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Speaker 1: Coming up at the top of the hour, we are

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Speaker 1: talking with eighty five South, the Poor sat stc Young Flag,

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Speaker 1: Carlos Miller, and Chico Bean.

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Speaker 2: They're gonna be joining us.

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Speaker 1: Tell us about yeah, eighty five South, big business tour

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Speaker 1: to stick around to see if they've headed if they're

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Speaker 1: going to be headed your way.

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Speaker 2: That's coming up at the top of the hour.

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Speaker 1: But right now it is time to ask the COLO

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Speaker 1: our chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey.

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Speaker 2: This is from Christian and Memphis. Christian says, I have over.

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Speaker 1: Active sweat glands and I had a terrible time last

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Speaker 1: night when I tried to have sex. I took a

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Speaker 1: shower first, but once my feet started sweating, it was over.

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Speaker 1: The lady tried to be nice about it. So do

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Speaker 1: I tell her the truth or never call her again?

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Speaker 3: Hey, dog, you're gonna head star wearing T shirt or

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Speaker 3: some sock?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and make them mother, won't it? Well?

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Speaker 3: You know they got these socks that were cool as

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Speaker 3: on them. They got these cool socks. You got to

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Speaker 3: buy you some cool socks, and you gotta get you

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Speaker 3: some T shirt. These overactors sweat. Don't nobody want all

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Speaker 3: that dripping in They eye you know down this hand,

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Speaker 3: you get all the sweat glands, you just dripping. People

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Speaker 3: don't want that, dog, don't nobody want all that?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, too much.

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Speaker 3: You're gonna have to get you a skin suit. You're

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Speaker 3: gonna have to slide into a nude suit that looked

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Speaker 3: like skin. Richard Pryor had one on a long time

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Speaker 3: ago on his TV show. It's a new suit. It's

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Speaker 3: like a body stocket. You put it on, it look

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Speaker 3: like skin. You're gonna be a little rough, but you're

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Speaker 3: a man anyway.

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Speaker 2: So should he tell his lady?

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Speaker 1: Then we got to tell him, let her, let her go,

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Speaker 1: never call her again.

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Speaker 3: No, no, hell no, don't do that. Dog. Just explain

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Speaker 3: to it a problem you got. And then you don't

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Speaker 3: see if she willing to help you. Now she ain't

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Speaker 3: willing to help you then, even with your sweat glands,

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Speaker 3: she was probably laying there going, what is you sweating for?

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Speaker 3: You you're doing that's a whole other problem.

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Speaker 2: Only your sweating, all right?

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Speaker 3: Only you see, well, when you be sweating on your body,

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Speaker 3: your body be wet. It's up there, all right.

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Speaker 2: Moving on to Roanne in Schomberg Ryann and Schomberg.

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Speaker 1: Right, so I have a work phone, and my coworker

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Speaker 1: constantly sends me screenshots from.

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Speaker 2: Instagram day and night.

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Speaker 1: My husband said to get my little work friend in check,

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Speaker 1: but he won't stop, and I can't block him.

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Speaker 2: Should I let my husband talk to him? I don't

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Speaker 2: know what to do.

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Speaker 3: No, because you ain't gonna have no job no more. No,

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Speaker 3: just go up to him and say, hey, listen to me.

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Speaker 3: Don't send me anything else, because if you do, hear

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Speaker 3: my options and I don't want to exercise either one

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Speaker 3: of them. So I'm gonna give you a chance. Brother.

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Speaker 3: Don't send me any more information. Number one, I have

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Speaker 3: to go to HI, and number two, I'm gonna have

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Speaker 3: to go to my husband. If I go an HR,

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Speaker 3: you might lose your job. If I go to my husband,

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Speaker 3: you might lose your life. Which one is you're gonna do?

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Speaker 3: Or you can stop sending stuff and just be sitting it.

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Speaker 3: That's what it's gonna come down. But done it. You

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Speaker 3: ain't got to say that, but that's what you're gonna insinuate. Hey, look, brother,

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Speaker 3: I really like you as a person, but I need

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Speaker 3: for you to stop sending me stuff on Instagram. It's inappropriate.

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Speaker 3: I am married and I don't want it. Now. If

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Speaker 3: you don't stop, I have two options, and I don't

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Speaker 3: want to exercise either one of them. I can go

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Speaker 3: to HR to stop it, and I think you could

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Speaker 3: possibly be in trouble and lose your job. Or I

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Speaker 3: could tell my husband don't neither one of us want that,

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Speaker 3: because my husband does not need to be in prison.

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Speaker 2: Is it that serious though, I mean, because we do

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Speaker 2: that all the time.

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Speaker 3: If she don't want it, it's inappropriate in the workplace.

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Speaker 3: If you do something to a person that that that

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Speaker 3: they don't want, that's inappropriate. Man, We're in a new day.

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Speaker 2: This is true, all right? All right, ver, look at

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Speaker 2: the HR to HR.

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Speaker 1: Let's move onivity studies out ahead.

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Speaker 2: To do not studies. We're moving on Leon and DeSoto.

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Speaker 1: Right.

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Speaker 2: My wife and I are house honey.

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Speaker 1: She expects a home with a pool and a lot

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Speaker 1: of land, but our budget is leaning more toward a

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Speaker 1: starter home. This is our first home together, and I

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Speaker 1: told her we can upgrade later.

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Speaker 2: How do I get her to be more realistic?

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Speaker 3: Stretched? All, You're gonna have to stretch on this one.

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Speaker 3: What do you mean you're gonna have to stretch? Well,

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Speaker 3: here's the deal. Anyway, you can only buy what your

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Speaker 3: income let you buy. You're gonna qualify for a certain loan.

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Speaker 2: That's it.

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Speaker 3: You won't. You can want all you want, and there

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Speaker 3: ain't nothing wrong with dreaming, but they're gonna tell you

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Speaker 3: what you qualify for the bank, the mortgage company, whatever,

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Speaker 3: right am I? Right? Child?

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Speaker 2: Yes, that's what my husband does for limit, Yes.

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Speaker 3: Sir, and so I think that's what you're gonna have

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Speaker 3: to play the ball in the ball game in there,

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Speaker 3: unless you run across some extra money or you can

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Speaker 3: find that in that budget price and have to go

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Speaker 3: in and do some fixing. What you're gonna cost you

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Speaker 3: wave more money if you don't. So, yeah, I don't

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Speaker 3: think you have to get her to be realistic. I

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Speaker 3: think the banks and mortgage company gonna help you be realistic.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, they gonna break it down.

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Speaker 3: That thank you. I'm just trying to be a better

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Speaker 3: Christian today.

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Speaker 2: Okay, we're moving on, crazy DeMarcus. This is the last one, DeMarcus, Carlo.

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Speaker 2: That's for you. And you notice my name. Come on

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Speaker 2: to Marcus, what's wrong? Come on to Marcus?

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Speaker 1: And Charlotte says, why does my wife get mad? Dinner

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Speaker 1: is ready? When she gets home from work. I work

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Speaker 1: from home and I'm a much better cook.

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Speaker 3: Than she is.

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Speaker 1: So what's the big deal? Why is she hating and

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Speaker 1: not happy? Am I overstepping my boundaries here?

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Speaker 2: You just love him? You may just be dough.

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Speaker 3: Now listen to me. He was married to one of

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Speaker 3: my co hosts. Love you know she would come in

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Speaker 3: and just be okay.

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Speaker 1: I love every day who you're talking about the show,

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Speaker 1: But I love.

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Speaker 2: You and I support her me too. Well, Karla doing it.

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Speaker 3: For a reason because she can cook and then TODs

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Speaker 3: can make gumbo. But surely, on the.

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Speaker 2: Other hand, I love this man.

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Speaker 3: I didn't mean to use your name, but surely on

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Speaker 3: her other hand, it is out.

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Speaker 2: Now, remember you're trying to be a better Christian?

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Speaker 3: What's the right and state?

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Speaker 2: Come pot?

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Speaker 3: Rice and steak in the same pot.

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Speaker 2: But I love DeMarcus.

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Speaker 3: What can he do?

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Speaker 1: Steve?

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Speaker 2: What you're gonna tell to Mark?

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Speaker 3: Well, all I'm saying is Shirley opened up that pot

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Speaker 3: and it looked like rice with beef jerky, and.

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Speaker 2: I am done and ask the cello. But I love

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Speaker 2: the market.

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Speaker 3: What is this?

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Speaker 2: Went beef jerky?

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Speaker 3: I didn't know Jerkie Kane juicy when they started.

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Speaker 2: Making juicy jerky.

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Speaker 3: It's a new jack. It's called juicy Jerky Rice using

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Speaker 3: jerkie Rice.

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Speaker 2: Is he overstepping his boundaries? That's what DeMarcus wants to know.

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Speaker 3: Not if you live with Shirley.

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Speaker 2: I love you, DeMarcus.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, the hey man just ask her how she wanted

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Speaker 3: to do. And but she already know you doing it

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Speaker 3: because she can't cook. She already knows you know. No

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Speaker 3: nobody walked that.

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Speaker 2: All right, Thank you, Celo.

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Speaker 1: Coming up at the top of the hour, eighty five

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Speaker 1: souths Carlos Millard and Chico Bean will be our special guests.

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Speaker 2: Right after this. You're listening to The Hardy Morning Show.