360 Speaker 2: Nothing gets me juiced like that. I multiple DJs and 1006 00:42:23,440 --> 00:42:25,320 Speaker 2: multiple circles know that that's my sound. 1007 00:42:25,440 --> 00:42:27,240 Speaker 1: And if they want to get me started. 1008 00:42:28,440 --> 00:42:31,560 Speaker 2: Cipher sounds, DJ Reg West, the Kid justin Gerrais Lucci, 1009 00:42:31,640 --> 00:42:34,120 Speaker 2: all those guys know you hit that air horn, It's 1010 00:42:34,120 --> 00:42:36,600 Speaker 2: like putting the quarter in my back. And here he goes, 1011 00:42:37,960 --> 00:42:41,400 Speaker 2: I'm going fire me up with the and I'm going 1012 00:42:42,120 --> 00:42:43,200 Speaker 2: love it, love it. 1013 00:42:43,360 --> 00:42:44,560 Speaker 1: What sound effect does that to you? 1014 00:42:44,600 --> 00:42:45,239 Speaker 2: My top five? 1015 00:42:45,360 --> 00:42:45,759 Speaker 1: Top five? 1016 00:42:45,800 --> 00:42:46,600 Speaker 2: You have one of them? 1017 00:42:46,719 --> 00:42:47,879 Speaker 1: What's that? Oh? You get hurt? 1018 00:42:49,960 --> 00:42:50,680 Speaker 2: You love always? 1019 00:42:50,719 --> 00:42:51,680 Speaker 1: You love always? 1020 00:42:51,680 --> 00:42:54,520 Speaker 3: Because we'll see somebody trip on a sidewalk, g e 1021 00:42:54,600 --> 00:42:57,160 Speaker 3: O stub his toe and just you're always right. 1022 00:42:58,680 --> 00:43:01,239 Speaker 1: You love that sound effect? Love it? Love that. Then 1023 00:43:01,239 --> 00:43:02,719 Speaker 1: you're right, you're right. I provide that for you. 1024 00:43:03,520 --> 00:43:05,640 Speaker 4: Yeah, good time for one more so. This one is 1025 00:43:05,840 --> 00:43:08,600 Speaker 4: from Chuck on the Instagram. He has a son who's four, 1026 00:43:08,640 --> 00:43:11,120 Speaker 4: who's all gased, no breaks. He's very sweet and loving, 1027 00:43:11,400 --> 00:43:14,640 Speaker 4: but also loves to be rough. Definitely a sour Patch kid. 1028 00:43:14,680 --> 00:43:17,240 Speaker 4: Since you both have sons, what advice would you mommies 1029 00:43:17,320 --> 00:43:20,239 Speaker 4: have in helping him calm down but also allowing him 1030 00:43:20,239 --> 00:43:20,799 Speaker 4: to be a boy. 1031 00:43:22,239 --> 00:43:24,160 Speaker 3: Wow, that's a great way to put it, all gas 1032 00:43:24,200 --> 00:43:25,520 Speaker 3: and no breaks. I've never heard that before. 1033 00:43:25,640 --> 00:43:28,600 Speaker 2: I unfortunately don't have much to offer here because my 1034 00:43:28,640 --> 00:43:29,320 Speaker 2: son is not that. 1035 00:43:29,480 --> 00:43:30,479 Speaker 1: I only have one son. 1036 00:43:31,480 --> 00:43:33,440 Speaker 2: I will and I wasn't that type of kid, so 1037 00:43:33,520 --> 00:43:35,600 Speaker 2: I don't really have a dog in this fight. 1038 00:43:35,640 --> 00:43:37,280 Speaker 1: If you will, I would say hurt him once lightly. 1039 00:43:38,440 --> 00:43:38,920 Speaker 1: Excuse me. 1040 00:43:38,960 --> 00:43:42,040 Speaker 2: I would just say hurt him once lightly, and then 1041 00:43:42,080 --> 00:43:44,080 Speaker 2: he'll know not to, you know, fuck around and find 1042 00:43:44,120 --> 00:43:47,240 Speaker 2: out like just a nice little olf, a little sweep. 1043 00:43:47,280 --> 00:43:50,200 Speaker 2: I don't know know my son is like the opposite that. 1044 00:43:50,239 --> 00:43:51,960 Speaker 2: So I don't know is how is yours? 1045 00:43:52,000 --> 00:43:52,759 Speaker 1: Is he a kids? 1046 00:43:52,800 --> 00:43:55,400 Speaker 2: I think middle ground? But I think you know, I 1047 00:43:55,680 --> 00:43:58,040 Speaker 2: remember this bit again. 1048 00:43:58,080 --> 00:44:00,000 Speaker 3: I don't know why I keep bringing a Billy gardelle, 1049 00:44:00,120 --> 00:44:02,480 Speaker 3: But he had this great bit about being a kid 1050 00:44:02,520 --> 00:44:04,520 Speaker 3: and like kids these days were in helmets and everything. 1051 00:44:04,760 --> 00:44:06,680 Speaker 3: He's like when we were a kid, you just ride 1052 00:44:06,719 --> 00:44:08,799 Speaker 3: your bike and you go off in the woods and 1053 00:44:08,800 --> 00:44:12,120 Speaker 3: you hit this fast band. You know, if you fell down, 1054 00:44:12,200 --> 00:44:15,319 Speaker 3: you know, okay, slow down, and that was it. So 1055 00:44:15,360 --> 00:44:18,480 Speaker 3: I think that, you know, a personality trait is a 1056 00:44:18,480 --> 00:44:21,840 Speaker 3: personality traite, right, Some kids are a little more passive, 1057 00:44:22,239 --> 00:44:23,680 Speaker 3: some kids are a little more energetic. 1058 00:44:24,520 --> 00:44:26,200 Speaker 1: I don't think you can I don't think you can 1059 00:44:26,280 --> 00:44:26,839 Speaker 1: rain that in. 1060 00:44:27,280 --> 00:44:30,279 Speaker 3: I think the kid is part of his personality, and 1061 00:44:30,320 --> 00:44:33,799 Speaker 3: I think that kid, if you're physically more active, you're 1062 00:44:33,800 --> 00:44:36,280 Speaker 3: going to learn your lessons a lot quicker than someone 1063 00:44:36,320 --> 00:44:38,839 Speaker 3: who is a little more kind of laid back. 1064 00:44:38,880 --> 00:44:40,040 Speaker 1: I guess, yeah, But. 1065 00:44:41,600 --> 00:44:43,640 Speaker 3: I would just say that that's part of it, right, 1066 00:44:43,960 --> 00:44:46,080 Speaker 3: Like you get a dog that's super energetic, it's like, 1067 00:44:46,360 --> 00:44:47,880 Speaker 3: all right, well there's nothing we can do. 1068 00:44:48,960 --> 00:44:49,560 Speaker 1: That's the dog. 1069 00:44:51,760 --> 00:44:54,279 Speaker 3: A terrier is going to be more energetic than you know, 1070 00:44:54,920 --> 00:44:58,160 Speaker 3: a bloodhound or whatever. So I just think that's part 1071 00:44:58,160 --> 00:45:02,960 Speaker 3: of him. Enjoy it, appreciate it, and you know, you'll 1072 00:45:02,960 --> 00:45:06,160 Speaker 3: always have somebody to throw a ball with on take 1073 00:45:06,200 --> 00:45:06,600 Speaker 3: a walk or. 1074 00:45:06,920 --> 00:45:07,880 Speaker 1: I think that you need to. 1075 00:45:08,960 --> 00:45:11,000 Speaker 2: I think one part of it, though, is you need 1076 00:45:11,040 --> 00:45:13,319 Speaker 2: to help him manage that, right as the dad. You're 1077 00:45:13,360 --> 00:45:16,080 Speaker 2: trying because if that's gonna be part of his personality, 1078 00:45:16,120 --> 00:45:19,560 Speaker 2: you want to be a part that he's able to 1079 00:45:19,600 --> 00:45:22,440 Speaker 2: take care of, like when he's like in school or whatnot, 1080 00:45:22,480 --> 00:45:25,840 Speaker 2: and calm down when he needs to write and whatnot. 1081 00:45:25,920 --> 00:45:29,000 Speaker 2: So at four, though, like that's about when they're starting 1082 00:45:29,120 --> 00:45:31,680 Speaker 2: I'm thinking back what my son was for. That's when 1083 00:45:31,719 --> 00:45:35,360 Speaker 2: they're starting to realize they could run fest or do 1084 00:45:35,520 --> 00:45:37,200 Speaker 2: things like that, Like they could do stuff like that. 1085 00:45:37,239 --> 00:45:39,080 Speaker 3: It's also part of that age, you're right, I think 1086 00:45:39,080 --> 00:45:43,080 Speaker 3: around four, you know, my son was kind of pretty adventurous. 1087 00:45:43,400 --> 00:45:45,120 Speaker 3: And I think, of course that stuff's going to temper 1088 00:45:45,200 --> 00:45:49,800 Speaker 3: down because at four, like to your point, you're learning 1089 00:45:49,800 --> 00:45:52,280 Speaker 3: to sprint, you're learning to run, and you're also learning 1090 00:45:52,360 --> 00:45:53,040 Speaker 3: how to fall. 1091 00:45:53,600 --> 00:45:54,640 Speaker 2: I mean that's another thing. 1092 00:45:54,719 --> 00:45:57,879 Speaker 3: Like when you're playing ice hockey, you know, you learn 1093 00:45:57,920 --> 00:45:59,439 Speaker 3: how to fall. You don't just learn how to skate. 1094 00:45:59,480 --> 00:46:01,279 Speaker 3: You don't learn how to slept. You learn how to 1095 00:46:01,960 --> 00:46:05,279 Speaker 3: you know, like basically self protect yourself. You learn how 1096 00:46:05,320 --> 00:46:07,239 Speaker 3: to get up against the glass when somebody's checking you. 1097 00:46:07,280 --> 00:46:10,360 Speaker 3: So the glass takes takes a lot of the uh inertia, 1098 00:46:10,480 --> 00:46:12,840 Speaker 3: And I think with a child at that age especially, 1099 00:46:13,480 --> 00:46:16,000 Speaker 3: you're gonna learn when you stand on the table, you fall, 1100 00:46:16,440 --> 00:46:17,600 Speaker 3: you don't see the table anymore. 1101 00:46:18,320 --> 00:46:21,600 Speaker 2: So yeah, yeah, I think, enjoy the enjoy the ride. 1102 00:46:21,600 --> 00:46:24,160 Speaker 3: But but to your point, you got to know, hey, 1103 00:46:24,360 --> 00:46:26,319 Speaker 3: there are times to uh to dial it down. 1104 00:46:26,360 --> 00:46:28,120 Speaker 1: There's times to dial it I did. 1105 00:46:28,160 --> 00:46:30,680 Speaker 2: Look, you do you have a lesson that you learned 1106 00:46:31,120 --> 00:46:32,839 Speaker 2: when you were younger, Like you talked about like don't 1107 00:46:32,880 --> 00:46:33,600 Speaker 2: take that turn fast. 1108 00:46:33,760 --> 00:46:36,040 Speaker 1: You have a memory of like, yeah, don't smart off 1109 00:46:36,080 --> 00:46:36,439 Speaker 1: to dad. 1110 00:46:37,520 --> 00:46:39,160 Speaker 3: I remember my dad cracked me a fresh one in 1111 00:46:39,160 --> 00:46:41,040 Speaker 3: front of my friends, and it spun me around like 1112 00:46:41,080 --> 00:46:43,400 Speaker 3: a Jackie Chan movie and I fell down and I 1113 00:46:43,440 --> 00:46:45,719 Speaker 3: was like, you do your own stunts too. That day 1114 00:46:45,760 --> 00:46:49,120 Speaker 3: I had, I was forced to, but my dad taught. Yeah, 1115 00:46:49,239 --> 00:46:51,960 Speaker 3: that was my lesson, like don't smart off in front 1116 00:46:52,000 --> 00:46:53,520 Speaker 3: of my friends. 1117 00:46:53,680 --> 00:46:55,759 Speaker 2: My dad when I was getting my sassy mouth. My 1118 00:46:55,840 --> 00:46:58,120 Speaker 2: dad wasn't really a hit or ever. And I remember 1119 00:46:58,200 --> 00:46:59,640 Speaker 2: he just hit me once, didn't even look out from 1120 00:46:59,640 --> 00:47:01,480 Speaker 2: his plate. When we sat the dinner table, I was 1121 00:47:01,480 --> 00:47:03,160 Speaker 2: on his left end. He just was at the head 1122 00:47:03,200 --> 00:47:04,200 Speaker 2: of the table and we. 1123 00:47:04,120 --> 00:47:06,520 Speaker 1: Were eating something. I was being, you know, funny and quirky, 1124 00:47:06,560 --> 00:47:08,000 Speaker 1: and I said some of my mom said. 1125 00:47:07,800 --> 00:47:10,239 Speaker 2: Something like mom, don't be such a bitch, and he 1126 00:47:10,280 --> 00:47:12,279 Speaker 2: didn't even look up, and he went wapping, just got 1127 00:47:12,400 --> 00:47:13,080 Speaker 2: me riding something. 1128 00:47:13,120 --> 00:47:14,759 Speaker 1: I fell on the floor and he said, you'll never 1129 00:47:14,760 --> 00:47:15,439 Speaker 1: call all that again. 1130 00:47:15,480 --> 00:47:16,560 Speaker 2: Then he was right right, I. 1131 00:47:16,560 --> 00:47:17,399 Speaker 1: Didn't even look up. 1132 00:47:17,640 --> 00:47:19,200 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's just like, you know, it's part of being 1133 00:47:19,200 --> 00:47:21,799 Speaker 3: a dad. You know, my dad was not abusive, buying 1134 00:47:21,800 --> 00:47:23,080 Speaker 3: the means at all, but you. 1135 00:47:23,040 --> 00:47:27,160 Speaker 2: Know, when when you needed to be, you know, course corrected. 1136 00:47:27,200 --> 00:47:28,320 Speaker 1: He was there to write. 1137 00:47:28,400 --> 00:47:30,960 Speaker 2: I don't think I think the most interesting I remember 1138 00:47:30,960 --> 00:47:33,800 Speaker 2: in that in the house We had a like a circuit. 1139 00:47:33,920 --> 00:47:36,400 Speaker 2: We had a carpeted circular stairway like a half circle, 1140 00:47:36,680 --> 00:47:38,480 Speaker 2: like so up top came down a couple to like 1141 00:47:38,520 --> 00:47:40,399 Speaker 2: a landing, then it turned to a landing and came 1142 00:47:40,400 --> 00:47:43,000 Speaker 2: down right. And then I remember like I was running 1143 00:47:43,040 --> 00:47:46,759 Speaker 2: up the stairs with a blanket and uh and I 1144 00:47:46,840 --> 00:47:48,640 Speaker 2: slipped like on the blanket because it was between the carpet. 1145 00:47:48,640 --> 00:47:50,200 Speaker 1: I was like, Oh, that's slippery. And I was like, oh, 1146 00:47:50,360 --> 00:47:51,880 Speaker 1: that's slippery. That could be fun to use as a 1147 00:47:51,880 --> 00:47:53,000 Speaker 1: sled down this right. 1148 00:47:53,080 --> 00:47:55,360 Speaker 2: I just wrapped myself in the blanket like a mummy 1149 00:47:55,640 --> 00:47:55,759 Speaker 2: and I. 1150 00:47:57,520 --> 00:48:00,840 Speaker 1: Bound. I was like and in my mind it was 1151 00:48:00,880 --> 00:48:01,799 Speaker 1: gonna be more fun. 1152 00:48:02,360 --> 00:48:04,680 Speaker 2: And my father thought I came and fell down the 1153 00:48:04,719 --> 00:48:06,799 Speaker 2: steps and he comes running in and he's like, he's 1154 00:48:06,800 --> 00:48:09,400 Speaker 2: like oh and he sees me I'm right in a 1155 00:48:09,440 --> 00:48:12,560 Speaker 2: blanket like a burrito, and I'm like, ah, he goes. 1156 00:48:12,840 --> 00:48:17,360 Speaker 2: He just to me, goes, what are you doing? Like 1157 00:48:17,520 --> 00:48:19,640 Speaker 2: it went from like padding, Oh, my son fell. He's hurt, 1158 00:48:19,680 --> 00:48:22,040 Speaker 2: so like what is this mummy burrito? Like? 1159 00:48:22,080 --> 00:48:23,520 Speaker 1: I know you more like, how do you think that 1160 00:48:23,600 --> 00:48:24,680 Speaker 1: was gonna pan out? In your head? 1161 00:48:24,760 --> 00:48:24,920 Speaker 2: You know? 1162 00:48:25,160 --> 00:48:26,759 Speaker 1: I think part of it is self discovery. 1163 00:48:26,840 --> 00:48:29,400 Speaker 3: My father got me a go cart and I was 1164 00:48:29,440 --> 00:48:32,000 Speaker 3: I think it was seven. I was like, what are 1165 00:48:32,040 --> 00:48:33,960 Speaker 3: you thinking. By the way, this is not like a 1166 00:48:34,000 --> 00:48:38,240 Speaker 3: go carts powered, like gas powered. It's just metal bars 1167 00:48:38,360 --> 00:48:41,600 Speaker 3: put together that somebody like welded together this far off 1168 00:48:41,600 --> 00:48:44,080 Speaker 3: the ground right literally, And he got it for me 1169 00:48:44,120 --> 00:48:45,839 Speaker 3: at like seven or eight, and I was like, wow, 1170 00:48:45,880 --> 00:48:49,400 Speaker 3: this is cool. And he puts me in. It's fucking fast. 1171 00:48:49,800 --> 00:48:51,560 Speaker 3: I'm sure like as an adult now, i'd look at 1172 00:48:51,600 --> 00:48:53,959 Speaker 3: it and be like, oh, it's probably twenty twenty five miles. 1173 00:48:54,000 --> 00:48:56,480 Speaker 3: It's still fast for a fucking eight year old. So 1174 00:48:56,520 --> 00:49:00,759 Speaker 3: we lived where we lived, there was this doctor's building, 1175 00:49:00,880 --> 00:49:02,719 Speaker 3: you know, behind us in a big park a lot. 1176 00:49:03,239 --> 00:49:05,160 Speaker 2: So my dad puts me in and he just fucking 1177 00:49:05,440 --> 00:49:05,960 Speaker 2: gets the thing. 1178 00:49:05,960 --> 00:49:07,239 Speaker 1: He's like, all right, I have at it. 1179 00:49:07,520 --> 00:49:10,799 Speaker 3: And I hit the gas and I gun it and 1180 00:49:10,840 --> 00:49:12,919 Speaker 3: I go to a turn and I hit the turn. 1181 00:49:13,200 --> 00:49:15,279 Speaker 2: And my brother was with me, he was probably five 1182 00:49:15,280 --> 00:49:15,759 Speaker 2: at the time. 1183 00:49:16,160 --> 00:49:16,640 Speaker 3: Bye bye. 1184 00:49:17,160 --> 00:49:19,560 Speaker 2: Just hit the turn and he fucking barreled out of there. 1185 00:49:19,760 --> 00:49:21,239 Speaker 1: God, and he teamed it. 1186 00:49:21,520 --> 00:49:24,360 Speaker 3: He he eight team did pretty hard and he was 1187 00:49:24,400 --> 00:49:25,840 Speaker 3: crying and it was just like, oh my god, that 1188 00:49:25,920 --> 00:49:28,759 Speaker 3: was my first lesson in speed of like. 1189 00:49:29,000 --> 00:49:31,000 Speaker 2: But then your dad wasn't upset about that, but he 1190 00:49:31,040 --> 00:49:33,640 Speaker 2: was upset that when you've spent away, we're like, see 1191 00:49:33,680 --> 00:49:34,160 Speaker 2: a bitch. 1192 00:49:35,360 --> 00:49:37,799 Speaker 1: That part was unset about. That was that was that 1193 00:49:37,880 --> 00:49:39,560 Speaker 1: was a lesson. They liked speed, but yeah, that was. 1194 00:49:39,920 --> 00:49:42,560 Speaker 3: I mean, my dad, I can't believe to this day, 1195 00:49:42,600 --> 00:49:44,080 Speaker 3: I still can't believe he got me real card there 1196 00:49:44,440 --> 00:49:44,960 Speaker 3: that fast. 1197 00:49:45,040 --> 00:49:46,879 Speaker 1: But yeah, it was. I do all this stuff too. 1198 00:49:46,920 --> 00:49:49,560 Speaker 2: Like my daughter just went to a playdate and her 1199 00:49:49,640 --> 00:49:53,040 Speaker 2: nanny sends her, sends a video and she and her remo, 1200 00:49:53,200 --> 00:49:55,200 Speaker 2: they both went and she sends a video and they 1201 00:49:55,200 --> 00:49:57,320 Speaker 2: had a full blown zip line and here comes my 1202 00:49:57,400 --> 00:50:00,680 Speaker 2: daughter on the like twenty, you know, fifteen feet off 1203 00:50:00,680 --> 00:50:03,319 Speaker 2: the ground, like hey, and I'm like, oh my god, 1204 00:50:03,360 --> 00:50:04,759 Speaker 2: I'm like that's so much. I was like, oh, that's 1205 00:50:04,760 --> 00:50:06,440 Speaker 2: so my daughter to jump on this. And then she 1206 00:50:06,480 --> 00:50:08,600 Speaker 2: sends a second video. It's my son who is not 1207 00:50:08,760 --> 00:50:11,560 Speaker 2: it's at a character and he literally goes She's like 1208 00:50:11,600 --> 00:50:14,880 Speaker 2: watch and he's just going stop me, stop me, stop, 1209 00:50:16,840 --> 00:50:18,440 Speaker 2: And he does speak because he's a big little big 1210 00:50:18,480 --> 00:50:21,320 Speaker 2: boy now right, and he's not. He's like and he 1211 00:50:21,400 --> 00:50:24,000 Speaker 2: hits the spring and he just comes back in. The 1212 00:50:24,080 --> 00:50:25,240 Speaker 2: video ends with him going. 1213 00:50:25,200 --> 00:50:30,080 Speaker 1: You missed me so funny. 1214 00:50:30,400 --> 00:50:30,560 Speaker 4: Yah. 1215 00:50:30,560 --> 00:50:32,640 Speaker 1: I guess they find that stuff out. You know, it's weird. 1216 00:50:32,760 --> 00:50:36,000 Speaker 3: Your your daughter's son dynamic is somewhat similar to mine. 1217 00:50:36,000 --> 00:50:38,239 Speaker 3: My son might be a little more adventurous, but like, 1218 00:50:38,640 --> 00:50:41,439 Speaker 3: you know, we're planning to go to like Universal next 1219 00:50:41,440 --> 00:50:43,400 Speaker 3: week and he's like, I'm not going on any fast 1220 00:50:43,480 --> 00:50:46,680 Speaker 3: rides and he establishes it out of the gates and like, 1221 00:50:46,760 --> 00:50:48,399 Speaker 3: you know, we know it's like, all right, he's gonna 1222 00:50:48,400 --> 00:50:49,839 Speaker 3: sit out or we'll have to do something else. 1223 00:50:49,880 --> 00:50:53,680 Speaker 2: But he does not like speed at all. Oh wow, 1224 00:50:54,120 --> 00:50:55,680 Speaker 2: it's he's his aversion to it. 1225 00:50:55,840 --> 00:51:02,200 Speaker 1: I don't know. He's old gas no farts. 1226 00:51:02,239 --> 00:51:04,200 Speaker 2: And that's all you got today. Thank you so much 1227 00:51:04,239 --> 00:51:06,600 Speaker 2: for listening to Two Cool Moms. This was a great 1228 00:51:06,600 --> 00:51:09,759 Speaker 2: app Where do you think wrapped it up? 1229 00:51:09,760 --> 00:51:11,000 Speaker 1: Man? That was great? Dude. 1230 00:51:11,000 --> 00:51:14,640 Speaker 3: That that is so just specific. 1231 00:51:14,680 --> 00:51:15,239 Speaker 1: That's so great. 1232 00:51:16,840 --> 00:51:21,920 Speaker 2: Thank you for listening, you watching, subscribe like share all 1233 00:51:21,920 --> 00:51:22,560 Speaker 2: the good stuff. 1234 00:51:22,680 --> 00:51:26,080 Speaker 3: The email is too Cool Moms pod at gmail dot com. 1235 00:51:26,080 --> 00:51:27,879 Speaker 3: So again, you have a video you want to send 1236 00:51:27,920 --> 00:51:29,719 Speaker 3: us the video question, We'll make you part of it. 1237 00:51:29,840 --> 00:51:32,080 Speaker 2: Thank you guys so much for for having us back 1238 00:51:32,120 --> 00:51:34,440 Speaker 2: and listening to us. We're we're so excited to be. 1239 00:51:35,080 --> 00:51:38,160 Speaker 3: Back out here. And obviously Joe's gonna be on the road. 1240 00:51:38,160 --> 00:51:43,600 Speaker 2: On the road Joe Otoofficial dot com and punch up 1241 00:51:43,640 --> 00:51:48,040 Speaker 2: live Steve Burn. Just just punch up Steve Burn. That's 1242 00:51:48,400 --> 00:51:50,480 Speaker 2: We're really Steve's great at is the marketing of how 1243 00:51:50,480 --> 00:51:51,400 Speaker 2: to find him. 1244 00:51:51,800 --> 00:51:52,520 Speaker 1: If you want to see. 1245 00:51:52,440 --> 00:51:55,320 Speaker 3: Him, find me on Misconnections at christlisted around three am. 1246 00:51:55,719 --> 00:51:59,479 Speaker 1: Just like Steve into Google and you'll find him. Guys. Yeah, 1247 00:51:59,520 --> 00:52:03,560 Speaker 1: so come on out the tour. I have Jiggy will 1248 00:52:03,560 --> 00:52:05,360 Speaker 1: be with me on this tour. I'm very excited. All 1249 00:52:05,440 --> 00:52:07,400 Speaker 1: new material, all new material. This is it in my 1250 00:52:07,440 --> 00:52:10,440 Speaker 1: brand new hour. I'm super excited. Let's get into it 1251 00:52:10,520 --> 00:52:13,960 Speaker 1: is the tour and uh so that's it. Yeah, that's it, 1252 00:52:14,000 --> 00:52:15,640 Speaker 1: all right, Well see on the next one. That's it. 1253 00:52:15,760 --> 00:52:16,480 Speaker 1: That's it.