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Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Beka, Tilly and Tanya Brad and iHeartRadio,

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Speaker 1: and two times People's Choice Award winning podcast.

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Speaker 2: Hello Everybody. Hello Becca.

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Speaker 3: You know you have a glow about you today? I do, Yeah,

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Speaker 3: A glow that could only come from talking, looking at

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Speaker 3: and touching one Harry Style.

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Speaker 2: Oh I thought you were gonna save a period glow.

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Speaker 3: Normally periods don't provide a glow, I don't think, but

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Speaker 3: you do have a glow. Maybe it is.

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Speaker 2: I do have to say, I don't think I've been

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Speaker 2: the same since Saturday night.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean I haven't been the same since Saturday night,

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Speaker 3: just hearing and seeing it.

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Speaker 2: So I was so nervous to do this Harry Style

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Speaker 2: show because, ay, Harry Styles is I've never met him before.

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Speaker 2: This is a really big deal. This is going on

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Speaker 2: like all the national radio stations across the country. So

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Speaker 2: I was like, seriously, like so nervous. On Saturday, I

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Speaker 2: met him before the show. He was so nice during

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Speaker 2: the interview. He could not have been sweeter, like, so engaged,

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Speaker 2: so nice. He added an extra song into the set

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Speaker 2: because I was talking about it during the interview. So

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Speaker 2: he wasn't going to do Falling how was he not

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Speaker 2: going to do because it was only five songs and

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Speaker 2: it was just going to be more of an upbeat show.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, it's like my favorite song on his.

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Speaker 2: Album Mine too. So I talked to him a lot

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Speaker 2: about it during the interview, and so he basically said,

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Speaker 2: I'm adding an extra song. I felt like I needed to.

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Speaker 4: And he looked over at you, mouth like this is.

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Speaker 2: For you or some something of the sort. Wow, I know.

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Speaker 2: I was like, I'm like, I was like not even

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Speaker 2: in a cloud in heaven, Like I was like in

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Speaker 2: an outer space and.

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Speaker 3: Then to Heaven's high Okay, I don't know, right tears.

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Speaker 2: So I'm like could not be happier. And then like

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Speaker 2: all these people from the label and his management were

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Speaker 2: just telling me all these like how great of an

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Speaker 2: interview it was, And it was just like I was

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Speaker 2: so feeling so good and so proud because I was

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Speaker 2: having so many questions about myself that day. But then

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Speaker 2: I get back home and my phone rings and it's

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Speaker 2: Harry's manager. So I answer and it turns out it's

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Speaker 2: Harry Styles himself.

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Speaker 3: I like would have passed out.

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Speaker 2: I was like, how do I record this? Like I

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Speaker 2: was about myself and I was like, how do I

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Speaker 2: This is so wild? And I thought because he'd only

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Speaker 2: really just called to say like, thank you so much

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Speaker 2: for a great interview, it was so easy to talk

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Speaker 2: to you, like just really just thanking me. And I

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Speaker 2: was like, you are such a treat. I'm like so overwhelmed.

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Speaker 2: This is such a class act thing to do. I've

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Speaker 2: never even heard of anybody doing this and it never

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Speaker 2: happened for me ever. Yeah, so now I'm like a

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Speaker 2: Harry Styles Stan Dan I will And I basically was like,

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna come to whatever. And he said like, You're

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Speaker 2: welcome to any show.

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Speaker 3: Please invite me. Please let me go to anything. He

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Speaker 3: invites you too.

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Speaker 2: On the perside, we could go to any if we

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Speaker 2: wanted to, like go to his show and wherever Timbuctoo, Like,

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Speaker 2: let's go to Timbuck show. Yeah. I feel so close

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Speaker 2: to him.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, y'all are. And it was cool because I saw

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Speaker 3: just like tweets and stuff that you had retweeted of

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Speaker 3: people saying like he felt so comfortable with you. And

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Speaker 3: you know, his fans are like they're paying attention to

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Speaker 3: his emotions and spacial expressions, his body language, so that

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Speaker 3: was a huge compliment coming from the stands of the

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Speaker 3: Harry Styles world.

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Speaker 2: I think what I tried to do because because I

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Speaker 2: don't think it was that great of it, like it

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Speaker 2: didn't seem anything like.

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Speaker 3: I think it's just you make people feel comfortable. And

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Speaker 3: I'm sure, especially in a situation like that with interviews,

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Speaker 3: it probably feels very like stuffy a lot at the time,

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Speaker 3: and I think you kind of take that out of interviews.

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Speaker 3: I think you dealt with a lot of people, not

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Speaker 3: just Harry Styles.

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Speaker 4: And I also think it's impossible for you to gauge

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Speaker 4: how well it went. I think in a situation like that,

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Speaker 4: you would know if it did not go well, but

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Speaker 4: I think it's hard for you to really get how

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Speaker 4: well it seemed to go right.

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Speaker 2: And in my mind, I like pick everything apart. So

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Speaker 2: I was listening back to it and I was like, oh,

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Speaker 2: I say, like so much that sucks, Like I need

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Speaker 2: to stop doing that. And there was a lot of

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Speaker 2: things I learned I think from listening back to it

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Speaker 2: that will help me in the future.

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Speaker 4: Do you want us to help you with the like thing?

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Speaker 4: Is there something we could do?

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Speaker 2: I don't know, how do you fix that?

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Speaker 4: We play something every time you say like, I.

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Speaker 3: Watched myself on the Bachelor and not really people calling

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Speaker 3: it out really helped me pay attention to it. I

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Speaker 3: still say it, but I definitely am more aware of

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Speaker 3: it when I'm speaking now because even watching The Bachelor now,

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Speaker 3: the girls say it so much, and I watched TV

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Speaker 3: with my subtitles on, so I'm reading it and hearing it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a lot, And I guess it's different when

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Speaker 2: you're like in a podcast or the morning show and

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Speaker 2: that's like like multiple voices.

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Speaker 4: Well, it makes you think about it, but I think.

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Speaker 2: When you're doing just a one on one interview, it's

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Speaker 2: more jarring when you hear it so much.

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Speaker 3: Also when you're doing it, I think a lot of

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Speaker 3: the time it is you stalling. I don't know what

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Speaker 3: the science is behind people saying like but I think

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Speaker 3: it's because of not of nerves or something that are

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Speaker 3: happening while you're trying to have a conversation and so

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Speaker 3: you're not really thinking about it.

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Speaker 2: I mean, it's like every it's every other word out

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Speaker 2: of my mouth. It's bad.

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Speaker 4: This is something we've a dressed before, Like Ryan's brought

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Speaker 4: this up to you before on the show. Yeah, and

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Speaker 4: you have tried to make some changes and it doesn't stick.

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Speaker 2: I guess stick. Yeah, I think I can temporarily like. Nah,

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Speaker 2: it's so bad. I said it four times in one

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Speaker 2: question to Harry. I listened back and.

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Speaker 3: Thought, who who knows the things that I would say.

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Speaker 3: I'm having a conversation looking at him his face. We

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Speaker 3: were watching his video for Falling and it's beautiful and

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Speaker 3: there's these close ups of his face and just like

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Speaker 3: his dimples and oh.

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Speaker 2: I know, and when he looks at you. I didn't

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Speaker 2: look at my cards the entire time. I did not

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Speaker 2: look at my cards once. Awesome tire interview. It was

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Speaker 2: just full on its like locked in.

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Speaker 4: But that is that is the sign of a good interview. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: if you're scrambling through your cards looking for questions, you're

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Speaker 4: not present, you're not listening, and he's not giving you

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Speaker 4: enough to create a flow.

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Speaker 2: No. I didn't look at him once, only to read

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Speaker 2: the I wrote down a lyric that I wanted to

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Speaker 2: talk to him about, and I only looked at my

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Speaker 2: cards just to make sure I got the lyric right right.

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Speaker 4: And that was the lyric that everyone in the audience

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Speaker 4: said with you.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, which I really do you want to hear that?

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Speaker 4: Did you hear the interview?

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Speaker 2: Uh?

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Speaker 3: Becca, I didn't hear the whole thing, but I saw

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Speaker 3: that part.

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Speaker 4: I think, Oh, I think Nick took it down. I'll

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Speaker 4: get it back up again, but I want to I'll

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Speaker 4: play that part.

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Speaker 2: That was fun. I think he enjoyed that.

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Speaker 3: Actually, yeah, you sent me one picture and he's looking

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Speaker 3: at you laughing or something or smiling. Anyways, I was

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Speaker 3: so proud of you because when you left it, we

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Speaker 3: like we saw each other. Before you left it, you

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Speaker 3: you weren't. You didn't seem nervous at all. You were

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Speaker 3: just I think the one thing you said, you were like,

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Speaker 3: I don't have a makeup person to do my hair,

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Speaker 3: and I'm like, you definitely want a makeup person when

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Speaker 3: you meet Harry Style.

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Speaker 2: I know, because it was radio only, so I didn't

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Speaker 2: really put too much effort into like.

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Speaker 3: You know you're making I'm so aware of it right now,

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Speaker 3: but I can barely think.

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Speaker 2: So I didn't. I didn't think I needed to get

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Speaker 2: super glam. But then I was like, there's probably gonna

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Speaker 2: I want to definitely sistant.

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Speaker 4: You mentioned that earlier. I feel like nowadays you always

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Speaker 4: you have no choice but questions. There's always going to

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Speaker 4: be social media involved totally.

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Speaker 2: And he really enjoyed. I wear a shirt that said

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Speaker 2: treat people with Kindness, which is one of the songs.

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Speaker 3: Is that his merch?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, great merch.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, he really enjoyed that.

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Speaker 4: Congratulations, Tanya. It was a big moment, a big deal

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Speaker 4: and a big step for you within iHeart media, don't

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Speaker 4: you think? How did that? Is there a story behind

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Speaker 4: now that came about?

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Speaker 2: Yes, I'm not sure if I can share it, but

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Speaker 2: I let's just say, uh, I was not necessarily the

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Speaker 2: first choice for some people, but I was the first

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Speaker 2: choice for.

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Speaker 3: Others important ones her, important ones who have well important

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Speaker 3: is a relative word. But the ones who had to

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Speaker 3: say what I mean, well, they made it happen.

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Speaker 4: They must be important. That is good. I love knowing

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Speaker 4: that there are other people fighting for you in this company.

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Speaker 2: Thank you, I know. And I think that was also

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Speaker 2: part of like the reason I was feeling nervous, because

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Speaker 2: I really wanted to prove to myself that I could

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Speaker 2: do it and to them that I could do it.

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Speaker 2: So afterwards when everything was when all the people were

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Speaker 2: coming up, like people were coming up to me that

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Speaker 2: were on Harry's team obviously they were like British and

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Speaker 2: complimenting me on the interview and stuff, and just made

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Speaker 2: me feel a sense of confidence in myself that other

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Speaker 2: people have it that I don't.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, the people driving around somewhere you've never been before, Omaha, Nebraska,

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Speaker 4: listening to Tanya and you Harry Styles on the radio.

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Speaker 2: It's fantastic, so cool, crazy.

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Speaker 4: Here's a little bit of it with Harry.

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Speaker 2: And there's this one lyric in there that I need

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Speaker 2: to talk about because it DU's me. The line you say,

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Speaker 2: and uh, I wrote it down because I don't want

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Speaker 2: to mess it up.

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Speaker 4: And I get the feeling that you'll never need me.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, very nice.

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Speaker 2: Wow, wow, I have felt that in my core. So

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Speaker 2: like sing that was like, wow, I feel so seen

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Speaker 2: by you.

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Speaker 4: Oh wow great?

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Speaker 3: Does does Red Star know the significance of that you

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Speaker 3: were face to face with Hairy Styles?

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Speaker 2: He did say though he was watching one of the

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Speaker 2: videos where Harry makes eye contact with me and like smile. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: he was like that seemed a little flirty.

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Speaker 3: I mean, yeah, it did, and I would have been like, excuse, do.

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Speaker 2: You know what's so funny? I was getting so many

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Speaker 2: DMS of people saying, is Harry Styles your boyfriend? Because

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Speaker 3: That would be the funniest, most epic thing ever that

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Speaker 2: Is not Harry Style, He's not No, it's not not

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Speaker 3: Can we talk about how not curently TVD? Can we

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Speaker 3: talk about how excited I personally am for Claire Crawley

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Speaker 2: Me too.

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Speaker 3: It's funny because she really came out of nowhere.

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Speaker 2: And I'm so glad that they did that because we

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Speaker 3: Yeah, well, I thought it may have been Tia or Tasia.

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Speaker 3: So Claire was a real shock to me. But I'm

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Speaker 2: Oh oh yeah, I keep forgetting who was the last one?

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Speaker 2: Oh besides sorry before her friend, but she was, yeah,

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Speaker 3: Yes, So I guess really and not. And Hannah was great,

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Speaker 2: Would I would not be upset up there was like

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Speaker 2: It's great a twenty three year old that's cast in already.

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Speaker 2: Oh yes, wow, yeah that was cool.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that was neat.

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Speaker 2: Well.

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Speaker 3: then I didn't really follow Bachelor in Paradise. On this

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Speaker 2: She was the one that was like talking to the raccoons.

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Speaker 2: Oh remember they made her look like she waskoo talking

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, But I saw this interview.

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Speaker 3: Lauren Zima posted this interview with her, like I think

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Speaker 3: And she goes I always say, I would so much

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so I'm really excited to.

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Speaker 3: Watch her be the bachelorette with that mentality of knowing, like,

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Speaker 3: you know, I don't have to choose any of these

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Speaker 2: Totally, and I think that something that I do really

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Speaker 2: I love about her is she's unabashedly who she is

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Speaker 3: Yeah, me too. And I do you know, we have

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Speaker 3: all the people who are saying, well, I'm not watching

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Speaker 2: Like, why what are they saying bad about her?

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Speaker 3: Because like they don't know her, they didn't like her

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Speaker 3: on her seasons. But I'm thinking, Okay, no one cares

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Speaker 3: if you're sitting on the couch while everyone else is

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Speaker 3: involved in the Bachelorette and you're sitting there not knowing

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Speaker 3: what's going on, and it's all about It's so much

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Speaker 2: And I also I am excited to see like at

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Speaker 2: thirty nine, Okay, like for me at thirty when I'm

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Speaker 2: I thirty two, I have this checklist of things in

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Speaker 2: he have this? Does he have that? Does he you know?

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Speaker 2: All of these things that I would go through, And

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Speaker 2: do you know what I mean? So I think it's

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Speaker 2: kind of cool. I think we're going to see a

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, definitely, I'm very excited. Congrats congrats to Claire.

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Speaker 4: Becca. How far along Love Is Blind? Are you at this?

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Speaker 2: You watched the wedding? Yes, I haven't watched the weddings.

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Speaker 2: I'm caught up until the finale.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Oh my gosh, I was exhausted. I'm exhausted from

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Speaker 3: Love is Blind, but I want more. There's a reunion.

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Speaker 2: Show this Thursday.

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Speaker 3: Where do you begin.

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Speaker 2: They're all still married, by the way, the couple I

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Speaker 2: don't know who got married, but allegedly the couples that

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Speaker 2: didn't get.

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Speaker 3: Married boiler alerty, Well.

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Speaker 2: I think you know. I mean, we've seen them in

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Speaker 3: We don't know where people are by this week from

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Speaker 4: I'm only on episode two, so I gotta catch you.

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Speaker 4: Don't get on my case? Do you two with your

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Speaker 4: Gray's Anatomy? Let me guess where you guys are on

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Speaker 4: Gray's Anatomy.

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Speaker 3: Pretty far behind.

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Speaker 4: Okay, so I'm caught up on Greys Anatom.

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Speaker 3: Okay, Well, anyway, his Love is Blind. The first few

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Speaker 3: the most cringe of all the season is after they

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Speaker 4: One couple has and one the guy just proposed a diamond.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, Carlton.

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Speaker 4: Carlton just proposed to diamond.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Carton, You're about to get majorly uncomfortable. I had

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Speaker 3: I couldn't binge more than one because I had so

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Speaker 3: much anxiety watching.

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Speaker 2: I loved it. I'm like holding on to the finale

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Speaker 2: for like a good night you know?

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, do you do you like uh Giannia Gannina?

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Speaker 2: I don't mind her, like, you know, do you like her?

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Speaker 3: She? I struggle with her. I'm sure she's I just

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm not terribly like really invested in any of them,

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Speaker 2: which is weird.

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Speaker 3: Well that's what I was saying.

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Speaker 2: The fact, Okay, it's I don't know, because I enjoy

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Speaker 3: Okay, same in the fact that Lauren and Cameron were

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Speaker 3: that into him, Like it's not this spark, right, But

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Speaker 3: because for some reason, people like latched onto them as

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Speaker 4: I felt like, yeah, is that the scientist?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Okay.

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Speaker 2: I also feel like they can't do this show again

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Speaker 2: because I think if they did it again, the people

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Speaker 2: that they would I feel like this cast was so pure,

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Speaker 2: like these are purest you know what I mean. They

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Speaker 2: are going in They don't know that this show is

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Speaker 2: going to be a hit. They just really I feel

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Speaker 2: like they really all wanted to find love in an unconventional,

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Speaker 2: weird situation.

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Speaker 4: You're right, The Bachelor was a hard time finding people

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Speaker 4: for the right reasons exactly, which is change.

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Speaker 2: Which is why I think that I was so into

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Speaker 2: all there but for the right reason.

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Speaker 3: But The Bachelor is different because they might go on

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Speaker 3: for that reason, but you do end up because of

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Speaker 3: the way it's set up and the no phone, the

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Speaker 3: no TV, and you're surrounded by other people who are

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Speaker 3: into this person, you end up developing feelings for them,

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Speaker 3: like emotionally, whether it's long lasting or not.

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Speaker 2: Right, I mean, you take away a phone, my TV,

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Speaker 2: my competing, You put me in a room with like

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Speaker 2: anybody follow I'm probably you give me no outside anything,

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Speaker 2: but my favorite meme from Love is Blind and somebody

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Speaker 2: posted it was like the best part of Love Is

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Speaker 2: Blind season one was when Nickolache walks out and says,

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Speaker 2: and I'm obviously nick Lache. I don't remember that either,

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Speaker 2: but I can totally totally see him saying that, I'm obviously.

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Speaker 2: Maybe we have to rewatch the first episode.

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Speaker 4: How about those two looking to do a big hit?

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Speaker 2: They can't do it again, Like I'm sorry, Like that,

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Speaker 2: there cannot be a Love is Wine season two. It

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Speaker 2: won't be as good. These were purists.

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Speaker 3: Oh, I'm gonna watch it. I'll watch it season two

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Speaker 3: season three.

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Speaker 4: We have a bunch of emails to get to before

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Speaker 4: we do that, though. How are we all preparing for

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Speaker 4: the coronavirus? Tanya traveled to New York this weekend for Harry.

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Speaker 2: I did, and I was prepared. I bought Clorox wipes.

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Speaker 2: I had a mask, which is as they say, and

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Speaker 2: actually ended up taking it off because I felt so

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Speaker 2: weird with nobody was wearing them. But people were lifesoling

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Speaker 2: the heck out of their seats.

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Speaker 4: I feel like we should always We're that family. By

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Speaker 4: the way, as soon as we sit down, we are

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Speaker 4: wiping every surface we can find it.

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Speaker 2: It's pretty gross.

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Speaker 4: Gross.

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Speaker 2: All the grocery stores and everything around us. I bought

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Speaker 2: the last two bottles of clorox in the entire store. Everything.

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Speaker 2: Body's just selling out of stuff.

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Speaker 4: It's like, ma'am, even Amazon is no capping.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, two or three bottles.

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Speaker 4: You can only buy so much of stuff because people

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Speaker 4: are hoarding. WHOA, yeah, have you done any of this stuff?

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Speaker 4: Becca to prepare?

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Speaker 2: Are you kidding?

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Speaker 4: What do you know?

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Speaker 3: You either you either get a lucky break and you

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Speaker 3: don't get it, or you get a unlucky break and

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Speaker 3: you do get it.

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Speaker 2: Can you take care of yourself?

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Speaker 3: I'm like grossed out by the mask, though I don't

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Speaker 3: like breathing in my own air, Like that really grosses

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Speaker 3: me out.

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Speaker 4: But I think I think you probably have a healthy

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Speaker 4: out look on this whole thing. Yeah, Because they say

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Speaker 4: it's like a flu, it's not you know, it's not

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Speaker 4: the ebola virus anything bleeding out your eyeballs until you die.

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Speaker 4: Like this is something you can get over. Some say

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Speaker 4: two percent mortality. A lot of people are saying considerably

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Speaker 4: it's gonna be a really bad flu. Yeah, but it

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Speaker 4: does sound like it's going to get pretty bad.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Here's my thing though, Like I'm a freak about washing.

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Speaker 3: My hands are so dry right now because I wash

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Speaker 3: Chlorox wipes on hand. I buy like a multipack every

446
00:20:14,920 --> 00:20:16,840
Speaker 3: time I order, so I probably have a pack ready.

447
00:20:18,720 --> 00:20:22,919
Speaker 3: If I touch anyone, I immediately go and wash my hands.

448
00:20:23,000 --> 00:20:25,200
Speaker 3: I'm not touching my I'm trying to like not touch

449
00:20:25,240 --> 00:20:28,560
Speaker 3: my face that much. So it's really just being aware

450
00:20:28,600 --> 00:20:32,840
Speaker 3: and being hygienic and not like making out with people

451
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Speaker 3: who seem like they have sick well.

452
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Speaker 2: Can I tell you that? On tea back from New York. Yeah,

453
00:20:38,400 --> 00:20:39,840
Speaker 2: on my way back from New York, I ended up

454
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Speaker 2: bonding with the girl that I was sitting next to

455
00:20:41,400 --> 00:20:43,760
Speaker 2: over because she was wiping down her seat just as

456
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Speaker 2: much as I was. Like we both were like passing

457
00:20:45,600 --> 00:20:48,520
Speaker 2: around our lifsol wipes. Can I tell you who she was?

458
00:20:48,760 --> 00:20:51,440
Speaker 2: And she I'm obsessed with her. She has this restaurant

459
00:20:51,480 --> 00:20:53,240
Speaker 2: that was her mom's. I got deep with her. She

460
00:20:53,280 --> 00:20:55,720
Speaker 2: has a mom, her mom's Yeah, we talked for a

461
00:20:55,760 --> 00:20:58,640
Speaker 2: long time. She has her mom's restaurant here in Los

462
00:20:58,640 --> 00:21:00,399
Speaker 2: Angeles that I want to go to because and her

463
00:21:00,400 --> 00:21:02,760
Speaker 2: mom passed away three years ago, and so she wants

464
00:21:02,800 --> 00:21:05,359
Speaker 2: to keep it like going to honor her mom's memories.

465
00:21:05,359 --> 00:21:07,000
Speaker 2: There's all these photos of her mom and there and stuff,

466
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Speaker 2: And so I texted my boyfriend was like, we're going here.

467
00:21:09,280 --> 00:21:11,720
Speaker 2: It's like okay, random, and then explained that I said

468
00:21:11,960 --> 00:21:15,800
Speaker 2: this lady and lad she was so cute and as

469
00:21:15,960 --> 00:21:18,639
Speaker 2: Nancy Spielberg, and I was like, are you related to

470
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Speaker 2: Steven Stephen. She's like, yeah, that's my brother.

471
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Speaker 3: Oh.

472
00:21:23,240 --> 00:21:25,520
Speaker 2: This was halfway through their flight too, so mind you.

473
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Speaker 2: I'm like hearing all this stuff about like her brother

474
00:21:27,840 --> 00:21:29,520
Speaker 2: and like just just you know what I mean that.

475
00:21:29,600 --> 00:21:31,000
Speaker 2: I was like, what the heck?

476
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Speaker 4: You know?

477
00:21:32,040 --> 00:21:38,760
Speaker 3: And you know who her niece is, Arizona Robbins A capsule.

478
00:21:39,119 --> 00:21:45,520
Speaker 3: I didn't know that. Yeah, step Well it's her stepdad,

479
00:21:45,560 --> 00:21:46,080
Speaker 3: I guess.

480
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Speaker 2: But she is now a subscriber to Scrubbing In, so Nancy.

481
00:21:51,280 --> 00:21:54,080
Speaker 3: She gets a notification in new episodes. She's like, what

482
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Speaker 3: is this?

483
00:21:54,800 --> 00:21:57,719
Speaker 4: Is that her right there? Sure is?

484
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Speaker 2: She was the cutest. She like gave me advice on

485
00:22:00,560 --> 00:22:04,159
Speaker 2: my relationship, and we spent a lot of time talking

486
00:22:04,240 --> 00:22:05,439
Speaker 2: and I'm like obsessed with her.

487
00:22:06,440 --> 00:22:08,160
Speaker 3: To Nancy, Yeah, and if anybody.

488
00:22:07,840 --> 00:22:09,919
Speaker 2: Lives in Los Angeles, go to the Milky Way. That

489
00:22:10,040 --> 00:22:14,560
Speaker 2: is the restaurant. It's fully kosher, cute.

490
00:22:14,920 --> 00:22:17,439
Speaker 3: Yeah, we love a good plane meeting.

491
00:22:17,600 --> 00:22:20,160
Speaker 2: And now she's a scrubber. She literally subscribed to scrubbing

492
00:22:20,160 --> 00:22:22,400
Speaker 2: and out like wow yeah yeah, So now she's gonna

493
00:22:22,400 --> 00:22:23,480
Speaker 2: get the a larn. She's gonna listen.

494
00:22:23,840 --> 00:22:26,520
Speaker 4: So maybe the next family reunion she'd be like, hey, Stephen,

495
00:22:27,040 --> 00:22:29,359
Speaker 4: you need to know about Becka Antonia totally next thing,

496
00:22:29,400 --> 00:22:32,359
Speaker 4: you know, he's making a movie about Becka an Tanya.

497
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Speaker 5: Oh.

498
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Speaker 3: I was gonna say, we have him on the podcast,

499
00:22:34,840 --> 00:22:38,159
Speaker 3: which would be so epic, like I imagine every single

500
00:22:38,320 --> 00:22:43,280
Speaker 3: like movie critic podcast. And then here we are scrubbing

501
00:22:43,320 --> 00:22:46,240
Speaker 3: in exclusive with Stephen's.

502
00:22:45,680 --> 00:22:47,000
Speaker 2: Small but mighty we are.

503
00:22:47,280 --> 00:22:48,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's true all right.

504
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Speaker 2: By the way, I just want to say really quick

505
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Speaker 2: before we move on, I'm in a much better place

506
00:22:52,359 --> 00:22:54,040
Speaker 2: than I was fifteen minutes ago.

507
00:22:54,320 --> 00:22:56,120
Speaker 3: Antonia started her period in my.

508
00:22:56,080 --> 00:22:59,159
Speaker 2: Ovaries are starting to get numb, and I'm so happy.

509
00:22:59,040 --> 00:23:01,680
Speaker 3: She took some mess. I came in and she was

510
00:23:01,720 --> 00:23:05,399
Speaker 3: panicked about just her current situation, but she had just

511
00:23:05,440 --> 00:23:08,600
Speaker 3: taken some ibuprofen. I said, just give it some time,

512
00:23:08,760 --> 00:23:10,639
Speaker 3: and here we are. She gave it some time and

513
00:23:10,680 --> 00:23:11,280
Speaker 3: she's fine.

514
00:23:12,119 --> 00:23:14,840
Speaker 2: Isn't it crazy how much our periods can affect Do

515
00:23:14,880 --> 00:23:16,480
Speaker 2: you know what else is crazy?

516
00:23:16,520 --> 00:23:19,320
Speaker 3: Okay, so one time this might be Tami, but it's

517
00:23:19,520 --> 00:23:20,520
Speaker 3: it's just my truth.

518
00:23:20,600 --> 00:23:20,880
Speaker 2: I love.

519
00:23:23,160 --> 00:23:25,760
Speaker 3: I'm trying to remember when you gave me those oxy

520
00:23:26,200 --> 00:23:30,199
Speaker 3: powder pills. Oh yeah, okay, So one time Tanya was

521
00:23:30,320 --> 00:23:32,320
Speaker 3: I was at her house before she's getting ready for bed,

522
00:23:32,359 --> 00:23:34,560
Speaker 3: and she was taking all her like vitamins or whatever,

523
00:23:35,240 --> 00:23:37,439
Speaker 3: and she had these these pills and I was like,

524
00:23:37,480 --> 00:23:39,080
Speaker 3: what is that and she goes, oh, I take these

525
00:23:39,119 --> 00:23:41,760
Speaker 3: so that I can use the bathroom basically in the morning.

526
00:23:42,080 --> 00:23:44,880
Speaker 3: I was like, oh, does it give you, like, don't

527
00:23:45,040 --> 00:23:47,719
Speaker 3: rhea or is it just like a healthy situation And

528
00:23:47,760 --> 00:23:49,560
Speaker 3: she's like, no, it's just normal. It just like keeps

529
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Speaker 3: in regular. I was like, I might try that. It

530
00:23:53,240 --> 00:23:56,199
Speaker 3: does not do the same for me. It makes me

531
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Speaker 3: feel like I'm going to die. And I took it,

532
00:24:01,280 --> 00:24:03,360
Speaker 3: I guess at like eight something last night.

533
00:24:03,200 --> 00:24:04,920
Speaker 2: Which is when I take Oh you did last night?

534
00:24:05,359 --> 00:24:08,520
Speaker 3: Yes, because ever since I've been eating healthy. By the way,

535
00:24:08,560 --> 00:24:11,239
Speaker 3: I'm on like day fifteen of no doctor pepper, no

536
00:24:11,440 --> 00:24:15,520
Speaker 3: fast food. I'm so healthy right now, thank you everybody.

537
00:24:15,880 --> 00:24:18,040
Speaker 3: But anyways, I feel like doctor Pepper always is kind

538
00:24:18,080 --> 00:24:21,480
Speaker 3: of what has kept me regular in that area, and

539
00:24:23,000 --> 00:24:25,040
Speaker 3: I haven't had that, And so I was like, I'm

540
00:24:25,040 --> 00:24:28,240
Speaker 3: going to take two of these things four thirty am

541
00:24:28,359 --> 00:24:31,520
Speaker 3: this morning. Not a good situation.

542
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Speaker 2: It's about when I wake up, I still don't yeah too.

543
00:24:34,480 --> 00:24:36,720
Speaker 3: So I think I have to take it later because

544
00:24:36,760 --> 00:24:39,960
Speaker 3: that was not a welcome didn't feel good. Yeah, I

545
00:24:40,000 --> 00:24:42,760
Speaker 3: just don't understand how yours is just like a normal

546
00:24:42,960 --> 00:24:44,000
Speaker 3: Yeah that issues.

547
00:24:45,040 --> 00:24:46,639
Speaker 4: So for you it's a normal and for you it

548
00:24:46,720 --> 00:24:47,879
Speaker 4: was far from normal.

549
00:24:48,200 --> 00:24:54,159
Speaker 3: It's a cleanse. It's technically a cleanse. The vitamins are.

550
00:24:54,440 --> 00:24:56,440
Speaker 2: Technically you're like eight of them or something, but.

551
00:24:56,400 --> 00:24:58,879
Speaker 3: You're supposed to even on the directions and the reviews,

552
00:24:58,920 --> 00:25:01,040
Speaker 3: it's like make sure that you you're just at home

553
00:25:01,320 --> 00:25:02,000
Speaker 3: next to my.

554
00:25:02,080 --> 00:25:03,679
Speaker 2: Bathroom ossy powder.

555
00:25:05,520 --> 00:25:08,520
Speaker 3: Okay, Anyways, it's supposed to be like, are you're supposed

556
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Speaker 3: to do it for a certain amount of days in

557
00:25:09,920 --> 00:25:10,280
Speaker 3: a row.

558
00:25:10,400 --> 00:25:12,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, it is a cleanser, but I only take two

559
00:25:12,520 --> 00:25:14,440
Speaker 2: of them. You're supposed to take eight. I take two

560
00:25:14,640 --> 00:25:16,080
Speaker 2: and they give me a nice little.

561
00:25:16,720 --> 00:25:18,720
Speaker 4: It's a powerful colon cleanse.

562
00:25:19,720 --> 00:25:29,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, and it is. You're welcome, So yeah, I always yeah.

563
00:25:29,200 --> 00:25:32,040
Speaker 2: So anyways, did I did a podcast after I had

564
00:25:32,080 --> 00:25:33,720
Speaker 2: my weekend my weekend get away?

565
00:25:34,160 --> 00:25:34,360
Speaker 3: No?

566
00:25:34,720 --> 00:25:38,600
Speaker 2: We did the podcast before. No we did? Oh yeah, yeah,

567
00:25:38,680 --> 00:25:41,760
Speaker 2: because I didn't go to the bathroom my trip, my

568
00:25:41,960 --> 00:25:42,560
Speaker 2: entire trip.

569
00:25:42,680 --> 00:25:46,080
Speaker 3: Isn't that the worst part of a new relationship? The worst?

570
00:25:46,119 --> 00:25:48,200
Speaker 2: And the thing that was so annoying about the whole

571
00:25:48,200 --> 00:25:49,920
Speaker 2: thing is he was so sweet when we got there.

572
00:25:49,960 --> 00:25:51,520
Speaker 2: He said, if you need to use their bathroom for

573
00:25:51,560 --> 00:25:53,399
Speaker 2: an extended period of time, just let me know and

574
00:25:53,440 --> 00:25:55,520
Speaker 2: I'll go for a walk. He was so cute about it,

575
00:25:55,560 --> 00:25:57,760
Speaker 2: and so I was like, okay, but I can already

576
00:25:57,760 --> 00:26:00,560
Speaker 2: guarantee that it's not going to happen. So and I

577
00:26:00,600 --> 00:26:03,159
Speaker 2: had plenty of times where we were like in the

578
00:26:03,800 --> 00:26:06,200
Speaker 2: you know, having breakfast or different places where I could

579
00:26:06,200 --> 00:26:09,200
Speaker 2: have used the restroom without even using it in our room,

580
00:26:09,280 --> 00:26:10,080
Speaker 2: and I never went.

581
00:26:10,200 --> 00:26:12,280
Speaker 3: So they go in public, So I screwed.

582
00:26:12,359 --> 00:26:14,159
Speaker 2: I was screwed. So I get home Sunday night and

583
00:26:14,200 --> 00:26:17,080
Speaker 2: I'm like, I'm ready for it. This is yes, I'm

584
00:26:17,080 --> 00:26:18,919
Speaker 2: finally gonna have a moment.

585
00:26:19,000 --> 00:26:19,560
Speaker 4: Yeah.

586
00:26:19,600 --> 00:26:22,840
Speaker 2: Nothing came to work. The next day, nothing I was

587
00:26:24,200 --> 00:26:27,400
Speaker 2: besides myself. Yeah it was oxy powder. The next night,

588
00:26:28,280 --> 00:26:28,920
Speaker 2: all was fine.

589
00:26:30,320 --> 00:26:33,399
Speaker 3: Well, let me tell you something. That is the most

590
00:26:34,280 --> 00:26:38,240
Speaker 3: difficult part about a new relationship, because it wasn't even

591
00:26:38,280 --> 00:26:40,119
Speaker 3: so for me. It wasn't even so much that I

592
00:26:40,160 --> 00:26:44,119
Speaker 3: felt like embarrassed. My body just would not go. It

593
00:26:44,200 --> 00:26:48,080
Speaker 3: was like no, no, no, do you do that now? Yeah,

594
00:26:48,080 --> 00:26:51,320
Speaker 3: but I'm still pretty coy about it. I don't do

595
00:26:51,440 --> 00:26:53,560
Speaker 3: it in a close proximity.

596
00:26:53,800 --> 00:26:56,399
Speaker 2: Yeah. See, that's something I'm gonna change in this relationship

597
00:26:56,440 --> 00:26:58,359
Speaker 2: because in the past I used to just I was

598
00:26:58,440 --> 00:27:00,959
Speaker 2: willy nilly, and I would have the door open or open,

599
00:27:02,960 --> 00:27:04,280
Speaker 2: and now I'm not going to do that.

600
00:27:04,600 --> 00:27:07,680
Speaker 3: What about the men in the room, your wives?

601
00:27:08,000 --> 00:27:09,280
Speaker 2: I feel like they don't like it.

602
00:27:10,720 --> 00:27:13,560
Speaker 4: You know, it's just something that happens. And if it happens,

603
00:27:13,720 --> 00:27:15,400
Speaker 4: like I don't really think much of it.

604
00:27:15,680 --> 00:27:17,800
Speaker 3: Do you laugh at a slippery like a little too

605
00:27:17,920 --> 00:27:18,640
Speaker 3: that slips out?

606
00:27:18,920 --> 00:27:20,720
Speaker 4: Yeah, well yes, I will laugh at that.

607
00:27:20,800 --> 00:27:24,400
Speaker 3: Some giggles. Yes, Okay, well that's normal.

608
00:27:24,560 --> 00:27:27,560
Speaker 4: I feel there's no like letting it rip in the family.

609
00:27:27,640 --> 00:27:31,199
Speaker 4: That doesn't happen, right, and and you know we have

610
00:27:31,240 --> 00:27:32,600
Speaker 4: to use the bathroom. That's it's not.

611
00:27:32,720 --> 00:27:35,800
Speaker 3: It's a human thing, it's a human closed. Yeah, it's respectful.

612
00:27:35,840 --> 00:27:36,600
Speaker 4: It's respectful.

613
00:27:36,840 --> 00:27:38,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, my door was wide open.

614
00:27:38,280 --> 00:27:42,480
Speaker 4: I'd be like, yeah anymore, though that.

615
00:27:44,240 --> 00:27:46,360
Speaker 2: Cannot come exactly.

616
00:27:46,400 --> 00:27:48,600
Speaker 6: Alison puts up with a lot in our relationship, and

617
00:27:48,720 --> 00:27:53,040
Speaker 6: so she has requested that we don't acknowledge that this

618
00:27:53,119 --> 00:27:55,960
Speaker 6: is a process that happens. So yeah, so when we've

619
00:27:56,000 --> 00:27:58,199
Speaker 6: talked about the way that she processes energy as she

620
00:27:58,480 --> 00:28:00,840
Speaker 6: shoots sugar cubes out of herbelly, but that's what happened.

621
00:28:00,880 --> 00:28:04,760
Speaker 6: Oh yeah, yeah, so as I understand it, it's nothing

622
00:28:04,800 --> 00:28:06,960
Speaker 6: like that has ever happened with her, right and with me,

623
00:28:08,000 --> 00:28:10,800
Speaker 6: it's I'm just fixing something in the bathroom for a

624
00:28:10,840 --> 00:28:12,320
Speaker 6: long time, because.

625
00:28:12,080 --> 00:28:15,000
Speaker 4: That would be humiliating if you're like, whoa, whoa, this

626
00:28:15,080 --> 00:28:18,960
Speaker 4: is You're really ruined this mathom. That would be very disrespectful. Yeah, yeah,

627
00:28:19,359 --> 00:28:19,760
Speaker 4: doing that.

628
00:28:19,840 --> 00:28:21,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, when I was talking about the oxy powder, I

629
00:28:21,880 --> 00:28:24,439
Speaker 3: meant like I had sugar cubes flying out of my stomach.

630
00:28:24,960 --> 00:28:27,159
Speaker 3: Is not the other thing that you'll probably thought I

631
00:28:27,200 --> 00:28:28,480
Speaker 3: was talking about, right, right.

632
00:28:28,600 --> 00:28:30,560
Speaker 6: Sometimes it's just loose, just grains of sugar.

633
00:28:31,920 --> 00:28:34,440
Speaker 2: But is it both ways? Do you guys both? Uh?

634
00:28:35,040 --> 00:28:37,199
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, respectful of the bathroom.

635
00:28:37,240 --> 00:28:40,280
Speaker 2: Okay, that's good. What nothing?

636
00:28:40,560 --> 00:28:44,520
Speaker 3: Sometimes sometimes I very rarely does one slip for me.

637
00:28:44,640 --> 00:28:47,080
Speaker 3: But if one slips, it's just like a little like

638
00:28:47,320 --> 00:28:49,600
Speaker 3: I have to leave because I start laughing so hard,

639
00:28:51,080 --> 00:28:51,320
Speaker 3: you know.

640
00:28:51,800 --> 00:28:55,240
Speaker 4: And then more or less without fast food and doctor.

641
00:28:55,000 --> 00:29:01,360
Speaker 3: Pepper less, nothing's happening without Doctor Prepper. Unfortunately I missed

642
00:29:01,360 --> 00:29:03,800
Speaker 3: that sweet surpy.

643
00:29:05,240 --> 00:29:09,400
Speaker 2: Sick. I haven't I haven't let one out yet, and

644
00:29:09,840 --> 00:29:10,680
Speaker 2: it might happen.

645
00:29:11,320 --> 00:29:13,840
Speaker 3: It happened at the nail salon without you even knowing.

646
00:29:13,920 --> 00:29:15,480
Speaker 3: I know, things get too built up.

647
00:29:15,640 --> 00:29:20,040
Speaker 2: Classic story, I know, but I really actually I control

648
00:29:20,080 --> 00:29:22,160
Speaker 2: what I eat on the days I know I'm going

649
00:29:22,200 --> 00:29:22,920
Speaker 2: to see him.

650
00:29:23,160 --> 00:29:25,160
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, that was a gum issues.

651
00:29:25,480 --> 00:29:27,200
Speaker 2: My gum is completely It was the last time you

652
00:29:27,200 --> 00:29:27,880
Speaker 2: saw me, two gum.

653
00:29:28,080 --> 00:29:31,200
Speaker 3: It's been a while after that nail salon.

654
00:29:31,280 --> 00:29:34,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, lost twenty eighteen. I cut it out now I

655
00:29:34,720 --> 00:29:34,960
Speaker 2: use me.

656
00:29:37,440 --> 00:29:41,440
Speaker 3: Well, we have a very fun episode because we're dedicating

657
00:29:41,480 --> 00:29:44,000
Speaker 3: it to our listeners and a bunch of the emails

658
00:29:44,000 --> 00:29:46,400
Speaker 3: that we got. So we're going to take a break

659
00:29:46,400 --> 00:29:48,200
Speaker 3: and we'll be back with some hard hitting questions.

660
00:29:48,280 --> 00:29:49,920
Speaker 4: My favorite part is that were half an hour and

661
00:29:49,960 --> 00:29:51,400
Speaker 4: you're like, all, we got a great show for you.

662
00:29:52,880 --> 00:29:54,880
Speaker 3: Yeah. Sorry if you didn't enjoy the first half, but

663
00:29:54,960 --> 00:29:59,200
Speaker 3: this time, when you're having fun, the second half will

664
00:29:59,240 --> 00:30:13,840
Speaker 3: be here before you know it. All right, we're back

665
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Speaker 3: for the exciting part of the show today, not just

666
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Speaker 3: the intro. Yeah, that was just the intro. So we

667
00:30:20,720 --> 00:30:23,080
Speaker 3: have some emails that we got sent. We really wanted

668
00:30:23,120 --> 00:30:25,440
Speaker 3: to get into some emails because I feel like a

669
00:30:25,480 --> 00:30:27,400
Speaker 3: lot of times we talk so much and then we

670
00:30:27,480 --> 00:30:30,840
Speaker 3: might get one email or so. So we really wanted

671
00:30:30,880 --> 00:30:35,560
Speaker 3: to dedicate the show today's show to get getting giving

672
00:30:35,600 --> 00:30:39,080
Speaker 3: some advice that you know, we're very proud of our advice.

673
00:30:39,520 --> 00:30:43,520
Speaker 3: You're in a relationship now, you know, if it gets hard,

674
00:30:43,680 --> 00:30:44,720
Speaker 3: you can just divorce.

675
00:30:46,000 --> 00:30:47,160
Speaker 4: Last week was a little rough.

676
00:30:47,440 --> 00:30:48,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, that advice was bad.

677
00:30:49,960 --> 00:30:52,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, So Mark, are you going to take over.

678
00:30:52,680 --> 00:30:54,920
Speaker 5: And read doctor till Doctor Red?

679
00:30:57,200 --> 00:31:00,760
Speaker 4: You going to consult yea from Jess. I come from

680
00:31:00,800 --> 00:31:03,520
Speaker 4: a very traditional and religious family that doesn't totally approve

681
00:31:03,560 --> 00:31:07,800
Speaker 4: of living with your significant other before marriage. My boyfriend

682
00:31:07,800 --> 00:31:09,560
Speaker 4: of four years and I have officially made the decision

683
00:31:09,600 --> 00:31:11,360
Speaker 4: to move in together we found a great apartment, put

684
00:31:11,400 --> 00:31:13,720
Speaker 4: down a security deposit. We're moving in in about a month,

685
00:31:13,760 --> 00:31:16,800
Speaker 4: and I could not be more excited. We're seriously considering

686
00:31:16,840 --> 00:31:19,920
Speaker 4: marriage and we've even gone ring shopping. Living together seems

687
00:31:19,960 --> 00:31:21,720
Speaker 4: like the next logical step, and it has the added

688
00:31:21,720 --> 00:31:24,520
Speaker 4: bonus of saving a ton on rent. Even though I'm

689
00:31:24,560 --> 00:31:26,840
Speaker 4: twenty five and I'm living a thousand miles away from

690
00:31:26,840 --> 00:31:29,080
Speaker 4: my parents in a different state, I am still terrified

691
00:31:29,120 --> 00:31:33,560
Speaker 4: of disappointing them. How do I break the news to them?

692
00:31:34,160 --> 00:31:37,440
Speaker 3: Go, Tonya, you're living your life.

693
00:31:39,200 --> 00:31:44,880
Speaker 2: You're living your life. You are living your life. You, Jess,

694
00:31:45,080 --> 00:31:48,680
Speaker 2: are living your life. So I think sometimes we have

695
00:31:48,760 --> 00:31:51,480
Speaker 2: to do things that make us happy or that feel

696
00:31:51,560 --> 00:31:53,760
Speaker 2: right to us. They might be it might not be

697
00:31:53,840 --> 00:31:55,640
Speaker 2: the right move. It might it might be a mistake.

698
00:31:55,720 --> 00:31:57,720
Speaker 2: You don't know. But you have to live your life

699
00:31:58,040 --> 00:32:00,320
Speaker 2: the way that you want to live your life. You're

700
00:32:00,320 --> 00:32:01,880
Speaker 2: twenty five, you're not fifteen.

701
00:32:04,400 --> 00:32:07,479
Speaker 3: I mean yeah, if you are totally independent from your

702
00:32:07,680 --> 00:32:11,600
Speaker 3: parents and they're not financially helping you, or you're not

703
00:32:11,680 --> 00:32:14,560
Speaker 3: on their insurance anymore, or anything like that, I would

704
00:32:14,600 --> 00:32:17,800
Speaker 3: say just let them know, say hey, I wanted to

705
00:32:17,800 --> 00:32:20,360
Speaker 3: be upfront and honest with you. I've decided to move

706
00:32:20,400 --> 00:32:24,080
Speaker 3: in with Jason. I don't know what Jason, and just

707
00:32:24,200 --> 00:32:27,120
Speaker 3: on a cue for those cue justin Jason, I'm moving

708
00:32:27,160 --> 00:32:31,000
Speaker 3: in with Jason, and I just wanted to be honest

709
00:32:31,040 --> 00:32:33,360
Speaker 3: with y'all. I know you might not agree with it,

710
00:32:33,440 --> 00:32:37,120
Speaker 3: but you know it's this decision I made. The other

711
00:32:37,160 --> 00:32:39,640
Speaker 3: option is that you live your life and move in.

712
00:32:39,720 --> 00:32:42,200
Speaker 3: I don't know how involved your parents are with your life,

713
00:32:42,240 --> 00:32:44,280
Speaker 3: and then if it comes up, you tell them, oh, yeah,

714
00:32:44,280 --> 00:32:46,480
Speaker 3: we moved in together, and make it kind of more

715
00:32:46,720 --> 00:32:51,480
Speaker 3: not such a big thing, because people respond with how

716
00:32:51,520 --> 00:32:54,400
Speaker 3: you deliver, Like their response is based on your delivery.

717
00:32:54,520 --> 00:32:56,240
Speaker 3: So if you are just kind of like, we've made

718
00:32:56,280 --> 00:32:58,800
Speaker 3: this decision, I'm super excited. I'm going to save on rent.

719
00:32:58,920 --> 00:33:01,640
Speaker 3: You know. I think we're moving in that direction of marriage,

720
00:33:01,720 --> 00:33:05,120
Speaker 3: and you know, we'll see what happens. Rather than being like,

721
00:33:05,200 --> 00:33:08,080
Speaker 3: I'm really scared to tell you, I don't know what

722
00:33:08,200 --> 00:33:10,400
Speaker 3: to say, or you know, I don't want to disappoint you.

723
00:33:10,640 --> 00:33:12,840
Speaker 3: I think you just and.

724
00:33:13,720 --> 00:33:17,920
Speaker 2: Just maybe write it in like a cute, little fun

725
00:33:17,960 --> 00:33:21,800
Speaker 2: song and your parents. It always just kind of lightens

726
00:33:21,840 --> 00:33:25,240
Speaker 2: the load, you know, make it a little funsie.

727
00:33:24,840 --> 00:33:26,000
Speaker 3: Real awkward if it does.

728
00:33:27,120 --> 00:33:31,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, like, hey mom and dad, you know my boyfriend.

729
00:33:32,560 --> 00:33:33,560
Speaker 2: We're shocking up.

730
00:33:36,440 --> 00:33:40,560
Speaker 3: But here's my thing, Like, aside from religious beliefs or

731
00:33:41,240 --> 00:33:46,240
Speaker 3: in that regard, what's the I mean, yeah, it's hard

732
00:33:46,480 --> 00:33:49,920
Speaker 3: and it's like makes things more complicated. But is it

733
00:33:50,040 --> 00:33:52,959
Speaker 3: that big of a deal to if you're saving money

734
00:33:53,000 --> 00:33:54,960
Speaker 3: and like you're moving in with someone that you've been

735
00:33:55,000 --> 00:33:55,720
Speaker 3: with for a while.

736
00:33:55,920 --> 00:33:56,320
Speaker 2: I don't know.

737
00:33:57,080 --> 00:33:57,360
Speaker 3: I don't.

738
00:33:57,400 --> 00:34:01,000
Speaker 2: I mean, I don't think my parents really care. Honestly,

739
00:34:01,400 --> 00:34:03,200
Speaker 2: I don't think they ever have cared, So I don't know.

740
00:34:03,320 --> 00:34:05,760
Speaker 2: I think this would be hard for me. I think

741
00:34:05,760 --> 00:34:07,239
Speaker 2: this would be hard for me, but I don't think

742
00:34:07,280 --> 00:34:07,520
Speaker 2: they can.

743
00:34:07,800 --> 00:34:08,480
Speaker 4: It would be hard for you.

744
00:34:08,840 --> 00:34:10,360
Speaker 2: Like if my parents didn't want me to move in

745
00:34:10,360 --> 00:34:13,000
Speaker 2: with a significant other and I did, I.

746
00:34:12,960 --> 00:34:15,840
Speaker 3: Mean, no one, but no one wants to disappoint their parents.

747
00:34:15,880 --> 00:34:20,120
Speaker 3: I mean, no one wants to disappoint their parents. So

748
00:34:20,160 --> 00:34:22,400
Speaker 3: it's kind but you kind of have to. At some

749
00:34:22,560 --> 00:34:25,719
Speaker 3: point you go, Okay, this is my life. I want

750
00:34:25,760 --> 00:34:27,800
Speaker 3: to move in. I've been with this person for four years.

751
00:34:27,800 --> 00:34:29,960
Speaker 3: We're looking at rings. I see myself being with him

752
00:34:30,000 --> 00:34:34,120
Speaker 3: long term, and we it just makes more sense for

753
00:34:34,239 --> 00:34:36,520
Speaker 3: us to live together, and if it doesn't work out,

754
00:34:37,040 --> 00:34:40,040
Speaker 3: then it's a lesson learned, just like any other part

755
00:34:40,040 --> 00:34:45,000
Speaker 3: of a relationship. I don't know. I just I've never understood.

756
00:34:45,320 --> 00:34:48,239
Speaker 3: I always thought people not moving in together was more

757
00:34:48,280 --> 00:34:52,239
Speaker 3: about people's disapproval of it was more about like religious

758
00:34:52,239 --> 00:34:55,319
Speaker 3: of like living in sin and not not doing that

759
00:34:55,360 --> 00:34:56,000
Speaker 3: before marriage.

760
00:34:56,040 --> 00:34:59,319
Speaker 4: I sound like that's what this is. Yeah, But we're

761
00:34:59,320 --> 00:35:03,760
Speaker 4: all gonna just fin parents in some way, aren't we.

762
00:35:01,840 --> 00:35:06,200
Speaker 2: I mean I was a bier as a child, so

763
00:35:06,239 --> 00:35:07,839
Speaker 2: I started to disappointing them.

764
00:35:09,360 --> 00:35:11,080
Speaker 3: They got the calls from the school.

765
00:35:11,160 --> 00:35:13,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, it was like making people bleed left and right.

766
00:35:14,000 --> 00:35:17,200
Speaker 4: And now you're on stage talking about doggy style in

767
00:35:17,239 --> 00:35:17,719
Speaker 4: front of her.

768
00:35:17,960 --> 00:35:20,799
Speaker 3: Yeah, she'll continue that. So what do we think? Just

769
00:35:20,800 --> 00:35:23,080
Speaker 3: have an open and honest conversation with them, lead with

770
00:35:23,120 --> 00:35:24,080
Speaker 3: we're looking at rings.

771
00:35:24,160 --> 00:35:26,480
Speaker 4: Yes, yeah, as long I think as long as they

772
00:35:26,520 --> 00:35:28,759
Speaker 4: know that you are on the path to where they

773
00:35:28,760 --> 00:35:30,160
Speaker 4: want you to be, I think they're going to be

774
00:35:30,160 --> 00:35:30,719
Speaker 4: okay with it.

775
00:35:30,840 --> 00:35:34,280
Speaker 2: I'm a song never heard fair enough Raquel.

776
00:35:34,400 --> 00:35:36,480
Speaker 4: Oh, this is a timely question after what we've been

777
00:35:36,480 --> 00:35:39,000
Speaker 4: talking about today, Tanya, did you ever try using a

778
00:35:39,000 --> 00:35:41,920
Speaker 4: period cup? I've been thinking about using one myself. As

779
00:35:41,960 --> 00:35:44,480
Speaker 4: you can imagine, looking for an honest review is difficult.

780
00:35:44,760 --> 00:35:47,560
Speaker 4: Love the show. AM totally a Becca, but I love

781
00:35:47,600 --> 00:35:49,480
Speaker 4: that one of Chany's best friends has the same name

782
00:35:49,480 --> 00:35:52,279
Speaker 4: as me, Raquel. It makes me feel connected to y'all.

783
00:35:52,320 --> 00:35:53,960
Speaker 4: If you ever bring your show to CHICAGO'LL be there

784
00:35:53,960 --> 00:35:54,520
Speaker 4: in a heartbeat.

785
00:35:54,920 --> 00:35:57,520
Speaker 3: We have a lot of Chicago requests for a live show.

786
00:35:57,560 --> 00:35:58,359
Speaker 3: I've noticed that.

787
00:36:00,120 --> 00:36:02,680
Speaker 2: I did not try the period cup. I didn't try

788
00:36:02,719 --> 00:36:03,319
Speaker 2: the period cup.

789
00:36:03,360 --> 00:36:04,920
Speaker 3: I thought you had gotten one and you were going

790
00:36:05,000 --> 00:36:05,560
Speaker 3: to test it out.

791
00:36:05,640 --> 00:36:07,440
Speaker 2: You know what I did. I ordered them on Amazon.

792
00:36:07,480 --> 00:36:08,160
Speaker 2: I never got them.

793
00:36:08,200 --> 00:36:10,600
Speaker 3: This is your week. Oh, I was gonna say, this

794
00:36:10,719 --> 00:36:11,520
Speaker 3: is the week that.

795
00:36:11,640 --> 00:36:14,520
Speaker 2: Never came during a period. I am on my period.

796
00:36:14,520 --> 00:36:17,520
Speaker 2: I would be interested to choose one, but it's a

797
00:36:17,520 --> 00:36:19,920
Speaker 2: heavy flow today, so I don't know today. So day

798
00:36:20,000 --> 00:36:20,560
Speaker 2: to try it?

799
00:36:20,680 --> 00:36:21,640
Speaker 4: Your cup overflowing?

800
00:36:22,239 --> 00:36:23,760
Speaker 2: I might overflow today.

801
00:36:23,960 --> 00:36:27,919
Speaker 3: I do hear great reviews on like the Diva Cup, and.

802
00:36:27,960 --> 00:36:29,520
Speaker 2: I know that's why I want to try. I'm gonna

803
00:36:29,520 --> 00:36:29,840
Speaker 2: hold on.

804
00:36:30,360 --> 00:36:33,280
Speaker 3: You should be going to track that order real quick. Yeah, so, Raquel,

805
00:36:33,440 --> 00:36:36,080
Speaker 3: I say you should go for it, test it out.

806
00:36:36,120 --> 00:36:38,560
Speaker 3: Maybe you'll test it out before we test it out

807
00:36:38,560 --> 00:36:39,600
Speaker 3: and let us know how it goes.

808
00:36:39,880 --> 00:36:41,560
Speaker 4: You one of those that order so much on Amazon

809
00:36:41,600 --> 00:36:43,520
Speaker 4: that you don't even notice if something doesn't show up

810
00:36:43,560 --> 00:36:44,440
Speaker 4: until a month later.

811
00:36:44,680 --> 00:36:47,319
Speaker 2: No, I remember that was a specific package that I

812
00:36:47,320 --> 00:36:49,480
Speaker 2: got because I ordered also some other things with it,

813
00:36:49,719 --> 00:36:51,759
Speaker 2: and it just I do remember. It just never came.

814
00:36:52,239 --> 00:36:54,440
Speaker 2: But then I just went to the store and got

815
00:36:54,440 --> 00:36:56,120
Speaker 2: what I needed. But I did not get the Diva cup.

816
00:36:56,680 --> 00:36:58,439
Speaker 2: But I'll go to cbsterday and get a Diva Cup

817
00:36:58,840 --> 00:37:01,120
Speaker 2: so I can try it out this period, all right.

818
00:37:01,200 --> 00:37:03,240
Speaker 4: Chlobe has an idea for the next Truth of Drink.

819
00:37:03,360 --> 00:37:04,640
Speaker 4: She said, I had such a great time at the

820
00:37:04,760 --> 00:37:06,960
Speaker 4: LA Live show. Becca mentioned now she wants Eastern and

821
00:37:06,960 --> 00:37:08,680
Speaker 4: Mark to participate in the round of Truth to Drink,

822
00:37:08,680 --> 00:37:10,920
Speaker 4: and I'm one hundred percent here for it. Since they

823
00:37:11,000 --> 00:37:13,520
Speaker 4: both don't drink alcohol and Mark doesn't drink coffee, I

824
00:37:13,560 --> 00:37:15,520
Speaker 4: think you should have them take shots of pickle juice

825
00:37:15,600 --> 00:37:17,880
Speaker 4: or something gross like that if they don't answer the questions.

826
00:37:18,640 --> 00:37:20,840
Speaker 4: You guys are so wonderful and an amazing job creating

827
00:37:20,840 --> 00:37:23,400
Speaker 4: an open, welcoming and fun environment. Looking forward to that.

828
00:37:23,480 --> 00:37:26,400
Speaker 4: Three peete and you're sold out World Tour. Wow.

829
00:37:27,360 --> 00:37:30,880
Speaker 3: Chloe. No, I was thinking for y'all, we make really

830
00:37:31,120 --> 00:37:34,680
Speaker 3: gross concoctions of like either food, things to eat kind

831
00:37:34,719 --> 00:37:37,319
Speaker 3: of like uh, spill your guts or fill your yeah, yeah,

832
00:37:37,520 --> 00:37:38,279
Speaker 3: like gross things like.

833
00:37:38,640 --> 00:37:39,759
Speaker 6: We have to do pushups.

834
00:37:40,200 --> 00:37:42,920
Speaker 3: No, that doesn't enter your body.

835
00:37:43,640 --> 00:37:45,040
Speaker 4: It's hard to do that, very manly.

836
00:37:45,280 --> 00:37:47,839
Speaker 2: No, it has to be something that you ingest, don't.

837
00:37:48,120 --> 00:37:49,799
Speaker 4: I don't love the whole concept of it.

838
00:37:50,760 --> 00:37:52,759
Speaker 3: Yeah, we don't either.

839
00:37:52,880 --> 00:37:54,920
Speaker 4: What's your show? Though it's not our show. I'm just

840
00:37:54,960 --> 00:37:56,959
Speaker 4: a producer on the show. Chime.

841
00:37:58,160 --> 00:38:00,480
Speaker 3: You're pretty evolved, so.

842
00:38:00,120 --> 00:38:02,040
Speaker 4: But I also feel like I don't know what kind

843
00:38:02,040 --> 00:38:04,480
Speaker 4: of questions like that I'm not. There's certain things I

844
00:38:04,520 --> 00:38:08,920
Speaker 4: can't answer because I marriage need to be respectful of

845
00:38:08,960 --> 00:38:09,480
Speaker 4: my wife.

846
00:38:09,560 --> 00:38:11,399
Speaker 2: But we're not going to have you do push ups. Sorry,

847
00:38:11,400 --> 00:38:12,120
Speaker 2: I love you, Easton.

848
00:38:13,480 --> 00:38:19,719
Speaker 3: Just don't you know. That's why there's you know the

849
00:38:19,800 --> 00:38:22,000
Speaker 3: option of eating or drinking something gross.

850
00:38:22,400 --> 00:38:24,440
Speaker 4: Why give us an example of something easy worse.

851
00:38:24,320 --> 00:38:28,600
Speaker 3: Than pickle juice almost, like, yeah, I love pickle juice willingly.

852
00:38:28,640 --> 00:38:30,759
Speaker 1: It needs to be like a shot of serracha or

853
00:38:30,840 --> 00:38:34,080
Speaker 1: like a shot of yeah, yeah, yeah, like something mixed

854
00:38:34,080 --> 00:38:38,680
Speaker 1: with that bird buffalos, Yeah, buffalo, Buffalo's sauceauce sauce.

855
00:38:38,880 --> 00:38:43,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, so like maybe like a shot of hot.

856
00:38:42,800 --> 00:38:45,319
Speaker 4: Sauce, something spicy cos like.

857
00:38:45,200 --> 00:38:46,600
Speaker 3: That gasoline tequila.

858
00:38:46,680 --> 00:38:49,759
Speaker 2: We had something like that, or some sort of.

859
00:38:51,280 --> 00:38:56,680
Speaker 3: Like like wind decks, like a tie pod d kidding,

860
00:38:59,280 --> 00:39:02,480
Speaker 3: I'll think it's some and gross. Maybe like some spoiled milk,

861
00:39:04,800 --> 00:39:05,000
Speaker 3: or like.

862
00:39:05,000 --> 00:39:06,320
Speaker 2: A rag, a shot of a rayag.

863
00:39:06,440 --> 00:39:08,960
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, like rocky really good.

864
00:39:09,000 --> 00:39:09,800
Speaker 4: I mean poison.

865
00:39:11,239 --> 00:39:13,400
Speaker 3: We'll do research and make sure there's no poison.

866
00:39:14,560 --> 00:39:16,760
Speaker 2: That's not true. I know somebody that eats two rags

867
00:39:16,800 --> 00:39:17,320
Speaker 2: every morning.

868
00:39:17,440 --> 00:39:19,720
Speaker 4: No, you guess there's a danger of something in rags.

869
00:39:20,000 --> 00:39:20,200
Speaker 3: Gays.

870
00:39:20,200 --> 00:39:22,120
Speaker 2: So there's a danger of corona everywhere.

871
00:39:22,160 --> 00:39:25,360
Speaker 6: So it's a source approachein I like the rugs.

872
00:39:25,400 --> 00:39:27,520
Speaker 4: Thank you, Manella, that's what it is. You could sell

873
00:39:27,560 --> 00:39:28,520
Speaker 4: Manella from rags.

874
00:39:28,560 --> 00:39:30,000
Speaker 3: Right, Well, answer the question.

875
00:39:30,880 --> 00:39:31,359
Speaker 4: I don't know.

876
00:39:32,480 --> 00:39:35,160
Speaker 3: We'll find something that you know. I don't know how,

877
00:39:35,320 --> 00:39:38,799
Speaker 3: but we'll find something. Seems you're really detached from the

878
00:39:38,840 --> 00:39:42,000
Speaker 3: whole the whole thing. All right.

879
00:39:42,040 --> 00:39:45,080
Speaker 4: Let's see Aston has a question for Tanya. She says,

880
00:39:45,120 --> 00:39:47,319
Speaker 4: thank you for bringing so much join happiness to my life.

881
00:39:47,360 --> 00:39:49,120
Speaker 4: My best friends and I bounded with the podcast and

882
00:39:49,200 --> 00:39:52,960
Speaker 4: Easton's dancing the questions for Tanya. I know you've stated

883
00:39:53,000 --> 00:39:55,160
Speaker 4: that you can't have sex lists in a committed relationship.

884
00:39:55,200 --> 00:39:56,800
Speaker 4: As someone who's had sacked with a few people, I

885
00:39:56,840 --> 00:39:59,440
Speaker 4: struggle with my desire and my faith. It's like I

886
00:39:59,480 --> 00:40:01,799
Speaker 4: have this g on my chest knowing that it's a sin,

887
00:40:02,239 --> 00:40:03,960
Speaker 4: but yet I still enjoy the gravy train.

888
00:40:04,160 --> 00:40:05,640
Speaker 2: I still don't understand the gravy training.

889
00:40:06,040 --> 00:40:08,359
Speaker 4: She's using it wrong, but that's fine. Come back to that.

890
00:40:08,719 --> 00:40:11,040
Speaker 4: How do you deal with this? How do you confidently

891
00:40:11,080 --> 00:40:12,400
Speaker 4: have sex before marriage?

892
00:40:12,480 --> 00:40:13,160
Speaker 2: Thank you for.

893
00:40:13,120 --> 00:40:16,719
Speaker 4: Being a positive model of Christianity. Being a scrubber is

894
00:40:16,719 --> 00:40:19,160
Speaker 4: one of my favorite things. That's a very sweet sentence

895
00:40:19,239 --> 00:40:19,560
Speaker 4: right there.

896
00:40:19,680 --> 00:40:20,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's really see.

897
00:40:20,560 --> 00:40:22,840
Speaker 4: Being a scrubber is one of my favorite things. Thank you, Ashton.

898
00:40:22,960 --> 00:40:24,680
Speaker 2: That is really sweet. How do you My favorite part

899
00:40:24,760 --> 00:40:29,040
Speaker 2: is how do you confidently have sex? I think what

900
00:40:29,120 --> 00:40:33,279
Speaker 2: I because I've never It's not like I grew up

901
00:40:33,280 --> 00:40:35,840
Speaker 2: in church with my family, but that was serving Orthodox

902
00:40:35,920 --> 00:40:38,560
Speaker 2: Church and then I recently joined the Christian Church, so

903
00:40:39,920 --> 00:40:42,920
Speaker 2: I was never really told things were bad and good

904
00:40:43,360 --> 00:40:45,439
Speaker 2: like in that type of sense, like I never thought

905
00:40:45,480 --> 00:40:47,160
Speaker 2: of anything as a sin. And the reason why I

906
00:40:47,280 --> 00:40:49,960
Speaker 2: chose not to have sex outside of a committed relationship

907
00:40:50,080 --> 00:40:51,759
Speaker 2: was because of the way that it was making me

908
00:40:51,880 --> 00:40:55,520
Speaker 2: feel internally. Does that makes sense? Like it was making

909
00:40:55,560 --> 00:40:58,000
Speaker 2: me feel I was having unattached sex with these guys,

910
00:40:58,040 --> 00:40:59,920
Speaker 2: and then I would want to be in a relationship

911
00:41:00,040 --> 00:41:01,520
Speaker 2: and they would want nothing to do with you.

912
00:41:01,760 --> 00:41:04,840
Speaker 4: It wasn't religious guilt. It was simply you weren't getting

913
00:41:04,840 --> 00:41:05,360
Speaker 4: what you wanted.

914
00:41:05,520 --> 00:41:08,640
Speaker 2: It was it was more it was affecting me in

915
00:41:08,680 --> 00:41:12,719
Speaker 2: a negative way internally, and I was in this perpetual

916
00:41:12,760 --> 00:41:15,840
Speaker 2: pattern of pain because I was giving myself and fully

917
00:41:15,920 --> 00:41:18,880
Speaker 2: to these people without getting what what made me feel safe.

918
00:41:19,680 --> 00:41:21,319
Speaker 2: And so for me, it wasn't I don't know how

919
00:41:21,360 --> 00:41:24,960
Speaker 2: to answer your question fully because for me, it was

920
00:41:24,960 --> 00:41:27,440
Speaker 2: a decision that I made based on how it was

921
00:41:27,440 --> 00:41:33,479
Speaker 2: making me feel. Does that make sense? So I guess

922
00:41:33,480 --> 00:41:36,040
Speaker 2: what you kind of have to I guess you just

923
00:41:36,120 --> 00:41:40,160
Speaker 2: kind of have to decide what what your why you

924
00:41:40,200 --> 00:41:43,120
Speaker 2: want what you want, and then go with how it

925
00:41:43,160 --> 00:41:48,560
Speaker 2: makes you feel versus other people's expectations of you.

926
00:41:51,000 --> 00:41:55,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's so it's so interesting because it's even like,

927
00:41:55,239 --> 00:41:58,319
Speaker 3: aside from like the sexual part of it, this is

928
00:41:58,360 --> 00:42:02,640
Speaker 3: something that I think a lot of people who are

929
00:42:03,000 --> 00:42:08,320
Speaker 3: religious or Christian or believe in you know, sin versus

930
00:42:09,400 --> 00:42:15,520
Speaker 3: purity or whatever, struggle with this conviction of do I

931
00:42:16,400 --> 00:42:20,000
Speaker 3: am I feeling this because I've been told that this

932
00:42:20,080 --> 00:42:24,080
Speaker 3: is wrong my whole life. Okay, here's the thing. Technically,

933
00:42:24,640 --> 00:42:28,759
Speaker 3: according to what the Bible says, having tattoos and piercings,

934
00:42:28,800 --> 00:42:32,560
Speaker 3: piercing your body is a sin. So if you're waking

935
00:42:32,640 --> 00:42:35,600
Speaker 3: up every day putting your ear rings in, according to

936
00:42:35,640 --> 00:42:39,200
Speaker 3: what the Bible says, that's technically a sin. And I

937
00:42:39,200 --> 00:42:41,920
Speaker 3: think we have a society and a lot of the

938
00:42:42,040 --> 00:42:46,120
Speaker 3: church has chosen. I think we've all picked the parts

939
00:42:46,120 --> 00:42:48,200
Speaker 3: that we want to focus on and the parts that

940
00:42:48,239 --> 00:42:50,640
Speaker 3: we kind of don't want to focus on. So I

941
00:42:50,680 --> 00:42:53,719
Speaker 3: think if you have a genuine you said, you have

942
00:42:53,800 --> 00:42:56,359
Speaker 3: a guilt on your chest, which that is something that

943
00:42:56,680 --> 00:43:01,840
Speaker 3: is pretty powerful, and you're not gonna probably enjoy having

944
00:43:01,920 --> 00:43:06,080
Speaker 3: sex outside of marriage as long as that's there true,

945
00:43:06,160 --> 00:43:09,279
Speaker 3: and it's not really worth having sex if you have

946
00:43:09,440 --> 00:43:12,920
Speaker 3: that type of guilt on your chest every time you

947
00:43:12,960 --> 00:43:16,759
Speaker 3: do it, for sure, it's probably worth waiting for if

948
00:43:16,760 --> 00:43:19,440
Speaker 3: it's gonna bring you that type of anxiety and stress.

949
00:43:19,719 --> 00:43:21,120
Speaker 2: And I think for me, a lot of the time,

950
00:43:21,200 --> 00:43:26,600
Speaker 2: like I choose to. I feel as though, you know,

951
00:43:27,160 --> 00:43:29,960
Speaker 2: being a Christian and it's a lot about how you

952
00:43:30,040 --> 00:43:32,400
Speaker 2: make people feel and like live your life, and you know,

953
00:43:32,400 --> 00:43:33,839
Speaker 2: I try to do the best that I can. Am

954
00:43:33,880 --> 00:43:37,120
Speaker 2: I am I doing? Am I being the absolute best

955
00:43:37,160 --> 00:43:39,560
Speaker 2: Tanya that I possibly could be? Probably not? But we

956
00:43:39,600 --> 00:43:41,279
Speaker 2: all make mistakes and we all have to go through

957
00:43:41,280 --> 00:43:43,560
Speaker 2: things in our own way, you know. So I think

958
00:43:43,600 --> 00:43:45,920
Speaker 2: it's just yeah, if she's saying it's it's a guilt

959
00:43:45,920 --> 00:43:48,600
Speaker 2: that's heavy on her heart, then yeah, you're never gonna

960
00:43:48,640 --> 00:43:51,440
Speaker 2: confidently have sex before marriage, if that's what's happening. But

961
00:43:51,520 --> 00:43:54,040
Speaker 2: another part of this, and I find really interesting, is

962
00:43:54,080 --> 00:43:56,560
Speaker 2: because I do get a lot of dms of girls

963
00:43:56,640 --> 00:43:59,399
Speaker 2: asking me they don't want to have sex before they're

964
00:43:59,400 --> 00:44:01,319
Speaker 2: in a committed really but they feel like the guy

965
00:44:01,360 --> 00:44:03,960
Speaker 2: will lose interest or they like don't know how to

966
00:44:03,960 --> 00:44:05,879
Speaker 2: speak up about it. And it's so and I think

967
00:44:05,880 --> 00:44:07,399
Speaker 2: it goes back to kind of what we were saying

968
00:44:07,400 --> 00:44:10,600
Speaker 2: about the girl who we were telling her to tell

969
00:44:10,640 --> 00:44:13,160
Speaker 2: her parents about moving in with her boyfriend. Because I

970
00:44:13,160 --> 00:44:14,600
Speaker 2: do think it's a way that's the way that you

971
00:44:14,640 --> 00:44:18,640
Speaker 2: approach it, you know, like I'm in all the past

972
00:44:18,640 --> 00:44:20,520
Speaker 2: guys I've dated in the last couple of years, I

973
00:44:20,560 --> 00:44:24,080
Speaker 2: was very unabashedly like I told them, even when Doctor

974
00:44:24,080 --> 00:44:25,799
Speaker 2: screen time came to stay with me, I was like,

975
00:44:26,080 --> 00:44:27,760
Speaker 2: I'm not sleeping with you until we're in a committed

976
00:44:27,760 --> 00:44:33,080
Speaker 2: relations God, But that's what I'm saying. Like, had I

977
00:44:33,160 --> 00:44:35,600
Speaker 2: not made that, made that to myself, I probably would

978
00:44:35,600 --> 00:44:36,800
Speaker 2: have had sex with him, and then.

979
00:44:36,880 --> 00:44:39,600
Speaker 3: I would have a little bit attachment attachment, but also

980
00:44:39,640 --> 00:44:40,920
Speaker 3: like why did I do that?

981
00:44:41,160 --> 00:44:43,600
Speaker 2: You know? And so I think it's just about the

982
00:44:43,640 --> 00:44:45,320
Speaker 2: way you approach it and just kind of putting it

983
00:44:45,360 --> 00:44:46,080
Speaker 2: all out there, you know.

984
00:44:46,440 --> 00:44:49,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, And one last thing, like I do think a

985
00:44:49,000 --> 00:44:50,879
Speaker 3: lot of times we have said this before. I think

986
00:44:50,920 --> 00:44:52,440
Speaker 3: I don't know if I've settled on the podcast. But

987
00:44:52,920 --> 00:44:55,960
Speaker 3: you know, when we think about sin and what is

988
00:44:56,120 --> 00:44:58,960
Speaker 3: said in the Bible, we focus so much more on

989
00:44:59,280 --> 00:45:01,480
Speaker 3: the prince, the polls and the rules of the Bible,

990
00:45:01,520 --> 00:45:03,879
Speaker 3: and we pick and choose, like which ones we want

991
00:45:03,920 --> 00:45:07,480
Speaker 3: to judge others for what we feel strongly about, But

992
00:45:07,719 --> 00:45:10,520
Speaker 3: it's so much more about you know, the person of

993
00:45:10,520 --> 00:45:13,200
Speaker 3: the Bible, which is Jesus, and how he treated people,

994
00:45:13,239 --> 00:45:15,759
Speaker 3: which is with love and compassion. But I think if

995
00:45:15,800 --> 00:45:18,920
Speaker 3: you have an unsettled feeling, I think it's worth for

996
00:45:19,040 --> 00:45:24,840
Speaker 3: you to wait and you know, like figure out what

997
00:45:25,000 --> 00:45:27,520
Speaker 3: that feeling is. But I think you stay strong and

998
00:45:27,560 --> 00:45:32,120
Speaker 3: what you're convicted about basically for sure that goes to

999
00:45:32,160 --> 00:45:34,680
Speaker 3: everyone with anything.

1000
00:45:34,719 --> 00:45:36,640
Speaker 4: You got to go with your gut. Yeah, clearly this

1001
00:45:36,760 --> 00:45:38,880
Speaker 4: is not for her. Yeah, you're going to find a

1002
00:45:38,920 --> 00:45:41,239
Speaker 4: guy and it's going to be for you, and you're

1003
00:45:41,239 --> 00:45:42,719
Speaker 4: not going to and you're gonna feel like, yes, I

1004
00:45:42,760 --> 00:45:44,440
Speaker 4: know how I was raised and how I was taught,

1005
00:45:44,440 --> 00:45:46,920
Speaker 4: but I'm ready with this person. Because clearly you're not

1006
00:45:46,920 --> 00:45:48,480
Speaker 4: ready with these people. I think that's why you're feeling

1007
00:45:48,480 --> 00:45:49,120
Speaker 4: that on your chest.

1008
00:45:49,600 --> 00:45:52,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, and I think you're very You're just I remember

1009
00:45:52,719 --> 00:45:55,200
Speaker 3: when I was when I was a virgin and people

1010
00:45:55,280 --> 00:45:57,440
Speaker 3: are like, well, do you want to have sex? And

1011
00:45:57,480 --> 00:45:59,719
Speaker 3: I'm like, yeah, I'm a human being. I'm not like

1012
00:45:59,800 --> 00:46:02,480
Speaker 3: some robot who doesn't have those emotions or feelings. It

1013
00:46:02,520 --> 00:46:04,680
Speaker 3: was more just like, I've made this choice and this

1014
00:46:04,760 --> 00:46:06,480
Speaker 3: is what I want to do. I felt very confident

1015
00:46:06,520 --> 00:46:11,840
Speaker 3: about it. But having the guilt of having sex before

1016
00:46:11,840 --> 00:46:14,359
Speaker 3: marriage doesn't make it doesn't mean that that just goes

1017
00:46:14,400 --> 00:46:16,200
Speaker 3: away and you don't want to have it anymore just

1018
00:46:16,200 --> 00:46:16,920
Speaker 3: because you want.

1019
00:46:16,760 --> 00:46:19,040
Speaker 2: To wait, And also people are gonna judge you. Like

1020
00:46:19,480 --> 00:46:21,880
Speaker 2: I can't even tell you the amount of times people

1021
00:46:21,880 --> 00:46:24,480
Speaker 2: that we all know would when I was because I

1022
00:46:24,480 --> 00:46:26,720
Speaker 2: think I don't ca't remember exactly when I made this decision.

1023
00:46:26,760 --> 00:46:28,240
Speaker 2: I think it was when I was dating this skyline

1024
00:46:28,239 --> 00:46:29,920
Speaker 2: in New York and I finally was just like, this

1025
00:46:29,960 --> 00:46:31,520
Speaker 2: does not make me feel good. I'm not having sex

1026
00:46:31,560 --> 00:46:35,600
Speaker 2: anymore outside of a outside of a committed relationship, and

1027
00:46:35,680 --> 00:46:37,799
Speaker 2: people would just judge me all, like judge me for

1028
00:46:37,840 --> 00:46:40,400
Speaker 2: not so they'd be like you haven't been laid in

1029
00:46:40,480 --> 00:46:43,759
Speaker 2: two years, and I'm like no, and I'm fine, Like

1030
00:46:43,800 --> 00:46:45,640
Speaker 2: I don't need your judgment, you know what I mean,

1031
00:46:45,800 --> 00:46:48,640
Speaker 2: Like I made this decision for myself and like I'm good,

1032
00:46:48,719 --> 00:46:50,640
Speaker 2: and they're just like, don't you just like want to

1033
00:46:50,680 --> 00:46:54,879
Speaker 2: have it. I'm like, yeah, I want a boyfriend too.

1034
00:46:55,040 --> 00:46:57,920
Speaker 2: So it's like, you know, it takes work, but it

1035
00:46:58,080 --> 00:47:00,200
Speaker 2: just like it just it's so annoying because every he

1036
00:47:00,239 --> 00:47:03,920
Speaker 2: will always project their opinions and their feelings about like

1037
00:47:03,920 --> 00:47:05,520
Speaker 2: what you're doing. But I think that's why it's so

1038
00:47:05,560 --> 00:47:08,800
Speaker 2: important to just kind of like look within and figure

1039
00:47:08,800 --> 00:47:12,040
Speaker 2: out why, like you want to do something, you know.

1040
00:47:12,320 --> 00:47:14,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, And it's funny because I know we're all wired differently,

1041
00:47:14,719 --> 00:47:17,719
Speaker 3: but I've never been so like needing it that I

1042
00:47:17,760 --> 00:47:20,640
Speaker 3: was just like, oh, I'll take anyone at this point.

1043
00:47:20,800 --> 00:47:23,160
Speaker 3: Like I've never been to that point. I'm like, I

1044
00:47:23,239 --> 00:47:25,480
Speaker 3: want to be with someone that I that I trust

1045
00:47:25,480 --> 00:47:28,160
Speaker 3: and that I care about. And I don't think it's

1046
00:47:28,400 --> 00:47:31,360
Speaker 3: whether it's two years or ten years.

1047
00:47:31,400 --> 00:47:33,960
Speaker 2: It's like, yeah, it was way way more than two years,

1048
00:47:34,000 --> 00:47:36,359
Speaker 2: by the way, but I just so yeah, everybody has

1049
00:47:36,400 --> 00:47:39,439
Speaker 2: like this, like just they project so much, so it's

1050
00:47:39,520 --> 00:47:41,879
Speaker 2: so annoying.

1051
00:47:41,120 --> 00:47:43,320
Speaker 4: That you've got to get laid every so often.

1052
00:47:43,560 --> 00:47:46,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, like you just want to get laid. And I'm like, no,

1053
00:47:46,680 --> 00:47:51,080
Speaker 2: I'm good, thanks though, Like, no, what taught.

1054
00:47:50,920 --> 00:47:53,040
Speaker 4: Is that TV movies? Like I feel like you were

1055
00:47:53,080 --> 00:47:54,880
Speaker 4: taught by popular culture.

1056
00:47:55,040 --> 00:47:57,319
Speaker 3: I agree. And it's like you always wonder is the

1057
00:47:57,400 --> 00:47:59,959
Speaker 3: person that's asking that question have they even had Zach

1058
00:48:00,440 --> 00:48:03,239
Speaker 3: like recently, Like they're acting so judging about it, and

1059
00:48:03,239 --> 00:48:03,880
Speaker 3: you're like, oh.

1060
00:48:03,840 --> 00:48:06,359
Speaker 2: Judge, yeah, I know, it's that is so true.

1061
00:48:06,400 --> 00:48:07,280
Speaker 3: It's such a society.

1062
00:48:07,320 --> 00:48:09,280
Speaker 2: You get judged if you have a lot of sex,

1063
00:48:09,360 --> 00:48:11,920
Speaker 2: you get judged if you don't have sex, so it's like, just.

1064
00:48:12,360 --> 00:48:14,160
Speaker 3: Damned if you do.

1065
00:48:15,160 --> 00:48:16,360
Speaker 2: Like, it's just a lot.

1066
00:48:17,200 --> 00:48:20,040
Speaker 4: It's a lot, all right, One more break and then

1067
00:48:20,040 --> 00:48:23,720
Speaker 4: we have a very juicy one that's very comically written

1068
00:48:23,880 --> 00:48:25,600
Speaker 4: that I'm looking forward to reading you. And we have

1069
00:48:25,600 --> 00:48:27,400
Speaker 4: a little surprise too. That's all coming up.

1070
00:48:27,520 --> 00:48:29,600
Speaker 3: We love surprises, do we though.

1071
00:48:46,520 --> 00:48:49,800
Speaker 4: All right, we have a juicy email, have a juicy email,

1072
00:48:49,840 --> 00:48:51,640
Speaker 4: and we have a new way of introducing emails. Ready,

1073
00:48:51,719 --> 00:48:53,839
Speaker 4: let's see how this goes. I've never heard this. What's

1074
00:48:53,840 --> 00:48:56,360
Speaker 4: a surprise for all of our surprise we asked for.

1075
00:48:56,400 --> 00:48:58,680
Speaker 4: It just got finished by the guy who makes these things.

1076
00:48:58,760 --> 00:49:01,279
Speaker 4: It's literally just finished, like a minute ago. So we'll

1077
00:49:01,280 --> 00:49:03,120
Speaker 4: see how it goes. Okay, here we go.

1078
00:49:03,920 --> 00:49:07,279
Speaker 5: Time to check the charts with doctor Tilly and doctor Rad.

1079
00:49:07,960 --> 00:49:11,320
Speaker 4: Patient's name anonymous consult needed.

1080
00:49:11,840 --> 00:49:23,120
Speaker 5: Her sister needs help. Prognosis not great, no rules.

1081
00:49:23,920 --> 00:49:24,479
Speaker 4: You hate it?

1082
00:49:26,040 --> 00:49:27,839
Speaker 2: First of all, I don't hate anything that Miles does.

1083
00:49:27,840 --> 00:49:29,440
Speaker 2: Miles wrong in my book.

1084
00:49:29,640 --> 00:49:34,719
Speaker 4: What's your feedback? It's great, you don't like it, you

1085
00:49:34,760 --> 00:49:36,120
Speaker 4: can be honest, we can get rid of it.

1086
00:49:36,360 --> 00:49:39,000
Speaker 2: I feel like it might be taking away from the

1087
00:49:39,120 --> 00:49:42,600
Speaker 2: seriousness of the emails that would be bad.

1088
00:49:42,480 --> 00:49:44,239
Speaker 6: If we do this like super goofy andro And then

1089
00:49:44,239 --> 00:49:45,880
Speaker 6: it's like.

1090
00:49:46,400 --> 00:49:49,600
Speaker 4: She's not like her death batter or something okay.

1091
00:49:49,320 --> 00:49:52,560
Speaker 2: And she's like, I have a wort on my vagina.

1092
00:49:52,560 --> 00:49:56,239
Speaker 3: And we're like, yeah it is.

1093
00:49:56,280 --> 00:49:59,640
Speaker 2: It's not great, I know, but you're what are your thoughts?

1094
00:50:00,440 --> 00:50:01,880
Speaker 3: I mean, I like it. I think if it's like

1095
00:50:01,920 --> 00:50:04,360
Speaker 3: a more serious matter, then we don't use it exactly.

1096
00:50:04,440 --> 00:50:07,040
Speaker 3: Can we never use our interests for anything? Show?

1097
00:50:07,560 --> 00:50:08,400
Speaker 4: That's also true?

1098
00:50:08,480 --> 00:50:09,800
Speaker 3: So we remember cool?

1099
00:50:10,880 --> 00:50:13,000
Speaker 4: All right? Here it is. My sister dated this guy

1100
00:50:13,320 --> 00:50:16,399
Speaker 4: we'll call him Mark, for about two years on and off.

1101
00:50:16,960 --> 00:50:20,040
Speaker 4: I don't like Mark. He won't commit to her, but

1102
00:50:20,080 --> 00:50:22,520
Speaker 4: would constantly call her to hook up and string her along.

1103
00:50:22,680 --> 00:50:25,320
Speaker 4: Plus he said some very rude remarks about my brother

1104
00:50:25,480 --> 00:50:28,560
Speaker 4: who has a disability. I love him. That his name

1105
00:50:28,640 --> 00:50:35,799
Speaker 4: is let's call him Bark's name. They finally cut it

1106
00:50:35,800 --> 00:50:38,319
Speaker 4: off about two years ago and she started dating someone else.

1107
00:50:38,560 --> 00:50:41,040
Speaker 4: My family loves him. We'll call him Easton. Now it's

1108
00:50:41,080 --> 00:50:42,120
Speaker 4: starting to hurt my feelings.

1109
00:50:42,840 --> 00:50:43,000
Speaker 3: Well.

1110
00:50:45,640 --> 00:50:47,759
Speaker 4: As soon as Mark found out about Easton, he told

1111
00:50:47,800 --> 00:50:49,719
Speaker 4: my sister he was ready to marry her. Of course

1112
00:50:49,719 --> 00:50:51,840
Speaker 4: he did. She told him it was too late, But

1113
00:50:51,880 --> 00:50:53,840
Speaker 4: a few months later we found out that my sister

1114
00:50:53,840 --> 00:50:58,080
Speaker 4: started seeing Mark again without telling us or Easton. After

1115
00:50:58,120 --> 00:51:01,160
Speaker 4: a few more months, she finally told and guess what.

1116
00:51:01,560 --> 00:51:06,120
Speaker 4: They both stuck around, but they told her she needed

1117
00:51:06,120 --> 00:51:08,319
Speaker 4: to pick one once and for all. She has now

1118
00:51:08,360 --> 00:51:11,160
Speaker 4: broken up with Easton and backdating Mark, but she still

1119
00:51:11,200 --> 00:51:13,239
Speaker 4: hangs out with them back to back without telling one

1120
00:51:13,280 --> 00:51:16,600
Speaker 4: about the other. It's been two years of both now,

1121
00:51:17,000 --> 00:51:19,480
Speaker 4: and my sister and I live together, so I constantly

1122
00:51:19,520 --> 00:51:22,799
Speaker 4: see them come over hours apart. She says she will

1123
00:51:22,840 --> 00:51:24,520
Speaker 4: not break it up with either of them because if

1124
00:51:24,520 --> 00:51:26,399
Speaker 4: it doesn't work out with one she wants, the other

1125
00:51:26,560 --> 00:51:29,520
Speaker 4: is a backup. I can't play along anymore and moving

1126
00:51:29,520 --> 00:51:31,080
Speaker 4: out isn't an option for me. What do I do?

1127
00:51:33,200 --> 00:51:38,080
Speaker 3: She messed up, right, I would tell I would tell

1128
00:51:38,360 --> 00:51:41,239
Speaker 3: you know. I don't know your sister, and obviously these

1129
00:51:41,239 --> 00:51:43,520
Speaker 3: are like fighting words when it's a family member. But

1130
00:51:43,880 --> 00:51:48,680
Speaker 3: your sister and Mark might deserve each other. Easton needs

1131
00:51:48,760 --> 00:51:54,640
Speaker 3: to get get the Yeah. Yes, Easton needs to walk away, but.

1132
00:51:54,640 --> 00:51:56,440
Speaker 2: It's not her place to step in. I don't think

1133
00:51:56,680 --> 00:51:58,520
Speaker 2: I don't think you can step in and do anything.

1134
00:51:58,680 --> 00:52:01,120
Speaker 2: But I think Karma's to catch up to your sister.

1135
00:52:01,880 --> 00:52:03,479
Speaker 2: She's probably end up with neither.

1136
00:52:03,840 --> 00:52:07,040
Speaker 3: I would have a like, a serious conversation with your sister,

1137
00:52:07,160 --> 00:52:09,759
Speaker 3: not just like you need to, you know, pick one.

1138
00:52:09,760 --> 00:52:12,480
Speaker 3: I would sit down and say, hey, you know, this

1139
00:52:12,520 --> 00:52:14,400
Speaker 3: isn't my life, this is your life. You're gonna do

1140
00:52:14,400 --> 00:52:17,240
Speaker 3: what you want to do, but this isn't fair to Easton.

1141
00:52:17,640 --> 00:52:21,399
Speaker 3: Mark has not treated you well until he found out

1142
00:52:21,440 --> 00:52:24,040
Speaker 3: that there was someone else in the picture. And I'm

1143
00:52:24,080 --> 00:52:26,080
Speaker 3: in the middle of this because I live here and

1144
00:52:26,160 --> 00:52:28,319
Speaker 3: I don't really have the option to move out, so

1145
00:52:30,160 --> 00:52:32,120
Speaker 3: I need you to make a decision.

1146
00:52:33,000 --> 00:52:34,759
Speaker 4: But I'm just going to say, why, it's none of

1147
00:52:34,760 --> 00:52:36,080
Speaker 4: your business. This is what I gave me.

1148
00:52:36,040 --> 00:52:40,759
Speaker 3: Alone, Anonymous. I think you need to figure out an

1149
00:52:40,760 --> 00:52:41,879
Speaker 3: option of moving out.

1150
00:52:44,320 --> 00:52:46,520
Speaker 4: Yeah. She needs to remove herself from the situation however

1151
00:52:46,560 --> 00:52:46,839
Speaker 4: she can.

1152
00:52:47,400 --> 00:52:51,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, because it seems just Mark.

1153
00:52:50,960 --> 00:52:53,080
Speaker 4: Should never when Mark made the rude remark about your

1154
00:52:53,080 --> 00:52:55,160
Speaker 4: brother who has a disability, that should have been that.

1155
00:52:55,440 --> 00:52:58,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, that be it for your like, aside from how

1156
00:52:58,160 --> 00:53:01,160
Speaker 3: he treats her, because we all all, you know, sometimes

1157
00:53:01,280 --> 00:53:03,040
Speaker 3: end up with people who maybe aren't the best for

1158
00:53:03,160 --> 00:53:06,719
Speaker 3: us and we can't see the outside perspective. But for

1159
00:53:06,920 --> 00:53:10,880
Speaker 3: if someone said something about my sibling, any any of

1160
00:53:10,920 --> 00:53:13,520
Speaker 3: my siblings, sure, but especially if one of them had

1161
00:53:13,520 --> 00:53:16,799
Speaker 3: a disability that already you had to deal with the

1162
00:53:16,880 --> 00:53:21,960
Speaker 3: ridicule of people on the outside, I would be he

1163
00:53:22,000 --> 00:53:24,640
Speaker 3: would be banned. Yeah, from my present card.

1164
00:53:24,760 --> 00:53:26,880
Speaker 4: No for me to just trying to think of the

1165
00:53:26,880 --> 00:53:29,440
Speaker 4: mentality of the sister that not only does she tolerate

1166
00:53:29,520 --> 00:53:32,400
Speaker 4: that behavior from him, she likes the other guy. She

1167
00:53:32,440 --> 00:53:35,160
Speaker 4: wants a backup situation. Is that an insecurity that she

1168
00:53:35,200 --> 00:53:37,239
Speaker 4: feels like she doesn't deserve better than she has.

1169
00:53:37,600 --> 00:53:40,200
Speaker 2: I'm sorry. A backup plan is like when you have

1170
00:53:40,239 --> 00:53:42,680
Speaker 2: a flat tire, you know what I mean, Like you

1171
00:53:42,680 --> 00:53:45,200
Speaker 2: don't have a backup plan as a partner.

1172
00:53:45,480 --> 00:53:48,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, human beings should not be like backup plans.

1173
00:53:49,440 --> 00:53:57,120
Speaker 4: Should Anonymous tell Easton what's going on? Oh no, No,

1174
00:53:57,400 --> 00:53:58,280
Speaker 4: Beca's pondering.

1175
00:53:59,440 --> 00:54:01,799
Speaker 3: Well, my initial thought is like, it's not her life,

1176
00:54:01,840 --> 00:54:04,000
Speaker 3: it's none of her business. But if I were in

1177
00:54:04,040 --> 00:54:06,759
Speaker 3: the middle of it, thinking realistically what I would do,

1178
00:54:07,080 --> 00:54:10,200
Speaker 3: Like from my perspective looking from the outside looking in,

1179
00:54:10,320 --> 00:54:12,680
Speaker 3: I'm like, don't do anything. It's not your business. At

1180
00:54:12,680 --> 00:54:14,480
Speaker 3: your sister's life. She's gonna do what she wants to do.

1181
00:54:14,760 --> 00:54:17,440
Speaker 3: But if I'm in the situation and I don't have

1182
00:54:17,480 --> 00:54:22,120
Speaker 3: a choice of getting out, might say something. I might

1183
00:54:22,200 --> 00:54:27,600
Speaker 3: just say, Easton, I think you're a great man, and

1184
00:54:27,640 --> 00:54:33,560
Speaker 3: I think you deserve more. My sister, No, I don't know, your.

1185
00:54:32,800 --> 00:54:34,439
Speaker 2: Sister maybe singing a song.

1186
00:54:35,440 --> 00:54:40,080
Speaker 3: No, maybe be like, oh that's so weird. Mark was

1187
00:54:40,239 --> 00:54:42,359
Speaker 3: just over here and he said the same thing.

1188
00:54:43,680 --> 00:54:45,759
Speaker 2: No, Or you could say no, no, or you could

1189
00:54:45,760 --> 00:54:48,600
Speaker 2: be like, uh whatever, her sister's name is, like Abigail,

1190
00:54:49,480 --> 00:54:53,759
Speaker 2: did Mark leave it? Yeah, chicken in the fridge again.

1191
00:54:53,800 --> 00:54:55,399
Speaker 2: I told him to put it in a tougher ware.

1192
00:54:55,520 --> 00:54:59,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, Or like Abigail, did Mark eat my leftovers?

1193
00:54:59,760 --> 00:55:00,000
Speaker 5: Yeah?

1194
00:55:00,040 --> 00:55:02,120
Speaker 2: Always does that And I told you to tell him stuff.

1195
00:55:02,280 --> 00:55:04,239
Speaker 3: Yeah, he always does that when he comes over.

1196
00:55:05,120 --> 00:55:08,360
Speaker 6: Or like, pretend to call Easton by Mark, like Easton's

1197
00:55:08,400 --> 00:55:10,799
Speaker 6: over and you just go hey Mark because you I'm

1198
00:55:10,800 --> 00:55:12,799
Speaker 6: so sorry he was just here. I just I get

1199
00:55:12,800 --> 00:55:13,960
Speaker 6: you guys.

1200
00:55:14,040 --> 00:55:18,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, or no, no, that's fine there. Yeah.

1201
00:55:21,000 --> 00:55:21,280
Speaker 4: Yeah.

1202
00:55:21,840 --> 00:55:24,560
Speaker 6: I think new Rules would lend itself to a nice parody,

1203
00:55:24,680 --> 00:55:26,440
Speaker 6: if you like to make this a.

1204
00:55:26,400 --> 00:55:31,319
Speaker 2: Soion my sister and my sister's got two boyfriends. I

1205
00:55:31,440 --> 00:55:43,279
Speaker 2: follow him one three. You both should get out. But

1206
00:55:43,320 --> 00:55:44,399
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna say.

1207
00:55:44,480 --> 00:55:47,479
Speaker 3: Wait, I wonder if her parents or if anyone else

1208
00:55:47,520 --> 00:55:50,040
Speaker 3: in the family knows, or if it's.

1209
00:55:49,960 --> 00:55:52,640
Speaker 4: Just her you think, like an intervention.

1210
00:55:52,560 --> 00:55:54,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, or having mom step in.

1211
00:55:54,960 --> 00:55:55,799
Speaker 4: Mom would step in.

1212
00:55:56,320 --> 00:55:57,920
Speaker 3: She said, the family loves Easton.

1213
00:55:59,120 --> 00:56:01,400
Speaker 6: You know, I have that if I'm not saying that

1214
00:56:01,440 --> 00:56:05,120
Speaker 6: this is actually me. But also like I know that

1215
00:56:05,160 --> 00:56:07,799
Speaker 6: she doesn't have an option to get out. But like,

1216
00:56:07,960 --> 00:56:11,359
Speaker 6: from from the sister's point of view, nothing better than

1217
00:56:11,360 --> 00:56:13,160
Speaker 6: coming home and having your sister who's sleeping on the

1218
00:56:13,200 --> 00:56:15,920
Speaker 6: couch go listen here. You're living your life and you know,

1219
00:56:16,680 --> 00:56:20,239
Speaker 6: like I don't know, I was thinking about this while

1220
00:56:20,280 --> 00:56:22,839
Speaker 6: reading it, and like while she's living there, I feel

1221
00:56:22,840 --> 00:56:25,800
Speaker 6: like while she's depending on this person for a living,

1222
00:56:25,960 --> 00:56:28,600
Speaker 6: like there's there's not so much you can do, Like

1223
00:56:28,640 --> 00:56:29,560
Speaker 6: you can't just you know.

1224
00:56:29,640 --> 00:56:31,280
Speaker 4: So, yeah, that's a bad situation.

1225
00:56:31,440 --> 00:56:33,200
Speaker 3: Yeah. When I lived with my sister and brother in

1226
00:56:33,280 --> 00:56:35,319
Speaker 3: law and I don't really pay rent. I helped with

1227
00:56:35,360 --> 00:56:37,840
Speaker 3: like the kids and stuff, but I had to learn

1228
00:56:37,960 --> 00:56:42,080
Speaker 3: like I was under their roof, you know, and sometimes

1229
00:56:42,160 --> 00:56:44,960
Speaker 3: you just have to suck it up and and like

1230
00:56:45,120 --> 00:56:48,080
Speaker 3: maybe work towards being able to move out because you're

1231
00:56:48,400 --> 00:56:50,799
Speaker 3: you don't really have control over this situation, but you

1232
00:56:50,800 --> 00:56:52,400
Speaker 3: could drop some pints here and there.

1233
00:56:53,040 --> 00:56:55,160
Speaker 4: But I think the big I think, I think we joke,

1234
00:56:55,280 --> 00:56:56,440
Speaker 4: but I think maybe stay out of it.

1235
00:56:56,600 --> 00:57:00,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I think. You know, it's always interesting. We

1236
00:57:00,080 --> 00:57:03,719
Speaker 3: always have reviews on the questions and answers on the

1237
00:57:03,719 --> 00:57:05,799
Speaker 3: Facebook group, So maybe this would be a good one

1238
00:57:05,840 --> 00:57:08,120
Speaker 3: for y'all to give some advice on anyone who's been

1239
00:57:08,120 --> 00:57:11,160
Speaker 3: in this situation before, how you handled it, what works,

1240
00:57:11,200 --> 00:57:18,800
Speaker 3: what doesn't work, because we're clearly, uh incapable. Sorry, you're

1241
00:57:18,800 --> 00:57:23,840
Speaker 3: in the situation. Sorry, Euston Mark, you little scoundrel.

1242
00:57:24,920 --> 00:57:29,040
Speaker 4: Scoundrel is such a good word. Well, I think that's

1243
00:57:29,040 --> 00:57:30,919
Speaker 4: going to do it for another episode of scrubbing in.

1244
00:57:32,760 --> 00:57:35,120
Speaker 3: We hate to see it go, we love to see

1245
00:57:35,120 --> 00:57:36,520
Speaker 3: it come, we hate to see it go.

1246
00:57:36,640 --> 00:57:38,080
Speaker 2: By the way my period.

1247
00:57:40,080 --> 00:57:44,040
Speaker 4: Yeah, I think you should catch up on Gray's Anatomy

1248
00:57:44,120 --> 00:57:45,280
Speaker 4: so we can have a real talk about it.

1249
00:57:45,360 --> 00:57:47,600
Speaker 2: Also, is Beanie Feltzy you gonna be on this new season.

1250
00:57:47,680 --> 00:57:49,080
Speaker 4: I don't know, but she was on the last episode

1251
00:57:49,120 --> 00:57:50,680
Speaker 4: and she was very good on the last episode. But

1252
00:57:50,720 --> 00:57:53,680
Speaker 4: I don't know that she'll be back. But it's not impossible.

1253
00:57:55,080 --> 00:57:57,960
Speaker 4: The last couple I thought have been I'm not going

1254
00:57:58,040 --> 00:58:00,840
Speaker 4: to say really super strong, but they've been solid.

1255
00:58:01,080 --> 00:58:04,200
Speaker 2: Is this Thursday's episode, the one with Corey?

1256
00:58:05,400 --> 00:58:08,400
Speaker 4: Don't jump ahead, you cannot jump ahead. I forbid you

1257
00:58:08,600 --> 00:58:10,640
Speaker 4: guess what you have a week? You have seven days?

1258
00:58:10,640 --> 00:58:12,000
Speaker 4: You can watch three episodes of Grace.

1259
00:58:12,200 --> 00:58:14,240
Speaker 2: I'm a modern moment and I do what I want. Okay,

1260
00:58:14,400 --> 00:58:16,640
Speaker 2: if I want to skip ahead, I'm gonna skip ahead.

1261
00:58:17,880 --> 00:58:19,520
Speaker 4: You're going to be confused. I don't like it.

1262
00:58:19,680 --> 00:58:20,560
Speaker 2: How am I going to be confused?

1263
00:58:20,640 --> 00:58:25,760
Speaker 4: I don't know what's going on with what's his name? Uh,

1264
00:58:26,560 --> 00:58:27,280
Speaker 4: you don't know what's.

1265
00:58:27,120 --> 00:58:28,800
Speaker 2: Going on either, So do you know what?

1266
00:58:28,960 --> 00:58:31,280
Speaker 3: Do you know what? I really want to get into

1267
00:58:32,320 --> 00:58:36,120
Speaker 3: Station nineteen because everyone's saying it's like it's on Gray's level,

1268
00:58:36,320 --> 00:58:38,560
Speaker 3: like beginning episodes, Grays level level.

1269
00:58:40,200 --> 00:58:43,160
Speaker 4: I refuse, Oh, I have enough shows.

1270
00:58:43,160 --> 00:58:45,200
Speaker 2: I don't refuse, but I'm really There was a show

1271
00:58:45,240 --> 00:58:47,280
Speaker 2: that I was really into and then I dropped off.

1272
00:58:47,400 --> 00:58:49,400
Speaker 2: Is the one on Fox? The Doctor show on Fox?

1273
00:58:49,480 --> 00:58:49,680
Speaker 3: Oh?

1274
00:58:49,800 --> 00:58:53,560
Speaker 2: The Resident? That was really good? And I dropped off

1275
00:58:53,560 --> 00:58:55,840
Speaker 2: because it was like, you know, they just go go

1276
00:58:55,880 --> 00:58:57,520
Speaker 2: on hiatus and then I forget about it. But it's

1277
00:58:57,560 --> 00:58:58,920
Speaker 2: back and I need to get back into it.

1278
00:58:59,000 --> 00:59:02,360
Speaker 4: It was good you permission to skip the episode.

1279
00:59:01,960 --> 00:59:04,200
Speaker 3: Called the one we're there at the dinner.

1280
00:59:04,040 --> 00:59:06,240
Speaker 4: Called the Dinner or the Big Dinner or somewhere in

1281
00:59:06,280 --> 00:59:08,720
Speaker 4: the family dinner. I think it's called skip that one entirely.

1282
00:59:09,080 --> 00:59:10,360
Speaker 4: And then but then I need you to watch the

1283
00:59:10,440 --> 00:59:10,840
Speaker 4: last two.

1284
00:59:10,960 --> 00:59:14,600
Speaker 2: Oh, we're having our Grace tour tomorrow. Yeah, we're going on.

1285
00:59:15,440 --> 00:59:18,840
Speaker 3: One of our scrubbers is having us go on set

1286
00:59:18,920 --> 00:59:22,200
Speaker 3: tomorrow way to Bury Leah.

1287
00:59:24,280 --> 00:59:27,800
Speaker 2: Sorry, at the end of the podcast, that's really good.

1288
00:59:27,920 --> 00:59:29,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, so we'll be able to report on that next week.

1289
00:59:30,000 --> 00:59:30,160
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1290
00:59:30,160 --> 00:59:32,360
Speaker 3: Our scrubber Julie is should we wear scrubs?

1291
00:59:32,600 --> 00:59:35,920
Speaker 2: We should for sure wear scrubs. Do you think? Come on,

1292
00:59:36,800 --> 00:59:39,800
Speaker 2: we have to, Becca, you have to words?

1293
00:59:39,840 --> 00:59:40,920
Speaker 4: Sorry, Becca, you have to.

1294
00:59:41,080 --> 00:59:46,600
Speaker 1: Oh really, Yes, we're not going to go to Gracelan

1295
00:59:46,720 --> 00:59:48,920
Speaker 1: memorial in our street wears.

1296
00:59:48,960 --> 00:59:50,880
Speaker 6: I mean it's a post coronavirus world. You can't be

1297
00:59:50,920 --> 00:59:51,400
Speaker 6: too careful.

1298
00:59:51,880 --> 00:59:54,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, which we were blue?

1299
00:59:55,080 --> 00:59:59,320
Speaker 3: Probably blue? Blue feels more professional, okay, you know, and

1300
00:59:59,360 --> 01:00:01,600
Speaker 3: ever since us and left, I don't feel pink is

1301
01:00:01,640 --> 01:00:02,880
Speaker 3: significant there anymore.

1302
01:00:03,160 --> 01:00:08,080
Speaker 4: Okay, Well, that's a good teast for next week. From

1303
01:00:08,120 --> 01:00:10,120
Speaker 4: the Gray set, All the dirt too tame.

1304
01:00:10,160 --> 01:00:12,240
Speaker 3: We can't do a podcast from the Gray set.

1305
01:00:12,360 --> 01:00:14,800
Speaker 2: No, I'm glad. I remember that. I just keep forgetting.

1306
01:00:14,800 --> 01:00:17,200
Speaker 2: I keep reading what day it is, it's Monday. I

1307
01:00:17,280 --> 01:00:19,400
Speaker 2: just it doesn't feel like a Monday. So I didn't.

1308
01:00:19,520 --> 01:00:24,160
Speaker 2: I didn't. The weekend felt like Thursday, Friday.

1309
01:00:24,680 --> 01:00:28,760
Speaker 3: Harry makes it feel the time. Yeah, there's no time,

1310
01:00:28,880 --> 01:00:32,440
Speaker 3: there's no day. It's just just Harryville existing.

1311
01:00:32,560 --> 01:00:34,120
Speaker 2: I need to buy all his march I'm gonna do

1312
01:00:34,160 --> 01:00:34,800
Speaker 2: that tonight.

1313
01:00:35,320 --> 01:00:37,840
Speaker 3: While you're catching up, I'm going to catch up with Grace.

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01:00:37,920 --> 01:00:41,840
Speaker 4: Thank you for going to the set tomorrow to speak No.

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01:00:45,360 --> 01:00:52,720
Speaker 3: Time of Death on a double date to twelve thirty.

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01:00:53,240 --> 01:00:58,240
Speaker 2: I don't think I'm forgetting about that. Don't you think that?

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01:00:59,120 --> 01:00:59,760
Speaker 2: Back at Tilly